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Welcome to Fit to Be Real and a little extra.

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And today we are as real and as extra as physically possible.

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Humanly, physically possible.

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Audibly possible.

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Audibly possible.

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Ha ha ha!

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Here we go.

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I'm Victoria.

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Hey guys, I'm Carly.

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Today we wanted to lighten things up.

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The latest episode was about burnout.

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Our bonus episode was a good time of playing games.

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So today we just want to keep it light and talk some stories of our childhood.

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Of anything.

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But neither one of us know what the other is going to say, which is highly concerning.

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Well, Victoria also gave me directions about what we were, you know, what to prepare.

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And apparently I read the text wrong.

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So I prepared my own things.

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So she really has no idea what I'm about to say.

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I'm a little nervous.

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I'm not going to lie.

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I'm a little nervous.

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I have some stories to tell.

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Yeah, that's what I told you.

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I did text you that.

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I said come in with stories, but don't tell me what they are.

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Yeah, but I picked some fun ones, I think.

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I went through the brain.

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Well, then we're going to start with Carly.

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Here we go.

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So when Victoria said, you know, like, let's just tell stories about each other.

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So it'll make people think or get to know us a little better.

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So I am taking you back to a young Victoria.

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She was about five, five.

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Yeah, I want to say five is was as old as she was.

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So I'm going to preface this with all summer long, our mom is a director.

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We used to sit and watch rehearsal for 12 hours a day.

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She didn't get a babysitter.

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The rehearsal was our babysitter.

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We loved it though.

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Oh my gosh, we didn't move.

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And people always wonder why my kids are so good and they sit there and they just watch us teach.

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You put the fear of God in them.

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I put the fear of God in them.

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But just like mom did with us, like we sat there and she was like, I don't want to lose my job.

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Sit and watch.

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However, we enjoyed it.

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Thank God we enjoyed it.

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It was awesome.

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But we would watch Broadway performers rehearse and that was like our summer camp.

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Basically, we learned so much and we had so much fun.

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And but anyway, so one summer when Victoria was about five, my mom was directing and choreographing guys and dolls.

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So if you don't know guys and dolls, it's about it's from New York in about the 40s and 50s.

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And it's about sort of burlesque girls.

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They sing, I love you a bushel and a peck.

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And there's this one song that these burlesque girls sing called Take Back Your Mink, which is a really cutesy stripper song.

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And they're like, oh, take back your mink.

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Take back.

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It's like everything you bought me, I'm taking it off and I'm giving it to you.

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And so at the end of the song, they'd be left in a bra and underwear.

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While other five year olds would come home from summer camp or whatever, singing like maybe CD or twinkle, twinkle.

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We have a video of my mom, you know, those like big cameras that used to sit on your shoulder.

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Oh, my God.

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VHS in her bedroom.

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I remember specifically sitting next to my mom and videoing Victoria at five, like in a robe.

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She did have a two piece bathing suit on.

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I did in a robe with pearls and gloves singing.

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Oh, I had a mink.

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Take back your mink and she would take a piece of clothing off.

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Take back your pearls and she'd take her necklace off.

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And I was like, mom, mom, and my mom would be like, your sister is singing.

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And then she'd go, I don't know, Victoria, you did the choreography wrong.

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You did the choreography wrong.

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Yeah, Victoria at five was getting notes about how to take the mink off and how to take the pearls off.

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And that is just a little insight to how we grew up.

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I'm going to play this tonight for my therapist.

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Oh, my God.

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So Google guys and dolls, you can watch it on YouTube and then picture five year old Victoria doing it.

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Please don't do any of those things.

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Do not do any of those things.

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That's a partly a story of our mom and how twisted we were.

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Love, love that we started with that one.

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Now you all know where this is going to go.

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I'm going to take you back to 1995.

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So I was seven.

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I was 10.

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Carly was 10, which means our older brother, Billy was 13.

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What 1995?

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It was it was kind of right before TGIF, but Friday nights for us were pizza night and soda.

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And we were allowed to have soda and it was an Elios.

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It was an Elios pizza.

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We will.

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Oh, we couldn't even buy it and God, I but I love.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Like if I smelled an Elios pizza today, I think I would eat it.

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But we would also have like we were allowed to have desserts.

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We were allowed to have a movie.

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We could pick a movie and we all traded what night movie was, you know, whatever was.

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Wow.

