1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,300 Good morning, good afternoon, good night BFam Podcast. 2 00:00:06,300 --> 00:00:10,320 Thank you for joining me from wherever you are and thank you for giving me your time 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:13,320 and listening in. 4 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:17,600 I've decided I'm going to do a quote of the day for every episode I do and today's quote 5 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:25,200 of the day is, we suffer more often in imagination than we do in reality and that's a quote 6 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:27,600 from Seneca. 7 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,920 Today's topic is going to be the difference between perfection and flawlessness and why 8 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,440 it's important to understand that difference. 9 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,840 Let's jump right in. 10 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:46,200 Perfection is easily definable because it's definable in everything that happens. 11 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,200 Everything is perfect. 12 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,460 Now I want you to observe your definition of perfect. 13 00:00:53,460 --> 00:00:58,880 The standard definition or the definition you may be thinking of is something that has 14 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:04,920 nothing wrong with it or something that is, dang how can I describe perfect without saying 15 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:05,920 perfect. 16 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,920 Something that is great on all ends. 17 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,360 A perfect square. 18 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:15,200 Stuff like anything without flaw. 19 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,760 But no, that's not what perfectness is. 20 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:23,880 Perfectness is the natural order of things. 21 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:27,040 It's what everything already is. 22 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:32,120 It is perfect when we just let nature be. 23 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:37,760 Perfect is the universe defining itself. 24 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:42,620 Now the universe or God isn't one central being in my eyes. 25 00:01:42,620 --> 00:01:49,120 It's really the consciousness of some higher power that reveals itself throughout all of 26 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:55,080 us and it shares itself throughout all of us with all of us. 27 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,480 We all are perfect. 28 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:05,640 Everything that has happened in our lives was perfect because think about it, we don't 29 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:16,920 know where we would be at today if the events that happened in the past didn't occur. 30 00:02:16,920 --> 00:02:20,920 Every decision that you have made was perfect. 31 00:02:20,920 --> 00:02:23,920 There's no such thing as a good or bad decision. 32 00:02:23,920 --> 00:02:30,400 And I say this because when we define good or bad, we really only define it in the present 33 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:31,400 moment. 34 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,400 You know what I'm saying? 35 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:37,960 As it happens we try to judge it good or bad and then when we judge it good or bad we throw 36 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:44,400 it in that corner for the rest of its entirety of being. 37 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:45,400 But think about it. 38 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:51,660 Think about how many bad decisions quote unquote that you have made that have ended up or turned 39 00:02:51,660 --> 00:02:55,120 into good outcomes. 40 00:02:55,120 --> 00:03:00,000 Think of all the quote unquote good decisions that you've made that have ended up or turned 41 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,400 into bad outcomes. 42 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:09,960 You see it's really hard to define a good or bad moment because the moment doesn't just 43 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,240 happen and disappear. 44 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:17,200 The moment happens and compounds on itself into the future. 45 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:23,120 If we don't make mistakes how do we ever get better? 46 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,280 That's where I jump into flawlessness. 47 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:33,520 Flawlessness is a toxic mindset to get into because when you want to be flawless you want 48 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,240 to be without flaw. 49 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:37,800 You don't want any mistakes. 50 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:39,840 You don't want any blemishes. 51 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,200 You don't want any wounds. 52 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:48,320 But how will you ever learn from life if everything you do is flawless? 53 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:55,820 How can anybody ever tell you right from wrong or good from bad or give you any pointers 54 00:03:55,820 --> 00:03:59,580 on how to get better if you believe that you're flawless? 55 00:03:59,580 --> 00:04:04,440 It's hard to progress when you believe that you're flawless because you will hit a plateau 56 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:10,400 that causes you to almost digress in a way. 57 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,080 You see people who make mistakes learn from those mistakes and when they learn from those 58 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,760 mistakes they learn how to get better. 59 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:21,520 Making mistakes is like a pinball machine if you think about it. 60 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:26,400 You make the mistake, it hits you up, you learn something and you get somewhere else. 61 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:37,600 I know that was pretty vague but I'm sure you could paint the picture inside your head. 62 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:44,640 Being able to make mistakes is just one of the best things anybody could ever do. 63 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,760 Being okay with it. 64 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,360 Being able to accept it. 65 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,560 Being able to look at it and say, okay, I'm going to learn from this because a lot of 66 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:58,320 people make mistakes but they never learn from it. 67 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:03,520 You know it's easier to think about when you say, it's only a mistake if I don't learn 68 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,520 from it. 69 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,040 It's only a loss if I don't learn from it. 70 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:21,320 Because losses turn to wins and mistakes turn into progression. 