WEBVTT 00:00:07.740 --> 00:00:10.699 Welcome to Fit to Be Real. And a little extra. 00:00:10.939 --> 00:00:14.060 I'm Victoria. Hey guys, I'm Carly. It's been 00:00:14.060 --> 00:00:15.759 a while since we did that, right? Wait, that 00:00:15.759 --> 00:00:19.640 was really good. I know. We have an agenda. Yeah, 00:00:19.640 --> 00:00:21.079 we do. We have an agenda. We've got things to 00:00:21.079 --> 00:00:24.359 do. We got places to be. But we are sporting 00:00:24.359 --> 00:00:28.879 our new Fit to Be Real merch. We love good merch. 00:00:29.059 --> 00:00:30.879 This t -shirt's really comfortable. And so is 00:00:30.879 --> 00:00:33.460 the sweatshirt. And it's got this cute little 00:00:33.460 --> 00:00:36.539 extra on the sleeve. No, it's a little extra. 00:00:36.539 --> 00:00:39.840 Get it? It's a little extra. I got the play on 00:00:39.840 --> 00:00:42.299 words. Victoria designed it. The mug is the same. 00:00:43.000 --> 00:00:46.619 There's a little extra. But it's okay if you're 00:00:46.619 --> 00:00:51.320 a lot. It is on the CFIT Fitness website and 00:00:51.320 --> 00:00:54.439 you can also go to our Instagram and find a link 00:00:54.439 --> 00:00:57.789 there. So if you can get all your Fit to be real 00:00:57.789 --> 00:01:00.390 merch. That was good. I know. She wasn't sure 00:01:00.390 --> 00:01:03.090 if any of that was true, but it is. That's why 00:01:03.090 --> 00:01:05.209 I didn't look at you, because I was like, I didn't 00:01:05.209 --> 00:01:07.269 want you to look over and be like, no, you can't. 00:01:07.329 --> 00:01:08.709 You said Instagram. I was like, where is she 00:01:08.709 --> 00:01:11.590 going with this? But it was good. There's a link 00:01:11.590 --> 00:01:13.750 tree. It has it all. We have commercials now 00:01:13.750 --> 00:01:16.069 in our podcast, so I feel like I need to be a 00:01:16.069 --> 00:01:21.030 little more profesh. I really do love when the 00:01:21.030 --> 00:01:22.849 commercials cut us off mid -sentence, though. 00:01:23.430 --> 00:01:26.950 I'm sure I have control over that. I don't know 00:01:26.950 --> 00:01:30.469 what I'm doing yet, but give me six months. Yeah, 00:01:30.609 --> 00:01:32.329 I'll figure it out. It's funny. I'll find time 00:01:32.329 --> 00:01:35.629 to figure it out. Well, I listened back to our 00:01:35.629 --> 00:01:37.709 episode last week, as I do every week, just to 00:01:37.709 --> 00:01:39.609 make sure I didn't say something completely. 00:01:39.709 --> 00:01:42.709 It's too late. It doesn't matter. Canceling like 00:01:42.709 --> 00:01:45.409 that I'm going to get canceled for. I say many 00:01:45.409 --> 00:01:46.829 things every week that I should get canceled 00:01:46.829 --> 00:01:52.469 for, but I really enjoy us. I want to be friends 00:01:52.469 --> 00:01:56.290 with us. Wait, so Donna Donna's the party the 00:01:56.290 --> 00:01:59.430 party girl Donna texted me and was like I just 00:01:59.430 --> 00:02:01.329 want to sit in on it I just want to sit and watch 00:02:01.329 --> 00:02:03.730 I was like, you know what whenever you want we 00:02:03.730 --> 00:02:05.670 don't know. We have to have you on anyway Oh, 00:02:05.750 --> 00:02:07.689 yes part. We definitely do we've had somebody 00:02:07.689 --> 00:02:10.590 sit in when chief Madonna was here His wife sat 00:02:10.590 --> 00:02:13.770 in the corner and was loving life. Oh man, we 00:02:13.770 --> 00:02:18.110 should charge tickets actually speaking of Kind 00:02:18.110 --> 00:02:22.560 of none of that, but you you are all going to 00:02:22.560 --> 00:02:26.120 be a part of an episode, if you so choose. And 00:02:26.120 --> 00:02:29.919 I think we should do it on our 150th. We are 00:02:29.919 --> 00:02:32.439 at 136 right now, so it'll give us time to figure 00:02:32.439 --> 00:02:34.360 it out how to do this. Holy smokes. Are we doing 00:02:34.360 --> 00:02:37.979 a live? We're going to do a live call -in. Phone 00:02:37.979 --> 00:02:41.120 a friend. Love it. Phone two friends, because 00:02:41.120 --> 00:02:46.379 there's two of us. So yeah, give us 20 more episodes 00:02:46.379 --> 00:02:49.419 to figure out how, but 150 will be our call -in 00:02:49.419 --> 00:02:53.939 live. Fit To Be Real. I just watched the Call 00:02:53.939 --> 00:02:57.259 Her Daddy documentary on her podcast. Do you 00:02:57.259 --> 00:02:59.939 know who Call Her Daddy is? Yeah, yeah. I see 00:02:59.939 --> 00:03:01.719 clips of it, but I haven't like... Well, she's 00:03:01.719 --> 00:03:05.039 from here. She's like from Malvern. So I watched 00:03:05.039 --> 00:03:08.400 her documentary and she does like a whole live 00:03:08.400 --> 00:03:10.719 at Madison Square Garden where she has like dancers 00:03:10.719 --> 00:03:12.900 and stuff and then she talks. We should totally 00:03:12.900 --> 00:03:15.530 do that at C -Fit. We should get up on the stage, 00:03:15.909 --> 00:03:18.210 have two seats. Oh my God, we have those two 00:03:18.210 --> 00:03:20.349 chairs. Oh my God, we have a stage. We have a 00:03:20.349 --> 00:03:23.090 stage. We should do a live podcast. We have those 00:03:23.090 --> 00:03:27.509 two Ikea chairs. This is all pretty perfect. 00:03:27.569 --> 00:03:29.849 We're going to have backup dancers as well, just 00:03:29.849 --> 00:03:32.590 like Alex Harrell. Yeah, they're going to be 00:03:32.590 --> 00:03:37.169 at the ripe age of 8 to 12. They're going to 00:03:37.169 --> 00:03:39.949 do their own choreography. Michael Jackson impersonators. 00:03:40.509 --> 00:03:44.060 Galore, they are. Yep, a cat. It's going to be 00:03:44.060 --> 00:03:46.300 great. We have a little cat. Yep. Perfect. So 00:03:46.300 --> 00:03:49.479 look forward to that in around 200 or 300. We 00:03:49.479 --> 00:03:51.020 need some time to work on that. Oh, I'm not going 00:03:51.020 --> 00:03:54.120 to make it to 300. OK. I might be dead by then. 00:03:54.500 --> 00:03:59.280 So last week was Victoria's podcast, and now 00:03:59.280 --> 00:04:04.199 this week, it's my time now. I'm the captain 00:04:04.199 --> 00:04:06.560 now. There it is. Couldn't find it. Also, there 00:04:06.560 --> 00:04:08.699 is salt in this coffee, but you creamed it, didn't 00:04:08.699 --> 00:04:11.479 you? Yeah. Yeah. Never mind. I think it tastes 00:04:11.479 --> 00:04:16.860 great. No, I creamed my coffee. I don't like 00:04:16.860 --> 00:04:18.899 how you said it. I take it back. You said it. 00:04:18.899 --> 00:04:22.459 You made it weird. I know. I have a special talent. 00:04:22.899 --> 00:04:25.100 I should have put that when I was an actor on 00:04:25.100 --> 00:04:28.220 my resume under special talents, making situations 00:04:28.220 --> 00:04:30.180 awkward. Honestly, they would have booked you 00:04:30.180 --> 00:04:32.879 for it. That's how they would have been like, 00:04:32.879 --> 00:04:35.259 that girl's funny. Yeah. I should have done that. 00:04:35.439 --> 00:04:38.720 Mine was like, I don't know. Can say all 50 states 00:04:38.720 --> 00:04:42.430 in alphabetical order. I should have put. My 00:04:42.430 --> 00:04:45.870 mom my mom your mom just mine in this moment. 00:04:45.889 --> 00:04:49.040 She's just mine. She told me to put has a driver's 00:04:49.040 --> 00:04:53.819 license for a special skill. I have a driver's 00:04:53.819 --> 00:04:56.259 license. Tell me you don't have any confidence 00:04:56.259 --> 00:04:58.519 in me without telling me you don't have any confidence. 00:04:58.560 --> 00:05:02.060 To be fair, people in New York that were actors 00:05:02.060 --> 00:05:05.920 normally don't drive. Right, so if it's a regional 00:05:05.920 --> 00:05:07.920 theater in the boonies. Yeah, they want to know 00:05:07.920 --> 00:05:09.980 that you can drive around like maybe that can 00:05:09.980 --> 00:05:14.920 help your chances of getting a job. Mom had confidence 00:05:14.920 --> 00:05:16.939 in you, more confidence in you than she did in 00:05:16.939 --> 00:05:21.980 me. That's another episode. You know what? This 00:05:21.980 --> 00:05:25.779 is too much. Ken, we are going to start what 00:05:25.779 --> 00:05:27.560 we're doing. We're having a fun episode today, 00:05:27.560 --> 00:05:29.540 by the way, but I do want to say - Are you not 00:05:29.540 --> 00:05:35.800 having fun yet? I saw Wicked last night. She 00:05:35.800 --> 00:05:37.459 has not - Victoria has not seen it yet. Wicked 00:05:37.459 --> 00:05:41.579 - I've heard some things. So somebody DMed me 00:05:41.579 --> 00:05:43.459 afterward and said they heard mixed reviews and 00:05:43.459 --> 00:05:45.889 wanted to know what I thought about it. I've 00:05:45.889 --> 00:05:48.029 not heard mixed reviews, and I don't know what 00:05:48.029 --> 00:05:50.410 anybody could say that would be mixed about it. 00:05:50.410 --> 00:05:53.310 They added songs. I did not like the added songs. 