1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,560 That's where I'm from. 2 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:02,880 And she- 3 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:04,920 Boston or Bosnia? 4 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:05,760 What? 5 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:07,480 Boston or Bosnia? 6 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,200 Boston, from Boston, believe us. 7 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,440 From Boston, okay, got it. 8 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:15,760 And I asked her like, hey, you know, you're gonna be, 9 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:17,720 she took the semester off and I said, 10 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,220 can I come spend Christmas with you? 11 00:00:19,220 --> 00:00:20,600 And she said, absolutely. 12 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:22,620 Like my family will open their arms. 13 00:00:22,620 --> 00:00:26,280 And so her family has been such a beautiful gift to me. 14 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:28,000 I stayed with them for the first two weeks 15 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:29,600 and they were like a host family 16 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:31,600 and it was just so amazing. 17 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,080 So that's why I'm in Peru is to spend Christmas here 18 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,640 with my friend and her family and spend the holidays here. 19 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:39,720 Wow, okay. 20 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,040 So I spent two years in Uruguay 21 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:44,840 but under different circumstances. 22 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,040 How do you gain the courage to just decide 23 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,440 to make a plan and execute it? 24 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,680 That is, you know, there's no program, 25 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,760 there's no Institute, there's no additional drive behind it. 26 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,480 How did you do that? 27 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:01,920 It's actually kind of some of the things 28 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,040 that I was gonna talk about today, so it's perfect. 29 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,580 Is I had the signs and the synchronicities 30 00:01:08,580 --> 00:01:12,160 and like the magic, like I can't deny the signs 31 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:16,480 that happened, I had to follow them. 32 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:20,040 And it got to a point where it was so clear 33 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:23,100 that it became undeniable that I just needed to jump. 34 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,000 And also everything in my life in Boston 35 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,020 had to really fall apart 36 00:01:29,020 --> 00:01:31,560 because the signs and synchronicities kept coming, 37 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,800 kept coming and then the whole life just was like, 38 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,160 all right, we're gonna take this away 39 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,320 because you're not listening 40 00:01:39,320 --> 00:01:41,880 and we're telling you to go this way. 41 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,160 So that's what happened. 42 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,080 Life sometimes will be like, come on, go, go, go. 43 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,480 And then it will take everything away 44 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,000 so that you're like, all right, 45 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,520 this is do it now or don't. 46 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,080 And so it's the signs and the synchronicities, 47 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,560 the undeniable signs and synchronicities that just- 48 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,080 Well, and you listen to them and I know that 49 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:05,280 because there's the BSers in life who tell you like, 50 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,480 hey, this isn't the season or time I'll be back 51 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,240 and then they never come back. 52 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,640 You told me I'll be back this summer 53 00:02:12,640 --> 00:02:16,320 and you told me you'd be back for this episode. 54 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,800 And you're like, not now, I'll do this later. 55 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,640 And you did come back, you came back and you messaged me 56 00:02:21,640 --> 00:02:24,160 and we're like, okay, awesome, I'm ready to go. 57 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,980 We don't usually send follow-up messages to people 58 00:02:26,980 --> 00:02:29,920 because we are looking for that type of commitment, 59 00:02:29,920 --> 00:02:31,980 dedication to persistence, diligence, 60 00:02:31,980 --> 00:02:32,980 and like being on point. 61 00:02:32,980 --> 00:02:34,480 You are super on point about that. 62 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,320 So that's- 63 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,080 Well, when I say I'm gonna do- 64 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,280 This is one thing that is very important to me 65 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:40,640 is I'm true to my word. 66 00:02:40,640 --> 00:02:42,880 What I say, I will do. 67 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,080 There is, I will say it. 68 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,400 If I say it, that means I'm holding myself accountable 69 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:49,800 to doing it. 70 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,380 I don't wanna say it's a lost art, 71 00:02:51,380 --> 00:02:53,500 but I'm so grateful for a teacher. 72 00:02:53,500 --> 00:02:56,520 When I was in middle school in my church and he said, 73 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:00,640 you know, he said, people do not stick to their word anymore. 74 00:03:00,640 --> 00:03:01,620 And he had a theory, he said, 75 00:03:01,620 --> 00:03:04,440 a lot of it has to do with these stupid online contracts 76 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,840 where we're signing contracts, I agree, I agree, 77 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,800 I agree, I agree, giving our word that will follow us. 78 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,760 We never read the documents or the paperwork 79 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,200 because in a world that's moving so fast 80 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,960 with so many agreements, like why wouldn't you? 81 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,960 But he said, your word, you know, 82 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:24,260 is the only thing that nobody can ever take from you. 83 00:03:24,260 --> 00:03:26,940 I'm so grateful for that lesson. 84 00:03:26,940 --> 00:03:30,020 It's definitely made an impact on how I live my life. 85 00:03:30,020 --> 00:03:32,180 So let's move, let's move one degree here. 86 00:03:32,180 --> 00:03:33,020 You went to Colombia. 87 00:03:33,020 --> 00:03:36,600 What are your favorite three things about Colombia? 88 00:03:38,300 --> 00:03:39,440 The people are so warm. 89 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:40,620 They're so welcoming. 90 00:03:40,620 --> 00:03:42,920 They're like, I want you to love this country. 91 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,480 And, you know, people invite me to, 92 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,180 I immediately had community. 93 00:03:48,180 --> 00:03:51,340 And even with like my low level of Spanish, 94 00:03:51,340 --> 00:03:53,300 I wouldn't say it's low, it's gotten better and better, 95 00:03:53,300 --> 00:03:55,580 but I get very nervous at times. 96 00:03:55,580 --> 00:03:59,220 But people are so loving and like, you're trying, come on. 97 00:03:59,220 --> 00:04:01,100 Like just come to the dinner. 98 00:04:01,100 --> 00:04:03,580 And sometimes you may need to take a break 99 00:04:03,580 --> 00:04:05,780 and sit and just listen, but we'll hear 100 00:04:05,780 --> 00:04:07,260 and we're gonna welcome you. 101 00:04:07,260 --> 00:04:09,700 So that's number one is just the welcoming. 102 00:04:09,700 --> 00:04:12,700 The second is I love to challenge myself. 103 00:04:12,700 --> 00:04:15,100 So challenging myself with learning Spanish, 104 00:04:15,100 --> 00:04:17,480 with speaking it even when I'm nervous 105 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,940 is a huge part of why I loved it so much. 106 00:04:20,940 --> 00:04:22,780 And the third for me- 107 00:04:22,780 --> 00:04:25,780 Right, welcome in to Vision Pros Live. 108 00:04:25,780 --> 00:04:27,820 With Jackson Calame, I'm your show host. 109 00:04:27,820 --> 00:04:30,500 We'll be doing interviews for visionary entrepreneurs 110 00:04:30,500 --> 00:04:32,460 and guest leaders who are building 111 00:04:32,460 --> 00:04:34,020 fantastic visions out there. 