1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,160 Where are you going with the vision? 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,240 I'm gonna pull your website up while we talk about this. 3 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,400 Cause I fell in love with some aspects of your website, 4 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:08,560 but where are you going with this? 5 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:10,360 You're gonna change the world. 6 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,200 Like droves of family at a time, 7 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,560 if you keep rocking the mic like this. 8 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:20,560 Yeah, so our vision is really to give families the tools 9 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:22,040 they can to be successful in this. 10 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,360 Cause like you said, it's not the norm. 11 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,360 And I really hope it is. 12 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,080 Even people who have been divorced, 13 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,320 even people who don't have good ties with their kids, 14 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,040 it's never too late. 15 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:35,160 Okay, when I tell you that my dad worked his fingers 16 00:00:35,160 --> 00:00:40,160 to the bone, I'll tell you, he worked 16 to 19 hours a day. 17 00:00:40,300 --> 00:00:44,440 And as a child, that drove such a wedge 18 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:45,800 between my father and I. 19 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,600 And so growing up, I hated my dad. 20 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:52,120 I mean, I didn't like, I so many times said, 21 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:52,960 dad, I hate you. 22 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,600 I wish you were sick and not mom. 23 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,680 And I would cry about like why my mom was always sick 24 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,280 and he wasn't, but here was the reality, Jackson. 25 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:05,440 I actually loved him and I just wanted time with him. 26 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:09,920 And so God gave us that in my twenties and he redeemed it. 27 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:13,560 And I have such a close relationship with my dad right now. 28 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:15,360 And that happened in my early twenties. 29 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,280 So anybody that's listening, that's like, 30 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,480 oh, I don't have a great relationship with my kids. 31 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:20,820 I ruined it. 32 00:01:20,820 --> 00:01:21,660 I worked too. 33 00:01:21,660 --> 00:01:22,920 It's never too late. 34 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,680 Like it's never, ever too late. 35 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,840 And I wanna teach families and give them the tools 36 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,520 and the community and the support system 37 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,200 so that they can have a strong marriage, 38 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:35,920 whatever marriage number that is for you. 39 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:36,760 It doesn't matter. 40 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,200 Again, you can always redeem it. 41 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,400 You can always have it. 42 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,240 Have the tools for that in the community 43 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:43,160 and the support system. 44 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:44,680 And like you said, when you're around that, 45 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,080 you wanna be that, okay? 46 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,320 So creating that environment 47 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,440 and then helping them with the wealth building. 48 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,460 So we help people buy income properties, 49 00:01:53,460 --> 00:01:54,780 whatever that looks like for them 50 00:01:54,780 --> 00:01:55,860 and build it. 51 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:58,040 I don't wanna say quickly, 52 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,440 cause that sounds like the fast class. 53 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,240 It's like build it right. 54 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:03,880 Give it the foundation it needs. 55 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:04,720 With purpose. 56 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,200 You're talking about purposeful and personal diligence. 57 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,040 Exactly. 58 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,560 And like bringing your kids in on the family vision. 59 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,680 Cause when you buy a single family home. 60 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,400 Real quick, I feel that from you. 61 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,280 I got a point that there's a massive difference 62 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,080 between the person who's telling you like, 63 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:19,920 oh, it's easy. 64 00:02:19,920 --> 00:02:21,560 Like, oh, it's gonna be, 65 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:22,400 it's gonna be a cake. 66 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,440 If there are more people getting this life, 67 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:24,600 it'll be a cake walk and blah, blah, blah. 68 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,640 Like there's demeanors, right? 69 00:02:26,640 --> 00:02:27,960 You've got the demeanor of somebody 70 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:29,440 who's like crushing life. 71 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,800 You know, you're making it happen. 72 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:33,640 Yeah. 73 00:02:33,640 --> 00:02:34,800 I mean, we take steps every day. 74 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:35,640 I'm there. 