1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:12,920 Welcome to Unlimited Parenting where we discuss parenting children with disabilities or and 2 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:14,620 special health care needs. 3 00:00:14,620 --> 00:00:21,900 My name is Allison and today I am already laughing joined by my fellow partners in crime 4 00:00:21,900 --> 00:00:28,900 Melissa and Sarah and we are here for another installment of everyone's favorite series 5 00:00:28,900 --> 00:00:30,900 Bring Your Own Topic. 6 00:00:30,900 --> 00:00:33,800 Sarah, would you like to start us off? 7 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:37,240 What's your topic here, Sarah? 8 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,280 I just brought my own topic on my way and it's... 9 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:42,280 You know what? 10 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:43,280 That's the best way to do it. 11 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:44,960 Are fridges your topic? 12 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,200 Because now let me tell you, I could talk about fridges. 13 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:48,200 Wow, are fridges? 14 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,720 I don't think I'll bring that up today. 15 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:51,720 Very cute. 16 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:56,560 No, it's actually kind of a funny story because I had this thought when I was in the grocery 17 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:01,680 store grocery store buying this product. 18 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,680 Are they halos or huggies? 19 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:07,840 Yes, because when we were up north, yes, was it north? 20 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:08,840 Yeah, we were up north. 21 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,480 We were trying to find these things. 22 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,840 We were training and we were in a grocery store. 23 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:15,840 The mini oranges? 24 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:17,600 We were like, where are these stinking things? 25 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,320 Are you really talking about? 26 00:01:19,320 --> 00:01:20,440 I was like, where? 27 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,260 We could not find cuties anywhere. 28 00:01:23,260 --> 00:01:28,120 We finally found them at the Harvard Center, but I think we had gone to two stores and 29 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,120 they didn't have cuties. 30 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,680 And two stores to find cuties because they don't go to the food line. 31 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:33,880 No, they went to Rose Hours. 32 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:35,840 Easy, easy, safe way. 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,840 Safe way, yeah. 34 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:38,560 Finally found them anyway. 35 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:45,160 So then in my small town where I live, I was trying to find them to bring them to our training 36 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:46,160 here. 37 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:47,280 I could not find them. 38 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:55,000 So I found halos, which are essentially the other brand of cuties. 39 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:56,000 So are they brands? 40 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,160 Is a cutie a brand and halo is a brand? 41 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,160 I believe you're correct. 42 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:00,160 I'm like, why? 43 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,280 Of all things, do we have cuties and halos? 44 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:08,120 So my question is, are you a cutie or are you a halo? 45 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,200 Is Mandarin orange an option? 46 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,440 Are these different things? 47 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,080 I'm not entirely sure I've had a cutie or a halo. 48 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:21,200 I did witness my daughter in Hale one last Friday when she was here, but someone in your 49 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,160 family had for sure had one of those. 50 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:25,160 I know. 51 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,160 I don't know. 52 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,080 Is a Mandarin orange the same as a cutie or a halo? 53 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,720 You're looking at me like I'm a pro-doos. 54 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,400 We literally had this conversation. 55 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:39,280 We literally had this conversation earlier when a whole bunch of adults are in a room. 56 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,520 They looked at the adultiest adult. 57 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,960 How am I the adultiest adult? 58 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:45,960 Because you're like 45. 59 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,680 She's older than I am and I'm not 45 yet. 60 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,680 Oh my word. 61 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,320 I can't believe that we are. 62 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:54,320 Okay. 63 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:58,320 Are you the oldest my age on the podcast? 64 00:02:58,320 --> 00:02:59,320 You know how like, is that real? 65 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:00,320 Can you say doc? 66 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,360 Oh, isn't that like address? 67 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:03,360 Yes. 68 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:04,360 I don't really know. 69 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,360 But seriously, like, and then you, then I start, oh my. 70 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,040 Are halos tangerines? 71 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,480 Are halos clementines? 72 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:11,840 Are halos bad for you? 73 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,280 I guess so my, so my clementine and a tangerine. 74 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:16,280 Okay. 75 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:17,280 Right. 76 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:18,280 We're all different. 77 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:19,280 And a mandarin orange. 78 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,280 Halos are a type of clementine mandarin. 79 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:22,280 Okay. 80 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,280 That sounds like. 81 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:24,280 Good to know. 82 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,280 Yep. 83 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:28,920 So what, what is a cutie? 84 00:03:28,920 --> 00:03:31,160 A really small child. 85 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,480 Um. 86 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:33,560 I. 87 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:37,160 And, and so I am not team cutie or team halo. 88 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,760 I am team whatever is in the grocery store. 89 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:41,480 They're all a type of mandarin oranges. 90 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:42,920 These are all mandarin oranges. 91 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:43,920 Okay. 92 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:44,920 Well, there you go. 93 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:45,920 Now I know. 94 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:50,720 Well, a cutie, they're actually two varieties of mandarin oranges. 95 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:58,100 Clementine mandarin, which are available November through January and W. Murcott mandarin available 96 00:03:58,100 --> 00:04:00,040 February through April. 97 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:04,440 Cuties have several distinct characteristics that make them perfect anytime, anywhere. 98 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:05,440 Interesting. 99 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:06,440 See? 100 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:07,440 Learn something. 