00:05:53.310 --> 00:05:55.470 I'll say that. Why the heck would you add songs 00:05:55.470 --> 00:05:58.009 to this perfect show? Because I think they needed 00:05:58.009 --> 00:06:01.230 to add time to make a second movie. They needed 00:06:01.230 --> 00:06:04.589 the they needed the minutes. And then I heard. 00:06:06.110 --> 00:06:08.509 So have a shorter movie, whatever, it's fine. 00:06:09.170 --> 00:06:12.850 Then I heard. Which I think is valid because 00:06:12.850 --> 00:06:17.860 act two on the stage is all. I know is dark. 00:06:18.120 --> 00:06:20.540 Yes, it's dark. This is not as dark as it should 00:06:20.540 --> 00:06:26.000 be. It's not as heavy as it should be. It's all 00:06:26.000 --> 00:06:28.120 of a sudden it's slow, it's slow, it's slow. 00:06:28.199 --> 00:06:32.980 And then there's a scene that everything just 00:06:32.980 --> 00:06:34.519 revs up and amps up and all of a sudden the movie 00:06:34.519 --> 00:06:37.120 is over because they're running out of time type 00:06:37.120 --> 00:06:38.740 of thing. That's the reviews that I heard. I 00:06:38.740 --> 00:06:41.410 would agree. I would agree with that. I would 00:06:41.410 --> 00:06:44.069 say it's definitely dark and slower than the 00:06:44.069 --> 00:06:45.350 first movie, because we talked about it with 00:06:45.350 --> 00:06:47.569 the kids on the way home, because the first act 00:06:47.569 --> 00:06:51.589 is all dancey and colorful. It's painting the 00:06:51.589 --> 00:06:53.370 picture, so that's a lot of information. But 00:06:53.370 --> 00:06:56.129 this explains all of Wizard of Oz in the second 00:06:56.129 --> 00:07:00.670 act. Right. So that is exciting, because even 00:07:00.670 --> 00:07:02.930 I forgot. I mean, I've seen Wicked six times, 00:07:02.949 --> 00:07:05.569 and I even saw it a couple of years ago in Philadelphia. 00:07:06.089 --> 00:07:09.949 But they explain more of it, and I will say. 00:07:10.460 --> 00:07:12.379 I know there's a lot of you out there. I am on 00:07:12.379 --> 00:07:16.879 the Jonathan Bailey train. Oh my God. I love 00:07:16.879 --> 00:07:19.759 them. First of all, that was rough. Sorry, I've 00:07:19.759 --> 00:07:21.740 been singing Wicked last night on the way home 00:07:21.740 --> 00:07:23.740 and on the car ride to school this morning. I've 00:07:23.740 --> 00:07:26.699 been having, we've been having karaoke parties 00:07:26.699 --> 00:07:29.079 in the car. It has nothing to do with her screaming 00:07:29.079 --> 00:07:30.980 into a microphone every single day. Well, that's 00:07:30.980 --> 00:07:33.040 why, yeah, no, that too. Even though the purpose 00:07:33.040 --> 00:07:35.100 of a microphone is to stop the screaming, but 00:07:35.100 --> 00:07:39.089 that's fine. I am on, I'm on that train and I 00:07:39.089 --> 00:07:41.189 am full steam ahead. Wait, funny story about 00:07:41.189 --> 00:07:43.589 what's his name? Jonathan Bailey. Jonathan Bailey. 00:07:43.750 --> 00:07:46.790 So the trailer came on for the second movie on 00:07:46.790 --> 00:07:50.709 like a commercial ad or whatever. And Pedro and 00:07:50.709 --> 00:07:53.410 I, sorry, Pedro, Pedro and I are talking and 00:07:53.410 --> 00:07:56.569 I was like, oh, he just won sexiest man alive. 00:07:56.829 --> 00:08:04.009 Yes. Pedro goes, ah, good for Jeff Goldblum. 00:08:05.550 --> 00:08:11.220 I was like, what? He was runner up. He took a 00:08:11.220 --> 00:08:13.339 second and he was like, yeah, good for him. Good 00:08:13.339 --> 00:08:17.959 for him. No, Pedro, not Jeff Goldblum. I'm sure 00:08:17.959 --> 00:08:21.300 he was sexy. He's great. In his day. He does 00:08:21.300 --> 00:08:24.000 have more to do in the second movie, which I 00:08:24.000 --> 00:08:26.740 was like, oh, he's good. Jeff Goldblum, he's 00:08:26.740 --> 00:08:29.360 real good. I don't. Yeah, I'd have to say it. 00:08:29.399 --> 00:08:32.240 I don't remember the second act as well as I 00:08:32.240 --> 00:08:33.919 remember the first act because those are the 00:08:33.919 --> 00:08:37.330 songs that you play. Yeah, but I think we listen 00:08:37.330 --> 00:08:41.450 to the duet between as long as your mind. Yes. 00:08:41.509 --> 00:08:44.090 Like six times this morning on the way to school. 00:08:44.190 --> 00:08:47.690 How far is your commute? Well, I remembered why 00:08:47.690 --> 00:08:49.929 I married a singer because I was like, oh, Andrew 00:08:49.929 --> 00:08:52.210 could have done this. This is so Andrew. OK, 00:08:52.350 --> 00:08:57.029 Carmela. OK, Billy is rolling his eyes in an 00:08:57.029 --> 00:09:00.490 open grave, even though he's not in it yet. Somewhere. 00:09:02.169 --> 00:09:05.090 I literally was like, oh, my God, yes. All right. 00:09:05.990 --> 00:09:08.809 Well, I have to say it. Hopefully, I'll say it 00:09:08.809 --> 00:09:10.990 faster than I saw the Barbie movie. You still 00:09:10.990 --> 00:09:13.169 haven't seen it? Haven't seen it. OK. Well, See 00:09:13.169 --> 00:09:17.509 Wicked Part 2, it will, I was going to say put 00:09:17.509 --> 00:09:19.029 you in the Christmas spirit, but it definitely 00:09:19.029 --> 00:09:21.269 won't. Oh, my God. I hope it doesn't. It's not. 00:09:21.350 --> 00:09:23.590 What kind of Christmas is that? That's glampus. 00:09:23.690 --> 00:09:26.450 What's it called? Crumpus. Crampus? Crampus? 00:09:27.269 --> 00:09:32.539 Iodized? Ionized? Tumeric? Tumeric? All right, 00:09:32.559 --> 00:09:34.539 so what are we doing today? Not talking about 00:09:34.539 --> 00:09:38.860 Wicked, go see it. We are, last, actually the 00:09:38.860 --> 00:09:43.320 past two years, we've been playing a little get 00:09:43.320 --> 00:09:45.340 to know you game because we've been saying, hey, 00:09:45.399 --> 00:09:47.659 you should do this around the Thanksgiving table 00:09:47.659 --> 00:09:50.460 after dinner. And it's a good thing, you know, 00:09:50.460 --> 00:09:52.200 as you're digesting your meal. You're gonna be 00:09:52.200 --> 00:09:54.539 seeing this after, or watching, hearing, wherever 00:09:54.539 --> 00:09:56.600 you get it, after Thanksgiving. So we're gonna 00:09:56.600 --> 00:10:00.080 say do this at Christmas. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:10:00.240 --> 00:10:01.419 Because Thanksgiving will have passed by the 00:10:01.419 --> 00:10:03.779 time you get this. Wow, that was a long scenic 00:10:03.779 --> 00:10:06.240 route to the reason for that sentence. Got it. 00:10:06.399 --> 00:10:09.980 But it's always fun. We were talking about this 00:10:09.980 --> 00:10:13.580 with Julia, one of our C -Fit squad teachers, 00:10:14.019 --> 00:10:16.460 about Grab the Mic, which is a fun song game 00:10:16.460 --> 00:10:18.919 you could play with your family after a dinner 00:10:18.919 --> 00:10:21.320 or around the holidays where you have to think 00:10:21.320 --> 00:10:23.279 of song titles. We are going to ask each other 00:10:23.279 --> 00:10:26.480 questions today because I know that I certainly 00:10:26.480 --> 00:10:29.879 don't spend enough time with Victoria. 24 hours, 00:10:29.980 --> 00:10:31.679 seven days a week is just not enough. We don't 00:10:31.679 --> 00:10:34.639 talk though. No we don't. This is the most we 00:10:34.639 --> 00:10:37.960 talk. Everything else is about CFIT, about studio, 00:10:38.379 --> 00:10:40.480 complaining about CFIT, complaining about the 00:10:40.480 --> 00:10:45.509 studio, and you know, our parents. Alright, so 00:10:45.509 --> 00:10:47.470 what do I need the star card? So do the star 00:10:47.470 --> 00:10:49.950 cards you ask me one first I will ask you I have 00:10:49.950 --> 00:10:51.809 not looked at these cards yet I picked them from 00:10:51.809 --> 00:10:54.049 the middle of the pile and we're gonna do this 00:10:54.049 --> 00:10:57.350 really quickly because I feel like I know all 00:10:57.350 --> 00:11:00.029 there is to know about her but I could be I Could 00:11:00.029 --> 00:11:02.690 be surprised. You're a fool. The theme of this 00:11:02.690 --> 00:11:04.690 game is called talking point. It's to get people 00:11:04.690 --> 00:11:07.950 talking and it's a great game Oh, we're bringing 00:11:07.950 --> 00:11:11.149 out the dong -dong the let's let's test it out 00:11:11.149 --> 00:11:18.970 You're wrong It works. Go. At what age do you 00:11:18.970 --> 00:11:21.330 think kids should have a cell phone and why? 00:11:21.470 --> 00:11:27.529 Boring. Oh, never. Never, never. Love that answer 00:11:27.529 --> 00:11:34.549 question. Oh, out of all of your relatives, who 00:11:34.549 --> 00:11:38.110 would you like to get to know better? And why? 00:11:43.209 --> 00:11:47.549 Okay, go ahead. Dean. Because I spent an entire 00:11:47.549 --> 00:11:52.149 day with Dean. And he's funny. I know. And he's 00:11:52.149 --> 00:11:55.149 funny. And he's not trying to be funny. And he's 00:11:55.149 --> 00:12:01.470 also like, when he's by himself, he's himself. 