Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared Podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. I want to welcome you into the. Show so my friends. The last couple episodes we've really been talking about the Christian Church and my criticisms. But whether it be certain pastors, certain philosophies and whatnot, and you know what? I think it's important that we talk not only about relationships, but we talk about the advice the young men get. From pastors. Now, not every pastor is the same. Just as not every person is the same. However, the advice tends to be pretty consistent because it's rooted in the same text now. I'm willing to. Admit that in general, the Christian Church does a great job, and I'm not here to tell you not to go to church. In fact, if you want to, I would encourage you to do that however you need. To realize that. There this as there is a light side to everything, there's always a dark side and the reason the dark side exists is because. People have to get paid in plain English, people have to get paid and at the end of the day it benefits them to not tell you everything. Whereas I'll tell you everything straight up. OK, I got nothing to lose. I. Got nothing to. Lose by telling you the objective realities of what's going on out here. I want to be honest and I want to build my reputation of being honest. That's why I wrote, I'll admit straight up that I have a bias. I wrote the book Biblical bachelor. I have a bias towards holding off on marriage, holding all that off until you've already established yourself, and then you can decide what you want to do after that. Because it's really easy. Before we jump into the videos and I give you examples of. What I'm talking about? I want to give a little bit. Of a disclaimer. OK, first of all. You need to understand that not everybody is going to tell you the truth. They don't know it that everybody has the context that I've found from being in the streets, being in the military, doing the things I've done in my life at a relatively young age. I found these things to. Be true. Now what they're also not going to tell you is that these pastors. Most likely are married #1 and #2. They've been married for. So they don't know what the modern day dating marketplace is. They don't understand how women are monetized. They don't understand the Generation Z women, the younger millennial women, the upcoming Gen. Alpha teenagers. They don't understand these people because they have been kind of living in their own universe. Which I don't blame you. It's kind of unavoidable to an extent. However, you will have the hands on experience that I have as a guy who's actively out here, dating, seeing these things, interacting with these people, and This is why I'm going to offer you a different perspective that you may not have, like in fact. I know people who have first heard my message. They thought it was revolting. They thought I was bitter in her, you know, add any objective that you want. When they started doing either a bought my book or B, they started to actually dive into OK. I mean it. Wait a minute, I'm going to really explore these with my own brain. I'm not just going to believe what anybody tells me, you know, little short story before we hop into the videos that I have prepared for the show. I asked this question today in my class of why people believe that that we. Should push. The status quo when it comes to social justice issues, political issues, scientific questions. But yeah, when it comes to religion, people often just take things at face value. Or they gonna leave you with open-ended answers? They give you very vague answers that leave you to fill in the blanks when you don't even know how to fill your own Social Security number in. And you don't understand these things, and I don't blame you. Nobody has all the answers. I don't have all the answers. But what I do have is a unique perspective. Now, with that out of the way, let's hop into this video. So let's hop into young advice. So here's what I'm talking about. OK, this is a video about. Advice for young men. OK, ladies, I'm sorry. I can't really speak to the female perspective. I'm gonna only see this from the male perspective because that's the way I can teach. So here's what we're going to do. We're going to hop into this right now. The title of this video is advice for guys on dating from the Desiring God channel. Shout out to them, fair use for entertainment and educational purposes. Let's hop in and let's get started. 

What would I say to a young college man who's dating a girl? I would say. That impulse towards pairing off is good from the Lord, but I would caution them. I think a lot of young men and young women want to create this unique semi covenanted space that under God doesn't really exist. I mean if you look at how God identifies relationships between men and. Amen. If you're in Christ, you're either brother and sister or husband and wife. And there's not really some middle place. And so I would encourage a young man, if you're interested in a girl, think she might be marriable spend time with her. Great. But I think in your mind, you need to discipline yourself to think she is my sister and the Lord. Right. And so first Timothy is clear. Treat older women as mothers. Younger women as sisters with absolute pure. Hey, you. 