101 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:08,440 Not sponsored. 102 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:09,440 Right. 103 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:10,440 All right. 104 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:11,440 Well, which one are you? 105 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:12,440 I don't know. 106 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,400 I just ate a halo and it was cold and it was really. 107 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:15,400 I like them cold. 108 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:16,400 That. 109 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:17,400 I think that's a big. 110 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,600 I wonder what they would taste like if you popped them in the freezer. 111 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,680 Oh, does anybody put chocolate? 112 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:23,680 Don't look at me like that. 113 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,680 I've never put chocolate in the freezer. 114 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:26,680 Um. 115 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:27,680 So good. 116 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:28,680 Snickers. 117 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:29,680 Um. 118 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:30,680 Grapes. 119 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:31,680 Grapes. 120 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:32,680 You guys. 121 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,880 I will share my sour patch kid grape recipe. 122 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,280 So you take jello, sugar-free jello. 123 00:04:39,280 --> 00:04:43,120 You wash your grapes, you put them in a Ziploc bag and you shake them with the jello and you 124 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:44,120 put them in the freezer. 125 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,120 They are the most delightful. 126 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,120 I don't know. 127 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,120 With sugar. 128 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,400 I cannot wait until this is on video because that was amazing. 129 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:51,400 It's like the new dance. 130 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,400 It's like the skippity toilet. 131 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:53,400 I mean. 132 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,400 First you take the grapes and you put them in the back. 133 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,400 You put them in the toilet. 134 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,640 Skippity toilet. 135 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,160 And we talked about that a couple last week. 136 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:05,160 These junior high kids. 137 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:06,160 I don't. 138 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,160 The skippity bit. 139 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:08,160 I don't know. 140 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,720 You sound like the scat man. 141 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:10,720 Oh gosh. 142 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:11,720 I don't. 143 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:12,720 I'm the scat man. 144 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:14,440 You've never heard the nails. 145 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:15,440 I can't play it. 146 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,440 I'm going to have to pay royalties to somebody. 147 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:18,440 Oh okay. 148 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,440 I'm sorry. 149 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,440 Yeah. 150 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:21,440 So yeah. 151 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,400 It just sent me on a whole thought process. 152 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,440 Are you a cute or a halo? 153 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:31,960 So I guess I'm a halo today because that's what was available at my store. 154 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:33,280 You're very adaptable then. 155 00:05:33,280 --> 00:05:34,280 I am. 156 00:05:34,280 --> 00:05:35,560 I am. 157 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:39,120 There are only a few certain things that I'll choose a brand on. 158 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:40,640 But yeah. 159 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:41,640 Yeah. 160 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:42,640 Really? 161 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:43,640 Yeah. 162 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:44,640 Like what? 163 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:45,640 Cheese. 164 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,920 Oh like you're going for the Tillamook. 165 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:48,920 Yeah. 166 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:49,920 Yeah. 167 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:50,920 Manny's. 168 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:51,920 Really? 169 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,960 Isn't there only one type of Manny's? 170 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:55,520 Oh there's a store brand mail. 171 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:56,520 Oh you gotta get that. 172 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,120 Okay I have to get those foods. 173 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,120 I am a snob. 174 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:00,120 Is that milk? 175 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,120 Milk. 176 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:02,120 Walnut. 177 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,120 Oh I don't care about milk. 178 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:05,120 What? 179 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:06,120 What is that Walmart? 180 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:07,120 Best Foods? 181 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:08,120 No. 182 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,120 Best Foods is like. 183 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:10,120 Best Foods. 184 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,000 Best Foods is this side of the Mississippi and then the other side of the Mississippi 185 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:14,000 is Hellman. 186 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:18,760 And you're still saying you're not the adultiest adult in the room but you know the three kinds 187 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:19,760 of Manny's? 188 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:20,760 But there's Kraft also. 189 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:21,760 There is Kraft. 190 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,200 Yeah well and then there's Duke's in the south is apparently like really big and I only know 191 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,280 that because my cousin. 192 00:06:26,280 --> 00:06:28,120 But I'm a Manny's connoisseur. 193 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:29,800 So what do you call this? 194 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:30,880 Coke. 195 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:31,880 You would just go. 196 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:32,880 A soda. 197 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:33,880 A soda. 198 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:34,880 A coke. 199 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:35,880 You would just say anything as a coke? 200 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:36,880 Like I would write as a coke? 201 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,880 No I would call it soda. 202 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:38,880 No I don't. 203 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:39,880 Really? 204 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:40,880 Do you say soda or pop? 205 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,880 Soda. 206 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:42,880 I say pop. 207 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:44,640 Is it half your time in DC do you think? 208 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:45,640 No. 209 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:46,640 DC said soda. 210 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:47,640 They made fun of me mercilessly. 