1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,720 Hi guys, welcome back to this coolest pod in the game where I pick people's brains about things that keep me up at night 2 00:00:06,820 --> 00:00:10,520 I'm your host Mel and on today's episode for the hookup culture 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:15,400 I'm joined by the beautiful Skyler who will give us all the intel about hookup culture 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:21,480 So if you don't wouldn't mind I can't talk for shit if you wouldn't mind introducing yourself to my listeners 5 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,820 That'd be awesome. Oh my god, of course 6 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,280 Hi everyone, I'm Skyler Hutchin call me sky 7 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:29,120 Hi 8 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:36,800 sophomore Emerson and I love Mel. I fucking love Skyler again shout out Nia Harman for introducing me to half the people on this 9 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,000 podcast love you wish you were here, but 10 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,080 this is going to be a a 11 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:49,200 Long episode I feel like because hookup culture is something I am very 12 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,680 Interested in learning more about because I feel like it's so prevalent in 13 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,480 Our generation because like obviously like our parents 14 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:02,400 I'm sure they had like something like similar to hookup culture or whatever 15 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:09,740 But I feel like the fact that it has like a name now like it like and I've participated in it like so many people 16 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:15,720 Participate in it. Like I just I want to hear someone else's perspective on this. So 17 00:01:16,320 --> 00:01:21,560 Just off the bat. What does hookup culture mean to you like when you hear that? Yeah 18 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:28,200 Um to me, I think that hookup culture essentially means just like getting with like multiple different people 19 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:33,280 Like not sticking with one person like just being able to just like explore 20 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,480 Okay. Yeah, and I feel like 21 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,880 The hooking up aspect of like a person's life 22 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,360 Well for me personally comes 23 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:44,720 Following a tragic relationship 24 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:50,800 I'm sorry, that's funny. Do you agree would you agree? 25 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,040 Yeah, if my laugh just said anything yes 26 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,480 Okay, I'm so glad so there's a lot of different things 27 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:04,760 I want to go into right now, but I also want to know like to you what is a hookup because so many people have like 28 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:08,040 Okay, tell me okay. This is such a good question because 29 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,040 Okay, so I finished hooking up with guy 30 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,640 and 31 00:02:14,640 --> 00:02:17,600 He asked me he was like so like what's your body count? 32 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:23,040 Like how many people have you been with that I'm a son and I was like oh like just like two people 33 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,240 Uh-huh, and I was like what about you because I was so curious 34 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,040 Yeah, what about you and he was like oh like four or five 35 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:34,080 And I was like and I told him I was like you're kind of a whore 36 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,480 And so I was like and he was like yeah, like I know like people say that about me whatever 37 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:45,720 And but then it brought me to this question like what is hookup culture like what is hooking up for people? 38 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:50,880 Because it's like is it just like making out with people is give me like or like whatever or having sex 39 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,100 for me uh-huh for me I 40 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:59,160 Feel like I need to stick to a definition cuz I don't but I want to stick up stick to the definition of sex 41 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:04,520 Okay, see I agree with that cuz like if I just make out with someone. I'm like oh, I made out with them 42 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:12,760 That's it or like if okay. This is mom sign off right now like please so much explicit content is about to be like 43 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,920 Perpetrated right now like I don't want you to hear this 44 00:03:15,920 --> 00:03:23,200 But like if someone like fingered me okay he fingered that's it like I'm not gonna say like I hooked up with them like cuz hookup 45 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:27,040 Like for me means the act of sex right so 46 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:31,920 Okay, glad we got that out of the way, so I want to ask you a question 47 00:03:31,920 --> 00:03:33,480 question 48 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:41,120 One-night stands or exclusive hookups and like this is this is very prevalent at Emerson College 49 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,120 So I want to hear what you have to say about this 50 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,120 Okay 51 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,120 Like what do I prefer probably neither? 52 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:58,800 Fair enough, but I haven't had a one-night stand at Emerson because I feel like every 53 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:03,320 Because also like I've only been with two guys at Emerson. I'm very picky. Yeah 54 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,880 Well, I try to be very 55 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:11,560 But yeah, like the guys that I've hooked up with at Emerson. I've only had sex with one person 56 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,920 I'm just crazy. Okay, but they they always come back 57 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:22,120 Yeah, to be real to be so real and like first of all look at you 58 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,120 So they always come back 59 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:30,760 But like I just feel like it's just so easy also to come back because we live in such a small community and 60 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:35,480 Sometimes we all live in the same building so it's an LB bro. Sorry LB. No 61 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:40,320 Yes, I talked about this like with Tommy and one of my episodes last season 62 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:47,560 I'll be quite literally like that was the fire pits of hell because that was high school before we all that was high school 63 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:53,080 So high it was insane like I like I don't even want to go back to that time 64 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,080 It was 65 00:04:58,840 --> 00:05:04,280 We're gonna talk about that. Oh my I feel like the laughs on so ugly on here today 66 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:09,240 Not cute. It's funny. It's very funny 67 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:13,840 Like the looks were giving each other I really wish I could make these into videos, but no 68 00:05:13,840 --> 00:05:17,480 This would be too iconic people would die die simply pass away 69 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,960 But for me personally like I don't know I don't think I've ever had a one night stand 70 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:27,720 So I can't really speak on that like but also it's really tough to have exclusive like 71 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:34,680 Exclusive hookups here because I feel like the guys they really like keeping their options open 72 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,560 Which you know what fair enough, okay? 73 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:41,520 Have your options open, but then don't like in private treat me like a girlfriend. Oh, that's my thing 74 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:47,720 Speak on it, please. Okay. Let me say something. Please. This is the same. How I was talking about earlier. Okay 75 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:54,520 Um, we can call him Charlie. Okay for the mainly um, okay, so me and Charlie working up 76 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,520 Whatever we finished whatever he finished and 77 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,600 Make it clear 78 00:05:59,960 --> 00:06:03,280 Exactly um, whatever he finished and 79 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:12,880 He started asking me like all these like deep and personal questions and then he was like he was like 80 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:19,080 He was like I kind of want to date someone and I'm like what mind you this is getting in graphic detail 81 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:25,920 I'm so yeah, yeah, please like I'm still sitting on top of him. He's still inside me while we're having this fucking conversation 82 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:31,400 Now oh my god. Yeah, I wanted dates someone. Is he insane? Oh? 83 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,280 Charlie watch your back, baby 84 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,480 Okay 85 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,640 What is he like okay now? Oh? 86 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:45,280 Oh, we don't talk now, but this isn't this isn't like sus 87 00:06:45,840 --> 00:06:50,120 Okay, because well also this is a whole different story on the low 88 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:54,280 I don't know if you'll keep this in but oh this is uncut my friend 89 00:06:55,960 --> 00:07:03,280 Okay, okay, okay. Um, okay. Well basically like I hooked up with him last year and then like 90 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:08,520 Talk to him like all over the summer or whatever, but like not like talking but just like captain contact 91 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,320 Yeah, and then like come back to Emerson 92 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,000 Fucking like the first 93 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:20,320 Thursday back at school like the first week of school and then it was that Thursday. He's actually he goes. What are you doing? 94 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:28,360 Okay, yeah, whatever. Let's just how that's just how he is and then we didn't hook up that. Oh, yes 95 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:32,360 Sorry, that was bad 96 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,440 Whatever we hooked up that night and that's when he popped the question on me 97 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:43,280 Whatever and then we started we still like captain contact for a little bit and then it was just like poof 98 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:45,280 He's gone and then and then oh 99 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:53,200 I saw him at the dining hall with my friend. Are we fucking made direct eye contact? 100 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:57,280 Okay, no fucking recognition in the world. He looked at me like I was a wall 101 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:01,040 What I was like bitch. Oh my god 102 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:05,200 It's something about that dining hall too because bra baby 103 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:12,880 You were inside of me not two seconds ago and now you not even you can't even hold eye contact. What's up? 104 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,880 Like what's up there? 105 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:22,360 Which is the same link is like why well I have my like wreaking suspicions 106 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:28,800 But at the same time it's like we fucked multiple times and then one day I'm gonna see in the dining hall and you pretend 107 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,680 I don't exist which is this is saying it's very should be adults 108 00:08:32,680 --> 00:08:36,640 I think being adult. Thank you exactly and I feel like also with hookah hooking up with people 109 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:40,860 There's like this mutual understanding that okay, like yes, we're not dating. Yes 110 00:08:40,860 --> 00:08:47,040 We're not being cutesy and cupbly, but you still owe me that decency to like hi Skyler 111 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,200 How's your David? How are you? 112 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:54,560 Like no, it's it's honestly very baffling to me. I'm trying to think of 113 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,160 Storytimes. Oh 114 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:01,520 This one guy right I started I started a key because I had a boyfriend 115 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:06,680 Whole first semester. Okay same last year. I was long distance 116 00:09:08,680 --> 00:09:10,680 Don't recommend don't 117 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,000 recommend like zero out of ten it's it's 118 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:22,360 Anyway, it's that's a story for another fucking day honestly exactly, but me and this guy start hooking up, right and 119 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,680 Like it was whatever like he's such a sweet guy 120 00:09:26,680 --> 00:09:35,160 We're still friends to this day honestly, but whenever I was it's so awkward or never like it's just so awkward 121 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:40,720 Which is so strange because we hang out with friends also like friends of friends and like we'll hang out alone 122 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:45,680 And like it's so nice and I'm able to talk to him or like just have nice conversations 123 00:09:45,680 --> 