OK, I gotta pause them right there. Number one, here's the problem I have with this, with dating. And what he's talking about. OK, here's what I want to discuss. First number one is this. This is what I was talking about before when I said that these guys, they don't understand the modern day marketplace, OK? They don't understand what the guys like me and the guys of my generation, even the young, older teenagers, they don't understand. Our dating marketplace, I I assume this man looks like he's late 30s, probably he doesn't understand what we're talking about, OK. Here's the problem. From a biblical perspective, I get what he said 100% here's the issue. People tend to lie a lot, especially when they have a lot to gain by deceiving you, OK or up playing the good aspects and virtues they have and downplaying their vices. The problem is a lot of women in dating today, I see them even at my so-called Christian College. I see them all the time. They dress like skeezers. They dress like Instagram models. They dress like TikTok thoughts. They dress provocatively with no modesty, no concern for men, which they don't have to. That's their right. It's up to them. But what they wanna do is they wanna come. Out here and live that happy life. Try to be that boss, babe. They want to live this feminist type lifestyle that feminism was offered to them, but at the same time as they act masculine, they act provocatively. They do things that are not traditionally attractive to men. They want guys like me. Who are more traditional and conservative? They want guys like me to be masculine, but only when they want us to be masculine. They don't want us to be masculine when it comes to checking them. They don't wanna count, they want. They don't want masculinity. When it comes to me putting you under my protection, which entails. Be protecting you from yourself and your own bad choices. They don't want you to be masculine when it comes to. Giving you more of a fatherly type of perspective, which is what a husband kind of does to an extent. They want you to. Be masculine. Know when it comes to paying for stuff. When it comes to taking them out. When it comes to being assertive, when it comes to making money, they want to be masculine men, but they don't want the accountability. They don't want the direction. They don't want the control that comes with protection, they. Don't want any. Of that, when they're young, when they turn about mid to mid to late 20s, early 30s to switch flips and they say, OK. Alright, I've been out here with Pookie. Been out here with Ray Ray. They treated me bad. I learned what I like now because I found out what I don't like. So now I'm going to go. I'm going to go join a church. Or maybe I've been in church pretending to be this nice person pretending to be this person of a paragon of virtue. But now. I'm going to be out here and I'm going to actually take it seriously now because now God has revealed to me what I actually want, and now I'm going to go for that. Meanwhile, when she finds let me go back, when she finds a guy like this in the church. She'll tell him. What I just told you, but she's going to change it up and say all these dudes treating me bad, they took advantage of me. They exploited me. They used me. She's gonna make herself the victim. Cause when someone makes himself a victim. There's this whole thing in society that have victim blaming. In other words, if you're the victim, you automatically have 0 accountability for anything that happened to you, which is completely rubbish. Now, I'm not saying that it's all your fault. That's not what. I'm saying at. All, whether it's. 10% or 100%, everybody has to take accountability for the things in their life. I don't care if it comes down to what you wore. I don't care if it comes down to the things you said. I don't care what it comes down to. That's like me going into a dark alley in the middle of the night, drunk and being like, ohh. Dare you rob me? I'm sorry I put myself in the position to get robbed. Now, in a patriarchal society, we would tell women this stuff. Hey, if you go out there looking like that, you can if you want. Just be aware I can't control the men's actions who are out there who might do things to you. Am I? Justifying it no. I'm saying I can't control and I can't. Do anything about it. In other words, you show the win and you reap the whirlwind. That's the problem. And so when he comes down to the advice like this. This he's leaving that part out. He's making it sound like everybody is just a pinnacle of virtue. For example, mother and sister. First of all, that's kind of gross that that I don't like that, that that's kind of weird. Second, what the thing that makes no sense to me is what your scissors and Christ's been doing out here in these streets with Chad, Tyrone and Pookie and Ray Ray. And these are the types of these different men that we. Talked about on this side of the. Internet. What's she been doing with those guys? No conversation about that present. From what it seems, and in this video is not over yet, but this is what I'm talking about, is they're leaving parts out or they're being subtle about it because they don't want to offend people. I don't care if I offend you. I'm not trying to, but if it happens, I'll let. I'll let the chips fall where they may. Now let's get. Back down to this. 

