Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheared podcast, Home of People, Politics
and Popular Culture.
I'm your host, Austin Creed.
I want to welcome you to the show.
My friends, I don't know how many times I've said this now, but I don't understand people
who get married in today's modern world.
I really don't, not because marriage is bad, but because the marriage laws are bad.
You know, I have a couple of really good friends who are married and right now their marriage
is great and I'm honestly really happy for them.
But you know, I got to admit something to you.
It's really hard to be happy and optimistic when I look at statistical data, when I look
at how things go, both in a anecdotal sense and in a statistical sense.
But divorce destroys men financially, spiritually, mentally, sometimes physically.
It destroys men.
And so the fact of the matter is it's a humongous risk.
And earlier today I talked about how the church needs to talk more about sex because they're
dropping the ball in that regard and the LGBTQ plus people and whatnot are picking up the
ball and dribbling it down the court.
But I also said that I respect LGBTQ people with their ability to be themselves, unapologetically
themselves and not have to answer to anybody.
I really respect that.
I meant what I said.
I just wish people were more honest about themselves instead of lying and then getting
into marriages.
You know, you could, I understand being in a single guy, I look at a single people behavior,
right?
And I have no issue.
Hey, if you want to be a complete 304, if you want to be a skeezer, if you want, if
you're a dude, you want to be a player or a Mac or a pimp or whatever, do what you want.
It's your business.
I'm not saying do anything illegal.
I'm not saying do anything that hurts anybody.
What I'm saying is you will do what you want to do and that is your right.
The problem is when you want to bring those kinds of behaviors into marriages, it's disgusting,
revolting.
And yet I see it all too often.
People want to go through their phase, their, their phase.
And then it's turns out that they've been doing it for so long.
It's not a phase.
It's a form of life at this particular point.
And I'm sitting here as an observer.
That's really what I am.
I'm a watcher.
I'm the guy.
You ever heard the saying who will watch the watchers?
I'm one of those guys.
That's me.
Here's the problem that I see.
I see people using emotional arguments.
I see people using anecdotal evidence.
I see the public indoctrination, whether it be through entertainment, whether it be through
education, it makes no difference.
People are being bullied and peer pressured into making choices that could destroy them.
You have people like Matt Walsh who I normally agree with on certain political topics coming
out here and saying that, Oh, just get married.
You got Tucker Carlson coming out and saying, get married, have a bunch of kids you can't
afford and all that kind of stuff.
And I'm out here thinking, what you're telling them to do.
What, what kind of advice is that?
I have things you can't afford is that's on the level of you'll own nothing and like it.
Like the world bank said, my friends, children are not free.
Spouses are not free and yet people jump into this.
You know, I had a very interesting conversation with my father yesterday.
God bless him.
We were talking about very difficult.
I was talking to him about sexual transmutation and how he handled his sexual energy, his
sexual needs as a young man.
So that was an interesting conversation.
He and I talked about it and he mentioned to me how he wasn't really into the hookup
culture back in the day.
And he's a guy that kind of likes having that companionship element, that caring element.
You know what?
I totally get that to an extent, but I don't agree with it in the standpoint of, I don't,
I don't, I don't understand people.
Maybe I'm a sociopath.
Maybe that is potentially possible.
I'm not a, I'm not a therapist, so I wouldn't know, but I don't understand why people have
this need to be validated externally by somebody else.
I mean, what the hell is the point of improving yourself, developing yourself, becoming the
best version of yourself if you're just going to have it contingently be on somebody else?
It just seems so stupid.
And that's partially why divorce destroys men, especially women.
It destroys women in the long run.
It destroys men in the short term.
You can write that one down if you want.
Men lose in the short term when divorce happens.
They lose their assets, they lose their kids, they lose their normal schedule, they lose
everything.
But eventually the money picks back up if you get, put yourself off the ground and you
go back to work and you hustle again.
The money comes back up, your kids will come back because they'll realize the mother was
abusing them in my estimation, my alienating the father.
And then they routine will pick up again once you reestablish yourself as a man.
A woman on the other hand, she benefits in very big initially with the getting the money,
getting the kids, getting the social validation, the court of public opinions on her side.
But then in the long term, the kids start to resent her.
She starts to resent the father more than she loves the kids.
She can't find another relationship because she's a single mother at this particular point.
And any man of any self respect and attraction will not entertain a single mother for a second.
Here's the problem I have.
Marriage works as intended.
It is great.
I wrote about it at length in my book, biblical bachelor.
The problem is statistically speaking, it is not the man who leaves the marriage.
It is the woman who leaves the marriage.
I believe it's 70% if not 80% percent of women are the ones who file for divorce.
And that is why on top of the fact that three or four cultures out of control, on top of
the fact that women be lying because A, they want to survive and B, because most men couldn't
handle the truth.
Let's just be real.
Most of us couldn't handle it.
What would you say to your wife if she came out tomorrow and she told you, oh yeah, I
had a train ran on me one time.
I took it, went in through the back door, the front door and the window.
And I was a complete skeezer back in the day.
You probably see her differently, right?
