1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,440 Tell me about your vision. My vision is for children to have healed parents. My mission 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:16,480 is to help a million families heal in 2024. And to me, what that means is healing as freedom. I 3 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:23,200 want people blissfully happy, experiencing love on the deepest levels. And again, I want children 4 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:30,400 to have healed parents versus parents that are just passing on without meaning to generational 5 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:37,680 trauma patterns and cycles. And I really know after 20 years of experience in private practice, 6 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:44,160 we can do family our way the way we imagined we always could and love. And we all deserve that. 7 00:00:44,160 --> 00:00:52,160 That's a very interesting vision. The way you framed it, I want 8 00:00:53,520 --> 00:01:03,440 to have children have healed parents. That is a great way to put it. Why did you choose that? 9 00:01:04,320 --> 00:01:11,760 I'm an incest survivor, a domestic violence survivor in my childhood, and even with a 4.0 GPA 10 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:19,200 and my counseling master's degree, I didn't break the cycle. I found myself in my first marriage 11 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:26,160 with a baby in a domestic violence situation all over again, even though I knew better. And so for 12 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:34,640 me, this idea of being a healed parent means the cycle officially ended. I don't just manage and 13 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:42,720 cope and understand. I have obliterated the trauma cycle and I don't live it and it doesn't impact 14 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:50,160 me anymore. That is the definition of being a healed adult. The past is clear. It's not impacting 15 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:56,800 you. You're not trying to avoid it. You're not trying to manage and cope. It's over. And that's 16 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:04,640 what I want. And in my couple's work for now at least 13 years of prioritizing couple's work, 17 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:11,120 the magic moment where the two people meet each other for the first time is my favorite part of 18 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:18,640 what I do. The inner child who's wounded isn't who you are and it isn't who you're married to. 19 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:26,080 And most couples haven't met the healed version of themselves or their spouse. And it is so beautiful 20 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:33,360 to get to witness that in my private practice work with couples. And that is what kids deserve, 21 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:39,360 that version of their parents running the show and getting that modeled to them. I don't know 22 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:44,080 a more beautiful gift we can give our kids. Thanks for sharing that. 23 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:51,360 Where did this vision come from, Rebecca? 24 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:58,160 You know, I think I've known since I was four that there had to be a way for family 25 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:07,680 to be a wonderful thing. And after beating cancer almost 10 years ago, I just knew it was time to 26 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:13,760 no longer be vanilla ice in my private practice. If you've got a problem, yo, I'll solve it. Like 27 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:19,520 the days of me being everything to everyone needed to be over. And I just wanted to focus on love and 28 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:26,640 relationships and families being healed. Because for me, I'm living my dream come true love story. 29 00:03:26,640 --> 00:03:32,640 My clients get to live their dream come true love story against all odds. And if I can do it, if my 30 00:03:32,640 --> 00:03:39,520 clients can do it, we all can. And I think everyone when they grow up, what do we want to be? Loved. 31 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:43,520 And almost no one gets to have that. And I'm here to help people have that. 32 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,800 What is your goal for being on the show, Rebecca? 33 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:53,760 My mission in 2024 is to help a million families heal. And I want kids to have healed parents. So 34 00:03:53,760 --> 00:04:01,440 all of the audience members that I can reach an impact. It's just another dream come true one 35 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:06,320 audience at a time, one episode at a time, we're going to spread the message that healing is 36 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:13,440 freedom and healing is possible, especially when it comes to healing. And I think that's 37 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:19,600 a great message that I want to spread to people especially at home, and that life at home can be 38 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:29,760 glorious and fun. And what a gift. Thanks for sharing that. That's a million families. 39 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,080 And where are you at your goal of a million families right now? 40 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:42,000 Probably 100,000. So far, we got half a year to go. And lots of irons in the fire. I do 41 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:47,280 people's podcasts right now. And we're putting a TV show together that will hopefully get backed 42 00:04:47,280 --> 00:04:54,080 by a major network or streaming service this fall. And it's ambitious, but I beat cancer 43 00:04:54,080 --> 00:05:00,000 with a 5% chance to live. I'm not afraid of ambitious goals. And I've gotten every goal 44 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:05,520 I've ever set out to commit to. So I just thought to myself, why not? We're going to go for it. 45 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:10,080 Thank you for being here today. I'm really happy that you tuned into Vision Pros Live. 46 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:14,960 I'm looking forward to seeing your reactions as these episodes continue to move forward. 47 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:18,640 This is going to get more and more fun. We'll have more and more engagement as well. We'll 48 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:23,040 invite people to participate in the show. And thank you for giving us your time and attention. 49 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:40,960 Have an excellent time building out your vision and becoming a Vision Pro yourself.