1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,840 I'm a little bit older than 2 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:03,840 the chain smokers. Um and then 3 00:00:02,900 --> 00:00:05,440 we'll cover break in a little 4 00:00:03,900 --> 00:00:06,940 bit but Boulder, Colorado. 5 00:00:05,500 --> 00:00:10,640 There's that rap song. I never 6 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:11,980 getting older. Uh uh. I'll have 7 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:12,940 to know. Oh, you'll know it. 8 00:00:12,040 --> 00:00:16,020 You'll know. Just look that rap 9 00:00:13,020 --> 00:00:18,080 song up and it says um because 10 00:00:16,080 --> 00:00:21,620 she stole her mattress from her 11 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:23,020 roommate in Boulder. Um the 12 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:26,420 chain smokers. I do know the 13 00:00:23,100 --> 00:00:27,700 song. That's it. Yeah. She 14 00:00:27,700 --> 00:00:31,860 stole her mattress from her 15 00:00:29,300 --> 00:00:33,700 roommate. So, yes. Beautiful 16 00:00:31,940 --> 00:00:35,260 area. No, beautiful area. 17 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:39,340 Great rap music apparently. I 18 00:00:35,340 --> 00:00:41,100 guess. Oh, man. So, before we 19 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,140 dive in uh too deep to the 20 00:00:41,180 --> 00:00:43,280 vision, we're gonna be talking 21 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,740 today about bowling stepping 22 00:00:43,340 --> 00:00:48,720 into your inherent worthiness. 23 00:00:45,820 --> 00:00:50,920 Um and as we do so, what three 24 00:00:48,780 --> 00:00:52,480 books or resources do you 25 00:00:50,980 --> 00:00:54,520 recommend for leaders and 26 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:57,520 visionaries out there? Three 27 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:02,360 books. I think the four 28 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,540 agreements, 100% of that book 29 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:07,840 changed my life and I always 30 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:09,400 recommend that to to everyone. 31 00:01:07,900 --> 00:01:11,640 Um resources. I need to read 32 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:13,080 that. I need to read it. Oh my 33 00:01:11,700 --> 00:01:14,520 goodness. Um he also the 34 00:01:13,140 --> 00:01:15,940 mastery of love. So, those are 35 00:01:14,580 --> 00:01:19,420 two that I would recommend to 36 00:01:16,020 --> 00:01:21,980 the same person. Tom Miguel. Um 37 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,660 they're incredible. It really 38 00:01:22,060 --> 00:01:25,060 just goes back to like your 39 00:01:25,060 --> 00:01:30,100 understanding of what it is to 40 00:01:26,420 --> 00:01:33,000 not put your worth anything in 41 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:34,440 other people, right? Like um 42 00:01:33,060 --> 00:01:36,040 they're very simple agreements 43 00:01:34,500 --> 00:01:38,480 but they can be very hard to to 44 00:01:36,100 --> 00:01:40,980 enact but they're beautiful. Um 45 00:01:38,540 --> 00:01:42,940 as far as resources, one I 46 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,920 always would suggest people 47 00:01:43,020 --> 00:01:47,980 learning about or getting into 48 00:01:44,980 --> 00:01:49,980 um would be just somatics. I 49 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,260 think the basis of a lot of 50 00:01:50,060 --> 00:01:52,860 what I do and what I see in 51 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,060 everybody is so many people are 52 00:01:54,060 --> 00:01:56,700 learning about and so the 53 00:01:55,260 --> 00:01:57,900 practice of learning how to get 54 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,340 into your body and there's many 55 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,900 different ways to do that but 56 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,000 um that would be another one 57 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:05,280 that I would recommend is is 58 00:02:02,060 --> 00:02:07,180 more than somatics. Awesome. 59 00:02:05,340 --> 00:02:09,580 It's funny but the uh as we 60 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:11,040 continue to build the show, we 61 00:02:09,640 --> 00:02:13,340 attract more and more people 62 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,880 from different uh different 63 00:02:13,420 --> 00:02:15,820 sectors and I don't wanna say 64 00:02:14,940 --> 00:02:17,020 the quality of our leaders is 65 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:17,980 getting better because I don't 66 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,020 wanna like, you know, like say 67 00:02:18,060 --> 00:02:20,520 anything bad about past people 68 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:23,420 because we've got great people 69 00:02:23,420 --> 00:02:27,400 here. People are starting to 70 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,900 talk about things like the 71 00:02:27,460 --> 00:02:31,740 intuition and the body itself 72 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:34,900 and I and I do. I see great 73 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:37,880 leaders lean into that resource 74 00:02:34,980 --> 00:02:39,980 um and openly and uh and not 75 00:02:37,940 --> 00:02:42,020 look so externally for 76 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,520 resources. So, cool. Kudos to 77 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,480 you for that. We're gonna be 78 00:02:43,580 --> 00:02:45,880 right back. We're gonna cut for 79 00:02:44,540 --> 00:02:47,380 a little bit of a break. Um and 80 00:02:45,940 --> 00:02:48,860 when we come back, we're gonna 81 00:02:47,460 --> 00:02:50,220 dive into, you know, how to 82 00:02:48,920 --> 00:02:51,820 really boldly step into your 83 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,820 inherent worth and Natalia 84 00:02:52,820 --> 00:02:56,240 Richardson on the other side 85 00:02:53,900 --> 00:02:58,840 guys. Alright, welcome in to 86 00:02:56,300 --> 00:03:00,300 Vision Pros live. With Jackson 87 00:02:58,900 --> 00:03:01,800 Calame, I'm your show host. We 88 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,240 will be doing interviews for 89 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,740 visionary entrepreneurs and 90 00:03:03,300 --> 00:03:07,340 guest leaders who are building 91 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,340 fantastic visions out there. 92 00:03:15,620 --> 00:03:18,360 Hey, what's up? And welcome in 93 00:03:16,980 --> 00:03:19,760 Vision Pros. I'm your show 94 00:03:18,420 --> 00:03:21,260 host, Jackson Calame, founder 95 00:03:19,820 --> 00:03:22,760 and CEO of First Class Business 96 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,100 and Business Development on 97 00:03:24,140 --> 00:03:27,440 stage today. We're gonna be 98 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:30,540 talking about transformation, 99 00:03:27,500 --> 00:03:32,240 uh coaching, and what what 100 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,740 elements we can turn into in 101 00:03:32,300 --> 00:03:35,480 life. What what resources we 102 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,880 can turn to in tactics, 103 00:03:35,540 --> 00:03:37,920 principles, things of that 104 00:03:36,940 --> 00:03:39,520 nature to make sure that we're 105 00:03:37,980 --> 00:03:41,780 getting the most out of it and 106 00:03:39,580 --> 00:03:44,180 in the form of understanding 107 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,420 your inherent worth. The first 108 00:03:44,260 --> 00:03:47,420 time I heard that word, I had 109 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:49,960 to look it up. Um naturally, 110 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:52,700 right? But I was probably 28 111 00:03:52,700 --> 00:03:56,080 years old. I was like, huh, I 112 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:57,180 wonder what that means and it's 113 00:03:56,140 --> 00:03:58,640 one of those words where once 114 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:00,140 you learn about it, it is 115 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:02,180 transformational. You like 116 00:04:00,220 --> 00:04:03,620 can't go back uh to the way you 117 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,580 used to see the world. So, I'm 118 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,720 excited for her to explore that 119 00:04:04,660 --> 00:04:07,460 with us fully and teach us as 120 00:04:05,780 --> 00:04:08,960 an expert in that space. Before 121 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,560 we bring Natalia on stage that 122 00:04:09,020 --> 00:04:12,020 we're gonna talk about the 123 00:04:10,620 --> 00:04:13,660 resources up here that we also 124 00:04:12,100 --> 00:04:15,420 recommend. So, Melissa Gray 125 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:18,160 with the Law Spot is resource 126 00:04:15,500 --> 00:04:19,900 number one. Uh having been a 127 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,400 co-founder of Restaurant 128 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,880 Restaurant for a brand name 129 00:04:22,980 --> 00:04:26,480 that we already owned. We ended 130 00:04:24,940 --> 00:04:29,320 up spending $20,000 on that 131 00:04:26,540 --> 00:04:30,680 trademark lawsuit and uh we 132 00:04:29,380 --> 00:04:32,220 that was to protect a brand. We 133 00:04:30,740 --> 00:04:33,480 already had it. Why did that 134 00:04:32,280 --> 00:04:34,420 happen? We just weren't 135 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,660 strategically prepared. We 136 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,120 didn't know what we didn't know 137 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,720 about protecting our little 138 00:04:37,180 --> 00:04:40,620 business and when I found 139 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,620 Melissa, I was not really 140 00:04:40,700 --> 00:04:42,660 excited to have her on the show 141 00:04:41,700 --> 00:04:44,200 to be honest with you. She had 142 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,160 come through one of my co-hosts 143 00:04:44,260 --> 00:04:47,800 and I thought about cancelling 144 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,200 it because most lawyers, they 145 00:04:47,860 --> 00:04:50,200 don't have the time of day for 146 00:04:49,260 --> 00:04:51,200 you. They don't wanna take the 147 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,340 time to do it. I found her to 148 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,640 be a tremendous leader. We 149 00:04:54,420 --> 00:04:57,820 ended up deciding to work 150 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:59,380 together and I have the 151 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,780 strategic partnership now. I 152 00:04:59,460 --> 00:05:01,780 absolutely love how she's 153 00:05:00,860 --> 00:05:03,080 building what she's building 154 00:05:01,860 --> 00:05:05,120 and it's fun to have somebody 155 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,760 who's very good at law but also 156 00:05:05,180 --> 00:05:08,200 understands the importance of 157 00:05:06,820 --> 00:05:09,220 caring for people at the same 158 00:05:08,260 --> 00:05:10,520 time. So, I highly recommend 159 00:05:09,300 --> 00:05:12,200 checking her on what she's 160 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,700 doing. We've also got 161 00:05:12,260 --> 00:05:15,240 Vermilia Peramon here with the 162 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:16,760 Healing Institute and the 163 00:05:15,300 --> 00:05:18,440 Healing Institute's vision is 164 00:05:16,840 --> 00:05:19,700 to pull together collectively 165 00:05:19,700 --> 00:05:22,600 and make sure that we're 166 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,000 helping people around the world. 