00:12:01.669 --> 00:12:04.169 When he's with his siblings, he's them. Yeah. 00:12:04.429 --> 00:12:08.470 And so it's hard to separate what's actually 00:12:08.470 --> 00:12:10.789 his behavior and what isn't his behavior. He 00:12:10.789 --> 00:12:14.110 was so cute. When you took him out and excited 00:12:14.110 --> 00:12:16.710 and a kid he was a kid. He wasn't trying to be 00:12:16.710 --> 00:12:19.629 older He was just Dean. Yeah, so I want more 00:12:19.629 --> 00:12:22.970 conversations of just Dean his facial expressions 00:12:22.970 --> 00:12:24.870 are like something He's like out of a movie last 00:12:24.870 --> 00:12:28.090 night during wicked Elphaba sings. I'm not that 00:12:28.090 --> 00:12:32.049 and he goes girl By himself and then looks at 00:12:32.049 --> 00:12:35.350 me and Andrew and goes Like I got it. I was like, 00:12:35.450 --> 00:12:37.470 oh my god. How'd you know that? I'll surprise 00:12:37.470 --> 00:12:39.250 you though. All right, I'll let you get to know 00:12:40.529 --> 00:12:45.789 Thank you. You were there watching him come out 00:12:45.789 --> 00:12:56.509 as he was born. Just saying. If you could time 00:12:56.509 --> 00:12:58.909 travel for a day, what would you do? Erase that 00:12:58.909 --> 00:13:01.870 memory is what I would do. I would not be there. 00:13:02.809 --> 00:13:06.490 If I could time travel? I mean, I'm gonna say 00:13:06.490 --> 00:13:08.909 go back to, you know this, you're gonna make 00:13:08.909 --> 00:13:14.169 fun of me, 1950s, like let's go to the hop. Like 00:13:14.169 --> 00:13:16.190 the privileged white women you are. No, I just 00:13:16.190 --> 00:13:19.149 wanna get dressed up and like go to a dance and 00:13:19.149 --> 00:13:22.750 square dance and like let's go to the hop. Like 00:13:22.750 --> 00:13:25.970 Grease times. That's 60s. No, that's 50s was 00:13:25.970 --> 00:13:29.429 Grease. They did not wear pants in the 60s. At 00:13:29.429 --> 00:13:31.509 the end of the, yeah they did. They wore, that 00:13:31.509 --> 00:13:34.269 was like the pedal pushers. Don't. Don't mess 00:13:34.269 --> 00:13:37.730 with my decades. All right, maybe that was like 00:13:37.730 --> 00:13:42.409 61. I want the dresses in the hop. It's my turn. 00:13:45.029 --> 00:13:48.570 Who do you like spending time with at home? Pepper. 00:13:49.809 --> 00:13:52.529 Duh. Sorry, Pedro. Look at her. Oh, I'm Pedro. 00:13:53.309 --> 00:13:56.509 All the P's. Look at her. She's a pretty little 00:13:56.509 --> 00:14:09.200 baby. OK. If you could have any animal as a... 00:14:09.200 --> 00:14:12.139 Ugh, what is your favorite outfit right now? 00:14:12.960 --> 00:14:16.340 The one I'm currently wearing, fit to be real 00:14:16.340 --> 00:14:23.100 with matching sweatpants. Found locally, online. 00:14:24.460 --> 00:14:26.840 I don't like this one. The really fun thing about 00:14:26.840 --> 00:14:30.480 this game is you can do it every one. Oh, would 00:14:30.480 --> 00:14:33.769 you rather... Get to stay up really late or sleep 00:14:33.769 --> 00:14:37.309 really late sleep sleep really late. It's not 00:14:37.309 --> 00:14:41.110 even a question. I've always been like that What 00:14:41.110 --> 00:14:43.870 do you like about the city you live in and what 00:14:43.870 --> 00:14:46.809 don't you like about city you live in? Oh, I 00:14:46.809 --> 00:14:49.990 Love that we live far enough from the city where 00:14:49.990 --> 00:14:52.529 we're not in the city And I love that we can 00:14:52.529 --> 00:14:55.429 get there in 20 minutes and do like I cannot 00:14:55.429 --> 00:14:57.029 wait I just talked to you about this the other 00:14:57.029 --> 00:15:01.340 day and you said I said too many words I really 00:15:01.340 --> 00:15:03.799 can't wait to go to Miracle on 13th Street in 00:15:03.799 --> 00:15:06.940 South Philly and go to Love Park and do the ice 00:15:06.940 --> 00:15:10.799 skating and all that stuff. And it's so close 00:15:10.799 --> 00:15:15.080 to us. I love that for us. I'm happy for you. 00:15:15.179 --> 00:15:16.720 Thank you. What don't you like about the city? 00:15:18.200 --> 00:15:22.399 The city. In general. That's good. That's good. 00:15:22.799 --> 00:15:25.240 Yeah, just the city in general. I love that we 00:15:25.240 --> 00:15:27.259 live far enough where we don't live in the city, 00:15:27.259 --> 00:15:30.100 but can get there at any time. I feel like that's 00:15:30.100 --> 00:15:32.299 a good answer and you should be satisfied. If 00:15:32.299 --> 00:15:38.000 you could choose, if you could choose what we 00:15:38.000 --> 00:15:40.679 did for a day, what would we do? Me and you, 00:15:41.200 --> 00:15:51.940 not you and Pepper. So not my preference. Oh, 00:15:53.279 --> 00:15:54.960 but we used to do the day after Christmas and 00:15:54.960 --> 00:15:57.360 just sit and watch Harry Potter movies because 00:15:57.629 --> 00:16:02.769 Now all we do is talk work and future work and 00:16:02.769 --> 00:16:07.509 how much we need to work more. And I'm tired 00:16:07.509 --> 00:16:11.409 of that. All right, I'll do that. What do you 00:16:11.409 --> 00:16:13.169 think is the best part about being a kid? What 00:16:13.169 --> 00:16:15.950 did you did you make sure these were curated 00:16:15.950 --> 00:16:18.769 for you? This question. What was the question? 00:16:20.470 --> 00:16:22.990 What do you think is the best part about being 00:16:22.990 --> 00:16:27.389 a kid? Oh. Just hold on to that no responsibility 00:16:27.389 --> 00:16:30.070 for as long as you possibly can. Stay on your 00:16:30.070 --> 00:16:32.649 parents' phone plan. Stay on their insurance. 00:16:32.950 --> 00:16:35.309 Carly's still doing it. No, I'm not on their 00:16:35.309 --> 00:16:40.789 insurance, but phone plan. You don't know what 00:16:40.789 --> 00:16:44.049 you have until you don't have it anymore. Take 00:16:44.049 --> 00:16:48.350 the naps. No responsibility. Man, those were 00:16:48.350 --> 00:17:00.879 the good old days. Thumbs up approval. All right. 00:17:00.960 --> 00:17:03.559 Oh, this is a good one. Take a sip. Chug a lug. 00:17:04.319 --> 00:17:06.720 Chug a lug. Chug a lug. Because you're going 00:17:06.720 --> 00:17:11.299 to need it. What three words best describe our 00:17:11.299 --> 00:17:26.849 family? I love this. Come on. Loud? OK. I like 00:17:26.849 --> 00:17:31.529 that that's the first one. Excitable. OK. Are 00:17:31.529 --> 00:17:39.109 you just being nice? Yeah. OK. Mom's going to 00:17:39.109 --> 00:17:41.349 be so upset with you. Why? These are amazing. 00:17:41.569 --> 00:17:44.430 Loud and excitable. Loud. The parties are loud. 00:17:44.509 --> 00:17:47.109 We're talking loud. You have to be loud in this 00:17:47.109 --> 00:17:51.410 family to be heard. Excitable. We do a lot of 00:17:51.410 --> 00:17:53.849 exciting things. We're not boring. We get excited 00:17:53.849 --> 00:17:57.500 easily. I think we. I think that comes from mom 00:17:57.500 --> 00:17:59.079 when you're like, oh, look what I made. She's 00:17:59.079 --> 00:18:03.740 like, you made this? I guess that could be dramatic. 00:18:04.279 --> 00:18:07.039 Not excitable. Well, but yes, I don't mean it 00:18:07.039 --> 00:18:11.619 in a bad way. We do exciting things. We try to 00:18:11.619 --> 00:18:15.839 keep things exciting. It's never boring. Not 00:18:15.839 --> 00:18:17.720 even like a normal Sunday dinner. It's never 00:18:17.720 --> 00:18:19.119 boring. There's always something we're playing 00:18:19.119 --> 00:18:22.759 games. It's loud. You know, that's all that's 00:18:22.759 --> 00:18:28.569 all the thing I love. And then. Third one. Close. 00:18:29.650 --> 00:18:33.349 Yeah. And that's just because I want a good Christmas 00:18:33.349 --> 00:18:36.329 present. I'm just kidding. No, we are. We are 00:18:36.329 --> 00:18:38.130 close. We're not doing Christmas presents this 00:18:38.130 --> 00:18:41.930 year. Just as long as you remember. I mean, I 00:18:41.930 --> 00:18:44.529 got whatever. We're not talking about it. Our 00:18:44.529 --> 00:18:46.549 brother's getting married in Mexico, so we're 00:18:46.549 --> 00:18:48.609 not doing Christmas presents. And Carly turned 00:18:48.609 --> 00:18:52.210 40 and got a party and a trip. So we're not doing 00:18:52.210 --> 00:18:54.650 Christmas presents. You heard it here first and 00:18:54.650 --> 00:19:03.569 last. I mean... Go ahead. What's your favorite 00:19:03.569 --> 00:19:10.769 movie? Ah... Three. I'm gonna name you three. 00:19:11.289 --> 00:19:18.089 No. No. Incorrect. I'm gonna name you five. No, 00:19:18.089 --> 00:19:20.549 three. I don't do ones. I don't like that question. 00:19:21.609 --> 00:19:28.200 And this is my game. So Notting Hill, Avi, Dirty 00:19:28.200 --> 00:19:35.240 Dancing, Avi, and Oh My God. It's not a movie. 