WEBVTT 00:00:07.600 --> 00:00:11.640 Welcome to fit to be real and a little extra 00:00:11.640 --> 00:00:16.960 Help me Save me help me. I'm already I can't 00:00:16.960 --> 00:00:21.300 handle it. I Don't know why she can't handle 00:00:21.300 --> 00:00:24.940 me today as Opposed to other days. Well, that 00:00:24.940 --> 00:00:27.879 was hard. That was really hard. That's why I 00:00:27.879 --> 00:00:31.280 can't talk because her House is so cold. I am 00:00:31.280 --> 00:00:33.979 trying to warm up. My hands are defrosting. So 00:00:33.979 --> 00:00:36.299 I have to hold my coffee. 65 degrees in here. 00:00:36.320 --> 00:00:39.200 Every window is open. It's the coldest day of 00:00:39.200 --> 00:00:43.640 the year so far. It's 67 degrees. You're a fool. 00:00:43.840 --> 00:00:46.960 We went to Carly's house this weekend and I was 00:00:46.960 --> 00:00:50.859 sweating. Like I was, I kept taking clothes off. 00:00:50.880 --> 00:00:53.740 Yes. And I couldn't handle it. So all I did was 00:00:53.740 --> 00:00:55.960 drink more wine to try to handle it. Oh my God. 00:00:56.259 --> 00:00:58.600 I had to open the doors, turn on the AC. She 00:00:58.600 --> 00:01:01.539 was like I was like, you people live like this? 00:01:01.700 --> 00:01:03.820 What is this? Oh my God, it's so cold in here. 00:01:04.040 --> 00:01:07.319 Look, my fingers are turning blue. Honestly. 00:01:08.099 --> 00:01:10.900 Okay. Well, eat some more fat. I don't know. 00:01:10.959 --> 00:01:12.299 I don't know what to tell you. I'm Victoria. 00:01:12.640 --> 00:01:16.519 I have enough fat. Oh, Carly. I am very comfortable. 00:01:17.319 --> 00:01:20.640 All right. If you have a problem with that, this 00:01:20.640 --> 00:01:22.980 seems to be your issue. Just shut the windows. 00:01:23.060 --> 00:01:27.650 That's all I'm saying. You went deep. I just 00:01:27.650 --> 00:01:32.549 wanted to shut the windows. Hold please. She's 00:01:32.549 --> 00:01:35.790 walking over. She's shutting the windows for 00:01:35.790 --> 00:01:37.590 those that cannot see. Oh my God, thank you. 00:01:37.689 --> 00:01:41.329 It's already 10 degrees warmer. She could have 00:01:41.329 --> 00:01:43.170 done this before we turned this on when I asked 00:01:43.170 --> 00:01:47.530 her to. I'm upset. I'm annoyed. I'm upset. I 00:01:47.530 --> 00:01:50.670 don't, I'm mad. Last night, she was like, what 00:01:50.670 --> 00:01:51.989 do you want to do? I said, I don't know. I'm 00:01:51.989 --> 00:01:53.750 tapped out. She said, cool. I'm coming over at 00:01:53.750 --> 00:01:56.409 this time. We're going to do this. I was like, 00:01:56.750 --> 00:02:03.609 OK. Yay. All right. Isn't it part of your sister's 00:02:03.609 --> 00:02:05.829 job to say, when you're tapped out, I'm overwhelmed, 00:02:05.870 --> 00:02:12.289 to be like, OK, keep going? Or be like, you know 00:02:12.289 --> 00:02:17.729 what? I get it. because you're also tapped out, 00:02:17.750 --> 00:02:20.430 but for some reason, you like to thrive and burn 00:02:20.430 --> 00:02:22.949 out and think it looks good on you and it doesn't. 00:02:23.210 --> 00:02:27.969 I mean, this shirt says thug life. And deflect 00:02:27.969 --> 00:02:30.770 to say other things that have nothing to do with 00:02:30.770 --> 00:02:33.509 anything you're talking about. I don't thrive 00:02:33.509 --> 00:02:35.449 that way. I thought I was helping by picking 00:02:35.449 --> 00:02:41.789 the subject. Here it is. Here it is, folks. Let's 00:02:41.789 --> 00:02:46.439 talk. Okay. What she picked out. With sending 00:02:46.439 --> 00:02:48.919 me links, I'm not going to look at these. You're 00:02:48.919 --> 00:02:54.520 in charge. It's for my birthday. Hold for reflection. 00:02:57.360 --> 00:03:01.780 I was helping. I did the research. Carly's turning 00:03:01.780 --> 00:03:08.060 40. And the world is stopping. I never said that. 00:03:08.520 --> 00:03:14.439 No. But she is turning 40. And. I don't know. 00:03:15.300 --> 00:03:18.280 I hear everyone like their 40s were their best 00:03:18.280 --> 00:03:19.919 time. So like to me, it seems like something 00:03:19.919 --> 00:03:22.120 exciting, especially since I'm almost there too. 00:03:22.180 --> 00:03:24.840 So like, I don't know. I heard people say that 00:03:24.840 --> 00:03:27.159 when I was 20 and 30 and I would roll my eyes 00:03:27.159 --> 00:03:31.620 saying, I'm never going to get there. So 40 seemed 00:03:31.620 --> 00:03:37.229 so far away and it's in a week. When did it feel 00:03:37.229 --> 00:03:39.710 so far away? When you were 20? Yes. Or this week? 00:03:39.949 --> 00:03:42.110 No, it felt so far away. Like growing up, you 00:03:42.110 --> 00:03:43.710 were like... We knew this was coming. You know 00:03:43.710 --> 00:03:45.629 how like back in the day it was like over the 00:03:45.629 --> 00:03:48.669 hill 40s? It's not like that anymore. I feel 00:03:48.669 --> 00:03:52.069 like people don't throw parties called over the 00:03:52.069 --> 00:03:56.650 hill anymore. Well, first of all, rude. What 00:03:56.650 --> 00:03:58.629 a horrible theme. That used to be a theme for 00:03:58.629 --> 00:04:00.069 40 year old birthday parties. I know, but that's 00:04:00.069 --> 00:04:02.449 a horrible theme. Another 40 years, you will 00:04:02.449 --> 00:04:05.180 be 80. Just think of it that way. So I do think 00:04:05.180 --> 00:04:07.699 that's why, I guess. It's like midway, even though 00:04:07.699 --> 00:04:10.500 50 feels more midway, even though you're not 00:04:10.500 --> 00:04:13.639 making it to 100. You're this cold now, you're 00:04:13.639 --> 00:04:15.400 not making it to 100. Wait, do you know what's 00:04:15.400 --> 00:04:20.000 really sad? Oh, good. This is Carly's MO. She 00:04:20.000 --> 00:04:22.519 got finished teaching Monday, and I was like, 00:04:22.540 --> 