00:09:48,920 And then when I see him in public, it's like oh like what's going on? 124 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:55,040 It's like he has a panic mode on when he sees me in public like I'm not naked calm down like like nothing's happening right now 125 00:09:55,040 --> 00:10:00,600 I'm just saying hi. How are you like that's it? I like I don't understand it. I think it's something with the guys here 126 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:07,560 I don't know. I'm like it doesn't hurt me, but at the same time. I'm like you we've literally seen all of each other 127 00:10:07,560 --> 00:10:11,360 That's my point like just being adult and smile at me 128 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:17,220 That's literally it like you're not asking for the stars in the moon like I know I'm not gonna get it from you 129 00:10:18,560 --> 00:10:21,360 Speak on it speak on it right now 130 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:23,280 I 131 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,280 Want to talk about how 132 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:27,960 Unfulfilling it is 133 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:34,760 Okay, and that's something that I've struggled with personally like being in college and like 134 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:38,840 partaking in hookup culture and like kind of 135 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,400 Like I don't even know how to explain it kind of wanting more 136 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,160 But also knowing that that person is not gonna give me more 137 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:48,120 But then also still wanting to hook up because at the end of the day 138 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:54,640 I'm a human being like a cute little hookup here and there I want it like I don't know like want to hear your thoughts 139 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,080 Okay, okay. Yeah 140 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:05,560 Um, okay, I want to profess that I'm a very like sex positive individual like me too. Yeah, like love 141 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:11,360 Love all that very fun very fulfilling. Yeah, also like keep in mind. I've never finished 142 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,160 Yeah, so talk about 143 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,520 Fucking fulfilling 144 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,320 Whatever 145 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:28,120 Oh no, it's okay. No, it's okay. Sometimes I think about it too intensely and then I'm like wow, I'm really 146 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,600 But I don't want to get into that. That's really sad 147 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:38,160 Okay, yeah, she has a Google Doc guys. She's so prepared for this. I love it. Okay 148 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:42,000 I feel like it's unfulfilling. This is what I wrote down 149 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:47,080 I feel like it's unfulfilling because people don't hold themselves to high enough standards when they are okay with people 150 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:50,920 Mm-hmm, but it's also like when you're going into the hookup culture 151 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:56,560 That's also something you should keep in mind is that like not everyone you hook up with is gonna be your boyfriend 152 00:11:56,560 --> 00:12:00,840 Not everyone you hook up with this gonna be a great hookup. Mm-hmm. I've had bad hookups before it's 153 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:08,800 Yeah, and it's gonna be unfulfilling because yeah, like the moment that it is fulfilling that should be your person for the 154 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:10,800 Okay, yeah, you know what I mean? It's like 155 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,760 It's I don't know. It's like you can't 156 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:20,720 Put yourself in there just having these expectations of it being just like so 157 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:29,160 Astronomically good. Yeah, yeah when you literally are in college and hooking up with the guy who's probably had sex for only two years of his life 158 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,200 Yeah, okay, I 159 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:39,360 Don't know I think like yes high expectations, but in my opinion high expectations on the man or sorry not the man the boy 160 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:40,920 You're seeing 161 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:47,360 Yeah, I had to clear that one up. Yeah, I had to clear that up always but like high expectations on who you're fucking 162 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:51,120 But don't have high expectations on like the experience 163 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,000 Yeah, and you know what I? 164 00:12:54,760 --> 00:13:00,560 100% totally wholeheartedly agree with that because like I wouldn't say I caught 165 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:04,040 Feelings like that's a good segue for my next topic 166 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,120 but I wouldn't say I caught feelings for the person but like I 167 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:11,340 Don't I wish there was a like a less strong word for feelings 168 00:13:11,340 --> 00:13:15,600 You know like I wanted to get to know the connection the connection 169 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:21,760 That women unfortunately do get more than men do which fucking sucks 170 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:26,360 Cuz like I just want to be able to have a hookup and be done with it like that's all I want 171 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:27,360 It's so fucking hard 172 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:32,960 It's so hard and I don't understand it cuz half these guys are so like so not 173 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:40,120 And I'm like giving them the time of day texting them or answering their tags and like oh 174 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:44,480 What are you liking their Instagram stories like a bitch like a fucking pussy ass bitch? 175 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:49,420 And it's like okay like have your head on your shoulders, please like this is not who your mother 176 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:57,080 Come on and it makes me so upset at myself because I know that's not who I am like I know that's not who I am 177 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:01,160 But then once you get into the cycle of like oh way, I really like hooking up with this person 178 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:06,740 I really like this person's company and it's like oh you're a bitch. That's on your knees like it 179 00:14:09,560 --> 00:14:14,800 Yeah, and I don't I don't like it like one bit, but you know we're 180 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:19,920 We're trying to get past it and we're still in college still learning so 181 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:24,120 Like that's definitely something that a lot of people deal with right now 182 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaking of feelings catching unprecedented feelings and getting feelings caught for you by someone 183 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:38,800 I want to hear your thoughts on this and then I'll give mine. Okay, perfect. Actually, I have two perfect stories 184 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:47,720 Yay, ironically my last boyfriend was exactly the epitome of him catching feelings for me 185 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,360 Okay. Yeah, okay, so 186 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,800 Summer before freshman year of college 187 00:14:55,400 --> 00:15:00,600 Living okay, I'm I'm not experimenting. Okay. That was a little much 188 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:07,000 I'm just having fun like whatever like I go through like a couple of boys and then I start talking to this one guy I 189 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:13,160 Don't really have a name for him because I would just call him his regular name and my mother told me not to do that 190 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:19,120 So, okay. Yeah, whatever like me and him like we went to elementary school together middle school high school 191 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:22,440 but we like never really talked we had homeroom together and then 192 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:29,480 It's July and this person just like pops into my life like whatever we just start talking in the night 193 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:32,640 I invited to I invite him to some of my like friends like functions 194 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:35,120 whatever 195 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:40,640 Come I don't know like a little bit like I'm starting to have a little bit of like like I kind of 196 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:42,960 You know 197 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:47,400 So we like start like testing the water 198 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:53,280 And I don't know like I'm vibing like it's cool. We don't really talk about like what's going on 199 00:15:53,280 --> 00:16:00,680 We're just like having a good all time. I move to Boston for college. Yeah, and then he's like and then I 200 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,280 And then whatever I'm like snap like we kill it 201 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:13,200 We still keep in contact whatever we're still like talking peruse and I ask him and I was like, oh like 202 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,160 We're not like exclusive, right? 203 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,160 And he was like no we are 204 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:27,080 My dude like that night I was gonna go out and then easy way to find out exactly and then this news just hit me 205 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,080 And I was like fuck, okay 206 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,640 So I was like fuck like 207 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:38,880 There was also like at this point in my life like Adam or son there was no one that really like caught my eye 208 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,600 Okay, like whatever 209 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:48,600 So we just start dating and I just like I'm thrown into this like new worlds of like dating him 210 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,600 And like long distance 211 00:16:51,320 --> 00:17:01,440 Yeah, I know it was like it wasn't bad per se like but I also like I never loved him and he loved me and 212 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:06,640 Like I never told him that I loved him because we had this conversation openly 213 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:13,080 I'm not gonna tell someone who I don't love I love you. Yeah, that fucks up with someone's head for sure exactly 214 00:17:13,120 --> 00:17:20,120 So that's my story on someone catching feelings for me and me not really seeing it that way 215 00:17:20,120 --> 00:17:26,640 Like I liked him, but I was like I'm going to college like across the country like this probably isn't like the best idea 216 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:29,640 I don't know if you got if you know what this is but like zip codes 217 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,800 No, okay, maybe that's sudden California thing 218 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:38,760 Essentially, it's just like people when you come back home like you just like hook up with them and then you'd like come back 219 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:47,360 So they're like your zip code, you know like when you go back home, it's like oh like what's up like? 220 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:53,920 So I thought we were just gonna be like fucking like zip codes and then he pulls it on I want to be exclusive with you 221 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:55,920 And I'm like fuck. Okay. I guess 222 00:17:55,920 --> 00:18:03,640 So yeah, and then I ended up fucking dating him for the longest time I've dated any person in my life 223 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:10,680 Keep in mind that was six months, but yeah, but that's still that's half a year exactly in college too. So that's crazy 224 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,680 That's a huge amount of time. Yeah 225 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,560 What about the other story time? 226 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,080 Okay, yeah 227 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,080 Is Loki more on me? 228 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:29,920 Oh, yeah, well, it's I was caught at a vulnerable time and place. Okay, I know I just broke up with that boyfriend 229 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:36,160 I was just talking about and then boom I come back to Emerson. It's spring semester. I'm freshly single 230 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:42,320 Yeah, and my friend Maddie takes me out to a basketball game. Oh my god. Hey Maddie 231 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:46,680 She's I want her to come on so bad. She wants you she wants to come on, too 232 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,680 She was like, oh my god, you're going on 233 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:55,120 Yeah, she's like, oh my god plug. Okay. Anyway, so I go fuck I shouldn't have said the sport but 234 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,400 That just hit me 235 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:07,200 It's fine. It's fine. It's fine. Um, so I go to this game and I 236 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:12,320 Go there with you, Nea and Maddie. Okay, so we go 237 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:17,320 So we go and I asked money 238 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,800 I'm like, oh like who are the people on the team like whatever 239 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:25,240 Cuz like this is my first time ever going to like an Emerson like sports game fucking sports 240 00:19:28,120 --> 00:19:31,920 It's okay, I'm like digging myself a fucking even bigger grave 241 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:36,960 Whatever so what we go to this game. I asked Maddie who the players are 242 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,640 She lets me know and I follow two of them after the game 243 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:41,480 Two of them 244 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:46,760 And then I like one of their stories. We'll call him will okay. I liked will story 245 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:53,120 Whatever like he DM's me that night and he was like who's like when are we hanging out Skyler? 