167 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,140 Anybody involved in wellness 168 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,480 into one community where these 169 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,640 practitioners can well, 170 00:05:27,540 --> 00:05:29,740 basically, it's the patients, 171 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,980 people who are looking for help 172 00:05:29,820 --> 00:05:32,720 in life can come in here and 173 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,220 filter through and see what 174 00:05:32,780 --> 00:05:35,680 types of people can they get 175 00:05:34,280 --> 00:05:37,060 help from? You can register on 176 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,360 here as a practitioner. You can 177 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,960 also register as a potential 178 00:05:38,420 --> 00:05:42,060 client and check this out. 179 00:05:40,020 --> 00:05:44,500 Vermilia comes with decades and 180 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:46,200 decades of wisdom. I'm a big 181 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,660 fan of something I heard once 182 00:05:46,260 --> 00:05:49,240 from somebody who was in their 183 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:53,200 high school and he said, stop 184 00:05:50,840 --> 00:05:54,840 looking at your peers for 185 00:05:53,260 --> 00:05:55,840 advice. Um he didn't say that 186 00:05:54,900 --> 00:05:57,100 forcefully but he said, if you 187 00:05:55,900 --> 00:05:59,200 want to find good advice and 188 00:05:57,180 --> 00:06:00,680 wisdom, start looking at 189 00:05:59,280 --> 00:06:02,180 marriages that have existed for 190 00:06:00,740 --> 00:06:03,620 decades. People have been 191 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,420 married for 40, 50, 60 years 192 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,320 and see what they're doing 193 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,720 because they've been over the 194 00:06:06,380 --> 00:06:09,280 hill. They've seen all the 195 00:06:07,780 --> 00:06:10,680 things that that one can see 196 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,160 about those types of 197 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,720 experiences. So, when I met her 198 00:06:12,220 --> 00:06:15,560 and saw the wisdom that she has 199 00:06:13,780 --> 00:06:17,160 and the joy she has, the useful 200 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:21,000 things that she has, she has so 201 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,840 much value to offer and we're 202 00:06:21,060 --> 00:06:23,840 excited to see her continue to 203 00:06:21,900 --> 00:06:24,800 expand and grow that. Lastly, 204 00:06:23,900 --> 00:06:26,100 we're going to talk about the 205 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,940 water project and the water 206 00:06:26,180 --> 00:06:30,180 project is it's one of those 207 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,540 resources that kind of blew my 208 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,740 mind when I saw it because I 209 00:06:31,620 --> 00:06:33,620 hadn't considered the fact that 210 00:06:32,820 --> 00:06:35,040 there are millions of people in 211 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,780 the world who don't have access 212 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,220 to clean drinking water. How 213 00:06:36,840 --> 00:06:40,580 fortunate am I? How spoiled? 214 00:06:38,280 --> 00:06:42,060 I've never had to deal with 215 00:06:40,660 --> 00:06:42,960 that and when I when I learned 216 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,020 about it, I just couldn't stop 217 00:06:43,020 --> 00:06:45,600 thinking about it. Decided, I 218 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,800 decided to contribute to the 219 00:06:47,060 --> 00:06:50,160 water project. We bring on the 220 00:06:48,860 --> 00:06:52,260 show and when you look at these 221 00:06:50,220 --> 00:06:53,760 pictures of these kiddos, it 222 00:06:52,340 --> 00:06:55,960 looks like they're celebrating 223 00:06:53,840 --> 00:06:57,340 Christmas Day and that's the 224 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:59,040 type of impact we have the 225 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,440 ability to make. So, my hope is 226 00:06:59,100 --> 00:07:02,180 that you'll take a look at what 227 00:07:00,500 --> 00:07:03,980 they're doing. If you contribute 228 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,480 to a project, it will send you 229 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,940 an update for that community so 230 00:07:05,540 --> 00:07:08,440 you actually get to see the 231 00:07:07,020 --> 00:07:10,020 fruition of what you've 232 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,720 contributed come to life and I 233 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,980 highly recommend meditating on 234 00:07:11,780 --> 00:07:14,480 that. What type of impact may 235 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,480 you have? Have water? Have a 236 00:07:15,940 --> 00:07:19,040 have a source of water where 237 00:07:17,540 --> 00:07:20,480 kids are no longer having to 238 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,440 leave school and walk three to 239 00:07:20,540 --> 00:07:22,640 four miles to get it or parents 240 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,620 are no longer having to leave 241 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:26,480 work to do to go get water. The 242 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:27,680 impact is generational in 243 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,360 nature and I hope you join me 244 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:32,860 on that. Now, if there's another 245 00:07:29,420 --> 00:07:34,000 source of of um if there's a 246 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,520 cause that you'd like to see us 247 00:07:34,060 --> 00:07:37,100 contribute to instead, there's 248 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,100 eight billion people in this 249 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,060 world to help and we're all 250 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,700 about it. So, please drop that 251 00:07:39,140 --> 00:07:42,000 in the comments. Let us know 252 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,100 what things we can contribute 253 00:07:43,100 --> 00:07:47,080 to to help you grow as well. 254 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:48,580 Without further ado, Natalia, 255 00:07:47,140 --> 00:07:50,980 thank you so much for joining 256 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,580 us on Vision Pros Live. Well, 257 00:07:51,060 --> 00:07:56,060 thank you so much for having 258 00:07:52,660 --> 00:07:57,620 me. Absolutely. What is your 259 00:07:56,120 --> 00:08:01,600 vision for the people that you 260 00:07:57,700 --> 00:08:03,100 serve? Oh, um well, similar to 261 00:08:01,660 --> 00:08:04,800 the title, like to really step 262 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,560 into their inherit worthiness. 263 00:08:04,860 --> 00:08:08,640 I believe that we are born with 264 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:10,300 desires for a reason. They're 265 00:08:08,700 --> 00:08:12,100 already ours and it's really 266 00:08:12,100 --> 00:08:16,740 important to understand the 267 00:08:13,940 --> 00:08:18,720 the traumas perhaps that have 268 00:08:16,820 --> 00:08:20,420 kept us playing small or not 269 00:08:18,780 --> 00:08:21,980 fully stepping into that. So, 270 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:25,060 every person I work with, I 271 00:08:22,060 --> 00:08:26,960 want them to to shine, to 272 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,620 boldly watch their 273 00:08:27,020 --> 00:08:30,520 manifestations come into the 274 00:08:28,700 --> 00:08:32,200 3D reality and also realizing 275 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:34,500 that it doesn't have to be 276 00:08:32,260 --> 00:08:37,640 hard but it can feel good as 277 00:08:34,560 --> 00:08:39,640 they grow and the relationships 278 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:44,340 that they have with each other 279 00:08:41,540 --> 00:08:45,520 and to step out of that 280 00:08:44,420 --> 00:08:47,080 paradigm that, you know, things 281 00:08:45,580 --> 00:08:48,580 have to suffer for us to to get 282 00:08:47,140 --> 00:08:50,920 what we want or we are meant to 283 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,660 suffer and know that everything 284 00:08:50,980 --> 00:08:55,660 is happening for us, not to us. 285 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:57,000 I love that. Um I've been 286 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:59,600 through that suffering quite a 287 00:08:57,060 --> 00:09:01,400 bit in my life. Um I am no 288 00:08:59,660 --> 00:09:03,160 stranger to trauma. I'm no 289 00:09:01,460 --> 00:09:04,600 stranger to childhood trauma 290 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,840 all the way through adulthood 291 00:09:04,660 --> 00:09:08,100 experiences. Um and I love the 292 00:09:08,100 --> 00:09:11,100 way that you talk about it. 293 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,200 What what does it look like on 294 00:09:11,180 --> 00:09:13,380 the other side? You talked 295 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,980 about it feeling good. So, what 296 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,540 does it look like when somebody 297 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:19,540 goes to the other side? What 298 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:22,120 types of experiences unfold for 299 00:09:19,620 --> 00:09:24,120 somebody beyond that point? 300 00:09:22,180 --> 00:09:25,780 Oh, um one example that comes 301 00:09:24,180 --> 00:09:27,960 to mind is actually somebody 302 00:09:25,860 --> 00:09:29,520 who is in um one of my 303 00:09:28,020 --> 00:09:31,020 containers and it was last 304 00:09:29,580 --> 00:09:32,520 night and when she joined the 305 00:09:31,100 --> 00:09:33,900 container, one of the things 306 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,700 that came up for her was 307 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,700 whenever her, you know, ex 308 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,760 partner, they share kids but 309 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,100 they're not really in that 310 00:09:38,860 --> 00:09:42,900 state of fearful anxiety like 311 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:44,500 it would just trigger this the 312 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:47,240 spiral and so we've worked on 313 00:09:44,580 --> 00:09:49,540 first her worthiness and where 314 00:09:47,300 --> 00:09:50,540 she has been, you know, 315 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,220 sacrificing herself and second, 316 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:55,120 how to really process and feel 317 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:56,620 these emotions and yesterday, 318 00:09:55,180 --> 00:09:58,180 we were kind of reflecting over 319 00:09:56,680 --> 00:10:01,160 the past, I don't know, let's 320 00:09:58,260 --> 00:10:02,580 say 8 weeks and she all of a 321 00:10:01,220 --> 00:10:04,720 sudden said, oh my goodness, I 322 00:10:02,660 --> 00:10:06,520 had this message come through 323 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:10,480 and I've been dealing this. I 324 00:10:08,380 --> 00:10:14,480 felt nothing. I was just 325 00:10:10,540 --> 00:10:15,980 peaceful. Um yeah and I just 326 00:10:14,560 --> 00:10:17,480 you watch the her eyes light 327 00:10:16,060 --> 00:10:19,060 up because it hadn't even 328 00:10:17,560 --> 00:10:20,520 clicked for her and oh my 329 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:23,460 goodness, it it didn't affect 330 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:24,560 me this time. Um and the same 331 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,660 goes for, she said that she was 332 00:10:24,620 --> 00:10:29,500 feeling stagnant and I asked 333 00:10:27,740 --> 00:10:30,500 her a couple questions and I 334 00:10:29,560 --> 00:10:32,740 said, okay, are you stagnant? 335 00:10:30,560 --> 00:10:34,200 Are you actually at peace? 336 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,300 You've you've been living in 337 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,480 chaos. We've been working 338 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:38,480 together. We've been 339 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,680 manifesting ourselves which in 340 00:10:38,540 --> 00:10:40,680 turn if we're used to it, we 341 00:10:39,740 --> 00:10:42,480 actually create more, right? We 342 00:10:40,740 --> 00:10:44,040 look for more. We manifest one 343 00:10:42,540 --> 00:10:45,440 way or another, right? 344 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:48,480 Consciously or unconsciously, 345 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:50,520 right? Um and again, she goes, 346 00:10:48,560 --> 00:10:51,660 I think you're right. I just 347 00:10:50,580 --> 00:10:53,060 and I said, yeah, it's because 348 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,600 it's uncomfortable. You're not 349 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:56,560 used to it. There's nothing 350 00:10:54,660 --> 00:10:57,920 wrong and like I said, her eyes 351 00:10:56,620 --> 00:10:59,400 teared up. She was just full of 352 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:02,640 joy having that realization. So 353 00:10:59,460 --> 00:11:03,740 that's one very. Oh, that's 354 00:11:02,700 --> 00:11:05,300 beautiful. Example that came 355 00:11:05,300 --> 00:11:09,140 up in the other. You two 356 00:11:06,900 --> 00:11:11,300 referred. You two for one on 357 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:13,640 that. That was awesome and that 358 00:11:11,380 --> 00:11:15,240 that is, you know, again, 359 00:11:13,700 --> 00:11:17,180 sometimes these types of 360 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,720 concepts that are almost 361 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:21,320 spiritual nature or or it's so 362 00:11:18,780 --> 00:11:22,820 deep and profound that it can 363 00:11:21,380 --> 00:11:24,320 it can be hard to interact 364 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,720 with that but like the ability 365 00:11:24,380 --> 00:11:28,320 to feel that feel that 366 00:11:26,780 --> 00:11:30,300 liberation and then like you 367 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:33,100 said, to be able to embrace 368 00:11:33,100 --> 00:11:38,100 that and like, oh no, but to 369 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,700 transition that nothing changed 370 00:11:38,180 --> 00:11:41,440 other than the mindset. Um you 371 00:11:39,780 --> 00:11:43,140 know, and the acceptance of, oh 372 00:11:41,500 --> 00:11:46,120 wait, I get to feel joy right 373 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:48,140 now. That is it's mind blowing. 