Hey guys, welcome back to the coolest pot in the game where I pick people's brains about things that keep me up at night.
On today's episode big dick energy
I'm joined by Charlie Van Viren a fellow emerson student
And I will be persecuting him for answers about big dick energy because I'm just a curious cat
Like I'm so intrigued by this concept and I just want to know more and so I thought I'd have a male guest and
We can discuss what I know about it and what you know about it and just have little discourse
Um, would you mind introducing yourself to my listeners, please? Absolutely. Uh, what's going on?
Uh, Charlie Van Viren, uh, sorry
Um, I am a sophomore here at emerson on the men's lacrosse team and I love the more male podcast
Oh my god, that makes me so happy
So the reason why Charlie is on this podcast
We were at a party and I see him in the streets and he's just yelling out at me
Hey, like I want to be on the pot and I was so happy and excited
But I thought he was joking and so like I never reached out and then I ran into him into like on the street the other day
He was like, oh, where's the DM like I was waiting and I was like wait, you're serious
And so DM time and here we are. So are you pumped because I'm so pumped. Yeah, I am
Absolutely, I'm just thrilled to be on here that party
I was in uh, you know without incriminating myself. I was in a questionable state, but you know
Uh, as we all were though as we all were and that's okay
So I want to start off. I did a lot of research about this because I just I'm so intrigued by it, honestly
um, so
Sorry guys
I got a definition online that says that big dick energy is confidence without cockiness
It's never misplaced. It cannot be simulated
It is the sexual equivalent of blindly writing a check for ten thousand dollars knowing you have it in the bank
So I think that's a really good definition because I feel like it's
Like big dick energy is the opposite of like try hard
So I want to know your thoughts on that definition and if you want to counter it or agree with it
Yeah, I mean, I think I really like that definition. I think you know, it's
More than a sexual thing. I think it's more of like a way of life sort of thing. Uh,
I think that sort of that like a lifestyle kind of I would agree with that and I also want to talk about like the
Pete Davidson lore surrounding big dick energy because I feel like he's kind of the one who coined that term big dick energy
and like I get it because like he's a
like
Physically like he's a tall man. He's got big feet. So like all the stereotypes surrounding big dicks like he has it
But I feel like just something about that man
Like there's no reason why he should be hot
But I think he's such an attractive man and I know it's not for his physical appearance
It's just the way he carries himself and the way he acts around the women he's dating
I don't know. I want to hear. Have you ever heard about like
The p. Davidson like around big dick energy?
Yeah, I mean, I think the guy like pete davidson is he's really like just confident anything he does
And kind of like you said like I think he embraces the fact that
Like conventionally, he's probably not the most attractive guy. He's a little bit, you know
On the skinnier side. He's got uh some interesting facial features. I guess, you know, not no hate, but I think that's the way he would say himself
Yeah, uh, but I think that yeah, it's just like the confidence they has like he knows he's a funny guy
But doesn't ever seem like he's overdoing it
Uh, like, you know, he's not it's not like a tacky way. I think he's just being really
Genuine to how funny he is and kind of walks around like, you know, throws it over his shoulder to say
Um, I'd agree with that because he's definitely a questionable looking like no offense p
I still find you hot like but as if he's listening to this, he's not but anyways like he has dark under eye circles
like he's like he's
Um lanky like I don't know and he's like he has a potty mouth
so like conventionally, he should not be like attractive at all but
And the fact that he bags so many bitches is crazy to like kim Kardashian ariana grande apparently now
I spice like what is going on?
Like I I want to know your thoughts on that. How do you think he's getting these women?
Yeah, I mean he definitely has cracked the formula that I have not because you know, he's uh,
I think you're shooting 100% right now. It's crazy, right? It's nuts
They're good for him though, but I mean it's so good for him. Yeah
I don't know like I I think that has to be like it has to be studied in the books
But I think it's also like the way he
It's like a definition that I saw is that like big dick energy guys like they love like their girlfriends or wives like publicly
Like they're not like low-key about it
Like they're just like out and about showing off their women like I don't know any thoughts about that
Do you think that had that plays a part in it?
Yeah, I definitely think that that's sort of like
You know almost like dance with the girl that brought you you don't want to uh
It's like big dick energy is having
Uh, just confidence and kind of like anything that you do right and like
If you're not showing off, uh, you know your booth thing that it's like you're sort of
I guess like you're saying that yourself like you aren't confident like so true. I agree with that
Um something else what what does it mean to you when a guy has big dick energy?
