Why women like this never had a boyfriend because they've gotten me. Hey, you up text. Hey, I have a sneaky link. Hey, I'm letting Hookie hit it. Hey, I'm chasing Chad, but Chad won't commit to me cause Chad's. Got five other women? That's when women sit down at a boyfriend. Do not mistake that for she's never had intimacy with a man. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheet Get Sheared Podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed, and my friends, we're going to talk today about how women ruined marriage. Now, I understand that's going to trigger some people, but that's OK. Because now you have the opportunity to learn something if you want to actually learn. If you want to just state your opinion, you can also do that type of guess. 

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You will rob yourself of a chance for growth. And what's not been growing recently? How is the marriage right, which is? Oh, thank God for that, because guess what, marriage is not what it used to be. And we're going to get into the history of marriage. We're going to. Explain why I would make such a statement like that, because Madden back in the day. Used to gain something in marriage, now today there's not really much of anything that men really gain from marriages anymore. They sacrifice equal, if not greater than what they used to sacrifice before. And I understand a lot of you are probably not going to believe that at face value, which is. Why we're going to get into the. Statistics and we're going to get into why I would make such a statement. So without further ado, let's jump into that right now so. Marriage has changed a lot of ways in. The past 50. Years. So here's what they gave me when I looked this up because I wanted. I already knew this, but I wanted to look and see what Google had to say. They said said the marriage rate in the United States, but those of you were not in the United States. You're going to look at your own statistics, but we're going to use the United States statistics. Right now. The marriage rate in the United States has decreased by almost 66 zero percent since 1970. For those of you who. Didn't know. Something was passed in 1969 in California, which was then very closely adopted in every state. In the Union. Thereafter. You don't know what I'm talking about. I speak of no fault. Divorce. It was Ronald Reagan, then Governor of California in 1969, who signed the first bill that would become no fault. Divorce in the state of California. That then was adopted in various shapes and forms throughout every. State in the Union. So if you want to know why we see that happening around 1970, it's because of no fault divorce. Let's go back from it decreased by almost 60% since 1970 from 76.5% to just over 31% in 2008. So when 1970? It. 76.5% of people got married now. OK, this is all and this is. Like 15 or 15 years old. 31% by over half. You want to know why? Oh, don't worry. We'll get into why in just a. 51 just 52% of adults in the United States were married, down from 72% in 1960. Wow. Cohabitation has nearly doubled since 1990. Not a surprise, but I will tell you quantitation not smart, not good. There's this thing called common law marriage. We could be as you. Could still be on the hook. Depending on your state or jurisdiction. You could still be on the hook for a lot of your stuff, so be careful with that. Next median age of marriage, how it's changed, median age of the first marriage is now in 28 for men and 26 for women, compared to 23 for men and 24 women in 1960. This is what we've also seen with the age of consent going up in a lot of different countries and light are more agrarian. Like Japan for example. This is a reaction because a people are living longer and B people are finding a harder time finding themselves economically stable to be married and have have children like their grandparents and one not maybe. Did not have. The proportion of unmarried adults says the proportion of adults who will never marry remains low, but has been climbing in recent years. So this this goes back to the Mike tile movement or not really a movement, just a community. This goes down to people who like myself and like other people on the side of the Internet. We see the writing on the wall. We see that men are not really gaining in relationships anymore. Not only are we not gaining, but we stand to lose more than in any time in recorded history. And when you look at. That when most divorces are filed by women, statistically speaking, and if you when that divorce is filed. You're liable to lose your kids, lose half of your assets and be in a very vicious legal battle for years to come over petty things over things that probably didn't happen. Most likely these, this, this. Is no surprise. Reasons for marriage. Let's go to this. It says getting married because of an unintended pregnancy, also called the shotgun wedding is more is less common today than it has been. In the past. Of course, because. Most people don't have more and more people don't have fathers. That's number one and #2. They were being raised by single male single mothers or by divorced mothers. And bitter baby Mamas and all these other people who are sabotaging them by keeping them away from the father. If you think I'm lying about this, I wish I was as naive as you. But the problem is I am not. And if you want to disagree. You go find statistics that bear me otherwise because you can look all over the Internet. And see examples of what we are talking about. And this is a very important one that's often overlooked. Attraction in more recent years, young people have been choosing to find their marriage partners on a like that term partners. It implies everybody's equal in every way, which is false based on mutual love and attraction. Which is important because we're gonna get into that in just one second. But people didn't used to get married because of love and attraction and passion. That's a very Shakespearean, almost elizabethian era type of idea that has only been exacerbated over time. But before that, this idea of love and one not being the deciding factor of marriages and relationships is pretty unseen. There are stories of it being a more fanciful, fleeting thing for youth. Whereas people got married for resources, for family, honor for society and community purposes, they didn't get married because they were were in love