No. No, Sir, Sir. Sir. I understand you're passionate. I understand that you're you're wife is actually the one who's in charge of your household. I understand that. But if you want to enter the court of the sheep, get Sheared podcast where we talk about actual logic and reason. Court is now in session. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared Podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed, and my friends today we're going to talk about what Christian men are losing. And I don't mean that they're losers. I mean that a lot of us are losing. We're losing out on information. We're losing our opportunities. We're being LED down a wrong path under what people say is the right thing to do. That's what I'm talking about. Don't ever think that I'm calling you a loser. There are some people in this life who are losers, but then there are others who are just making decisions that are causing them to lose that if they changed those losing habits, they would not be a loser. In fact, they could become a winner. And one of the things that we often. We often don't understand the influences that surround us are often the things that are poisoning us on whether intentionally or unintentionally. It doesn't matter. There's a book by Napoleon Hill called Outwitting the Devil, and in the church the Devil is put as like this boogeyman. And I'm not saying he's a good guy. Don't. Get me wrong, he's not. But a lot of times people don't understand how the forces forces of what we might call evil operate. You might think that, oh, we need to watch out for the for the things that are evil and bad and things that are obvious. But it's not the things that are obvious for me to watch out for. It's the little things that are little. They're covert. They're not extremely obvious to us that we. We must. We must stop letting fly by our radar and we must catch. And one of those is the bad advice that we get, whether it's from pastors, could be from mentors, could be from people that we even respect, that they might be knowledgeable in one thing. But that doesn't make them knowledgeable on everything and but we will take their word for it because we think they're smart. And the biggest problem that is outlined in the book outlining the Devil is his idea of drifting. A lot of people drift in this life and to be a drifter means you don't have a lot of purpose. You have a lot of opinions, but you don't have a lot of real proof to back them up. You have a lot of things you're passionate about, but you never really fulfill them. You you catch on to what I'm saying here, a drifter is somebody who wants to do everything, but then does nothing. And one of the biggest in his in Lapointe Hill, what he writes is one of the biggest allies of the Devil is actually the church. Because they focus on leading through fear, they try to make you fearful of the devil. Instead of leading you towards God. And what he says is God and the devil. You might not agree with. But that's not what we here to address. We're here to address. Are they losing habits that we are surrounded by? And often they are pushed forward by the people whom we most respect. And so in the spirit of doing that, we're going to look at some clips and we're going to walk. We're going to walk through them and I'm going to show you what I mean. We're going to break them down. We're going to discuss them and before I get into the clips, I want to hear what you have to say. This channel is growing very fast. And I want everybody who listens and watches the show to share your experiences because I can guarantee you and I'll I'll share my own stories. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy. Do that, but the more people who share the more of us, we can exchange notes and we can realize. Wait a minute, we're not as alone as we thought. Wait a minute. A lot of people are in this boat. A lot of men can see the fact that Christian women are not who they pretend to be, that a lot of pastors are not helping us. They're hindering us by giving us all information that's out of the loop uninformed and a lot of it is only used to help benefit what I call religion incorporated. It's about. The money's not about your soul or about your mindset or about your life and what's in your best interest. A lot of people weaponize God. To guilt, you and I don't like that. I hate that it makes me sick. They use it to justify the people who they wanted to be vindicated, and then they want to go after her and pursue the people who they want to hold accountable. And unfortunately, the biggest demographic that's being pursued are men, because I've outlined this before. But I'll give you a brief recap of what I've. Discussed in the past. Men since World War 2 have checked out of the church, a lot of whom they were. They didn't come back from war. The other ones came in the to church and they realized that now the women were running the church and the weak men who couldn't fight were running the church and they saw the weakness and they ran from it. And now we that's what we have. The churches we have today is because it's being run by weak men who are being puppeted by women and their interest. That's why you hear a lot of pastors talk about, oh, don't worry, gentlemen. It doesn't matter if she slept with 50 dudes and and done X number of things, but don't worry, cause now she's saved. Now she's a good woman, even though she's like 253035. She wasn't when she was 18 and in her prime. But now, now she's all yours. Even though she's been used up and gave her best years to some dude who didn't care about her. No, you get to have her. And if you don't, then you're the problem and you're a bad man. And shame on. You. That's what they tell you. And I don't go for that. And I know a lot of other men are not going for it and what they'll do is if you want to be in that community, you wanna be in a church, they'll shame you. They'll look at you like you're the reject. When in fact, Paul himself said that it's better to be single, but of course no one wants to cite that, because that doesn't fit the narrative that they want to push. But I'm getting ahead of myself. Let's go to the video clips of the day, shall we? Alright, which one? Oh, here's the first one we got for today. All right, gentlemen, here's what we're going to talk about right now. Here's what he's going to talk about. Take sex out of your relationship. This is a pastor. Yes. You heard me right. Talking about how men should not. Care about sex and their relationship. You ready for this? Ohh yeah. It's gonna be good. Here. We. Go. 

