1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:26,200 Selfie to succeed humans first. 2 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:32,700 A community of curious, free and compassionate humans finding gratitude and success in the small things. 3 00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:42,900 Attracting blessings and rekindling with the chaos we inevitably have to go through in life, regardless of age, sex, status, nor culture. 4 00:00:42,900 --> 00:00:54,600 Our vision is to create a place where we experience life and share insights through other humans eyes, as fortunately and unfortunately we'll only have a chance to experience one at a time. 5 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,600 So without any further ado. 6 00:00:56,600 --> 00:01:20,600 Yes. 7 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:27,600 Feel the joy, happiness. 8 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:33,600 Feel being alive. 9 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:39,600 Feel be filled by life. 10 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:48,600 Just feel. 11 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,600 Feel life. 12 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,600 Feel the light. 13 00:01:55,600 --> 00:02:03,600 Because you only know what light looks like when you're living it. 14 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,600 You can ask a blind person. 15 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:22,600 What light feels like. 16 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,600 They're going to be talking about something that they hear being spoken about. 17 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:34,600 They're going to talk about all the beautiful colors they've never seen. 18 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:40,600 To a point that they're going to believe that that is light. 19 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:50,600 They're going to believe that because they have a close understanding to what light is. 20 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:56,600 They're going to feel like they're living that light. 21 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:00,600 They're going to feel like for a second. 22 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:09,600 They know what living the light feels like. 23 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:16,600 But they won't truly. 24 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,600 Dearly. 25 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:28,600 Know what that is. 26 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:34,600 They're going to be frauds. 27 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:36,600 And at the same time. 28 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,600 They're also going to be. 29 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:47,600 Because they think that they're living through light. 30 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,600 They're never going to experience what light is. 31 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:55,600 Because they only think that they're living in it. 32 00:03:55,600 --> 00:04:00,600 They're living through the illusion of what light is. 33 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:05,600 What happiness is. 34 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:14,600 Looking for things that will remind them of that feeling consistently. 35 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:18,600 One after the other one. 36 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:23,600 Fun after the next fun. 37 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:32,600 The enjoyment after the next enjoyment. 38 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,600 And because they think that they're living it. 39 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,600 Why take a step toward it. 40 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,600 When you think that you're already in it. 41 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:54,600 Like when you touch when you feel like you've touched the ceiling. 42 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,600 You're capping yourself. 43 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:05,600 Okay I've touched it. I'm here. That's it. 44 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:16,600 You're only leaving the kick from things that remind you or come closely for a short limited period of time. 45 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:21,600 To what being in the light actually feels like. 46 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,600 But because you have so many things. 47 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:28,600 That feel like it. 48 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:36,600 Place one after the other one. You're going to feel like you're in the light. 49 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:42,600 So what happens when you put the pause on those things. 50 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,600 Where do you find yourself. 51 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:49,600 That's the question. 52 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,600 The best way to see it. 53 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:56,600 Is as if we're walking through this tunnel. 54 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,600 Right. 55 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:04,600 The only thing that we only know of is that tunnel. 56 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:05,600 We go. 57 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:10,600 Whatever it's at the back of our back. 58 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,600 We have. 59 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,600 Whatever we can see in front of us. 60 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,600 And that's it. 61 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,600 We don't know that there is any left right. 62 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:26,600 We don't know that we're down. 63 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:32,600 We don't know that mention. 64 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:36,600 We just see this flat line. 65 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:40,600 And think that's life. 66 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,600 But one day that one person comes in. 67 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:50,600 And punches through that tunnel. 68 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,600 And there's this. 69 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,600 Loud. 70 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,600 Light. 71 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,600 That's been showed to you. 72 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,600 And it's so loud. 73 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,600 They just want to quiet it. 74 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:07,600 Because you're not used to it. 75 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,600 It's something. 76 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,600 This is not what. 77 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:13,600 I thought light was. 78 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,600 It's not supposed to be so overwhelming. 79 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:22,600 Right. Only as overwhelming as you let yourself be overwhelmed by it. 80 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:26,600 But the understanding that you weren't living it. 81 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,600 You're living the illusion of it. 82 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,600 To being showed. 