How did you begin this? You didn't always become like right out the gates. You weren't a coach for CEO. Oh lord
No, there's a journey involved. So yeah, let's talk about it
Fall term freshman year. So I had a couple of started out
in my dad was a chemical engineer and a had a phd bachelor's in chemical engineering and a phd in biochemistry and he
Essentially raised me to think like a chemical engineer if you've got it if you've got a result
That means there's an effect right if there's an end result you want then there is a cause for it, right?
And so fall term freshman year one of my biggest life lessons. I developed an ulcerated colon
Okay, right ulcerated colon bleeding
bleeding
colon
right
uncool right
And I suffered with that for about two months and then I finally got to the doctor
Because it took a while to five or six weeks to get in to see him and within about 20 minutes. He said to me
Three sentences that changed the course of my life. So I had chemistry as a background if there's an effect
There's a cause right? That's the foundation
So he said to me gee brad if you'd have waited six weeks to come see me you'd have bled to death
He had my attention
And I didn't know it was that bad, but it was that bad
Okay
I didn't want to bleed to death
This isn't going to happen right and then he said to me you'll never eat strawberries corn or lettuce all things
I like though. Maybe not so much lettuce but strawberries and corn right? You'll never eat anything with roughage ever again in your life
Wow, and my 18-year-old brain said fat chance a chance buddy. That's not happening. Then he said
the killer was
You have a psychosomatic disease and I knew what that meant
You have a psychosomatic disease your emotions affect the severity of your symptoms
Okay
and in that instant I made
100 commitment to conquer the disease if it's caused by my emotions
Because that was my thought if it's caused by my emotions then I have to go back
Find out which motions are creating that
Study my body study my emotions and look for the patterns that created that and then reverse it because
psychology is
a decision process
And so I went back in I studied Brad Brad was the beaker if you would
I studied my emotions and over time I learned how to track patterns and eventually
So within a year I had the bleeding stop
Right or at least the inner meat met and then the pain which was pretty bad and constant
If I was conscious I was in pain
Took me about three years
Maybe three and a half to get that conquered at least down to intermittent
But it was still part of my life and I had to watch my diet. He was pretty accurate about that for a while
Had I stayed that way?
But as I studied the psychology of it and the results of that in my body eventually
I got to a place where I remembered a single event at about 11 months old
It was conscious normal memory at 11 months old where
I went back and reworked that with hypnosis at age 47 18 to 47, right?
So at 47 went back in reworked that in a single hypnosis session
And it was it was essentially me at 11 months
Had the lid off the diaper pail. I was curious as all get up swirling the diapers around right?
Freaked my poor mom out and she grabbed me spanked me
So I just assumed that I was my first spanking I went back in reworked that from an adult perspective
Instead of a toddler perspective and that change
Permanently changed my biology so that I no longer had colitis
Wow
Right? What a story what a what a highs and lows just like the hero's journey that you've been on in that story
That's crazy. But what I learned from that is
All of life. I'll just put this thought out for most people
If there's an effect in your life
There's a psychosomatic cause behind it
If you have a struggle getting a job
Then take a look at you and who you are and how you relate to people
Right?
What's your character do an analysis of your character write down all your values write down all the things you love about yourself
All the things you admire about other people those are the high ones
Then you go back through and do what are all the things that people yell at me for that?
They hate about me that I don't like about me about me right and then also what is it?
I don't like the third list is what is it? I don't like about my life
And the purpose of blame is to shift responsibility off yourself
That's a two-year-old emotion and if you would skill
Right? So in order to reclaim responsibility
You have to make the decision to conquer it. I think there's three major decisions we make when we're born
First one is at 20 inches long when we're not verbal I'm not capable. That's the primary one
If I'm not capable, the second one is I can't be responsible and if I'm not responsible
Somewhere along the line we make the decision in our first year or so
I'm not valuable and those three decisions I'm not capable. I'm not responsible. I'm not valuable
Run our lives from our subconscious until we go back in and choose to be
Responsible that's the one entry into those three
And then if we choose to be responsible, then we learn capability and if we learn capability then
We learn and infer that we're valuable
Huge isn't it?
Yeah
That right there is the core of that whole journey with my kaleidos and what it taught me
Building blocks to starting off
Right? So you've got to choose to be responsible
What's the difference between someone that's immature and someone that's mature? They take full responsibility for the things that they do
Yeah
Right? So I want to throw one more in here my my definition of integrity
Which I just designed is described as the governing value
There's no other word like it in the english language integrity you can come close
But I I design I describe
Integrity as what I believe
That's the depth of my subconscious what I think that's my momentary consciousness
What I say
And what I do
That progression
And if they all line up together
That's integrity
How many how many people can say I went this whole last year and I counted the number of lies I told everyone else and myself right?
Yeah
And when I realized when I finally got that definition of integrity I figured I realized at the end of the year I had been tracking the number of lies I had been tracking
The number of lies I had told consciously to other people and I realized there was only five five
So I made the commitment to try and work to get lower
I'm down to the point where now when I talk with people I either am in silent
Because that's not a lie right I'm in silent or um I tell them the truth
And I've got that now what I watch is my impulses to lie and what that is is a screen for me for how secure or insecure I'm actually feeling
Yeah
These these are really freaking high standards right
Yeah absolutely they are
You hold yourself to high standards for sure
If you hold yourself to those high standards then insist the people around you do their best to match and that creates a different world for you
Let me put it this way the core of everything is my self-authority
Do I believe what I believe right and what I say what I think and I do right the core of that is what I put myself into and make decisions about that's my self-authority
If everybody had a really good view an accurate view of their self-authority and used it consciously we would have a different world
We wouldn't have war because we wouldn't blame other people and we wouldn't think scarcity