Tech two.
Oh man, I'm not going to talk about it.
We're going to wait.
However, this is a fantastic day.
It is.
This was an unplanned Thursday night podcast.
Yes it is.
We're on the second edition of it and we have a very special, very special guest.
Alright, well let's wheel it back a little bit.
Should we just like, just pop the hymen on this?
We have a guest.
This guy's like, he's been here, this is like his 10th visit back to the dudes.us podcast
bro.
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome Randy.
Thank you gentlemen.
Viewership going down.
Do you mean we lost the one listener?
Yes.
Ah damn.
You know, we have figured out how to get ourselves on the YouTube.
So we're on YouTube and we're already getting banned.
We've been on less than a week.
We've maybe kicked out less than a week.
Flags and strikes and appeals and all sorts of crazy shit that Sean's dealing with.
I think that should just celebrate your authenticity.
I agree.
Fantastic.
Yeah.
Meaning it's an honor to get kicked off of YouTube.
I think so.
It's a badge.
You know what?
That's what I said.
But then again, we want to reach more people because we want to reach other dudes like
us that talk about this stuff and have some opinions and laugh and say we're full of shit
and all that kind of stuff.
Right?
Also great point.
Are they giving you constructive feedback on the potential banning?
Not at all.
Well, that doesn't encourage any dialogue or understanding.
Basically, if they don't agree, they shut us down is what I'm...
So no growth opportunity.
No.
Yeah, like we got shut down for COVID misinformation, but they don't tell us what we said that was
wrong.
So here's...
Let me give you a scenario.
So first of all, Jeff found out through our...
We upload our podcasts through what we call rss.com.
So we have a membership out there and we upload to that and they have a service where they
just spit it out everywhere.
Yeah, it's very nice.
Very convenient.
They put it on Spotify, Apple, all the services essentially.
And they just added a few other extra features.
They just add one where they will create text or...
It's a transcript of your podcast.
A transcript of the podcast, which is kind of cool.
So it was a painstaking.
You have to click on it and I mean, it's not that big of an ability to click on it, but
you have to monitor it.
Well, they just all of a sudden started coming up with the YouTube thing where they will
start sending it out to YouTube, but you have to click on it.
And so I did...
Jeff started off and I was like, oh, this is awesome.
And we saw the video up there and I was like, this is really cool.
So we got them all set up.
I started uploading them.
These guys were on vacation and work was kind of slow this past week.
I mean, I'm still busy, but still I would take a little break.
I go out to the...
Because I have a laptop sitting out in the living room and then I go to my office work.
I keep them separate.
God bless, I'll get too distracted.
And I come out there and I click, click, click, click because you can only do four at a time.
And then I also have the YouTube channel open because as they're uploading, they have a
YouTube studio that you have to start looking at it because once it gets uploaded, there's
like a little analytics that will pop up and it starts analyzing.
They got GT Chat.
Chat, GPT.
Yeah.
So they have some sort of a program that goes in there and analyzes the shit out of it.
So let's just say we do a little song, an 80 song, doesn't matter what it is, and you
play a little insert of it.
It could be 30 seconds.
We're talking about it, right?
And we're talking about it, play a little bit of a insert of it and it will show, it'll
say, hey, there's a copyright infringement.
It'll say, but it's okay.
It's acceptable because this one, you know, nobody cares about it.
So it's okay.
You can have it on there.
But my point by saying that is that it knows where it's at.
So it'll say it is between 19 minutes, 30 seconds in all the way up to 20 minutes, five
seconds.
So it gives you a nice little range of where the fault was.
And you go in there and you just say, you click on it.
I want to dispute this.
This is for commentary.
It's not really for, we're not doing anything to, we're not mashing it.
We're not making money off of it.
God knows we're not making money off of it.
Yeah, no money.
So, I mean, you do, you go through the process and most of them have come back and they're
fine.
But the COVID is, that is just, they are stonewalling any conversations about COVID.
If I were to say something about COVID saying, well, you know, the vaccine doesn't work or
Oh my God, don't say that.
Flag.
What are you doing?
Or it does work.
I'm just saying if you have any animosity or if you say something negative or if you
have an opinion and you're, even if they're spouting facts, like, uh, what is his name?
JFK junior.
Yep.
Robert FK80 junior.
Yeah.
So he was just chatting on, um, on one of his platforms saying, yeah, I can't believe
I was, they canceled me on YouTube.
And it was just like, they canceled me because I was talking about things that are facts.
Right.
I was like, this isn't an opinion.
And they just say, they completely struck me off the platform.
Well, we got our first experience.
So they completely deleted it.
But my point we're bringing up the prior by, they were saying that the copyright infringements
and they showed you exactly where they don't do that with the COVID.
They just flat out deny it.
Like, you can't talk about it.
And to me and to most everybody, that should be a big offense.
Well, they should tell you the area that we talked about and what's in dispute.
They just can't say, yeah, there's something out here.
We don't like exactly what they do.
And I appealed it and they said appeal denied Mark or strike, whatever it is.
To Randy's point, like, like if they don't give us any information about what exactly
the offense is, how do we, how do we fix it?
How do we grow?
Like you made the point about growing.
I mean, I mean, don't don't wouldn't they want to tell us what the infraction is so
that we can go, oh yeah, you know what?
You're right.
We probably shouldn't have said that or F you, we are going to say that because that's
the truth.
You know what I mean?
I think Google has a Google's on their high horse.
Google is owned by people that have a lot of control and they, they're, I want to say
brainwashing, but they are.
And they, they want to control the narrative of whatever it is.
And it sucks.
I mean, there's a lot of people out there, the Crowder, louder with Crowder, completely
spouting facts and he got it canceled.
Joe Rogan.
Hell, they want to cancel him on Spotify for talking about Ivermectam.
Right.
You know, yeah, something that's like he makes Spotify way too much money.
Yeah.
Well, they're not going to cancel him for that.
But however, you know, you had these people that wanted to, you know, they just like,
well, you know, the World Health Organization has Ivermectam on there as one of the oldest
medicines they have out there.
Right.
It's ridiculous.
It's just, it's weird.
It's frustrating.
And especially with us with trying to a new thing, like uploading the YouTube videos,
I was excited and I started, we started getting some pushback and I'm like, why are we getting
pushback on this?
Oh, it's copyright infringement.
Okay.
Well, all right.
Well, I don't want to use or misuse any artists music that they, they, they worked hard on,
you know, they need to be paid for stuff and, and rightfully so.
We were doing commentating.
So it's just like, well, you know, we were talking about Xanadu songs.
We were doing actually, yeah, Xanadu got, let's get physical Xanadu and they completely
blocked us.
But the crazy thing about the block is that we're only blocked in Belarus, in Belarus,
yeah.
The rest of the plan is fine, but they blocked us there.
Well, they love Xanadu in that country.
And then the other ones were, were Barbra Streisand and Barry Gibb.
Oh, daddy.
Really?
That one got flagged?
What kind of food?
Tears it apart, tears it apart.
See, if you keep doing that, I would make sure we take this podcast.
Definitely Dudes Like Us podcast.
Second half, and we already mentioned it's January 29th, right?
We did.
Oh, yes.
Yeah.
In the first half, Andy's come on.
What I missed the 29th reference.
Oh, well, it's today's date.
January 29th.
I said June.
Did I say January?
He said January.
Okay.
Oh, that was like my wedding anniversary.
They both start with J. Yeah.
Close enough.
Did you guys ever see the Sasha Cohen video from four years ago about Facebook and messaging
and giving power to evil people?
You should rewatch it.
This is very timely about censorship and what should be allowed or not.
Say again, who?
Who?
Sasha Cohen, the comedian.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
He's Borat.
Borat.
Yeah.
And he does a really good thing because he says there are literally people out there
on social media saying like the Holocaust didn't happen.
Okay.
We have reckless evil people doing things.
