Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared Podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. Wanna welcome you into the show so you know. Recently I've been actually kind of relooking at my my book that I wrote a while ago, Biblical bachelor, and I thought to myself, you know. I tend to be very critical of the Christian Church as a whole, especially when it comes to marriage, because I've seen and I'm not. This might be anecdotal evidence, however. I have not ever heard a pastor give. The real, uncut truth about what happens out here in the dating marketplace, I haven't heard them discuss why. For example, the divorce rate is super high. Why? They think they're immune to the phenomenon that we're seeing in the sexual marketplace. But you know what? I thought you know what? Maybe I'm being too harsh. Maybe I need to stop speaking for people as a whole demographic. And maybe instead I should let other people talk for themselves. Though in the spirit of transparency and not. Putting the opposition in a box, I have decided that today what we're going to do is we're going to take the message right from the horses mouth. We're going to be reviewing the video today of Pastor Mike Driscoll. I've actually been in this man's church. I've been in this man's church before. He has a seminar about real men, so-called. First of all, not calling real men. As soon as I hear the phrase real men, I immediately know you're pushing a scam, OK? I immediately know that you're only going to fixate on one type of masculinity, and I. I don't want to tell men what to do on this show. This show is not meant to tell you how to be a man. Tell you how to be a woman or anything else. I merely want to present to you different ideas, philosophies, approaches and let you make a decision on what you want for your life. That is not my choice. That is not what I want to tell you. What to do? Men have told that every day of the week, here's what you should do. Here's what you will do. Here's what I want you to do, and who could who could handle all this garbage? Right. So that's. Not what I want to do today. Today is not meant to tell you how to be a man you can agree with what he's going to say. I'm not watched this whole video, by the way. I only looked up a little bit of what he said. And I found the video that I think is gonna be really juicy. He talks apparently about Andrew Tate, and he talks about the Christian view and he kind of ties it all together with the manosphere, the church, and everything else. So this is what he says the video is about. So I'm curious to hear what. He has to say about that. As those of you who may, if you've seen the show before, you know that because of Fair use purposes, I need to stop the video every once in a while to give commentary and for educational and entertainment purposes now. If you want to. Watch the whole thing completely uninterrupted. You're welcome to do that. As I will have the video on the screen, you can watch it for yourself or interrupt it if that is what you wish to do. However, because of copyright purposes, I cannot do that. So you want to wait here. Here's what I'm going to do. I'm going. To put the video right now. Alright, I'm gonna share a screen right now if you wanna go watch this video without my commentary right now before you hear my commentary, you can go right ahead. But I gotta pause for fair use purposes. So without further ado. We are. You're going to hear the approach of a biblical bachelor. Term, I phrase a lifestyle I practice and we're going to see how it compares to what you may be hearing in the church near you. The sit back, relax and come with me to the world of the pastor. Here we go. We have two crises, 2 simultaneous crises. Number one, true or false. The young men are not moving down the continuum. They're not. They are delaying their responsibilities and maturity as long as possible. That's not wisdom, that's foolishness. We have created this indefinite life stage it used. To be that. Adolescence or young adulthood was kind of in your teens, and then we moved it into your 20s and now? We've moved it into the 30s. OK, right off the bat, he's making a very good point. He's making a great point right out the gate that the he's making a good point right out the gate that a lot of men have this failure to launch syndrome. They have this and this is not completely young men's fault as a young man, I want to tell you this isn't completely our fault, but nonetheless it affects us and it's something that we have to deal with. Now, millennials dealt with this before my generation. Did but none. Plus, there's this realization of I can't do what my grandparents did. I can't just go buy a house right out the gate. I probably saddled with student loan debt. I probably have maybe some credit card debt. Maybe my parents were kind of poor and I had to start from