Welcome to Fit to Be Real and a little extra.
We are talking self-awareness, personalities, strengths, weaknesses, working through it all,
and really just kind of aha-momenting all over the place, figuring out,
are you an extrovert?
Introvert?
What are we?
What are you?
Yeah, what are you?
No, what are you?
I'm Victoria.
Hey guys, I'm Carly.
I liked that.
You did?
You took it down a notch.
I didn't like it.
I liked it.
I didn't do the head tilt and it felt unnatural.
Hey guys, I'm Carly.
But now I liked the first way.
Well, we'll talk about that actually.
Cool.
We, I've never done a personality test, I've never done a quiz.
I have, like online, just those like stupid little ones.
What animal are you?
Yeah, on Facebook and then it says post what you are or something, you know, back in the
day.
These were interesting because when I had a online dating profile and stuff, people were
putting these letters as their bio, like part, like their name and then INMF, INMT,
SNM, I was like, what?
So I would be like, oh, okay, that means a personality.
So I guess I can't talk to you.
I just have to like, I just know that this is your personality.
That was the first time I was ever introduced to it.
For a while, Carly was like my catfish and she would give me dates and stuff and be like,
hey, meet this person.
I'd be like, great.
This is like dating my brother-in-law.
Awesome.
Victoria had no time for dating apps, but I had all the time.
So I would go on as her and pick the guys that she would go on the date with.
I wouldn't actually talk to them via email or anything like that, but I would make her
profile pick the guys and then say, hey, you need to talk to this guy.
And I'd be like, hey, Carly, this is why I wouldn't have talked to this guy.
Let me tell you why.
She's like, oh, God, don't double click.
Oh my God, don't swipe.
I was like, oh, yeah, we quickly got out of that phase.
In any case, these personality traits started in my world there and I, I didn't even dive
in it into it then.
We'll explain what the acronym even is.
So Isabel Briggs Myers, I think is a psychologist.
I'm not too sure.
I'm not going to let you, I did not really go into all of this just yet, but I will be
now that I'm interested in it.
It's usually how things go.
You can look at it on MyersandBriggs.org, but it's a foundation where you can read all
of the 16 different personality types.
So they are split up into these letters and it's basically a breakdown to put you into
a category.
Right.
Yeah, to categorize your personality and basically explain who you are and why you are that
way.
Like what your problems really are.
You know, through a personality test, but it was legit.
It's very spot on.
It is very spot on.
So we took a few tests and like quizzes and like one of them came up.
It was a very basic quiz.
I'm realistic.
Like that's just who I am.
Yeah.
I'm a realist.
I'm not.
I base all of my actions on emotions, which is hilarious because you are emotionless and
I am all of the emotion.
That's so true, but I don't think before I react.
I react and then I think and I think way too much.
Right.
So it was that was true.
Yeah.
First, I just want to talk about personalities in general.
How do you get a personality?
Is it one of those you're born with it?
Is it Maybelline?
I don't know.
Like I don't know what it is.
Maybe she's born with it.
But personalities, what I read are based on experiences and an individual's interaction
with their environment.
So yes, you're born with a personality, but it's really based on how you live your life
and how you're brought up.
So you're basically saying nature versus nurture.
Yes.
But it's all combined.
Yes.
It develops over time and you're born with a temperament.
You are not born with an actual personality.
You're born with a temperament.
And there's three criteria for a personality.
Consistency, stability and your individual differences as a person.
Consistency, like your consistent behavior.
Right.
Or consistency in your lifestyle.
You know what I mean?
Like if you're constantly around this person, you might have this personality towards it.
So there's three stages.
There is a birth stage, which is based off instinct.
And that's how your personality begins.
Then it goes into ego, which is birth age to three years.
And that's based on feelings and instincts.
You know, when you're a baby, you go off instincts.
And then the third stage is your super ego.
And that's ages three to five.
And that's when you begin to have your inner voice and you begin to self criticize.
Isn't that crazy?