00:04:24.040 oh my gosh, it was so hard. She was like, did 00:04:24.040 --> 00:04:26.800 you see that helicopter crash? I was like, what? 00:04:28.120 --> 00:04:34.069 Huh? She loves, you are Carmela to a T. She loves 00:04:34.069 --> 00:04:36.230 telling bad news. I feel like this is what mom 00:04:36.230 --> 00:04:38.470 started doing in her 40s like being like, oh 00:04:38.470 --> 00:04:40.350 something good happened Let me tell you about 00:04:40.350 --> 00:04:43.870 Debbie Debbie downer and when she does it now 00:04:43.870 --> 00:04:47.750 Carly gets so angry and yet that's Carly's number 00:04:47.750 --> 00:04:49.709 one subject matter Well with mom, it's usually 00:04:49.709 --> 00:04:51.329 about politics and I'm like mom. I don't have 00:04:51.329 --> 00:04:54.029 time for this But it Debbie don't pay attention 00:04:54.029 --> 00:04:58.269 to the real -world problems No, we were having 00:04:58.269 --> 00:05:00.529 dinner because I get to have dinner with my kids 00:05:00.529 --> 00:05:03.370 once every other Monday and we were sitting down 00:05:03.370 --> 00:05:06.129 and I was asking them questions from the pack 00:05:06.129 --> 00:05:08.970 of, you know, like the cards of questions we 00:05:08.970 --> 00:05:11.730 asked one time on a podcast. It was like icebreaker 00:05:11.730 --> 00:05:13.629 questions. So I was asking the kids those. Getting 00:05:13.629 --> 00:05:15.370 to know your children. Yes, I was getting to 00:05:15.370 --> 00:05:18.930 know them because they eat better when they're 00:05:18.930 --> 00:05:23.069 distracted. So dinnertime is crazy at our house 00:05:23.069 --> 00:05:24.870 and it's just like yelling at them to eat. So 00:05:24.870 --> 00:05:27.199 if I distract them with questions, They'll eat. 00:05:27.199 --> 00:05:30.000 Fair. So one of the questions was, like, what's 00:05:30.000 --> 00:05:33.620 your biggest fear? And Louis said dying. But 00:05:33.620 --> 00:05:36.060 we knew this. I know, but I didn't like that 00:05:36.060 --> 00:05:39.339 he was like dying. I don't I don't want to die 00:05:39.339 --> 00:05:41.980 and I don't want anybody to die. And I was like. 00:05:42.439 --> 00:05:45.139 But also why? I'm not surprised by that. You're 00:05:45.139 --> 00:05:48.000 so afraid and tell them all the things you're 00:05:48.000 --> 00:05:50.540 afraid of. And nine times out of 10, it has to 00:05:50.540 --> 00:05:52.420 do with death and that you're going to get murdered. 00:05:53.519 --> 00:05:55.500 randomly in your house, or that someone's gonna 00:05:55.500 --> 00:05:57.879 steal your children. They know your fears. They're 00:05:57.879 --> 00:05:59.579 afraid of water, because you're afraid of water. 00:06:00.639 --> 00:06:04.100 You did it to them. Yeah. And I asked him what 00:06:04.100 --> 00:06:06.019 his superpower would be. Happy birthday. And 00:06:06.019 --> 00:06:09.579 he said to live forever. And I was like, oh God. 00:06:11.409 --> 00:06:13.350 I don't know that's a normal kid thing, because 00:06:13.350 --> 00:06:15.129 I don't have kids. Yeah. I feel like it might 00:06:15.129 --> 00:06:16.529 be. I don't know and I have kids. I don't know 00:06:16.529 --> 00:06:18.149 if that's normal. But like I feel like it might 00:06:18.149 --> 00:06:20.709 be. Like some kids get obsessed with death and 00:06:20.709 --> 00:06:22.990 then they grow out of that phase. Melody's biggest 00:06:22.990 --> 00:06:27.189 fear was spiders. Pedro's too. Really? Melody 00:06:27.189 --> 00:06:29.470 and Pedro are the same. Oh god. I'm like that's 00:06:29.470 --> 00:06:32.009 your biggest fear. I don't know if that's a biggest 00:06:32.009 --> 00:06:34.250 fear, but nobody, they don't like spiders. I 00:06:34.250 --> 00:06:36.209 don't mind them. I talked to the one that's in 00:06:36.209 --> 00:06:38.029 my door frame out back when I let Pepper out. 00:06:38.129 --> 00:06:41.360 I'm like, hey. We have mutual respect of like, 00:06:41.560 --> 00:06:43.740 you don't come in here and I won't come to you. 00:06:44.439 --> 00:06:46.399 Spiders would not be my... I don't like them. 00:06:46.639 --> 00:06:49.800 What's your biggest fear? Well, sharks. I have 00:06:49.800 --> 00:06:52.480 a phobia of sharks. Yeah, but like a shark is 00:06:52.480 --> 00:06:56.180 not gonna come to your door today. What's your 00:06:56.180 --> 00:06:59.199 daily, day -to -day biggest fear? I don't live 00:06:59.199 --> 00:07:01.300 in... I don't know. I don't live in that. I really 00:07:01.300 --> 00:07:03.339 don't. Like I don't wake up being like, gee, 00:07:03.379 --> 00:07:08.259 I hope this doesn't happen to me today. If I 00:07:08.259 --> 00:07:13.240 die, I die. No fear. K -N -O -W. Capital N -O. 00:07:13.399 --> 00:07:15.639 No. No in your brain. Remember when that was 00:07:15.639 --> 00:07:18.379 so popular? It was like the coolest. No fear. 00:07:21.000 --> 00:07:27.579 Cool. Happy 40th. Hope you don't die. Here's 00:07:27.579 --> 00:07:33.220 the thing. Nope. I have no advice. No advice. 