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Hey, everybody, welcome to Vision Pros.
And surprise, surprise, it is not Jackson Callum.
Today, you've got Dean Forbes, who was the co-founder of First Class Business
and the creator of ASQ, which is the art and science of questioning.
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So what is Vision Pros all about?
Not sure what Jackson has said on here before, but here's what I can tell you.
Vision Pros, for me, is all about visionary entrepreneurs and what you are doing
to contribute and impact the world out there with those you are called to serve.
And so for me, this is about talking about visionary ideas where you want to go,
how you want to contribute.
And also we do get the great pleasure to, from time to time,
interview some of the up and coming visionaries in the world that we love to associate with.
And today, I have the great pleasure to be talking to somebody who is truly dear to me.
You know, when I met this young lady, I knew from the start that she was an amazing human being
who had so much to give to the world.
And I was so honored that she allowed me to walk with her on part of her journey
to help her grow and blossom.
And she's taken those steps from that point to becoming one of the most amazing coaches
that I've ever come to know.
And I keep saying she's one of my favorite clients ever.
And today, she did me such a huge favor by jumping in when we had a cancellation
to talk to my Vision Pros.
And without further ado, I want to introduce you guys to Alexa Wilk.
Hello.
Welcome to the show, Vision Pros.
And thank you for being here.
I'm so happy that you're here with me today.
And, you know, I got to tell you, you really are one of the best human beings I know.
And when I say that to you, it's really something that I cherish because I consider
my brother to be the best human being that I know.
Yeah.
And I love that man.
And so I can tell you how I feel about you and your spirit and your energy.
So how are you doing today?
I'm doing great.
How are you?
Listen, I'm better now that you're here jumping in and helping me out.
I appreciate that.
So, you know, as I told you, we're just going to have, we're going to have some fun today
talking about, you know, your journey, where you're coming from, where you are now, what's
going on, you know, how's life, how are you impacting the world out there?
Because I know you're always out there creating impact.
I've been following your journey since we connected, which is probably, I don't know,
how long has it been?
Has it been over a year?
Yeah.
Oh, yeah.
It's been over.
It's about a year and a half because we started talking.
Yeah.
October, October now, not this past October, but the year prior.
So yeah.
21.
Yes.
My goodness.
I can't.
Mm hmm.
Years this year, October, that's so crazy.
So as it is with Vision Pros, first, I'm going to get the questions that I must ask out
of the way real quick, because this is the show for visionaries.
By the way, if you're watching this right now and you have a vision that you'd like to,
you know, talk down in the comments, and if you feel so inclined and you want to connect
with us and apply to be on Vision Pros, feel free to let us know that down in the comments
or message us on our page.
So anyway, Lex, so as a visionary, you know, what is your vision for how you contribute
and impact the world around?
What's your vision?
So, you know, it's funny you asked that because in the last, you know, we're talking about
eight months that I've been in this introspective time, I have asked myself, why am I here?
And I think that's a really important question for everyone to ask in congruence to the
question you just asked, because why are we here?
Why are we on earth?
What is the impact?
What is the movement?
What are we really creating, right?
And what I'm creating is all connected to my brand and the movement of Awaken Within.
So what I'm here to do, why I'm here on earth is to help people awaken within, help people
come home to their soul.
And I really want to help people achieve what they want, right?
And come home to their soul in the sense of stepping out of the matrix, stepping out of
the rabbit hole stuff, stepping out of the limiting beliefs and the belief systems they've
caught themselves so much, so much into that rabbit hole, right?
And step into who they are and why they're actually here and experience life to the fullness
rather than as a robot.
Gotcha.
Yeah.
So I know, I know how much you believe in, you know, authenticity and being natural.
And by the way, if you're listening out there, you should know, Alex says a type of person,
you know, they throw a lot of words around like authentic all the time, all the social
media.
You know, I'm not mad at it.
It's just that sometimes it could come across as being more inauthentic when you keep throwing
around the word authentic.
But you are a person, I consider to be one of the truly most authentic people that I know.
And so when you talk about that vision in terms of stepping into your authentic self,
can you unpack that a little bit for us to say, you know, what does authenticity mean
to Alexa?
Authenticity means.
And one, I think like there's a couple aspects.
One, it's being who you are, right?
And sometimes we are so conditioned by society of what we should be and not what we want
to be.
And really that's the big difference.
Now what you want to be and who you are is you have to, it's like almost like a pipe,
right?
A drain pipe, like your sink is clogged, right?
That's you, like you're clogged with all this shit.
