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Please, Dr. Wendy, tell me about your vision.

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I love this question.

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So what comes to mind is I actually feel like I have two big visions in life.

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One is more professional, one's more personal, but they really go together.

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So professionally, my vision is what I'm doing now, like living into my purpose,

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living into passion, empowering women to design their businesses and

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design their lives in the ways that truly light them up, make them really happy and

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fulfilled while creating some pretty amazing success.

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And my vision personally is pretty similar.

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I'm raising three daughters.

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I wanna be a model for them of living an empowered life, doing what you want,

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going rogue if you see fit, and not following the prescribed path of what

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everyone else is doing just because it's familiar or seems safe.

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Because what I found, and I think what a lot of my clients find and just women in

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my life find is one day you wake up and you're like, wait, this is it?

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I did all the right things and I followed the path and

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I did all the things I was supposed to do.

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Why am I waking up not in love with my life?

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Why am I not obsessed with my work?

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Why am I not feeling lit up every day?

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And so it feels like professionally, personally,

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it's just kind of the way that I live is let yourself really design what you want

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with full permission and not guilt or should or shame, and you'll be pretty happy.

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That's incredible.

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It's kind of a small world that we live in because my girlfriend of two years,

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she is a sibling of three daughters.

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So kind of in the same world that you're in.

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Yes, and I imagine it's a unique world because I grew up as an only.

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And so watching siblings and sisters and all of it's like very new to me.

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But it's really interesting and I try very hard to help them protect their

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relationships because it just seems like such a fundamental piece of their upbringing

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is figuring out how to do healthy relationships and sisterhood.

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Especially as they become young women and figuring out life and

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confidence and self esteem and all the things.

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So it is it's a very interesting world being the mama of three young girls and

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my three daughters are actually 15 months apart.

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So I have my 11 year old and then I have two 10 year old.

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The distance conversations.