83 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,600 What that actually feels like. It's like whoa. 84 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:36,600 Damn. 85 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,600 That fucking caught me out of nowhere. 86 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:43,600 What is this? 87 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,600 But that one person took the chance. 88 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,600 They took the energy and effort. 89 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,600 To punch through that hole. 90 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:55,600 Punch through that tunnel. 91 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:59,600 Just for you to actually see. 92 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:04,600 And take the chance on yourself to go through that hole. 93 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,600 And experience what light is. 94 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,600 But guess what? 95 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,600 You have. 96 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:17,600 You have just a handful of choices there. 97 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,600 You can start walking backward because you're too afraid of it. 98 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,600 Just like when. 99 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,600 If you look up for example. 100 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:27,600 I've got a new cat. 101 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,600 So every time that she feels like there's a threat. 102 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:33,600 She walks backward. 103 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:37,600 So that the threat is far away from us. 104 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,600 It might not actually be a threat. 105 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,600 It's just something new. 106 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,600 That we're just not accustomed to yet. 107 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:45,600 So we're just backward. 108 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,600 We just walk. 109 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,600 It's like the moonwalk. 110 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:53,600 It's like the moonwalking away from the light. 111 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:54,600 Right? 112 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:55,600 It's there. 113 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,600 But we're distancing ourselves from it. 114 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,600 Because that is just too much. 115 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:05,600 It's just too much for me to actually cope with. 116 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:09,600 Because it's not what I've been accustomed to. 117 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:15,600 It's not what I thought it was. 118 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,600 And so many times. 119 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,600 We take that step back. 120 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:21,600 From happiness. 121 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:25,600 Because we don't feel like we're ready to take the leap of faith. 122 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:31,600 We don't feel like we're going to survive that leap of faith sometimes. 123 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:38,600 And that's because we're so grippled until on what's been. 124 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:48,600 That we're not allowing ourselves to feel what could be. 125 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:52,600 So that light just gets further and further. 126 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:53,600 Step after step. 127 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,600 Further and again. 128 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,600 Further and further and further. 129 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,600 Until a point where we can't see anymore. 130 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,600 And then we feel. 131 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:05,600 Okay. 132 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,600 I can deal with this now. 133 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:11,600 It's not too light. 134 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:17,600 Oh, you might just put that pair of new shades on. 135 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:19,600 And be like, yeah, I'm good now. 136 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:25,600 I'm good. 137 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,600 And then there's the other option. 138 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:31,600 Just walk past it. 139 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,600 Because whatever is at the back. 140 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,600 Whatever is behind your shoulders. 141 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:41,600 Or you don't see and you can't affect you. 142 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,600 Especially when you don't look back. 143 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:44,600 Right? 144 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,600 You just keep on walking forward. 145 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:51,600 Just keep walking in the tunnel of darkness. 146 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:58,600 That tunnel of dread and sadness that you feel. 147 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,600 Because you're not feeling accomplished. 148 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,600 You're not feeling filled. 149 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:09,600 You're just keeping on looking for those little holes. 150 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:13,600 When someone just punched through a fucking tunnel for you. 151 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,600 You still won't take the chance on yourself. 152 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,600 You're just going to walk past it. 153 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:26,600 Just look for the reflections of what that light was. 154 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:32,600 Maybe you see someone put in a mirror that might show you what that light was like. 155 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:35,600 But again, it's only a reflection. 156 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,600 It's not an actual hole for you to walk through. 157 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,600 You might think that is, but it's not. 158 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,600 And then obviously there's the third option. 159 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:49,600 Just take a step in. 160 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,600 Just be like, wow. 161 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,600 What is this? 162 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,600 This is new to me. 163 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,600 But I'm kind of enjoying it. 164 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:00,600 It feels warm. 165 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,600 It's loud. 166 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:06,600 It's, it comes with weight. 167 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:13,600 It comes with a weight that you can only understand. 