And you have to clear out, get that drain out, clear it out to really come back to who
you are.
So when you say like be your authentic self, like you may think it's being passive aggressive
and making fun of like a certain person, let's say, because that's what you were ingrained
to believe.
Becoming back to your authentic self is really clearing out that channel, clearing out all
the toxicity that you were ingrained to believe and then living and being and speaking from
that position.
Got it, got it, got it.
Okay, well I love, yeah, of course, I love the way you put that.
You always actually make sense in your clarity.
And so that leads me to my next question, which is, you know, what is your vision then for
the clients that you work with?
When you decide to work with someone and you look at the end in mind, what's your vision
for them in terms of what you want to achieve?
So a few things.
I really am looking for a specific type of person, right?
A person who really wants to quote unquote get it right this lifetime, right?
A lot of times we're here, right?
Get it right this lifetime, I like that.
That's it, that's really, if you're wanting to get it right this lifetime, come up, come
for me.
Like I would love to help you.
But the second part to it is I'm really helping, I'm really helping women really tap, tap, tap,
tap, tap into their, their holiness and the wisdom and their wholeness that's already
a part of them that they just lost touch with.
And the woman really, we have so much wisdom, so many gifts.
And the thing is, I think we get so again caught up in like when someone asks, oh, like,
what are your, what are your qualities, right?
And you think, oh, I'm great at communication skills.
I'm great at a salesperson.
Like that's, that's great.
But you have gifts that aren't always physical, but that are, that are maybe even supernatural
that you were given because you came here for a purpose and your purpose and your placement
and meaning in this life is different from every other single person.
So for you to follow a path that's a like, you know, you Dean or a like what society
tells you to do is just complete BS.
Yeah, yeah, I got that.
So yeah, so that found the path, not found the path that society lays out for you, but
really following the path of your heart or your, or your, your passion or your soul,
because I know how big you are on soul.
And so talking about that, you know, walking that road as a visionary, you know, what are
some of the pitfalls that your clients might experience when they, when they, when they
decide not to get it right, you know, this time, what are some of the pitfalls that they
could suffer from not pursuing that right thing that's right with their heart and pursuing
something else.
So I think actually it's, it's our three major things in life, which is our career, our home
environment and also our relationships.
And so actually those are kind of the three pillars of the three offers that I offer is
getting basically getting your home environment right where you design your home and your
temple around your soul.
And that includes, like I said, the temple of not only food, water, what you're putting
in your body, but also your home environment.
Everything has a vibration.
Everything has energy.
And are you bringing things into your home and into your body that are actually toxic?
And do you know what toxic really is?
Because again, we're taught that things are healthy and they're really not.
And then to the next step, which is talking about relationships, right?
That's a relationship to yourself and relationship with your partner and how important that really
can be.
And a lot of times, especially in those areas of relationships, that's where we learn our
greatest lessons, right?
And so are you willing to, to basically have the hard conversations and step out when you
know something's not right for you, but also be able to fuel your soul, your heart, your,
your body with the love that it deserves.
Because sometimes we're ingrained or we grow up with lack of love for ourselves.
We're not taught that.
And then the last part, I'll talk about our career is where I look at, you know, your
leadership, your, your vision, your, your gifts.
And that really, and that's like I said, my, my ideal client's really for women is in
the womb space.
What's, what's that wisdom that those gifts that are just innate in your medicine, the
medicine, what's the medicine that you're here to share, share with people and serve
people, whether it's, or it's your, it's a global movement with millions of people.
Right.
And so if you really break down, those are the three biggest major decisions we have
in life is our partner, right?
Our place of our homestead, right?
And also our career.
And women want to have something that's really close to their heart.
They don't want just like any kind of job, but they don't, they don't work for just money.
They work for a meaning and this allows you to work for a meaning and really come back
to cleaning, cleaning out that temple, coming home to the relationships within your body,
the one specifically within yourself.
And then coming up with a career or a way to serve others, again, could be just your
home, right?
Your kids, the next generation.
Yeah.
So those are the three plug-ins.
No.
That's, that's, that's cool.
But that's, you know, you, you, you gave me a lot to unpack there, right?
I mean, I could go on so many different ways.
I'm tickled as to which one to go with first.
But let me go with the one that, that, that really hit me first and talk about, you talked
about being able to have hard conversations.
So how did you get to a point where you became confident enough to have those hard conversations
because you knew what it would do for you?
When did you, how did you come to that realization?
You know, I think of two things.