Like give me your own personal definition
Yeah, I mean, it's definitely something that uh can't be quantified, you know, it's like I guess what I mean by that is
it's like
You can't tell yourself like, you know, I've got big dick energy because it's something that's kind of like bestowed upon you
but like the idea of it the idea of like
You know being sensitive to other people's emotions, but not letting your own emotions like and I don't mean like
Not being passionate about things because I think that if you're definitely like passionate about somebody or something that you do like, you know, that's
A great example of it, but it's like not like your own emotions get in the way of like the shit that you have to do
Yeah, you have to do like be a good person
I'd agree with that
So for me my definition of when a guy has big dick energy and we're gonna get into like
Can girls have big dick energy because I think it's like more of an aura thing and not an actual like oh like this person is hung
Like I like I don't know maybe that can play a part
But for me when a guy has big dick energy, it's
It's more of like an attitude
It's like
It's kind of like they know they have it
But like you said they'll never say they have it because it's like a title that you get like from other people and then like you walk
Around with such confidence, but you're not cocky. You're not arrogant. You're not obnoxious
I don't know. It's just I think it's just an energy like you feel when a guy has big dick energy
I don't know. It's it's a very like strong component for me when I'm looking like for a guy, honestly
Yeah, I think that it's one of those things that like, you know, you can tell yourself when you wake up in the morning
Like I want to you know, have that sort of like bde
sort of thing
But it's not something that
You know, you're I think the true epitome of having bds
Like it's not something that you're like thinking about every day. It's definitely not like, you know, just how well a guy's hung
like how well he's down with like, you know, it's
Something that you're not really thinking about too much, but you just exude it and for sure
Yeah, I agree with that like you don't wake up in the morning
Look at yourself in the mirror and be like, oh, I have big dick energy today
Like so many bitches are gonna come my way like then you have the smallest dick in the world, bro
Like that for me. That's what it is. So
So can girls have big dick energy? I want to hear your thoughts on that. I mean like, you know, physically like, you know, I don't think that's quite
Obviously not
But uh
No, absolutely. And I think that you know, at first starters, Melody, I'd say that you are the epitome of that because
Stop
You know, you walk around campus, uh, you know, you're saying hi to everyone like you're just so friendly
And you can tell that like, you know, you would never be able to tell that like, you know, say you spilled your coffee
in the morning or like, you know
You'll woke up on the wrong side of the bed having a bad air day
You want to be able to tell just because you exude that confidence. Wow. Thank you. You're so kind. That's so nice. So
I think that's so nice of you. Wow. That really made my day because sometimes
I'll wake up and I'm like, oh, I hate myself like I hate my life
But thank you. I'm glad I exude that and I feel like I do exude that I was gonna ask that question after but
I want to talk about someone like Rihanna
I think she has the like if she was a man, oh my god eight inch or nine inch or like it's great
What do you you're raising your eyebrows? What's up with that? I wasn't an eyebrow raise
That's an eyebrow raise of uh agreement. Yeah, I would even go up to 10
Really?
Okay, Rihanna. I just feel like she's I hate the sentence boss bitch like, oh that makes me sick and cringe so much
But I feel like that's exactly what she is
I feel like when she walks into a conference room like with men like
Like that's an area in my head like they all like like curl into a fucking ball because of how
Much confidence she exudes and she knows who she is and she knows the power she has but she'll never like
She said it in interviews for sure
But like she'll never like outwardly like go like around town saying oh, I have the biggest stick energy like ever
She'll never say and I think that's what like emulates like
Oh, she's so perfect. I'm sorry. I'm going on a tangent about this woman, but I think she's so awesome
Do you have any other people like any other girls in mind like in the celebrity world that you think exude that?
uh, yeah, I'd say, uh
First starters probably
For me one of my personal heroes. I'd even say is uh law and all right
Stop. Stop. This is a bonding moment. I love lana del Rey more than anything in life. Oh my god
Wait, so what about her?
Well, I think that it's just like emotional vulnerability is something that like I take very serious in my life because like
at least like we're talking about like
Masculinity and how much of like a
That's gonna be a little side tangent here like talking about masculinity and how much that like
You're supposed to bottle up those emotions and like not let anyone see it
Like I feel like Lana like you know she in her music. She's very emotional, but she walks around
She was in where I'm from Newport
Over the summer. I got the chance to see her walk on the street. I was so
She would have been so happy she would have been she's so sweet
Yeah, but a couple my friends went up and like you know took a picture with her and she was just smile the whole time
I get like you know, she's probably got a lot to smile about you know
She's doing pretty well for herself, but I feel like
You know no matter what like, you know, when you listen to her music she talks about like
At least when I was first listening to I was like, oh my god, like you know this woman's life
depressing
You know she always seems to be handling everything so well and like you know
She's had like controversy in the past, but she just writes a better fucking album after that. Oh, she's so amazing
I think you know, I didn't even think of her like that like exuding big dick energy
And I think that's because of her emotional aspect
Hmm, that's that's something definitely to ponder because I literally all my playlists have at least one Lana Del Rey song
I I think she's so awesome and talented and she definitely does exude big dick energy and thank you for bringing that to my attention
I love that. Okay, so
Back to like do do we think we have big dick energy? Do you think you have big dick energy?
