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because once we speak it, we hear it and it becomes truth.

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because it's easy to say,

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because I hear people all the time, I used to do this,

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or like, yeah, today, I don't know, my car,

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and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,

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and complain, complain and be like, you know what?

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Right, it's, you know, I have to fight traffic today, right?

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Like it sets us up for a very serious case

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of anxiety and stress, right?

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The way we talk about those types of experiences

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in our life, they have massive impacts

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and ripple effects on how our day ends up going.

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to celebrate traffic, but I would say, ooh,

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I get extra time to listen to the music I want to.

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I get extra time to sit here and by myself

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and appreciate gratitude for things that I have in life.

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because I did live in Egypt at some point

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so Divine has a plan somehow.

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coming to the workshop or whatever meeting I had,

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they were also delayed, so no one was really late.

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I can't fight life.

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I don't recommend fighting a brick wall.

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so for the visionaries and entrepreneurs out there,

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what are three books or resources that you recommend

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they read or consume or follow?

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Oh, definitely consume Neville Goddard.

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Neville Goddard.

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Neville Goddard.

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So Neville Goddard is spectacular.

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He, forget that he goes into like religious,

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he just changes the whole paradigm of religion anyway,

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but in general, he died forever ago,

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but he's for every part of your life,

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whether it's business, relationship, emotions,

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Neville Goddard.

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And of course, Wayne Dyer.

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Wayne Dyer was like my best friend since his books came out,

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like as in a book.

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I know it sounds weird, but there's a movie on YouTube,

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it's called the Earthing Movie.

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The Earthing Movie.

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Movie, and that one is spectacular

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because it does shift a paradigm.

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and we're like frazzled, we forget,

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we're like so dependent on this,

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and we forget that there's an easier way to do things.

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Yes, and I just saw it says the science

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and the remarkable science of grounding.

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Yes, the process for those who are listening and grounding

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in basic terms of way that I feel it and see it as a layman,

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just taking your shoes off and connecting with the dirt

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or connecting with the grass.

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That's far easier to do in that really super soft grass

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you have in Utah compared to the really, really scratchy stuff

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that might have a rattlesnake in it in San Antonio, Texas.

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you might be walking on the sidewalk,

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but you might have an opportunity for yard next to you.

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there's so many people who never take the time for that

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or never have a place to go

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because we don't intentionally look for it.

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Go ahead, I wanna know yourself.

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hug a tree.

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we disconnect and we become individuals again.

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There's no rush, emergency, and I have to finish it now.

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I got absolute goosebumps from that.

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and all those other holidays, celebrate them year round.

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You know, enjoy the essence of those realities.

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So we'll be right back.

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We're gonna dive into Rainn's Avon's vision

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right after the break.

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we'll see you soon.

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All right, welcome in to Vision Pros Live.

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With Jackson Calame, I'm your show host.

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We'll be doing interviews for visionary entrepreneurs

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and guest leaders who are building

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fantastic visions out there.

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Hey, what's up?

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Welcome in to Vision Pros Live.

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I'm your show host, Jackson Calame,

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founder and CEO of First Class Business.

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And we're gonna be talking about energy.

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We're gonna be talking about healing.

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We're gonna talk about some really hidden secrets

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that are right in front of us that can help us

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move our lives forward,

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closer to that of the fulfillment and the purpose

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and the passion, the holistic view of like,

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if you want more peace, if you want more happiness,

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if you want more joy in your life,

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the essence of feeling good

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and really understanding your world around you

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and being able to appreciate the good that's there

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and perhaps compartmentalize a bit more,

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the negative that we all of course deal with too,

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then this episode may be a very impactful one for you,

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especially if you haven't talked to somebody

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about word choice and the power of subtle words,

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words that we're constantly bombarded with in the media,

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words that were bombarded with,

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you are bombarded by a number of controlling words.

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We're gonna dive into that a bit today

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and talk about how to protect yourself

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from the controlling nature of voices

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and language that is so predominant in today's culture.

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I wanna give you a couple of tangible resources,

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beyond that, those are tangible,

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especially for the business owners out there,

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we're gonna start with, whoops, wrong way,

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a lost spot with Melissa Gray.

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Melissa Gray did a great episode with us, by the way,

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I would recommend checking that out.

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Before I consider any software provider, any service,

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I always wanna see who the founder is

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and wanna see the culture they're building

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because it is easy to build software these days

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and software gets displaced constantly.

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that is built upon a software that's gonna go bankrupt

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because they don't have great leadership.

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who not only has that ability to be the attorney

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you don't necessarily wanna interact with,

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but also has the ability to be that nurture

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and that calming force that can help you understand

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that legal does not have to be complicated.

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It can be simplified.

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She's got a great new spot on business blueprint as well

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to guide you through what are the systems

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that you should audit for yourself

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interview a few opportunities

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and that comes from somebody who has won

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a $20,000 trademark lawsuit

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when I was at Restaurant Connect.

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It's not winning when you lose 20,000

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for a brand you already own, by the way,

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and that cost us a lot of time and attention derailing

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for a day panicking and freaking out about it.

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who you're gonna turn to for help and support.

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He's not a client of ours.

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to help people overcome addictions.

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that have certain types of addictions.

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and they may really wanna escape the rest of life

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outside of that because of the isolating process

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that is entrepreneurship and visions.

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who struggle with being present

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and being in fully going after life.

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They usually say things like, how are you?

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They're not fine.

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Thank you, Mel Robbins for exposing that.

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to turn to a resource like Recovery Unplugged

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that has a virtual 24 seven hotline to know, what do you do?

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of attention and the right type of help they might need?

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They used to be in five locations throughout the States.

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They still have those,

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but now he's got over 400 team members

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You might just try calling a number

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and testing my theory on that.

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I absolutely love how he leads.

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Love that he masterminds with Richard Branson

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Those are two leaders that I look up to considerably.

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creating an experience to help people overcome

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some of the challenges he himself has overcome

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and coming from a family myself of extreme addicts.

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I know the value of this for my family.

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I would want a leader to talk about it if they knew about it.

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So if this helps even one of you, I'm grateful for that.

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Then there's the water project.

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I usually have my water bottle for this segment.

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The cool thing is I can walk downstairs

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and in two minutes have access to water

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or even my bathroom sink.

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And I've got better access to water

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that millions of people do not have access to.

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And I don't say that to rub it in.

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In fact, they say that to draw attention

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for those of you who said,

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wow, how can you say something like that

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to remember, well, how do we do something about it?

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Why don't we help the millions of people

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who don't have access to that?

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where you can see which village or town you are helping,

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how many people are helped in it.

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or maybe you pay 200,000, I hope you're that person,

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to this cause, you're able to see the effect,

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the generational impact, because they show you

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with social media and proof

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what they've done for those different areas.

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Now, maybe you're not in a position

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where you can even give a dollar.

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My hope is that you just share this

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with somebody who might be able to.

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We never know the ripple effect

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of talking about the good that can be caused.

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And if you have a cause that draws your attention

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more than this one, there's not a competition here.

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Drop the link, let us know about the cause.

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We might talk about both on the next show.

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Give us the opportunity to help too.

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There's 8 billion people out there who need our attention,

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who need help, who we could turn, look towards and serve.

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Let us be a light to all those who need it.

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So without further ado, I'm gonna bring Rain on now.

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We're gonna talk all about her vision

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and how she's going about helping people

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with the words and beyond.

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Rain, thank you for being here today.

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Hi, Jackson, it's lovely being here.

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Absolutely.

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Oh, that hurt my heart.

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What's that? It hurt your heart?

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You felt it.

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Yeah, I'm willing to.

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Thank you for being willing to.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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And I've seen it.