246 00:19:53,120 --> 00:19:58,680 I was like the fuck whoa because no one's been that just bold direct him bold yeah 247 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:05,920 Ever in my life like ever because that's like it wasn't like bold and be like let's fuck it was both me like let me take you out 248 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:09,160 Yeah, yeah, that's really attractive. Yeah, that is attractive 249 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,160 Yeah, sure, so I was like oh 250 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,280 So whatever like 251 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:22,040 We like text over DM or on Instagram whatever and then we ended like planning a day 252 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:28,840 And he was like let me get your number and help us like fuck you want my number not my snapchat like God again 253 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,840 That's so attractive when it got 254 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,920 Like he was just like setting himself up for this. Yeah, sure 255 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,320 So we go in this state 256 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,520 And this is where it kind of gets a little funny in my opinion 257 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,880 So I go on this date with will and 258 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:54,960 We're like I meet him like this is actually my first time ever talking in person. Oh, yeah, okay 259 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:59,440 But he tells me that we've met before in the elevator and I completely ignored him 260 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:04,120 And I was like oh, I don't actually ever remember that whatever not big to the story 261 00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:10,200 So we go on this date and we go to this pizza place at Newberry dirty water. Okay. Yeah. Yeah 262 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,400 So we go there 263 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:18,480 I'm a pescatarian, okay, so I can't eat like pepperoni pizza 264 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,040 Yeah, I can't eat pineapple pizza pepperoni pizza meat lovers, whatever 265 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:28,960 So I'm like I'm very I was like hey like I'm pescatarian so I can only eat like these and I'm like listed in law firm 266 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,600 I'm so nervous 267 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:36,120 It's I think thinking back on it now like I find it funny, but some of my friends at home 268 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,640 They're like Skyler like what the fuck he did this 269 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,120 So I like 270 00:21:42,120 --> 00:21:45,840 Tell him everything that I can eat and he was like, okay cool 271 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,840 And then so we're like next in line to order 272 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:55,080 And he was like to the lady who is taking your order. He was like, oh, yeah, can we do half pineapple? 273 00:21:55,080 --> 00:22:02,120 Half fucking I don't remember what it was, but it was a Greek salad essentially on the pizza. Oh 274 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:09,480 So I was like I was like, okay number one you ordered for me. Yeah, never met you before ordered for me 275 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,040 Number two 276 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,480 The fuck 277 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:24,080 No, no all the options no literally 278 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:32,120 Okay, I love this this is the loudest we've ever been on the pot. I'm fucking loving this but out of every 279 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,600 Greek salad 280 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:42,920 Salad in pineapple like making that pizza like they were like the fuck are these people my stomach is actually 281 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,920 Turning 282 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,240 But was the date good 283 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,960 Okay, yes, the date was good. I think 284 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,480 Problem is is that like I did my 285 00:22:56,040 --> 00:23:03,280 Research about him and also like Maddie told me about him. So I like I knew like about him before like I met him in person 286 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,080 And so 287 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:12,040 Like I don't know I just like I found that kind of like detrimental to it because I was there was something that he was talking about 288 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,420 And I was like I already know all about this 289 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,480 But I have to pretend that I don't 290 00:23:21,120 --> 00:23:26,680 Yeah, and then I also told him that I think I stalked his mom's Instagram and then he was like 291 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:30,520 He was really taken aback, but he still came to my room later that night 292 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:40,800 Because obviously something worked that's so funny. I'm screaming you told him 293 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:44,200 I did well the problem with me is that like I really don't get 294 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:52,200 No, I love that about you so much like so the fuck what like you said he ended up coming to your room 295 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:56,760 So he did I mean at the end of the day you were up. So and he told me after 296 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,760 We didn't have sex. Mm-hmm, but like after he finished 297 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:17,680 He said and I quote I've been told I have to say this story he said welcome to the jungle 298 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:23,380 No signing off bye guys. This is such a good episode. Love you guys 299 00:24:23,380 --> 00:24:30,660 Oh, welcome to the jungle fucking welcome to the jungle. What am I entering like a rock concert? 300 00:24:33,780 --> 00:24:39,180 I think I was literally so flabbergasted I was like I don't think I I 301 00:24:39,500 --> 00:24:44,220 Did I don't think I said anything. I think I was like I have to go to the bathroom. Oh my god 302 00:24:44,300 --> 00:24:49,940 Wait, but like how do you even come up with something like that and just think about it? 303 00:24:49,940 --> 00:24:55,660 He said it to me again this year when I went over to his place. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. When I went back 304 00:24:56,100 --> 00:24:58,100 He said it when I entered the door 305 00:24:59,180 --> 00:25:02,460 Oh my god, we're not on the same shit. Are we like I 306 00:25:04,300 --> 00:25:07,140 Think I just would have like I would have screamed 307 00:25:09,420 --> 00:25:15,860 Well, that's why everyone was like sky like you have to tell this story because it's like that was probably the best story 308 00:25:15,860 --> 00:25:18,180 We've ever heard on this podcast like welcome to the jungle now 309 00:25:18,180 --> 00:25:20,180 Please 310 00:25:20,580 --> 00:25:24,820 No, I'm really like that makes me really cringe like my whole body is like 311 00:25:25,820 --> 00:25:28,620 Mmm, and like did the hooking up? 312 00:25:30,900 --> 00:25:34,020 Well, obviously because it's this fucking year and I saw him again 313 00:25:34,420 --> 00:25:41,700 But he is like the only person at Emerson. This is really humbling for me to say this because he's probably gonna listen to this 314 00:25:41,700 --> 00:25:44,060 Probably yeah, I will 315 00:25:45,940 --> 00:25:51,220 He's probably the only person at Emerson where I was like no like I definitely could date you 316 00:25:51,220 --> 00:25:58,060 Okay, so many people are like well so many people may probably like here back at home. He has a lot of fans back home 317 00:25:58,460 --> 00:26:02,100 But he does I know it's interesting 318 00:26:02,100 --> 00:26:11,140 The diversity, but he's like the person that I like I like him. Okay. I like I caught unprecedented feelings for him 319 00:26:11,140 --> 00:26:13,900 And they're still here probably oh 320 00:26:14,460 --> 00:26:21,900 It's a humbling moment, but I feel like that's so okay though cuz like I mean it happens shit happens 321 00:26:22,220 --> 00:26:24,860 He from what I'm hearing is a charming guy 322 00:26:26,420 --> 00:26:28,420 So 323 00:26:28,420 --> 00:26:39,220 I mean I don't blame you like like I don't blame you like you can't be yourself up over that like I'm not mad at myself 324 00:26:39,580 --> 00:26:45,540 It's more of that. He's just and I've told him this before he is so fucking confusing 325 00:26:47,500 --> 00:26:54,300 And it's like from like everything up until now it's like you were so direct in the beginning and then now you're just like 326 00:26:54,300 --> 00:26:59,940 So utterly confusing that it's just like it just is annoying. Yeah, it's a lot to deal with for sure 327 00:26:59,940 --> 00:27:04,580 I talked about that with Nia actually on our episode about like guys and like 328 00:27:05,060 --> 00:27:13,580 them being so confusing and like having like ambiguous meanings to everything they say you have to fucking decipher that shit 329 00:27:13,580 --> 00:27:15,580 Like it's like why should we have to do that? 330 00:27:15,940 --> 00:27:20,580 Like I don't understand like just I'm not asking to be your girlfriend 331 00:27:20,580 --> 00:27:26,900 Just be serious talk to me like be direct with me. You were able to be direct with me before so what's changed? 332 00:27:26,900 --> 00:27:33,660 Yeah, what's changed like I I personally don't understand, but you know what shout out will welcome to the jungle 333 00:27:35,300 --> 00:27:38,580 That was quite the story and it's a silly story 334 00:27:39,460 --> 00:27:41,460 Definitely a silly story 335 00:27:41,980 --> 00:27:44,480 No, I can't think about that 336 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:50,800 I can't okay, I don't like so but this is a good segue to the 337 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:56,540 Situation ship art. Oh god, so would you would you call will a situation ship? 338 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,760 I 339 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,760 Don't think so 340 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:12,480 Maybe no actually no, I wouldn't think so just because it's like it was never like we were like talking like on a day-to-day basis 341 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:17,040 Mm-hmm, but like talking in the sense of like because when I think of a situation ship 342 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,800 I think of someone like you're that you're like flirty with 343 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:25,080 You basic you're doing the same rituals as you would if you're dating someone, but you're not not 344 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:33,880 Exclusive like there's no boundaries. There's no guidelines. There's nothing and like me and will weren't talking aren't talking 345 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,560 Like sense like at all 346 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:44,680 Um, so no, I don't think so unless fucking he has to say otherwise, which I highly doubt so okay, okay? 347 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,680 But I want to hear your thoughts about 348 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:52,120 situationships and potentially story times if you have any I have a couple okay, I 349 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,440 Don't I 350 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,280 Wouldn't say I have a situation ship story 351 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:03,320 I think I more have a story where like I felt deeply in love with this guy and I still am deeply in love with him 352 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,280 Yeah 353 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,280 Back home 354 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:15,320 He is like the love of my like I would marry him, but that's another topic okay, I 355 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,040 Just sound so interesting on this podcast 356 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:24,640 Oh, you're awesome. You're to work. You're for sure top three most interesting guests. I've had on here 357 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,400 Okay, well, I'm so glad anyways the situation ship stuff. I 358 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,960 Don't have any stories about it what I think about it. I 359 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,000 just I don't 360 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:38,800 Really like it because it ends up always hurting the woman. Yep. Let's be real 361 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,400 It always ends up hurting the girl 362 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:48,640 100% agree with you on that. That's just like so unfair for so many reasons like why do we have to have this like 363 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:54,080 There was no such thing as a situation ship like I really don't think there was ever such a thing 364 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,200 until like the aspect of like social media 365 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:05,240 So true, so and I feel like that's the same with hookup culture honestly. Yeah, I feel like that's the same but 366 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,360 Situation ships hate them hate them with everything inside of me 367 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:15,360 I think they are the most awful thing to have ever come out of hookup culture 368 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:21,320 because first of all like like you said the woman always ends up getting so hurt because 369 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,080 like 370 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:30,920 You go into it with expectations right because it's like it's not exclusive but