Welcome, welcome, welcome. I'm still working on the entrance so be patient. That's all
this is the first episode of what this whole journey will be through experiencing and truly
diving into what human first really encompasses in terms of since the day we're born basically
we start getting attached to tags to represent what we are and who we are and in whatever
room we walk in people will already know those tags or they'll be the first things that they
ask for. What's your name? Oh, I'm Susan. Nice to meet you. What's yours? And even the
hi how you becomes just a complimentary like the the real the real informations that we're
all looking for it. What's your name? Who you like? How much money have in your bank
account? What's your title as like a job? Can you can you maintain yourself or do you
need someone to help you pay the bills or like all those basic things in terms of guidelines
that we almost use to judge whether we're compatible with someone or whether that person
is a trustworthy enough person to be your friends with or whatever the circumstances
and we get lost so much into the representations of these tags that we start cutting ourselves
literally and putting ourselves in boxes. It's like saying when we have those family
retreats and we all leave the naughty the mischievous the promiscuous the or the sexy
or the whatever parts we don't want to show our parents or our families and we leave it
at home thinking they actually does stay there. But those parts are always with us. What we're
doing is we're putting them in a little box for the time being whatever how long that
time is and we're hoping that those parts would slowly fade in the background but they're
always there first unfortunately and virtually I would say. Second they come through our
behaviors in ways that we cannot even imagine because when we start hiding our true selves
and this is behind the tags so we have those to kind of like create an image or a facade
of or a way to appear in society that we presume people will like because it's not always what
people like we always presume because it doesn't matter how bad we want it we will never be
ever able. Well actually I'm gonna take out the never ever because I do believe that whatever
we believe in we can achieve so if at some point and when we will figure out a way to
actually experience our minds and what it feels like the other perspective the other
side to the coin feels like then that would be that would be pretty awesome isn't it.
That would be pretty awesome we will be able to truly understand what the situation at
hand is by feeling what the other person is saying as if we would have a reader that could
help us identify whether the feeling that they behold and the message that they're
delivering actually do match and it would also be a way for ourselves to be able to
really express the love that we have to give that sometimes we might not have the right
words to describe or we don't have the right words to explain to someone that everything
that we are doing and everything that we've done and we will do comes from a place of
love but that it also comes from a place of this is the best that I can give right now
and I'm giving it all to you. So there is sometimes we're not able to put those kind
of feelings into words and it makes it all superficial because we put so much value in
words forgetting whether a person is actually feeling those things or whether they're truthful
to their emotions and they're truthful to themselves first and foremost. But going back
to the tags and it also explains the logo that was put together that represents SHS
and first humans right because we're and I was diving into this with a friend of mine
and we were talking going back and forth and we came to the point where we were like we're
literally a video game right. We were born on a planet that we don't know anything about
why we were born with no knowledge about what's going on around ourselves we're literally
a blank slate a blank sheet doesn't matter get the concept I hope you get a concept and
well I'm sure you do because obviously we all went through it but we born just like
that in a body that we didn't have the chance to pick right. When we started video game
we get a chance to pick the avatar I mean it's amazing great but sometimes we can't
pick the avatar that we want we can progressively do so after we hit couple of levels right
which is the same with us we grow into the body that we start shaping whether we're eating
a lot or whether our parents are giving us a lot or whether we're consuming a lot whatever
the situation is and then we get to a point where we start actually piercing our bodies
and then we start tattooing our bodies some of us or sometimes we start actually enhance
our bodies I mean there's with science right now we've gotten to a point where we can actually
do almost anything and we do like blogs and all of that and so as human beings we progress
and when we hit certain levels whether it's that we can afford it or we're legally allowed
to do something that's when we start collecting like a new badge of honor a new look and in
a video game it could be just an enhancement to the avatar that we didn't have a chance
to pick at the beginning and then every time that we we lose we learn a new way of doing
things or we think of a new way of doing things and that's our that's our growth that's our
lessons those are the things that make us grow make us better every time that we have
a challenge or we lose at something or someone we start looking well I mean assuming we do
so we also know for a fact that we weren't taught how important it is to look back at
things and evaluate things and not to just point the fingers but also truly understand
what have I done that has put me in that situation and where our responsibility stops and someone
else starts so with humans first it's gonna be a chance to really look at the situations
that made us think we had to go with the choice we've made because just understanding where
