1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,480 Why do you think leaders hide from funding their vision? 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:06,360 This is an inside job. 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:10,360 This is about coming out about this vision you have for the world. 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:15,680 Because I think the biggest challenge is the world is going to vote about your vision. 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:17,840 And I don't even say judge anymore. 6 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,200 They're just going to vote about it. 7 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,560 Yeah, I want to give to that. 8 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:21,840 No, I don't want to give that. 9 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:22,840 You're crazy. 10 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,840 Water for everybody? 11 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:24,840 That's nuts. 12 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:25,840 Who's going to? 13 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,600 No, but I, you know, right? 14 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:29,720 It's exactly right. 15 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:32,280 The world is doing this every single day. 16 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:33,280 And we all want this. 17 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,960 I'm going to get a little psychological on us for a second. 18 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:40,040 We all want, I need every human being to love everything I say every second. 19 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,920 Is that going to happen? 20 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:47,400 So it's the ability to go, oh, I just need two thumbs up and I need, and there might 21 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:48,400 be four thumbs down. 22 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,720 I love that you, because we're doing it. 23 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,320 And then they gave us the tool to do it. 24 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,320 Yeah. 25 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,680 Thank you Apple and not thank you Apple, right? 26 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,960 Like, oh my God, because it's vulnerable. 27 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:02,960 It takes courage. 28 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,080 It takes commitment. 29 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,440 It's the year where you, I mean, my, when I first came out of the great gate, putting 30 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,200 vigor game into the world, I did a big conference. 31 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,600 I lost $35,000 that year. 32 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:18,520 I had the willingness to lose for the sake of the game winning. 33 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:19,840 Most people don't want to do that. 34 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:21,880 I invested a huge amount of money. 35 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,280 You've probably invested huge amounts of money to get this going. 36 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:26,280 Good on you. 37 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:27,280 Right? 38 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,080 And, you know, and of course, how do you make money in the backend? 39 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:31,600 You guys are all figuring that out. 40 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,080 You're helping me figure that out. 41 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:34,560 I don't like how does this happen? 42 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:35,560 How do I make money? 43 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:36,560 I'm a live cast. 44 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:38,040 Does it even happen? 45 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:39,040 Right. 46 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,360 And you know, I love learning from people like you. 47 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:42,360 How does this happen? 48 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,080 So I can feel funded. 49 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:50,520 And so that's, that's maybe a long answer, but the, but the speaking it, I don't want 50 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,160 to link one story to it. 51 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,040 It's a little more vulnerable. 52 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:57,960 I hope your audience is okay with this, but I'm out about it all, you know, so I was a 53 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,360 closeted gay man. 54 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:00,360 Okay. 55 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,760 From like, whenever you discover like I was 12 and I kind of went, I think I might be, 56 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:06,920 this is the years by the way, when it was not normal. 57 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:08,400 This is the seventies. 58 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,400 Right. 59 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:10,520 You know, this is not cool. 60 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,320 My church turned on me. 61 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,360 My family kind of turned on me. 62 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,960 It didn't go well, but I moved to California. 63 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:22,440 Classic, you know, I lived in the East coast, moved to the West coast, get far away from 64 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:27,400 everything that I knew, discovered myself, became an actor, got in some movies, started 65 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,840 to speak, wrote a, like it started to work. 66 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:30,840 Right. 67 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,600 Then of course, as I started to be successful, people started to come back my way. 68 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:40,560 The point of this story is the volume of judgment that came at me saying, you're not allowed 69 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,440 to be the way you're being freed me up. 70 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:49,440 It actually frees you when there's that much judgment coming at you. 71 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,040 Interesting. 72 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,400 It just frees you up because it's like, what have I got to lose? 73 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:57,200 I'm already burning in hell from half the country. 74 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:58,200 So what? 75 00:02:58,200 --> 00:02:59,200 Okay. 76 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,400 You see, it sort of actually freezes like, okay, got it. 77 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:08,220 You think I'm, you should, I, you know, just give me the same rights that I get to vote 78 00:03:08,220 --> 00:03:11,400 and I get to buy my taxes and I get to visit my partner in the hospital. 79 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:15,440 There's a whole issues here, but just give me the same rights. 80 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:20,040 But in terms of moral, if you think I'm burning, not you, if anybody's thinking burning in 81 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,080 hell, fantastic have at it. 82 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:24,080 You know what I mean? 83 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,360 It doesn't have any bearing on me anymore. 84 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,280 So that's the, when you come out, this is the out part. 85 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:33,200 When you come out with your vision, it's sort of like, you're trying to avoid all that judgment 86 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,880 and you actually have to go towards creating more judgment. 87 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:37,880 Wow. 88 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:42,080 Because your vision does create something. 89 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:43,740 It just does. 90 00:03:43,740 --> 00:03:46,760 And so it's all about coming out about it louder. 91 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:51,680 I'm going to be so classically like a gay parade, louder and prouder.