We start that young.
Yeah, between three and five.
And that's why personalities are developed at very early ages, depending on your life
and where you are.
And that's why parenthood is especially don't have kids if you do not want to have kids.
That is a different episode.
You know what I mean, though?
Because three to five, those formative years are called formative years for a reason.
But I didn't realize it started that young.
This explains a lot about you and I, first of all.
Thank you for including yourself.
I thought you were going to be like, this explains a lot about you.
Well, no, because it is said to be.
Now I don't remember this, but when I was born, Carly was a smotherer and she would
hug me until I turned blue and Carm had to be like, huh, Carly, it's cute, but like,
stop.
And so I started to push away a little bit more because I was like, hey, you're all over
me.
Get away.
So I feel like that is very much how we are now.
You don't hug because I rejected you.
I know.
So I feel like you ruined my life.
Oh, wonderful.
That is a hundred percent true.
I was a hover smotherer sister.
Why is it past tense?
No, no, I was just going to say, I still am.
I hover and smother you, not with hugs in life.
I will, I hover over her and that has always been.
But that's something that is a personality trait in me that I'm finding out starts at
birth.
Yeah.
Well, it makes sense.
Yeah.
How do you feel about my hover smother?
I'm just impressed you did some research and like actually know what you're talking
about.
This is really, really, it took 17 episodes, but we are in it.
I'm telling you, once I took a few tests and I was like, whoa, right, this is for real.
Then I started as Victoria likes to say deep diving into more about it.
And I was like, wait a second, am I born?
Was I born like this?
Yeah.
Or was I nurtured like this?
Yeah.
Your environment is everything.
That's how I remember how to spell it.
You have to say environment.
Do you say wed nest day in February?
I do.
And swarthmore?
That's a regionalism, but that works too.
The reason this whole episode even came to be is that people have a very big misconception
about us and it's that we love to be social and that we're very outwardly energetic and
extroverted people.
And while that is true, we've always known and now we have peroof and receipts that
we are introverted extroverts.
So while we are very good at the socialized, energetic, bubbly, can talk to a wall and make
them feel very good about themselves and all of that stuff.
And truly that's who we are.
I know, we mean it.
We're not being fake.
Nothing is fake about that.
The introverted, we don't actually in this obviously will be more obvious for me than
Carly, but don't want to be in the spotlight and the attention and would rather have other
people be taking that from us and kind of want to just be home in the couch.
That's where we thrive.
So that's actually called an ambivert, which is half introvert, half extrovert.
And I did not know that existed.
I didn't either.
I just thought I was an introverted extrovert, but there is a word for it.
It's very true because we have it's very similar to what you said in the beginning.
We can adapt to the environment.
So if it's meant for some more extroverted part of us to come out, then we can tap into
that and introvert really just is like our baseline.
Well, and also an ambivert, which we are both, knows when to turn on the charm and knows
when to pull back in certain situations.
We know when we can go for it and when when it's needed from us.
And we also know when it's OK to let somebody else take it and we would rather not.
And that is the challenge also of an ambivert trying to decipher those situations.
Socializing drains me and I would rather I need to like recharge and reset and decompress.
Well, we did a TikTok a while back and it was like a couple of things that you would
not know about us.
And one of mine was I'm actually really shy.
Oh, yeah.
They were like, no way.
No way.
Yeah.
I said, yeah, I actually am.
Yes, I can get up on stage and I can jump around and I can talk to a wall and listen,
if you're new, I can find out your deepest darkest secrets within five minutes.
I'm a great wingman, but I prefer not to be in the center, which my personality that
you all see would differ from.
Well, that's you knowing when you have to be on.
Right.
So that's your on time, which is for us, 99 percent of our days is on.
So the times that we can be off, like I crave those.
Yeah, we are off.
It's off.
It's you would think and you probably do think if you know us, if not, hey, that we are on
all of the time.
And even when we're not at work, which is see fit or teaching dance to children or teaching
something to a group of adults being in the front of the room that we're also like that
at home on the off and we are zombies, zombies.