with each. Other they learned. To love each other after they got married, they usually got married for strategical, economic or communal reasons. And this is will be what we're talking about next. So this is that's what marriage is like today. Let's go backwards to the 19th century court. You might hear today, though a lot of women were, according to come back. Well, let's talk about courting Victorian courtships, you know, kind of like the stuff you might see in like. I don't know bridgerton or what are those other shows on Netflix. Were often short with couples often in getting engaged. Within nine months, couples would spend time together in public, not going in and sleeping with 10 men and going to night clubs. Such as going on long walks and attending social events, I mentioned Bridgeton before. I've seen it a little bit of it. My mother, my sister, love it. So that goes to tell you a lot. But what I will say is if you want an example of what this is talking about, go to the more British. Type of media and you'll see more of this because America is a very young country. And we don't have. Technically speaking, we don't have nobility. You know, have the nobility and the noble titles and all that kind of stuff, which is debatable. You'll see more of what courtship was back then versus what dating is now, and dating stemmed from prostitution during this courtship era. But let's go back to this marriage for economic and social reasons. Kind of what we just discussed for the beginning of the 19, by the beginning of the 19th century, marriages for economic and social purposes. Were beginning to become less popular instead, marriages based on mutual affection, emotional satisfaction and love became more value. This is exactly what I'm talking about. People getting married for the wrong reasons to. OK. They're getting married for how the other person makes you feel, not for what that other person is going to represent long term. What you're going to be able to provide for your offspring or your offsprings offspring. People don't really think about that anymore. It's a dying art that needs to be resurrected. Ohh, women's rights. Ohh boy. Let's get into this interesting discussion in the early 19th century. Married women in the United States were legally subordinate to their husbands. I love how they frame that. They frame it as if it's oppressive. Those of you don't know this idea came from Karl Marx and Frederick. Angels who wrote in the Communist manifesto that women were instruments of production. They were, in other words, the proletariat, to the man's bourgeoisie. They framed the man as the inherent oppressor, or the woman, and the woman required liberation from the man and his tyranny. That's where you see that come from, you might say. Well, Austin, that's what, that's what feminism says. Yes, you're exactly right, because that's exactly where they got it from. And if you look at a lot of the people like Bella Abzug, and you look at other people like her who were big. From prominent members of the feminist and womanist movement. This is not an accident. They were all communist sympathizers. And This is why. Now skip back to this. Says women could not own property, keep their own wages or entering the contracts. Yeah, because a man was responsible for them a lot of times you might see in society today, women don't like to take accountability for anything because historically they haven't had to. They've been goofy and making mistakes, but the man would then take responsibility because he was the leader. And now they want man to be the leader. But the woman doesn't have to follow. But then she still does have to take any accountability for her lack of listening. Let's go back wedding. As in the early in the early 19th century, weddings were often featured less guests, less pizzazz by the same amount of love. Weddings often became a simpler affair. That's true today. There are way more expensive next marriage age. Contrary to popular belief, the average age for women to marry in the 1800s was about 23 to 25. So. They might say that's the average age, but it also, depending on where and if you look at the age of consent laws. From then versus now, it paints a very different picture than what you might want to know. I'm not going to tell. You the ages. I'm going to let you go. Look that up for yourself because let's just say. You might get a little sick when you it. It might make you a little. Sick when you read it. Divorced the elephant in the room, the silver back gorilla of the circus. A man could divorce his wife for one instance of adultery. But I won't cut only the view of obtaining divorce if her husband was physically cruel. Ladies and gentlemen, we need to have a serious side discussion about the differences in cheating of men and women. A man cheating is much different than a woman cheating. Most men in their marriages. Are not getting as much intimacy as you might believe, and so when a man goes out. And. Cheats on his wife. He's not getting a new wife and new children, most likely what he's doing is just getting his meat fixed and coming back home to love and his kids and his wife. A woman, on the other hand. You could. She has. An active mate there, a man has to wait for his wife to give him sex. Unfortunately, that's the world we live in. But the woman, on the other hand, always has access to intimacy from her husband, most likely. But the reason it's bad is because a woman cheating on her. Husband is just is basically going to. Give away is. She's basically going and cheating on giving some other guy intimacy that she's not giving to her husband. And not only that, but that man, that husband is paying for that wife'll life, her clothes, her lifestyle. Everything and some other dude is now getting that intimacy from that woman. While paying for none of those things while not caring about that woman. And that is the difference. I could go into a lot more detail on that. But I'm not going to. Instead, because the whole topic in and of itself. Instead, we're going to do is we're going to look at what this has caused to women. Women want to say that men are the ones who are alone, and we're all going to be sad and miserable and alone. Let's look at what happens to women who follow the script, and they will be the strong, independent boss babe. Into their late 20s, early 30s and beyond. Let's see what they have to say. 