168 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:23,600 And you can only actually lift when you take the chance on yourself to go through the hole. 169 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:37,600 And then obviously there is the also acknowledgement of the fact that whoever came and punched through that hole, yes, took a chance on you that day. 170 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,600 But they're also going and dancing through the lights. 171 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:42,600 They have their own light to enjoy. 172 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,600 So why would they bother coming back and making another hole for you? 173 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:52,600 If you're, if they know that you're not going to take a chance on yourself, they might do. 174 00:12:52,600 --> 00:13:02,600 There is the slight, slight benefit of the doubt that someone might give you. 175 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,600 Here, let me give you another handout. 176 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,600 Let me punch out of the hole. 177 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:15,600 That's going to take a lot of energy out of that person for them to come back, to punch through a hole that they already did. 178 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:23,600 Just to show you what life feels like, what happiness feels like. 179 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:32,600 And bear in mind that whoever is in the light with them at that time, they came to punch through your tunnel. 180 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,600 Has seen that. 181 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,600 So they know that you didn't walk through. 182 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:39,600 And that's two doors already. 183 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,600 They know you didn't. 184 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:43,600 Why would they even bother? 185 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,600 Why would they? 186 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:46,600 All right. 187 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,600 Who cares? 188 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:49,600 You don't care. 189 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:54,600 So why would I care? 190 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,600 And bear in mind, they're living the light. 191 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:01,600 They're enjoying it. 192 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:10,600 So that first hole that was once made for you, now it has a plexiglass or whatever they call this new windows. 193 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:14,600 Double glazed, double whatever. 194 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:17,600 Now you can only see through. 195 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,600 It's like a vault made out of glass. 196 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,600 You can see all the gold inside. 197 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,600 We just don't know the code for. 198 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:31,600 Even if the vault is under your name. 199 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:34,600 That's what you could have had. 200 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,600 Because you didn't take the chance when it was once open. 201 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,600 It's not locked. 202 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:44,600 How sad is that? 203 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:53,600 How sad that we've gone to a place that now we look for misery. 204 00:14:53,600 --> 00:15:02,600 We look for something that reminds us of the sadness and the misery that we live in or that we think we live in. 205 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,600 Because it's all in our head, to be fair. 206 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:08,600 Like there's no physical tunnel. 207 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,600 It's just our mind. 208 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:14,600 There's a mind tunnel. 209 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:21,600 And the reason why we don't see the light at the end of the tunnel is because there's no light at the end of the tunnel waiting for you. 210 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:31,600 If you've placed a vault without glass in front of you, you just see darkness consistently. 211 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:40,600 And when we think, and this is also great actually, because we always think of all this, the light at the end of the tunnel. 212 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:43,600 Now the light is next to you. 213 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:45,600 It's happening right now. 214 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:54,600 But because you're so afraid of just stepping into it, you're missing out. 215 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,600 So you keep on walking and you keep seeing darkness. 216 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:01,600 And you think that that's what you're meant to. 217 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,600 That's your life. 218 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:06,600 You think that that's everything you're going to get. 219 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:15,600 Until one day, one person that wasn't there when that first person punched through might come and actually punch another hole. 220 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:22,600 And then there again, you get blazed by this amount of light that just washes over you. 221 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:30,600 And you're like, oh my God, let me look for an umbrella because you don't want to get wet. 222 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:47,600 Only to then realize when there's now a glass and you can see through that that wetness would have made the seeds sprout into the most beautiful tree that you could have ever been. 223 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:56,600 Because you didn't step into it, you didn't actually got fertilized by walking through that hole. 224 00:16:56,600 --> 00:17:03,600 You're now seeing your leaves falling. 225 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:13,600 You only know what a flower is based on what other people are telling you a flower is. 226 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:22,600 You're not truly feeling flowery in your life or that there could ever be one. 227 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:33,600 Because you haven't even gone through the stage of growing that tree so that it could withhold flowers. 228 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:41,600 That process is just walking through the hole. 229 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:58,600 Because once you turn right or left, up and down, wherever the hole is, instead of just keeping walking forward to where that dreadfulness, sadness is taking you to. 230 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:09,600 Just stopping and changing direction is what gives you the power to then, okay, now I can carry this light. 231 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:14,600 You gotta stop yourself for once. 232 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:19,600 Just like this. 233 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,600 Feel the vibe. 234 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:26,600 Know that that is not a threat. It's just different. 235 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:33,600 It's something that requires change. It requires strength. 236 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:37,600 It requires emotional strength. 