1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,320 We have a delusion calculator. A supporter of ours made it and it's literally based on the US Census Bureau and the National Health Survey, right? 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:12,160 So it has probably the most accurate data figure points as far as like many United States. 3 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:17,200 So we asked the girl, what height do you want them to be? How much do you want them to earn, etc. etc. We go through it, right? 4 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:24,800 Most of the girls pick a guy that's in the top 1% if not less. When it comes to earning potential, height, not being obese, race, etc. 5 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:31,200 No matter how innocent the female, she still wants the man to have had experience. 6 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:36,000 If you were to ask a virgin woman, do you want a virgin boyfriend? She'd say no. 7 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:41,800 Or if she's slept with one man and she lived a good life, do you want a man to live a good life and be with one woman? 8 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:47,200 No, maybe she would have slept with a few more. They want you to have been XYZ, right? 9 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:53,600 So you could have been a playboy except for the thousand girls and get with a virgin. She wants you to be that way and you want her to be that way. 10 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:58,600 It's fine. It's how it's supposed to work. Read this all fucked up now as you got women out here with some of the 100 dudes. 11 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,200 Sleep with a guy who fucked like 15 chicks. He wonders why he can't keep her under control. 12 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:14,200 My friends, welcome to the Sheepkiss Sheared podcast. We're here to talk about people, politics and popular culture. 13 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:22,600 I'm your host, the one and only Austin Creed. And my friends, I want to walk you into the show and we're going to revisit a topic that I talked about before. 14 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:35,600 However, I want to combat it from a little bit of a different approach because it's really easy to do this show one way and really go hard on one group and ignore the realities of an entirely different group. 15 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:42,600 Now, what am I talking about? We're talking about today the delusions of the dating marketplace. 16 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:53,600 I am aware that there is a delusion calculator when it comes to women's standards for dating. And yes, a lot of women have very delusional dating standards. 17 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:59,600 However, there are a lot of men who also have very delusional standards as well. 18 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:06,600 So I'm going to give both sides fair play and I'm not going to come out here and I'm not going to bash women and I'm not just going to support the men. 19 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:14,600 I call it as I see it. Okay. And if you don't like it, go find another show. I'm not doing it today. So here's what we're going to do instead. 20 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:20,600 What we're doing instead is I'd like to present exhibit a. Okay. 21 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:29,600 Now, the reason why the delusion calendar and cal cal calendar calculator exists is because we'll start right here. 22 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:39,600 This is in 2021 women outnumbered men 100 to 98. 23 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:46,600 Now, I may not sound like a big number until you realize that that equates to over 3 million people. 24 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:58,600 So if let's pretend like every dude, right, every single man, whether he's good looking, ugly, obese, poor, broke, whatever, disabled, doesn't matter. 25 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:03,600 We'll take every single dude in this country and pair them up with a woman. 26 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:09,600 There'd be over 3 million women who would still be single. 27 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,600 So that's just the beginning. 28 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:17,600 But we also take into account the fact that most women want a guy who is attractive. 29 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:21,600 He has to look good. He has to make money. 30 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:25,600 He has to maybe be a certain race, a certain height. 31 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,600 He has to maybe be of a certain religion. 32 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:33,600 You add all those things up and your number gets smaller and smaller and smaller. 33 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,600 Okay. That's just one side of the equation. 34 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:41,600 Now, I'd like to present exhibit B. 35 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:47,600 Exhibit B is this gentleman. 36 00:03:47,600 --> 00:04:05,600 For those of you who want a virgin wife and you think that you're owed a virgin and all this other stuff like that, first of all, most virgins are pretty bad in bed, to be honest with you. 37 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,600 You heard me. Yeah, that's right. You heard me. 38 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:13,600 But let's take that out of the equation for a second and let's look at this data. 39 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:23,600 So this is a data source that discusses the statistics of ages when women first started having sex. 40 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,600 Okay. 41 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:29,600 Now, according to what I know, this is self-reported, so you have to take it with a grain of salt. 42 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,600 But what do we find? 43 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,600 Well, here it is. 44 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:39,600 It says, for example, look at the figures on this chart if you're watching. I'll read it for you. 45 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:47,600 It says the percentage of women aged 20 to 49 who reported having sex for the first time as Pacific ages, they showed the chart. 46 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,600 It says, when you look at two, so let's look at the chart. 47 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,600 It says about age 10, 1%. 48 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,600 11 to, 11, 2%. 49 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,600 12, age 12, 4%. 50 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,600 13, 8%. 51 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:07,600 They get the 14, age 14 for women, 20%. 52 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:13,600 We get to age 15, it jumps to 41%. 53 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:29,600 Age 16 for women, 56% of women in this study said from ages 20 to 49 said they first started having sex, 46% said they started at 16. 