Ground Zero. Maybe I'm dealing. I'm fighting. I'm swimming upstream. In other words, there's no grease for the skids. There's no butter for the toast. I gotta work really hard, and it's gonna take me longer to do what my grandparents did relatively easily. And that's just due to the economy that's due to. Problems that are just outside of us that has nothing to do with you has everything to do with the society, but it affects you and so you have to adapt accordingly. That is why I don't believe that's why people wanna push marriage to an extent, because it's two out two incomes, OK? Sure. But not a lot of women want to actually do that, and I don't blame them for not wanting to do that. Who wants to work really hard if you don't have to? That's just a reality. I'm not gonna sit here and put ethics or morals on that, cause there's no point. People are going to do what they want to do and they're not going to do what they don't want to do, and I don't blame women for being a sugar baby as opposed to marrying a guy who's broke. OK, so let's keep going with what the. Pastor says keep going. The average man is over 30 when he marries for the first time. That means for 30 years he's been single and it's not a sin to get married later. But it is a sin if it's because you're irresponsible and you don't want to grow up and take on masculine responsibility. OK, I I gotta pause them right there again. OK, first of all, this idea that masculinity is tied to marriage and whatnot, I don't agree with that. I don't. Because if anything, it's very masculine to say, hey, this is what people are telling me to do. But I'm gonna go out there, and I'm gonna do what? I want to do instead. That takes guts. Now, is it gonna be foolish? Yes. I'm not saying don't listen to people. I'm saying that if you want. To forge your. Own path that's very masculine going with the flow. That's not masculine. Now being defiant just for being defiant, that's kind of stupid. But if you just want to forge your own path, that's not. That's masculine, OK? Now again, masculine responsibility can to be tied to a relationship, but that's not exclusive to that. So I would rebuff that a little bit. But I hear what? He's saying let's keep going. This is why men who are godly and wise are probably going to get married. Younger than the other guys. OK, here's OK. Hold on. I got to stop right here. OK, hold on. I I gotta stop right there before we keep going. I realize I pause a lot. I told you why. But here's my thing, OK? Young people getting married. I have friends who are my age. I'm still in my early to mid 20s. I have friends that are married OK and their marriages are great and I love them and I respect them. Here's my thing though, that is not a one-size-fits-all #1. There's a lot of hard work tied to that #2A. Lot of marital difficulties. As well. OK, marital finance issues is the number one problem in marriages is money. OK? And a lot of women out here, they don't want to build with a guy. And I don't blame them. Like I said before. More so, he's making it sound like it's just a male problem. It's not just a male problem. In fact, most men would probably get married if they could, but they can't because the marriage marketplace is just not there for them. Women want winners from a biological, evolutionary standpoint. They want winners, and if you're not a winner. They don't want you. OK. I'm not saying they should want you. They shouldn't. I don't care about. Should, woulda coulda's talking about what is happening right now. I don't care about that. What women should do that. Men should do that now. Forget that crap. I don't care about that. I care about what's actually happening and part of the problem with the church today is they are not addressing what I just told you. They're not talking about the dynamics of the sex or the sexual marketplace. They're not talking about the monetized marketplace where women are making money off of these people. They're not talking about how women are selling. Deep pictures how women are going on only fans how women are. They're not talking about these things. I don't know if I'm not aware because they just live in this bubble or because they just don't want to talk about it because they could mess up their whole racket. You know, other interesting, interesting sides. Note, I've really gotten into watching The Sopranos recently on HBO. Fantastic series, Fantastic, The Sopranos and one of the things I know is in The Sopranos is Tony Soprano. The main character played by James Delfini. May he rest in peace. It's really interesting to me that Tony Soprano brings in this idea of seeing a scam. He's a mobster. OK, so he sees when people are getting scammed. He sees when people are trying to pull one over on you for financial gain. And so when I go, let me share the screen again when I see guys like this. And it's not just mark, I