237 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:48,600 Because you would have to relinquish and leave behind everything that survived within that sadness, within that tunnel. 238 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:52,600 Because it's not needed where the light is. 239 00:18:52,600 --> 00:19:01,600 Why would you need a coat in a desert? 240 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:05,600 When there's no rain happening. 241 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,600 There's no wind happening. 242 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:11,600 Why would you ever need a coat in a place that's warm? 243 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:14,600 You won't. 244 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:18,600 But of course it's gonna be overwhelming if you bring that coat with you. 245 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:21,600 You just gotta sweat in it. 246 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:23,600 If not die in it. 247 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,600 When it becomes too hot. 248 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,600 Because that's what light is. 249 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:38,600 We need to always strip off something off you so that you can truly feel what light feels like. 250 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,600 And one day you're gonna trim off an arm. 251 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,600 You're gonna trim off a leg. 252 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:45,600 You're gonna trim off your torso. 253 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,600 You're gonna trim off your skin. 254 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,600 You're gonna trim off your organ. 255 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:53,600 Just to realize that light is not your body. 256 00:19:53,600 --> 00:20:01,600 It is your mind and soul, your consciousness and soul. 257 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:08,600 Because you've escaped from the tunnel that you had placed yourself in. 258 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:14,600 Leaving behind everything that you thought. 259 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:18,600 Everything that you've used as a survival. 260 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:21,600 To survive within the darkness. 261 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,600 But it's not needed in the light. 262 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,600 You need to leave it behind or it will kill you in the light. 263 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,600 It will, certainly. 264 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:35,600 And it will have you running right back into the sadness. 265 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:41,600 Just because you brought with yourself something that wasn't needed. 266 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,600 And that tunnel is just the void. 267 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:50,600 It's just every feeling of shortcoming. 268 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:54,600 Every feeling of not being loved. 269 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,600 Every feeling of not being enough. 270 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:02,600 Every feeling of feeling like you have to do more. 271 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,600 Just so that you can cope. 272 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:08,600 Or that you can have something in return. 273 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:12,600 Like overcompensating. 274 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:17,600 You need to leave all that behind in order for you to actually feel what light is. 275 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,600 Because there's no overcompensation in light. 276 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:25,600 It's light is already overwhelming on itself. 277 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,600 It's a big platter. 278 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,600 You don't need a spare one. 279 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,600 Because it will all fit into the platter. 280 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,600 As long as you trust it to. 281 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:45,600 If you bring a spare platter then you're just making your happy platter even heavier. 282 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,600 Because you're bringing behind your baggage. 283 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:53,600 So it's not that we're afraid of people that bring baggages in new relationships. 284 00:21:53,600 --> 00:22:02,600 We're afraid of people not realizing that those baggages are not needed where we are. 285 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,600 You don't need to fear of being abandoned. 286 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,600 Because I'm not going to abandon you. 287 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,600 I will tell you what's wrong. 288 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:11,600 We're going to fix it. 289 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,600 We're going to work through it. 290 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,600 We're going to find a way to move forward. 291 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,600 But I'm not going to abandon you. 292 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,600 And if I do I will tell you right. 293 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:31,600 Because that's a boundary of mine. 294 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:40,600 For me to be in the light I need to make sure that I'm boundary myself off the sadness. 295 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,600 I need to have a line. 296 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:48,600 Okay your light comes in but not your sadness. 297 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:55,600 So if you want to keep the sadness with you then there's no place for you here. 298 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,600 Now if you're willing to share the sadness. 299 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,600 If you're willing to share the tunnel. 300 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,600 Even if it's slowly. 301 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,600 But if you're willing to. 302 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:10,600 Then we can have a little bit of that here. 303 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,600 Because we're abandoned. 304 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:22,600 And we can slowly but surely and surely turn that into light. 305 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:27,600 But not as long as you're trying to hold on to it. 306 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,600 So it's important that to everyone that's in the light. 307 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,600 To give the chance. 308 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,600 Give the handout. 309 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:41,600 Go and punch as many holes as you see too. 310 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,600 In other people's tunnels. 311 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:48,600 But just make sure that you're not punching more than need to. 312 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,600 Because once it's great. 313 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,600 Twice it's great. 314 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,600 The third time it's on you. 315 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:01,600 Because it takes an enormous amount of energy for you to punch through a tunnel. 