1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Welcome back to the PianoPod. I am Yukimisong. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Hi everyone, I'm Clara Zhang. 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:11,000 For anyone joining our show as an audience for the first time, so glad you're here. 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:15,000 Clara and I are both classical pianists and piano teachers from New York City. 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:21,000 This podcast is for anyone who plays the piano for fun, loves listening to the piano music, 6 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:28,000 or for someone who is pursuing a career in piano, or simply is just curious about the world of piano music. 7 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:35,000 That's right. In each episode, we interview a guest speaker who has been breaking exciting new ground in the music industry. 8 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:39,000 Before getting started, we want to thank our listeners for tuning in. 9 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:47,000 Please read our show or review on Apple Podcasts because every reading review will help people to find our show. 10 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:52,000 For this episode, we invited Mr. Lee D. Stockner from New York. 11 00:00:52,000 --> 00:01:04,000 He is a music educator, author of Occupational Octaves Piano, president and CEO of Musically Inclined Guy, Inc., and creator of a new language of music. 12 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:13,000 We had a brief pre-interview meeting with him the other day, and he mentioned that he had extensive work with special needs students. 13 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:20,000 And from that experience, he created a new language of music for people who can't read traditional music notation. 14 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:31,000 And do you remember, Clara, about a year ago, we invited Selena Pistrezzi from San Jose, California, as a guest of season one, episode 11, who specializes in teaching neurodiverse students. 15 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,000 And it turns out Lee is her coach. 16 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:38,000 Oh, wow. That's quite a small world we live in, right? 17 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:46,000 And so obviously his method has had such a significant impact on special needs students across the nation and their teachers. 18 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:59,000 So there's a documentary about Lee, how he was helping students with autism through piano, which was nominated for an award at the 2020 Pasadena International Film Festival. 19 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:06,000 He's quite amazing. And I think it's also timely to interview him because next month is Autism Awareness Month. 20 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:11,000 So and well, last year, that's when we interviewed Selena Pistrezzi. 21 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:18,000 That is correct. Yes. And that was such a great episode. And I loved interviewing her and learned a lot about the episode. 22 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:24,000 And now let's get to learn in depth about teaching special needs or neurodiverse students. 23 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:32,000 And I'm curious to know about Lee Suckner's program, what occupational octaves is all about. 24 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:41,000 Yeah, me too. So let's get the show started. 25 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:51,000 You are listening to the PianoPod, where we talk to the brightest minds in the industry about how they are bringing the piano into the 21st century. 26 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:58,000 We're very excited to introduce our guest of episode 11, Mr. Lee D. Suckner to the show. 27 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:03,000 Mr. Suckner is the author of Occupational Octaves Piano, a series of piano method books, 28 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:10,000 which hundreds of music instructors across the nation have used to teach piano lessons to special needs in the past decade. 29 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:17,000 He is the creator of the new and user friendly language of music featured in Occupational Octaves, 30 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:22,000 which was invented for anyone with basic color and letter matching skills. 31 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:29,000 Using this language allows students, including those with high support needs, can play challenging music, 32 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:34,000 such as violins or exercises like four octave scales in parallels. 33 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:40,000 We are going to cover topics including Mr. Suckner's own diagnosis of ADHD, 34 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:46,000 experiences of teaching special needs students, the science behind optimal flow experiences of the piano, 35 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:50,000 and his newest method to teach traditional music notation. 36 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:55,000 Well, hopefully we can cover all of them in such limited time today and fingers crossed. 37 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,000 Lee, welcome to the PianoPod. 38 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,000 Thank you, Ukihime. 39 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:00,000 Welcome. 40 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:04,000 Thank you. Thank you, Ukihime. Thank you, Claram. Very excited to be here. 41 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:07,000 Thank you so much. We appreciate your time. 42 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:12,000 So we met, you and I met recently via LinkedIn. 43 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:19,000 I made a post about my young student who was able to perform one of the Chopin's piano etudes in the flow during the piano competition. 44 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:30,000 And the word flow refers to the book Flow, the Psychology of Optimal Experiences written by Dr. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Hungarian-American psychologist. 45 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,000 We started having conversations on that platform. 46 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:41,000 And now here you are. So first and foremost, tell us what is occupational octaves in, let's say, 2022. 47 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,000 I know it's been through quite an evolution already since the creation. 48 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:52,000 So so maybe right now, as of now, it's like occupational octaves 7.0, let's say. 49 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,000 Something like that. Yes. Tell us, please. 50 00:04:55,000 --> 00:05:04,000 Sure, sure. It's been the ever changing identity behind this program with the colors and letters and rhythmically designed boxes that I love teaching from. 51 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:13,000 So the inception of this program came many, many years ago when I was working with a number of students on the autism spectrum with high support needs, 52 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,000 whose families wanted to help them play the piano. 53 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:21,000 And most of the experiences that they had had with other piano teachers did not go so well. 54 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,000 So when they reached out to me, I knew I had to come up with a new idea. 55 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:36,000 And I had this idea rolling around in the back of my mind for a system of colored letters in rhythmically designed boxes, basically something where if people could match the program, they would be able to play the piano. 56 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:50,000 So I started working with a handful of students who could do this basic color and letter matching while I was also working in a school with them where we had to work on everything from the basics of what we call ADL activities of daily living. 57 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:58,000 And these ADL skills had to be broken apart in such a way that I learned how to support little tiny steps and big processes. 58 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:11,000 For example, you would never think that helping a student brush their teeth could be a 12-step operation. And one of the steps you can get wrong is walking into the wrong room or holding a toothbrush upside down. 59 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:23,000 So getting to work with individuals that had some of these really severe challenges was something that helped me see educational processes in a different way than, frankly, most other piano teachers out there. 60 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:30,000 You don't have to break things down so far in traditional music notation, or so we thought. 61 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:42,000 So occupational octaves became a new language of music with the colors and the letters that I started with the individuals at this school for students with autism that I was working at. 62 00:06:42,000 --> 00:07:01,000 So that was the inception, and I also had a lot of skills in terms of working with people that had behaviors that could be what we call maladaptive, sometimes violent toward themselves and others and property, and a number of situations that were, you know, quite uncomfortable to say the very, very least. 63 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:08,000 And things that if we didn't have to have people go through, we would always choose for them not to have to go through. Very stressful situations. 