112 00:04:42,900 --> 00:04:44,940 Hey there and welcome into Vision Pros Live. 113 00:04:44,940 --> 00:04:46,580 I'm your show host, Jackson Calame, 114 00:04:46,580 --> 00:04:49,020 founder and CEO of First Class Business. 115 00:04:49,020 --> 00:04:51,700 I'm excited to have Cassidy Amber Chapman on today. 116 00:04:51,700 --> 00:04:53,820 She is an author of a bestselling book, 117 00:04:53,820 --> 00:04:55,560 a life transformation expert. 118 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:59,960 And she's gonna talk to us about unlocking the magic within. 119 00:04:59,960 --> 00:05:04,580 Now I've seen Cassidy have, she's got this aura about her 120 00:05:04,580 --> 00:05:06,740 that says that she's unlocked something different 121 00:05:06,740 --> 00:05:08,100 that other people don't have. 122 00:05:08,100 --> 00:05:11,420 She's also got this intentionality about her, 123 00:05:11,420 --> 00:05:12,260 her favorite word. 124 00:05:12,260 --> 00:05:14,460 She can correct me if that's not true, 125 00:05:14,460 --> 00:05:18,740 but she loves the word intentional and being intentional. 126 00:05:18,740 --> 00:05:22,540 And I've seen her express intentionality 127 00:05:22,540 --> 00:05:26,860 in the fostering and cultivation of our friendship as well. 128 00:05:26,860 --> 00:05:29,340 We met several months back 129 00:05:29,340 --> 00:05:33,020 and we talked about the idea of her being on the show. 130 00:05:33,020 --> 00:05:36,340 I think it might've been in relation to the Kajabi event, 131 00:05:36,340 --> 00:05:38,580 if not Shadow Kajabi anyway. 132 00:05:38,580 --> 00:05:40,340 And she was in a season of her life 133 00:05:40,340 --> 00:05:41,820 where it didn't make sense to move forward 134 00:05:41,820 --> 00:05:43,180 for the show at that time. 135 00:05:43,180 --> 00:05:46,300 Sure enough, she reaches out to me again 136 00:05:46,300 --> 00:05:49,220 almost six months later, somewhere along that timeframe. 137 00:05:49,220 --> 00:05:50,700 And I was like, Jackson, I'm ready to go. 138 00:05:50,700 --> 00:05:51,980 Let's make this happen. 139 00:05:51,980 --> 00:05:56,980 And same energy, same joy, same light coming to me. 140 00:05:57,900 --> 00:06:00,260 But amplified. 141 00:06:00,260 --> 00:06:03,380 And that's also something that I look for in people is, 142 00:06:03,380 --> 00:06:06,740 are we growing within? 143 00:06:06,740 --> 00:06:07,580 Not externally. 144 00:06:07,580 --> 00:06:10,460 I don't care where people are at on the external surface. 145 00:06:10,460 --> 00:06:11,380 I'm excited for them 146 00:06:11,380 --> 00:06:13,380 if they're going through amazing things. 147 00:06:13,380 --> 00:06:16,820 I'll be sad for them and want to see them 148 00:06:16,820 --> 00:06:18,660 and be intentional with them 149 00:06:18,660 --> 00:06:21,860 if they are in a position where they need to level up 150 00:06:21,860 --> 00:06:24,100 or need a hand up, et cetera. 151 00:06:24,100 --> 00:06:26,380 So I don't look at those external things. 152 00:06:26,380 --> 00:06:29,180 I try to look more at the soul, 153 00:06:29,180 --> 00:06:31,180 what somebody's up to as a person 154 00:06:31,180 --> 00:06:33,220 regarding their own growth. 155 00:06:33,220 --> 00:06:35,660 So to see her traveling the world now. 156 00:06:35,660 --> 00:06:38,420 And she's now in Peru where one of my team members is. 157 00:06:38,420 --> 00:06:39,940 That's so important to me. 158 00:06:39,940 --> 00:06:41,740 And I was like, whoa, this and that. 159 00:06:41,740 --> 00:06:43,100 They're right next to each other too. 160 00:06:43,100 --> 00:06:43,940 They'll be going out. 161 00:06:43,940 --> 00:06:44,780 That's, I don't know. 162 00:06:44,780 --> 00:06:46,300 There's just a lot of amazing things about this. 163 00:06:46,300 --> 00:06:47,900 If you're listening in, 164 00:06:47,900 --> 00:06:49,860 this is gonna be an awesome opportunity 165 00:06:49,860 --> 00:06:52,780 to hear about unlocking your own magic, 166 00:06:52,780 --> 00:06:54,460 having that confidence to go out 167 00:06:54,460 --> 00:06:56,940 and do the things that you need to do in life. 168 00:06:56,940 --> 00:06:59,900 So before we get into bringing Cassidy on stage, 169 00:06:59,900 --> 00:07:02,380 I always of course want to talk about the sponsors as well. 170 00:07:02,380 --> 00:07:05,300 Cause these are entities that have very much helped me 171 00:07:05,300 --> 00:07:07,220 or that I have relationships with in different capacities 172 00:07:07,220 --> 00:07:08,460 as y'all know. 173 00:07:08,460 --> 00:07:11,740 The first one being laid back languages, Patrick Creighton. 174 00:07:11,740 --> 00:07:13,780 Patrick is a language teacher 175 00:07:13,780 --> 00:07:16,460 and he knows six different languages. 176 00:07:16,460 --> 00:07:19,100 This gentleman you can see in this picture, 177 00:07:19,100 --> 00:07:22,380 not only a good looking guy, he's extremely humble. 178 00:07:22,380 --> 00:07:27,380 And he has the gift of helping people learn languages fast. 179 00:07:28,140 --> 00:07:31,900 I speak Spanish fluently and his ability 180 00:07:31,900 --> 00:07:34,260 to teach concepts about language 181 00:07:34,260 --> 00:07:36,260 and understand what's important about that. 182 00:07:36,260 --> 00:07:38,580 I would say I can validate that pretty well 183 00:07:38,580 --> 00:07:41,420 with my own learning path and all that we've done 184 00:07:41,420 --> 00:07:44,940 to talk about languages and what he's up to in his programs. 185 00:07:44,940 --> 00:07:46,700 I just look forward to his program scaling 186 00:07:46,700 --> 00:07:49,740 because so many people doubt themselves, 187 00:07:49,740 --> 00:07:52,980 are scared to try new tones. 188 00:07:52,980 --> 00:07:55,740 They feel like they're changing who they are 189 00:07:55,740 --> 00:07:57,700 and they don't know how to go through that process 190 00:07:57,700 --> 00:07:58,860 of feeling that. 191 00:07:58,860 --> 00:08:01,420 And usually the confused mind says no. 192 00:08:01,420 --> 00:08:03,940 And the fear of the unknown also beats us. 193 00:08:03,940 --> 00:08:06,540 Patrick does an excellent job of helping people feel safe 194 00:08:06,540 --> 00:08:09,380 and understand the value of making those transitions. 195 00:08:09,380 --> 00:08:10,860 Two is the tail publishing. 196 00:08:10,860 --> 00:08:13,940 The tail publishing with Ashley DeTayo 197 00:08:13,940 --> 00:08:17,740 is my go-to choice for any market research 198 00:08:17,740 --> 00:08:19,660 related to content. 199 00:08:19,660 --> 00:08:21,300 She's also a phenomenal publisher 200 00:08:21,300 --> 00:08:24,660 and she's published from everything from all the content 201 00:08:24,660 --> 00:08:27,700 for Nomad Capitalists to her own children's book, 202 00:08:27,700 --> 00:08:28,660 Wallace the Westy. 203 00:08:28,660 --> 00:08:30,940 She even published a book on world schooling, 204 00:08:30,940 --> 00:08:32,980 how to travel and educate your children. 205 00:08:32,980 --> 00:08:35,780 She speaks Spanish and English. 206 00:08:35,780 --> 00:08:40,220 She's able to write on concepts like citizenship 207 00:08:40,220 --> 00:08:45,220 through investing, I think it is, foreign exchange, 208 00:08:45,460 --> 00:08:47,260 you name it, these incredibly hard topics 209 00:08:47,260 --> 00:08:49,380 that would take a lot of effort to research 210 00:08:49,380 --> 00:08:52,660 while also having the capacity to understand 211 00:08:52,660 --> 00:08:56,620 normal human beings like myself and write children's books. 212 00:08:56,620 --> 00:08:58,420 That's just, that's amazing her depth 213 00:08:58,420 --> 00:09:02,100 and the projects that she's working on for publishing. 214 00:09:02,100 --> 00:09:04,060 I've just, I've never seen anybody work with her 215 00:09:04,060 --> 00:09:08,100 that's not impressed with how well she does what she does. 216 00:09:08,100 --> 00:09:09,620 So if you get the chance to reach out to Ashley, 217 00:09:09,620 --> 00:09:10,580 feel free to. 218 00:09:10,580 --> 00:09:11,780 Then there's the water project. 219 00:09:11,780 --> 00:09:15,660 The water project is the cause that's near and dear 220 00:09:15,660 --> 00:09:17,020 to my heart right now. 221 00:09:17,020 --> 00:09:19,780 This is one where millions of people do not have access 222 00:09:19,780 --> 00:09:20,940 to clean drinking water. 223 00:09:20,940 --> 00:09:23,180 If you're in a position during this giving season 224 00:09:23,180 --> 00:09:26,780 to help people out who don't have the same luxuries 225 00:09:26,780 --> 00:09:29,300 that we do, I would say this is one of those causes 226 00:09:29,300 --> 00:09:31,220 that I highly recommend looking into. 227 00:09:31,220 --> 00:09:33,380 You got communities that are walking miles 228 00:09:33,380 --> 00:09:36,420 just to get to water that might be unsafe for them. 229 00:09:36,420 --> 00:09:40,340 And by helping them build what's called a sand dam 230 00:09:40,340 --> 00:09:45,020 or a borehole well, you're changing these communities lives. 231 00:09:45,020 --> 00:09:46,980 I love this picture of the children here 232 00:09:46,980 --> 00:09:49,580 where they're celebrating water as though that 233 00:09:49,580 --> 00:09:51,180 is their Christmas gift. 234 00:09:51,180 --> 00:09:55,260 It just, it shows me how big of a need this is 235 00:09:55,260 --> 00:09:57,380 in those communities, how important this asset is. 236 00:09:57,380 --> 00:10:00,060 One that again, I get to take for granted more or less 237 00:10:00,060 --> 00:10:00,900 on a daily basis. 238 00:10:00,900 --> 00:10:02,420 So if you're in a position to give, please do. 239 00:10:02,420 --> 00:10:05,660 If you're in a position not to give, but to share, 240 00:10:05,660 --> 00:10:08,060 then look up the water project or click on the link 241 00:10:08,060 --> 00:10:10,300 that we have in the show notes and just share that. 242 00:10:10,300 --> 00:10:12,020 You never know who that might affect 243 00:10:12,020 --> 00:10:13,460 and what they might be able to do with it. 244 00:10:13,460 --> 00:10:16,780 So without further ado, Cassidy Chapman, 245 00:10:16,780 --> 00:10:18,380 welcome to Vision Pros Life. 246 00:10:18,380 --> 00:10:19,220 Hello. 