1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,600 Hey guys, welcome back to the coolest pot in the game where I pick people's brains about things that keep me up at night. 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,080 On today's episode big dick energy 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,360 I'm joined by Charlie Van Viren a fellow emerson student 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:17,120 And I will be persecuting him for answers about big dick energy because I'm just a curious cat 5 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:23,200 Like I'm so intrigued by this concept and I just want to know more and so I thought I'd have a male guest and 6 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:28,080 We can discuss what I know about it and what you know about it and just have little discourse 7 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:33,920 Um, would you mind introducing yourself to my listeners, please? Absolutely. Uh, what's going on? 8 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,640 Uh, Charlie Van Viren, uh, sorry 9 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:44,880 Um, I am a sophomore here at emerson on the men's lacrosse team and I love the more male podcast 10 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,040 Oh my god, that makes me so happy 11 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,560 So the reason why Charlie is on this podcast 12 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:55,440 We were at a party and I see him in the streets and he's just yelling out at me 13 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,040 Hey, like I want to be on the pot and I was so happy and excited 14 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:04,800 But I thought he was joking and so like I never reached out and then I ran into him into like on the street the other day 15 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,800 He was like, oh, where's the DM like I was waiting and I was like wait, you're serious 16 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:14,880 And so DM time and here we are. So are you pumped because I'm so pumped. Yeah, I am 17 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,880 Absolutely, I'm just thrilled to be on here that party 18 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:24,480 I was in uh, you know without incriminating myself. I was in a questionable state, but you know 19 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:28,720 Uh, as we all were though as we all were and that's okay 20 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:36,160 So I want to start off. I did a lot of research about this because I just I'm so intrigued by it, honestly 21 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,400 um, so 22 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:39,440 Sorry guys 23 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:44,400 I got a definition online that says that big dick energy is confidence without cockiness 24 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:47,040 It's never misplaced. It cannot be simulated 25 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:52,800 It is the sexual equivalent of blindly writing a check for ten thousand dollars knowing you have it in the bank 26 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,400 So I think that's a really good definition because I feel like it's 27 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,000 Like big dick energy is the opposite of like try hard 28 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:04,880 So I want to know your thoughts on that definition and if you want to counter it or agree with it 29 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,880 Yeah, I mean, I think I really like that definition. I think you know, it's 30 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,440 More than a sexual thing. I think it's more of like a way of life sort of thing. Uh, 31 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:20,960 I think that sort of that like a lifestyle kind of I would agree with that and I also want to talk about like the 32 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:28,080 Pete Davidson lore surrounding big dick energy because I feel like he's kind of the one who coined that term big dick energy 33 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,400 and like I get it because like he's a 34 00:02:30,640 --> 00:02:31,600 like 35 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:36,880 Physically like he's a tall man. He's got big feet. So like all the stereotypes surrounding big dicks like he has it 36 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,840 But I feel like just something about that man 37 00:02:39,920 --> 00:02:42,000 Like there's no reason why he should be hot 38 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:46,800 But I think he's such an attractive man and I know it's not for his physical appearance 39 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:51,520 It's just the way he carries himself and the way he acts around the women he's dating 40 00:02:51,920 --> 00:02:54,240 I don't know. I want to hear. Have you ever heard about like 41 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,000 The p. Davidson like around big dick energy? 42 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:04,640 Yeah, I mean, I think the guy like pete davidson is he's really like just confident anything he does 43 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,920 And kind of like you said like I think he embraces the fact that 44 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,640 Like conventionally, he's probably not the most attractive guy. He's a little bit, you know 45 00:03:12,640 --> 00:03:21,440 On the skinnier side. He's got uh some interesting facial features. I guess, you know, not no hate, but I think that's the way he would say himself 46 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:26,480 Yeah, uh, but I think that yeah, it's just like the confidence they has like he knows he's a funny guy 47 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,200 But doesn't ever seem like he's overdoing it 48 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:34,400 Uh, like, you know, he's not it's not like a tacky way. I think he's just being really 49 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:40,560 Genuine to how funny he is and kind of walks around like, you know, throws it over his shoulder to say 50 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:46,640 Um, I'd agree with that because he's definitely a questionable looking like no offense p 51 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:53,680 I still find you hot like but as if he's listening to this, he's not but anyways like he has dark under eye circles 52 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:55,760 like he's like he's 53 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,760 Um lanky like I don't know and he's like he has a potty mouth 54 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:04,000 so like conventionally, he should not be like attractive at all but 55 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:12,000 And the fact that he bags so many bitches is crazy to like kim Kardashian ariana grande apparently now 56 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,800 I spice like what is going on? 57 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,880 Like I I want to know your thoughts on that. How do you think he's getting these women? 58 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:26,000 Yeah, I mean he definitely has cracked the formula that I have not because you know, he's uh, 59 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,840 I think you're shooting 100% right now. It's crazy, right? It's nuts 60 00:04:29,840 --> 00:04:33,360 They're good for him though, but I mean it's so good for him. Yeah 61 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,720 I don't know like I I think that has to be like it has to be studied in the books 62 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,440 But I think it's also like the way he 63 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:48,480 It's like a definition that I saw is that like big dick energy guys like they love like their girlfriends or wives like publicly 64 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,560 Like they're not like low-key about it 65 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:55,920 Like they're just like out and about showing off their women like I don't know any thoughts about that 66 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,080 Do you think that had that plays a part in it? 67 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,720 Yeah, I definitely think that that's sort of like 68 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,920 You know almost like dance with the girl that brought you you don't want to uh 69 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,960 It's like big dick energy is having 70 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:13,280 Uh, just confidence and kind of like anything that you do right and like 71 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:19,360 If you're not showing off, uh, you know your booth thing that it's like you're sort of 72 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:25,920 I guess like you're saying that yourself like you aren't confident like so true. I agree with that 73 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:31,520 Um something else what what does it mean to you when a guy has big dick energy? 