Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared Podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed want to welcome you to the show. Since it's Sunday and most people are either at church or they went to church this morning, I thought, hey, you know what? Let's talk about some church issues today. And I'm no stranger to this. I wrote a book on the subject, Biblical Bachelor, talking about how the church is falling short, especially when it comes to young men. And Ohh, don't worry, I got some receipts. So if you want to come in here and with your. Language and you want to come in here with the the pathos argument and you want to shame me with? No, no, no. We implying that here we you have entered into the Court of logic and facts and in the spirit of logic and facts. He might say you know what, Austin? I don't like that you could be cynical. I don't like I want. I want you to be more positive. Well, I'll tell you what. I'm very positive that what you're about to hear is probably going to get you a little mad. You might get a little. You might say it's borderline despicable, quite frankly. And the funniest thing is on one of these. I actually commented one of these videos were in check out today. I actually, I had to comment. You want to know why I had to comment? I had to comment because I couldn't not handle this. I could not handle. What I was listening to it was so despicable, I could not just let it go by. There are some things I could say. You know what, father? Forgive them if they know not what they do. And there are other people where I'm like, Nah, man. Nope. Oh, hell no. No, I'm calling you out because this is unacceptable. And to show you that I 100% did. My comments right there in bold. I'll reach the comment that I'll play the video and I'll see you. I'll let you decide. Was my comment fair? Was it foul? Am I? Are you a bad guy and he is he the good guy? Well, what? What's, what's going to it? Shall we? My comment about this video is the following. My comment is. Can I please get? A check on this man's testosterone levels, please. This is a disgrace. Using God to make men take a bad deal is reprehensible. That's what I said. Let us play the video in question. If you're single right now and you desire a relationship, I believe that you're gonna end up in a relationship that is full of life. Y'all don't even believe she's like, I don't even know. Pastor Mike. I'm telling you, by faith you're gonna end up in a relationship that's full of life. A relationship that brings joy, that blesses others. If your relationship is bad right now, I believe that God can turn it around. He's the only one that can take broken things and create a masterpiece. You lied to me. But the thing you gotta realize is the journey. Doesn't always look like the destination. Write that down. The journey doesn't. Always look like the destination if you're sick. I I turn this guy off, turn them off, turn them off. I don't want to listen to this anymore. Let me tell you something right now. I'm not here to insult people. It takes away from the facts and the conversation, but I want to make an observation. #1. I'm sorry, bro. You kind of dressed like Oracle out here. It's kind of distracting, but more than anything else. This dude is a panda bear. He is pandering to women in the church, which is one of the biggest problems we are seeing in the church today. And that's why on the thumbnail of the episode you're watching, I have a picture of a man looking up. At the plain glass window. And in the place of God, there is a woman, and you might say. Blah blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah blah blah. But you know what? Calm down. Gather yourself real quick, because we gonna have a conversation, #1. Do you remember the story of Adam and Eve and Genesis 3? Genesis 2 and three when they're in the garden and then they sin and the fall happens and the serpent and all that. Well, let me tell you something. Let me refrain this in a way that maybe you haven't. Thought about this before. For those of you who have a faulty memory, maybe you've forgotten it was Eve who was tempted by the serpent and then ate the fruit first. That's number one. Number two, Adam was facing the choice. He knew what God told him to do. On the one hand, but he saw what his wife did. On the other hand, he had to choose. In that moment. Adam had to choose. Did he choose his wife? Or did he choose God? I'll I'll repeat that in case you missed it. He had to choose his wife or choose God, and he chose. He chose his wife. Why does a man choose any woman? Let me give you a hint. It's not for the companionship. No, it's not for the great company. It's not for the humor. It's not for any of that. It's for the. It's for the lock down there for the the key that he possesses in the similar place. He chose to serve the woman. And not choose God. Don't believe me. OK, well, let's look at it like this. How many of you have seen a married man recently who