64 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:25,000 So we started to use the program with these individuals, and as a 10 year classical piano teacher at that point, I knew exactly how to teach a classical piano lesson I knew how to start it from two thumbs on middle C, and work the way outward little by little, 65 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:41,000 and I knew the value and the efficacy of starting in a position like that. So, with this new language of music that I had I started putting together a curriculum very similar to the one that I use as a teacher for 10 years and as a student, 20 years prior, and 66 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:54,000 developing a similar method into the new language of music. So what occupational octaves is, is a new language of music, written out into a full classical curriculum. 67 00:07:54,000 --> 00:08:12,000 And then you know what, we'll get to this new language part later. Yeah, but I'm very excited to find out more. And so tell us this, the level goes from, obviously from the very beginning beginner to up until what level. 68 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:25,000 Well there, there is no limit on the level in the same way that traditional music notation has no limit to what can be written, but always write more and more. Same thing here because it is simply a new language of music. 69 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:35,000 So in recent weeks I've written up a couple of different Chopin nocturnes, I wrote up the Liebstramn List Nocturne which is just beautiful. 70 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:50,000 It's just so beautiful, and to have a nocturne that is so based in major key, and still have that haunting effect is so beautiful and so amazing to introduce to students who, outside of the lesson, may need help on everything from tying shoes to crossing 71 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:56,000 streets. So it's an incredible thing to see, but there really is no limitation. 72 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:07,000 There are complications because it is challenging to write up say things like 32nd notes in a system like this, right, things like that can get challenging and complicated for sure. 73 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:23,000 However, the limitations are low. I've written up Phantom of the Opera, I've written up Seasons of Love, Piano Man, The Stranger, Canon in D, Furalice, Beethoven's Fifth, Moonlight Sonata, just tons and tons of material. 74 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,000 And this is just the very beginning. 75 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:34,000 Wow, that's very exciting and it's growing and growing and reaching out to more people. That's excellent. 76 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:53,000 Now, tell us about your background because I have a feeling that your childhood experiences really impacted and influenced you to be who you are as a teacher, as a person obviously and as a business owner. 77 00:09:53,000 --> 00:10:05,000 Sure, sure. Well, in certain ways I have the luckiest of upbringings possible, you know, a wonderful middle class family from Long Island that raised me with all the love in the world. However, I had two complicated things going on. 78 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:22,000 One thing was I had a major set of injuries to my leg that kept me out of school for a long period of time and out of growth and development. When everybody else was out there playing in games and playing sports and whatnot, I was in a body cast, I was in traction, I was in rehabilitation, 79 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:39,000 I was in the hospital. So while there was plenty of positive along the way and wonderful experiences and enriching experiences in my life, in the background of it, I had this thing that really, for lack of a better word, fractured the continual development that one would want to achieve. 80 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:55,000 The other aspect is that I'm diagnosed attention deficit and I had a pretty rough time in school when it came to things like concentration. And concentration was rough for me in every single aspect of life, except for in my piano lessons, where my talent was always something that was obvious. 81 00:10:55,000 --> 00:11:04,000 I'm very proud of it. And not everybody is able to say that they're talented classical piano players, just like I'm not able to say I'm a, you know, talented neurosurgeon. 82 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:22,000 There are things that everybody could reach to, and you have to be super proud of those things. So I'm a very, very proud piano player, but I struggled mightily in school. And with the combination of these two things, what might have actually been the heaviest of struggles was apathy, because along the way you have a number of failures. 83 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:46,000 And when those failures start to become a little bit more normal than the successes, there's a lot of disconnection that starts to happen. And disconnection is very, very difficult, especially at young ages and the thing that kept me connected, the thing that always kept me believing the thing that kept me away from being able to say the most apathetic things that one could say about themselves was music. 84 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:59,000 It was the piano, it was that when I sat down behind those keys, no matter what, things came alive. And something came out of me that was above and beyond anything that I ever imagined for myself or expected for myself. 85 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:13,000 But when I, when I say that music saved me back then, I really, really, really mean it. Like I really mean I don't know what I would do without it. And there are certain albums that I could still hear today. 86 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:29,000 Pardon what the title is, but Green Day's album Dookie, that first album that came out in 1994, I listened to that in a hospital bed over and over and over and over. And there's a couple little drum hits, a couple little snare hits that start out that album. 87 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:39,000 And I hear that and I'm back in that hospital bed, I'm back to that music being the thing that drew my mind out of a place that was not very pleasant. 88 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:51,000 But then even after all of that you get back into school and I'm supposed to just kind of kick back up with things and get back on with where everybody else is and quite frankly I was just disoriented with everything that was going on. 89 00:12:51,000 --> 00:13:05,000 I didn't know my place, I didn't know if I was going to be out again the next week. It was, you know, certainly an emotionally confusing time for anybody but especially with the bit of a roller coaster that I had to manage my way through. 90 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:20,000 But without music I don't, I have no idea what I would have become. I don't, I don't foresee that it would have become something that was contributing positively, as I believe I am now. 91 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:25,000 And, you know, it's just, it's all the credit to music that stuff saved me. 92 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:39,000 That is so beautiful. Yeah, Lee, wow I'm sitting here listening you know to your story and I'm really very touched you know I obviously to prepare for this interview we've been doing some research and I've been going to your website and then watching your 93 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:41,000 documentaries and videos. 94 00:13:41,000 --> 00:14:00,000 And, you know, they say, the magic of music right so music really saves us all a lot of times and then I'm very curious earlier you mentioned something about this new language, you've been writing, and I know we have a lot other questions but I'm just very curious, 95 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:07,000 can you just briefly explain a little bit of that. Sure, sure. If you don't mind I'm going to use some visuals to do so. Perfect. 96 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:19,000 All right, I'm going to go ahead and take over the screen over here I got a nice little PowerPoint ready to go over here so let's just get right into a couple of technical things over here, we have to make a transition because I just got everybody 97 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:33,000 all emotional with everything. And now we're going to talk about some very technical items. So, I'm actually going to, in the favor of time skip ahead a little bit over here and get through this year but in order to discuss what a new language of music means what we 98 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:45,000 need to do is establish what the original language of music is designed for and the purpose behind it. And there are three main purposes while there are certainly so many more there are three main purposes. 99 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:57,000 The three main purposes are knowing which notes to play, which fingers to use and how many beats to hold for. If you have those three going on, you could put together some competent music, whether it'll be beautiful. 100 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:09,000 But you could certainly put together some competent music. Now when you look at something like Beethoven's Fur Elise, and you're trying to figure out the notes you're looking at whether it's on the line or the space what line and space of course as we know, 101 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:21,000 when you're talking about the fingers you're talking about which finger to use based on a little number above or below the notes but we also know it's part of a complicated system because right over there, there is not a number for that note. 102 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:32,000 However, you and I as musicians we know what finger to use over there. So it's not only a system of reading instructions it's also understanding an unwritten system which is pretty tough to work with. 103 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:42,000 And then of course you have your time signature and your beats which is something that you have to understand on a number of different mathematical levels quarter notes half notes whole notes and so on and so forth. 