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Where are you going with your vision?

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That's a timely question to ask me, Harry,

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because about 10 minutes before we came on,

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I just got the final draft of my book.

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So that is one significant place that I'm going to go,

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is using that to get the word out about what it is that I do,

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but also what I've experienced.

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And secondly, hopefully having some impact on lives

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through that and through maybe connections

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that I'm able to make through that publication.

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So that's a big vision, one.

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Secondly, I want to take good care of myself.

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I'm not a spring chicken anymore,

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but I think I've still got a lot to offer.

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I've got all this knowledge that I've

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accumulated through the years, and I

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want to keep myself in such condition

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that I'm giving myself a decent chance

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to do that for a long, long time just yet.

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With the draft of that book, I'm hopeful to get that

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into the hands and ears and eyes of a lot of people

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that are out there who are looking for direction,

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pathways, maybe a little bit of advice, some thoughts

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as to what their next directions are going to be.

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I hope I'll have the opportunity to interact

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with many of those folks that receive that.

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So that's one vision, and that relates to my authorship

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as well as my coaching practice.

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The second thing is I want to keep myself in good condition.

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I'm not as young as I used to be.

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None of us are.

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But I want to put myself into a position

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that I'm able to be here for quite some more time

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and continue to have connections with people

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and talk to people and have relationships with them

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through my coaching practice.

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Thank you for sharing that.

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If I were to ask you more about your coaching practice,

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and I think you've already told us about that,

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would you like to share something more about it?

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It's built on two things.

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I think, first of all, developing a connection

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with someone.

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How do we go about identifying connection?

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I was talking with somebody earlier today,

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and I think that's the most important element of what

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comes next, and that's building relationship.

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But the connection is born by what

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do we have in common?

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So much of what we often focus on, I think,

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is what are our differences in background, education,

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where we're raised, faith or non-faith, just kind of where

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life has taken us up to that point.

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So where is our commonality?

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Where does that intersection lie first?

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Once we've established that, we can build a relationship

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on top of it, I believe, focusing on many of the things

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that we have in common, acknowledging

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what makes us different, but also celebrating that,

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because with what a variety of people bring to the table,

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you're stronger with those divergent viewpoints.

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So my coaching practice starts from that standpoint.

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It feeds into curiosity after that.

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I'm interested in people and what their backgrounds are.

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Learning things that I'm not familiar with

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makes me better as an individual.

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And so it's building that curiosity,

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satisfying my interest in that that comes next.

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From there, we can dig into coaching.

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What is it that you want, client?

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How can I help and assist you to get there?

