Tell me about your vision. My vision is for children to have healed parents. My mission
is to help a million families heal in 2024. And to me, what that means is healing as freedom. I
want people blissfully happy, experiencing love on the deepest levels. And again, I want children
to have healed parents versus parents that are just passing on without meaning to generational
trauma patterns and cycles. And I really know after 20 years of experience in private practice,
we can do family our way the way we imagined we always could and love. And we all deserve that.
That's a very interesting vision. The way you framed it, I want
to have children have healed parents. That is a great way to put it. Why did you choose that?
I'm an incest survivor, a domestic violence survivor in my childhood, and even with a 4.0 GPA
and my counseling master's degree, I didn't break the cycle. I found myself in my first marriage
with a baby in a domestic violence situation all over again, even though I knew better. And so for
me, this idea of being a healed parent means the cycle officially ended. I don't just manage and
cope and understand. I have obliterated the trauma cycle and I don't live it and it doesn't impact
me anymore. That is the definition of being a healed adult. The past is clear. It's not impacting
you. You're not trying to avoid it. You're not trying to manage and cope. It's over. And that's
what I want. And in my couple's work for now at least 13 years of prioritizing couple's work,
the magic moment where the two people meet each other for the first time is my favorite part of
what I do. The inner child who's wounded isn't who you are and it isn't who you're married to.
And most couples haven't met the healed version of themselves or their spouse. And it is so beautiful
to get to witness that in my private practice work with couples. And that is what kids deserve,
that version of their parents running the show and getting that modeled to them. I don't know
a more beautiful gift we can give our kids. Thanks for sharing that.
Where did this vision come from, Rebecca?
You know, I think I've known since I was four that there had to be a way for family
to be a wonderful thing. And after beating cancer almost 10 years ago, I just knew it was time to
no longer be vanilla ice in my private practice. If you've got a problem, yo, I'll solve it. Like
the days of me being everything to everyone needed to be over. And I just wanted to focus on love and
relationships and families being healed. Because for me, I'm living my dream come true love story.
My clients get to live their dream come true love story against all odds. And if I can do it, if my
clients can do it, we all can. And I think everyone when they grow up, what do we want to be? Loved.
And almost no one gets to have that. And I'm here to help people have that.
What is your goal for being on the show, Rebecca?
My mission in 2024 is to help a million families heal. And I want kids to have healed parents. So
all of the audience members that I can reach an impact. It's just another dream come true one
audience at a time, one episode at a time, we're going to spread the message that healing is
freedom and healing is possible, especially when it comes to healing. And I think that's
a great message that I want to spread to people especially at home, and that life at home can be
glorious and fun. And what a gift. Thanks for sharing that. That's a million families.
And where are you at your goal of a million families right now?
Probably 100,000. So far, we got half a year to go. And lots of irons in the fire. I do
people's podcasts right now. And we're putting a TV show together that will hopefully get backed
by a major network or streaming service this fall. And it's ambitious, but I beat cancer
with a 5% chance to live. I'm not afraid of ambitious goals. And I've gotten every goal
I've ever set out to commit to. So I just thought to myself, why not? We're going to go for it.
Thank you for being here today. I'm really happy that you tuned into Vision Pros Live.
I'm looking forward to seeing your reactions as these episodes continue to move forward.
This is going to get more and more fun. We'll have more and more engagement as well. We'll
invite people to participate in the show. And thank you for giving us your time and attention.
Have an excellent time building out your vision and becoming a Vision Pro yourself.