211 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:48,640 Really? 212 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:49,640 For saying pop. 213 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,600 Matt makes fun of me cause I say supper. 214 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,120 Okay but that is weird. 215 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:58,000 Okay let's just talk about the person that's eating supper. 216 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,000 That age is her. 217 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:01,000 Right? 218 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,000 Oh my god. 219 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,000 Nobody was calling her. 220 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:04,000 Were you called in for supper? 221 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,000 At four? 222 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:06,680 Did someone come out? 223 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,680 Did someone come out with a triangle? 224 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:10,680 Alright so I was. 225 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,880 I have a triangle on our camera and I love it. 226 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,960 And we followed that street and the farm and we had. 227 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,840 Oh well that is different. 228 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:18,840 I like supper. 229 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:19,840 Yeah. 230 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,960 Sarah tell us how was the 1930s? 231 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,480 We are from the 1900s. 232 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:25,480 Was it in? 233 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:26,480 Oh my have you seen those shirts? 234 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:27,480 Those shirts. 235 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:28,480 Yeah. 236 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:29,480 Banging the. 237 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:30,920 Be patient with me I'm from the 1900s. 238 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,920 And then I thought about it for a second and I was like well remember like the 80s? 239 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,560 And we were like oh my god those people were so old. 240 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,040 And now I'm like I'm from the 1980s I know. 241 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,160 Hey what do you mean? 242 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:43,160 It's just. 243 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:44,160 Yeah. 244 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:45,160 Yeah we're old. 245 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:46,160 Yeah. 246 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,040 It's not as old as you Allison. 247 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,560 I have imposter syndrome when it comes to my age. 248 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,480 That is really common right? 249 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:56,480 That's really common. 250 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,480 Do you guys feel your age? 251 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:58,480 No. 252 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,160 I look in the mirror and I'm like what's up 17 year old? 253 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,960 And then I'm like I feel like that Steve Buscemi with the skateboard. 254 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:06,520 What's up fellow cats? 255 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:11,320 I didn't feel my age until I fell playing softball last week. 256 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:12,320 True. 257 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,000 You're still feeling it. 258 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,000 She walked up. 259 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,000 I was like what's wrong with you? 260 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,000 She showed me her name. 261 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:23,880 I was like I think the bumpy part is supposed to be on the other side. 262 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,000 The bump is on the wrong side. 263 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:29,000 It's yeah it's brutal. 264 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:30,200 It's lovely. 265 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:34,960 We think that we are younger than that we still could do the things when we were young. 266 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:35,960 I know. 267 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:37,960 Sounds and looks good inside my mind. 268 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:44,400 We tell it's happening and I like wasn't so that's gonna leave a mark. 269 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:45,400 And it did. 270 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:46,400 It sure did. 271 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:47,400 It's still. 272 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,040 It's getting all sorts of colors. 273 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:50,040 Choices. 274 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:51,040 Choices were made. 275 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,040 It's a rainbow. 276 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,040 It's alright. 277 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:54,040 Melissa. 278 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:55,720 What's your topic? 279 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,920 Please spread the love of everything. 280 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:03,640 Do not let it be Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. 281 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,800 I promise it will not be. 282 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:12,640 Well I was gonna talk about so I mean this time of year is stressful and it is so I was 283 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:17,920 really gonna talk about trying to find the unexpected joys in life and oh my god I'm 284 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:18,920 tuning out already. 285 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:19,920 No no no. 286 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:27,600 I'm gonna tell you this because I so I look at my kiddo and sometimes he makes me crazy 287 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,960 and sometimes he makes me just laugh out loud because he can really truly find the unexpected 288 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:32,960 joys in life. 289 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:33,960 He. 290 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:34,960 That's really sweet. 291 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:35,960 Right. 292 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:40,400 So I wrote this down because the other day we came home from Costco and I I'm glad you 293 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,240 brought up Tillamook because I got a giant pen pound block. 294 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:44,240 With the two backs. 295 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:45,240 Oh no no. 296 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:46,240 With the giant log. 297 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,440 The big long one. 298 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,840 Again this reminds me of a Golden Girls quote where it's like what are you gonna do with 299 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:57,240 your cinnamon sugar log and Dorothy goes well it's a log. 300 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:58,240 I'm gonna burn it. 301 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:59,240 It does. 302 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:00,240 I don't know. 303 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:01,240 Go on. 304 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:02,240 I'm not gonna burn this. 305 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:07,200 It's a big big thing of cheese and a big orange block of cheese and we brought it in. 306 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:11,800 Reese looked at it took one look at it and just laughed out loud and it is hilarious. 307 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:12,800 You want to say. 308 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,360 When you look at this it's funny. 