00:19:36.500 --> 00:19:41.220 Not a movie. Oh my God. What is it? Not a song. 00:19:41.640 --> 00:19:45.440 Yeah, it is. Baby, let me love you down. Get 00:19:45.440 --> 00:19:48.400 out of my house. There's so many ways to love 00:19:48.400 --> 00:19:50.640 you. That is your key these days. I know. My 00:19:50.640 --> 00:19:54.420 God. I've been singing the Fiyero part. Andrew's 00:19:54.420 --> 00:19:57.539 been singing the Elphaba. What is my favorite 00:19:57.539 --> 00:20:02.740 Christmas movie? Elf? No! White Christmas? No. 00:20:03.880 --> 00:20:06.640 I love White Christmas. I know. Oh my god, no. 00:20:06.759 --> 00:20:09.720 With all the... Love Actually. Love Actually 00:20:09.720 --> 00:20:14.339 is really the worst movie. Well, listen. When 00:20:14.339 --> 00:20:20.210 you break it down, my god. Oh my God. I think 00:20:20.210 --> 00:20:23.509 it's cause it's here. You're singing my glottal. 00:20:23.529 --> 00:20:27.089 From your apple. I don't have an apple. I'm a 00:20:27.089 --> 00:20:30.730 girl. You do today. Oh, okay. I'm not going to 00:20:30.730 --> 00:20:32.710 do it again. What is your favorite Christmas 00:20:32.710 --> 00:20:37.990 tradition? If you had to pick one. I don't think 00:20:37.990 --> 00:20:44.779 I've had a same Christmas. Like, I don't do anything 00:20:44.779 --> 00:20:48.039 religiously every Christmas. Right. To have the, 00:20:48.640 --> 00:20:56.200 hmm. Actually, I like the night that I, because 00:20:56.200 --> 00:20:58.019 I've already been wrapped for a long time. Are 00:20:58.019 --> 00:21:01.059 you joking me? Because we're not doing presents. 00:21:01.819 --> 00:21:04.380 No, no. So you didn't wrap anything because we're 00:21:04.380 --> 00:21:08.240 not doing presents. Let me talk. Oh my god. Sorry, 00:21:08.240 --> 00:21:10.220 you have to be louder than that in this family. 00:21:13.179 --> 00:21:17.319 I, when I am already, usually already wrapped 00:21:17.319 --> 00:21:21.559 because I'm better than you, okay? I like the 00:21:21.559 --> 00:21:27.009 night that I... have all of mom's presents and 00:21:27.009 --> 00:21:29.190 whatever ones that you need wrapped. Like I like 00:21:29.190 --> 00:21:32.190 to wrap them. So Victoria, that's a great tradition. 00:21:32.329 --> 00:21:34.609 I love that for me. I really do. I really enjoy 00:21:34.609 --> 00:21:37.529 that as well because when Victoria, Victoria 00:21:37.529 --> 00:21:39.789 is always ready extra early and she's like, I 00:21:39.789 --> 00:21:41.329 got to wrap mom's presents tonight. What do you 00:21:41.329 --> 00:21:43.829 need? I'm like, well, I need all of these wrapped. 00:21:44.750 --> 00:21:47.309 They give me their paper because that's important 00:21:47.309 --> 00:21:52.920 and very important. And I judge them. for everything 00:21:52.920 --> 00:21:55.400 that I'm wrapping. And then I get upset for the 00:21:55.400 --> 00:21:58.819 ob, long ob shaped things that they want me to 00:21:58.819 --> 00:22:02.000 wrap well. And then it used to be watching Christmas 00:22:02.000 --> 00:22:04.799 movies and now it's watching True Crime at Christmas 00:22:04.799 --> 00:22:07.539 time. So it's evolved. Wait, that should be a 00:22:07.539 --> 00:22:10.500 thing, True Crime at Christmas time. Santa's 00:22:10.500 --> 00:22:15.960 got a brand new bag. Love it. Yeah. Last star 00:22:15.960 --> 00:22:17.160 card for you and then pick up the other pile. 00:22:18.509 --> 00:22:20.789 If you could speak a different language, which 00:22:20.789 --> 00:22:22.970 one would you choose and why? Oh, Spanish in 00:22:22.970 --> 00:22:26.490 a second. It's just, I want to say like Italian 00:22:26.490 --> 00:22:29.750 because I think it's like a pretty language to 00:22:29.750 --> 00:22:33.329 listen to, but Spanish is so necessary. I'm trying 00:22:33.329 --> 00:22:36.349 so hard. Yeah. You got Spanish lessons for Christmas 00:22:36.349 --> 00:22:39.930 last year. Yeah, I got Spanish lessons. I got 00:22:39.930 --> 00:22:42.829 an app. How you doing? Hola. Horrible. Como esta 00:22:42.829 --> 00:22:49.130 mi amigo? That wasn't technically wrong, but 00:22:49.130 --> 00:22:53.549 you couldn't have sound whiter. I had babble 00:22:53.549 --> 00:22:55.750 and it just was like flashcards. So like, yes, 00:22:55.769 --> 00:22:59.529 I know words, but then I can't understand when 00:22:59.529 --> 00:23:01.450 they try to put them in sentences or like when 00:23:01.450 --> 00:23:03.950 someone in the app is talking. So now I'm on 00:23:03.950 --> 00:23:07.069 jump speak. Oh, and then I'm going to go to Duolingo. 00:23:07.190 --> 00:23:09.130 I'm going to try to figure this out. Duolingo 00:23:09.130 --> 00:23:13.470 sounds like a rapper. I'm sorry. Something Duolingo. 00:23:13.690 --> 00:23:19.430 That's in a song. Probably. Duolingo. Or it's 00:23:19.430 --> 00:23:23.230 Dua Lipa. No, it's Duolingo. Somebody tell me 00:23:23.230 --> 00:23:28.589 what that song is. But yeah, okay, enjoy. I'm 00:23:28.589 --> 00:23:31.990 trying. I actually do enjoy it, but then I tense 00:23:31.990 --> 00:23:35.250 up when the app's trying to talk in conversation. 00:23:35.950 --> 00:23:38.960 Like, Barbara, she needs help. Barbara, who was 00:23:38.960 --> 00:23:41.039 on our podcast, she is a Spanish teacher. Barbara 00:23:41.039 --> 00:23:43.640 only talked to me in Spanish. That's how we thought 00:23:43.640 --> 00:23:46.180 we were going to raise our kids. Because Andrew 00:23:46.180 --> 00:23:51.099 speaks Spanish slang. He went to Mexico a lot 00:23:51.099 --> 00:23:54.599 when we were younger and worked there. So he 00:23:54.599 --> 00:23:57.240 picked up Spanish slang. He doesn't know how 00:23:57.240 --> 00:24:00.900 to like conjugate a sentence or anything. So 00:24:00.900 --> 00:24:02.420 we were like, when we had Melody, we're like, 00:24:02.500 --> 00:24:04.680 you're going to speak to her in Spanish on the 00:24:04.680 --> 00:24:07.650 weekends, only Spanish. That never happened. 00:24:07.650 --> 00:24:10.569 That never happened one day. Not even one day. 00:24:10.970 --> 00:24:15.390 It never happened. So don't make promises to 00:24:15.390 --> 00:24:18.009 your kids that you can't keep. I don't think 00:24:18.009 --> 00:24:22.230 anybody made that promise to that child. She 00:24:22.230 --> 00:24:25.630 doesn't know Spanish. Okay. Oh, this just got 00:24:25.630 --> 00:24:28.089 deep. Oh my God, literally the card says deep. 00:24:30.390 --> 00:24:33.329 What is a mistake people often make about you? 00:24:40.170 --> 00:24:44.269 I said it got deep. Yeah. People often, that 00:24:44.269 --> 00:24:46.710 means I'm aware of it. Like I know that they're 00:24:46.710 --> 00:24:49.950 making that mistake. Yeah, I know. I mean, I 00:24:49.950 --> 00:24:52.410 know like that. That everyone thinks I'm like 00:24:52.410 --> 00:24:55.690 mean. Yeah. I wouldn't say mean. I think everybody 00:24:55.690 --> 00:24:59.529 thinks you're tougher than me. Like you are more 00:24:59.529 --> 00:25:02.470 like black or white. It's this way or this way. 00:25:03.200 --> 00:25:05.220 I think that's what people think about you when 00:25:05.220 --> 00:25:08.779 it's the complete opposite. I am that way, and 00:25:08.779 --> 00:25:11.660 she is nothing like that. Because I'm better 00:25:11.660 --> 00:25:17.039 than you. Why is that the funniest thing I've 00:25:17.039 --> 00:25:22.039 ever said? Because it's not true. That's why 00:25:22.039 --> 00:25:26.519 it's funny. I would say that is what people think 00:25:26.519 --> 00:25:28.220 about you. Yeah, I would think so. And I think 00:25:28.220 --> 00:25:30.869 that's because I'm not loud. I'm a lot quieter, 00:25:31.029 --> 00:25:33.069 and I'm not in people's faces. Carly's like, 00:25:33.089 --> 00:25:34.769 where were you? Why haven't you been here? When 00:25:34.769 --> 00:25:36.289 are you going to be here more often? And I'm 00:25:36.289 --> 00:25:41.410 like, go do your life. Have a great time. You 00:25:41.410 --> 00:25:45.230 do you, boo. Yeah. And I think in class, we're 00:25:45.230 --> 00:25:49.410 specifically talking in class times, I'll be 00:25:49.410 --> 00:25:51.910 like, come on, guys. And Victoria's like, you're 00:25:51.910 --> 00:25:53.710 here for yourself. If you're not doing the work, 00:25:53.750 --> 00:25:55.250 you're not doing the work. Yeah, I'm not doing 00:25:55.250 --> 00:25:56.990 it for you. I said it last night. You did? Oh 00:25:56.990 --> 00:25:59.109 my god. Yeah, Monday nights are a great time. 00:25:59.839 --> 00:26:03.359 They're crazy hard. Yeah. But like, you know, 00:26:03.359 --> 00:26:05.259 you get to the certain point where you're like, 00:26:05.259 --> 00:26:07.039 I don't want to be here anymore. This is hard. 00:26:07.140 --> 00:26:10.519 I'm tired. We keep doing hard things and you 00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:12.460 just have to talk yourself out of that. But also, 00:26:12.500 --> 00:26:15.160 like, if you want to half ass it, that's good. 00:26:15.240 --> 00:26:17.480 You do you. Right. And that's very much her. 00:26:17.640 --> 00:26:21.640 And I'm like, I this isn't about me. So go ahead. 