Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. Welcome into the show, my friends. We're going to make some bold claims today, and I realize a lot of people are going to be very upset. You're probably going to be triggered. In fact, you might even start questioning everything that you know about relationships, whether you've been dating, whether you're married, I don't care. You could be at any step, any phase. Because these principles are going to be exactly the same, I'm going to make a very bold hot take here. You might not like it. I'm gonna do it anyways. Uh, love is just a transaction. Love does not exist. More accurately, women do not love men. You know, men can we like to be hopeless romantics, right? We like to think we earn love. We pay for love. Of we're deserving of love. People like to throw this idea around. You don't know how many times I hear this garbage on the Internet. Ohh. You deserve this. You deserve that. You know, I frankly believe I'm in the business of believing that nobody deserves anything really. Unless you've actually earned said thing. You've. Made conscious efforts and you've sacrificed and whatnot. Then I can maybe make the case that you deserve or you've earned something, but deserve as an emotional thing. Earned is a logical stance. I'm here to assert to you today. Ladies and gentlemen. The sheep gets sheared podcast that one of the lies you're told in life. Is around love that love exists. All of us have seen the old Disney movies. The Time Warner movies, the. The paramount movies, all these movies, hallmark movies about love, like love, is all you need. The Beatles song, right, that if you have love in your life and everything is going to be sunshine, rainbows, unicorns and everything's going to be great, right? All your problems will be solved in one fell swoop. Better Bing bada boom. You're in business and you're happy. Yeah, I'm not convinced of that. I'm really not. And in fact, we're going to dive into that today because I could talk about opinions every which way to Sunday, but we're gonna let people talk. OK. Number one, here's what I here's the first thing I want to show you if you believe that love is free, give her the song from a back to the future. Don't the power of love I play it. But I got a copyright, so I'm not going to. Play it the song, but it's essentially the power of love goes, you know, don't need money, don't need fame, don't need no credit card to ride this train. That's the power of love. You know, this whole idea sounds great. It sounds good in theory. It really does. Here's a problem though. Let's say when the rubber meets the road, what do we really see? We see stuff like this. Now I click play on this, but it's just music in the background, so I'll read you what? Says says the boyfriend checklist. Anybody else seeing these things on the Internet? This is not a new thing, but I'm going to go through it. Perfect. Boyfriend checklist #1. Don't be too clingy. #2 does not want to rush things. In other words, doesn't expect me to give up the guts in the relationship. OK is accepting of my parents. I'm not really sure what that means. Your baby. Your parents are divorced or weirdos or something. Number four walks to the door, doesn't haunt for dates. You know what's great about these boyfriend lists? My friends is. This it tells you exactly what men they've dealt with in their lives tells you exactly which men they've tolerated, which men they've let have access to their bodies. All these it tells you exactly what dudes they've dealt with. 9 out of 10 women, Pookie and Ray Ray are fill up the almost the entire list. Hookie is the the drug dealer, the. The troublemaker, bad boy and Ray Ray is the guy that drove the hydraulic car. The guy who's a player, the Mac, the guy who runs game. He's like, you know, I'm saying like that. Oh, let's go back to this list. Not scared of my dance pee shooters, OK? You got like a. I don't understand that one. Is good to my little brothers. Telling on herself that she's into dudes who are no good number, what is? What is this 123-4567? Loves to watch movies in other words, likes to waste time. Eight helps me when I'm mad. In other words, he's my emotional tampon and listens to everything that I say and #10 supports me in everything. In other words, he gives me everything I give him back, stuff when I feel like it. 11 loves that I'm a tomboy and a little emo. In other words, I'm going to be a little masculine, and he's supposed to like. It next one loves me no matter what. Ohh, unconditional love. Time. In other words, I can treat him like crap. I can be emotional. I can move the goal post of what it takes for me to get him any intimacy. And he's supposed to just sit there and be happy about it? And then ohh look Ray Ray enters the building, not a player. See what did I say? Ray Ray enters the building and you have women in the comment section laughing because they all know what time it is. They know what they do. They know this. This has been them. They know this. This this is not uncommon. And if you think it's uncommon. Ohh, don't worry. We're gonna keep going because there's more to it than this. Let's watch this video. Oh, come on. Don't freeze up on him, brother. Come on. 