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I lived in Egypt and I've seen that,

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the inability to like the, just the building across,

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they have water and like half an hour drive, no water.

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And so, it's tough.

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May we use that, right?

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May we use that energy and pain to, again,

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take some action to remove some from those

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who are really feeling that.

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So thank you for diving in reverently to that.

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What is your vision?

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I'm gonna take you to a higher level too.

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Maybe, I don't know, it might be darker.

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What is your vision for those that you serve?

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Oh God, my vision for those who I serve.

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It keeps changing throughout life, eh?

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Like that's, I think, from that natural evolution.

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Like as I shift, it shifts,

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but the basic gist of it has always been,

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and I used to always see it where I would see the world

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and I would see little lights lighting up.

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And these were like humans, you know,

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that I would kind of like just touch them.

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Like we don't have to spend forever in a day,

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but just spark that thing.

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And then all of a sudden they wake up to who they are.

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Like they just wake up and it's not, it's easy.

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It's not like, oh, now we have to go through shadow

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like forever, like it's just easy.

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And they just light up and now they shed light

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to their surrounding environments.

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That's my vision.

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Well, it makes sense as a spiritual transformational coach.

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I could see why you'd gravitate

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towards that aspect of the vision.

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And visionaries who are listening in,

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you all have multiple visions.

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I mean, the spiritual world is a reflection

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of the physical world as well.

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If I look this way, I have a vision

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of a beautiful pasture and cows.

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If I look this way, I can see a closet.

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You know, it doesn't make either one wrong.

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It's just a reality.

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So it's, I'm glad that you talk about the multiple aspects.

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And in your case, you see these humans, these light sources.

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Yeah, and they're not necessarily,

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because whenever anybody asks me, they're like,

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then I have to be a healer.

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I'm like, no, please don't.

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Like don't change your career.

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Please do what you're doing.

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But when you wake up in what you're doing,

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then naturally it's as if you're shedding light to others

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for them to wake up so you don't have to be

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one-on-one sessions or workshops or a speaker.

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You just have to be present in your environment.

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That's like the worker in the factory

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or the CEO of a company or the,

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like it doesn't matter really.

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Let's roll.

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Yeah.

353
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There's so many dynamics to that.

354
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What's your vision for you?

355
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What do you see for yourself on the horizon?

356
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Ooh, God, I have so many.

357
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I see traveling the world and,

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which I have already traveled most parts of the world,

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but I'd like to start that over again.

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Traveling the world, meeting different people again

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and interacting with different souls.

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I see a vision of myself where I have the freedom

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to channel what I channel without people freaking out.

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And for them to just receive it,

365
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and they can choose to throw it away in the garbage

366
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or keep it, but not to like,

367
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errr, like I'm gonna kill you for telling me this thing.

368
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Right?

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Or feeling what you need to feel.

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You know, I just, I envision,

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just myself keep expanding more and more

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and finding that inner peace and being more attuned,

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constantly being more and more attuned

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because the shadow does creep up.

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I mean, I still, my limiting beliefs still show up.

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And my shadow still shows up.

377
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And it's a lot easier to talk to them

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and deal with them and love them.

379
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But at times they take you by surprise.

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So-

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I'm grateful for all the people who show up

382
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to see this type of news, right?

383
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We can easily flip the channel

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and go and see all the stuff that's going on in politics.

385
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It's been going on for eight years.

386
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I mean, it's always going on,

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but the last eight years have almost been a groundhog's day

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over and over of fighting and bickering over something

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and two people, nobody really having a conversation

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or nobody really understands, you know?

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And so you can spend all the time you want

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doing stuff like that, you know,

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or we can spend time looking for holistic individuals

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who don't feel the need to fight each other.

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And that's what I see in you.

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So I hear you, there are people out there who are like,

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don't be so woo woo, you know?

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And they bring their own mess to the equation,

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but that's part of why we seek others out in the world.

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That's part of why we, you know,

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part of the blessing of the virtual world,

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you can find people who appreciate you for you.

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I mean, would you agree with that

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or do you only believe in local communities?

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I'm curious.

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Oh, no, no, of course not.

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I've lived in 15 countries.

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So of course not local communities at all, right?

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So definitely expand and meet like different countries.

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What countries have you lived in?

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Ooh, okay.

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You've also, you got Egypt.

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Egypt, Malaysia, London, Canada, of course, Switzerland.

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The Emirates, Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Al Ain, Muscat.

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Oh my God.

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I pushed you on the spot.

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I'm like, wait, there are so many.

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I couldn't tell you all the cities I've lived in

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or states either actually, but yes, that, okay.

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That's a lot.

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I wanted to get to the bottom of it.

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Okay, that's a lot.

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I wanted to get that cultural spread too

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of like knowing where you come from

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because every culture is so different

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and how they communicate and how they see things.

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So that's-

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Yeah, I've had a fabulous life in that sense

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because I don't assign myself to any space

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in specific particular.

431
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Like I don't really know.

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And I don't get along with specific cultures,

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but I understand all of it because I've been around them.

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So I'm very accepting from others.

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So if I assigned you one, the human race,

436
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is that two boxing in or is that my race?

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It kind of does.

438
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It is though.

439
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I don't resonate with it.

440
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Like I don't resonate specifically with it.

441
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Yeah.

442
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Is that because it's all of nature being connected

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kind of back to the grounding principle?

444
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I think it's based because from childhood,

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we did move a lot and we did move home.

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So I had never, there was nowhere I was rooted in

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and took on the whole fight for your country.

448
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I didn't take on any of that kind of stuff.

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Yeah.

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So because I didn't have a home.

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So I felt like I was everywhere at home

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because I'd go to a country and they're against

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the place I used to live in before, right?

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And so it didn't make sense.

455
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So I'd hear this point of view

456
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and I'd hear that point of view and they both had-

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How does that relate to the human race?

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So I'm curious, where does that take you with,

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because the human race is all inclusive of all human beings.

460
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So is there a contrast there?

461
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Oh, there's a, the thing is with humans is

462
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when the human race actually gathers,

463
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they gather together when there's a catastrophe

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where they're no more an individual.

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It's not my country against your country.

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It's not who I am against who you are, right?

467
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Humans actually show up as a collective humanity

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when they're gonna save someone, save something,

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stand together with the same exact cause.

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So if you notice, when there's a hurricane somewhere,

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you'll find everyone in every parts of the states.

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Doesn't matter if you're a left wing, right?

473
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It doesn't even matter all the stuff that I don't understand.

474
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They just become humans, right?

475
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Is that a good thing?

476
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It's a fabulous thing.

477
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Okay, I thought you were saying you didn't-

478
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No, I love that because that's when you actually,

479
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that's when they wake up for a split second

480
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and they're not angry or pissed off or judgmental

481
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or like all of a sudden all that disappears

482
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and it's a state of emergency to care for each other.

483
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Yeah. Yeah.

484
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I don't even know if I answered the question.

485
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No, I liked that.

486
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No, it wasn't really kind of a vague idea more than anything.

487
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And I see the Olympics, the celebration side as well

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can often inspire and bring that out.

489
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And again, that goes back to also finding people

490
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who are willing to participate and feel that way.

491
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So that's, yeah, that's important.

492
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Finding communities and belonging is super helpful.

493
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Let's dive into a difficult question.

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What is the worst leadership experience that you've ever had?

495
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Oh, goodness.

496
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Okay, I'm gonna say this,

497
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but I've come to a point where I'm just gonna say what I say.

498
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Yeah, good.

499
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It was a kind of mystery school,

500
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meaning I thought it was gonna be amazing.

501
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And the worst leadership was the kind of leadership where,

502
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and it's happening a lot in the spiritual world

503
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and this is what I'm talking about a lot recently,

504
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where it's very control-based.