wasn't pen packed who wasn't like? Happy wife, happy life. Yeah, man. Like, I gotta make it work. Don't worry. I'll play videos of exactly what I'm talking about, but let's really have that conversation. When was the last time you saw a married Christian guy who didn't give you that? Oh, don't worry, man. You gotta put your wife first. You gotta always put yourself last. That kind of that kind of guy, that kind of Gump. That's his advice. Not to stand your ground, not to be a leader, but somehow leading means following your wife's example. What kind of leadership is that? Can someone explain to me what kind of leadership that is? Because I don't know what it is that that is what passes for leadership today. Meanwhile, you're the one paying all the bills. You're the one taking care of the kids. You have any. You're the one earning most of the money, and yet you have to follow her, because if she doesn't, you don't do what she says. She then uses the her ****** as a reward against you. In other words, if you don't do what she says she gonna hold. Use us sexually hostage. Tell me. I ain't lying. Please. Please. Ohh. I know the women are big. Mad right now they they sound like this right about now. This is the worst kind of discrimination. The kind against me. Has nothing to do with discrimination and everything to do with just unavoidable fact. I would love for anybody listening to the show to tell me in the comment section or on my Twitter handle that sheep get sheared and my DM's are wide open. I welcome it. Give me a logical argument that tells me where I'm wrong. You can bring Scripture. I don't. You can bring journals. You can grab the hell you want. But I want someone that I used no pathos. I want logos or ethos. And I'm coming here and give me an argument to tell me. I'm lying because I guarantee you you can't do it. Like you can't do it. This is why men are leaving the church. In fact, I'll show you an article. You don't believe me? That's OK. I got receipts. We're going to go through an article right now. About from crosswalk.com major Christian platform and it says, is the church driving men away? I'm not the only one. Look at this. They have an ad for dementia on the screen. Oh, hell no. Ohh, but we're appealing to young men, right? Are you kidding me? What is the joke? All the gate. Let's go down here. Uh, let's see. Uh, this OK His his article. I'm not here to promote him. Oh boy, here are some examples of it says who wrote the best selling book, why Men Hate going to church. To which I drew content from the article. Here are some examples. That they say that men are not they going to church. It is a shallow assessment with many stereotypes and I'll come on in here. Read all that. Here we go. Here we go. So American churches, are they really drawing women more than men? Yes, the answer is yes, they are. And so they say that smaller churches are the issues as an examination of statistics reveals that ingratiatingly. Is the only major religion with a large gender disparity the only? They assert that the typical church in North America draws an adult crowd that is 61% women. Our peak dedication, Mr. 61% of the congregation and the typical North American church is female. Means 6 out of 10. Are women. Why? Why is this the case? Well, let's keep going. Since US churches have attracted more women. Than men since. Colonial times. They bring up World War 2, which is another interesting case because. So here's the problem with World War 2, with World War 2, or at least pause for a second and World War 2, a lot of the men went off to. War. A lot of them didn't come back. But when they did come back, the people who ran that church during the war were the guys who couldn't be drafted were too feeble to fight, and the women. So who was the pastor? Who was the youth pastor? Who was the missions pastor? Who was the worship pastor? Not the strong macho guy cause he was at war. The guys that ran the church were the old grandpas. The guys who are weak. And women ran the church during World War 2, so when the men came back to church, when the war was over, they were like. What the hell is this? This ain't church. And they left and they never came back. And that's why we see this large discrepancy right now as we speak. This is why. While some surveys yield significantly different results in attendance, patterns vary across the nominations. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Almost every church attracts more women than they do men. Why, you might say, does disparity is most pronounced in the historically black Protestant churches, in other words. The black men have have also come to know that. There's no there is nothing to gain by going to church really anymore. Now, is there some benefit in spirituality? Absolutely. Go in the church. What do I have to get? I'm throwing the money and I'm gonna tell me to be a Gump and a simp. Why? For what? Where says, well, women in the this is in the Black Church. Women account for 70 to 75% of mourning attendees. That's the three out of four are are women. In the Black church. Now, you might say, well, Austin, why? Why is that? Ohh, I know why it is. It's because we got Gump. Pastors telling these men to marry up these 3035 year old women who've been ran through, who are horrible investments. And then you're told that to be a good man, you gotta wipe her up. Hell no. Yeah, we ain't doing that. Ohh hell no. We ain't doing none of that. Nope. This is declining mainline Protestant churches, so not just Black church, but Protestant churches in general, 65% female. Why, we might ask, why? Let's go down mega churches. Who cares about them? Oh, does the church need Ben? Oh, boy. There should be real Jews. When the article asserts that fewer men than women attend church, some readers vilify the men all here we go. The name Pauling. The shaming language. You know what your mom did to you when you were a kid? Let's see. What do they say? Men who hate or refuse to go to church need to read the Bible. Oh. Oh, really? We need to read the Bible. Is that right? Oh my God. Oh, in other words, I'm the problem, not you, for being a skeezer, not you for showing up, trying to throw your hell. Mary Pass to win. Not you. I'm the problem. In other words, it's always the man's fault yet again. You ever notice that women don't want accountability for Jack ever? That's never their fault. It's always your fault. You ever notice that it's always your fault you're always to blame, not them. You have the penis, so it's your fault, apparently. Let's see what else they say. The only men who hate going to church are those who aren't Christians. Let me tell you something, you bum. You. Ah, I am very much opposed to this idea. Because #1, if you want to follow the traditional Christian model, it is God who decides who goes to heaven, not you. Not your bitter ****. It's God who decides, not you. So I don't want to hear this rubbish. What is this, 1960? What is this like? The 1600s. Where you're gonna go to hell if you don't do what I say and you don't praise alone. And if you don't go in church and you raise your. Hand raised. You're gonna go to hell. Yeah, we ain't buying that. Crap. No more, no. No, thank you. Yeah, we ain't. We ain't buying this anymore. This isn't 400 years ago. Ohh yes, the classic sports keeps them at home. Oh yeah. In other words, dear, you actually like sports? What do you? Ohh my goodness. Yeah, blame football. Blame everybody besides, you blame everybody. That's not you, basically. Oh, I see. OK. Has nothing to do with the fact that, oh, you're telling me to pick a bad deal. Ohh. You're telling me to marry you? When I had to work really, really hard. And I gotta settle for somebody. Who? I wasn't good enough for five to 10 years ago. That's not the problem. The problem apparently, is football. I'm not running my Bible enough. And I'm not Christian enough. Oh, that's real good. Ohh yeah, I can. I can totally see why men are flocking to go to church. The implication is not the missing men aren't really aren't missed very much. Men can sense they are not needed in the church anymore. Oh, in other words, it's feminism worked telling men we don't need you. You ain't good. You ain't and you ain't anything we can do everything. You can do clearly. You can't, because if you did you. See, here's the thing. You give people what they want and then they're gonna still complain about it. We give people we give women equal pay not good enough. We want more equal rights. Not good enough. We want more. We give them, they say ohh we we don't need you. We we're better off alone. Cool. OK, go ahead and do that. They don't like it. You can't please women, dude. It doesn't matter. I don't care if they're Christian, not Christian. It doesn't matter. Doesn't matter, dude. But men are needed desperately. Well, that's funny, because if we look at. Traditional business. Business says, oh, if we have a supply and demand issue. We need to fix something. We need to address that issue because if we don't, then our business is going to fail. Business numbers. It's working, yes. In other words, if if this is failing, we need to adjust, how are we? Going to adjust. Another one. We're gonna we're gonna point fingers and blame and shame. Good luck with Dad. Get back to me when that works. Gentlemen, if you don't want to go to church and you're done being told that if you're a bad person and you're not Christian enough. If you are going to church or if you're not taking a raw deal in marriage or anything else, please buy my book. Biblical bachelor's. Not because it makes me money. Well, because I don't want you to just be a drifter. I want you to have an active purpose and let you know that you're not alone. If you want to go your own way, if you want to have an untraditional lifestyle, I'm here for you, man. I'm blazing this trail. No one else is on this trail. I'm happy to have you join if you want, man. Because at the end of the day, I'd