One, and it'll only like realized it recently, but I think that death has a hard, has a big
play in this in the sense of like, for me, I'm not scared of death, but I'm scared of
dying before my purpose.
My why comes to light.
And I say that because my mission, the reason I am so motivated, I wake up and I'm willing
to have the hard conversations or get out of the situations that are not right for me
is because my why is so big.
I'm here for something bigger than to just be in a toxic relationship with a man or be
friends with someone who's not willing to grow or talk to myself or be, be hard on myself
in a way that's unhealthy, right?
Or feed myself food that's, you know, for me, you know, I don't try to, I try not to
have too much alcohol.
Why?
That's a toxin to your body that allows that for me clogs up my channel so that I'm not
able to channel the divine message that needs to come through.
So are you willing or like, what's your why?
And when your why is really strong, the hard conversation is easy because you're willing
to do whatever it takes to get to where you need to go.
And for me, I'm willing to be alone.
I'm willing to be alone by myself and to get to that journey.
Yeah.
I mean, that's, that's so key, so pivotal that you, that you say that because a lot of
times, you know, it's hard for us to realize sometimes that sometimes the secret to the
formula is to remove yourself from the equation.
Right?
So we get so dead set on the fact that we need to be part of this equation, part of the solution,
part of the change or to change another person or entity into what we want it to be.
But really sometimes what we need to do is just step out of that equation, let it happen
over there so you can go build your own formula.
And we often don't realize that because, you know, humans are equipped with that ego where
they know that there has to be something that's going to change this.
And so we stay in there.
So I get that.
So, you know, kudos to you and congratulations for being able to get to that point.
So I just want to shift gears a little bit because right now you are the soul life stylist
and generational healer.
And I remember, you know, so what most of you don't know or may not know, I know if
I said before is that, you know, Lex is a former client of mine and who knows, maybe
she'll be a client again in the future.
And based on how things are going right now, I'm probably going to be a client of hers,
quite frankly.
Who the hell knows?
But so, whatever.
So when I first met Lex, this title didn't exist.
You know, this was a point of unclarity, if you would say.
So walk us through a little bit, you know, how do you get to soul life, soul life stylist
and generational healer?
So it's taken a while.
It's taken a while.
And I think that you really helped me along the way, right?
Like sometimes you just have to put a name to the general idea of what you do to get
where you need to go.
But to get to like, I was never really like that endpoint because you're always evolving
and you're always really, again, I can't reiterate enough, like really like it's like an artichoke
or like an onion.
It's like you just keep peeling back the layers and this name didn't come to me to like, I
remember voice messaging you.
I was so excited.
I was like, I finally got to call myself because that was really not the hardest thing for me.
I don't know.
I'm just, I do everything but nothing, you know, like.
It was in January and I have gone through and I think a lot of people have gone through
a shadow in the last six months at least.
And that shadow really revealed everything that I am and want to be.
And I also just really, I really trust my intuition.
And again, that's all about my channel.
And I really imagined like everything I do and every soul is a big thing for me.
And I just started writing them the words that like align with me.
I love lifestyle.
Like lifestyle was actually, I used to, my Instagram page used to be Lex lifestyle because
I just used to share my lifestyle because my lifestyle is really like the habit you
do daily is what creates the life that you want.
So the lifestyle has always been a part of me.
But then the stylist is I used to be an interior designer and a decorator.
And so, and I'm beautifying your world.
So that's the combo of soul lifestyle and then stylist that I combined that I was like,
so it's, I can't give you the answer because it took me for.
Yeah.
And so, and that's what I wanted you to talk about that.
Because I, again, I've been watching your journey.
I was, I was part of that journey in the earlier stages and everything else.
And I watched you peel the layers back, you know.
So and what part of what we do on this show is we help other visionaries kind of see that
there is a process to this number one and number two, that no journey is exactly the
same.
You have your own unique journey, but it's, it's, it's cool and great and worthwhile
for you to walk the journey to see where it's going to take you and be able to overcome
those obstacles.
And that's how I want you to unpack it a little bit because during the times that we, we,
when we work together, you know, I know we hashed out several things there in terms of
what you were going to end up becoming or pursuing and all those things.
So walk us through a little bit because you've done a lot of breakthroughing.
That's almost two years.
And a lot of times, you know, visionaries get stuck at not breaking through because they
don't follow the heart or they don't do something else.
And so what I want to know from you is, you know, what was your big breakthrough in the
earlier stages when we were working together?
What was your biggest breakthrough then or some of the biggest takeaways for you when
we were working together?