Dream boyfriend tweet goes viral or treat about a woman's list of traits for her dream boyfriend went viral. 

Hold on. Pause it, pause, pause, look. At this list. My ohh boy, my dream boyfriend. 6 feet tall, immediately disqualifying a lot of men 300 to 500 K. 

Oh, hell no. 

Right out the gate, we put money right up front. Very ambitious and driven. Again, ties into money. 37 to 33 we looked yesterday at the average amount of money that men make per demographic. Ohh, let's see 27 to 33. I believe the average was about 50K. The 60 K tops for the median. And she wants a guy to make 300 to $500,000 at 2733. Good luck with that. Now that's not going to happen. You're not going to get that. Let's see what else she got here. Brown eyes. OK. Weird. Loves New York City. What? In other words, he's a. City boy. Really love. Really funny. But not, but but a bit weird. Really funny, but a little weird. 

This is getting weird. 

Really kind and has a moral. In other words, he has to be really ambitious and driven and really hungry to go get her. But he's also gotta be a nice person when the good moral compass. 

Oh, hell no. 

This is the worst kind of discrimination. The kind against me. 

This is terrible. Not a trust fund, baby. He has to be a self-made guy. In other words, he can't be an inheritance case. So again, you're again little. Dude, you just can't make this crud up man. 

I love the poorly educated. 

It has good taste. What does it even mean? Good listener and planner loves to run and read. Loves me not just a little bit, not not just moderately, but has to love me a lot. What the? What is this man? What is this garbage dude? Ohh man. Ohh send it. Send it bro, this is ohh man. 

Viral by our lengthy list of dream traits 6 foot. So I'm off. I'm gonna shut that. 

Just I'll. Eat rest if. 

The message you want? Sure. Yeah, I'm done 6. 

Foot 300 to 500 K total comp. Very ambitious and driven 27 to 30. Ah, I'm done brown. 

Eye. What a loser. Who wants brown eyes? 

Guys, girls love guys with dark. 

Features you can have dark hair and blue eyes. 

I know, but brown eyes still aren't like if there's super hot guys with brown eyes. 

I'm not denying that, Bree. But they'd be hotter with blue eyes, yeah. 

You don't, you don't. Believe in this list. Well, it's just wrong. 

No, let's let's just garbage. 

Rest really funny, but a bit weird really. 

Well this is getting weird. 

I mean, let's be honest here. Does she have the right to a list? Yes. Yes, she has a right to have any list she wants. She said I don't have a list and I won't have to come on here and say that her list is ridiculous and it's not gonna happen. 

Kind has moral system, not a trust fund, baby, good taste, good listener and player loves running. Gross loves me a lot. It's not that crazy of a. List. Yeah, not. 

Really. You think it's 3? $100 to $500,000 total comp because she didn't put OK next to the 300. 

I'm going to think it's 300,000. 

I guess so. And that's not like crazy money nowadays. I don't think like 300. 

For 27 year old, what? What yo did he stay at 300 K was not that much money bad, OK. OK, I can. I can tell you definitely live in the world of the average man. 

That's crazy, I don't think. 

So yeah, the average salary in America so is like $45,000, I'm pretty sure. 

What do you think this list Bree? 

I don't think it's that crazy. I mean, I kind of. 

Of course he doesn't, you know, woman women agree with this list, man. They all want the same dude. And then what? That dude to be monogamous with them, make it make sense. 

Well this is getting weird. 

Agree with that except for the running. Yeah, running Running's crazy. I kind of would want to. 

'S full. 

Trust von baby I. 

Think maybe. Of course she was so you could divorce grape. Him. I'm not enough of this one, man. Ohh my goodness. Right. See. Where's the love in this? 

No, if you haven't. 

Ohh, hold on a second. Hold on a second. Let's go back to this list. Let me pull up this list again. Where is it? Oh, here it is. Where is the love in this list? Just a just a question. So in other words, if I'm 6 feet tall, I make this amount of money. I'm ambitious, I'm 27 and 33, which is a very small age bracket. If I have brown eyes, if I like New York City, if I'm funny, if I'm kind, if I'm not trust fund, baby. If I have good taste, if I'm a good listener and a planner. I like to run and I like to read and I love you a lot. Then I'll get some love. Where's the love? Where's the? Where? How is this not a transaction? No. I really want you to. I want someone to come on this show and the comment section on my my Twitter page at sheep get sheared. I want somebody to get in. My DM's go on my comment section and make the case as to how in the world this is not a transaction. I am giving you something in return for access to your body and for you to stick around. That's a transaction. I'm not saying the transaction is bad. I'm saying how could you not say this is a transaction? This is a transaction. This is the definition of a transaction. 