The truth is we are zombies.
We are completely like the switch turns off.
It's like, hey, I'm my battery has gone to empty and it slowly recharges up to be able
to do it again.
The problem is we don't usually have a lot of that time to do the recharge.
We're just constantly bringing our charger around and hoping to get that one percent.
We can just continue to keep going.
You know what I mean?
We live on the one percent.
Yeah, we live on the edge.
You know those chargers that run off of like the solar power, but you can hold it in your
hands.
Yes.
You bring it to like Coachella or like the park.
Like I need that for myself.
So there are two big challenges if you're an ambivert and we'll get to five ways to
tell if you are one.
But two of the challenges, which we know very well, are we need to be self aware so that
we can determine which personality the introvert or the extrovert needs to come out.
And that is very hard because you have to be extremely self aware.
And the other challenge is that other people might struggle to figure out what personality
we are and why we're not the one all the time.
Like people might not understand, well, you're an extrovert.
You can't be an introvert too.
Well, that poses the black or white, right?
We're gray.
We're the light of the two that connects the light and the dark.
Oh my God.
And that is her personality.
But if you're on the fence and just say you haven't taken a personality test, I'm going
to list off and a little bit of explain the five signs of being an ambivert.
One sign you might be one is you host then ghost.
Love it.
Because that just means, you know, you might be at a social event, but then you need time.
You need your alone time and you might cut yourself off.
It's like that meme or gift that goes around where the banner says like leave by nine.
Yes.
But it's a party.
That's yes.
Yeah.
That's hosting and then ghosting.
Number two is you like to be around people and you also like to be alone.
Yeah.
I like to be alone a little bit more.
Number three, you're a leader who shies away from the limelight.
I mean, that's legit.
People do think that I like to be the center of attention because that's the way I come
across, but that's not exactly me.
It's a persona.
Right.
But that's not to say it's fake because that sounds like it could be a fake version of
you.
It's a version of you.
Right.
I don't know if anybody's interested in like Paris Hilton documentary or her book, but
Paris Hilton.
I am very much can't wait.
You have no idea.
If you are look into it.
Oh my gosh.
Paris Hilton is a persona that is not who she is at all.
So look her up.
But that just reminds me of it because that's hot.
No, I will.
Now that you said that, I will.
And I'm obviously I'm really not judging about by his cover.
I believe you.
I believe that she's gone through a lot and she made up this persona to get through life,
but also because she realized it made her money.
Yeah.
And she's brilliant.
Yeah.
So I'm working on that part.
The money part.
All right.
Number four, you have meaningful conversations in person, but don't answer texts or emails.
What?
And never phone calls.
Oh, definitely not phone calls.
That is just that's being extra.
Number five, you love to help others, but have difficulty accepting help for yourself.
I accept help a little bit better these days than you do.
Yeah.
100 percent was a stone wall for most of my life.
So if any of those or all of those are you, you may be an ambivert and one of us.
I've attached links to the show notes of the quizzes that we have taken and definitely
the Myers-Briggs 16 personality breakdown.
It is so interesting.
I highly suggest that you check it out.
The quizzes for yourself.
They're super easy.
They're quick.
They're free.
We did not do anything for the monies.
So we took these tests.
Victoria, what did you get?
We took the one we're talking about is the 16 personalities.
Yes.
Dot com.
I got an advocate.
And what's that?
Excuse me while I tell you, it's the rarest of all the personalities.
Because we're the hardest to deal with.
She is the princess.
I'm the angel.
Oh, my God.
That's a different podcast.
That's a different one.
But conscientious to the core was the line that I wrote down because that couldn't be
more spot on.
That's crazy.
Wisdom, intuition, all of that is kind of wrapped up into one, but very organized and
very disciplined and very principled.
So it kind of is a mashup.
What were some of the weaknesses of being an advocate?
You would want to talk about that first.
