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Welcome to fit to be real and a little extra. We are life hacking today hacking up life. Oh

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Yes

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In so many ways we have tips and DIY tips and tricks and Carly has some real actual life

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Hacks because you know I love

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The life hack that she's really good at it. You've all learned. She's really good at it

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I'm good at hacking up a good life. Oh my gosh. Let's get started

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I'm Victoria. Hey guys, I'm Carly. Do you have a hack for that? No because I yes the hack is I'm gonna do me

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Every day, that's the life hack. That sounds like work. Hey guys. Oh

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I don't think there's the tip to get it. There's no loophole. Hey guys. I'm Carmela Kateris

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Mayo Dykeman. What is your confirmation name? Angelica because I'm an angel and she's just like the girl from Rugrats

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What's your confirmation name Adelina?

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Why she's the patron saint of princesses. Yeah, and mine's the patron saint of angels our mom

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Nurtured us as a princess and an angel from birth. So we grew up thinking that we were but she didn't know who her children were

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Because Carly's the princess and Victoria's the angel. I'm an alien. Let's be honest

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Let's be honest

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So if you don't know what we're talking about confirmation names is a Catholic school thing and you pick a patron saint and you put the name

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Into your Catholic name. It's a thing. So you get to basically pick

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Your adventure of what saint you you really like. Anyway, let's move on. Let's hack up some life

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You want to wake up earlier without being tired. Yeah, how do you do that?

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So I actually did do this a long time ago

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Hence why I wake up at 4 45 sometimes 5 a.m

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The trick to not being tired when you do that is to set your alarm for say you wake up at 8 o'clock

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Every morning set your alarm for 8 the next day set your alarm for 759 the next day set your alarm for 758

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The next you know what I mean and go back and back and back till you're waking up at 7

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But your body has already adjusted to it. Interesting instead of just going from 8 to 7

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Right away cold turkey cold turkey your body is not gonna be adjusted

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But if you adjust it a minute at a time, you will wake up feeling refreshed and you your body won't even know

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That's amazing

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Here's one if you want to fix your posture, which as I'm sitting here right now in front of this microphone

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I am hunched over we are both kawazimoto if you want to do that

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But it is very hard because you're not aware of it all the time

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All of a sudden you're sitting low and you're like, oh my gosh. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah

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You need to create a habit of doing that. So let's say you touch a doorknob handle

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How how often do you do that a day?

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Many times right when you go out when you go in yeah every time you touch a doorknob handle

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You stand up and you say or you you know fix your shoulders and you say posture every single time

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So if you do that eight times nine times a day going in and out of different doors when you go to the bathroom when you go in your room

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Eventually your mind won't be telling you to say posture your body will just stand up straight like anything else

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Yeah consistency over time creating a habit, but you have to I mean anything takes time change takes time

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You have to physically say to yourself every time you open a door posture

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You'll stand up straight until it becomes part of your body. That's psychological and physiological like together messing with yourself

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Yeah, I like that. I'm actually yeah, I need to do that. I know me too. Which is sad

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All right, so mine are a little less like oh my gosh get through life and be a wonderful person

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I'm like you need to do this to like save time and money

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So this seems simple. So you tape a dryer sheet over a window AC unit like where the air blows out

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Yes, so then whatever dryer sheet sent you have that's like what fills the room up better

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Why didn't we know this in New York? It's this stuff right right? Yeah, that's small four by four room

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It's this stuff that like I love these Instagram accounts. Me too. They like really map it out for you

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It's they're so interesting. I'm really good at saving those and then never doing them

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Why you would think you're going to yeah, you're like this is great idea. I'm gonna do it next time and then I

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Forget I forget

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Waterproofing your shoes you can go to any

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Store and you get like a it looks like soap, but it's beeswax and you just rub them on your sneakers

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You what and it's clear. It's like you don't see it

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But now you have waterproof

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Shoes oh my any type of like shoe

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I am actually gonna do that to all my sneakers because when I run one of my biggest pet peeves is wet socks

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So this one's for your kitchen you put a newspaper or like a few newspapers

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Because you know we all get the newspaper these days, right?