We do.
Yeah.
Shut that down.
Dudes Like Us is not evil.
We need to look at intent.
Right.
Of a group and what their objective is.
Right.
And I actually like a little bit of a measure of control on misinformation, but can't we
blanket that and say, do we have to put a disclaimer at the front of the video that
these are the opinions of these people and it's not the facts?
Right.
Like let's put a disclaimer out there and let people hear what they want to hear and
make their own opinion.
Sure.
We're not experts in anything.
Because as soon as they say, okay, that's not the truth, well then they have to be the
authority that knows the truth and then they have to have the responsibility to just.
Well, if they're going to ding us anyways, we might as well just say, hey, look dudes
like us, we are the authority on everything.
And won't we say rules?
There you go.
We're not the authority on anything.
I was going to say it's the exact opposite.
Usually we get half our stuff incorrect.
You should watch that Sacha tone thing.
He said it's pretty interesting.
Freedom of speech is not freedom of reach, which means people who want to do hateful
things should not have a platform platform, a third of the planet.
But here's the thing, fair, fair statement.
Like, yeah, but then you, the people are being mislabeled, uh, that are saying things that
are hateful.
Like, you know, they banned Trump for telling the truth.
You know, it's just like, but I'm good as they know what is the truth is no bad Trump
and folks like a lot of with Crowder, but the Taliban has a Twitter handle or Instagram
and Iran can, you know, get me started.
All right, so you know, anything fun to talk about the drink?
Have you talked about that?
We already did that.
We're going to delay that just a little bit because we have some cool sound effects that
we were going to add.
So like Paul was mentioning, he, he, he Paul's been a little delayed, kind of catching up
on the podcast.
You know, he started to catch up now.
They're sitting on a bench, but, uh, but when we, when we talk about the bourbon, we've
got a little sound by saying, oh, okay.
It was funny.
I had heard.
Yeah.
So, so Jeff just kind of pulled an audible and added that to the podcast without Sean
or I knowing.
And then Sean, of course, is listening to like four podcasts a day because I'm not sure
how busy he really is.
But anyway, so he hears it and goes, dude, that was awesome.
The sound bite.
And I'm like, what are you guys talking about?
Right.
But I'm the kind of guy that I'm so far behind.
I started one and then I go to two and I said, screw it.
I'm going to go to the newest ones now.
Okay.
And then, and then we were in the car driving back in Colorado and then, you know, we said,
yeah, what are we drinking tonight?
And all of a sudden it goes, it's cool.
And my wife was like, dude, that was so cool.
And I was like, it was cool.
I remember talking about that.
Anyway, so we're getting, we're, we're, we're kind of going outside the box with some, uh,
some innovative, we're trying to anyway.
Yeah.
We're trying to make it a, like a funnier experience, I guess.
When was the last time with that excitement, your wife said that's so cool.
Like Reagan was in office.
So yeah, actually that was the first, that was the first for me.
Wow.
And I immediately pulled over and she was like, keep driving.
Yeah.
Good try.
She was like, I misinterpreted her excitement, uh, I think for something else.
Uh, but that, you know, that's okay.
You got to jump a tad opportunity, I guess.
But anyway, so I do have a fun topic to bring up in a safe bubble with my friends, dudes
like us.
I think we, you could entertain a sliding scale on blood alcohol content and proficiency
in driving and it should be customized to the individual.
Ooh, I agree with that.
But how do you, from a law enforcement perspective, do you take into consider, uh, uh, oh my God,
I, what's the word when you're used to something, tolerance tolerance.
Oh my God.
I got a total brain fart.
So here's how it works.
We roll up to the DMV or some government approved entity.
It's BYOB of course.
You show up, you start, there are people who won't pass with 0.0.
We see them on the roads every day.
That'd be Sean.
Should not have a driver's license.
Sean sips a beer and says, Oh my God, I'm drunk.
And then there are people who could be like 1.25, 1.5 who are better drivers than people
at 0.03.
I think it should be customized to the individual and everyone has their number.
It's on their driver's license.
Oh, of course we can't legislate.
It was more of a fun, let's explore it for a minute.
But it is kind of true.
And look, I'm going to, I'm going to bring up a couple of scenarios.
Okay.
All right.
Let's bring up, uh, prior to me talking about my, my video game skills, let's talk about
Babe Ruth.
All right.
Babe Ruth, he was drunk as shit and he, he pitched no hitter.
All right.
There are, there's been pitchers out there who've been stoned and high on all kinds of
shit.
And they're effective.
And they're going to a bar maybe 20 years ago, 25 years ago, maybe 30 years ago.
Hypothetically.
Shit, I'm old.
Never really happened.
I used to play darts a lot and I got shit faced.
Uh, I'd get shit faced a lot.
But when I played, I would hit like, I'd be shit faced and I'd still be able to hit bull's
eyes.
Right.
Come on.
I mean, there has to be something to be said about that.
There has, it has merit.
Yes.
Part of the problem is this.
I've had a number of friends tell me, Oh my God, I'm, I drive better when I'm, when I'm
buzzing, I drive better when I'm drunk.
And I try to explain to, you know, my kids and my kids' friends, it's not about staying
between the lines.
We can all stay between the lines with, with, with civil.
But can you, can you swerve out of the way or hit your brakes in time when a kid, uh,
on a bike jumps out in front of your car after you've been drinking?
Right.
It's really about reaction time.
Right.
And awareness proactively.
Like I bet we all, kids are going to be driving bikes on the, on the street at two 15 a.m.
Yeah.
Like I'm sure we're talking about three 15.
We all look through the glass of the car in front of us to see the brake lights of the
car in front of them.
And we break before the car in front of us.
That's like, those are things.
And I'm like, then let's test this stuff so that let's face it, dudes like us, most of
us have the burden of driving when we all go out.
Right.
So then we gotta be puckered up watching what we have to be at that 0.08, which is like,
we gotta be smart.
One beer in like 35 minutes and you're like, oh, it's not a lot.
And they're like, what are you doing?
Are you having any fun?
I'm like, of course I'm fun, but I'm stone cold sober.
Well, you know, the flip side of that is when you have a, a dudes like us moment where you're
out and you're having a lot of fun and you have to go home and you have a designated
driver that says, Oh, I'll drive.
I'm not going to drink.
And he gets pulled over and I'm throwing stones a little bit.
Not really, but it is, I mean, it happens to everybody and you get pulled over.
Oh my gosh.
We got so lucky.
Yeah.
So lucky.
I don't remember a whole lot about it.
Yep.
I was drooling.
I think a lot of it had to do because you were drooling.
Yeah.
I was drooling.
I'm not sure if it was drool or vomit, but like a special needs kind of, yeah.
Lots of special needs stuff going on there.
Honestly, I've said before, I think the officer felt bad about it.
I think that, Oh my God, look at your friend.
I think that all driverless cars should be funded by alcohol companies because their
consumption will go up 40% if we all had driverless cars.
Probably.
And you know, that's where we're headed.
And you know who else should sponsor it?
The guys who have the medication for liver disease.
Like let's put the whole life cycle together and profit from it then.
I mean, if we're going to do it, let's not kill each other drunk.
Wow.
That was kind of a bomb.
You guys have all the eyebrows you're thinking right now.
Well, I mean, it brings up a lot of argumentative things.
So I mean, it ties into like the whole automated car program, which I'm not a proponent of
at all.
I think it's cool.
It's a novelty that may be cool in some communities that you have, but I don't think it's good
for general population.
You see, I saw the article today where Tesla came out and says their next big hundreds
of billions of dollar industry or business are going to build is the AI for the cars.
Great.
So here's my my thought on that.
It's just like I think you got to be all in or not at all.
And when I say all in, I'm thinking that you you could drive your car, but you need to
have some sort of cape of some sort of a never ride.
Well, I'll tell you about like, let's say I have a car.