247 00:10:20,500 --> 00:10:21,340 I'm so happy to have you. 248 00:10:21,340 --> 00:10:22,620 I am so grateful to be here. 249 00:10:22,620 --> 00:10:24,180 I feel so honored. 250 00:10:24,180 --> 00:10:27,140 Yeah, well, us as well, as well. 251 00:10:27,140 --> 00:10:29,860 So one of the things that you did 252 00:10:29,860 --> 00:10:31,860 right before we jumped in the show, 253 00:10:31,860 --> 00:10:33,460 in fact, it was the first thing that you said 254 00:10:33,460 --> 00:10:35,460 when I got into the room. 255 00:10:35,460 --> 00:10:38,340 And I was a little bit behind as well. 256 00:10:38,340 --> 00:10:40,300 And you jump in and you say, 257 00:10:40,300 --> 00:10:41,780 I'd love to just, you invited me. 258 00:10:41,780 --> 00:10:42,860 You didn't force it on me. 259 00:10:42,860 --> 00:10:44,660 You said, I'd love to take some time 260 00:10:44,660 --> 00:10:47,020 to just be intentional in this moment. 261 00:10:47,020 --> 00:10:47,860 Can we do that? 262 00:10:47,860 --> 00:10:49,060 Can I lead that? 263 00:10:49,060 --> 00:10:51,660 And you gave me the space to say no, if I wanted to. 264 00:10:51,660 --> 00:10:54,380 But then you led this interactive exercise 265 00:10:54,380 --> 00:10:57,580 to help make sure that we were both focused 266 00:10:57,580 --> 00:11:00,340 on helping people at our best capacities. 267 00:11:00,340 --> 00:11:01,940 And it was absolutely beautiful. 268 00:11:03,020 --> 00:11:04,180 I just wanna share that with the audience 269 00:11:04,180 --> 00:11:06,940 because it was very touching. 270 00:11:06,940 --> 00:11:09,180 You talked about how important it was 271 00:11:09,180 --> 00:11:11,060 that we help those who are listening 272 00:11:11,060 --> 00:11:12,980 and reach their hearts, 273 00:11:12,980 --> 00:11:17,540 that we gravitate into our unconditional, 274 00:11:17,540 --> 00:11:20,220 the unconditional love that exists within energy. 275 00:11:21,260 --> 00:11:25,260 And yeah, it was beautiful. 276 00:11:25,260 --> 00:11:29,180 Who do you hope is listening today? 277 00:11:29,180 --> 00:11:31,780 And what do you hope we tap into 278 00:11:31,780 --> 00:11:34,940 in order to help them get the most out of this conversation? 279 00:11:36,220 --> 00:11:38,300 Well, I hope whoever is listening 280 00:11:38,300 --> 00:11:41,460 is those people that feel the calling to be here. 281 00:11:41,460 --> 00:11:43,820 Cause there's that little voice inside. 282 00:11:43,820 --> 00:11:46,820 There's just something that is calling someone here 283 00:11:46,820 --> 00:11:47,820 right now. 284 00:11:47,820 --> 00:11:49,420 And if you're feeling like, 285 00:11:49,420 --> 00:11:51,220 I don't know why I got to click on this video, 286 00:11:51,220 --> 00:11:53,900 but I got to click on there. 287 00:11:53,900 --> 00:11:56,500 It's for those people that feel that call. 288 00:11:56,500 --> 00:12:01,500 And for me, it's to be able to share my story, 289 00:12:01,500 --> 00:12:03,620 share how to tap into that magic 290 00:12:03,620 --> 00:12:05,940 so that your life can feel magical. 291 00:12:05,940 --> 00:12:08,660 And that doesn't mean that trials and tribulations don't come. 292 00:12:08,660 --> 00:12:12,500 It means that when it comes, it becomes your tools. 293 00:12:12,500 --> 00:12:16,700 It becomes your weapons and armor for life. 294 00:12:16,700 --> 00:12:20,700 And it builds up these blessings and this magic 295 00:12:20,700 --> 00:12:23,460 so that not that trials and tribulations don't happen, 296 00:12:23,460 --> 00:12:26,220 but it's you fully embrace them and love them. 297 00:12:26,220 --> 00:12:30,620 And you feel into the magic of life 298 00:12:30,620 --> 00:12:33,700 so that you can become the most vibrant version of yourself. 299 00:12:36,580 --> 00:12:40,380 You remind me of somebody who has just fallen in love. 300 00:12:41,980 --> 00:12:44,020 Oh my God, I love that. 301 00:12:44,020 --> 00:12:44,940 That's the feeling. 302 00:12:44,940 --> 00:12:45,940 That's the one. 303 00:12:45,940 --> 00:12:48,180 Is you remind me of somebody who's just fallen in love. 304 00:12:48,180 --> 00:12:50,740 How long have you carried that feeling with you? 305 00:12:50,740 --> 00:12:52,260 Well, I love that you say that 306 00:12:52,260 --> 00:12:54,700 cause I say that I live in love. 307 00:12:54,700 --> 00:12:57,420 I live as the embodiment of love. 308 00:12:57,420 --> 00:12:58,820 It doesn't need to be romantic. 309 00:12:58,820 --> 00:13:00,140 I could be in love with life. 310 00:13:00,140 --> 00:13:05,140 I can be love with just the air in this real air here 311 00:13:06,500 --> 00:13:07,660 or the water, right? 312 00:13:08,700 --> 00:13:13,220 And I would say it's been an interesting journey, 313 00:13:13,220 --> 00:13:16,580 but I would say this journey of embodying love 314 00:13:16,580 --> 00:13:21,580 and having that intention has been about three-ish years. 315 00:13:21,580 --> 00:13:24,260 Two-ish, three-ish, something like that. 316 00:13:24,260 --> 00:13:25,260 Okay. 317 00:13:25,260 --> 00:13:28,220 And so you've kind of, 318 00:13:28,220 --> 00:13:30,220 have you maintained that for three solid years 319 00:13:30,220 --> 00:13:31,660 or are there days where you're like, 320 00:13:31,660 --> 00:13:33,180 ah, today's rough? 321 00:13:33,180 --> 00:13:34,380 You know? 322 00:13:34,380 --> 00:13:35,340 Oh, you know what? 323 00:13:35,340 --> 00:13:39,300 It's interesting because I'm always in love, 324 00:13:39,300 --> 00:13:41,380 but that doesn't mean I'm always excited 325 00:13:41,380 --> 00:13:42,420 and I'm always joyful. 326 00:13:42,420 --> 00:13:43,900 I'm always happy. 327 00:13:43,900 --> 00:13:45,300 Those are two different things. 328 00:13:45,300 --> 00:13:48,620 The, we, I sometimes we think of the word love 329 00:13:48,620 --> 00:13:53,420 or unconditional love as, oh, this blissful feeling, 330 00:13:53,420 --> 00:13:56,980 but in reality it's holding space. 331 00:13:56,980 --> 00:14:00,700 So you can be in absolute tears and saying, 332 00:14:00,700 --> 00:14:02,620 you know what, this is rough today. 333 00:14:02,620 --> 00:14:06,380 I'm having a rough day, but being able to hold that in love. 334 00:14:06,380 --> 00:14:09,180 Like I'm allowed to be sad today. 335 00:14:09,180 --> 00:14:10,660 Actually it's beautiful 336 00:14:10,660 --> 00:14:12,660 because as a part of my human experience, 337 00:14:12,660 --> 00:14:14,540 I'm allowed to be beautifully mad 338 00:14:14,540 --> 00:14:16,660 and I'll still love this part of me. 339 00:14:16,660 --> 00:14:19,580 And when there's a part of me that doesn't want to love, 340 00:14:19,580 --> 00:14:21,420 there's still a space being held like, 341 00:14:21,420 --> 00:14:23,980 okay, you don't have to love right now. 342 00:14:23,980 --> 00:14:27,780 It's a container for all 343 00:14:27,780 --> 00:14:31,860 and every human experience to unfold. 344 00:14:31,860 --> 00:14:35,420 So I constantly do have the intention for embodying love. 345 00:14:35,420 --> 00:14:36,700 Am I perfect at it? 346 00:14:36,700 --> 00:14:38,260 Absolutely not. 347 00:14:38,260 --> 00:14:41,060 But has it been my consistent baseline 348 00:14:41,060 --> 00:14:42,500 for these past couple of years? 349 00:14:42,500 --> 00:14:45,340 Not saying that it's always my state 350 00:14:45,340 --> 00:14:49,300 or always what I, I make mistakes, I fall, I tumble, 351 00:14:49,300 --> 00:14:51,580 but the thing is, is that's my baseline. 352 00:14:51,580 --> 00:14:52,900 Is that makes sense? 353 00:14:52,900 --> 00:14:54,340 It makes perfect sense. 354 00:14:54,340 --> 00:14:56,260 You know, it's no different than somebody 355 00:14:56,260 --> 00:14:59,020 who's focused on, you know, today, this year, 356 00:14:59,020 --> 00:15:01,100 I'm gonna focus on being great at sales. 357 00:15:01,100 --> 00:15:06,100 And over this year, I'm gonna be super focused on my kids. 358 00:15:07,140 --> 00:15:10,300 When you make that intentional adjustment 359 00:15:10,300 --> 00:15:12,820 and you stick to it over time, 360 00:15:12,820 --> 00:15:15,620 then today I'm gonna be bitter 361 00:15:15,620 --> 00:15:17,140 and I'm gonna choose to be bitter 362 00:15:17,140 --> 00:15:19,500 about that relationship for the rest of my life. 363 00:15:19,500 --> 00:15:21,660 It's amazing how strong those seeds 364 00:15:21,660 --> 00:15:25,300 that we decide to plant can grow. 365 00:15:25,300 --> 00:15:27,180 But let's set back into this love side 366 00:15:27,180 --> 00:15:30,780 because I'm more excited about what you've unlocked here. 367 00:15:30,780 --> 00:15:33,540 What's your vision for those that you're serving? 368 00:15:34,660 --> 00:15:37,940 My vision is for people to feel 369 00:15:37,940 --> 00:15:40,740 and to really feel into the fact that 370 00:15:40,740 --> 00:15:42,260 when they're walking in their life, 371 00:15:42,260 --> 00:15:46,540 it's like everything just kind of flows naturally. 372 00:15:46,540 --> 00:15:49,820 Not that there isn't hard times, but it just, 373 00:15:49,820 --> 00:15:52,940 sometimes you're wondering, how is this possible? 374 00:15:52,940 --> 00:15:55,180 How am I living the life of my dreams? 375 00:15:55,180 --> 00:15:59,980 And just sometimes just stopping in tears of gratitude 376 00:15:59,980 --> 00:16:03,020 for how your life has unfolded, for who you've become, 377 00:16:03,020 --> 00:16:04,980 for how much you grow, 378 00:16:04,980 --> 00:16:08,140 to be able to just like wake up and be like, wow, 379 00:16:09,580 --> 00:16:13,500 I'm just grateful to be alive, just feeling into life 380 00:16:13,500 --> 00:16:17,100 and having anything around you, 381 00:16:17,100 --> 00:16:20,820 anything in your business crumbling and falling, 382 00:16:20,820 --> 00:16:23,980 a financial crisis, a health crisis, a breakup, 383 00:16:23,980 --> 00:16:25,820 anything and everything, 384 00:16:25,820 --> 00:16:28,620 it doesn't stop you from really feeling 385 00:16:28,620 --> 00:16:30,540 into the magic of life. 386 00:16:30,540 --> 00:16:32,540 You become unshakable. 