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What was your why whenever you first took these steps?

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Was it because you had a not a confidence, but a self worth issue.

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Was that just what you decided you needed to help other people with this?

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Or what were those first steps?

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What was your why behind going in?

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Well, I think it was really because I was an entrepreneur.

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I had had a very traumatic upbringing and I started to realize how they call them in

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some circles.

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They might be referred to as adverse childhood events.

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It's called aces or there's also trauma.

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It could even be say it's even a veteran that has had the trauma of war.

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How these things show up in our life, how people get triggered and how we start telling

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ourselves stories about our value and what we're capable of.

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So I started really working on myself and paying attention to the things that would

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trigger me, the thoughts that I had, because it's always about your mindset.

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The fights always in your mind before it's anywhere else.

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So as I started to work through those things, I started to see the commonalities in people

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that were either pursuing something or had already arrived to become rather successful,

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but they were hanging their hat on all their successes and their relationships were suffering.