00:07:33.339 --> 00:07:34.879 You have to stop showing your kids what you're 00:07:34.879 --> 00:07:37.639 afraid of. That's it. That's my advice. I was 00:07:37.639 --> 00:07:42.899 just like, Oh man, game over. Go to bed. Hopefully 00:07:42.899 --> 00:07:47.720 you wake up. All right. Moving on to something 00:07:47.720 --> 00:07:50.399 more lively, even though Carly will ruin this, 00:07:50.639 --> 00:07:55.259 that's what we've learned in 40 years. Yeah. 00:07:56.560 --> 00:08:01.259 Um, one of the links that she sent me was 90s 00:08:01.259 --> 00:08:06.720 trivia. Do you know these questions? No, I didn't 00:08:06.720 --> 00:08:09.410 look at them. no I know but like 90s trivia so 00:08:09.410 --> 00:08:12.610 like do you know the answers to these 90s, 1990s 00:08:12.610 --> 00:08:16.209 because you were born in the 1900s I know 1990s 00:08:16.209 --> 00:08:20.110 things and I just figured you know would spice 00:08:20.110 --> 00:08:21.970 things up a little so we're gonna get help from 00:08:21.970 --> 00:08:26.250 our little Dolly Parton I have these two amazing 00:08:26.250 --> 00:08:28.550 table books and Dolly if you're out there listening 00:08:28.550 --> 00:08:33.330 we love you and we have a buzzer for yes and 00:08:33.330 --> 00:08:38.129 a buzzer for no sweet These are my dog buzzers 00:08:38.129 --> 00:08:41.830 I Did teach my dog to talk to me, but then it 00:08:41.830 --> 00:08:44.450 got annoying so she doesn't do it as much because 00:08:44.450 --> 00:08:48.269 I don't allow it This one used to say play with 00:08:48.269 --> 00:08:55.970 me, but now it says So if you get it wrong It's 00:08:55.970 --> 00:08:59.009 a boo and if you get it right this used to say 00:08:59.009 --> 00:09:01.809 yes because she would do a command correctly 00:09:01.809 --> 00:09:04.409 Or I would ask her a question and she would tell 00:09:04.409 --> 00:09:08.750 me The answer was yes. But now it is. You did 00:09:08.750 --> 00:09:13.590 it. Yay. Love it when a you did it is as monotone 00:09:13.590 --> 00:09:16.789 as that. That's how I feel. I'm tapped out. I'm 00:09:16.789 --> 00:09:19.470 overwhelmed. My sister doesn't care. OK. Wait, 00:09:19.549 --> 00:09:22.110 I'm prefacing this with I didn't ask 80s questions 00:09:22.110 --> 00:09:26.090 because I was born in 85, but I clearly was a 00:09:26.090 --> 00:09:29.269 newborn and have no recollection. or did not 00:09:29.269 --> 00:09:31.570 know any trivia from the 80s she was a newborn 00:09:31.570 --> 00:09:37.529 for five years between 1985 to 1990 tis true 00:09:37.529 --> 00:09:44.289 she's now a toddler what did i say uh once you're 00:09:44.289 --> 00:09:49.309 20 it's like you're a toddler adult oh really 00:09:49.309 --> 00:09:54.629 and then like 25 to mid early early 30s you're 00:09:54.629 --> 00:09:57.519 like a teenage adult Because it's the first time 00:09:57.519 --> 00:09:59.019 you're adulting. When do you become an adult? 00:10:00.179 --> 00:10:04.519 When you die. I don't know. What am I? In your 00:10:04.519 --> 00:10:10.460 40s, you're like... Almost a? Yeah, you're like... 00:10:10.460 --> 00:10:13.659 Not a pre -teen adult. You're not a teen adult. 00:10:13.820 --> 00:10:17.379 You're like a newbie. Yeah, okay. In your 40s. 00:10:17.379 --> 00:10:19.620 And I feel like people in their 70s, i .e. mom 00:10:19.620 --> 00:10:21.159 or anyone, they would agree with that because 00:10:21.159 --> 00:10:23.889 they're like, yeah. You're young you still don't 00:10:23.889 --> 00:10:25.669 have all the answers and you're still figuring 00:10:25.669 --> 00:10:27.549 it out like 70. She doesn't have all the answers 00:10:27.549 --> 00:10:30.649 Yeah, that's you know, like I think I I forget 00:10:30.649 --> 00:10:34.929 that When talking to mom or anybody else of that 00:10:34.929 --> 00:10:36.549 generation where it's like they're doing life 00:10:36.549 --> 00:10:38.070 for the first time, too Yeah, she's never been 00:10:38.070 --> 00:10:41.309 70 before why do I think that they should just 00:10:41.309 --> 00:10:43.169 know you know what I mean? Especially with the 00:10:43.169 --> 00:10:46.009 phones and stuff. Like why do you just you shouldn't 00:10:46.009 --> 00:10:49.690 just know? Well, they know way more than us. 00:10:49.690 --> 00:10:54.220 Oh my god. I said that But I know that they've 00:10:54.220 --> 00:10:56.820 seen a lot more life than us, but yes, they're 00:10:56.820 --> 00:10:59.139 doing it for the first time So like yeah, they 00:10:59.139 --> 00:11:01.279 don't have all the answers don't tell my mom 00:11:01.279 --> 00:11:03.559 never I take it back. You're a preteen adult 00:11:03.559 --> 00:11:05.960 Even though you're in your 40s, you're stunted 00:11:05.960 --> 00:11:08.100 you haven't you're not even in the newbie adult 00:11:08.100 --> 00:11:11.259 I'm kid you not I was talking to a friend yesterday 00:11:11.259 --> 00:11:13.700 and I was texting like an old friend and I was 00:11:13.700 --> 00:11:15.720 like Hey, do you mind if I tell my mom that? 00:11:17.199 --> 00:11:20.620 Oh my God. She understood though. She was like, 00:11:20.940 --> 00:11:23.519 yes, absolutely. You should surround yourself 00:11:23.519 --> 00:11:26.279 with other preteen adults. That's true. Okay. 00:11:26.379 --> 00:11:30.000 Question number one, about 1990s. If you were 00:11:30.000 --> 00:11:31.899 born in this generation, you'll enjoy this. If 00:11:31.899 --> 00:11:35.299 not, scroll past this because we're going to 00:11:35.299 --> 00:11:36.840 do other things. I can't promise. I'm going to 00:11:36.840 --> 00:11:39.659 know any of these answers. She's not. What's 00:11:39.659 --> 00:11:42.279 the name of the group responsible for the Macarena? 00:11:42.980 --> 00:11:46.100 Macarena. Yeah. I'm just going to say the Vanga 00:11:46.100 --> 00:11:48.440 Boys. because they're the only people that I 00:11:48.440 --> 00:11:55.120 can think of right now. Hold. Los del Rio? Yeah, 00:11:55.120 --> 00:11:58.159 no. But that sounds right to me. I just wouldn't 00:11:58.159 --> 00:12:03.399 pick it out. What 1990s teen movie was retitled 00:12:03.399 --> 00:12:07.419 after a Britney Spears song? Oh, you know this. 00:12:08.980 --> 00:12:11.179 So the title of the movie is a Britney Spears 00:12:11.179 --> 00:12:15.700 song that was that popular in. It just says 1990s. 00:12:15.840 --> 00:12:19.279 I'm not sure. Toxic was 2000s. The original title 00:12:19.279 --> 00:12:25.279 was called Next to You, if that helps. OK. It 00:12:25.279 --> 00:12:28.480 wouldn't be Baby One More Time, but that was 00:12:28.480 --> 00:12:35.059 90s. Oops, I Did It Again was in the 2000s. I 00:12:35.059 --> 00:12:38.120 don't know. I'll go with Oops, I Did It Again. 