like when you have a situation ship with someone 371 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:35,480 Like you still hang out with the person you do sexual things with it's like it's 372 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:40,000 Literally a relationship just not the title and that's what I think 373 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:47,000 Makes for the most hurt because you go into it like you're treating this person like they're your partner 374 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,800 But then you're still uncertain cuz like oh, they're not my partner 375 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:57,040 So like what am I doing like you still want it like hang out with this person and like spend time with this person and do all 376 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:02,560 The sexual things and it's like so confused like mind-boggling like you still want to do it 377 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:08,880 Which is so fucking frustrating like I don't know any comments before my story time 378 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:14,040 Just like a hundred percent in the grants with you. Yeah, like I haven't that just remind me 379 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:17,200 I haven't had anything like personal that was a situation ship really 380 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:23,400 But like I've seen some of my friends go through like numerous situations ships and I'm always like what the fuck 381 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:30,040 Like my exact sentiments. Yeah, like I'm just like I'm sorry. I actually didn't know if we can cast on here 382 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,040 I'm doing that a little bit too much, but 383 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:33,640 I 384 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,640 Just like I just don't really 385 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:40,920 Understand like I just like cuz it just seems like they should be dating and they are dating 386 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:45,840 But then you ask them and they're like oh like no like we aren't dating 387 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:51,920 We're still talking and I'm like so you guys are still talking, but you're having sex on FaceTime. You're doing phone sex 388 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,280 You guys are 389 00:31:55,200 --> 00:32:02,280 Dating literally dating like where do you draw the line? That's my main problem with it and I 390 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,000 Would say that 391 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:09,920 Junior year not no junior year of high school. I was in a relationship senior year of high school 392 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:16,360 Definitely was in the situation ship arc era of my life for sure 393 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:22,000 I remember I was in a situation ship with this kid and 394 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,360 What do we call him? 395 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,160 Brad okay, Brad 396 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,920 First of all, he was the most by that time 397 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:36,960 I was very emotionally unavailable because I had just gotten cheated on broken up with so yeah 398 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:40,640 Yeah, so it's just a whole thing where I was like, okay? I need like no commitment 399 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:44,880 But still want like someone to tag along life with right now, you know 400 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:51,640 So me and Brad like we start like being flirty with each other in class like everyone's noticing it 401 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,640 whatever it was that type of situation and 402 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:59,160 I can't remember the first time we hooked up. It was probably at like his house or something 403 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:06,120 Yeah, so I go over it like it was like a party or like a chill or whatever 404 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:13,080 And so I go to his house and then yeah a bunch of people like end up leaving and then I go to his room 405 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,080 and then we hook up right and 406 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:20,600 We start like talking, but it's not like a talking words like sweet like hey my love 407 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:25,600 How are you like not that we're just like talking like making plans next time we can hook up. That's what it was 408 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,120 Yeah, I just remembered 409 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,680 Tell me story. No, it's big. Oh 410 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,040 Do you want to tell me after well? 411 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,000 We can I can go after your story. Okay, okay? 412 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:41,560 So start like hooking up like on a regular basis like I 413 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:46,040 Remember there was one time where I started catching feelings for him 414 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:51,320 There was but I don't think it was feelings because like I said, I was so emotionally unavailable 415 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:56,360 I was just like oh, I really want to spend more time with this person because like when we did stop our 416 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,480 Situation trip like I wasn't bad hurt like I was just like bummed 417 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:07,720 But anyways, it was like a 420 party he was having right and so like it was me two of my girlfriends and like a couple of his friends 418 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,640 So we pull up and then he's like hugging me 419 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:15,920 He's like sitting behind me like arms wrapped around me and so that's where the confusion started 420 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:20,480 I was like, huh, I did not think we were I didn't think we were doing this like what's up 421 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:26,840 And so like we end up hooking up that night. We hook up we had like this friend like throw a euphoria party 422 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,680 We hooked up there like it was just hook up upon hook up upon hook up 423 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,460 and I was like wait like what is this and 424 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:40,960 Like he I think he insinuated that he didn't want like but it was very rude like the way he said it like he didn't want anymore 425 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:47,760 And I started like being very standoffish and like ghosting him kind of and then he went and told like our mutual friend 426 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:52,320 Like what the fuck is wrong with her blah blah blah so that like just the whole 427 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:58,160 Seekersy of it all just really hurt me and him going behind my back talking to our other friend 428 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,320 That's what really hurt me like I don't know 429 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:06,560 I just fucking hate situationships if you're in one, please get the fuck out of it like as soon as possible like it's the worst 430 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,360 Yeah, I 431 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:14,500 Feel the same because guess what this I can't believe my fucking forgot about this. This is embarrassing 432 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:22,160 Um, I was in a situation ship. I'm still in a situation. She's been going on for like three or four years 433 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:29,680 What yeah, well the thing is is that I forgot about it because it's like it's just gone to be like so casual 434 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,760 Like it's just come to be so casual 435 00:35:32,240 --> 00:35:35,440 So let me let me set the scene for you. Okay? 436 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,240 So 437 00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:42,720 He's my next-door neighbor. Oh, yeah, that's such a movie. Oh 438 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:50,120 Yeah, okay, so he was my next-door neighbor and we'd walk to school together starting sophomore year 439 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:56,120 Oh, we'd walk to school together all the time like me and him we became like really good friends 440 00:35:57,240 --> 00:36:00,840 Like freshman year to sophomore year of high school. We were just like really great friends 441 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,720 Walked to school the time together like whatever he lived right next door to me like yeah 442 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,840 then like COVID happens like at the end of sophomore year and 443 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:15,160 Whatever like things with me and him start like 444 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:16,920 switching 445 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:18,920 Like bad switching no no no no 446 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,160 Like like switching like he's like 447 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:27,960 I wonder how it would be to like have my first cast like blah blah blah and mind you like I lost my virginity when I was 15 448 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:31,240 I was the freshman like yeah, she's been I I was like I've 449 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,520 I've had my first cast yeah, so 450 00:36:35,240 --> 00:36:38,120 Whatever so I was just like oh like 451 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:43,880 This is low key some couldn't do the say but I was like oh like I can show you 452 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,600 Yeah 453 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:51,480 Oh my god, mind you this is all over text. Okay. This is not I around. This is not fucking I around 454 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,520 That's so funny. Okay. Anyways, so 455 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,040 whatever also it's like COVID but yeah 456 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:05,080 so whatever like we meet at this one spot like he was walking his dog and 457 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:10,600 We kissed and then we made out and then 458 00:37:11,240 --> 00:37:14,680 Whatever nothing else happened after the make out like we kissed and then we made out 459 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,680 and that was 460 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:24,120 The start of it the start of it like three or four years ago. I took his virginity. I took his first kiss 461 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,720 I was his first everything now his first everything he always 462 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,400 This is the boy who always comes back to me my best friend from home Kylie 463 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:36,520 She literally is like I think you're gonna get married to him. Is he the one you're in love with no 464 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:43,240 No, um no I this is gonna sound a little bit weird 465 00:37:43,240 --> 00:37:47,640 But I like view him more as like family but not family 466 00:37:47,720 --> 00:37:52,600 I get that just the I feel like it's the guy like you owe it to yourself to see like 467 00:37:53,240 --> 00:37:55,640 What if like what if I do? Yeah. Yeah, okay? 468 00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:02,120 Yeah, totally understand that but like when I went home like for the summer like when I was back from New York and when I was home 469 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:08,120 I saw him. Did anything happen? Yeah, we fog or really? Yeah. Yeah, um 470 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:15,240 But it's just like it's just it comes back in like a rhythm. Like I don't know. It's yeah kind of 471 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,360 It's like routine like back to the routine 472 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:21,880 Fucking back to the routine and like, you know what fair enough 473 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:28,120 I'm trying to think if I had one of those don't I don't recommend it because it's like well, it's 474 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:35,640 It's not bad, but it's like when am I gonna finally break this habit because I've said like we both said like no to each other before 475 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:42,440 But it's then it's like but then we'll ask again. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, and then it's just like it's like a cycle. Yeah, and then someone will say yes 476 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,280 Yeah, it's just like that's always how it ends up happening 477 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:51,240 I know and like when I've had a boyfriend like he obviously like doesn't talk to me and then 478 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:56,760 Literally, it's like this guy like knows it's like he knows six cents. He knows when I'm in town 479 00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:00,200 He knows when I don't have a boyfriend anymore like he just knows 480 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,920 And I told him that before I'm like 481 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:07,160 Okay, I was about to say I was like, do you know like how do you know this? 482 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,960 He just has a chip on you 483 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,400 He knows 484 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:16,520 It knows everything wait. That's so funny. Yeah, I've probably had a couple of those 485 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,400 um back home in Haiti 486 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:26,840 Oh, nothing of note. They were not rememberable. So that's probably that's probably why I don't remember honestly 487 00:39:27,720 --> 00:39:31,240 like I had a crazy summer in terms of 488 00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:33,240 Like 489 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,560 Oh, I had a summer boy too like 490 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,560 Boys 491 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:45,080 Mine was a single. No, like it was really like I was concerned for myself at one point. I was like, oh, like your sexual health 492 00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:50,040 No, like just me as a human being like are you dead ass melody? 