rather you try to go on this road with me than take a raw deal. Many studies have shown that a lack of male participation leads to a church decline. No kidding. It's almost like men do most of the work. No kidding. Meanwhile, fast growing churches always have active, enthusiastic men who bring their families. No kidding. But there's no there's no reason for men to really have families anymore. There really isn't. You could still have it, but there's no reason for you to have it anymore. What? So you can give everything to the woman and basically be a servant. Or when she gets bored with you, she can take half your crap and your kids and leave. That's not what relationships are meant to do. But yet that's what we're seeing today. Children who devote. With devout fathers are usually likely to stick with the church. As adults. This all points to young men are the key to church growth. Really. Then why are they telling young men to take it or leave it? You see, in in business, if you have a target audience, you appeal to that target audience and you say, hey, we're marketing to you. We're going to make this a benefit for you. But so in other words, you know what you need, but no one wants to change. There's gonna shame you guilt you make you feel bad and try to get you to come back. Ohh, that's going to work. Good job. Clearly it's working. Just ask the Black Church. Clearly it's working. When your church attracts young men, the young women aren't far behind. No kidding. It's almost like they say. Umm oh, a good Gump. Who's gonna pay for all my stuff? And he's gonna not. You know, I'm totally safe. And and I can have the kids and the dog in the in the, in the house and the and the kids and all the and the fence and all that. Ohh, sign me up. No, no hitting. No kidding. I mean, what is this? I can't believe this dude. Oh, oh oh. A typical how did I miss this? A typical congregation can function quite well without men, but but the women disappear. The ministry machine would grind to a halt. Pastors know this, so they work very hard to keep their adult women happy giving. And volunteering there it is right there. There it is. Right there, when bold pastors are pandering to women, just look. Let's let's go back to this guy. That's exactly what he did. Exactly what he did talking about. Ohh yo-yo, man, don't come even though you're totally washed up and you made a bunch of bad choices, but your man go find you. Well this is getting weird. And good luck with that. Let's go to the next. Video because so young men are supposed to be the target demographic, right? They're supposed to be the we need to build our church. Brown young men like Jesus did. Oh, well, let's see what advice they're giving to young men. Apparently, what young men need to here. Oh, boy. Let's see what you got. Six drive. The thing of nature, but it needs to be repurposed by grace for the glory of God. So Grace restores nature. It doesn't obliterate it. And it also doesn't elevate it. It restores it to your original design. Under God's God's word. And so we need to tell guys like, look, your desire to conquer things is good. If it's for the glory of God, don't waste it on video games. Don't become a punk. We become like involved in violence, but you we need masculine people. The only thing that will protect us from dangerous men is dangerous. Men that are virtuous. Hmm. And so that desire to be dangerous, to be strong, to take risk, all that stuff is God-given. It just needs to be reordered according to the Word of God. Six drop. OK, what is that? Well, it's not. Tell me what he just said. So in other words, I need to do everything right by what? In other words, I need to be dangerous, but virtuous. So in other words, he's copying Jordan Peterson. OK, and then what else do you? What else did he say? Drive is a thing of nature, but it needs to be repurposed by grace for. Sexual transmutation we're copying Napoleon Hill. The glory of God so great. For the glory of God, what does that mean? For the glory of God, what does that mean? OK, this is the type of Christian knees that gets on my nerves. OK, these talk in this suffix like Riddle language to sound sophisticated and so spiritually mature when in fact I guarantee you they don't even have an actual answer. They just sound vague. It's like when you go to somebody and they talk in the. Riddle. And you're like, Oh my. That's so profound that's so deep. It's like you didn't really actually say anything you would applied everything, but you didn't actually say anything. I mean, am I tripping? Again, for the glory of God, what does that actually mean? What does that mean? Something go join a crusade. What does that mean? I don't understand what he's talking about. And see, he's the problem. He's not being direct. He's going around in circles. And then guys like me and guys who are around my age, they say what? What? Is this dude saying? What is he actually saying? He's not giving directions, he's talking. Kind