374 00:11:46,180 --> 00:11:49,720 You know how how sometimes how 375 00:11:48,220 --> 00:11:52,380 simple it is to change our 376 00:11:49,780 --> 00:11:53,860 lives. Um so, well, well done. 377 00:11:52,460 --> 00:11:55,520 What about you? What's what's 378 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:58,720 your vision for you? Oh, man. 379 00:11:55,580 --> 00:12:00,300 Um I'm I'm sure you've heard 380 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:02,500 this many times but to change 381 00:12:02,500 --> 00:12:06,340 the world, to change the world, 382 00:12:04,700 --> 00:12:08,040 but through again, every 383 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:10,840 leader, every man or woman that 384 00:12:08,100 --> 00:12:12,280 I work with, they're changing 385 00:12:10,900 --> 00:12:13,180 all the people that they're 386 00:12:12,340 --> 00:12:14,140 working with and they're 387 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,440 helping them heal and that's 388 00:12:14,220 --> 00:12:17,020 impacting their children and 389 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,520 their legacy and so, it's just, 390 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:20,020 I envision it through like that 391 00:12:18,580 --> 00:12:23,460 ripple effect of how I can help 392 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:25,060 you so deeply. I love it. 393 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,820 Absolutely. I I remember when 394 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:29,520 Steve Jobs, at least in the 395 00:12:26,900 --> 00:12:30,960 movie, um said, I'm going to 396 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,460 make a dent in the universe. 397 00:12:32,460 --> 00:12:35,600 I'm going to make a dent in the 398 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:39,080 movie and my immediate thought 399 00:12:35,680 --> 00:12:42,380 was, I do that every day. Um 400 00:12:39,140 --> 00:12:44,880 and we all do. What are your 401 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:46,580 thoughts on that? Um I 402 00:12:44,940 --> 00:12:48,180 completely completely agree. 403 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,780 Whether it's, you know, we're 404 00:12:48,260 --> 00:12:51,460 living unconsciously. We are, 405 00:12:49,860 --> 00:12:53,860 we're pouring out from that 406 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:55,860 place and we can adapt those 407 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,820 those beliefs or pour them on, 408 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:57,960 right? A lot of the things that 409 00:12:56,900 --> 00:12:59,200 we believe have come from 410 00:12:58,020 --> 00:13:01,160 somebody who is unconsciously 411 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:07,160 a positive or a negative but 412 00:13:03,060 --> 00:13:09,240 again, when you are consciously 413 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,600 creating everything that you 414 00:13:09,300 --> 00:13:12,140 do, I believe we're all 415 00:13:10,680 --> 00:13:15,080 connected. So, the work that I 416 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:16,680 do within is connected to 417 00:13:15,140 --> 00:13:18,140 everything, to everybody. I 418 00:13:16,740 --> 00:13:20,120 believe that we all have that 419 00:13:18,220 --> 00:13:21,980 that divine within us, the 420 00:13:20,180 --> 00:13:23,520 connection. Yeah, we we often 421 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:25,080 minimize this human beings the 422 00:13:23,580 --> 00:13:26,360 power of saying hello to 423 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,560 somebody, right? And we but we 424 00:13:26,420 --> 00:13:30,160 talk about the value of it in 425 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:34,000 the moment, internalizing it, 426 00:13:32,700 --> 00:13:35,140 allowing that to be a good deed 427 00:13:34,060 --> 00:13:36,240 for yourself, like allowing 428 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,340 yourself to embrace the fact 429 00:13:36,300 --> 00:13:38,740 that you did something awesome 430 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,200 in that moment. Like, that's 431 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,800 something that I strive to 432 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:43,580 remember and I strive to help 433 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:45,040 my kiddos as well. Remember 434 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:47,840 like, those those things matter 435 00:13:45,100 --> 00:13:49,120 a lot. Um and so, anyway, let's 436 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:50,420 we're going to go the exact 437 00:13:49,180 --> 00:13:51,120 opposite direction though. 438 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,120 We're going to talk about 439 00:13:51,180 --> 00:13:54,680 something very dark. Oh, good. 440 00:13:53,180 --> 00:13:57,160 What's the worst leadership 441 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:59,160 experience that you've ever 442 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:04,140 had? You know, anybody else or 443 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:06,940 me having a leader like guiding 444 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:08,640 me? My frame for it would be 445 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,180 whichever story or experience 446 00:14:08,700 --> 00:14:14,240 you feel will help the 447 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:14,240 audience most. 448 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,820 And I believe that this kind of 449 00:14:15,420 --> 00:14:19,180 comes back down to, you know, 450 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:22,580 the work that I do but I 451 00:14:19,260 --> 00:14:24,360 remember having a leader who 452 00:14:22,660 --> 00:14:26,020 would always say like, you have 453 00:14:24,420 --> 00:14:27,500 this because of me and you were 454 00:14:26,100 --> 00:14:29,100 this because of me and you 455 00:14:29,100 --> 00:14:33,000 were this because of me. Yeah. 456 00:14:30,700 --> 00:14:34,900 You know, it was this degree. 457 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:37,840 Um like you're, you've got all 458 00:14:34,980 --> 00:14:39,140 this because of me and I 459 00:14:37,900 --> 00:14:41,620 remember that and thinking, no, 460 00:14:39,220 --> 00:14:42,640 that's not true but 461 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:46,720 subconsciously, right? When you 462 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:48,060 hear things enough, you most of 463 00:14:46,780 --> 00:14:49,660 the time will start to believe 464 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:52,060 them and so then you start to 465 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:54,720 live out that, you know, that 466 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:57,360 that smallness. Oh, that hurts. 467 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:01,860 Yeah. So, you know, it's it's 468 00:14:59,920 --> 00:15:04,300 it's a lot of people that can 469 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:05,900 be like that in your life. Um 470 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,400 you know, and setting your 471 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:08,800 healthy boundaries, right? 472 00:15:07,460 --> 00:15:11,500 Making sure you recognize those 473 00:15:08,860 --> 00:15:13,100 instances is super important. 474 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,700 Um let's talk about the opposite. 475 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:18,380 What's the best leadership 476 00:15:14,780 --> 00:15:21,380 experience that you've ever had? 477 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:23,420 Um it's the people that I've 478 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:26,280 worked with now who are who are 479 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:30,820 the people that they just help 480 00:15:29,020 --> 00:15:32,280 me step into the best version 481 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:33,720 of myself, right? They aren't 482 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:35,560 creating the clone of them 483 00:15:33,780 --> 00:15:38,900 because that's not the point. 484 00:15:35,620 --> 00:15:40,220 Um so, to really, I remember 485 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,720 closer to when I started my 486 00:15:40,300 --> 00:15:43,260 business, it was like the the 487 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:46,260 first real mentors I'd worked 488 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:49,940 with and they really helped me 489 00:15:46,340 --> 00:15:51,400 step into to my value and to I 490 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,300 was selling myself short in 491 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:55,080 things I was doing and that was 492 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:58,880 something that I hadn't worked 493 00:15:56,940 --> 00:16:01,420 through and they really helped 494 00:15:58,940 --> 00:16:02,440 me step into to the power and 495 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,840 what I had and break through 496 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:05,220 those barriers but it was about 497 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,680 about me and what felt good to 498 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,380 me, right? And my mission, it 499 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:09,860 wasn't them telling me this is 500 00:16:08,460 --> 00:16:11,320 you know, how they did it. This 501 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,260 is how I have to do it and I've 502 00:16:11,380 --> 00:16:16,020 worked with both types of 503 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:17,320 people and I I don't believe 504 00:16:16,100 --> 00:16:18,800 there's a one size fits all. I 505 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:20,460 believe it's about guiding 506 00:16:18,860 --> 00:16:23,440 somebody to their gifts and how 507 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:28,000 they're going to do it. You 508 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:29,000 don't have to spill the beans 509 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:31,480 and put you on the spot live. I 510 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:34,180 know that. Are you are you going 511 00:16:31,540 --> 00:16:35,440 to reveal who this you know, 512 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:37,940 magic mentor was the the 513 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:40,420 original one? Um the very 514 00:16:38,020 --> 00:16:41,920 original one. I I or one who's 515 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,880 super awesome that that helped 516 00:16:41,980 --> 00:16:44,460 with that. It's just that you 517 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:45,160 gave that story. I'm like, man, 518 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,660 I always want the source. You 519 00:16:45,220 --> 00:16:49,360 know, I'm like a journalist. 