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Hi everyone and welcome back to this week's episode of the Real Talking Podcast with your

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host Ash and JD. So New Year, new horse, you're starting off your diet with a bread funder.

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Yep, it's the Audi edition. And now we had a quick chat before the podcast and I says

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I could. Someone's job in Audi is when I, so like when someone was like, you know, we've

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got a Red Bull, but we can't call you Red Bull. What do we call it? Someone's red funder.

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Someone's job is to name these as close as possible so you understand what it is, but

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without being sued. And I reckon I could do that job. I mean, they're called penguin seals,

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don't they? As we said before and stuff like that. Because some chocolate confectionery

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and that has been renamed over the years in general anyway. So Marathons became Snickers,

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Opal Fruits went to Starburst. But yeah, you've got the general ones that the Audi oils do.

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You've got your Titans. Yeah. Titans with joives as well. Yeah, joives which is a tweak.

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Which we spoke about before because we never understood how a joive would be a twigs. What's

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the reference? Maybe because it takes two to jove. Maybe. It could be. I mean, anything's

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possible without it. Joives is like an old dance sort of thing back in the Greece days

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and shit. So that's what just comes to mind. But so like, no, but say I didn't have a red

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funder and I went to you, mate, I've got no idea. It's, it's basically a monster, but

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we can't call it a monster. What are you going to call that? Any of your drink, mate? Animal.

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It's honestly, you call it like something like beast. You get what I'm saying? It's

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just something. So, so you know what it is, boy, boy, just looking at it, you know what

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it's meant to be and what it's meant to taste like. Yeah. Yeah. Because so like Prime, the

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KSI Logan Paul's drink, which isn't even as good as it was always.

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Was that was, you know what, we should have probably done that on the end of the year

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one. Was that was the most hyped product ever? I feel like it was to be fair. But yeah, you

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just, I mean, I tried the two flavors, the red one and the green. Yeah, same here. The

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red was okay. The green again, it's not drinks that I'd walk into the shop, apart from just

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because of the price anyway, but I wouldn't go, Oh yeah, I love that. No, I'll tell you

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what I had looking for the first time in probably years the other day, Oasis, summer fruits

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and a lot of summer as soon as I just started sipping it, I was like, Oh, this is a bad

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boy. This is, Oh, miss them days. Oh, this is the perfect drink. You know, sometimes

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you have a drink, but you don't want a fizzy drink. I don't know if I don't know how much

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drink like a pop you drink. Well, it is more of that style where you called your soft ones.

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I don't, I don't really have many fizzy drinks unless it's got a bit of alcohol, a bit of

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vodka or Jack Daniels or something. Then I don't really, I don't really do that. But

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yeah, so yeah, if we was going to do an Audi version of prime, then I suppose transform

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because you're optimist because like you see prime, optimist prime, but then some people

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might get confused because that's a dating app, isn't it? Allegedly. I don't know. Not

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in any of these things. What about an Oasis then? Maybe something like Laguna or resort

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wouldn't it? Yeah. We've got to see someone's job is that someone's going to go. That's

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what we're going to call that. Yeah. Lucas aid. I'd go for energize. Yeah. Cause that's

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what it is. And it not the, not the Lucas aid sports to be energized or was normal Lucas

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aid. Say again, but Lucas had original never been a fan of that. I will never forgive Lucas

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aid. No, Luke side orange. That's all wrong. We know, but I'm going full sugar. So I don't

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know when they got rid of it. Maybe 2015 and the, um, the other flavor, the cherry cherry

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or apple, not cherry. I don't think I ever had that one. So looks like orange in the

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wind, full sugar, not before the half. This bollocks. I never get that. Like just, just

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have a variation. I mean, if you just pay, because of tax reasons, reasons as well, I

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need to do my phone. Do you pay an extra 10 P or 20 pence? Just, just charging to 20 pence

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for the people that want it. Yeah. I'd never forgive them for changing that recipe. Just

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couldn't order sugar out of it because it just doesn't hit the same. It was the same

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as sunny day back in the day as well. They dropped all the crap out of that. It just,

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just never hit the sign. No, cause there was nothing better on a Sunday. You know, Liza

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Sunday go Tesco, whack that bad boy in the fridge. You have your dinner. Well, take away

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scrunchy. Take away. Luke's I used to hit. Yeah, they should do that. They should bring

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an option where you just pay a bit more for it. Just as far as I know, it was mainly because

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of tax reasons. Just so they could say, well, make more profit off of saving money on the

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sugar tax. Essentially load of bollocks in it. It needs to be fair. Yeah. I always wanting

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to go to New York just because there's one restaurant there that makes Coca-Cola the

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old fashioned, where I still know not with cocaine, but the one where it's water and

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powder and then the story. Yeah. Yeah. I was, there's a, I forgot what it's called now,

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but it's like a little, it looks like, look at a little sixties or fifties. Donnie. Yeah.

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It's an old school retro. Yeah. Yeah. I suppose they do the, uh, what's he called now? Is

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he, uh, when they put the ice cream on the top of it, something float is it? Yeah. You

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know, I'll ask him when I try, but, uh, even though I keep seeing it, it's called a biscuit.

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Yeah. It's like a scone for us. Yeah. Yeah. But yeah, it's mad because it's, again, it's

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not a biscuit to us. Like biscuit. It's a cake, isn't it? But a biscuit for us is what

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all Americans class as cookies and it like bourbon cream, custard cream, a Jaffa cake,

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anything is a cookie to them. Oreos, cookies, but for us, it's a biscuit. It's hard to believe

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that most Americans never had a chocolate hot knob. They just never lived really. I

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have seen them all of chocolate hot knobs. Yeah. The hot knobs, uh, I know there was

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the one geezer, um, yeah, you got to make a cup of tea. And so he gets a mug of water,

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puts it in the microwave for like two minutes to boil the water in the microwave. And then

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he just puts the tea bag in and just fucking not try to drink it like that. And everyone

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all on the comments were like, no, you need a kettle. Yeah. What's a kettle? Cause I'm

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so confused. And most Americans don't have kettle, especially electric kettles that have

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the, uh, the gas hob ones. Uh, yeah. But again, most of them that I do see, they'll just put

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a saucepan with some water in on the hob and just boil it that way. But it's, I mean,

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they're not missing much because it's, it's, it's overriding. I think that's, you know,

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I was in about overriding stuff. I think tea is overriding. I mean, it just, I don't know.

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And as I said before, the worst thing about tea is people don't like making it. Oh, girl,

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because of tea. That's the majority of, and then, and then when someone makes you a tea

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and it's not to your standard, the cows on strike or some of that bollocks. Remember

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that? Well, yeah, again, in general, because that's what a lot of people are like, I just

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like a little splash of milk in mine, you know, just, just to take the little edge off.

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Cause again, with coffee, I can drink that. We will, without milk. Um, to be fair, sometimes

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I'll have the tea without milk, especially if the milk's gone off. That's just hot water,

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right? It's not though, because it's got the tea bag in it. That tea does, honestly, the

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tea bag does nothing. The tea bag just gives it more of a, it adds flavour. It does. Because

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again, what most people do, they'll just give it like three little dunks, a quick swirl

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with the spoon and then I'll put the milk in and then that's it. But no, you've got

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to leave the tea bag in to stew. Leave it in to marinate. If it's less than 60 seconds,

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it's not a cup of tea. No, I don't drink tea, but my mum logs my teas. I don't know why.

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See that's what I mean. You get graded on doing teas. It's not right. It's just a tea.

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It's just, honestly, I know there's people that don't agree with me with this bollocks.

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It's because there is an art to making it and it's not log with you, your instant coffee

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where you just put the powdery and sugar if you have sugar and milk and then the hot water.

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It doesn't matter what order you do that with the coffee. I would disagree with that because

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when you go to Costco and you ask... No, that's why I said instant coffee, not the proper

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barista doing it. When you go to Costa and you ask the Costa's coffee shop, what do I

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buy for anyone that I suppose... I don't know. Costa's in America, isn't it? I don't know.

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I think it's just Starbucks and... No, because I think Costa's more of a European brand.

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Anyway, it's a coffee shop like Starbucks. Anyway, so when the barista makes it and I

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do... Have you seen when they do the tea? Get the kind of wackeling tea bag, put it

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on the side. There you go. No oil in that, mate. No, and I didn't say... And you have

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to put your own splash of milk in that. Yeah, and that's why, to be fair, who goes to a

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coffee shop and orders the tea? I've seen him call a few times. Then people have popped

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in pots. One time they ask if they can put the raw milk in and one time the lad has to

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ask... Because you have to ask them when's enough and the one's like, yeah, yeah, whoa.