You don't fool around with your sister because that's nasty, right? And so you go. I have to treat her with purity. I have to treat her like I would want someone to treat my baby sister. Which what would that look like? 

Ohh my fearless. 

It would mean. They use all their resources to help her be all that she's meant to be under God. Ohh no. 

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I I gotta rub my I gotta rub my temple for a second. Look, here's the problem with this crap, OK? He on principle alone, he is very traditional and is not mistaken. The problem is he's ignoring the entire backdrop. He's ignoring the fact that these people are are have skeletons in their closet. They made mistakes. They're not who. They say they are. Let's take this for example. OK, let's say you hold on, let's. Say you're a. Young guy, maybe you mid 20s, early 20s, late teens, whatever. You're a younger guy and you want to get married. You don't want to go out there, do you? Clubbing. Bar hopping. You don't wanna do none of that. You want to get married, you want the 2.5 kids in the house and the car and the dog and whatever. That's what you want, OK? When he's talking about the the the sisters in Christ and stuff like that, here's the problem, OK. Ohh women can go to church on Sunday. Wear a nice sun dress, look pleasant and nice and say please load. I'm game. Oh Hallelujah. And then drop back on Monday. I'm the dude at the club. Dino on on Tuesday and get her cheeks busted open by Tyrone. I'm sorry. This is a family show. I'm not trying to be vulgar, but this is the problem. People are double dipping the system. They portray this image of themselves that they want to be, but then they're not. And they don't get. Pulled out on living this double life. OK, I'm not saying that men don't do that. I'm saying. Most men can't do that. Most men. Can't do that. They can't just go out and get any woman. They want they. Can't do it? A woman can get pretty much any dude she wants to flirt with her. Give her attention and validation, and potentially get the guts that almost any dude could do that. I mean, any woman can get any dude to do that. Almost. OK, men can't do that. That's why this whole notion of body count is so stupid to me. We're like who? Who? Welcome menu, please. High body count. Because I have to have something to get a woman to sleep with me. I got to be rich. I got to be handsome. I got to be successful. I have something I have to show up. When can you show up? Men can't just show up. I'm not trying to get you off the tracks here, but when it comes to this kind of behavior with oh, you know, big her everything she can be, she could even be that for herself. And you want me to do that? Why? Why should I do that? Why do I have? To take the L. Who is to say she deserves what I'm supposed to give? Some people might deserve it. Most people don't, but he's not talking about that. Let's. Thank you. 

So I encourage her to go to church. I encourage her to be around other women who inspire her. I encourage her to pursue the Lord. I celebrate her victories, but I don't try to take that from her or lead her like I'm her husband. I'll talk to young men sometimes. That was like I'm dating a girl. How do I lead her? I've already fused our quiet. Times together and I'm like, I don't know what that means, man. Like, you're not a leader. You have no stake or claim in her life. She's a sister. And you're a brother. 

This is what fathers are supposed to do, but because there's such. A lack of. Fathers, due to the the gynocentric society that's pushed men out of the family structure. This is not pleasant anymore. Men don't try to lead women unless they submit to your control, OK? Do not be out here trying to lead people who want to be free. Do not do that. You will drive yourself insane. Don't do it. These analogies are so uncomfortable, too. I don't blame people who are more unfamiliar with the church. This is really weird stuff. This is like some Game of Thrones level stuff. And This is why people are kind of off. Put by this. 

Now, are you starting to enjoy time together? Do that. And then I give them Romans. Make no provision for the flesh. Right. And so I tell them, hey, be private and public. Ah, what? Spend time with her, but do it with a group of friends or spend time with her. But do it or in a coffee shop or at a restaurant where you're much less likely to grope each other. 