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One of the three Mayo children was mad and they carved into the banister of, you know,

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you walk up the stairs and at your house, you have a banister.

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It's wooden.

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Carved, carved.

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It's still if you go take a take a little museum trip to Carmela's house.

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It is the same house.

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The banister is still carved up and you best believe.

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Carm was mad.

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Yeah, she was mad.

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I will never forget that.

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And that didn't happen often.

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The like getting in trouble really didn't happen often.

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We were relatively passable children.

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She decided that we all of us didn't do it.

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So who did it?

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None of us did it, right?

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Ever.

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Nobody was owning up to it.

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I knew I didn't do it.

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And so she said, OK, go in the middle room, talk amongst yourselves, figure out who did it

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and do not come out until someone has the answer of who did it.

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So we go into the middle room.

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And I swear to you, I did not get my little booty on the bed to sit down before Billy went, did you do it?

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Harley said no.

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She looked at him and said, did you do it?

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He said no.

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And they went, OK, she did it and they left.

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I wasn't even on the floor yet.

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They left and they told her that I did it.

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I didn't get to watch the movie.

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I didn't get to have Elias pizza.

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I didn't get to have chips, a whole cookies and cool with because we used to dip that as a dessert.

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I was so upset.

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No one believed me.

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No one believed me that I didn't actually do it because they decided that I did.

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This is 1995.

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Carly just owned up to it.

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That she did it.

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I'm maybe a year ago, maybe two years ago with my communion cross that I was wearing around my neck.

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It was a wooden banister.

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So I got my cross and I just dug into it.

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And I was like, oh, that was that felt good.

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I just kept digging with my communion cross in the banister.

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And I knew afterwards I was going to get in so much trouble.

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So we blamed it on Victoria for 25 years.

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And I still we would talk about it when I was in my teen years and then in my early 20s and I'd be like, guys, I didn't do it.

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And my mom would laugh, you know, laugh.

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It was Carly.

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It was me.

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It was one million percent me.

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And I remember doing it.

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I remember blaming it on her and I remember enjoying the movie and the Elio's pizza and the cookies afterwards with no remorse.

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I'm going to play this for my third.

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Maybe this whole thing this whole episode.

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That was fun.

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We're not painting ourselves in a very good light right now.

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You said we were passable.

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We don't sound passable.

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I don't think we actually are.

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Well, this story, this next story is definitely going to going to hurt a little bit.

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No, mystery story number three.

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It's only going to hurt our brother.

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Oh, he's not here to defend himself, so we don't care.

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My mom, our mom opened the studio when we were little and even before that, she would teach dance.

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She would teach dance at night.

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So when she would go teach dance, our brother would watch us.

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It would only be for an hour or two hours.

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He might have been 13 and he was really into W.W.F. wrestling.

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So why she put him in charge of us?

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Well, she always said like there were neighbors everywhere.

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Everybody had an eye on you and it was the type of street.

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You could walk into anybody's house.

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Nobody locked the door.

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No, everybody knew everybody.

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So that was understood.

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So our brother would watch us and he would say, OK, we're going to the backyard.

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We'd be like, oh, Billy wants to play with us.

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Sure, we'll go in the backyard with you.

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He hands little Victoria, who was probably eight, our phone from the house with a long antenna.

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It was a yes.

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It was predialed to 911 just in case.

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And I had the video camera and recording.

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So he would get up on our garage, which was, yeah, me too, which was like eight to nine feet high.

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And he lit a fire table on fire.

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Well, he would stack.

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We had why we had Wawa crates.

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I don't know.

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We had Wawa crates, which for the youngest, you could actually go to Wawa and buy crates of stuff.

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Yeah, like milk.

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Wawa was different back then.

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You could also get pickles from a barrel and deli meats.

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Long tables.

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Yeah, I don't know why.

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So yeah, he stacked that.

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He made like a tower.

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Yeah, he stacked them on each side, put the table down the center, lit it on fire.

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And then had a standby.

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Victoria had 911 on standby.

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I had the video camera because he wanted to be a professional wrestler.

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He wanted to send this tape into the W.

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Dishon.

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So he got on top of the garage.

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He's talking to the camera and he's like, can you smell what the rock is cooking?

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Or like something's gonna kill you.

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He did not say that.

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I know.

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His name was triple A, all American athlete, I believe.

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And then it was wild thunder.

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Wild thunder.

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He actually did become semi pro wrestler, but that's another story.

