Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Cashier Podcast, home of People, politics and popular culture. I'm your host, Austin Creed. And yeah, I gotta give credit to fresh and fit CGA and the whatever podcast for the clips at the beginning of the show. Look, this is going to be a very controversial issue and I'm going to just walk into the controversy. Cause you know what this needs to be discussed and I've heard people discuss similar topics, but not from the lens and from the perspective that we will be talking about this today. OK, my friends, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but marriage is not what it once was. I believe marriage to be a sacred institution. I'm a religious man. The problem. Is when when we look at today versus the time of yesteryear, we see a very stark difference between human behavior and we also see what was accepted by society because back in the day. People were still people. They still messed up. They still cheated, they still did debaucherous things. That's nothing new. However, he was suppressed. He was part of the underground. Now it's praised and you see it everywhere that you go. You see it in virtually everything that you read, everything that you see. Everything that you hear all of it is pushed that you as the man or the oppressor and the woman is the oppressed and the victim. I mean, just look at the clip at the beginning of the show that we play and. Or the woman saying that marriage was used to control women. Can you believe this? To control women again every time they have to be the victim. Every time the women have to be conceived as the victim. They're perpetual victims because they think in their heads that if they're the victim, they're vindicated and totally free from any blame. Anything that could go sideways and immediately, most people will take their side and unfortunately, they're they're right. About that by the. OK, but my friends, this is something that is really near and dear to my heart because feminism is not destroyed. Marriage, it's marted. It's impaired, it's quality. And the reason I say that is, do you hear the way people even talk today? Let's put treatment aside. We'll get there eventually. And I've kind of touched on it already, but let's just get down to even rhetoric because. Everything starts with an idea and when you look at the conversations and the rhetoric that people use when they discussed marriage today, I remember I'm not even that old. Mind you, I remember a time when it was ohh. Here's my wife. Ohh, here's my husband. And now it's here's my partner. Here's my spouse. We kind of remove this idea of gender roles. We remove this idea of. Gender norms and how people are meant to kind of interact with the expectations that are associated as much as we want to make everybody exactly the same and equally capable of everything. It's just not true. For example, you cannot get around the fact that. Women, biologically, the only ones that can have children, you can't change the fact that very large margin of men are biologically stronger and more designed for work than are women. These things are facts of reality. We can't change them even if you are a transgender person listening to the show. And you are a man who is now as a woman or whatever. You can't grow a uterus, you can't grow fallopian tubes. These things are still a part of biology and not just pure sociology, because when people want to bring up this idea of ohh gender is just a societal thing. No, it's not. No, it is not. You can't change who you are. You can't change your chromosomes. You can't change the DNA structure. And I realize these are all things around marriage. I understand that. But the reason that feminism is marred in marriage, this thing goes way, way back. This is nothing new, and this is new to you. I don't know where what planet you've been living on. But feminism is not about equality. I know you've been lied to and you think that it is, but it is not. In fact I've. Played on the show before, I forget which video fakely I've lost track, but I remember mentioning Rockefeller and going back to the women's the early Women's Lib movement and the women's rights movement. It was funded by Rockefeller. And his words to tax the other half of the population, #1 and #2, to get the children out of the hands of the parents into the hands of the state so they could become better workers and become more productive citizens. That he could then use. Now you can call that a conspiracy theory. It's discussed it. I don't know if it's still on YouTube. It was on YouTube at one point. It might still be. There, but I think it was. It's Aaron Rousseau. Is that the guy's name? I think it is. But it it's him talk. He was, he knew. Rockefeller and he talked about this. It this is nothing new. If you understand the history of the women's rights movement, this is nothing new. The reason I bring this? Up is because men and women. Are equal in the sense that they bring equal important things to the table and not necessarily equal by your standards. Maybe. But when you look at it, it's a biological story. It's a biological transaction. That's what it is. The If the one party views what the other party has as an equal transaction. It becomes a business deal. I know that's a very unromantic and unflattering way to put it, but that is the base of what most relationships are, and every relationship is transactional. And when you get down to feminism, the reason that feminism