Oh no. Oh, in other words, just give money to the to the restaurant industry or the the corporate pimp and just give them the money, man. Ohh this. See, this is the problem. They're not up with the times, man. We don't take girls to. Dinner no more. This new thing called Tinder and and and UM the bumble and hinge, Netflix and chill. What world are you living in? No one does this anymore. Restaurants are going broke because men are saying I'm done with this crap while I take this woman to dinner when I know some do. Got it for free while. I do this. See, this is the whole problem I have with. OK, This is why I wrote this book. You want to know why I wrote this book? Because I know men in my life who. No, you know what? I'm not gonna put. Their business out. On the street. But here's what I'm going to do. The reason why I wrote Biblical bachelor is because of guys like this man. I don't know him personally. I'm not just picking on him, but here's what I'm talking about. This message of oh, you need to marry a room before you tell her what the hell to do. You lose all your leverage in marriage, Sir. What are you talking about? You this is this is out of control here. Back in the day. This probably worked this. All worked no more. This doesn't work anymore. Men don't have leverage in relationships like that. No more. Women are the ones pushing for marriage because they realize as soon as they. Get the marriage from. You they have leverage over you. And for anybody who wants to say that I'm lying. If you don't and you're married. OK, go put your woman in check right now. Next time she tries to tell you to do something, tell her no, I'm not gonna do that. You do it, woman. And in fact, make. Me a sandwich while you're at it. She gonna go get the divorce papers or tell you to go get a therapist, or she gonna let you know? Hey, well, I don't think so. I guarantee you. Go check it right now if you think I'm lying. Go to your girl right now and say hey, please. I'll make me a sandwich. No, I'm serious. I'm not joking. Go do it right now. If you think I'm lying, go do that right now and see what she says to you. If she says yes, OK, then maybe you got leverage. Maybe she still cares about you. She says no. It's a rap. You're done. You live in all your relationship is our life support and you're out here telling me and guys of my generation what we should be doing when you are complete and. Like step in your relationship. You failed, Sir. Just because you're in a relationship does not mean you're successful. If you're hand-picked and you're getting no sex or nothing, you failed. You did not win. 

All right. 

How long are we into this? How much time I got left on this? Oh, boy, we ain't even done yet. I might just. There's how much work I. Take of this before we go to the next one. 

Right. So I say go someplace public to be private, don't square off into each other's bedrooms. Dorm rooms. Stay out of that space. Make no provision for the flesh. You get out in the place where you can talk about things. That are wholly and good at encouraging because. 

Why would I do? All this talking, look, if you don't write. That I pause. It it's just the way it is. It's all fair use works and. I don't see this is the problem dude, this does not work anymore. This is in the 1950s or 40s or 30s. Dude say where does say working no more? If you're not getting this, somebody else is. I don't care what you say. You don't know. What's the fact? I'm not shaming anybody. I'm just sick of people lying. I'm sick of people lying. It makes me sick. Make no provisions for the flesh. Or in other words, you gotta pay top. Dollar to get. Married. And then see how it works. Why? Would you do that? Why would you do that? That's just so stupid. I don't understand this. You are leading men to the slaughter. What are you doing it on purpose or not? I don't know. But you're a leading men. Who? The slaughter. That's like saying here, Oprah here. You gotta buy the mystery box before you know what's in it. It could be gold or it could be a lump of coal. But you know what? It's. Up to you. You gotta pay for the blocks. 

Ultimately, if you are going to marry. Hear that sexual desire? Tension, all that's good. But when you're married, a good percentage of your time is just going to be hanging out. And so if you hit the gas on expediting the physical part, you've missed what dating is for. And that is to see do I like hanging out with this person? 