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But anyway, not from this tape.

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I can tell you that.

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He jumped off our garage onto a flaming table of fire.

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He got my turpentine because I was oil painting.

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So my turpentine from the basement is what he lit the tables on fire with.

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Guys, our mom was down the street at the studio teaching, leaving him in charge of us.

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And then she would get a call from our neighbor being like, your son's jumping off Sally.

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Your son is jumping off the garage onto fire.

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I just want to make sure you knew that.

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Well, the best part of this is that he's talking to the camera and he's doing his whole thing

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and he's like, rah, rah, rah.

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And then he goes, he stands straight up on top of the roof, looks all the way down the

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drive away and goes, hey, Sally, because Sally was coming across.

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Like what is happening over there?

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And he's like, hi.

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And goes right back to the camera and goes right back and jumps power bombs.

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Power bombs.

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One would say power bomb and he'd get his elbow and he would jump off into the flame.

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While Victoria's got 911, I've got the video camera and that was a Tuesday.

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I remember being scared.

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Yeah, that was just like a Tuesday.

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All right, I like that.

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I'm going to take it a little bit closer in the years, not so much childhood.

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One of the earlier years of Victoria online dating.

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Oh, God.

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I really needed Carly's theater degree for this and Andrew's theater degree.

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I know.

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I know.

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For this.

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So long story, relatively short is it was like third date.

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I can't remember.

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I was like a third or fourth date, but I didn't really know if I actually liked this person.

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And he was a relatively very nice guy, very nice guy.

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They're just something was missing and I didn't know what it was.

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And I was like, I don't know if I'm wasting my time.

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I don't know if I'm wasting his time.

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So it was a very innocent.

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Like I actually don't know anything and I need an outside perspective, but like telling

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stories about someone is a little different.

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So we're at King of Prussia where yards, yards, yards having a drink and Carly and Andrew

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drove themselves to King of Prussia to go first of all, was an in for Carly to go shopping.

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Yeah, because Primark was right next door.

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That's right.

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That's right.

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And stopped in and saw me at yards.

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Oh my gosh.

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Hey, what are you doing here?

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And I was like, Oh my gosh, this is my sister.

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My acting degree came in handing really well.

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You didn't do very well, but I acted my face off and Andrew was so happy.

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Andrew was excited to be like, what's what's happening?

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What are we doing here?

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They knew that they were assessing the situation and I knew that this could go very wrong.

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Very, very wrong.

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Here's the best part of this.

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Their purpose was to tell me yay or nay.

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And there was a second part of this date of going to some like haunted house or haunted

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something.

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And I didn't know if I wanted to really commit to the whole thing, the whole night.

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Like I could have gotten out after the drinks and been like, you know what?

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Sorry, dude.

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Not feeling it.

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So I go to the bathroom to text Carly.

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They left.

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They they sat there for a little bit.

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We had a drink.

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They got there.

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That's right.

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You got a drink.

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They got their bags of clothes goodies and they left and I texted her like, hello,

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hello, give me give me the high sign.

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Fun fact.

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When I would go on these these dates, Carly is very concerned about everything in life.

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She watches way too much law and order.

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So we needed code words for like I'm alive or hey, I'm about to get murdered.

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So our code word for everything's ago is Selena.

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Yep.

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And our oh gosh, get me out of this is Yolanda.

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Yep.

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If you don't know what that means.

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Check yourself.

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She texts me and way too late for me to make a decision.

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So I already didn't know what to do and I said to this guy, yeah, OK, let's let's go.

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So I get in his car.

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We leave our car at King of Prussia.

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I get in this car.

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We're going to this haunted house and Carly texts me again and says, oh, Andrew says,

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no, it's a no go.

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He's not feeling it.

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He's just not the right guy.

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And I'm in this guy's car.

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I've never been more angry.

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I was so angry.

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I started getting hives.

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Yes, you got high.

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That's how I got out of the date.

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My body quite literally rejected everything and was like, it's time to go.

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Yeah.

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I just late to everything.

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I think everybody's nice and I I'm too trusting and I'm too like, oh, this person's so nice.

316
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And I was like, oh, he's so sweet.

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He's definitely not the one, but she didn't tell me that.

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All right.

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My last one is not really a story.

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Well, it sort of is.

321
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So we used to get our prom dresses made because it was cheaper actually for our mom to get

322
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them made from scratch than to buy them at like the store like Zinnies or something.

