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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared podcast, Home of People, Politics

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and Popular Culture.

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I'm your host, Austin Creed.

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I want to welcome you to the show.

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My friends, I don't know how many times I've said this now, but I don't understand people

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who get married in today's modern world.

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I really don't, not because marriage is bad, but because the marriage laws are bad.

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You know, I have a couple of really good friends who are married and right now their marriage

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is great and I'm honestly really happy for them.

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But you know, I got to admit something to you.

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It's really hard to be happy and optimistic when I look at statistical data, when I look

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at how things go, both in a anecdotal sense and in a statistical sense.

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But divorce destroys men financially, spiritually, mentally, sometimes physically.

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It destroys men.

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And so the fact of the matter is it's a humongous risk.

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And earlier today I talked about how the church needs to talk more about sex because they're

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dropping the ball in that regard and the LGBTQ plus people and whatnot are picking up the

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ball and dribbling it down the court.

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But I also said that I respect LGBTQ people with their ability to be themselves, unapologetically

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themselves and not have to answer to anybody.

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I really respect that.

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I meant what I said.

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I just wish people were more honest about themselves instead of lying and then getting

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into marriages.

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You know, you could, I understand being in a single guy, I look at a single people behavior,

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right?

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And I have no issue.

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Hey, if you want to be a complete 304, if you want to be a skeezer, if you want, if

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you're a dude, you want to be a player or a Mac or a pimp or whatever, do what you want.

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It's your business.

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I'm not saying do anything illegal.

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I'm not saying do anything that hurts anybody.

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What I'm saying is you will do what you want to do and that is your right.

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The problem is when you want to bring those kinds of behaviors into marriages, it's disgusting,

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revolting.

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And yet I see it all too often.

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People want to go through their phase, their, their phase.

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And then it's turns out that they've been doing it for so long.

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It's not a phase.

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It's a form of life at this particular point.

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And I'm sitting here as an observer.

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That's really what I am.

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I'm a watcher.

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I'm the guy.

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You ever heard the saying who will watch the watchers?

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I'm one of those guys.

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That's me.

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Here's the problem that I see.

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I see people using emotional arguments.

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I see people using anecdotal evidence.

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I see the public indoctrination, whether it be through entertainment, whether it be through

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education, it makes no difference.

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People are being bullied and peer pressured into making choices that could destroy them.

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You have people like Matt Walsh who I normally agree with on certain political topics coming

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out here and saying that, Oh, just get married.

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You got Tucker Carlson coming out and saying, get married, have a bunch of kids you can't

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afford and all that kind of stuff.

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And I'm out here thinking, what you're telling them to do.

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What, what kind of advice is that?

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I have things you can't afford is that's on the level of you'll own nothing and like it.

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Like the world bank said, my friends, children are not free.

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Spouses are not free and yet people jump into this.

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You know, I had a very interesting conversation with my father yesterday.

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God bless him.

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We were talking about very difficult.

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I was talking to him about sexual transmutation and how he handled his sexual energy, his

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sexual needs as a young man.

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So that was an interesting conversation.

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He and I talked about it and he mentioned to me how he wasn't really into the hookup

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culture back in the day.

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And he's a guy that kind of likes having that companionship element, that caring element.

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You know what?

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I totally get that to an extent, but I don't agree with it in the standpoint of, I don't,

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I don't, I don't understand people.

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Maybe I'm a sociopath.

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Maybe that is potentially possible.

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I'm not a, I'm not a therapist, so I wouldn't know, but I don't understand why people have

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this need to be validated externally by somebody else.

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I mean, what the hell is the point of improving yourself, developing yourself, becoming the

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best version of yourself if you're just going to have it contingently be on somebody else?

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It just seems so stupid.

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And that's partially why divorce destroys men, especially women.

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It destroys women in the long run.

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It destroys men in the short term.

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You can write that one down if you want.

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Men lose in the short term when divorce happens.

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They lose their assets, they lose their kids, they lose their normal schedule, they lose

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everything.

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But eventually the money picks back up if you get, put yourself off the ground and you

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go back to work and you hustle again.

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The money comes back up, your kids will come back because they'll realize the mother was

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abusing them in my estimation, my alienating the father.

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And then they routine will pick up again once you reestablish yourself as a man.

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A woman on the other hand, she benefits in very big initially with the getting the money,

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getting the kids, getting the social validation, the court of public opinions on her side.

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But then in the long term, the kids start to resent her.

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She starts to resent the father more than she loves the kids.

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She can't find another relationship because she's a single mother at this particular point.

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And any man of any self respect and attraction will not entertain a single mother for a second.

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Here's the problem I have.

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Marriage works as intended.

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It is great.

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I wrote about it at length in my book, biblical bachelor.

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The problem is statistically speaking, it is not the man who leaves the marriage.

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It is the woman who leaves the marriage.

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I believe it's 70% if not 80% percent of women are the ones who file for divorce.

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And that is why on top of the fact that three or four cultures out of control, on top of

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the fact that women be lying because A, they want to survive and B, because most men couldn't

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handle the truth.

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Let's just be real.

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Most of us couldn't handle it.

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What would you say to your wife if she came out tomorrow and she told you, oh yeah, I

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had a train ran on me one time.

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I took it, went in through the back door, the front door and the window.

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And I was a complete skeezer back in the day.

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You probably see her differently, right?