of like a woman without. With my saying I implying everything and not actually saying anything. When I was in the military, my MTI, my supervisor, my Sergeant, Master Sergeant, chief, when they said they, they tell me creed, go here and do this. Do that. Do this this time. They would give me very specific instructions on how to do things. And I did it. They didn't say ohh in the to the to the to don't push forward the glory of God. What? What does that? See, I don't blame guys who are not religious and then they come to church and they hear stuff like this. And their response is like. This is getting weird. They don't. They're like, I don't know what this means. They're not given directions. Men like to be given specific marching order level instructions, and then you have guys like this who are out of shape, who are out of the game, who have no idea what the dating market is like, what they face. They have no idea they're the testosterone is low because they're out of shape and they're older and they want to tell us younger guys. Ohh if you want to be masculine, you gotta do with this. If you want to be masculine. Oh, you mean like you? I don't want to look like you. What are you talking about? I mean, where is the guy who's built like the rock who's telling men? Hey, you know what? Marriage is not what it used to be, and if you want to get married, you're welcome to do it. But be aware of the risks that you're all you're marrying the state as much as you're may. I have a commitment before God and I really take care of myself and I know what I'm talking about because I'm educated and I go to the gym and I take care of myself about testosterone high. Where is that guy at? Ohh, I guarantee he's not in the church, that's why. Because again, they're not giving specific examples. They're not being precise. They're not laying out a map for you. They're giving you a sphinx level Riddle. And then if you don't figure it out. It's your fault. Well, what are we doing, man? Like, this is the problem. This is why your men are checking out and on top of that, you tell them this happy wife, happy life, garbage like this guy right here. Who are gonna get into advice for young pastors and husbands? Ohh boy, let's get into this juicy piece of content. You know, it's really hard to be a young pastor. We have any young pastors, you know, every fight that Tammy and I had. I felt such immense pressure. Advice for young pastors and husbands. To make it work because I felt like the world was watching and marriage is hard enough, you don't need outside pressure on your marriage. There's enough internal pressure and I would go back to Matt and say. Quit worrying about, you know, whether or not you can preach on Sunday and just worry about whether or not your wife is right. Worry about are you wrong? OK, first of all, you should flip that because number one, I guarantee you it's not your fault. So make it your fault. But I guarantee you it's not your fault. Most people in general, especially women, and I'm not trying to pick on women. I'm just telling I'm describing you. I'm not attempting to insult you. I'm describing you. Most men are ignorant to the ways of most women. Most women are very insecure and they're unhappy with their appearance. They're unhappy with their lives. They're insatiable creatures. And so they then put that unto you, the man, to fulfill their desires. Which is unfair. But then if you can't do that, you're the bad guy. So not only do you have to take care of an entire church, but the austral also take care of this woman. And her kids? Not your kids. Because if they were your kids, they wouldn't be taken from you like they do in on divorce court. You'll find out real quickly how the the system actually works. Worry about how do I reconcile this and how do I lead my wife through this? Because I tend to not be present. I I'm future oriented. I'm vision oriented. And my wife is so if if I'm off, if my sin is I'm in tomorrow, my wife is on the tip of her nose. So we like she. She is right here. That's where she lives. And that's dangerous too, because big picture. She can't see around the corner. But then that's what I think. Why we make such a great team is I'm too far in the future. She's too close to herself, and so we we've had to work. What is this dude even saying? So he's pointing out the the his wife has no ability to see into the future or doesn't, or is too lazy to do it. I guarantee you she could if she wanted to, because most women are really smart, but they're lazy. Again, he's making it about he has to conform to her. This is not a biblical thing. Biblically, women are supposed to follow men. Problem is, that's not actually how it works, because women have something that men want and they use it against them. When they're single. Women use it against men, cause that's how they get a man to. Commit to them in the first place. And then when they get married, they don't turn that off and then use that sex against the