Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared Podcast home with people, politics and popular culture. I'm your host, Austin Creed, and I want to welcome you into the show. So I'm gonna get this just. Straight out of the way right away. This is not going to be. The traditional dating advice that maybe your father or grandfather, their older brother, older sister, best friend, whoever gave you this is gonna be the realest **** that you are ever going to. This is the type of advice your father should have told you, but he was likely unable to do it because either a he wasn't able to articulate it or B he wanted to make you better than he was. Let me explain something to all of you. Dating is not what you've been led to believe. We've been taught. And traditional society that you need to be the nice guy. And if you're that nice, warm, genuine, thoughtful guy who respects her, who values her and all these things that she will realize that she loves you because you are just that you're like, look, Ken. You want that Clark Kent guy who will swoop in like Superman whenever she's in danger and you're gonna help her and save her and that she's in love with that good straight, healthy, wonderful guy. When in fact. That's only half true. Social science says the following. It is only people can only be one of the two archetypes. You can either be the Clark Kent. Or Superman. Or you could be Bruce Wayne Batman. You could be Batman or Superman, the nice guy. Or the bad, mysterious sexy danger guy. Now women will never tell you unless they're super comfortable in their sexuality and super comfortable with who they are. And then you won't judge them. They'll tell you that they actually want Batman. But most women, 99%, will never tell you that. Never. All I'll tell you is. Ohh no. I want that. Nice, kind, wonderful guy who's nice to me. And wonderful. Here's what they won't tell you. They also want that guy to be really good looking, have a lot of money, be respected, be established. They won't tell you that dope, the nice, the thoughtful, the romantic, that is the icing on top of the cake. That is not the cake. But they have you believe that they don't tell you that the prerequisites are. Place ohh. You need to be 6 feet tall. You need to make six figures. You know a six pack. You need to have 6 inches down South of the border and you'd have all these things just to get your foot in the door and then all you might want to be nice and thoughtful and romantic every once in a while. But you also need to be able to blow her back out. You also need to be able to. Know what she's thinking all the time and give her. What she wants, that's what they're looking for. That's the ideal guy. The guy who can be everything at any time, depending on how she feels, that's what she wants from you. Not the nice guy all the time and not even the bad boy all the time. She wants Mr. impossible, man. Forget digit Chad. She wants a possible man. No, I'm not saying this to **** on women. I understand. Wanting something that makes no sense. I understand wanting it all, wanting your cake and the frosting and the the the nice little cherry on top. IG, get it? I know dudes out here who say they want to model a girl who looks amazing, but also a virgin. You mean to tell me that she has all the options in the world but never exercises any of them? OK, because that's totally realistic, right? But this is the dating advice your father should told you. He should have told you. Hey, guess what? You are going to be lied to. Manipulated, exploited, goofed. All these things. And you need to not. Take it personally. It's all part of the game. Charge it to the game, put it on your bill, add it to your tab. Because guess what? You want to ride the ball? This ********. I'll tell you how to do it. Here's how you do it. Get leverage and options. Now stop taking people out on dinner dates. Stop wasting time scrolling on Instagram or swiping on Tinder. Stop doing that ********. All it's going to do is make you upset. Destroy your self esteem and make you feel inadequate and make it so that you don't feel like you actually can do and become that person that you're envisioning. Provisioning if you want to date hot women, you want to get out there and get the best. The cream of the crop, then become the cream of the crop. Don't sit there trying to play tricks. Tricks are for kids. Then you'll watch the commercials. Stop being a trick. And start being triumphant. I'm sick of this garbage. But people won't tell you this, they say, oh, you just want to meet a nice woman so you could sail down and have that, that picket fence and the dog and the cat and the 2.5 kids, that is a lie, that is. Fun for the most people, that crap is over. And you can. Fake the modern marriage laws and the fact that the state is involved in marriage. There was a time when the state wasn't so involved in marriage. There was a time when religion was mostly done by the church. Unfortunately, my friends. That is no longer the case. Marriage has now become big business. Divorce. Big business. Why do you think they push LGBTQ marriage and whatnot? It's not in the name of love. It's looking like the diva. There's money. Oh yeah, you think that people who are gay don't get divorced? Ohh yeah, they do. Just like straight people. It's all about the money, bro. When you gonna get it? It's all about the money dating. Is big business. Why do you think Valentine's Day has become such a big freaking holiday? Why do you think that women tend to get in relationships around this time of year? Because they want people they want to have cupping season. They want to have a boyfriend take a break from the carousel so they can go up to Thanksgiving. They can go to Christmas and hopefully ride it on all the way to the. To Valentine's Day. Again, this is not to take a dump on them. It is meant to tell you what the hell is actually going on out