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Of course you would.

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Now should you lash out?

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No.

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But that's something that you should know.

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The problem is they know that if you, if they tell you that your vision of them is going

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to change.

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And you know what's really interesting is I get this call.

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I get this comment sometimes, whether it's on my YouTube channel or whether it's just

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in passing in person.

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People will be like, Austin, this is unfair.

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Why is it that men have a different standard than women?

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Why is it a man can sleep with a bunch of women and he's a Chad and a woman sits with

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a bunch of dudes and she's a skeezer?

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Well, the answer to that question is, well, I mean, there's the answer to that question.

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If a woman walks outside and goes to the first dude, she sees outside to have sex with her,

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his pants will be down before the conversation's over.

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If a dude does that, he's going to jail.

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Does that answer your question?

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If a woman walks out of her house, completely nude, buck ass naked, that people are going

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to not probably call the cops on her.

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Dude walks out, he's going to, he's on the list.

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He's in jail.

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He's probably going to get shanked in jail.

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Does that answer your question?

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I mean, how is this even a topic?

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I don't understand people.

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They don't want to see reality.

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They want reality to conform to them.

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They want people to say, Hey, this would benefit you the most.

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So we're going to make this reality not because it's actually true, but because it makes me

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feel good that therefore it has to be true.

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And I'm not going to believe anything different.

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No, my friends.

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I'm not, usually if it is the most disgusting thing you've heard, it's usually true or at

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least has more truth to it.

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The truth is rarely a pleasant thing.

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I hate to tell you that, but unfortunately it's just a fact of reality.

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Another fact of reality is divorce is out of control and you as a man lose all, not

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just some, all leverage in a marriage.

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As soon as you sign the certificate, put the ring on the finger, all your leverage is gone.

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All your leverage is gone.

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You can't walk away no more.

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Walking away with your power at any point.

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If you stepped on a line, did something you didn't like, you didn't get mad.

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You didn't have to hit her or hit the guy.

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You just walked away.

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But in the marriage, you can't just walk away.

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You can, but now there's an exit fee.

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There's an exit fee to get out of the club.

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Now you can't just say, Oh, I'm going to, I'm just going to ghost you and leave.

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You can't do that now.

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Now she got your ass.

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So let me, it's not free, dude.

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Again, this is why love is so dangerous, man.

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Love is the most weapon.

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Love is the biggest weapon of mass destruction.

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And I stand by those words as someone who studied Seabird weaponry, you don't even know

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what I'm talking about.

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You're already behind and it proves my point.

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But love is the biggest weapon of mass destruction because it, it allows people to extort you,

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blackmail you, use you, hurt you.

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And all these things.

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Look, love is a transaction, it's glorification of a transaction.

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Now I realize that the romance industry is huge.

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The diamond industry is huge.

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The gown industry is huge.

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I get all of that.

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It's part of the reason why marriage is still in business because marriage is business.

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In the eyes of the government, you are having a corporate merger.

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You may not know this and I might be giving you a no, no, no, no, that's too much game.

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I'll do that in a whole nother show talking about how you are not actually you in the

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eyes of the government.

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But we'll go on to that in a whole nother show.

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That's, that would be a whole nother like 20 minute conversation.

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So we'll save that for another time.

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But my friends, the horse destroys you because more than often than not, you don't see it

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coming.

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You think everything is fine and you kind of die a slow and painful death, more of the

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soul and of the body.

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And that's where it destroys you.

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It's not a fast flash, you know, spontaneous combustion.

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It's a slow painful death by a thousand cuts type of death.

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And that is exactly why you need to be very careful.

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If you're still a believer in marriage, you need to be very, very careful.

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You not just jump in.

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I tell this to dudes I know in real life.

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If you are getting married to a woman just because of the sex, do not do it.

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Do not do it.

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It's not worth it.

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That one piece of punani could cost you, cost you the rest of your life.

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Do not do that.

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That is the single worst transaction of all time.

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Because trust me, you go and pay.

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But married men pay the most out of anybody else out here and they statistically get the

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least amount of sex.

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Now am I saying to go out there in the streets and act like a total animal?

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No, no, that's not what I said.

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I'm just telling you what most people are not going to tell you of anybody.

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They're not going to tell you these things because it's not politically correct.

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It's seen as unseenly, unseemly not, not good conversation.

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Well guess what?

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That's why you listen to me because I give you the real.

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I say it how it is.

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I don't sit here and um and ah and him and haw.

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I don't do none of that crap.

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I give it to you straight up.

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If you don't like it, we'll go find somebody like Hillary or Obama and we'll give it to

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you nice and ah.

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Oh, do you want sugar with that?

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Do you want a scorn and some milk?

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No, go ask Kamala or Joe Biden for that.

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I'm not going to give that to you.

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I'm going to give it to you straight because good medicine tastes lousy and good old Austin,

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Uncle Austin gives you the pill you need to get straight.

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So my friends stay informed, stay vigilant for God's sakes and keep questioning everything

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and don't drink the Kool-Aid like a schmuck.

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All right.

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You like what you heard?

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You know where to find me already.

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It'll be in the description.

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I'm not going to be out here.

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Actually, you know what?

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No, my DMS are open on X at Cheap Get Cheered.

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You can be up over there if you want.

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But my friends, please stay informed, stay vigilant and question everything.

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Because for your sake, I'm out.

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Peace.