WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.640 All right, welcome in to Vision Pros Live. With 00:00:03.640 --> 00:00:05.879 Jackson Calame, I'm your show host. We'll be 00:00:05.879 --> 00:00:07.599 doing interviews for visionary entrepreneurs 00:00:07.599 --> 00:00:10.500 and guest leaders who are building fantastic 00:00:10.500 --> 00:00:21.149 visions out there. What's up, everybody? Welcome 00:00:21.149 --> 00:00:23.370 into another episode of Vision Pros Live. I'm 00:00:23.370 --> 00:00:25.190 your show host, Jackson Callum, founder and CEO 00:00:25.190 --> 00:00:27.429 of First Class Business, and I'm excited to have 00:00:27.429 --> 00:00:32.469 Lior Klisman on today. I haven't had a, I don't 00:00:32.469 --> 00:00:34.450 want to call it a life coach, but somebody who 00:00:34.450 --> 00:00:37.929 focuses in on relationships and masculinity and 00:00:37.929 --> 00:00:40.780 femininity in a while. And so it's always refreshing 00:00:40.780 --> 00:00:42.780 to talk about relationships and communication 00:00:42.780 --> 00:00:45.679 and how to connect better. And ultimately, I 00:00:45.679 --> 00:00:49.159 see Lior with a with a big heart, striving to 00:00:49.159 --> 00:00:52.840 help people belong and better connect. And I'm 00:00:52.840 --> 00:00:54.960 all about that. So I want to connect you guys 00:00:54.960 --> 00:00:57.460 to a few other resources real quick, too. We're 00:00:57.460 --> 00:01:00.060 going to start with Junaid Ahmed. of home studio 00:01:00.060 --> 00:01:03.119 mastery junaid is he's got a two top two percent 00:01:03.119 --> 00:01:06.459 global podcast and hacks and hobbies he loves 00:01:06.459 --> 00:01:08.700 to help at podfest i know he helps them with 00:01:08.700 --> 00:01:10.780 their their launches he just helped with empowering 00:01:10.780 --> 00:01:13.120 podcasts over on the east coast as well he helps 00:01:13.120 --> 00:01:16.420 people build like 50 000 studios he also helps 00:01:16.420 --> 00:01:18.680 with the lighting the microphones all that stuff 00:01:18.680 --> 00:01:20.719 distribution i highly recommend him as a resource 00:01:21.390 --> 00:01:23.950 He has been a great friend of mine. And even 00:01:23.950 --> 00:01:25.689 if you're in a setup like mine, I'm over in Ecuador. 00:01:26.209 --> 00:01:28.890 And so I know I need a great mic. I know I need 00:01:28.890 --> 00:01:31.590 people to be able to see me as I talk. And again, 00:01:31.670 --> 00:01:33.409 it's nice to have a resource I can turn to to 00:01:33.409 --> 00:01:35.549 help with that process. And there's Dr. Danny 00:01:35.549 --> 00:01:38.310 Brassell. Dr. Danny Brassell is one of the world's 00:01:38.310 --> 00:01:41.629 best educators. He's got over 300 testimonial 00:01:41.629 --> 00:01:43.530 videos from other educators to prove it. He's 00:01:43.530 --> 00:01:45.989 funny. He's dynamic. And if you have children 00:01:45.989 --> 00:01:48.870 who you want to help maximize their education, 00:01:49.129 --> 00:01:52.260 especially perhaps. kids who are young and struggling 00:01:52.260 --> 00:01:55.519 with reading, Danny's like the magic pill. The 00:01:55.519 --> 00:01:57.519 guy really, really knows how to help children 00:01:57.519 --> 00:01:59.959 maximize their reading. He teaches parents how 00:01:59.959 --> 00:02:02.739 to inspire their children to love to read. And 00:02:02.739 --> 00:02:04.280 that is one of those things that will absolutely 00:02:04.280 --> 00:02:06.560 change the course of their life if they can get 00:02:06.560 --> 00:02:08.379 that right. So feel free to reach out to Danny. 