I, you know, it's funny as I remember me crying.
That's all I remember.
And I remember, and I mean that in a good way because like I remember you just saying
to me, what are you really afraid of kind of question?
And I think it was about, I think it was about my voice or sharing.
Oh, I know.
Okay.
So I, I am very, I'm very good at going deep with myself.
And the question that you asked me was, what are you really afraid of?
Why are you afraid to go deep with others?
Like why are you?
And I was just like, I was like, nothing down and like feeling the emotions because
I was, I, it was just like something that I've been afraid of and scared to do because
and I can even get emotional about it now, but just because it's, it's my energy is such
a huge thing.
And this is not for every visionary leader.
I'm a very particular special visionary leader who's serving in that soul energetic realm,
spiritual realm, soul realm.
And I am sensitive to energy.
And so to go deep with someone is scary for me because I grew up, like I lost myself growing
up and this is the whole journey in my business of coming home to myself and finding myself.
And so if I go, I had a fear of going deep with others.
And if I did, I'd lose myself in others.
And that was, that was my big breakthrough and realizing that I won't, and you actually
know, it all just comes back as you said to me in that moment, you said to me in that
moment, you were like, one time I had a dream and you never really die in the dream.
And you, you go through it and then all of a sudden you snap and you go into a different,
you know, a different scene or you wake up, you don't fully die.
So like when you work with someone, you're going to go deep, going to go deep.
And then like, as you just said, that's when the breakthrough happens or the lens shifts
or the scene shifts.
And you just allowed yourself to go down that rabbit hole just to emerge.
And that's the beauty is experiencing the death so you can experience the rebirth.
Wow.
That's, I mean, you know, Lex, you've, you've, you've, we've talked about this a few times.
And I mean, even in your testimonial, it's like that you sent me, which I'm also grateful
for, it's coming back to me again.
And just now as you're talking about this, you actually peeled back another layer.
That is for, that was a beautiful analogy, by the way, using the, my dream.
I forgot that I actually said that to you, but I was, you said, oh yeah, that's right.
I did tell you about that.
That's the true thing.
I don't know what the TMI is, I don't know what your dreams are.
Yeah.
No, no, no, it's totally fine.
That's what this is all about.
Because, because look, that's, that's a breakthrough thing, right?
You're going to go all the way down into the rabbit hole only to find that you emerge again,
a new, and, and you know, it's, we want people and other visionaries to have the courage to
go through that experience.
So they can have those kinds of breakthroughs and everything else.
And so it's beautiful that you share that.
I really appreciate your vulnerability on that.
So having said all that, you know, tell us a little bit about how you came to where
you are right now.
Like, you know, the version leading up to this.
And then we can talk about what's going on with Lex right now and Lex's world and what
she's doing to contribute.
Okay.
So I mean, to keep it short and sweet or try to, um, how I got to where I am is, is basically,
I mean, from birth.
I, I started out, I started, I actually, okay.
So I'm going to, I actually started writing a book, which I, you know, that's something
that I should be able to do.
But you know, that's something that I jumped to, I jumped to what I'm doing now.
I started writing a book, right?
And I'll let you say, isn't that book, I reflected on the age of five and how for me, when I
came into this world, I didn't feel like I belonged here.
And so because of that, I didn't realize that that was the reason I always felt alone.
I always said, I feel alone.
I feel alone.
Even though I was around my parents, my siblings, you know, family, I, it wasn't physically
I was alone.
I felt alone in here.
And this was something that always just rang for so many years.
I went to therapy, you know, then got bullied, really isolated myself for so many years.
And I used interior design to cope with, um, what was so dark in here, I beautified the
external realm.
So when I came out of, I'm going to say the matrix and sense the sense of the education
system and I was able to break free.
Um, I was like, who do I really want to be?
And I started out thinking I was going to have my own business as an interior designer.
And I realized I really am not big on the materialistic things.
And I started to, uh, the things in here really started to surface more.
And so it started out with really exploring health and I started out with physical, you
know, as we typically all do and having fun, loving my body in the sense of just working
out and moving it.
And then it turned into nutrition, but that nutrition I took upon a different way.
A lot of people go about it with diets.
I took about it in the sense of cravings, um, and what, what the emotional desire behind
cravings really are.
And it helped me cure a lot of my digestive issues and all that.
And then feed my temple in a better way.
So I was more cleansed, clear, happier and more alive.
And then I came to a point where, you know, I was learning about the emotions behind food
and why we pick up food and how everything's an emotional choice.