I mean, you know I to I would never want to contradict myself and say that I have it
You know, I've heard in the past. No, it's okay. It's gonna be scratched from the record like I
Want this to be a conversation. Do you have do you think you have it or do you think other people think you have it?
I think I've heard both sides of the coin
You know, I told me that I've got the you know some small thing
And I always have told me that I've got big dick energy, but I think it's one of those. Yeah, it's kind of
You know, I don't even know the true definition of this word. I was gonna throw it out there transcendental
I don't know
It is a word I'd no clue what the definition either
But I was just it was popping in my head all morning, but I think it's one of those things where it's like it can happen
Any given day you can have big dick energy and I think that it's not like obviously some people will have it more than others
It's like Pete Davidson Rihanna. Lawn O'Rei. Yeah, we'll have it, you know, essentially every day
I'm sure that they have some days that like aren't seen by the public guy where it's like
Damn, it's pretty shit. I'm pretty shivered down there
Yeah, I for myself
I'd like to think that it's something that I
Strive to have but like, you know, I never say that's something I'm actively working towards but I
Have been given the compliment in the past and I've held it very close to my heart. That's amazing
I would venture to say I don't know you well enough to say that but I think you do have big dick energy like you're not cocky
You're not well from the conversations. I've had with you
You're not an obnoxious person like as a man men are super fucking obnoxious like
Ugh, but like I I've never seen you in a situation where you've been obnoxious or like tearing people down for your own sake
And so I think that does play a part in big dick energy and so I think you do have it
So, but I don't know you well enough
We need to get to know each other better and then I can say for sure if you do have it or not
Fair enough. Yeah, I think it's one of those things like everyone deals with like anxiety and all that and it's
And obviously like you know, it's something you should definitely get help for whatever
You know, whether it's therapy or just kind of within yourself. Yeah, that makes you a little bit less anxious
But it's not
Anything that like what you said like you never want to be tearing anyone down
Right like you never take you never take that out on anyone else because you feel insecure about yourself
I think that you know
Anyone in the world has got stuff there feel anxious or sad about and that's one of those things that like the biggest indicator of it
Is being able to handle that?
You know through your own beads and not let it affect anyone else. Yeah, I agree with that 100%
I think that's a really good point you make
And so me I don't want to sound like cocky or whatever
But I do think I have big dick energy honestly and I haven't been told that by anyone
But well by you and thank you for that
But I feel like I'm every time I meet someone new and then we become friends
They always tell me oh, I thought you were the biggest bitch ever and for me
That's like the biggest compliment ever because that means that I carry myself a certain way where people are like
Intimidated of me kind of and like not in a scary way or anything
They're like oh like should I go talk to her like I'm kind of nervous
And I kind of like that about myself and every single person without a miss that like has become a friend
That was an acquaintance before they've told me that and I think that kind of like emulates big dick energy
And I think I do kind of have it a little bit of course there are some days where I'm like
like Chotey, but I
Think I do have it most days and I like that about myself honestly thoughts. Yeah, I think it's one of those
Like we kind of said about being approachable right like you know
I think that at least I try and see my I try to be as friendly as possible
Right, but like you know, I'm not I definitely don't think I'm the type of person people have said this be before like
You know I
Before you like really meet me like you know, they'll throw a joke around or something. You're like wow this guy's kind of a prick
but
It's yeah, like you know you definitely be friendly to your friends, right?
But you're maybe not the most approachable person on the street
Yeah, not someone who someone's gonna come up to you and ask for you know directions
Yeah
I think that part of that is just that confidence. Yeah, I think that's a beautiful thing though
Because then when that person gets to know you they're like, oh, this is the coolest person ever like they're so nice and so sweet
I think that's like it's a nice paradox to have within the realm of big dick energy
I think that's a that's a beautiful thing honestly
so
Back to back to like big dick energy being literal or just an energy that draws people in what do you think?
Do you think it can be like both sides or like just one? Yeah, I think that like attraction for it, right?