71 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:30,160 Because just think about how far we would be if everything just worked out. 72 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,160 You know what I'm saying? 73 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,600 If everything just worked out we wouldn't be able to chase a purpose in life. 74 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:39,120 We wouldn't be able to have things to look forward to. 75 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,260 Because when I mess up I look forward to doing good. 76 00:05:42,260 --> 00:05:47,240 But if I never mess up what would I look forward to? 77 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,200 What would be holding me up? 78 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,200 What would give me motivation? 79 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,200 What would keep me going? 80 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:56,540 You know what I'm saying? 81 00:05:56,540 --> 00:06:02,440 The only reason we keep going is because we know it's a possibility that we don't attain 82 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:03,840 the goal. 83 00:06:03,840 --> 00:06:07,240 We know it's a possibility that everything could go wrong. 84 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:12,960 We know it's a possibility that whatever we want to do may not work out at all. 85 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:16,740 Or it might be the wrong decision. 86 00:06:16,740 --> 00:06:19,280 That drives us. 87 00:06:19,280 --> 00:06:23,200 Because since we don't know we try to go find out. 88 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:27,220 That's how important it is to live in uncertainty. 89 00:06:27,220 --> 00:06:34,080 Living in uncertainty keeps you on your toes not knowing the next move. 90 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:37,160 Because if you knew the next move why would you take it? 91 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,040 You already know what's going to happen. 92 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:45,240 If I don't know the next move man I'm for sure about to go see what happens. 93 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,120 It's like how people be in the movies. 94 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:49,120 They hear something. 95 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:52,720 And usually you know we'll be like I'm going to just run away. 96 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:57,640 But sometimes it helps to go see what that noise is. 97 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:01,560 Because if it don't kill you it make you stronger. 98 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,160 And if it do kill you what you going to do? 99 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:04,160 Be mad? 100 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,960 And that's another thing. 101 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:13,680 The fear of death is so I'm not going to say it's dumb but the fear of death is just so 102 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,180 time wasting and time consuming. 103 00:07:16,180 --> 00:07:20,040 We could ponder all day about death or how I'm going to die or if I'm going to die today 104 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,440 or if I'm going to make it tomorrow. 105 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,200 It's so easy to. 106 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:33,640 But just think back to yourself and say damn if I die tomorrow what I'm going to do? 107 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,640 Be mad that I died? 108 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,320 There's nothing you can do because it happened. 109 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:39,320 It already happened. 110 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,040 There's nothing that you can do about it. 111 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,600 Death is irreversible. 112 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:48,700 So we better off just accept the fact that it's going to happen at some point. 113 00:07:48,700 --> 00:07:50,700 We just don't know when. 114 00:07:50,700 --> 00:07:52,960 You know what I'm saying? 115 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:57,600 And we shouldn't let the fear of death hold us back from living our lives. 116 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,000 We should take more risk. 117 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:01,240 We should talk to more people. 118 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:02,860 We should introduce ourselves more. 119 00:08:02,860 --> 00:08:03,860 We should say hello. 120 00:08:03,860 --> 00:08:05,280 We should check on people more. 121 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:06,420 We should check our surroundings. 122 00:08:06,420 --> 00:08:10,640 We should sit in nature because we never know when it's going to be our last time seeing 123 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:11,640 it. 124 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:18,280 I don't know how many times it's been my last time talking to somebody and I didn't even 125 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:19,280 know. 126 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:27,240 That's why we got to watch how we treat people as well because getting upset and being mad 127 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:33,160 at people is a natural part of life but not forgiving. 128 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:37,120 That's unhuman. 129 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:43,960 We all know that if something was to happen to somebody that we love and we was quote 130 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:48,960 unquote into it and didn't want to forgive them or had some type of grudge against them 131 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:54,400 and then they died the next day, we know we would feel some type of way. 132 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:55,400 We know what we think about it. 133 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:56,400 We would blame ourselves. 134 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,200 We would feel guilty. 135 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:05,040 So it's important to be mad at people but also we have to forgive those we're mad at 136 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:10,300 or at least let go of grudges because you're just holding on to something that's pointless 137 00:09:10,300 --> 00:09:11,300 to have. 138 00:09:11,300 --> 00:09:14,560 It's like having small clothes in your drawer. 139 00:09:14,560 --> 00:09:18,500 If you're not wearing them, give them away. 140 00:09:18,500 --> 00:09:25,480 We hold on to too much stuff and that's what holds us down and that's what makes us heavy. 141 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:29,240 We all feel drowsy and depressed because we're holding on to too much. 142 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:35,600 If we just simply let it go, then we'll be better off. 143 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:40,200 It's a lighter load to carry. 