387 00:16:32,540 --> 00:16:35,900 And anything that you desire to create is created 388 00:16:35,900 --> 00:16:37,820 because you decide to. 389 00:16:37,820 --> 00:16:42,100 It's coming back to your power, your internal power, 390 00:16:42,100 --> 00:16:45,740 but also coming to this place of letting go 391 00:16:45,740 --> 00:16:48,540 and trusting that it will all unfold. 392 00:16:48,540 --> 00:16:53,380 So it's this duality of making things happen 393 00:16:53,380 --> 00:16:56,500 or choosing for things to happen in reality. 394 00:16:56,500 --> 00:17:00,820 And so having no need for any outside circumstance 395 00:17:00,820 --> 00:17:05,820 to be any way, not to be attached to any circumstance 396 00:17:06,620 --> 00:17:09,740 or any outcome, but rather see those outcomes 397 00:17:09,740 --> 00:17:11,700 burst out and unfold. 398 00:17:11,700 --> 00:17:14,700 You could create a million dollars in that energy. 399 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:17,500 You can find the love of your life in that energy. 400 00:17:17,500 --> 00:17:20,020 You can heal after 10 years of chronic illness 401 00:17:20,020 --> 00:17:22,340 in that energy, but it's letting go 402 00:17:22,340 --> 00:17:27,340 so that all of it can unfold in the most incredible, 403 00:17:27,860 --> 00:17:29,780 ah, striking way. 404 00:17:30,860 --> 00:17:34,260 As an ode to my daughter, I will mention this, 405 00:17:34,260 --> 00:17:36,100 but I will, let's keep it reverent 406 00:17:36,100 --> 00:17:37,380 because I don't wanna lose a train of thought, 407 00:17:37,380 --> 00:17:40,980 but I'm thinking about Elsa right from Frozen, 408 00:17:40,980 --> 00:17:43,460 right before you said, let it go. 409 00:17:43,460 --> 00:17:46,740 And to move into the, yeah, 410 00:17:46,740 --> 00:17:48,060 the other reason I was thinking about that 411 00:17:48,060 --> 00:17:51,020 is because I was thinking this power that you have, Cassidy, 412 00:17:51,020 --> 00:17:52,700 it's a power that scares me. 413 00:17:53,860 --> 00:17:56,060 It's a, and when I say it scares me, 414 00:17:57,100 --> 00:18:01,900 much like Elsa's power or like any power 415 00:18:01,900 --> 00:18:05,380 of tremendous strength, whether that's a tsunami 416 00:18:05,380 --> 00:18:09,980 or like a tidal wave, or a roaring fire in a forest, 417 00:18:09,980 --> 00:18:14,980 there's, I'm the type of person 418 00:18:15,020 --> 00:18:19,060 who probably senses too much reverence, too much, 419 00:18:19,060 --> 00:18:21,140 like, and I will put the fire out 420 00:18:22,220 --> 00:18:24,500 before I allow it to take its natural course. 421 00:18:25,580 --> 00:18:28,820 I know a lot of life coaches 422 00:18:28,820 --> 00:18:31,300 that almost emulate your energy, 423 00:18:32,820 --> 00:18:34,060 but they come at people. 424 00:18:35,220 --> 00:18:36,300 They don't mean to. 425 00:18:36,300 --> 00:18:39,300 They, but they don't make space for the other. 426 00:18:39,300 --> 00:18:42,420 So they have this control factor with this power. 427 00:18:42,420 --> 00:18:45,180 If you accidentally say like, how can you be that way? 428 00:18:45,180 --> 00:18:46,020 Right? 429 00:18:46,020 --> 00:18:49,780 It's like laser beam eyes, like sear through your soul. 430 00:18:49,780 --> 00:18:52,380 When you question where they're at with things, 431 00:18:52,380 --> 00:18:56,140 my question is usually just like, I'm sincere, 432 00:18:56,140 --> 00:18:58,820 but I think some people get upset at them 433 00:18:58,820 --> 00:19:01,540 for the way they show up. 434 00:19:01,540 --> 00:19:06,540 So my, how do you, do you also have a fear for, 435 00:19:06,540 --> 00:19:11,540 or when I say fear, like a respect for this type of a power, 436 00:19:11,820 --> 00:19:13,380 how do you bring it without, 437 00:19:13,380 --> 00:19:15,060 without steamrolling people with it? 438 00:19:15,060 --> 00:19:15,900 How do you do that? 439 00:19:15,900 --> 00:19:16,740 Cause you do. 440 00:19:16,740 --> 00:19:18,260 This is such a good question. 441 00:19:18,260 --> 00:19:20,980 You know, when I first found this power within myself, 442 00:19:20,980 --> 00:19:23,340 right, like I have the power of my reality. 443 00:19:23,340 --> 00:19:25,820 I can, I can shift it. 444 00:19:25,820 --> 00:19:29,460 And I can also surrender to the fact that there's, 445 00:19:29,460 --> 00:19:32,020 you know, life has this plan that's greater 446 00:19:32,020 --> 00:19:33,940 than we can ever possibly imagine. 447 00:19:33,940 --> 00:19:35,860 There's this, this duality. 448 00:19:35,860 --> 00:19:37,060 But when I first found it, 449 00:19:37,060 --> 00:19:39,860 it kind of felt like a slap in the face. 450 00:19:39,860 --> 00:19:42,380 And it was like, ooh, 451 00:19:42,380 --> 00:19:45,900 I can been choosing this the entire time. 452 00:19:45,900 --> 00:19:49,580 And for me, that felt really hurtful. 453 00:19:51,060 --> 00:19:54,100 And then I, I started to notice, 454 00:19:54,100 --> 00:19:56,940 I would judge others when it first happened, right? 455 00:19:56,940 --> 00:19:59,780 Cause I was like, well, you can be choosing your reality. 456 00:19:59,780 --> 00:20:01,700 You have this power within you. 457 00:20:01,700 --> 00:20:04,900 I understand that that's a natural occurrence when, 458 00:20:04,900 --> 00:20:07,140 but that's just because I was judging myself 459 00:20:07,140 --> 00:20:11,660 for all those years that I didn't use that power. 460 00:20:11,660 --> 00:20:14,180 And then I kind of went through these more trials 461 00:20:14,180 --> 00:20:17,500 and tribulations in this energy of I have the power. 462 00:20:17,500 --> 00:20:19,500 Yes, I have the power, 463 00:20:19,500 --> 00:20:23,340 but life also wants to strengthen you in other ways. 464 00:20:23,340 --> 00:20:26,300 So there was humbling experiences at the same time 465 00:20:26,300 --> 00:20:29,100 of this duality of we have the power, 466 00:20:29,100 --> 00:20:32,260 but we also need to surrender and let go at the same time. 467 00:20:32,260 --> 00:20:37,260 And again, coming back to the intention of embodying love, 468 00:20:38,540 --> 00:20:42,100 I realized I trust people's journeys. 469 00:20:42,100 --> 00:20:43,700 I trust their timing. 470 00:20:43,700 --> 00:20:46,020 I trust their decision-making. 471 00:20:46,020 --> 00:20:46,860 Why? 472 00:20:46,860 --> 00:20:51,820 And I have compassion for everyone's decisions 473 00:20:51,820 --> 00:20:54,100 because I understand if I lived in their shoes, 474 00:20:54,100 --> 00:20:55,100 I've had their beliefs. 475 00:20:55,100 --> 00:20:57,700 If I lived in the environments that they lived in 476 00:20:57,700 --> 00:20:59,620 and I've gone through every experience 477 00:20:59,620 --> 00:21:00,460 that they've ever gone through, 478 00:21:00,460 --> 00:21:03,060 I'll probably be making very, very similar decisions. 479 00:21:04,180 --> 00:21:07,380 And it comes from this compassion 480 00:21:07,380 --> 00:21:09,180 of I understand where you are. 481 00:21:09,180 --> 00:21:13,660 It comes from the embodiment of that unconditional love, 482 00:21:13,660 --> 00:21:15,860 which is it's okay, 483 00:21:15,860 --> 00:21:17,460 you're exactly where you're supposed to be, 484 00:21:17,460 --> 00:21:19,140 but now you get to choose something different. 485 00:21:19,140 --> 00:21:20,220 And I'm gonna invite you, 486 00:21:20,220 --> 00:21:23,100 and I'm not gonna say this is the only way to live. 487 00:21:23,100 --> 00:21:25,740 Some people can actually do this 488 00:21:25,740 --> 00:21:27,580 without needing this mentality. 489 00:21:27,580 --> 00:21:29,100 They can just live it, 490 00:21:29,100 --> 00:21:31,860 they can be it without needing to explain it. 491 00:21:31,860 --> 00:21:36,180 And so I'm just inviting people into a way of being. 492 00:21:36,180 --> 00:21:38,540 And it doesn't mean that it's the only way. 493 00:21:38,540 --> 00:21:40,380 It doesn't mean that it's the right way, 494 00:21:40,380 --> 00:21:43,820 but I'm saying it's created a greater quality of life 495 00:21:43,820 --> 00:21:47,780 for me and I want whoever wants to join me to join me 496 00:21:47,780 --> 00:21:51,740 and I'll be their biggest support and cheerleader, 497 00:21:51,740 --> 00:21:54,140 but it's not the only way. 498 00:21:54,140 --> 00:21:57,020 It's not the only way of learning to create a reality. 499 00:21:57,020 --> 00:21:59,660 It's not the only way of speaking it. 500 00:21:59,660 --> 00:22:02,220 There's so many different ways to speak it. 501 00:22:02,220 --> 00:22:04,780 There's so many different ways and ideologies 502 00:22:04,780 --> 00:22:09,780 and ways of expressing this being 503 00:22:09,980 --> 00:22:14,420 because you can't truly put words to being, right? 504 00:22:14,420 --> 00:22:16,820 But it's not the only way, 505 00:22:16,820 --> 00:22:20,500 but man, it's been a way that has changed my life 506 00:22:20,500 --> 00:22:22,380 and my clients' lives forever. 507 00:22:22,380 --> 00:22:26,420 So it's an invitation and their choice is what matters. 508 00:22:26,420 --> 00:22:27,660 Because if they don't choose it, 509 00:22:27,660 --> 00:22:32,180 it doesn't matter if they think it or choice 510 00:22:32,180 --> 00:22:34,180 is where it's all is. 511 00:22:34,180 --> 00:22:37,500 That's why I asked you if we could do the intention 512 00:22:37,500 --> 00:22:40,100 because I trust you as a human being 513 00:22:40,100 --> 00:22:42,100 to make the right decision. 514 00:22:43,180 --> 00:22:47,220 It sounds like you also know when to turn this on 515 00:22:47,220 --> 00:22:49,140 and when to turn this off 516 00:22:49,140 --> 00:22:52,060 as a power to respect those around you. 517 00:22:52,060 --> 00:22:55,180 And maybe I'm guiding you a little too much on that. 518 00:22:55,180 --> 00:22:58,140 I'll meet you off stage at some point in life too 519 00:22:58,140 --> 00:22:59,380 outside of the context. 520 00:22:59,380 --> 00:23:03,140 But what I see is somebody who's extremely intentional 521 00:23:03,140 --> 00:23:04,380 with when it's stage time, 522 00:23:04,380 --> 00:23:06,980 like it's go time to find that person, right? 