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You know what I mean? It's just awkward just for him and... Yeah, it is. But that's why

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I love... Especially like in hotels, you get the little carton of milk. That's enough,

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that is. Just one of those... Because that's what that's designed for. One little carton

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is enough for you cup of tea. So that's fine for me, that is. Also, have you ever

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went to a hotel? You know, when you see like the mini fridge. Have you ever had anything?

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Because the prices of them are just horrendous. I haven't done that. I don't know where I

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was now, but I remember opening up one, looking at the stuff and nothing happened to me anyway.

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There was a bag of Skittles, bottles of water and it was some shit beer anyway. Nothing

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that I would have drank. So I was like, yeah, I definitely ain't going to grab any of these

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stuff anywhere. I mean, I suppose everyone knows this, but when you go abroad, when you

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see the gaze of the pop man, the one who does your fridge, your mini fridge. Especially

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when you go to the Caribbean that way, because it's different when you go to Europe. But

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when you go to like the Caribbean, you have someone that changes all your alcohol, because

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you get all brandy, whiskey. And I'm sure it might be vodka. I might be bourbon. I might

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be wrong, but you definitely get vodka. No, sorry. You definitely get whiskey and I'm

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sure bourbon and you can drink all that free. It's free. You get free bottles in your room.

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As soon as that gets empty, it gets replaced. But they also give you like shitloads of bottles

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of water. I was getting Pepsi and 7-O. So when the pop man come or the alcohol man,

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what are you going to call him? He refilled it. And I was like, ah, yeah, I gave him $10.

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The next day, stacked. Absolutely stacked. Took some of that.

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That's the thing though, isn't it? Especially in those countries like Mexico and that. You

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better off giving a big tip to the first server and then they'll look at you the whole holiday.

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Honestly, no matter where you are in the world, I have one rule. On the night time, when you

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have like the singers on stage and all the players on the go will have the comedy acts.

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As soon as I go to the bar, straight up, you work here all during the four week?

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Yeah. Yeah. 20 Euro, $20. Whatever. Get sorted out. The rest of them get these fucking plastic

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cups. There's me with my glass. No one's asking me where I got it from. Are you going with

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me? Doing shots with him. Honestly. Yeah. It pays. I mean, you're getting, I know you're

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getting for free, but honestly, there was a queue like six, seven people. D. Sees me.

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I'm like, I'm going to go out. It's on the side. Point to it. Get it. Sit down. You're

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my. Well, that's it. That's a part of the bar. So really it's how you need it to be.

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Especially with a holiday. I do like how we went from our day, Red Funda to fucking. He's

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on holiday. I'll tell you what, I can't wait to have a couple of beers in a bit. My fucking

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best friend. Got some Desperados. But I mean, talking about beers and that, that's not really

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keeping him thing with the, uh, the new diet, is it? No. Yeah. I'm not on a diet, but you're

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about to get started on one. Yeah. So I'm on the, obviously I think it was the last

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week of the last episode before last, we spoke about revolution, new year's revolutions.

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And I said, I want to get a bit more in shape. So yeah, I started an eight week challenge

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from the 15th of January. And yeah, I've, uh, I've done a week before cause I, I spoke

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to the geyser. I'm doing it with the PT and I said, I want to keep my money. Yeah. Yeah.

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I want to keep my Monday to Friday as simple as possible. Obviously we've having a newborn.

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I told him what I was having. He said, it's not too bad. It's just normally I don't love

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most people after dinner. I would just tank the cupboards, tank the cupboards. And obviously

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you tanking just to sleep. So you're not going to burn it off. So I've stopped that. We've

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made a few amendments, changed a few things. He gave me a recipe for overnight oats and

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yeah. And I weighed myself. I was two 17 Monday morning. I'm currently two 13.5. So

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two 17 pounds. Yeah. Yeah. Well, yeah. So all it was that the last time I weighed myself,

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I haven't weighed myself for ages. Um, but you are about three foot taller than me. So

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that's the differences in it really. Um, he's not, he's all, well, why are you six too?

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No, no, no, no, I think I'm six foot without trainers. Well, I'm four nine. So yeah, that's

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probably about right. And I've never, never ever actually got myself, you know, as he

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could measure it as opposed to that way anyway. Um, but yeah, but the one time I did that,

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one of those ones you know where it sticks to the wall but he didn't go all the way to

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the floor so he's just like he just guessed like and he was saying I was five foot ten

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and I was like that I'm taller than five foot ten my mates in the army I'm taller than him

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obviously because he has to have a med school every six or twelve months and he was like

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hey you're five foot ten alright son so I went to spoke to our mate Keef Roo who's been

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in the army I was like yeah I'm five foot ten he was like you're in five foot ten I

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was like mate I'm five foot ten and he was like got his army card at five foot ten yeah

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yeah you get what I mean though it's stuck on the wall but he doesn't go all the way

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to the floor like it's yeah it starts off like two foot so it's just he's someone's

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measured two foot and I've measured it wrong or correctly yeah yeah some people just shouldn't

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uh be doing any work really if they're just gonna guess stuff like that I mean I can roughly

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gauge a measurement by eye but still you've got to get that time as you're out and measure

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it properly kid that's it you measure twice cut once yeah that's always the way it's always

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not it's always good to know the length of things anyway yeah that's what she said yeah

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so the diet you're gonna have a strict meal plan so it's normally weekends where I fall off after

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work and weekends so I've got this weekend sorted as such steak tannoy you know some healthy food

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tomorrow I'm having a cheat meal not a cheat day though on Sunday so Sunday I'm gonna have a cheat

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meal so the cheat meal though is that gonna be one of the Mississippi's famous roast dinners no no no

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I can't honestly it's too much you can't just have a smaller portion I know you don't want to but you can

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I suppose there's people out here that's like me if if there's food on a plate I've got a spanny

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yeah it's like there's picky bits like you can just have less put on the plate is what I'm saying

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no I can't even he wouldn't feel the same I feel like I'm being cheated out or something but nah

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so cheat meal sunday and then propaganda on to me I'm waiting for him to send me over the routine

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like my fitness routine in terms of what to do in the gym and any amendments to the diet plan

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because he hasn't sent me the weekend bonds yet I did say to only something different for the week

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and I don't need to be the same throughout the week yeah so I keep you all posted hopefully

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I don't know what I don't know what to aim for though because if it's 213.5 now I'm guessing

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maybe about maybe 200 or that's that's over a stone isn't it stone in eight weeks I mean do

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you know what he was not before when you felt that you was in the best shape oh no no no because he

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was no it's hard to say because obviously muscle wise a bit more and then when you take that into

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the toms where I was playing football three times a week so it might be good to average in between

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so I don't know white boys really what that would be um I don't know do you reckon that's too much

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to lose an extra 13 pounds in eight weeks in eight weeks that's that's cookie that's a lot to get off

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considering that it was 217. Monday morning and now I'm 213.5 as of this morning Friday

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that's what's our three and a half pounds was that then I love quick maths uh yeah so that's three and

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a half pounds in five days but that might be like a wall away yeah your body gets used to what you

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do so it takes longer to uh get rid of the weight it'd be interesting to see because I do eat shit

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on the weekend so if I can have a clean weekend I know I'm sitting about a cheap meal but a

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clean as possible weekend as a one to have to see how much you can drop off from that

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well yeah I'm looking forward to if we're done doing that I never will you know just having a kid

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and everything like that so yeah looking forward to it actually there well I haven't started on my

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ones yet my piano oh my you got to get a piano or a keyboard I could get a keyboard like

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after the podcast but I just haven't got time I think I think I'm gonna have to get a piano

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once once work cell was down I could learn Italian because you've said you've been to our work and

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it's quiet and I can stand there for two or three hours a day so should be fluent in Italian in

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another time and that that right with that that's easy enough anyway because you don't listen to

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as many podcasts or anything because what all we do so you can easily get that is it duolingo or

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something it's one of the apps anyway so you can easily get that yeah and uh just listen to it and

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interact with it however it needs to be done um

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little voice yeah piano you literally just just there's only one way to do it I know there's the

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apps that you probably wouldn't really want to use on your phone because it's small but