309 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:17,360 It's huge. 310 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:18,440 It is funny. 311 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:23,360 It's a big chunk of cheese and you made me laugh and so then I started really thinking 312 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:24,840 about like unexpected joy. 313 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:25,840 Okay so. 314 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:26,840 Oh. 315 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,200 The cheese was really the cheese was really funny. 316 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:35,240 And then a couple other things that he thinks is really funny is when I was getting the 317 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:40,360 mail though a big gust of wind caught it and the coupons that they come you know on the 318 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,240 coupons it flew away. 319 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:43,840 And so he thought that was really funny. 320 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:47,760 But one of the unexpected joys that I had this weekend and this is actually what I'm 321 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:53,880 going to talk about is I didn't know that I would find joy in it but I now know and 322 00:10:53,880 --> 00:11:00,040 I was able to share with all of my co-workers that trout bait is not poisonous. 323 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,880 And so that was an unexpected joy that I had. 324 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:09,680 I was able to call poison control and the reason I know this is because some trout bait 325 00:11:09,680 --> 00:11:15,160 looks like really delicious pink glittery glittery marshmallows. 326 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:21,460 And unfortunately my son took a tour of my older son's tackle box and found those marshmallows 327 00:11:21,460 --> 00:11:26,680 and consumed them all the while decorated in full. 328 00:11:26,680 --> 00:11:33,640 So an unexpected joy that I was thrust upon this weekend is knowing the number to poison 329 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:38,400 control and knowing that I in fact did not need to load my son with charcoal and make 330 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:40,720 him an apocalypse scenario. 331 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:41,720 Trout bait is simple. 332 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:42,720 Exactly. 333 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:46,920 So more you know the more you know isn't it one eight eight eight eight eight eight. 334 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,280 I don't know it's in my phone. 335 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:52,040 I don't even know I just have poison control in my phone. 336 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,760 I said hey Siri call poison control and I'm sorry. 337 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,000 Wow that's my new into our phones. 338 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,000 And they did it. 339 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:03,800 And the only thing that I will take away from it is I was made to feel a little bit dumb 340 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:05,360 for calling poison control. 341 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:10,100 I was going to just say the way the poison control lady handled that situation reminds 342 00:12:10,100 --> 00:12:16,680 me of when I was 17 at an IHOP and I asked for whole wheat hash rounds. 343 00:12:16,680 --> 00:12:21,960 That's how she made you feel like you called and said are these hash browns gluten free. 344 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,320 That reminds me like excuse me. 345 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,200 But I did I was serious. 346 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,200 I was dead serious. 347 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,960 Okay I asked her for a virgin churlite. 348 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,080 I ate a spokane. 349 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,440 More proof that you are the adultiest adult. 350 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:40,560 Yeah I was I was an adult. 351 00:12:40,560 --> 00:12:43,240 I was probably maybe 10 years old. 352 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:44,960 Yeah 10 years ago. 353 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:45,960 Maybe. 354 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:50,720 I asked for a virgin churlite and they said done. 355 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:51,720 Got it. 356 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:52,720 We can we can deliver that. 357 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:53,720 I can give that for you. 358 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,160 Yeah that feels so dumb. 359 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:59,040 They just put extra sprain in it. 360 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:03,080 Was it like in the moment that you realized what you were doing or it was like after the 361 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,080 fact that you were like. 362 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:05,080 When everyone was like. 363 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:06,080 Oh okay. 364 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,920 And it just became the running joke in our friend circle. 365 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,960 I had to get a lot of explanations. 366 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,460 I was so confused why I could not have whole wheat hash browns. 367 00:13:14,460 --> 00:13:16,960 She was like that's very funny but really what do you want. 368 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:20,080 I was like you know I want the whole wheat hash browns. 369 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,840 And I remember I was with a guy who had a really big crush on me and he was trying so 370 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:26,520 hard to be so gentle. 371 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:27,520 He was like Alison. 372 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:28,520 Oh okay. 373 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,300 Hash browns come from potato. 374 00:13:31,300 --> 00:13:34,320 And I was like aunt. 375 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:37,000 And he was like potatoes are just potatoes. 376 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,920 I mean like do you want sour cream. 377 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:40,920 Do you want gravy. 378 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:42,520 Like what are we doing here. 379 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:43,520 Do you want cheese. 380 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:44,520 Do you want it loaded. 381 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,960 And I was like as long as they're whole wheat. 382 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,360 And the lady was like whatever. 383 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:53,000 Were you on a specific whole wheat diet at the time. 384 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,000 Or you just. 385 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,000 No I was trying to stay a hundred and seventeen pounds. 386 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,360 And someone told me eating whole wheat was great. 387 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:00,920 And so I wanted everything to be whole wheat. 388 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:03,160 I'm surprised I didn't ask for a whole wheat Shirley. 389 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:04,160 Yes I am too. 390 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:07,160 Can I get a little bit of a cutie. 391 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:08,160 I'm a halo. 392 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,160 Thanks. 393 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:10,160 Oh you are. 394 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:11,160 My bad. 395 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,160 I'm so sorry. 396 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:13,160 Actually I'm just a lavender and orange. 397 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:14,160 I believe. 398 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:20,640 You cannot quote me on this but I think trout bait may be whole wheat. 399 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:21,640 Thank God. 400 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:25,640 I will survive an apocalypse because the trout bait is whole wheat. 