520 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:50,820 Yeah. Um they are I I think 521 00:16:49,420 --> 00:16:52,760 they've changed their name a 522 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:57,960 little bit by now. Um and this 523 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:59,560 was nice. Maybe about three, 524 00:16:58,020 --> 00:17:00,760 four years ago, I think when it 525 00:16:59,620 --> 00:17:01,960 was like I was in the 526 00:17:00,820 --> 00:17:03,400 transition of my business and 527 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,960 the first pivot of about three 528 00:17:03,460 --> 00:17:08,000 that I've taken as I've I've 529 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:09,740 grown. Um but yeah, it was it 530 00:17:08,060 --> 00:17:11,300 was them and it was I went to 531 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,780 them for business and it's also 532 00:17:11,380 --> 00:17:14,080 what taught me how to coach 533 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,080 essentially the way I do is 534 00:17:14,140 --> 00:17:16,140 because I work with the 535 00:17:15,140 --> 00:17:17,680 multi-dimensional because 536 00:17:16,220 --> 00:17:19,180 everything is tied, right? The 537 00:17:17,740 --> 00:17:22,080 business, the mind, the the 538 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:26,060 people that they were going to 539 00:17:24,860 --> 00:17:27,520 help me so much with just like 540 00:17:26,120 --> 00:17:28,920 my own beliefs that have been 541 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:30,400 blocking me. So, um I'm still 542 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:32,400 in contact with one of them. 543 00:17:30,460 --> 00:17:33,360 That's awesome. That's very 544 00:17:32,460 --> 00:17:34,340 cool. Well, thank you for 545 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,360 sharing the source. It's not 546 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:36,800 always, you know, sometimes 547 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,640 your secret recipes and secret 548 00:17:36,860 --> 00:17:40,040 things that that don't get 549 00:17:38,700 --> 00:17:41,540 shared. Um but we just got one 550 00:17:40,100 --> 00:17:44,540 of the the great ones of yours. 551 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:46,940 So, if this were the last 552 00:17:44,620 --> 00:17:48,640 chance ever to share a lesson 553 00:17:47,020 --> 00:17:49,920 with the world, what powerful 554 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:51,880 lesson can other visionaries 555 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:56,820 have? I know that feeling. 556 00:17:53,920 --> 00:18:02,760 That's a really, really deep 557 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:04,300 question. Um oh man. I whether 558 00:18:02,820 --> 00:18:05,800 it's a leader or just a human 559 00:18:04,360 --> 00:18:08,140 being in general or an 560 00:18:05,860 --> 00:18:09,660 entrepreneur, it's it's really 561 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,100 that everything is a mirror. I 562 00:18:09,740 --> 00:18:12,840 really like to transition 563 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,900 people from the word trigger to 564 00:18:12,900 --> 00:18:17,300 a mirror and when you can look 565 00:18:14,980 --> 00:18:18,880 at everything as a reflection 566 00:18:17,380 --> 00:18:20,340 back to you of it's trying to 567 00:18:18,940 --> 00:18:21,840 show you something so that you 568 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:24,860 can take it away. You're taking 569 00:18:23,420 --> 00:18:26,560 this radical responsibility for 570 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:27,660 that you're empowered. It's a 571 00:18:26,620 --> 00:18:29,060 mirror back to you instead of 572 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,660 this trigger which when you use 573 00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:32,260 the word trigger, sometimes it 574 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:35,960 can make you feel like your 575 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:37,560 power is being taken away. Um 576 00:18:36,020 --> 00:18:39,060 and so, transitioning that view 577 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,840 in my life, everything is a 578 00:18:39,140 --> 00:18:43,300 mirror and it's happening for 579 00:18:40,900 --> 00:18:44,640 me. Like, the world just opened 580 00:18:43,380 --> 00:18:45,740 up. I'm like, okay, this is 581 00:18:44,700 --> 00:18:46,840 just here to show me. I asked 582 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:47,780 for this new level. Of course, 583 00:18:46,900 --> 00:18:49,180 there's a challenge. Of course, 584 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:51,180 there's this because this new 585 00:18:51,180 --> 00:18:55,620 level is what it is. So, cool. 586 00:18:53,220 --> 00:18:57,560 This is what's going to get me 587 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:59,520 there. That's awesome. I like 588 00:18:57,620 --> 00:19:00,960 that and I'm going to need to 589 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,060 do some heavy meditation on 590 00:19:01,020 --> 00:19:03,600 that as well. That's one of 591 00:19:02,120 --> 00:19:07,100 those quotes where it's like, 592 00:19:03,660 --> 00:19:08,600 oh, that is so profound. If I 593 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:10,100 like, I would just be pretending 594 00:19:08,660 --> 00:19:12,140 if I'm reacting to it 595 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:13,300 immediately but that is 596 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,540 something that I have to study 597 00:19:13,380 --> 00:19:17,180 out because both the concepts 598 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:18,540 of mirrors and triggers are so 599 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,340 powerful. It's like, okay, wait 600 00:19:20,340 --> 00:19:23,260 a minute. I'm going to accept 601 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:25,240 the reality of what you just 602 00:19:23,340 --> 00:19:26,940 said about mirrors or I get to 603 00:19:25,300 --> 00:19:28,200 but I'm going to I'm going to 604 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,700 go meditate and walk on that 605 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,780 later. So, we're going to hear 606 00:19:29,780 --> 00:19:32,880 about that. I love it. What's 607 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,880 up? I look forward to hearing 608 00:19:32,940 --> 00:19:36,580 about it. Oh, good. I'll follow 609 00:19:34,940 --> 00:19:37,620 up on it and then for sure. 610 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,720 That's that's so we we we 611 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,020 already got that quote out 612 00:19:38,780 --> 00:19:41,280 there for everybody too. You 613 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,780 can you can go see that. We 614 00:19:41,360 --> 00:19:44,320 turn that into an awesome meme 615 00:19:42,860 --> 00:19:45,780 later and say like, yeah, I 616 00:19:44,380 --> 00:19:46,760 get that. So, if I if I end up 617 00:19:45,860 --> 00:19:48,020 doing the quote wrong, Natalia, 618 00:19:46,820 --> 00:19:48,900 we're going to want your 619 00:19:48,900 --> 00:19:51,660 comments. We're going to want 620 00:19:49,820 --> 00:19:54,300 your comments. Those words are 621 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:55,860 are worth they're worth 622 00:19:54,360 --> 00:19:58,140 everything. Um a lot of times. 623 00:19:55,940 --> 00:19:59,340 So, let's go to the next 624 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,540 segment. We're going to be 625 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,600 talking about that boldy 626 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:03,980 stepping into inherent 627 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:07,880 worthiness. So, what is the 628 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:09,740 what is inherent worthiness? 629 00:20:07,940 --> 00:20:11,340 How before we even boldly step 630 00:20:09,820 --> 00:20:12,820 into it? What does that mean 631 00:20:11,420 --> 00:20:16,020 for people that might be new 632 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:17,860 to? Oh, inherent worthiness. It 633 00:20:17,860 --> 00:20:21,840 is what you have always have 634 00:20:19,700 --> 00:20:23,840 been like it is of you. Like 635 00:20:21,900 --> 00:20:25,300 priceless. Yeah, you're not 636 00:20:23,900 --> 00:20:27,780 broken. You've never been 637 00:20:25,380 --> 00:20:29,140 broken like you even when it 638 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,520 comes to our healing journey, 639 00:20:29,220 --> 00:20:31,940 people can define themselves by 640 00:20:30,580 --> 00:20:33,580 their healing journey and 641 00:20:32,020 --> 00:20:35,180 that's that's that takes away 642 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,860 your power again. Like you are 643 00:20:35,260 --> 00:20:38,820 worthy right here right now and 644 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,820 so that that is your inherent 645 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:44,820 worthiness that knowing that, 646 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:46,420 oh, I am I love that and so 647 00:20:46,420 --> 00:20:49,520 that's that's the step into 648 00:20:48,020 --> 00:20:51,320 that and let's let's choose to 649 00:20:49,580 --> 00:20:53,320 go from the angle from thinking 650 00:20:51,380 --> 00:20:54,820 through like the as close to 651 00:20:53,380 --> 00:20:56,460 the typical avatar as we could 652 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,620 of visionaries, leaders, 653 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,120 entrepreneurs. I know that's 654 00:20:57,700 --> 00:21:01,400 still all over the place but 655 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,860 what does that look like? Um so 656 00:21:01,460 --> 00:21:04,400 yeah, as a vision as an 657 00:21:02,940 --> 00:21:07,060 entrepreneur especially, 658 00:21:04,460 --> 00:21:08,440 right? An entrepreneur is a 659 00:21:07,140 --> 00:21:11,840 special breed of person. It is 660 00:21:08,500 --> 00:21:14,340 somebody who is going out there 661 00:21:11,900 --> 00:21:15,840 ready to make it happen, right? 662 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:19,080 So, you know, I love working 663 00:21:17,420 --> 00:21:20,880 with entrepreneurs as I am on 664 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:22,460 myself. I know that feeling of, 665 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:24,060 you know, there's more. So, 666 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:26,720 right there, you already have 667 00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:28,920 that that insight. You're 668 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:31,760 already tapped into it. Um but 669 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:34,760 then, we we shrink ourselves 670 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:36,360 because the world, right? The 671 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,540 world says, you need to be this 672 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,840 way. You need to do it this 673 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,400 way. You should or shouldn't 674 00:21:38,900 --> 00:21:41,880 work this much. You should like 675 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,840 be a stay at home parent or you 676 00:21:41,940 --> 00:21:44,340 shouldn't be a stay at home 677 00:21:44,340 --> 00:21:47,820 parent. You should be a 678 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,060 entrepreneur. Right? And when 679 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,860 we start falling into that, 680 00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:54,260 which many people do, that's 681 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:56,420 what blocked us from stepping 682 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:58,960 into our authentic self which 683 00:21:56,500 --> 00:22:00,160 is really what grows that 684 00:21:59,020 --> 00:22:03,760 business like I talked about in 685 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:05,240 the aligned and divine way 686 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,940 versus we can create a business 687 00:22:05,300 --> 00:22:09,500 that's based on stress and 688 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:10,980 pillars of XYZ but most of the 689 00:22:09,580 --> 00:22:11,980 time when people do that and 690 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:12,680 I'll work with them and meet 691 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,940 them in the middle a lot of 692 00:22:13,940 --> 00:22:17,940 the time, it wasn't from like 693 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:19,220 worthiness. It was I want this 694 00:22:18,020 --> 00:22:20,920 but then I start sacrificing 695 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,380 all of the things that are the 696 00:22:20,980 --> 00:22:23,720 reasons I wanted to create this 697 00:22:22,460 --> 00:22:25,160 in the first place, right? The 698 00:22:23,780 --> 00:22:28,820 relationships, the health, the 699 00:22:25,220 --> 00:22:30,020 joy. Um and so, the deeper that 700 00:22:28,900 --> 00:22:33,860 you get into your worthiness, 701 00:22:30,100 --> 00:22:35,860 what it really looks like is 702 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:38,800 you're bold and you're brave 703 00:22:35,940 --> 00:22:39,940 and you almost embrace people 704 00:22:38,860 --> 00:22:41,500 are going to love me or they're 705 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,480 going to hate me and that has 706 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:47,440 to do with actually using your 707 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,840 voice and their gifts I have. 708 00:22:47,500 --> 00:22:51,340 Like I'm I personally am in I'm 709 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,480 an intuitive channel. It is a 710 00:22:51,420 --> 00:22:54,220 gift. It's a spiritual gift 711 00:22:52,540 --> 00:22:55,420 