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You put it in at the bottom of your trash bag

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So if your trash bag rips or you you know have juice and oh my god

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Seven there like no matter what when you get the trash bag out of your trash can you will not make a trail throughout your house to get

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Outside oh my gosh, yeah, that is my trash can every single day because of what why apple sauce

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Oh food, you know like the stuff. Yeah, yeah, the stuff stuff

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So if you travel a lot or just travel at all bring a bar of soap like a maybe a you know the love

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Well, no, well, yeah, you could but you know like the really fancy scented ones that we don't really use

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But they are homemade and they're pretty bring something like that and put it in the bag that you designate for your dirty clothes

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Oh my gosh, because you don't tend to do laundry when you're like in a hotel room

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So no, but I have like a wet bag. Yeah. Yeah, you put it in the wet bag

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Stop so then that bag stays, you know smelling a little bit better than your workout clothes that you're putting in there

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Cuz we all know Carly's going on runs on her vacation. You know I am I have so many dirty clothes

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Yeah with the wet socks with the wet socks in the bottom of the wet jeans. That's it

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That's another one. We got to talk about who wears long jeans layers are coming back. Oh my god

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That is such a good one. I am definitely gonna do that. They're easy to

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Do here's a life hack for establishing fitness

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If you know us you probably come to our classes

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But if you don't and you don't know us at all and you don't work out at all

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Here's an easy way to establish fitness

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So every single day for one minute do as many push-ups as you can

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What is many as you can for one minute and then do a one-minute plank

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You may only get 20 seconds in to the plank, but eventually over time

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It will yeah, it will grow so then

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Second week you're doing two minutes of push-ups and you're doing two minutes of plank and you're not gonna make it through

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Of course, you're gonna stop whatever right, but you that's the goal. That is the goal

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Okay, so start small with everything you start small until then you're on your feet

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You might be at five minutes, you know with little breaks here and there with push-ups

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You'll be like oh now now I feel confident enough to like go to a class

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Yeah, because everybody's got to start somewhere and you have to start to start with that one minute of push-ups

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One minute of planks and just keep adding on until you're getting there. You're gonna sweat. Trust me

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Yeah, you make it to the timer and then you're you're good. You've done two minutes

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Maybe the next week you do four to five. Yeah, I say I like that small habits create big change

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Oh my gosh, you're so good at that turn your junk into travel

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What I know

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So everybody has as I'm looking around Victoria's condo everybody has stuff everywhere

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Sorry, but think about all the stuff in your house put the put the stuff you don't use in a box

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In a big old box for one month if you don't touch it

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Sell it. I don't have a box big enough for you. Oh my god. You don't want to know

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I have a garage full of stuff. I don't need but sell it take the money that you put it on eBay

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Yes, eBay still a thing. Yeah young people put it on Facebook marketplace

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Sell it if it's in decent condition, but you just don't use it. Don't keep it. Yeah clothes sell it

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There's Poshmark sell the good stuff, you know

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Keep that money put it in a in a little jar and use it to travel. Oh, I get it

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So take your junk that you don't use and turn it into travel money put that junk in you travel trunk

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God I got so much junk in the trunk. I can make some bank I

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Have a life hack for your condiments at a barbecue. All right the real important stuff here

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This seems this is like some of these are so dumb, but they're so good a

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Muffin or a cupcake pan that you bake them in

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Condiments onions ketchup. Oh my god mustard like what you would put on your burgers and your hot dogs

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Now you don't have a million dishes to wash you have a little one spoon with a little each of them done

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Barbecue hack done done. Yeah

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Should we say it again?

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Barbecue hack done. Yeah, you just wanted to say done. Yeah, okay

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All right, so this kind of goes with the barbecue if you're like camping or if you do backyard fires fire pits or whatever

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But you don't have that starter log or something like there's you need like yeah start the fire to start the fire. Yeah

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number one get yourself an Andrew and

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Like the bag or actual Doritos actual Doritos, which is number one frightening because we eat those

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I don't eat those but like you eat those my kids Doritos. Yeah, so it's kind of like a can of coke

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It's just indestructible. You can use it for money. Thanks Doritos are really good fire log starters. Oh my gosh

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This is not from experience. This is just what I'm reading. Yeah, it's not funny. Yeah, I mean I always have those on hand

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I don't always have a fire starter log. I do always have Andrew on hand, but

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Doritos definitely gonna be my backup

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All right, then this one you're really gonna like not that Carly makes her own coffee and or makes her own

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Iced coffee at home, but if you are privy to know how to make your own coffee

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You pour it in room temperature

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So it's not steaming piping hot in an ice cube tray and then you freeze the coffee in individual ice cubes