323
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You go to join fabrics and you get like fabric.

324
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No, we went down to South Philly and I got we got our fabric in South Philly and we would

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take it to our seamstress who also did my wedding dress and she she was awesome.

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She was this older Peggy Greek Greek lady in Upper Darby.

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And she made the most most beautiful dresses.

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So we got all of our stuff done there.

329
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So Victoria had a junior prom dress and she picked out the fabric.

330
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It was a mermaid style dress, but I senior prom.

331
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Was that senior?

332
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My senior.

333
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Oh, your junior was.

334
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I went to Deb for my junior.

335
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That's right.

336
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That's right.

337
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OK, so is your senior prom dress.

338
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We got your material.

339
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It was sort of like felt like wallpaper.

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It was very thick.

341
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It was very thick and she designed it strapless, really tight.

342
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And then flared at the bottom.

343
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It was mermaids were in mermaids were so it was so pretty.

344
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However, rules on the top was very nice.

345
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She didn't ever practice sitting down in it.

346
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So when they made the dress, Peggy and Victoria never thought I like to sit down.

347
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So she went to go sit down in her date's car and she couldn't do it.

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So they had to recline the seat back.

349
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So she could lay in the car.

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We are my gosh, I can picture the picture of me having to lean back on the side of

351
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the door to try to shimmy sideways, kind of like Tetris.

352
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Yeah, just get into the seat.

353
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If you think that was bad, none of you were there for the dinner portion of prom.

354
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I couldn't sit and eat.

355
00:16:49,900 --> 00:16:50,900
Did you rip it?

356
00:16:50,900 --> 00:16:57,900
No, but because it was so not like meant for the prom.

357
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Yeah.

358
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Sweaty dancing life.

359
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It was a light blue dress that turned dark blue, but not in all the spots just in like

360
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my bodice.

361
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Oh my God, it was horrible.

362
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It was a horrible, but it also wasn't fabric that like gave it all.

363
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So I couldn't breathe and move.

364
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I couldn't breathe.

365
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Picture like thick wallpaper.

366
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I was at the Met Gala instead of my senior prom.

367
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There was no second look that like that was it.

368
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Oh my God, I totally forgot about that.

369
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And that yeah, that was an extra.

370
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I got my senior prom dress made and we will post this picture and the next year, Victoria

371
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went to her junior prom and somehow found the exact same dress that I designed and made

372
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and wore it to her junior prom.

373
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So what did I do when she was taking pictures with her date?

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I put my dress on and I walked down the steps and I took prom pictures even though I was

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a sophomore in college.

376
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Do you guys get it now?

377
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Does it make sense to you?

378
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First of all, I had sparkles.

379
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I had a Cinderella dress and I put it.

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I put a tiara on and I put on my prom dress from three years before and I was like, well,

381
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you're wearing it.

382
00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,000
I'm wearing mine again.

383
00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,000
She gave me the vacuum.

384
00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,600
I did vacuuming in my prom dress waiting for my date.

385
00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:12,600
That's true.

386
00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:16,800
I made you vacuum in your prom gown while I stood in my prom gown.

387
00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,000
Does life just make sense for you all now?

388
00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:22,800
Does it do you get why I am the way I am?

389
00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,500
So those are just some fun stories.

390
00:18:25,500 --> 00:18:30,160
Gives you a little look into how we grew up and why we are the way we are.

391
00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:38,240
I turned out pretty decent, but now we want to talk about some things you may not know

392
00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:39,840
about us.

393
00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:41,400
So I'm going to list off some things.

394
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:45,160
Victoria can tell me if I am correct or I'm totally off.

395
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But these are five things that I want you to know about Victoria.

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This is both of us on the spot.

397
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Victoria is actually the nicer, more empathetic person, sister.

398
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She gives you the benefit of the doubt and she is always the devil's advocate.

399
00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,400
If my brother is mad at me, we'll go to Victoria.

400
00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,520
If I am mad at my brother, we will go to Victoria.

401
00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:12,480
If we're all mad at my mom, we'll go to Victoria.

402
00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,040
I was a parentified child.

403
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,040
She was.

404
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:16,040
She grew up real fast.

405
00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,840
She was a real good actor.

406
00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:24,560
People think it's the opposite, but I just think I'm a better actor.

407
00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,760
I don't have a filter.

408
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,560
Like I'm not going to fake it.

409
00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:29,560
No.