Oh my God. 

But how could you not argue this, ma'am? I don't understand it. You guys are goofy, man, why would you not look at this and say yes, this is a this for that I give you this. You give me that. That the transaction. Charity is giving a gift. This is not a gift. This is this is not free. Where is the love in this? I really want someone to give me an answer to that question. Where is the love and then the list like this? I don't understand it. Ohh, don't worry, we're not done yet. All of you think we're done. We're not done yet. Ohh no. Ohh no, my friend. We're done yet. In fact. We're going to look at this. Apparently this woman right here has a advice for men. We're going to listen. I have no idea what he's going to say. I have not watched this in advance, but out the gate. Look at these hoop earrings. Look at this makeup. Look at the filters. Look at the hair. I can only imagine this is the kind of woman I guarantee you has. Those like Wolverine, claw level nails too. Let's see. 

Talk to me. You have question and I hope. 

I was right. Look, it's right there. 

This is the worst kind of discrimination. The kind against me. 

Ohh right. I was right. Ohh man. OK, OK. OK. Let's actually listen to her. Now let's listen. 

Hope y'all got an answer. When the **** are you going to realize that your woman is usually the realest one on your team? See a lot of y'all be into this street **** and we all know what can come with that from the. 

OK. Any woman who talks like this is not wife material. OK, any woman who talks like this, I've met this kind of woman in the military. The woman who can't go like, in a sentence without using at least two swear words. These women are not wife material. I knew men in the military who thought this was sexy. Who died that they? Ohh. She's such a pistol. And then they married this woman and then she divorced him. I saw it two times to be exact. And that's just anecdotal. Not to mention that actual dudes, I don't know who do this stuff. Dude, anyone who talks like this is an automatic St. Walker recreational use only at best. 

From the hustling to the politics, that **** can get real serious and real deep, real fast. I don't understand why y'all don't sit back and realize that your woman is usually the realest one on your team. Have you ever sat back and peeped that when she gets, you know, hectic and you really need someone to talk to? It's usually your woman that you go to, you **** around and do some dumb. That or end up locked up for whatever reason. What's that first phone call? You usually make it. 

Locked up. This one's talking to poopy, man. Look at this crap. This woman's talking to pookie, the drug dealer, the red bro. Are you kidding me? 

This is getting weird. 

Ohh my. Look at this comment section dude. They don't realize until someone leaves them, they behind. Did someone not go to English class in high school? What is this bro? I realized real quick, that's why I made her my wife. Ohh. We gotta Gump in the comment section. Good job, Mr. Gump. Good job. Wish my ex would would have realized this too late. I. What is with people's punctuation? Did did no one go to English class, man? Oh my goodness. Got tired of being sucked into the guys. Ohh, you mean the people in your life who can you can actually relate to who aren't just gonna put their self gain ahead of you. This is disgusting. Bro, people don't. I knew my woman was the realest on my team. When with no. Oh, what the hell is going on? What am I looking at? What is this? These are low quality individuals right here. Man, these are uneducated lemmings right here. What is going on, man? Ohh we have a a fellow strag. Yes, girl. Louder for the ones in the back. In other words, we want more pookies. Give us more pookies. Bro ohh my goodness. Come on man. 

It's usually to your woman. But see a lot of y'all will go to bat for your boys so quick, you'll be ready to go to war with your woman over your boys without realizing she's the realest one on your team. 

No, she's not. She's the one. She's the one most likely to flake on me and take half my crud or or cheat on me when stuff gets bad. Ma'am, how can you make this case when statistically speaking? It is the women who file divorces and marriages. How could you make this argument knowing that statistically speaking, if a divorce happens 8 times out of 10, it was the woman who filed? If they're not college educated, and if they are college educated, it's 9 out of 10. The woman who files a divorce. How can you make this argument? It doesn't make any sense. How can you make this argument when they're the ones who jumped in abandoned ship? I don't understand. They're the first ones to abandon ship. When troubled Waters hit, what do you mean? 

