We have a delusion calculator. A supporter of ours made it and it's literally based on the US Census Bureau and the National Health Survey, right?
So it has probably the most accurate data figure points as far as like many United States.
So we asked the girl, what height do you want them to be? How much do you want them to earn, etc. etc. We go through it, right?
Most of the girls pick a guy that's in the top 1% if not less. When it comes to earning potential, height, not being obese, race, etc.
No matter how innocent the female, she still wants the man to have had experience.
If you were to ask a virgin woman, do you want a virgin boyfriend? She'd say no.
Or if she's slept with one man and she lived a good life, do you want a man to live a good life and be with one woman?
No, maybe she would have slept with a few more. They want you to have been XYZ, right?
So you could have been a playboy except for the thousand girls and get with a virgin. She wants you to be that way and you want her to be that way.
It's fine. It's how it's supposed to work. Read this all fucked up now as you got women out here with some of the 100 dudes.
Sleep with a guy who fucked like 15 chicks. He wonders why he can't keep her under control.
My friends, welcome to the Sheepkiss Sheared podcast. We're here to talk about people, politics and popular culture.
I'm your host, the one and only Austin Creed. And my friends, I want to walk you into the show and we're going to revisit a topic that I talked about before.
However, I want to combat it from a little bit of a different approach because it's really easy to do this show one way and really go hard on one group and ignore the realities of an entirely different group.
Now, what am I talking about? We're talking about today the delusions of the dating marketplace.
I am aware that there is a delusion calculator when it comes to women's standards for dating. And yes, a lot of women have very delusional dating standards.
However, there are a lot of men who also have very delusional standards as well.
So I'm going to give both sides fair play and I'm not going to come out here and I'm not going to bash women and I'm not just going to support the men.
I call it as I see it. Okay. And if you don't like it, go find another show. I'm not doing it today. So here's what we're going to do instead.
What we're doing instead is I'd like to present exhibit a. Okay.
Now, the reason why the delusion calendar and cal cal calendar calculator exists is because we'll start right here.
This is in 2021 women outnumbered men 100 to 98.
Now, I may not sound like a big number until you realize that that equates to over 3 million people.
So if let's pretend like every dude, right, every single man, whether he's good looking, ugly, obese, poor, broke, whatever, disabled, doesn't matter.
We'll take every single dude in this country and pair them up with a woman.
There'd be over 3 million women who would still be single.
So that's just the beginning.
But we also take into account the fact that most women want a guy who is attractive.
He has to look good. He has to make money.
He has to maybe be a certain race, a certain height.
He has to maybe be of a certain religion.
You add all those things up and your number gets smaller and smaller and smaller.
Okay. That's just one side of the equation.
Now, I'd like to present exhibit B.
Exhibit B is this gentleman.
For those of you who want a virgin wife and you think that you're owed a virgin and all this other stuff like that, first of all, most virgins are pretty bad in bed, to be honest with you.
You heard me. Yeah, that's right. You heard me.
But let's take that out of the equation for a second and let's look at this data.
So this is a data source that discusses the statistics of ages when women first started having sex.
Okay.
Now, according to what I know, this is self-reported, so you have to take it with a grain of salt.
But what do we find?
Well, here it is.
It says, for example, look at the figures on this chart if you're watching. I'll read it for you.
It says the percentage of women aged 20 to 49 who reported having sex for the first time as Pacific ages, they showed the chart.
It says, when you look at two, so let's look at the chart.
It says about age 10, 1%.
11 to, 11, 2%.
12, age 12, 4%.
13, 8%.
They get the 14, age 14 for women, 20%.
We get to age 15, it jumps to 41%.
Age 16 for women, 56% of women in this study said from ages 20 to 49 said they first started having sex, 46% said they started at 16.
That jumps to 67% at age 17, 78% at age 18, and 82 at age 19.
So at age 19, according to this study, 82% of these women have had sex.
