And you know he's lying to you, but you don't care because you like him. So you want it to work and you want to believe him. So you do. And then when inevitably you you realize that you. That he was lying to you and you knew it the whole time. You just didn't want to accept it. Then you want to play the victim and act like you didn't know. But you did. Ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared Podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends, we're going to revisit the topic that I've been talking about a lot recently, but I want to take a different spin on it. The reason why I would say that Christian dating does not work is very simple. And the reason I say that is because, look we. All of us, we have a certain goal we want. Maybe we want to get married. Maybe we want to have someone cause we're lonely. Maybe we want to fit into the society or the friend group or community that we have some of us. We don't want to die alone. Whatever it is, all of us have reasons. For one single relationship. But when it comes? To when we bring religion into it, when we bring the Bible or the Quran or the Torah into the conversation, all of a sudden people want to act like the whole process is complicated. No, it's actually pretty simple. The problem is people overcomplicate it and they overcomplicate it because they don't understand the history. And so we're going to have a very brief history lesson and then we're going to look into some clips and expose. My a lot of people are listening to really horrible advice and it's causing them to come up with the wrong diagnosis and then come up with the inappropriate treatment to treat their misdiagnosis. Of the issue. So the reason why I say that, mayor, I mean Christian relationships, Christian dating for to be exact doesn't work is because dating stems from prostitution. Because you didn't know that. Ohh yeah. Yeah. Back in the day people used this thing called courting. It was very quick. It was very professional and a lot of times it involved both family. Most of the time, people who are courting the man have land. He had himself a stablished he. Then when he pay a dowry or he pay a bridal price or whatever, and then the woman who was supposedly pure would then marry this man and then they'd. Have. Our household the problem is today with the sexual liberation movement and the popular culture being so alien to what we have seen in recent recent times, whether it be decades ago, centuries of now millennia ago. We can't use the same. Moves we've always done to get the end result that we want. For example, the churches have jurisdiction of marriage and now it doesn't. Now it's a contract with the state. So now the state is involved in. 

It. 

And the popular culture is saturated with I don't cook or clean, but I get the rain. I don't do anything for men. Men do everything. For me, men are toxic. Men are just pocketbooks with short hair. Gentlemen, if you think that because your wife go your your girlfriend or your future wife or whatever goes to church and that she's immune to that. No. No, she is not. In fact, she's more exposed to that than she is to anything of value. And if you don't agree with me, I'm going to have to point to next time you are around your girl or a girl, you want to go out with or whatever. Bring up popular culture and see who she watches on. TikTok on Instagram. I am. See who she what she listens to on Spotify or whatever. And then you'll see where her what? Her. What's going on in her head because we are what we surround ourselves with. We tend to soak up. The water we are in, though our water is pure. We're good if our water is saturated and dirty, then guess what? We're going to become a dirty sponge. My friends, the reason why Christian dating doesn't work is because you don't have we don't. We're not giving information and I was guilty this when I was younger, I fell for this when I was younger and then I came to realize what I know now, which is it's just a. It's a. It's pretty much the same thing as outside in the secular world. We just pretend like it's not because we add rare and a little bit of God and mix and we want to pretend like we're holy, and now we have some divine mandate, and then all of a sudden it makes everything different. No, it really doesn't all have to do is look at statistics, statistics. A just for religion and whatnot. And even if there's not a divorce, a lot of them end up in sexless marriages, or they stay for the kids. Or the way they walk on egg shells. Or the man's been emasculated and he's just a. Yes, dear guy, these are unfortunate realities that people don't like to discuss. And the reason why is because women don't like you when men. Know this information. Because if they don't care, they wouldn't call guys like me or guys on the side of the Internet names not actually refute us with the spirit of logic and the the spirit of understanding. But the reason I say that it doesn't work is because we like to pretend like it's different and I. Let's let's look at. Let's look at this video. I think it's going to be very important. Let me know what you think about as this. Don't worry here but. 

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All right. Alright, give me one second. Let's share the screen. Alright, let's. 

Do this. Here we go. We're living in a world right now where it's like that women ain't ****. Men need to run or men is thinking. These are men. No, no, we're not listening to the outside world. We come together, we bring together, we respect each other. 

We live in the outside world. We work in the outside world. We have outside friends. See this is the problem right here. This is the problem. Guys like this are the problem. I don't know him personally, but this message is the problem. They want to pretend like the outside. Like we live in a bunker. Don't see that? Like new fallout. She always actually not that bad. But it was not totally based off the games. But it wasn't that bad. But we want to pretend like we live in this bunker where it blocks everything that comes in from the outside. No, no, it doesn't. In fact, it's very saturated into the culture of the church. All you got to do is look at how many churches. Are flying rainbow flags? How? Or how many of them use the term partner instead of a wife or husband? How many of them actually have female pastors because of famine? Them we are not living in a society where the church is shielded from all of the ethics of the society. It doesn't happen. So to say that you are doing people a disservice by lying to them, and by extension, yourself. 

So when I say speak your feelings, it don't be worried about me being upset. I'm a ***** ** ****. If you tell me how you feel and I disregard it. 