I want a regular combustible engine and I want to drive it myself.
Fine.
But you may need to have some sort of network device on your car so that other cars know
that you're there, you know, just so that you're a node on the map.
Sure.
Essentially.
And I think that it would take that type of cooperation.
So you think everyone would have to have a node even if you're walking?
Maybe it's their phone.
Possibility.
So the car goes.
Yeah.
And then you have pedestrians and bicyclists.
Good point.
Yeah, it gets thick and, you know, and convoluted with with government control.
And then you start getting into everyone's tracking me.
I actually don't think the nodes required on the pedestrian because the car senses an
object could be a bush, could be a fire hydrant, could be a human.
But with 5G, it's supposed to be within inches versus 4G, which is feet.
And you need that precision for cars for sure.
Clash detection.
I think it's just an object.
So I don't think you have to have a node on the other side.
Yeah, but it'd be cool.
I mean, like, you know, utopian kind of style.
And I'm trying not to.
I don't want it, first of all.
But in a weird way, I wouldn't mind it.
My conflict I'm having is that I'm so afraid of government control.
Right.
It's really what the what the thing is.
It's because they're going to take something that's cool, that could be used for to enrich
our lives, really.
And they're going to use it to, you know, exactly where you are, what you're doing,
control.
They're going to shut you down.
And it's I know it's kind of conspiracy concept, but it's not.
It's the way I feel.
All right.
Well, I want to talk about that in a second.
But I think the reason I would like it in cars is if insurance companies would agree
to give us money back and charge us less, which they will never do.
Right.
But if machines drove more than humans and accidents should go way down because most
of the humans, let's be honest, the average human, not a great.
Well, what if the machine decides that that human isn't worthy enough to drive the car
and crashes it on purpose?
Who decides?
So it's got an AI decision making ability.
It happens.
They got to choose.
Am I going to go left or right?
Skynet.
If you if you have a if you have the decision processing of a computer that's going to weigh
the value, do I drive the vehicle into a four person vehicle or am I going to steer veer
into a a school bus to what?
For the sole purpose of killing you?
Well, I'm just saying, no, no, not for me.
But let's say you are.
There's something that's imposed for whatever reason.
OK.
And the car has a decision.
I got to kill a family of four.
I got to kill some bunch of kids in a school bus.
So that's got to make a decision.
If you drive into your part one, I missed, but I'll take a leap of faith.
It's just like off the submarine rescue.
The machine will quickly get into your bank accounts and see the net worth and it'll pick
the cheapest.
Oh, my shoes worthy of saving.
Who's worthy of saving?
Or it'll also do a AI calculation on a jury verdict.
Chad GPT doing a quick calculation in about three seconds.
You get sued over here as you lose this much over here.
He'll be fine.
You know, that's scary.
That's like it's scary.
That's disgusting is what that is.
But it's it's so true.
But I do think as as much as we've evolved as people, we consume way too much media, which
is based on drama.
Right.
Which way over values life.
I hate to say it.
Like every movie we have to be torn to pieces when someone dies.
Like can we celebrate that a good life?
It's over.
Back in the day, the premise of every Disney movie back in the day, we lived till we were
30.
We were disposable.
Oh, well, you had five kids, four died.
Oh, OK.
Now we're like, good scenes and Beyonce music and oh, my God, a life was lost.
Like we have really snowflaked the hell out of our lives.
Let me make sure I understand this.
You're saying that the value of human life is not as it's been really exaggerated, guys.
Listen, but you're saying it's not as important as like before.
I'm saying we have overvalued like celebrate the time you had.
It's going to come to an end.
I don't want people when it ends, move on.
I think everything's a movie.
I think you understand you want to celebrate the life they had instead of celebrating the
sadness that they're not there, which is all movies are made off the drama of the sadness
and the reaction of this torment, because what that means is an indirect reflection of how
much I loved you.
Now I'm devastated.
I've lost you.
Like it's we we literally act in our lives, mimicking Hollywood.
And it's just not.
Yeah, but I think I mean, but I think what you might be discounting, in my opinion, is
is the emotion, the emotion that humans feel when they have loss.
I mean, that's real.
I'm saying that that's real.
And you can't tell them not to have that.
No, no, definitely not do it.
I think a lot of people are mimicking how they think they should respond based on what
they consume in the media.
And I think you can just say like, I don't want my kids and wife like sad for two years,
can't eat, can't live because I'm gone.
I'm like, go party live like we had a great run.
Right.
No, I don't.
Don't.
And I think movies just kind of I don't know.
I don't know.
I think that's inherent human emotion.
Like like, I mean, I don't think that's influenced by well, grief is a natural human process.
Correct.
I think it was when it stretches into year, two years, three years that it becomes an
issue.
Yeah, yeah.
I don't disagree with that.
That is that is.
Yeah, yeah.
Or those are people that have, you know, they lack coping skills because they just have
they haven't dealt with that.
Yes, yes, yes.
I think it I think it's also maybe thinking about it now, but instead of on your deathbed,
if you were dying today, right, would you tell your wife to don't hang up on me, grieve
and then move on, find someone new?
Absolutely.
Oh, of course I would.
Yeah.
I've already told her, spread my ashes in St. John, make it a party, take the life insurance
money and buy it as many as you want.
Blow it out, save it, don't care, but have fun and then find the next guy.
I'm like, what is she supposed to do?
Right.
Like, is honoring me living the rest of her life in misery and trying to be like this
morning widower?
Right.
I hear you say it because it's like how many times are you selfish and narcissistic is
that a me?
Even my wife was like, if you were to die, I would never marry again.
I say, and I said, that's what I'm thinking.
And I'm like, no way.
My wife would be like, really?
You're just saying that because if I die, you want to go have another.
Now Paul, and I'm like, I totally rebut that.
I was like, uh-uh.
Now to qualify, if she says I'm marrying again, but I'm going to be a Tinder Gold Star member.
Right.
You know what?
To be fair, she didn't say if she would do that or not.
So.
Because once you marry once and you do that thing, maybe, yeah, but you can find alternatives.
You can have all kinds of fun without marrying.
Tinder Gold Star.
Is that such a thing?
I made it up.
But she also makes the joke.
It's like.
Is it Tinder or Tinder?
And we've said this.
I think it's Tinder.
Tinder and there's Tinder.
And there's Tinder.
Grindr.
Grindr is the gay people.
That's what Sean did.
Are we sure?
We've been through this.
I think so.
Yeah, we've been through this.
Sean denies it every single time.
Well, I know now because we've discussed this, but the Grindr now, I don't know.
I thought it was Tinder, but it's Tinder.
Tinder.
Tinder, I think is correct.
Right.
I think that married folk shouldn't really even know that that exists.
Way to play dumb there.
Are we buying his ruse?
We're not.
I'm not buying it.
That is bullshit.
We're 100% not.
Where's the boosted button?
But is there an age limit there?
So if you're 95 and your wife is 91, are you telling her go have fun?
Go find someone new?
I mean, if your hips replacement surgeon can hold on, go.
If you can withstand the thrust.
Dude, if that windshield wiper reservoir still working, juice it up, man.
By the way, at that point, look, we all know it's probably less physical, but emotional.
Find something.
Find comfort.
Right.
You'll live your one life.
Get companionship is what you're looking for.
I agree with that.
I totally agree with that.
But you know what?
One of the jokes my wife makes is like, and we make this joke as well.
It's like, if you were single and the bar scene would be horrible.
Oh, it's awful.
Yeah.
Imagine trying to find somebody and we're not the generation that goes to Tinder or
goes to, I mean, maybe we are.
I don't know.
But, but you know what I mean?
And so she, she is more coming at this from, oh my God, I can't imagine going back out
out on the scene in that scene.
If you were to not, and that, and that goes for divorce or death.
I think the silver lining I would say is if at our age, we went to actually date people
our age, right?
Not 20 years younger and try to be stupid.