104 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:47,000 So, this is a whole bunch of what we need to understand for Beethoven's Fur Elise. 105 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:59,000 And this is Beethoven's Fur Elise written for occupational octave piano. And when you look at these two, believe it or not, you are looking at the exact same notes, the exact same fingers and the exact same beats. 106 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:03,000 The instructions are 100% identical. 107 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:09,000 So basically the language is from those finger rings, right the different colors. 108 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:19,000 Let me get you right there I'm going to take you take you on that journey right now so even though we don't use this term so much anymore because we are not 100% focused on the special needs community. 109 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:29,000 We're focused on a community of anybody who could match colors and letters. That's who could have success with this program, even though its inception was with the special needs community. 110 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:41,000 But for something to be user friendly for the special needs community, your, your biggest goals and your biggest struggles have to be with clarity and ease. That's what the big purpose behind occupational offices. 111 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:49,000 So as you saw you had the rings on the fingers and you had a labeled keyboard let me just go back there for one second. You can see that the keys are labeled in a very specific way. 112 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:55,000 So when you come across a nice easy song like Mary had a little lamb, you'll have something like a green D. 113 00:16:55,000 --> 00:17:12,000 What that means is that the D matches with the letter on the piano, and the color matches with the ring. And this way, you'll know exactly which key to push down and which finger to use on every single box and two thirds of the battle is already one, but a little 114 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:26,000 more complicated is total beats to use. And what's great about traditional music notes is that we all understand our general system of counting and once you get it, you know it's like magic you could bring the rhythm of strangers together through a piece of paper it's, it's 115 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:27,000 incredible. 116 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,000 Same thing over here. 117 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:38,000 The same system exists. It's just designed in these boxes. And you know something the counting could actually be a little bit too tough for certain students that I work with. 118 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:47,000 You know, it's a pattern that you hold when there's an arrow and you just point and you go one at a time. So whether you're using the counting, or you're not using any counting at all. 119 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:56,000 You have a special needs user friendly approach and special needs user friendly what that really means is user friendly to many, many, many people. 120 00:17:56,000 --> 00:18:12,000 So you know exactly which notes to play, which fingers to use, and the beats to hold for. 121 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:27,000 You know, you can use the chords, three no chords larger chords, book five you get into menu at and G major, a nice big bowl the jingle bells here with a bunch of good chords the few release that you saw and one that I love showing off it's the Blue Danube which is. 122 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:43,000 It's a journey through that piece over there. And that is the basics of how the new language of music works and it's also why I'm willing to go out there and say something as bold as new language of music, because I've had a number of people over the year just hang 123 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:51,000 the phone up on me when I say this idea. Oh no we don't use traditional notes we use a new language of music, click done, you know right right away. 124 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:58,000 So I always appreciate the opportunity to share exactly what it is so that you could see. 125 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:08,000 Because, yeah, because you know honestly, I don't mean to confront you or anything but hear me out. So, I've been teaching piano lessons over 25 years. 126 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:29,000 And then you know I have been taught with this traditional notations and you know classical musician, and it's, this is this notation classical way of notation is not something that just popped out of nowhere, but it's the tradition coming from 1000, 1000 years ago, approximately. 127 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:51,000 And then over time, it evolved and it keeps evolving still. So then when I hear new language, what is that, and it's completely out of your innovation and creation so obviously I had a huge question mark instead of rather resistance but it's like, okay, tell me. 128 00:19:51,000 --> 00:20:07,000 So what's what's so what's different about it. So you just showed us using color and also boxes, so that for those people who are struggling to read traditional way of notation can read and play the piano. 129 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:20,000 Right. Yeah, with the term that we've begun to use more than anything is read and see. And the reason why we use that term so frequently is that there's a lot of people out there that could tell you this note is an A, this note is a half note. 130 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:33,000 This chord you should hold for four beats. They could tell you these things but whether or not you could functionally put your hands onto the piano and play, whether you could sight read a brand new piece of music like a student would have to do in Nisma. 131 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:48,000 That's where the real questions lie, in my opinion, because I know very well that due to the magic of muscle memory, anybody could be taught to play a song virtually anybody not not everybody, pardon, but almost anybody could be taught to play many many songs, 132 00:20:48,000 --> 00:21:03,000 just by what muscle memory is, but the question becomes, can you hear a song on the radio, you know, something like let's say piano man, and say I want to, I want to play this and go home and go online and order the sheet music and have the download come, 133 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:16,000 sit at the piano open up the sheet music, read it and play it successfully. And very frequently the answer to that question is no. However, if you say to yourself, I have the rings for the fingers already my keyboard is all labeled up. 134 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:32,000 I just heard piano man on the radio. Let me see if Lee made that song for occupational octaves, you could play it instantly. So, not only is this read and succeed at the piano, it's play challenging music with a simple language. 135 00:21:32,000 --> 00:22:01,000 You know what else I also saw that I was, you know, while I was watching your demonstration I was thinking, you know, I can actually introduce to my dad because my dad is someone who has perfect pitch, and he, you know, but he's not a musician he just played by ear so he can play on his harmonica, anything as he, as long as he hears it a couple of times, but on the piano is, I realized it's been a little difficult like, you know, lately I've been trying to teach him a little because this notation right the, 136 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:23,000 the staff line he learned with me when I was three, but you know it's been many years and so now my language because I was eventually training here and studied here that I use ABCD like CDFG right but when Chinese we actually have a system very similar to the one you're showing, except with numbers 137 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:35,000 so do I mean fast so let you know just 1234567. So that's what he, if he reads that he can play right away but there's not so much, you know classical piano music that's right. 138 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:52,000 Right. So I'm like, you know, we can translate that this is actually cool for like international audience right so not. So, I'll tell you, there's one one of my clients, she's based out of a Mon Jordan she's an occupational therapist out there and she does the, she does the lessons. 139 00:22:52,000 --> 00:23:08,000 She's a piano player as well. And she sent a video of her using the program with one of her students and she's speaking in Arabic, and she and I can't understand one word she's saying but if you listen to the entire thing you hear all these words in a language you don't understand 140 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:26,000 and random pink B, green D, and it's the funniest thing, but also amazing to actually witness and see a young, a young child in Jordan, playing row row row your boat with the right notes the right fingers and the right piece a few weeks after being introduced to 141 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:42,000 the program, which is of course all written in English because it's the only language besides music I know how to write in. Right, right. Exactly. So you're impacting not only the students in the United States but also beyond, so you're really sure reaching out 142 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:58,000 beyond the pond. We've had many many book orders from around the globe. We've had people we have students, I have a student myself that in Australia that I see there are people all over the UK and France and Israel and Germany that have purchased books. 