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:47.139 Drive me crazy. Oh Yes, best video ever with 00:12:47.139 --> 00:12:49.840 the little green shirt and the dance pants. She 00:12:49.840 --> 00:12:53.559 wore jazz shoes in that She wore black jazz boots 00:12:53.559 --> 00:12:57.720 like block. Yeah block What's the infamous why 00:12:57.720 --> 00:13:00.000 infamous? I don't know if I agree with infamous. 00:13:00.059 --> 00:13:04.500 What's the infamous haircut inspired? By a must 00:13:04.500 --> 00:13:12.870 -see TV sitcom. Oh the Rachel from friends But 00:13:12.870 --> 00:13:15.750 infamous means you're famous for a negative reason. 00:13:16.210 --> 00:13:19.169 Yeah, well, I think that's what you think infamous 00:13:19.169 --> 00:13:22.370 means, but I think it just means... I'm sorry, 00:13:22.370 --> 00:13:25.370 what? I don't think it's negative. I think that's 00:13:25.370 --> 00:13:29.529 what we think infamous means. Hold, please. Are 00:13:29.529 --> 00:13:32.389 you looking it up? Yeah, because this is real. 00:13:32.610 --> 00:13:35.950 I thought about being Rachel Green from Friends 00:13:35.950 --> 00:13:39.710 for Halloween, but... I don't know if they, I 00:13:39.710 --> 00:13:42.289 mean, I bet they sell wigs with the Rachel haircut. 00:13:43.250 --> 00:13:47.090 I bet, I bet I could find one. Oh, yes. Also, 00:13:47.590 --> 00:13:49.970 you're wrong. Okay. Infamous, well -known for 00:13:49.970 --> 00:13:54.669 some bad quality or deed. Wicked, abominable. 00:13:55.350 --> 00:13:57.490 I'm turning 40. I didn't say I was a wizard. 00:13:57.809 --> 00:14:03.669 Preteen adult. A wizard? A wizard? Yeah, the 00:14:03.669 --> 00:14:07.529 Rachel, that was a great haircut. Okay. She hated 00:14:07.529 --> 00:14:10.710 it, but. She did she does. Yeah. Oh, that's a 00:14:10.710 --> 00:14:17.570 shame Whitney Houston had a massive hit in 1992 00:14:17.570 --> 00:14:21.169 with a cover of someone else's hit. I will always 00:14:21.169 --> 00:14:32.129 love you by Dolly Parton What fashion accessory 00:14:32.129 --> 00:14:38.179 was invented by a high school shop teacher Everyone 00:14:38.179 --> 00:14:41.440 had one. Everyone had one. We were obsessed with 00:14:41.440 --> 00:14:45.639 them when they came out. Could be used as a weapon. 00:14:46.759 --> 00:14:51.279 A coupoton. No. If you know what a coupoton is. 00:14:51.299 --> 00:14:53.779 A fashion accessory. A fashion accessory could 00:14:53.779 --> 00:14:56.220 be used as a weapon. I was going to say jellies, 00:14:56.620 --> 00:14:59.500 but no. Ooh, jellies. Jellies were cool in the 00:14:59.500 --> 00:15:02.080 90s. A fashion accessory that could be used as 00:15:02.080 --> 00:15:04.379 a weapon. I mean, we used it as a weapon. That 00:15:04.379 --> 00:15:08.570 was not its purpose. I don't know, what? A key 00:15:08.570 --> 00:15:16.090 chain? Slap braces. Hold please. Those are still 00:15:16.090 --> 00:15:20.289 popular today. Why are you holding for that? 00:15:20.429 --> 00:15:21.970 You can just hit it. Because I had to put my 00:15:21.970 --> 00:15:23.669 hand down. I had to put the phone down with all 00:15:23.669 --> 00:15:27.509 the answers. Okay. What was the first rap song 00:15:27.509 --> 00:15:31.289 to hit? What? To hit number one on the Billboard 00:15:31.289 --> 00:15:36.379 Hot 100. The first. rap song ever to hit number 00:15:36.379 --> 00:15:40.700 one? Is it a white guy? You got to give me a 00:15:40.700 --> 00:15:46.519 hint. Is it a white guy? Yes. Ice Ice Baby. Correct. 00:15:46.980 --> 00:15:48.759 You can't ask me that question. You just have 00:15:48.759 --> 00:15:50.399 to have an answer. Well, you said yes. Because 00:15:50.399 --> 00:15:53.440 what other white rapper at that time? Eminem 00:15:53.440 --> 00:15:55.700 was not a thing yet. Right. But if it was not 00:15:55.700 --> 00:15:59.240 a white rapper, I would have been lost. Right. 00:15:59.320 --> 00:16:07.460 You just answer the question. You did it. All 00:16:07.460 --> 00:16:11.159 right. You're not gonna know this. Then don't 00:16:11.159 --> 00:16:14.799 ask me. Okay. How old was Notorious B .I .G. 00:16:15.360 --> 00:16:17.720 when he was murdered? Yeah, I know he was in 00:16:17.720 --> 00:16:28.200 his 20s. I'm gonna go with 28. 29. 24. 24? That's 00:16:28.200 --> 00:16:33.100 horrible. What singer broke her own record for 00:16:33.100 --> 00:16:37.100 highest ever attendance at the Houston Astrodome 00:16:37.100 --> 00:16:43.740 in 1995? Selena. How did you know that? You did 00:16:43.740 --> 00:16:49.899 it! Well, the Houston Astrodome is big for Selena 00:16:49.899 --> 00:16:53.899 because it's very highly populated Mexican and 00:16:53.899 --> 00:16:57.529 she was huge in Houston. I know my Selena. I 00:16:57.529 --> 00:17:00.490 did not know she was still alive in 1995, though. 00:17:02.090 --> 00:17:05.869 I thought she was killed before then. No, I think 00:17:05.869 --> 00:17:07.829 she was killed in 1996, but don't quote me on 00:17:07.829 --> 00:17:11.089 that. I got it right. That's all that matters. 