Like you know I and going back to like you know women having big dick energy
It's definitely something that I look for right? Yeah, it's not gonna be a
You know I'm waiting for you know, I don't want to have someone who's gonna be just kind of like
Pissed off all the time like you know they're gonna try and bring you down with there because they're feeling insecure about stuff
Yeah, definitely a very attractive thing. I think both sides of the spectrum you want to have someone who can handle themselves
Not so they're gonna have to look after like you know
Yeah, yeah for sure. I
Agree with that
for me I
Think I think it can be both like literally like they have a big dick and they have that energy that draws people in or
It can be like either like Pete. I feel like some guys like with that are hung well
At least from my experience they were like pussies. They were weird. They were like so strange and you would never expect them and this I'm so wrong
I'm sorry. I'm not sexualizing anyone like I'm so sorry take this with a grain of salt
He's like I'm begging you but I feel like it can definitely be both ends of the spectrum like going back to Pete Davidson
I think like it's both literal and figurative because I'm so sorry
I've never seen this penis, but you cannot convince me that that man is not hung like I'm so sorry thoughts
Yeah, I think that you know, it's definitely one of those things where it's like, you know
You don't want to be showing it off like anyone who is saying it was bragging. It's like oh, I got the
biggest fucking dick in the world
Like you know, it's like you keep it modest, you know
You just you don't even talk it you don't talk about it. You know, it's one of those things that's like in the privacy of the bedroom
Or sure for sure
But for me what confirms it for Pete Davidson is that what he dated Ariana Grande, right?
And she was with big Sean and I know like he's he's a short king, but I know that man is fucking
Hong bro. He got his dick back got leaked like two years ago
huge massive and so obviously she's into that so she I don't think she would be in a long-term relationship with Pete if
His dick was in big like honestly tbh and then you go to Kim Kardashian
She was with Ray J for sure hung like anyone who's seen the sex tape like hello and she was with Kanye
I don't I'm not sure about Kanye, but like
whatever
You could you could assume exactly and who else?
Humphrey's like the super tall basketball hit that man was hung for sure
So I feel like that confirms it for me because also Kim would never be with someone with a small dick like I'm sorry
Like she's she's too hot sexy successful powerful for that like
Thoughts. Yeah, I think it's you know, just go on keep her that on about confidence, right?
Like, you know, it wouldn't be it's someone like that powerful like Kim Kardashian
Like you need this you need a man that is like fucking 100% confident
in pretty much everything that he's doing and you'll see that with like a
Lot of rap like Ray J
Yeah, sure ton of confidence of that guy Kanye, you know, yeah almost over the top
Narcissistic, yeah, but like with that being said Kanye's gotta be packing, you know
100% I agree with that
It makes me so uncomfortable talking about Kanye West stick
anyways moving over from
that I feel like also
Something that kind of bothers me about big dick energy is that it can translate into a guy being nonchalant and there is nothing
I hate more than a nonchalant guy like okay
You can be like for the first few months we're talking you can be cute and like oh, I don't care
I don't care, but like please shut the fuck up and act like you care and act like you have feelings and you're not emotionally
Unavailable, so I feel like kind of I feel like p. Davidson is so emotionally unavailable
Like you well, he's gone through so much trauma too, so I can't blame him for that
But I don't like the nonchalantness like aspect of big dick energy. So do you think that's like
Do you think that's something that's there with big dick energy?
Yeah, I think that's probably one of the most dangerous things at least for young men like in today's world is like you talk about this like
Sigma like Jim bro
It's like you know the the breakup period and all that
Fucking lift a ton of weights and what not let anyone get to you like yeah fuck that shit dude
Like yeah, I think that like when I was dealing with a breakup, right like the best resource
I had was being open more open and honest my you know friends my family like I started talking to my parents
More than I ever did
Because at least you know they you know that they've gone through like the same sort of stuff, right?
You never want to be like completely
Completely emotionally shut off. Yeah, it's like it's bullshit. You're not everyone has emotions exactly agreed you shouldn't like
The only way you're gonna be able to grow is being able to like express those emotions
And deal with them also. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, cuz I feel like at some point wait
This is veering away from big dick energy, but I like it a lot
Like I think that's something very important because I feel like that's the thing especially in men like and it makes me so sad
Cuz I grew up around a bunch of boys and like personally the guys in my family
They do like they're in touch with their emotions and they do know how to talk about their emotions
Like some of my guy friends like they'll be dealing with like the worst worst shit ever
And they don't talk about and I know they're dealing with something and it just makes me so sad and they're like no
Like I'm a guy like I'm a man. It's like no like you're a man
Yes, but you have emotions and it's so okay to cry to scream to like go to fucking therapy like please
Let's normalize going to therapy like it's so okay
I love my therapist so much
I talk about it all the time on the podcast like and I think like that's that should be a stigma removed from men because it
Makes me so very sad like and cuz I love all of my guy friends so much and I want them to thrive emotionally
Like oh, it just makes me so sad. I want to hear your thoughts about that. Yeah, I think that
Like for sure like you know, we do have to normalize therapy for matters
Definitely one of the most like one of the best things that I did I was going through like a really tough time
That's amazing
Like you know, it's it's all about consistency with it, right?