Right.
They're probably of the same ilk and you could probably find some people that want
to sift through the noise and actually have a genuine encounter.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
That's twilightlove.com.
Oh, is that a thing?
Yeah.
If you try to date the 25 year old, then you're going to have the problem because she's probably
going to call the cops on you for trying to talk to her.
I mean, that's why you Tinder that for six months and then you move on and find a real
relationship.
Right.
I was thinking eight months, but yeah.
Grieving the badge.
That's going to be, we're going to be censored.
Yeah, for sure.
You should have called it bonus holes.
Yeah.
You know what?
Bonus holes now.
Do you know that?
Yeah.
That's a new terminology.
This is a new term?
It's a new term.
What's a bonus hole?
I know three holes.
Wait, nostrils are four, five, ears are six, seven, eyes are eight, nine.
What do we got left?
Well, the vagina is now supposed to be called bonus hole.
Wait, what's the obligatory base hole then?
We had that discussion.
I don't know.
We're doing the non-pregnancy route?
That's what the girls are doing.
I thought it was mouth.
He went with anus.
Oh yeah.
It's the poop shoot.
The guy in the front went with a poop shoot for sure.
Hold on.
What was it?
It says 2020.
What the hell?
I don't know.
Really?
Why bonus hole is getting viral?
Why do they have a peach and a stone fruit on there?
Gross.
All right.
Well, after spending a little time on social media today, you may be wondering what is a
bonus hole?
What is the term?
It's all over the Twitter feed.
2020, Joe's Cervicals Cancer Trust in partnership with LGBT Foundation and blah, blah, blah.
According to their glossary, a bonus hole is an alternative word for the word vagina
and recommend checking to see which words would they prefer to use.
They suggest using front hole.
Front hole or back hole?
Top hole, back hole, front roll.
Paul, stop acting like a back hole.
That's better than what you call me.
Bonus hole?
The whole thing is just absurd.
It's so stupid.
You know what, and I wanted to say this in the first podcast.
So they're bending over backwards trying not to catering to people who would be offended
because they identify as a woman, but they don't have a vagina.
And in the effort of doing that, they alienate women.
Well, they're trying to erase the woman, it appears.
You can't even call it a vagina.
You can't call it breastfeeding.
But that's my point, Jeff.
They're not trying to erase women.
They're trying to be very sensitive and not offend men who want to be women.
But in the process, they're erasing women.
What is the swimmer's name?
Who?
The male swimmer?
Leah Thomas.
Wow.
We don't have a producer today.
Wasn't she in Back to the Future?
Yeah.
Right?
No kidding.
Paul, you just have that on the tip of your tongue.
This dude's in the news every week.
What about the other female?
The one that was contesting it.
Something Riley Gaines.
Thank you.
Yeah, we don't have a producer right now.
So yeah, we're flying blind.
Yeah, that's kind of crazy.
But anyway, so Riley Gaines was she was in Congress.
She was speaking her ground.
She did pretty well.
I mean, you know, considering I don't know what the president of the human rights lady
was there.
I don't know the young lady's name, but she was like, oh my gosh.
I mean, they were trying to ask her a question.
I really it's it is absurd the way they try to answer these questions with just just because
they don't want to be offensive.
They're being so hypersensitive to not hurt feelings.
Oh, but they're just wrong.
It's kind of like, well, I mean, what do you think that men should swim with the female
swimmers?
And instead of answering the question, they go off on this dance around this weird thing.
I'm just like, man, come on.
That's no she answered.
She goes, well, there is an article that said men couldn't beat Venus Williams at a tennis
match.
Oh, my gosh.
You know, Venus and Serena said, well, the games that quoted them, she said, I'd get
destroyed.
I it would be six or six.
So Serena said, do you remember why?
Because they're just bigger, faster, stronger.
No.
OK, no, because that happened.
They said at one point earlier in their careers, they said that they could beat they could
beat any man outside of the top 200 list of men.
And then they played third one.
They played the two hundred and third guy who was a 50 year old dude and he crushed
him and he played him back to back.
Yeah.
And after that happened, that's when they were like, OK, we get it.
They had the humility.
They had the humility to to kind of acknowledge.
That's what Riley Gaines had shared in Congress.
And she also shared that, you know, her accolades in her school, her her record.
And she says, I'm going to an established, accomplished swimmer in the in the college
world.
My husband is stronger, faster than me, blows me out of the water.
And he's he doesn't win anything.
Yeah.
He's nowhere near me, but he could be me any day of the week without even trying.
Right.
And back to your point, that's what Venus and Serena Williams said, that if they were
to play one of the top, top men's players, they would destroy them in minutes like 606.
Right.
And they acknowledge that.
So what are we what are we trying to solve here?
They're trying to not hurt the feelings of men who want to be women.
They said not that at the same time.
That's it.
And you've got these folks walking around with pussy hats, you know, back when Trump
was in office and they're trying to support women.
And it's just like that movements every every step of the way, it just seems like we're
going the opposite direction.
Where are women at?
Right.
I mean, why?
Where are the feminists defending women's rights?
I mean, that's what I told my wife.
I was like, this is not really going to change until you, the women, stand up, stand up and
say something.
This is ridiculous.
Why would any man even considering switching want to dominate women in a sport or an activity?
What kind of narcissism or selfishness is that?
That's the part I don't understand.
I don't understand that.
Why don't we just then you know what?
If you want to win in that way, let's have a baby making contest.
Right.
We're going to we're going to get pregnant and deliver baby in nine months.
Go.
Right.
Yeah.
OK, you'll lose every time.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, this is unfair.
Well, wait, what are we talking about?
That's right.
Yeah, that's what we've been talking about.
Why?
Why any male would want to convert and dominate women in a sport activity?
I don't understand what the soul is broken and they need that.
And when you see the video of Leah Thomas standing there next to the women, I mean,
it's laughable.
I think like he's tall.
It's it's it's like he doesn't he's clearly doesn't belong there.
Right.
And how and that's a great question.
How are they OK with that?
Are we such an affluent society now that we we can focus on stupid shit like this?
Right.
Yeah.
Like we don't have survival anymore.
We're so idols, the devil's playground.
We literally have to get distracted and have a new cause no matter how ludicrous.
The fact that where we are, the amount of time and energy and money and conflict that
has been poured into transgenderism is stunning to me.
Yeah.
And it came out of it.
I don't know if it came out of nowhere, but it ramped up extremely fast.
So fast.
Who gives a shit?
They're like three percent of the country.
Who cares?
There's a there's a new growing group of folk that have drank the Kool Aid and it's our
children.
It's it's a group of younger people that are and they don't know any better.
Ignorance is bliss.
I mean, they they're they're taught in school.
They're you know, they're being coached in college.
You know, they're kind of like, I mean, they're being brainwashed.
You have mentors that are telling you these things.
And it's kind of tough.
You know, who's who's telling the truth?
You've got teachers in elementary school that are or the or the the school curriculum period.
They're the ones saying, well, you know, we're not going to tell your parents that we're
going to give you a sex change.
So, you know, we can we can keep this secret.
That is nonsense.
That is my child.
You know, if you know, it irritates me because if you're gay and you want to live your life
like that, I respect it.
Tear it up.
I don't care.
I have a lot.
I have I've got friends that are gay.
I don't care.
I don't have any disrespect for any of them.
Live and let live.
Do your best.
Do your thing.
In fact, I get along with guys.
I used to have roommates that were gay.
I don't care.
But you chose that lifestyle because you have a certain feeling that maybe, you know, that's
argumentative to they choose it.
They're like, well, I am gay.
I didn't choose this.
I get it.
I don't mean to trample on that.
But what I'm saying is that you can't have kids.
All right.
You can adopt kids.
But because you can't have kids doesn't give you the right to program my kids.
Those are my kids.
They're not yours.
Right.
Those are my kids.
I pay for those kids.