505
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It's you're going to go through my practices,

506
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the way I do it.

507
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You can't, you're not allowed to know this part of it

508
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until you conquer this one.

509
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And everything you've ever learned before,

510
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delete and erase because that was nonsense.

511
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And that was the worst thing I experienced.

512
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It was two years long and I was just like, this is crazy.

513
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This is absolute nuts, but it's one of those,

514
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and I've seen it quite often.

515
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That was the worst one.

516
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Oh my, we're flooded with it right now.

517
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It's everywhere.

518
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Everywhere, everyone is a guru.

519
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Everyone is a healer.

520
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Everyone's at this and-

521
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Well, and everyone's learned not to say they're a guru too.

522
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Everyone's also learned now not to say they're a guru,

523
00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:02,440
but they still have this essence of massive manipulation

524
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:07,440
and control that, yeah, it creates a bunch of sheeple.

525
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,160
And you know what's really sad, Jackson,

526
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:14,000
is the fact that because so many people are awakening

527
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,120
and waking up to truth, oh my God, it makes me want to cry.

528
00:22:17,120 --> 00:22:19,640
Because people are waking up,

529
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:22,200
it's so easy to manipulate in that state

530
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,560
because you're leaving one world into another,

531
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,680
but you don't know where the other world is, right?

532
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,800
And it's so easy to catch them all the time.

533
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:35,360
And there are thousands, if not millions waking up.

534
00:22:35,360 --> 00:22:37,680
And these people are just, they're-

535
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,240
I almost said it drives me crazy.

536
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:43,360
And then I thought through it,

537
00:22:43,360 --> 00:22:45,200
again, back to our topic right on words.

538
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:49,480
And I thought, actually, no, nowadays it's quite simple.

539
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,880
For me, it just drives me away.

540
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,280
And that's okay.

541
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,240
That's a healthy boundary, right?

542
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,480
This is a big difference between how we let it get to us

543
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,600
and how we lead through it, or how we realize,

544
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:02,880
you know what, I don't want to leave,

545
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,120
I don't actually want to leave that hot mess.

546
00:23:05,120 --> 00:23:08,960
I'm going to go around and take a detour with,

547
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,720
it's a little bit prettier more.

548
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,800
I love that you said that, and thank you.

549
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:16,400
As a spiritual transformational leader and coach,

550
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,280
you didn't call anybody out specifically,

551
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:23,280
but you did talk about this trend of kind of pseudo judgment.

552
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,440
And more importantly, I think it's,

553
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,000
what I see often is the elitism

554
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:33,080
of if you prescribed in my way of manifestation,

555
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,080
you will get X, Y, and Z no matter what.

556
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,680
And I'm not going to tell you who's failing in my community

557
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,560
and where I'm failing to have my own manifestations align,

558
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,320
but don't you dare challenge me,

559
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:44,480
or I'm going to kind of send it to you

560
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,640
and make you look bad in front of the whole community

561
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:50,120
that is pretending with me that we have everything together.

562
00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:51,280
Yes.

563
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:52,120
Sorry for that.

564
00:23:52,120 --> 00:23:55,720
And I've met a lot of them who will be like,

565
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,400
I want my face to be on billboards,

566
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,560
or I want to become so famous, but you're a healer.

567
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,600
It doesn't mean that you can't make millions.

568
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:04,440
I disagree with that.

569
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,560
You manifest millions, right?

570
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,280
But the intention, it's all like,

571
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,920
what inside of me is driving me to do that?

572
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,480
I could do a million other careers, right?

573
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:18,000
But what inside of me do I like to manipulate,

574
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,080
do I like to control?

575
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,240
Have I never been heard or seen?

576
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,840
So this is how I'm going to be heard and seen by others.

577
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,120
Is it from a place of fear, right?

578
00:24:27,120 --> 00:24:29,080
It's driven through fear.

579
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,840
Is it driven through, well, nobody ever gave me attention.

580
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,840
Now I'm going to get, like, where is it coming from?

581
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,440
And if you can dig deep and discover that,

582
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,880
you're going to free so many people from having to go

583
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,840
through this whirlwind when they're already, like,

584
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,880
losing friends and family and confused

585
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,720
and nobody understands, they don't understand themselves,

586
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,440
instead of them having to go there, you know?

587
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,360
So you have a great power as a leader,

588
00:24:51,360 --> 00:24:53,040
and I can see that, Rainn.

589
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,280
You recognize the difference between the virtues

590
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,040
and the vices, as I would label them.

591
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,000
Simplifying my own understanding of it is,

592
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:06,120
yes, fear can drive results 100%.

593
00:25:06,120 --> 00:25:07,800
So can hate, right?

594
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,760
Those two mechanisms.

595
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,600
Hitler was very successful at driving his vision forward

596
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,840
with a lot of hate and inducing fear into others.

597
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,680
And love and courage, right?

598
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,480
Those can also drive results.

599
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,920
And so we have these different elements

600
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,840
that are easy to say, well, I don't hate people.

601
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,520
I don't want to scare anybody.

602
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,120
Are we willing to dig deeper

603
00:25:35,120 --> 00:25:37,640
and see where we accidentally practice that in our life

604
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,880
or where we allow that to seep in?

605
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,320
We're all susceptible to those powers

606
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,160
and to using those powers.

607
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:48,880
And we end up practicing worse leadership ourselves

608
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:53,160
when we irresponsibly don't get feedback,

609
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,880
don't figure out how to move away from the bad

610
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,840
and into the good elements.

611
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,080
Like, this is, thank you.

612
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:02,000
You are leading the way in a very, very cool way.

613
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaking of, what would you say your best leadership

614
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,280
experience has been?

615
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,040
Oh, my best, best leadership experience.

616
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,000
And I understand leadership differently,

617
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:15,880
but to me, she was a leader

618
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,560
just because she led herself so beautifully.

619
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:23,240
And she was my second Reiki teacher.

620
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,960
So I took with her,

621
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,840
I became a master Reiki and a teacher with her.

622
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:33,760
But to me, this woman, and I've gone to everyone, okay?

623
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:38,480
But this woman, she just knew her stuff.

624
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,080
She trusted herself so much, okay?

625
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,120
And the way she held her,

626
00:26:43,120 --> 00:26:46,600
she was never in any way forcing an opinion.

627
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,440
She's teaching me.

628
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:48,720
She's my teacher, right?

629
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,000
She's teaching this whole group and she's leading the way.

630
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,920
I mean, I have no other information but from her.

631
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:58,920
And all of it was given with such dignity,

632
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,440
dignity to me.

633
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,400
Like she gave me my dignity, right?

634
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,000
She allowed me to have my power.

635
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,960
She didn't enforce her power

636
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,600
and her leadership skills on me.

637
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,640
This woman I adore, she lives in Dubai.

638
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,360
That's where I did it.

639
00:27:13,360 --> 00:27:15,640
And I still recommend her today

640
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,320
to anybody who's traveling through Dubai,

641
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:18,160
living in Dubai.

642
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,000
What's her name?

643
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:19,840
Golnaz.

644
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,480
How do you spell that, do you know?

645
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,640
Yeah, G-O-L, I just have to type it.

646
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,920
A-G-O-L-N-A-Z.

647
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:29,800
Okay.

648
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,320
Golnaz Mohamed.

649
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,280
She's Iranian and she, this woman,

650
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,560
gives you more than you asked for.

651
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:40,800
Oh man, that's great.

652
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:41,960
I'm excited.

653
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:46,960
Hopefully we can find a resource from Golnaz

654
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,960
and add it to the action steps as well.

655
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,960
I would love to, if you'd be okay with that.

656
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,800
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

657
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:53,640
Oh my God, it's an honor to be the leader.

658
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,000
I adore this woman.