that I have. I used to be 712 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,920 terrified while speaking about 713 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,520 it because I'm like, I know 714 00:22:56,980 --> 00:23:00,820 some people don't agree with 715 00:22:58,580 --> 00:23:02,120 this or but it's it's part of 716 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,520 my gift and that's what aligns 717 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:07,500 me with the people that I meant 718 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:09,060 to serve and so that's really 719 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,600 what I help people do is they 720 00:23:09,140 --> 00:23:12,840 step more into their worth and 721 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,980 they don't sacrifice their 722 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,520 health anymore because they 723 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:20,280 know their health pours into 724 00:23:17,580 --> 00:23:21,780 everything else. They stop 725 00:23:20,360 --> 00:23:23,960 allowing themselves to bottle 726 00:23:21,860 --> 00:23:25,320 up emotions and realize that 727 00:23:24,020 --> 00:23:26,760 they're allowed to feel them. 728 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,300 They're meant to feel them. 729 00:23:26,820 --> 00:23:30,860 Their feelings are valid and 730 00:23:29,360 --> 00:23:32,000 also start doing the brave 731 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,400 things that have been sitting 732 00:23:32,060 --> 00:23:34,740 on the back of their mind that 733 00:23:33,460 --> 00:23:36,040 they have not done because they 734 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,840 feel like they have to fit into 735 00:23:36,100 --> 00:23:39,700 this box. So, the more you step 736 00:23:37,900 --> 00:23:41,280 into your worthiness, the more 737 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,640 you're going to be able to 738 00:23:42,940 --> 00:23:45,440 feel the way you are. You're 739 00:23:44,700 --> 00:23:47,280 the suit and tie kind of person 740 00:23:45,500 --> 00:23:48,680 or maybe you're more like me. I 741 00:23:47,340 --> 00:23:50,280 like to get really dressed up 742 00:23:48,740 --> 00:23:52,180 but I also am a super free 743 00:23:50,340 --> 00:23:53,880 spirited hippie gal who likes to 744 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,520 wear whatever and I I share 745 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,560 that on my social media too and 746 00:23:55,580 --> 00:23:59,260 it doesn't discredit me and the 747 00:23:57,620 --> 00:24:00,720 magic that I can work with 748 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,620 people but that was a belief 749 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,200 that I used to hold that I had 750 00:24:01,700 --> 00:24:06,260 to look a certain way to work 751 00:24:04,260 --> 00:24:07,700 certain people and I don't 752 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,300 believe any of that to be true 753 00:24:09,300 --> 00:24:13,140 because it's it's it's when you 754 00:24:10,980 --> 00:24:14,740 can embrace the fact that yes, 755 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,340 certain people will call you 756 00:24:14,820 --> 00:24:18,020 out even as you leaders, you 757 00:24:16,420 --> 00:24:21,620 know, it can be uncomfortable 758 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:23,220 with with very superficial 759 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,760 external changes that exist and 760 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:27,420 it's it's often surprising to 761 00:24:25,820 --> 00:24:29,820 me but II like to stand out 762 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:32,420 because of that because it makes 763 00:24:29,900 --> 00:24:33,860 it easy to recognize who's got 764 00:24:32,500 --> 00:24:36,160 limiting beliefs and who 765 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:41,740 doesn't have a lot of faith in 766 00:24:38,140 --> 00:24:43,180 you and people who say like, oh, 767 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,540 your your pictures need updated 768 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:47,440 and there's a reflection, right? 769 00:24:45,620 --> 00:24:49,040 For them on a mirror. They're 770 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,520 worried about their own way of 771 00:24:49,120 --> 00:24:53,160 showing up and I just I find it 772 00:24:51,580 --> 00:24:54,660 funny, you know, because I know 773 00:24:53,220 --> 00:24:56,520 who I am. I know where I am. I 774 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:58,160 know what I do. I know why, 775 00:24:56,580 --> 00:25:01,160 right? And so, it's it's a 776 00:24:58,220 --> 00:25:03,100 really fun way to recognize, 777 00:25:01,220 --> 00:25:05,700 you know, who's comfortable in 778 00:25:05,700 --> 00:25:09,240 the room and it's still a little 779 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,600 bit of a mindset challenge for 780 00:25:09,300 --> 00:25:13,140 me because I've never grown it 781 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:15,740 out. So, this is the first time 782 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:18,220 I've gone through that and it's 783 00:25:15,820 --> 00:25:19,820 at a time in my life where I do 784 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:22,020 have such a deep appreciation 785 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,580 for who I am but I did not. 786 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,260 That's not how I grew up. That's 787 00:25:23,660 --> 00:25:27,120 not what I understood and knew 788 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:29,320 for the time I was five until 789 00:25:27,180 --> 00:25:30,560 the time I was about thirty. Um 790 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,520 you know, there's a big 791 00:25:30,620 --> 00:25:35,500 struggle. Thank you. Period. 792 00:25:35,500 --> 00:25:40,060 I'm not sure I can go deep on 793 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,360 those. Oh. So, I do gotta ask 794 00:25:40,140 --> 00:25:42,440 though. So, I wanna I wanna 795 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,840 stay focused on this higher 796 00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:45,440 level for now. Um because I 797 00:25:43,900 --> 00:25:46,940 know that that everybody who's 798 00:25:45,500 --> 00:25:48,480 trying to get to the higher 799 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,980 level can also benefit 800 00:25:48,540 --> 00:25:51,480 tremendously from you but I'm 801 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:54,440 actually gonna let this time 802 00:25:51,540 --> 00:25:55,840 almost selfishly a little bit. 803 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:59,380 Um the entrepreneurs that are 804 00:25:55,920 --> 00:26:02,320 out there, there's a I see a 805 00:25:59,460 --> 00:26:03,920 challenge with being authentic 806 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,800 and I see some people 807 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:10,340 leveraging that to justify not 808 00:26:07,860 --> 00:26:11,900 willing to be accountable and 809 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:14,300 that's hard because if you're 810 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:16,940 wanting to be truly next level, 811 00:26:14,380 --> 00:26:18,440 you know, Lebron James, you 812 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:21,840 know, I think he loves who he 813 00:26:18,500 --> 00:26:23,620 is and I I don't see him doing 814 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:27,380 things that showcase that he 815 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:29,160 doubts that too often and if 816 00:26:27,460 --> 00:26:30,360 somebody were to come to him 817 00:26:29,220 --> 00:26:31,460 and say like, hey, here's the 818 00:26:30,420 --> 00:26:32,620 things that you've gotta do to 819 00:26:32,620 --> 00:26:35,260 be honest with you. I'm happy 820 00:26:33,820 --> 00:26:37,900 with who I am and I'm doing my 821 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:39,460 best. So, thanks very much. Um 822 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:41,060 how do you fall? How do you not 823 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,560 fall into that trap where 824 00:26:41,120 --> 00:26:44,660 somebody's trying to help you 825 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,040 move forward but you're 826 00:26:44,740 --> 00:26:47,500 justifying the fact that you 827 00:26:46,100 --> 00:26:49,500 have a gift so you shouldn't 828 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:51,180 have to like change other 829 00:26:49,580 --> 00:26:53,040 things. What causes that and 830 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,480 how do you be be accountable 831 00:26:53,100 --> 00:26:55,840 when you think that everything 832 00:26:54,540 --> 00:26:57,140 is as perfect as it is? I have 833 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,040 my answer but I'm very curious 834 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:04,800 because I'm very fascinated. 835 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:07,800 Yes, it is. So, yeah. Uh so, 836 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:09,240 first of all, I if somebody 837 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,640 tells me this is who I am and 838 00:27:09,300 --> 00:27:11,640 I'm not changing like I 839 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,440 instantly know the 840 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,880 conversation is not going to go 841 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,480 much further because that is 842 00:27:13,940 --> 00:27:18,020 just that's where they're stuck 843 00:27:15,540 --> 00:27:20,060 and the first thing I think to 844 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:22,260 say is you cannot help anybody 845 00:27:20,120 --> 00:27:24,460 if they are not open to 846 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,420 receiving. Yeah. Right? And it 847 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,760 doesn't matter if it's. So, how 848 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:32,700 do you recognize if you're that 849 00:27:29,220 --> 00:27:34,220 person, right? Who's you know, 850 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,660 and and I put perfect up here, 851 00:27:34,300 --> 00:27:37,200 you know, I know people have 852 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,960 very mixed feelings about that 853 00:27:37,260 --> 00:27:42,000 word. So, perfect versus the 854 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:43,340 accountability of you know, 855 00:27:42,060 --> 00:27:44,340 what if somebody's coming to 856 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,800 you and they're offering you an 857 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,600 opportunity to improve your 858 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,480 life and it really would be a 859 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:52,340 wholesome improvement but your 860 00:27:49,540 --> 00:27:54,680 nature like my nature is like, 861 00:27:52,420 --> 00:27:55,780 well, you know, I I could do 862 00:27:55,780 --> 00:27:59,820 that. So, how do you progress 863 00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:03,800 if you're already perfect how 864 00:27:59,900 --> 00:28:03,800 you are? 865 00:28:04,100 --> 00:28:08,340 I think we are perfect in the 866 00:28:06,660 --> 00:28:09,900 sense that we are all unique 867 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,800 but we're also human, right? 868 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:14,200 We're we're human. So, 869 00:28:11,860 --> 00:28:15,780 imperfectly perfect but if we 870 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,780 are somebody who wants to reach 871 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:20,540 that next level, I do believe 872 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:24,780 it's holding that energy of 873 00:28:24,780 --> 00:28:30,340 looking at who you are taking 874 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,620 the advice from. So, I think 875 00:28:30,420 --> 00:28:32,780 that's where the discernment 876 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,780 comes in. If it's somebody who 877 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,980 isn't where you want to be is 878 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,380 making like none of what they're 879 00:28:36,060 --> 00:28:38,780 doing is reflecting back to the 880 00:28:37,460 --> 00:28:40,220 life you're trying to build. 