Well, I think it's really interesting because I could agree with all of them.
Yeah.
No, I absolutely agree with these.
I am sensitive, which is also a pro.
Yeah, totally.
It's well, my pros.
Let's start there.
My pros are creative, insightful, principled, passionate and altruistic and sensitive.
Like those are my yeas.
My nays are sensitive to criticism.
Oh, that is.
Oh, specifically, reluctant to open up to people.
Perfectionistic.
Stop it.
I avoid the ordinary.
I would much prefer the extra ordinary.
And I'm prone to burnout.
I don't know if you guys knew that.
Oh my gosh.
But that they're super, super spot on.
I mean, it's kind of wild to me.
And what were the careers that you could that they wanted you to go into if you were searching
for a career as an, you know, being the personality you are?
What were those careers?
The career types are counselors, therapists, as a psychologist, social worker, teacher,
yoga teacher, spiritual leader or anything in the healthcare system.
Yep.
So Victoria actually is all of those as a personal trainer.
Not necessarily certified in most of them.
But yeah, I definitely, but I'm connected and drawn to so many of them.
And I think it's just from helping other people and wanting to help other people.
But what I've battled with with most of my adult life, or at least as long as I've done
this career so far is coming back to myself at the end of each day and making sure that
helping other people isn't fully draining me.
And up until recently, I mean, I don't really have a grasp on that, but I've gotten much,
much better.
So the past four years, I've really taken some steps to make routines and rituals for
myself to better help others, basically.
So if that's you and you end up getting an advocate, maybe you should contact us if you're
a yoga instructor out there or teacher.
What's up, Advies?
Come on.
Well, if I'm an advocate, what are you?
I am a defender, like a warrior, princess, angel.
Yeah.
With no emotion.
And I know.
Does it say that?
Oh, my gosh.
No, it says that I have a sense of responsibility to everybody around me.
Ah.
So, so then what are your pros and cons?
My strengths are that I'm supportive, which is a little bit funny because my motivational
skills could use some work, which is not true.
But I know, I know, I know.
That's part of the that's part of the thing.
It's part of the whole package.
It's part of the act.
Viable, observant, hardworking and enthusiastic.
Oh, those are my strengths.
I like how you said enthusiastic, too.
Well, I wanted to make sure that really popped enthusiastically.
Enthusiastic.
Oh, that's a good turn.
I like it, though.
I like it.
No, those are all very spot on for you.
I have super high standards of myself and even more high standards of other people.
Is this a weakness?
That's a weakness.
Because I expect so much of myself and I expect even more from you.
Cool.
I mean, other people.
Super easy to navigate, like get on my level and then get higher.
But then also supersede me.
Right.
OK, my weakness is I am overly humble.
One of the traits of being a defender is that I do like the limelight, but I don't need
to pat on the back.
I don't need recognition.
I don't need you to praise me.
I'm good.
But it can turn into a weakness when you're not patting yourself on the back.
Yeah.
So you're overly humble to the point of like you need some boosting of your own self worth
and value weaknesses.
I take things personally.
Sure does.
I do.
I repress my feelings.
Sure does.
I over commit myself.
Oh my God.
I do not like change.
And I get taken advantage of because I have my kindness.
So I think Victoria actually got into the cyber universe and made this test up and then fixed
the answers.
I am spiritual like that.
So I love the extra ordinary, you know, that is wild.
Yeah, isn't that crazy?
Carly has never been good with change in small, medium or large doses.
Yeah.
And what was that last thing that really got me?
I get taken advantage of because of my kindness.
Because of that humble and that kindness and that supportiveness.
And I think you told me earlier, defenders are they love loyalty.
Yes.
Loyalty is a top priority of mine.
Oh, God, that's another episode.
But the amount of times Carly has been taking advantage of by people very close.
It's you do not misconstrued kindness or friends for weakness.
What's that song?
Oh, it's a Rihanna song.
Sing it.
Oh, you want me to sing it?
Wait, hold on.
Kindness.