See a lot of y'all don't even realize women's intuition is a ************. A lot of times we didn't already warned you about some of these, same as boys, that ain't going to be there in the end. 

Wait, wait, wait, wait. You're the realest ones out here. Excuse me. What? Wait, hold on a minute. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 

Are you talking to me? 

Are you kidding me? What is this dude? You mean to tell me you're the realest? You're the realest one out here. Yeah, you're a real piece of crime. This is a total. This is total lies. This is total lies, man. I cannot believe this. They want to act like they're up here, sitting around doing this all day. 

Business, business, business numbers is this working? Yes. 

They're not, man. All they're doing is finding a way for themselves to benefit, which they have total right to do. But how could you make this argument when, statistically speaking, it is the women who end relationships, whether it be marriages or non marriages? How could you make this argument that she's the realest one out here? When she's the one most likely to sabotage and ruin the relations. How can you make this argument answer? You can make this argument if you're a. Ohh, dating Pookie who got nothing else. To do but date straggles. Or B if you're probably over 30 and you're trying to check out and try to gaslight men. Or C. You use words like this to try to convince men to get with you. And have an echo Chamber of gumps and delusional girls in their comment section. I mean, what the hell? I'm done with this man. I'm much more. I have a whole that's not even. I'm not even a minute in the video and there's two minutes long. Ohh my this is disgraceful. 

It's getting weird. 

I love the poorly educated. 

I'm done with this, bro. We done with this? Women like to lie, dude, and to prove my point, here is a woman who says the exact same thing right here. 

What women say that men should never believe. I don't care about money. Hmm, if. You believe that? Will truly be punished in the long term, and let me explain why it's not as narcissistic as you think. A woman may genuinely believe that because she genuinely is a good girl and she believes in your potential as a man. The key is she believes in your potential. She believes in your drive, your. 

Uh, I'm pretty skeptical about that one right off. For rip, OK, I don't know about all that. 

Consistency and your constant passion for life. It's great to think that she can love you regardless of your ability to earn money in that sense, but it's not exactly how it works. The truth is, the number one reason for divorces is financials. 

And love you. Facts yes. 

Does matter, but more important is your drive. 

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. We're gonna let you lie on my show. I don't think so. No, no, no, no. No, no, no, no. No, it's not your drive. Women fall in love with the winners, and at the finish line. I don't care what you say. Well, Austin, not my girl. Well, Austin, not my wife. No, stop it. Get your anecdotal evidence out of here. I'm talking. The vast majority of women wait at the finish line for the dudes who cross, and then they say cool out of all these dudes across the finish line, I want that one. That's what they say, and they have full right to do that, but then they want to lie about this. No, no, no, no. No, no, no, no, no, no. I don't believe this for a second. Again, why are we lying? Why are you calling our other women for lying and then saying they're on only partially lying? That's called lying. 

And your consistency to try to have the competence and ability to get yourself out of a sticky situation having trouble financially is totally normal for anyone. And it's really more important and crucial for women to continuously be loyal and supportive to. Through these times, however. 

Agree. Hold on before she keeps going. She's right on that. But she's right about that. Ladies. If you want a if you want the best man you can get, you find the man with the highest ambition. You marry that man and you help him get there. That is, when you'll be the happiest. Not we're at the finish line because guess what at the finish line, he did all that without you. So why would he? Why does he need you now? He needed you when he was 20 years old and broke. And he had no other options. That's when he needed you. Now, when he's 35 and 40 been grinding for 20 years and now he has money and a house and his cars. Paid off and he has all these options now. He doesn't need you anymore. He isn't. He went to alchemy. He needed it. Then when he was down bad and had no options. Now he doesn't need it. Now we don't need it. So she's right about that, but hopefully she doesn't contradict herself. It kind of sounds like she's. About to do that. 

And but she will stop respecting you, supporting you, trusting you, and feel really insecure in your ability as a provider if you lose sight, drive and perseverance to get your relationship or your family out of a financial downfall. Which. 

Wait, huh? What does that even mean bro? Wait, huh? In other words, it's, in other words, it's it's conditional like we've been saying this whole show. 