And I kind of got to a point where you know, I don't see it was much because I don't need excited
They help me have so much along the way that they will regulate like those emotions those feelings of like feeling lost and stuff like that
But like you know the first step was just being like open and completely honest like here's the shit that I'm dealing with
Yeah, for sure. Just how I feel about things
This is you know how I think I got to this point and they give you so many tips
Just so much about yourself too, and I think it's it's so amazing
I cannot advocate enough about therapy and it makes me so happy that you've gone to therapy
Wow, and I feel like that's so telling of your character as a person
I feel like you're so like nice and soft and like oh wow that makes me really happy
We need to hang out more. This is this is amazing Charlie. I love this
Absolutely, yeah, of course um, okay, can big dick energy get annoying?
I think that's a question more for me
Well, maybe I feel like it can get annoying because like when it gets to someone's head
It's like they start like getting
Overtly like confident and it's like turned into arrogant and it's like like now you have small dick energy
Like you need to like calm down because I feel like it may like if you tell someone so many times that they have big dick energy
Like makes their head so big and they like oh it's annoying so I want to hear your thoughts on that
Yeah, I think that like it's one of those things where maybe what I'm saying about
Transcendental I'm coming to this realization myself is good that it's never something that you're gonna be able to fully reach
You'll never reach like a hundred percent of it on any given day
And like when you think you reach it like the next step of it is you know a year or two ahead, right?
Like that's something you got to keep working towards so you can never have that full like a hundred percent confidence that like yes
I I haven't you know, I'm dragging on the floor behind me like you know, it's like
It's you got to be able to like keep
neutralize it kind of yeah, I have a balance because it can get annoying and it's like
Like don't fucking piss me off
There was another quote that I really liked and I never thought about it like that
It says men who exude big dick energy are usually the low-key ones confident but not cocky
However women who exude big dick energy are usually more outspoken and large and in charge
And I want to hear your thoughts because I have thoughts about that
Yeah, I think like we talk about just sort of gender roles like in the past hundreds of years society and like how we see it today
like you know, it's
like not like the
Men who have been in power have been the ones who are always loudest like you know, let's go do this right now
We need to do this right and it's like they're not you can tell that like that's how they feel like they're expected to be right and like
The expectation for women is to be sort of a quiet reserve even like when women were in power, right?
Like you know if they showed any sort of motion like their label does like oh, they should be in power
They're too emotional
I think like the real epitome of it is being able to kind of switch those like
at least for men to have the confidence that like, you know, they're doing the right thing and
That they're not gonna let anyone really bother them or get to them
Mm-hmm, and then for women, it's like, you know, I have the power in this situation
I'm gonna use my power and you know, I'm not gonna let any man
Anybody sort of like take that away from me. I know that I have that Wow
You kind of stole the words right out of my mouth. I think I think that's a really fair point
I love that you relate it back to the olden days
I feel like oh, this is so sad because I feel like I'm the silly one in this podcast and you're like so serious
Which I so appreciate I love it
You have so much information and intel on this but I kind of like I like that you brought it back to like the old days
I kind of want to talk about like fucking Julius Caesar like that man was so loud and like out and about
Tiny as penis ever if you ever see a statue of that man the estimation of his penis
Oh my god like half an inch and it's like oh sir
Like don't fucking piss me off like you have no right to be so loud and yelling at people like I'm not your thoughts
But like any comments? Yeah, I think you know, I I definitely feel for the
You know the Mediterranean civilization man that were sort of remembered forever in these carvings
They did not do them very much
immortalized with the tiny penis
Crazy there's no snapchat memories back then so I could really there's no point of reference
But you know I'll take those to be a hundred percent accurate for my own twist
Do you think they're accurate like there's no way?
Every because if you go to a museum, I feel like every man every male statue
Their penis is are like so tiny. There's no way everyone had
Tiny penis back then
Well, I think there's a couple schools of thought to
You gotta think of like evolution right like the guys who probably had the bigger ones they got laid more
So they were able to sort of pass that on for generations
But I was also thinking about this I was at the MFA a couple weeks ago when I was thinking like
Those looked like like those statues look like they're so hard to do like surely if I was if I was Michelangelo
By the time I got to the bottom half and begin kind of pissed off like fuck this guy
How come he paid me to make this whole statue?