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So when you're making your actual iced coffee

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You're not using regular water cubes. You're using coffee cubes. So it doesn't water the right. Oh my god

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Yeah, which I guess you could do for like the cream or the milk too. That is awesome

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Yeah, so that when the ice melts, it's just melting coffee. Yeah, it does it. Yes, I like how you said it

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Well, you know, I need to realize your process and your process. Yeah, and coffee is very serious to me

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It sure is so yeah, that's a I gotta write that one down

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You got to learn how to make the coffee first though. No, I will never do that like it's just something

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I'm never gonna do such a princess. They can't

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Okay, so people think that you read

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To be smarter, right? Tell us more

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No, but you know when you're a kid and then you're reading and people are like, oh, he's so

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Reading all these words. It's actually not about the words and this is the same for adults too

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And I'm sure a lot of people are gonna come at me for that

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But what I'm seeing is there are reasons why you read and how to do it

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So the reason reading makes you smarter is because it can put you in the mindset of wherever the book is

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so if you're reading about a king or a ruler or it

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Reading actually puts you in that mindset and opens up your perspective of being that person and opens you up to like

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Reality other realities and other worlds and you become more worldly when you read. Yes, it's about the words and your imagination

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Exactly. So that is actually the most important part of reading how to do it because you know all I have a problem with reading

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Not reading but making time for it, right? Well, yes

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I don't have the time for it and everybody's all on these book clubs and they're like, oh, I read seven books this week

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I'm like, oh really? I haven't read a book in seven years

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Read two minutes a day. Yes, if you can read two minutes a day that will turn into four minutes a day

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Or just two minutes a day. Yeah, and just that two minutes will activate your mind put you in another perspective

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Doesn't even matter what you're reading. It could be a biography

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You know, but it puts you in the place of somebody else and makes you open your mind

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And I would venture to say a two-minute cap

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Would go a little bit longer because you might just want to finish the chapter, right?

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And you might just want to finish that next page or paragraph

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I really like that except that's gonna cut into your Bravo time

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Yeah, so you're gonna have to prioritize and I highly recommend not

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Perspectiving into the Bravo minds. Well, I can't start this two-minute read until Vanderpump reunion is over

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So well, we'll talk about that. I like get it though. I get it. Oh my god. I get it. I actually get it. Unfortunately. I get it so hard

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Well with that book that you're reading if you're anything like me you don't like to

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Or not share. I'm sorry. Not share lend. Yes. Oh, yeah, we're not good lenders

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I don't like to lend things because no one is like me and I would give it back the moment

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I'm ready to give back. I also don't like especially if it's a book

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I don't like being given a book because I want to number one make notes in it myself

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But I don't want the responsibility of having given to give it back to you

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So this is basically just like an accountability life hack

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But you take a picture of what you're lending and it could be clothes

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It could be anything doesn't have to be a book to your friend or family member that you are lending said thing to uh-huh as

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A reminder that hey, where can I find this? Oh, I lent it to this person. Oh, what's the time date on the picture?

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I gave it to him in this month. Oh my gosh because no one remembers

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Yeah, no one remembers because it takes you forever depending on if you're like using you know

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Carly doesn't return anything. This is about Carly. She doesn't return anything if you bring Tupperware or Pyrex over to our house

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You've now lost it forever. You just have to be okay with that. That's different. I mean, yeah

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That's where Tupperware goes to die. Carly your house my house

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Okay, well, I'm gonna take a picture of it with you holding it every time and we'll see what happens

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That's a really good idea

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if you have your ears pierced or maybe just like little pieces of jewelry or tiny tiny

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Things that you need to find and it's lost in the carpet or the shag carpet because Carly's bringing her long jeans back with the

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Bell bottoms and the shag carpeting not single-handedly. It is a trend you put a stocking or

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Maybe a latex glove something around your vacuum hose and then it doesn't get sucked into the vacuum

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It just like the air pressure pulls it to the end of the vacuum and now you found your back

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Wait a second. I have a shy carpet in my closet. I

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Am doing this because I can never get it up. Oh, yeah

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Like you if you look if you put a back of your earring in or you lose the earring. Yes. Yeah, it seems easy done

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You know how you never want to take two trips from the car to the house from your grocery like bags

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Always it's you you make purple fingers out of holding everything. So if you get yourself a large

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Carabiner, you know what that is. Yes explain if you don't know what that is