someone's mind was at in a specific time period in time it helps you understand that everything
goes back to some sort of pain that we have inside some sort of resentment or hurt or
situations that we might have not dealt with properly we might have just bottomed them
down and pushed them at the back of the closet just to make sure that they don't create too
much chaos but somehow they always always seem to come out again again and again so
understanding that we all go through some pains doesn't matter it doesn't really really
matter in this case the gravity because for the simple fact that you're standing here
talking about something in particular that was in the past that means that whoever we
look up to the universe god Allah whatever diet is we we look up to we were given what
we knew we could handle and we're here standing just because of that no matter how standing
we are we're still standing and there's nothing that anyone could take away from us if it's
not our experiences like no one can can read those of our experiences our knowledge the
lessons that we gather from it the hurts the strengths that we had to put in order to achieve
or surpass those situations no one knows we know maybe the ones that were close to us
they can assume they can imagine because they saw it from the outside but we're the ones
that had to also do the internal job so we only have great things to be grateful for
and that's how I see challenges like every time that I see a challenge coming I'm excited
because I'm like I know I'm gonna find a way to get through it and if I don't well I'm
gonna try until I can and find the solution find a third way and if it doesn't if there's
no way then I must just surrender to it but I'm gonna do it I'm gonna do that I'm gonna
surrender only when there's no other option because at that point if it was to keep on
trying and trying and trying it just becomes desperation and this goes out to certain levels
but if I'm 100% sure that there's no other option there's no other way that that thing
could work for me then it just wasn't meant to be it's also okay to say no it's also okay
to just get out of things it's okay for us to look at all the work we've done and look
at it from a place of gratitude the fact that we've actually accomplished that we were able
to go through that and still be here standing not literally but still be here with a conscience
that allows you to think that allows you to do whatever movements you can to me that is
the biggest gift of all having a consciousness and we're here we're here I'm just recollecting
my thoughts with with this project I'm gonna be as real as I can and I know that some people
they would prefer to have something more structured something a bit more formal something a bit
more in the box well the purpose of this podcast is to throw out all the boxes so we'll just
be as natural as possible and whoever is going to be joining us will also be happy to be
able to take out that mask that facade for a second and just be you know just be whoever
your being is at this current point of time you know and that is just freedom that is
freedom be able to just be wherever whenever without too much too many anxieties without
too many too many fears it's not even about not having too many fears or too many anxieties
it's about be able to control them and that links back it all links back because our consciousness
allows us to feel allows us to experience life under and within the five physical senses
that we have so obviously touch it's how we experience the physical material hearing we
experience the frequencies something that we can't see but we hear it's there and then
with sight we experience reflections of light and different shades of light particles that
come together to form and give life to something that would be so sad if it didn't imagine
a world that's all black and white for a long period of time people saw through screens
where life was green and black and white but at least they had the reward to look around
and I'm glad I'm very glad and grateful that we can see colors at least two I don't see
also here and all the other but colors in particular be able to see like birds flying
trees moving around literally dancing to to the wind and nature growing and evolving and
shaping itself into these beautiful fruits and the color the sky like there's no day
that the sky is ever the same like the way the clouds move with each other and apart
from each other it's so itself it's it's an ever-dancing pattern but it never really
repeats the same and that is just beautiful and that it's so different in so many different
places on this earth it's be able to see though like when you go to this to the to the sea
and you're standing in front of the beach and you're seeing that big massive amount
of droplets of water in front of you with the with the sun a basically a ball on fire
did itself behind it it's it's just so beautiful so definitely grateful side little little
side sideways our taste our taste buds oh my god imagine if we can eat I mean then
obviously would be the question of will we be conscious that we could eat but we can't
or would it just be something that we wouldn't even think about little fruit of thought but
at the same time we're so so lucky to be able to experience all these things
and smell what a beautiful thing the smell of flowers the smell of a home-cooked meal
the smell of the rain the smell of petrol the smell of a recently cut grass the smell
of your passions instrument the smell of a pool the smell of the sea imagine not being
able to experience though for a second we can't and that's why we're so lucky because
well at least and for each and every single one of those I know that some people might
not experience one some might also have developed more senses and it's also the difference between
each and every single one of us within that it's just it just amazed me that we will never
be able to experience what it feels like at their level you know and it all links back
to the being within us not even the avatar that we were in able to choose a birth so