Oh my goodness. OK, first of all, he just told on himself, OK? He just told. You that you're not going to get a whole lot of. Sex in your. He just said that he just said that and 2nd. The more you talk, the more the woman knows exactly how to manipulate you. Now, I'm not saying that she's evil for doing that. That's how we would survive. And that's how they've always operated. I'm not telling you that to make you resent women or to. Make women bad they're not bad. The problem is he just tore on himself, so I gotta do all this and then maybe I might get some intimacy. Wow, what great advice. First of all. I I notice a lack of base in this man's voice #1 huge red flag second. My guy, why do you sound like these blank if if you're under. If someone's like pressuring you because this sounds so scripted. This sounds so. Unbelievably scripted, this man sounds so ahead and packed. It's unbelievable to me. 

So that's the piece I would say push this one back, right, hold off from anything physical so you can evaluate are we made to be with one another? Do we enjoy each other's company? Would she be a good friend? Would I want to hang out with her for the next 30 years? And if that's the case, the physical will naturally follow after you've gone through the Covenant of Marriage. So that's what I would tell him is live in the tension of you have no claim in her life. Trust her with God. You treat her with purity. And then as you get to know her emotionally, you start to connect and go. I think this is the one. And then you can enter that Covenant of Marriage. 

30 years. 

And you're off to the races. 

Ohh my emotionally men do not go on that emotional playground. No, no, no. Do not go on that emotional playground. You're the problem. We as younger guys have been programmed to believe that women like emotional men. Women hate emotional men. They despise them. They see them as weak and for anybody who wants. To come in here and. Call me a liar. Ohh no. Austin, my woman says. She loves how much I care. And how much I talk. About my feelings. And I cry all over her, over her chest and how I'm crying. And I'm I'm a I'm a weak. Person. No, she doesn't. She's just saying that to manipulate you, you ****. So you wonder how you gonna wake up to what's happening to you? You probably are off with the work husband right now. You're goofy. What are you talking about? Ohh man, see this is the problem dude. We are living in a reactionary time. We're living in a reactionary time. I was supposed to pay through the nose and then if I'm lucky, I get what I want. What kind of business is that? What kind of business does that? Make no mistake about it, you are a business. Your Social Security number is a business and you're out here just handing it away for free like it's nothing. In other words, I can't tell her anything. She can do whatever she wants, but then when I marry her, she gotta listen to me. So in other words, you set the terms up front that you're not in control, and then all of a sudden you want to then take control. What? What a stupid advice is that that's terrible. All right, we. Got one more video that I wanted to show y'all today. How to be a godly man from the cross Point City church. Shout out to them. Fair use. Let's let's see what you got to say. 

It's almost like God knew what he was doing by putting us men as the spiritual leaders in our homes and and in our marriages, right? Which guys can I say, doesn't mean that you're large and in charge. Anybody does what you says. No. Being a godly man means that you give you serve and you sacrifice and you provide and you protect and you take responsibility for the good of those other people that are living in. Your house. 

OK, first of all I want to pause right there. He makes a great point. He makes a great point right out the gate. I agree with him on this. Here's my counterpoint. Why does that equation always have? To mean women. Why do you have to do all? That for a. Woman. Necessarily. You all you have to give to get that is a law of nature, my friend. If you wanna make money, you gotta give something of value. If you want to get opportunities, you gotta give people a reason as to why you're worthy of said opportunity. That is life. She's right there. But here's what I don't understand. The same thing applies to women, but yet what is she giving you? That's what I want to know. What is she giving to you? What does the woman give you? Because if the answer is, you don't. Give you anything? Well, then you're. Telling me you're a parasite? Because the symbiotic relationship means you give me something and I give you something. And if you're not giving me anything, well, then you're a parasite. And if for anybody who wants to sit. Here and tell Austin. Should be. He is man. He gave you kids. No, you gave her kids. Her home was barren. She was bleeding every month, not getting Jack. I gave her my seed. I planted the seed. She just incubated it. You take that one to the bank. Let's continue. 

That's what godly men. Well, so man, that's what I want to challenge you to do as men who make up cross Point City Church, I want to encourage you and challenge you out of love. To be godly men. To love Jesus more than anything else in life. To love your wife like Jesus loved his church and you give yourself up for that woman no matter what it means. 