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It's basically like a it's a hook. It's a hook. It's a it's a keychain type of thing

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But it can hold up to 50 pounds. It can hold up to a hundred pounds. It's in a lot of

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Tech like I'm thinking of all of the roadies for the shows and they all have I'm like hanging off their pants

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And a lot of people use them for your keys and stuff like that

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So if you get yourself a carabiner

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Then you can slide every single grocery bag loop onto it and then you just have to hold the carabiner and then you're got one trip

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Yes, it's probably be heavy. Yeah, you were doing that anyway anyway

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Sticky fingers is what I dubbed this sticky fingers sticky fingers

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Carly's middle child Lewis has a puppy dog stuffed animal and we asked him what he named it and he said sticky fingers

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And we said why and he said because my fingers are sticky right now and he hates that

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Don't like giving my nieces and nephews popsicles because I don't like sticky fingers and I don't like

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Dealing with yeah that and they don't like it either. Yeah, you put a cupcake liner underneath it wait

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I saw this tell them like you put oh good. You put a cupcake

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Underneath it you you you know break the center of the cupcake liner with the popsicle stick

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And then it catches all the juice and the gross, you know ice cream sandwiches. Yeah, that's up to or whatever

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I anything on a stick. Yeah, basically. I like that. We're gonna give it to Carmella, too

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She needs that just for like a hot dog. Yeah that hot dog on a stick

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Okay back to me she's hacking up life right now

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One tip at a time. All right. Oh, oh, no, no, okay

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I meant like one

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Okay, all right next one

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If you have a big decision to make you should ask yourselves two questions

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One can I sleep at night? So if this important decision that I have to make will it allow me to sleep and number two

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What would it look like on the headline of a paper and what a newspaper is?

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Is that thing that Victoria already talked about that you put in the bottom of the trash can?

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That it comes on your doorstep. So back in the day that was like the thing to read

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So if you want to update you could say what it would it be on tiktok or Twitter or Instagram the headlines

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You know what a headline is the headline is with those big important decisions one

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Can I sleep at night? How will it affect me and two?

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What how will it affect other people and when they see my big decision or hear about my big decision?

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What would they think so those are the kind of two questions?

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You should ask if you're in the middle of a big decision-making era and really what other people think

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It's more of like how you come across perceived not caring what other no no no no no not a caring not a caring not a caring

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About what other people think about your decision. Just how it would come across to the world in a headline

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Yeah, are you proud of it? Are you not proud of it famous wanted out there or infamous? Oh?

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Okay, this one's just as good as that because it's about to go food and

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Delivery that is just good

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So this one specifically about pizza

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But I'm gonna make it to anything that you pick up from the restaurant

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So if you it's something that has to be hot by the time you get home

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That's hot. That's hot put your seat warmer on

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How stupid is that that is so good? Yeah, just put your seat warmer on and then it keeps the pizza box like warm

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We're like the bag of Chinese food and that yeah, yep. How it's not funny. That is amazing

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How many times do you travel and you forget a part of your charger? So like whatever the box head is called every time

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The thing you put in the outlet cube. Yes, you can now it but you have the cord

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Every TV in a hotel room has a USB

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You probably have to you know get your head to look behind because it's probably a flat screen

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So every HD it's all by the HDMI ports that you hook up to your TV. There's a USB. Oh

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Yeah, I checked all of my TVs. They all have a US. Oh my gosh. That's awesome

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I do this next one when I blow out candles because I'm always having candles lit, but I'm also always running out the door

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She lit and then she quit

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But I do and I know you've done this and I know everybody listening that was really good

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Can we just did you not hear my?

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Just want to recognize go ahead. Sorry. Yeah. Yeah. I know you've all done this

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Where you think you turn the stove off or you think you blew the candle out or you turned your hair straightener or iron off

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But like you're not a hundred percent sure yeah, and nine times out of ten

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You've done it like you did the smart thing, but it was such a whirlwind that you're not sure they say to do something unusual

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When you do it so that you'll remember and you attach them

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I say I'm blowing out the candle stop it and I blow the candle out and it's absurd that I'm talking to myself and telling myself

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But I remember later did I blow that oh yeah, I did because I did that weird thing because I said that weird thing

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On the lines of the candle, you know how it burns. Are you a candle? You're a candle burn

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I love candles

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You know how it burns like to the end and you have to kind of tip it over and you try to not burn your finger