we already come in the world with an understanding of who and what we represent is and people
start teaching that to us and sometimes we don't even get taught we just get thrown in
deep end expected of acting like the avatar which to me is crazy because we're souls within
that we're humans first humans to me is consciousness it's not just the body that we were given
was the acts of being conscious in a body and we're losing sight of that because of
the amount of tags that we're attaching to ourselves so with this we're we're gonna discover
and dive into lots of stories from different people so we we can also be able to experience
what it feels like to be them for however long that conversation will be we'll also
be able to dive into our psyche and really also look at what's the other side of the
coin that is going to be the greatest and question that it's going to be a permanent
one what's the other side of the coin because when we only experience experiences through
our own way of experience in life well we're only able to see our side of things and so
many times we don't even ask ourselves but what's on the other side of the coin so I'm
just seeing my my dad not being a work not being a home not being open to me going straight
to sleep going to work even before I was awake I just see this man just distance in distancing
themselves from every engagement possible but what's on the other side of the coin
what's on the other side of my angreness and angreness what's on the other side of my my
fear of abandonment that creates the angry feeling what's on the other side of my low
so forth not being enough what's on the other side of okay so this is the love that I deserve
just being left alone what's on the other side of so this is how someone's supposed
to love me this must be it and so many times we only see our own and those realizations
actually come way long after that in the moment we only feel angreness angry whoever the person
is or whatever the circumstance we only feel that raging emotion that raging burning feeling
within ourselves the disappointment the resentment the the judgment it's um it's a dark place
to be and I'm sure that under whatever circumstance situation we've all been through that growing
up and that has determined so many aspects of our life that has impacted so many aspects
in our lives and some still do and we don't even realize but that's also because we haven't
asked ourselves what's on the other side of them what's on the other side of this is the
love I deserve no this was the love that they thought was good enough to be showed this
is the love of someone that's stressing about how much more love they can give with the
limited time that they have as they're trying to also provide for their family in the best
way they can what's on the other side of fear of abandonment fear of being left by yourself
for the rest of your life and never feel that kind of love that you see on TV or you hear
from your friends well on the other side of that coin there is exactly that someone there
is sacrificing themselves because that's the only way that they know love how to love someone
that's giving their blood their tears their sweat their life away for you even if all
they would like to do is spend the time with you to truly enjoy that time with you whatever
that is but they can't because you depend on them they feel like they can't because
if not how are they going to be able to provide for you how are they going to be able to make
sure that you have food on your table how are they going to be able to make sure that
you can go to school how are they going to be able to make sure that they're going to
have the money to pay all the taxes and the bills that come through every single month
to make sure that you have lights you have hot water you have a hot room when it's cold
and a fresher one when it's hot how are they going to make sure that you always had food
in your belly every night so the feeling of needing to be away so that we can show how
much we care has been passed on for years and years and years and years and years but
the issue that it also done is that now we're not even communicating that to it's severing
our relationships we're not saying that we're away because this is happening this is what
is happening and this is also what's happening and this is what I have to take care of we're
not treating younger humans with the same respect that we do adults and it's not about
creating this fantasy or not creating this world where everything is lovey-dovey whatever
cartoon is happening right now but it's about preparing them as well for reality but to
also teach them how even in that shitty reality there's so much good there's so much growth
there's so much passion there's so much creativity there's so much love there's so much more
to life than just that shitty aspect of it it's be able to be there for them in the little
times that we have instead of feeling the shame that we cannot be there even more so
we retreat because we feel like well I don't deserve taking that little time of them just
because now I have it I know that I want to be there for them but because I haven't before
what what gives me the right to be there for them now so let me just keep myself to the
side I'll just I'll just continue and provide and provide and provide because at least they'll
see that I care the only thing is that when they're also the ones that are stressing us
and these talking about the children's stressing us because that's one point I might be as
well apparent but whether it's this lifetime or the next one we'll see but beside the point
there's so many so many feelings that I can only imagine or assume that parent goes through
but to be fair they're always the same feelings the same patterns that they had from the when
they were younger they're just highlighting into specific parts of their lives because
that's what's happening in their lives at that specific period of time and when those
when it's the children's that are actually stressing them because there's so much stuff