523 00:23:06,980 --> 00:23:10,340 To be available for that person who absolutely needs it 524 00:23:10,340 --> 00:23:11,380 at the highest level. 525 00:23:11,380 --> 00:23:16,380 And it's neat because I felt you have such a dynamic 526 00:23:17,740 --> 00:23:20,700 about you in the different conversations that we've had. 527 00:23:20,700 --> 00:23:24,740 It's just like, oh man, you own your essence in the moment. 528 00:23:24,740 --> 00:23:26,660 Cassidy, what's your vision for yourself? 529 00:23:26,660 --> 00:23:29,020 What do you see for yourself on the horizon? 530 00:23:29,020 --> 00:23:30,260 So many things. 531 00:23:31,700 --> 00:23:36,700 For me, my vision is to create, 532 00:23:36,940 --> 00:23:40,820 to help create a world that embodies unconditional love. 533 00:23:41,980 --> 00:23:44,500 And that comes in different forms and facets. 534 00:23:44,500 --> 00:23:47,140 It can be through books, it can be through speaking, 535 00:23:47,140 --> 00:23:49,980 which I speak around the world. 536 00:23:49,980 --> 00:23:52,980 I have one-on-one coaching and group coaching 537 00:23:52,980 --> 00:23:56,300 in all of different ways and facets. 538 00:23:56,300 --> 00:23:58,500 And there's more projects that are actually coming 539 00:23:58,500 --> 00:24:02,980 in different avenues that I'll be coming soon. 540 00:24:02,980 --> 00:24:04,780 But for me, it's to create a world 541 00:24:04,780 --> 00:24:07,380 where unconditional love gets to be the container. 542 00:24:09,340 --> 00:24:10,660 I love it. 543 00:24:10,660 --> 00:24:14,220 All right, let's dive into a darker subject. 544 00:24:14,220 --> 00:24:19,220 So what's the worst leadership experience 545 00:24:19,700 --> 00:24:21,500 that you've ever had or experienced? 546 00:24:21,500 --> 00:24:26,500 Hmm, leading myself or leading others? 547 00:24:26,700 --> 00:24:28,420 Can be either one. 548 00:24:28,420 --> 00:24:31,620 Hmm, this is a really good question. 549 00:24:31,620 --> 00:24:34,860 The worst leadership experience. 550 00:24:39,220 --> 00:24:40,660 You know, it's kind of funny. 551 00:24:40,660 --> 00:24:45,220 It's when I, it's bringing me back to my childhood. 552 00:24:45,220 --> 00:24:46,620 I used to be, you know, 553 00:24:46,620 --> 00:24:48,500 when we were in these group projects, 554 00:24:48,500 --> 00:24:53,500 I would try to force people to do things. 555 00:24:55,660 --> 00:24:58,940 And it's making me realize in this moment 556 00:24:58,940 --> 00:25:00,820 why I've chosen the leadership I have 557 00:25:00,820 --> 00:25:02,620 in the way that I do it now. 558 00:25:03,820 --> 00:25:08,820 Because again, it comes back to respecting people 559 00:25:08,900 --> 00:25:11,020 as human beings and respecting their choices 560 00:25:11,020 --> 00:25:14,780 and trusting that they'll do the right things for them 561 00:25:14,780 --> 00:25:17,460 and letting go in the surrender. 562 00:25:17,460 --> 00:25:22,420 Leadership is leading people to their best self, 563 00:25:22,420 --> 00:25:26,700 not to whatever you're wanting 564 00:25:26,700 --> 00:25:28,340 or you're needing in your life. 565 00:25:28,340 --> 00:25:31,340 Leadership is leading them to their best life. 566 00:25:31,340 --> 00:25:34,220 So the worst leadership experience for me 567 00:25:34,220 --> 00:25:37,060 was when I was trying to get them to do something for me. 568 00:25:37,980 --> 00:25:40,300 And in reality, it's always leadership 569 00:25:40,300 --> 00:25:43,380 is getting them to do something for them. 570 00:25:43,380 --> 00:25:48,380 And maybe even to a vision that's for the collective, 571 00:25:48,580 --> 00:25:49,900 that's for the world. 572 00:25:51,100 --> 00:25:54,220 And there's this energy of, 573 00:25:57,940 --> 00:25:59,380 let's do this together. 574 00:25:59,380 --> 00:26:01,380 Leadership is let's do this together. 575 00:26:01,380 --> 00:26:04,340 And I have an idea and I have a way 576 00:26:04,340 --> 00:26:09,340 and some way that I can help bring that to life, 577 00:26:09,340 --> 00:26:12,020 but let's do this together. 578 00:26:12,020 --> 00:26:15,500 So the worst leadership experiences I've ever had 579 00:26:15,500 --> 00:26:20,500 is when I was like, do this, because I told you to. 580 00:26:20,500 --> 00:26:23,140 Yeah, and you hit two different angles of that. 581 00:26:23,140 --> 00:26:25,500 The one that I'm gonna be meditating today 582 00:26:26,460 --> 00:26:29,580 and probably for several days after. 583 00:26:31,140 --> 00:26:35,220 The getting past the telling people what to do 584 00:26:35,220 --> 00:26:37,460 for me took place years ago. 585 00:26:37,460 --> 00:26:40,460 A few years ago, because I used to be that guy. 586 00:26:40,460 --> 00:26:45,460 And it burns a lot of relationships to be that guy. 587 00:26:46,460 --> 00:26:49,660 And then two, you're talking about making the move 588 00:26:49,660 --> 00:26:54,660 from do this for me, but do this for you. 589 00:26:56,380 --> 00:26:58,660 I actually operated out of a third angle 590 00:26:58,660 --> 00:27:00,780 and I gotta go meditate about this because of it, 591 00:27:00,780 --> 00:27:05,780 which is usually, I want them to do this for the good of me. 592 00:27:05,780 --> 00:27:08,860 I want them to do this for those that they serve. 593 00:27:10,100 --> 00:27:12,260 For those that they're striving to serve. 594 00:27:12,260 --> 00:27:14,420 And I know that when I was in New York, 595 00:27:14,420 --> 00:27:15,700 where I took that to an extreme, 596 00:27:15,700 --> 00:27:17,780 that wasn't healthy or helpful. 597 00:27:18,700 --> 00:27:21,020 I was the, I was a missionary 598 00:27:21,020 --> 00:27:22,980 and my common thought wasn't very, 599 00:27:22,980 --> 00:27:24,540 it didn't take very long to establish, 600 00:27:24,540 --> 00:27:26,840 but if somebody did not wanna be there 601 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,420 or they wanted to goof off, 602 00:27:28,420 --> 00:27:33,420 even in the smallest of ways, my response was, go home. 603 00:27:33,420 --> 00:27:36,700 Go waste somebody else's time. 604 00:27:36,700 --> 00:27:40,540 We got people to help here and you're a distraction. 605 00:27:40,540 --> 00:27:42,180 It was, oh, it's awful. 606 00:27:42,180 --> 00:27:44,700 I eventually came to the realization, man, 607 00:27:45,940 --> 00:27:49,060 I love these people of your voice so much 608 00:27:49,060 --> 00:27:51,500 and I do not love the people that I'm working with 609 00:27:51,500 --> 00:27:55,180 to serve them unless they're complying. 610 00:27:55,180 --> 00:27:57,100 Unless they're getting after it 611 00:27:57,100 --> 00:27:59,020 at the level that I am or close. 612 00:27:59,900 --> 00:28:02,380 And that wasn't healthy. 613 00:28:02,380 --> 00:28:04,920 So I wanna revisit that with what you said 614 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,120 about doing what is, 615 00:28:09,460 --> 00:28:12,960 what is guiding people to do what is right for them, 616 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,060 making space for that 617 00:28:14,060 --> 00:28:16,700 and the process of understanding the grander mission. 618 00:28:16,700 --> 00:28:19,220 And I think there's probably other entrepreneurs 619 00:28:19,220 --> 00:28:22,340 who feel that too, probably other people as well. 620 00:28:22,340 --> 00:28:24,940 But thank you, you gave me a lot to think about with that. 621 00:28:24,940 --> 00:28:26,420 That's interesting. I'm glad. 622 00:28:26,420 --> 00:28:29,140 Because I think that's really important. 623 00:28:30,100 --> 00:28:31,640 Yeah, I do too. 624 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,080 So what's your best leadership experience? 625 00:28:35,700 --> 00:28:36,900 I love this question, 626 00:28:36,900 --> 00:28:39,820 but it's hard because I feel like there's so many. 627 00:28:39,820 --> 00:28:41,720 Now that I've been on this path. 628 00:28:44,060 --> 00:28:47,400 So I think the best times have come 629 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,500 from some of my one-on-one clientele 630 00:28:50,500 --> 00:28:52,440 and into those one-on-one spaces. 631 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,580 And the best leadership experience is for me, 632 00:28:57,580 --> 00:29:00,280 tapping them into their own power. 633 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:05,280 And when the moment that they realize, 634 00:29:05,420 --> 00:29:07,980 oh, I didn't come to you 635 00:29:07,980 --> 00:29:12,820 because I need to get something from you, 636 00:29:12,820 --> 00:29:16,700 but rather for you to hold space for me to find me again, 637 00:29:16,700 --> 00:29:18,540 for me to find that power within me, 638 00:29:18,540 --> 00:29:20,060 for me to remember, okay, 639 00:29:20,060 --> 00:29:22,480 I can wake up every day and choose my vision. 640 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,380 I can wake up every day and create my dream life 641 00:29:25,380 --> 00:29:27,060 and you get to be the support. 642 00:29:27,060 --> 00:29:28,740 And when they have that shift 643 00:29:28,740 --> 00:29:32,220 and that realization of, oh, Cassidy, 644 00:29:32,220 --> 00:29:33,780 you're living your dream life, 645 00:29:33,780 --> 00:29:36,060 like you're living around the world, 646 00:29:36,060 --> 00:29:38,260 you have your own business, you're an author, 647 00:29:38,260 --> 00:29:40,300 you're a speaker, you're doing all these things, 648 00:29:40,300 --> 00:29:41,840 magic just unfolds for you. 649 00:29:43,260 --> 00:29:47,600 And I'm just a mirror for you to see what's possible for you. 650 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:48,940 I'm just living as an example 651 00:29:48,940 --> 00:29:51,280 of what it means to live by these principles. 