143 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:13,000 And it's gone, it's gone into a couple places in South America. It's fun for something that could turn you off so easily with that whole new language of music idea if you're, you know, even moderately skeptical that could turn you off. 144 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:29,000 In spite of that, being there which for me, I wanted to be there from the beginning and always I want there never to be a doubt or a question about exactly what this is, this is a new language of music for many of the reasons that I laid out earlier, I've decided that it's worth it 145 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:43,000 to have those words there from the beginning, even if some people are turned off to it. Well, you know, always having to have a new ideas or innovation, you deal with those resistance right. 146 00:24:43,000 --> 00:25:02,000 Yeah, yeah, but it will, the people's mindset will change over time by spreading the message in a positive way. So that's why we're here right. I saw the documentary nominated for the award at the 2020 Pasadena International Film Festival, and the documentary is 147 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:16,000 name is your business name, Occupational Octaves, and I was in tears. Wow, that was such a powerful documentary and I wonder why you didn't win. It's like, come on people. 148 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:39,000 But the in a documentary, two students of autism spectrum, or featured one. His name is Brandon sweet student and the other student is Jason he's also very, very passionate energetic student, and then Brandon is nonverbal and Jason is not. 149 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:47,000 Now, I get to see both of them playing the piano and expressing themselves. Wow. 150 00:25:47,000 --> 00:26:10,000 So, with all these success, I mean, of teaching of your diverse students, I know you have some, a lot of extensive teaching experiences with students with your diverse ADHD autism, autism, dyspraxia, and you name it, and also students with high support needs, 151 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:19,000 physical needs, intellectual, you may have experiences that if you don't mind sharing some stories. 152 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:24,000 You know, I'll actually go with one related to Jason from the documentary. 153 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:36,000 What you might need to do to handle in order to have success in a situation where, again, neurodiversity neurodiversity means everybody's going to be different so what's you know what's going on here. 154 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:48,000 Jason. When I first started working with him now you saw in the documentary he plays beautifully and he's only gotten better. He took lessons online straight through the pandemic and he's just gotten better and better and better. 155 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:55,000 He started to sing a little bit while he plays some songs which is, you know, wonderful wonderful accomplishment. 156 00:26:55,000 --> 00:27:09,000 However, there are two things that I think are really worth discussing for a moment with Jason. Number one, the biggest struggle that I had with him in the beginning besides for some behavioral struggles which we have a few videos up on the YouTube channel that display 157 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:18,000 from years before we work together when he was just yelling and screaming while I green D green D and he's yelling and screaming and we you know we bring it all together eventually. 158 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:32,000 But one of the biggest issues and one of the biggest reasons why Jason had the behaviors in the beginning, in the first place, is because even though he was 150% capable of matching colors and letters, and even though I pointed to the spots that he had to look in 159 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:44,000 over and over independently he was not understanding exactly where to look. I keep I have to go through an entire process with him, where we have to limit his field of vision just to the letter on the keyboard. 160 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:57,000 And that was a lot of work to get it to the point where you look up at the F on the page you can find the F on the keyboard. And then on top of it, you find the F on the keyboard and you find the correct color ring. 161 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:08,000 All of these things took an immense immense amount of work. But what I've always said is always said a lot of things one of those many things is fundamentals equals flow. 162 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:18,000 They're not able to get into the flow of music when they have a good grasp on the fundamentals of what they have to do. And Jason had no grasp on the fundamental of looking at the right spot. 163 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:31,000 So we have to go through a lot of lessons that were not fun for either of us to get him to finally look at the right spot because every time I tried to get him to look at this specific thing, because it was a challenge for him, he chose to be behavioral 164 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:42,000 and he chose to make noise and disruptions and whatnot, we have to get through it together. And eventually he finally slowed things down enough where he was looking at the right spot look up at the right spot look down at the right spot. 165 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:54,000 And it was such a struggle. But the point is don't go past fundamentals with students. Make sure your fundamentals are in check, because a lot of people try to like save the music lesson that isn't working out so well. 166 00:28:54,000 --> 00:29:06,000 And by just moving a little bit forward, let's get them to play a song I'll show them how to do this they'll love it. Mom and Dad will hear the song happening everybody will be pretty happy, and then we'll fix up that other problem later on, like, no, it just doesn't work out 167 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:22,000 well like that. You need to stick on fundamental issues when you encounter them. That's number one. Number two, there's a blog that I wrote that I'll share a link with you guys for later with how you could think about the little fundamental steps in so many more ways in life, 168 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:37,000 than you can imagine. So, I'll bring up a little story another little story with Jason. For a long time Jason was saying the word, Arjun, every time he wanted to say the word orange, and he could clearly say all of the different syllables, but he wasn't putting them 169 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:47,000 in the right order and sequencing them properly, which is something that we experience all the time as piano teachers, we have students constantly struggling to do things like sequencing things properly. 170 00:29:47,000 --> 00:30:05,000 He's saying this word Arjun Arjun and I want to correct the problem for him. I'm not a speech teacher, but I could figure out the movements of the mouth to say the word orange. And what we started to do was I said to him Jason, say, Ar-eh, because when he was saying Arjun, 171 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:23,000 he was keeping his lips together. I was watching just the motion of his lips. He's keeping the lips together. So I said, Jason, say, Ar-eh, and by saying, eh, he had to open up. And by opening up, he was able to say, Ar-enj, and not be stopped from making those sounds by the poor positioning of his lips. 172 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:38,000 So what's the idea behind that one? Positioning, positioning, positioning. You want to have students that you want to make sure understand the fundamentals of the music language that they're reading and understand the fundamentals of the position that they're in. 173 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:52,000 Because when you could put those two things together, whether you're doing traditional notation in a traditional lesson, or you're using my special language of music in a specialized lesson, if you don't have those fundamentals set, and in a way that they could work off of each other, 174 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:56,000 you're going to struggle through your beginner piano lessons, in my estimation. 175 00:30:56,000 --> 00:31:15,000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, it's not just the neurodiverse students, but neurotypical too, where, you know, the beginner, you kind of have to give them the frame, right? And don't show it too much. This is where you start. And then this isn't the only thing you need to know right now. That's sort of saying. 176 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:30,000 That's it. When you start out with a student, you should have them in a certain position, and their hands should stay on those notes. But nobody ever says why. Everybody misses saying the reason why. As teachers, we know it's 100% crucial. 177 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:46,000 But why for the student? And the answer is because many times you already have the right fingers on top of the right notes. That simple fundamentals that I'm talking about, not understanding first space, second space, third space, those are things that could all be filled in later. 178 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:59,000 But the general idea that if you're sitting at the piano, and you have your hands on it, you might already have your hands in the right spot. So stay still, check to see where you are. And if you already have it there, just push right down. 179 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:10,000 How many times as teachers have we seen a student shift their hand away and bring it right back to position, it turns out they were in the right spot. So it's deep fundamentals that empower learning and empower concentration. 