You think programming is happening?
Absolutely.
In school, you think gay couples are programming young children?
I don't know if it's gay couples.
I'm not saying it's no.
No, no, that's not what I'm saying at all.
What I'm saying is that there are this is the school.
There are there are forces out there.
The cabal.
I don't know exactly what.
But they're trying to dumb it down where they're allowing kids or male kids that want to be
a female to go into these restrooms and they're they're damaging.
You know, Riley Gaines nailed it when she was like, well, why are why is there a male
in their changing clothes in my locker room in the women's locker room?
And they said, well, we got around the idea.
We got around it because we made it a co-ed locker room.
OK, so she said, OK, well, right there, you just admitted that there were male.
Right.
All right.
I didn't sign up for this.
My friend over here didn't sign up for this.
We did sign up for this.
I want to take my clothes off in a female locker room.
Why do I have to be exposed?
That's the whole concept of it.
And it's just like they're trying to shove it down your throat.
But the sickening part of it, what I was talking about with school stuff is that they're trying
to hide this stuff from the parents.
Right.
And I'm having this pride stuff in school.
I don't want the school curriculum.
I don't want federal, state people telling my kids about this.
I want to program my kids about telling them what gay people are.
The schools don't need to teach that.
They need to teach English, math, history.
And if there's an elective.
It does not belong in school.
But if there's an elective and they want to learn about it, it needs to be readily available.
It does.
But it's just, I don't think they should be force feeding it.
It should be part of the normal curriculum.
It should be something that it's an elective and it should be available.
I don't know, man.
It's conflicting.
But I know that the kids are the ones that are the ones that are getting twisted.
And those are the ones that are making the decisions in the next generation.
And it's just getting fucked up.
Oh, thank you for that.
That was a great, thorough explanation because I didn't know where you were.
That makes sense to me.
We shouldn't be educating on certain things like that, like sexuality or criminality.
We teach them, like you said, science, math, language.
The rest of the morality code is taught by the family structure.
I like that.
I like that line.
I just didn't know where you were.
That was a good expansion.
I think anyone who wants to be transferred, I fully support it.
I just think you need to live when you do, which is great.
You need to live within a couple of parameters.
You should go into a restroom that is what you are so that you can't maybe be violent
to somebody that's opposite because you can be physically dominant.
There are certain guidelines that I think are reasonable.
And I think any... Now, if they were to counter to me, well, I could go into there and I could
get beat up.
I'm like, okay, but let's look at the number of cases on those things and then we'll make
a judgment.
I think not competing against women.
I think there are fair guidelines.
There's very reasonable guidelines.
So are you talking about the number of cases of people that actually get beat up?
Well, that's what they're going to counter with is, oh, I don't feel safe.
They're going to say, women don't feel safe if you come into our restroom.
They're going to say, I don't feel safe going into a men's restroom as a trans because they're
going to come... Some hate guys are going to come in and beat the hell out of me.
That's what they're going to argue.
I'm going to say, let's watch the data for a few years and if none of that's happening,
let's respect women their whole lives.
You watch any history stove, since the beginning of time, they worry about getting raped and
dominated their whole lives.
Of course.
Well, we have neutral ones and individuals, right?
I just got out of California and they have gender neutral ones out there.
Unisex everywhere.
There you go.
I'm not against that, but it doesn't.
It doesn't solve it because then you're going to get a lot of weird shit going on because
now you have a private area where you're going to have children that are... Can you imagine
if I'm able to go to the bathroom with my girlfriend?
You don't have a girlfriend, so can we have a realistic story?
Let's pretend I'm in 10th grade.
Let's pretend I'm in high school.
Yeah, he's right.
He's right.
Let's say, am I going to take my girlfriend to the bathroom and have private time?
Anything that's designed to be intended to have a positive effect ends up being exploited.
Well, there's an outlier that's always going to exploit the situation.
We talk about that.
They pass laws to benefit a certain class or solve a certain problem and ends up creating
way more than what they were trying to solve because people exploit the law.
That's exactly what you're talking about where people are going to exploit it.
I'm not telling all of them, but it's going to happen.
Then they're going to say, okay, no one can go into the neutral bathroom.
Only one person.
One person.
But Rainey's argument's the same for that.
It's just like, all right, well, how many people are going in there and beaten up trans
men or women?
Right.
Well, how many people are going in there and having sex in neutral bathrooms or in hanky
panky?
It doesn't matter.
It's about opportunity.
Right.
I feel bad for the confusion.
We used to joke about it as a kid.
It's fucked up.
Actually, my dad's the one.
I probably shouldn't say this, but I'm going to say it anyways.
There was a kid I grew up with in my neighborhood.
He was gay.
I don't care.
I hung out with him.
His name was Paul.
Whoa, whoa, whoa.
I did not know you were a kid.
His name was Paul, but it was funny because he would be like, what's your name?
Oh, my name is Paul.
I was like, oh, Paul.
How do you spell that?
It's like Raul, but it's Paul.
Paul.
Me, Paul, because I'm from New Jersey.
I was fresh.
He was like, be me, Paul.
He's like, no, it's Paul.
I mean, I just call myself Paul.
I brought him to the house because I didn't care.
I mean, he throws the football.
We're having fun.
He's in the neighborhood.
I didn't care.
And my dad, he comes home and my dad was like, hey, man, you know that guy's gay, right?
And I was like, yeah, I don't care.
And I'm sorry, I'm going to tell you.
So my dad was like, you know why his nose is big?
And I was like, why, dad?
And he was like, well, because when he would go to the bathroom, he'd go to the men's,
he'd get confused and go to the women's.
And he would he hit that little beam in the middle.
That's why his nose is big.
And that's pretty crazy.
But you know what?
But here's the thing.
He said that.
But when my dad said that to me as a joke, I thought really in depth about it because
there is even back then when I was 15 at that time, even back then, I was like, well, you
know what?
He's right.
There is a lot of confusion because during that time, he probably didn't know which bathroom
he felt more comfortable in.
Right.
Well, he knew he was a boy.
True.
There's a difference between and you're seeing a kind of a split, the LGBT community and
the trans community.
There's a difference there.
Gay men, I don't think necessarily think of themselves as women.
Right.
They're a picture you shared this morning on Twitter.
Thank you for sharing that.
Yes.
I enjoy watching men's penises like that.
But go on.
So I don't think he was confused.
He was a boy.
He knew what he was.
I guess what I was driving at is even back then in the mid 80s, from my life experience,
you know, I recognized sexuality as being an issue based on what my dad said as a joke.
I kind of took it serious.
I was kind of like, you know, you're right.
He probably is confused.
And even though he was using his nose being big because for whatever reason, it was just
kind of it kind of personified a huger deal.
And I kind of accepted back then.
I was like, all right.
Well, it didn't bother me because I was never like that.
I was like, all right.
Well, you know, you know, it's kind of like Eddie Murphy.
You know, when he's like, you can play tennis with the with the gay guy, you know, it was
kind of like, remember that when he said it's delirious, it was like you can hang out with
a gay guy.
This is like, you know, and after you're done playing tennis, it's like, what are you going
to do?
I'm going to go have a beer.
What are you going to do?
I think I'm going to go suck somebody's dick.
It's like, all right, well, you go do that.
And, you know, but he's just saying that we can all get along.
But you know, sexuality is personal.
It's personal for everybody.
And I personally don't think people should be.
It's just like if I were with my wife and I was over at Randy's house, my wife and I
wouldn't be mugging down on Randy's couch.
Are you sure that's not happening?
It's inappropriate.
It's because I'm for it.
It's my point is that it's personal.
You wouldn't be out in public doing it.
Right.
It's just inappropriate.
It's private.
You know, it's like what happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom.
It's a swinger party Saturday.
It's nice.
Cool.
I'm not bringing keys.
Oh, yeah.
The key game in the hat.