Make his penis so fucking tiny forever for other generations to see. This is all they'll think about
Wow, that is the final revenge for sure. That's crazy
Um, I want to talk speak literally take a shot people who are listening take a shot every time we say dick cuz this is
You're gonna be fucking plastered. But anyways little dick energy
What do we think about that? I think it's men who are like we've said earlier so fucking arrogant so obnoxious
So like they want big dick energy so bad that like it's it's like you're a tryhard
You're not you're never gonna get it like you're you
Thoughts, please. Yeah, I the only way I think it was who's the guy Bob Arnab who's a great comedian
I think that he definitely has big dick energy
He had some sort of like song about like, you know when you finally meet God
You'll realize that like you you pray so hard to meet God when you finally meet him
You you realize you don't really need it, you know, I think it's like sort of that trying too hard
You'll you're never gonna reach yeah having that big dick energy and like, you know
You'll forever be in that state of having little dick energy and at least for this doesn't really matter
You know kind of how big your number is yeah
Very enough. I don't know. I'm trying to think of people. I think have small dick energy
Can you think of anyone? Well, I can think of a million people
That's not like celebrities or whatever because they don't care about us
Um, I don't know well, we're playing a little game at the end. So yeah do that then
So there was like kind of a controversy surrounding big dick energy like probably a year or two ago and like men were kind of finding
Fighting back and like being like oh like why are you sexualizing us?
Oh, blah, and you know what that is a really fair argument to make
But I feel like it's such a silly term that like people use just like like just throw around honestly
It's like a social media farce and like it's not meant to like degrade men or like reduce them to like a sexual like being
And I want to hear your thoughts on that like where you upset about it like what's up?
I didn't really I heard about it
And I thought that it was kind of ridiculous because I feel like the only man they're really like sort of complaining about that
Probably got called out for you know sexualizing women in the workplace or something
I feel like it's something that like anyone who like has any grain of actual big dick energy in them would not let that
Yeah bother them would not be about it. Yeah, I feel like it's definitely this small chody men
We're upset about it like I get where they might be coming from because yeah, it's like
Like let's not let's be real like it is a sexual thing at the end of the day
But I don't feel like it was meant to like reduce men in any way if anything. It's such a compliment
Like it's such a compliment when I tell a guy like oh my god
Yeah, I've never said that like I'm never saying that ever I think that's so cringe to say that like outwardly
but
Like if I think the guy has big dick energy like that's the biggest green flag ever because like
You like you're on top of it, bro. Like you're honestly show on top of it and yeah, I think that's a really big compliment
What do you think? Yeah, I mean like the I've had the compliment like once or twice
In the past weren't you over the moon? Oh my god
I think static I thought it was the coolest thing ever and like
Giving some of that compliment like that can absolutely like make their day
Mm-hmm. Like, you know, you I think I was walking my head held high, you know, I put on a new pair of shoes
Oh my god, that's amazing
But like it's also if you like when you take that like you kind of like anyone who's like oh
Bros got little dick air. Do you ever like you you're like alright?
Like you don't let that phase you and anyone who I think reads too much into it is you know the children
I
Agree I can hate the word chose so much
But yesterday I was talking like I can't stop using it now yesterday
I was talking to Joe my roommate and she like I don't I think we were talking about dicks
I guess and then she said that word and I forgot it existed and I was like that really I hate that word so much
It makes it's like panties for people people hate the word panties or moist which I don't get like that's a whole other thing
But yeah, so I feel like we're kind of gearing towards the end
I feel like I got all my answers and I'm so happy
But we're gonna play a little game called
Celebs and BDE
So I'm gonna be naming off a couple celebrities and we're gonna we're gonna like see if they have big dick energy or not
If we think they have big dick energy or not, so of course going back to our roots Pete Davidson 100%
Absolutely, yeah, whatever I can go on and on but I'm not going to Rihanna
Yes, we have to yeah like she's whatever epitome of it. Okay, so this might be a controversial Drake
I want to hear you first and then me
Okay, I mean I I
Love a lot of Drake's music, but also don't like a lot of it
I think it's one of those things right where it's like this is gonna be a very controversial opinion
I think I think he kind of like he doesn't know it does hourly say I got big dick energy, but there was a
He did a freestyle of Central Sea like subliminal messages for sure. He was like
He was like, you know feel me dancing bumping a mommy, you know, it's a decent suck like no
The second I heard that
Yeah, for me definitely
Tiniest dick. I was no way Drake. I was talking to my friend Sydney about this like literally 10 minutes ago and
We were talking about she was giving me like celebrities to ask you and we're talking about Drake and like he strikes me as someone who would get like
penis enlargement surgery
He's so like I'm sorry like I love Drake anyone who knows me knows like I'm the biggest Drake fan
I love Drake. I love his music. I think he's so talented
But like the shit he says sometimes or the shit he does the shit he wears the way he acts like
Like I would never want to be in a bed with you. I'd be actually scared. Yeah, no
It's I think that it's just a little too much talking about it. Yeah, for sure. It's a lot
Like it's too much. Let's pipe down a little bit this one Tyler the creator. Oh
Oh, man, I was the biggest Tyler fan in high school. I still am I
Like but like what I think about that is like I listened to a lot of different music
Now like like Flowerboy like on repeat
Like so good. I that's such a tough one. I think that I feel like he's so hung he's gotta be
Like this guy just like if a shit about anything like it's the best thing ever
Like I feel like if I were to meet him he would insult me and I'd be like, oh my god
Like I'm in love with you like I think he's just so funny and like so much confidence
He like I don't know just the way he talks the way he acts like his music even his lyrics like I don't know
I feel like a hundred percent tenenture like
Hondo P. Yeah, he never takes anything like too seriously. I think that's why I like like he's like except to like
A word he's just fucking around up there. Mm-hmm. And like I think that's just like a sign of like
Does not care what he's gonna do his thing. He's gonna do what he likes. Yeah, for sure
Okay, this one might be kind of like I know my answer, but I want I want to know like I don't know if you listen to music
But childish campino
I
What do you think? I
Love a lot of
music I think that
Maybe he's just a little maybe bitches too much. I think that might be what it is. I think like, you know, it's
I would go beg average for him like really. Yeah, I would say that too. Honestly. I would say that I love his
I oh my god, I love childish campino so much, but I don't know. There's just something like kind of off about him
I feel like he's not a real person
Like he's so good at rapping right?