don't know. Mark, I've heard him preach and he's not a bad guy. From what I see, he's not. A bad guy, but. He, like many other people, push this idea of marriage because guess what? The church is built on marriage. The church is built upon families, and the church takes tithes to support their business. So people who are more likely to tithe are married. Men and they're more likely to tithe more because they're statistically going to have more money. That's why he's not talking about divorce. That's why he's not talking about the downsides of marriage, because it benefits the church financially to incentivize marriage. OK. That's why I tie it into The Sopranos. Because they're this whole shakedown rocket. No, I'm not saying they do it with malicious intent. I'm saying that this is the side they won't tell you. Because they're not going to just live with their girlfriend. They're not just looking for a good time. They want to have a good marriage, raise a good family, leave a good legacy. One of the crises we have is young men are literally frozen. They are not moving forward, they're not. They're not getting jobs. They're not starting careers. They're not leaving their parents home. They're not launching independently. And instead what they're doing, they're dating, relating, and fornicating. They're impregnating with no intent of fathering. So we have a cultural crisis where boys who can shave or creating babies, but not fathers. OK, I'm sorry. I gotta pause right there. He is sidestepping a huge he's sidestepping half of the equation here. Let me ask you a question. When it comes to fornicating and producing children like he just pointed out, which is a real problem by. The way it is. Let me ask you something. What part of what he just said that he leave out? I'll. I'll. I'll leave it to you. What? What part did he just leave out? The female meat selection, that's what he left out. He left out that women choose these men because when women are younger, they like Pookie, who is Pookie, Pookie and Ray Ray. Pookie is the drug dealer, the delinquent, the thug, the the cool guy who rides the low rider. The guy who's defiant the. Guy who doesn't respect authority. That's pookie ray. Ray is the play. Yeah, the guy who spits game. The guy who maybe he's maybe he plays a sport, maybe he's he's that cool guy that gets around, right? The what's the guys name? Sorry I'm I'm blanking on this guy. The guy who the fawns, he's like. The fawns. From back in the day he he's like the fawns, right? Women like those guys when they're younger, OK? He's leaving out that part. Those men get rewarded for acting that way from a woman perspective, the women give those men sex. They give them intimacy. They reward those men. The women statistically do not reward the good man who would marry them? Who would respect them? Who would treat them right. Maybe they do when they're 35 and 40 and they're running out of time, but when they're in their prime, statistically women don't like those men. They're not attracted to those men. They feel as though they settle for the men he's talking about. They like Pookie, Ray Ray, the guys who are exciting and dangerous and edgy. Those are the men who they choose, who then probably knock these women up so and and to. An extent he's. Right. Men should not act that way. He is correct. The problem is it's kind of hard to tell the men not to act that way when they're actively being rewarded. For acting that way, OK. But he's leaving out that part. If women didn't sleep with men like that, if women did not reward men for that behavior, I guarantee you the. Men would make. That switch, and they'd stop acting like that. I guarantee you they would. But when a woman goes into the grocery store at 19 years old and you're their bag in the groceries. And pookies outside with the low rider and paying for the the alcohol and and and all this stuff for for the party he's having that night, she's gonna. Laugh at you. Because you're the goofy. She thinks she's winning. With Pookie at 19, she's not thinking about getting married. She's not thinking about having a family. She's not thinking about those things, and I don't hear this woman from the wrong side of the tracks or her. Her. She's the pastor's daughter. Every woman goes through this phase. OK, so when you talk about men. You know, acting delinquent and and and having this bad behavior, you're leading out why they're doing it. They are being rewarded for this behavior and a large reason for that is because of. The women. I'm not passing the. Buck, I'm saying you're not talking about a very important aspect of this. That's our cultural crisis. The other crisis that we're having is not just with the young men, and let me say this for you younger men. Let me give you a fatherly word. Advice I give my. Own three sons. Ohh boy. The sooner you start taking on responsibility, the