Ohh my goodness no. Look, gentlemen, if you're in a marriage, you're kind of stuck. I'm not going to sit here and tell you to disagree with what he just said. But here's my question again. Why do I need to? Die on the cross for her every day. What? Does she do that? Deserves me doing that. If the answer is nothing, then I'm. Not doing it. Austin, you selfish. Yeah, I'm selfish. Austin, why would you say that? Because it's true. I I break my back, I'd sacrifice. I do all this just to give it to somebody else who's I can appreciate it statistically, because 80% of divorces are filed by women. Why would I do that? OK, what else you got, Sir, we're less than a minute in and I'm not liking enough to start so far. You're hitting some and you're you're striking on some. 

You give your life over to discipling those kids and pouring your life into them and showing them what it means to follow your Lord and savior. And if you will do that, there is a great probability that all those people in your house are going to follow you. You be godly men. 

Statistically, that's not entirely accurate. I'm just saying. Look at this depresses you. I can't help you, this is just the way it works. OK you want me to sit here and tell you that everything he's saying is right and I shouldn't question it when you're. Part of the problem. 

And then young, single man in the room, can I just challenge you in love start that now. 

Oh, here we go. Oh, here we go. Start what? What? 

Start this now. 

Start what now? What? What are you talking about, Sir? 

I know some of you young, single dudes. You're like, bro. No, girl wants to really date me or be in a relationship. With me, can I? Give you some. Advice and I things don't help you. Are you ready? Godly women are not looking to date boys. 

Ohh here we go. So in other words, you made my point, but now you want them to double down on their stupidity. In other words, yeah, he's right. Women don't want men that they see is beneath them. He's 100% right. He was a problem. So I build myself up from nothing. I create something for what? To give it to you to. Give it to give. It to her. Why in the world would I do that and for only one woman, when in the Bible there are multiple examples and God never says that monogamy alone is what you should do. By the way, he says he hates divorce, but people don't agree with divorce. But they'll give up multiple marriage. Why? Because the government, that's why. And because the guys like not him in particular. But in this kind of philosophy, this is the problem right here. 

They're looking for godly men. Boys are what society often says are men OK boys are. All about them. Their pride, their ego, their influence, their power, their money and just selfishness. 

Pause. Pause. OK. He says that women don't want boys and he's saying that being a boy means having an ego. Having pride having this stuff right? Dude, why did you choose those men? You didn't choose those. Men every day. Of the week. What are you talking about? Women choose those men every day of the week. Why do you think the Winlock is out of control? Why do you think that so many women are birth control? Why do you think someone would go to the club and go to the bar and go to all these places and go on Instagram? And tick talk. And only fans what are? You talking about? What do you think they're sugar babies? What has been talking about? You're selfishness. Women like that. You're like one of the men who have that behavior, and yet you're blaming us. You're saying women don't like those men, but why are they choosing with them? Why are they fornicating with them? Why are they choosing them? What are you talking about? Even these godly women I see, they still find these men attractive and they have to convince themselves they don't want them. They want the good Gump who's always been there, who's always been available to her, and she's never chosen him. I'm not mad, by the way. I'm just passionate because this is the problem I have with the church is they push this advice and then they wonder why the men are hen pecked, why they leave, why they're not there because you are giving them the advice. They actually understand. All these dudes have seen entertain all these dudes, have seen the right pill. All these dudes have seen these kind of dudes. Come out here. Kevin Samuels entertained all these guys. Have seen these men, so they know what you can. Actually, what? The flip side is they know they're lying. Let's continue. 

Pure selfishness. Godly women don't want a guy like that, so life is still all about you. I would say you need to grow out of boyhood and embrace manhood. 

OK. Oh for gods. Oh, in other words, being a man means. I I just put everybody else before me. Or in other words, you want me to be broke. You want me to be a loser? Just keep. Let's just keep going. 

Young single dudes take some responsibility for you. And get a job and start providing and get out of the parents house and and start getting out there and and doing life on your own. Love Jesus serve him. 