00:17:11.289 --> 00:17:14.230 I know Selena. I love her. OK. Let's go back 00:17:14.230 --> 00:17:15.990 to reality, and you're not going to know this 00:17:15.990 --> 00:17:19.930 one. Which actor was one of the first approached 00:17:19.930 --> 00:17:25.190 to play Buzz Lightyear in Toy Story? Oh. So not 00:17:25.190 --> 00:17:29.289 Tim Allen. Not Tim Allen. The first one, Tim 00:17:29.289 --> 00:17:38.269 Hanks is Woody. Who? Tom Hanks is Woody. I'm 00:17:38.269 --> 00:17:42.650 gonna just, I'm going on a ledge here. You know 00:17:42.650 --> 00:17:47.329 when you go on ledges? Yeah, yeah. Frasier. What 00:17:47.329 --> 00:17:53.190 a horrible choice. But very... appropriate because 00:17:53.190 --> 00:17:56.710 he was super popular in the 90s. But can you 00:17:56.710 --> 00:18:00.609 imagine? Yes, that's why he's not buzzed. To 00:18:00.609 --> 00:18:07.190 infinity. Oh, god. No. Billy Crystal. Oh, he 00:18:07.190 --> 00:18:08.630 would have been great. He would have been great, 00:18:08.809 --> 00:18:14.109 too, yeah. All right. What band is featured on 00:18:14.109 --> 00:18:16.509 Beavis's shirt from Beavis and Butthead? Yeah, 00:18:16.509 --> 00:18:18.190 we weren't allowed to watch that because my mom 00:18:18.190 --> 00:18:21.430 took away MTV because she didn't want our brother 00:18:21.430 --> 00:18:23.859 watching it. So I didn't take it away from me. 00:18:23.940 --> 00:18:27.500 I just never got it. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know, 00:18:27.519 --> 00:18:31.960 because I would never watch the show. Have you 00:18:31.960 --> 00:18:34.440 guys turned it off? Like, this is annoying, right? 00:18:34.660 --> 00:18:38.380 Stop getting them wrong. Metallica. Yeah, no. 00:18:40.039 --> 00:18:44.059 OK. Am I going to get this? I don't know. Probably 00:18:44.059 --> 00:18:48.140 not. Tamagotchi. Do you remember Tamagotchi? 00:18:48.160 --> 00:18:53.130 Yes. Is a combination. of two Japanese words 00:18:53.130 --> 00:18:57.690 that mean what? Tama and gachi. Right, so Tama 00:18:57.690 --> 00:19:00.789 most likely means something and then gachi means 00:19:00.789 --> 00:19:03.910 something. But think about what a tamagachi is. 00:19:03.950 --> 00:19:06.009 Yes, it's an animal that lives in a computer 00:19:06.009 --> 00:19:09.109 that you have to take care of virtually. So it's 00:19:09.109 --> 00:19:14.990 a virtual animal. Or a tama means animal, gachi 00:19:14.990 --> 00:19:21.400 means gotcha. Think of the shape. of what it 00:19:21.400 --> 00:19:26.519 is? An egg. Okay, yes. Egg. Egg. And like... 00:19:26.519 --> 00:19:30.559 Egg animal. You're not gonna get this. Egg and 00:19:30.559 --> 00:19:37.220 friend. It was not happening. Okay, last one 00:19:37.220 --> 00:19:41.339 of these questions. I think I failed. Definitely 00:19:41.339 --> 00:19:45.059 more booze than yeah. What was the best -selling 00:19:45.059 --> 00:19:51.240 rock album? of the 1990s. Rock? You know this, 00:19:51.400 --> 00:19:54.180 though. It's not rock like you're thinking Pearl 00:19:54.180 --> 00:19:58.519 Jam. OK. It's not Nirvana? Maybe it is. Like, 00:19:58.619 --> 00:20:00.960 is it? No, those are, to me, those are different 00:20:00.960 --> 00:20:03.500 rocks. So like, Pearl Jam is grunge. Nirvana 00:20:03.500 --> 00:20:05.220 is a little, well, it's grunge, but it's a little 00:20:05.220 --> 00:20:09.599 more hard. This is not rock in that regard. To 00:20:09.599 --> 00:20:15.380 me, I think you're going to think she is more 00:20:15.380 --> 00:20:18.700 folky? Oh. But not. But Jewel. But at the same 00:20:18.700 --> 00:20:22.019 time rock. It's definitely rock. Oh, Alanis Morissette. 00:20:22.279 --> 00:20:25.819 Yes. Do you remember the name of the album? Ironic. 00:20:26.599 --> 00:20:33.539 No. As a song. Hold on. Hold on. Alanis Morissette. 00:20:35.220 --> 00:20:41.240 Give me the first word. Jagged. Jagged little 00:20:41.240 --> 00:20:47.599 pill. Geez. For that? No. All right, last one 00:20:47.599 --> 00:20:51.559 because I just read it and I had no idea. Great, 00:20:51.559 --> 00:20:54.400 so I'm not gonna get it either. What fad toy 00:20:54.400 --> 00:21:02.000 was feared to be a tool for foreign spies? I 00:21:02.000 --> 00:21:04.420 wanna say Furby. Oh my god, yes! Is that right? 00:21:04.859 --> 00:21:09.839 You did it! Because Furby is our generation's 00:21:09.839 --> 00:21:15.220 - What? Labooboo. where Labooboo's got, some 00:21:15.220 --> 00:21:17.700 of them have little chips in their neck and are 00:21:17.700 --> 00:21:21.940 trying to get data from whoever buys it. Like 00:21:21.940 --> 00:21:24.039 Lewis has said, oh, don't buy me a Labooboo. 00:21:24.099 --> 00:21:26.160 Does that have a chip in its neck? Because our 00:21:26.160 --> 00:21:28.099 mom has scared my kids. Yeah, yeah, definitely 00:21:28.099 --> 00:21:33.700 just mom. About Labooboo's. But yeah, Furby is 00:21:33.700 --> 00:21:37.859 like the, you know, old school Labooboo. When 00:21:37.859 --> 00:21:39.480 you say that like that it makes sense. I just 00:21:39.480 --> 00:21:41.619 don't remember I wanted one I had one I killed 00:21:41.619 --> 00:21:44.359 it the day I got it hmm I left it in the car 00:21:44.359 --> 00:21:45.960 when we went to the movies the day after Christmas 00:21:45.960 --> 00:21:47.700 and it froze to death and he never turned on 00:21:47.700 --> 00:21:51.920 but mom waited in line for like Hours she waited 00:21:51.920 --> 00:21:56.160 in line for hours and didn't get it right Chris 00:21:56.160 --> 00:21:58.460 and Don bought it for you right right right? 00:21:59.119 --> 00:22:01.829 because my mom Couldn't get couldn't get one 00:22:01.829 --> 00:22:03.470 thing. You couldn't get it off the shit on the 00:22:03.470 --> 00:22:05.950 shelves Yeah, no, it was yeah more of the story 00:22:05.950 --> 00:22:08.369 don't have children If you don't want nice things 00:22:08.369 --> 00:22:11.250 don't have children alright, so we're gonna we're 00:22:11.250 --> 00:22:15.970 gonna shift past the 90s because I Bombed the 00:22:15.970 --> 00:22:18.789 90s you didn't ask any full house questions. 00:22:18.789 --> 00:22:21.630 They would have they didn't growing pains family 00:22:21.630 --> 00:22:24.069 I would have nailed those like nailed them. They 00:22:24.069 --> 00:22:27.410 didn't give me any So what we're gonna do is 00:22:27.410 --> 00:22:30.019 we're gonna do what we're good at on this podcast, 00:22:30.039 --> 00:22:32.400 and we're gonna ask Carly the uncomfortable questions. 