further ahead you are. Think of it like a NASCAR race. Right now, every guy is drunk in the pits, you know, with the trophy girl, that's where the. Car. If you get your car out of the pits and start running your laps, you will have. If you're a guy who's in his early 20s and you just decide you know what my goal is to mature, to take on responsibility, figure out my degree or my trade or my job, find my wife, buy my house, you know? To start my responsibility, you are 10. Hear me in this. You are 10 years ahead of the average. OK, I hear what he's saying. And to an extent he is. Correct. I would just say you don't need a woman in that equation. Can't she be a part of it that you want? Sure. But she doesn't need to be a part of that. She doesn't, OK. When it comes to being financially responsible when it comes to hold on, let's let's let's let's talk here first. Like when it comes to being financially responsible when it comes to owning your own stuff. When it comes to having your own place, having your own car, having your own money, yes. For a young guy, that is what you should be focusing on. I 100% agree with. But a woman does not. Have to be a part of that. Because let me tell you something. And ladies, you might get mad at this, if that's what you want. Get mad. But I don't know whether you're mad. I care about whether you call me a liar, because if you can get any, you can respond in any way that you want emotionally. But I want to have a logical discussion here, OK? Women tend to sidetrack you as a man early on because you as a young man, are very vulnerable to emotional manipulation. You're very vulnerable to when leveraging sex against you. You're very vulnerable emotionally that you don't understand how the game is played. OK. Now, not all women will leverage that against you, least not equally. But let me tell you something most women do, because that is how they win. That is how they have biologically programmed to act. So when so when Mark talks about this idea of getting married is part of a responsibility, can it be? Sure, it doesn't have to be, no, in fact. In fact, with my book right here, I talked about responsibility. I talk about all those things just minus the marriage, at least early on to you. So you can build your identity outside of the marriage. So then you can decide, hey, I've done all these things. Now I want to get married. I've done all these things. I think I want to pursue the relationship. That's fine, but do those things first. Don't think. Ohh I'm gonna throw my whole life away just to have sex to me. Not worth it. No, I don't think it's. Worth it at all? Not not at all. You are 10 years ahead of the average guy. In addition, you're not wasting those 10 years you're investing them. You're not wasting them on five broken, traumatized, dating relationships. You're investing them in one marriage. Ohh boy. You're not risking having a bunch of children out of wedlock. You're investing your life preparing to be a. Mother, you're not wasting your money on alcohol and nightlife and stupidity and guys stuff. You're investing it in a home, you're investing it in a future. OK, he makes a good point here. Makes a great point. Here's my one thing I wanna add to this. He's tying in too many things together, OK, nightlife and whatnot. I I wrote about it. I think it's dumb waste of money. You're only going to meet low frequency people there to the 99th percentile. Unless you're hanging out with a guy who owns the club or the guy who manages the club. For the guy who runs the club, you're wasting your time. You're only gonna. You're only going to meet low quality people and that's a waste of your time and your money and your resources. I agree with him there. Here's what I want to tell you. Investing in that one marriage. Once the marriage falls apart. What if that marriage ends and statistically over half of them end and 80% of those are filed by 80% of those. Marriages that do fail are filed by women. So in other words, you could invest all your eggs in this one basket, and that basket could fall through through no fault of your own. Does that sound like a good idea? Doesn't that sound like? Such a fail proof option now does it? The absolute collapse of our culture is an incredible opportunity for you young guys to get ahead. How many of you older guys agree with me on this point? It's an it's an amazing opportunity. OK, no offense, but that's an ad populum fallacy. Just because people agree with you does not make you more correct. OK, the philosophical and popular fallacy, but could OK keep going. So for you younger guys that are here, you're like, OK, I want a growing wisdom. I'm going to figure this out. No, no, no. Stop. Pause. Pause. No, I'm sorry. I can't let this go past him. He young guys. Let me ask you a question. OK, let me ask you a real question, man. A man. Let's have a conversation. Do