You already have SEGS work in this country. What do you think of sugar baby is? Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. Today, my friend, we're going to return to our various discussions of relationships. But you know what? I want to assert 2 things. One, that relationships have been completely destroyed in this country. Especially. Because we everybody who's in the dating marketplace now can attest to this, it's often extremely hard to find a connection if you're looking for one, it's hard to get what you want, no matter who you are. If you're a man, you don't like it. If you're a woman, you don't like it. Nobody seems to like it, but yet everybody seems to involuntarily be participants within the system. And #2. We are getting no help from the judicial system, the judicial system, as per the usual, is behind, as is the legislative system they are behind as per the usual. And so my friends say, I know I can often if you've never listened to me before, you probably don't know this. But if you have, you know that sometimes I can come across as negative. Apparently I can be a very negative person. Every once in a while. I don't consider myself negative. I consider the term realistic or pragmatic, but instead what we're going to do is we're going. To talk about solution. Now we're not going to necessarily talk about being a biblical bachelor, which is the lifestyle that I came up with, and they have the the manual, the book, to go with it. But that's not the main issue. We're going to talk about are the two ways that I think we. Can actually fix this system. There are two resolutions to the relationship market we are. In. We can either go one of two ways. You could try to go up the middle and go for a three, but that's not going to work because you're trying to bring two things together that is producing the marketplace we currently have. So here are my two solutions. One, we go back in time to a point where the Scarlet letter was. Just a thing. If you don't know what the Scarlet letter was. Essentially it was enforced monogamy. It's not this non ethical. This selective divorce culture that we're in. Not enough. It was. You get married. If you cheat, there's a heavy penalty, both financially and socially. And you stay together for the kids. There's this whole enforced monogamy. Not this. Oh, he's a he's an abuser. And and and maybe the last time that you've seen a video online or you talked to somebody in person. And whenever the guy is mentioned as the problem, you don't hear the term. He was abusive. In there. No, I'm not saying he necessarily wasn't. I'm saying that. How is it possible for every man who goes through that to be an A user? It's not possible. It's just not possible that the math ain't mathin as Fred Flintstone would say, it's not a math ain't nothing on this. It don't work. That's not possible. Statistically, it's not possible. Though either returned to the days of the Scarlet Letter in forced monogamy, marriage, or we go the way the Amsterdam has, and we go with red light districts and we legalize SEGS work in this country. Yeah, you heard me. Right. We either go one way or the other way because we already, if you, if you're unaware. If you've been having your head. Under a rock. Or maybe you're a square. You're a normie. You don't know this. We already have SEGS work in this country. What do you think of sugar baby? Is that SEGS work technically? Now a lot of people wouldn't classify it as that, but technically speaking, that's exactly what it is. No, I'm not shaming it. I really frankly don't care enough to shame it. What I'm saying is that's what we have. People want to pretend like marriage is not a transactional relationship. Well, it is. It is. I don't know what else to tell you. We're trading. One thing for another, let's call it transaction. Just like if I want a Red Bull, I give you. Money. If I want a relationship, you give me the poonani. That's how that works. I'm not sponsored by Red Bull. By the way, that. Was. Just. An example I'll thinking about getting one earlier and it's still. On my mind anyways. You get what I'm saying. The people don't like it when you strip the romance out of it though, because when you strip the romance out of it, people are like uh. And depressing guess what? Lifes depressing. We're talking about solutions. If you want real solutions, then get rid of your flamboyant, flimsy feelings. Feelings are the problem in this country today. When's the last time we could have a logical discussion where people's feelings that get involved, we didn't descend into yelling, name calling? Straw Manning, red herring, all this garbage. When was the last time we had that happen? You don't have it happen as much anymore. But yeah, for some reason we now live in a culture where men are being shamed for not being married. Some men are still getting married. I know some of. Them they're good. Guys and I hope it really works. Out for them. And I'm not. I'm not just saying that. I actually really hope it does, but hope is not a strategy. That's the problem. Hope is is not a strategy, it's. It's just something that you just kind of go into headstrong. And it's not something that is sustainable. We see that in the divorce statistics, we see that with marriage going down, divorce going up, single parenthood going up, which single fathers? I'm cool with that. I'm cool. Single fathers not with single mothers. You want to know why? Here's why. Because as a man. You can't give birth to a child. I know that's really controversial today. Apparently, men are allowed to get pregnant now. My I think you should go talk to my 9th grade biology teacher. She would probably disagree with you on that. If they still teach that anymore. I don't know. Maybe in between teaching Jenny has three mommies and and Davy has two daddies. They might put in there somewhere that, you know, biology still exists. It exists, apparently, for animals. But apparently we're not animals, which was accepted for a while, but whatever I'm getting. Off the topic here. We need to understand that the society is twisting itself. We we have so much freedom that we now have the freedom to delude ourselves into thinking that we're now going to transcend our own humanity and the intent to transcend our own humanity. We're becoming lower than the than gorillas. We're becoming lower than chimpanzees, chimpanzees. They don't have this. Problem. Apparently we are so sophisticated that we have these problems. Now I've joked before and that marriage only used to work back in the day because people didn't have a very long life expectancy. But I think part of that is true. But I also think going back to the single father, single mother thing, single mothers, it's not hard to be a single