here. Most people will just say ohh, just treat this person with the utmost respect and and everything and they'll give you the world. No, what will happen is they'll take everything you're giving them, give nothing back. Leave you holding an empty bag and then run away. On the next guy. That's called hyperbole, gentlemen. Now, I don't say this because I want you to hate the game. No, the opposite is true. I want you to understand the game. Because when you understand the game, you can actually play it so you can win. Not trick. Not do an obnoxious bull crap. I want you to actually win. And the only way to win is to get leverage at options. You want to hear a story recently? I kind of had a falling out with one of the girls in my rotation. And she's probably listening to the show, and she's probably gonna get mad when I say that. But you know what? I keep it real, and I don't lie. That's another thing you should never do. Never lie to a girl. Never cause. Guess what? Lying shows you're trying to trick shows us. You're lying. Shows that you are not able to respect yourself and hurt. Amen. I respect. People have to tell them the truth and they don't like it. They can move their *** on. I don't care about it. I don't, but you know, it was really interesting to me. The more I said, hey, you know what? I don't need you here. I want you here. But I don't need you here. You know I want you, but you gotta do. It the way. I say, and if you don't do it the way I say, you can go find someone else who will do it your way, but I guarantee. You. He won't be the guy you want. What I said. And you know what happened. She started to her the more I told her to leave, the more she was like. Oh, no, no, no. I don't want to leave. You see how that works again. And I wasn't even. I wasn't trying to manipulate. I was serious. I was like, hey doors right there. If you wanna leave, leave. I don't care. Because I knew even if she left, I could hit up another girl, have her come over to the place, go over, have her come. Over to the crib boom. When you have options like that, you realize, guess what? You can walk. But when you tell people oh, no, no, please stay. I don't want you to go. I want to. Be lonely again. Oh, guess what? They're gonna be like. Ohh. What the **** this. Is they gotta leave. But we're taught I even saw it yesterday. One of my one of my buddies that I live with. I saw him begging his girl to try this this dish that she didn't want to try and I was looking. Myself bro like. What are you doing is like he was like, begging, like negotiating and bargaining. I was like, bro, who cares about this garbage? Who cares? I was like, you're. You're begging her to do something. Bro, what is? Wrong with you. I I was just looking at him. I was like. Huh. What the **** is that? I was it was stupid. I don't understand it. It was ridiculous to me. Look, I'm not saying you need to be a jerk. I'm saying you need to be honest, and sometimes people will interpret your straightforward, blunt honesty as being mean. Again, never go out of your way to hurt people. You know how much of A waste of time that is for you. Again, this is the dating advice your father should have told you, but likely either he didn't know he didn't wanna tell you, didn't know how to tell you. I'm not bising him. I'm trying to tell you how the game works out here because it's an evil, evil world we live in. Shut out the future. It's an evil world, we. Live in guess. But you could sit there and pretend that the world's not evil, that we're not dealing with some diabolical bull crap. Or you could say, hey, you know what? I don't like it. But it's reality. I gotta deal with it. So let's deal with it. Let's get out here. Let's handle it, and I will adjust accordingly. That would be the most logical. Course of action, right? Well, all too often. Men. Men. If you are a young guy, you're trying to get married. You're trying to do all that stuff. It can work for you. But. It is not what you've been told as a kid. Because when you get married, you give up all leverage, not some. All leverage is out the window. All of it, because she knows you can't just leave. The most powerful. Thing you can do in any relationship is walk away. If you if she knows that at any point that she steps on the line, you gonna walk out that door and you could easily get another girl. She will act right? Conversely, ladies, if you want to know how to control a man. Get him to commit to you. Get him to give up his hoes. And if? He got any hoes? Because then you're the only game in town and you can now rig it any way that you want. That's how the game works out here. That's why women are attracted to men who have options, and men tend to be repulsed by women who exercise their options not because of sexism. It's called reality. I know that's going to offend you. I know it's gonna make you feel bad. Guess what. Charge it to the game. I don't make the rules. Amen. I I was born into the game. I didn't make the rules. I'm just telling you the way it is. Again, this is dining advice. Your father should have told you. Likely how your father got your mother was not being the nice, nice guy all the time. In fact, probably the opposite. He was actually probably more like a a jerk. A ****** ***. Do didn't care all that much until maybe he said. And you know what I'll actually get. Settled down with this woman and then he did. That's how it works. Again, this is not what they'll tell you, though they'll tell you that always because I realized she was the one. I realized that that's cause I love her and blah blah blah. That's not always true. That's just what they want to tell you in retrospect. I wish I could tell you otherwise. Look, I wish we could get on here and tell you that it's all about love. Love Is All you need. Like a Beatles song. And everybody would just sing Kumbaya. Let's love each other. Everything's great. But guess what? Life is