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you have to get that touch sensation yeah you got to fill the keys

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see fill the old ivory I think I want to learn the interstellar song first you know the

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you know I'm not gonna that that didn't help

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yeah yeah so like the interstellar theme like it's a fucking good beat and then I want to learn

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Kanye West Run Away because it's yeah the first couple of keys are pretty easy and I've learned

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that before yeah I remember we was doing that years ago yeah I can't think was it tubular

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bells uh there was a few that I knew when well basically when we was in school and I was doing

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music lesson that uh I knew that I would never have a fucking clue now um I remember the Titanic

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one was like oh and I remember it CCCCBC it was something like that yeah he was literally it was

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something it might have been he's not C to D but he might be B to C or whatever he was yeah I

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remember yeah it was that was pretty simple just one finger yeah because uh because that's what I

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love he's like you can get the the gist of the song with just one hand by pressing individual keys

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but then it gets more complicated then when you've got to use your other hand yeah to do the chords

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as well so uh yeah it's it's uh just a matter of getting your dexterity right isn't he getting all

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that finger actually sorted out yeah your hand exercises yeah you know you got a few different

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ones you can do yeah so well I'm not planning on doing any dancing anyway I'll just carry on

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oh I think I'll do well less shit eating during the week essentially because with the intermittent

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fasting I just it's it's just less eating basically because I'm doing it in an eight hour block

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uh I'm not eating at any time of the day once I do start feeling hungry um

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now one point when I was doing it I literally was just having uh you know scrambled egg and some

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sausages as dinner on the night so you know it was feeling but there wasn't many calories and that

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to me there was even uh one period I did over 36 hours of a three-way fast um it was literally

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the first on my ass at the end but that was breakfast at the airport before going to Poland

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um so I'm probably going to do a couple more of them like day and hour fasts and just during the

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week get back to doing some of the the filling but smaller calorie meals just to uh get back into it

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a bit more so stock up on the bovril cubes because uh it's mad even though essentially as most people

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see as like yourself it's just drinking a cup of gravy pork because it tastes of beef you know a

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lot of people um which all can't do because it's too expensive but they'll just swing on bone broth

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so your beef bone broth or chicken bone broth um because you're getting the taste of a meal

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essentially it tricks the brain to trick the body to think that you're having something

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because I've done it where you're drinking a lot of water and that which I do still drink a lot

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in my fasting hours of water as well as tea and coffee um because it does it helps you

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not feel a bit full but uh yeah I ain't gonna do all this fucking constant drinking water

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because just just water alone isn't enough anyway especially because I'll drink the fills of water

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you don't want to drink the tap water direct because it's full of crap and bottled water is

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too expensive to boil all the time there's not enough minerals in our day-to-day water to just

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do a natural fast run so all these people that do it that way are richer basically because they're

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getting the pain through all the pain for the supplements to do it that way we can't afford

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that stuff so uh yeah just get back onto that really I do need to find myself and say I haven't

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done it for I don't know probably about two months now I reckon yeah um and then I'll no doubt I

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would have put a bit on over the Christmas period because everyone does yeah it's too many biscuits

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to be fair I didn't really have that many biscuits but it's just the snacking uh more alcohol than

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normal I absolutely tanked it like honestly

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it's you know when you have McDonald's I know you don't not often but yeah yeah so all right

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you only have a takeaway do you feel hungry after no stride away depends on what take well so

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all McDonald's yes and I find it be Chinese like an hour after I'm hungry again it depends on what

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I've had but normally if I have a Chinese I'll just get a chicken or a beef curry no peas and

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onions because I don't know raw onions especially cut massive all that you know and peas are just

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dead um and then egg roll rush I'll have that as a portion to myself uh and then depending on how

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hungry I am I'll have some chips on the side and that as well prawn crackers I can have a whole bag

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for myself I probably won't eat all of them but then there are no snacks for the next day as well

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as long as the fresh when you've got them delivered because you can tell sometimes when the

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there are a bit of style the corn crackers you know I've got to have more today so uh

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yeah if it's that then I'm all right but if I have like um chai mein and uh

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a lot of ribs and other smaller portions of stuff then I can feel a bit hungry again a couple

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hours later uh but yeah McDonald's always is I found a bit of taco about as well but they were

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really small portions yeah um what it was yeah pizza always feel full because after the dough

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and that yeah you know you get some chips or whatever so yeah feel uh feel all right after

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them um but again I can I can do myself I can cook for myself and still feel hungry afterwards

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me last night was a problem example long day uh nicked into us that got a um creamy pesto chicken

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pasta and then it was eight uh no forget slices the cheesy garlic bread I've had a bigger portion

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than what I'll give to the missus because you know men just need to be more um four slices of

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these cheese garlic bread and because she's taking ages to eat all wanting to rattle off the last two

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pieces of cheese garlic bread but she's still eating look by the time I'd finished mine it

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looked like there was more on her plate as well I don't get it because she's spreading all out

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and she's eating up one piece of pasta at a time just get it down your neck man well fair enough

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I'll probably do eat a bit fast when I don't need to but yeah you're hungry plus it was the only meal

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I'd had yesterday as well so I'm fucking it's it's all half seven at this point yeah it's kind of

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neat and you know 23 hours so hungry so it's all getting down my neck so then I've gone into the

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kitchen got a pack of crisps and um then after that uh so I don't know I don't know if I said

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it on the pop but I know I told you I thought Christmas for the missus no for a birthday it was

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um I've got these two snack boxes essentially so it was all Oreos uh Yorkies which are from then but

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you know uh a lot different chocolate bars and a lot chocolatey snacks and that um Kit Kats, Tuffy

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crisps well there was two different boxes but with the one of them it was uh as you do with Amazon

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you set it up as a subscription and you get it a little bit cheaper yeah and to be fair it was

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cheap anyway because it was like 13 pound for one of them and 16 pounds for the other and you worked

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it out per price of the chocolate bars and that it was a bargain so uh because I didn't cancel the

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subscription another one came just after Christmas so I've been snacking on them they're fucking

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same man so yeah I've got four of them last night as well so yesterday in the space of like 45

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minutes I probably did have like 2,000 calories because of all that yeah well again because it's

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just in one portion your body's like eating it up quicker with the way that the intermittent fast

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yeah the only I suppose the only way you gotta worry about that is you don't have time to burn

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it off because you go to bed see that that's the only this is what I'm trying to say to the

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missus as well look I'll prefer to eat earlier rather than later just you body barns laughing

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now she's fucking well she fucking goes on to show you people work sometimes working late and that

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so uh yeah well because because her office is upstairs now next to the bathroom it weren't until

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half six I was going for a shower because if she's on a conference call I can't be in the bathroom

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having a shower music blasting or whatever because it's just gonna fucking echo straight for her so

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yeah I'll says we're gonna have to come up with some system log like a sock on the door to say

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that she's got an important meeting or something so I can't go into the bathroom um we'll just like a

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just like a a little white board I'm not screwing in the log for the YouTube viewers um a little

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white board uh or notice board you know we don't want to don't want to be wrong here we've got a

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pc haven't we so a little blackboard or something that she can put busy not busy and just like

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spinning around or something literally yeah that would probably be the best thing to do any yeah

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yeah and she's like oh you can just come in now like I can't though because I've done it before

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already you know she's been working in his office upstairs for a week and a half now

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I've done it once and lord if looks could kill I'd slap her

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yeah I think we've got to come up with something because yeah going for a shower at half six you

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know I was sitting there for fucking hour or whatever just in my work clothes still and I

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hate that I'd love to get yeah get get showered and that and get into your pajamas or whatever

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and chill and that's what people that work in offices will never understand when you

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do manual work as a work toy no matter yeah so you know it just is you just want to get back

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and have a shower and get out of the clothes yeah because again lord so yesterday it was dusty work

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lot breaking up all this concrete and that so my hair's caked didn't eat my beard but literally

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I know I've said it before on one of the earlier episodes but washing my hair is a process so

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in general I've got my cheap shampoo I'll do two washes then I've got me good shampoo I'll do a

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wash with that wait so essentially shampoo twice with the yeah with the cheap stuff it's twice

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because the hair's long it doesn't it doesn't bubble all up essentially so you have to do a pre

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do a pre-wash to partly soak it wash it out do another wash with the shampoo it gets over all

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the hair then now that all my hair's properly wet I can use my good shampoo to lather it all up let