Place something up in here and let these ladies know they're embarrassing themselves. You're living less than your Christian standard, and you're marginalizing yourself by doing what these women in the world and IG do, thinking that that's what you gotta do to keep a dude. That's not how it works. A real man is wanting some type of challenge. You feel that? Don't give it up. That he gonna go get it from somebody else? You gave it up. And you still don't? Have. Him. Any man that you got to keep giving Buddha to. To keep. You don't want him. 

Oh my gosh. Oh, hell no. Did he hear you say that? Did I? Did I hear that right? Let's play it. 

Again, real men would y'all say something up. 

Oh, OK. Move flag #1 anytime you ever hear a guy say real men immediately, don't listen to him immediately. Don't listen to him or her, cause they are guilting you. Ohh. You want to be a real man, not a fake. A blind that if you're not, you're a fake man. Immediately the shaming language is out the out the door in play right away. 

And here and let these ladies know they're embarrassing themselves. You're living less than your Christian standard, and you're marginalizing yourself by doing what these women in the world and IG do, thinking that that's what you gotta do to keep a dude that's. Not how it works. 

OK. No, no, Sir. Sir. Sir. I understand you're passionate. I understand that you're your wife is actually the one who's in charge of your household. I understand. That. But if you want to enter the court of the ship gets your podcast where we talk about actual logic and reason. Court is now in session. Here's what I'd like to ask you, Sir. I'd like to call my first witness. God himself. Is it not true, Sir, that God created human beings? Do we agree on that? OK, good. So then why is it that a man has a natural desire to procreate with, not even just one woman, but women in general? Especially when he's a young man. Can you explain that, Sir? OK, now I'll go to my next point. If men were programmed to like sex so much that either A to God make a mistake or B are you wrong. Please, Sir, I love to hear it. Nothing. Oh, OK. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, real man. Oh, sorry. I didn't realize I wasn't a real man because. I don't agree with you. I must not be a real man. Gentleman, if you don't agree with this guy this dumb, then apparently you're not a real man. Apparently, if your wife, if you want sex from your wife, you're not a real man. Even though you pay the mortgage, even though you pay for her lifestyle and you care for those kids and you do all these things. Ohh no, she ain't gonna do anything for you. No, no. I mean, gentlemen, let's have a real frank conversation. Would you marry a woman? Let's say, would you get married if you knew for a fact that you wouldn't? You wouldn't have sex with your wife? Would you ever have sex? Would you get married? Probably not. Right. Because, of course, it makes no sense. When he says that if when he says that counterpoint of if I don't give it up, he's going to get it from somewhere. That's what Pookie shot and Tyrone have done, by the way. And it's natural for men, OK. Gentlemen, I I know that this might rub some of you the wrong way because you've been misinformed and you've been told that if you do what a woman says and you make her feel good all the time, that she's gonna reward you. The opposite is actually true. In fact, when you look at who women are whole, who if you ask. The woman? What man? She loved the most. It was most likely the guy who did her dirtiest. The guy who flaked on her treat her like she wasn't like nothing. Who? Who did things to her that she says she doesn't like to talk about, but secretly she still fantasizes about. Ohh yeah, I'm not making this up. That's the guy she still cares about. She is not over that guy, we call it imprinting. And yet you apparently aren't a real man if you can't just sit there and basically castrate yourself in your own marriage. Oh, and you wonder why men are are leaving your church. You wonder why your church is filling up with women, and the men are leaving. You wonder why. Because of advice like. This. 

A real man is wanting some type of challenge. 

Real men get challenged every day in their professional and personal lives. Gentlemen, do you push yourself in your career? Do you push yourself out of your comfort zone? Do you find yourself working really, really hard to support people, or even to just fulfill your own ambitions if you have them? We're surrounded by challenges as men. Do we really want to go home and face another challenge and our place of safety that's supposed to be our sanctuary from all the garbage that surrounds us? All the hardship and and everything and all the suffering we go through, we want to go home and and encounter more of it. No, no we don't. 

You feel that? If I don't give it up, then he gonna go get it from somebody. 

Else yeah, because that's usually what happens, and that's what women. 

Do you gave? And you still don't? Have it. 