Gentlemen, I know some of you right now are probably thinking to yourself,
No, I understand. Trust me, I get it. You're thinking to yourself, this can be true.
Austin, where are you getting these numbers from? It's a lie. You know, my girl different. I know this one chick.
I kind of know this other chick. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
We ain't playing no anecdotal evidence. Okay. This is real data. All right.
Now I'm not saying these women are worthless. I'm not saying they're bad.
I am letting you gentlemen know that for those of you who think that, oh, I'm going to marry a virgin and I'm going to have that white picket fence with the 2.5 kids and a dog.
Man, those days are going away. And for those of you who are looking to find a virgin, you're more likely to be saying this.
Then you are anything else. And if you don't like it, well, I'm sorry. I don't know what to tell you. That's just the way it goes.
Now, my friends, this is the ghost to show what I said earlier that dating standards are becoming more and more delusional.
Now, why is this happening? Okay. Let me put away the data for a second and let's just talk a little bit more brass tacks.
Why is this happening? Well, there are multiple reasons why this is happening.
Number one, faith is going, the faith rates are going down, at least for Christianity. Islam is kind of going up a little bit.
But the secular culture, huge influence on that. The more free and more liberal people have come in their lives,
the more people have become more debauchery because the culture is saying, do it. If it feels good, do it.
If you want to do it, do it. That's just the way it goes.
And even if you're a religious person and you say to me, hey, Austin, you know, I was supposed to be in the world, but I don't do any of that.
Well, if you're a dude in your younger, I'm inclined to believe you because dudes are inclined to lie about how they've been with more women.
And women are more inclined to lie and say they haven't been with men. There's an equation I heard once when I was younger where
what I do tells you is body count, you divide by three. When a girl tells you her body count, you multiply it by three.
Because it's usually how it goes. Both sides are incentivized to lie to make themselves look better and look more socially valuable.
Now, I'm not saying that you should quote, settle on your standards. You do what you want.
You are entitled to have your standards. However, you are not entitled to find that person and much less have the commit to you.
How they stick around because look, ladies, I've been a little tough on a man today.
I've given them a dose of reality. Now I got to give you all a little bit dose of reality. Okay.
Most women want the same dude. And not only do they want the same dude, they want that same dude to commit to them and be theirs all theirs.
Let me tell you something. That's not happening. And if it does happen, it won't happen for very long.
Gentlemen, if you want a girl who's out here who's yours, all yours, she's mine, all mine. You want a girl like that? Guess what?
You're not alone. And you're very replaceable, most likely.
Because women with the best guy they can get, just as dudes, usually with the best girl they can get.
It's called natural selection, read Darwin's origin of species.
This is nothing new. For those of you who know anything about biology, this is not new and it is not bad.
In fact, I'd argue it's good. It makes the human race stronger and it makes you more likely to look better, be able to carry yourself better,
not die of disease at a young age, all these things.
I'm going to go on a ledger and I'm going to tell you something that I believe the Bible supports if I want to bring a religion into it, which I believe I will.
People, monogamy is not normal to the human condition. That is a very new Catholic church doctrine that has been pushed ever since dumb Christianity was founded.
I'm not saying I can't work, it can, but it's a sacrifice that both people have to make. In the minute that one person doesn't want to make it anymore, it's a wrap. It's over. It's done.
It is just gone, done, over.
And anytime someone wants to go out to me and say, oh, you know, I don't have any eyes for anybody besides my spouse.
Stop lying!
That's my answer to them. I know they're lying to me.
Okay. Because sometimes you got to lie to yourself because sometimes people have to deal with the fact they're unhappy with their life and it's really easy to lie to yourself.
But my friends, the dating market delusion has gotten so bad that people are just taking it out on others.
Instead of seeing reality, they're thinking that if they degrade a certain part of society, if they attack certain people, or if they just check out altogether, it's going to work.
Well, it might work for you as an individual, and if that's what you want, that's fine.
The problem is there's not really a long-term solution to this other than somebody has to give ground.