410
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:30,560
And I will fake it until I die.

411
00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:36,040
But that's why you're a good business person because you should like have a smile on your

412
00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,040
face sometimes and I'm like screwing.

413
00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:39,040
I hate everybody.

414
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:40,040
So it's a good time.

415
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:44,040
But she actually will give you the benefit of the doubt, whereas I will just cut you

416
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off.

417
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:50,840
Okay, number two, Victoria, you may not know this about her was on an MTV pilot.

418
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,160
Oh my God.

419
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:53,360
What grade were you in?

420
00:19:53,360 --> 00:19:54,560
That was sophomore year.

421
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:55,840
It was called the block.

422
00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:56,840
It was a show.

423
00:19:56,840 --> 00:20:00,960
It was a TV show on MTV and it was filmed in Ridley.

424
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,680
And it would have gotten picked up and it did for the N network.

425
00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:05,920
The N.

426
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:10,760
But they hired adults to play children instead of having teenagers play teenagers.

427
00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:16,680
And a side note on that I was also up for the part that Victoria got and it was between

428
00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,640
me and Victoria and they freaking picked Victoria.

429
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,520
So okay, next one.

430
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:26,040
Victoria broke her hip when she was 23.

431
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23.

432
00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:28,040
Yeah.

433
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:29,040
We were running.

434
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,040
Number one big mistake.

435
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:31,040
We are not runners.

436
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:37,680
We were running down the shore right before dinner and she tripped on the sidewalk.

437
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And as she lay on the sidewalk.

438
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As she lay on the sidewalk.

439
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,880
I was yelling at her to get up.

440
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You're embarrassing me.

441
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:47,680
Get up.

442
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,880
People on the porch are drinking their happy hour drinks.

443
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,200
And nobody helped.

444
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:53,200
Nobody helped.

445
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,280
Nobody was like, oh my gosh, are you okay?

446
00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:56,520
They just sat there.

447
00:20:56,520 --> 00:21:01,040
There was a guy taking beach chairs out of the trunk right where we were.

448
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:02,040
Right where we were.

449
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:03,040
Yeah.

450
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,040
And no one looked.

451
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:05,040
No.

452
00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,040
And we didn't have cell phones back then.

453
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,960
It wasn't then that you said that it was when we were walking.

454
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:10,520
We walked two blocks back.

455
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:14,040
I walked back with a broken hip for two blocks to get back to the house.

456
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,040
We didn't bring our cell phones.

457
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:16,040
We were running.

458
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,040
We were talking.

459
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,520
And she was like, stop walking like that.

460
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,160
You look ridiculous.

461
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:21,160
Stop walking like that.

462
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:24,200
And I was like, oh my God, I'm in so much pain crying.

463
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And I was like, get on my back.

464
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I was so embarrassed.

465
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Which was the worst thing to do for my hip because it rotated my hips out.

466
00:21:33,360 --> 00:21:34,360
All right.

467
00:21:34,360 --> 00:21:35,360
Two more.

468
00:21:35,360 --> 00:21:36,360
We get two more.

469
00:21:36,360 --> 00:21:38,240
Documentaries are her favorite thing to watch.

470
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:39,240
That's true.

471
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:44,280
Except for love is blind.

472
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:47,760
That is my reality TV show, Guilty Pleasure.

473
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,760
Victoria is always like, oh my God, did you see this documentary?

474
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,200
Oh my gosh, you have to watch this.

475
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:53,200
Did you see this?

476
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:57,000
Did she knows every documentary there's ever been made and then goes, but did you see love

477
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,000
is blind?

478
00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,000
Oh man, it's so good.

479
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,040
It's such trash, but it is so good.

480
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,600
And that's my Bravo.

481
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:05,600
That's my Bravo.

482
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:12,960
Carly loves all things, Real Housewives, Vander, Pump, Mediterranean Boat Show.

483
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:13,960
Below Deckman.

484
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:14,960
Oh my God.

485
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:19,560
You're so dumb.

486
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:24,120
I actually really love Love is Blind because it's cringey.

487
00:22:24,120 --> 00:22:25,120
Last one.

488
00:22:25,120 --> 00:22:33,440
Her audition song as a child in musical theater was Reflection from Mulan sung like Christina

489
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:34,440
Aguilera.

490
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:35,880
She had a version of the movie.

491
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:40,520
So Victoria would like go in for sound of music, but she's like, go have Victoria give

492
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,440
us a beat.