493 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,880 Like I had to look at myself in the mirror and be like, oh like you need to stop like this is 494 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,440 Not cute like you gotta stop 495 00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:03,400 But like the thing is I'm never like that but like that's my thing. I've always been like a boyfriend girl, you know 496 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,960 until I came to college but 497 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:11,640 Like I don't know like this this summer was kind of crazy like I hooked up with two guys in one night 498 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:15,400 Fuck yeah, like and they were like it was like in front 499 00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:23,400 Wait, wait, you had sex in front of me. No, no, okay. Wait. No, no hook up. Okay. Sorry. That's like that's on me 500 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:27,240 Where's our definition here? Okay. That's on me. That's on me. You need to go back to the definition 501 00:40:27,240 --> 00:40:33,400 That's on me for sure, but it was definitely like intense make out and in front 502 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,040 Yeah, basically in front of the other and like 503 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:45,080 And like the age gap between me and those people like like younger or older 504 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:50,440 Way older like okay. I thought you were gonna say younger and I was gonna leave guys like stand by 505 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,240 I'm just gonna sign to Skyler how old this man was 506 00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:02,920 Yeah, yeah, okay. Yeah, it was crazy and the other guy was two years older than him 507 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,120 What 508 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,760 Fuck 509 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:10,280 What 510 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:15,800 I don't understand. Oh, I'm gonna explain to you like after like when we're done recording this because it was 511 00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:22,120 Create like nothing. I was not a victim in this by any means whatsoever. Like I didn't think you were a victim because you were talking about it 512 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:27,960 Yeah, yeah, because I'm like conscious. I was conscious. Yeah, I'm like I wasn't drunk. So just wanted to put that out there 513 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,240 But no, yeah crazy summer in terms of hooking up 514 00:41:31,240 --> 00:41:37,400 But trying to get out of the hookup culture of it all started talking to this cute guy. Oh my god 515 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:43,800 Don't I get a cf photo you do get to I'm pretty sure you know him. I'll show you like after yeah, okay 516 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,120 Okay, okay. Yeah, so shout out to him. But 517 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,400 Back to the 518 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:56,680 Back to the podcast we're like veering like so many different gears, but I love it. It's so much fun. It's so kind of a thought process 519 00:41:57,240 --> 00:42:00,760 I love it. Yes. Okay. So I want to talk about the dangers 520 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,320 that come 521 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:04,200 with 522 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,520 hookup culture so this is 523 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,960 kind of not trigger warning the kind of like trigger warning 524 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:14,600 Um, so we have like stds or like unwarranted situations 525 00:42:15,720 --> 00:42:17,160 like 526 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:22,360 Things where I don't want to say the word because I don't want this to like get taken down 527 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:28,120 But like where people push themselves on you or whatever. Oh, yeah. Yeah, okay. Okay. Well 528 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,040 I'm gonna bring back charlie into this equation because charlie 529 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:34,760 Hi 530 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,280 Okay 531 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:40,200 It was my last time hooking up with charlie. Um 532 00:42:41,240 --> 00:42:43,240 In second semester freshman year 533 00:42:43,720 --> 00:42:45,720 Last time hooking up with him 534 00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:50,280 A couple days later. I wake up and I was like something's wrong 535 00:42:51,720 --> 00:42:54,120 Uh-huh. Yeah, so I wake up and I like 536 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,400 I feel something suspicious 537 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,280 And I call my mom 538 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,600 And I was like 539 00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,360 Something's wrong. Yeah, I don't know what to do and I kind of like 540 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:12,280 Explain to her like what's going on and she was like, well, have you been practicing safe sex? And I was like, yes 541 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,280 I have 542 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:18,200 And she was like, okay. Well, you should probably call your doctor 543 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,040 Um, and so I called my doctor like back in san diego 544 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:26,520 And they were like, um, yeah, like you need to go to urgent care right now 545 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:32,840 Oh god, and I was like fuck me like, okay. So now I'm like, holy shit. Like what type of STD do I have? 546 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,120 I was like freaking out and flipping out because I was like 547 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:41,400 What the hell what the hell also like, I don't know if you guys have been to the urgent care by 548 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:49,240 Is it time or sin? No the mash general urgent care. It's like you walk through the transportation building and then it's like on the left 549 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,560 Yeah, I've been there way too many times now 550 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,520 um 551 00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,120 reason 552 00:43:56,120 --> 00:44:03,240 um, so I go there and mind you like you have to declare why you're there. Yeah, uh-huh. So I'm like 553 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,440 They were like, so what are you in here for and I was like 554 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,160 Um, I don't know a possible STD 555 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,800 Lord like it was just kind of like humbling and embarrassing whatever 556 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,960 So after like a fucking like hour 30 minute wait 557 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:26,600 Yeah, I go in to see the doctor like a nurse like checks me out and then I like see an actual doctor and she was like, okay 558 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:29,080 Like let me see. Mm-hmm, and I like 559 00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:34,200 Show her I'm purposely not going in graphic detail. Yeah for everyone's sake. Mm-hmm 560 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,640 Um, and she was like, oh no, that's just like a swollen lymph node 561 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:45,320 And I was like what that's happened to me. Are you for real? I'm because melody. I was scared. No, I was horrified 562 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:48,120 I was horrified. I was like, okay, like yeah 563 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:52,920 Yeah, yep. I literally was I woke up that morning shot my pants and was like 564 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:59,560 What the fuck? Yeah. No, I've had that in high school. It was horrifying like so scary nightmare 565 00:44:59,960 --> 00:45:02,840 Literally, I was like, what the fuck did charlie just give me? Yeah 566 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:08,280 I yeah and funny enough. I told him this story and you know, you want to know what he said 567 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,520 What did he say? 568 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:14,440 This kind of like when he said it I didn't think twice 569 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:18,120 But now that I now that I thought about it. I was like this kind of suspicious 570 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:23,400 He was like he was like it wouldn't have been like that bad if you just had like an std like it's not that embarrassing 571 00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:24,840 What? 572 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,840 I was like, huh? 573 00:45:27,720 --> 00:45:29,720 I was he was like, yeah, it could have been fine 574 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,280 And I was like, what if I got AIDS? 575 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,280 Exactly you freak. What do you mean? It wouldn't have been that bad 576 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,120 I just like don't think his head was screwed on straight for that moment because I was like 577 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:48,200 It wouldn't no one wants to get an std. Exactly. Oh my god. What a freak. I don't like that answer whatsoever 578 00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,720 Yeah, but then you know this year I have sex with him again 579 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,760 And oh my god. I have to go to urgent care 580 00:45:55,480 --> 00:46:00,600 Again, you're lying. No being fucking dead ass and you know, you want to know what's worse melody 581 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,480 You want I'm saying your whole name. You want to know what's worse? 582 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:05,960 My doctor tells me 583 00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:11,240 Skylar you should take a pregnancy test. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no 584 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:16,360 That is the I thought I actually thought about like texting him and being like guess what? 585 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:21,080 I have to take a pregnancy test. Oh my god. I didn't do that. That would have been evil 586 00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:24,280 But I was like, maybe I want to be evil. Mm-hmm. I didn't do that 587 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,080 But I like I've never had a doctor tell me 588 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,960 You should take a pregnancy test. I literally I was I was going out that night 589 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,160 Oh my god 590 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,160 I'm sorry. I just had to mouth something to her 591 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:41,080 um, I was going out that night and I was like 592 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,480 It's like I have to take a pregnancy test. Like I could be pregnant. Like oh my god 593 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,600 Like I can't drink alcohol like blah blah blah blah blah. I need to get an abortion like 594 00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,360 Like all this stuff was like rummaging through my brain 595 00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:54,600 and then 596 00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,640 I wasn't pregnant obviously. Thank god. Literally if I 597 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,440 I don't even want to think about that right now 598 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:05,400 But and then I have to go to urgent care because they're like, okay, like it could be an std 599 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,960 Like it could also just be like some other stuff 600 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:15,240 So I was like, okay. Um, so I go to urgent care again. I'm like, hey guys, welcome back 601 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,400 I'm back 602 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:22,760 No, you're so happy to see me. Um, and of course they have you declare what you're fucking in there for 603 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:28,600 And last time I could write it on a piece of paper and I was like god bless america and this time I was like 604 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,600 Can I write another piece of paper? 605 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:35,480 And they were like, no, we don't have any piece of paper. She was like, is it is an original problems? 606 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:37,960 And I was like, yes 607 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:41,720 And she was like, don't be embarrassed. Like everyone has those and I was like 608 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:49,160 No, no, let me be embarrassed. I'm fucking screaming. That's crazy. Um, yeah 609 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,280 So whatever I get in there and I take 610 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:58,120 Chlamydia, gonorrhea, like all them hose. Yeah stick the swab like up there whole nine 611 00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,120 swish it around 612 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:07,240 Every test comes back negatives. It's it's a different problem. Oh, well, yeah, if I would have fucking had an sd. I mean 613 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,040 Yeah, let's not even know no 614 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,520 I guess my head but 615 00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:18,760 Yeah, but now like every time I've been with charlie. It's like some problem issue is coming out of it 616 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:24,600 It's like what's up. It's kind of suspicious 100 suspicious. Like that really scares me 617 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:33,880 Yeah, I'm so sorry, but like I don't know like it's real. Is he like funky down there? No, really? 