144 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:46,760 You ever just sit down and think, damn, how much stuff am I holding on to, physical and 145 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,960 mental? 146 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,880 You ever notice the change in the mood when you clean your room or when you give something 147 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,520 away? 148 00:09:55,520 --> 00:10:02,240 The more we give, the more we get in return. 149 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:06,320 So if you want peace, give peace and you'll receive more peace. 150 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:11,140 If you want money, give money and you'll receive more money. 151 00:10:11,140 --> 00:10:15,840 You want clothes, give clothes away and you'll have room to bring more stuff in. 152 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:23,440 It's hard to clutter and clutter and keep clutter and sometimes we got to declutter. 153 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:24,680 So I don't know what you got to do. 154 00:10:24,680 --> 00:10:30,440 Drive fast on the highway safely, read a book, write your thoughts down, something, try to 155 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:34,120 declutter every once in a while. 156 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,700 Because I know it's hard to do like every night, every day, every weekend. 157 00:10:37,700 --> 00:10:43,640 Some people built to do that, but sometimes we got to sit down and stop moving because 158 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:47,320 when we move, everything else is moving with us. 159 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:48,320 Thoughts are moving. 160 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:49,320 Let's see. 161 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:50,320 Thoughts are moving. 162 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,320 Feelings are moving. 163 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:52,320 Emotions are moving. 164 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:53,320 Things are moving around us. 165 00:10:53,320 --> 00:11:04,860 We become soaked up in what's going on around us that we forget that it's okay to sit still. 166 00:11:04,860 --> 00:11:09,440 So when you find yourself in a rut and you just walking around thinking about, oh, everything's 167 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:10,440 going bad. 168 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,440 Everything's going bad. 169 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:12,440 Nothing is going my way. 170 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:13,640 So just let it pass. 171 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:14,640 Let it go. 172 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:22,640 Because a lot of the moves that we have, we bring upon ourselves. 173 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:28,240 We never really, nobody can ever really hurt us. 174 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:37,060 Yeah, we'll take the initial blow from a situation, but after that, it's up to us to let go. 175 00:11:37,060 --> 00:11:46,400 Go back in your past and use it as a reference, not as a point of interest to go to whenever 176 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,800 you feeling bad for yourself. 177 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,240 Use your past as a point of reference. 178 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,520 That's why we got books. 179 00:11:52,520 --> 00:12:00,860 Use your past as a book to learn from the current situations going on. 180 00:12:00,860 --> 00:12:06,280 Because I promise you, nothing is ever going to come your way that you're not ready for. 181 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:10,000 Even if it feel like you're not ready for it, go back to your past and think about some 182 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,200 stuff that happened that you just had no idea happened. 183 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:16,400 And maybe your answer lies there. 184 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:23,560 That's what makes life so perfect because things happen and we won't even realize that 185 00:12:23,560 --> 00:12:25,200 they for a future moment. 186 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,160 We think it's bad because it's happening right now. 187 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,680 Dang, my car broke down. 188 00:12:30,680 --> 00:12:32,560 Just the worst day ever. 189 00:12:32,560 --> 00:12:33,560 But it was a pile up on I-94. 190 00:12:33,560 --> 00:12:38,040 You know what I'm saying, you would have got on I-94 exactly when it happened. 191 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:39,040 But your car was broken down. 192 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:40,040 You don't have a ride. 193 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,680 You know what I'm saying, think about that. 194 00:12:42,680 --> 00:12:45,920 Think about how many times life has saved you from death. 195 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:47,800 We never think about that. 196 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:52,240 We're so stuck in our ways and our thoughts that we think everything bad that happens 197 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,640 is because life is against us or something is against us. 198 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,140 The universe is against us. 199 00:12:57,140 --> 00:12:58,140 Nobody loves us. 200 00:12:58,140 --> 00:12:59,140 Nobody likes us. 201 00:12:59,140 --> 00:13:05,680 But if we sit down and think about the impact that certain decisions have made or certain 202 00:13:05,680 --> 00:13:16,880 events have made that have affected a possible outcome, because we never know. 203 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,800 We never know. 204 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,400 And that's taking me back to my point about living in the unknown. 205 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:25,300 We never know. 206 00:13:25,300 --> 00:13:27,560 Even if we think we know, we don't know. 207 00:13:27,560 --> 00:13:29,840 Because who told you? 208 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,880 Anything can change in a snap. 209 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:35,600 Anything can change in a blink of an eye. 210 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,960 Every moment is happening right now. 211 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:44,400 The shit I was saying at the beginning of the podcast, I don't know. 212 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:45,960 I don't even know if it led me to say shit. 213 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:47,760 I'm saying it right now. 214 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:53,480 I'm just talking and I'm just going off the vibes of what's going on in my head. 215 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:54,480 And that's what we should go off. 216 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:58,880 We should just go off vibes, because everything is vibrations. 217 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:02,160 Everything vibrates on a frequency, a path. 218 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,200 It's all in the music we listen to, the people we hang around. 