00:22:32.940 --> 00:22:36.779 I'll make it awkward. Carly on the spot, spot, 00:22:37.019 --> 00:22:40.859 spot, spot. I hate this. That's what happens 00:22:40.859 --> 00:22:43.559 in class, by the way, me holding that note until 00:22:43.559 --> 00:22:45.759 she's finished talking, because she doesn't hear 00:22:45.759 --> 00:22:48.140 when I start speaking, she just starts speaking. 00:22:48.539 --> 00:22:51.099 So then I have to wait, and then I'm like, nevermind, 00:22:51.200 --> 00:22:54.099 nothing's worth it anymore. So if you heard me 00:22:54.099 --> 00:23:00.349 go. Story of my life every time I finish a dance. 00:23:00.349 --> 00:23:02.890 That's what happens. I have things to say I've 00:23:02.890 --> 00:23:04.849 lots of things to say usually it's like I'm just 00:23:04.849 --> 00:23:06.630 good talks that there's no silence and I'm gonna 00:23:06.630 --> 00:23:10.089 look at the phone and then Okay, she is a rough 00:23:10.089 --> 00:23:19.769 life guys What made you feel the most alive I'm 00:23:19.769 --> 00:23:22.529 not answering that I'm not answering that because 00:23:22.529 --> 00:23:26.369 I am dead inside so That's why she's so cold. 00:23:26.670 --> 00:23:30.049 I'm freezing. I'm wearing my skeleton sweater, 00:23:30.450 --> 00:23:34.250 my thug life t -shirt. For those not watching, 00:23:34.630 --> 00:23:37.109 the thugs of the life on the t -shirt are the 00:23:37.109 --> 00:23:41.630 Sanderson sisters. All right. What did you learn 00:23:41.630 --> 00:23:48.710 the hard way this year, this past year? The hard 00:23:48.710 --> 00:23:52.130 way. Everything. We do everything the hard way. 00:23:53.349 --> 00:23:56.539 Everything we do is the hard way. And then we 00:23:56.539 --> 00:23:58.299 realized there are better ways to do things. 00:23:58.339 --> 00:23:59.759 That was a cop out because that's generalized. 00:23:59.960 --> 00:24:02.480 I'm going to say the let them freaking theory, 00:24:02.900 --> 00:24:08.000 you annoying human. I did learn that the hard 00:24:08.000 --> 00:24:10.660 way. It took me a very long time. I always come 00:24:10.660 --> 00:24:15.019 around, but I take a very long way to get there. 00:24:18.779 --> 00:24:24.720 What do you want more of next year? More of next 00:24:24.720 --> 00:24:33.539 year, like not... I don't want to say free time 00:24:33.539 --> 00:24:36.240 because I feel like I do have enough free time, 00:24:36.700 --> 00:24:42.140 but like productive, productive time. Things 00:24:42.140 --> 00:24:44.279 that I want to do instead of just like when we 00:24:44.279 --> 00:24:47.079 have a free day, nothing, we don't do anything. 00:24:49.320 --> 00:24:50.960 You know what I mean? Because our batteries are 00:24:50.960 --> 00:24:52.220 out. Right, because our batteries are out. I 00:24:52.220 --> 00:24:53.940 don't want to do that next year. When we have 00:24:53.940 --> 00:24:56.220 a free day, I want to be like, oh, now I want 00:24:56.220 --> 00:24:58.619 to do this project that like I keep saying that 00:24:58.619 --> 00:25:00.380 I want to do and I'll do it when we have more 00:25:00.380 --> 00:25:02.740 free time. But when I have free time, I'm too 00:25:02.740 --> 00:25:06.099 tired to do it. So that means what you want less 00:25:06.099 --> 00:25:10.500 of is overworking yourself. Right. But you said, 00:25:10.660 --> 00:25:12.359 what do you want more of? So I want to be more 00:25:12.359 --> 00:25:15.940 productive and do the things that I keep saying 00:25:15.940 --> 00:25:17.900 I don't have enough time for. But you can't do 00:25:17.900 --> 00:25:21.559 that if you're Battery is out So you want to 00:25:21.559 --> 00:25:24.000 do this thing? But you don't want to change the 00:25:24.000 --> 00:25:26.119 fact that you're overworking yourself that on 00:25:26.119 --> 00:25:30.400 those free days you physically can't You mentally 00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:33.059 can't so what you're saying is well I want to 00:25:33.059 --> 00:25:35.140 get over that and I just want to be productive 00:25:35.140 --> 00:25:37.400 and do it So then it's like you're you're not 00:25:37.400 --> 00:25:39.059 gonna make it. Well, I was saying it's funny 00:25:39.059 --> 00:25:43.440 that you said that because on Sunday We had nothing 00:25:43.440 --> 00:25:46.640 to do after I taught I told the class I said 00:25:46.750 --> 00:25:48.769 Guys, just so you know, I'm taking a shower and 00:25:48.769 --> 00:25:50.609 getting back in my pajamas and pretending that 00:25:50.609 --> 00:25:54.490 none of these past two hours just happened. But 00:25:54.490 --> 00:25:55.789 there's nothing wrong with that. No, I know. 00:25:55.930 --> 00:26:00.930 But if we had had plans and we were go, go, go, 00:26:01.049 --> 00:26:03.269 it would have been fine and I would have gone 00:26:03.269 --> 00:26:06.269 and I would have been fine. But because we had 00:26:06.269 --> 00:26:11.009 nothing, I couldn't move. I was like fused to 00:26:11.009 --> 00:26:13.490 the couch, kept falling asleep. You know when 00:26:13.490 --> 00:26:18.970 your body just like dies? This is a serious question. 