Um, and I really started to dive deep in my emotions and how many I had and all the things,
all the trapped emotions and absorbed emotions and how, you know, we discover if you are,
you know, lined in the same, you know, um, the same person in the sense of, uh, you may
be an empath, you know, I was an empath and I was absorbing a lot of other people's stuff.
And I did a lot of releasing of that and learned about my mindset and I got to a point that's
kind of when I met you is, um, I was like, all right, I know the things.
And then it just started evolving more.
And I learned a lot about masculine and feminine energy and how, you know, coming back to yourself
as the woman or man you are, you know, depending on what you, you represent as or your essence
is more of.
Um, and then that turned into soul and healing my soul and also spiritual.
And I had several spiritual awakenings in my journey, um, in the last three years and
those, those gifts were like almost like the nutrition part and the physical part were
only like just the seeds, just getting me to the next level.
And I'm still, I'm still growing.
I'm still evolving.
Um, but that's how I got to where I am is my childhood was, was, uh, was my why.
I mean, it was funny.
I was talking to a girl the other day and she really said my, my, uh, senior quote, which
was, which was, I want to be the person I needed when I was a kid.
Yeah.
Because I didn't have that.
I know that my, it just, it wasn't there.
And so, um, and it was hers also.
So it was just funny and that's also the power of becoming who you are and attracting the
right friends into your, into your space.
And as, as you evolve, the right friends come and the, the people are there.
You don't have to settle for less.
You know, like, like I said, the reader in the beginning, taking that time to be alone
is so important because you really get to know the one person you can really know and
understand and love, which is yourself.
Yeah.
So that's where I, so beautiful.
And by the way, if you're, if you're out there listening right now and you have a question
that you would like to ask Lex, I'm sure she'd be gracious enough to answer it.
Just keep it all PG people.
But, um, yeah, if you have a question, there's a direct for Lex or if you have a topic you
want to address right now here in the mix, we'll do that too.
If it's appropriate, we'll be happy to do that.
So, um, you know, I hope you're picking up a lot of the gems that Lex is dropping here
because Lex kind of reminds me of the ever, um, the ever becoming butterfly.
So how many people know what most butterfly species don't actually live that long once
they become butterfly taking a long time to go from the larvae into a caterpillar into
a lot of the catapult into a lot of into a butterfly.
And then their lifespan, I'm not going to try to say what a lifespan is, but it's really,
really short, uh, in terms of how long they live, but they're like the most beautiful.
And so you kind of remind me of the ever, uh, becoming butterfly where you go to the
caterpillar, the larva butterfly, then goes off, then you go back around again and do
it again.
And so how did you develop this?
Actually I have two questions.
So first of all, how did you develop this habit of being so courageously reinventful?
In my, in my business, meaning like, not just in your business.
I mean, watching you, you, you, you tend to like you say, you know, like you say, like,
you know, I'm always going, I'm still growing, but you, you don't, you don't just say you're
still growing.
You look like you're still growing.
I could look at your page or look at what you're doing today.
And you know, next week I look, you're doing like kind of the same thing, but I can almost
see the growth on you.
If that makes sense, right?
Yep.
I might be using some of the same words, but I can see the growth.
It's like you, it's almost like you've shed skin and now you're in a new skin.
Sort of.
And you kind of take on, you've kind of taken on this authority role in doing that so courageously
over and over again, and you're making it look easy.
So stop embarrassing us.
You're making it look easy.
So I'm just, so how did you develop that mindset to just do it so courageously and so effortlessly?
I guess it's a question.
Hmm.
I think that I don't think it's my choice.
Really?
Oh, I'm packed that one.
I don't think it's my choice.
It's who I am.
It's, it's.
Okay.
Yeah.
Like it, I wonder the same thing.
Why I'm gifted this journey.
Why I know so much at such a young age and why I am always evolving and know the things
and able to like it was funny because I remember in November and I say this is a joke, but
I had in one week made like so many shifts and I remember one of my friends called me
and my boyfriend's name is Seth and he was like probably were probably four months, three
months into dating and, and my friend was like, so how's Seth keeping up?
He's probably tired.
I truly evolve and like, and I say this, I'm saying this on, in terms of this is like,
uh, I think one of the key things in for a relationship, but it's also one of the things
that I just am is like, you have to find a person that wants to grow with you.
And I, I really made that so important when I was thinking about dating my boyfriend and
I was like, you have no idea how fast I grow.
And like, if you're not able or wanting or willing to grow with me, this thing isn't
going to work.