659
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,920
You'll see her, she's just glowing.

660
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,440
You know these people that just glow

661
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:00,760
and you wanna hug them?

662
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:01,600
That's exciting.

663
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:03,280
Yes, of course, you're one of those.

664
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:04,400
I hope I'm one of those.

665
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:05,240
Anybody can give me a hug.

666
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:06,480
Yeah, you are, you are.

667
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,720
You've been hugged.

668
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,840
And John Davis, I believe, Dr. Davis, it looks like.

669
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,320
Appreciate the comments, Dr. Davis,

670
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,840
on the great question aspect.

671
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:15,880
I believe he was referencing

672
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,160
probably the worst leadership experience we've ever had

673
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:23,240
because, and yes, so many people gravitate away

674
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,440
from those experiences and talking about them

675
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,920
when there's some of our best history lessons

676
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,320
and opportunities to just figure out

677
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,360
from other people's experiences

678
00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:36,240
what can we reshape in our lives and do better from those.

679
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,680
So thanks for diving on that with me too, Ray.

680
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:40,680
All right, so moving into.

681
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:41,720
Can I just add something to that?

682
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:42,840
Yeah, yeah, yeah, go ahead.

683
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:43,680
Sorry.

684
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,520
I'll rewind.

685
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,200
Because I just got the thing.

686
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,640
So basically what I heard was

687
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,440
when people are leaving a program,

688
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:57,520
and what happens is they wanna find another program, right?

689
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:58,760
That's what it is.

690
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,920
It's like, I've left a program which is structured.

691
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,400
I know tomorrow, today, I'm supposed to do this, this, this,

692
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,280
and these are the steps, and somebody else is catering.

693
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,880
So naturally, if they're going through their awakening

694
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:11,800
and they're all like, ah, life is weird,

695
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,880
they want that structure back.

696
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,520
They want a program.

697
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,080
So that's what happens.

698
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,480
So that's why it's easy for them to fall there.

699
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,480
It's not that they've lost wisdom.

700
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,080
It's just they're moving from a program to a program.

701
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:24,920
That's right.

702
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:25,760
And that's all it is.

703
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,200
That's a really good way to put it.

704
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,200
That's that fear of the unknown, right?

705
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,280
It can easily push us into something.

706
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,840
I mean, anything, structure.

707
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,360
Please, just don't let me sit here in that awkwardness.

708
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,120
I like that, moving into,

709
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:39,560
and they're gonna find a new program.

710
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,840
That's a really good way to put it.

711
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,840
If this was your last chance, the last time,

712
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,600
to share one powerful lesson,

713
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,560
what powerful lesson can other visionaries learn

714
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:50,960
from your experience, Rain?

715
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:52,960
Oh my God.

716
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:05,600
Doubting yourself is your biggest demise in life.

717
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,840
There is nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing

718
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:16,200
that is worth anyone doubting themselves.

719
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,200
No matter who tells you,

720
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:19,840
you don't know how to speak to me.

721
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:21,680
It's not time to talk to me now.

722
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,320
This isn't the right way to speak.

723
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:24,520
You're not approaching it right.

724
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,160
Wait, you are this, you are that.

725
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,480
Talk and act and be and da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da.

726
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:34,480
If you feel in your heart the truth of what is happening,

727
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:38,800
do not doubt how you speak, how you act,

728
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,320
what you do, what you believe in and who you are,

729
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,160
as long as you're kind.

730
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,560
I'm not talking to narcissists here.

731
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,000
I'm talking to the kind people of this planet.

732
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,360
Don't doubt that inner voice.

733
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,040
It is always whispering truth.

734
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,080
Wow.

735
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:01,560
Okay, I've had 204 episodes now, I believe,

736
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:06,280
that we've had, and you are the first leader

737
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,720
out of everybody to do what you did right before asking,

738
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:13,000
right before answering that incredibly deep question.

739
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,680
And it only validates further

740
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:16,960
what I consider so valuable.

741
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,080
The question we asked from the beginning,

742
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,360
the words we speak enslave and control our spirit.

743
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:27,360
It is amazing how few people will stop and contemplate

744
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,640
that question before they answer it.

745
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,680
Like this is the chance, you know, and you lived that.

746
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,880
You were willing to live that with me fully.

747
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,360
Now, maybe I have 204 people who've come on the podcast

748
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,000
that were very fast processors.

749
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,120
That's very possible.

750
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,560
So I don't mean to take anything from them,

751
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,960
but that, what you did right there is something

752
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,560
that is very important for my life as well.

753
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,040
To be able to stop, reflect, totally pull from,

754
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,000
whatever you just did.

755
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,840
Can you describe that for the audience?

756
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,360
What did you do when you took that moment

757
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,800
of probably seven to eight seconds silence?

758
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,840
Okay, so what I did was,

759
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,640
I knew that a question always provokes an answer

760
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,600
and I have to be immediate.

761
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:07,800
But I knew if I'm immediate,

762
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:09,520
I'm going to be giving from my brain

763
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,840
and a program that I have, that I'm used to saying.

764
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:16,000
But if it was such an important question,

765
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,240
what powerful lesson can other visionaries learn

766
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:19,440
from your experience?

767
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,520
And it's a very important question.

768
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,640
I have to get it from somewhere else.

769
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,760
I can't get it from my program.

770
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,440
So I had to go into complete silence

771
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,360
and hear the program speak, because they speak,

772
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,280
it speaks so fast, our brain speaks so fast.

773
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:33,280
It's gonna go, woo, woo, woo, woo, woo, woo, woo, woo, woo,

774
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:34,480
and then it'll go silent.

775
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,280
And then I can hear what, like,

776
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:40,040
what is the best thing that I ask and I receive?

777
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,860
So it's knowing how valuable this question is.

778
00:32:43,860 --> 00:32:46,440
Wow, that's amazing.

779
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,360
I'll add some color commenting to it.

780
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,520
So there's, I had a great therapist

781
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,000
who was teaching our family

782
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,120
and he taught us about the three levels of listening.

783
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,280
And I knew two of them already at that point.

784
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,080
So I felt pretty smart.

785
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:02,160
But the third one blew my mind.

786
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,600
So she says, first, we can react like an animal.

787
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,560
If I put my hand in front of a frog, for instance,

788
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,120
it's gonna jump backwards and I can catch it very easily.

789
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,380
Just boom, said that it's gonna happen every time.

790
00:33:14,380 --> 00:33:15,220
Why?

791
00:33:15,220 --> 00:33:18,120
Because most animals react to situations.

792
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,320
And even humans, we do that too.

793
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,640
Two, I can also respond.

794
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,000
And I was like, yeah, that's what you're supposed to do.

795
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,320
You're supposed to respond to somebody's question.

796
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,360
Or three, we can listen to understand.

797
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,680
And I was like, my mental brain just like shut

798
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,320
when he said that, I was like, what?

799
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,600
Like, I thought you were supposed to respond.

800
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:37,440
No.

801
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,940
There's an understanding part.

802
00:33:38,940 --> 00:33:42,600
There's a maybe asking more questions

803
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:43,560
or really getting it.

804
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,600
So I love that you walked us through a new way

805
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:47,520
of looking at that.

806
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,960
That will help facilitate my own ability

807
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,040
to also understand to greater capacity

808
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,680
as I move into opportunities to answer questions

809
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,880
and remembering too the physical mechanisms

810
00:33:58,880 --> 00:33:59,720
that we forget about.

811
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:00,880
There is a brain inside there.

812
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,000
It's a contraption and it does do something.

813
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,920
And if we aren't cognitive of reprogramming it

814
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,920
or realizing that we actually have more control over it,

815
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,880
if we're just willing to be patient through that process,

816
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:15,440
we can access new levels of wisdom, depth,

817
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,480
consideration, perspective, paradigm,

818
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:18,420
whatever we wanna call it.