74 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,560 Like give me your own personal definition 75 00:05:35,280 --> 00:05:41,280 Yeah, I mean, it's definitely something that uh can't be quantified, you know, it's like I guess what I mean by that is 76 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,360 it's like 77 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:49,040 You can't tell yourself like, you know, I've got big dick energy because it's something that's kind of like bestowed upon you 78 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,320 but like the idea of it the idea of like 79 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:58,400 You know being sensitive to other people's emotions, but not letting your own emotions like and I don't mean like 80 00:05:59,280 --> 00:06:04,960 Not being passionate about things because I think that if you're definitely like passionate about somebody or something that you do like, you know, that's 81 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:11,040 A great example of it, but it's like not like your own emotions get in the way of like the shit that you have to do 82 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,680 Yeah, you have to do like be a good person 83 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:15,280 I'd agree with that 84 00:06:15,280 --> 00:06:19,920 So for me my definition of when a guy has big dick energy and we're gonna get into like 85 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:27,040 Can girls have big dick energy because I think it's like more of an aura thing and not an actual like oh like this person is hung 86 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,360 Like I like I don't know maybe that can play a part 87 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,320 But for me when a guy has big dick energy, it's 88 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,040 It's more of like an attitude 89 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:36,160 It's like 90 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,000 It's kind of like they know they have it 91 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:44,720 But like you said they'll never say they have it because it's like a title that you get like from other people and then like you walk 92 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:48,560 Around with such confidence, but you're not cocky. You're not arrogant. You're not obnoxious 93 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:53,600 I don't know. It's just I think it's just an energy like you feel when a guy has big dick energy 94 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:59,520 I don't know. It's it's a very like strong component for me when I'm looking like for a guy, honestly 95 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:04,960 Yeah, I think that it's one of those things that like, you know, you can tell yourself when you wake up in the morning 96 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,440 Like I want to you know, have that sort of like bde 97 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:09,680 sort of thing 98 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,680 But it's not something that 99 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,600 You know, you're I think the true epitome of having bds 100 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:21,680 Like it's not something that you're like thinking about every day. It's definitely not like, you know, just how well a guy's hung 101 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,760 like how well he's down with like, you know, it's 102 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:29,440 Something that you're not really thinking about too much, but you just exude it and for sure 103 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,400 Yeah, I agree with that like you don't wake up in the morning 104 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,200 Look at yourself in the mirror and be like, oh, I have big dick energy today 105 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:40,400 Like so many bitches are gonna come my way like then you have the smallest dick in the world, bro 106 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,720 Like that for me. That's what it is. So 107 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:51,120 So can girls have big dick energy? I want to hear your thoughts on that. I mean like, you know, physically like, you know, I don't think that's quite 108 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,200 Obviously not 109 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:54,560 But uh 110 00:07:54,560 --> 00:08:00,400 No, absolutely. And I think that you know, at first starters, Melody, I'd say that you are the epitome of that because 111 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,280 Stop 112 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:07,120 You know, you walk around campus, uh, you know, you're saying hi to everyone like you're just so friendly 113 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:12,640 And you can tell that like, you know, you would never be able to tell that like, you know, say you spilled your coffee 114 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:14,640 in the morning or like, you know 115 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,840 You'll woke up on the wrong side of the bed having a bad air day 116 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:24,000 You want to be able to tell just because you exude that confidence. Wow. Thank you. You're so kind. That's so nice. So 117 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,560 I think that's so nice of you. Wow. That really made my day because sometimes 118 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:32,320 I'll wake up and I'm like, oh, I hate myself like I hate my life 119 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:37,680 But thank you. I'm glad I exude that and I feel like I do exude that I was gonna ask that question after but 120 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:39,840 I want to talk about someone like Rihanna 121 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:46,240 I think she has the like if she was a man, oh my god eight inch or nine inch or like it's great 122 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:50,320 What do you you're raising your eyebrows? What's up with that? I wasn't an eyebrow raise 123 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:54,880 That's an eyebrow raise of uh agreement. Yeah, I would even go up to 10 124 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:56,720 Really? 125 00:08:56,720 --> 00:09:04,480 Okay, Rihanna. I just feel like she's I hate the sentence boss bitch like, oh that makes me sick and cringe so much 126 00:09:04,560 --> 00:09:06,880 But I feel like that's exactly what she is 127 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:11,120 I feel like when she walks into a conference room like with men like 128 00:09:11,680 --> 00:09:17,840 Like that's an area in my head like they all like like curl into a fucking ball because of how 129 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:23,200 Much confidence she exudes and she knows who she is and she knows the power she has but she'll never like 130 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:25,680 She said it in interviews for sure 131 00:09:25,680 --> 00:09:31,760 But like she'll never like outwardly like go like around town saying oh, I have the biggest stick energy like ever 132 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,800 She'll never say and I think that's what like emulates like 133 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:41,120 Oh, she's so perfect. I'm sorry. I'm going on a tangent about this woman, but I think she's so awesome 134 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:46,880 Do you have any other people like any other girls in mind like in the celebrity world that you think exude that? 135 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,280 uh, yeah, I'd say, uh 136 00:09:49,680 --> 00:09:51,840 First starters probably 137 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:55,840 For me one of my personal heroes. I'd even say is uh law and all right 138 00:09:56,400 --> 00:10:02,080 Stop. Stop. This is a bonding moment. I love lana del Rey more than anything in life. Oh my god 139 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,080 Wait, so what about her? 140 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:10,800 Well, I think that it's just like emotional vulnerability is something that like I take very serious in my life because like 141 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:13,360 at least like we're talking about like 142 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:16,800 Masculinity and how much of like a 143 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:21,000 That's gonna be a little side tangent here like talking about masculinity and how much that like 144 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:25,520 You're supposed to bottle up those emotions and like not let anyone see it 145 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:31,480 Like I feel like Lana like you know she in her music. She's very emotional, but she walks around 146 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,160 She was in where I'm from Newport 147 00:10:34,680 --> 00:10:38,600 Over the summer. I got the chance to see her walk on the street. I was so 148 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,680 She would have been so happy she would have been she's so sweet 149 00:10:43,680 --> 00:10:49,520 Yeah, but a couple my friends went up and like you know took a picture with her and she was just smile the whole time 150 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:53,000 I get like you know, she's probably got a lot to smile about you know 151 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,960 She's doing pretty well for herself, but I feel like 152 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:01,040 You know no matter what like, you know, when you listen to her music she talks about like 153 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:05,060 At least when I was first listening to I was like, oh my god, like you know this woman's life 154 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,720 depressing 155 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:12,960 You know she always seems to be handling everything so well and like you know 156 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:19,360 She's had like controversy in the past, but she just writes a better fucking album after that. Oh, she's so amazing 157 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:24,280 I think you know, I didn't even think of her like that like exuding big dick energy 158 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:27,240 And I think that's because of her emotional aspect 159 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:33,920 Hmm, that's that's something definitely to ponder because I literally all my playlists have at least one Lana Del Rey song 160 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:40,440 I I think she's so awesome and talented and she definitely does exude big dick energy and thank you for bringing that to my attention 161 00:11:40,560 --> 00:11:42,840 I love that. Okay, so 162 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:49,080 Back to like do do we think we have big dick energy? Do you think you have big dick energy? 