OK, gentlemen. Never talk to me. I feel perspective. It puts you at a disadvantage and you are very feminine when you do that. By the way. That's what women do more than men. Men are straight lies in logic and in reason. So when it comes to your feelings, those are your own. Now I can't change your feelings. Just like you can't change objective reality. 

Hey. 

So let's get back to the facts again. Here's the problem. People guys like this, they want to talk about. Ohh be don't worry about what the world's doing. Worry about what you're happening in your church. As soon as we leave the building, we're back in the world again. When I go to the grocery store, when I go to the mall, when I go to get my hair plied, when I go to hang out with friends, when I go out to go to the movies, when I gonna do all these things, I'm going. Out to the world. You don't think that? Ohh, what's up until like the phones don't play a role. You mean to tell me all this stuff you listen to on YouTube or on on Spotify or on Apple Music or whatever you're listening to? You think this doesn't play a role? It does for the very impactful role cause it's subversive. It's subliminal. It's not something. For example, I called you a bad name. You're gonna be like, why Austin? What the hell is your problem? But if I say something that's a little passive aggressive, you're not gonna see it as I'm insulting you. You're not gonna react. You're gonna kind of inadvertently accept it. And listen to it. That's the same thing with our habits and music and entertainment and education. They say something to you, but that that it sounds friendly and it sounds nice and it sounds loving. So you accept it when in fact it's not positive. It's very negative, but they framed it in a positive way so that you they accepted it subconsciously instead of rejecting it. For example, let's take the idea of equality. If I told you that for equal, let's say that someones here and somebody is here, OK? And Fight City equality means you have to give up something and may then take what you have to gain. That sounds bad, but then if I. Said it you. Know what knows? Just about everybody having equal everything. It doesn't have anything to do with anybody having more or less. It has to do with everybody being equal and having equal opportunity. That sounds better, right? That sounds more inviting, right? Right. It's the same exact thing. You see what you see, how it worked. Let's get back to the I feel conversation. Hopefully I'll get a copyright on this music, by the way. 

What I told her is this. God leaves our relationship live your life, and if I'm doing something wrong, God will Take Me Out of. 

Your life. Ohh Mike. What is it? With people who want to pretend like they have no free will, these are the same people who, if I argue them, predestination versus free will, they're gonna tell me that there's no predestination or whatever. It's like, man. Look, God is involved in people's lives. At least that's what I believe. You don't want to. Believe. That that's your business. But when it comes to God, God helps people who help themselves, OK? Rarely has there ever been a time where I'm sitting around doing nothing, and then God shows up and he's like, oh, it's amazing. All for, for you. And here it is and I want to leave now. No, that doesn't happen. No, that's now. I've never seen it happen. And yeah, for some reason people would pretend like ohh relationships are different because it involves sex all of a sudden everything's different. No, not really. If you are surrounded by people who are going to damage you who are going to fill your head with toxic and horrible ideas, and then you want to, you can surround yourself in a good environment that has good ideas. Guess what you're going to use the wrong measuring tape and have a wrong measurement that's going to lead you to cutting your life in. The wrong pieces. I've had enough of this. I've had enough of this guy. I don't know him. Maybe some of you know. Him. I don't know. That guy? Well, let's go about. Let's go to this. Let's look at what this woman has to say. 

That means that you're entertaining is not your husband. In fact, he's holding you back from meeting the man that you're actually supposed to be married to. What I'm trying to say is this man that you're involved with is a counterfeit, and he was sensed by the enemy to throw off God's plans. 

To avoid all accountability, in other words, that guy's booty. Chad, he's Tyrone. He's hot, he's attractive. He has stuff going for him. You are attracted to him, you. Want it to work? And So what you're gonna do is instead of saying, yeah, I chose that guy. Yeah. I entertained that guy. Yeah, I slept with that guy. Now they're gonna pretend like, ohh, it's all the devil's fault. Ohh. It's a serpent's fault, you know, like what EVE did? Eve blamed the serpent, not herself, the serpent. And now that's exactly what she's doing right here. She's blaming the devil as if it's his fault. And not her fault for choosing bookie. And Chad and Tyrone. But this is how women preserve their value because they came up to you and they said, yeah, you know, I've chosen a lot of bad dudes. And it was my fault and whatnot. No one would commit to them ever again. So now they have. Now they lie to make it seem like they're the victims. So then then you can then you could buy it and get in a relationship with them. 

And for your life, and unfortunately, many of us women get so blinded by the situation that we don't realize who we're truly dating until it's too late. 

Very. What a very diplomatic way of saying I found him very attractive and I wanted to make. 

OK. 

Typically what happens is in the beginning this counterfeit is going to be love bombing the heck out of you. He's going to tell you everything that you want to hear. He's super charming and attractive, outgoing. And he says that he loves God. 

And you know he's lying to you, but you don't care because you like him. So you want it to work and you want to believe him. So you do. And then when inevitably you you realize that. 

You. 

That he was lying to you and you knew it the whole time. You just didn't want to accept it. Then you want to play the. 

Victim and act like you didn't know. But you did. And so you're like, oh, OK, this man is my tight. So now you're falling deeper and deeper with this guy. 