316 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,600 For someone not to walk through. 317 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:07,600 So why would you keep on punching? 318 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:11,600 Why not punch through someone else's. 319 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,600 Who's going to be willing to walk through. 320 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,600 If not at the first time at least at the second time. 321 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:22,600 Take a chance and appreciate the light that's within us. 322 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:29,600 Truly appreciate what it feels like to hold light on you and happiness on your plate. 323 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:34,600 Recognize where other people have already gone through. 324 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:38,600 And drain them their energies. 325 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,600 To punch through someone's tunnel. 326 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,600 So that you will make the mistake of not punching through it as well. 327 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:49,600 At least not more than needed. 328 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,600 Because the way that you punch it. 329 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,600 Might be different. 330 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,600 The other person might punch. 331 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,600 A hole of 5cm. 332 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:02,600 You might punch a hole of 5km. 333 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:06,600 And that's just because your plateau is larger. 334 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,600 So you can do more. 335 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,600 But why keep on doing more for someone not to appreciate. 336 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,600 And actually walk through. 337 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,600 Take the chance on themselves to walk through. 338 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,600 Just leave your light. 339 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,600 Leave your life. 340 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:30,600 Now I remember when I was through that tunnel. 341 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,600 And I had multiple people punching through. 342 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,600 At different stages. 343 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,600 Different shapes. 344 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,600 Different width. 345 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,600 And when I found the one. 346 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:50,600 That punched through that hole. 347 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:54,600 That I could fit in. 348 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,600 I took the chance of walking through. 349 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,600 Because I knew that that was the hole for me. 350 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:06,600 I wasn't trying to fit myself. 351 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,600 In a small hole because. 352 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,600 I could have only fit my hand in it. 353 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,600 Because that wasn't the place for me. 354 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,600 It wasn't the time for me. 355 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,600 I was holding too much baggage. 356 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,600 That I wasn't willing to shed. 357 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,600 For me to walk through. 358 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,600 Because walking. 359 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,600 More holes I saw. 360 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,600 More opportunities I saw. 361 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:36,600 I saw that every opportunity was an opportunity for me to shed something else. 362 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,600 So at one point I only passed through a finger. 363 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:44,600 By the fifth opportunity I passed through my whole arm. 364 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,600 Because I was putting through as much litter as I could. 365 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:52,600 It didn't matter how much it could fit. 366 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,600 I was putting. I was feeling that light. 367 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:02,600 Until it got to a point where there was no me left in the darkness. 368 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,600 It was all in the light. 369 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,600 And I had filled all those holes. 370 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:12,600 That I once had. 371 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,600 But what will it take. 372 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,600 For us to go through that. 373 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,600 If not taking a chance on us. 374 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,600 Know that we can survive the light. 375 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,600 It doesn't matter how bright it feels. 376 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:29,600 It only feels bright. 377 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,600 Because you're in the darkness itself. 378 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,600 Again. 379 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,600 If you shed light. 380 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,600 On someone that sees. 381 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,600 The amount. 382 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:50,600 Of impact is only going to be a certain amount. 383 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,600 But when you share. 384 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,600 When you share the light. 385 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,600 With someone that has never seen. 386 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,600 It's going to be even bigger. 387 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,600 It's going to be even more impactful. 388 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,600 It's going to be even a bigger chance on them. 389 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,600 But they have to take that chance on themselves. 390 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,600 To always, always take every opportunity you can. 391 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,600 To put yourself in that light. 392 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,600 But make sure. 393 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,600 That you're not trying to fill your whole self. 394 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:31,600 In that one light. In that one hole. 395 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:35,600 Because when you try to fit 100. 396 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,600 In 10. 397 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,600 In 90. 398 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,600 90% of you. 399 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:46,600 That gets lost in translation. 