54 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:38,600 That jumps to 67% at age 17, 78% at age 18, and 82 at age 19. 55 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:46,600 So at age 19, according to this study, 82% of these women have had sex. 56 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:55,600 Gentlemen, I know some of you right now are probably thinking to yourself, 57 00:05:55,600 --> 00:06:00,600 No, I understand. Trust me, I get it. You're thinking to yourself, this can be true. 58 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:06,600 Austin, where are you getting these numbers from? It's a lie. You know, my girl different. I know this one chick. 59 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:10,600 I kind of know this other chick. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 60 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:16,600 We ain't playing no anecdotal evidence. Okay. This is real data. All right. 61 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,600 Now I'm not saying these women are worthless. I'm not saying they're bad. 62 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:29,600 I am letting you gentlemen know that for those of you who think that, oh, I'm going to marry a virgin and I'm going to have that white picket fence with the 2.5 kids and a dog. 63 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:38,600 Man, those days are going away. And for those of you who are looking to find a virgin, you're more likely to be saying this. 64 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:49,600 Then you are anything else. And if you don't like it, well, I'm sorry. I don't know what to tell you. That's just the way it goes. 65 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:57,600 Now, my friends, this is the ghost to show what I said earlier that dating standards are becoming more and more delusional. 66 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:04,600 Now, why is this happening? Okay. Let me put away the data for a second and let's just talk a little bit more brass tacks. 67 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:08,600 Why is this happening? Well, there are multiple reasons why this is happening. 68 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:17,600 Number one, faith is going, the faith rates are going down, at least for Christianity. Islam is kind of going up a little bit. 69 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:27,600 But the secular culture, huge influence on that. The more free and more liberal people have come in their lives, 70 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:35,600 the more people have become more debauchery because the culture is saying, do it. If it feels good, do it. 71 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:40,600 If you want to do it, do it. That's just the way it goes. 72 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:48,600 And even if you're a religious person and you say to me, hey, Austin, you know, I was supposed to be in the world, but I don't do any of that. 73 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:57,600 Well, if you're a dude in your younger, I'm inclined to believe you because dudes are inclined to lie about how they've been with more women. 74 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:04,600 And women are more inclined to lie and say they haven't been with men. There's an equation I heard once when I was younger where 75 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:13,600 what I do tells you is body count, you divide by three. When a girl tells you her body count, you multiply it by three. 76 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:23,600 Because it's usually how it goes. Both sides are incentivized to lie to make themselves look better and look more socially valuable. 77 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:29,600 Now, I'm not saying that you should quote, settle on your standards. You do what you want. 78 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:37,600 You are entitled to have your standards. However, you are not entitled to find that person and much less have the commit to you. 79 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:42,600 How they stick around because look, ladies, I've been a little tough on a man today. 80 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:48,600 I've given them a dose of reality. Now I got to give you all a little bit dose of reality. Okay. 81 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:58,600 Most women want the same dude. And not only do they want the same dude, they want that same dude to commit to them and be theirs all theirs. 82 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:05,600 Let me tell you something. That's not happening. And if it does happen, it won't happen for very long. 83 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:13,600 Gentlemen, if you want a girl who's out here who's yours, all yours, she's mine, all mine. You want a girl like that? Guess what? 84 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:18,600 You're not alone. And you're very replaceable, most likely. 85 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:23,600 Because women with the best guy they can get, just as dudes, usually with the best girl they can get. 86 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:28,600 It's called natural selection, read Darwin's origin of species. 87 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:34,600 This is nothing new. For those of you who know anything about biology, this is not new and it is not bad. 88 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:42,600 In fact, I'd argue it's good. It makes the human race stronger and it makes you more likely to look better, be able to carry yourself better, 89 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:47,600 not die of disease at a young age, all these things. 90 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:55,600 I'm going to go on a ledger and I'm going to tell you something that I believe the Bible supports if I want to bring a religion into it, which I believe I will. 91 00:09:55,600 --> 00:10:09,600 People, monogamy is not normal to the human condition. That is a very new Catholic church doctrine that has been pushed ever since dumb Christianity was founded. 92 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:19,600 I'm not saying I can't work, it can, but it's a sacrifice that both people have to make. In the minute that one person doesn't want to make it anymore, it's a wrap. It's over. It's done. 93 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:23,600 It is just gone, done, over. 94 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:30,600 And anytime someone wants to go out to me and say, oh, you know, I don't have any eyes for anybody besides my spouse. 95 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,600 Stop lying! 96 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,600 That's my answer to them. I know they're lying to me. 97 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:46,600 Okay. Because sometimes you got to lie to yourself because sometimes people have to deal with the fact they're unhappy with their life and it's really easy to lie to yourself. 98 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:54,600 But my friends, the dating market delusion has gotten so bad that people are just taking it out on others. 