Don't mistake kindness for weakness.
Why?
This will be cut.
What is happening?
It's called four or five seconds from four or five seconds from while it.
Yeah.
Don't mistake my kindness for weakness is a line from the song.
Is that the tune it goes to?
What tune did you do?
Because all of my kindness.
It's taking for weakness.
Oh, man.
I don't even know what to go back to my careers.
All right.
So what are your career options?
These were really interesting.
Is it a bridal shop owner?
No.
No, I guess that's not really for me because I did not get that.
I got I should look into careers that motivate with leadership roles.
You're already doing that.
Yeah.
Careers that have daily tasks to benefit others.
You're already doing that.
And a career that teaches growth and helps others achieve their goals.
You're already doing that.
So bridal consultant at Klinefeld is not on there.
That's a goal.
Yeah, that's true.
Some people unfortunately have that as a goal.
Do not say unfortunately that is a good goal.
Those dresses are beautiful.
But yeah, it was all spot on.
And I think I already knew a lot of those things, but reading it or having a computer
sort of tell me who I am, even though I already knew that was very eye opening.
I was like, how did you know that?
Did you tap on the screen and go, hey, hey, you know, my name's not Carmella.
You looking at me?
It is Carmella.
You're even Carmella.
So then wait, so on this 16personality.com quiz, it gives you other people you may know
that are also in your category of defenders and advocates.
And there are also a million other.
Oh, yeah.
There are other things you can be.
We're just talking about what we obviously came up with.
What were yours?
Who were some famous people?
I only remember two and I, people that are like me are Beyonce.
Oh my.
Hey girl.
And Queen Elizabeth.
Like Queen Elizabeth.
Yeah, because she is a ruling hard boss babe.
Is she humble?
Listen, I never heard her talk much.
So to be honest with you, I think that was pretty legit.
Who'd you get?
Wait, Beyonce and Queen Elizabeth.
You're that.
Listen, talk about high standards.
Yes.
Very high.
High standards.
Very boss like.
Mine were similar.
I got Nelson Mandela and Mother Teresa.
Lady Gaga, Atticus Finch.
Oh, it's from Tequila Mockingbird.
Yeah.
We can John Snow.
I'm going to say something really quickly.
Somebody, a young girl that I teach thought Tequila Mockingbird was called Tequila Mockingbird.
I thought that was the cutest thing ever.
Was she your child?
No.
Anyway, that's just a funny story.
I love that.
All of those people are very you from Nelson Mandela to Mother Teresa.
I mean, can I not putting myself on any of their levels whatsoever, but the traits of
how this is broken down, you know, for all the haters out there back off.
Wait, there she is.
Go ahead.
More of that.
There's the Lady Gaga on me.
I think if you're asking me my personal opinion, I think she's an ambivert as well.
I think after her big performances, she goes home to a quiet place and says, don't talk
to me for a while.
Well, I so I wasn't on the Lady Gaga train when she first came out.
I was like, what is happening?
What are these wild meat suits?
Wild outfits?
Like what is happening and why?
Like what's the why behind it?
And then I don't remember how it came out, but she must have had an interview where she
said something somewhere where she does that for her fans to make the ones who feel out
of place and weird and different and not accepted feel more normal so that she is the weirdest
one in the room.
Whoa.
And that she is the biggest like difference.
Right.
I just feel like that's brilliant.
That was something in the advocate.
We tend to feel like we are not like anybody else.
The advocates.
Yeah.
The weaknesses are so different internally.
Like yeah, we can mold to the right environment environment.
But we feel different.
We feel like there's something off.
You felt that way your whole life.
My whole life.
Yeah.
Basically, take these tests.
It's super fun.
It's so cool.
And the coolest part is that you do get to look at your weaknesses and your strengths,
but more so the goal and purpose of life because that's what we at these do is finding
the purpose and finding your weaknesses and then working off of them and changing them
and strengthening them or using them to your purpose and to your ability and not looking
at them as a crutch.