00:26:19.150 --> 00:26:21.789 You know what I'm saying? The statement, a body 00:26:21.789 --> 00:26:23.470 in motion stays in motion. If you had things 00:26:23.470 --> 00:26:25.210 to do, you'd keep going. Your body would keep 00:26:25.210 --> 00:26:28.069 running. But because I had nothing, I was like, 00:26:28.190 --> 00:26:31.890 oh my gosh, a bus hit me. Yes, Karlie, that's 00:26:31.890 --> 00:26:34.430 called burnout. Right. So I don't want to do 00:26:34.430 --> 00:26:36.569 that next year. I don't want to have a day where 00:26:36.569 --> 00:26:39.509 I'm like, I physically can't move, not because 00:26:39.509 --> 00:26:42.839 of any other reason than I. cannot see straight 00:26:42.839 --> 00:26:46.039 because of whatever. I want to use the time that 00:26:46.039 --> 00:26:48.880 I have to do something that I want to do that 00:26:48.880 --> 00:26:53.160 I keep putting off. Correct. We get it. Thank 00:26:53.160 --> 00:26:58.759 you for explaining. No, you did not. I think 00:26:58.759 --> 00:27:04.500 what you need to address is that you can have 00:27:04.500 --> 00:27:07.200 that, but you can't have that the way life is 00:27:07.200 --> 00:27:12.460 right now. No. Yeah. So I want. You say it to 00:27:12.460 --> 00:27:13.960 people all the time when they come to you about 00:27:13.960 --> 00:27:18.559 food or Changing their lifestyle or weight changes 00:27:18.559 --> 00:27:20.779 you go. Okay. Well what you're doing now doesn't 00:27:20.779 --> 00:27:22.599 work So it has to change for you to want something 00:27:22.599 --> 00:27:27.160 different. Yeah, same thing Yeah, no, I get that 00:27:27.160 --> 00:27:29.400 you are working more than you did in the past 00:27:29.400 --> 00:27:32.000 however many years this year is the and by this 00:27:32.000 --> 00:27:36.099 year it started in September so really 39 to 00:27:36.099 --> 00:27:40.190 40 you're only Couple weeks left but the year 00:27:40.190 --> 00:27:43.470 from September to now has been seven years has 00:27:43.470 --> 00:27:51.049 been rough for you for you, too Clearly I'm fantastic. 00:27:51.690 --> 00:27:54.569 I don't know if you can tell by the state of 00:27:54.569 --> 00:28:01.789 my hair All right, yes me an easier one What 00:28:01.789 --> 00:28:06.569 do you want to say? No? To more freely. Oh work 00:28:06.569 --> 00:28:11.000 stuff It just took us an hour to get to that 00:28:11.000 --> 00:28:12.660 point. I just thought you would say something 00:28:12.660 --> 00:28:16.579 different. No, I want to say no to Definitely 00:28:16.579 --> 00:28:20.279 more work stuff. We do a lot of things Because 00:28:20.279 --> 00:28:22.660 we feel like if we don't do it somebody else 00:28:22.660 --> 00:28:24.460 is gonna do it We don't want somebody else to 00:28:24.460 --> 00:28:26.880 do it sort of like how we lived our life with 00:28:26.880 --> 00:28:29.279 acting if we don't take that job Somebody else 00:28:29.279 --> 00:28:33.000 is gonna take that job Do you really mean? funny 00:28:33.000 --> 00:28:38.319 cuz we're doing a class this Friday evening, 00:28:39.059 --> 00:28:41.980 after a full day of work, Carly just wanted to 00:28:41.980 --> 00:28:44.779 make it work because she felt bad. And so we 00:28:44.779 --> 00:28:49.359 have to do this extra 45 minute horribly hard 00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:53.920 class at the end of a Friday because Carly couldn't 00:28:53.920 --> 00:28:57.940 say no. Right. I'm not 40 yet. Next Tuesday, 00:28:58.000 --> 00:29:02.299 I will say no to that. I'm going to murder. But 00:29:02.299 --> 00:29:07.390 at 39. I'm not gonna say, I didn't have the power. 00:29:09.890 --> 00:29:16.089 But at 40 I will. Okay. All right. Check back. 00:29:17.609 --> 00:29:20.369 She's not gonna make it. No. It's less than a 00:29:20.369 --> 00:29:23.410 week until her 40th and I think I actually will 00:29:23.410 --> 00:29:28.930 murder dur dur her. Okay. If you could be a kid 00:29:28.930 --> 00:29:33.200 again. On your birthday, like on the day of birth. 00:29:33.319 --> 00:29:38.880 The day of birth. 21st. What would you do? If 00:29:38.880 --> 00:29:42.640 I could be a kid again, I think I would have 00:29:42.640 --> 00:29:45.000 like, I don't know why I'm picturing this. Maybe 00:29:45.000 --> 00:29:46.640 it's just because it's one of those home videos 00:29:46.640 --> 00:29:48.720 that I used to watch all the time. I would have 00:29:48.720 --> 00:29:52.420 like an old school birthday party where we all 00:29:52.420 --> 00:29:56.089 wore like a dress. sat in the living room, played 00:29:56.089 --> 00:29:58.910 Duck Duck Goose or whatever games mom played, 00:29:59.230 --> 00:30:01.630 sat around the dining room table and had pizza 00:30:01.630 --> 00:30:05.150 and cake and open presents. Carly had a hair 00:30:05.150 --> 00:30:08.890 braiding party. Yeah, that was in like sixth, 00:30:08.890 --> 00:30:12.809 fifth grade. I had the girls over and my cousins 00:30:12.809 --> 00:30:15.930 and her friend came over and French braided our 00:30:15.930 --> 00:30:17.849 hair and did our makeup. That was the party. 00:30:17.970 --> 00:30:21.450 That was it. I would do that. I would. I was 00:30:21.450 --> 00:30:24.960 picturing putt putt. Just because I just remember 00:30:24.960 --> 00:30:27.660 that being, you'd just be on top of the world 00:30:27.660 --> 00:30:30.180 if you got to go to Putt -Putt. Oh my gosh. Yeah. 00:30:30.960 --> 00:30:35.680 And the pizza at Putt -Putt was the best. I remember 00:30:35.680 --> 00:30:37.960 that pizza being good. But I would have like 00:30:37.960 --> 00:30:39.759 an old school party, but I'd make everybody go 00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:44.400 to mom's house. Like, mom, you have it. I want 00:30:44.400 --> 00:30:48.299 princess paper plates and an ice cream cake from 00:30:48.299 --> 00:30:51.440 Carvel, not Carnival. It was Carvel. Wait, I 00:30:51.440 --> 00:30:52.920 just had this conversation with someone. I couldn't 00:30:52.920 --> 00:30:55.920 remember which one was first. Carvel. Carvel. 00:30:56.019 --> 00:30:57.799 It turned into Carnival. Yeah. And now Carnival 00:30:57.799 --> 00:31:00.619 doesn't exist. Really? I guess that's what they 00:31:00.619 --> 00:31:03.480 told me. Yeah. But yeah, I'd have an old school 00:31:03.480 --> 00:31:07.140 five -year -old birthday party with Simon Says 00:31:07.140 --> 00:31:11.500 and Mother May I. Chip Witches. Yes. Doritos. 