180 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:39,000 But that philosophy I think is coming from going back to Flow, Dr. Chik Sent Mihaly's book, in which we initially got connected on LinkedIn because I posted something about it. So for me, I love the philosophy of Dr. Chik Sent Mihaly because I want to help my students what music really means to them in a state of Flow. 181 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:56,000 So to me, state of Flow is that despite of the challenges, with the right kind of feedback that we give to students and the students receive, which aligns with their goals and intentions, and then they can be in the state of Flow, right? 182 00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:05,000 And the energy is flowing in the direction that they were heading. That doesn't mean it's always positive. That doesn't mean it's always the compliments that I give. 183 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:18,000 So feedback can be, you know, you need to correct this, correct that. But also I feel like as a teacher, right, feedback also means giving them the right amount and level of challenges, right? 184 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:29,000 Not too much, not too much information like we talked about, but also not too little because if it's just a little too elementary for them, it's very boring as well. 185 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:37,000 So that's my interpretation of that Flow experience. So tell us a little bit more about your experience with that. 186 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:51,000 Sure, sure. So what you're discussing right now is the first of nine dimensions of Flow, and that is the challenge skill balance, which basically says that you are trying to create an environment for your student where the challenges are not so difficult. 187 00:33:51,000 --> 00:34:07,000 They create anxiety that makes you want to leave, nor so easy they create boredom, which could bring on apathy, which as we discussed earlier, is one of the biggest things we need to avoid for all of our students and all of our own livelihoods, even apathy is not good. 188 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:19,000 When you put things together in order to stay away from that boredom, you need to have some basic levels of expertise, because if you don't have basic levels of expertise, you're going to make too many mistakes to engage. 189 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:31,000 And if you make too many mistakes, engagement out, apathy is in. So you need to make sure that you have the basic expertise, and with playing the piano, it's what I discussed before, knowing the right notes, the right fingers and the right beats. 190 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:42,000 Then you also need to make sure that it's not something you can't do. Every single time I open up Rhapsody in Blue, just page one alone, I'm just like, I'm out of here. 191 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:58,000 I'm not doing this. This is just not happening for me. I know myself well enough. This just getting through the first page is going to create so much stress for me that the overall holistic nature of what I could accomplish here for my heart, for my mind, for my soul, for my future. 192 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:18,000 She was saying work squeeze, just not going to do it. So you want to be in what educators call the zone of proximal development. And people also refer to it as being in the flow channel. Because when you're in the flow channel, what that means is you're setting your goals to do something where you're going toward that anxiety because it's a challenge. 193 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:31,000 But eventually what brought you anxiety will bring you boredom. So you have to go to the next level of anxiety, to the next level of boredom, next level of anxiety, next level of boredom. And it just creates a channel that you could just keep on traveling up, up, up and up. 194 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:46,000 And, you know, I'm probably making a mistake in my attitude with what I say about the about Rhapsody in Blue, because in reality, it's something that just high up in the flow channel. And it just means I haven't put in the work yet to earn the rewards. 195 00:35:46,000 --> 00:36:03,000 With in your teaching experience, what are the different type, maybe to educate our audience to right? What are different types of special needs students or neuro diverse students that you have taught? 196 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:22,000 I open my doors to anybody, you know, people will ask me, do you do like an evaluation or an intake on your first lesson with somebody and I don't really do that. I just open up my doors. I tell people in advance, if there's no color and letter matching skills, chances are I'm not going to be able to give you good value for your time and your money. 197 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:40,000 Because that's the basic that I need. So if you want to come in, I'd be glad to experiment and glad to try. However, what I need to know that things are going to go okay is the basic color and letter matching skills. We bring the students in, we get those rings on and we get kids working right away and we basically see what the reaction is. 198 00:36:40,000 --> 00:37:01,000 Some kids get into it incredibly quickly. They're on page one, they turn to two, they turn to three, they see the rings are sitting out, they put more rings on by themselves, 100% independent on day one. Other students might understand the program perfectly but two songs could drain out all of their attentional resources and they could, you know, more or less need a nap after that. 199 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:16,000 Then you have other students that you'll encounter who might have behaviors that again could be sometimes violent to themselves and to others and to property and whatnot. And we have to establish the learning environment and the reasons why it's worth having self control. 200 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:26,000 And one of the reasons why it's worth having self control is maybe I can convince somebody, hey, I could show you how to play the piano. You don't know how to do that today. I could really show you how to do it. 201 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:40,000 And then, you know, you have a situation where, let's say, you're in my studio that I'm doing my lessons out of, we have drums in that studio. So it's like, okay, sit down here, let's do three songs together and then we'll take a break and hit the drum set. 202 00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:47,000 So in that situation, you're much more worried about the learning environment than the learning itself. 203 00:37:47,000 --> 00:38:09,000 And I'll give you one more in terms of just like our level of adaptability. On my staff, I have one vocal teacher who is actually so busy she can't even take on anybody new. But one of the students that we had, had a, please forgive me for, I can't remember the exact diagnosis, but her abdominal muscles did not function. 204 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:22,000 They did not work. So in order to breathe, her body had to constantly be brought upward and then allowed downward like an accordion, basically. And this young lady loved to sing. She just loved to sing. 205 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:40,000 And the two of them, they worked it out together. And they figured out a way to basically use her body like an accordion and to lift up and come back down. They sung together. She was part of a couple of school plays and it's completely separate from anything to do with the rings on the fingers and occupational octaves itself. 206 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:53,000 It's just one of the amazing, amazing things you can encounter along the way when you open up your life and your business to people who struggle but have passion for the arts. That is so touching. Oh my gosh. 207 00:38:53,000 --> 00:39:11,000 I mean, I'm just blown away with this. Also your passion on helping with different types of students coming in and being curious enough to just learn about, okay, how can I help? Coming from that point of view, really. 208 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:29,000 And you mentioned the word, you know, business, right? I think in this 21st century, we should all be pretty proud of ourselves that not only we're musicians, we also have our own businesses. But for you, we were looking at your website, your documentary, your method books. 209 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:50,000 Can you tell us a little bit of your company, your brands, and how did you even get started with the eight books curriculum? And I believe you said you started at age 25 or, you know, around, around age 25 is when I first had the idea 2526. 210 00:39:50,000 --> 00:40:07,000 I'll start it out with a much more frank way of describing it than like the, you know, technical business side. When I realized what this program was and that it was a new language of music and that all this unbelievably high level stuff could be written in it. 211 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:31,000 And the thing that saved me can be just even if even if it's just helpful for some people that are suffering way, way, way more than my worst day ever. You know, I talked about what I went through. But part of why I do what I do is because as bad as what I went through was, it's nothing on the scale of having the conditions that I've come across. 212 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:50,000 You know, when when you came in, I had our first conversation, she seemed taken aback because at the first job I had working with students with autism for a particularly young man to hit himself with a close fist on the head many times throughout the day, so hard that you would feel the hit in your feet through the floor. 