Of course you would.
Now should you lash out?
No.
But that's something that you should know.
The problem is they know that if you, if they tell you that your vision of them is going
to change.
And you know what's really interesting is I get this call.
I get this comment sometimes, whether it's on my YouTube channel or whether it's just
in passing in person.
People will be like, Austin, this is unfair.
Why is it that men have a different standard than women?
Why is it a man can sleep with a bunch of women and he's a Chad and a woman sits with
a bunch of dudes and she's a skeezer?
Well, the answer to that question is, well, I mean, there's the answer to that question.
If a woman walks outside and goes to the first dude, she sees outside to have sex with her,
his pants will be down before the conversation's over.
If a dude does that, he's going to jail.
Does that answer your question?
If a woman walks out of her house, completely nude, buck ass naked, that people are going
to not probably call the cops on her.
Dude walks out, he's going to, he's on the list.
He's in jail.
He's probably going to get shanked in jail.
Does that answer your question?
I mean, how is this even a topic?
I don't understand people.
They don't want to see reality.
They want reality to conform to them.
They want people to say, Hey, this would benefit you the most.
So we're going to make this reality not because it's actually true, but because it makes me
feel good that therefore it has to be true.
And I'm not going to believe anything different.
No, my friends.
I'm not, usually if it is the most disgusting thing you've heard, it's usually true or at
least has more truth to it.
The truth is rarely a pleasant thing.
I hate to tell you that, but unfortunately it's just a fact of reality.
Another fact of reality is divorce is out of control and you as a man lose all, not
just some, all leverage in a marriage.
As soon as you sign the certificate, put the ring on the finger, all your leverage is gone.
All your leverage is gone.
You can't walk away no more.
Walking away with your power at any point.
If you stepped on a line, did something you didn't like, you didn't get mad.
You didn't have to hit her or hit the guy.
You just walked away.
But in the marriage, you can't just walk away.
You can, but now there's an exit fee.
There's an exit fee to get out of the club.
Now you can't just say, Oh, I'm going to, I'm just going to ghost you and leave.
You can't do that now.
Now she got your ass.
So let me, it's not free, dude.
Again, this is why love is so dangerous, man.
Love is the most weapon.
Love is the biggest weapon of mass destruction.
And I stand by those words as someone who studied Seabird weaponry, you don't even know
what I'm talking about.
You're already behind and it proves my point.
But love is the biggest weapon of mass destruction because it, it allows people to extort you,
blackmail you, use you, hurt you.
And all these things.
Look, love is a transaction, it's glorification of a transaction.
Now I realize that the romance industry is huge.
The diamond industry is huge.
The gown industry is huge.
I get all of that.
It's part of the reason why marriage is still in business because marriage is business.
In the eyes of the government, you are having a corporate merger.
You may not know this and I might be giving you a no, no, no, no, that's too much game.
I'll do that in a whole nother show talking about how you are not actually you in the
eyes of the government.
But we'll go on to that in a whole nother show.
That's, that would be a whole nother like 20 minute conversation.
So we'll save that for another time.
But my friends, the horse destroys you because more than often than not, you don't see it
coming.
You think everything is fine and you kind of die a slow and painful death, more of the
soul and of the body.
And that's where it destroys you.
It's not a fast flash, you know, spontaneous combustion.
It's a slow painful death by a thousand cuts type of death.
And that is exactly why you need to be very careful.
If you're still a believer in marriage, you need to be very, very careful.
You not just jump in.
I tell this to dudes I know in real life.
If you are getting married to a woman just because of the sex, do not do it.
Do not do it.
It's not worth it.
That one piece of punani could cost you, cost you the rest of your life.
Do not do that.
That is the single worst transaction of all time.
Because trust me, you go and pay.
But married men pay the most out of anybody else out here and they statistically get the
least amount of sex.
Now am I saying to go out there in the streets and act like a total animal?
No, no, that's not what I said.
I'm just telling you what most people are not going to tell you of anybody.
They're not going to tell you these things because it's not politically correct.
It's seen as unseenly, unseemly not, not good conversation.
Well guess what?
That's why you listen to me because I give you the real.
I say it how it is.
I don't sit here and um and ah and him and haw.
I don't do none of that crap.
I give it to you straight up.
If you don't like it, we'll go find somebody like Hillary or Obama and we'll give it to
you nice and ah.
Oh, do you want sugar with that?
Do you want a scorn and some milk?
No, go ask Kamala or Joe Biden for that.
I'm not going to give that to you.
I'm going to give it to you straight because good medicine tastes lousy and good old Austin,
Uncle Austin gives you the pill you need to get straight.
So my friends stay informed, stay vigilant for God's sakes and keep questioning everything
and don't drink the Kool-Aid like a schmuck.
All right.
You like what you heard?
You know where to find me already.
It'll be in the description.
I'm not going to be out here.
Actually, you know what?
No, my DMS are open on X at Cheap Get Cheered.
You can be up over there if you want.
But my friends, please stay informed, stay vigilant and question everything.
Because for your sake, I'm out.
Peace.