Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared Podcast home with people, politics and popular culture. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends, we're gonna really breakdown the popular culture aspect of today's show. You know, I can't help. But ask myself as I look out on the Internet as I look out in real in the real world, I can't help but ask myself this one simple question. Our relationships ruined. I look at my grandmother, God rest her soul and my grandfather's relationship. When back when I was a kid, I looked at my parents relationships. I looked at my parents's friends, my friends's parents. And I came to this notion as a kid of what a relationship should be. And apparently I'm not alone. If I look at. So if I look at the normal dating sites, right, they say, oh, this is what a boyfriend should be. This is what men should be like to their girls. All that kind of stuff. They have a list, actually so-called. That's 60 traits. So here's what they won't tell you when it comes to what you need to be to be a boyfriend. Number one, you need to be attractive #2 you need to have money #3 you need to be over 6 feet like they won't tell you things that actually matter. No, they'll tell you the stuff that actually is the the. Icing on the cake and the cherry on the icing, but they won't tell you what the cake actually needs to be made of. Not I'll read you something here. Number one thing they tell you do to be a good boyfriend. Share your thoughts with your girlfriend. In other words, tell your girlfriend everything so she can then leverage it against you if she ever. Sees the need for you. Treat her like a lady. In other words, treat her with chivalry. Even if she's a total straggle and dresses like a ******, you need to treat her like a lady. Ohh, right. OK, #3 be exciting and fun. In other words, entertain her because you have nothing better to do with your life than be a dancing monkey or our jester #4 be romantic again. Go out of your way to treat her. Good. But there's nothing here about her treating you well. Bragging about her social media, they say, handing her roses. You know the ship, the own shade. They have to do any of that. But you have to. Now I realize I'm jumping straight down the throat of the beast into its belly, but let's back up a second. Let's back up. I'm getting a little too heavy, too quick. What inspired this? Well, #1. Number one thing that inspired this was the story about how anime girlfriends are just taking off. Apparently men are finding anime girlfriends. Now I'm not making this up. I am not making this up as much as you might wish I was. I am my friends, even as I am recording this, my computer basically just crashed, so I'm actually correcting my Internet just got crashed. I don't know if I don't know if the new World orders after me or what they don't want me talking about this. Apparently this challenge is. This challenge is the system too much, so the story that got my attention was the anime girlfriend trend on TikTok apparently getting substantial traction, and people are turning not just to like Japanese anime. I'm talking people are literally creating fake girlfriends. On the Internet. And then they're treating them like they treated actual girlfriend. I'm not making. This up. And then arises the question of will these, like AI women replace flesh and blood? Women? Of course it's possible. Of course it's possible. Because number one, women's standards are too damn high and #2 most men don't have ambition, and they want women. You know, I actually have a decent amount of sympathy for women in this regard there. Are a lot of men out here who think that because they have a schmendrick between their legs? But they're old. Woman, they think that because they are a man, they're older woman. No, my friends, that's false. In fact, there's this new thing. You know, the guy that is. Somewhat current you. Know Charles Darwin wrote about this theory of evolution, natural selection and all that. Yeah. If you don't understand that. If you're not out here competing, if you're not out here trying to become the best if you're just want to be Joe Schmoe and be nobody, Mr. Nobody. Then expect no results, expect nothing 0, so I don't blame the women for having standards. I blame the dudes for for sitting around complaining instead of actually wearing the better themselves. Now that being said, there is a difference between wanting better than average than wanting Mr. impossible Mr. Impossible. We've gone from women. Wanting Mr. Incredible to Mr. Impossible. Back in the day, the people women wanted the guy who was, you know, the good, best guy that can get Mr. Incredible. Now they want Mr. impossible. They want Mr. I have 6 pack abs and and tall and Mr. Chad Mcshannic Eton. But I'm also sensitive and I care about your feeling. Things and and what not. They want the nurturing guy, but the masculine guy, they want the guy who's gonna assert his dominance but also will cuddle with her in bed and tell and ask her about her day and her problems again. This is what I'm talking about. We've gone from wanting Mr. Incredible to Mr. Impossible. And that's why I ask our relationships ruined now for those of you. I'm gonna give you the 14 things that women find physically attractive in men, because here's the deal. Alright, let's cut through the garbage and the BS. When I bring up a list of 60 things to be the perfect boyfriend, what they're not going to tell you is what you even need to qualify to be a boyfriend. What you even need to get in the door? So here's the number one thing that women are opposed, supposedly are attracted to, and yes, this is written by a woman named Sophie Stenhouse #1 Thomas. Says every woman loves tall men, ideally 6 feet over. Wow, shocking, they say, eyes, hair, clothes and smiled. What is? What is what? These four things being towards the top and then things like a good jawline. Six pack packs, biceps, shoulders, forearms and a good back. Why are all those things at the bottom and then