618 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:36,680 I 619 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:42,360 This is something I guess that now everyone will know about me. I don't give heads to people. I rarely give heads to anyone 620 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:47,480 Wait, we're high fiving. I hate giving head. I think it's the worst thing ever. Well, so it's like 621 00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:54,200 I just I just like I don't want to there's like nothing appealing about it. I don't like it personally 622 00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:57,240 I don't want to do that. Yeah, it's not appealing to me. Yeah 623 00:48:57,720 --> 00:49:03,880 Um, but anyway, so I've never given him head. So I haven't like inspected the fucking area. I guess you would say 624 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,240 Um, but like no, there's nothing 625 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:14,520 Normal person. Yeah. Yeah, he's clean. I feel like I could smell and yeah, yeah for sure 626 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:22,440 Um, yeah, wait that really kind of scares me. I'm sorry. No, it's so I'm scared for you, but I mean 627 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:28,360 You're okay. That's all that matters at the end of the day. You're okay. Thank god. Thank god 628 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:33,320 I was really worried the pregnancy test got me fucked. Oh 100 I have a story 629 00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,600 I don't know if I should tell this I'm like I really don't want my mom to listen to this 630 00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:40,920 I've already my mom is gonna listen to this. She's like, I'm so excited to hear it 631 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:45,320 I'm so glad. I was like as long as my father doesn't listen to this. I'm completely fine 632 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,360 My dad and my brother like sign off. Please don't like this 633 00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:52,520 But um, I've never had like std scares per se 634 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:57,240 And like I don't want to call what I had a pregnancy scare because it was just me freaking out 635 00:49:57,720 --> 00:50:02,600 It was yeah, it was the first guy I had sex with right and he was a boyfriend 636 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:04,440 and 637 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:08,200 Like but at the time my period was very irregular 638 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:13,640 So I'd get it consistently and then like it'd be gone for two months and it was that type of situation for my body 639 00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,120 and so we have sex and 640 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:18,120 like 641 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:24,840 Two months go by no period and I'm like, oh, I would have shot myself. I go. Oh 642 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,600 Funny like I'm about to like 643 00:50:29,240 --> 00:50:32,040 Actually have a panic attack. I'm about to pop a baby 644 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:37,560 Quite literally and so I was like being very conscious about it. I was like staring at my stomach. I was like, okay 645 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,160 Like is there something in there? 646 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:43,000 Like what the fuck is going on? That's funny. And so I text him 647 00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:46,120 rookie fucking mistake 648 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:50,280 Because yeah, worse mistake, but I didn't like do it in a way to scare him 649 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:56,440 I was just so scared like dealing with this on my own. I was like, hey like gotta tell you something having on my period 650 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:58,360 and so 651 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,920 He answers he answers like a one word answer and I'm like, huh? 652 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:06,680 What did he say? I cannot tell you but it was so like passive 653 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:12,680 But then he doesn't answer for like a good two hours. I'm in I'm in chemistry class at this time, right? 654 00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:17,480 I remember this vividly. I get a phone call from my mom. Oh my god 655 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:23,400 And I'm like, did you tell her? No. Oh, I get a phone call. I'm like, I'm like, hey, sorry like gotta go outside 656 00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:24,520 I've got to take this 657 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,280 So I take the phone call 658 00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:27,320 yelling 659 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:32,200 Yelling at me. She's like, what the fuck is wrong with you? You're pregnant, but oh my god 660 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,520 He went told his mom 661 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:37,720 freaking out to his mom who called my mom and so 662 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,480 This was the most wrong kind of experience. No, and so 663 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,360 I get back home from school 664 00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:52,600 My mom is like on the patio literally almost crying shitting her pants and I'm like, how old were you? 665 00:51:53,240 --> 00:51:56,920 I was this was junior year. Okay. Yeah, so not too bad 666 00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:58,920 No, and um 667 00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,800 So I'm there. His mom is there. No 668 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:09,400 Yeah, his mom is there and I'm just fucking embarrassed. I start sobbing. I'm like, I don't think it's true 669 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:13,560 Like I'm just scared like I just didn't get my period. That's all and so 670 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:18,280 Um, they take me to the gynecologist, right? I'm like, I'm okay 671 00:52:19,240 --> 00:52:24,360 It's like a fucking family field trip at this point. I'm like, oh get me the fuck out of here right now 672 00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:30,360 This sounds torturous. It was so torturous. And so I get there and um, this woman is talking to me 673 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,360 I don't even know what to say to her. I'm not answering her 674 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:37,240 And she was the only one being like super nice to me the other two were like my mom and his mom were like 675 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:42,600 Not being nice to me like whatsoever. I felt so alone. Yeah, and so she takes me in the back 676 00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:48,840 She takes a pregnancy. No, no, she gives me a pregnancy test and so I go take it by myself and I was like scared 677 00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,320 shitless guy like 678 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,880 Just fucking scared little 17 year old me 679 00:52:55,000 --> 00:53:00,440 Squatting down pissing on this stick pregnancy tests are so hard to take. I did it wrong the first time. They're so hard 680 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:02,600 like I 681 00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:07,160 I think mine was the one you dip it in so that's it was kind of easier. So I pissed in this cup 682 00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:10,520 I pissed in this cup and 683 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:17,080 I'm waiting the two minutes. I'm like, oh like I'm literally like having the worst day of my life right now like I 684 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,920 Literally I can get hit by a bus. It would not make this day worse 685 00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:29,080 Like it would literally not make this day worse whatsoever. So it comes back negative obviously, right? Yeah, and so I'm like see I told you 686 00:53:29,240 --> 00:53:33,720 Like I'm not pregnant. Like I'm crying. My mom doesn't talk to me the whole way back home 687 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,680 Like she was cold with me for like a week. It was 688 00:53:37,240 --> 00:53:43,800 Literally the most traumatizing experience of my life and this was the same kid who ended up cheating on me and breaking up with me 689 00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:49,160 Oh my god, because the first guy I lost my virginity to cheated on me too. What is the 690 00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:54,440 What's up? I don't get it. Um, I simply don't get it because like fuck you. I hope you're doing 691 00:53:55,160 --> 00:54:00,040 So bad he likes my instagram story sometimes and I'm like, who are you? 692 00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:06,760 Like he just started doing this and he's followed me and he still follows my mother. Anyways, that's so strange. I hate that 693 00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:07,960 It's quite 694 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:14,120 Peculiar. No, very peculiar. I don't like it. This guy has I think I've spoken about him on this podcast 695 00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:18,200 He's texted me multiple times when I came to Boston 696 00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:25,160 He likes sent me this really long text like when I first moved in he was like, oh like I hope you're settling in nicely into your 697 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:30,920 Home like shut up like do you want to see his contact name on my phone? Of course I do 698 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,400 I'll read it for you guys too 699 00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,280 It's literally this 700 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:40,840 Bro who fumbled a bag that's and it's not it's not good 701 00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:46,120 It's not changing because it's the truth and fuck you. I hate you so much. Honestly 702 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:50,040 Like I don't talk about this about like this about any of my exes 703 00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,880 Except for him like I don't like him in the slightest honestly 704 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,520 That's respectable and it's not gonna change 705 00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:02,040 Um, this is oh, this is a long episode. How long are we at? 706 00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:09,000 Not this is like at least 30 35 minutes. Oh cute. Yes. Okay. So I want to talk about the connections 707 00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:11,800 That come with hookup culture 708 00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:12,920 so 709 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:14,920 i.e. Someone you're hooking up with 710 00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:21,960 Has hooked up with someone you know or someone you've hooked up with is friends with someone on your roster, etc 711 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:28,040 So please, okay. I am take us away. I gotta bring back charlie in this fucking equation 712 00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:30,280 um 713 00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:31,960 so 714 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:33,960 I'm 715 00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:40,920 bringing back the conversation that I brought up earlier about him only like have been hooking up with like four or five people like at emerson 716 00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:43,960 Come to find out. I'm having dinner with neah 717 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:51,640 And I talked to her about him and she was like no girl. No, no, no, no. He's lying to your face. He lied to you 718 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:59,880 Yeah, oh my god. Yeah, she was like no like times up. I like probably like three or four. No, my god 719 00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:01,880 Oh 720 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:03,880 Yeah, I just had to 721 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:08,200 Yeah, oh my god. Wait. I'm screaming. Wait. What? 722 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:19,240 You did yeah, please. Yeah, that's a meme. Yeah, okay. Well, there's a connection for you like last semester when? 723 00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:22,040 um 724 00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:24,040 I want to say march 725 00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:26,120 Okay, sas. That's crazy 726 00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:28,760 It's insane. He's him 727 00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:31,880 No, my god. Yeah, okay 728 00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:36,200 Uh, okay. Okay. Okay. We're eskimo buddies. Hi 729 00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,040 Okay 730 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,360 Wait guys, I'm coughing. I have a cold. So sorry 731 00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:45,240 Okay 732 00:56:45,240 --> 00:56:48,920 Please go on though. We have to talk about this after though this 733 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:52,120 Basically, we hooked up with the same guy. Yeah, but go on 734 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:55,480 Wow, this is this well, that's that's the connection but 735 00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:59,160 But with him this is not this comment is not directed at you 736 00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:00,920 Um, just keep that in mind 737 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:05,320 But like nia was like no like he sucked up with like a shit ton of more people like he dead ass by a tear faced 738 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:07,240 and I was like 739 00:57:07,240 --> 00:57:09,160 I was like, okay fair 740 00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:13,720 I was like that kind of makes sense because like I was when he said that number. I was like no, there's no way. Yeah. Yeah 741 00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:16,200 um, and then like 742 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:23,400 I had dinner with her. I'm still tripping over the fact that we fucked the same person and me and him didn't have sex 743 00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,400 Really? 