819
00:34:18,420 --> 00:34:21,900
So thank you for enlightening us with that.

820
00:34:21,900 --> 00:34:23,440
Moving into, go ahead.

821
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:24,280
You got one more thought.

822
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:25,520
I have something to say.

823
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:26,340
Okay.

824
00:34:26,340 --> 00:34:28,660
All I wanted to say was the word patience, right?

825
00:34:28,660 --> 00:34:31,200
So it just clicked when you said that.

826
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:32,080
I'm like, yeah,

827
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,880
cause people are not patient with themselves.

828
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:35,720
That's the thing.

829
00:34:35,720 --> 00:34:37,200
So it's usually be patient with this,

830
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,200
be patient with life, be patient with source,

831
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,160
be patient with the manifestation.

832
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,720
But nobody ever has noticed that,

833
00:34:43,720 --> 00:34:46,280
but you're impatient with yourself.

834
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,560
Like you can't even find patience inside.

835
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,440
Like, wait, let me breathe.

836
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,600
Okay, so this is speaking, but I have a heart

837
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,200
and I just give patience, but to me, right?

838
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,620
Cause there's this frazzled person inside,

839
00:34:58,620 --> 00:35:02,000
like the old me or the me of a different idea

840
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,320
or the me that shows up whenever I'm in a bad place, right?

841
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:05,640
Would answer this question.

842
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,200
I'd be like, okay, okay, you have to answer now.

843
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,600
Make a good impression, da, da, da, da, da,

844
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,200
whatever the thing is saying, right?

845
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,560
So I'm not patient even with myself.

846
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:18,640
So I think the messages that I'm hearing is

847
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,820
be patient with stuff, forget everything else.

848
00:35:20,820 --> 00:35:23,860
Forget life, forget others, forget, forget,

849
00:35:23,860 --> 00:35:24,800
be patient with your kids.

850
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,800
Just be patient with you.

851
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:27,840
Yep.

852
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,680
Absolutely.

853
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,680
You know, in the news that we love so much in the world

854
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,520
would have taken what you just said with no patience

855
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,360
out of context and said, she just said, forget everybody.

856
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,120
You know, and they would turn this into a big article

857
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,820
about how nasty you are and how awful you are to people.

858
00:35:41,820 --> 00:35:44,080
How could you, you know, who are we gonna follow somebody

859
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:45,500
who's that selfish?

860
00:35:45,500 --> 00:35:48,840
And they would miss the reality that what you said

861
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,160
was about centering yourself so that you can

862
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,600
show up really well for others in life.

863
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,640
And the value of both, there's not a negative there.

864
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,240
No, but it doesn't even make sense if I can't be patient

865
00:36:00,240 --> 00:36:03,400
with me, then I'm definitely not patient with anyone

866
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,600
because I haven't done patience.

867
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,080
You used to use a Sharpie.

868
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,360
Yeah, I understand what you're saying with the news.

869
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:11,400
I don't watch the news.

870
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,000
I have no idea what's happening in the world.

871
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:14,840
Like at all.

872
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:15,960
That's kind of derogative.

873
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:16,800
That's true.

874
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:17,640
That's true.

875
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,200
I do keep an eye on it actually daily.

876
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,700
And I'll, that's a very quick eye to the process.

877
00:36:23,700 --> 00:36:27,560
And mostly because honestly, it fascinates me to see

878
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,360
that the same two people are in the news every day

879
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,320
when nothing new, it's like, I like, I wanted to take

880
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:33,160
a screenshot of it.

881
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,920
Like how do people spend so much time on this

882
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,160
when there's nothing new being said about it anyway?

883
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,640
So I used to run on my wrist.

884
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:41,480
You know what's true?

885
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,640
What's the fact though?

886
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,280
Not the fact, what I interpreted as Jackson,

887
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,760
because I'm so many clients boredom.

888
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:50,720
Yeah, sure.

889
00:36:50,720 --> 00:36:53,480
They won't know what they, if you don't have something

890
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:58,360
to fight for, the system starts to feel bored.

891
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,800
And boredom is scary because now I have no purpose.

892
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:02,640
Right.

893
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:03,480
It's an addiction.

894
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:04,320
It's a loop.

895
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,200
I've lost my purpose, my identity now.

896
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,520
So of course the news, they have to go on and on.

897
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:10,600
I have mine too.

898
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:15,600
I get, my current biggest addiction is sports highlights.

899
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,540
And I love to catch my sports highlights.

900
00:37:18,540 --> 00:37:20,040
I mean, I miss playing it.

901
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:21,720
I'm in the back surgery.

902
00:37:21,720 --> 00:37:23,420
I don't, I don't do that anymore.

903
00:37:23,420 --> 00:37:27,720
But sometimes I get myself far down the rabbit hole

904
00:37:27,720 --> 00:37:28,560
of sports highlights.

905
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,640
And yeah, it's not that I don't not like the highlight

906
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:35,000
or want to see it, but sometimes it is very much a,

907
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:39,800
you know, a single father of four world is sometimes hard.

908
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,380
And sometimes it's just easier to dive into that

909
00:37:43,380 --> 00:37:47,680
than to want to feel I miss my kids, you know?

910
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,920
So there's lots of things that we do

911
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,720
and they don't have to be alcohol and drugs

912
00:37:52,720 --> 00:37:53,840
to call it an addiction.

913
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,120
When we become aware of what's there,

914
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,920
we can then move purposely back to, well, you know,

915
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,120
and Jared Button, I'm gonna give a shout out to him.

916
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,200
He came on the show, one of the best coaches

917
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,280
I've ever met.

918
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:05,600
I mean, I think so.

919
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,120
He was that fast that he had that big of an impact.

920
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,860
But the guy has an amazing capacity

921
00:38:10,860 --> 00:38:12,600
of helping people understand the correlation

922
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:17,440
between happiness and suffering and how they work together.

923
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,880
So it's, anyway, there's so many ways,

924
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,320
ways we can explore that.

925
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,000
I did promise more time to the audience

926
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,360
about talking about how words we speak in slave

927
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,800
and control our spirit and then exploring our shadows too.

928
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,560
You mentioned that I'd love to give you some time

929
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,160
to just dive into whichever component you feel as best

930
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,800
as the teacher or coach in this occasion.

931
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,520
It's your turn to just guide us on that.

932
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,400
We'll pull your website up in the meantime.

933
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,600
Okay. Oh, my website I'm re-fixing.

934
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:47,880
Well, good, you're human.

935
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:48,720
You could use it.

936
00:38:48,720 --> 00:38:52,400
It's like a baby, it's constantly growing.

937
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,520
I'm like, you know, yeah.

938
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:59,020
But okay, so words and the shadow.

939
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:03,520
So words, the most important thing,

940
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,800
what words hold are vibrations.

941
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:08,840
I'm not gonna say anything crazy.

942
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,400
I think there's everything, everybody knows.

943
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,280
I mean, people are gonna call us crazy.

944
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:16,040
Yeah, but it's, right, you're with me.

945
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,040
Okay, so what we know is words have vibrations, right?

946
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,160
And they have a certain frequency.

947
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,560
So let's say I come and say, oh, do, do, do, do you?

948
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,440
And you have no idea what that means.

949
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,560
You'd be like, oh, that's a nice vibration.

950
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,080
But if I say something like you suck, right?

951
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:33,840
You're gonna be, huh, right?

952
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:34,920
You gave meaning to it.

953
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:36,800
South Park's really good at this, by the way.

954
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,240
South Park for arguing, rabble, rabble, rabble, rabble.

955
00:39:40,240 --> 00:39:41,560
We all know what that means.