163 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:55,080 I mean, you know I to I would never want to contradict myself and say that I have it 164 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,600 You know, I've heard in the past. No, it's okay. It's gonna be scratched from the record like I 165 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:05,040 Want this to be a conversation. Do you have do you think you have it or do you think other people think you have it? 166 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,760 I think I've heard both sides of the coin 167 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:11,820 You know, I told me that I've got the you know some small thing 168 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:17,760 And I always have told me that I've got big dick energy, but I think it's one of those. Yeah, it's kind of 169 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,600 You know, I don't even know the true definition of this word. I was gonna throw it out there transcendental 170 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,600 I don't know 171 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,680 It is a word I'd no clue what the definition either 172 00:12:28,680 --> 00:12:34,480 But I was just it was popping in my head all morning, but I think it's one of those things where it's like it can happen 173 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:41,200 Any given day you can have big dick energy and I think that it's not like obviously some people will have it more than others 174 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:46,560 It's like Pete Davidson Rihanna. Lawn O'Rei. Yeah, we'll have it, you know, essentially every day 175 00:12:46,560 --> 00:12:50,560 I'm sure that they have some days that like aren't seen by the public guy where it's like 176 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,160 Damn, it's pretty shit. I'm pretty shivered down there 177 00:12:56,560 --> 00:12:58,560 Yeah, I for myself 178 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,560 I'd like to think that it's something that I 179 00:13:01,560 --> 00:13:07,280 Strive to have but like, you know, I never say that's something I'm actively working towards but I 180 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:13,440 Have been given the compliment in the past and I've held it very close to my heart. That's amazing 181 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:19,640 I would venture to say I don't know you well enough to say that but I think you do have big dick energy like you're not cocky 182 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,720 You're not well from the conversations. I've had with you 183 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:26,360 You're not an obnoxious person like as a man men are super fucking obnoxious like 184 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:34,480 Ugh, but like I I've never seen you in a situation where you've been obnoxious or like tearing people down for your own sake 185 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:38,520 And so I think that does play a part in big dick energy and so I think you do have it 186 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:41,040 So, but I don't know you well enough 187 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:45,240 We need to get to know each other better and then I can say for sure if you do have it or not 188 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:52,040 Fair enough. Yeah, I think it's one of those things like everyone deals with like anxiety and all that and it's 189 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:57,360 And obviously like you know, it's something you should definitely get help for whatever 190 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:02,800 You know, whether it's therapy or just kind of within yourself. Yeah, that makes you a little bit less anxious 191 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,200 But it's not 192 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,160 Anything that like what you said like you never want to be tearing anyone down 193 00:14:07,680 --> 00:14:12,680 Right like you never take you never take that out on anyone else because you feel insecure about yourself 194 00:14:12,680 --> 00:14:14,680 I think that you know 195 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:21,200 Anyone in the world has got stuff there feel anxious or sad about and that's one of those things that like the biggest indicator of it 196 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,040 Is being able to handle that? 197 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:29,360 You know through your own beads and not let it affect anyone else. Yeah, I agree with that 100% 198 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,360 I think that's a really good point you make 199 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:35,800 And so me I don't want to sound like cocky or whatever 200 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:40,400 But I do think I have big dick energy honestly and I haven't been told that by anyone 201 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,480 But well by you and thank you for that 202 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:48,200 But I feel like I'm every time I meet someone new and then we become friends 203 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:52,160 They always tell me oh, I thought you were the biggest bitch ever and for me 204 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:57,000 That's like the biggest compliment ever because that means that I carry myself a certain way where people are like 205 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,600 Intimidated of me kind of and like not in a scary way or anything 206 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,480 They're like oh like should I go talk to her like I'm kind of nervous 207 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:09,920 And I kind of like that about myself and every single person without a miss that like has become a friend 208 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:16,340 That was an acquaintance before they've told me that and I think that kind of like emulates big dick energy 209 00:15:16,340 --> 00:15:19,900 And I think I do kind of have it a little bit of course there are some days where I'm like 210 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,560 like Chotey, but I 211 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:30,560 Think I do have it most days and I like that about myself honestly thoughts. Yeah, I think it's one of those 212 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:35,840 Like we kind of said about being approachable right like you know 213 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:40,880 I think that at least I try and see my I try to be as friendly as possible 214 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:46,720 Right, but like you know, I'm not I definitely don't think I'm the type of person people have said this be before like 215 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:48,800 You know I 216 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:54,880 Before you like really meet me like you know, they'll throw a joke around or something. You're like wow this guy's kind of a prick 217 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,800 but 218 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,920 It's yeah, like you know you definitely be friendly to your friends, right? 219 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:02,440 But you're maybe not the most approachable person on the street 220 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:06,920 Yeah, not someone who someone's gonna come up to you and ask for you know directions 221 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:08,920 Yeah 222 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:13,720 I think that part of that is just that confidence. Yeah, I think that's a beautiful thing though 223 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:19,320 Because then when that person gets to know you they're like, oh, this is the coolest person ever like they're so nice and so sweet 224 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:24,800 I think that's like it's a nice paradox to have within the realm of big dick energy 225 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:26,920 I think that's a that's a beautiful thing honestly 226 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:29,400 so 227 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:36,000 Back to back to like big dick energy being literal or just an energy that draws people in what do you think? 228 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:41,960 Do you think it can be like both sides or like just one? Yeah, I think that like attraction for it, right? 