we've had to cope down and I also include myself in doing all of these things because
I learned all these things from first hand experience I was the child so I can only imagine
what's on the other side of the coin well my dad was experiencing and feeling well his
dad and the one before that and the one before that and all the people that had to exist
in order for me to exist everything that had to happen the exact same way in order for
me to exist in order for me to be here with you right now so imagine if you haven't already
feel felt this of course imagine being a position where the person that you're giving your all
to even if you're not mentioning it and you're not explaining it now comes and gives you
the hard time and you're like this is all I do for you with a higher tone than we know
but this is all I do for you you're ungrateful you're asking a lot or whatever whatever we've
heard whatever comment was sent back as the child you should do more you should do this
to that and trying to maneuver now your life so as a child you're now seeing someone that
say they love you but they're not showing it or explaining it but they say that they're
doing all these things for you so you only hang on that love should be someone that has
provided for you someone that provides for you so from a little age we get to learn that
if someone doesn't provide for you you're not loved so it's the recognition that love
it's an exchange but just under different circumstances it becomes transactional I give
you money I give you food I love you love love it's as we feel it such a bigger bigger
feeling than that but that is gonna be a whole different topic for now we're gonna stay on
the humans first and how we engage with ourselves and the reason and the purpose of really coming
together on this platform on the human first selfie to succeed so we're gonna dive all
these different aspects and different side to the coins to also understand what it feels
like to be the other person because that's how we can then build our connect our connections
our compassion our empathy our ability to see each other as humans and not the tax that
we were given from society that's how we then get to be freer because we understand that
we're all in this together and everything is connected and everything is everything
now I am no expert right so everything that we will get said everything that will get
discussed I appreciate that people will also do their own research just like I do everything
that you hear on the internet or read on the internet you should definitely research about
more go across different platforms different websites different search engines make your
own connections make your own connections because whoever claims to know it all might
know it all about one percent of what life is right they might know 100% of the one percent
that what the life is but why learn 100% about 1% if you can learn 50% about 100% and making
your own connections by raising those 50% up to 70% or even even 60% still good place
to be about 100% you know so always research always make your own connections ponder on
things prompt things make it make sense don't just oh yeah okay of course that's that's
how things are no why is it like that what would make me think that this is correct what
can I relate to it where can I see this law this pattern or this lesson or this morale
or this connection in other places what what's my own understanding of it let's challenge
the status quo a bit more instead of taking things for the way they are because yes that
is easy but hmm is it easy on us maybe not let's embrace life use our powers of connections
because whether it's people whether it's a cellular level we're all connected and the
best thing that we could do for ourselves is to question to listen to the answers answers
and prompt them even further to understand the concept shared and always beware to make
a sense so here we're stories from people that come from every type of background status
age and so on to remind ourselves that we are all human first and that we're all going
through life's challenges desires dreams etc and we're all on our path to leave a happily
ever after we're all trying to leave that happy ever after but here we're we're gonna
try and use as less labels as possible and less titles as possible here we are allowed
to be everything but but also we're here to remind ourselves that no one's pain is greater
than others and that why should we spend our time comparing pain when we can all feel compassion
for the simple fact that every single one of us has or is going through a form of pain
and or pleasure we can both experience both of them so let's come in together and share
how we all experience those things and I'm so excited to go through the many stories
that we're gonna hear here I'm so excited to be able to share this with with all of
you and I'm just excited to be part of this with you and everyone that will ever join
us because this is ours this is our moment to come together this is our moment to question
things this is our moment and I can't wait to have you here discussing that I can't
wait to hear your side of the story to hear your experience I can't wait to hear what
it feels like to be you the human in you and not the titles that you go on in life with
if you want to share your story if you want to dive into these topics do let me know and
let's organize it that is another gift that we have is that we have the beauty of be able
to share share in whatever way we're able to share sharing is caring right but if you
have any feedback anything any advice is any points anything at all anything any thoughts
anything you would like to say please please reach out do let me know because I'm always
open for feedback I'm always open to hearing what's on the other side of the coin so thank
you so much for being part of this journey and I can't wait where it's gonna take us
but yeah let's be humans first in a world where there's too many eyes and use let's
start using the us a bit more cheers