Look, you get what I'm saying.
I'm driving at that sexuality, regardless what you like to do, is very personal.
And I don't like how they're dragging sexuality out into the mainstream for everybody to see.
If you want to be gay, be gay.
But it's like private.
It's like your decision and it's your personal private decision.
Do it.
It's your decision.
And if you show up at a party with the same sex person, OK, I respect that and I don't
care.
It's you know what?
I respect you.
It's like me showing up with my wife.
If I showed up with the dude, I should get the same respect.
Should be normalized.
Yeah.
Like the gay parades and the tranny parades.
What is the fascination?
Out of control.
Yeah, what's the fascination with showing a sexuality like because because there's because
there's still a lot of what is that?
I'll tell you, there's still it's not as mainstream as you think.
And it's still got latent jokes and judgment.
And until it's mainstream, they're going to keep doing the parade until it's natural.
But they don't have any head of show parades where we're men and women are being inappropriate.
So I I took a course in college called Social Behavior in Deviant Control.
OK.
And I was fascinated because my professor sent me sent all of us this questionnaire
and said, when did you finally admit to your parents you were heterosexual?
And I'm like, that's an idiot question.
Right.
I never had to.
It was because the default is that.
So anything opposite the default does need some intellectual ability to avoid our animal
instinct to ostracize or judge something different than us as a threat.
OK.
So it's called evolution.
So I'll give you an example.
In the 1950s, if one of our daughters got knocked up, what did they do?
Center away to some she's on sabbatical at some boarding school to hide the the shin.
Nowadays, we don't do that.
We still need to evolve.
We think we're tolerant.
We're OK, tolerant.
It's not a natural fluid for anyone who's in that situation.
The language, everything, the fact that we have to talk about tolerating it.
That means it's not not bear witness and natural in the in the pool.
That's exactly where I think that doesn't explain why these parades are so inappropriate.
Well, hold on.
Let's talk about these things.
Well, hold on.
I'll show you one little scenario.
They're probably they had a parade like, you know, within the last month where you got
some guy and his ding dong is hanging out.
Right.
And well, his naked naked naked guys that have faking dong's.
And there's like that is inappropriate where kids are.
It's sexuality.
And it's like, come on.
I don't get it.
That picture on the TV or there.
There's there's a person at the White House, Joe Biden's White House right now.
And that's inappropriate to have a person out there like that.
It's look, it's private.
And I stand behind it.
And I know that things need to be normalized.
Just like, you know, people can say that all kinds of things that people say that about
marijuana, normal marijuana should be legalized.
Drugs should be legalized to some point or at least regulated.
Yeah.
Minor attracted individuals that should be normalized.
Oh, my gosh.
I mean, where do you where do you draw the line?
Well, that's the whole thing about society in order.
Where do you draw the line?
Right.
And that's the hard part.
And that's why these are fun discussions, in my opinion.
It's disgusting.
And I think at the end of the day, it's tolerance and understanding.
I will tell you, one of my best friends to this day is a gay man.
And he's been happily married for 30 years to somebody.
And when we first met, he was, hey, and we were doing the thing.
And he was trying to flirt with me and do things.
And I think he was trying to become friends with me.
But then the line got a little too far, and I said, hey, you want me to accept you 100
percent for who you are as a homosexual man, right?
He's like, absolutely.
I said, well, then respect that I'm a heterosexual man.
Right.
And not try to flip me as a fun sport.
And he goes, I'm really embarrassed and ashamed.
I was trying to be playful to make you friend.
I get.
Thank you.
And I was like, OK, it's about balance.
That's a good that's a good conversation.
And I think if humans had those, when there's a parade with a dick out, I could show you
20 photos of a frat party raping some girls.
So it's it's like we all have the same problems.
Like let's clean our closets out.
But like we just have some decorum.
I mean, you and all Kavanaugh on us.
No, you were like you went very gay party and dicks around.
I'm like, well, there's frat parties with hetero guys like.
No, but we're talking about these are public.
Oh, they're video and putting on YouTube.
They're out in a public yard.
Oh, why is that going to pass?
It does.
Come on, because they are kids in attendance at a at a community parade.
Look, I guess do knows that's different.
I'm just saying, like I'm adding a little context.
I know all of it needs decorum, which another subject we could pivot.
You know, and really, look, I got I got to strongly disagree with you.
OK.
You know, and here's you know, you're talking about something illegal.
You know, rape is something is a horrible.
OK, so I added some colorful language to make it that you're trying to make.
I can throttle it back if we need to be measured and have a sophisticated debate.
Well, I'm saying there's a lot of salty imagery out there that is just equal to what you just
described that is an hetero world and natural.
And I'm just saying let's apply the same judicial lens to all of it.
Right.
How about that?
So you say you disagree with them showing their dick to approach?
No, I'm simply saying you you applied it to one side of the equation.
It should go to all sides.
I'm still waiting for the other side.
You said raping girls and filming it.
No, I've already I've already backtracked that 10 seconds ago.
You didn't listen.
Yeah, I heard that.
But I have heard the one after that.
So we got we got dicks and parades.
And then what's the other side?
Oh, so girls gone wild videos.
Everyone can see him.
Our kids are nine year olds.
My kid can assume those right now.
My kids can watch Red Tube porn.
Yeah.
For every video, every website in the world, there are 10 websites for porn.
Absolutely.
That's all I'm just asking for.
That's all that's all I'm not trying to win right or wrong here.
I'm simply saying apply the lens of it's not appropriate to everyone.
You have a public event where kids are there.
I just think it's inappropriate for minors to be out there where you got grown ass men
working, working in their underwear, got it, and you're saying that that's OK.
No, what I'm saying is give me your definition of a minor.
What age?
Seven, six, five.
Yeah.
What's the top end range you consider a minor top end range?
I would say I'd feel comfortable saying under the teens.
I would say I would say 1414.
So if a 14 year old hetero guy gets his underwear stripped off by a hetero sports team and forced
to sit out naked in front of a women's team for a hazing ritual, but it's all hetero,
where are we on that?
Totally disagree with that as well.
Yeah, totally, totally wrong.
That's the lens I'm asking for.
That's the lens.
That's wrong as well.
Yeah, but that that that's different.
That's not the same as a community parade.
Yeah.
That's what we're talking about here.
It's like it'd be like a July 4th parade.
It's in the it's in the paper.
It's in it's on the you know, the local here's what the events are happening.
Why is it so important to bring out sexuality, homosexuality or any sexuality in a public
event like that?
I just don't get it.
And I'll meet you there by saying if they're if they feel their angle to celebrate it is
to be so overt, I would agree that I totally agree with.
Back to my friend who tried to personally be so overt, like if you want respect, then
be be measured and have decorum about it.
Decorum.
So I agree with that.
I was gonna say normal, but just normal decorum.
That's perfect.
And civility.
And yes, right.
Yes.
Right.
It's don't be so overt to fight your cause.
Right.
To do it.
So I agree with that.
Okay.
Well, that's a good point.
So because I struggle with understanding the mindset like like what we're looking at
on the TV right here.
Why did that trans woman think it was so important to to go topless in front of the White House?
Why do they have to be so overt?
Well, first of all, I'll where where's that come?
Okay, great question.
And I'll strip the word vulgar.
I'll strip the word they and I'll say any that were a regular woman.
Anyone still inappropriate?
And normally this type any overt behavior.
Let's leave it at that.
Whether it's a child throwing a tantrum when they're six about not getting a candy bar.
So I'm going to now neutralize it to safe.
There you go.
Anyone that has a very exceptional or outlier response or behavior to an item typically
has pain and trauma.
Okay.
Or a feeling of such whether right or wrong.
But it's feeling to them.
So in other words.
That has led to this that's bubbling.
I get it.
So I I've been judged for so long.
I've been hampered and constricted in and made to feel.
I've been made to feel so marginalized and so that that when I am have an opportunity,
I'm going bald to the wall.