99 00:10:54,600 --> 00:11:03,600 Instead of seeing reality, they're thinking that if they degrade a certain part of society, if they attack certain people, or if they just check out altogether, it's going to work. 100 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:07,600 Well, it might work for you as an individual, and if that's what you want, that's fine. 101 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:15,600 The problem is there's not really a long-term solution to this other than somebody has to give ground. 102 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:24,600 And historically, the natural order is that, I mean, you look at a history book and say how history was supposed to work. 103 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:33,600 Look, I'm not a humongous fan of Andrew Tay. I agree with some of the things he does and says, but other stuff, I'm a little more like, eh, and all about all that. 104 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:37,600 I think he's exaggerating or he's taking it out of context or whatever. 105 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:42,600 But I believe I'm to be right with women want an experienced man. 106 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,600 And men want to be experienced. The problem is most dudes can get experienced. 107 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:50,600 Most dudes aren't having sex. Let me bring this up again. Hold on. 108 00:11:50,600 --> 00:12:06,600 When you look at this chart, you want to say, oh, look at it. According to this chart reported by women ages 20 to 49, this says that by the age 19 women, 82% have had sex. 109 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:10,600 Oh, well, that means that also 82% of men have had sex, right? 110 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:18,600 No. No, it doesn't. In fact, the opposite is true, because let me tell you something. 111 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:27,600 All those 82% of women, they're having sex with the same men, the same top 10% of men. 112 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:43,600 And it gets from 10% as the baseline. And as it goes to 9%, 8%, 7% all the way up to 1%, the numbers go up with about a woman who has slept with that man, because they all want that same man. 113 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:50,600 They're not having sex with the bottom 90% of men. Not happening. 114 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:58,600 Does the game has changed out here, gentlemen? It's not just what your grandfather did or what your father did. No, social media changed the game. 115 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:08,600 And I'm not a hater of social media. I think social media has not changed the world per se. It has just brought things to light that have always been a little under the surface. 116 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:21,600 But now they become mainstream because people have realized they're not alone in their debauchery, they're not alone in their lunacy, and they're not alone in their desires, and alone with their desires. 117 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:29,600 They're upset with the fact that the Apple Cards have been a certain way and they want to overturn it because they think they can make it better. 118 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:43,600 For those feminists out there who think that we need a matriarchy and that men are no good, hey, you're more than welcome to try to find a good matriarchy, but there are no matriarchies that have been really successful on planet Earth, because if they have, they'd still exist. 119 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:49,600 And don't bring up some obscure tribe or village somewhere. That does not count. 120 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:56,600 I'm talking about an actual kingdom, an actual clan, actually something that has stood the test of time. I haven't found it. 121 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:08,600 That's not to degrade people, it's to instruct them in the order of reality and to help you decide for yourself where you stand and what you desired, what you want. 122 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:25,600 My desire is for people to see reality. Gentlemen, you need to realize that if you want to get married, which I would not recommend, by the way, until the marriage laws are changed, and if you want to know why, you're welcome to read my manual coming out on this subject called Biblical Bachelor that's available for pre-order. 123 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:34,600 Right now on Amazon, by yours truly, Austin Creed. Right in there, you'll find out why I say that. 124 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:45,600 And ladies, you're not going to be able to find Chad McChannington or Tyrone Thunderched, Tyrone Thunder Johnson. 125 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:55,600 And if you do find him, he ain't committing to you. If you don't like it, that's too bad. Gentlemen, you're not going to find a virgin woman out here. 126 00:14:55,600 --> 00:15:05,600 The virgins pretty much don't exist and if they do, they've already been wiped up by dudes and echelons that are far out of ring yours. 127 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:10,600 So, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it's the reality of the situation. 128 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:25,600 Now, does that mean you should get mad? Does that mean you should get angry? No. It means you should accept reality for what it is and adjust accordingly to how you can best live your life and accomplish the goals that you have set for yourself. 129 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,600 That is what I recommend that you do. Not getting mad. What is getting mad going to change? 130 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:37,600 Is that going to take the body count off like going in reverse in the Ferris Bueller movie like it did for the car? Is that going to take the miles off the car? No. 131 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:46,600 It's not going to take the miles off the car. But if you still want a car, guess what? Finding a new car is going to be tough. 132 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:53,600 That's not meant to dehumanize anybody. It's meant to provide instruction and provide an analogy. 133 00:15:53,600 --> 00:16:07,600 My friends, understand that reality is very disappointing most of the time, but the only way to make it better is to accept it for what it is and then attempt to make it better. 134 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:16,600 You can't change something for the better if you don't... you can't try to cure a disease if you can't even diagnose the disease. 135 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:24,600 My friends, I hope this brought a little bit of instruction in your life. I'm sure some of it you already do. In other parts of it, maybe you didn't. 136 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:31,600 But be realistic out here with your standards if you're dating. And don't get mad at people for not fitting up to that standard. 137 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:37,600 That's just not fair on either side of the aisle. Well my friends, God bless you. God bless your families. God bless America. 138 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:47,600 We're out of here. Enjoy your evening. Peace.