744 00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:27,400 Mm-hmm. Go for you. Um 745 00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:30,760 Okay 746 00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:36,680 Processing I feel like I boggled your mind so much right now. I'm so sorry. No, no, no, don't don't be sorry 747 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:41,320 I'm just like I'm thinking I'm processing because like what I'm about to say is like 748 00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:44,040 I've had like I thought about this like a lot 749 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:48,920 But like after she said that and she said she like dropped some names. I was like 750 00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:51,000 Wow 751 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:55,880 She obviously didn't drop your name, but yeah, she I was just kind of like wow like 752 00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:03,960 God this this this is really controversial and I don't mean this in any poor or negative regard 753 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:10,120 Yeah towards anyone, but it's like sometimes guys get with girls that are so much uglier than you 754 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:12,120 Yeah 755 00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:16,920 And I don't know why but it was just such like a very humbling if you will 756 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:21,880 It was so humbling because I was texting my friend about it and she was like if they get with us 757 00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:24,200 What do they think of us? 758 00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:25,320 What do they think of us? 759 00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:32,200 Yeah, that that kind of like threw me through a loop because I was like so you're gonna get with her and then get with me 760 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,800 But it's like but but but but but 761 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:40,280 One plus one equals two what the fuck is this like no? 762 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,600 Yeah, and I was kind of like 763 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:47,400 When I first like started really thinking about this I started getting angry at the girl 764 00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,040 And I was like and then I was talking to my roommate about it 765 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:55,960 And she was like skyler like if you're getting angry about this you should be getting angry about the guy. Yeah, yeah 766 00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:00,280 Because it's like it's not the girl's fault at all at all 767 00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:03,720 And it's just like it's like I would have never known you hooked up with this kid 768 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,520 Like never in my life. Yeah 769 00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:09,480 I did that's crazy though 770 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:17,000 So like he and I like we hooked up like twice. I think like not hook up made out like twice. That's so interesting 771 00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:23,880 Yeah, that's crazy. I still really can't get over that. See that's how much like 772 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,000 He very blatantly lied to me 773 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:33,400 Which is insane because like there's no reason for him to lie because one you're gonna you're bound to find out and look you did 774 00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:39,640 Well, yeah, but obviously the only like ounce of like pity in this regard that I'll give to him 775 00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:43,160 Is that like I don't know what his definition of hookup is. Okay. Okay, you know 776 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:47,800 It's like yeah fair like he could have been like because whenever we hook up we'd have sex and that's just that would 777 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,160 Be what it is. Yeah, and so it's like 778 00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:56,120 So it's like maybe he could have thought I was asking like who he had sex with 779 00:59:56,520 --> 01:00:00,680 Yeah, because I'm like maybe that's four or five people 780 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,880 Oh, because like I know for a fact he's made out with 781 01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:07,800 Fucking half the freshman year. Well, not like our 782 01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:13,480 No, and like my vagina is like curling up like as you say that like it's like I'm like getting like 783 01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:22,200 Oh, no, which is it like that's kind of bad on me. I guess I don't think it's bad on you because how would you have known 784 01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:28,920 Because one he lied to you and two like you probably didn't go digging for like oh who did this could make out with 785 01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:33,000 Like that's so not on you. Like no, don't be yourself up over that at all 786 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,760 Well, yeah, I don't know. It's just like that was the biggest thing to me 787 01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,960 Is that like I don't really well, this is kind of alive because I do 788 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:47,080 Care about body count. Yeah in a sense is that like I don't want you like running through the forest 789 01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:53,080 Because then it's like I don't want you running through the forest and not getting scd tested. Yeah, because that's disgusting 790 01:00:53,080 --> 01:01:00,440 But it's also like but just don't lie like I don't really know why he lied about it 791 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,040 That's what confuses me the most because it's like also 792 01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:07,480 Fun fact the first time we hooked up number one. He didn't bring a condom. So 793 01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:12,760 Oh, no, but I had one so it was fine. But um 794 01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:16,440 I remember like 795 01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:22,360 Oh, like right like we were making out and then like like I think he or I pulled away 796 01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,840 And I was like, do you do this often and he was like, no, I don't do this often 797 01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:33,720 So yeah, oh, okay. That's a straight up like lying through his teeth to you. Yeah, and I was kind of like 798 01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,880 What a way that actually makes me kind of upset 799 01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:43,480 Like it kind of like irks me. Yeah, that's very like irk worthy because 800 01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:49,480 Don't lie like don't we don't have any commitment to one another. Just don't I'm just asking you a question 801 01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:55,720 Tell me the truth. Oh, so he asked it to me first. Like yeah, we were asking about like our emerson stuff and 802 01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:02,600 I'm pretty sure this bitch does not go outside of the emerson walls. Yeah, let's I I don't what wait 803 01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:04,920 Oh my god. The other day the other day 804 01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:14,440 This is her part. No, the other day. Um, I think this was after a party and we were at her face and then Nia and I parted ways 805 01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:18,120 So I go to p-ro and then she goes down to paramount, right? 806 01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:23,160 And she I received a picture from her and it's this kid 807 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:31,240 Hand in hand the fuck hand in hand literally sky. This was last weekend. Oh my hand in hand with some girl 808 01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:35,240 literally fucking holding hands romantically 809 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:37,800 Like as if he was walking her somewhere 810 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:44,520 Which is like I was just what time was this out because he doesn't do any of this shit publicly. No, no, it was so late 811 01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:48,040 I think it was at like 1 a.m. Hold on. I have to show you this picture 812 01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:49,640 Is this someone who goes here? 813 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:55,880 Like I don't know because the girl was like you couldn't see her face and like I wish there was like a side profile at least 814 01:02:55,880 --> 01:03:00,120 Yeah, yeah, yeah, cuz like oh, it's on another group chat. Hold on stand by guys 815 01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:06,440 I'm showing sky the craziest like this is this is the craziest connection wait. I'm screaming 816 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,960 I can't I'm okay. I can't I'm not surprised, but I just like 817 01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,640 Ugh once you hear about it. It's like what the fuck 818 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:19,800 Fuck 819 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:21,960 Literally what in the hell 820 01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:25,560 It's crazy 821 01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:30,440 I don't understand him fuck me. Oh god. This just remind me he asked 822 01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:33,800 I'm gonna spill it right now. He asked me to come to colorado 823 01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:37,000 He asked me to fly there so he could take me to a game 824 01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:44,600 A baseball game. I'm being dead. I'm lying sky. I'm dead ass, bro. He literally no, okay 825 01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:51,560 Sorry, no, he's like I'm pissed. No, okay over the summer. This is when I was home in San Diego 826 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:56,920 I was still like keeping in contact with him whatever and then he texted me and he was like 827 01:03:57,320 --> 01:04:01,800 He was like if you come to colorado, like I'll take you to a rock a Rockies and Padres game 828 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:08,680 Stop because he knows that I love baseball. Yeah, I like I'm a whore for baseball. I've seen your Instagram stories. Yes 829 01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,720 Like I love my team. Go Padres. Go tell these 830 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:15,800 Um, but whatever so I was like I was like 831 01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:18,440 Charlie 832 01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:22,600 Are you being for real and he was like, yeah, I'm being for real and I was like no 833 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:26,760 Like are you being for real because like if you are then I mean like sure like I'm down. Yeah 834 01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:31,400 Because I'm like fuck. Yeah, why not? There's exactly nothing for you to lose like why not? 835 01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,240 Like live your life. He's gonna take me to a baseball game. I'd stay with him like it be whatever 836 01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:40,120 And so he literally was like, oh, yeah, like you could stay with me 837 01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:45,000 Like you just have to like fly into like Denver like whatever and I was like, okay, cool 838 01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:50,360 And I was like and then I look at flights and I was like, okay, so like this is like kind of like what's up 839 01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:52,760 And he was like wait really 840 01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:56,760 And I was like, what do you mean wait really did you not ask? 841 01:04:57,160 --> 01:05:00,760 Did I not ask you multiple times if you were being fucking for real? 842 01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:03,800 And then he was like 843 01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:07,640 He was like because I was gonna use like a point like yeah 844 01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:12,200 Yeah, and I was like on like it won't cost me probably like anything 845 01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:16,760 So I'm just gonna use like points in my legend. He was like he was like, oh like you could save your points 846 01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:19,960 And you could save your mileage like this was just like so crazy 847 01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:24,760 And I left him on open and yes as you should because if you had to answer him 848 01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:26,920 I would have smacked you across the face right now. Yeah 849 01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:29,800 Yeah, oh wait wait 850 01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:36,920 But for him to do that and for him to ask me to come to Colorado and for him to fuck me the first like fucking week back at 851 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,000 Emerson and lie to me 852 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:42,440 I'm about to drop his name, but I'm not gonna do that. Please don't 853 01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,240 I'm not gonna do that. But 854 01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:49,960 Just wait get a fucking grip. No, but like you me and Nia need to go out to dinner and 855 01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:56,200 Have this fucking hash it out. We we must we I'm pissed. No, I'm pissed for you. See 856 01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:59,320 This is really upsetting 857 01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:05,240 Well, it's only upsetting now because of everything I've learned. Yeah. Yeah, he really wanted to keep me in the dark 858 01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:09,240 Which is so insane. Which is like why'd you want to keep me in the dark? 859 01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:10,760 Why'd you ask me? 860 01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:13,160 Why'd you tell me that you want to just start dating someone exactly? 