I'm going all out.
I also think part of it.
I get that.
I also think part of it is these people like that trans lady at the White House, they're
influencers and they do stuff.
Shock that clicks.
The click views.
Oh, I think that that specifically was true.
I think that they were doing for her to what she did was was I think to get looks.
There's a time and place.
That's true.
And I just think it's inappropriate for all that.
That's why she actually apologized.
Yeah.
At first she was like, I'm not going to I'm not going to apologize.
I've been saying free the nipple for years and years and years.
And I'll tell you what.
Have you saw the video?
Have you seen her?
No, she's actually very attractive.
She is.
I know.
I mean, that's a fricking guy.
Well, for everybody that says it's inappropriate, can people say it's just breasts and the human
body?
What's the big deal?
That's what Europeans feel in front of the White House are very free with their nudity.
Yes, they are.
Yeah.
Well, again, that's that's something that is.
And look, look, I grew up in Germany.
I we had one.
You saw a bunch of dogs.
We know.
I don't know why.
I don't know why I was expecting the word breast, because that would never have come
out of your mouth.
So they had like they had like the Armed Forces Network for watching TV and they had their
other public broadcast.
This place is great.
Look at all these dogs, dad.
I love Germany, but they would have and I said you not.
I was watching like regular German TV and they had like zest soap and they would have
women showering and see boobies and the commercials.
That's the way that's the way Canada is.
I went on a business trip to Toronto and I was sitting in bed just, you know, couldn't
sleep flipping through local channels.
I was like, well, listen, they're showing breasts in like a normal TV show.
As Jeff is saying, if you normalize the human body and drinking, it's not a forbidden fruit.
So we've hinted about a European or global view versus America.
Yes.
We like to polarize and prophetize.
Whereas they go, don't binge drink and be an idiot.
You can have wine when you're 14 with your family.
Like go and do like they don't think it's a big deal.
By the way, breasts, you can go to Nice in France and people have their breasts out half
the time.
The ones that are out are not the ones you want to see anyway.
Right.
How do you care that Nice?
Yeah.
Where is that?
South of the.
You know what?
I'll tell you another little experience.
You know, we lived in Germany.
We vacationed.
We went down to Italy a couple of years in a row and we went to a place called Lagarta
Lake and we we go out down to the lake and to the dock.
And it was like and I was I was young, but I still appreciated women back then.
And there was this smoking hot woman, you know, come down and she took off her shirt
and all of a sudden some plop, plop, those two big old things popped out.
And I was like, dad, look, shit.
No, dad wasn't around.
Dad was like at the he was back at the house.
What what noise do they make again?
Plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop.
OK, I have to work on that.
But keep going.
Yeah.
He's a douche in the end.
What was funny is that first of all, there's a long dock.
So I said dock.
So it's like it's long.
It's long though.
Super long.
It was so long.
And she had a long and it was dark, wood and hard.
Oh, God bless.
Those planks were just driven.
Nailed.
So she she goes down to the end of the dock and she raises her arms up to dive in the
water.
And when she raised her arms up.
Oh, the hair.
Two big armpits full of hair.
And I was just like disqualified.
Disqualified.
The ba-doo ba-doo was so nice.
But your did.
But my point by bringing that up and in a defense, what Randy is saying is that a lot
of these things are culturally influenced and they're instilled in your your normal upbringing.
And if you're a normal upbringing, you're not exposed to boobs being on TV with these
zest soap commercials or these women shown up to the beaches and plooped oof and you
know, you're not.
Look, seriously, I mean, in the United States, it's not like that.
You know, I mean, it's not.
We're very private about sexuality.
Well, I mean, the most part.
And you look, I'll take it a step further.
Let's step over to Asia.
And you've got the Asian folks out there.
Sexuality is crazy.
I mean, first of all, but behind closed doors is going to be fucked up.
Is this misinformation?
Be careful.
No, no, it's not.
Oh, yeah, we're going to cancel that.
You look at an Asian female look at Asian men, man.
I mean, they look almost unisex.
I mean, there's a lot of times there to look at this.
He just launched a fucking bomb right now.
I did.
Listen, he went to.
Hey, look, the truth.
I disagree.
Well, well, you know what?
I disagree on certain ones, too.
But if you look at the I have seen I have seen some very, very beautiful Asian women
and not for a second.
I think is that a guy that a dude that I've actually is that a long dog I'm looking at?
Dude, what kind of bars you going to?
You got those little donkey.
We saw the hangover.
Right.
I guess what I'm saying is if you if you go into the culture of some of these Asian communities,
sexuality is way different.
I mean, they they try to figure out how to say this, but they don't express it publicly.
They have like the red light districts that are accepted.
You know, that's just like, you know, you go into this place and they kind of I mean,
part of their you know, those little hold on, you know, those little those Asian women
with the white faces and the what they call Japanese geisha girls with the black teeth.
I mean, black teeth was supposed to be like a thing of beauty back then.
But those were prostitutes.
Yeah.
Her concubines.
Yeah, that was accepted.
It was a difference between titty bars, strip bars, Amsterdam, red light district.
I mean, that's all over the some of your Tinder dates.
Yeah.
All your they just want a free date free dinner for all of them.
Yeah.
And there was a little a little meme about some guy dating somebody on one of the apps
and he's kind of like, you know, we're in the car.
I picked you up.
You know, hey, look, I'm going to take you somewhere.
I'm going to you know, you're going to complain about this.
I'm going to tell you what, here's a hamburger.
Why don't you just give me a hand job?
I'll drop you back off at the house and we're done.
You can double date.
You have a 10 o'clock.
I forget exactly what it was.
It was hilarious.
So not so much different.
It's the point.
I think his name is Louie.
Look.
We got to jump ship on this this whole sexuality thing.
But it's just, you know, I don't think I'm not.
I don't think most Americans are ready for that type of lifestyle over nice.
And I think the problem with it is that it's not being administered correctly, you know,
and it's it's tough because our because we don't grow up with it.
We don't know how to handle it.
You know, the trans sex thing is is crazy for kids to interpret.
Or is it?
Is it not?
No, I was I was about to ask you guys.
So we do a lot of great discussions and I hope the audience enjoys it.
How many what percent of these issues are we really having to tackle with our kids in
their real life?
Our kids zero.
OK, so what what data sample set then could we extrapolate?
Like we we're doing a great job of overwork worrying and theorizing.
Yeah.
But at the end of the day, how much of this is really manifesting?
And I'm not trying to diminish our conversation.
Well, that's the whole point.
That's the whole point.
We we don't know where this is coming from and we don't know why it's in our faces in
social media and on every news story.
I mean, where is this coming from and why is it here?
So it is so low on our priority of things to worry about and things and things that
are affect that that affect our country, but affect our kids.
So here's here's a great example to consider.
OK, we have a standard bell curve.
We can all envision this right.
It's got standard deviations of the mainstream and outliers for anyone who wants to look at
their thesaurus slash thesaurus.
It's called a Gaussian curve.
Just give some credit.
Most of the things we love to draw attention to and polarized nice sound effect is the
outliers.
Yeah.
And so all of us get consumed trying to manage, discuss, deliberate the very small percent.
Yeah.
Every every security camera, guard, gun in the world would never be needed if the if
the one percent of violent people who did evil didn't exist or didn't do that.
Right.
So the majority.
Thank you, sir.
The majority.
We have to discuss a scenario plan against outliers all the time.
Yeah.
Which sometimes can feel futile and very time wasting.
But it's good to be prepared for a conversation for a situation.
Yeah.
Which I hope our listeners are thinking about.
I was like, I hope none of these things potentially impact your life.
But if they do, there's been discussion.
There's been deliberation about it.
Yeah.
No, I buy that.
As a matter of fact, I've even asked.
I mean, we get so wrapped up in this stuff because we're in the news.