213 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,000 Oh my gosh. 214 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,000 That was that was a regular that was a regular Tuesday. 215 00:40:53,000 --> 00:41:05,000 So I was around a lot of people that were suffering, and then being diagnosed with 8080808080 myself. 216 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:14,000 I saw how the structures were trying to help people organize their lives when they couldn't concentrate to organize their lives themselves. 217 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:26,000 And as somebody with an attention issue, I got some of that going on for sure. You know, I put together all this high level stuff with occupational lockers and whatnot, but in other aspects of my life, it was, you know, some big struggle. 218 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:42,000 So, as big as a struggle was next to what the kids and adults go through with just like nothing so to give up my space to try to help these individuals, especially as part of a job as through music as through music teaching which I started doing at 15 years old I, my first lessons 219 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:50,000 taught were at 15 and 25 was the first time I started getting special needs lessons so I already had a 10 year classical candle background as an educator behind it. 220 00:41:50,000 --> 00:42:04,000 So, with all of these things that came together and seeing the first handful of times that I tried it out just how well it worked like oh my god these kids with these rings on are doing the same type of curriculum that I did as a student myself and look where 221 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,000 brought me with the right instruction. 222 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:19,000 So it, and this is like the frank part of it, it became like over my dead body that's it's not get out there to the public. I'm a guy with an associate's degree that that struggled through school I got no letters that come after my name. 223 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:30,000 I got no notoriety and no position I don't. Nobody knows me from a hole in the wall, but I started my first website I wrote a note to the public I said, Dear parents, this is me. 224 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:46,000 This is who I am. This is what I can do. If you want to give it a shot I would love to welcome you in or if you'd love to welcome me to your house I'll drop by. And I literally started this with you know there were autism stickers all over cars all over Long Island for the, I mean, still are but 225 00:42:46,000 --> 00:43:00,000 after they were on almost every car. I actually got out in the middle of a main road at a red light once because I saw a guy with an autism sticker on his car knocked on his window. I said hey buddy, I know this is crazy I just want to give you my business card. 226 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:17,000 I'm an entrepreneur, I just wish I went with with street hustle showing up to fairs and events getting tables and just speaking to the public and telling them what I do. Here's my story here's my books here's my system, but the rings on try it out yourself and was able to 227 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:34,000 bring people together that way but then the interest in making a lasting impact was greater for me personally than my interest in business, which is why I had to go through a number of processes and that led to a couple things like the documentary you know I stuck to, 228 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:48,000 I stuck to the heart, helping the hearts and minds of the students as much as possible and because of that, because I maximize that as much as I could, the documentary came my way and you know that's not anything that was paid for anything that was what a filmmaker 229 00:43:48,000 --> 00:44:04,000 chose to make about me in the program. And then, can I interrupt. So for those who are watching and listening. I want you to watch the documentary it's available on YouTube and I will make sure to list the link in the description so sorry for the interruption. 230 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:22,000 No problem, no problem. So, it, it took a long time to to follow through with the end results that I was looking for and it was never very well defined but they were. I more or less needed to do a couple of more things so that I could finally walk away from the concentration 231 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:38,000 of creating the programs that will help people to running an awesome business. And the two things that I needed to get done, which I'm very pleased very very pleased to have off my shoulders is the paper that I was able to have published in 2020 in traditional medicine 232 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:55,000 researches special issue on brain science, and the name of that paper is classical piano as a pathway to flow states for learners with disabilities, where I really got to put my full manifesto out there I guess in a certain way to really show the science behind 233 00:44:55,000 --> 00:45:08,000 how flow state can help people, which is actually already well established but exactly how those colored letters in those boxes and dots and symbols all over the place can bring you to that same place that you and I have been brought to as classical pianists, 234 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,000 using traditional music notation. 235 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:21,000 That was one thing, and then the other thing was publishing the stocker method, and the stocker method was originally designed to be a transitioning program to go from occupational octaves into traditional music notes. 236 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:36,000 However, as I let it evolve naturally what it became was a beginner piano book for anyone. And what's unique about this beginner piano book is it does use some of the occupational office material has a little bit of prep and a little bit of warm up, but then 237 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:44,000 later on in the book, it uses it as what I believe is the first ever set of answer keys in the back of a music instruction book. 238 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:58,000 Same way that math, math textbook, there's a teacher's guide in the back of it has all those answers. Same thing with this you open up to the back of the book and you'll know the notes fingers and beats to use, even if you've never read a lick of music before. 239 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:07,000 In terms of training other teachers we have, well I have a system that I think carries great value that is not the most basic system that's used out there. 240 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:22,000 You know, the most basic types of systems that are used out there really start in the form of seminars and learning big broad principles and ideas about special needs and special needs is a massive umbrella as a matter of fact, autism, my specialty is only a small part of that 241 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,000 huge huge umbrella. 242 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:40,000 So, if you're going to go for a training for special needs because you have encountered a special needs student, you might learn everything about other students, but not your own student. So, if anybody wants to head over to the training page over here on occupational 243 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:54,000 occupationaloffice.com, you can go through here and see about the training that I did with Lisa Barnett, who is a music therapist and an adaptive piano teacher of the past 25 years. This is a person that knows what she's doing. 244 00:46:54,000 --> 00:47:05,000 And she had a student she was working with that had some issues going on with fine motor skills and with some concentration, and she started to use occupational octaves and was having a pretty good time with it. 245 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:16,000 And the student that is in these videos play at her recital which was fantastic. However, we all got together and I saw the fundamentals are not in place. 246 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:28,000 And he's got his hands moving around when the right finger is already on top of the right note, even though that finger is not going to be used on the next line. And those in those fundamentals are really really really important. 247 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:43,000 But instead of Leithig heading this big generalized training on how to work with a handful of different people on a shallow level. She learned to work deeply deeply deeply with this particular student and learn the deep fundamentals of how to use, not only this program 248 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:53,000 but other piano programs properly again starting with the two thumbs on C and having hands positioned with the student knowledge that they're all set up and ready to go. 249 00:47:53,000 --> 00:48:04,000 So, what we did was we work together for a good six months and in the beginning I was with them every single week I was working with the teacher and working with the student, and then little by little I faded out I was there every other week and then every three 250 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:20,000 weeks and then every four weeks and then they're off on their own. And this system has been going really really well in terms of empowerment because the teacher gets to see problem solving on the spot, and they get to just ask the expert right there so Lee. 251 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:23,000 We did these three songs so well this week. 252 00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:35,000 What should we do next I think we should try this what do you think, and I'm right there to say, know this, this was my original purpose in placing this particular page in this particular spot so I think you should totally use it or not. 253 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,000 And it goes very very well. 254 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:55,000 I'm just curious more of, you know, you as you know as you mentioned to us, your beginnings your background and then eventually start teaching and you know with. It's quite unique, right like I've had a lot of young students that have had that have done 255 00:48:55,000 --> 00:49:10,000 seminars and things like that with me I've taught a handful of college classes along the way, and I've had some kids you know 1718 years old asked me for advice and on for me it makes me very uncomfortable because my story, and the way that I did everything is very very unique 256 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:27,000 and I don't have a lot. I don't have a lot of advice for people out there in that way because it is unique. The thing, the thing to take out of this is fundamentals fundamentals fundamentals with whatever you're working on, you know, it falls apart without the 257 00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:39,000 fundamentals. Right, and now you have the, the music Lee inclined guy, Inc. Right, that is your publishing company. How did you start that one, you just. 258 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:50,000 I had no intuition that I was going to find myself in a situation where somebody was going to publish my books and not take everything to do it. I see. So I said let me just take care of it myself. 