What does that have to do with me? What the hell does that have to do with me? Being a godly man, that's just basic adulting. That's nothing to do with God and everything to do with, hey, stop being a broke, worthless piece of crap and actually do something for yourself. That's so-called selfishness. You just talked about that ego, that pride and whatnot. That's what pushes people to actually achieve in life, the ambition. Hustler's ambition shared the $0.50. That's what he's talking about is bad, but then says we need to have those qualities. What are you talking about, Sir? 

Prioritize the good of other people and I can guarantee if you'll start doing that at some point along the way, you're going to meet some godly woman who's going. To look at you and go, I've been looking for a guy like you. 

Ohh my good. See, he makes a great point and then proceeds to make a really bad point. OK. Yeah. Here's the problem. Giving is great. Yes, but you have something to give in the 1st place. 20 people are so obsessed with giving to other people, yet they're broke. They have nothing to give. They're empty. Well, trying to give water and now they're giving us dust. You need to have something to give. But people aren't even there yet. And then you're only going to give and on top of that, you didn't say the woman going to come through and say, oh, we're looking for a man like you. Yeah, right. Now, he wasn't looking for that guy a year ago, two years ago, three years ago, five years ago, that girl wasn't looking for a godly man. Then she's trying to get pookie to become a godly man. You trying a guitar, wanting to be a godly man. That's what she was trying to get to be godly. Trust me, I've met these kind of. Women I have. 

Up until now, it's just been a bunch of silly little boys and wow, I've actually found a godly man, someone. 

Ohh. In other words, if I don't agree with you, I'm a little boy. OK. I'm sorry. That's false. No, I'm not going to let. You get away with that. In other words, if I don't agree with you, I'm not a man. I'm a little boy. Well, these so-called little boys out here. We're making good money. We're out here banging a lot of good ****. Hot chicks. I'm sorry, man, this is the way it is now. I'm not saying that one way is superior to the other way. What I'm saying is what he's saying is just not true. He acts like the whole male suicide of the Internet doesn't exist. He acts like guys like Roll Tomassi, Kevin Samuels and and. We don't exist. No one's heard of these men. Everybody's heard of these dudes are seeing a video. On the Internet. About these guys or or men like me on this side of the Internet, everybody has seen us. So this whole idea of it's either. Your way or being. A loser. That's just not true. 

On who gives and serves and sacrifices and cares and protects and provides and takes responsibility and young single men. Here's what I'm telling you, man. If you will do that now, if and when God gives you your own family someday you will be ready to lead them in the ways of Jesus. Men be godly men. Man, our world needs it more. Than ever. Men who will step up and give their whole hearts to Jesus Christ for his glory, for the good of our families, for the good of. Our world. Amen. 

Ohh boy OK. You know what? He's he. Ladies and gentlemen of the sheep Get sheared podcast. Do you see my frustration? Do you understand my righteous anger when it comes to the the this these ideas that are pushed that either you agree with me, you will you agree to be a Gump, or you are just out of luck? No, I'm sorry. I'm not gonna. Follow in that. That's not the way it works. There is always another option. Being a biblical bachelor, that's another option. Going your own way, that's another option. Fund leverage and options in your life so that you have the ability to decide what you want. You're not forced or or tunnel visioned into one way or the other way you're not pigeonholed into one lifestyle that you don't ever explore. Any alternatives? No. My friends. Do you have anything you want to say you disagree with? You think I'm fair? Foul. You can go over my. You got any comments section? If you're watching the video, if you're listening to the podcast, you can go over to my ex page at cheap kit sheer. Hit me in the DM's or you can whatever you respond to. Any questions that I raised about the church? You're welcome to do that. I welcome the conversation as long as it's respectful. I I welcome it my friends. I encourage you to stay informed, stay vigilant, question everything that comes your way, because you will only stand a benefit by using your own brain. My friends, I'm out of here. Enjoy your day. I hope you learn something. Hope I gave you some. Food for thought. The rest I leave to you. I'm out peace.