Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheepshead Podcast, Home of People Politics of popular Culture. I'm your host, Austin Creed. And look, we're weary visiting a topic that I've discussed on the show before, but you know. More, I realize just how much of an issue this is for younger guys, and really, I mean, let's be honest here, this is an entire guy issue and even sometimes a woman issue as well. But look. I like when Napoleon Hill said in not winning the devil. If you have not read the OR listen to out winning the devil. You need to. Do that right now, not, not tomorrow, not next week. Right now it will change your life. Because it will help you understand. This struggle though you'll face. The struggle of competing against in Michael Jackson's words, the man in the mirror. It's something that a lot of people they can't get out of their own way. And look, I'm getting a little ahead of myself. I know. I get it. First of all, welcome into the show. How are you all doing this? Evening? Good, I hope. Because I'll be honest with you, I'm having a little bit of a rough time. I'm I'm not perfect. I said that in the morning show this morning. I'm not perfect, and anybody who knows me in real life knows I'm not perfect. But, gentlemen, look, I gotta really sit. We gotta sit down. We gotta we gotta huddle up. We gotta discuss this. So many books, so many podcasts, so many Youtubers, they all talk about this issue of whether it's similar retention, sexual transportation, no FAP, whatever it is, all these things add up to the same general. Idea and it's all centered around the idea of controlling your sexual energy, because if you don't control it, it will control you. And it's just a fact of reality. If you don't like it. Well, too damn bad. That's too bad. Guess what? Doesn't matter whether you like it. You don't like it cause. Look, I don't want people to be lying anymore. I want you all to be honest with yourselves. If you're gonna tell me if you're gonna try and convince me that you're not out here trying to *** ****, you're out. You're trying to score. You know how you're trying to sexually express yourself. This is going to be my response. I mean, look, do I need to say it again? It's the way it is look. At the end of the day, we need. To you know, get this weed business. What am I talking about you? And by you I also mean me. I'm not a master at this. I actively work towards becoming a master at this, but this is something that we all struggle with. It is part of the human condition and I'm sick and tired of people preaching cold approach, talking about picking up chicks, talking about you, man. You're back in these streets, man. I'm out here. Kill. On it. I'm sick of it. It's stupid, stupid, moronic. Does anybody? I'm not the only one that sees these videos in the gym of dudes. Look for more than .5 seconds and then a girl sees you looking and then she calls the police on you. Or is she? She shames you in public. Yeah. We gotta update our software. I talk about this biblical bachelor. We gotta update our software. That has not been updated. You know, I was in class earlier today. It's a little sign now. I was in class. We're talking about the US Constitution of all things, and I kind of dozed off in class. I mean, who really pays attention in class anyway? Whether it's high school college? Let's just be honest, OK? Those people, all they focus on is the person in front of the the girl looks good. They focus on her. Well, think about some random crap. They you know what they want? They want to eat afterwards. You know, classic stuff, right? Well, I was thinking in the class today and I was, I was reflecting on what I wanted to do, what I was thinking about, you know, you know, classic everyday stuff. And I had this epiphany, I thought to myself, my God. How much? Programming. Do we actually receive during our lifetime? I mean, I think it was Andrew Tate who really popularized this idea of we live in the matrix. But is there? Actual validity to that statement. I mean, I I certainly think there can be when you think about it, I want to, I want to ask you a question. I know some of you are married, some of you are not married. Some of you don't even care about marriage. Some of you actively want to. Let me ask you something. What, if anything, do you actually gain in a marriage today? Why do you want to get married? Is it for religious reasons? Is it cause you want exclusive access? Is it because you just want? Do because if if you cannot find a reason as to why you want to do something, that's a symptom of programming, and I was thinking to myself when I was sitting in my. Class and I thought to myself, how much programming do we actually need to undo in our brains? And how can you tell the difference between what you've been programmed or conditioned to believe and what you. You've kind of filter through your own idea. You you bounced around ideas you've thought about things in depth, and you've established them as part of your own personal philosophy, which is a idea that I pushed on this show all the time. It's one of the core tenets of the sheep get sheared. Podcast is. Identifying different things and forming your own personal philosophy, not one that's copy paste of someone else's. Not one that just makes sense for somebody else. So that sounds good in theory. No, I'm talking about something that you could actively live out every day of your life. And of course, it's going to evolve and change over time because you're going to evolve and change over time. That's just that's completely unavoidable. But some of us out here need to seriously stop having sex out here because the pursuit of sex is causing