400 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,600 And you're trying to leave that 10% of you. 401 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,600 Why would you do that to yourself? 402 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,600 Why would you ever do that to yourself? 403 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,600 Choose to do that to yourself. 404 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:57,600 Because it's all a choice. 405 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,600 Everything that we do in life. 406 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,600 And that we don't do. 407 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,600 Saying and not saying are both a choice. 408 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,600 And they're both an answer. 409 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,600 Especially when there's a question. 410 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,600 So please take chances on yourself. 411 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,600 Walk through the light. 412 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:19,600 Recognizing which are holes and which are mirrors. 413 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:23,600 Because there's going to be so many frauds out there. 414 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,600 There's going to be so many mirrors. 415 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,600 Reflecting on the people's light. 416 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,600 There's going to be so many times. 417 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:38,600 Where you're going to be confronted with mirrors. 418 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,600 People talking about what life feels like. 419 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:48,600 Never truly knowing or feeling the light. 420 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:53,600 There's going to be so many people echoing what life. 421 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:58,600 Fulfilling life is. 422 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:03,600 And they're going to sound so convincing by the way. 423 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,600 They're going to sound so fucking convincing. 424 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,600 They're reflecting light to you. 425 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,600 Like the only thing that you see is that light. 426 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:16,600 You don't see the mirror or the panel at the end of it. 427 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:17,600 You just walk through. 428 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:19,600 Walk, walk, walk, walk, walk. 429 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:20,600 Blindly. 430 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,600 Because you're not questioning it. 431 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:27,600 You're not truly trying to look. 432 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:28,600 Where the light comes from. 433 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,600 Is it a source? 434 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,600 Or is it a reflection? 435 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:37,600 You're not also feeling that light. 436 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,600 Because if there's one thing. 437 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:44,600 Is that the source will never burn you. 438 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,600 It will worm you. 439 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:54,600 And it will warn you from the mirrors. 440 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,600 Because if there's one thing the mirror is great at doing. 441 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,600 Is reflecting other people's light. 442 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,600 And when you put that reflection on paper. 443 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:04,600 What you start seeing. 444 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,600 Because it's going to start burning. 445 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,600 Because it's not natural. 446 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,600 It's not meant to burn. 447 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,600 It's not meant to feel so overwhelming. 448 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,600 Unless of course again. 449 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,600 You're wearing a coat. 450 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,600 You're wearing your past with you. 451 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,600 You're not willing to open that coat. 452 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,600 Take down the zip. 453 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:31,600 Just be free. 454 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,600 Let yourself go. 455 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,600 You're not willing to shed the light. 456 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:38,600 Nope. 457 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:39,600 What am I saying? 458 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:46,600 You're not willing to shed the dread of sadness. 459 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,600 In order to walk in the light. 460 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,600 You're not willing to question. 461 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:58,600 Whether the light feels right. 462 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,600 And worse case than ever. 463 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,600 You know that light is burning you. 464 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:08,600 But you still decide to walk towards it. 465 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,600 And my question is. 466 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,600 Why would you ever do that to yourself? 467 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:21,600 Because we mistake overthinking. 468 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:24,600 And productive thinking. 469 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,600 Proactive thinking. 470 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:32,600 We think that sitting down and questioning something to get to its root. 471 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,600 Is overthinking. 472 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:39,600 Because we're doing it on purpose. 473 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,600 Without purpose. 474 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,600 And when you're sitting with yourself. 475 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,600 Take as much time as you can. 476 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:52,600 And want to give yourself to truly understand. 477 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,600 If something is pure. 478 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,600 If something is meant to be. 479 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:04,600 Or if something is walking you towards a hole that's going to lead you to the light. 480 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:10,600 Or if something is just walking you towards something that's only going to burn even more. 481 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,600 The longer you walk through it. 482 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:16,600 Or the longer you walk towards it. 483 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:20,600 And of course there's always the part. 484 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,600 Unfortunately I would say. 485 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,600 Where you don't walk. 486 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:29,600 You don't even take the chance of even question whether a light is pure or not. 487 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,600 Because you don't really want to see that light. 