881 00:28:38,860 --> 00:28:41,220 Then, that's discernment of 882 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,720 maybe that's not somebody you 883 00:28:41,300 --> 00:28:46,500 want to take that, you know, 884 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:48,100 advice from but also being open 885 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,500 to be coachable and allowing 886 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,740 yourself to live in that energy 887 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,300 of I want the best and I know 888 00:28:52,300 --> 00:28:56,440 that's not something that I 889 00:28:53,740 --> 00:28:58,300 want to do personally if I'm 890 00:28:56,500 --> 00:28:59,740 not learning, I you go 891 00:28:58,380 --> 00:29:01,540 backwards, right? We'll always 892 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,940 be open to learn and also being 893 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:06,320 able to sit with something like 894 00:29:03,020 --> 00:29:07,820 respond instead of react. So, I 895 00:29:06,380 --> 00:29:09,520 will tell people from my 896 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,080 personal perspective that I, 897 00:29:09,580 --> 00:29:12,560 you know, I love your feedback 898 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,320 and sometimes I still feel like 899 00:29:12,620 --> 00:29:15,920 when I say it, you know, my 900 00:29:14,380 --> 00:29:18,120 body's like, what's going to 901 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,800 happen but breathing through it 902 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:22,260 and saying whatever, yeah, 903 00:29:22,260 --> 00:29:25,800 whatever, you know, I can 904 00:29:24,700 --> 00:29:27,160 usually feel if someone's 905 00:29:25,860 --> 00:29:28,640 genuine or not, right? Okay, 906 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,640 this feedback is to help me be 907 00:29:28,700 --> 00:29:32,200 better and I truly do want to 908 00:29:30,700 --> 00:29:34,680 be better. So, how can I take 909 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:38,180 that without like you said, 910 00:29:34,740 --> 00:29:39,680 we're still knowing that I am 911 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,180 I'm worthy and it has nothing 912 00:29:39,740 --> 00:29:42,680 to do with my worth or what I'm 913 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:45,280 doing. It's just something that 914 00:29:42,740 --> 00:29:47,060 oh, maybe I can grow from. So, 915 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,660 I I really do believe it's it's 916 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,260 that mindset but it's somebody 917 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,120 has to get to the point where 918 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:57,400 you can't make it and again, 919 00:29:54,020 --> 00:29:59,300 you can't make it. I had a 920 00:29:57,460 --> 00:30:03,040 therapist blow my mind and put 921 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:04,840 me in my place. Um when I use 922 00:30:03,100 --> 00:30:07,340 the I was talking about the 923 00:30:04,900 --> 00:30:09,540 respond versus react reality 924 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:11,340 because I was responding in a 925 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,080 situation, right? Where I was 926 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:16,540 in therapy with another partner 927 00:30:13,140 --> 00:30:17,920 and he, you know, I was like, 928 00:30:16,620 --> 00:30:19,320 I don't know how to respond and 929 00:30:17,980 --> 00:30:20,920 he's like, he's like, you can 930 00:30:19,380 --> 00:30:21,920 react, you can respond and I'm 931 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:26,460 like, you can react and I was 932 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:28,860 like, there's a third level. 933 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,460 I was like, what? You know, I 934 00:30:28,940 --> 00:30:31,960 was, I was thinking, you know, 935 00:30:30,540 --> 00:30:33,260 it didn't take me very long to 936 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,440 to think through that and 937 00:30:33,340 --> 00:30:37,380 realize, oh my gosh, like that 938 00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:40,140 level of, you know, asking 939 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:42,340 somebody what they mean, right? 940 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:44,180 It's taking a step back from it 941 00:30:42,420 --> 00:30:45,380 even further and giving them a 942 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,780 full space and opportunity to 943 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,680 be themselves. Like, I was 944 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:51,460 like, oh, this guy's good. 945 00:30:51,460 --> 00:30:54,160 I'm like, I'm not going to 946 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,660 do that. You, you would, you 947 00:30:54,220 --> 00:30:57,460 kind of help me remember that. 948 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,460 I, it's something that we still 949 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,900 react and respond. We're human. 950 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,420 You know, we have survival 951 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,760 instincts too. Um and I have 952 00:31:02,500 --> 00:31:05,160 lots of things that can that 953 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,140 can create that within 954 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,800 ourselves and I'm so grateful 955 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,300 for Jonathan Decker who's no 956 00:31:08,860 --> 00:31:11,300 longer a therapist. I don't 957 00:31:10,380 --> 00:31:13,380 think he does like a some like 958 00:31:11,380 --> 00:31:15,380 movie YouTube thing now. Um but 959 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,880 he uh yeah, with your family 960 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,380 expert.com if it is still 961 00:31:16,940 --> 00:31:20,940 there. Um he made so many 962 00:31:20,940 --> 00:31:24,220 videos on Gottman Institute. 963 00:31:22,540 --> 00:31:25,920 So, if anybody wants the 964 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:27,380 original OG source, that's 965 00:31:25,980 --> 00:31:29,920 where where his stuff come 966 00:31:27,460 --> 00:31:31,360 from. Um continuing on this 967 00:31:29,980 --> 00:31:34,300 path though. Alright, so, what 968 00:31:31,420 --> 00:31:36,860 are some other things that uh 969 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:38,860 you know, elite thinkers can 970 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,260 dive into for, you know, and 971 00:31:38,940 --> 00:31:41,940 and I'm I'm not saying they're 972 00:31:40,340 --> 00:31:43,500 people who aren't elite 973 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:46,300 thinkers. So much as those who 974 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:48,140 really strive for maximizing 975 00:31:46,380 --> 00:31:49,580 their inherent worthiness so 976 00:31:49,580 --> 00:31:53,460 that they can have more 977 00:31:51,020 --> 00:31:54,560 modern, top secret 978 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:57,500 discoveries you've made, 979 00:31:54,620 --> 00:31:59,260 Natalia along your path to 980 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:01,360 center yourself, move into your 981 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:04,440 body as you talked about. Yeah, 982 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:06,140 um many people, men, or women 983 00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:07,500 in their high level. They're 984 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,900 very much in their masculine 985 00:32:07,580 --> 00:32:10,540 energy which isn't a bad thing 986 00:32:08,980 --> 00:32:13,340 to be in masculine or feminine, 987 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:15,720 right? We're we have both. Um 988 00:32:13,420 --> 00:32:16,780 but it can be in the 989 00:32:15,780 --> 00:32:18,280 terminology would be more like 990 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,280 the 991 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,260 and the holding on to things in 992 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:25,260 the micromanaging and all of 993 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:27,260 that. And so, first of all, like 994 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,760 whether it's a guide or a coach 995 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:30,260 or your training but look for 996 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,300 something that's different and 997 00:32:30,340 --> 00:32:33,240 I've had many people come to me 998 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,840 because I am different because 999 00:32:33,300 --> 00:32:36,300 I can help you tap into that 1000 00:32:34,900 --> 00:32:37,240 softness, the receiving, and it 1001 00:32:36,380 --> 00:32:40,280 doesn't matter if you're a man 1002 00:32:37,300 --> 00:32:42,240 or a woman but many things that 1003 00:32:40,340 --> 00:32:44,920 you want like on that that 1004 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:47,280 deeper level, they come from 1005 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:51,120 the heart. I've even tried to 1006 00:32:49,580 --> 00:32:52,760 like give a compliment or 1007 00:32:51,180 --> 00:32:54,260 receive one. A lot of times, 1008 00:32:52,820 --> 00:32:55,720 it takes people practice to 1009 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,360 receive, just receive and say 1010 00:32:55,780 --> 00:32:58,200 thank you and not have to give 1011 00:32:56,420 --> 00:33:00,800 a compliment back which is just 1012 00:32:58,260 --> 00:33:02,400 you know, an example of that 1013 00:33:00,860 --> 00:33:05,700 but the elite thinkers of your 1014 00:33:02,460 --> 00:33:08,300 inherit worthiness, it's not 1015 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:10,700 it's not analytical. It's not 1016 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:12,200 the brain and as a high level 1017 00:33:10,780 --> 00:33:13,700 person, a lot of times, you're 1018 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,380 trying to find the analytics 1019 00:33:15,380 --> 00:33:19,220 that you need to be able to 1020 00:33:16,980 --> 00:33:22,220 capture and connect with your 1021 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:23,720 body and so that's what I would 1022 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:25,120 suggest with a lot of times, 1023 00:33:23,780 --> 00:33:26,580 I'll teach people just breath 1024 00:33:25,180 --> 00:33:27,980 work that helps them, you know, 1025 00:33:26,660 --> 00:33:29,420 connect with their body and 1026 00:33:28,060 --> 00:33:30,960 that's something you could do 1027 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:33,920 in 3 minutes to just start 1028 00:33:31,020 --> 00:33:36,400 bringing yourself in here and 1029 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:39,440 we have this intuitive gift to 1030 00:33:36,460 --> 00:33:40,940 actually know but we have shut 1031 00:33:39,500 --> 00:33:43,940 it down for so long and we're 1032 00:33:43,940 --> 00:33:48,380 just very quiet and so the more 1033 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,020 that you take the time to just 1034 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,880 allow yourself that space to 1035 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,420 to connect and to do that, it's 1036 00:33:51,940 --> 00:33:55,720 going to help you drop into 1037 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:57,220 more of what do I really want 1038 00:33:55,780 --> 00:33:59,060 and I will tell you, I've worked 1039 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:01,360 with many people who even their 1040 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,900 vision of like their their 1041 00:34:01,420 --> 00:34:04,360 desires, right? Work together 1042 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:06,300 about a month or two and all 1043 00:34:04,420 --> 00:34:08,360 of a sudden, I'm like, okay, 1044 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:10,360 we'll get to their joy. They're 1045 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,740 their wants and needs. The 1046 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,740 vision that they were aspiring 1047 00:34:12,740 --> 00:34:16,580 to have is like what they would 1048 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:18,380 see in the world that this is 1049 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,580 the vision and their vision 1050 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,680 would look completely the 1051 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,920 opposite and so we start 1052 00:34:20,740 --> 00:34:23,380 aligning their life in that way 1053 00:34:21,980 --> 00:34:24,760 and all of a sudden, all these 1054 00:34:23,460 --> 00:34:26,160 doors, all these things just 1055 00:34:24,820 --> 00:34:27,960 start happening for them and 1056 00:34:26,220 --> 00:34:29,220 their business grows and this 1057 00:34:28,020 --> 00:34:30,620 thing that they actually really 1058 00:34:29,300 --> 00:34:32,260 did want is right there. It's 1059 00:34:30,700 --> 00:34:33,860 been