Ohh my. Ohh, but you have the ring. You have the house, you have the kids. You have the dog. You have the car, you have everything else. What is the man getting then? What is the? What is the? What are the real men getting? Sir, what are these real men getting other than a good pat on the head from you and their wives calling them a hubby when they getting no sex? What else are they getting? My answer, do you have to? 

That. Any man that you got to keep giving Buddha to to keep you don't want him. 

OK. Well then, don't have fun being non heterosexual then I suppose, because at the end of the day, gentlemen. Gentlemen, please let me know, am I off base here because I don't think I am. How many of you at least think that having consistent sex with your spouse is normal? Me. Great, because that's what's supposed to happen. That's why men get married. We don't get married just to pay for somebody else. We don't get married. Just to have another roommate who's going to bring us a lot of chaos. So we got to protect from their own bad choices, which is statistically what happens. And a lot of times, no, we don't do that because we feel like it. We do it because we want. To and because we expect something, we want that in return, we expect. We expect sex in return. Yes, yes we do. I don't care if you call me a dirt bag or any of the guys who agree with me. A dirt bag you can call us. Whatever you want. I prefer to call. Us. Right, because it's objectively true. Let's continue. What's the next video all we got. OK. We have Christian dating tips from a younger guy. Let's see what he got. Let's see what he's got to say. 

Hi, welcome to my prior point on Christian dating tips. First off, just because they're Christian doesn't mean they're actually Christian. 

Ask deep questions. 

You know, ask like, what is Jesus Jesus mean to you or like, what's your testimony or what's the gospel or how does God and how has God impacted your life, you know? And if they don't answer these questions correctly then they are cancelled. And then as also it helps. So you know like apply like a Bible verse to the conversation. 

Ohh no. 

Like it'll really like like spruce up, like some interest and like they would be like totally interested. They think you're super smart in your word, which you probably are. And as you can tell by this detailed graph right here, these are the people who do. 

Ohh no. The graph. 

You know, say a Bible verse in the conversation, and they do exponentially better compared to the rest of the people here. So yeah, that was my Christian dating tips. And here's my work cited www.mylifeexperience and www.mywhat. My mentors told me. 

Ohh. Ohh mentors. Ohh great, your mentors are out of their minds. OK, first of all, let's let's break this down from the beginning. I'm gonna restart this. Here we. Go. 

Hi, welcome to my prior point on Christian dating tips. First off, just because they're Christian doesn't mean they're actually Christian. 

I've always never understood this point, so if they're just because they're Christian does mean they're Christian. OK, so then what are you OK? This is why your points are follows. They they don't matter. You want to actually vet somebody. Don't give them the opportunity to give you textbook answers that they think are the right answers, but they don't actually believe you want to vet somebody. Don't ask questions that have simple answers. Ask indirect questions that then you can gauge how they're going to answer. For example, gentleman. Don't ask. Let's look at let's first thing you wanna know about a Christian woman. If you wanna get Christian women. Gentleman, you wanna stop losing with Christian women? I'll. I'll help you out for a second if you actually want to have a relationship. I personally don't. But you if you want to have one, here's a couple tips you could use that they're going to be infinitely more successful than what this. Guy's about to say #1. You need to you. Need to look at the past. Did she grow up Christian, even if she grew up with a pastor's daughter, that's not a slam dunk. And if you wanna know pastors, daughters are usually crazy. Just look at people like you ever heard a lot of roads or Katy Perry or I think even Ke$ha. Ohh yeah. You didn't know about that, did you? Yeah. German look at the path. Look at what they're doing outside of the church. Look at what look at their Instagram. Look at their past, because the past tends to dictate the future and the present. If she was out there doing backflips on Chad and Tyrone, she's probably a bad investment. I don't care how many Bible verses she can quote you. I don't care how many times she goes to Bible study per week. I don't care how many times she volunteers at the Children's ministry at your church. If she's doing backflips on Chad and front flips on Tyrone. She's not an investment. She is for the streets. She is for everybody. She is not someone to be taken seriously. I don't care how much they try to say ohh I'm 30 now so and I made all those mistakes before but but now now I'm not going to. Do that anymore. So you mean to tell me you were doing this for how many years? And now overnight, basically, you've decided you're not going to do that anymore? Yeah, I don't think so. I don't think so. And even if the guys who got you in their prime, they didn't want you. What the hell should I want you now when you're past your prime? Let me ask that question, gentlemen. If you want to have a family, you can't be taking these women seriously cause. They gonna most likely. Pull a Uno reverse on you, or pull out the rug on you just so you know. I'm not saying this to doubt cast. I'm not saying this to make you feel bad. I'm saying this because I want you to win and you can't use losing strategies and win. What else this guy got? 

Ask deep questions. 

You know, ask like, what does Jesus Jesus mean? 