00:26:22.140 --> 00:26:27.480 What was about you? Side eye to the camera, y 00:26:27.480 --> 00:26:30.769 'all. Yeah, I would say that would be it, I guess. 00:26:30.849 --> 00:26:32.549 I don't know. I don't really care what people 00:26:32.549 --> 00:26:36.490 think. Think it away. I used to care. I don't 00:26:36.490 --> 00:26:40.609 care anymore. Experiences. What is your worst 00:26:40.609 --> 00:26:46.049 habit? My worst habit? Top five. We only do five. 00:26:47.730 --> 00:26:51.109 It says one, so I'm going to pick one. We don't 00:26:51.109 --> 00:26:52.750 have the time for five, guys. We don't have the 00:26:52.750 --> 00:26:55.390 time to dive deep into that. You're right. Victoria 00:26:55.390 --> 00:27:00.690 says deep dive. I would say. Externally, my worst 00:27:00.690 --> 00:27:02.809 habit is picking the skin around my fingers. 00:27:03.089 --> 00:27:05.710 Externally, I appreciate your specificity. Yes. 00:27:06.369 --> 00:27:11.230 Internally, too many to name. Externally, I have 00:27:11.230 --> 00:27:14.390 a very, since the second grade, my anxiety. What 00:27:14.390 --> 00:27:17.890 happened in the second grade? Nothing. My stepmom 00:27:17.890 --> 00:27:20.930 cut my hair before communion. Therapy, what a 00:27:20.930 --> 00:27:26.710 bitch. Queen Gwen. Therapy wood. maybe help you 00:27:26.710 --> 00:27:29.390 stop doing that. Your nails look horrible. Oh, 00:27:29.509 --> 00:27:33.150 horrible. And I do it until they bleed. And then 00:27:33.150 --> 00:27:35.690 99 .9 % of the time, I don't know I'm doing it, 00:27:35.730 --> 00:27:37.309 because that's what a habit is. You don't know 00:27:37.309 --> 00:27:39.470 you're doing it. Then I bleed, and then I realize. 00:27:39.990 --> 00:27:43.240 It's a - We all realize, because snow. A dead 00:27:43.240 --> 00:27:45.440 skin is coming from your hands while you're talking. 00:27:45.920 --> 00:27:47.440 We're sitting in someone's car. But you know 00:27:47.440 --> 00:27:50.220 what I've justified? That's how you will trace 00:27:50.220 --> 00:27:54.259 my body when I get murdered. You will find my 00:27:54.259 --> 00:27:58.579 skin and my DNA everywhere I go and that's how 00:27:58.579 --> 00:28:01.779 you'll find my body. Or that's how you're going 00:28:01.779 --> 00:28:04.119 to be convicted for murder because your skin 00:28:04.119 --> 00:28:09.859 is everywhere. You fool. I can't do the internal 00:28:09.859 --> 00:28:15.460 habits. We know them. It's fine. Okay. What was 00:28:15.460 --> 00:28:20.539 the hard - This is a really fun game to play 00:28:20.539 --> 00:28:23.240 with family around the table. We're getting deep. 00:28:23.640 --> 00:28:25.500 What was the hardest decision you've ever had 00:28:25.500 --> 00:28:28.220 to make? Oh my god. I don't know. What shirt 00:28:28.220 --> 00:28:30.180 I was wearing this morning? No, I can think of 00:28:30.180 --> 00:28:33.279 mine. I know mine right off the top of my head. 00:28:36.279 --> 00:28:42.960 I don't - hardest decision? I - Honestly, don't 00:28:42.960 --> 00:28:50.900 think I've had... You really don't? I don't know. 00:28:51.920 --> 00:28:53.380 Do you want me to tell you mine and maybe it'll 00:28:53.380 --> 00:28:55.460 catapult you with yours? Yeah, we're not the 00:28:55.460 --> 00:28:58.420 same, but yes. Moving home from New York. That 00:28:58.420 --> 00:29:01.339 was a really hard decision because I knew moving 00:29:01.339 --> 00:29:03.440 home from New York meant it was over for me. 00:29:04.039 --> 00:29:09.859 For trying to... You look dead. It's true. I 00:29:09.859 --> 00:29:13.329 knew that when I said we're going, we're moving 00:29:13.329 --> 00:29:15.650 home that like I was never going to do a show 00:29:15.650 --> 00:29:20.450 again. So that was hard. Yeah. You and mom made 00:29:20.450 --> 00:29:22.730 me move home. So that wasn't my decision, but 00:29:22.730 --> 00:29:26.829 it needed to happen. I didn't make you. I, it 00:29:26.829 --> 00:29:28.670 was a bad, it was a bad, I was going through 00:29:28.670 --> 00:29:31.130 like a horrible, horrible breakup. All of them 00:29:31.130 --> 00:29:33.910 are, but I needed to get out of it. I needed 00:29:33.910 --> 00:29:35.829 to, everything needed to change. Yeah. My whole 00:29:35.829 --> 00:29:37.730 life needed to change. So I think I would have 00:29:37.730 --> 00:29:42.200 stayed because Moving home meant failure. Yeah 00:29:42.200 --> 00:29:44.960 in our minds and not like you and mom mom literally 00:29:44.960 --> 00:29:47.059 packed up my apartment Yeah, sent me to Kentucky. 00:29:47.059 --> 00:29:49.299 She and dad packed up my apartment and I never 00:29:49.299 --> 00:29:52.680 went back Yeah, so like that wasn't as hard because 00:29:52.680 --> 00:29:57.220 it was not your decision. It was not But but 00:29:57.220 --> 00:29:59.700 in a good way that's like a positive thing, um, 00:30:00.400 --> 00:30:05.460 I get that though But that's not yours So what 00:30:05.460 --> 00:30:07.480 was your heart decision? You don't know. I don't 00:30:07.480 --> 00:30:14.900 know. Um Okay, well maybe you haven't I think 00:30:14.900 --> 00:30:17.359 I I mean I'm I'm not good on the spot we know 00:30:17.359 --> 00:30:21.180 this and I know that there have been many but 00:30:21.180 --> 00:30:26.180 I my brain doesn't Work like that. I can't wait 00:30:26.180 --> 00:30:28.400 till every day She tells me a new hard decision 00:30:28.400 --> 00:30:34.539 cuz she's thought about it after the fact It's 00:30:34.539 --> 00:30:39.279 my ode to Ariana, oh yeah mic up Okay, you have 00:30:39.279 --> 00:30:40.960 you've not made a hard decision that you can 00:30:40.960 --> 00:30:44.359 I mean I if I'm gonna be like Make it easy and 00:30:44.359 --> 00:30:47.799 simple. I'm like I decided To find a therapist 00:30:47.799 --> 00:30:50.119 on my own. Yeah, and like make the phone call 00:30:50.119 --> 00:30:53.039 and I remember my heart beating for that Being 00:30:53.039 --> 00:30:56.240 nervous about it cuz like I don't know but that's 00:30:56.240 --> 00:30:57.559 not I mean, that's not the hardest decision I've 00:30:57.559 --> 00:30:59.200 ever made in my life, right? So I don't know 00:30:59.200 --> 00:31:01.900 I get my get back to okay get back to us on that. 00:31:01.900 --> 00:31:08.130 That was a long -winded get back to you They're 00:31:08.130 --> 00:31:11.190 over there because Pepper ate them all. But look 00:31:11.190 --> 00:31:17.769 how juicy he is. These are stupid. What's one 00:31:17.769 --> 00:31:24.309 of your pet peeves about you? No. Rude. In general. 00:31:24.549 --> 00:31:29.329 In general. One of my pet peeves. All right. 00:31:29.329 --> 00:31:31.730 I'm going to think of Andrew because that's just 00:31:31.730 --> 00:31:35.269 the easiest. Oh my God. One of my pet peeves 00:31:35.269 --> 00:31:38.930 is when I'm talking to him. And then he talks 00:31:38.930 --> 00:31:42.769 and says something else on top of me. And I was 00:31:42.769 --> 00:31:45.410 like, Andrew, I was talking to you. And he's 00:31:45.410 --> 00:31:48.789 like, oh, I didn't even realize. Because he says 00:31:48.789 --> 00:31:51.970 I'm talking at him. And so he sort of tunes me 00:31:51.970 --> 00:31:54.970 out. But it is the most annoying thing when I'm 00:31:54.970 --> 00:31:57.690 talking. And then he talks over me. This is major 00:31:57.690 --> 00:32:00.250 marital issues here. We're out of time. But it's 00:32:00.250 --> 00:32:02.529 not major. It's just a small thing that I absolutely, 00:32:02.529 --> 00:32:04.230 I'm always like, Andrew. He's like, oh, I didn't 00:32:04.230 --> 00:32:07.089 realize. Wait, what'd you say? or talking over 00:32:07.089 --> 00:32:09.849 you like I'll be like hey today you have to pick 00:32:09.849 --> 00:32:11.549 up the kids at two o 'clock blah blah blah and 00:32:11.549 --> 00:32:14.329 he's like did you put the laundry in like while 00:32:14.329 --> 00:32:17.170 I'm talking and I'm like did you hear any I'm 00:32:17.170 --> 00:32:21.430 talking oh you know what I mean and he's he wasn't 00:32:21.430 --> 00:32:22.730 listening because he tuned me out because I'm 00:32:22.730 --> 00:32:26.430 always talking well no but that specific thing 00:32:26.430 --> 00:32:31.569 isn't talking that is schedule relaying right 00:32:31.569 --> 00:32:35.450 and he wishes I would turn write it down And 00:32:35.450 --> 00:32:39.369 if it's written down in the schedule, I wouldn't 00:32:39.369 --> 00:32:45.630 have to tell him. That's false. Andrew, I'm a 00:32:45.630 --> 00:32:48.789 big supporter. But I'm a big supporter. That 00:32:48.789 --> 00:32:53.450 is a lie. The other one is when he wears ear 