there all along. So, it's 1060 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,160 yeah, it's just getting out of 1061 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,660 your head and what you're seeing 1062 00:34:35,220 --> 00:34:40,240 and getting into your heart and 1063 00:34:40,240 --> 00:34:46,400 you're like, I love that and so 1064 00:34:43,740 --> 00:34:47,980 the and side of that, I would 1065 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,180 say the and is the opposite is 1066 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,780 also often true with elite 1067 00:34:50,240 --> 00:34:54,480 with elite performers. A lot of 1068 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:57,880 musicians for instance, the 1069 00:34:54,540 --> 00:35:01,220 musicians, the you know, the 1070 00:34:57,940 --> 00:35:03,460 athletes, even the the nurturers 1071 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:05,220 of the world. Sometimes, people 1072 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,660 use masculine and feminine as 1073 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,800 well for that. I tend to use 1074 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:12,680 masculine individuals. I know 1075 00:35:10,900 --> 00:35:14,580 they love to think with their 1076 00:35:12,740 --> 00:35:15,680 mind, right? They're they're 1077 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,140 it's a no-brainer, right? That 1078 00:35:15,740 --> 00:35:18,740 deal for business. It's a 1079 00:35:17,220 --> 00:35:20,220 no-brainer. It's all going to 1080 00:35:18,820 --> 00:35:21,820 work out and their gut, their 1081 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,920 gut is telling them something 1082 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,880 else but they won't call it 1083 00:35:22,980 --> 00:35:25,320 their heart, right? Cuz it's 1084 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,820 masculine and it's not the 1085 00:35:25,380 --> 00:35:28,360 feelings. It's a gut thing. So, 1086 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,760 they they kind of try to avoid 1087 00:35:28,420 --> 00:35:30,760 that part but then next thing 1088 00:35:29,820 --> 00:35:32,020 you know, the business still 1089 00:35:30,820 --> 00:35:33,760 went south and somebody who did 1090 00:35:32,100 --> 00:35:34,700 have that heart instinct, I 1091 00:35:33,820 --> 00:35:35,800 don't, I'm not feeling right 1092 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,340 about this. Like, they knew it 1093 00:35:37,340 --> 00:35:41,320 was going to work out and a lot 1094 00:35:38,940 --> 00:35:42,920 of I've most a lot of women 1095 00:35:41,380 --> 00:35:45,260 that I've met have gotten in 1096 00:35:42,980 --> 00:35:46,780 abusive relationships and you 1097 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,260 know, they they have these 1098 00:35:46,860 --> 00:35:49,420 rose colored. They say they're 1099 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,560 rose colored sunglasses, 1100 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,460 rose shaded. Why do they say 1101 00:35:50,620 --> 00:35:53,060 that? What's that term? Rose 1102 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,100 rose colored glasses. Thank you. 1103 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,460 That's it. Rose colored glasses. 1104 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,560 I have it. Little self doubt 1105 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:59,060 jumping out there. Um so, and 1106 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,460 they, you know, their friends 1107 00:35:59,140 --> 00:36:02,000 and family are saying like, you 1108 00:36:00,540 --> 00:36:03,540 know, I don't know, like, it's 1109 00:36:02,060 --> 00:36:06,040 not adding up, you know, why why 1110 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:07,280 is he X, Y, or Z? And, you 1111 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,260 know, they'll put some virtual 1112 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,560 nuclear on you and they'll say, 1113 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:13,220 well, I prayed about it. You 1114 00:36:11,620 --> 00:36:16,220 know, it's like, you know, okay, 1115 00:36:13,300 --> 00:36:19,160 I I prayed and so, sometimes 1116 00:36:16,300 --> 00:36:21,400 that heart driven aspect leads 1117 00:36:19,240 --> 00:36:23,500 us to the wrong path as well. 1118 00:36:21,460 --> 00:36:25,240 Um and I shouldn't say the 1119 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,900 wrong path because we all these 1120 00:36:25,300 --> 00:36:28,280 are like you said, mirror, 1121 00:36:26,980 --> 00:36:30,240 right? All of these experiences 1122 00:36:28,340 --> 00:36:31,840 serve for our good. What I've 1123 00:36:30,300 --> 00:36:34,120 found though is that when my 1124 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:37,220 heart and my mind aligns, I got 1125 00:36:37,220 --> 00:36:41,320 to be, anyway, so that that 1126 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,820 alignment that being able to 1127 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:44,400 engage with both and being able 1128 00:36:42,900 --> 00:36:47,000 to take that space and step 1129 00:36:44,460 --> 00:36:50,240 back patiently where nobody 1130 00:36:47,060 --> 00:36:51,840 likes being patient. Um it's 1131 00:36:50,300 --> 00:36:53,240 it's something that can be 1132 00:36:51,900 --> 00:36:54,200 freeing but there are also 1133 00:36:53,300 --> 00:36:55,300 times in life where you don't 1134 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,480 get an answer and you just need 1135 00:36:55,380 --> 00:36:58,980 to learn. Yeah. And like how 1136 00:36:57,540 --> 00:37:00,240 you brought up the relationships, 1137 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,740 that's something that could be 1138 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:05,220 like a common pattern. I know 1139 00:37:01,820 --> 00:37:07,180 mine were until I, you know, 1140 00:37:07,180 --> 00:37:11,160 I was like, I have been in the 1141 00:37:09,220 --> 00:37:14,160 frequency of attracting this 1142 00:37:11,220 --> 00:37:15,620 and also justifying it, right? 1143 00:37:14,220 --> 00:37:17,160 It's different. It's it's 1144 00:37:15,700 --> 00:37:19,400 whatever but once again, you 1145 00:37:17,220 --> 00:37:22,400 actually look at that as a 1146 00:37:19,460 --> 00:37:23,940 mirror, you can transmute that 1147 00:37:22,460 --> 00:37:25,260 into something different and 1148 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:28,140 you heal that part of you that 1149 00:37:25,340 --> 00:37:29,200 was looking for whatever it is 1150 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,200 sometimes it's recreating your 1151 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,180 relationship with your father, 1152 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:34,780 you know, as a woman. Okay and 1153 00:37:34,780 --> 00:37:38,880 then finally, I am twice 1154 00:37:36,380 --> 00:37:40,660 divorced. You know, like I am 1155 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:42,220 not the god of wisdom on any of 1156 00:37:40,720 --> 00:37:44,760 these matters. I've got my own 1157 00:37:42,300 --> 00:37:47,800 challenges. I got four kiddos. 1158 00:37:44,820 --> 00:37:49,260 Um I do my best as a dad. Uh 1159 00:37:47,860 --> 00:37:51,740 these topics are not anybody's 1160 00:37:49,340 --> 00:37:52,700 to own. Um you know, as much as 1161 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,100 they are for human beings to 1162 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,040 explore with each other, that's 1163 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,000 how we exercise depth is 1164 00:37:56,100 --> 00:37:58,000 finding like, alright, well, 1165 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,580 wait, how do you see things? It 1166 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,180 gives us new perspectives. So, 1167 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:04,580 I'm going to circle back to one 1168 00:38:04,580 --> 00:38:08,960 of the things that I've always 1169 00:38:07,980 --> 00:38:10,520 been very grateful for people 1170 00:38:09,020 --> 00:38:12,020 who are not qualified to be 1171 00:38:10,580 --> 00:38:13,660 mentors and we talked about 1172 00:38:12,100 --> 00:38:15,020 that earlier. Um about how like 1173 00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:17,000 you know, making sure people are 1174 00:38:15,100 --> 00:38:20,140 are qualified. I'd like to add 1175 00:38:17,060 --> 00:38:22,500 to that as well. making sure 1176 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:24,000 that the the advice is sound of 1177 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:26,000 their intuition. So, I was in in 1178 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,600 a grocery store line and this 1179 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,580 lady was being offered to her 1180 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,780 child just horrible to this 1181 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:33,380 little girl and I was like, you 1182 00:38:33,380 --> 00:38:36,280 know, this little girl just 1183 00:38:34,980 --> 00:38:37,360 wants to see the candy thing. I 1184 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,660 was like, you know, I'm trying 1185 00:38:37,420 --> 00:38:40,220 to help and she didn't say 1186 00:38:38,720 --> 00:38:41,460 anything. Um but like it was 1187 00:38:40,300 --> 00:38:43,820 such a bad experience that I 1188 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,360 told my sisters about it and 1189 00:38:43,900 --> 00:38:47,500 whichever sisters it was, they 1190 00:38:45,420 --> 00:38:48,940 were like, like, who's like, 1191 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,340 how do you have the right to 1192 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,800 judge her for being, you know, 1193 00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,300 a mom and and you know, they 1194 00:38:51,860 --> 00:38:54,340 they railed me about this. Like 1195 00:38:53,380 --> 00:38:55,780 what are you doing sipping in 1196 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,980 there? And so, I went to my 1197 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,480 wife at the time and I and I 1198 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,940 told her about it and I'm like 1199 00:38:59,540 --> 00:39:02,420 surprised how they like ate me 1200 00:39:01,020 --> 00:39:03,140 alive and she's like, well, 1201 00:39:03,140 --> 00:39:05,980 I'm like, well, she's like, 1202 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,440 well, she's saying that she's 1203 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,320 not being a good parent. She's 1204 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,140 saying, hey, I'm just telling 1205 00:39:08,380 --> 00:39:11,140 you what I said. I said, what 1206 00:39:09,220 --> 00:39:12,120 would I have said? I said, I 1207 00:39:11,220 --> 00:39:15,060 would have listened, I said. 1208 00:39:12,180 --> 00:39:18,060 I said, you're right, I would 1209 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:21,020 have. Um and when, you know, if 1210 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:25,360 I'm if I'm walking down the 1211 00:39:21,100 --> 00:39:26,000 road and a bum, you know, as 1212 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,100 they call it in the world, 1213 00:39:26,060 --> 00:39:29,360 somebody under a bridge, were 1214 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,100 to yell at me and my kids and 1215 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,000 say, you're being an awful 1216 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,000 dad, you know, who are you to 1217 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:37,480 listen and understand. And I would want to find out what his perspective is. Why? Because maybe, 1218 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:44,120 just maybe, he screwed up as a father so bad that he's trying to help me see something I overlook 1219 00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:50,840 in that circumstance and situation. Maybe he had parents who screwed up and he hasn't been able to 1220 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:55,400 internalize their process, how to get out of that. And maybe it's unsafe and I need to leave fast 1221 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:59,720 with my kiddos. There's a couple, there's a lot of different things to look at there. But my point 1222 00:39:59,720 --> 00:40:07,800 being, mentors come in so many forms. Coaches come in so many opportunities that to me, 1223 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:13,240 having somebody like Natalia Richardson on the show to talk to us about her perspectives as she's 1224 00:40:13,240 --> 00:40:19,320 grown as an individual, been through her experiences, competed in your competitions for 1225 00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:24,840 strength and building and dedicated your heart and soul to help others. You're