you to self sabotage and it's robbing you. Of your success. And Napoleon Hill's book outwitting the Devil, which I played a little, I think, was like a minute and like 15 second clip from that book. I played it because I actively believe what he was talking about when it talks about, I'm not saying turn it off. It's impossible. You can't just turn off a natural human. Emotion or desire. You can't just turn it off. That's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is we need to actively understand this, you know, and all I'm a Christian, and I actively believe in. Most of the things the Bible says the problem I have with the Bible and how it's interpreted today is that people ignore the cultural context and I know immediately when I bring up the Bible. So many people are already like gonna turn their to like religion and I'll turn it off. I'm not listening to it. No, no, no. Come on. Come. Come back to the conversation real quick. This is very important because when you read whether it's the Bible, whether it's ancient text from Confucius, Plato, it could be secular or religious. You realize the human condition. You humans don't change much. I mean, it doesn't matter whether you're typing something on Twitter or you're chiseling something on those stone tablet. People really aren't that different, and the humid conditions the human experience hasn't really changed all that much. Now the appearances certainly have, but overall, the day-to-day, the. The arc of. A human life doesn't really change much. I mean, what is the goal of every person's life? Right. We have this natural desire most of us to reproduce, have children and then basically take a dirt nap and then roll over in our grave. I mean, that's really when it comes down to the base of it. That's what most people are. They're programmed on a biological level to want to do what I just described. Now, as I make it. Bad. No. Does that make it very exploitable? Hell yeah. Ohh yeah. When it comes down to exploitable. I mean, let's be real. How many things? Well, I want to propose something to you. OK, listen now listen to me very carefully. If you're a guy, let's pretend like you woke up every day. And you are getting sex. As much as you wanted, or you could just. Literally like push. A button and immediately a *** ***** would show up and and should give you any kind of sex that you wanted. If you had that, would you want to go out there? Risk your life, bust your *** trying to make a living? What you want to do, all those things? Or would you kind of just sit back and be like hey man, I'm liking this. No, man. I'm gonna like, just. I'm gonna chill out here and or order some hot chicks over in it and just enjoy myself. Like, let's be totally honest and let's cut the bull. How many people, if we actually were honest, if you got access to it, whatever the hell you wanted, how much of us would actually strive to do things in our life? And how many of you think that if we we shut this down, the world would just? The the world would. End very quickly and we'd hear this. I mean, let's just be real. How many of us would actually strive to be rich to bust our butts and be ambitious? I'm sure some. Of us would. But how many of us would just take that deal and be, like, cool with this man? Yeah, yeah. I'm kind of cool with this. When you realize how humbling that question is, you realize how much sexual energy really plays a part in our lives. I talk about. I hear guys on the side of the Internet talk about how I program these bird, and we're real. Women do this well. We should do that. Want my girl to do XY or Z? Hypercube is good for for men. I know you don't feel that way if you're a low quality dude or if you're broke. I know you don't think that, but guess what? It pushes you to strive to be better, to earn more money, to invest in, sow more seeds and go out there and make a living for yourself and not just sit there and and order to try to order girls or like you order room service at the hotel. You could do. That you wouldn't strive as much as. If you can't. That's why God set up that way. Or evolution. I I think God did personally, because God's smart. But let's just let's just cut through all the garbage. OK. It's so easy when you have access to sex, to not be ambitious, and that's part of the reason why a young age, most of us, we strive for it and we're willing to do pretty much anything. Risk our lives to get it. That's why. Because it was supposed to be something that you had to earn versus now is pretty much on demand for most people, especially if you're in the top like 1510% of men, whether it's financially, physically, whatever, it's really, it's not that hard for you. But at least most men out in the cold. And that's why. Prawn is up in. Yeah, I know I'm mispronouncing it, but prawn numbers are through the roof, that's why. And if you think that, look, if you're in the top 15 to 2010% of men and you're out here trying to tell me that ohh Austin, all these big hot chicks, bro. Yeah, man, I don't get the I only get the the model girls. Man, I I'm not out here getting out here, you know, with these ugly girls. Anything like. Please, please stop it. This is this is what I. That's what I gotta say. You I see y'all out here sometimes. Dude, you don't think I don't see people out here who talk? About on the Internet. Of Austin. I get out here and I get all the hot chicks. Man, I'm. I'm not out here with these with these slop flops and these and these ugly chicks. I see your goofy **** on campus all the time out here. Well, your your Girl Scout, your girl walking. By and I'm like. She probably doubled my body weight, man, and I'm a I'm just over 6 1/2 foot tall