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that sit in for five minutes or whatever wash the rest of the body then it's fucking rinse all that

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out and then put the conditioner in and you try and leave that in for at least five minutes as well

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so that's already an effort as it is but we yesterday because of all the dust I washed my hair

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four times because I could still feel bits of concrete and stuff eating and it was just

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just horrible and even after I'd had my shower it still felt as though it was a bit dusty even though

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it wasn't lord yeah you know it was clean it had to have been clean you know so in general it's had

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it's had six rinses at this point because it was four of the cheap shampoo the one with the good

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shampoo and then a conditioner afterwards as well so it's clean I can't even say not sound like a

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woman here because we're just covering all topics my yeah yeah that's all it's still a manly thing

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to do but it is yeah you know you've got to do it well we do yeah I won't get onto the beard

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routine at the moment but you know I've got a proper little fucking time schedule in to the shower

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long gone are them days where I could just have a quick five minute shower and then just love be

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out of the house fucking hell man it's terrible but uh yeah so I want to I'd like to try and eat around

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six but it just never happens but again it helps because I do a lot of walking with a dog and that

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as well I need so yeah you know it's uh exercise is exercise any so yeah I think we're proud aren't

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there's more than a long enough yeah that's what they love and now from what I love to what I love

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the emails yeah we should get these emails not out of the way we've uh

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that was not the natural thing that wanted me to say but no we shall progress onto uh the

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correspondence uh our lovely listeners uh so we've got a new new email area uh abby um so she says

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that she saw the pictures of yorkshire puddings that I posted on one of the youtube videos uh

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I don't know when it was it was last year um but yeah I remember talking about it and I posted it

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so uh she says yeah it's in the picture the yorkshire puddings very nice love a roast dinner

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uh and then she's asked what is your favorite meal and what is your what do you like to cook the most

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oh okay do you want to go first well yeah so in general I've said it enough times doing a

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a sunday roast dinner absolutely lovely but outside of that I mean I just I enjoyed cooking in general

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um I mean to be fair if it wasn't as unhealthy as it is love I'd have pizza several times a week

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I've done it before I could easily do it all the time because I just do love it not just a plain one

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you know you got all your different toppings your stuff crusts and you know but yeah uh I do enjoy

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making a pizza from scratch as well because I've got the mixer get the flour in do all that jazz

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all that jazz um but it can be quite a long process because again if I'm doing it from scratch

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it's a full day essentially you know letting the dough rise and that you can't just do it within

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you can but to get it nice you can't just do it within half an hour um so uh yeah always you know

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you say just cook in general I just enjoy it a lot doing a shepherds or a cottage pie and all that

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log um yeah just just I suppose just good English food as uh yeah yeah some people would see it

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really um but yeah you're not really a chef but no no I am the kind of guy that slaps in the cooker

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yeah some turkey dinosaurs 24 of me yeah turkey dinosaurs, smolify some beans oh just quickly I'd

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seen um I'm guessing it was a tiktok but uh this woman was fucking raging uh like a run line shot

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from tesco or whatever she'd ordered a turkey for Christmas and you know when they haven't got an

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item to replace with something else they give a turkey dinosaur yeah her Christmas meal was

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ruined so yeah sorry yeah not actual turkey dinosaurs but yeah still yeah I'll get them from

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Tom Tom the old bird of macros yeah smolify some beans oh wait uh but yet the the meal I like to

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cook the most is probably but I don't even cook them often but it's like an Italian chicken

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yeah because I can do that it's it's not hard I have cooked uh Mediterranean chicken stuff like

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that before but my favorite meal is Japanese corner food so anything Japanese sushi, bio buns, stuff

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like that yeah but no I mean if you have our Japanese food in terms of yeah so not the sushi

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because I don't do the fish I know you've said it before it's not just the fish it's not just

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honestly mate you are missing out yeah you've got to stop being patriotic with your food so

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I do my entry you know I do like a bit of Mexican food and that as well

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yeah not just eating it but I love to tapas so I've showed up

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so that's actually where's that you remember Danny J? Oh yeah he flapped it in yeah yeah but

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he still listens as well oh still listens or angry yeah so yeah I would say yeah I would say that I

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think Japanese the mame is my favorite food but I do have things where I do I do venture

373
00:38:26,420 --> 00:38:29,860
liking towards Mediterranean food so sometimes I like Misaka

374
00:38:33,300 --> 00:38:35,700
yeah it's all right he says that I'll finger to the fucking Lion King

375
00:38:37,540 --> 00:38:41,380
yeah no there's just just I mean there's some times where I haven't had something for so long

376
00:38:41,380 --> 00:38:47,220
and I'm just craving it yeah well that's one of them at the moment I'm just staying or whatever

377
00:38:47,220 --> 00:38:53,060
the other week um I love to make food as well I do but yeah the missus don't like it there's

378
00:38:53,060 --> 00:38:59,540
a new place near me I was looking at a mutton curry and all that yeah yeah yeah

379
00:38:59,540 --> 00:39:03,940
sorry that's the only thing I'm on about as well it's like Mediterranean food

380
00:39:06,820 --> 00:39:09,620
yeah honestly we've got to go on fucking I'm just tired

381
00:39:11,140 --> 00:39:18,980
well to be fair before coming uh no because the eight hours window had finished uh sorry the 16

382
00:39:18,980 --> 00:39:24,580
hour window of me fasting had finished so I thought I know when I get back I'm gonna have

383
00:39:24,580 --> 00:39:30,580
a couple of tins anyway so I had two little port boys and a bag of crisps yeah that's uh started

384
00:39:30,580 --> 00:39:36,180
up was the missus doing some beef shin recipe tonight um so god knows what time it'll be

385
00:39:36,180 --> 00:39:42,740
I've got steak tonight steak dinner so chips or mash no no no veg yeah what veg you got with you

386
00:39:42,740 --> 00:39:47,700
I don't know and then we're gonna do a bit of pasta as well over just steak and pasta yeah it's

387
00:39:47,700 --> 00:39:52,900
just it's just something that we want so as a little solid dish like a little mac and cheese

388
00:39:52,900 --> 00:40:00,340
no no no mac and cheese it's just pasta steak never never no we've never we've never done it

389
00:40:00,340 --> 00:40:06,900
before but that's just what we're going with okay yeah yeah uh so yeah that's tonight but yeah

390
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not happy thank you so much for you yeah yeah we really appreciate that and because we haven't

391
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done it when we normally do uh anyone that does want to send in an email um it's uh the email

392
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address is realtalkingpod at gmail.com um twitter x is at ash and jd on the youtube and all the links

393
00:40:28,740 --> 00:40:34,420
are always in the description underneath the uh the title you know where it is I don't know

394
00:40:34,420 --> 00:40:40,980
what to explain it for yeah it's always there um and we do appreciate it send them in um questions

395
00:40:40,980 --> 00:40:47,380
would you rather really need some advice we'll give it a lot I think I was giving me advice once

396
00:40:47,380 --> 00:40:54,020
you know like them ones because just because well yeah especially because it's two different

397
00:40:54,020 --> 00:40:58,500
opinions yeah yeah well I'm sure there's some advice in there somewhere but uh we'll get on to

398
00:40:58,500 --> 00:41:06,900
it um we've got steve again uh so he's asked what did you find out about your t chat or a t chat

399
00:41:06,900 --> 00:41:14,020
that shocked you um so when I read this email I was racking my brain I couldn't think really

400
00:41:14,020 --> 00:41:19,940
of any teachers that done anything strange or mad or anything and also it's a bit weird that he's

401
00:41:19,940 --> 00:41:26,340
just asked this and today as I was filling up my car one of my old school teachers now works in

402
00:41:26,340 --> 00:41:33,380
the petrol station secondary school or primary uh primary I wouldn't even know that yeah honestly

403
00:41:33,380 --> 00:41:36,900
so you know when you just see someone's face you know who it is and because she spoke and she had

404
00:41:36,900 --> 00:41:42,180
like a weird twang and I was like yeah yeah so sorry yeah what was the question I remember

405
00:41:42,180 --> 00:41:46,580
one teacher's name from primary school miss powell but I wouldn't even recognise her if I

406
00:41:46,580 --> 00:41:51,780
fucking saw her I know she wouldn't recognise me but it's the only name that comes to mind of a

407
00:41:51,780 --> 00:41:56,740
primary school teacher I mean we are talking like over 20 years ago and she won't even perform to