The. Girl at work. Said something to me the other day. And I like can't get it out of my head. Hurt a baby around her. I was like, oh, God, that's free birth control for me. And she's like, oh, that makes me think my little baby. And I was like, yeah, I'm too selfish. I don't want kids like, I have a dog. That's enough for me a couple of days later, she's like, so you don't want kids to be have a dog. Do you have, like, a boyfriend or anything? I was like, no, I've never had a. Boyfriend. And it's like, how old are you guys at 27, she's like. And you've never had a boyfriend? 

You know why women like this have never had a boyfriend? Because they've gotten me. Hey, you up text. Hey, I have a sneaky link. Hey, I'm letting whoopie hit it. Hey, I'm chasing Chad, but Chad won't commit to me cause Chad's got five other women. That's when women sit down at a boyfriend. Do not mistake that for she's never had intimacy with a. Man. Oh, she would giving it up when she goes to the club, she goes to bars when she's on Tinder, bumble, hinge all these places. She's giving it up. She's having a lot. Of sex. So don't mistake not have her ever having a boyfriend with never of had with with her being a virgin. Nothing could be further from the truth. 

And and I like never really cared. But there's something about her like saying that it really hit me this time because, like, I've never been on even like, two dates with the same person like. 

No. 

No, stop. 

Oh, oh, hell no. 

This woman's been on the roller coaster riding on men's Roosters. For a very long time, this woman has a body count over 100 for sure. 

Even guys I've talked to are, like, hooked up with they'll they'll stop talking to me and then I find out they have a girlfriend or. 

What have? I. I have not seen this video beforehand. What did I just say? This script writes itself every single time and This is why women are destroying marriages because they wanna do this, then find a nice guy, marry him. With all this baggage. You see how that might be? 

A problem they get into a new relationship like a week later. And like when I was younger, I didn't have a friend or girlfriend. I'd be like. It's causing fat. I used to play like 320 lbs. I lost 160 lbs. It's not like I'm being hit up every day, every week, every month with like people and my DM. 

'S or like. Yes, you are. They're just not super attractive. 

Message me on Snapchat trying to get with me. 

Yeah. Yes, they are. Yes, they are. Don't, don't. Buy this gentleman. Yes, men are entered EMS, just not guys who look like Brad Pitt, just not guys who look like Dwayne the Rock Johnson. Those are the guys who are not in her dions as she wishes were in her DMS. Average guys are in this woman's DMS, not the guys she actually wants, though that she just described that she was out and did never wear on a second date with and who she hooked up with. So don't fall for this gentleman. Do not fall for. 

This it's like nobody hits me up. It's not even like a selective with who I'm picking and like, turning people away. It's just like. 

Lies. You are such a liar. Stop. 

People aren't going up to me. I don't. I don't understand like. Stop now have an issue with people like wanting to hook up with me, but if it tries to go a step further. 

You're like absolutely not. No. Yeah. Because you're choosing the wrong men. You're choosing men who have other. I'm in. See, this is the. This is why I'm telling you women ruling. Relationships. She's lying when she says that other men are not hitting her up. Men she's attracted to are not hitting her up in droves. Men, period are men she's attracted to. Period are not. Do not fall for this. Do not fall for this gentleman. Do not fall for this. Ohh and you know we're going to look at the comments section after this I. Can't wait to see that. 

I don't wanna just like hook up with random people that I don't know so. 

What you love? What you've been doing that? What do you mean you don't want to? And you just said that's what you've been doing. And you're 27. You've been doing this for years. What are you talking about? You didn't want to do it, then you wouldn't do it. But you just admitted that you doing it. 

Well, I don't wanna hook up with them until I know them and they're like, well, you're. A prude, I'm. Like I like because they know you. 