219 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,840 Everything has a vibration. 220 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:13,640 And to help you become aware of this, I want you to lock in and think with me right quick. 221 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:17,680 Think about the times that you've walked into a room and you felt the mood change around 222 00:14:17,680 --> 00:14:18,680 you. 223 00:14:18,680 --> 00:14:19,680 You know why? 224 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,680 Because that's vibrations. 225 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:28,400 Vibrations is the frequency of life. 226 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,400 Vibration is the part of life that we can't see. 227 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,960 We can only feel it. 228 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:38,840 And that's okay because reality is scarier than fiction. 229 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,440 And reality isn't just what you see. 230 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,080 Reality is also what you feel. 231 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:47,920 So it's okay to go with your gut feeling. 232 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,480 It's okay to do stuff because you felt like it. 233 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:57,560 It's okay to react off feeling, but be careful reacting off of emotion. 234 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:01,040 And that's the difference between emotion and feeling. 235 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,840 Feeling is that feeling you get in your gut and you're like, dang, either I got to do 236 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,520 this or I don't want to do this. 237 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:07,720 I want to stay away from it. 238 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,640 Your body will tell you. 239 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:13,320 Emotion is the reaction to the present moment. 240 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:14,760 Okay? 241 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:18,980 Emotion happens when a certain event occurs. 242 00:15:18,980 --> 00:15:21,240 So you stub your toe. 243 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,600 You get mad in that moment. 244 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,080 You know what I'm saying? 245 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:27,080 That's an emotion. 246 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:28,080 You feel that. 247 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,160 That emotion is energy and motion. 248 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:31,160 Okay? 249 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:32,160 So you got to watch that. 250 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:33,160 That's, yeah. 251 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,320 That's what that is. 252 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:37,280 Emotion is energy and motion. 253 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:38,280 Okay? 254 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:45,680 So you got to watch the energy going on to know your emotion. 255 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:47,360 Emotion is meant to be observed. 256 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,800 Feeling is meant to be followed. 257 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:54,840 Dang, that rolled off the tongue nice. 258 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:59,600 Emotion is meant to be observed and feeling is meant to be followed. 259 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:01,780 But feel with your intuition. 260 00:16:01,780 --> 00:16:05,920 Don't feel just, oh, I did that because I felt like it. 261 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:09,280 Actually think about it, but don't overthink about it. 262 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,960 Ponder on it, but don't dwell on it. 263 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:13,780 All right? 264 00:16:13,780 --> 00:16:27,160 You got to be able to detach from the desired outcome. 265 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:29,120 Okay? 266 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:36,960 And I say this because when you attach yourself to one outcome, you don't leave room for anything 267 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,640 else to happen. 268 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:45,120 Nothing else is possible because the energy you put into that desired outcome determines 269 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,720 the motion that's going on. 270 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,280 So your body is going to be gone for only that motion. 271 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:56,840 But when you're able to sit back, think, and say, well, this is what I want to happen, 272 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:01,640 but I'm okay if something else happened because you know the universe is perfect enough that 273 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:05,240 it's going to bring you whatever it's meant to be. 274 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:14,600 So when you're able to adopt these mindsets and these thought patterns, life will come 275 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:17,600 at you easier because we can't control life. 276 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:20,000 Life is uncontrollable. 277 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,920 And the reason it's uncontrollable is because we don't know what's going to happen next. 278 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:27,440 If we knew the future, it'd be controllable. 279 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,320 But we just live in our predicted outcomes. 280 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,200 You know what I'm saying? 281 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:36,080 There's stuff in the future happening that we thought was going to happen and sometimes 282 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:37,080 it don't. 283 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:40,480 We're just living on what we predicted. 284 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:44,280 We got to be able to live without trying to guess what's going to happen next because 285 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:51,360 when you do that, you live in panic, you live in fear, you live in anxiety because you're 286 00:17:51,360 --> 00:17:57,120 always worrying about what's going to happen next that you miss next. 287 00:17:57,120 --> 00:18:01,220 When you're always thinking about the next moment, you miss the current one. 288 00:18:01,220 --> 00:18:05,680 And because everything is current, you're never really doing anything but thinking in 289 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:09,680 circles, going in circles. 290 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:13,680 You never really progress because you're just going in the loop. 291 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:21,600 You're just looping and looping and looping. 