229 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:45,920 Like you know I and going back to like you know women having big dick energy 230 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,440 It's definitely something that I look for right? Yeah, it's not gonna be a 231 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:55,280 You know I'm waiting for you know, I don't want to have someone who's gonna be just kind of like 232 00:16:55,920 --> 00:17:02,760 Pissed off all the time like you know they're gonna try and bring you down with there because they're feeling insecure about stuff 233 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:08,200 Yeah, definitely a very attractive thing. I think both sides of the spectrum you want to have someone who can handle themselves 234 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,400 Not so they're gonna have to look after like you know 235 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,400 Yeah, yeah for sure. I 236 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,600 Agree with that 237 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:17,280 for me I 238 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:24,000 Think I think it can be both like literally like they have a big dick and they have that energy that draws people in or 239 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:30,640 It can be like either like Pete. I feel like some guys like with that are hung well 240 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:38,200 At least from my experience they were like pussies. They were weird. They were like so strange and you would never expect them and this I'm so wrong 241 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:42,680 I'm sorry. I'm not sexualizing anyone like I'm so sorry take this with a grain of salt 242 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:50,560 He's like I'm begging you but I feel like it can definitely be both ends of the spectrum like going back to Pete Davidson 243 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:55,680 I think like it's both literal and figurative because I'm so sorry 244 00:17:55,680 --> 00:18:02,200 I've never seen this penis, but you cannot convince me that that man is not hung like I'm so sorry thoughts 245 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:06,600 Yeah, I think that you know, it's definitely one of those things where it's like, you know 246 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:11,580 You don't want to be showing it off like anyone who is saying it was bragging. It's like oh, I got the 247 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:14,200 biggest fucking dick in the world 248 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:19,440 Like you know, it's like you keep it modest, you know 249 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:26,880 You just you don't even talk it you don't talk about it. You know, it's one of those things that's like in the privacy of the bedroom 250 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:28,280 Or sure for sure 251 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:33,960 But for me what confirms it for Pete Davidson is that what he dated Ariana Grande, right? 252 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:40,080 And she was with big Sean and I know like he's he's a short king, but I know that man is fucking 253 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:43,940 Hong bro. He got his dick back got leaked like two years ago 254 00:18:43,940 --> 00:18:51,420 huge massive and so obviously she's into that so she I don't think she would be in a long-term relationship with Pete if 255 00:18:51,900 --> 00:18:55,820 His dick was in big like honestly tbh and then you go to Kim Kardashian 256 00:18:55,820 --> 00:19:02,500 She was with Ray J for sure hung like anyone who's seen the sex tape like hello and she was with Kanye 257 00:19:02,500 --> 00:19:05,180 I don't I'm not sure about Kanye, but like 258 00:19:06,100 --> 00:19:08,100 whatever 259 00:19:08,100 --> 00:19:14,740 You could you could assume exactly and who else? 260 00:19:14,740 --> 00:19:18,500 Humphrey's like the super tall basketball hit that man was hung for sure 261 00:19:18,500 --> 00:19:24,020 So I feel like that confirms it for me because also Kim would never be with someone with a small dick like I'm sorry 262 00:19:24,260 --> 00:19:28,940 Like she's she's too hot sexy successful powerful for that like 263 00:19:29,620 --> 00:19:34,980 Thoughts. Yeah, I think it's you know, just go on keep her that on about confidence, right? 264 00:19:34,980 --> 00:19:40,180 Like, you know, it wouldn't be it's someone like that powerful like Kim Kardashian 265 00:19:40,340 --> 00:19:45,700 Like you need this you need a man that is like fucking 100% confident 266 00:19:45,940 --> 00:19:49,300 in pretty much everything that he's doing and you'll see that with like a 267 00:19:49,940 --> 00:19:51,620 Lot of rap like Ray J 268 00:19:51,620 --> 00:19:57,460 Yeah, sure ton of confidence of that guy Kanye, you know, yeah almost over the top 269 00:19:58,060 --> 00:20:04,140 Narcissistic, yeah, but like with that being said Kanye's gotta be packing, you know 270 00:20:04,140 --> 00:20:06,140 100% I agree with that 271 00:20:06,540 --> 00:20:09,420 It makes me so uncomfortable talking about Kanye West stick 272 00:20:10,020 --> 00:20:12,020 anyways moving over from 273 00:20:12,660 --> 00:20:14,660 that I feel like also 274 00:20:15,460 --> 00:20:22,580 Something that kind of bothers me about big dick energy is that it can translate into a guy being nonchalant and there is nothing 275 00:20:22,580 --> 00:20:25,980 I hate more than a nonchalant guy like okay 276 00:20:25,980 --> 00:20:29,700 You can be like for the first few months we're talking you can be cute and like oh, I don't care 277 00:20:29,700 --> 00:20:35,180 I don't care, but like please shut the fuck up and act like you care and act like you have feelings and you're not emotionally 278 00:20:35,340 --> 00:20:39,740 Unavailable, so I feel like kind of I feel like p. Davidson is so emotionally unavailable 279 00:20:40,260 --> 00:20:44,300 Like you well, he's gone through so much trauma too, so I can't blame him for that 280 00:20:44,380 --> 00:20:50,460 But I don't like the nonchalantness like aspect of big dick energy. So do you think that's like 281 00:20:50,940 --> 00:20:53,980 Do you think that's something that's there with big dick energy? 282 00:20:53,980 --> 00:21:01,500 Yeah, I think that's probably one of the most dangerous things at least for young men like in today's world is like you talk about this like 283 00:21:02,020 --> 00:21:04,020 Sigma like Jim bro 284 00:21:04,020 --> 00:21:08,060 It's like you know the the breakup period and all that 285 00:21:08,980 --> 00:21:13,860 Fucking lift a ton of weights and what not let anyone get to you like yeah fuck that shit dude 286 00:21:13,860 --> 00:21:20,220 Like yeah, I think that like when I was dealing with a breakup, right like the best resource 287 00:21:20,220 --> 00:21:27,660 I had was being open more open and honest my you know friends my family like I started talking to my parents 288 00:21:28,140 --> 00:21:30,140 More than I ever did 289 00:21:30,260 --> 00:21:34,620 Because at least you know they you know that they've gone through like the same sort of stuff, right? 290 00:21:34,620 --> 00:21:36,940 You never want to be like completely 291 00:21:39,020 --> 00:21:47,620 Completely emotionally shut off. Yeah, it's like it's bullshit. You're not everyone has emotions exactly agreed you shouldn't like 292 00:21:47,620 --> 00:21:54,340 The only way you're gonna be able to grow is being able to like express those emotions 293 00:21:54,340 --> 00:21:58,740 And deal with them also. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, cuz I feel like at some point wait 294 00:21:58,740 --> 00:22:01,300 This is veering away from big dick energy, but I like it a lot 295 00:22:01,300 --> 00:22:07,780 Like I think that's something very important because I feel like that's the thing especially in men like and it makes me so sad 296 00:22:07,780 --> 00:22:11,940 Cuz I grew up around a bunch of boys and like personally the guys in my family 297 00:22:11,940 --> 00:22:16,060 They do like they're in touch with their emotions and they do know how to talk about their emotions 298 00:22:16,060 --> 00:22:20,540 Like some of my guy friends like they'll be dealing with like the worst worst shit ever 299 00:22:20,540 --> 00:22:25,420 And they don't talk about and I know they're dealing with something and it just makes me so sad and they're like no 300 00:22:25,420 --> 00:22:29,300 Like I'm a guy like I'm a man. It's like no like you're a man 301 00:22:29,300 --> 00:22:36,420 Yes, but you have emotions and it's so okay to cry to scream to like go to fucking therapy like please 302 00:22:36,420 --> 00:22:39,440 Let's normalize going to therapy like it's so okay 303 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:40,700 I love my therapist so much 304 00:22:40,700 --> 00:22:47,300 I talk about it all the time on the podcast like and I think like that's that should be a stigma removed from men because it 305 00:22:47,300 --> 00:22:53,740 Makes me so very sad like and cuz I love all of my guy friends so much and I want them to thrive emotionally 306 00:22:54,340 --> 00:22:59,260 Like oh, it just makes me so sad. I want to hear your thoughts about that. Yeah, I think that 307 00:22:59,940 --> 00:23:03,540 Like for sure like you know, we do have to normalize therapy for matters 308 00:23:03,540 --> 00:23:08,380 Definitely one of the most like one of the best things that I did I was going through like a really tough time 309 00:23:08,380 --> 00:23:09,780 That's amazing 310 00:23:09,780 --> 00:23:12,900 Like you know, it's it's all about consistency with it, right? 