401 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:31,040 I mean I mean in all fairness the lady from poison troll makes a good point. 402 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:32,040 She did. 403 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:33,040 The trout at the bait. 404 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:34,040 We eat the trout. 405 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:35,040 Sure. 406 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:38,560 But if you're in a crisis situation you don't care. 407 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,080 You're not thinking about the evolutionary food chain. 408 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:42,080 No. 409 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,480 It's like it's like it's going to pass away or not. 410 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:46,760 Because it's like this is a time sensitive situation. 411 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,520 I do find it in the human food sections. 412 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:50,520 Yeah. 413 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,400 I have to go to Cabela's for that. 414 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:56,640 And it's like a bright color and it I don't know. 415 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,400 It's just a lot of glitter. 416 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:02,360 Yeah glitter is probably the thing that maybe should not have been concerned about. 417 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:07,120 He did and he's alive and he's none worse for wear. 418 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,440 We're going to take him fishing this weekend. 419 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:15,520 He's going to watch the trout eat and then he's going to jump in for the fish. 420 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,440 That was not so. 421 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:18,440 He might. 422 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:19,440 I don't know. 423 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:20,440 He'll already be. 424 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,480 He had a wonderful time exploring the toolbox. 425 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,100 He didn't get poked too many times. 426 00:15:24,100 --> 00:15:29,040 He did have a few flies like the you know the stuff to his pants. 427 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:32,440 The hook the fly hook stuck to his his shorts. 428 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:35,760 But I mean he had a great time. 429 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,240 I got the toolbox back to where it needed to be. 430 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,160 And there were just a few. 431 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:43,680 All of this happened in oh two minutes. 432 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:45,840 Yeah maybe maybe two minutes. 433 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:50,040 I mean the whole process was about 10 minutes start to finish. 434 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,160 And then we were on to our next. 435 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,440 I think we were on to a block of cheese after that. 436 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,480 You know so that's how I find joy. 437 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:57,760 We move on quickly. 438 00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:58,760 Yes. 439 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:02,440 That's always one of the pluses is that things things are really intense. 440 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,080 Yeah for a short amount of time. 441 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:08,640 Yeah and then it's then you can breathe again. 442 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,080 Yeah. 443 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,560 What do you think Reese this a halo or a cutie. 444 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:13,560 You must be an angel. 445 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,480 He has to be a halo. 446 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:16,560 He's not a halo. 447 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,840 He may have angel men but he is a devil man. 448 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:21,560 Sometimes it's not. 449 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:25,520 Everly the other day she was like you know that yellow thing that angels have on their 450 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:28,960 heads is a plate. 451 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,000 And I was like wow I think it's just a halo. 452 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,760 She was like yeah but is it porcelain. 453 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:35,920 I'm like no honey. 454 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,920 It's never mind. 455 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,600 Just go watch Gravity Falls. 456 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:42,200 Maybe we're talking about it. 457 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:46,040 Oh I don't know. 458 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:50,560 Actually I was I was grappling between two topics but I think my topic is going to be 459 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:51,560 just kidding. 460 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:57,480 I was going to try and sing but it's a blind song but I can't summertime. 461 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,040 Oh and the living see you know. 462 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:01,040 Yeah. 463 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:06,140 Anyway so I and the reason I was thinking about it is because last night in my book 464 00:17:06,140 --> 00:17:11,480 club group you were asking no one's making fun of me. 465 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,680 No we're just that was low hanging fruit was it. 466 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:16,440 We're not happy with it by now. 467 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:17,440 Yeah we are. 468 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:23,840 Okay yeah so they were talking about where they're sending their kids and for the summer. 469 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:24,840 Oh okay. 470 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:25,840 It's like residential. 471 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:26,840 Boarding school. 472 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:27,840 No yeah boarding school. 473 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:32,200 Now where their kids are going to be spending all day for summer. 474 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,200 Exactly. 475 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:34,200 I'm kidding. 476 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,200 A lot of people were sending them to eat trout bait. 477 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,240 I've already done that. 478 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,240 Check double check. 479 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,520 I have to find another summer activity. 480 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:46,040 They're all they're all going to the boys and girls club. 481 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:53,560 And as you well know my children are you know not going to the boys and girls club. 482 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:58,280 And it made me realize that that's kind of sad that all of their friends are going and 483 00:17:58,280 --> 00:17:59,280 you know they're not. 484 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:04,960 I'm like well we're going to a summer play camp through Boise Parks and Rec. 485 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:06,480 And they were like oh that's going to be great. 486 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,120 They're going to have so much fun. 487 00:18:08,120 --> 00:18:14,520 And you know the impetus for that was because a lot of other places are you know I don't 488 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:17,000 need to tell you this but the park is outside. 489 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:18,000 Yeah yeah. 490 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:22,400 Instead of being inside and around electronics and all of that jazz. 491 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,160 So they're going to be playing outside in the summer. 