And I'm only saying that, you know, bluntly because I know how, how I work.
Like God gave me these gifts and wants me to grow on a weekly daily basis as much as
I do because I have a big purpose on earth to fulfill.
So to answer your question, I don't like some days I'm like, why can't I just have fun?
You know, why can't I be the normal?
You know, um, age that I am, but that's not who I am.
And it's not my, it's not what I was gifted, but I was gifted many other things.
So it's, that's, that's my answer.
Yeah.
No, no, that's, that's, that's a, that's a perfect answer.
I mean, it makes sense when you, when you say it that way.
And that's not what you're designed to do.
And by the way, you look like you're having a ton of fun.
I know what's going on in your life.
I mean, I catch you frequently dancing and prom too.
I mean, I would love to see what your flash mob would look like if they were doing Lex's
moves.
So you wanted to be in or do a flash mob so badly.
It's so funny you say that.
Of course you would.
I'm so excited.
Okay.
So, so, so here's, here's my next question.
And this is, you know, this is more on a, on a serious note because I know other people
definitely struggle with this, you know, and for me being, you know, I'm not a big fan
of being so in tune with human psychology.
I don't necessarily consider myself an empath in any way shape or form, but I know I feel
deeply in that I, I, and you know me, I do go in deep with the people that I work with
a lot.
You know that.
So, and we both know that that energy could come off on you.
So my question to you now is right now you seem like you're in such a confident space.
So in control of what is even out of control in your life, but so in control of the space
that you occupy, I would love for you to share with those listening right now, what does Lex
do to protect herself, her soul, her spirit from not getting taken over or sucked into
somebody else's toxic energy or negative, or even a person that's shedding, right?
It's like shedding it and putting it on you.
How do you protect yourself from not falling victim to that?
It's so, it's so funny because I just was, while you were asking the question, I was
asking my guidance if I should share the actual tool, which ends the last thing.
Yeah.
Okay.
So it's funny because last week I actually was in, in a rut and I was, I tapped into my
intuition and I was like, who do I need to reach out to, to, to get some clarity.
And when I reached out to the person, she was so, I just want to share this person.
She is 90 years old, 90 years old, and she is a coach and works the internet better than
I do.
First off.
Now you can hear Paris.
We'll go ahead.
She's also adopted four kids who had disabilities.
Wow.
And I was like, you're a saint, you know, and so just wanted to share that because she's
awesome.
And I was like, I don't know, but I was talking with her and her guidance, I needed her guidance.
And what she said to me was, you need to protect your energy.
A lot of people are tapping your energy and it's why you're not, you're not able to hold
the people or get the people that you're really desiring because God's like, if you
get the people likes you're going to drown.
You're not ready.
And I was just like, wow.
Okay.
So I'm going to share the tool that she gave me and this is not typically shared because
pay attention.
Yeah.
Pay attention.
But this is for the very spiritual, you know, empath, empath, more or just big or a person.
So when you hear a person, if you're in the realm of people, you're like, oh, you know,
put a shield up around your body, right?
Or imagine a shield around you.
And I've done this.
It's I'm like, okay.
I did it.
Kind of worked.
You know, I feel a little different.
Well, she, we were joking and she was like, Alex, your aura and if you don't know anything
about it or where is the energy field around your body?
And it typically runs like the length of your arms all the way.
So like about six feet, you know, for mine, mine's about six feet around my body.
And she was like, you or your aura is so big that people are attaching to it.
And it is bringing you situations that one, you don't want and two, it's, it's, it's affecting
your energy.
We're not able to serve the people that you want without it draining you.
And I was like, oh, and she was like, you need to put a shield around your aura.
And I was like, I was like, okay.
And I jokingly was like, oh, maybe my aura is all the way on torque Turkey.
And she was like, no, it is.
And I was like, oh, and so, so basically, and I intuitively pick up my, my aura reaches
Turkey all the way to Hawaii and goes all the way up to the edge of Canada and all the
way down to the tip of South America.
And so I'm picking up energy and I'm a collective basis a lot.
And again, this is not for everyone, but not so it's, it's, it's putting a shield up around
your physical body when you walk in a room and this can be a white light.
It can be, it can be a, you know, for a woman, it can be a flower, it can be like this rose,
you know, essence, right?
But for me, this, if you need it on the next level, an aura shield, an oral aura, a glass,
for me, it's a glass shield that literally repels whatever anything.
And so my homework for three weeks is putting up this shield so that I can attract the people
and be in bigger situations, be able to eventually speak in front of a lot of people and not
be affected.