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But then now you have all the black soot on your hand. Are you ready for this so ready like a piece of spaghetti

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Yeah, light it on fire now. You've got a long stick

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It reaches the bottom to the wick and you're in the clear

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Oh my gosh who knew that they lit on fire, but they do and guess what then you put that in your body too all these flammable

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Objects we're putting in our bodies. Oh, I know right well then you can just like chomp on the spaghetti if you want

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Listen Italians live forever eat the spaghetti. This is true

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Fill a water bottle up halfway and then lay the water bottle sideways in the freezer

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So now like the you know it looks like a boat on the side

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So it's a hundred percent frozen and when you take it out half of it is free half of it's frozen ice and fill up the

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Water so now you will have you know cold water until that entire block of ice

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Oh my gosh, you know how all the time especially with a plastic water bottle

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You're always trying to fit the ice in the top of it and you can't fit it hundred percent and fit

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Yeah, I just it there's I keep saying it, but they're like stupid. I know they're stupid easy

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Easy is what I mean that you would think you'd think of it on your own

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I know you don't know the best way to protect your mental health

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I have a lot coming to my mind. What's yours? Well, so what I read like an easy

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Yeah, easy way

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This isn't we're not gonna go into depth here cuz we've done that in many podcasts already

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But if we're just going for like a simple life hack

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Yeah, the easiest way is to recognize when you're really in a high point in your life

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recognize it happy happy high. Yeah, happy high and

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Know in the back of your mind

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It's sort of like you're gonna call me a Debbie Downer

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But know that it's not always gonna stay up there. It's temporary. Yeah, it's temporary

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So that when you do go into that low point of your life, maybe you're you know

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Feeling alone or a little it depressed know that it's not always gonna stay there because you were at that high and

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You know, it's going you're gonna come out of it

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So if you can just recognize when you're in the high that you're gonna go low and when you're in the low part that it's going

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To go back to high. Yeah, it just makes it a little easier life

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Just me becomes a little easier that it's not permanent. Nothing is permanent. Yeah, yes

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and so if you can just think about that and

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You know, it's a little little life hack. Just know it's it's all gonna be okay

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That goes alongside of putting Carly in a big box to sell at the end of the month

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We're not gonna get that much money to travel

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I don't know how much we're gonna make on that. It's all temporary Carly. It's all temporary

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All right, my last one is just as profound

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It's about saving money. Oh, tell us in a very very small way very small way

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But inflation right now every small cent matters. So insane Costco BJ's wholesale. They're all in bulk, right?

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Right in the long run

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It's essentially cheaper to do that even though you're getting a lot of a product and it might be more expensive like in one shot

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Do that

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Especially with dish soap and then pour them in ice cube trays again. What I love a nice open the pod up

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No, a dish soap like oh dish liquid liquid liquid. Okay. Yes. I'm sorry dish with liquid in like the big

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, right? Mm-hmm pour it into your ice cube trays and then freeze them

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And that's a pod and now you can pop it out of the ice cube tray and put it in your dishwasher

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Oh, I think that's the best one that you've told me today. Is that not wild? Yes

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That's the best one you've told me today. So now you're yeah, just like in bulk

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I don't think you can do it with like laundry detergent. Yeah, you probably couldn't freeze on well that would get all over everything

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So like it's a dishwasher only thing

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But buying in bulk has its perks and that is a huge one because the little pods get really expensive

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Oh, my gosh, they're so expensive

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You don't get a lot of them and really you're just paying for the cute container

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I'll buy the ugly jug hundred percent. Yeah, try it

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All right. Are you ready to get a little deep? Yeah, let's dive. Oh my god

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And I said deep because I didn't want you to say deep dive

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All right, so as I was reading up on these life hacks I started researching and now it's new to everybody new to me

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There's many podcasts about life hacks

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But this one that I found that I really liked was interviewing this man called Frank fume

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And I will tell Victoria to put it in the show notes. Just told you did you just tell me? Yeah, I just told you right now

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Cool in front of everybody. Thank you accountability

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He wrote a book called running with your head down. He

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Talks about two life hacks when I was listening to the podcast it really hit me about owning a business and

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About kids because he talked about is there little businesses

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Hopefully one day these kids make me money

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He had some really good insight on if you own a business and I know Victoria's gonna feel the same way you own a business or you

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Just you work all the time you lose yourself. There's no