00:02:08.580 --> 00:02:10.500 And then lastly, there's the Water Project. Hey, 00:02:10.520 --> 00:02:11.740 you can see it better on my hand here, by the 00:02:11.740 --> 00:02:14.620 way. The Water Project. I recommend going and 00:02:14.620 --> 00:02:16.699 checking that out. My friends, when I first learned 00:02:16.699 --> 00:02:18.710 about the Water Project, It kind of caught me 00:02:18.710 --> 00:02:20.310 by surprise because I had never really thought 00:02:20.310 --> 00:02:22.129 about the fact that there's millions of people 00:02:22.129 --> 00:02:23.849 who don't even have access to clean drinking 00:02:23.849 --> 00:02:26.870 water. I've always had access. I've never been 00:02:26.870 --> 00:02:29.110 thirsty in my life. And so when I found out about 00:02:29.110 --> 00:02:30.590 it, I was like, man, I want to help with this. 00:02:30.669 --> 00:02:32.689 And what's really cool is you get to choose which 00:02:32.689 --> 00:02:34.750 community you help and see how many people are 00:02:34.750 --> 00:02:36.490 involved in the community. You get to see the 00:02:36.490 --> 00:02:38.669 project that they're going to work on. And once 00:02:38.669 --> 00:02:40.770 it's funded, when you invest in it, it gets funded 00:02:40.770 --> 00:02:43.009 usually within a couple of weeks. You get to 00:02:43.009 --> 00:02:45.949 see the social media posts. They show you the 00:02:45.949 --> 00:02:47.689 progression of what happened with a project that 00:02:47.689 --> 00:02:49.849 you funded. So you get to make a generational 00:02:49.849 --> 00:02:52.590 impact all the way across the world simply by 00:02:52.590 --> 00:02:56.189 helping, whether it's with $5. $10 or $20. Now, 00:02:56.210 --> 00:02:57.689 if you're not in a financial position to help 00:02:57.689 --> 00:02:59.669 with that, here's my next invitation to you. 00:03:00.150 --> 00:03:02.229 Please talk about this with your friends, family 00:03:02.229 --> 00:03:04.650 over dinner. bring it up and show them what the 00:03:04.650 --> 00:03:06.430 water project looks like. You never know how 00:03:06.430 --> 00:03:08.370 far the ripple effect will go from you just rocking 00:03:08.370 --> 00:03:10.590 the mic or talking about it. You might inspire 00:03:10.590 --> 00:03:13.050 somebody to pay $10 ,000 and fund 10 of those 00:03:13.050 --> 00:03:15.310 projects. That would be amazing. So we've got 00:03:15.310 --> 00:03:17.729 8 billion people to help in this world. If you 00:03:17.729 --> 00:03:19.530 know of another cause or project that you want 00:03:19.530 --> 00:03:21.289 us to talk about, maybe there's a crowdfunding 00:03:21.289 --> 00:03:22.789 going on with your family. Maybe there's something 00:03:22.789 --> 00:03:24.909 else. Please send us a link in social media and 00:03:24.909 --> 00:03:26.830 I will take a look at that personally and I'll 00:03:26.830 --> 00:03:28.770 see what we can do to support it or at least 00:03:28.770 --> 00:03:30.590 talk about it on the show. And without further 00:03:30.590 --> 00:03:32.830 ado, let's get back to helping. each one of you 00:03:32.830 --> 00:03:35.889 by diving into what Lior is up to as a visionary. 00:03:35.969 --> 00:03:38.629 Lior, welcome to Vision Pros Live, man. Thank 00:03:38.629 --> 00:03:41.729 you, Jackson. Great to be here. Yeah, absolutely. 00:03:42.069 --> 00:03:44.289 So Lior, let's talk a little bit further about 00:03:44.289 --> 00:03:47.310 where your vision came from. So you did talk 00:03:47.310 --> 00:03:49.740 about how... Life was hard growing up. You went 00:03:49.740 --> 00:03:52.319 through some suffering. You know, you had patterns 00:03:52.319 --> 00:03:55.439 that were established. My coach, Coach Fletcher 00:03:55.439 --> 00:03:58.960 Ellingson, calls it programming as well. And 00:03:58.960 --> 00:04:00.939 then there's these stories that we tell ourselves 00:04:00.939 --> 00:04:03.479 automatically based on these realities that can 00:04:03.479 --> 00:04:05.860 disrupt our relationships. I'm totally bought 00:04:05.860 --> 00:04:10.879 into this. But what else? What helped you decide 00:04:10.879 --> 00:04:14.199 to go from having experienced that to now helping 00:04:14.199 --> 00:04:18.490 other people through it? So it's something that 00:04:18.490 --> 00:04:22.470 I only realized about three years ago, but I've 00:04:22.470 --> 00:04:25.910 had that with me for the past 20 years. But there 00:04:25.910 --> 00:04:28.470 was that ha -ha moment about three years ago. 00:04:28.589 --> 00:04:31.870 So I lived in seven different countries across 00:04:31.870 --> 00:04:36.269 three continents in my life, both as a kid and 00:04:36.269 --> 00:04:39.250 as an adult. And every time I needed to reinvent 00:04:39.250 --> 00:04:43.430 myself and start over fresh from place to place, 00:04:43.670 --> 00:04:49.189 making friends. gaining community, and the majority 00:04:49.189 --> 00:04:51.269 of the time needing to make a sense of belonging, 00:04:51.430 --> 00:04:54.730 which is like the number one on top of them all, 00:04:54.850 --> 00:04:57.350 feeling like you belong, which is the hardest 00:04:57.350 --> 00:04:59.990 thing when you move around so fast, so many times, 00:05:00.110 --> 00:05:04.290 right? 100%. My vision came from, I always thought 00:05:04.290 --> 00:05:07.290 that I'll be an entrepreneur. I'm a person who 00:05:07.290 --> 00:05:11.410 judged the status quo. I was probably a horrible 00:05:11.410 --> 00:05:15.029 employee to some employers in the past. Me too. 00:05:15.980 --> 00:05:21.519 Yeah. It takes one to know one. And then through 00:05:21.519 --> 00:05:23.800 creating my companies, I realized that every 00:05:23.800 --> 00:05:26.879 single company that I've created in some way, 00:05:26.920 --> 00:05:29.079 shape or form, we've helped people, whether it 00:05:29.079 --> 00:05:32.079 was services companies or product company, whatever 00:05:32.079 --> 00:05:35.639 it was, the idea of it, no matter what the company 00:05:35.639 --> 00:05:38.920 did or in which sector it did, it was meant to 00:05:38.920 --> 00:05:42.360 help people. Then three years ago, after a medicine 00:05:42.360 --> 00:05:46.680 ceremony, I realized, wait. That was the ha -ha 00:05:46.680 --> 00:05:52.040 moment. I've all my life gave to others. And 00:05:52.040 --> 00:05:56.519 that in turn gave me, it helped me grow as to 00:05:56.519 --> 00:06:00.579 who I am today. And if my purpose is always to 00:06:00.579 --> 00:06:04.399 help others, how can I do it in a sense that 00:06:04.399 --> 00:06:09.240 really helps in the way I've needed help? From 00:06:09.240 --> 00:06:11.160 the things you've mentioned, from the patterns, 00:06:11.259 --> 00:06:14.339 the traumas, the domestication, the upbringing. 00:06:15.920 --> 00:06:18.279 from patterns that I've developed within myself, 00:06:18.660 --> 00:06:22.519 for example, from moving to so many places. Then 00:06:22.519 --> 00:06:27.180 I realized, hey, my purpose is not just to help 00:06:27.180 --> 00:06:29.740 others, but it's to help others, help others, 00:06:29.860 --> 00:06:34.199 help others. So if by me helping one person makes 00:06:34.199 --> 00:06:37.339 a change in their lives, and they go and make 00:06:37.339 --> 00:06:40.019 a change in somebody else's lives, and so on, 00:06:40.220 --> 00:06:43.779 wow, what a better world we live in. And that 00:06:43.779 --> 00:06:48.439 made me stop. being in tech and moving to hey 00:06:48.439 --> 00:06:50.500 I want to do coaching I really actually want 00:06:50.500 --> 00:06:53.339 to help people whether if it's them building 00:06:53.339 --> 00:06:57.639 their businesses or more importantly building 00:06:57.639 --> 00:07:01.779 themselves how can I help people to become the 00:07:01.779 --> 00:07:06.639 CEO of their lives to regain control of their 00:07:06.639 --> 00:07:09.620 lives where so many times we feel like we're 00:07:09.620 --> 00:07:14.069 operated by this internal family system IFS that 00:07:14.069 --> 00:07:16.949 we have no control of how can we start gaining 00:07:16.949 --> 00:07:23.970 control out of it and that led me to go get certified 00:07:23.970 --> 00:07:27.769 in different modalities to study so much to read 00:07:27.769 --> 00:07:31.350 so many books to go do retreats more plant medicine 00:07:31.350 --> 00:07:36.449 workshops to become what i do today which is 00:07:36.449 --> 00:07:39.990 how people become a better version of themselves 00:07:39.990 --> 00:07:44.720 so where it came from Probably around 10 years 00:07:44.720 --> 00:07:49.160 old, where the ha -ha moment was about three 00:07:49.160 --> 00:07:53.959 years ago. There it is. And so where are you 00:07:53.959 --> 00:07:57.560 currently at with your vision? So currently I've 00:07:57.560 --> 00:08:00.160 built my coaching practice where I help individuals, 00:08:00.399 --> 00:08:04.639 whether if they're founders or executives or 00:08:04.639 --> 00:08:07.800 relationships, helping people with relationships. 