man to leverage and henpeck him. To basically make him submit to her. And you can see this playing out right here in, in real time. I'm not making this up. And I would just say, I think it was probably year five or six. I just told Tammy I said. I don't know. What I'm doing like I don't know how to be a pastor. I don't know how to be a husband. I don't know how to be a dad. I'm learning all of these things on the fly. Oh, hell no. Never, never say this. You know, women will tell you if you ask the woman about. Ohh, do you want me to tell you all my emotions and whatnot? She'll be like, yes. Yes. Please be emotionally vulnerable with me. I wanna. I wanna care about you. I want you to let me in and then you let her in and then down the road she uses it against you. Don't. Don't try to debate me on this. I know this would be a fact. And anybody who says otherwise, you either haven't experienced it or it's happening and you just don't know about it. Ladies, please stop lying to me. I don't want to have this whole conversation. You should humble yourself. OK, I I know this. Stop gaslight. But again, why would you admit your own weakness to your wife? Dude, that's extremely unattractive. Don't don't ever do that. How is she supposed to submit to you if you don't even know where you're going? And you admit it? I don't blame her for not listening to you. I didn't grow up with girls. I didn't know what a period was. I did. I I didn't even know tampons existed. I, you know? So I didn't. I have two daughters. My, I'm. I'm in a new world, man. I have no clue about. That doesn't matter. You know how to talk. So our my home life was very male dominated. You know, my mom's not a a man. She's a woman. But but she was a she was my mom. Was a a boy's mom mom. And it takes a special woman to be a mother of boys. I can't look this is painful to listen to. Honestly, German, this is pain. This is painful to listen to. Ladies and gentlemen, I can't handle. How was this guy? Supposedly he admits he doesn't know what he's doing. And yet I was supposed to follow him with some wide, wise sage when I know where I'm going, I know what I'm doing. But apparently you don't. Sir, women are not that complicated. You just want to accept the truth. That's the problem. People want to pretend like ohh men are complicated. Ohh, women are complicated. No, not really. They're actually really simple. The problem is the simple truth is often the hardest to actually accept. And you might say, well, Austin, what is this truth you're talking about? Ohh. I've gone into extensive detail about it. I this is not my first rodeo. Right. Is not my first rodeo talking about female nature? Male nature, the church God, this is not my first rodeo. I've talked about it in deep in, in. Depth. I wrote a whole book on the subject. I I'm not new to this I. Men want peace. Quiet freedom. Women want security be provided for. And the ability and the freedom to spend the money, that's what they want. That is what women want. And do not sit here and lie to me either. A, you're an outlier or B you're a liar. You you could take the pic, but not too many people can actually be outliers. Oh my goodness. I still have half this video to go. Do I even want to do this? Sure. Too much. More like a stop. Of this. Because their heart has to just die everyday, you know? And so I didn't know. And so my my wife, their heart has to just die. Way back up a minute. What did you? Say go go back. If she's a. Woman but but she was a she was my mom was a a boys mom and it takes a special woman to be a mother of boys because their heart has to just die every day. This woman is not laughing with you. She's laughing at you because you're acting ridiculous. Gentlemen, do not. Get caught in the conversation about feelings and whatnot. You'll never win. Don't do that. Please that's like. Are any of you nerds out there that's like going into dark sides? Dimension and battling him on his home turf. You're not going to win. You know, and so I didn't know. And so my my wife came from 2 girls and a dad and he was a. Girls, dad. Oh, in other. Words. He was hen pecked and beta as hell. Emotional and. Well this is getting weird. I love the poorly educated. This is terrible. This is this man supposed to teach me how to be a man. This gentleman right here is supposed to teach me how to be a man. And not only a man, but a God fearing man. But yeah, he's been completely domesticated. He's been completely feminized. He's basically been neutered. And I'm supposed to. To him and his ilk about being a man, this is what a man is. Ohh hell no. Oh, hell no. No, absolutely not. Them gifts and cards and, you know, presents for everything. You know, I just thought of you today. I'm If a woman ever says, ah, she means you're pathetic. Just so you know, you're cute. Never, never be cute. Dogs are cute. Puppies are cute. Babies are cute. Small things are cute. You don't wanna ever be cute. You're doing something wrong. Like ohh my gosh