956
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:42,720
Yes, exactly.

957
00:39:42,720 --> 00:39:44,680
We have no idea, right?

958
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,200
Well, I mean, we do, like, they use rabble, rabble

959
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:48,600
when they wanna create argument, right?

960
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,560
So it's that tone and cadence is a vibration to it.

961
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:56,560
Yes, so it's the vibration of the words and the sound.

962
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,040
So what's amazing is that words actually have no meaning,

963
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,640
right, they really mean nothing,

964
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:07,640
except how we interpret them once we learn the language,

965
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,600
right, so people travel around the world

966
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,440
and they learn the swear words in most countries, right?

967
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:13,760
Oh, I know how to say this.

968
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:14,600
Right?

969
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,840
That's the words they know.

970
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,720
But in general, if someone swore at you in a language

971
00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:22,720
you have no idea what it is and they're smiling,

972
00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:23,840
you would never know.

973
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:24,760
You know what's cool?

974
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,040
I am proof of this because I was, and don't get me wrong,

975
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,240
I was not the perfect kid, I had all my problems too.

976
00:40:31,240 --> 00:40:35,160
But in Spanish, for some reason, the contrast,

977
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:38,360
the contrarian in me, I refused to learn the bad words

978
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,440
when I was in high school.

979
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,440
I decided not to when I went on a mission to Uruguay

980
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:44,960
and people would get upset at us.

981
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,560
The other missionaries would get offended

982
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,960
and it had no effect on me whatsoever.

983
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,800
I was like, hey, whatever, and they became my friends

984
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,720
because I didn't get upset about these childish

985
00:40:55,720 --> 00:40:57,960
bullying techniques that had no effect

986
00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,720
on the guy who didn't get it.

987
00:40:59,720 --> 00:41:00,560
So.

988
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,040
Isn't that amazing though?

989
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,400
It's amazing, yes, I made for great friends

990
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,080
with people who otherwise would have never talked to me

991
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,240
because I just didn't understand.

992
00:41:09,240 --> 00:41:10,760
So it taught me the power of,

993
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,400
like it's just a word in a dictionary,

994
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:14,880
like again, do anything to you.

995
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,840
And it has really no meaning at all

996
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,320
except for how we interpret it to be, right?

997
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:25,040
So I remember when my kids, they're like,

998
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,040
mommy, why is the middle finger a bad finger?

999
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:28,880
Is it wrong?

1000
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:30,000
Did it do something wrong?

1001
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,120
I'm like, not really, not that I'd like them to go around

1002
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:34,920
using their middle finger, but in general,

1003
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,640
I'm like, well, world gave it a meaning.

1004
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,320
I have to have the opposite effect.

1005
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:42,240
So I don't get a whole lot of time with my kids, right?

1006
00:41:42,240 --> 00:41:45,400
So instead of getting to know, like those questions

1007
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:46,400
they don't come up with me very often.

1008
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,840
So I'm like, all right, you're 12, 10 and eight now.

1009
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:52,760
Like what does it mean?

1010
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,200
What does this, who's gonna, and my oldest,

1011
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:57,160
my 12 year old is always the safest.

1012
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,320
She's like, I don't know.

1013
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:03,320
I'm like, you know, my 10 year old, he's like, I know.

1014
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,720
You know, my eight year old's like, I know too.

1015
00:42:05,720 --> 00:42:08,520
And she won't, and I'm like, all right, Emerson,

1016
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:09,720
can you say it for me?

1017
00:42:09,720 --> 00:42:10,640
I was like, go ahead.

1018
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,560
I was like, you're in a safe space, we're at home or not.

1019
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,880
And he says the word and I see my girls, you know,

1020
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,960
like the vibrations that is, you know,

1021
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:22,960
but those, the point is I don't want my kids

1022
00:42:24,060 --> 00:42:28,160
to be overpowered by something as simple

1023
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,360
as a sound that comes out of a mouth.

1024
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,440
They have the ability to have strength and control

1025
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,120
over that versus being controlled by it.

1026
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:38,960
Yes.

1027
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:39,780
That's my thought and feeling.

1028
00:42:39,780 --> 00:42:42,480
Yes, no, I totally agree with you.

1029
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,760
A hundred percent agree with you.

1030
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:48,280
And I also believe that, cause I don't, I don't, I don't,

1031
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,000
well, I choose not to swear just because I know

1032
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,240
that I've already attached a meaning to it.

1033
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,240
So it's already vibrating in that negative vibration

1034
00:42:57,240 --> 00:42:58,080
inside me.

1035
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:58,920
Yeah, I abandoned those.

1036
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,560
I can't, I can't disconnect them anymore.

1037
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:02,400
I got you.

1038
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:03,240
Right, you know what I mean?

1039
00:43:03,240 --> 00:43:04,080
The word has already-

1040
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:05,480
That's a gift for me.

1041
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:06,480
That's a gift for me.

1042
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,280
And I think it's cause I grew up in two homes,

1043
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,380
one with love and one with hate,

1044
00:43:10,380 --> 00:43:11,960
where I got to experience both

1045
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,740
and I gravitated towards the love.

1046
00:43:13,740 --> 00:43:18,000
But as I saw Gary Vaynerchuk, you know, F-bomb like crazy,

1047
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,760
and I thought, you know, who does he serve?

1048
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,060
Who's his audience?

1049
00:43:21,060 --> 00:43:22,640
And he's serving the hood.

1050
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,560
You know, that's literally where he came from.

1051
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:25,720
He's trying to help people grow.

1052
00:43:25,720 --> 00:43:28,080
He's not trying to help your average, you know,

1053
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,680
stay at home, 20 year old, you know,

1054
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,120
with a mom and a rich family in Utah.

1055
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,680
He's trying to help people get out of a circumstance

1056
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,360
where they've got almost no other options.

1057
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,680
And in those types of homes,

1058
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:45,560
the words F-you can be very close to the words.

1059
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,120
In fact, they could probably mean more in a lot of cases

1060
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,120
than thank you and then I love you,

1061
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:53,000
especially if you grew up in an abusive relationship

1062
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,240
where somebody says, I love you, whack.

1063
00:43:55,240 --> 00:43:56,280
You know, I love you, whack.

1064
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,200
Like that, there's gonna be a certain triggering effect

1065
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,800
on people who have to go through that.

1066
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,240
My friend, a great, great entrepreneur,

1067
00:44:04,240 --> 00:44:06,880
Caesar Torres taught me that.

1068
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,400
When he taught about trigger words and he said,

1069
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:14,400
for him, the word stupid is the most offensive word

1070
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,000
in his language.

1071
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:19,280
And like never ever use that with him

1072
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,040
because it triggers him because of the way his dad

1073
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:25,180
used that word in relation to him or others.

1074
00:44:25,180 --> 00:44:28,360
And, you know, I decided, I was like, you know,

1075
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:32,040
I really don't want to give words that power over me.

1076
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:35,320
And I started to explore the depths of meanings of words

1077
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:36,760
so I could let go.

1078
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,640
Works for me, maybe not for everybody,

1079
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:42,640
but it's so helpful to know that we can break free

1080
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,120
or to know what we can avoid.

1081
00:44:45,240 --> 00:44:46,080
Now I like that.

1082
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,300
I like that you've disconnected, you've disattached from it.

1083
00:44:49,300 --> 00:44:51,800
Not that you necessarily wanna use it now every day,

1084
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,120
but if you hear it or it comes your way,

1085
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,080
it just slides off of you.

1086
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:56,920
It doesn't become a thing.

1087
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,280
And who knows this, but like I'm LD,

1088
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,400
I'm of the church of Jesus Christ, you know, Mormon.

1089
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:04,560
And like, Cassine's like not, like a no go.