493
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,440
Singing like Christina Aguilera.

494
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:46,440
Go ahead.

495
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:47,440
Oh my God.

496
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:48,440
No.

497
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,440
She was like, who is that good assy?

498
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:54,560
It would be like Victoria.

499
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,280
You sound good, but I mean, tone it down.

500
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,280
Do less.

501
00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,280
Do less.

502
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:00,280
Okay.

503
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:01,280
Well, that was fun.

504
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:02,800
I enjoyed it.

505
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,560
I think I'm going to go with the best one.

506
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:10,240
Carly wanted to be a professional basketball player.

507
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:11,240
She really did.

508
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,400
She wanted to be a professional basketball player.

509
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,640
She really only was good at foul shots and that was only 50% at the time at best.

510
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:18,640
Oh my God.

511
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:19,640
I did.

512
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:20,640
Yeah.

513
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:24,920
You wore basketball shorts, slicked back ponytail like she was going to be in the WNBA.

514
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:25,920
I did.

515
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:30,680
And I wanted to be the first female NBA coach in the Men's League.

516
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,040
Yep, in the Men's.

517
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,680
Do you ever see that movie, Whoopi Goldberg?

518
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,800
She's the woman's coach in the NBA.

519
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:38,800
It's an old.

520
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:39,800
No, no.

521
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:41,480
But look it up.

522
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,080
Whoopi Goldberg ends up being a coach in the NBA.

523
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,040
And I was like, that's my career path.

524
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,040
You want to be Whoopi?

525
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:49,040
Yeah.

526
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,040
You want to be Whoopi?

527
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:51,040
I was so off.

528
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,040
So happy to hear that.

529
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,040
I did.

530
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,040
I was sports all the way.

531
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:59,440
I had a trapper keeper in the shape and form of a basketball.

532
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,240
I felt like a basketball.

533
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,240
Trapper keepers.

534
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,240
Kids say don't even know.

535
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:06,720
All right.

536
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:07,720
Two.

537
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,080
It's kind of a two parter.

538
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,920
Carly used to be, she's not like this anymore.

539
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:16,200
The pickiest eater.

540
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,400
She could not have her food touching on the plate.

541
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,280
If it touched, she could not eat it, which I think some of your kids have.

542
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:23,280
You know what's really annoying?

543
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:24,280
Is it Melody?

544
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:25,280
Melody.

545
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:26,280
Yeah.

546
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:30,120
Melody knows this, but Carly has a condition.

547
00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:33,000
She's directionally challenged.

548
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:38,360
She cannot get from point A to point B without GPS.

549
00:24:38,360 --> 00:24:40,400
What we did before GPS.

550
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,320
Holy moly.

551
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:47,240
I didn't drive a cell phone when I drove and I didn't have a Tom Tom.

552
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,960
Carly did not get her license until she was 18 because she did not like driving.

553
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:52,960
This is a this is a new one.

554
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:53,960
I didn't write down.

555
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,880
I didn't mean to say this one, but it's true.

556
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:56,880
I hate driving.

557
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:57,880
She hates driving.

558
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:58,880
She still does.

559
00:24:58,880 --> 00:24:59,880
She's really bad.

560
00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:01,600
She's a really bad driver.

561
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:07,840
We were driving, naming actual places for anybody who's not from this area will be confusing.

562
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:16,480
So we were driving a very short distance, two towns, three towns away within like 20,

563
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:17,480
30 minutes.

564
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:18,480
Okay.

565
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,760
Within the same state.

566
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:22,760
No bridges.

567
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,680
No, no tolls.

568
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:25,680
No.

569
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,960
No, no confusion.

570
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,840
And it was one of our mom, her dance recital.

571
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:38,720
For those of you in the area at Newman College, Newman University.

572
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,440
And she was late and we called her.

573
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:42,440
She was by herself.

574
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:43,440
She was driving.

575
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,080
I don't remember why you didn't come with us, but you were on your own.

576
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,040
And she was like, I'm going to be there soon.

577
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,040
I'm paying the toll.

578
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:56,080
And we were like, you're paying the toll to go down the street.

579
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,840
Why are you paying a toll?

580
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:58,840
What toll?

581
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,720
She was on the turnpike.

582
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:06,440
Pennsylvania turnpike paying the toll to get to Newman College, which if I don't come

583
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,280
from my mom's house, I can't get there.

584
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,280
Okay.