292 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:22,600 Think about that. 293 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:28,280 Just think about how many times you psyched yourself up because you thought something 294 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:31,120 was supposed to happen another way. 295 00:18:31,120 --> 00:18:32,120 I hope that makes sense. 296 00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:38,480 We'll do a little, not a thought experiment, but we'll just do a little thinking segment. 297 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:41,040 Just think. 298 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:45,760 Think back to a moment where you've, no, no, no. 299 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:51,560 Think back to a moment where something has happened, an event, and you got so pissed 300 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:58,120 off that you missed the lesson. 301 00:18:58,120 --> 00:19:03,480 I can think of plenty of times that has happened. 302 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:08,840 And without that happening, I wouldn't be able to point it out right now. 303 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,600 But I'm only able to point it out because I was aware. 304 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:18,560 I'm now aware of what was going on. 305 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:19,560 I pondered. 306 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,600 I thought back and I used my past as a reference. 307 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,040 I used my past as a book. 308 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,600 I didn't use my past as a hiding place. 309 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:36,560 When we hide in our past, nothing, we can't get anywhere. 310 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:42,680 It's like a burglar in your house, but you just hiding in the closet. 311 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:46,760 I mean, I know he out there, but dog, you got to start thinking of escape plans. 312 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:48,560 If you just sit there, he might just take over. 313 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:54,160 You're going to be there forever. 314 00:19:54,160 --> 00:20:00,360 When it's scary, we got to think of ways to get out of those scary times because being 315 00:20:00,360 --> 00:20:03,160 scared is just not knowing what's going on. 316 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,720 How can you be scared if you know what's going on? 317 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:09,360 Now, how silly is that? 318 00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:14,000 How can you be scared if you know what's going on? 319 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:21,280 But the only way you're going to find out is if you go into them scary moments. 320 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:26,320 You got to actively try to find solutions to your problems. 321 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:30,720 I'm not saying you got to figure it out, but you got to try to find solutions. 322 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:35,440 Let me tell you what I mean. 323 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,320 You have a problem. 324 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,080 You don't just solve it in one step. 325 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,400 There's no such thing as a one step problem. 326 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:45,680 Well, sometimes it is, but the problems we talking about, they not one step solved. 327 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,600 When you have a problem, I know that's vague. 328 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:52,200 Just think about any problem you want. 329 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:56,000 It's not just a one step solution. 330 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:01,160 Same shit in real math, not just addition and subtraction, but same shit in real math. 331 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:08,480 It's more than one step to get to the solution, but you don't get there if you don't try. 332 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:15,040 So you just pick somewhere to start and you go at it and it'll be a domino effect leading 333 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:19,600 you to the next moment, leading you to the solution or the possible solution. 334 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,880 Because even when you get to the solution, you still got to double check. 335 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,440 You know what I'm saying? 336 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,920 When you double check, you got to put it back in the calculator with everything you got. 337 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,560 And if it don't work, go back to the drawing board. 338 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:35,160 But now you got to point a reference to work from because you started. 339 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:41,720 See, a lot of times we wait for the quote unquote, I don't want to say perfect moment 340 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:43,860 because every moment is the perfect moment. 341 00:21:43,860 --> 00:21:48,400 We try to wait on the right moment, the moment, the flawless moment. 342 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:52,000 But dog, there's no such thing as that. 343 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:58,280 And I had to find that out the hard way because it's been times when I've thought to do something 344 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,440 and I just keep thinking on it, thinking on it, thinking on it. 345 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:05,640 And then I look up and somebody else can do what I wanted to do. 346 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:09,120 You know how gut rich and that is to see somebody else live your dream? 347 00:22:09,120 --> 00:22:10,880 Don't let that happen, man. 348 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,560 If you want to do something, start today, even if you don't know where to start. 349 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,680 Go ask random people. 350 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,280 Go find a stranger to talk to. 351 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,280 Go read a book. 352 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:20,280 Google it. 353 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,000 We Google everything else. 354 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,160 Google it. 355 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:31,160 And go one step at a time trying to find a solution to your current problem. 356 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:35,480 Because if you don't start that project, if you don't implement that idea, somebody else 357 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,920 will. 358 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,080 Because thoughts don't wait on nobody. 359 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,320 Thoughts are universal. 360 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,960 Thoughts carry because thoughts are vibrations. 