Wow.
That's, that's deep.
That's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's
a lot to unpack.
And I, but I get it though.
And you're right.
It's, it's not for everybody, but you know what?
What, what I took away from that is whatever that, that shield looks like, I think that
it's our responsibility as visionaries to tap into whatever that looks like, because we're
not just protecting us for us.
We're protecting what we have to contribute and impact the world around us as well.
And if we allow that to get zapped too quickly or get this shield, we're not just protecting
us for us.
We're protecting what we have to contribute and impact the world around us as well.
And if we allow that to get zapped too quickly or get distorted or confused or all over the
place, then you're going to end up visiting those type of results onto people because
you didn't protect your energy, right?
And so, you know, and, and maybe for something comes down to how well you're able to meditate
or when you work out, do you, do you get into that space of like really, you know, so for
instance, there are things that I do, like when I work out in the morning and I, I, I
approach my day, it's very difficult for anyone.
I probably told you this before, very difficult.
Anybody get on my skin, right?
I mean, my kids and my lady are probably the only ones that, you know, and my kids don't
make me yell to be honest with you, but almost, I can't think of another single person on
the planet who pushes my buttons enough to make me act out of character, right?
And I attribute that a lot to the habits that I have, whether it be when I work out, how
much I read, because I, and these things are deliberate on my part, you know, how much
I read, how much I even sleep, or I choose to have my circle.
I'm very particular about who is in my circle, you know, I mean, I, I expel people or I expel
myself from your circle is, you know, if I need to, and I've done that quite a bit.
So I get that whole protecting horror.
So I know Lex, if you're listening, I know Lex said this is not for everybody.
I'm probably, I'm going to have to disagree with her a little bit on it.
I think that you need to find your own aura shield, regardless of what you believe or
anything like that, because I'm sorry, we're all energy and people will zap it if you allow
them to do it.
And so thank you for sharing that, Lex.
That's like a huge lesson for sure.
So especially, especially, I want to tap on something, especially our leaders, like we
have such an impact we want to give, right?
And it's like, if you're, if I'm even like talking to you on the, you know, on the podcast
right now, and let's say I'm draining because my shield is just not up, right?
Then I'm not going to be able to share, talk about authenticity.
I'm not going to be able to share from a place of authenticity.
I'm not going to be able to share what God or whatever you believe in needs to move through
me.
And in my service, what I have to offer is not going to be as 100% as amazing as when
I'm at my all-time high.
So if you want that, you know, all-time high, we wake up at 5am and you're ready to go,
like that's the more like masculine side of things.
And if that's, you know, that's you, this is the more feminine side of it, which is putting
up that shield and allowing yourself to be protected so that you can walk in and in every
situation and feel strong.
It's like eating the best food, you know?
It's like eating that health food, health food, drink or juice.
This is it, except in an energetic level.
And you got to trust it.
This is trusting yourself.
This is not a physical product.
It's an energetic product.
And here's the gift, you know?
Here's this is your gift today to take home.
Got it, got it.
Thanks for making that distinction.
Yeah.
Totally appreciate that.
So Lex, we have a little bit more time left.
And in that time, I want to do a couple of things.
Okay?
So first, I want to jump back to kind of like when you and I used to be together.
I don't want to do something for you.
I want to give you a gift right now.
Okay.
So do you remember when we were working together and you would say, this is what I want to
do.
But I don't know what to say or how to say it.
And then I say, okay, Lex, I'm going to pretend I'm you and I'm going to, I'm going to, you
know, basically tell your story.
Like, you know, I'm going to, I'm going to pitch your story or pitch your offer to you
and see how it sounds.
And you go, oh my God, that's exactly what I want to say.
Oh, I do.
I remember.
So you know, look, you know, first of all, I am in such awe at who you are becoming.
And I feel so proud that you are doing these things.
And I also feel really, really good that what I believe from the beginning about you is not
just right, but beyond my expectations.
Okay.
And so after listening to you for like the last 30 minutes and talking with you, I want
to give you a gift, but more so, I want to give the gift of you to everybody that's listening
or who's going to see this right now and say, look, Lex is a soul lifestyles and generational
healer.
And so let me tell you who you need to be when you're going to reach out to Lex, right?
You need to be the kind of person that is not just heart centered and purpose driven.
You need to be the kind of person that wants to do good in the world.
And it's not just about becoming your best self.
It's about sharing your best self to make a difference and an impact in the world.