652 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,540 And so once they have that switch 653 00:29:53,540 --> 00:29:57,500 and like they feel that within themselves, 654 00:29:57,500 --> 00:30:01,700 that is the greatest leadership experience I've ever had. 655 00:30:01,700 --> 00:30:05,700 And I continue to soak into it and feel into it 656 00:30:05,700 --> 00:30:10,140 because once you find that power within you, 657 00:30:11,380 --> 00:30:12,780 and yes, you have support, 658 00:30:12,780 --> 00:30:14,940 keep reminding you, I have so much support around me. 659 00:30:14,940 --> 00:30:17,460 There's a reason why I'm here right now 660 00:30:17,460 --> 00:30:19,580 is because I'm fully supported 661 00:30:19,580 --> 00:30:22,500 and I allow myself to be fully supported. 662 00:30:22,500 --> 00:30:24,520 So the best leadership experience for me 663 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,220 is tapping them back into their inner wisdom, 664 00:30:28,220 --> 00:30:30,940 to their inner power so that they know 665 00:30:30,940 --> 00:30:33,900 that their dream life, that magic unfolding 666 00:30:33,900 --> 00:30:35,600 is just inevitable for them. 667 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,880 And it continues to be their new baseline. 668 00:30:39,260 --> 00:30:40,100 That's huge. 669 00:30:41,180 --> 00:30:42,580 I'm usually speechless 670 00:30:42,580 --> 00:30:44,980 and I'm not supposed to be speechless on a podcast. 671 00:30:44,980 --> 00:30:45,820 No. 672 00:30:45,820 --> 00:30:46,660 Whoops. 673 00:30:46,660 --> 00:30:49,820 I'm rotten, rotten, dang it. 674 00:30:49,820 --> 00:30:51,820 I don't even have anything to add to that. 675 00:30:51,820 --> 00:30:55,540 Yes, true. 676 00:30:55,540 --> 00:30:56,900 Amen, namaste again. 677 00:30:56,900 --> 00:30:59,420 So good. 678 00:30:59,420 --> 00:31:02,180 I hope you guys rewind this and listen to that again, 679 00:31:02,180 --> 00:31:06,580 like 10 times or cut that and use it as your morning mantra. 680 00:31:06,580 --> 00:31:09,020 Wow, that was awesome. 681 00:31:09,020 --> 00:31:12,140 Okay, let's triple down. 682 00:31:12,140 --> 00:31:12,980 Okay. 683 00:31:12,980 --> 00:31:13,980 All right, what powerful lesson, 684 00:31:13,980 --> 00:31:15,420 but let's look at it from the single. 685 00:31:15,420 --> 00:31:18,980 If this were the last lesson that you could share, 686 00:31:18,980 --> 00:31:19,820 whether they're visionaries, 687 00:31:19,820 --> 00:31:22,020 what can they learn from your experience? 688 00:31:35,740 --> 00:31:40,740 Nothing can stop you when you are guided by love 689 00:31:40,740 --> 00:31:45,740 with pure intentions, with pure unconditional love. 690 00:31:50,300 --> 00:31:52,740 Nothing, nothing can stop you. 691 00:31:52,740 --> 00:31:54,580 You become unshakable. 692 00:31:55,700 --> 00:31:58,300 You become peace itself. 693 00:31:59,180 --> 00:32:01,620 Even if you go through all the human emotions 694 00:32:01,620 --> 00:32:04,540 and experiences, the beautiful sadness, 695 00:32:04,540 --> 00:32:09,540 the beautiful grief, the beautiful joy and gratitude 696 00:32:09,540 --> 00:32:13,940 and love and connection, 697 00:32:15,300 --> 00:32:20,300 when you are guided by the pureness of love, 698 00:32:22,940 --> 00:32:27,940 sharing love, connection, generosity, gratitude, service, 699 00:32:31,020 --> 00:32:34,300 your life will become the most fulfilling, 700 00:32:34,300 --> 00:32:38,020 the most purposeful and all the blessings 701 00:32:38,020 --> 00:32:40,180 that you're looking for, all the success 702 00:32:40,180 --> 00:32:41,900 that you're looking for comes anyways 703 00:32:41,900 --> 00:32:43,620 and it feels like you don't even need it. 704 00:32:43,620 --> 00:32:45,300 It just becomes a cherry on top. 705 00:32:46,660 --> 00:32:51,660 So lead with love and all that you're looking for 706 00:32:52,220 --> 00:32:56,580 will come in heaps and bounds and mountains, 707 00:32:56,580 --> 00:33:00,100 but you won't even care because you're so fulfilled with them. 708 00:33:01,580 --> 00:33:02,580 That would be mine. 709 00:33:04,340 --> 00:33:05,180 That's fun. 710 00:33:05,180 --> 00:33:10,180 That's, when I was on my mission in Uruguay, 711 00:33:12,740 --> 00:33:14,820 one, the very first subject that I decided 712 00:33:14,820 --> 00:33:16,340 if I'm going to go to a country 713 00:33:16,340 --> 00:33:18,260 where I cannot really speak or communicate, 714 00:33:18,260 --> 00:33:21,300 what the heck should I learn to communicate about? 715 00:33:21,300 --> 00:33:23,140 I chose love, right? 716 00:33:23,140 --> 00:33:25,900 That was the one thing I chose to learn as much as possible 717 00:33:25,900 --> 00:33:27,860 about learning how to communicate about. 718 00:33:28,740 --> 00:33:33,740 Going through my mission, we met so many parents 719 00:33:33,740 --> 00:33:38,740 in difficult circumstances that led them. 720 00:33:40,260 --> 00:33:45,260 They weren't the nicest to their children. 721 00:33:45,500 --> 00:33:46,460 I'll just say that. 722 00:33:46,460 --> 00:33:48,140 It was very difficult home life. 723 00:33:48,140 --> 00:33:52,340 It reminded me of my dad's home, the one I grew up in 724 00:33:52,340 --> 00:33:56,980 that was dark and difficult and all sorts of abuse. 725 00:33:56,980 --> 00:34:01,780 And I went on that mission knowing that in my case, 726 00:34:01,780 --> 00:34:04,900 because I had access to a great home of spirituality 727 00:34:04,900 --> 00:34:07,220 and a difficult home, I knew there were people 728 00:34:07,220 --> 00:34:09,340 who did not get to escape that. 729 00:34:09,340 --> 00:34:11,100 And I would have never been able to live with myself 730 00:34:11,100 --> 00:34:13,540 if I didn't go out there and help the homes 731 00:34:13,540 --> 00:34:17,540 that were like the dark side that I also grew up in. 732 00:34:17,540 --> 00:34:19,100 Okay, so I'd use that example. 733 00:34:20,100 --> 00:34:23,580 And I'd talk to these step-parents 734 00:34:23,580 --> 00:34:26,020 and people in these situations. 735 00:34:26,020 --> 00:34:29,940 And I would tell them about the struggle 736 00:34:29,940 --> 00:34:34,540 between myself and my stepmother and how difficult, 737 00:34:34,540 --> 00:34:37,780 how dark our relationship was. 738 00:34:37,780 --> 00:34:41,580 But I would tell them, I know that love will be that power 739 00:34:41,580 --> 00:34:43,220 to help us overcome this. 740 00:34:44,180 --> 00:34:46,060 And I wasn't living proof at the time, 741 00:34:47,140 --> 00:34:50,100 but I knew that it would work. 742 00:34:50,100 --> 00:34:52,820 I get home from that mission, a couple of years passed, 743 00:34:52,820 --> 00:34:55,780 my dad and her split up finally. 744 00:34:55,780 --> 00:34:57,980 That needed to happen a long time ago 745 00:34:57,980 --> 00:35:01,900 for everybody else's sake, for our opinions, right? 746 00:35:01,900 --> 00:35:05,660 And her dad passed away. 747 00:35:05,660 --> 00:35:07,740 And so me and my new wife, 748 00:35:07,740 --> 00:35:09,660 it's time we go to the funeral. 749 00:35:09,660 --> 00:35:12,420 And she's shocked to see me walk in that door. 750 00:35:12,420 --> 00:35:15,380 I don't think she was very happy even at the moment, 751 00:35:15,380 --> 00:35:16,780 to see me walk in that door. 752 00:35:16,780 --> 00:35:21,780 And she asked pretty softly, like, why are you here? 753 00:35:22,540 --> 00:35:23,860 But not in a negative way. 754 00:35:24,740 --> 00:35:26,860 And I just say, you've always been family 755 00:35:26,860 --> 00:35:28,300 and you always will be. 756 00:35:28,300 --> 00:35:30,220 He was never the reason why I was here. 757 00:35:31,300 --> 00:35:33,060 It's you guys, y'all are my family. 758 00:35:34,420 --> 00:35:37,340 And she teared up and we hugged 759 00:35:37,340 --> 00:35:40,020 and embraced in a very sincere way, 760 00:35:40,020 --> 00:35:42,900 probably for the first time in our life. 761 00:35:42,900 --> 00:35:44,900 She'd been in my life since I was five. 762 00:35:46,100 --> 00:35:51,100 That was the moment of love conquers all for me. 763 00:35:52,740 --> 00:35:54,420 That was the biggest moment. 764 00:35:54,420 --> 00:35:55,260 So grateful for it. 765 00:35:55,260 --> 00:35:56,820 She passed away a few months ago. 766 00:35:58,100 --> 00:36:03,100 And that getting the opportunity to feel that happen 767 00:36:04,060 --> 00:36:05,500 at such a deep level, 768 00:36:06,300 --> 00:36:09,740 it would be my choice of powerful lesson as well. 769 00:36:09,740 --> 00:36:13,700 And my imperfections, to just add to it a little bit, 770 00:36:13,700 --> 00:36:16,620 my imperfections often lead me 771 00:36:16,620 --> 00:36:19,180 to not access the full power of love. 772 00:36:19,180 --> 00:36:22,180 And I have to be careful not to blame love for not working. 773 00:36:22,180 --> 00:36:24,900 It's me not tapping into it fully 774 00:36:24,900 --> 00:36:27,660 and having to learn how to more fully tap into it. 775 00:36:27,660 --> 00:36:29,900 What else can I do to make sure 776 00:36:29,900 --> 00:36:31,220 that I'm more fully tapping into it? 777 00:36:31,220 --> 00:36:32,700 That's the only thing I would add. 778 00:36:35,060 --> 00:36:36,220 What are your thoughts on that? 779 00:36:36,220 --> 00:36:37,460 Feel free to take that where you want. 780 00:36:37,460 --> 00:36:41,860 Love is, well, this is something that I talk about a lot 781 00:36:41,860 --> 00:36:45,580 with my clients, is that action, behavior, 782 00:36:45,580 --> 00:36:49,020 situations, experiences, they don't change 783 00:36:49,020 --> 00:36:52,020 from blame and shame. 784 00:36:52,020 --> 00:36:55,020 And we try, we try to change our behavior 785 00:36:55,020 --> 00:36:56,540 through blame and shame. 786 00:36:56,540 --> 00:36:58,540 We try to change other people. 787 00:36:58,540 --> 00:36:59,660 Say you're in a relationship. 788 00:36:59,660 --> 00:37:01,060 This is what happens so often. 789 00:37:01,060 --> 00:37:01,900 I see it so much. 790 00:37:01,900 --> 00:37:05,940 And I did this myself through, oh, you can't leave me 791 00:37:05,940 --> 00:37:08,180 because you're gonna hurt me by leaving 792 00:37:08,180 --> 00:37:12,460 and you're not allowed to because shame and blame. 