Where are you going with the vision?
I'm gonna pull your website up while we talk about this.
Cause I fell in love with some aspects of your website,
but where are you going with this?
You're gonna change the world.
Like droves of family at a time,
if you keep rocking the mic like this.
Yeah, so our vision is really to give families the tools
they can to be successful in this.
Cause like you said, it's not the norm.
And I really hope it is.
Even people who have been divorced,
even people who don't have good ties with their kids,
it's never too late.
Okay, when I tell you that my dad worked his fingers
to the bone, I'll tell you, he worked 16 to 19 hours a day.
And as a child, that drove such a wedge
between my father and I.
And so growing up, I hated my dad.
I mean, I didn't like, I so many times said,
dad, I hate you.
I wish you were sick and not mom.
And I would cry about like why my mom was always sick
and he wasn't, but here was the reality, Jackson.
I actually loved him and I just wanted time with him.
And so God gave us that in my twenties and he redeemed it.
And I have such a close relationship with my dad right now.
And that happened in my early twenties.
So anybody that's listening, that's like,
oh, I don't have a great relationship with my kids.
I ruined it.
I worked too.
It's never too late.
Like it's never, ever too late.
And I wanna teach families and give them the tools
and the community and the support system
so that they can have a strong marriage,
whatever marriage number that is for you.
It doesn't matter.
Again, you can always redeem it.
You can always have it.
Have the tools for that in the community
and the support system.
And like you said, when you're around that,
you wanna be that, okay?
So creating that environment
and then helping them with the wealth building.
So we help people buy income properties,
whatever that looks like for them
and build it.
I don't wanna say quickly,
cause that sounds like the fast class.
It's like build it right.
Give it the foundation it needs.
With purpose.
You're talking about purposeful and personal diligence.
Exactly.
And like bringing your kids in on the family vision.
Cause when you buy a single family home.
Real quick, I feel that from you.
I got a point that there's a massive difference
between the person who's telling you like,
oh, it's easy.
Like, oh, it's gonna be,
it's gonna be a cake.
If there are more people getting this life,
it'll be a cake walk and blah, blah, blah.
Like there's demeanors, right?
You've got the demeanor of somebody
who's like crushing life.
You know, you're making it happen.
Yeah.
I mean, we take steps every day.
I'm there.
I'm intentional.
Like I am very intentional.
Like with my kids, with my husband, with my work.
Now, is it always roses?
Are there times when I'm like, oh gosh,
like where did that hour go?
Of course.
But like I'm intentional with forgiving myself for those
and moving on with same with my spouse.
Like, hey, you are human and I am human.
And that's still hurt, but like, that's not who you are.
I forgive you.
We move on.
We move forward, you know?
And because of my personality and my husband's personality,
sometimes there's that clash
cause we're complete opposites.
Absolutely.
But we know that and we give understanding and time
and say, hey, cause we've been together 24 years, Jackson.
Like this is not like, you know?
And so we've been through some stuff
and we have five kids and businesses.
And so it's definitely not a cakewalk
and no family, no marriage, nothing.
I don't care if it's your first marriage,
your seventh marriage.
Like if you have one child or 10,
like it all has its challenges.
What we want to do is cultivate a community,
almost a cult, like the cultivate, right?
Like create this where it is so normal in this space
that other people see it and they're like, what is different?
Yeah.
Like I want that because we all truly do want joy and peace
and we want to leave a legacy for our kids.
Like you said, even if you're not with your kids,
you still want the best for them.
You still want to give them success principles
that they get to live a life that's, you know,
about other people, generosity, giving back,
using their gifts and having great marriages
and having great kids and, you know,
letting that cycle go on.
I mean, I haven't met a parent.
I mean, I never met Hitler,
but like I've never met a parent that doesn't want better
for their kids, even if they left them,
even if they abused them, you talk to abusers
and they still want what's best for their kids.
They just did it in the wrong way, right?
And so when we cultivate this community
and we have a vision for our kids,
we want to teach them and give them principles
so that they're successful and that they keep the wealth
because like our community
is for entrepreneurs, business owners.
Well, they're busy and they have all these hats
and they want to teach their kids these things.
Sometimes they don't know how,
but usually it's they don't have the time.
So if we can marry that where they get to be an entrepreneur,
learn, get wisdom and their kids can be involved.
We bring their kids in on the single family property.
We teach them how their kids can even come in
and like assess the property with them or look on Zillow
or make it a family thing so that mom and dad
don't have one more thing that's taken away from them.
Because then they're gonna look at money,
they're gonna look at entrepreneurship,
they're gonna look at real estate as a negative thing
because that took mom and dad away.