00:32:53.450 --> 00:32:55.789 pods in the house all day long because he's listening 00:32:55.789 --> 00:32:58.230 to his Dungeons and Dragons podcast. And I'm 00:32:58.230 --> 00:33:01.069 like, hey, Andrew, can you grab this for me? 00:33:01.630 --> 00:33:05.409 Dungeons and Dragons, get the dong dong. And 00:33:05.409 --> 00:33:08.150 I'm like, Andrew, hello. And he's like, oh, he 00:33:08.150 --> 00:33:10.069 takes the air pod out. And he's like, what? I'm 00:33:10.069 --> 00:33:12.589 like, I can't. Yeah, I don't think he likes you, 00:33:13.210 --> 00:33:23.849 bro. Like, no cap. I don't think he likes you. 00:33:24.589 --> 00:33:31.210 OK, that might be true. OK, we're going to move 00:33:31.210 --> 00:33:35.549 on from that. If you could do anything in the 00:33:35.549 --> 00:33:37.529 next year, what would it be? What do you want 00:33:37.529 --> 00:33:41.230 to do this year? Next year, meaning like a couple 00:33:41.230 --> 00:33:44.950 of weeks. In 2026 to 20... Wait, what year are 00:33:44.950 --> 00:33:50.069 we in? We're going to 2025 or 2026? We're going 00:33:50.069 --> 00:33:52.730 to 2026. We're in 2025 right now. What do you 00:33:52.730 --> 00:33:58.910 want to do between 2026 and 2027? It doesn't 00:33:58.910 --> 00:34:01.480 have to be that like... I don't know. I don't 00:34:01.480 --> 00:34:08.739 know. I want to be financially stable. OK. Unfortunately, 00:34:08.880 --> 00:34:13.079 that has a lot to do with you. I'm just kidding. 00:34:13.179 --> 00:34:15.280 I'm just kidding. No, I want to be. It does. 00:34:15.460 --> 00:34:18.119 It's hard. That's like a tall order. And if I 00:34:18.119 --> 00:34:19.420 already think of it like that, then it's not 00:34:19.420 --> 00:34:21.840 going to happen. So I got to rewire that. But 00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:25.900 we're in an inflated world. We haven't raised 00:34:25.900 --> 00:34:28.420 our prices because we don't think that's right. 00:34:29.079 --> 00:34:32.940 There's so many factors. Yeah, I think it's just 00:34:32.940 --> 00:34:34.719 like you want to pay for your Disney trip. I 00:34:34.719 --> 00:34:37.980 don't necessarily want to like Save for something. 00:34:37.980 --> 00:34:42.099 I just want to be able to not Freak them out. 00:34:42.139 --> 00:34:44.599 You want to go to the grocery store and and be 00:34:44.599 --> 00:34:47.420 okay with spending Money at the grocery store 00:34:47.420 --> 00:34:49.380 and not being like man. That's gonna kill me. 00:34:49.420 --> 00:34:54.260 Exactly. Yeah, I always say I wait for the day 00:34:54.260 --> 00:34:57.260 that I can just go to TJ Maxx or Marshalls. I'm 00:34:57.260 --> 00:34:58.900 saying TJ Maxx and Marshalls. I'm not even saying 00:34:58.900 --> 00:35:02.960 Nordstrom and Bloomingdale's and just be like, 00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:06.320 yeah, I want this and I don't care. I wouldn't 00:35:06.320 --> 00:35:10.780 overly spend, but I just. Don't lie. No, don't 00:35:10.780 --> 00:35:14.019 lie. I just want to not have a heart attack every 00:35:14.019 --> 00:35:17.280 time I get up to the counter. So I agree. I understand 00:35:17.280 --> 00:35:19.940 that. I just second guess every. Every single 00:35:19.940 --> 00:35:23.219 thing like going to get gas and and that's just 00:35:23.219 --> 00:35:27.460 There's so many factors to that, but I think 00:35:27.460 --> 00:35:30.260 that would be number one. Yeah, I Like that. 00:35:30.260 --> 00:35:33.000 I'll take that. Yeah, if you know, I already 00:35:33.000 --> 00:35:42.599 asked you a question. It's my turn now These 00:35:42.599 --> 00:35:46.880 are dumb What's something you will never and 00:35:46.880 --> 00:35:50.920 never is an all Caps, do again. Something I'll 00:35:50.920 --> 00:35:53.219 never do again. Never in all caps, do again. 00:35:54.079 --> 00:35:57.760 Oh, Lord. Something I'll never. Wow, that was 00:35:57.760 --> 00:36:06.019 a hard R. Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. You're really singing 00:36:06.019 --> 00:36:08.400 from the Adam's apple. I'm all about the singing 00:36:08.400 --> 00:36:11.179 right now. I mean, you should have seen me in 00:36:11.179 --> 00:36:13.099 the car with the kids this morning. Whoever drove 00:36:13.099 --> 00:36:16.019 in front or behind me, you got a performance. 00:36:20.559 --> 00:36:23.019 Something I'll never do again. No, never in all 00:36:23.019 --> 00:36:26.639 caps again. Yeah. Oh God. I feel like there's 00:36:26.639 --> 00:36:31.440 so many things and also I can't think of one. 00:36:33.070 --> 00:36:36.530 Something I'll never do again. Sucks, doesn't 00:36:36.530 --> 00:36:40.769 it? I want to say, this is something so stupid, 00:36:41.150 --> 00:36:44.269 Victoria's going to laugh at me, but I'll never 00:36:44.269 --> 00:36:49.090 get a connecting flight after seeing your travel 00:36:49.090 --> 00:36:51.610 and going through my own travel experiences. 00:36:51.630 --> 00:36:54.929 You're the bougiest. Honest to God. Oh, Victoria, 00:36:54.969 --> 00:36:56.510 tell me you weren't stressed out coming home 00:36:56.510 --> 00:36:58.929 from Vegas and crying and had a breakdown because 00:36:58.929 --> 00:37:00.550 you just wanted to get home. That was about the 00:37:00.550 --> 00:37:03.889 Motel 6. That wasn't about the travel day. But 00:37:03.889 --> 00:37:06.170 you wouldn't have had to get a Motel 6 if you 00:37:06.170 --> 00:37:08.769 didn't have the travel problem. Right, but also 00:37:08.769 --> 00:37:11.349 that's because of the government. It was a shutdown. 00:37:12.269 --> 00:37:16.550 So we only ever do connecting flights because 00:37:16.550 --> 00:37:20.309 it saves money. So in this extreme situation, 00:37:20.789 --> 00:37:23.030 it messed us up. And yeah, it was stressful, 00:37:23.090 --> 00:37:26.130 but also we had a lot of fun. There were a lot 00:37:26.130 --> 00:37:28.150 of factors. My panic attack came from the Motel 00:37:28.150 --> 00:37:31.550 6, which was probably, you know, wrapped up with 00:37:31.550 --> 00:37:34.829 everything mixed in one, but we travel well together. 00:37:34.869 --> 00:37:37.110 We have a good time, so. Oh, wait, okay. I'll 00:37:37.110 --> 00:37:39.170 never do that because we always have bad travel. 00:37:39.469 --> 00:37:42.210 Well, he doesn't listen to you and he's always 00:37:42.210 --> 00:37:45.869 talking over you, so I get that. Pedro or Andrew? 00:37:47.429 --> 00:37:50.070 Andrew. Oh, okay. Pedro would never. One thing 00:37:50.070 --> 00:37:53.110 I'll never do again, I will never go go -karting 00:37:53.110 --> 00:37:57.010 again, ever in my life. Carly Berger face. I 00:37:57.010 --> 00:37:59.250 broke my jaw. Almost had to get it wired shut 00:37:59.250 --> 00:38:01.489 when I was 30. That would have been so nice. 00:38:02.590 --> 00:38:06.230 But I went through a cement wall. It was bad. 00:38:06.329 --> 00:38:09.269 I will never go extreme go -karting again. Or 00:38:09.269 --> 00:38:12.329 go -karting, I would imagine. No, never. Anything 00:38:12.329 --> 00:38:13.989 you would never do? Splash, it goes one mile 00:38:13.989 --> 00:38:27.429 an hour on the Rio Road. I will never. It's hard, 00:38:27.530 --> 00:38:29.300 right? I don't know. You could probably think 00:38:29.300 --> 00:38:31.199 of so many things, but nothing at the same time. 00:38:31.239 --> 00:38:33.760 I will never date the wrong guy again. Thank 00:38:33.760 --> 00:38:38.860 God. I mean, I mean, I mean, we that's life. 00:38:39.460 --> 00:38:42.719 Thank God. I'm trying to work at my acting chops, 00:38:42.860 --> 00:38:44.340 too. Like, I'm really back into it right now. 00:38:44.340 --> 00:38:49.519 Not going well. Ah, this is hard. This is OK. 00:38:49.599 --> 00:38:53.079 I love your disclaimers today. What opportunity 00:38:53.079 --> 00:38:57.079 for love or money have you given up? And do you 00:38:57.079 --> 00:39:00.599 regret it? Money every fucking day doing this 00:39:00.599 --> 00:39:03.239 job. Wait, but it's not like you had money and 00:39:03.239 --> 00:39:05.760 you gave it up to do this job. You weren't, you 00:39:05.760 --> 00:39:08.340 didn't have money as an actor either. So what 00:39:08.340 --> 00:39:09.880 have you? I actually had a lot more money as 00:39:09.880 --> 00:39:12.599 an actor. That's true. Yeah. What have you given 00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:18.480 up that you regret now? Regret giving up? Nothing. 