408
00:41:56,740 --> 00:42:02,580
she was it was the teacher you didn't want to have I think that's why I recognised her so speaking

409
00:42:02,580 --> 00:42:09,780
of teachers you didn't want to have this was the only one that kind of came into mind um was Mr

410
00:42:09,780 --> 00:42:14,980
Dobby uh well fuck him anyway I don't care about saying his name Robbie Dobby

411
00:42:17,860 --> 00:42:21,700
but he was just a strange character he was a strange guy man

412
00:42:23,140 --> 00:42:28,820
he always looking scruffily uh he was the only yeah the only classroom that had the the

413
00:42:28,820 --> 00:42:35,220
uh metal gate things outside of the windows because not everyone or a majority of students

414
00:42:35,220 --> 00:42:41,860
would throw stones at the the windows and they kept breaking um I know yeah usually happens when

415
00:42:41,860 --> 00:42:47,460
you throw stones and bricks at windows doesn't it uh but he was sorry it was quite a mad school

416
00:42:47,460 --> 00:42:52,820
wasn't it to be honest when in hindsight yeah some of the stuff we've seen yeah yeah it was

417
00:42:52,820 --> 00:42:58,740
a bunch of weirdos to be fair uh but yeah he just he shouldn't have been a teacher always lacked

418
00:42:58,740 --> 00:43:05,380
effort but I had him the only subject that well I had him for and the only subject I failed on the

419
00:43:05,380 --> 00:43:11,940
GCSEs was his lesson electronics and it was just because every lesson was just fucking just go to

420
00:43:11,940 --> 00:43:18,580
page 32 or whatever yeah and read the book yeah so no you're not teaching us the okay the amount of

421
00:43:18,580 --> 00:43:23,140
kids that fucking had rallies with him I remember Austin launching one of those big brown tables

422
00:43:23,140 --> 00:43:28,900
across the room yeah they have heavy tables as well but like he just like he'd swear back at the

423
00:43:28,900 --> 00:43:33,220
students and that as well because he just didn't have he still had a job I don't know because I

424
00:43:33,220 --> 00:43:39,060
think at one point he was a form tutor for one of the classes of how are you still fucking working

425
00:43:39,060 --> 00:43:45,380
he was definitely a form tutor because we've got a pal that was in his form and then so in our school

426
00:43:45,380 --> 00:43:50,740
I don't know how it is now whatever or you used to have form the first like 15 minutes or 20 minutes

427
00:43:50,740 --> 00:43:56,820
and then you'd go to your first lesson yeah so our mate had form with him and then had a lesson

428
00:43:56,820 --> 00:44:05,860
with him went to form then wag the lesson like and then when he was like so wagging was uh just

429
00:44:05,860 --> 00:44:14,180
skipping school or skipping the class so he skipped skip class so he went to form skip the class after

430
00:44:14,180 --> 00:44:20,020
with the same teacher and then when he was saying his name like in the registrar Leslie Graham

431
00:44:20,020 --> 00:44:25,780
Leslie Graham I just saw Leslie on the field walking home literally as you said it oh my god

432
00:44:26,820 --> 00:44:33,300
the audacity to like have your form room your home room as like what it is with America and that

433
00:44:33,300 --> 00:44:38,660
like to be sitting there involved in that getting the brief for the day and that and then looking

434
00:44:38,660 --> 00:44:44,980
just you literally don't have to move we're staying in your seat any yeah no he's got all left it's

435
00:44:44,980 --> 00:44:52,340
hard it was harder for him to skip like he was going to get caught he went to form the only lesson

436
00:44:52,340 --> 00:44:56,820
he had to be in the mad day as well so he could have skipped you know he could have went home after

437
00:44:56,820 --> 00:45:00,980
but I see him the next day and I told him I was like what'd you do he went I went home so he can't

438
00:45:00,980 --> 00:45:07,380
read to school for 15 minutes but that was another thing that school was so easy just to leave walk

439
00:45:07,380 --> 00:45:11,700
out the front door wasn't it yeah do you remember your seven hour easy that was well yeah it was

440
00:45:11,700 --> 00:45:19,220
just literally yeah because even with when we was a little bit older he just walked out the main

441
00:45:19,220 --> 00:45:25,460
fucking glass doors and then he's out onto the street yeah yeah but going back to the questions

442
00:45:25,460 --> 00:45:29,620
there's not really anything that we found out really that's shocked because the whole school

443
00:45:29,620 --> 00:45:36,100
was pretty shocking I mean yeah I've seen kids like you know yeah all sorts of stupid stuff

444
00:45:36,100 --> 00:45:44,980
but yeah it's not like any teachers came out as fucking nons in the kids or um any look I suppose

445
00:45:46,020 --> 00:45:51,700
at the time we probably thought Mr Gerber was a bit weird the German OT teacher but I suppose

446
00:45:51,700 --> 00:45:56,900
that was just because he was German he was South African you have a German teacher as well there

447
00:45:56,900 --> 00:46:04,420
maybe was it maybe I'm just the OT OT Gerber was German the computer man yeah no South African

448
00:46:04,420 --> 00:46:06,420
you show him his house

449
00:46:13,220 --> 00:46:18,820
actually looking back that's a bit suspect Eddie no but he was a side but yeah yeah

450
00:46:19,380 --> 00:46:23,060
why would I have to think about stuff yeah some black memories yeah

451
00:46:24,580 --> 00:46:26,580
where was he when he showed you his house

452
00:46:26,580 --> 00:46:32,580
but it was a lot of when there was his fingers not on the piano

453
00:46:36,340 --> 00:46:38,340
DJ remember that DJ

454
00:46:41,380 --> 00:46:46,180
yeah yeah I don't think he's really out here yeah sorry about that Steve I mean if you've got

455
00:46:46,180 --> 00:46:55,220
anything please let us know yeah how many teachers touched you up yeah um and then

456
00:46:55,220 --> 00:47:02,420
uh Kirsty she's emailed in again uh obviously last week she asked how it is for yourself being a new

457
00:47:02,420 --> 00:47:08,820
dad and then so now she's asked well she said good to hear well all happy and all that whatever um

458
00:47:09,460 --> 00:47:19,860
do you think you will have any more kids no no 100 uh so do I go deep so you don't need to no I

459
00:47:19,860 --> 00:47:27,060
know I won't go no I won't go I won't go deep with you no um obviously we've lost a few beforehand so

460
00:47:27,060 --> 00:47:33,220
go become in obviously special enough if it's just meant to be and I think just time driving

461
00:47:33,220 --> 00:47:40,340
obviously more mature now and everything so no I would say no because then one's a handful I can

462
00:47:40,340 --> 00:47:46,500
only imagine how well I can't imagine because one's a handful uh but no you'd have to start

463
00:47:46,500 --> 00:47:53,300
thinking about especially if it's a boy getting a bigger house and stuff like that but no it's just

464
00:47:54,100 --> 00:47:58,580
I'm gonna go no as it's sand and marman I can't see myself having anymore can you see yourself

465
00:47:58,580 --> 00:48:04,260
having any kids though Joe well yeah at some point yeah um okay I don't know if I've

466
00:48:04,820 --> 00:48:10,260
said on the part I'm sure I'll say to you but basically whenever the missus says she's ready

467
00:48:10,260 --> 00:48:17,140
then yeah same yeah yeah I ain't too bothered because I do wind her up sometimes I'll say when

468
00:48:17,140 --> 00:48:22,500
we have the twins and then that cracks her up we're having twins twins runs with my family so

469
00:48:23,460 --> 00:48:30,100
no I mean sometimes I think you know I was thinking about this is it easy to have kids

470
00:48:30,100 --> 00:48:36,260
when you're younger but it's not it doesn't matter it's it's got to be timed right timing's everything

471
00:48:36,260 --> 00:48:41,540
yeah I always felt like because we was in school and people were starting to have kids and now it

472
00:48:41,540 --> 00:48:47,700
was stupid but if you can't look after yourself I thought building is unfair yeah so the one thing

473
00:48:48,260 --> 00:48:55,140
I will say about having a kid now is obviously you have the benefit of being more more financial

474
00:48:55,140 --> 00:49:00,180
backed you know you've got yeah you've got you know more stable you know you're more headstrong

475
00:49:00,180 --> 00:49:06,180
but when you're young you can run off three hours sleep you can run on you don't get phased as easy

476
00:49:06,180 --> 00:49:11,700
I don't think but yeah uh well I don't sleep much in general anyway so I don't think that's