And historically, the natural order is that, I mean, you look at a history book and say how history was supposed to work.
Look, I'm not a humongous fan of Andrew Tay. I agree with some of the things he does and says, but other stuff, I'm a little more like, eh, and all about all that.
I think he's exaggerating or he's taking it out of context or whatever.
But I believe I'm to be right with women want an experienced man.
And men want to be experienced. The problem is most dudes can get experienced.
Most dudes aren't having sex. Let me bring this up again. Hold on.
When you look at this chart, you want to say, oh, look at it. According to this chart reported by women ages 20 to 49, this says that by the age 19 women, 82% have had sex.
Oh, well, that means that also 82% of men have had sex, right?
No. No, it doesn't. In fact, the opposite is true, because let me tell you something.
All those 82% of women, they're having sex with the same men, the same top 10% of men.
And it gets from 10% as the baseline. And as it goes to 9%, 8%, 7% all the way up to 1%, the numbers go up with about a woman who has slept with that man, because they all want that same man.
They're not having sex with the bottom 90% of men. Not happening.
Does the game has changed out here, gentlemen? It's not just what your grandfather did or what your father did. No, social media changed the game.
And I'm not a hater of social media. I think social media has not changed the world per se. It has just brought things to light that have always been a little under the surface.
But now they become mainstream because people have realized they're not alone in their debauchery, they're not alone in their lunacy, and they're not alone in their desires, and alone with their desires.
They're upset with the fact that the Apple Cards have been a certain way and they want to overturn it because they think they can make it better.
For those feminists out there who think that we need a matriarchy and that men are no good, hey, you're more than welcome to try to find a good matriarchy, but there are no matriarchies that have been really successful on planet Earth, because if they have, they'd still exist.
And don't bring up some obscure tribe or village somewhere. That does not count.
I'm talking about an actual kingdom, an actual clan, actually something that has stood the test of time. I haven't found it.
That's not to degrade people, it's to instruct them in the order of reality and to help you decide for yourself where you stand and what you desired, what you want.
My desire is for people to see reality. Gentlemen, you need to realize that if you want to get married, which I would not recommend, by the way, until the marriage laws are changed, and if you want to know why, you're welcome to read my manual coming out on this subject called Biblical Bachelor that's available for pre-order.
Right now on Amazon, by yours truly, Austin Creed. Right in there, you'll find out why I say that.
And ladies, you're not going to be able to find Chad McChannington or Tyrone Thunderched, Tyrone Thunder Johnson.
And if you do find him, he ain't committing to you. If you don't like it, that's too bad. Gentlemen, you're not going to find a virgin woman out here.
The virgins pretty much don't exist and if they do, they've already been wiped up by dudes and echelons that are far out of ring yours.
So, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it's the reality of the situation.
Now, does that mean you should get mad? Does that mean you should get angry? No. It means you should accept reality for what it is and adjust accordingly to how you can best live your life and accomplish the goals that you have set for yourself.
That is what I recommend that you do. Not getting mad. What is getting mad going to change?
Is that going to take the body count off like going in reverse in the Ferris Bueller movie like it did for the car? Is that going to take the miles off the car? No.
It's not going to take the miles off the car. But if you still want a car, guess what? Finding a new car is going to be tough.
That's not meant to dehumanize anybody. It's meant to provide instruction and provide an analogy.
My friends, understand that reality is very disappointing most of the time, but the only way to make it better is to accept it for what it is and then attempt to make it better.
You can't change something for the better if you don't... you can't try to cure a disease if you can't even diagnose the disease.
My friends, I hope this brought a little bit of instruction in your life. I'm sure some of it you already do. In other parts of it, maybe you didn't.
But be realistic out here with your standards if you're dating. And don't get mad at people for not fitting up to that standard.
That's just not fair on either side of the aisle. Well my friends, God bless you. God bless your families. God bless America.
We're out of here. Enjoy your evening. Peace.