00:08:08.220 --> 00:08:10.720 Where I see this going is creating workshops. 00:08:11.790 --> 00:08:15.910 How to unavoid yourself. How to become unavoidant. 00:08:15.930 --> 00:08:18.050 If you're avoidant, how to become unavoidant. 00:08:18.850 --> 00:08:22.269 Creating workshops with my beautiful wife on 00:08:22.269 --> 00:08:25.230 relationship communication. How can we communicate 00:08:25.230 --> 00:08:28.610 in a way that grows us instead of letting our 00:08:28.610 --> 00:08:33.649 ego talk. And so many of us, you know, we partner 00:08:33.649 --> 00:08:39.649 up. Things get very stagnant. and some time and 00:08:39.649 --> 00:08:42.490 we forget to bring the beginner's mindset into 00:08:42.490 --> 00:08:46.529 our conversation we project instead of talking 00:08:46.529 --> 00:08:49.129 about how things are making us you know you've 00:08:49.129 --> 00:08:51.409 mentioned before we're storytelling machines 00:08:51.409 --> 00:08:54.549 we're our own ai and we constantly tell ourselves 00:08:54.549 --> 00:08:57.909 stories that we believe to be factual and not 00:08:57.909 --> 00:09:00.590 stories so if we can differentiate him telling 00:09:00.590 --> 00:09:05.370 a story instead of this is reality our relationship 00:09:05.950 --> 00:09:08.210 can grow in such beautiful ways and it's not 00:09:08.210 --> 00:09:10.250 just our intimate relationship it's our relationship 00:09:10.250 --> 00:09:12.049 with our parents it's our relationship with our 00:09:12.049 --> 00:09:14.350 friends our relationship with our co -workers 00:09:14.350 --> 00:09:20.120 with our community with anything absolutely So 00:09:20.120 --> 00:09:22.179 you heard it from Lior Klisman as well, my friends. 00:09:22.899 --> 00:09:25.740 We've got opportunities to shift the way that 00:09:25.740 --> 00:09:28.000 we see life. We've got opportunities, opportunities 00:09:28.000 --> 00:09:31.399 to have more control over our communication and 00:09:31.399 --> 00:09:33.899 ultimately have more impact on making sure that 00:09:33.899 --> 00:09:36.440 we connect better with those who we love and 00:09:36.440 --> 00:09:39.320 have a better sense of belonging to in this world 00:09:39.320 --> 00:09:41.080 and help others with the same. Lior, thank you 00:09:41.080 --> 00:09:43.100 so much for bringing your vision today. Those 00:09:43.100 --> 00:09:44.980 of you listening in who want to share your vision, 00:09:45.039 --> 00:09:47.059 there's a button in the top right corner. It 00:09:47.059 --> 00:09:50.120 says be. our guest come and be our guest come 00:09:50.120 --> 00:09:52.299 sign up and share your vision with the world 00:09:52.299 --> 00:09:54.659 of what you're doing to help others and we will 00:09:54.659 --> 00:09:56.940 see you guys all on the next episode of vision 00:09:56.940 --> 00:10:00.000 pros live take care everybody bye Thank you for 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:02.000 being here today. I'm really happy that you tuned 00:10:02.000 --> 00:10:04.279 in to Vision Pros Live. I'm looking forward to 00:10:04.279 --> 00:10:07.580 seeing your reactions as these episodes continue 00:10:07.580 --> 00:10:09.340 to move forward. This is going to get more and 00:10:09.340 --> 00:10:11.399 more fun. We'll have more and more engagement 00:10:11.399 --> 00:10:13.480 as well. We'll invite people to participate in 00:10:13.480 --> 00:10:15.659 the show and thank you for giving us your time 00:10:15.659 --> 00:10:17.940 and attention. Have an excellent time building 00:10:17.940 --> 00:10:20.299 out your vision and becoming a vision pro yourself.