things like tattoos, hygiene, smile, clothes and all that stuff towards the top? Answer because they don't want to seem like bad. People, that's why. They don't want to give you too much reality at once because you you're liable to freak out on them. And you know what? I understand that. But gentlemen. Relationships are largely ruined because you pushed out instead of holding the line like a man you pushed out, you simply out, you dumped out and you decided to just pander to women cause you. Stand actually becoming a better man. You had to find someone who liked you for you. You know, I'm convinced that men are the real romantics out here. Of course there are women who like romance novels. I mean, that's why the romance genre exists in the 1st place is for women, because romantic novels for women are. Like what *********** is. In case you didn't know, but you know what I find really interesting is it's men who are largely the more romantics out here. They want a woman to love them for them and do fall in love with everything about them and blah, blah, blah. Gentlemen, let's be totally realistic here for. 2 seconds, OK. You really want a woman to love you. For you, but you hate yourself. I mean, let's just be real here. You don't like yourself. And then even if you. Do you're not satisfied with who you are? But yeah, you want somebody to like you for, you help you. You are A1 to help you build yourself. You are a woman to come out here and help you become become not you can't become Chad, but become a the best version of yourself to become a winner. Why would a woman come out of why would a woman, instead of choosing a winner, choosing a bill the bro I'll build a man? Why would she do that? I don't blame her for not doing that. I blame you. For being beta. I blame you for. Being weak as hell, that's what I blame. And if you don't like it, go ahead and cry and turn my. Turn my show off. Go ahead. Find a dude who's gonna go find another gym bro on the Internet. Who's gonna tell you if you go to the gym and you have a job that you deserve some *****? It's not true. It's not true. Hey, I realize I'm being very straight up. Honest with you right now. I get it. You're not happy. Too damn bad. Go ahead and be sad. Be depressed, be unhappy. Go ahead and see if I care. I'm out here trying to find people who want to win, not people who want to be out here and. Just barely skid by. I don't. I didn't get to the point where I am today to appeal to Skidmore Row. I came here to get up to the Hamptons. That's where I'm going. I don't know where you're going. I hope you're coming with me, but if not, feel free to go and find the skeezers on the street corner. Man, go ahead and be my guest. If you want to listen to advice like this. Listening to your girlfriend, seeing her of who she really is. So in other words, they want you to love them for them, but they'll only love you for your money and your family and your status. But they want you to love them for gentlemen, let's get one thing clear. One reason why relationships are ruined is because you feel the need to validate your woman no matter what she does. And she can just treat you like trash. Women are not to be pleased. I don't say that because I want you to mistreat women. I say that because let's look at things from an objective perspective for a second. OK, let's say you are in a relationship with a woman, right? And she says that she wants you to be more caring and thoughtful and spend more time with. Her and make time for her, OK? And then you do those things and then she's complaining that you're around too much. You're not ambitious enough. You don't have as much drive. In other words, you give them what they want. They then complain that you gave them what they want and they want something else. It's a moving target. Then the minute, no matter how. Many times you hit the bull's eye, the. Target the target keeps moving. It's like trying to kick a field goal, but the the goal posts keep moving and you're like, how the hell am I supposed to aim this kick? Cause the goal post keeps moving. That's where we're at today. And that's another reason why relationships are. And and So what guys are saying, you know what? Forget this. I'm going to be a a biblical bachelor. I'm going to. Go solo. I'm going to go on. My own. I'm going to stop dealing with this crap. So they're either going to find anime girlfriends, or they're going to go. No, go on the leasing route or they're going to just be alone, which is fine. There's power in being alone. I always find it funny when women try to shame men into relationships by saying that you're gonna. You're gonna grow old and be lonely being lonely as a man is not a weakness. It is women who need men to validate them as women. Men can be validated by women if they choose to be, and to an extent it can. Really. It can reaffirm what your version of yourself that you have in your head, but you don't need that in my opinion. Is it feel good? Yes. Do you need it? No, it is a woman who needs a man to validate her as a woman, not a man to validate himself as a man to a woman. Not no, it's not the same. But, gentlemen, look, I understand why this trend exists. But this is not the solution. The solution is not to have someone meet you down where you're at, it's to claw and fight to survive and become better. That is the solution. The solution is not to be beta. The solution is to be alpha to be a Sigma to be out here and become the best. So you can then say you deserve the best. Because people will challenge you. They'll all depend on how you respond to being challenged. That's the real mark of a man. The gentleman. How are your relationships in your life? Hopefully they're good. But I'm curious, what do you think our relationships ruined? Let me know what you think in the comments section or go on over to my X page at Sheep Get Sheard and let me know what. You think over there. But gentlemen, until next time, God bless you. God bless your families. God Bless America. I'm out of. Here peace out.