Have them and. Going Oh my God, this is the problem. This is this is the kind of girl who shows up in your church, gentlemen who then wants a serious relationship from you and then she talks about how she has trauma from this guy and that guy. And she's been with. Like 100 different guys and you're like. What I was supposed to? Admit to this. Oh, hell no. I'm not committing to this woman, and then she's gonna leave. Ma'am. Ma'am, stay in your lane. You are a. 304. We need men, women like you in this ecosystem. Well, I gotta *** **** sometimes too. So stay in this lane. Don't come over into the lane and then we'll say, well, I want a relationship. From you where was the relationship from the guy who had an 8 pack and drove a Ferrari? Where was the? Where was the relationship from Sugar Daddy? Nowhere. So now you're trying to. Find a good man. When you have not been a good woman. This is the problem. 

And they can't win. Why? It's like hitting me so hard this time. Is the fact that she had the. Audacity to ask. By choice and I just sit there. Like, no, it's not. Right choice. When I was younger, I was like, oh, it's because of that. Oh, it's because I'm fat, fat. Once I lose weight, I. 

Have no problem, and now that I'm like, ma'am, you could have still had her boyfriend if you were fat, his wouldn't be out six pack backwards, cap. Chad, you could have had one, but you didn't want a relationship with that. 

Guy, not that. And it's like, what is it? What is the reason? So now I'm going to finish later, drink and hit the gym until I can't feel my emotions anywhere. 

OK, shout out the rubber hitting the gym. That's great. Well, let me tell you something, ma'am. The reason why this strategy is not working is because you are doing this out of necessity. Not out of being. A good person if you are 17. Not 26. Then. This would be a different conversation, but you are not 17, you are 27. You've been doing this for years, by your own admission, and now you want to pivot and and merge lanes into my lane and the guys who are more value you are guys like me, guys like us. You want us to take you seriously. We're not going to do it because why would I pay top dollar for something somebody else has paid for on fire sale and on severe discount? See, that's the thing that people don't want to have discussed, because then they'll say that you are the problem, not the person who made very badly responsible choices. This is why they're ruining relationships, because this kind of behavior. Is not just hurt. Millions of women are doing this right now. But yet we have this epidemic of women or out here doing this very thing, and instead of saying, you know what, I messed up. I'm, I admit that I'm wrong. I want to come in the spirit of humility and say that I'm sorry, blah blah learn my lesson. I want to be a good woman now. No. No, they blame you as if you are the problem, as if you just. Start committing to her. And she's perfect woman, ma'am. Ma'am. Ma'am, as someone who is very passionate about business, let me tell you something. When there's a good business deal on the line, people snap that up immediately because it's a great deal. If the deal sucks, if the deal is subpar, if the deal is no good, no one's going to take it. Which begs the question, if no one's taking this deal, the answer is, wait a minute. Why? Why is no one taking this deal? Is it you considering that you are the common denominator? I'm not picking on this woman. Pacifically, I don't know her. But this is an epidemic of women who are experiencing what this. Woman is talking about. Instead of picking the man that. Was in her league. She then wants the big dudes who are at the top of the food chain, who every other woman wants, and they expect him from him. And that doesn't work. This is why women are ruining marriages or relationships because not only are they doing that, but then they want to come over to church. They want to come over to the chess club, they want to come over to your discord channel, whatever. And then they want to pretend like, ohh, all these men didn't me bad. But I'm a good woman and then blah blah blah and then have you work really hard and marry her. Only to find out what she was a complete skeezer 30. Four in the past and your. Like. 

Ohh. Damn. 

And then she a. Woman like, that's not gonna be able to pair bond with you, so she's probably going to divorce you or leave you in a sexless marriage. At which point? You're then gonna be miserable. You're gonna think. Tell you you're the problem. Gonna move on. This script writes itself every time. And the man is the one who's left holding the bag, and the one who's left the. Most unhappy for. The. Short. Term and you're gonna. Get sent back and my friends, this is what? I'm talking about. We as made our own problems. This is a fact, but it's time we gave credit where credit is due and we as men, we are not the problem on this one. Now we're not. My friends, please let me know what you think. Was I too harsh? Was I not harsh enough you let? Me. Know was I fair foul? You do your own research. You go with your own thoughts and opinions, please. I'd love to. Hear. Them even if you hate me, even if you think what I said was totally foul and you want to call me out, don't for it. Go for it. I believe in freedom of speech. I'm here for it. My friends, you take care yourselves. Always be on guard for people like this who are gonna try to weasel. Their way in your life? Don't let them in. Don't don't fall for this. Use your brain. Don't use what's below your belt. Our friends, to kill yourselves about. A year peace.