Is there some lyricism is insane? I think maybe he's just talking too much. Yeah, just for it for him to have like, you know
music wise is incredible, but like
He's doing he's doing the most. I think that might be the yeah try hard. Yeah, a little bit of a hard
Oh, yeah for sure. So
Women Amy Schumer, okay. I fucking hate that bitch so much
I think she has like if she was a man, she'd have the time
She wouldn't even have a dick like she'd have the time like she talks so much. She thinks she's a shit
Like she's so rude and disgusting. Oh
Sorry, I think that's yeah, like
Whenever she gets she gets a lot of criticism, but I think you know, 90% of it is justified
You know, some of it might be people just piling on yeah, whatever she could be the butt of a joke
Mm-hmm, but it's the way that she reacts to it like, you know, you're a celebrity like you're in that like
Public sphere. Mm-hmm. Like you gotta be able to roll the punches and she you know everything
I've seen about her just has a big fucking freak out about it, you know
Yeah, and I just feel like the way she goes about certain things also
I feel like she was supposed to be like cast in a movie or something and then they ended up like not
Casting her and then she like went like on Instagram and started talking about like you don't do that
Like you're a professional actor like don't do that like that's just so strange to me honestly
So small dick for her
Gordon Ramsay
Small dick. Yeah, it's got me like why are you always upset?
Like there's no reason why you should be so upset all the time unless your dick is like non-existent like I
Have you seen the bear on hulu?
Neither of I've I've heard plenty of people talking about it like you know, and I get that like I
I worked in a restaurant for a while and some of those chefs. I think most chefs in general
That's me there. Maybe that's how they like, you know take it out
Like chopping things they learn how yeah, they learn how to cook something really well so they can yell at other people
They fuck it up. I think that's like yeah Gordon like, you know, you're really class at like
Just like that one thing that you do, but you're such a dick
And this is such a dickhead like oh my god
I mean I do he's I think he's such an entertaining guy just because he's always so mad and he has so much to say all the time
But dude like and he has like I think five six kids are yeah, they're popular about like rap
That's crazy and he's like old anyways not saying like whatever anyways take that with a grain of salt
Mack Miller honorable mention. Oh
Huge
Huge like it's great again back to Ariana Grande. There's no way she would be dating a man with a small day
That's a great point. She was with him for like ever and they were gonna get married
So I'm sorry she wouldn't get married to someone with a small dick
That like that when that happened I was immediately anti Pete Davidson now
Let's kind of calm down. I was able to get over it, but I absolutely adored back there. I was so sad when he passed
I think like
We talked about like being in touch with your emotions like you know his oh him like circles and swimming like
Such fucking masterpieces, but also you go back to like kids
Like you know like so much fun in that album. I think his best work is a good a m
Oh, I grew that just like being so like vulnerable about like
Mm-hmm
Especially as a man
I feel like like that's a big thing and I feel like he like opened doors for so many people too to like start talking about these things
And like unfortunately like his death like opened doors too for other people to talk about those types of things
I feel like just the way he carried himself. He was so sweet and like still confident, but not obnoxious
I just for sure like I love him
Megan the stallion I
Oh
She dates this she was dated a soccer. I'm a huge soccer fan
I think I talk about with my friends a lot, but I'm a soccer fan. I don't know about me. She's dating this guy
Lukaku
And he's gotta be oh
Bro, I think you might be able to see it when he's playing
Really?