861 01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:15,960 Why'd you ask me how many people I fucked at emerson like why? 862 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:21,400 Why why is the conclusion of this because what the fuck is actually going on? 863 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:26,440 I'm we I'm fucking screaming Skyler. I really can't 864 01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,120 And like I'm glad to have revealed so much to you like I'm glad 865 01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:34,840 I'm gonna show you all the pictures of my guys afterwards. Oh my god. No 866 01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:40,920 Oh, yeah, I want to see all the pictures. Yeah, this is crazy. I'm shitting myself 867 01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:43,880 like I 868 01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:47,400 I don't even know where to move on from here. This is crazy 869 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:50,040 I really want to drop his name 870 01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:55,400 And like I would love for you too, but but I can't do that. They would actually kill me because like 871 01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:57,320 yeah 872 01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:59,720 Some of his friends are like close to my friends. So like 873 01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:06,840 But can for the friends who probably listen to this uh-huh fucking make him get a grip. Okay 874 01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:13,240 I think there's a couple of screws loose inside his head a couple. No for sure. I'm gonna tell you a story 875 01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:15,480 after this he's 876 01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:17,480 such a weird character 877 01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:20,040 Very strange if you ask me 878 01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:21,880 Yeah 879 01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:28,360 No, but my problem is he's such a gorgeous kid. Well, he's also like just like super nice 880 01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:34,920 He's very sweet super cute. But then you go on to act like this. That's what gets me kind of 881 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:41,160 Like I don't know it's like he's like his brain is like the world of delusion. Oh 100% 882 01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:44,760 So it just like doesn't not disagreeing with you there makes sense 883 01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:51,080 Like I don't even know what to say. This is very scary, but um, I should have said no to him 884 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:57,640 No, it's okay. Please don't like don't it happen. Yeah, it happened and I'm done that chapter is closed 885 01:07:57,640 --> 01:07:59,640 Okay. Yay. I'm glad 886 01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:04,600 But um, do you have anything else in your google doc before we play a little game before closing out? 887 01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,240 That you want to say 888 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:09,320 Hmm 889 01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,160 I don't think so 890 01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:15,080 That's awesome. Yeah, I feel like we covered so much. Yeah 891 01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:22,840 I really I really do I think we did too. Oh, I'm so happy. So we're gonna play like a short little game 892 01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:29,640 Okay, and then we're gonna close off. So we're gonna be naming like giving each other celebs and deciding whether or not 893 01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,360 We'd hook up with them and whether that hookup would be good 894 01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:38,520 Okay, uh-huh. Uh-huh. So I have one for you and I'm very excited about it p. Davidson 895 01:08:41,480 --> 01:08:43,480 Would I hook up with him? 896 01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:45,960 No 897 01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:46,920 Oh 898 01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:53,480 I wouldn't I'd be so decontized by p. Davidson. Really? I feel like I feel like in the right situation 899 01:08:53,640 --> 01:08:56,600 Like I would uh-huh. Okay fair enough. I agree with that 900 01:08:58,280 --> 01:08:59,880 I feel like 901 01:08:59,880 --> 01:09:03,320 No, like on a normal day. No like on a normal day like no 902 01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:09,320 Because I just like I don't find him attractive attractive. And you know what that's so fair 903 01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:15,240 I don't know why I find him attractive. Like I don't know why I don't know what it is but like 904 01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,240 He could for sure get it like 905 01:09:18,440 --> 01:09:20,440 Sorry, he does get it 906 01:09:20,440 --> 01:09:26,360 He does and he is the charlie of this story. You know what he is and I bet he doesn't lie to people like I 907 01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:28,840 Well, probably not probably not 908 01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:34,360 So that's a yes for me. No from sky. So yeah, give me someone. Okay germiel and white 909 01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:43,080 100 and I know that hookup would be so good. Oh my god, he would make you finish five times five times 910 01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:49,640 Yeah, he's a yes for me. He wouldn't even take a break. No, he wouldn't. No, he would simply focus on you and do it 911 01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:54,920 Ugh, I don't even want to talk about this because like I know he's so good like I can't 912 01:09:55,480 --> 01:10:03,000 Um, he just like he seems like the person who aims to please 100 percent. Yeah, I agree with that. Yeah, um 913 01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:09,560 I I said drake last time. I don't want to say drake again. Okay, but 914 01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:16,200 But you know what let's do drake no no no, I agree. No, it would be so bad 915 01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:20,680 He'd be focusing on himself only. He wouldn't be paying attention 916 01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:25,240 He'd stick it in and pull it back out. Ew. Ew. Ew. Yeah 917 01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:31,160 That's what I can't take that man seriously. I just I just I get like a reeking suspicion 918 01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:36,280 It would just be like absolutely terrible horrible. Just like it just like wouldn't be 919 01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:42,760 Good enjoyable. Yeah, no at all by any means like even though he has like obviously good like musical rhythm 920 01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:48,680 There would be no rhythm no rhythm and I feel like he radiates small dick energy like I'm so sorry drake 921 01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:52,440 That's so funny. He's one of my favorite artists forever, but like 922 01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:58,920 Like yeah, I don't know drake like we need to work on that but 923 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:01,240 I have 924 01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:03,240 Travis Kelsey 925 01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:08,600 Oh my god. Hell yes. I don't know why I've been seeing him everywhere. I'm everywhere 926 01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:10,760 My whole okay, I don't have tiktok. Uh-huh 927 01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:16,280 So my whole instagram reels is filled of him and taylor swived and the more I see him the more I'm like 928 01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:22,440 Yeah, so sexy. He's so attractive and he has such a good confidence and ego 929 01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:28,600 Like not to the point where you're like, oh my god, this is suffocating. Yeah. Yeah, but to the point where it's like you make it hot 930 01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:30,680 Like you're hot. You're so attractive 931 01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:35,640 He's so sexy and he's so good with kids like his brother's kids. He's of course he is 932 01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:39,240 Wow Travis calls. He hit my line like 933 01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:45,320 No, but I want him and taylor's life to get together. I want them to marry. No, I need that. Yeah 934 01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:50,440 If they can marry I could forget about every bad doing that happened to me 935 01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:55,880 So cute. They're so did you see them like leaving the game together in his convertible? 936 01:11:55,880 --> 01:12:02,040 Yes, I did. They look so cute. Like I do hear how they were like super touchy like at the bar. Oh my god 937 01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:06,680 Like I want to die. I happen so bad. Yeah, I needed to get serious 938 01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:12,680 Yes, your turn. Give me a white person. Well, this is kind of an obvious one, but like Mike will be Jordan 939 01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:16,760 Hot take for me. No, what? 940 01:12:17,480 --> 01:12:20,760 What hot take hot take that's a fucking hot take 941 01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:24,200 It's like I've gotten to fights with people over this 942 01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:30,200 I wouldn't fight you over this. Okay good. No, that's aggressive. Like I don't know. I feel like 943 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:37,880 Huh, I feel like he's my p. Davidson for you. You know, so I feel like under the right circumstance 944 01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:42,600 Two drinks in a little tipsy and I see him across the bar for sure 945 01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:46,200 Yeah, like on a regular day would I go for him? No, no 946 01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:52,680 No, I would completely and you know what that's fair. I'm not agreed to disagree. I'm not gonna fight with you 947 01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:58,120 Yeah, like he's an attractive guy for sure. He's gorgeous 948 01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:00,840 He really is 949 01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:02,520 Yeah, good for him 950 01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:08,360 But I'm gonna give you one more person and then we can close out. Okay. Okay, but I want it to be a good one 951 01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:10,280 like 952 01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:12,280 Like I don't have anyone fuck 953 01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:14,920 um 954 01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:16,120 Um 955 01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:19,800 Zane hijaz no. Oh my god. Ew. What zane malik? 956 01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:24,200 I don't know why isn't the guy from one direction direction the sexy one 957 01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:27,640 No, it's okay. The one who dated gg hadid 958 01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:30,280 Oh 959 01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:31,400 No 960 01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:34,680 Really? I can't be honest. I don't think he's that attractive. Really? 961 01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:39,400 No, no, that's fair enough. I think he's super. I think 962 01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:44,440 Like in his when he was still making music era so sexy 963 01:13:45,160 --> 01:13:48,760 So so so sexy, but I feel like the british accent would really turn me off 964 01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:54,120 Like it would really turn me off her face right now. She's not into it 965 01:13:55,560 --> 01:14:01,320 He's just not attractive. I mean fair enough. I just feel like the british accent is what really sends me like I don't 966 01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:03,560 The other direction 967 01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:12,120 Like sends you like sends me the other direction for sure. I I wouldn't be into it like at all. I don't 968 01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:18,440 Okay, don't piss me off right now. That's not a good picture. Okay, that's not a good picture at all 969 01:14:18,440 --> 01:14:24,920 But yeah guys that was our little game, but I just want to thank sky so much for being here. I had a 970 01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:32,040 Blast being so messy with you recording this episode. This is probably my favorite episode right now 971 01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:34,600 I love it. I can't wait to listen to it honestly 972 01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:39,640 And do you have any advice for anyone who's partaking in hookup culture? Don't get with charlie 973 01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:45,800 And yeah, just don't I second that for sure. No, but on a real note 974 01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:47,800 So 975 01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:49,800 Just love yourself at the end of the day 976 01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:51,800 You know it's so true 977 01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:56,680 And only get with people who will put in the right energy for you. So true. So true. I 978 01:14:57,800 --> 01:14:59,800 wholeheartedly agree with that and 979 01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:05,160 Yeah, guys, that's all we have for you today on for the hookup culture episode four of more of mel 980 01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:16,040 And we'll see you next time. Love you guys so much