And the kind of pain that you might be in, maybe you're out there in the world and you're
suffering from imposter syndrome, or you feel trapped in a space and environment or in a
circle that you know you don't belong in, but you're not quite sure where you should
go with that talk to Lex.
If you're feeling like you can't escape what seems to be the reality of your life, but
never the reality of your dreams, right?
If you can't escape the reality of your life to get into the reality of what you realize
your dreams, you need to talk to Lex.
If you feel stuck, but not stuck physically, stuck spiritually because your thoughts, your
feelings, your beliefs aren't aligned with the physical things you're doing on a daily
basis, you want to talk to Lex.
If you're going through any trauma in your life that has kept you in this space, told
you that this is what you're supposed to be doing or that this is the right thing, or
this is the way it ought to be.
If you're stuck in that space because of whatever trauma you went through in your life, and when
I say trauma, I'm talking about either not having love, it could be you were in a great
family, but you never felt like you belonged.
You could feel like you were, you know, in a certain school, but you just never quite
gel good anybody there.
Any of those things can be traumatic.
You need to talk to Lex.
That's the kind of person you need to guide you through this journey.
And why am I telling you that?
Because everything I just talked about, Lex has been through all those things.
And some of them at a really deep level.
And so my gift to her is saying, hey, I recognize that, you know, as you would say in Islam,
say, hey, I see you, you know, I see you.
Basically, the God in me sees the God in you.
That's pretty much what it comes out at the end of the day.
And so my gift to you guys will listen right now is to give you the gift of Lex.
If any of what I just said resonates with you on any level, I promise you will not be
mad at yourself.
In fact, you'll be thanking yourself later.
And your future self is begging you right now to reach out to Lex if any of those things
resonated with you.
Right?
All right.
Well, I'm going to turn this back on you.
Why?
Because why Dean is so great is because no matter what industry you're in, Dean doesn't
even have to be fully in it, but he knows how to like speak it as if like he's the master
of that craft.
And you know, when you're running a business, you truly feel like you're in the Mason jar.
And you and you are and he's outside of it.
And he's like, yo, this is you and he has the words to articulate it so beautifully every
time.
So that is, you're just awesome.
Thank you for that.
Like that totally appreciate it.
Yeah.
Appreciate it.
And so with that being said, and to wrap up this, you know, this, this edition of vision
pros.
First of all, I would love for you to come back to vision pros.
I can't wait for like the hymns already met.
You're gonna wait for Jackson.
Actually, wait, hold on.
Wait, hang on, hang on.
There he is.
You guys are still live too.
Jackson.
I just so this is Jackson.
This is Lex.
What's up, Lex?
Are you to about the time when you and I met actually, Alexa is like one of my favorite
clients, one of the ones who has grown the most since we stopped working together a little
while back, but she's involved into this beautiful butterfly who contributes to the world in big
ways.
I'm sure if you watch this back, you'll hear a lot about what that was unless you're on
the floor, but Lex is amazing.
She jumped in today, you know, just on a phone call and call her and she was like, I'm almost
done cooking.
I can jump in and she jumped in and saved the day.
So I'm really grateful for that.
But Lex, this is Jackson.
Jackson is the original founder of First Class Business.
He's a great guy.
A lot of the values that we share, Jackson also shares and he believes in those God-given
gifts just like you do as well.
And so yeah, here we are, man.
So we're just about to wrap up, Jackson.
I don't know if you want to, that's great.
It's an honor to be here.
No, I was going to sit in the background and wait for y'all to finish.
I saw you.
It's great to meet you.
We'll wrap up offline as soon as y'all wrap up the episode, but I just wanted to be in
the background and support you guys since I knew it was probably coming to an end.
Yeah, I appreciate that.
So look, Lex, thank you for stepping in, saving the day.
It was so beautiful getting to know where your journey has taken you right now.
I'm looking forward to what we can do together in the future and just continue enjoying life
and contributing the way you are, man.
And if you know, whoever, if you're listening out there right now, know that this is what
Vision Pros is all about.
It's about, you know, not just talking about visions, but sharing the visions that could
take you to all different paths of life in terms of how you could contribute and impact
the world.
Vision Pros is about becoming a pro at mastering how you put your vision into the world to
serve.
That is what this is all about.
And everybody that you see here right now all believe in that same value.
And that's why we do what we do.
I get posted on say it.
So Lex, thank you so much.
I appreciate you.
Definitely do hashtag live.
If you're watching live hashtag replay the cast replay and we will see you very soon
on Vision Pros.
Thank you for having me.
Thank you for being here today.