361 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,600 And vibrations move. 362 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:48,600 That's how sound works. 363 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,520 Vibrations are sound. 364 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:51,520 We just can't hear it. 365 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:52,520 We can't hear the frequencies. 366 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,840 It's not built for our human ears, but our bodies can feel it. 367 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,280 And our bodies feel thoughts. 368 00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,960 And thoughts move. 369 00:22:59,960 --> 00:23:01,960 They don't just stay in your brain. 370 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,120 Even if you think they do. 371 00:23:04,120 --> 00:23:10,480 Everybody has the same access to information that you have in some way, shape, or form. 372 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:17,600 It might not be easily accessible or as readily accessible as it is to you, but trust me, 373 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,560 it's out there. 374 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,680 And it's a window to the thoughts that you have. 375 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,360 It's a window to the projects you want to start. 376 00:23:23,360 --> 00:23:26,920 And it's a window to the ideas that you have. 377 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:32,120 The only way they're going to come to life is if you let them. 378 00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:35,480 You got to put them into action. 379 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,760 You got to notice that you blessed enough to have the idea. 380 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:44,320 You got to notice that you blessed enough to... 381 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,280 What's the word I want to say? 382 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:47,280 You got the... 383 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,360 I'm going to say powers. 384 00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:51,920 You got the powers to bring that idea to life. 385 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:52,920 It's in you. 386 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:53,920 It's in me. 387 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,040 It's in everybody. 388 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:57,240 We just got to go though. 389 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:01,260 We just got to understand that this is the perfect moment to start. 390 00:24:01,260 --> 00:24:02,760 Right now. 391 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,600 Why you listen to this after you listen to this? 392 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:10,240 I wouldn't be mad if you was listening to this, thought about the idea that you wanted 393 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,840 to implement, and turned this shit off right now to go do it. 394 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:18,520 I would encourage you to do that. 395 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:25,440 Because to me, if you don't get through the whole episode, that's cool. 396 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,960 But I make these because I want to tap into you. 397 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,400 I want to help you tap into your own brain. 398 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:36,520 I want you to think about your own thoughts, but not overthink. 399 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:37,520 Ponder don't dwell. 400 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:43,000 I want you to think about your own thoughts and think about where they're coming from. 401 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,640 Who are they coming from? 402 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,560 What influences these thoughts? 403 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,400 What's bringing these thoughts about? 404 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,240 Why am I feeling a certain way? 405 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,520 Why am I feeling this energy and motion? 406 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,240 Why am I feeling that emotion? 407 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,920 Why is it happening? 408 00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:58,920 Who caused this? 409 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,200 Was it me that caused this? 410 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:05,740 Was it an outside source that made me feel this way? 411 00:25:05,740 --> 00:25:07,640 Is it something that I control? 412 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,360 Is it something that's uncontrollable? 413 00:25:09,360 --> 00:25:12,120 Is it something that I just have to accept? 414 00:25:12,120 --> 00:25:13,240 What's going on in my life? 415 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,400 I want you to think about that. 416 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:21,600 I want you to get out the, get into the world, get out of your head and get into the world 417 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,640 by getting into your head. 418 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:28,200 I know that's complicated to think about, but we just thinking, a lot of times we just 419 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:29,800 think surface level thoughts. 420 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:31,680 Dig deep, man. 421 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:37,880 I'm not saying you got to cross your legs and go, hmm, and make weird hand signals with 422 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:45,520 your hands, but I am saying you need to sit down and ask yourself questions. 423 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,040 You got to sit down and think, what am I doing? 424 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,520 Because life is going to pass you by. 425 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,480 Time don't wait for nobody. 426 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:54,840 Just like thoughts don't. 427 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,080 Time don't wait for shit. 428 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:04,880 Time will keep going. 429 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:11,240 That's just, that's the only thing, or one of the only things that we can be sure of. 430 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,080 Time and death. 431 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,220 We can be sure. 432 00:26:15,220 --> 00:26:18,840 We can be sure both them shits going to happen. 433 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,880 You know you going to die and you know time going to pass. 434 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,480 What the fuck you going to do in between? 435 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,200 Because if you sit down and do nothing, everything can feel pointless. 