Truly turns the woman on, turns her loyalty on, turns her respect for you on is that she needs to witness you every single day trying your best to be better. This puts you as the king of her empire. In her eyes. It isn't about money, but it. That kind of is. 

Ohh my. Ohh my goodness, what? So it's about money, but it's not about money, but she's loyal. But she's not loyal. What are you even saying, ma'am? What even is this? Again, where's the love element to this? Can anybody answer me? Where's the love? Where is the, where is the love? I'm not seeing a lot of love. I'm seeing a whole lot of. I am buying your love for a price. I am buying your loyalty. I am purchasing thou ****** tell me I'm lying. Please. I I want. I would love to hear a logical. Answer to how I am mistaken please. I welcome it. I'm not being facetious, I'm being serious. If you can make a case. I am welcome to hear it. Don't give me your emotional garbage. I don't want to hear that. Don't pay those arguments. Pathos is Greek for pathetic, and if? You want to. Be pathetic. Take your. Take your *** to someone else's channel. I'm not dealing with it here. No, we ain't doing that. But if you want to bring a logos or. Logic or eat those of credibility, A credible source in here. Then we can have a conversation. OK? Because I'm not seeing a whole lot of love here. I'm rolling up. I'm seeing a whole lot of. I'll buy love for $500. I'll. I'll take love. What is love for $500? That's what I'm hearing. I'm not hearing love. My love is free and I'm here to give it to you. No, no, I don't hear none of that. Now let's go back. Let's go back if you don't believe me, let's go back. Look at this again. This list. Maybe she's trolling. Maybe she's trolling with this list. But this is an example of what men actually fear to an extent, and I don't fear this, by the way. I don't blame women for having this list. Just don't be surprised when you don't find this guy, or if you do, then he only gets the guts and and dips because he's not going to commit to you. I I find it so funny when women wanna act shocked, like, oh, I can't believe this dream miracle hero Chad guy didn't commit to me. Why did he not commit to me? I'm so special. I had the best two naughty ever I could. I have the golden piece sleeve shout out to CGA. How is it that ** *** didn't commit to me? Answer Because there's 100. Other women just like you. That he's also gotten with or has the ability to get with the same girls that look like you dressed like you talk like you have the same mannerisms as you, how to sing everything, shop with the same place as you, get their brows done at the same place, get their both, get all, get their makeup from Sephora, all this stuff. They all want the same dude right here. 6 feet all 503 hundred 500K. Brown eyes funny, good taste in shape. They want that guy. Everybody wants that guy. So supplying the man with dictating when the supply is low and the demand is high, his buying power in the marketplace is very high. The price is going to be outrageous. I was having this conversation with my sister yesterday. We went out to go miniature golfing. I was talking to my sister and I told her we were having this conversation and she talks to me about her boyfriend and whatnot. I won't put her business out here in the streets, but what I will say is we had a very in depth conversation and I told her I said, look, you do what you want in your relationship, but just realize something. It's you need to know what you want. If you don't know what you want in your relationship. If you don't know what you're looking for, you can't be shocked and you don't find it. OK. And let's go back to this example. You want this guy, this this miracle Chad guy who's in shape, who's tall, who's got money? How do you appeal to this guy? Are you taking step to appeal to this guy? Basic sales says, hey, this is my clientele. This is the deal. I'm trying to close. How do I appeal to the customer? To get them to buy what I'm selling. Cause make no mistake about it, she is selling something in return for getting this guy. OK, I know you don't like those terms. I just put it in, but that's too bad, because that's just the way it works. Let's go back this list right here is a symptom of a larger corporate corporate cultural issue that corporations are capitalizing on. Is this right here? This is why a lot of men are saying so. Let me get this straight. I work really hard. Let's say I am this guy. Let's say I am 6 feet tall. I have I make half a million a year. I have brown eyes. I'm funny. I got good taste. I'm classy, I'm young. All this stuff. You. What makes you think you're worthy of me? Let's look that script for a second. Because, gentlemen, you will reach a point in your lives where you will say, OK, now I am in the driver's seat. Now I get to say what I'm not going to tolerate. You don't qualify for me anymore. You get to that place and you actually put in the work. You'll get to that place. You'll say you don't qualify. You don't qualify. You're over. You're out of shape. You're annoying. You can make you get to choose. Now you're in the driver seat now. Yes, you will reach that point. But then let's go back again. Women like this. Look at this. She's a blonde, white woman. You know how many blonde white women I've met? In my life. 