No. See all these questions, these outline right here. What does Jesus mean to you? What is your testimony? What's the gospel? All these questions it's learned in elementary school. These are not questions you want to ask a potential spouse. Because guess what, they can give you the right answer without actually believing it. #1. Or have actually lived it number. Do do not fall for this. This is exactly what they teach you to do. And then they wonder why a lot of men get beer bellies, how to shape they they start a balding and all these things cause testosterone takes and nose dives because their wife is running their life now. They they lost. Just because you're married does not mean you win. It's enough to get divorced. Divorced is bad enough. But what's worse, in my opinion, than divorce is living in a marriage where you hate your life. That's even worse. So a lot of men are in that position, and they're too afraid to talk about it because they know what they do. They're gonna get shamed. They're gonna get called. The problem. The woman's gonna take no accountability. And if they're, they're done. I've had enough of this goofy guy who wears sunglasses indoors. I've had enough of this. Let's go to this guy. You are worth pursuing. We have a pastor who I assume is talking to women. You could be talking to men. I don't know, but he's saying you are worth pursuing. What's with all these dudes having beards, by the way? Whatever. Let's, let's see what he already got to say. Maybe he's gonna say something that I agree with. Who knows? 

If you're dating someone right now and there is not mutual purse. Shoot, I would just warn you to reevaluate the relationship because we tend to work for what we don't have, and if he's not doing anything that looks like a date and if he's not ever dressing up and dropping some change on you if he's not ever buying you something special ladies, you are worth pursuing. 

Ohh my goodness. 

What? Oh, hell no. 

You gotta be joking, really. Ohh you could have just said, avoid pookie. Avoid the game guys, avoid dudes who are no good, who are who have good salami but not good morals. You could have said that, but instead he made it sound like the women were the victims. No, they are choosing those men that you just described because they are exciting. Because they are unpredictable because they're like the beast. They want to be the beauty that tames the beast. But you want to make it seem like it's the man's fault. And the women are not at fault. No, Sir, you're wrong. This is why men don't go to your church except for the old boomers and maybe some Gen. Xers. This is why men are checking out of the church who have a certain testosterone level, not because they don't agree with what God says or what the Bible says, but because they don't agree with you and what you're saying because you're telling them that if they don't want to be a Gump like you. If they don't want to go out there and marry a single mother, they don't want to go out there and marry a washed up woman who's. Repackaged herself after being on the carousel for 10 years, five years that I'm the problem, not the person for making the bad choices, but but because of. But I'm the problem, not them, because they because they're conversion validates your worldview. And so the complete that circle of validating your worldview. They want you to take that raw deal. That's what they're saying, and This is why a lot of Christian men are losing as they listen to them, and then they realize. Wait a minute. Hmm, I'm not happy in my life, but I'm told that if I keep getting tapped like a like a utility like a power outlet, that my life's going to be great. Men giving is great giving, giving is fantastic, but giving that people who take it for granted and don't appreciate you, that's not good. Giving to people who expect it from you, who treat you like garbage, that's not good. And the same people like that guy who talks about all women should be pursued. Sir, relationships statistically worked the best when the woman cares more about the man than the man cares about her. Because when the man cares more about her, she thinks of herself as above him, and then hire her. Hypergamy kicks in and says she can do better and then she leaves that guy or treats him like crap and monkey branches. Away from him. This is what reality looks like. I know you don't like how that makes you feel. I know that you don't like what you just heard. If you have not seen reality. But unfortunately it's true. I wish I could sit here and tell you that that works. It doesn't work. How else do you explain that the man, the, the, the men who who she that cared about her, she broke up with them, but the men that she wanted that she couldn't get a relationship from, she wanted them more. How do you explain she's hung up on those guys? Other than your philosophy makes no sense and is based off of a fabrication and that's why Christian. Men are losing. Do you think that because it's happening in the confines of a church or because you believe in God, that all of a sudden ohh our new rules, new game now it's the same game with the same rules? It just looks different. It's like playing. It's playing regular monopoly and playing Star Wars monopoly. It's still monopoly. This has different characters and different names. That's it. It's still the same game. My friends, please share your experiences in the past. If you identify or can relate to anything that I discussed today, I guarantee you you're not alone if you do. My friends, please share your thoughts, your comments because this space is growing because a lot of men are under a lot of men are realizing they're not alone, especially in the church with this type of stuff. You're not. Long. So please Share your story and you might find yourself less alone than you thought you were. My friends, take care of yourselves. Please do your own research on this topic. Please. Think for with what your brain and not what's below your belt. Because that'll save you from making a lot of bad choices. You carry yourselves. I'm out of here. Peace.