259 00:49:50,000 --> 00:50:02,000 So I opened up a music publishing company and it's all it's just you know it's our corporation is what we do everything under, but it is a music publishing company if you have music you're ever looking to publish, we could do it for you, no problem. 260 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:19,000 Wow. Actually, recently we printed our first occupational office book that was written and arranged by somebody else, a woman named Sabrina Lou who put together two different him books, one of them is a. 261 00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,000 It's called the book of EJ. 262 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:36,000 And one of her favorite him's with her and her son, and the other one is a Christmas collection of despite you know what I should say like challenges as your childhood and not that all you overcome all of that, and helping others. 263 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:43,000 What do you think, as a person or, you know, people that inspired you or helped you. 264 00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:57,000 I think I think she's my mentor or inspiration. That would definitely definitely be my piano teacher, and not my mentor and inspiration for everything in life, although many things but here's why she was my inspiration. 265 00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:02,000 After everything that I went through, getting back into lessons, my fingers are fine. 266 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,000 My brain was fine. 267 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:16,000 I had no excuse for. There was no room for that apathy. There was no room for the BS that I was given to a lot of people because believe me when you're when you're apathetic, you're going to give people some BS in life because you just don't want to deal with 268 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,000 things that's what apathy is. 269 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:34,000 So, with Diane, who you know she's like the beloved Diane if you know this woman if she's touched your life your life is better she's one of those people in every sense, every sense she's. 270 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:49,000 The biggest reason why, besides bringing me through the classical music upbringing besides being there for me in so many different ways in my life. She did not stand for the BS, she knew it was BS, she was able to see right through it, and she never let me get away with a single 271 00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:52,000 thing that I tried to make an excuse for. 272 00:51:52,000 --> 00:52:07,000 I will be forever grateful to her for that because I'm able to look back on that time now. And when I have to evaluate things for myself. I have to sometimes you know call out some, some BS on myself as we all do in life. 273 00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,000 And you know I credit her a lot for that she was a huge influence in that way. 274 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:25,000 I'll give you, you know, another one that people always kind of smirk about. I don't know if you know who the comedian George Carlin is, but George Carlin is one of my biggest influences in life, and if you have, if you purchase book one of occupational 275 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:39,000 office, there's a list of people that I think at the end of it one of those people is Diane and the last person I think is George Carlin, because you have to learn, you could take in lessons from everywhere but yeah, a lot of people in life, they're 276 00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:48,000 going to try to bring you down they're going to try to sell you on some words and those things that you hear people say might not line up with reality it might not line up with your heart. 277 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:58,000 And when things don't line up with your heart and then you have to say things that don't line up with your heart. There are some, some things you got to put a firm line down on and not, you know, not cross that line. 278 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:11,000 And Carlin taught me how to do that and he made it very much possible for me to see the light with everything to see the good in people to see the things about human beings that bring us together and make us the same. 279 00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:25,000 And also, how to spot a lot of nonsense words that people might use to try to convince you that something is real when it's not, and I needed to make something real, and that's what occupational office is. 280 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:32,000 Any advice for young piano students. Yes, turn off your devices. 281 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:46,000 Turn off the phone. Yeah, off the iPad, print up the music put it on the piano in front of you feel those pieces of paper, take a pen and mark up the spots that you're having difficulty with go through it over and over and over. 282 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:59,000 Get 30 minutes in front of that piano away from the screens away from the distractions, let your mind do something a million times more amazing than anything you can get out of any device anywhere in the world. 283 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:11,000 There's one thing that money can't buy, and it's experiences where you climb the mountain top and get there by doing something over and over by yourself and facing the challenges yourself. 284 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:19,000 Get off the phones, get off the tablets, get off the iPads, get to the piano. Great advice. 285 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:25,000 Yes. Okay, I'll go back to 1960s. 286 00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:30,000 I was perfectly happy in the 80s and the 90s. Yes, me too. 287 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:37,000 Now, so, before we do the fun segment, tell us what you're currently promoting. 288 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:49,000 What I'm currently promoting is what I explained to you a bit earlier, and to be frank, it's the hardest thing for people to really take the leap with. And it is that training because I am going to come on with you and I'm going to kind of take over things in the beginning 289 00:54:49,000 --> 00:55:03,000 and I'm going to establish how you're running certain aspects of your lessons. However, you can think of it almost as like a big cleanup of all the things that might be a little bit messy in the way that a student is playing, or in the way that you guys are 290 00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:15,000 communicating with each other, or they're, you know, as I pointed out to you earlier in this conversation, had you ever thought before that 18 of the first 21 notes are spoken about completely differently than the first three? 291 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:29,000 Very, very confusing. And when you have little things like that going on, you're able to understand your purpose, you're able to understand your goals better, and you're able to see the future and how things will evolve for you and a student if you take certain approaches. 292 00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:44,000 So, my biggest goal is not to make an impact by showing people big general things, you know, as wonderful as the documentary is, there's only so much info you can get out of it. There's only so much success in your own lesson that you could have from it. 293 00:55:44,000 --> 00:56:01,000 So whether you're a piano teacher, music therapist, occupational therapist, special educator, I could help you bring the piano into whether it's the classroom, or your actual lessons that you're doing in a highly, highly effective way that is going to bring some levels of life quality 294 00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:07,000 and flow in ways that I don't think have been in special needs classrooms before per se. 295 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:10,000 So where can we get this information? 296 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:28,000 Everything is over at occupationaloctaves.com. There's information about the curriculum itself, both occupational octaves and the stocker method, the services that we offer between the live virtual lessons that we do, the training of teachers and, as Clara was mentioning, we do have a cloud-based platform 297 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:42,000 that is designed for schools, therapeutic organizations, hospitals, and also entrepreneurs like myself. And the long and short of that is that there are musical goals that we go for and non-musical goals. 