A lot. 

You know how many women I know who want a guy like this answer a lot. So let's let's put it like this. You know, how many men I've met that fit this description? None. Zero. I know guys who I know, guys who make this amount of money, but they're older. They're like in their 40s, fifties and 60s. They're not 25, they're not 27, they're not 20, they're not 33. They're not young like that. They're older. But again, even those guys were 4060 and 50. Why would they choose this woman? Why? What makes you think you deserve that kind of man? That he would say, you know what, I have all these options. I have all these women who want, who want me, Mr. Hero and Giga Chad. What I'm going to choose you and only you forever. Why should that man do that? I'm serious. Why should he do that? Make the case why he should do that. What does he have to gain by doing that exactly? Ohh kids surrogacy. He doesn't need that. Why doesn't he just follow the biblical bachelor lifestyle at that point? Right. Do whatever the hell he wants to do. He has the power now. But when I have the power, I need to give it back to you. I need to get into a government contract which is marriage with you. So then you get to dictate what I do with my money. You get to say, hey, if you don't do this, I'm going to divorce you and take half that money for myself and your kids. Well, all women do that. No, do a large amount of them at this point. Yeah. And can they do it? Ohh. You betcha. Ohh yeah. And anybody who says that they can't happen to them. 

Oh, hell no. 

I'm sorry, man. You're just wrong. It can, will it? Hopefully not. But can it? You betcha. Ohh yes. But again, let's what sounds better. Getting in a marriage with this woman or going the biblical bachelor lifestyle, what is better going and saying, you know what? I'm gonna. I want kids. I can get a surrogate. Full legal guardianship. I don't need to deal with the baby Mama bull crap. Who's to say then? I should get in a relationship with this person and not just her. In particular, she's a she's a symptom. She is the voice for millions of women who would choose this man right here on the screen. But again. What does this man have to benefit by being in a relationship with that kind of person? What does he have to gain? Why should he take the L? Make that transaction, convince me? Use your sales technique in marketing to prove to me why a man who fits this description should be in a relationship with you. Please, I love to hear it. And I don't wanna hear no shaming language. I don't wanna hear. No. Ohh, well, real man. No, no, no, no, no. We ain't talking about that. This is the real man. This is the real man right here. The 1% of the 1% guy. This is the real man. So I don't want to hear none of this if I hear one more woman say, well, real man does. Where are? Where are the men who say, well, real woman. I've never heard that. Not once. Not once have I heard a a guy say that. Now I hear guys say, well, a woman should do this and a woman would be beneficial if she did that. But I've never heard a man say a real woman does this. Maybe there's a trend. On the Internet that I haven't seen about that. But these women don't joke. They mean it when they say real men, as in, but then they wish existed, but they don't actually exist. They want a guy who's kind and caring, but also he's a shark and the corporate world. He all here hustling. Not compatible. It's like something I want oil and water mixed together when they only stay in separate levels distinct from each other. And one of the games I like to play called Crusader Kings 3. It's a great game if you ever want to build your own character. There's a list of traits you can use, and let's say if I want to go temperate, well, I. Can't also be gluttonous. Or if I want to be righteous, I can't also be sinful. So it all comes down to you can't have these opposite traits and, but that's what they want in the men. So my friends, where is the love? How can you not tell me? This is a transaction. Please, you have an argument? I'd love to hear it. But there's no guarantee that I won't hit you. 

With this love, the poorly educated. 

I might do it. But you know what? I welcome the case. My my ex page is open. My DMS are open on X at sheep gets cheered, hit me up over there the same. Name as the channel. You can hit me up over there. Make your case. I'm here for it. Leaving the comment section. Whether it's TikTok, YouTube, rumble, I don't care. Make your case. In the meantime, why you're trying to make this case to prove to me that love is not a transaction and that women don't actually love men, they're just in business. Men are in love, women are in business. In my opinion. But while you're trying to make this case to me, I invite you to do so. In the meantime, stay vigilant. Stay informed pushing everything. And I mean everything that comes your way. In the meantime, while you make this argument, I look forward to hearing it if you have. The guts to do it. I'm out. Peace.