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Differentiation between yeah your business and you you become the identity of the business and the identity of business is you

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Yeah, there's no in between same thing with your kids when you have kids and you are in it

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You lose your identity you lose who you are. There is no split. You are them. They are you

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That's really hard. It's that's an ideal

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That's not wanted

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I was like it is no, it's not ideal, but it happens. Yeah happens and this guy

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Is a huge entrepreneur and he was a CEO and he said I you know, I would come home from work

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Maybe would spend an hour with my kids and I go right back on the computer and I'd work for the rest of the night

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Which I know that's what Victoria and I do every single day

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And that happens even if you don't own a business with your kids

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They come home from school. Maybe you volunteer all day at school. They come home from school

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You're with them all day like you lose yourself. You have no

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Identity left you're too tired to do this stuff for you at the end of the day

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So he came up with two hacks and this is why I said it's really deep because you really have to

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Think about this and even see if you're able to do it and his first hack is hire your weakness

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Oh hire out like we're not good employee

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In higher high boy. Gotcha hire your weakness. Yeah, if you are not good, like, what are we not good?

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We need so many employees

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Oh, that's too much but pick one pick one. Okay, and hire that weakness and hire not like maybe might not even be

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You know monetarily, right especially as a parent, you know, just what you're not good at let somebody else do it

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Yeah, because you don't have to do everything and that alleviates some time

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It alleviates some stress and I think that we could benefit with that, you know hiring a weakness in the company

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As well as the kids. I'm not great at

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School projects that stresses me out. Okay, so I'm hiring my weakness

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That's because you keep them in the school bag until the night before and then you need to do it last nobody needs to know the why

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Just know

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I'm not good at that. Well then hire me. I'm good at that. I'm done. You're hired

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Melody has a project you next week. You're hired. Oh, okay on insects. I'm out

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Second on insects. I know no

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insects

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It's like what are they teaching her in second grade

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I'll do insects for 500. Thank you diorama next week

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The second hack is to find a peer group who understands you in business

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Find a peer group that maybe feels the same way you do like or also find a peer group that you enjoy going to you know

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For us, it would be going to fitness classes, right?

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That's what we like to do, but we don't get to do it

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Right, so we need to go do that find people that are like-minded people that do what we do if you are a parent

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Find a mom group find a dad group go to the park, you know or what I found was take your kids out of school

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For a day. That's what our mom used to do all the time to like rejuvenate her mind

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Rejuvenate us from the daily grind. She would be like we're staying home from school today and we're going to the zoo

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We're staying home from school today, and you're we're gonna go to New York for the day

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I love that. Yeah, and I wish I did it more with my kids. She'd wake me up and go you don't feel well

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Really, I don't now you gotta stay from school. Oh, okay

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So find like-minded people and

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Just enjoy try to find the enjoyment of why you do the things you do whether it's work whether it's parenting and hire your weakness

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It's okay to have a weakness find somebody that it is their strength

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All right, we're gonna play a little game and

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Carly for once has absolutely no idea actually. This is how we started with Carly not knowing what's going on

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I know and then I took control I took over and then you know

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I'm a hoverist mother or the norm happened, but we're coming back

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So Carly's in the dark here Carly on the spot

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But also with a twist so it's called what kind of Girl Scout are you? Oh my gosh

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So I figured life hacks Girl Scouts learn a lot of tips and tricks, right?

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So what kind of Girl Scout are you? We have to set the scene you're kind of on a desert island, but you're glamping I

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Want to be a part of this troop. I had to make it a little realistic for her to to dive into the actual

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Well, choices here.

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So you're glamping.

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Let me get my head right.

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Hold on. OK. All right.

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I'm on a desert island.

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You're on a desert island and I'm glamping with some internet.

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No. Whoa, whoa, whoa.

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Don't you don't get to make you have to make things up here.

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You have to pick one. OK.

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An absolute. An absolute.

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You like absolutes. I love them.

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You hate them on this desert island.

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You have internet access,

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but you can only look on Wikipedia or unlimited music access.

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Unlimited music access.

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Because I'll make up dances all day long.

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That's just true. That was stupid. OK.

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I didn't say I was good at this.

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All right. So for one little moment, you have a group of helpers.

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You can only get one.

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You've been on this desert island for 30 days plus.

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60 days plus. OK.

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Oh, to keep upping.

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90 days plus. OK.

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90 day fiance. Hair done or eyebrows done.