793 00:37:12,460 --> 00:37:15,820 You did this and you did that and you cheated on me 794 00:37:15,820 --> 00:37:18,660 and you hurt me and you hurt me. 795 00:37:18,660 --> 00:37:21,620 And you did this and you said this 796 00:37:21,620 --> 00:37:23,620 and you shouldn't have done that. 797 00:37:25,140 --> 00:37:28,620 Yes, things can be hurtful and you need to express that. 798 00:37:28,620 --> 00:37:32,700 But no behavior will change through shame and blame. 799 00:37:32,700 --> 00:37:35,420 It will only change through love. 800 00:37:35,420 --> 00:37:38,060 Hey, you know what? 801 00:37:38,060 --> 00:37:42,940 I'm feeling very vulnerable right now because this hurts. 802 00:37:42,940 --> 00:37:47,420 And I love you and I do need to hold a boundary. 803 00:37:47,420 --> 00:37:49,180 So if this is an action, 804 00:37:49,180 --> 00:37:50,700 these are actions you wanna take, 805 00:37:50,700 --> 00:37:51,940 this is not something I can do. 806 00:37:51,940 --> 00:37:55,700 Like just little examples of how that will actually change 807 00:37:55,700 --> 00:37:58,740 someone's behavior versus you're a terrible person. 808 00:37:58,740 --> 00:38:01,580 I'm gonna leave you if you don't do this. 809 00:38:01,580 --> 00:38:05,700 Shame and blame do not change anything. 810 00:38:05,700 --> 00:38:07,700 They keep things stuck. 811 00:38:07,700 --> 00:38:09,100 Love is flow. 812 00:38:09,100 --> 00:38:10,900 It makes things move. 813 00:38:10,900 --> 00:38:12,300 If you shame and blame yourself, 814 00:38:12,300 --> 00:38:15,700 I should have woken up and I'm an entrepreneur, 815 00:38:15,700 --> 00:38:17,300 so I should have done stuff today. 816 00:38:17,300 --> 00:38:18,460 I really, I should have. 817 00:38:18,460 --> 00:38:20,300 I should have reached out to this person 818 00:38:20,300 --> 00:38:23,580 and I don't know why I can't just reach out to this person. 819 00:38:23,580 --> 00:38:24,580 I know what I need to do, 820 00:38:24,580 --> 00:38:26,340 but I don't know why I'm doing it. 821 00:38:26,340 --> 00:38:28,300 That I hear all the time. 822 00:38:28,300 --> 00:38:32,460 Entrepreneurs and just anybody who's a visionary 823 00:38:32,460 --> 00:38:34,940 or trying to create something extraordinary. 824 00:38:36,140 --> 00:38:38,020 I don't know why. 825 00:38:38,020 --> 00:38:40,860 I don't know why I'm not doing it. 826 00:38:40,860 --> 00:38:43,900 It will not change through shaming yourself 827 00:38:43,900 --> 00:38:45,820 and blaming yourself. 828 00:38:45,820 --> 00:38:49,060 When you give yourself the space to feel into 829 00:38:49,060 --> 00:38:51,340 why those things are happening, 830 00:38:51,340 --> 00:38:53,340 you feel into the space of, okay, 831 00:38:55,260 --> 00:38:57,340 let me feel this resistance and I'm okay 832 00:38:57,340 --> 00:38:59,220 if I never do that step. 833 00:38:59,220 --> 00:39:03,220 I'm still going to love me and my energy. 834 00:39:03,220 --> 00:39:04,860 Once you come from that space, 835 00:39:04,860 --> 00:39:06,340 all of a sudden you have the energy 836 00:39:06,340 --> 00:39:08,540 and inspiration to take this step. 837 00:39:08,540 --> 00:39:09,980 And I've seen this over and over and over 838 00:39:09,980 --> 00:39:15,980 and over again with myself and with my clients. 839 00:39:15,980 --> 00:39:17,620 Part of what you're talking about 840 00:39:17,620 --> 00:39:19,540 reminds me of the reality too, 841 00:39:19,540 --> 00:39:22,540 that I wasn't the only one expressing love 842 00:39:22,540 --> 00:39:25,020 in that relationship with my stepmom. 843 00:39:25,020 --> 00:39:29,420 There's also my stepmom side of her showing up. 844 00:39:29,420 --> 00:39:32,700 She's shown up too to the best of her ability. 845 00:39:32,700 --> 00:39:36,620 And while it may have been hard to recognize in the moments, 846 00:39:36,620 --> 00:39:40,220 it wasn't hard to recognize in her passing. 847 00:39:40,220 --> 00:39:42,980 As I reflected back on our experiences 848 00:39:42,980 --> 00:39:47,980 and I realized that she was my greatest teammate, partner 849 00:39:52,100 --> 00:39:56,900 in trying to be there for my dad on his best side. 850 00:39:56,900 --> 00:39:58,700 When everybody else gave up, 851 00:39:58,700 --> 00:40:02,020 her and I worked towards helping him find his light. 852 00:40:02,020 --> 00:40:07,020 And there were many times she took me home or picked me up. 853 00:40:07,020 --> 00:40:10,620 And then it was an hour drive each direction. 854 00:40:10,620 --> 00:40:11,820 And she's busy. 855 00:40:11,820 --> 00:40:15,980 She was a busy mom who also worked full-time. 856 00:40:15,980 --> 00:40:17,620 And so the amount of things, 857 00:40:17,620 --> 00:40:20,420 the amount of evidences that exist in that, 858 00:40:20,420 --> 00:40:24,420 to realize that no, we can try to paint people as evil 859 00:40:24,420 --> 00:40:27,220 or we can assume that they are the problem and the reality. 860 00:40:27,220 --> 00:40:28,820 But I love that you make space for that. 861 00:40:28,820 --> 00:40:32,820 Like it's the conditions of the world, 862 00:40:32,820 --> 00:40:34,220 the variables that exist out there. 863 00:40:34,220 --> 00:40:36,020 We don't always get them all. 864 00:40:36,020 --> 00:40:37,540 We can't always see them. 865 00:40:37,540 --> 00:40:42,220 And when we choose to make space for that power of love, 866 00:40:42,220 --> 00:40:45,540 it's amazing what things we can overcome. 867 00:40:46,820 --> 00:40:48,140 Let's use the last few minutes. 868 00:40:48,140 --> 00:40:48,980 Oh, go ahead. 869 00:40:48,980 --> 00:40:52,300 I was just gonna say thank you for sharing her memory. 870 00:40:52,300 --> 00:40:53,140 Yeah. 871 00:40:53,140 --> 00:40:54,700 Well, thanks for unlocking it. 872 00:40:54,700 --> 00:40:56,620 I couldn't have done it without you today. 873 00:40:56,620 --> 00:41:00,620 So unlocking your magic, life transformation, 874 00:41:00,620 --> 00:41:02,020 on those two topics. 875 00:41:02,020 --> 00:41:06,020 We've got about four minutes left. 876 00:41:06,020 --> 00:41:11,020 So what would you like to share about unlocking the magic 877 00:41:11,020 --> 00:41:14,820 within that we haven't discussed or tapped into yet? 878 00:41:14,820 --> 00:41:17,020 Well, there's a lot we haven't discussed yet, but. 879 00:41:17,020 --> 00:41:21,020 I would say the number one thing, 880 00:41:21,020 --> 00:41:23,820 and this is something I could go much deeper to, 881 00:41:23,820 --> 00:41:26,020 but I'll do my best to keep it short. 882 00:41:26,020 --> 00:41:30,420 Is to listen to that little voice inside. 883 00:41:30,420 --> 00:41:35,420 And when you say, okay, I'm going to listen to it, 884 00:41:36,420 --> 00:41:38,020 and you speak that out loud, 885 00:41:38,020 --> 00:41:40,420 you actually then take the step. 886 00:41:40,420 --> 00:41:42,420 And I know it's scary. 887 00:41:42,420 --> 00:41:45,820 And I know the unknown, it's the unknown. 888 00:41:45,820 --> 00:41:50,820 It makes you shake and you shiver and you second guess 889 00:41:51,420 --> 00:41:52,620 and wanna run away. 890 00:41:52,620 --> 00:41:57,620 And all of the things, but if nothing in life really mattered, 891 00:42:01,620 --> 00:42:06,020 not the 401k and the, you know, 892 00:42:06,020 --> 00:42:09,020 whatever responsibilities you have right now. 893 00:42:09,020 --> 00:42:11,620 And if nothing mattered, 894 00:42:12,620 --> 00:42:14,820 and you just got to play in this lifetime, 895 00:42:14,820 --> 00:42:18,020 like it got to just be your playground. 896 00:42:18,020 --> 00:42:21,420 Life got to be your playground. 897 00:42:21,420 --> 00:42:23,420 How would you wanna play? 898 00:42:23,420 --> 00:42:26,420 How would you want to experience life? 899 00:42:26,420 --> 00:42:31,020 How would you laugh and giggle and joy? 900 00:42:31,020 --> 00:42:33,820 What would you bring that you that laughter? 901 00:42:33,820 --> 00:42:35,420 What would bring you that joy? 902 00:42:35,420 --> 00:42:39,420 If life was your playground, if nothing mattered, 903 00:42:39,420 --> 00:42:41,620 would you take the leap? 904 00:42:41,620 --> 00:42:43,420 Would you just jump? 905 00:42:43,420 --> 00:42:47,420 If every failure was just a step in the right direction, 906 00:42:47,420 --> 00:42:51,220 if every trial and tribulation just brought you more 907 00:42:51,220 --> 00:42:56,220 and more blessings and life was the playground of everything, 908 00:42:59,620 --> 00:43:01,420 how would you act? 909 00:43:01,420 --> 00:43:03,620 How would you play? 910 00:43:03,620 --> 00:43:06,820 How would, how great would you love? 911 00:43:08,220 --> 00:43:11,420 If you said, okay, someone can leave. 912 00:43:12,620 --> 00:43:15,220 And I'm just going to really love them 913 00:43:15,220 --> 00:43:16,620 while I have them here. 914 00:43:16,620 --> 00:43:21,620 What if you just knew that everything was temporary, 915 00:43:22,220 --> 00:43:27,220 including every emotion, every sadness, every season, 916 00:43:27,820 --> 00:43:30,220 how would you play? 917 00:43:30,220 --> 00:43:32,220 How would you live? 918 00:43:32,220 --> 00:43:34,420 If everything was temporary, 919 00:43:34,420 --> 00:43:38,220 how would you cherish the people in your life? 920 00:43:38,220 --> 00:43:42,020 How would you cherish the breath in your lungs? 921 00:43:42,020 --> 00:43:45,220 How would you cherish being able to, 922 00:43:45,220 --> 00:43:48,020 to walk on your feet and, you know, 923 00:43:48,020 --> 00:43:51,420 maybe stretch a little and move your body? 924 00:43:51,420 --> 00:43:54,220 Not everyone in their older age can do that anymore. 925 00:43:55,620 --> 00:43:57,820 How would you cherish? 926 00:43:57,820 --> 00:44:02,820 How, how would you see the things in your life right now? 927 00:44:03,220 --> 00:44:06,220 The clothes on your, on your back, 928 00:44:06,220 --> 00:44:08,220 the food in your kitchen? 929 00:44:09,420 --> 00:44:11,420 If you knew everything was temporary 930 00:44:11,420 --> 00:44:13,820 and you did not own it, 931 00:44:13,820 --> 00:44:18,420 it was not, it was not your property, 932 00:44:18,420 --> 00:44:20,620 but rather your blessing. 