Now, is it going to be painful? Maybe. Is it gonna be hard? Most likely. But that's why you should do it. If it was easy, everyone would do something. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends and the previous episode we talked a little bit. About. Fantasy versus real? Quality, and unfortunately too many of us men, we live in utter fantasy land and in this fantasy land we not only live in it, we try to make reality. Fit into that narrow area for our entire existence, we put everything through this filter that we've been given, whether as you grew up in public school, you grew up in the church, you grew up in private school. It doesn't matter where you grew up. It doesn't matter where you went to school. School doesn't matter whether you're or not. You went to church. None of those things matter. What matters is that we all have this filter. And very few of us by default are given one that is rooted in the uncomfortable, unsavory realities of life. One of my favorite villains of all time is Thanos, and Thanos is a great line about reality because one of the five Infinity Stones in the Marvel Universe is the. Infinity Stone of reality, and he has this line where he says reality is often. 

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And then he comes out of the mist from behind the curtain, and he says. But now reality can be whatever I want. Everyone suffers from that and it's very easy to see in a lot of women. We see it all over the Internet. Women. There's no saving them when it comes to them saying reality. They'll they'll never the whole dulu is a Sulu. Ohh yeah, that's where they going. They never going to see reality. Gentlemen, too many of us, we don't see reality either because we don't want to come to terms with how horrible it is, how dystopian it may seem to. Us. And that's the problem, because we don't like it. We don't want to accept it. And that, my friends, is the biggest problem. And that is why I'm encouraging all of you to wake up me myself. I had to wake up when I was exposed to the true nature of women when I was exposed to the true nature of the political system. It's not just women. That's usually the good place to start, cause everybody has an encounter with them, especially if you at a younger age and you think that you're the problem, when in fact, statistically speaking, no, it's them. But you know what? There's always something to learn. Whether it was your fault or not your fault, there's always something that can be learned. And in this case. Where you can learn is stop engaging with people who don't deserve it. Stop caring so much about what other people think of you. Stop hearing what women think of you. Stop letting other people tell you what you should care about, why you should do things. What? What you should do, how you should do them all of these things, comes down to the fantasy versus reality. Reality is often disappointing. Fantasy is what we've been. Fed. We want to see things. In a always positive light, and sometimes things are positive. They are the exception where whereas people would have you believe it is the norm and I'm here to burst that bubble, it's not true. Wherever you think it. Is it's probably worse. It's probably more insidious than what you currently think. And my friends, you need to wake up. I wish I could reach to the screen. And shake you and. Wake you awake, but what would be the? Everyone has to come to terms with the fact that they've been lied to for most of their lives. Given the wrong key for them to unlock their true potential. And once you realize that it's very natural to get mad and upset, sad to lash out instead of turning it with Anne and saying, you know. What? Before up until this point, other other people were influencing me, but now now I've decided I'm going to do what I want to do. I'm going to decide what I want to build my life upon and I want to build it on the shifting sand of other people's opinions. Or do I want to build it on the solid rock? Do I want it? Construct this dream House of the I want to become my life on a strong foundation of reality or on the shifting sands of time and fantasy. My friends, I love fantasy novels. They're a great escape. It's very imaginative and fantastic. But when people want to bring the fantasies of the romance novel industry when they want to bring the fantasies of these amazing powers, stuff like stuff like superpowers and whatnot, a little easier to say, oh, that's fake. But when it comes to romance. A lot of people can't put the book down and pick up the book of life. They confuse and to see with reality when it comes to romance. And that's why I've. Said before that. Romance for women is the *********** for men. We consume prawn the way they consume romance. Even the most sporting quote strong independent woman out there wants to be romanced by Giga Chad out there with the nice car, with the great body, with the all the money and all the potential to have all the hoes she wants that. But she's not going to get it. Statistically, she's not going to get it or she'll get it for a night, a week maybe, and then he'll kick her to the curb, and then she'll blame it on all men. Meanwhile, she passed up Bob at the at the supermarket. She passed up Dave. When he at the car repairs, she passed up. Everybody who might have actually him in her relationship. Stop feeling. Bad for people who don't want to actually deal in reality. I don't feel about it. For these people. Not because I hate them or because I'm unhappy with them because they're choosing to be like that. I don't, I don't feel. Bad for drug? Addicts. Why? Because they're choosing to inject themselves with drugs. They're choosing to be addicted to stuff. Why would I feel bad for something that you could anytime stop? Now, is it going to be painful? Maybe. Is it going to be hard? Most likely. But that's why you should do it. If it was easy, everyone would do something. But when it's hard, people have a harder time doing it. That makes sense. Good. I hope it did. Friends, I would encourage you to really evaluate how you see the world and why. And then say you know what, I don't think this is accurate or I don't think this is possible and then really break this down because at the end of the day, your worldview will shape your perception, and your perception becomes your reality. And I don't want you to see your reality. I want you to see the reality of the situation. The world of your relationships. I don't care what it is. In every facet, it is critical that you stop feeding this fantasy lie and you take the pill of reality like your vitamins every day. If you're not doing that, that's a good place to start. My friend, I understand this isn't a fun thing to hear. I understand that. But good medicine, real medicine, tastes lousy. It's not full of sugar. It's not full of artificial sweeteners. It's full of good, strong, active ingredients. And that is exactly what we need in our lives for the antidote, the poisons that we consume every single day, no matter what you read, what you hear, what you see, what you feel. A lot of things are completely fate synthetic. And exacerbated and it is only through taking the medicine of reality that we are able to take back control from the $1,000,000, the billion dollar corporations, the government. And stop letting them control you into being a another cog in a wheel or a drone and you can be the driver that sends you right to your destination of your dreams. And then you get the park in that driveway and walk into that house, cause you've earned it, not because you deserve it, but because you paid the piper. You didn't. Dance to the tune of all the schmucks and you earned it. My friends, please share your stories of how you kind of had your come to Jesus moment, so to speak, and you. Came to see the reality of the situations of your life. I'd love to hear it and might help. Someone's life. My friends take care of yourselves. Do your research and always look within, because that is often where the answers will be found to carry yourselves from out here. Peace.