75 00:02:35,640 --> 00:02:36,640 I'm intentional. 76 00:02:36,640 --> 00:02:38,040 Like I am very intentional. 77 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:41,020 Like with my kids, with my husband, with my work. 78 00:02:41,020 --> 00:02:42,540 Now, is it always roses? 79 00:02:42,540 --> 00:02:44,420 Are there times when I'm like, oh gosh, 80 00:02:44,420 --> 00:02:45,840 like where did that hour go? 81 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:46,720 Of course. 82 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,580 But like I'm intentional with forgiving myself for those 83 00:02:49,580 --> 00:02:52,000 and moving on with same with my spouse. 84 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:56,480 Like, hey, you are human and I am human. 85 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,440 And that's still hurt, but like, that's not who you are. 86 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:00,280 I forgive you. 87 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,160 We move on. 88 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:02,480 We move forward, you know? 89 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,520 And because of my personality and my husband's personality, 90 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,000 sometimes there's that clash 91 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:09,320 cause we're complete opposites. 92 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:10,320 Absolutely. 93 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,860 But we know that and we give understanding and time 94 00:03:13,860 --> 00:03:16,300 and say, hey, cause we've been together 24 years, Jackson. 95 00:03:16,300 --> 00:03:19,120 Like this is not like, you know? 96 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,800 And so we've been through some stuff 97 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,880 and we have five kids and businesses. 98 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,200 And so it's definitely not a cakewalk 99 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,500 and no family, no marriage, nothing. 100 00:03:27,500 --> 00:03:28,600 I don't care if it's your first marriage, 101 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:29,680 your seventh marriage. 102 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,760 Like if you have one child or 10, 103 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,680 like it all has its challenges. 104 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:38,340 What we want to do is cultivate a community, 105 00:03:38,340 --> 00:03:40,320 almost a cult, like the cultivate, right? 106 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:45,200 Like create this where it is so normal in this space 107 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:49,700 that other people see it and they're like, what is different? 108 00:03:49,700 --> 00:03:50,540 Yeah. 109 00:03:50,540 --> 00:03:54,600 Like I want that because we all truly do want joy and peace 110 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,800 and we want to leave a legacy for our kids. 111 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:58,640 Like you said, even if you're not with your kids, 112 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,360 you still want the best for them. 113 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,560 You still want to give them success principles 114 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,560 that they get to live a life that's, you know, 115 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,680 about other people, generosity, giving back, 116 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,880 using their gifts and having great marriages 117 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:13,640 and having great kids and, you know, 118 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,360 letting that cycle go on. 119 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,120 I mean, I haven't met a parent. 120 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:18,280 I mean, I never met Hitler, 121 00:04:18,280 --> 00:04:22,200 but like I've never met a parent that doesn't want better 122 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:25,320 for their kids, even if they left them, 123 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,240 even if they abused them, you talk to abusers 124 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:32,320 and they still want what's best for their kids. 125 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,360 They just did it in the wrong way, right? 126 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,280 And so when we cultivate this community 127 00:04:38,280 --> 00:04:40,620 and we have a vision for our kids, 128 00:04:40,620 --> 00:04:42,780 we want to teach them and give them principles 129 00:04:42,780 --> 00:04:46,300 so that they're successful and that they keep the wealth 130 00:04:46,300 --> 00:04:48,720 because like our community 131 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,380 is for entrepreneurs, business owners. 132 00:04:51,380 --> 00:04:54,160 Well, they're busy and they have all these hats 133 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,400 and they want to teach their kids these things. 134 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,240 Sometimes they don't know how, 135 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,200 but usually it's they don't have the time. 136 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:05,640 So if we can marry that where they get to be an entrepreneur, 137 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,840 learn, get wisdom and their kids can be involved. 138 00:05:08,840 --> 00:05:12,020 We bring their kids in on the single family property. 139 00:05:12,020 --> 00:05:14,560 We teach them how their kids can even come in 140 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,760 and like assess the property with them or look on Zillow 141 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:21,480 or make it a family thing so that mom and dad 142 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,200 don't have one more thing that's taken away from them. 143 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,560 Because then they're gonna look at money, 144 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,080 they're gonna look at entrepreneurship, 145 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:32,900 they're gonna look at real estate as a negative thing 146 00:05:32,900 --> 00:05:51,900 because that took mom and dad away.