00:39:19.139 --> 00:39:22.039 Nothing. There is nothing that is not, that has 00:39:22.039 --> 00:39:28.070 been a part of my past that I wish were here 00:39:28.070 --> 00:39:33.409 today. Yeah. For the reason that I understand 00:39:33.409 --> 00:39:35.730 things leave for a reason. In the moment, it's 00:39:35.730 --> 00:39:37.349 never like that. It's absolutely never like that. 00:39:37.389 --> 00:39:41.510 Don't get me wrong. But since we're in hindsight, 00:39:41.849 --> 00:39:46.269 we are in 2020. Hindset. Hindset? Nope. Elm's 00:39:46.269 --> 00:39:48.309 tooth? It's a different word. That's definitely 00:39:48.309 --> 00:39:53.409 a different word. I don't think there's anything, 00:39:53.510 --> 00:39:55.650 if it's not here and it used to be, it's not 00:39:55.650 --> 00:39:59.090 supposed to be here. You're good like that. Even 00:39:59.090 --> 00:40:02.130 people. Yeah. You're very good like that. I'm 00:40:02.130 --> 00:40:04.989 like, I regret how I said hello last night. Because 00:40:04.989 --> 00:40:09.309 I'm better than you. I regret how I said hello 00:40:09.309 --> 00:40:12.650 last night. No, I mean, that's being very dramatic, 00:40:12.889 --> 00:40:14.489 but I'm always like... Oh, I mean, I have those 00:40:14.489 --> 00:40:16.730 thoughts, of course. Like, oh, I made that weird 00:40:16.730 --> 00:40:20.320 or whatever. But... That also happened, like 00:40:20.320 --> 00:40:22.000 you can't take it back. No, but you're also very 00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:23.780 lucky. You spend a lot of your time with me and 00:40:23.780 --> 00:40:26.099 you're like, oh, you made that weird. So I don't 00:40:26.099 --> 00:40:28.360 have to. I just let her talk. I like don't say 00:40:28.360 --> 00:40:33.539 much. I don't have to. Yeah, I think I used to 00:40:33.539 --> 00:40:36.059 have a lot more money, and that's gone. I could 00:40:36.059 --> 00:40:38.539 have that again. But I still feel like that's 00:40:38.539 --> 00:40:40.559 not a regret, because you didn't like that life 00:40:40.559 --> 00:40:45.199 anymore. It wasn't working for you. Oh, yeah, 00:40:45.199 --> 00:40:47.019 no, no, no. So it's not technically. I was being 00:40:47.019 --> 00:40:52.159 funny. God. No one can ever tell. But I'm bummed. 00:40:54.719 --> 00:40:56.719 All right, one more from you, one more from me. 00:40:57.000 --> 00:41:00.079 I don't like you being in charge. I love it. 00:41:00.659 --> 00:41:05.139 Andrew, I get it. L is for the way. Go ahead. 00:41:06.480 --> 00:41:09.059 Don't tell me what to do. Sorry. You were in 00:41:09.059 --> 00:41:11.079 the middle of singing anyway, and I don't like 00:41:11.079 --> 00:41:15.699 that card. The answer is Pat Joyce. We don't 00:41:15.699 --> 00:41:17.679 really know. Oh, what did it say? Who was your 00:41:17.679 --> 00:41:23.320 first gay boyfriend? Yep. I know all these answers 00:41:23.320 --> 00:41:29.760 and they're not fun. Wait, this has a typo in 00:41:29.760 --> 00:41:33.539 it. Yes. What do the first 30 months of your 00:41:33.539 --> 00:41:36.579 typical day look like? Should say minutes. Oh. 00:41:37.199 --> 00:41:39.340 Minutes. It's M -U -N -S unless that's a word. 00:41:39.559 --> 00:41:43.039 I don't know. What are the first 30 minutes of 00:41:43.039 --> 00:41:45.840 your typical day? The first 30 minutes of my 00:41:45.840 --> 00:41:48.679 typical day is getting up and getting fully dressed, 00:41:49.079 --> 00:41:53.360 head to toe, sneakers, everything, going downstairs, 00:41:53.860 --> 00:41:56.320 having my coffee, sitting under, putting my robe 00:41:56.320 --> 00:41:58.800 on top of my full clothes with my sneakers. That 00:41:58.800 --> 00:42:00.639 makes me so uncomfortable to hear this. Sitting 00:42:00.639 --> 00:42:03.139 in my favorite chair, putting on Michael Buble 00:42:03.139 --> 00:42:07.179 Christmas or Michael Buble anything on very low 00:42:07.179 --> 00:42:10.539 on Alexa. Stupid. Drinking my coffee and making 00:42:10.539 --> 00:42:14.789 the post for the day. uncomfortably lame. Or 00:42:14.789 --> 00:42:16.969 making a list of things I have to ask Victoria 00:42:16.969 --> 00:42:20.150 in my notes on my phone. In individual text messages, 00:42:20.829 --> 00:42:24.429 individual text messages. But that is the first 00:42:24.429 --> 00:42:26.710 30 minutes. I will get up and fully dress myself 00:42:26.710 --> 00:42:29.269 down to my sneakers, put my robe back on. That's 00:42:29.269 --> 00:42:30.250 good. I don't want to talk about that anymore. 00:42:30.510 --> 00:42:32.469 I want to ask you this. What's your love language? 00:42:33.269 --> 00:42:36.190 That's what I want to know. Planning and surprising. 00:42:38.809 --> 00:42:42.570 That's not a love language. No, like actions. 00:42:43.309 --> 00:42:46.510 Actions. Actions of service. The fact that you 00:42:46.510 --> 00:42:50.389 thought about me ahead of time. Like, you wanted 00:42:50.389 --> 00:42:51.929 to do, like, do you know what I mean? Yo, you 00:42:51.929 --> 00:42:55.670 married the wrong guy. That poor guy is not, 00:42:55.670 --> 00:42:57.789 that doesn't... Just kidding, I'm just kidding, 00:42:57.789 --> 00:43:01.550 I'm just kidding. It's like not, it's the, hey, 00:43:01.650 --> 00:43:03.630 guess what? I booked a reservation, we're going 00:43:03.630 --> 00:43:07.800 out to dinner tomorrow night. He thought... And 00:43:07.800 --> 00:43:09.360 then I'll say, no, I really don't want to be 00:43:09.360 --> 00:43:13.099 fair. Hold on. Every time he's done that, which, 00:43:13.340 --> 00:43:16.199 Andrew, I support you, happens a lot, especially 00:43:16.199 --> 00:43:20.579 around gift season, holiday, birthday. She ruins 00:43:20.579 --> 00:43:24.260 it. You ruin it. I do. I'm always, yeah, I'm 00:43:24.260 --> 00:43:26.699 always like, oh, I can't. You're a ruiner. Yeah. 00:43:27.159 --> 00:43:29.599 But I love when he's like for Christmas, he'll 00:43:29.599 --> 00:43:33.059 be like, we're going to New York in March. to 00:43:33.059 --> 00:43:34.820 see this show that I got tickets for. And then 00:43:34.820 --> 00:43:36.179 March comes and you're like, I can't believe 00:43:36.179 --> 00:43:37.719 we have to do this. I don't want to do this. 00:43:37.800 --> 00:43:40.460 I'm tired. I know. But I do love the thought 00:43:40.460 --> 00:43:43.880 that he thought enough about what I would like. 00:43:44.139 --> 00:43:46.340 I like actions. Do you like when he prints it 00:43:46.340 --> 00:43:48.179 out the day before with not a lot of ink in the 00:43:48.179 --> 00:43:51.780 printer? It's OK. Last couple of Christmases 00:43:51.780 --> 00:43:55.320 ago, he made up a song and played it on the guitar 00:43:55.320 --> 00:43:57.559 on Christmas morning to tell me what my Christmas 00:43:57.559 --> 00:44:00.139 presents were. And I do love that kind of stuff. 00:44:00.800 --> 00:44:04.719 Yeah. Yeah. So acts of service acts of service. 00:44:04.860 --> 00:44:08.380 Yeah, love that Love it. Definitely don't touch 00:44:08.380 --> 00:44:11.739 her And definitely don't talk to her because 00:44:11.739 --> 00:44:13.360 she doesn't like when you talk cuz she's probably 00:44:13.360 --> 00:44:16.960 talking So it's not communication and it's not 00:44:16.960 --> 00:44:21.519 touching. I Don't know how to respond quality 00:44:21.519 --> 00:44:23.619 time I guess quality time and acts of service 00:44:23.619 --> 00:44:25.920 that might be it too except if you plan something 00:44:25.920 --> 00:44:27.960 for her She really doesn't want to spend it with 00:44:27.960 --> 00:44:29.380 you because she's tired. She wants to go to bed 00:44:29.380 --> 00:44:31.000 She wants to watch a Bravo. So she's not it's 00:44:31.000 --> 00:44:34.539 not quality time guys I'm amazing. Oh my god, 00:44:34.539 --> 00:44:36.800 I did do this to him one time. He got me tickets 00:44:36.800 --> 00:44:40.679 to Countess Luanne's cabaret. And I was like, 00:44:40.699 --> 00:44:45.360 I don't wanna go. You've wasted so much of this 00:44:45.360 --> 00:44:47.940 guy's money. I don't, I was like, I love, and 00:44:47.940 --> 00:44:50.239 he knows that I love Bravo. He knows I love Housewives 00:44:50.239 --> 00:44:53.920 of New York. I don't really wanna see them live. 00:44:54.460 --> 00:44:57.000 It's just not my, I like to watch them on TV. 00:44:59.009 --> 00:45:01.849 But I appreciate that he knew that I loved the 00:45:01.849 --> 00:45:04.989 housewives. So like, do the act of service, but 00:45:04.989 --> 00:45:07.530 I might not follow through. Just like, invite 00:45:07.530 --> 00:45:11.349 me to the party, but I'm not gonna come. That's 00:45:11.349 --> 00:45:14.489 your life motto. I'm a very easy person. Invite 00:45:14.489 --> 00:45:16.730 me, that's your bravo. Invite me to the party, 00:45:17.030 --> 00:45:19.750 but I'm not gonna come. Oh yeah, wait, we did 00:45:19.750 --> 00:45:21.489 have good taglines that one day, remember? We 00:45:21.489 --> 00:45:26.369 did have good taglines. We good taglines. All 00:45:26.369 --> 00:45:30.030 right, last one. What's something you believed 00:45:30.030 --> 00:45:32.650 earlier in your life, but think very differently 00:45:32.650 --> 00:45:36.369 about it now? It's a real easy, uncomplicated 00:45:36.369 --> 00:45:39.369 question. Jesus, Mary and Joseph. Say it again. 