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Well, Ombré's coming back in.

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Eyebrows done.

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You forgot your phone charger forever and ever.

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Amen. Whoa. Never going to get it.

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Never going to get it. Never going to get it.

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Or your computer charger.

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Well, my phone is my computer, so phone charger.

413
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But there's a lot of things you can't do on your phone

414
00:31:49,980 --> 00:31:51,260
that you can do on your computer.

415
00:31:51,260 --> 00:31:54,380
I have to work on my computer, so I'm happy never to do that again.

416
00:31:54,620 --> 00:31:56,420
That was stupid.

417
00:31:57,900 --> 00:32:02,660
You have access to a tent or a shower.

418
00:32:03,660 --> 00:32:06,380
Oh, that's not an either or.

419
00:32:06,820 --> 00:32:09,620
Yeah, a tent or a shower.

420
00:32:10,020 --> 00:32:13,540
So I'm either sleeping in the open or I'm showering.

421
00:32:14,340 --> 00:32:17,020
One million percent showering.

422
00:32:17,020 --> 00:32:20,860
And in my tent. No.

423
00:32:20,940 --> 00:32:23,100
You forgot a few items.

424
00:32:23,100 --> 00:32:26,260
Did you remember your makeup bag or your toothbrush?

425
00:32:26,260 --> 00:32:28,540
Oh, well, who am I with?

426
00:32:28,940 --> 00:32:30,860
Every now and then there's a celebrity that comes on.

427
00:32:31,340 --> 00:32:37,500
What? I can probably make some makeup out of sand and clam shells and like.

428
00:32:38,420 --> 00:32:40,740
Like an exfoliator and stuff like that.

429
00:32:40,740 --> 00:32:43,340
I'm going with toothbrush.

430
00:32:43,340 --> 00:32:46,660
You only have one thing for your survival.

431
00:32:46,660 --> 00:32:49,380
Whether it's mental or physical for this one, I'm not sure.

432
00:32:49,620 --> 00:32:52,980
Coffee or water can't drink the ocean.

433
00:32:52,980 --> 00:32:55,940
But how do you make how do you make coffee without water?

434
00:32:55,940 --> 00:32:56,740
There's no questions.

435
00:32:56,740 --> 00:33:01,860
It's just this is just coffee or water, which you drink both of a lot.

436
00:33:01,860 --> 00:33:03,940
I if I had unlimited coffee,

437
00:33:03,940 --> 00:33:07,540
I could figure out how to split the coffee into water and I could have both

438
00:33:07,700 --> 00:33:09,820
because I'm not scientifically amazing.

439
00:33:09,820 --> 00:33:11,500
Oh, caffeine just does that for you.

440
00:33:11,500 --> 00:33:12,820
Yeah. When's that going to kick in?

441
00:33:12,820 --> 00:33:14,460
Caffeine makes me happy.

442
00:33:15,220 --> 00:33:16,060
Not smart.

443
00:33:16,060 --> 00:33:17,100
Happy and smarter.

444
00:33:17,100 --> 00:33:18,660
Two different things.

445
00:33:18,660 --> 00:33:21,260
I'm going with the coffee.

446
00:33:21,260 --> 00:33:28,100
Would you rather sunburn like a lobster indefinitely every day or stuck on a raft?

447
00:33:28,660 --> 00:33:31,220
Oh, but I'm going to get sunburn stuck on the raft

448
00:33:31,220 --> 00:33:33,980
because the ocean is going to reflect the sun onto me anyway.

449
00:33:34,300 --> 00:33:36,260
So not if you have sand makeup.

450
00:33:38,100 --> 00:33:39,820
There's I hate, you know, I hate the water.

451
00:33:41,060 --> 00:33:42,820
You have one television.

452
00:33:42,820 --> 00:33:46,380
A mix of New Girl and Friends episode is your option.

453
00:33:48,740 --> 00:33:51,540
Or one episode of Bravo on repeat.

454
00:33:53,060 --> 00:33:54,980
But like the best episode.

455
00:33:54,980 --> 00:33:57,540
Probably Vanderpoom reunion.

456
00:33:57,540 --> 00:33:58,660
That hasn't even happened yet.

457
00:33:58,660 --> 00:34:00,420
I know, I just know it's.

458
00:34:00,420 --> 00:34:01,700
I'm going with New Girl Friends

459
00:34:01,700 --> 00:34:06,580
because I can watch that and find something different in every single episode every single time.