is marred in marriage is it has subverted tradition. But it's still. You still expect people to be traditional. Let me let me explain this a little bit differently. Who do you think is expected? For most of the bills, and be quote, the masculine one in the relationship, usually it's the men. Right. But the woman doesn't want to be feminine woman, doesn't want to submit to the husband. She doesn't want to do her. She wants to be progressive in her thinking. She wants you to be traditional in your thinking. And then you wonder why this doesn't work out. You can't put a positive in a positive or a negative and a. Negative together doesn't work. They naturally repel. It doesn't work. You can't put progress of thinking with traditionalism. It just does not work. Because then people are going to be unhappy, whether it's the woman who is, statistically speaking, the unhappy one, I think, and last time I checked around 80% of divorces were filed by women. Ohh yeah, 80%. And then they want to tell us men that were the problem when in fact they're the ones who are leaving. And not the men who were leaving. I know this is a very complicated and very touchy issue for people who have been through it and I understand and I can sympathize for that empathize is different, but I can sympathize with it. The problem is, even if you are a religious person listening to this show, you are not immune to this. There's this notion in religious, especially in Christianity, that you want to be in the world. Not of it. The problem is with the culture being so counter to the religious beliefs of pretty much every sect of every religion that I'm aware of. It's super hard to have a corporate have a corporate job being. Work in secular culture and then not have that overflow into your life at some level and it could be drip, drip, drip of poison. It eventually is going to infect you. It's not. It's unavoidable and the statistics bear this out. And my friends, I don't like to say this. I wish I could get up here and talk about how marriage is sacred, which it is, and then talk about how everybody should go forward because it works and it's great and it's still as strong as ever. Unfortunately, it's just not. It's just false. It doesn't actually play out that way anymore. Data supports this. If you look outside and you look at the fact that men are checking out, why ask you something? What do men actually get out of a relationship? Gentlemen, what do you get out of a relationship when you're a young guy like me and you're in your 20s, late teens, whatever. Of course, you're going to get married. Because you don't see what no fault divorce can do to you. You don't see. I believe it's the marriage wheel. Shout out to CGA. I love his channel, by the way. I don't want it to seem like I'm ripping him off and not giving him credit when he talks about the marriage wheel, which is fantastic. He did a show about this recently. Everyone goes through the similar pattern of marriage cause everybody has a similar human condition that we can all relate to. There's a template that most people live by. They look a little different, but by and large, people deal with the same problems as we always have from the beginning of time. And when you look at it. Humans are not naturally monogamous creatures. We would like to think that we are because morally speaking in our, in our Puritan oriented moral nation, we like to believe that we are. But historically speaking, it's just not true. People are more polygynous or polygamous by nature, and that's just the way it works. People don't want to admit this because it makes them seem like a bad person. You're not a bad person. Now can it work for some people? Absolutely. The problem is it. It's pushed as if it's A1 size fits all for everybody and it's just not true. Now I'm not telling you to break the law. Well, I'm not telling you to jump into a marriage because jumping into a marriage today is a horrible idea, especially if you're a dude, because you stand everything to lose and you'll do it all. Pretty much for just consistent sex. I mean, if you're totally honest and you stop blessing me with the the Okie Doke of. OK, but Sir. It's all about the relationship and it's all about the connection. It's all about stop it, stop it and stop. Stop with the BS. I'm not listening to it. We all know what it is. Stop lying. Do I need? To play the clip, I'll play it. I I don't understand why people be out here lying about, that's all sex is so important, by the way. Look. People want to downplay this, especially if you're religious. I get it. It's kind of day class. Say it's kind of the third rail. Of the polite Christian society or polite puritan society. You don't want to talk about sex. I get it. The problem is it's extremely important, because without it, you wouldn't have a marriage. That's what separates your marriage from your friendships. Tell me I'm lying. You can't tell me I'm lying cause I'm not. And the reason that feminism is marred marriage and why it ties in is women have been taught to be more masculine, and men have been taught basically to to sit down and shut up and accept it and take it. Because there was a time in society when men basically could do whatever the hell they want and get away with it. Now the opposite is true, and women can do whatever the hell they want and get away with it. And men have to take it. We're seeing all blowback on what has historically been the case. Where does that leave us? That