311 00:23:13,220 --> 00:23:19,180 And I kind of got to a point where you know, I don't see it was much because I don't need excited 312 00:23:19,180 --> 00:23:25,940 They help me have so much along the way that they will regulate like those emotions those feelings of like feeling lost and stuff like that 313 00:23:26,780 --> 00:23:33,020 But like you know the first step was just being like open and completely honest like here's the shit that I'm dealing with 314 00:23:33,140 --> 00:23:35,260 Yeah, for sure. Just how I feel about things 315 00:23:35,260 --> 00:23:39,340 This is you know how I think I got to this point and they give you so many tips 316 00:23:39,340 --> 00:23:43,820 Just so much about yourself too, and I think it's it's so amazing 317 00:23:43,820 --> 00:23:49,140 I cannot advocate enough about therapy and it makes me so happy that you've gone to therapy 318 00:23:49,140 --> 00:23:52,420 Wow, and I feel like that's so telling of your character as a person 319 00:23:52,420 --> 00:23:57,660 I feel like you're so like nice and soft and like oh wow that makes me really happy 320 00:23:57,660 --> 00:24:01,560 We need to hang out more. This is this is amazing Charlie. I love this 321 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:07,920 Absolutely, yeah, of course um, okay, can big dick energy get annoying? 322 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,420 I think that's a question more for me 323 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:15,520 Well, maybe I feel like it can get annoying because like when it gets to someone's head 324 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,360 It's like they start like getting 325 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:25,260 Overtly like confident and it's like turned into arrogant and it's like like now you have small dick energy 326 00:24:25,260 --> 00:24:30,660 Like you need to like calm down because I feel like it may like if you tell someone so many times that they have big dick energy 327 00:24:30,660 --> 00:24:36,920 Like makes their head so big and they like oh it's annoying so I want to hear your thoughts on that 328 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:42,020 Yeah, I think that like it's one of those things where maybe what I'm saying about 329 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:50,680 Transcendental I'm coming to this realization myself is good that it's never something that you're gonna be able to fully reach 330 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:54,080 You'll never reach like a hundred percent of it on any given day 331 00:24:54,080 --> 00:25:00,480 And like when you think you reach it like the next step of it is you know a year or two ahead, right? 332 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:07,600 Like that's something you got to keep working towards so you can never have that full like a hundred percent confidence that like yes 333 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:12,560 I I haven't you know, I'm dragging on the floor behind me like you know, it's like 334 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,000 It's you got to be able to like keep 335 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:22,440 neutralize it kind of yeah, I have a balance because it can get annoying and it's like 336 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,440 Like don't fucking piss me off 337 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,880 There was another quote that I really liked and I never thought about it like that 338 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:35,400 It says men who exude big dick energy are usually the low-key ones confident but not cocky 339 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:40,880 However women who exude big dick energy are usually more outspoken and large and in charge 340 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,880 And I want to hear your thoughts because I have thoughts about that 341 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:52,080 Yeah, I think like we talk about just sort of gender roles like in the past hundreds of years society and like how we see it today 342 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,640 like you know, it's 343 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,760 like not like the 344 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:02,440 Men who have been in power have been the ones who are always loudest like you know, let's go do this right now 345 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:10,120 We need to do this right and it's like they're not you can tell that like that's how they feel like they're expected to be right and like 346 00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:17,040 The expectation for women is to be sort of a quiet reserve even like when women were in power, right? 347 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:21,840 Like you know if they showed any sort of motion like their label does like oh, they should be in power 348 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:22,840 They're too emotional 349 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:27,840 I think like the real epitome of it is being able to kind of switch those like 350 00:26:28,360 --> 00:26:32,720 at least for men to have the confidence that like, you know, they're doing the right thing and 351 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,680 That they're not gonna let anyone really bother them or get to them 352 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:41,360 Mm-hmm, and then for women, it's like, you know, I have the power in this situation 353 00:26:41,360 --> 00:26:45,960 I'm gonna use my power and you know, I'm not gonna let any man 354 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:52,080 Anybody sort of like take that away from me. I know that I have that Wow 355 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:58,240 You kind of stole the words right out of my mouth. I think I think that's a really fair point 356 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,720 I love that you relate it back to the olden days 357 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:06,480 I feel like oh, this is so sad because I feel like I'm the silly one in this podcast and you're like so serious 358 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,400 Which I so appreciate I love it 359 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:14,840 You have so much information and intel on this but I kind of like I like that you brought it back to like the old days 360 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:21,400 I kind of want to talk about like fucking Julius Caesar like that man was so loud and like out and about 361 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,600 Tiny as penis ever if you ever see a statue of that man the estimation of his penis 362 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,920 Oh my god like half an inch and it's like oh sir 363 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:37,040 Like don't fucking piss me off like you have no right to be so loud and yelling at people like I'm not your thoughts 364 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:42,360 But like any comments? Yeah, I think you know, I I definitely feel for the 365 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:49,040 You know the Mediterranean civilization man that were sort of remembered forever in these carvings 366 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:51,480 They did not do them very much 367 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,200 immortalized with the tiny penis 368 00:27:54,200 --> 00:28:01,000 Crazy there's no snapchat memories back then so I could really there's no point of reference 369 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:05,880 But you know I'll take those to be a hundred percent accurate for my own twist 370 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,600 Do you think they're accurate like there's no way? 371 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:13,640 Every because if you go to a museum, I feel like every man every male statue 372 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:18,120 Their penis is are like so tiny. There's no way everyone had 373 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,040 Tiny penis back then 374 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:24,640 Well, I think there's a couple schools of thought to 375 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:30,840 You gotta think of like evolution right like the guys who probably had the bigger ones they got laid more 376 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:35,200 So they were able to sort of pass that on for generations 377 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:40,600 But I was also thinking about this I was at the MFA a couple weeks ago when I was thinking like 378 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:46,880 Those looked like like those statues look like they're so hard to do like surely if I was if I was Michelangelo 379 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:51,760 By the time I got to the bottom half and begin kind of pissed off like fuck this guy 380 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,640 How come he paid me to make this whole statue? 