1090
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,680
Like, you know, there's people who get very upset

1091
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,380
about words like darn and shoot and stuff.

1092
00:45:08,380 --> 00:45:11,840
And it's like, and so it's a very weird environment

1093
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:15,640
to be in and know that, okay, I gotta be careful still,

1094
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:19,120
even though I have no association with the same,

1095
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,440
same type of challenge that I used to grow up with.

1096
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,520
So it's weird, but it's important, right?

1097
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,160
If you wanna relate to communities.

1098
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,120
Right? What?

1099
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:28,360
You're still with the church?

1100
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:29,760
Oh yeah.

1101
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,280
Yep, definitely.

1102
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,080
And what was that?

1103
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:34,800
You don't swear in front of them.

1104
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,920
No, no, it's that, well, it's a respect.

1105
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,440
I might use it as a, as a means of, of,

1106
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:44,120
so again, with a purposeful intention of, you know,

1107
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,800
like how do we make room and space for others

1108
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,320
if we can't make room and space for dialects?

1109
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,160
And that's really what Cassine is at the end of the day

1110
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,780
is it's a dialect and it's a reflection of anger,

1111
00:45:56,780 --> 00:46:00,280
which is a fake emotion, a surface level emotion

1112
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,760
that means there's something deeper going on.

1113
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,840
How do I, how do I discover the steps

1114
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,480
so we can move beyond whatever's really felt?

1115
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,480
How do I, how do I position myself to be able to listen

1116
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,920
without them controlling the spirit that I have access to?

1117
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:15,280
That's my thought on it.

1118
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,200
Yeah, I would recommend you to watch Osho.

1119
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,680
Have you ever read?

1120
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:20,520
Uh-uh, what is it?

1121
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,360
How do you spell it?

1122
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,880
Look it up on YouTube, it's O-S-H-O.

1123
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:25,720
Okay, I can spell that.

1124
00:46:25,720 --> 00:46:28,760
And he has an entire video.

1125
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:32,040
He's like this guru with a beard and a thing

1126
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,000
and he writes books and he's the best seller.

1127
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,040
But look at that video, it's all about the F word.

1128
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:42,380
He just uses it in every, it's hilarious.

1129
00:46:42,380 --> 00:46:44,960
Okay, he's basically talking about Americans

1130
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,440
and how they use the F word in everything.

1131
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:48,280
Okay.

1132
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,160
And he's like a spiritual guru.

1133
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,240
Right, and that's what's, it does not affect him.

1134
00:46:54,240 --> 00:46:55,840
No, and it's hilarious.

1135
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,000
And it might have at some point, but it's pretty cool

1136
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:04,000
when our words become resources that are simply for,

1137
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,680
you know, our own gain and our own ability to access power.

1138
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:08,840
Yeah.

1139
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:10,320
Okay, shadows.

1140
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,120
You got a few seconds, a few minutes to go into shadows.

1141
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:14,420
Okay, oh, definitely.

1142
00:47:14,420 --> 00:47:17,680
So shadows for me, I wrote a whole book called

1143
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,640
Discover the Gifts of Your Disempowered Self.

1144
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:22,840
Disempowered Self basically are your shadow self.

1145
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,720
You're limiting beliefs in your shadow self.

1146
00:47:24,720 --> 00:47:28,140
And the shadow basically is the version of you

1147
00:47:28,140 --> 00:47:31,760
that has been shamed, guilted, denied,

1148
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:36,760
stuffed in a closet, bashed, yelled at, unheard, unseen.

1149
00:47:36,940 --> 00:47:41,300
And the shadow aspect of us basically is the version of me

1150
00:47:41,300 --> 00:47:43,800
that I don't show the world.

1151
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,520
Okay, so it's a hidden version of me.

1152
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,440
But that version of me actually has

1153
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:51,840
all the amazing virtues of me, right?

1154
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,000
So let's say if I was a kid and I would be like,

1155
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,080
I have something exciting to share with a parent

1156
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,880
and the parent would shut me down, right?

1157
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:02,260
Excitement now lives in the shadow

1158
00:48:02,260 --> 00:48:04,680
because now there's shame, right?

1159
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,720
So it's figuring out,

1160
00:48:06,720 --> 00:48:08,400
because we're all running away from our shadow

1161
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,520
or trying to release the shadow,

1162
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,360
but not bringing the shadow into the light,

1163
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,640
meaning let me look at my shadow

1164
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,680
because that's where my true identity actually exists.

1165
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:20,520
This persona that I've come up with of like,

1166
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:21,880
oh, I'm cheerful, extrovert,

1167
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,500
but all the whole titles things around, that is not truth.

1168
00:48:25,500 --> 00:48:29,500
That is something I created to protect myself, right?

1169
00:48:29,500 --> 00:48:33,760
To be liked and to be valued from this image that I have

1170
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:35,840
that is in the light.

1171
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,880
It's being seen, because it's being approved of.

1172
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,820
But there's a shadow me and that's what I dig up for people.

1173
00:48:42,820 --> 00:48:45,160
It's not that I go digging, but I keep opening it up

1174
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,400
and I'm like, look, let's go into your shadow.

1175
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:48,720
Give me all your beliefs,

1176
00:48:48,720 --> 00:48:50,440
all the things that whisper in your head,

1177
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,040
all the time, like, you know, nobody loves you.

1178
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:54,960
Oh, look at that, you know,

1179
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,160
he's gonna choose her instead of you and all that stuff.

1180
00:48:58,160 --> 00:48:59,920
I wanna hear it,

1181
00:48:59,920 --> 00:49:04,360
because that's only covering up the jewel inside

1182
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:05,720
who's actually you.

1183
00:49:05,720 --> 00:49:08,960
Because then that's when people start to recognize

1184
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:10,680
their soul gifts.

1185
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,760
Because that's where your magic lies,

1186
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,120
your spirituality, your gifts,

1187
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,720
your like if you thought you were a procrastinator

1188
00:49:17,720 --> 00:49:21,240
for so long, it turns out you're not, right?

1189
00:49:21,240 --> 00:49:24,160
But you became because that it was shamed out of you,

1190
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,320
like you've been shamed into it.

1191
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,880
And it's just so delightful to look at shadow

1192
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,240
without being afraid of the shadow.

1193
00:49:32,240 --> 00:49:35,280
So I didn't call it shadow, I called it disempowered self.

1194
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,860
Because shadow for me, when I started shadow work,

1195
00:49:37,860 --> 00:49:40,300
and I used to see dark entities before,

1196
00:49:40,300 --> 00:49:41,840
it would freak me out.

1197
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:43,560
I don't wanna work with my shadow already,

1198
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:44,760
I'm seeing shadows everywhere.

1199
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:47,480
I get scared to go to the bathroom alone.

1200
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:51,160
I was a very terrified child in teen and 20 and 30.

1201
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:55,080
So I decided to call it a disempowered self.

1202
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:58,120
If it's a, this is with the thing with words, right?

1203
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,120
If I use the word shadow,

1204
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,120
I won't wanna go near it as often.

1205
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,600
I will wanna get rid of it because shadows are scary.

1206
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,880
When we're small and we see a shadow, we scream.

1207
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,880
If we're adults and we see a shadow, we scream.

1208
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,000
But if I give it a new name,

1209
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:16,600
if I say it's a disempowered version of self,

1210
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:20,560
it's a disempowered self, I will have pity for it.

1211
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:23,380
I will now empathize and have compassion

1212
00:50:23,380 --> 00:50:26,560
to care for this disempowered version of me.

1213
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,240
She lives here, can I go check her out?

1214
00:50:29,240 --> 00:50:32,040
I don't wanna get rid of her, I don't wanna delete her.