You know, it's on every news cycle.
It's on social media.
It's everywhere.
I even asked my son, I was like, do you I mean, how how?
I don't care.
Because here's the thing.
That generation.
They're not glued to news like we are.
They're not watching Fox News.
I mean, they don't give a shit.
They don't know what's going on in the world.
They're like, what are you talking about?
They're binge watching some show.
Right.
Exactly.
They're on.
Yeah.
And so I asked them, you know, how much of this is relevant in your life in terms of
friends that you know are are struggling with their, you know, their their gender, somebody
who came out totally came out as transsexual.
And they're like, nobody, nothing, zero, nobody.
Nobody talks about it.
And they don't see it anywhere.
Right.
So and I'm like, what are we wasting our time?
So think about this shit.
Think about the math.
If it's pick a number, two percent.
Yeah.
So out of three hundred and thirty million Americans do the math.
What's that?
Right.
Six million, maybe.
Right.
At the right or six hundred thousand.
I've drank too much to know.
Ten percent's thirty three, one percent three million.
So it's two million is six, two percent six.
It's a tiny and then if you think about you want to remember, we talked about how over
dramatized we get when we die.
Right.
If you think about in your life, like how many meaningful people do you meet where like
you've been a big part of their life and they've been for you and when you die, it should matter.
Is it a hundred?
I'm going with one.
One.
No, two.
Well, there's four of us sitting here, so that sucks for you.
But oh, no, no, no.
Definitely nobody.
But like we're podcast.
So you already talk about you already talk about six million in the whole United States
and then you talk about maybe having a hundred or ten friends of meaningful people in your
life.
The odds of these outliers are what you're saying.
Right.
And when they do interface with you, I hope our kids are respectful or having the astuteness
not to be judgmental.
Yes, I literally understand and have a conversation.
Like what if I had not been understanding to that homosexual man who was hitting on me.
Right.
And I had said, you're an asshole.
And I punched him in the jaw.
Right.
And then I said, I want to respect you for you.
You must be.
And we have a 30 year relationship.
Push them down and have sex with them.
So it's like that.
I think that no, sir.
I think that's what we want to do.
That's what we all go to.
I think that's our go to.
I think we ought to coach everyone to say when you're in those minutes, have a conversation,
have an understanding, absolutely not be a knee jerk.
I saw a great college graduation speech that said, if you want to know who the idiot in
the room is, it's the cruelest person because their basic instinct is biology is for survival.
I need to cling to people who look like me, sound like me, think like me, army.
And I'm going to judge and ostracize that don't look like that.
Evolution is your mind can override that basic instinct and learn to explore, tolerate, understand.
Sure.
And he concluded the thing that said the kindest people in the room are the smartest people
in the room because they're literally more evolved that they will understand everybody's
perspective, tolerate it, civilize it, discuss it.
You do you say cruel, not cool.
Oh, cruel.
Me.
Okay.
The whole time you were talking, I was so confused because I thought you said cool,
like COOL.
I was like, why is the cool person the idiot?
He's the biggest cruel, like think about any bully in a school.
Why am I an idiot?
100%.
Any bully in a school is the idiot.
That's right.
He's the village idiot.
Yep.
He is like, you're not six five and on the basketball team, you're a loser.
Yeah, because they're all goes.
Their defense mechanism to make up for something in their life.
And what he's arguing is they're still an animal.
They've literally not evolved to the next species.
I get it.
About it.
Or they have massive insecurity and they are attacking everyone else because they can't
deal with their own problems.
Right.
All right.
I think we've talked this one to death.
One thing we need to talk about is our bourbon.
And this is one that Sean found, I think.
Actually what happened is we got a, well, I'm imagining the music playing.
Yeah, you go, oh yeah.
So we get a, Paul, Jeff and I are part of a small little community and we get these
little notes or text messages from the folks at Total Wine.
Kevin.
Is that his name?
Yeah.
I got a total brain fart for a second.
And Stan.
Yeah.
Kevin and Stan.
They will text and they'll be like, hey guys, we have some stuff you might want to come
by and get.
Nice.
And I'll text the picture over to Jeff and Paul and they'll be like, oh my way, I'm already
there.
Yeah.
With the parking lot.
Yeah.
And we're all sparkling Total Wine as we speak.
I was like, why the fuck do you do that?
But I love it.
I love it.
Don't get me wrong.
So I mean, it's always one of us.
I don't care what it is, what's going on, man.
I'm kind of like, I'm right here.
I was just here.
I'll go right.
But it's just, oh shit, that was quick.
Wow, they literally timed us.
Well, here's the thing.
So the maker's mark that we picked up that Kevin from Total Wine brought to us.
Very nice.
We ran over there and picked it up.
It's 110 proof.
The release Burma showcases the influence of makers unique 110 barrel entry proof, also
known as BEP barrel entry proof.
It was crafted to amplify the balanced wood sugars, softer tannins and lasting finished
achieved with our low 110 BEP.
Look, I'm going to repeat, repeat, repeat.
This thing is 110 proof.
It's really good.
It's a little bit hotter than that actually.
It's 2023.
It's a limited release.
Limited release.
It's very good.
Let's talk about it.
It's spicy.
It's full.
It's music, so keep going.
No, no, no, no, no.
It's not.
I don't hate it at all.
I like it.
I'm saying it's spicy.
It is good.
It's got a, it's, well, the thing says the tasting notes, the aromas, toasty vanilla,
subtle spice caramel, bright vanilla brown sugar for taste and the finish with a medium
body balanced rich caramel, dry bacon spices.
You know what's interesting?
It doesn't say that it's hot, but it is.
Well, I mean, it's 110 proof.
Well, no, I mean, but it doesn't.
Some high proof bourbons are hotter than others taste wise.
Ours is on the hotter side.
So this is 55.35% which puts it up to the higher end than they have there.
I would say for the next two minutes after a sip, it sits and hugs you versus punch you.
It's nice.
That's true.
That's always true.
If you let it open up.
Good companion.
Um, we have our guest Randy here tonight and, uh, you know, we kind of had an audible in
the middle of, I did actually.
I was kind of like, cause we started talking about the, the 4th of July upcoming party
that's coming.
I'm kind of like, shit man.
Uh, Jeff and I are going and we look over at Paul.
We're like, Oh, awkward.
So I, uh, no, no, no, no.
I, I texted Elise.
I was like, Hey, Elise, um, the third party of dudes.
I guess she was like, fuck Paul.
He's not coming.
Fuck him.
Fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck.
And I was like, what happened?
I've never even met her.
Did she know I'm training?
Oh God.
Damn it.
Could you trade for what?
Training.
So, you know, he was, he was quite accepted, but he said specifically you need to bring
the suburban.
Ah, not part of our, I can do that.
It's gotta be like a good one though.
I can do, I can, I can bring your 10 year Henry McKinnon.
We're going to have, we're going to have some good margarita machines and tequilas to start
the day.
We can, we can wind into the bourbon later.
That'll be good.
I'm gonna ramp up.
That sounds like fun.
Let's begin.
We, uh, you know, it was the, the whole idea of going out and working here.
I mean, the last time we went over your house, it was just off the hook.
I had such a great time and I, I, dude, seriously, it was such a great time and you've got such
a fantastic house.
It is, it's always a treat to go over there.
Hey, listen.
Frankly, every time Jeff goes over there and you guys are partying, I, my inner model is
like dick.
So listen, I'm like, what the hell, man?
What are we chopped fucking liver over here?
How many times we got to invite Randy over here before we get a group fricking, uh, hug
for getting an invite over to his house.
So we had some heavy topics.
I hope they enjoyed it today, but we're wrapping up with some fun.
Look, the 4th of July is coming globally.
Let's have some fun.
Big deal.
Love your family.
Love your friends.
You know, keep it rolling.
Yep.
Amen.
Once you're talking withortunate man, um, we will sign to that.