492 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:28,320 But what are what are your guys's kids doing for the summer. 493 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:34,600 Like they're going to be at the Boise Boise Park all summer long. 494 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,680 And I'm like looking around like what are my kids doing this summer. 495 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:42,200 And I'm just Google searching and a lot of these camps they run from 9 to 11. 496 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:48,080 Or they run for one week or you know X Y and Z. Maybe they're cost prohibitive whatever 497 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:49,640 the case may be like. 498 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:54,080 What are children with developmental disabilities doing for the summer. 499 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,040 That is the golden question. 500 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,440 Like to thrive or YMCA. 501 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:02,560 Do they have a yeah I was looking and I'm not. 502 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:10,580 And you know is it TASEP the for children who are supported by youth with a serious 503 00:19:10,580 --> 00:19:11,580 emotional disturbance. 504 00:19:11,580 --> 00:19:12,580 Oh yeah. 505 00:19:12,580 --> 00:19:15,960 Through the yes program the summer camps couldn't find anything. 506 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,120 And I'm like really I'm having a hard time. 507 00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:24,200 It's hard because some of our kids require someone to go with them and that is hard to 508 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,320 find. 509 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:32,120 So they can do these camps through the adaptive parts and programs. 510 00:19:32,120 --> 00:19:36,720 And then those they require someone to be with them to assist them. 511 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:41,760 And they're only like Monday Wednesday Friday or they're only 9 to 1. 512 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,480 That's what I have found really hard. 513 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:47,420 And quite a few parents have called looking for summer opportunities. 514 00:19:47,420 --> 00:19:48,420 And you're right. 515 00:19:48,420 --> 00:19:50,740 They're either one week or they're just in the mornings. 516 00:19:50,740 --> 00:19:54,860 It's not it's not full time care for your child in the summer. 517 00:19:54,860 --> 00:19:57,480 And you have to get really creative as a parent. 518 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,800 And it's it's not scary. 519 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:00,800 It's not fun. 520 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:01,800 It's not fun. 521 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,080 I am so lucky that my husband works for a school district and his home all summer. 522 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:08,600 I don't know what we would do otherwise. 523 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,520 So so you have a spouse who's home during the summer. 524 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:18,000 And then Sarah for your son it's your community support worker right. 525 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,680 So we actually have to have two. 526 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,680 OK. 527 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,960 So that we can split the day because it's a long day. 528 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:31,280 Yeah he requires 100 percent assistance to do everything. 529 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,280 Yeah. 530 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:37,560 Feeding hygiene wheelchair all of the things. 531 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:42,200 And so it's a lot of it's an intense it's an intense job. 532 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:49,420 So we try to split the hours because it's a lot for one person to do for eight nine 533 00:20:49,420 --> 00:20:53,640 ten hours a day so that we can work. 534 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:58,080 We're single parents supporting ourselves and yeah. 535 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,740 But we don't have care for the first week. 536 00:21:00,740 --> 00:21:08,040 And he's that going to AAC camp which is three hours each day Monday through Friday that 537 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:09,040 first week. 538 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:14,320 But we still have to have someone on site available to help him if needs be. 539 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,960 So we're probably going to have to split. 540 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,440 I'll have to take two and a half days off and his dad will have to take two and a half 541 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:21,440 days off. 542 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:22,440 OK. 543 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,440 To share the to share the care. 544 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:26,440 Share the care. 545 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:27,440 I like that. 546 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:28,440 Yeah. 547 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:32,120 And yeah for twelve and a half weeks while we're at a school. 548 00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:34,120 We get real creative. 549 00:21:34,120 --> 00:21:38,560 Another thing that I had heard was people will go to the Facebook groups and they'll 550 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:42,720 look for like paraprofessionals or teachers who are out for the summer. 551 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:47,000 Because we got his other care health tech needed to work during the summer. 552 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,120 Why am I not finding these people. 553 00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:53,360 Are you like looking at a certain time where the SEOs are good and you can like really 554 00:21:53,360 --> 00:21:54,360 we are. 555 00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:56,560 I mean I'm asking his actual. 556 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:57,560 We are. 557 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:58,560 Oh cool. 558 00:21:58,560 --> 00:21:59,560 What. 559 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:00,560 Yeah. 560 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:01,560 What are some. 561 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:02,560 I'm a parent. 562 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:03,560 I've just called. 563 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,560 Tell you I'm in region four and I'm and I don't know what to do with my child for the summer. 564 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:12,800 I guess technically my children have autism diagnosis. 565 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,480 Oh so you know we could do a B.A. 566 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:17,480 Yeah that's common. 567 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,360 I mean and there's camps. 568 00:22:19,360 --> 00:22:21,200 Parents are piecing things together. 569 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,040 Is essentially how summer care happens. 570 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,040 The piecemeal. 571 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,040 It's all together. 572 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:26,040 Grandparents. 573 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,040 E.I. 574 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,040 Yeah. 575 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,040 H.I. 576 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:30,040 A.B.A. 577 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,040 Older siblings. 578 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:32,040 Yes. 579 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:33,040 Yeah. 580 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:34,040 Right. 581 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,040 Yeah. 582 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:36,460 It's hard. 583 00:22:36,460 --> 00:22:37,460 It's really hard. 584 00:22:37,460 --> 00:22:42,480 I think I can't wait for your kids to do this summer and summer experience at the park and 585 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,480 see how this works. 586 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,480 I did it. 587 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,800 And have when I did it when I. 588 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:47,800 In the 1930s. 589 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:52,640 I remember you get to go sunset. 