381 00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:02,560 Make his penis so fucking tiny forever for other generations to see. This is all they'll think about 382 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,960 Wow, that is the final revenge for sure. That's crazy 383 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:14,800 Um, I want to talk speak literally take a shot people who are listening take a shot every time we say dick cuz this is 384 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:19,640 You're gonna be fucking plastered. But anyways little dick energy 385 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:27,320 What do we think about that? I think it's men who are like we've said earlier so fucking arrogant so obnoxious 386 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:33,680 So like they want big dick energy so bad that like it's it's like you're a tryhard 387 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,280 You're not you're never gonna get it like you're you 388 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:44,200 Thoughts, please. Yeah, I the only way I think it was who's the guy Bob Arnab who's a great comedian 389 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,200 I think that he definitely has big dick energy 390 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:51,120 He had some sort of like song about like, you know when you finally meet God 391 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:55,000 You'll realize that like you you pray so hard to meet God when you finally meet him 392 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:59,760 You you realize you don't really need it, you know, I think it's like sort of that trying too hard 393 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:04,320 You'll you're never gonna reach yeah having that big dick energy and like, you know 394 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:09,880 You'll forever be in that state of having little dick energy and at least for this doesn't really matter 395 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,920 You know kind of how big your number is yeah 396 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:19,840 Very enough. I don't know. I'm trying to think of people. I think have small dick energy 397 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:25,160 Can you think of anyone? Well, I can think of a million people 398 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:32,680 That's not like celebrities or whatever because they don't care about us 399 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:38,880 Um, I don't know well, we're playing a little game at the end. So yeah do that then 400 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:47,600 So there was like kind of a controversy surrounding big dick energy like probably a year or two ago and like men were kind of finding 401 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:51,880 Fighting back and like being like oh like why are you sexualizing us? 402 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:56,720 Oh, blah, and you know what that is a really fair argument to make 403 00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:03,880 But I feel like it's such a silly term that like people use just like like just throw around honestly 404 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:11,360 It's like a social media farce and like it's not meant to like degrade men or like reduce them to like a sexual like being 405 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,680 And I want to hear your thoughts on that like where you upset about it like what's up? 406 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,600 I didn't really I heard about it 407 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:24,400 And I thought that it was kind of ridiculous because I feel like the only man they're really like sort of complaining about that 408 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:29,480 Probably got called out for you know sexualizing women in the workplace or something 409 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:37,040 I feel like it's something that like anyone who like has any grain of actual big dick energy in them would not let that 410 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:43,280 Yeah bother them would not be about it. Yeah, I feel like it's definitely this small chody men 411 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:48,640 We're upset about it like I get where they might be coming from because yeah, it's like 412 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,680 Like let's not let's be real like it is a sexual thing at the end of the day 413 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:58,960 But I don't feel like it was meant to like reduce men in any way if anything. It's such a compliment 414 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,480 Like it's such a compliment when I tell a guy like oh my god 415 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:07,040 Yeah, I've never said that like I'm never saying that ever I think that's so cringe to say that like outwardly 416 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:07,960 but 417 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,880 Like if I think the guy has big dick energy like that's the biggest green flag ever because like 418 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:19,760 You like you're on top of it, bro. Like you're honestly show on top of it and yeah, I think that's a really big compliment 419 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:26,360 What do you think? Yeah, I mean like the I've had the compliment like once or twice 420 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,360 In the past weren't you over the moon? Oh my god 421 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,720 I think static I thought it was the coolest thing ever and like 422 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:38,240 Giving some of that compliment like that can absolutely like make their day 423 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:44,000 Mm-hmm. Like, you know, you I think I was walking my head held high, you know, I put on a new pair of shoes 424 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,040 Oh my god, that's amazing 425 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:52,880 But like it's also if you like when you take that like you kind of like anyone who's like oh 426 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,920 Bros got little dick air. Do you ever like you you're like alright? 427 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:03,880 Like you don't let that phase you and anyone who I think reads too much into it is you know the children 428 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,880 I 429 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,560 Agree I can hate the word chose so much 430 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,760 But yesterday I was talking like I can't stop using it now yesterday 431 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:16,560 I was talking to Joe my roommate and she like I don't I think we were talking about dicks 432 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:23,120 I guess and then she said that word and I forgot it existed and I was like that really I hate that word so much 433 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:30,520 It makes it's like panties for people people hate the word panties or moist which I don't get like that's a whole other thing 434 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:34,760 But yeah, so I feel like we're kind of gearing towards the end 435 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,760 I feel like I got all my answers and I'm so happy 436 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,680 But we're gonna play a little game called 437 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,240 Celebs and BDE 438 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:50,200 So I'm gonna be naming off a couple celebrities and we're gonna we're gonna like see if they have big dick energy or not 439 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:56,240 If we think they have big dick energy or not, so of course going back to our roots Pete Davidson 100% 440 00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:01,360 Absolutely, yeah, whatever I can go on and on but I'm not going to Rihanna 441 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:10,040 Yes, we have to yeah like she's whatever epitome of it. Okay, so this might be a controversial Drake 442 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,040 I want to hear you first and then me 443 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,840 Okay, I mean I I 444 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,520 Love a lot of Drake's music, but also don't like a lot of it 445 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:24,760 I think it's one of those things right where it's like this is gonna be a very controversial opinion 446 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:30,240 I think I think he kind of like he doesn't know it does hourly say I got big dick energy, but there was a 447 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:36,520 He did a freestyle of Central Sea like subliminal messages for sure. He was like 448 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:42,760 He was like, you know feel me dancing bumping a mommy, you know, it's a decent suck like no 449 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,880 The second I heard that 450 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,880 Yeah, for me definitely 451 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:56,280 Tiniest dick. I was no way Drake. I was talking to my friend Sydney about this like literally 10 minutes ago and 452 00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:04,880 We were talking about she was giving me like celebrities to ask you and we're talking about Drake and like he strikes me as someone who would get like 453 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,160 penis enlargement surgery 454 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:12,920 He's so like I'm sorry like I love Drake anyone who knows me knows like I'm the biggest Drake fan 455 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,480 I love Drake. I love his music. I think he's so talented 456 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:22,520 But like the shit he says sometimes or the shit he does the shit he wears the way he acts like 457 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:28,120 Like I would never want to be in a bed with you. I'd be actually scared. Yeah, no 458 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:34,080 It's I think that it's just a little too much talking about it. Yeah, for sure. It's a lot 459 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:39,800 Like it's too much. Let's pipe down a little bit this one Tyler the creator. Oh 460 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:46,120 