933 00:44:22,620 --> 00:44:25,220 How would you act from there? 934 00:44:25,220 --> 00:44:26,420 How would you play? 935 00:44:26,420 --> 00:44:28,020 How would you love? 936 00:44:28,020 --> 00:44:32,020 Just give yourself a moment to feel 937 00:44:32,020 --> 00:44:34,820 that nothing is promised to you, 938 00:44:34,820 --> 00:44:36,820 but you have everything here. 939 00:44:39,220 --> 00:44:41,420 How would you feel? 940 00:44:41,420 --> 00:44:45,020 How would you feel the gratitude 941 00:44:45,020 --> 00:44:47,220 for what you already have now 942 00:44:47,220 --> 00:44:50,620 and walk in that energy of, 943 00:44:50,620 --> 00:44:54,620 okay, my intuition is telling me to do something really scary 944 00:44:54,620 --> 00:44:55,820 and I don't want to do it. 945 00:44:55,820 --> 00:44:59,020 And I'm really scared and it pushed me to grow, 946 00:44:59,020 --> 00:45:02,420 pushed me to do things I don't want to do. 947 00:45:02,420 --> 00:45:08,420 But if everything is temporary, why not try? 948 00:45:08,420 --> 00:45:10,820 Everything that you already have will be gone. 949 00:45:10,820 --> 00:45:12,020 Anyway. 950 00:45:12,020 --> 00:45:14,220 I found my butt. 951 00:45:14,220 --> 00:45:14,820 Okay. 952 00:45:14,820 --> 00:45:16,020 Okay. 953 00:45:16,020 --> 00:45:18,420 Thank you for that. 954 00:45:18,420 --> 00:45:21,820 My big fan, one of my favorite movies is Life is Beautiful. 955 00:45:21,820 --> 00:45:26,220 Life is Beautiful is a story that's only told in Italian. 956 00:45:26,220 --> 00:45:28,620 So you do put the English subtitles 957 00:45:28,620 --> 00:45:30,020 if you don't speak Italian, right? 958 00:45:30,020 --> 00:45:33,620 And this father is in a concentration camp, 959 00:45:33,620 --> 00:45:35,220 you know, with his son. 960 00:45:35,220 --> 00:45:39,020 And he makes the concentration camp experience 961 00:45:39,020 --> 00:45:41,620 for his son a game. 962 00:45:41,620 --> 00:45:43,820 And he has this light about him 963 00:45:43,820 --> 00:45:46,220 and almost everything that he does as a dad, 964 00:45:46,220 --> 00:45:48,420 all these trials that he goes through. 965 00:45:48,420 --> 00:45:52,220 And so my surface level question was at first, 966 00:45:52,220 --> 00:45:53,420 you know, well, you know, 967 00:45:53,420 --> 00:45:56,020 how does this apply to those in a concentration camp? 968 00:45:56,020 --> 00:45:57,820 And then I remembered that movie and I was like, 969 00:45:57,820 --> 00:46:00,020 okay, that's applicable. 970 00:46:00,020 --> 00:46:04,220 My greater butt question for you in relation to me is, 971 00:46:04,220 --> 00:46:07,220 I'm not in a concentration camp. 972 00:46:07,220 --> 00:46:10,820 And I know that so many are, or they're in similar type 973 00:46:10,820 --> 00:46:12,220 of circumstances. 974 00:46:12,220 --> 00:46:13,420 Yeah. 975 00:46:13,420 --> 00:46:16,220 How do I give myself permission to play 976 00:46:16,220 --> 00:46:21,420 and to see life as a playground when I feel so privileged, 977 00:46:21,420 --> 00:46:26,020 yet there's so many who suffer such great things? 978 00:46:26,020 --> 00:46:31,220 This is a beautiful question and one that I have really taken 979 00:46:31,220 --> 00:46:35,220 in consideration myself, because there is a wave of guilt 980 00:46:35,220 --> 00:46:39,820 that comes when we first start to really enjoy our life. 981 00:46:39,820 --> 00:46:44,320 Like when you first start to realize, I'm living my dream life, 982 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,420 there is this wave of guilt that comes. 983 00:46:47,420 --> 00:46:49,820 But how is this fair? 984 00:46:51,220 --> 00:46:56,020 And it comes back to the trust of people. 985 00:46:56,020 --> 00:47:04,220 Comes back to trusting that they'll love every single second 986 00:47:04,220 --> 00:47:09,420 of their breath, that they can love from where they have it now. 987 00:47:09,420 --> 00:47:14,420 Not to say that their situation shouldn't change 988 00:47:14,420 --> 00:47:19,620 or that what they're in is not great, right? 989 00:47:19,620 --> 00:47:23,420 But us suffering doesn't help them. 990 00:47:23,420 --> 00:47:27,820 Again, nothing changes through shame and blame and guilt. 991 00:47:27,820 --> 00:47:29,420 It only happens through love. 992 00:47:29,420 --> 00:47:32,820 So if you're overflowing with love, 993 00:47:32,820 --> 00:47:36,020 how much more could the world change? 994 00:47:37,620 --> 00:47:38,820 So there's two pieces. 995 00:47:38,820 --> 00:47:43,820 One, trusting that they can find love and joy and gratitude 996 00:47:43,820 --> 00:47:47,220 where they are right here and right now. 997 00:47:47,220 --> 00:47:50,020 And also the other side of the coin is we can help change 998 00:47:50,020 --> 00:47:53,620 the situation from love, not through shame, blame and guilt, 999 00:47:53,620 --> 00:47:55,620 because nothing changes from that space. 1000 00:47:55,620 --> 00:47:59,820 When you feel overwhelmed with guilt, do you move? 1001 00:47:59,820 --> 00:48:01,220 No. 1002 00:48:01,220 --> 00:48:03,620 You stay in bed and you curl up and you're like, 1003 00:48:05,020 --> 00:48:06,620 the tears flow. 1004 00:48:06,620 --> 00:48:08,220 I can't believe this is happening. 1005 00:48:08,220 --> 00:48:09,020 It's so unfair. 1006 00:48:09,020 --> 00:48:11,820 I don't know what to do about the world. 1007 00:48:11,820 --> 00:48:16,620 But when you have love, you're like, here, I created this amount of wealth. 1008 00:48:16,620 --> 00:48:18,620 Here's some wealth that you can use. 1009 00:48:18,620 --> 00:48:23,420 Or I have a voice and I'm going to love and I'm going to fight for you. 1010 00:48:23,420 --> 00:48:24,620 I enjoy my life so much. 1011 00:48:24,620 --> 00:48:27,020 I want you to enjoy it with me. 1012 00:48:27,020 --> 00:48:31,820 Suffering is not going to change the situation. 1013 00:48:31,820 --> 00:48:33,020 Many people do that. 1014 00:48:33,020 --> 00:48:35,420 And it's because we're all connected. 1015 00:48:35,420 --> 00:48:39,020 We have guilt because we want them to feel better. 1016 00:48:39,020 --> 00:48:40,820 So one is trust and then... 1017 00:48:40,820 --> 00:48:42,620 But guilt is a vice. 1018 00:48:42,620 --> 00:48:44,220 It's not compassion. 1019 00:48:44,220 --> 00:48:45,020 Right. 1020 00:48:45,020 --> 00:48:47,420 And so learning to recognize that virtue and that vice 1021 00:48:47,420 --> 00:48:51,220 and tap into it in those moments is key. 1022 00:48:51,220 --> 00:48:54,620 Another movie about concentration camps, The Boy in the Pajamas 1023 00:48:54,620 --> 00:48:57,220 and the Striped Pajamas, I think it's called. 1024 00:48:57,220 --> 00:49:02,220 You know, and there's the little boy of the Nazi party who becomes friends 1025 00:49:02,220 --> 00:49:06,420 with the little boy that's in the concentration camp. 1026 00:49:06,420 --> 00:49:11,220 And so I don't remember too much about the movie, but the concept alone 1027 00:49:11,220 --> 00:49:17,620 helps me kind of think in terms of like examples where I can apply 1028 00:49:17,620 --> 00:49:19,420 that to the way I show up. 1029 00:49:19,420 --> 00:49:19,820 So thank you. 1030 00:49:19,820 --> 00:49:21,420 That was... 1031 00:49:21,420 --> 00:49:26,420 I don't know if I'll ever be able to quantify what you just unlocked 1032 00:49:26,420 --> 00:49:29,020 for me by talking today. 1033 00:49:29,020 --> 00:49:33,020 Those of you who are listening in, vision pros, we'd love to see you apply. 1034 00:49:33,020 --> 00:49:36,220 If you got a vision to share, do me a favor. 1035 00:49:36,220 --> 00:49:38,220 Don't let Cassidy intimidate you here. 1036 00:49:38,220 --> 00:49:40,620 This is a well-delivered vision. 1037 00:49:40,620 --> 00:49:47,820 And at the same time, the light that you bring into the world matters tremendously. 1038 00:49:47,820 --> 00:49:49,620 It is not a competition. 1039 00:49:49,620 --> 00:49:51,620 It's a process of abundance. 1040 00:49:51,620 --> 00:49:53,620 So feel free to apply. 1041 00:49:53,620 --> 00:49:59,220 If you'd like to connect with Cassidy or get her book and the vibrancy codes 1042 00:49:59,220 --> 00:50:02,220 and check that out, those will be in the show notes. 1043 00:50:02,220 --> 00:50:04,220 You can reach out to her on Facebook. 1044 00:50:04,220 --> 00:50:06,220 That worked for me. 1045 00:50:06,220 --> 00:50:08,620 Or I'm sure LinkedIn. 1046 00:50:08,620 --> 00:50:14,420 And also, you know, feel free to flow into her programs as well. 1047 00:50:14,420 --> 00:50:16,420 You can comment as well if that's easier for you. 1048 00:50:16,420 --> 00:50:20,420 You want to comment a question, you know, share something with us, 1049 00:50:20,420 --> 00:50:23,420 then we're happy to, I'll be happy to forward that to Cassidy as well, 1050 00:50:23,420 --> 00:50:25,020 make sure she gets it. 1051 00:50:25,020 --> 00:50:29,620 So thank you guys so much for tuning in today and enjoying this episode with us. 1052 00:50:29,620 --> 00:50:32,620 Cassidy, this was absolutely my honor. 1053 00:50:32,620 --> 00:50:34,220 It was mine as well. 1054 00:50:34,220 --> 00:50:41,220 And to every person watching this, you, it's an honor to be in your energy 1055 00:50:41,220 --> 00:50:46,220 and thank you for your time and your space because that is extremely valuable. 1056 00:50:46,220 --> 00:50:49,020 Absolutely. We'll see you all very soon. Bye bye. 1057 00:50:49,020 --> 00:50:50,220 Thank you for being here today. 1058 00:50:50,220 --> 00:50:52,820 I'm really happy that you tuned in to Vision Pros Live. 1059 00:50:52,820 --> 00:50:57,820 I'm looking forward to seeing your reactions as these episodes continue to move forward. 1060 00:50:57,820 --> 00:50:59,420 This is going to get more and more fun. 1061 00:50:59,420 --> 00:51:01,220 We'll have more and more engagement as well. 1062 00:51:01,220 --> 00:51:03,220 We'll invite people to participate in the show. 1063 00:51:03,220 --> 00:51:05,620 And thank you for giving us your time and attention. 1064 00:51:05,620 --> 00:51:16,620 Have an excellent day.