585
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,880
So Carly and I both lived in New York City.

586
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:17,000
This is like not a funny one for a solid year.

587
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,560
Carly had a mysterious illness.

588
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:19,560
Oh my God.

589
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:25,080
And she had horrible stomach pains and type indigestion type things.

590
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:30,840
She would have to vomit a lot for no reason before classes, after classes, walking on

591
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,720
the streets in New York.

592
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:40,680
She would have to run off of the subway to throw up and then get back on the tree and

593
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,280
like go to class and then go teach a class.

594
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,680
And then you did get hospitalized for this.

595
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:47,680
I did.

596
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,080
I was put on morphine.

597
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:55,640
I think I threw up 13, 14 times and they sent me to the ER and I ended up at a lankanol

598
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:56,640
for three days.

599
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,280
They did figure it out.

600
00:26:58,280 --> 00:26:59,280
We did figure it out.

601
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,280
I'm fine.

602
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:05,160
She stopped, you know, I did it to myself, but I was told to do it to myself.

603
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,040
So I didn't know what I was doing was wrong.

604
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,200
She was given medication.

605
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,000
That was the wrong medication for her.

606
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,320
And it was, it was a bad time.

607
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,800
It went on for like six months.

608
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:15,800
Six months.

609
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,800
Okay.

610
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:17,800
So a year was dramatic.

611
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:22,720
I did not walk down the street, but I almost had to take myself out of college because

612
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,240
I couldn't get to class.

613
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,400
Is that why you transferred colleges five times?

614
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,160
You went to five different colleges.

615
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,800
You just kept throwing up on campus.

616
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,920
Listen, I'm fine.

617
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:32,920
I'm good.

618
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:33,920
All right.

619
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:34,920
Last one.

620
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:35,920
That was fun.

621
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:36,920
That was a fun fact.

622
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,880
I just felt like everybody should know.

623
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,160
Carly has a phobia.

624
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,280
Okay.

625
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:43,800
This is not extra of her.

626
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,200
This is not a dramatic thing to talk about.

627
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:47,200
A phobia.

628
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,200
I have one.

629
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,200
So I know what it is.

630
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,320
I firmly, I have, I have two of them for you.

631
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:54,480
Oh shoot.

632
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,080
But they kind of go together.

633
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,280
I firmly believe in a past love.

634
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:04,520
Carly died this way because it's so ingrained in her body and her bones and her soul.

635
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:05,520
This fear, right?

636
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:06,520
That's what a phobia is.

637
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,760
I can think of two phobias that I have.

638
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:08,760
So let's say, right.

639
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:09,760
Good.

640
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:10,760
Cause I have two.

641
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:11,760
Like I said, I have two.

642
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:12,760
So that's good.

643
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:13,760
That's good.

644
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:15,080
Water and bridges.

645
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:19,320
So actually being on a bridge over water, right?

646
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,320
Over troubled water.

647
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:21,920
I mean, it's troubled for me.

648
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:22,920
Oh my God.

649
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,280
Every time we would drive down the shore, she would like cower in the backseat of the

650
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:31,240
car to not look out the window cause she can't look out the window to look at the water.

651
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:36,160
So they know that about me and I will shut my eyes and a hundred percent of I'm scared

652
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:37,160
of the water.

653
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,840
I go in and I swim and it's fine, but I am scared of the water.

654
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,320
You go into your knees.

655
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:43,320
Oh.

656
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,320
You talking about the ocean?

657
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,600
It's all water.

658
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:47,600
Do you shower?

659
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:48,600
Not a lot.

660
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:54,240
That's number six.

661
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:59,120
It's a true, it's a true fear and I'm pretty sure you died like that at some point in your

662
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:00,120
life.

663
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,120
I think so too.

664
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:02,440
Because it is, we're all, I'm a water baby.

665
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:03,440
Yeah.

666
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:04,840
I'm obsessed with the water and the ocean.

667
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,800
I'm afraid of what's in there in the ocean, but I love the water.

668
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,880
If I could live by water, I would.

669
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:12,520
And you are the complete opposite.

670
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:17,080
And I, along with that of a hundred percent think I'm going to get murdered, if not by

671
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,640
my own husband by somebody else.

672
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,640
This took a turn.

673
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:28,920
All right, Victoria does not know this, but we're about to play a game.

674
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,200
It's called rapid fire.

675
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,040
Please fire me.