Oh, man, I was the biggest Tyler fan in high school. I still am I 461 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:50,200 Like but like what I think about that is like I listened to a lot of different music 462 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,560 Now like like Flowerboy like on repeat 463 00:35:53,560 --> 00:36:00,720 Like so good. I that's such a tough one. I think that I feel like he's so hung he's gotta be 464 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:05,640 Like this guy just like if a shit about anything like it's the best thing ever 465 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,860 Like I feel like if I were to meet him he would insult me and I'd be like, oh my god 466 00:36:09,860 --> 00:36:14,840 Like I'm in love with you like I think he's just so funny and like so much confidence 467 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:21,400 He like I don't know just the way he talks the way he acts like his music even his lyrics like I don't know 468 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,600 I feel like a hundred percent tenenture like 469 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:31,040 Hondo P. Yeah, he never takes anything like too seriously. I think that's why I like like he's like except to like 470 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:37,800 A word he's just fucking around up there. Mm-hmm. And like I think that's just like a sign of like 471 00:36:38,240 --> 00:36:43,240 Does not care what he's gonna do his thing. He's gonna do what he likes. Yeah, for sure 472 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:49,760 Okay, this one might be kind of like I know my answer, but I want I want to know like I don't know if you listen to music 473 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,760 But childish campino 474 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,240 I 475 00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:55,240 What do you think? I 476 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,920 Love a lot of 477 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,440 music I think that 478 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:05,120 Maybe he's just a little maybe bitches too much. I think that might be what it is. I think like, you know, it's 479 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:12,760 I would go beg average for him like really. Yeah, I would say that too. Honestly. I would say that I love his 480 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:19,180 I oh my god, I love childish campino so much, but I don't know. There's just something like kind of off about him 481 00:37:19,180 --> 00:37:21,180 I feel like he's not a real person 482 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,760 Like he's so good at rapping right? 483 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:31,740 Is there some lyricism is insane? I think maybe he's just talking too much. Yeah, just for it for him to have like, you know 484 00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,440 music wise is incredible, but like 485 00:37:34,720 --> 00:37:40,200 He's doing he's doing the most. I think that might be the yeah try hard. Yeah, a little bit of a hard 486 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,200 Oh, yeah for sure. So 487 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:46,920 Women Amy Schumer, okay. I fucking hate that bitch so much 488 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,400 I think she has like if she was a man, she'd have the time 489 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:55,000 She wouldn't even have a dick like she'd have the time like she talks so much. She thinks she's a shit 490 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,720 Like she's so rude and disgusting. Oh 491 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,280 Sorry, I think that's yeah, like 492 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:07,000 Whenever she gets she gets a lot of criticism, but I think you know, 90% of it is justified 493 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:11,040 You know, some of it might be people just piling on yeah, whatever she could be the butt of a joke 494 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:16,140 Mm-hmm, but it's the way that she reacts to it like, you know, you're a celebrity like you're in that like 495 00:38:16,140 --> 00:38:22,320 Public sphere. Mm-hmm. Like you gotta be able to roll the punches and she you know everything 496 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,220 I've seen about her just has a big fucking freak out about it, you know 497 00:38:25,220 --> 00:38:28,700 Yeah, and I just feel like the way she goes about certain things also 498 00:38:28,700 --> 00:38:34,180 I feel like she was supposed to be like cast in a movie or something and then they ended up like not 499 00:38:34,300 --> 00:38:38,620 Casting her and then she like went like on Instagram and started talking about like you don't do that 500 00:38:38,620 --> 00:38:44,060 Like you're a professional actor like don't do that like that's just so strange to me honestly 501 00:38:44,060 --> 00:38:46,060 So small dick for her 502 00:38:47,460 --> 00:38:49,460 Gordon Ramsay 503 00:38:50,060 --> 00:38:54,300 Small dick. Yeah, it's got me like why are you always upset? 504 00:38:54,300 --> 00:39:01,000 Like there's no reason why you should be so upset all the time unless your dick is like non-existent like I 505 00:39:02,180 --> 00:39:04,820 Have you seen the bear on hulu? 506 00:39:06,580 --> 00:39:11,460 Neither of I've I've heard plenty of people talking about it like you know, and I get that like I 507 00:39:11,460 --> 00:39:16,260 I worked in a restaurant for a while and some of those chefs. I think most chefs in general 508 00:39:16,980 --> 00:39:21,200 That's me there. Maybe that's how they like, you know take it out 509 00:39:22,220 --> 00:39:28,180 Like chopping things they learn how yeah, they learn how to cook something really well so they can yell at other people 510 00:39:28,180 --> 00:39:34,540 They fuck it up. I think that's like yeah Gordon like, you know, you're really class at like 511 00:39:34,860 --> 00:39:38,660 Just like that one thing that you do, but you're such a dick 512 00:39:38,660 --> 00:39:41,780 And this is such a dickhead like oh my god 513 00:39:41,780 --> 00:39:48,220 I mean I do he's I think he's such an entertaining guy just because he's always so mad and he has so much to say all the time 514 00:39:48,220 --> 00:39:53,820 But dude like and he has like I think five six kids are yeah, they're popular about like rap 515 00:39:53,820 --> 00:39:59,620 That's crazy and he's like old anyways not saying like whatever anyways take that with a grain of salt 516 00:39:59,940 --> 00:40:01,940 Mack Miller honorable mention. Oh 517 00:40:02,820 --> 00:40:04,820 Huge 518 00:40:04,820 --> 00:40:11,200 Huge like it's great again back to Ariana Grande. There's no way she would be dating a man with a small day 519 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:15,460 That's a great point. She was with him for like ever and they were gonna get married 520 00:40:15,460 --> 00:40:18,180 So I'm sorry she wouldn't get married to someone with a small dick 521 00:40:18,180 --> 00:40:22,940 That like that when that happened I was immediately anti Pete Davidson now 522 00:40:22,940 --> 00:40:29,660 Let's kind of calm down. I was able to get over it, but I absolutely adored back there. I was so sad when he passed 523 00:40:29,660 --> 00:40:31,660 I think like 524 00:40:31,660 --> 00:40:39,260 We talked about like being in touch with your emotions like you know his oh him like circles and swimming like 525 00:40:40,140 --> 00:40:43,340 Such fucking masterpieces, but also you go back to like kids 526 00:40:44,740 --> 00:40:50,380 Like you know like so much fun in that album. I think his best work is a good a m 527 00:40:50,380 --> 00:40:55,640 Oh, I grew that just like being so like vulnerable about like 528 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,640 Mm-hmm 529 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,000 Especially as a man 530 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:11,960 I feel like like that's a big thing and I feel like he like opened doors for so many people too to like start talking about these things 531 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:18,240 And like unfortunately like his death like opened doors too for other people to talk about those types of things 532 00:41:18,240 --> 00:41:25,160 I feel like just the way he carried himself. He was so sweet and like still confident, but not obnoxious 533 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,880 I just for sure like I love him 534 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,120 Megan the stallion I 535 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:32,800 Oh 536 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:36,920 She dates this she was dated a soccer. I'm a huge soccer fan 537 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:42,920 I think I talk about with my friends a lot, but I'm a soccer fan. I don't know about me. She's dating this guy 538 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,920 Lukaku 539 00:41:46,240 --> 00:41:48,240 And he's gotta be oh 540 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,720 Bro, I think you might be able to see it when he's playing 541 00:41:51,720 --> 00:41:53,720 Really? 