that type of person 1226 00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:30,840 I'm like, man, I want to explore this to the nth degree while I have the chance and see what all 1227 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:36,120 can we gain from this experience? So if there's anything else that you'd like to share related to 1228 00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:40,840 boldly stepping into inherent worthiness, the floor is yours. Is there anything else you'd like 1229 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:47,800 to drive us towards? Well, first of all, thank you for the big compliment. I truly, truly appreciate 1230 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:57,400 that. And I do agree with you. I just talked to somebody else about this recently. They were, 1231 00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:04,520 it's somebody who's working through the fear of conflict. And my best friend, I hear people who 1232 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:12,600 fear conflict. No joke. Like that scares the heck out of me. And a lot of it comes from the fact 1233 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:18,600 that not everybody is in that space. You are who is okay with somebody having a different opinion 1234 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:24,040 and being able to listen to it. Right. And I, the people that are close to me in my life now, 1235 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:29,640 I respect, and a lot of times our views aren't the same, but being able to have like that really 1236 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:34,280 deep, good conversation and nobody's attacking, it's just to listen. And maybe it does shift 1237 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:40,600 your perspective or maybe it doesn't, but I think that that's how we grow. So again, I totally 1238 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:45,080 understand the being afraid of conflict. That's something that I have worked through and continued 1239 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:51,400 to work through on a different level now. But it does come down to, I think if somebody is willing 1240 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:58,440 to receive or not willing to receive, like you said, to actually to listen, to hear, yeah, 1241 00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:05,640 without that push. I am so grateful that you brought that up. This is one of the topics that 1242 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:15,880 I think is one of the greatest challenges for society right now. We have, and I'm the outlier, 1243 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:23,240 I am. I'm the guy who will say what I feel and what I think. And nowadays you can't do that. 1244 00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:30,280 You can't do it openly. You have to be more calculated. I got kicked in the face too many 1245 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:44,200 times, attacked, theoretically, metaphorically. So it's challenging because at the same time, 1246 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:51,160 we got to learn to be respectful as human beings. We got to learn to give people space as well. But 1247 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:58,760 is conflict, is it healthy? Is it hurtful? Can it be both? What are your thoughts on that? 1248 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:09,080 I think it can be both depending on how it's handled. Right? I now, my partner, we've had 1249 00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:13,400 things we've disagreed on. There's been deep conversations. We've never actually fought. 1250 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:18,680 It's never been this yelling, aggressive, whatever past relationships. There was like high 1251 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:26,840 emotions, like the fear. Right? I'm an emotional guy. That's raising my voice, but for fun too. 1252 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:35,720 Dynamic. I'm going to sing for crying out loud. That's part of life. But yes, it can be received 1253 00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:40,600 very poorly. Yeah. And I think that's really what it depends on. Like you said, healthy or hurtful. 1254 00:43:41,240 --> 00:43:47,000 And again, conflict, if it's healthy and two people are aware, you can have this deep 1255 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:51,720 conversation and disagree. And it can be really healthy. And also to be able to hear somebody, 1256 00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:56,760 it doesn't feel good if somebody tells you, oh, this is how you made me feel. It doesn't feel great. 1257 00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:02,040 But to be able to receive that and breathe through it and realize that's how they feel and say, 1258 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:08,120 apologize for it, that you made, you know, that that's how they feel. And that wasn't your 1259 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:13,400 intention if it wasn't. But some people, when they get in conflict, they intentionally want to push 1260 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:18,200 or hurt the other person because they're pushing back. So I think that's a lot of 1261 00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:25,240 touch and it depends on the people that are in this conflict. Absolutely. There's a great Ted 1262 00:44:25,240 --> 00:44:34,280 talk on the subject called, if you just look up how to not get offended Ted talk, it's dude with 1263 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:40,760 red hair will pop up. I can't remember his name. But he talks about purposely becoming a soccer ref 1264 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:48,120 so that he could overcome his fear of getting offended. He threw himself into the fire, so to 1265 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:54,920 speak. And, you know, as I don't want to ruin the rest of the talk, so I won't because it is just 1266 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:59,560 mind blowingly amazing and gives it a couple of tools to get past some of that, the inner 1267 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:08,280 trauma that comes with our natural tendency to take offense. You know, and the the on the opposite 1268 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,720 side of the healthy kind of it's like you people believe you can avoid conflict. And that is true 1269 00:45:11,720 --> 00:45:18,040 if you want to avoid a relationship. But when you have a relationship, especially with kids and, 1270 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,160 you know, you both have different parenting styles or different things desired there. 1271 00:45:21,720 --> 00:45:28,120 If one person is successfully avoiding, you know, all of what you want to have happen in that, 1272 00:45:29,240 --> 00:45:35,640 then, you know, but they're kind about it. This is where I I hate hearing kindness justified. 1273 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:41,880 And I'm like, no, there's nothing kind about stonewalling, you know, individuals or completely 1274 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:47,560 choosing to ignore the needs of others while smiling about it and waking up with your own, 1275 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:54,360 you know, self satisfaction jar full. And that's that's a it's a challenge that as 1276 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:59,720 entrepreneurs, as visionaries, as leaders, we have the opportunity to prepare ourselves for 1277 00:45:59,720 --> 00:46:04,680 your while you may be able to choose, you know, who your team members are in the initial stages, 1278 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:08,680 or you may be able to choose who your clients are. You don't choose your clients, clients, 1279 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:16,200 you don't choose employees down the road. But if you can learn how to set cultural standards up and 1280 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:21,480 really understand who you are, what you want, who you interact with, well, that's a good start. 1281 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,960 But we also have to take the next level if we're going to go to the next level of influence of 1282 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:30,200 saying, OK, I don't understand those people at all, or that that type of individual. 1283 00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:36,440 But I'm going to work hard to try to understand it, because coexistence in a connected world 1284 00:46:37,240 --> 00:46:45,080 is extremely important. So I would say, you know, I've embraced conflict, and I'm trying 1285 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:52,520 to learn how to embrace the the individuals who don't want it at all. And that's that's hard for 1286 00:46:52,520 --> 00:47:04,680 me to do. Any advice? I. Yeah. With the. So much with, like you said, I think that's really hard, 1287 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:09,400 because when somebody is ignoring it, and they won't talk about it and do it, first of all, 1288 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:14,520 there's resentment being built up, right? That's not healthy. Some people say, no, oh, we never 1289 00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:20,040 like disagree, we never whatever, there's something somewhere that people are just burying, right? And 1290 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:25,080 that's that's when like, oh, what happened? It's like you split up or what happened? This blew up. 1291 00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:31,080 And it's like it didn't just happen. It was a great point. So catching that that's an early sign 1292 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:37,080 and detector as if somebody is constantly in agreement, then it's probably not a perfect 1293 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:43,160 alignment as much as somebody being able to avoid that reality. Maybe it's you. I know who's doing 1294 00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:48,200 it. Maybe it's maybe it's me who's doing it in that case. I mean, I mean, you. But you've made 1295 00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:52,840 you made great space for me on this, Natalia. I really appreciate it. Appreciate the depth of 1296 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:58,040 a wisdom that comes from both your spoken word and your listening skills. Both are very easy to see. 1297 00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:04,040 So those of you listening in, you can connect with Natalia on Meteor's Transformation Coaching. Also, 1298 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:08,680 in the right below the show on the landing page, you'll see the action steps that are recommended. 1299 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:13,320 So you can take action with her. You can connect to them on social media platforms as well. We have 1300 00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:17,480 one final invitation. That's in the top right corner of the page. You'll see a button that says 1301 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:22,760 Be Our Guest. If you've got a vision to share, if you're a visionary leader who's looking to help 1302 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:29,800 others out there, it doesn't matter if you are in the Forbes 30 under 30 or you are brand new. 1303 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:34,760 If your goal is to help people and you appreciate this platform, we want you on the stage. And if 1304 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,760 you are in the Forbes 30 under 30 and you care about people, then absolutely come and join us 1305 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:43,880 as well. We want we want people from all walks of life and everybody have a fantastic rest of your 1306 00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:48,680 day. Natalia, thanks so much for joining us. Thank you so much. Thank you for being here today. 1307 00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:53,080 I'm really happy that you tuned in to Vision Pros Live. I'm looking forward to seeing your 1308 00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:57,800 reactions as these episodes continue to move forward. This is going to get more and more fun. 1309 00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,640 We'll have more and more engagement as well. We'll invite people to participate in the show. 1310 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:06,760 And thank you for giving us your time and attention. Have an excellent time building out your vision 1311 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:14,760 and becoming a visionary leader.