436 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,000 That's where suicidal thoughts come from. 437 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,960 You feel like your life is pointless. 438 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,280 So go out and find your purpose because it's out here. 439 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:40,880 Even if you on here listening, saying, saying to yourself, well, I don't have a purpose. 440 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,220 I don't do nothing special. 441 00:26:42,220 --> 00:26:43,220 You do. 442 00:26:43,220 --> 00:26:45,160 I promise that you do. 443 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,260 I can see it in you. 444 00:26:47,260 --> 00:26:49,640 Everybody can see it in you. 445 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:54,520 You just got to think about what it is because it pass you every day. 446 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,280 That's one thing the perfect universe going to do. 447 00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:00,240 It's going to throw you hints and it's going to keep throwing them until you catch them 448 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,240 motherfuckers. 449 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,840 And one day it might just hit you in the head. 450 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,840 That's what an epiphany is. 451 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,840 See when you just suddenly get a thought, it's not because it's sudden. 452 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:18,800 It's because you, you've come to a realization. 453 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:23,120 You opened up. 454 00:27:23,120 --> 00:27:25,220 You've opened up. 455 00:27:25,220 --> 00:27:31,800 You finally see is coming to you because you may not realize that you're thinking, but 456 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:32,800 you are thinking. 457 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:37,480 You might not be thinking conscious thoughts, but you're thinking subconscious thoughts. 458 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:45,680 She is a whole nother world inside your brain that you're not even aware of that's happening. 459 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,480 Back to them surface level thoughts. 460 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,240 Those level thoughts is the consciousness. 461 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,120 That's the stuff you can hear in your head. 462 00:27:54,120 --> 00:27:56,480 If you got a tiny voice in your head. 463 00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:01,160 I'm not sure if everybody got a tiny voice in the head. 464 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,940 If you don't, I feel so bad for you. 465 00:28:04,940 --> 00:28:11,400 Tiny voices in the head are so, so useful, but that's what I was saying. 466 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:18,360 Conscious thoughts are the tiny voices in our head that we can hear subconscious thoughts. 467 00:28:18,360 --> 00:28:21,640 It's the shit that's working behind the scenes. 468 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,480 It's almost like a clock. 469 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:30,280 Think of how conscious thoughts will be the minute hand and the hour hand on the clock. 470 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:35,720 We can see that and it'll show us the time, but you know, we don't see the gears behind 471 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,160 the clock turning both of them off. 472 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,160 I can't hands on the clock. 473 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,880 We don't see that, but we know it's happening. 474 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:44,880 You know what I'm saying? 475 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,960 We just don't know how it's happening. 476 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,040 It's like not knowing that you know. 477 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,440 I'm not going to go too deep into it because I'm going to end up explaining my way up out 478 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,800 of it, but just think about the clock analogy. 479 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,480 Your conscious thoughts are the minute hand and hour hand. 480 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:06,520 Your subconscious thoughts are the, what are those things called? 481 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,480 Probably just said it. 482 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:12,960 The things behind them, like the screws and stuff that's working the clock, it's turning 483 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,480 the hands, the inner workings. 484 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,920 Yeah. 485 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:24,660 So whatever it is that you want to do, get out and go do it and start now. 486 00:29:24,660 --> 00:29:27,200 You old enough, no matter how old you are, you old enough. 487 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:34,560 The perfect time is now because I promise you, if you just sit and wait for everything 488 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:38,720 to happen for you, it's never going to happen. 489 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:42,680 And if it do happen, that's a miracle. 490 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,440 Now I want you to listen to this. 491 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,200 If you haven't already clicked off. 492 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:54,160 When I say start now, I don't mean start now and expect it to be done by tomorrow. 493 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,740 I mean start now and start taking your time. 494 00:29:57,740 --> 00:30:01,000 You got to be patient with this kind of stuff. 495 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,040 Do your research, but not too much research. 496 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:09,880 Understand what needs to be done and then pick a starting point and start from there 497 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,400 and just watch it. 498 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,760 Watch it fold onto itself. 499 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:14,760 Watch it work. 500 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,600 Fall in love with the progression of it. 501 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:21,080 Fall in love with it stacking on top of each other. 502 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:28,240 Fall in love with watching your dreams and your projects come to life. 503 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:35,520 Fall in love with that piece of life because that's what life is, experience. 504 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,200 Fall in love with the experience of life. 505 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:44,640 Do shit for the experience because in reality, nobody cares what you do. 506 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:50,800 Nobody cares what you do as long as it doesn't affect them in a negative way. 507 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,800 And that's a quote by Austin Enix, nigga. 