1215
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,240
I don't wanna shame her,

1216
00:50:33,240 --> 00:50:35,240
I don't wanna go to different healers

1217
00:50:35,240 --> 00:50:37,140
to please let me feel happy.

1218
00:50:37,140 --> 00:50:38,700
I don't wanna any of that.

1219
00:50:38,700 --> 00:50:41,460
All I wanna do is there's a disempowered version of me

1220
00:50:41,460 --> 00:50:44,960
that exists, I wanna just take care of her.

1221
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,960
And words.

1222
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:47,800
Right.

1223
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,120
That is so important.

1224
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:50,560
And language.

1225
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,160
I am so glad you passionately explained

1226
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:54,220
your version of that too,

1227
00:50:54,220 --> 00:50:57,400
because the words drive us towards different illusions,

1228
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:58,940
realities, understandings.

1229
00:50:58,940 --> 00:51:00,680
And so as you talked about that,

1230
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:05,180
I wouldn't have gotten all of the depth of empathy

1231
00:51:05,180 --> 00:51:06,360
and nurture and care.

1232
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,440
My side, I guess I gravitate more towards the science

1233
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:14,040
than I realized, because my side saw a light switch.

1234
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,680
Something that I can control.

1235
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,840
If somebody disempowered me and turned my light switch off,

1236
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:22,940
why have the power to find a switch and turn it back on?

1237
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:27,560
But the power of having access to left brain, right brain,

1238
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:31,120
definitions on that, it puts us in a stronger position

1239
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:34,580
to take action and to make a choice.

1240
00:51:34,580 --> 00:51:36,320
So I love what you taught.

1241
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,800
I gotta give a big shout out to the person

1242
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,760
who really inspired me over the last couple of years

1243
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,800
to step out into the public without knowing,

1244
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,680
he doesn't know me, but JP Sears.

1245
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:50,680
JP Sears, the comedian and coach slash business coach now.

1246
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:53,440
If any of you don't know who he is,

1247
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,480
you should definitely go check out

1248
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,040
some of his most popular videos.

1249
00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:00,320
He has turned highly political and what he does,

1250
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:01,160
and that's okay.

1251
00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:04,720
He stepped into exactly who he wants to be and how.

1252
00:52:04,720 --> 00:52:09,580
And he speaks with such grace on that subject

1253
00:52:09,580 --> 00:52:11,840
that I realized just a couple of years ago,

1254
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,600
I was like, man, I have hidden from so many things

1255
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,760
within myself.

1256
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,240
I never ever grew my hair out

1257
00:52:19,240 --> 00:52:21,280
because I hated my curly hair.

1258
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:23,520
This is the first time ever.

1259
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:24,360
And it was-

1260
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:27,640
You know, it's so sexy and beautiful.

1261
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:28,480
Like-

1262
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:29,320
Take it.

1263
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:30,160
I'll take it.

1264
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,680
Yeah, it totally like suits you.

1265
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:33,520
You know what's funny?

1266
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,560
My son wanted to grow his hair out

1267
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,000
and I would never let him.

1268
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,760
And it, because, you know, religious standards,

1269
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:40,880
be strict, blah, blah, blah.

1270
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,480
You know, professional demeanor, all this stuff.

1271
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,840
Again, not trying to be sacrilegious on any of that stuff,

1272
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,280
but that wasn't it.

1273
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:51,960
It was my own self-deprecating thoughts.

1274
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,520
It was my own insecurities that were actually-

1275
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,960
So when I finally met his little friend

1276
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,000
who looked like a little rendition of Jesus

1277
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,920
with his long hair, and I was like,

1278
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,400
oh, you want to be like him.

1279
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,080
I was like, that makes more, okay.

1280
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:07,640
My son's got this Thor-like hair.

1281
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:09,560
I mean, he could look like a little version of Thor

1282
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:10,760
if he grew it out.

1283
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:11,600
So I said, you know what?

1284
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:13,760
I'm going to grow my hair out with you.

1285
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:14,800
You know, that was what it was all about.

1286
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:15,680
He cut his hair.

1287
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,320
I don't know if his mom made him or if he did it,

1288
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,320
but I was like, dude, you're panicking.

1289
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:23,680
It was one of the like scariest things to do.

1290
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:26,480
And it, you know, every time I got a little comment

1291
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,320
from somebody, you know,

1292
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:31,720
the disempowered Jackson wants to run back into that hole.

1293
00:53:31,720 --> 00:53:33,480
And I said, you know what?

1294
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,760
No, I'm 36 years old now.

1295
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,000
You know, I can do this until I donate it.

1296
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,040
You know, like that's, that's what I'm going to do.

1297
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,040
If I wanted, it's not like the new mission,

1298
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:43,560
but thank you, Rain.

1299
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,280
Like the amount that you've opened for me in the session,

1300
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,520
the amount that you have the power to open

1301
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,560
and others as a transformational coach,

1302
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:54,440
like it just, you just radiate virtue.

1303
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,720
And I know that when, in the show notes, everybody,

1304
00:53:57,720 --> 00:53:58,560
everybody's listening,

1305
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:00,360
you're going to see action steps that you can take.

1306
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,560
We'll get your book in there so that people know

1307
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:03,400
then go to the book.

1308
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,480
We'll get the website, of course too.

1309
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,280
And then every other type of resource that we can put

1310
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:10,640
in there to help people know what steps to take next.

1311
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:11,680
We want those in there.

1312
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:14,600
My invitation to anybody listening as a visionary

1313
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:15,560
is in the top right corner,

1314
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:17,920
there'll be a button that says, be our guest.

1315
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:19,200
That's an invitation to you listening.

1316
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:21,440
We'd love to have your holistic vision.

1317
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,120
If you're up to serving others

1318
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:28,120
or you have the desires to, it's not called plan pros.

1319
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:29,440
It's called vision pro.

1320
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,160
So you don't have to be the Elon Musk

1321
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:32,840
who's already on his way to Mars.

1322
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:36,320
You can also be the people who are just getting started.

1323
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,520
If it's holistic, we want to hear about it.

1324
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:39,800
Rain, do you have anything that you want to add

1325
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:40,680
before I wrap up?

1326
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:45,920
All I want to add is,

1327
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:51,760
if everyone can jump off the wagon of healing,

1328
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:56,600
stop healing, done, it's done.

1329
00:54:56,600 --> 00:55:01,120
And just go into self-discovery, change the words,

1330
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:04,880
get rid of healing as a word and get into self-discovery.

1331
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:06,400
Your lives will change,

1332
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,640
your attitude towards yourselves will change

1333
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,040
and who you pursue to help you self-discover

1334
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:13,960
is going to shift and change.

1335
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,720
So that's what I would love to share with everyone.

1336
00:55:16,720 --> 00:55:17,960
And yeah.

1337
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,840
Already has a big impact on me.

1338
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:25,120
I am going to be meditating that today, tonight.

1339
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:26,480
And thank you.

1340
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,840
You've given us so much value today.

1341
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:31,360
And all you vision pros listening in,

1342
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:32,880
we will see you in the next episode.

1343
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,000
Take care, everybody.

1344
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:34,840
Bye-bye.

1345
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:35,680
Thanks for being here today.

1346
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:38,160
I'm really happy that you tuned in to Vision Pros Live.

1347
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,800
I'm looking forward to seeing your reactions

1348
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,080
as these episodes continue to move forward.

1349
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:44,800
This is going to get more and more fun.

1350
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,600
We'll have more and more engagement as well.

1351
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:48,720
We'll invite people to participate in the show.

1352
00:55:48,720 --> 00:55:51,080
And thank you for giving us your time and attention.

1353
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:53,800
Have an excellent time building out your vision

1354
00:55:53,800 --> 00:56:16,160
and becoming a vision.