you really want a woman, or do you want *****? Do you want? Intimacy. Or do you want a relationship? Right. That's a very important distinction. And that's one that most people don't make. There are women you fornicate with and women. You form an entire life with. But the problem is most men can't make that distinction. OK, you think that because you want them sexually, that therefore? They would make a great wife or a great partner or a great person to build your life with. The answer is no. In fact, that's not how it works. Well, but again, here's my problem with this. He's pushing marriage without letting you know the dark sides of the realities I am talking to you about. They don't talk about this stuff, and This is why I will be the one to tell you. And if they want to criticize me, they want to call me a Sinner. They want to call me dude. I degenerate. Tell me whatever you want, but let's have a real discussion. Let's have a real man to man discussion. Because you're selling these men a dream. You're not telling them how the infidelity rates in marriages, you're not telling them that their wife. Statistically, it's going to be very unhappy 10 years, 15 years down the road. You're not telling them that they're men. Their wives can have a wife, a a work husband. If she's out there working. They're not going to tell you that, though they won't tell you these grim realities because it makes them look bad, and you might actually question it. That's why the older guys are here. You're like, I don't know how to marry a woman. Find a guy who's been married for a while, and his wife is still smiling and take notes. You're like, OK, I'd like to be a dad. OK, find a guy who's got some kids who still like him. You know. Say hey, I wanna come over for dinner. I want to see you and your wife and. Your natural habitat, you. Know it's like going to the zoo, I. Just wanna see you and your natural habitat. No, no, no, no, no. We all know that when the company comes over, that's not. You're not seeing what really happens, you're seeing the mask. You're not seeing the real relationship. Stop it. We all know that's. Not true. I wanna see what this works like. That's where I started. I'm 17. Matt Grace, 19. God saved first thing I did, I found an older guy, Godly, married 11 kids. One wife has apparently they get along, you know. And so. And I was like, hey, can I come over to dinner at your house? He's like, yeah, come on over. So I got to see him pray with his kids and hang. Out and be. With his wife, I was like, ah, OK, this is what it looks like. Here's a problem again. The problem is this. This is a microcosm of the relationship. Did he tell you about the times he fought with his wife, the time where he thought his wife was cheating on him, when he thought about cheating on the wife cause she was not giving him any kind of intimacy? They talk about what his he doesn't talk about these complicated aspects of the relationship. He gives you the romanticized version, the kind you see in the movies, not the clime you actually see in real life. This is the problem. Because I want this is what I want to get married when I have kids, I want to be a dad and I want my kids to grow up, hate me and write punk rock songs about how to ruin their life. You know, I want. I want to actually have a family. And so we did. And then on Friday nights, we babysat their kids and they got date night and it was our way of serving the family as they let us, sort of. Peer into. Their world. Date night. The other crisis young men are not moving forward. Let me say this to if you're young men, you're like, I want to figure how to get a job. Let your table lead know there are recruiters and employers in the room. Ohh boy, in other words, hey, I'll hook you up so you can come work for me and help my with my vision. Don't, don't. Don't form your own vision. Work for me and further mine. So you're like, I want to find a trade. There are guys who own businesses in the room. And let me just tell you, on behalf of the business owners. They can't find anybody to work. Tree business owners can't find anybody to work cause all the young guys are at home voting for socialists to take their money so they don't have to go to their job. It's very frustrating. If you want to figure out how to buy. A home tell. Your table lead, there are mortgage brokers and real estate agents in the room. If you want. To get married, tell your table like there's a premarital class you want to be a good dad. There's a parenting class. We're the guys. OK, he makes a good point here, but I want to add something. Yes, there are a lot of people voting for socialism and whatnot. This is true. I don't want to make this a political show, OK? I've talked about politics at length. I did it yesterday. We're not talking about politics right now. I am not a socialist. I think socialism is evil, quite