mother. All you got to do is let a guy go in there with no protection. I'll wait nine months. Even and bam, bada Bing, bada boom. Congratulations, you're a mother as a guy. Being a single father is really tough. Ask the guys who have had their children taken from them. They spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to get 5050 custody of their kids in the divorce court system. It takes a lot of money and time in power to be a single father. It's not easy to. Do by the way. Unless you have like the most deadbeat, I don't give an F mom, ever. You're not gonna get close to your kids because then a woman is seen as a failure. And women care a lot about their reputation. That's why they try to tear yours apart. If you do anything to them that they don't like, they'll immediately come. Not for your neck, but for your reputation. Case. You know that that's their specialty, by the way. He didn't know. That's why they care so much about the kids. It's not so much about the kids as it is about them and their reputation. Because if you didn't know, most women are what you might call narcissistic. Most people don't even know where that term comes from. Narcissistic comes from the tale of Narcissus. Or the Narcissus flower itself. People are unsure, but the story of Narcissus is who there was this guy who was so beautiful that he would that he would turn women down, and so the gods cursed him to fall in love with the next thing that he felt that he saw, and it was himself in. The. River, at which point he then fell in love with himself. And that's where the whole thing comes from. You're welcome. This is. History with Austin. You're welcome. But this is what I'm talking about. We have a we have a system today that's unsustainable and the two real resolutions that we can find are we go the red light district. Route. Or we go back to the actual traditional enforcement monogamy, which you can thank your boy Ronald Reagan, for putting in no fault divorce in California in 1969. I got a guy who was so mad at me for pointing out that Ronald. Reagan was the one who signed that bill in 1969. Hey, man, I don't know what to tell you. That's it's called history. I don't know what to tell you. People want to pretend like Ronald Reagan is the Godfather in Monaco. Conservativism, I sure hope not, because that would imply the Conservatives are for no fault divorce, which I certainly hope isn't true. All you gotta do is look at the statistics. Divorces went up more than doubled after no fault divorce is put in in like 10 years, the divorce rate doubled. Go figure that one out. I guarantee you the men didn't get twice as evil and twice as bad in 10 years, but whatever. Again, when you take accountability off the table, you incentivize bad behavior. I don't know what to tell you. I have no idea how people can't put one and plus one and add up to two. Maybe that's white supremacy. Now, I don't know. Currently, math was white supremacy to some professor. But my friends, we need to understand. And we want solutions and one of the solutions is understanding that you have to adapt to the world we're living in. Unfortunately, you can't just go do what your grandfather, your great grandfather, did. It's just not going to happen. Or you could you could try. You can roll the dice and hope for Yahtzee. Good luck. Statistically speaking, not going to happen. Not going to work. Doesn't mean it's impossible, it just means it's highly improbable and the penalty for losing is exponentially high. So we need to figure this out because the longer we don't, the more immigration's gonna happen, by the way. Ohh, you didn't know that that those two things are connected. You did if you're. Paying. Attention birth rates in the toilet. How do you think a system or a social order or a government survives? Answer they import people. If the birth rates low, which they wanted to do, they it's been manufactured. Do I really want to get into this right now? I don't know. I think I'll. I think I won't try to get the government on my neck and expose all the crop that they're out. You're doing behind your back and in front of your face and you don't see it. I'll I'll save that for another show, but just know. The government has never been and will never be your friend. Or if you're a normie, oxygen, thieving ham and egger type of person who just clocks in, clocks out and gets drunk, doesn't do Jack in their life. Oh yeah, government loves you. You're you're drone government. Totally cool of you. But if you think for yourself, you do. We talked about these topics in a way that doesn't just scapegoat men and blame them for everything. Then no government doesn't like you very much. I'll leave it at that. You are the problem to people. That's why they. Pour pour billions of dollars in into the womanism industry and into spaces like ours. No, we can't get all that much funding. We can't really get monetization. I don't know to tell you. My friends, I'll leave it at that. What do you think my solutions? Red light districts or returning to the Scarlet letter type of days? No, I'm. Not saying that I support one over the other, I'm presenting potential solutions. If you don't like them, that's fine, but those are the two solutions that I see because right now we're living in this weird in between, and that's what's causing the problem. Nobody wants to step up. Nobody wants to cuff their cojones and make a decision. Nobody wants to be up there and take the flak from all the people who don't like their choices. Well, guess what, I don't care. I don't care what normal mean morons think about me. They don't know anything that's like a child being mad at me about you. You said this and I didn't like. Did you understand what I said? I just didn't like the. Way you said it. You're not in my league. Please go away. Oh brother uh reminds me of that show. Are you smarter than the 5th grader? And most people couldn't. Click ohh man. If that wasn't telling, I don't know what it was. Anyways, my friends, I hope you had a good day. I hope that you enjoy yourself. I really hope that. Yeah, we're entertained. You have a little food for thought and I look forward to hearing what you have to say, how you adapt your life because these are important topics and they affect people very deeply. Relationships are something that I talk about a lot because. It's the most important decision that any person can make, not just men. Women too. Very important. But yet, all too often we we ignore it. We downplay it. We try to act like if you don't get what you want, it's always your fault. Well, and more. When more than one person involved, you can't really do that. It's unfair and disingenuous. Anyways, kill yourselves. I'll see you next time. Come out. Peace.