you know? So I had to. I had to learn and I wish I would have said earlier. Matt, get rid of your pride and just admit you don't know what you're doing. What kind of masculine energy is this? First of all. It's OK to realize. Hey, you know what? I don't always know what I'm doing, but I know where I'm going. That's an important distinction, but he's not even making that distinction. It's all about. Ohh, I don't know what I'm doing, but I'm supposed to. If you don't know what you're doing, how the hell is anybody supposed to follow you? They shouldn't. I don't blame them for not following you. You don't know where you're going. Because I think as I was a leader, I thought I had to know and it just would have been so much easier to say, I don't know. Yes you do. Ohh my gin. Get off my get off my show you. Get off my show. This is ridiculous. No. Can you be a leader? You don't even know what you're leading the people to. What? Even Moses knew he was leading the Israelites to the promised land. You don't even know where you're leading people off. You can lead him off a Cliff. You wouldn't know the difference, and I was supposed to listen to you as to be a godly man. For my cuteness. I love the poorly. OK. Get off my show. I'm not. I'm not dealing with this. This is why men are checking out of the church. This is why dudes are saying I'll find someone who will lead me. Then I'm young. I want someone who's gonna lead me. I wanna find a real leader. Who knows where he's going. Not this guy. I'm not trying to pick on him in particular, but this type of guy who wants to say, oh, I'm a wise. And I speak and stinks like language at the pulpit. But then when I'm on a podcast, I admit that I don't know what the hell I'm doing and I'm making it all up and. And Sir, I guarantee you your wife knows and she does not respect you. I can guarantee you, and I don't blame her. I wouldn't respect you. You don't know where you're going. I know where I'm going. How is it me? As a 20s year old guy, I know where I'm going in life. I know what I'm doing and you don't. And you're probably 2 to 3X my age. How is that possible? Answer because you have to go and figure things out for yourself. And I just. Ladies, if you're listening to the show, can you come out here and can you explain to men that they need to actually know where they're going? I don't care if you're religious, not religious. That doesn't matter. You need to know where you're going with men and women alike. Do not like fake leaders. Big leadership. Makes you get despised. You are worse than someone who is just normal. Being a charlatan, being someone who's leading people off of a Cliff, and you don't even realize you're doing it, that's the definition of a lemming. You're just falling for the sake of following. Most people have the capacity to lead, but they can't even lead themselves, and they're out here leading an entire congregation of people. They can't even lead themselves, and they admit it. And yet they're leading other people. How is that possible? How is it possible to do that and get away with it? Answer because you do it under the guise of God. You say, oh, God knows, I don't know, but God knows. Ohh wow, that's really helpful. That's really gonna help people, man. I just. How can you how can you sit there and tell me that that's gonna work? And if I have to be the only guy saying this, if I have to be the only guy going? My own way. Then I'll do it, alright. I'll do it myself. Then I'll do it if I have to be the only one, then I'll do it. But I don't want to. I want you to decide for yourself. My right. Wrong. That's for you to decide. My friends, the modern church. Has mutilated masculinity. Because they've replaced it with guys like that who have no idea what they're doing and they admit it. And yet. You're supposed to follow them in the name of God. No, I don't think so. Oh, hell no. No, we ain't doing that. I'm not doing it. You could feel free if you want. I'd rather leave myself. And this is part of the reason why. We're seeing the shifts that we're seeing. And why I believe that a lot of churches have on either knowingly or unknowingly replaced God with a goddess and our goddess is women. Because apparently happy wife, happy life, has replaced the fellow God with all your my soul and strength. Apparently with your heart, soul and strength. Apparently it's been replaced. I I didn't realize that it happened, but apparently it has. My friends, I will leave the rest to you. Disagree. Agree somewhere in the middle you can hit me up on Twitter at sheep. Could shear. Leave your thoughts in the comments below. I encourage you to do so. At the end of the day, it is only in your power to decide what you're going to believe and to develop your own personal philosophy. I encourage you. To stay vigilant informed and to question everything that comes your way, because at the end of the day, you never know who's around the corner and. Trying to exploit you. I'm outta here please.