508 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,600 That's my shit right there. 509 00:30:55,600 --> 00:31:00,560 But yeah, nobody really cares what you do as long as it don't affect them in a negative 510 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:01,560 way. 511 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:06,160 It's a bonus if it helps them out in a positive way, but if it has no effect on them, they 512 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:10,320 don't give a fuck. 513 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,240 So really, you got free range to do whatever you do. 514 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,120 I'm not saying go out and do no crazy shit. 515 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:20,240 Don't do nothing crazy and then when the lawyer asks you why you did that, come to this episode 516 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:21,240 on the podcast. 517 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:27,880 But what I am saying though, go out and experience life. 518 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:28,880 Go do that. 519 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:30,880 And I'm telling you to do that. 520 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:31,880 Yeah. 521 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,560 I don't give a fuck if I'm not your mommy, I'm not your daddy. 522 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:40,000 I'm the motherfucker podcast, nigga. 523 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,640 Go out and live is what I'm saying. 524 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:47,040 Just don't be afraid of what people think or might think or will think or won't think 525 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:48,440 because nobody cares. 526 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,440 Nobody's thinking about you. 527 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,200 Nobody's thinking about theyself. 528 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:59,240 So get out of that thought, that thought pattern or that thought process that everything is, 529 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:00,240 everything is against you. 530 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,400 Because everything ain't with you, man. 531 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,760 Everything is happening for you. 532 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,560 So don't think about why is this happening to me. 533 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,360 Think about why is this happening for me. 534 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:21,000 When you think about that, you're more open to thinking about your thoughts. 535 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:27,720 You can make the most of whatever situation you got going on. 536 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:38,360 Everything could work out because you're saying, how was this helping me in this present moment? 537 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:42,140 What can I be doing with this opportunity? 538 00:32:42,140 --> 00:32:47,520 How can I maximize this opportunity in front of me? 539 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:52,040 We got to learn how to get knocked down and get right back up. 540 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:59,380 Can't be worried about staying down and waiting on somebody to pick us up. 541 00:32:59,380 --> 00:33:06,320 We got to pick ourselves up. 542 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,320 Be your own friend. 543 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,480 But wait, you know what? 544 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:17,360 I'm going to help you put this into perspective. 545 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,560 Think about this. 546 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,360 If you were your own friend, right? 547 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:30,520 And you saw how you operated, what would you think about yourself? 548 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,520 Real shit. 549 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:35,220 Now try to sugar coat it. 550 00:33:35,220 --> 00:33:42,120 Look at yourself from a third person point of view and say, what would I think about 551 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,360 myself if I could see myself from a third person point of view? 552 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,560 What would I say about my actions? 553 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:52,160 What would I say about the shit that I get up and do in the morning? 554 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:57,920 What would I say about the shit that I put on? 555 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,560 Just think about it. 556 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:07,760 Because when you do that, you detach from babying yourself. 557 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,360 You detach from the ego. 558 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,940 You able to judge yourself in a way. 559 00:34:12,940 --> 00:34:16,500 But not judge yourself in a demeaning way like, oh, I hate this, I hate that. 560 00:34:16,500 --> 00:34:19,560 But judge yourself in a way, I'm going to get better today. 561 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,420 And that's how I'm going to do it. 562 00:34:22,420 --> 00:34:25,320 Because you can see those flaws. 563 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,600 When you able to see the mistakes, you able to learn from them. 564 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:38,560 When you able to step back and see the error, you able to correct it. 565 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,840 Trial and error. 566 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:47,040 It's a thing for a reason. 567 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,240 Trials and tribulations. 568 00:34:51,240 --> 00:34:54,080 It all happens for a reason. 569 00:34:54,080 --> 00:35:02,880 Now I could go on and ramble about some more, but I want to keep it short enough to where 570 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,680 if you got inspired today, you could do something with it. 571 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:09,600 Because I really hope you do. 572 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,720 I want to see everybody win, and you should too. 573 00:35:13,720 --> 00:35:20,960 I'm still working on the outro, so this time I'm going to just say I love you. 574 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:21,960 Yeah. 575 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:28,520 I love you, and I mean that. 576 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:29,520 Spread some kindness today. 577 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,200 Share a smile. 578 00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:32,200 Make somebody else smile. 579 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,040 Give them a compliment, please. 580 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:40,040 I promise you to make your day better than everybody else's. 581 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,040 I love you. 582 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:53,760 Peace.