A very diplomatic way of saying you're having sex with them. 

Not realizing that you're literally dating the devil himself. 

Again, we're showing accountability. We're blaming it on the serpent. We're not taking any accountability for our actions, and we're not actually saying what happened. We're using coded language. Not only other women are going to understand, but men are not going to most unless you have a translator like me to. Tell. 

You later you start to pick up on red flags. You start to look at. His fruit. 

OK, very interesting analogy. 

You start to see that his words are not lining up with his actions. 

You would have seen that and you saw that from the start, but you just didn't want to accept it cause he was hot and had abs. Come on, stop it. 

More this mean is narcissistic and full of pride, which has been affecting you mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Ohh, and the biggest sign is he's not courting you with intentions to marry. 

You you knew that already, but you didn't care because he was hot. Stop lying, please. 

He's just there to sleep with you and use up your resources. 

You know that, but yet you still choose that guy because you want to change him. That's where the beauty and the Beast syndrome comes from. Why are we not taking it? Our ability for our mistakes? This is why you're still single, and I notice she's wearing her cross as if she's holy. Oh my goodness. You see me wearing a cross? No, because I don't need to. Virtue signal myself. Ohh. 

He's also a huge hindrance and a distraction in your life, but you allowing you to go backwards. 

But you allowed in and slept with. 

Him instead of forward. So SIS, if you can relate to any of this, take heed. That man is a counter. OK. 

I can't. I I did so worked up about I shouldn't do it like guys. I shouldn't do it, but I get worked up about this every single time. They don't like it when they OK translation. He was hot. I liked him. I wanted it to work so I tried and I tried and I tried and I tried. Until I didn't want to anymore. And then I. Saw the ohh yeah. Yeah, maybe I shouldn't be here anymore. Or maybe he goes to Julie. You were like ohh yeah. Women always have to be the victim. Even though she admitted that she knew all of us walking into the situation, and yet she still did it anyway, still slept with him, still gave him, still gave him the Cootie cat. Still did all these things. While still probably going church while still trying to find the good man she's sleeping with guys like this. This is why Christian and dating does not work cause she's sleeping with somebody. I don't care who she is. I don't care how holy she pretends to be. I don't care about any of that garbage. She's giving it to somebody. That girl at church who's were like, ohh yes, I'm in the choir. I'm pretty, I'm I'm innocent. Blah, blah, blah. Yeah, she's getting, she's getting railed by somebody, bro. Ohh yeah, no, she'll go out with you for months and months and tell either wait for marriage. Hey, wait, what? What marriage for some other dude and ladies, stop lying to us. Stop it. Tell them the. Truth tell us the truth. I know the. Truth. You can't lie to me. I don't care how much gaslight me or the guys who watch this channel know what's up. We are not fooled by this. Now another problem is a lot of guys can't handle this reality. That's a whole nother issue. But they will be forced to accept it if. 

If. 

You start telling them the truth and stop selling them. This fantasy, this, this, they're chasing phantoms. They're chasing fantasies and phantoms looking for a faithful relationship that's based on a fabrication that you are creating for them. Be honest with people. Customer check lying was one of the 10 Commandments. You should not break #9 do not bear false witness against thy neighbor, and yet we will do it all the time. You know, man, we need to reevaluate this Christian dailing because on top of this, we need to understand that you are not getting her in her prime and she is. But giving enough to. Other dudes. Now you still want to get married to her. That's your choice. Just know what you're getting. She will tell you the truth. This woman, this woman right here who's making this video, she will not tell her future husband this story. Now he find the TikTok get still up. She'll he'll find out. But she gonna tell him this part because that doesn't advantage her. Do that, my friends. We need to have these tough conversations because no one likes no poster that I've ever heard box like this, nobody has this message because they want everybody to think that. Ohh. If you just pray enough all my all decisions are not gonna be valuable. Ever. No, my God's going to go away and my bad habits are going to transfer and everything's. Going to work out. If people work hard enough, they can over they can. I'll I'll do bad behaviors, but all habits die hard. And we need to. Stop pretending like these predatory individuals are not predators. They are. They are playing on your innocence. So if they. Can get a free meat ticket, a free meal ticket on your dime. Tell me I ain't lying. My friends. Please share your experience when you've seen what you've heard, what you've been through. I love other men will benefit from this, and if you want to get married, I don't blame you. It's a very inherent desire. But just know what you're getting. Know what's out here. Don't fall for this. Nobody's praying enough and everything. Everything's going. To work out. Look and God do that. Yes, he can. But is it realistic gonna happen? Probably not. So why are we betting on a abysmal that that's going to help? Even stop looking for fantasies and chasing phantoms and look into the eyes of reality and accept what is in front of your face. So. That then you can. Make a decision on where you want to go with the rest of your life, and maybe your goal is to the same and maybe they don't, but do not keep lying to yourself. You're only gonna hurt yourself and lose in. The long run. My friends, please, I encourage you to do your own research. I encourage you to keep your mind open to learn new things to carry yourselves. I got to get out of here. I'm meeting. I got to get too. I'm out. Peace.