477
00:49:11,700 --> 00:49:20,020
gonna bother me um you know the dog always up and down but twins twins oh I don't know I'll just

478
00:49:20,020 --> 00:49:25,540
fucking crack on any you go after you don't have to you get one down and then the other one starts

479
00:49:25,540 --> 00:49:31,220
the other one starts crying in my xd one oh but always like as a sort of thought about it when I

480
00:49:31,220 --> 00:49:34,900
was younger because I haven't really thought about it for a while like if I did have twins I'd play

481
00:49:34,900 --> 00:49:39,220
them up against each other but oh your daddy's favourite and then like go to the other one your

482
00:49:39,220 --> 00:49:45,220
daddy's favourite I don't know if that that's pretty me yeah and if you do funer just watching them fight

483
00:49:45,220 --> 00:49:50,260
each other no I'm the favourite even if it's a boy and a girl yeah more so that girl keep beating him up

484
00:49:50,260 --> 00:50:02,740
oh yeah but no thanks for your email Kirsty yeah as it stands no I won't be having any more and

485
00:50:02,740 --> 00:50:09,300
I'll take it she's not planning on having any kids yet um not because of her like trying maybe

486
00:50:09,780 --> 00:50:14,340
you know just not having a fella not being settled down I was like where you going with this man

487
00:50:14,340 --> 00:50:21,700
yeah you know just no she don't need so much money yeah she's young that's it too young for kids

488
00:50:22,340 --> 00:50:29,460
um yeah thanks for that girl yeah thank you um and then uh Lauren uh she asked us about the auto

489
00:50:29,460 --> 00:50:38,900
correct last week yes um so she's actually because she says you know uh let us know what your auto

490
00:50:38,900 --> 00:50:45,220
correct files have been uh so she says I've had all the typical auto correct fails texting to wrong

491
00:50:45,220 --> 00:50:51,860
people snapchat gone wrong the lot too embarrassing to dish out on the pod though no it's not embarrassed

492
00:50:51,860 --> 00:50:56,500
that's what we're here for I know just get it out we've given out some stories I mean you go back all

493
00:50:56,500 --> 00:51:08,580
of things like honestly I think if we could go like all out there could be some really outrageous

494
00:51:08,580 --> 00:51:16,180
stuff but obviously yeah yeah there's there's some stuff that like even until we're earning money

495
00:51:16,180 --> 00:51:20,420
because we've got a good audience but not that you're not good I mean like a big audience

496
00:51:20,420 --> 00:51:25,060
or if we was doing the patreon thing behind the paywall or something there's some stuff that I

497
00:51:25,060 --> 00:51:30,820
can't say um well I don't know just get me a fucking few drinks more safe then

498
00:51:30,820 --> 00:51:38,740
uh so yeah she's bothered on that but then she's asked the question um so she's tired of a job

499
00:51:38,740 --> 00:51:43,620
not earning enough uh do you think it's unprofessional to tell my boss that I'm

500
00:51:43,620 --> 00:51:51,060
going to hand in my notice if it doesn't increase my salary uh no but what I would do I wouldn't go

501
00:51:51,060 --> 00:51:56,180
in there saying if you don't give me a pie pie rise I'm going to leave I would just ask for a pie

502
00:51:56,180 --> 00:52:02,580
rise and give your valid points because you must feel you you deserve a pie rise or you deserve

503
00:52:04,100 --> 00:52:07,620
deserve it and then see what he says because you don't want to put him in a position where

504
00:52:08,340 --> 00:52:13,860
he's threatened like it's this or one way or another you want to give him time just to realize

505
00:52:13,860 --> 00:52:18,820
what you're saying take him what you're saying you know if you think you're you know you're

506
00:52:18,820 --> 00:52:23,300
working with your new colleagues you're hitting more deadlines or whatever it may be you know

507
00:52:23,300 --> 00:52:27,540
you've just got to throw that just tell him what you're good at and what you're overachieving at

508
00:52:28,180 --> 00:52:32,020
and just let him know that why I wouldn't go with the attitude if if you don't give me a pie rise

509
00:52:32,820 --> 00:52:37,700
I'm gonna quit but then obviously if you don't get what you want then quit if you're not happy

510
00:52:37,700 --> 00:52:43,300
yeah obviously just probably found another job in between and do it that way well yeah it's always

511
00:52:43,300 --> 00:52:49,220
best to be in work and look yeah then not in work um that's what I would say actually yeah I think

512
00:52:49,220 --> 00:52:55,060
you've got to be strategical about it you know you've got to be prepared for the conversation

513
00:52:55,060 --> 00:53:01,700
so essentially as you were saying you've got to be able to prove that you're worth the value

514
00:53:03,220 --> 00:53:09,460
you know if you're if you're doing more than looking that dickhead sitting opposite you then

515
00:53:09,460 --> 00:53:14,740
just say look we're on the same wage I'm covering after their stuff it needs to be balanced back

516
00:53:14,740 --> 00:53:19,540
out properly a bit because this isn't fair yeah um I mean again it kind of depends on what you're

517
00:53:19,540 --> 00:53:24,980
doing because if it's well no I was gonna go off on the stupid one there I was gonna say

518
00:53:25,700 --> 00:53:31,460
if you just fucking work in McDonald's then it's it's not gonna be but if you are working

519
00:53:31,460 --> 00:53:36,420
McDonald's and you're making more fucking big max than that dickhead then you should in any

520
00:53:36,420 --> 00:53:44,020
walk of life if you're if you're doing more than a person extra and everyone knows it you should

521
00:53:44,020 --> 00:53:49,140
get paid more than the person it's just obviously life isn't that fair and you just know why it's

522
00:53:49,140 --> 00:53:56,020
worthwhile but that's why people you know I don't I don't say cheat the system but it's people just

523
00:53:56,020 --> 00:54:03,620
are happy turning up doing enough yeah doing just so nothing gets noticed yeah yeah and then

524
00:54:03,620 --> 00:54:07,700
collecting the wage and going out and there's people that you know see those people that doing

525
00:54:07,700 --> 00:54:12,900
that but like doing that not not necessarily I'm not saying that's a bad thing but you know if you

526
00:54:12,900 --> 00:54:17,620
want to pyroze for whatever reason you've got to let that reason be known and just back yourself

527
00:54:18,340 --> 00:54:25,220
yeah um I've fallen sorry Javs because you've never had to ask for pyroze or whatever because

528
00:54:25,220 --> 00:54:32,820
obviously you're you're quite no self-employed yeah so uh 14 15 whatever it was from the work

529
00:54:32,820 --> 00:54:39,460
experience doing the the weekend job and that from there I mean you know we were still in school so

530
00:54:39,460 --> 00:54:43,700
you know just earning money was fucking sound even though that was good enough money I mean

531
00:54:43,700 --> 00:54:51,620
we're talking about like 18 years ago I was getting um what's it called 30 to 50 pound a day off the

532
00:54:51,620 --> 00:54:57,620
top of my head that's fucking 15 year old that that's fucking good money just for making sandwiches

533
00:54:58,420 --> 00:55:06,020
you know because it was quiznosul which is the same as uh subways basically um yeah so laughing

534
00:55:06,020 --> 00:55:13,780
then and then the only other company uh well no sorry when me uncle put me through my apprenticeship

535
00:55:13,780 --> 00:55:19,620
for the electrics when I was qualified in the ends he was still paying me the apprentice wage

536
00:55:19,620 --> 00:55:25,540
while I was running jobs I was I was taking the full lead doing the jobs from scratch and so that

537
00:55:25,540 --> 00:55:31,380
was why I left him because we had the argument and you can't still pay me that when I'm I'm earning

538
00:55:31,380 --> 00:55:37,220
you the big money because of this qualification then the other one it was uh that was just a

539
00:55:37,220 --> 00:55:44,100
standard wage doing the counts rewires um but it leads on to what I was gonna say then anyway I think

540
00:55:44,820 --> 00:55:50,580
the the most important thing when it comes to work though not everyone is going to be able to get to

541
00:55:50,580 --> 00:55:56,020
this point but you've got to be happy you've got not necessarily with what you're doing but where

542
00:55:56,020 --> 00:56:00,980
you're working so if you're not happy what you're doing but you're happy with the people around you

543
00:56:00,980 --> 00:56:06,020
yeah or the other way around yeah or the pay makes or free it's got to have that really fine balance