542 00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,560 Like I think that some like 543 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:04,680 Knowing what I know about him and even when he's not playing well just like the confidence that he has 544 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:10,320 It's that's gotta be like, you know connected two peas in a pod for 545 00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:18,560 And just like her lyrics also the way she talks like oh, I love her too like I feel like 546 00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:24,400 Her and Rihanna, she's definitely nowhere near Rihanna for me. Honestly, I think she's so talented still 547 00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:29,200 But I feel like she just exudes that like she knows she's a she's a powerful woman 548 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:33,840 And she knows she has like all these different facets to her and she's so confident 549 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:38,720 So outspoken about her confidence too and like she doesn't give a shit with people to think about her 550 00:42:38,720 --> 00:42:43,360 So I think that for sure like establishes her as a big dick energy person 551 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:49,280 Yeah, I think that like also like women being open with their sexuality and stuff like that. That's a big thing 552 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:54,560 She gets shit on so much for it and I hate that and it's like mind your fuck you like you wish you were in bed with her 553 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,200 Like you fucking wish you were getting 554 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,120 Let me not say the P word on here 555 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:04,440 But you wish you were getting that like shut the fuck up, please like 556 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:06,760 Disgusting 557 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:12,120 Doja Cat I have two answers for this, but I want to hear your thoughts if she had 558 00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,120 a penis I think I 559 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:21,440 Think average I think earlier in her career definitely a bit more. Yeah, definitely big 560 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,200 That's my answer to but just sort of like 561 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:30,120 I don't know. I I haven't listened to much her music recently. I liked I liked to paint the town around 562 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:36,360 I thought that was good. I I didn't like that one. I liked Agora Hills. Did you hear that? I did not go listen to that 563 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:41,160 That's a good one. Okay. So good. Yeah, I feel like she's definitely off her rocker a little bit 564 00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:46,400 Yeah, which is why reduce her size exactly early on. Oh for sure 565 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:51,680 Huge dick like hers. She had like a song with Tyga. Oh my god, like 566 00:43:52,720 --> 00:43:58,400 Amazing, I think I think before she definitely had a huge penis now. It's kind of like oh, I don't know 567 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:03,200 I feel she's kind of off her rocker a little bit. Yeah, I think that it's like one of those things where I'm not gonna 568 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:07,240 Say that she's going crazy. So I'm sure there's a whole bunch of artistic expression behind it 569 00:44:07,240 --> 00:44:12,360 Yeah, but it's not something I can get behind and say. Yeah, I mean either 570 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:14,920 Okay, last one or least CZA 571 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:20,600 Well, I have to I have like I don't know I 572 00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,760 Might be I like says music. I think it might be a 573 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:31,480 Very very hot take I'm gonna say is she doesn't me too. I'm gonna say me my friend. We're talking about this 574 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:36,120 I think for me. She's on the same Jesus Christ. I'm so sorry guys 575 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:40,500 I think for me. She's on the same wavelength as Drake. Yeah 576 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,200 Same wavelength honestly for me 577 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,160 She's the female version of Drake and not to say that that means her music is bad 578 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:50,800 Like it's I love CZA's music like I think she's so talented 579 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:58,400 But it's just like a lot of talk like a lot of talk for sure. Yeah, it's like almost like too much 580 00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:02,720 It's just too much. Yeah, and like I get it. She's a very attractive woman 581 00:45:02,720 --> 00:45:08,920 She's so hot built crazy and so talented, but sometimes it's like nice to keep it under wraps 582 00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:14,200 Like like we can see that you're hot and we can see that you get you get a lot of men like behind you like 583 00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,240 You don't have to mention it like it's okay. We notice it, you know 584 00:45:17,720 --> 00:45:23,480 So that was kind of my spiel about that anything you want to add like guys 585 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:28,920 He brought a little notebook and it made me so happy with all his notes. I love when guests do that 586 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:36,640 So anything else you'd like to add on the only I was gonna if I may tell story here 587 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:44,720 Epitome of big to get her to have ever seen that's gonna be a subtle flex. Okay two summers ago. I 588 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,360 I had the pleasure of meeting Bill Murray 589 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:54,680 No way. Yeah, like he was some I my high school roommate he 590 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,360 He's Godfather is Bill Murray 591 00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:04,760 No shit for a whole bunch of his mom was in was on MTV and stuff like that 592 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,200 I think I'm seeing him this week. Not Bill my 593 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:16,040 In Newport Bill was doing a fund rate. He's got like a band with like this world-class like cello with say things like a bunch of 594 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:20,160 Kind of old time. He saw and he was visiting Newport 595 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:25,920 And my roommate was also coming down to visit Newport that same weekend. So we met up with them and 596 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,520 I was with my roommate in his car 597 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:34,200 And we're gonna go pick him up the place that he was staying at and like I was like, oh, yeah 598 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:39,400 I'm gonna tell him, you know all these jokes and all that I see him walk out the door and I'm just like shaking 599 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,400 I freeze up. I couldn't get a word out 600 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:45,840 I like held out like my left hand shaking his hand. He was like, oh, what are you doing here? 601 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:51,800 Like, you know, and then he will he does this thing. We're walking sort of downtown going past restaurants and stuff 602 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:58,480 It's like still sort of that era like after COVID so it's like eating outside. Yeah, people have like fries on their table 603 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:02,160 He would like take a fry. Oh, sure. And you go no one's gonna believe you 604 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:10,480 Yeah, no, it was the it was craziest thing and like it was with my family 605 00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:16,800 He paid for the check, but like he and all his buddies were doing lobster and I saw my dad there 606 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,800 He was like, yeah, I like a Caesar salad 607 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,080 But he picked up the check and I was like, oh, yeah 608 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:25,920 And he was for you if my mom and I was even 609 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:32,680 And like you can't be mad like you can't like what a guy what a guy that's amazing 610 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:38,320 Awesome, dude. That's crazy for you to have met Bill Murray. I'm jealous. That's insane 611 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:42,400 But guys, I think that's all we have for you today 612 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:49,320 I want to give a little shout out to Charlie for being here like I'm so glad you were able to give me some of your time 613 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:56,440 I'm so happy we were able to discuss this. I'm still very still very curious about Big Dick energy 614 00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,440 gonna do some more research about it and 615 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:04,840 Maybe a follow-up episode with someone else like I just want to know more honestly like what is it? 616 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:08,240 Like what is it about guys with big dick energy like what's up? 617 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:13,280 But guys, please take a shot that uses as a drinking game take a shot every time 618 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:17,480 I say dick or every time Charlie says dick or penis or chode like please 619 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,720 Like you're gonna be so plastered and you're gonna have the best night of your life 620 00:48:20,720 --> 00:48:35,360 But um, yeah, that's all we have for you guys today, and I'll see you next time on more of mel