488 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:37,600 It's like you keep on placing shades. 489 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,600 Shade after shade after shade. 490 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,600 To avoid being in contact with that light. 491 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,600 When things are natural. 492 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,600 They're naturally benefiting you. 493 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,600 They're working towards you. 494 00:33:53,600 --> 00:34:01,600 They're allowing you to know what a healthy. 495 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:07,600 Surrounding feels like for you to sprout into that tree that you're meant to be. 496 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:12,600 If there's one thing that I'll leave you with today is. 497 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,600 Please. 498 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:15,600 Please. 499 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,600 Please. 500 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,600 Question everything. 501 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:26,600 Get to the root of everything. 502 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:30,600 And never be satisfied. 503 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,600 With any type of light that comes towards you. 504 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,600 As you may know. 505 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:40,600 Not all light is pure light. 506 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:45,600 And not all light is truly lived. 507 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,600 You remember the blind person. 508 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,600 How can you ask a blind person what life feels like. 509 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,600 If they've never had the chance to experience it. 510 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,600 Now you might have two types of blinds. 511 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,600 One might just be. 512 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:01,600 Straight up honest. 513 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:02,600 I don't know. 514 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:03,600 I've never been there. 515 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,600 I haven't been there yet. 516 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,600 I'm working towards it. 517 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,600 I'm trying to push through my own tunnels. 518 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,600 So that I can see the light on the other side. 519 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:15,600 They're trying. 520 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,600 They might just be missing for now. 521 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,600 But every time that they miss. 522 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:26,600 That punch is becoming an iron fist. 523 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,600 And by the time they find that part of the tunnel. 524 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,600 That's just thin enough. 525 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,600 For them to push through. 526 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:34,600 They're going to be. 527 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,600 They're going to leave it. 528 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,600 They're going to leave it. 529 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:43,600 Just because they're acknowledging the fact that they're not there yet. 530 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,600 But they're trying to find their way there. 531 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:50,600 And then there's going to be obviously the other blind person. 532 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:55,600 Unfortunately I would say it's the majority of individuals. 533 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,600 That we find nowadays. 534 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,600 Is they'll talk big game. 535 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:07,600 They'll describe light to you in a way that sounds appealing to someone. 536 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,600 That's never even grasped the concept of it. 537 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,600 Of course. 538 00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:16,600 If you're telling 10% to a person that's on 0%. 539 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,600 They'll see that 10% as 100%. 540 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,600 But if you're telling that 10%. 541 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,600 To someone that knows 50%. 542 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:26,600 Then good luck trying. 543 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:30,600 So always, always, always be mindful. 544 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,600 Always, always question. 545 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:39,600 And never, never be taken advantage. 546 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:40,600 Have your own worth. 547 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:41,600 Find your own worth. 548 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,600 Create your own worth. 549 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,600 Find your own light. 550 00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:51,600 Take the hand out when the light is being showed to you. 551 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,600 Just, you have a guide. 552 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,600 Because someone came through to punch that hole. 553 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:57,600 You have a guide. 554 00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,600 You have someone that will walk you through it. 555 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,600 Just trust. 556 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,600 It'll work. 557 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,600 And you'll be fine. 558 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,600 And thank you for listening in. 559 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,600 And as always, we look forward to the next episode. 560 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,600 While in the meantime, we'll scroll below here on Spotify. 561 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,600 Where we can find the poll. 562 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,600 It's an amazing tool for us to collect a bit of feedback. 563 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:29,600 But also for us to build a pipeline of individuals that would like to use this platform. 564 00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:34,600 To come and share their stories and dive into different topics. 565 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,600 You know, get the conversation started. 566 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,600 So thank you so much for that. 567 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,600 And yeah, I look forward to speaking with you soon. 568 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:51,600 Take care.