544
00:56:06,020 --> 00:56:10,900
and it's really fine because yeah obviously some days are going to be up some days are going to be

545
00:56:10,900 --> 00:56:15,620
down but as long as majority it's in that nice balance zone yeah you know it's going to be

546
00:56:16,340 --> 00:56:24,660
you know it must be so hard to have the perfect job well in ish yeah um see because so the perfect

547
00:56:24,660 --> 00:56:31,060
balance job I should say yeah uh I mean at the end of the day we all want to earn more money yeah um

548
00:56:31,060 --> 00:56:37,060
but I'm quite fortunate because I do love what I do yeah you know um and no one's your boss though

549
00:56:37,060 --> 00:56:43,860
as well well no yeah you know we all work as a team the group that I've worked together uh we've

550
00:56:44,500 --> 00:56:53,220
um but yeah look I'm happy yeah I prefer to earn more money but I earn a reasonable amount for what

551
00:56:53,220 --> 00:56:59,780
I do what cracks me up is when I see the locks of these carpet fitters that were on the one job

552
00:57:00,340 --> 00:57:06,500
and they were earning fucking uh I think it was like 350 pound a day for fitting carpet yeah yeah

553
00:57:06,500 --> 00:57:14,100
and I'm like you just fit carpet that's ridiculous but whereas I do literally almost everything

554
00:57:14,900 --> 00:57:20,180
I can do gas don't touch it oh I haven't got that ticket um you know the water flooring

555
00:57:20,180 --> 00:57:25,860
electrics general plumbing um you know the kitchens deck rain fucking everything so

556
00:57:26,820 --> 00:57:32,740
yeah I think and also that must be expensive carpet then if you pay it was fucking it was

557
00:57:32,740 --> 00:57:37,460
in an apartment block it was just just generic like that was gonna do your carpet and that just

558
00:57:37,460 --> 00:57:41,460
looking because it was obviously you'd want to if you're paying that much obviously it's

559
00:57:41,460 --> 00:57:47,620
got to come from a fancy shop no no okay it was a company inside the oil actually I don't know

560
00:57:47,620 --> 00:57:55,220
what the record now but yeah we're uh traveling over to us for that job but yeah so yeah for what

561
00:57:55,220 --> 00:58:02,180
I do as I'd love to earn more money we all do but I was yeah I'm happy with what I do so that's

562
00:58:02,180 --> 00:58:08,900
that's yeah quite fine yeah as I said it as long as your overall balance is you're happy with

563
00:58:09,620 --> 00:58:14,580
that's it that's where you want to get to well I will say this I've asked for three power rises

564
00:58:14,580 --> 00:58:23,220
yeah and I've got to uh did one he did give me a pair as such but he was cashing in at the time

565
00:58:23,220 --> 00:58:30,740
yeah uh but Lauren I will say this just go in be brave tell him what you should and what you're

566
00:58:30,740 --> 00:58:35,860
trying to get better at so he can't say to you oh well you don't do this as good as fingerbub

567
00:58:35,860 --> 00:58:41,940
because you're acknowledging where you're you do need improving but then if you're if if you

568
00:58:41,940 --> 00:58:47,300
improve that you know that sector of your work then obviously you can go back to him then and

569
00:58:47,300 --> 00:58:52,740
say I've improved where's my pyro eyes yeah but yeah don't go in with attitude of give me pyro

570
00:58:52,740 --> 00:58:57,940
eyes or I'm quitting tell him what you're good at that's an important word there attitude yeah

571
00:58:57,940 --> 00:59:03,940
you've got to you've got to make it seem like a natural conversation you know because we see

572
00:59:03,940 --> 00:59:09,300
oh all too often with these people with the the snotty attitude they're putting the wrong attitude

573
00:59:09,300 --> 00:59:14,020
um you know just just be professional about it that's already come but oh if you do get any

574
00:59:14,020 --> 00:59:18,260
saki like if you do get like any because you know about these middle management's like they're

575
00:59:18,260 --> 00:59:23,620
fucking up their own asses and that if you do get any you know saki comments back or anything you

576
00:59:23,620 --> 00:59:28,820
feel uncomfortable with I would just say look obviously conversation not going where it needs

577
00:59:28,820 --> 00:59:33,780
to go obviously it's an attorney's argument so just take yourself out that you know just take

578
00:59:33,780 --> 00:59:39,300
yourself out the room yeah because it just blow up things obviously you know I do see some of them

579
00:59:39,300 --> 00:59:46,900
where they'll um they'll like record the process on the phone sort of got it as proof or uh again

580
00:59:46,900 --> 00:59:51,860
I've seen some of them doing a lot via email so it's all written down yeah you can see the

581
00:59:51,860 --> 00:59:59,540
correspondence yeah I always feel it's it face to face you get more reaction because yeah because

582
00:59:59,540 --> 01:00:05,540
you can read the room yeah and you can see if someone wants to and generally can't or someone

583
01:00:05,540 --> 01:00:11,060
that can and just generally wants there's other emails just like can't do it whatever but just

584
01:00:11,060 --> 01:00:16,260
let us know how that goes please yeah yeah interesting to uh otherwise in the meantime

585
01:00:16,260 --> 01:00:21,460
as well while you're doing that trick just uh just look for other jobs what what you there's no

586
01:00:21,460 --> 01:00:25,060
harm in looking anywhere is that you know just have a mooch around you can like if you see

587
01:00:25,060 --> 01:00:28,580
something you think that you're more fancy and if the wage is all right for it and that then

588
01:00:28,580 --> 01:00:34,020
just uh just have a have a punt on that as well I don't know no hardship um but yeah yeah definitely

589
01:00:34,020 --> 01:00:41,540
let us know uh where you get on with that and uh last but not least there was uh the email from

590
01:00:41,540 --> 01:00:47,460
jess a couple of weeks ago yeah which was a good email do you want to tell the listeners so as the

591
01:00:47,460 --> 01:00:57,140
reminder um she was telling us how perthela pleased himself a lot you know he's a master

592
01:00:57,140 --> 01:01:04,660
master fighter but he doesn't boy she's in while she's at home yeah uh so she was wondering if

593
01:01:04,660 --> 01:01:11,620
you thought she was making a big deal out of thinking it's a problem whatever um and we as we

594
01:01:11,620 --> 01:01:16,580
do we uh give our advice and a bit of a laugh but we wanted we needed to know more details

595
01:01:17,620 --> 01:01:24,900
we just couldn't give the right real advice without knowing what's going on and so we finally

596
01:01:24,900 --> 01:01:30,420
got the reply looks like finally it's only been a couple of weeks you know uh it's nice to nice to

597
01:01:30,420 --> 01:01:41,220
get a bit of uh more context uh out of the situation uh so she's she started off with saying uh she

598
01:01:41,220 --> 01:01:48,420
thought that the sex of their sex life was fine uh I've tried to drop some hints to get a conversation

599
01:01:48,420 --> 01:01:55,300
started but he brushes past the onto something else uh have you got any more real talk with us

600
01:01:56,900 --> 01:02:02,420
that's what she puts uh fair play you know getting the uh the right so she's tried to bring it up

601
01:02:03,060 --> 01:02:08,260
and he kind of like brushes it off and don't want to bring don't want to have the chat yeah so

602
01:02:10,580 --> 01:02:17,380
to me he knows or right he knows what he's doing it depends on how she's trying to bring it up but

603
01:02:17,380 --> 01:02:23,780
he knows that he's fucking cranking it off too much um and look because she wants to have the

604
01:02:23,780 --> 01:02:29,380
conversation he's like he's scared he doesn't want to have this conversation but

605
01:02:32,100 --> 01:02:37,380
is he more of embarrassment that's why he doesn't want to have it yeah he probably isn't balanced

606
01:02:38,100 --> 01:02:43,620
because how how do you bring up you know you wank yourself off all the time and on the next room

607
01:02:43,620 --> 01:02:49,140
that I mean that's the one thing obviously that I don't get if they're if they're in the same house

608
01:02:49,140 --> 01:02:53,940
he's doing it at the same time yeah I imagine the way she's trying to bring it up is like oh he was

609
01:02:53,940 --> 01:02:58,260
in the bathroom a long time then weren't you yeah well because I don't know why is she gonna really

610
01:02:58,260 --> 01:03:03,620
bring it up without just having the conversation like fucking hell you've had another bank again