frankly. Well, let's get back to the conversation when it comes to work, I agree with him. You need to find something you want to do and do it. But don't just do something because you're bored. Do something. Decide what you want to do, and pursue that with a passion. Don't just sit there and be like, ohh bored. I don't know what to do. Do something. OK? He's right on that front. What? What? He's not telling you is if you want to actually start your own business. You want to do those. Of the courage to actually believe in yourself, OK? That is where you are successful as if you back yourself and invest in your future, OK? But overall, then so so far it's not bad. When is he gonna talk about Andrew Tate? He mentions it in. His title? Where's that? Going to come in. Here to help. Amen. So one of the big crises for young guys is they're not moving forward. And actually the last few years they're sliding backward. The other is. For the older men. Older men who are foolish when they're just entering into their prime. They self destruct. We call this a midlife crisis. Ohh no, I'm sorry, I'm pausing them right here because I really hope. Oh, I have not seen this. OK, I have not seen this video before talking to you and showing it on the show, I wanted it to be a live read. For me, but here's what I really don't. Midlife Christ. Please do not. I hope to God he does not say what I'm about to tell you. If he says any of the following, I'm I'm gonna. I'm gonna have a very rough time. Midlife crisis is usually used by God, by men to shame other men for being successful doing something for yourself. And not just being a henpecked man who only listens to his wife and has the happy wife, happy life type of philosophy. If he sits. Up here, if he sits up here and says to everybody listening to his video and in the room with him, that if you do something for yourself, you're a bad man. If you buy a nice car for yourself, you're a bad man. If you want to act young again and actually do what you want, you're a bad man. Oh, we're going to have a really rough. The next couple of minutes. Show the so go back one please. So that is where a guy gets to number six and then decides to go back to #3. Well, let's look at this list. I'm pausing and I want to look at this list. Uh, let's see. Oh, he brings up first Corinthians 1311. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up my childish ways. OK, anytime anyone takes one verse out of the Bible and does not give the context around it to support them, I'm immediately suspect. But let's go into the maturity. OK, baby. First few years, OK. Child school age adolescent teenage years. Young adult college. OK, adult launched. OK. Mature adult and then very mature adult, OK. See that? He's like my wife is 51. I'm gonna trade her in for 317 year olds. It's. Ohh no, no, wait. Hold on. What did you go back? What did you just say? He's like my wife is 51. I'm gonna. Trade her in for 317 year olds. Ohh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. We all know that's not what happened, Sir. No, no, no. The 51 year old woman statistically divorce grapes him to Kingdom come and then he goes to. Then he, he says forget this garbage. I'm gonna go hit up the junior college. Shout out the CGA. I'm gonna go hit the junior college. OK, I'm gonna go head up seeking arrangements. I'm gonna go hit up this marketplace and understand what's happening. Statistically, it is the woman who does this to him. He does not just walk out. Statistically speaking, that does not happen very often. OK. And if you wanna prove me wrong, you pull up the statistics and you come to me. I have shown these statistics on my show. It's that guy. Shots fired. Scottsdale, AZ. OK, so and what it is. It's a guy who decides. You know what? I don't want to continue to learn my lessons. Move forward, take responsibility, finish my race. Well, so I'm going to go back to my college days. I'm going to have a midlife crisis. I'm going. To get a hot. Car. I'm going to find a gal who's got a father wound. I'm going to. Oh my God. Implode my family. We're going to split everything I've ever worked for. The attorneys are going to set a pile of money on fire and I'm going to go back and relive my college days. Oh my God, did he blame that on the man? Did I hear? That right, he's blame that on the man. He blamed that on men, no. No, he didn't. Just blame divorce on men. Sir, statistically speaking, women divorced men 80. Percent of the time, if a divorce is filed. 