man. Like a seismic event happens when your chick walked by and you want to tell me you only get baddies. Get the hell out of here with that garbage. Dude lies, but there's no. There's no shame in that. But I'm sick and tired of dudes wanting to get a trophy out here for banging hoes. It's stupid, but one thing I've never heard of. The guy in the first clip. Before he might be well known, but I've never. I've never met him or heard him before, but his idea of the hunt was so important. If we channeled that same mindset of the the hunt, because I think it's true. Ohh yeah, I think it's totally true that there's an aspect of getting with a New Girl and you're getting that sense of the chase and. The hunt if. We channel that into making money, new business ventures, finding and finding ways to network and make get more opportunities for ourselves. I firmly believe that we could replicate that same feeling. Sorry if you heard that, but. But seriously, if we could. If we could change that whole line of thinking and say hey. You know what? I'm gonna channel that into a different Ave. I'm gonna channel that and I'm gonna make something out of myself, and I'm gonna fuel use this primal source of power, and I'm going to fuel my mindset to use compound. Interest of time to my advantage and go out here and sow more seeds so I can make and reap the harvest and make more money. Because if you think you're going to go out here and money is just going to fall on your lap, you know, just gonna make a lot of money not doing a whole lot. You're stupid, stupid. You kid. That doesn't work that way. It takes conscious effort. Definiteness of purpose and it takes time and consistent effort to win out here. There are no shortcuts. There are no shortcuts and the only shortcuts you might think of have dramatic drawbacks. That make it not even worth it. How many people win the lottery and go flat broke and very short? Period of time. Yeah, exactly. Almost every single one of them. And yet that's supposedly a shortcut, but it's not. Look, I know I'm getting a little off track here, but that's that's a stream of consciousness. It's a show. OK. But when it comes down to it, well, the reason why I say stop having sex is because you need to understand it before it starts to. To drive you into drifting for such driving you into making dumb choices, short sighted decisions that will rob you of long term success. Because I'm sick and tired of watching it happen. It happens to me every once in a while. I'm not perfect. Every day I strive to be better, and if you don't do the same thing, that's why I think cold approach is so stupid. You're going out of your way. To approach women who are not interested, OK, for those of you who have never actually seen a choosing signal, women will let you know when they're interested in you. And if you need to go out of your way to find women to do that, you're hustling backwards and you're wasting time. OK, well, girl likes you. She makes it very obvious. OK, if you didn't know that now you know. So if you're going to be out here trying to perform magic tricks and pull rabbits out of hats and try to get dates, stop it, please. For the love of God, stop. You look stupid and you're wasting your time. Cola Proche is dead. It's harassment nowadays. OK. It's dead. Stop. You're liable to get caught on camera in 4K or get exposed, or get the cops called on you. Stop it. Don't do it. I don't care what these dudes on the Internet say about cool approach is not dead. It's good. It works for me. Stop, please. I know who you're actually approaching. And it's not the girls in your YouTube videos. Those things are staged, dude. Ohh it's like a one out of 100 that you might get on tape and you. Actually post up there. I know what y'all doing out here. OK? I'm not blind. I'm not blind, so stop lying to me. I'm. Sick of it? I had to get that out of my system because I it makes me sick to. Watch these videos. I and I. Get it? If you're a young guy and you don't have a leverage, you don't have options. You see it. You think that that is the best way to get women. If you're thinking about getting women, you're already in the wrong mindset. You should have to get women. You should get options get leverage. Because otherwise they have leverage on you and that's why you had to work. So hard to get next to nothing. That's why you have to work so Dang hard when other dudes don't have to, because they have leverage. And you don't. My friends. Stop having sex and start understanding it before you jump back into the dating marketplace. You jump back into the hookup market. Whatever it is you do. Understand it so that you can use it to your advantage instead of it using you and then you end up in a tailspin. Ohh, garbage and be us and you wonder how you got there. Well, that's why. My friends, God bless you. God bless your families. God Bless America. Focus on yourself. Do not be out here acting goofy. Don't let me see you out here looking goofy on the Internet. Try to pick up some chicks at the gym out in the at. The the mall. Please I don't want. To see you on the Internet looking stupid. I want to see you how you're talking to me about how you were on the grind for five years and you out here made your first million. That's what I want to see. I don't want to see you out here. Cold. Approaching, chicks getting rejected, or I'm the free chicks that you actually picked up, two of which were fat and one of them was actually mid. You got out, you and you talked about how cold. Approaching dead. Please stop. Focus on things that actually matter and will give you returns. All right, I'm out of here. Take care of yourselves. Let's win out here. Peace out.