cruel and it's an evil world we live in. It's just the way it works. If you don't like it, I don't know what to tell you. You could sit there and live in denial if you want. But unfortunately that's only going to be to your detriment. So you could sit there and live in denial if you want, but I'm telling you right now if you really. Want to live a life? Of a winner instead of a person who's trying to negotiate with reality, take. Let's go back to the matrix, my friends. You want to live in the blue pill in the matrix, or do you want to take the red pill? And see reality, even if. You hate it. You think I love reality? You think I like telling you this maybe a little bit, maybe a little bit because it feels good to to express the truth, but it doesn't feel good when it comes to look. It's the opposite of what you were told. It's the opposite of what I was told. I get it. You want to sit and I wish I could sit here and tell you that everyone's always told you the truth. You got nothing to worry about. Just listen to what the yucky yuck you were told your whole life. And it will always work out for you. No, I'm lying to you. Everyone wants the best for you. It's just not true. It's simply untrue and to say anything else would be doing you a disservice, and you already have enough people doing that. I don't know what else to tell you. I wish I could see here. Like I said and BS you, but I'm not going to do it. People in your life been doing that since day one. So my friends look, the dating advice your father never told you was the fact that you need to stop dating and you need to start getting out there and winning. Because if you think you're gonna waste your time and win, you're a fool. My friends stop being goofy and start being gifted and start winning. If you want women. Find out what women want and I'll give. You a hint? It rhymes. Nah, Nah, Nah, I. Won't. I won't play riddles. Any resources. Again, I won't speaking too many riddles. I'm not a sphinx. For, for God's sakes, you need resources. Let's look back in history for two minutes. Are what were what men and days gone by before the age of smartphones and Internet ****? What was it? That got men. Access to women's answer land thou was the answer. And who had the most land? Oh yeah, that guy with the crown called the king. That guy? Yeah. He had all the women. Now, do you think that it was just a coincidence that the guy who had the most status, the most money and the power, the power and the money, do you think the guy that had the most of that, the fact that he had all the women was on an accident and and like and the schmuck surf who was working for slot pay and dying at the age of 30? From arthritis, from working in the fields, do you think it was a coincidence that he had? Or you at the bottom of the barrel at best. Do you think that was an accident? No, no, it was not an accident. You want to win. You want to have everything you ever wanted. You have to work for it. Any of the fight people for not physically. But emotionally and psychologically, which is much harder. You want women. You want money, you want all these things? Guess what? You got to become the best. And if you want to sit here and widen me and say, Austin, but that's too hard, how am I going to do that? You're going to have to sacrifice. You're going to have to decide what it is you like about your life, what you want to give up, what you don't like, what you. Want what you're willing to not part with and then? Then you work your *** off and stop complaining to me about this garbage. That's what you do. Stop complaining and start winning. Stop complaining and start transmuting that negative energy into a positive force for change in your life. That's what you do. You want to be a king then? Start conquering things. For God's sakes, and stop whining. Stop complaining to me, all life ain't fair. Guess what? Nothing is fair. Nothing. Nobody owes you anything. Doesn't matter your skin color, your religion. Nothing. No one owes you Jack. And I'm sick of the victim mentality out here. And then wanting people want to win while being a victim. Victims are not winners. They're losers. That's why they're victims. Winners are victors, losers are victims. So you want to stop being a victim and start becoming a victor, for God's sakes. But again, this is dating advice you probably never heard. It's very realistic, very cynical, and it's extremely base. And if you don't like it, then don't, don't, don't, don't act on it. See if I care. I'll be out here winning. Getting the girl you've been analyzing for 20 years. God. Good. The girl you've been liking since high school. Who never pay attention to you and unfollowed you on Instagram. Shall be in my DM saying ohh Austin bro, I I I I I saw your channel. Now that you have a million Subs. Oh, my God, you're so sexy. And you say it how it is. Ohh please can I meet you? Yeah, that's what's going to happen. Now, I'm not saying that I want the help, but I want you to win. But if you sit on your eyes and do nothing that's going to. And go ahead and snuggle and laugh if you want, but I guess it's going to get in the last laugh me after I smashed that girl you've been wanting to hit. Oh, yeah, I'll be smashing her and I'll laugh and be like, huh? That's probably some schmucks dream. Girl. Me. I'm going to throw her away because I don't need her. That's the way. It goes bro. That's the way it goes. This is the real estate advice you'll ever hear that your father should have told. You, but he didn't. Because he was probably a nice guy. Or maybe he just wasn't. He wasn't able to have the conversation. I don't care what his excuse was. Now you have no excuse cause I've told it to you. What are you gonna do with it? You gonna sit there and whine and cry? You're gonna get out there and start winning and conquering the choice, my friends is yours. Have a great rest of your day peace out. I'm out of here.