80%. So I don't know where the hell you're getting this idea that men are looking at their old wife and saying, you know what, you're old, you're ugly. I'm leaving you, and I'm picking up 3 college chicks. That does not happen. What happens statistically is the man is working his behind all. The wife says she's not happy, she divorces him, takes half his crap, gets their attorneys in there like he just described, sets the money on fire and then he goes through a rebuilding phase, has to figure out his whole life. Well, everybody's blaming him saying. He wasn't hiding it, right? He didn't do something right. He wasn't caring about her enough. Meanwhile she. Gets off Scott free. All her friends are throwing her divorce party, saying you go girl, you go queen. You didn't need him anyway. I knew he was no good. And then he comes out here. No one cares about him. Nobody cares about the side of the story. Nobody cares about anything. He went through nothing. He probably has to fight for custody of his kids. If he gets any at all. He then says, you know what? Forget all of you. I'm rebuilding myself. I am never going to believe in this situation. He either does that or he goes back and gets married again and has the process repeat itself most likely, but you're blaming this on men when, statistically speaking, the women are divorcing the men using no fault divorce. Meaning I'm not happy. So no words when a guy says I put my family 1st and it screwed me over. Now I'm going to put myself 1st and see how that works out. He's wrong. No words. He needs to go back to Gump again. He just found the wrong one. Right cause everybody. Walks into their marriage saying I know this is the wrong woman I. Know I'm going to be a statistic, but I'm. Cool with it, no one does. That you've got to be joking. Oh my God. So this is the crisis in our culture. The young men are not moving forward. They're stuck, and the older men are going backward. No, no, they're not moving forward in. The way you want them to. They're not moving them forward in the way that you want them to do. That does not make them less of a man. Putting yourself back in the meat grinder and marrying the state again. By the way. That is what marriage is. You're marrying both Uncle Sam and the woman. But he had mentioned that part either. Did he? No, he didn't. So in other words, if it doesn't workout, it's your fault and on top of it being your fault, you should then go back into it again because you. Just found the. Wrong one? Unbelievable. Which is why we have an absolute crisis and healthy, godly masculine leadership from top to bottom in all of Western society and until or unless that problem is fixed, we are a doom culture in decline. We're doomed. Culture in decline, and Audi, passmark. Oh my God. He hasn't even measured Andrew Tate. He didn't even mention him, who's only for clicks. Oh, my goodness, bro. He didn't address any of Andrew Tate's topics at all. I'm not. I'm not. I don't care really about Andrew Tate that much, to be honest with you, I think he says some things that are correct. I don't agree with everything he said. Done allegedly done or anything else, but for God's sakes, like this is your advice. Just roll the dice and and and hope the chips fall in your favor. What kind of? Advice is this. What kind of world are we living in where it's just? Oh, it's always your fault. The women are out here being virtuous and they're all angels. And what? What are you? What world are you living in? What? Only fans doesn't exist? Instagram thoughts don't exist. TikTok thoughts don't exist. The the monetized marketplace doesn't exist, sugar. TV's don't exist. What the hell are you talking about? My friends, now you see why I wrote Biblical bachelor, because This is why I do not say you should just become a married man for the sake of being married. Stop the uninformed marriage racket. What's the difference between this and being like Tony Soprano? What is the difference? What's the difference? It's a shakedown racket. My friends. If you have any thoughts you want to share on the clip we went through, please leave it in the comments section or you're listening here on the podcast. You can go over to my my Twitter page or ex page at sheep gets sheared. You can comment on any of my posts I put out or my DMS are open. You can send me a DM with a question. Do you want to have a discussion we can do that? Just mention what it is. I said that. You disagree with. Or whatever. We can have the conversation. I ask you, be respectful, because if you're gonna come out here and be a a jerk, I'm not going to respond to you. I ain't got time to deal with that. But my friends, I would love to hear what? You have to say. I my advice to you is to. Stay vigilant. Stay. Informed question everything that comes your way, because this is the problem you probably have never heard someone break down church. Try Rick like I just broke down for you, OK? This is what I've dealt with my entire life. And then when I was exposed to the reality of it, this is where I came to, OK? I don't want you to hate anybody. I want you to be informed. I'm out of here. Enjoy your day, please. Like I said, if any questions hit me up and ask them, I'm more than happy to answer. I'm out. Peace.