leaves us with marriage having traditional roots with unorthodox approach, which is what we find in the modern day American Society. And that's why it's not working. Feminism was freed men, by the way, if you're even whether you're religious, not religious, it's freed you to say, hey, I'm gonna develop my own personal philosophy. I'm going to develop my own way of thinking so that I don't have to just follow the script, follow the okey Doke. I don't gotta do any of that anymore because it's designed. To make me look and act like a fool. So I'm not going to do it. I'm not telling you to sit. I'm not telling you to break the law. I'm not telling you to do any of those things. What I'm telling you is think for yourself if you think for yourself and you find that everything you believe right now is something you agree with and you want to stick with. Nothing wrong with that at all. As long as you've actually thought it through and you decided that that's what you wanna do, not just accept it because it's what you've been told to accept or conditioned it to believe is true. And then therefore you must do. That is something I want. Everybody listening to the show to do is develop your own personal philosophy and that's why I talk about that in detail and at length in the biblical bachelor, my book coming out on the 31st, why I believe that men should become biblical bachelors and not married men. Without leverage and without options and without perspective, because it's really easy to just rush into it. And I I know some of my best friends have done it. God bless them. I hope their marriage is fantastic. I love them. I just don't think that that's right for everybody. And I think you're taking a big risk by doing that. And I want to make sure you put your best foot forward and not just jump off the Cliff because you've been told to jump. I want you to take the leap of faith that you want to take, not the one that you're just being pushed into taking. My friends marriage is supposed to be beautiful and the problem is it's being destroyed. It's being marred. It's quality is being dishevelled and it makes me sick. And that's why. I don't know if I can be be a married guy. Why? Because I don't trust the other person. #1 and #2, they have every getting into a marriage today. Look for those of you who don't know how the marriage laws work. Your wife is essentially incentivized to break the contract that you signed. Oh, I know you made promises at the altar and you exchanged rings and beautiful vows and everybody cried and they booed. And it was great. And it was beautiful and wonderful. I get it. But when you get down to brass tacks and they get down to to the money, money talks and the rest walks. And when you look at the money. Money says hey. Your wife is incentivized to get you to invest for a certain amount of time so she can take the kids the alimony and take your *** to child support court. Take your *** to divorce court and just rail you for the cash for the next 18 years or 23 if you live in Hawaii. Ohh yeah. That's just the fact of reality. I'm not saying that every person, every woman, will do that. I'm saying that they have the option available to them if they want to do that. And and a. Lot of women talk about it. I'll take talk like it's a business. Ohh yes. Oh yes. You thought you were safe out here. You thought it was just the skeezers. All here in these streets and doing it. Ohh no, my friends, you're mistaken. A lot of women are out here doing it's like. A new business plan. They'd have their cake and eat it too. They can use your money and so get piped down by Chad, Tyrone, Ray, Ray, Pablo, you name it. Ohh, yeah they can. Now, they may not always do that, but they can and is available to them courtesy of the current laws. And that could happen anytime if she could say that happened, that could not be the case today. Or then for the next five years or 10 years, but maybe at the 11th year mark, something that might change, you never know. Women unloyal to their feelings and the feelings are very fleeting and they could be very dangerous to somebody who doesn't rely on them like you. If you're a man. My friends, I want you to make the best decision that's going to be best for your future, and so you win in the long term and don't make short term deals for short term gain that could end up really hurting you in the long run. If marriage works the way it's intended, it's beautiful. Don't get me wrong. Problem is it doesn't work that way for most people these days and it makes me really sad to see it. But my friends, that's why I found Dism is marred marriage. It's freed men to do what we want to do and to open our eyes up to what historically we couldn't do. But you gotta have the guts to step out of the matrix, take whether it did take the red pill and jump out of the matrix and say, hey, I'm gonna do what I want to do. I'm gonna go the way I want to go. I'm gonna. Think for myself and I'm gonna take that leap of faith that no one expected me to do. People might say that I'm bugging, that I'm crazy, that I'm tripping. But guess what? I'm not going by. They're playing by their rules anymore. I'm thinking for myself. My friends, I want you to be a free thinker, not just someone who's falling for the okey Doke. Because they've been conditioned to do it. My friends, God bless you. God bless your families. God Bless America. Have a great evening. Hopefully I gave you some food for thought. I'm out of here. Peace.