298 00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:51,000 The non-musical goals could be things like learning to regulate your body, which is a frequent goal for individuals that may have special needs to try to reach at school. 299 00:56:51,000 --> 00:57:09,000 So by bringing a full system that shows you how to reach those non-musical goals and records all the information for you in a properly documented format, we're able to bring occupational octaves directly into schools, therapeutic organizations, assisted living centers is another great place for this type of program to go. 300 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:18,000 And we're looking to be in a position where so many people could just put those rings on and have such a highly positive experience at the piano. 301 00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:24,000 Wow. Wonderful. Thank you. Yes. Appreciate it. 302 00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:33,000 So we listeners and viewers, we encourage you to visit occupational octaves.com to receive more information. 303 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:51,000 So now we are in the fun segment. So it's called the piano pods rapid fire questions and we would like for you to answer the each question in the shortest answer possible. 304 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:56,000 So you ready? No, let's do it anyway. 305 00:57:56,000 --> 00:58:00,000 All right. Question number one. What is your comfort food? 306 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:05,000 Muscle. Perfect. Cats or dogs? Dogs. 307 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:09,000 What is your word or words to live by? 308 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,000 All there is, is my breath. 309 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:18,000 Beautiful. What is the most important quality you look for in other people? 310 00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,000 Calm. 311 00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:24,000 What is the worst quality in people you want to stay away from? 312 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,000 Apathy. 313 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:30,000 Name three people who inspire you living or dead? 314 00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:33,000 More than ever before. 315 00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:35,000 Beethoven. 316 00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:37,000 Way more than ever before. 317 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,000 George Carlin, as I previously mentioned. 318 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:56,000 You know, I'll go basic. As cheesy and cliche as this is, you have to put some championship grit into your thinking. And I'm a Yankee fan and I got to grow up watching Derek Jeter play. 319 00:58:56,000 --> 00:59:02,000 I was up there in the Bronx for decades. So let's go with Mr. Jeter. 320 00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,000 All right. 321 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:09,000 Sounds good. Name one piece in your current playlist. 322 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:14,000 Beethoven piano concerto number five. E flat. 323 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:20,000 Oh my God. That's why I was saying before, like, especially Beethoven. 324 00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:25,000 You know, as a piano player, you know, you got there. There's so much. 325 00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:29,000 It's so easy for Bach or Chopin to become your guy. 326 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:41,000 But listening to that number five over and over and over. It just brought him to the top for me. 327 00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:45,000 I'm listening to it almost every day. I got to set aside like 45 minutes for it. 328 00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:49,000 Wow. That's huge. Yeah, it's great. It's great. I love it. 329 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,000 Name one book title in your library. 330 00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,000 Man's Search for Meaning. 331 00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:56,000 Oh, Man's Search for Meaning. Yes. 332 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:59,000 Franco. Yes. Wonderful. 333 00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:01,000 Yeah. You saved my life. 334 01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:04,000 Oh, yeah. Yeah, me too. Yeah. So I'll just tell it. 335 01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:09,000 Just let me throw in one quick little anecdote because you brought up Shinsek Mihai and his Hungarian background. 336 01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:13,000 His background is not only Hungarian. He is the son of Holocaust survivors. 337 01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:18,000 And his family moved to Italy, I believe. It was Italy or Spain. 338 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:19,000 Are you talking about? 339 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:20,000 Shinsek Mihai. 340 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:21,000 Okay. 341 01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:28,000 And after the Holocaust, his family moved to, I'm blanking, I'm pretty sure it was Spain, but it might have been Spain or Italy. 342 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:29,000 There are some. 343 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:36,000 And his great fascination is I'm looking at Holocaust survivors over here that are happy and these other Holocaust survivors that are miserable. 344 01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:44,000 Why isn't everybody happy to be out of the Holocaust? And flow and quality of life evolved out of that idea. 345 01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:52,000 And you could imagine that not only does I am the Hungarian grandson of Holocaust survivors. 346 01:00:52,000 --> 01:01:07,000 So knowing his background with everything and knowing what the Holocaust meant to his own initial fascination and me having so many similar experiences in terms of my environment and during my upbringing, I was around many survivors. 347 01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:12,000 It was all just kind of this synergy for me personally. 348 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:18,000 And not only did he have that background, but he's also got the flow background going on. 349 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:25,000 I feel a piece of what I do is part of the continuity of him, which I'm very proud of. 350 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:31,000 You get only one song or one piece to listen for the rest of your life. What is it? 351 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:34,000 That's not fair. 352 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:43,000 So I know we're on a piano podcast, but I'm my soul. I sold my soul for rock and roll type of guy. 353 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,000 So just name one. 354 01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:46,000 Name one. 355 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:48,000 Guns N' Roses, Estranged. 356 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,000 All right, sounds good. 357 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:55,000 And last not least, last question. Music is blank. 358 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,000 Life. 359 01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,000 Ding ding ding ding ding ding. 360 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:00,000 Yeah, you won. 361 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,000 Challenge me next time. 362 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:08,000 Thank you so much, Lee. That was a great interview and we really enjoyed it. 363 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:11,000 We got a lot of out of it and thank you so much. 364 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:14,000 So this concludes this episode of the piano pod. 365 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:19,000 And thank you, Lee, for joining us today and sharing your stories, insights and expertise. 366 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:23,000 You can find more information about him at occupational octaves.com. 367 01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:30,000 I want to encourage our audience to watch the award nominated documentary of Occupational Octaves and follow him on social media. 368 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,000 All the links are listed in the description. 369 01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:37,000 Thank you to our wonderful audience and the fans for tuning in today. 370 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:43,000 If you enjoyed today's episode, please read and review on whatever podcasting platform you use. 371 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:50,000 If you are watching us on YouTube, remember to hit the thumbs up button and be sure to subscribe to our channel. 372 01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:54,000 You can also find us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn. 373 01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,000 The links are in the description below. 374 01:02:56,000 --> 01:03:02,000 If you have any feedback for us, please leave it in the comments or DM us via social media. 375 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:07,000 Or you can also email us at the pianopodnyc.gmail.com. 376 01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:11,000 We will see you for the next episode of the piano pod. 377 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:14,000 Bye everyone. Thank you, Lee. Bye. 378 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:30,000 You're very welcome. Thank you. Take care.