590 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:53,640 At Sunset Park. 591 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:54,920 Did you have supper there. 592 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:55,920 Shut up. 593 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:56,920 A supper. 594 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:57,920 Yeah it's so fun. 595 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:58,920 We had water days. 596 00:22:58,920 --> 00:22:59,920 We did art. 597 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:00,920 Yes. 598 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:01,920 They still keep us. 599 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,120 We had a whistle and make our own clothes. 600 00:23:05,120 --> 00:23:06,120 You learned how to. 601 00:23:06,120 --> 00:23:07,120 Oh. 602 00:23:07,120 --> 00:23:08,120 You had me. 603 00:23:08,120 --> 00:23:09,120 A whistle. 604 00:23:09,120 --> 00:23:11,120 And I'm like wait with a pocket knife. 605 00:23:11,120 --> 00:23:12,680 Because she needs to know that. 606 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,400 Listen if knives are going to be around. 607 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:16,880 Those kids are going to be happy. 608 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:17,880 You died of dysentery. 609 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,840 No but for real that was really fun. 610 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,840 Abraham Lincoln was there. 611 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,200 Smurf of Gats. 612 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,160 Four scores. 613 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:27,960 Did you know Sarah helped write that. 614 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:28,960 Did not. 615 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:29,960 For our audience. 616 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:34,000 We have only 40. 617 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,920 She's literally the youngest one in the room. 618 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:37,520 She is not. 619 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,520 Stop. 620 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,880 I am getting cold. 621 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,800 Oh I know I have gray hair. 622 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:43,800 I get it. 623 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:44,800 No it's me. 624 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:45,800 It's a personal problem. 625 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,520 I have been having a really hard time with age the past couple of days. 626 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:50,520 Why? 627 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,600 I don't know. 628 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,640 I have literally never cared. 629 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:56,000 I have never been vain. 630 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,600 I have never been like. 631 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:03,240 I've never been like oh crow's feet or the line that's permanently on my forehead now 632 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,520 or the gray hairs that I get. 633 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:06,520 All of these. 634 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:07,520 Oh. 635 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,280 But you don't see my hair. 636 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,800 And then I woke up and I was like oh my hip popped. 637 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:13,800 And then my tooth. 638 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:14,800 That's where it all starts. 639 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,320 This is my third tooth infection. 640 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,360 And I'm like I agree. 641 00:24:18,360 --> 00:24:22,600 And by the way I want you guys to know I brush at least twice a day. 642 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:23,600 And I floss. 643 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,480 So sometimes you just get these little cracks at the bottom of number 19. 644 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:32,000 You know a lot of bacteria builds up and you just have to get the tooth pulled. 645 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,600 I'm really. 646 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,640 Use your hand if you're done with my tooth. 647 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,960 I'm so hot on your tooth. 648 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:39,960 We are all done. 649 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:40,960 I'm done talking about you. 650 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:41,960 I'm not going to let you put it. 651 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,520 But you're done hearing about it. 652 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:44,520 I am so. 653 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:45,520 And you know what? 654 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:51,920 You know what is so funny to me personally is that the first time we recorded this BYOT 655 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:53,680 my topic was the dentist. 656 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:54,680 That's right. 657 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:55,680 Because it had just happened. 658 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:57,880 And this is like what the third or the fourth episode. 659 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:02,280 And I'm still stinking talking about the dentist because I am still going. 660 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:07,760 OK so next time when you tell me do not whatever you do talk about Willy Wonka I'm going to 661 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:11,880 be like do not whatever you do talk about the dentist. 662 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:12,880 You're done. 663 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:13,880 I can't help it. 664 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:14,880 I'm running out of ideas. 665 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:15,880 All right. 666 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:16,880 All right. 667 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:17,880 Huh. 668 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:18,880 No no other ideas for the summer. 669 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:19,880 That was it. 670 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:20,880 OK. 671 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,320 But wait if my kids were a little bit older. 672 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,320 Mm hmm. 673 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:27,640 Would VR could help them with job over the summer right. 674 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,000 Some summer work progress. 675 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,000 There are some right. 676 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,280 Like what if my kids were older. 677 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,600 What else would you say. 678 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,880 Well I would say I would say start earlier because school is out like in two days. 679 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:38,880 I know. 680 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:39,880 OK. 681 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:40,880 So good. 682 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:45,440 But but for real this has been a topic in the Facebook groups that I'm seeing so much 683 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:46,440 lately. 684 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:47,440 Yeah. 685 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,440 Oh honey. 686 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,440 This is. 687 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:50,440 Yeah. 688 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,440 It's too late right. 689 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:52,440 It's too late. 690 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:53,440 It's too late. 691 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:54,440 Stuff is full. 692 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:55,440 If stuff exists it feels up. 693 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:59,000 Can I can I just touch a little bit on what you just said. 694 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:00,000 Sure. 695 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,480 So I was at the parks and rec the summer play camp. 696 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,480 It opened what 7 a.m. 697 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:05,480 Yeah. 698 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,040 On a random day by 9 o'clock. 