00:45:39.849 --> 00:45:42.050 What's something you believed earlier in your 00:45:42.050 --> 00:45:44.429 life, but think very differently about it now? 00:45:49.230 --> 00:45:55.920 I can think of one for you. That every... That 00:45:55.920 --> 00:45:58.940 life isn't happening to me. Things don't happen 00:45:58.940 --> 00:46:02.500 to me. Yeah. They happen for me, even if I don't 00:46:02.500 --> 00:46:06.519 like them. But it's not like... I think I was 00:46:06.519 --> 00:46:11.000 in very much a... Woe is me. Mm -hmm. Yeah. Like, 00:46:11.199 --> 00:46:12.800 it's not going my way. It's not because of something 00:46:12.800 --> 00:46:15.320 I did. It's because something, you know, this 00:46:15.320 --> 00:46:17.900 person... Why is this happening to me? Mm -hmm. 00:46:17.920 --> 00:46:20.400 Yeah. And like, life isn't fair and blah, blah, 00:46:20.500 --> 00:46:25.059 blah, blah. Um... now I I'm very much aware that 00:46:25.059 --> 00:46:32.719 life is not fair and It's hard to believe It's 00:46:32.719 --> 00:46:34.940 hard to believe in the moment when things are 00:46:34.940 --> 00:46:38.420 happening, but it's it's I'm creating whatever 00:46:38.420 --> 00:46:40.480 is happening. Like I'm writing that story So 00:46:40.480 --> 00:46:42.800 if it's something that goes wrong, there's a 00:46:42.800 --> 00:46:46.099 reason for it and it's not because it's not fair 00:46:46.099 --> 00:46:50.530 to me. It's something that I Need to happen so 00:46:50.530 --> 00:46:53.730 that I can do what's meant for me. Like what's 00:46:53.730 --> 00:46:55.610 meant for me is not passing me by in that moment. 00:46:55.949 --> 00:47:00.969 I think that's a young versus like getting older 00:47:00.969 --> 00:47:05.590 viewpoint. That's really good words. I was trying 00:47:05.590 --> 00:47:08.269 to think of the word viewpoint. I was young and 00:47:08.269 --> 00:47:14.210 now you're old. Don't worry, I'll always be older 00:47:14.210 --> 00:47:16.969 than you. What were you going to say? I know 00:47:16.969 --> 00:47:21.619 one for you. What was I going to say? how basically 00:47:21.619 --> 00:47:25.119 that like your life you think you grow up thinking 00:47:25.119 --> 00:47:27.780 your life is gonna be one way and then it's not 00:47:27.780 --> 00:47:33.400 that way ever yeah what every year ever oh ever 00:47:33.400 --> 00:47:36.440 ever ever because I know I've I felt the same 00:47:36.440 --> 00:47:38.780 way like you grow up thinking you want this this 00:47:38.780 --> 00:47:41.179 and this and it doesn't work out like that but 00:47:41.179 --> 00:47:44.440 then you realize that's okay what hasn't worked 00:47:44.440 --> 00:47:47.230 out for you out of curiosity Other than, like, 00:47:47.269 --> 00:47:55.030 theater? Yeah, theater. Theater. I don't necessarily 00:47:55.030 --> 00:47:58.329 miss it. I loved doing it when I was doing it, 00:47:58.409 --> 00:48:01.630 but so many things haven't worked out for me. 00:48:05.570 --> 00:48:12.369 Like? Prove it. You're, like, honest to God, 00:48:12.469 --> 00:48:16.210 the worst sister in the world. What? I'm helping 00:48:16.210 --> 00:48:18.409 you realize all the things that you should be 00:48:18.409 --> 00:48:21.789 thankful for. I am very thankful in this thankful 00:48:21.789 --> 00:48:25.809 season that my life is the way it is. And I am 00:48:25.809 --> 00:48:29.349 like you, or I did not know that at 40 this is 00:48:29.349 --> 00:48:30.809 where my life was going to be, but I'm very happy 00:48:30.809 --> 00:48:33.030 about it. But is that why when I said, what are 00:48:33.030 --> 00:48:39.260 your pet peeves, you said, OK, Andrew. I'm very 00:48:39.260 --> 00:48:41.840 thankful for him. I am the most thankful for 00:48:41.840 --> 00:48:46.400 him. There's nobody in the world that could deal 00:48:46.400 --> 00:48:51.880 with my shiz the way he does. I mean, nobody. 00:48:52.079 --> 00:48:56.320 That's so true. And I'm aware of this. I don't 00:48:56.320 --> 00:49:00.019 vocalize it. He never hears that. What's his 00:49:00.019 --> 00:49:03.519 love language? He would like me to hug him 24 00:49:03.519 --> 00:49:07.960 seven. He would like me. to, so yeah, screw him. 00:49:08.260 --> 00:49:10.079 She definitely doesn't do that. So she's like, 00:49:10.079 --> 00:49:13.079 I don't care about your love language, but this 00:49:13.079 --> 00:49:14.880 is what I need. I'm going to go home and hug 00:49:14.880 --> 00:49:16.659 him. Here's something I learned. And it's only 00:49:16.659 --> 00:49:18.519 recently. And it's not something I used to think 00:49:18.519 --> 00:49:21.000 of. Well, maybe I did in like a subconscious 00:49:21.000 --> 00:49:25.599 way, but people need to be loved in their way, 00:49:25.760 --> 00:49:31.880 not how you want it. So like if your, if your 00:49:31.880 --> 00:49:35.789 love language is, I want acts of service. That 00:49:35.789 --> 00:49:40.349 sounds so selfish. I want you to do things for 00:49:40.349 --> 00:49:43.130 me. No. Do the dishes, and I don't have to ask 00:49:43.130 --> 00:49:44.929 you. Right. Do the laundry. I don't have to ask 00:49:44.929 --> 00:49:46.909 you. He does that. Remember to pick up the children. 00:49:48.449 --> 00:49:51.429 But if I need acts of service, I'm going to give 00:49:51.429 --> 00:49:54.369 you acts of service. But that's not what he wants. 00:49:54.449 --> 00:49:58.010 He wants hugs. Right. He wants touch. Right. 00:49:59.130 --> 00:50:01.650 You're just saying something that I've just realized. 00:50:02.400 --> 00:50:04.760 Every birthday and Christmas, I'm giving him 00:50:04.760 --> 00:50:09.639 something that I know I would want. Andrew, there's 00:50:09.639 --> 00:50:14.400 a support group. It's called Dads of Divorce. 00:50:15.519 --> 00:50:19.000 I can help you. Oh, is Victoria the head of the 00:50:19.000 --> 00:50:22.539 Dads of Divorce Club? I will help find you that 00:50:22.539 --> 00:50:24.199 group. I'm sorry. I didn't know you were the 00:50:24.199 --> 00:50:26.579 leader of the dads that are soon to be divorced. 00:50:26.679 --> 00:50:33.099 There's a lot you don't know about me. I just 00:50:33.099 --> 00:50:35.280 realized that every birthday and Christmas, I'm 00:50:35.280 --> 00:50:37.900 giving him show tickets or a night out for the 00:50:37.900 --> 00:50:40.559 two of us that we can do together. Those are 00:50:40.559 --> 00:50:42.340 acts of service that you wish you were given. 00:50:42.699 --> 00:50:49.300 Yes. I know. I got to change my ways after 21 00:50:49.300 --> 00:50:52.679 years. You can't love someone the way you want 00:50:52.679 --> 00:50:54.659 to be loved. You have to love them how they want 00:50:54.659 --> 00:50:59.199 to be loved. Oh, this just got deep. You stupid. 00:51:04.139 --> 00:51:07.980 I love that that just made you cackle like the 00:51:07.980 --> 00:51:18.320 witch you are. Guys. The funny fact is she can 00:51:18.320 --> 00:51:23.320 actually do that for real. Oh, mic drop, dong 00:51:23.320 --> 00:51:27.980 -gong. I don't like this. Call the dong -gong. 00:51:28.710 --> 00:51:31.510 Do this with your family around the table. You 00:51:31.510 --> 00:51:33.449 may learn something about your husband through 00:51:33.449 --> 00:51:44.789 your sister I'm not a part of that one Andrew 00:51:44.789 --> 00:51:48.309 I want to go home and give you a hug. I'm coming. 00:51:49.309 --> 00:51:54.550 I just go to Target first Give me your credit 00:51:54.550 --> 00:51:57.210 card. And then I will come and give you a hug. 00:51:58.769 --> 00:52:02.329 You need to go home. Is he home? Yes. We're together 00:52:02.329 --> 00:52:05.449 all the time. He works from home. Yes, he's home. 00:52:05.730 --> 00:52:12.429 What was the question? Oh my God, I have to go. 00:52:12.869 --> 00:52:14.989 I have a client. I literally have to go. I know. 00:52:15.030 --> 00:52:16.429 We said 20 minutes. We said this was going to 00:52:16.429 --> 00:52:22.820 be 20 minutes. I don't know. Just remember. Be 00:52:22.820 --> 00:52:26.000 grateful, be thankful for your families all year 00:52:26.000 --> 00:52:28.260 round, but especially in this Christmas Thanksgiving 00:52:28.260 --> 00:52:32.019 seasonal time. Play with your family. Play games 00:52:32.019 --> 00:52:38.619 with your family. What are you saying? Just remember 00:52:38.619 --> 00:52:43.920 that you are always fit to be real. And always 00:52:43.920 --> 00:52:48.119 allowed to be a little extra. And me. And this 00:52:48.119 --> 00:52:59.000 and me. And remember, I'm better than Carl. For 00:52:59.000 --> 00:53:00.639 legal reasons, we have to tell you that this 00:53:00.639 --> 00:53:02.719 podcast is meant for entertainment and educational 00:53:02.719 --> 00:53:05.639 purposes only. 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