And being self aware is really hard.
So that is also something that we want you to be aware of is that self awareness doesn't
happen overnight.
It takes years and years and years to become self aware or maybe you were born self aware.
Who knows?
I was not.
I had to learn that about myself.
I was unfortunately always too aware, but that comes with being empathetic and sensitive
and an advocate.
Advice.
We like to call it.
Advice.
I wrote this down from the website and it says self understanding, which means self awareness,
is what helps you ensure that you don't miss out on whatever it is that you were put on
this earth to do.
That's a good little nugget you just left us with.
It's true.
Self awareness is the number one reasons relationships die.
It's the number one friction in workplace environments and family environments.
It's being unaware of how you cause joy in the world and also conflict.
Well having said that, you just brought up the workplace and I have a little game that
we're going to play with Victoria.
This is conflict.
These are questions that people are asked at interviews for jobs.
And since we didn't do that ever, really, we never did the official job interview.
We were always reviewed by our bodies and our voices and our looks.
We were never sat down in a chair and asked these questions.
So I thought Victoria might be missing out.
And so I really wanted to interview her.
I live in a state of Jomo.
So joy of missing out.
Bring it on.
Who is your role model?
My mom.
Oh, that's cute.
As the interviewer, am I allowed to say that?
Definitely not working for you.
Like I've already chosen that this is not the job for me.
You're just going through the motions.
Yeah.
You're just out of like respect.
Who knows you best?
My therapist.
Your friends would say you are smart, kind, impulsive or quiet.
Art kind, impulsive or quiet?
You're looking for a job here.
Hopefully kind.
Kind.
Yeah.
Out of all of them, hopefully kind.
I can be stupid and kind.
I don't care.
What is a question that people ask you often?
Why?
No, I'm just kidding.
No, that's a good one.
But yeah, I guess it goes into personal work and whatever.
Just like, oh, why are you doing that?
Yeah.
Why?
What would you never say to somebody else?
Comment on their looks, comment on their personal lives, on their career decisions or swear
at them.
What would you never do out of those four?
I wouldn't talk to people.
That's not an option.
You just lost the job.
I don't like any of those.
I don't want to talk to anybody about any of those, even if they bring it up to me, I'm
pretty like, take a step back.
Oh my God, you failed that question.
No, you failed it.
I definitely wouldn't like swear at someone or whatever that last one was.
Yeah, swear at somebody.
Yeah.
This one's a little tough.
What's your greatest achievement so far?
Getting myself out of a very dark and low place and working my way out even currently.
Damn, Gina.
That was good.
Oh my God, did she get the job?
Is she the next hire?
Gina, what is your greatest failure?
My greatest failure?
Losing myself in relationships, I would say, and even workplace related.
Just losing myself in moments.
That's a good one.
What did you learn from that?
I'm a baller.
Yes, you are a baller.
And I should never lose myself.
Now, what do I learn?
No, that's good.
I learned that no true connection in any romantic or not romantic can be lost if you're true
to yourself.
If you're actually acting authentically, then it wasn't a connection to begin with.
So no worries.
This game is no joke.
What would you change about yourself?
How I talk to myself silently?
Nice.
If something breaks in your house, what would you do?
What would you do?
Get up off my feet.
It's not me.
No, that's true.
That is very true.
I would fix it myself because that's what I would do.
And if I don't, I would call my dad.
How do you like to waste time?
I don't like to waste time, but if I'm not going to be productive and I want to rest,
which is also productivity, I like to zone out to TV or I like to read a book or sleep.
Oh, next question.
Book, movie or theater?
I don't like it.
I like that question.
I don't want to pick that.
No, you have to because you're not going to get the job if you don't pick one.
I don't want the job.
I don't care.
Can I give you a little PS?
You're getting the job, so just pick one.
Okay.
I don't like absolutes.
Book, movie, theater.
I only like absolutes.
Book, movie, theater.
It's between book and theater.
Book and theater.