676
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:37,920
I'm going to say something and you are going to give me the fastest answer of all your

677
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:38,920
favorite.

678
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:39,920
Cool.

679
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:40,920
So there's, okay.

680
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:41,920
Cool.

681
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,560
This is not rapid fire.

682
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,760
This is like slow burn.

683
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:51,000
What state are we in?

684
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,440
What's your favorite food?

685
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,800
Ice cream, because I can't eat it.

686
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:55,800
Okay.

687
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:56,800
Drink.

688
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:57,800
My favorite drink.

689
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:58,800
Yeah.

690
00:29:58,800 --> 00:29:59,800
Alcohol or not alcohol.

691
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,160
You love, no, you tell me what you love and I'll tell you what you love.

692
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,480
Oh, cool, cool, cool.

693
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,200
Well, I like a good LeCroy.

694
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:08,800
She's cool guys.

695
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,760
TV show.

696
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:11,760
Love is blind.

697
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,000
What's your favorite season?

698
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,000
Fall.

699
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,000
All right.

700
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,680
Sport to watch or go to.

701
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,200
I've always loved basketball.

702
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,200
Me too, apparently.

703
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,200
Animal.

704
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:26,200
I've a lot.

705
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,200
I've a lot.

706
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:28,200
Give me three.

707
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,040
I really, my dog and dogs.

708
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,480
My cat, cat.

709
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:33,480
Horses.

710
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:34,480
I know.

711
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:35,480
I love horses.

712
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:36,480
I have always loved horses.

713
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,840
We used to have a border around our room of horse heads.

714
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:40,840
Wallpaper.

715
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:41,840
We used to have a border.

716
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:42,840
Wallpaper border.

717
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,600
And it was just different types of horses.

718
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:46,600
Dance style.

719
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:47,600
Tap.

720
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,800
Oh, MK is going to be so happy.

721
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:50,800
Our tap teacher.

722
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:51,800
Yeah.

723
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:52,800
Broadway show.

724
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,800
There's I have two.

725
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:54,800
Well, thank God you have an answer.

726
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:55,800
Go ahead.

727
00:30:55,800 --> 00:31:02,240
I actually have like 20, but chorus line and something rotten.

728
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:03,240
Something rotten.

729
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,240
So good.

730
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:05,240
Chorus line is decent.

731
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:06,240
All right.

732
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,240
Last one.

733
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,240
Who's your favorite sister?

734
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:16,040
Billy.

735
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,040
You failed.

736
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,040
You failed.

737
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,040
I really did.

738
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:24,000
I don't like making decisions like that because I love so many things and I don't have a,

739
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:25,080
I do have a favorite color.

740
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,960
It's turquoise, but I also like feel bad when I say that because I like all the other colors.

741
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:29,960
Okay, mom.

742
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,360
And I like yellow.

743
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:35,840
Well, there you have it.

744
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:36,840
Rapid fire.

745
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,840
You're not fired because you stink at that game.

746
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:43,160
Anyway, that's what you get from us today.

747
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:54,800
The real tip of today is to go have a fun conversation with your really close friends, your family,

748
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:59,040
your close friends who are more like family, whoever it is.

749
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:00,640
Talk about some fun stories.

750
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,840
It really, it really helps.

751
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:03,840
Yeah.

752
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,760
It brings you back down into like, oh my gosh, life is actually not this hard.

753
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:08,760
Yeah.

754
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,040
It doesn't have to be, it doesn't have to be that hard.

755
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,040
So very good.

756
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,040
I like how you said it.

757
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,040
Yeah.

758
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,040
Yeah.

759
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:16,040
Yeah.

760
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:21,200
Your real extra tip is to get Carlene your car and then drive over a bridge.

761
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,320
That is extra and an extra that you don't want to see.

762
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,840
So we hope you enjoyed today.

763
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:26,840
Oh my gosh.

764
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:27,840
I've got so many more.

765
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,240
I want to say it's over.

766
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:42,680
Remember, you're always fit to be real and always allowed to be a little extra.

767
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,880
For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and

768
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,680
educational purposes only.

769
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,880
We are not healthcare professionals.

770
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:53,640
For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self-care needs, please refer to the

771
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:58,360
medical professional in your life, your primary care physician, your therapist, a certified

772
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:03,560
coach, whoever it may be and then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to

773
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:04,560
know what do.

774
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,560
Okay?

775
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:31,560
Okay, bye.