611
01:03:03,620 --> 01:03:09,700
today with that yeah I suppose the one go on you you you start with this one I'll follow you

612
01:03:09,700 --> 01:03:16,500
Lee don't it's because my my main advice for this really would be because if he's not just

613
01:03:16,500 --> 01:03:20,100
if you're not just going to come out of it and say look you wanking a lot

614
01:03:21,620 --> 01:03:28,660
look is he something about me yeah or are you not happy with our sex life uh if you're not going to

615
01:03:28,660 --> 01:03:35,220
have that full conversation which it can be a scary one I'd imagine um look yeah if you're not

616
01:03:35,220 --> 01:03:43,140
going to have that then just looking let's assume he's in the bedroom while he's he's doing this

617
01:03:43,140 --> 01:03:48,660
on this particular scenario so he's he's gone up to the bedroom lord I don't know said he's

618
01:03:48,660 --> 01:03:53,780
going to play the PlayStation or whatever put the hook on yeah and he's fucking he starts

619
01:03:53,780 --> 01:04:00,660
well getting down to the nitty-gritty so with that then I'd say you should just fucking go into the

620
01:04:00,660 --> 01:04:10,580
room and just get involved lord just say ah do you want a hand with that looks like you've got

621
01:04:10,580 --> 01:04:17,380
your handful there and just go over and start helping out and see if that can try and get him

622
01:04:17,380 --> 01:04:23,220
into being more open about oh fucking getting into me yeah because it's obviously something he

623
01:04:23,220 --> 01:04:28,420
doesn't want to seem to talk about being he's brushing it off so yeah yeah I think he probably

624
01:04:28,420 --> 01:04:35,620
is like you know just overly uh like a real holy sex drive and that's why he's doing it fucking a lot

625
01:04:37,860 --> 01:04:42,180
but as he asked her before like can you do this can you do this and she's been like no

626
01:04:43,140 --> 01:04:49,540
well that's that's what she's got to think about yeah so if if he's asked before this is we've

627
01:04:49,540 --> 01:04:55,220
kind of touched on before if if he's asking for weird shit like if he's saying can I shit on your

628
01:04:55,220 --> 01:05:01,300
chest or something then fair enough say no to that unless you're into me um but if he's trying to

629
01:05:02,980 --> 01:05:08,180
or had tried to well we're doing a lot of assuming here now aren't we if he's tried to open up before

630
01:05:08,180 --> 01:05:13,060
and say ah can you you know spank me or something can you slip a finger up my ass while

631
01:05:14,100 --> 01:05:20,340
banking me off or whatever doing a little reach around um then uh some stuff you've got to be open

632
01:05:20,340 --> 01:05:25,380
so uh but yeah you know you got to be comfortable with it at the same time

633
01:05:26,100 --> 01:05:31,700
if he's pushing boundaries if he wants to be fucking long just in a nappy or something while

634
01:05:31,700 --> 01:05:38,100
fucking sucking on a tit and that that's weird the one the one thing I'll I do this I will say

635
01:05:38,100 --> 01:05:45,140
this I do agree with your approach I think when she knows when you know he's doing it just become

636
01:05:45,140 --> 01:05:51,940
like passive aggressive with it get involved yeah but it makes me think why is he doing it

637
01:05:54,980 --> 01:06:01,300
while she's in the house but not involved yeah there's got it is he is he too kinky is he

638
01:06:01,300 --> 01:06:05,780
something that he's embarrassed by those getting a kink from so I think you've got to be an adult

639
01:06:05,780 --> 01:06:10,740
just have the conversation just in the moment you know in the moment you bring stuff up like that

640
01:06:10,740 --> 01:06:13,860
obviously every relationship is different so whenever you're having one of your moments more

641
01:06:13,860 --> 01:06:20,100
conversations like that tends to end in arguments so yeah like maybe boys he's got his hands full

642
01:06:20,100 --> 01:06:25,940
yeah we're assuming yeah yeah yeah you just go and be player too when he goes up with players

643
01:06:25,940 --> 01:06:33,300
your computer or something I don't know oh just like just nonchalantly just walking like fair enough

644
01:06:33,300 --> 01:06:39,060
if he's in the bathroom like sitting on the toilet don't do me you know is that the it shouldn't be

645
01:06:39,060 --> 01:06:44,500
done in the bathroom it's mad because you could we could we need so much content from this because

646
01:06:44,500 --> 01:06:53,060
you need every scenario yeah so yeah um but yeah like so if he if still on the instance he's in

647
01:06:53,060 --> 01:06:58,900
the bedroom just just holding nonchalantly and just oh just lying on the bed next to him just

648
01:06:58,900 --> 01:07:03,380
start freaking yourself up and that as well just fucking let it crack on like that because

649
01:07:03,380 --> 01:07:10,500
it was right if it was me and it was the missus fucking doing that all the time then that's what

650
01:07:10,500 --> 01:07:15,780
I'd do I'd just go go in the room with like yeah let's fucking go there but I'll try and get involved

651
01:07:16,980 --> 01:07:21,220
because you know fucking like a lot of things in life when he's there you gotta take your

652
01:07:21,220 --> 01:07:27,140
opportunities when you gotta yeah um so yeah I'd do all that but yeah I get it's a hard

653
01:07:27,140 --> 01:07:32,660
conversation as well but you just gotta have him um because otherwise it's not gonna change yeah

654
01:07:32,660 --> 01:07:37,620
you know you've got to be brave yeah it's it's like if you're trying to get someone to get off the

655
01:07:37,620 --> 01:07:42,500
the drugs or the aisle or something you've got to all start something the conversation I think

656
01:07:43,300 --> 01:07:46,580
they've got to be willing to change as well I think you know

657
01:07:49,780 --> 01:07:55,380
I think if you if you want to have the conversation you've got to have the conversation

658
01:07:55,380 --> 01:08:00,180
in terms of because if you're you never if you don't do now you never walk because it's just

659
01:08:00,180 --> 01:08:05,060
always going to be that you remember when you just went what was going on there do you know what I

660
01:08:05,060 --> 01:08:10,660
mean well yeah you know you know yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah

661
01:08:10,660 --> 01:08:17,780
you know just have the conversation see what happens from it no judgment yeah no and then

662
01:08:17,780 --> 01:08:25,140
let's know what what you know what the outcome is um so I'd be on the windup as well but I

663
01:08:25,140 --> 01:08:32,420
can't know you're making it worse though yeah I'm not that he might like that never know that

664
01:08:32,420 --> 01:08:37,540
any again it might be a bit of a king claw that then really any law he thought the fact that he

665
01:08:37,540 --> 01:08:44,740
could get caught yeah could be his thing yeah go on ask him just add the conversation I know I

666
01:08:44,740 --> 01:08:49,540
think literally she has just got to go what would you keep doing this yeah boy you wanking me back

667
01:08:49,540 --> 01:08:59,940
me yeah and not on me so yeah uh appreciate you getting back to us and yeah no thank you for that

668
01:08:59,940 --> 01:09:05,620
and thank you for everyone that's emailed in yeah always appreciate you um but yeah just have the

669
01:09:05,620 --> 01:09:13,940
conversation keep us posted uh you know just be open and honest about it all and uh and then keep

670
01:09:13,940 --> 01:09:23,780
us updated like us it does always love it uh so yeah we should leave it there uh a little bit

671
01:09:23,780 --> 01:09:28,420
longer than the average episode but you know if you're still there I'm sure you've enjoyed it

672
01:09:28,420 --> 01:09:35,460
don't know what would have been amazing all this real talk um knowledge yeah uh links are all in

673
01:09:35,460 --> 01:09:44,260
descriptions um and yeah send us send us all your emails uh oh none of them have actually said any

674
01:09:44,260 --> 01:09:50,260
of their new year's resolutions either so if you got any of them let us know uh are you on a diet

675
01:09:50,260 --> 01:09:58,820
yourself um I don't know less drinking or whatever dry january's fucking gay um yeah let us know your

676
01:09:58,820 --> 01:10:06,820
details or just keep it real any fucking and uh on that bombshell actually distracted on his phone

677
01:10:06,820 --> 01:10:14,980
not looking at the camera so that was because the pts actually sent me my workout plan so he's just

678
01:10:14,980 --> 01:10:21,140
yeah we'll say that for next week's episode then uh week one on diet ash no more that but

679
01:10:21,140 --> 01:10:35,140
uh yeah we'll see you later then