699 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,040 It's full. 700 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,040 They were full. 701 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:11,040 Yeah. 702 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,680 I went back in and I was like I just wow out of curiosity. 703 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:19,040 I wanted to see how many spots were left at the park that my kids are going to. 704 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:20,120 None. 705 00:26:20,120 --> 00:26:21,120 Not a spot. 706 00:26:21,120 --> 00:26:22,600 And it said sign up for the waitlist. 707 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,080 And I was like can you imagine if you were ill. 708 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,080 Yeah. 709 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,080 Yeah. 710 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,080 Or you had overslept that day. 711 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,000 This is what you were really banking on for the summer. 712 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,640 And now what do you do. 713 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:33,640 I don't know. 714 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,560 I got some gymnastics places that yeah I'm like summer programs. 715 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:37,640 Yeah like broccoli. 716 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:38,640 If you're in Boise. 717 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:39,640 Yeah. 718 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:40,640 We had those when I worked there. 719 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:46,280 We had the day camps that that were there the after school programs just for kids does 720 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:47,280 it. 721 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,280 Yeah that's a good one. 722 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:49,280 The Boise. 723 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,880 So the Boise schools programs that have the just for kids. 724 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,040 Do you have to be a Boise school person to go to just for kids. 725 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,040 I don't know. 726 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,040 That's a good question. 727 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,640 I don't I don't we'll have to get back on that one. 728 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,880 But like the YMCA has their summer camp program. 729 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:03,880 That's right. 730 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:04,880 That's right. 731 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:09,920 The community programs where you live they have those options available. 732 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:16,400 So and churches and you know summer Bible camp. 733 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:20,280 Those are just things that I can think of that I've seen signs for. 734 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,720 That's more than I had. 735 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:26,400 But yeah I mean it's just really selective and fills up quick. 736 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:31,680 I don't know if it's a town or a place where we've got like summer wilderness like camp 737 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:37,600 like in you know like Minnesota has like send your kids off to to camp really for a week. 738 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:38,600 You want to go to Moss. 739 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:39,600 Yeah. 740 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,400 I mean those I mean YMCA does have camps. 741 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:46,640 And I think prior to covid the watershed. 742 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,320 Didn't they have some. 743 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,160 But it was one of those like preschool and or money. 744 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:54,000 I mean if you're from the watershed please correct me if I'm wrong because I would love 745 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,000 to know. 746 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,040 But it was like a few days a week and then like a little bit of time. 747 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:00,360 And I don't know. 748 00:28:00,360 --> 00:28:05,520 I just feel really crouchy about summer offerings for children with disabilities. 749 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,640 I will tell you summer I get stressed out. 750 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,960 Yeah really stressed out. 751 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:16,360 And there's a lot of added anxiety when May comes around. 752 00:28:16,360 --> 00:28:20,440 And I realize this is my topic like three days before Memorial Day. 753 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:21,620 So it's way too late. 754 00:28:21,620 --> 00:28:26,000 But it's been really heavy on my noggin. 755 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,080 As a little Bailey Sarian reference. 756 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,360 It's been it's been bothering me for a long time. 757 00:28:30,360 --> 00:28:36,080 I'm like I know when when families call and want and ask that question it pains me to 758 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:41,440 tell them that A it's too late probably or B there just isn't anything that even exists 759 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:45,840 for our kids because there's truly not a lot of options. 760 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,640 And we got to braid it and piece it. 761 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:49,960 And yeah. 762 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,600 I refuse to end on such a depressing note. 763 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,000 So someone do something funny. 764 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,040 Do the funny thing. 765 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,000 I mean oh my gosh she's like. 766 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,600 My ducks also make me happy. 767 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,440 They bring me unexpected. 768 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:06,440 These were my thing. 769 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,440 Why am I not on that list? 770 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:08,440 I don't know. 771 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,440 I'm not on that list of things. 772 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:10,440 Your work gesture. 773 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,160 Your little friend my cousin and does the dance. 774 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,160 I'm not. 775 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:15,160 Do the dance. 776 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:16,520 Yeah well and you're wanting us to do the funny thing. 777 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,680 So you do the dance. 778 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,480 And this is overall the skippity toilet. 779 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:25,800 You guys if if only we had the YouTube now. 780 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,840 All right I'll hold on to it for December. 781 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:34,680 There we go. 782 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:39,480 Thank you so much everyone out there for listening in and know that if you are in Idaho or planning 783 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:45,680 on moving to Idaho and have any questions on systems or services for children with disabilities 784 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:53,560 please consider reaching out to us on our website at ipulidaho.org that's I P U L Idaho 785 00:29:53,560 --> 00:30:00,880 dot org or by calling us at 208-342-5884. 786 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:05,280 Be sure to tune in next time until then this has been Unlimited Parenting. 787 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,280 Thanks for listening. 788 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:16,960 Otherwise Khan is baking the day!