Peter.
No, I'm sticking to that.
Happiest period of life so far.
Knowing that it's coming.
Oh, damn.
I feel like this is my calling.
I don't know how you feel, but I feel like I'm amazing at this and I don't need you to
tell me how amazing I am because I know.
She listened to episode 16 about confidence.
What is this?
This is a serious one, so get it together.
Geez.
What's the greatest injustice you've lived through?
Injustice?
I don't feel like I've lived a very privileged life.
Nothing bad ever happened to you that you were like, man, that was not fair.
I feel like any injustice, anything that didn't quote unquote seem fair, I played a part in.
Like if I said any of the auditions that I really wanted and didn't get, I didn't fully
put myself in the moment and go for it.
So I deserve that.
All failures are lessons.
Oh my God, Nelson Mandela in the flesh.
What's up, Nelly?
Last one.
And this is dependent on you getting this job.
Like no.
What is it called?
Full stop.
Period.
What is your favorite childhood game?
Ghost in the graveyard.
We would play that after dinner when it was like summer dark, not fully dark, and it was
the best game.
And I don't think I would allow your children to play now.
No, never.
It was a different time.
You would go to other people's backyards and frontyards and stuff, and you would hide,
and somebody would be it.
Basically, it's tag.
And you'd have to find, not only play hide and seek and find your victims, but you would,
when you find them, have to try to tag them and make them the next ghost.
Ghost.
Yeah, like you were the graveyard.
Yeah, but it was so fine.
It was my favorite.
It was like a neighborhood childhood game.
Guess what, Victoria?
You got the job.
I would like to put my two weeks notice in.
You're going to work and own Seafit forever.
What can I use my pay time?
No, no, you don't get PTO.
You don't get vacation days.
You get no perks or social security.
You get nothing.
I won.
Fun times.
You know what's also fun?
Carly has to go to the bathroom.
So she is rocking back and forth like she's on a boat.
I'm on a boat.
Oh.
Well, we want to thank you all for coming along on this ride, for us discovering something
people have been doing for a very long time and is very normal.
Being self-aware.
Yes, we are aware of the fact that this is happening.
I also want to shout out a thank you to Carly for finally doing some research and being a
part of the conversation and kind of spearheading most of it.
And not just adding my two cents here and there.
Listen, I enjoy learning things about me that I already know because I don't like change.
Oh my God.
We've learned that.
So I enjoy doing that.
We've definitely learned that.
With that, let's talk about real tips here.
We're going to call the real tip of today.
What?
Like it's hard?
Legally blunt.
We want you to take one of these quizzes, one of these tests, tops 20 minutes.
It's just interesting.
It's not going to make or break your day, but it's going to advance maybe how you think
about yourself, how you think about interacting with others, what your environment around
you looks like.
It will help you navigate where you would like your life path to go because maybe it's
not where it is right now.
I'm already diving into all of the things to see where I can go with this and what my
potential is.
Are you deep diving into it?
I'm on a boat.
So yeah, real tip.
Get it done.
Take a quiz.
And now for your real extra tip of the week, it's called make moves or don't.
So after you take that personality quiz, write down the strengths and weaknesses.
Is there something you'd like to improve on?
Is there something that you don't want to improve on?
Sometimes it's easier to see those weaknesses or those strengths when they're written down.
Write them out, read them out loud to yourself and make a plan to change one of them or don't.
If you are happy with the way you are, stay in there and be happy.
But if not, make a plan, make moves or don't.
Love it.
Absolutely love it.
And let me tell you something.
If you're looking at those strengths and weaknesses and you feel like you don't need to change
them, that's your ticket that you do.
That's your extra, extra tip for the day.
So we hope that you always remember that you're always fit to be real and always allowed to
be a little extra or not.
For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and
educational purposes only.
We are not healthcare professionals.
For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self-care needs, please refer to the medical
professional in your life.
Your primary care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, whoever it may be.
And then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know what to do.
Okay?
Okay, bye.