460
00:34:07,860 --> 00:34:09,460
Guess what?

461
00:34:09,460 --> 00:34:12,340
What? You didn't survive.

462
00:34:12,340 --> 00:34:14,860
You died on the glamping desert island.

463
00:34:14,860 --> 00:34:17,140
You are not a Girl Scout.

464
00:34:17,140 --> 00:34:19,180
When we never decide, am I by myself?

465
00:34:22,380 --> 00:34:26,340
Well, that was as good as how horrible my questions were.

466
00:34:26,340 --> 00:34:28,980
So that I'll be taking.

467
00:34:28,980 --> 00:34:30,700
I'll be taking the game back over next week.

468
00:34:30,700 --> 00:34:31,820
Yeah, you're surprisingly good at that.

469
00:34:31,820 --> 00:34:33,020
That was horrible.

470
00:34:33,020 --> 00:34:34,380
That was horrible.

471
00:34:34,380 --> 00:34:37,700
OK, well, here's the thing with your real tip and your real extra tip.

472
00:34:37,940 --> 00:34:40,780
The whole episode was that.

473
00:34:40,780 --> 00:34:43,620
Your real tip is listen to all these hacks.

474
00:34:43,860 --> 00:34:44,980
Do them.

475
00:34:44,980 --> 00:34:48,060
Your real extra tip is ignore the game that we just.

476
00:34:53,740 --> 00:34:55,220
Oh, my God, that was perfect.

477
00:34:55,220 --> 00:34:57,100
That's perfect. Done.

478
00:34:57,780 --> 00:34:58,780
That was fun.

479
00:34:58,780 --> 00:35:01,900
Sometimes it's fun to just have fun.

480
00:35:03,420 --> 00:35:06,980
Feel like sometimes people think they constantly need to change themselves

481
00:35:06,980 --> 00:35:09,460
and like work on themselves and improve and be better.

482
00:35:09,460 --> 00:35:10,740
And yes, that's fine.

483
00:35:10,740 --> 00:35:14,260
But sometimes it's OK to just like be just be happy.

484
00:35:16,940 --> 00:35:20,300
You just remember you are always fit to be real

485
00:35:20,300 --> 00:35:23,180
and always allowed to be a little extra.

486
00:35:24,540 --> 00:35:26,540
I can hear you on a desert island going,

487
00:35:26,740 --> 00:35:29,180
hey, is it garlic to like the seagulls?

488
00:35:29,420 --> 00:35:31,020
Because there's no one else to talk to.

489
00:35:31,020 --> 00:35:33,220
Hey, a fan is a fan is a fan.

490
00:35:33,340 --> 00:35:35,540
Do seagulls mimic like parrots do?

491
00:35:37,060 --> 00:35:38,940
Eventually, it depends on how long I'm there.

492
00:35:38,940 --> 00:35:41,100
Can you imagine a whole bunch of like a flock of seagulls being like,

493
00:35:41,220 --> 00:35:43,300
hey, guys, that's really, hey, guys, that's really.

494
00:35:43,980 --> 00:35:45,780
And that's how I die.

495
00:35:48,300 --> 00:35:49,700
Bye.

496
00:35:49,700 --> 00:35:51,420
Wait, that's your glam squad, the seagulls.

497
00:35:55,540 --> 00:35:57,900
A flock of seagulls.

498
00:35:57,900 --> 00:35:59,060
They're doing your hair.

499
00:35:59,060 --> 00:36:00,060
It's been done.

500
00:36:05,420 --> 00:36:07,660
For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast

501
00:36:07,660 --> 00:36:10,380
is meant for entertainment and educational purposes only.

502
00:36:10,380 --> 00:36:12,300
We are not health care professionals.

503
00:36:12,580 --> 00:36:14,100
For all of your health, wellness,

504
00:36:14,100 --> 00:36:16,860
fitness and self care needs, please refer to the medical

505
00:36:16,860 --> 00:36:19,660
professional in your life, your primary care physician,

506
00:36:19,700 --> 00:36:22,860
your therapist, a certified coach, whoever it may be.

507
00:36:23,380 --> 00:36:25,900
And then let us know what they say, because I guarantee

508
00:36:25,900 --> 00:36:27,580
we need to know what to.

509
00:36:27,580 --> 00:36:37,540
OK, OK, bye.