Like I think that some like
Knowing what I know about him and even when he's not playing well just like the confidence that he has
It's that's gotta be like, you know connected two peas in a pod for
And just like her lyrics also the way she talks like oh, I love her too like I feel like
Her and Rihanna, she's definitely nowhere near Rihanna for me. Honestly, I think she's so talented still
But I feel like she just exudes that like she knows she's a she's a powerful woman
And she knows she has like all these different facets to her and she's so confident
So outspoken about her confidence too and like she doesn't give a shit with people to think about her
So I think that for sure like establishes her as a big dick energy person
Yeah, I think that like also like women being open with their sexuality and stuff like that. That's a big thing
She gets shit on so much for it and I hate that and it's like mind your fuck you like you wish you were in bed with her
Like you fucking wish you were getting
Let me not say the P word on here
But you wish you were getting that like shut the fuck up, please like
Disgusting
Doja Cat I have two answers for this, but I want to hear your thoughts if she had
a penis I think I
Think average I think earlier in her career definitely a bit more. Yeah, definitely big
That's my answer to but just sort of like
I don't know. I I haven't listened to much her music recently. I liked I liked to paint the town around
I thought that was good. I I didn't like that one. I liked Agora Hills. Did you hear that? I did not go listen to that
That's a good one. Okay. So good. Yeah, I feel like she's definitely off her rocker a little bit
Yeah, which is why reduce her size exactly early on. Oh for sure
Huge dick like hers. She had like a song with Tyga. Oh my god, like
Amazing, I think I think before she definitely had a huge penis now. It's kind of like oh, I don't know
I feel she's kind of off her rocker a little bit. Yeah, I think that it's like one of those things where I'm not gonna
Say that she's going crazy. So I'm sure there's a whole bunch of artistic expression behind it
Yeah, but it's not something I can get behind and say. Yeah, I mean either
Okay, last one or least CZA
Well, I have to I have like I don't know I
Might be I like says music. I think it might be a
Very very hot take I'm gonna say is she doesn't me too. I'm gonna say me my friend. We're talking about this
I think for me. She's on the same Jesus Christ. I'm so sorry guys
I think for me. She's on the same wavelength as Drake. Yeah
Same wavelength honestly for me
She's the female version of Drake and not to say that that means her music is bad
Like it's I love CZA's music like I think she's so talented
But it's just like a lot of talk like a lot of talk for sure. Yeah, it's like almost like too much
It's just too much. Yeah, and like I get it. She's a very attractive woman
She's so hot built crazy and so talented, but sometimes it's like nice to keep it under wraps
Like like we can see that you're hot and we can see that you get you get a lot of men like behind you like
You don't have to mention it like it's okay. We notice it, you know
So that was kind of my spiel about that anything you want to add like guys
He brought a little notebook and it made me so happy with all his notes. I love when guests do that
So anything else you'd like to add on the only I was gonna if I may tell story here
Epitome of big to get her to have ever seen that's gonna be a subtle flex. Okay two summers ago. I
I had the pleasure of meeting Bill Murray
No way. Yeah, like he was some I my high school roommate he
He's Godfather is Bill Murray
No shit for a whole bunch of his mom was in was on MTV and stuff like that
I think I'm seeing him this week. Not Bill my
In Newport Bill was doing a fund rate. He's got like a band with like this world-class like cello with say things like a bunch of
Kind of old time. He saw and he was visiting Newport
And my roommate was also coming down to visit Newport that same weekend. So we met up with them and
I was with my roommate in his car
And we're gonna go pick him up the place that he was staying at and like I was like, oh, yeah
I'm gonna tell him, you know all these jokes and all that I see him walk out the door and I'm just like shaking
I freeze up. I couldn't get a word out
I like held out like my left hand shaking his hand. He was like, oh, what are you doing here?
Like, you know, and then he will he does this thing. We're walking sort of downtown going past restaurants and stuff
It's like still sort of that era like after COVID so it's like eating outside. Yeah, people have like fries on their table
He would like take a fry. Oh, sure. And you go no one's gonna believe you
Yeah, no, it was the it was craziest thing and like it was with my family
He paid for the check, but like he and all his buddies were doing lobster and I saw my dad there
He was like, yeah, I like a Caesar salad
But he picked up the check and I was like, oh, yeah
And he was for you if my mom and I was even
And like you can't be mad like you can't like what a guy what a guy that's amazing
Awesome, dude. That's crazy for you to have met Bill Murray. I'm jealous. That's insane
But guys, I think that's all we have for you today
I want to give a little shout out to Charlie for being here like I'm so glad you were able to give me some of your time
I'm so happy we were able to discuss this. I'm still very still very curious about Big Dick energy
gonna do some more research about it and
Maybe a follow-up episode with someone else like I just want to know more honestly like what is it?
Like what is it about guys with big dick energy like what's up?
But guys, please take a shot that uses as a drinking game take a shot every time
I say dick or every time Charlie says dick or penis or chode like please
Like you're gonna be so plastered and you're gonna have the best night of your life
But um, yeah, that's all we have for you guys today, and I'll see you next time on more of mel