00:31:12.920 --> 00:31:15.000 We didn't have that at our party. Yeah, that 00:31:15.000 --> 00:31:19.839 was too expensive. Wait a second. It was probably 00:31:19.839 --> 00:31:22.000 called something else and it was the generic 00:31:22.000 --> 00:31:24.420 brand at the super fresh you couldn't have Cheetos 00:31:24.420 --> 00:31:32.579 you had like half mark orange fuzzy balls But 00:31:32.579 --> 00:31:38.640 I do it I'd go back to orange fuzzy balls. Oh 00:31:38.640 --> 00:31:42.779 my god Okay, be a fortune teller. Okay and predict 00:31:42.779 --> 00:31:46.700 one thing that will happen Before your 41st birthday. 00:31:46.700 --> 00:31:50.000 So this year Like in your 40th journey around 00:31:50.000 --> 00:31:53.019 the sun. Oh, predict one thing that's going to 00:31:53.019 --> 00:31:57.000 happen. I .e. manifest. What do you want? I'm 00:31:57.000 --> 00:32:00.099 finally going to make it happen where I save 00:32:00.099 --> 00:32:04.279 up for Disney for the kids for their, by the 00:32:04.279 --> 00:32:07.140 time I'm 41. Guess that's why we're teaching 00:32:07.140 --> 00:32:12.259 this class. Friday evening. I sound like a smoker. 00:32:13.640 --> 00:32:16.220 Yeah, but you're not burnout. Your body's not 00:32:16.220 --> 00:32:18.619 crying on the inside. No, it's really important 00:32:18.619 --> 00:32:20.200 to me That's like I know I've been saying it 00:32:20.200 --> 00:32:22.019 for the past three years, but by the time I'm 00:32:22.019 --> 00:32:27.380 41 my kids Really want to go and that was all 00:32:27.380 --> 00:32:29.579 three of them If you could go one place in the 00:32:29.579 --> 00:32:31.119 world, where would you go? And they all said 00:32:31.119 --> 00:32:33.839 Disney World last night I think it's really important 00:32:33.839 --> 00:32:35.819 Lewis is really into Star Wars Dean's really 00:32:35.819 --> 00:32:39.039 into Star Wars and I that's really important 00:32:39.039 --> 00:32:40.980 to me. You can say whatever you want about it 00:32:40.980 --> 00:32:44.900 not being like Like there's so many other place 00:32:44.900 --> 00:32:46.640 in the world to go, but that's really important. 00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:51.279 So by 41 At least I would like a plan to see 00:32:51.279 --> 00:32:56.460 Can we say that? Just a play only you can prevent 00:32:56.460 --> 00:33:02.319 forest fires Carly Also, why is it really important 00:33:02.319 --> 00:33:05.400 like what makes it? Really important for you 00:33:05.400 --> 00:33:08.980 because I remember loving it so much and it being 00:33:08.980 --> 00:33:12.059 the best time And I want them to have that too. 00:33:12.500 --> 00:33:15.359 I just, cause I know it will be the best time 00:33:15.359 --> 00:33:16.920 of their life. And I want to make sure that they 00:33:16.920 --> 00:33:18.200 get to do it. They've been and they don't remember. 00:33:18.460 --> 00:33:20.400 Well, I brought them too young. Yes, we know. 00:33:20.420 --> 00:33:22.099 We all told you that. Well, mom brought them 00:33:22.099 --> 00:33:25.079 too young. Mom paid for it. So listen, mom says, 00:33:25.140 --> 00:33:27.380 hey, I'm paying for it. Yeah, I'm in. Why are 00:33:27.380 --> 00:33:32.579 you yelling? Hold on. Why are you yelling? Mom 00:33:32.579 --> 00:33:35.779 wanted to take us. So I would never say no to 00:33:35.779 --> 00:33:37.859 that. I knew they were too young. Cause even 00:33:37.859 --> 00:33:41.279 Dean at six. Yeah, I was pregnant. He wouldn't 00:33:41.279 --> 00:33:43.960 remember now. Yeah, he would, because I remember. 00:33:44.339 --> 00:33:47.400 I remember. I was in second grade when I went. 00:33:47.400 --> 00:33:50.279 Yeah. And you weren't under five. I was in second 00:33:50.279 --> 00:33:54.259 grade. No, I remember when I was young. We went 00:33:54.259 --> 00:33:58.880 before that. You weren't born. Or you were born, 00:33:58.900 --> 00:34:01.960 but you were very little. I had to sit, and mom 00:34:01.960 --> 00:34:03.980 had to tell me that I was a baby. Said, get on 00:34:03.980 --> 00:34:06.990 the plane for free. and I had to sit on mom and 00:34:06.990 --> 00:34:09.030 not talk and wear a bonnet and pretend I was. 00:34:09.630 --> 00:34:11.710 I don't think that was to Disney. Yeah, it was 00:34:11.710 --> 00:34:14.909 to Disney. I don't think you were born. I think 00:34:14.909 --> 00:34:18.949 it was just me and Billy, mom and dad. But yeah, 00:34:18.949 --> 00:34:24.030 it's important. Add it to the list. What's the 00:34:24.030 --> 00:34:27.469 list? Oh, everything I'm going to haunt you guys 00:34:27.469 --> 00:34:30.650 for. If you were to write a funny birthday song 00:34:30.650 --> 00:34:33.289 for yourself. Oh, come on. What would some of 00:34:33.289 --> 00:34:36.710 the lyrics be? Actually, nobody wants to know 00:34:36.710 --> 00:34:39.070 that, don't do that one. I can't, I'm not good 00:34:39.070 --> 00:34:43.150 at improv like that. Okay. If you were to create 00:34:43.150 --> 00:34:46.489 a signature birthday cocktail, this list is wild. 00:34:48.010 --> 00:34:52.309 What would be in it? And then what would you 00:34:52.309 --> 00:34:57.929 name it? Oh, a birthday cocktail? I... Don't 00:34:57.929 --> 00:35:01.469 mess this up. I mean, I'm boring. I like... I 00:35:01.469 --> 00:35:04.090 would get like a vodka with a splash of soda 00:35:04.090 --> 00:35:06.650 and a little bit of cranberry and I would call 00:35:06.650 --> 00:35:16.989 it basic bitch yes yes basic bitchy booze yes 00:35:16.989 --> 00:35:22.550 I'm not I'm not fun like that I'm yeah we know 00:35:22.550 --> 00:35:31.349 okay I'm so annoyed You didn't even go for like 00:35:31.349 --> 00:35:36.929 a real housewives, a Bravo name, anything. You 00:35:36.929 --> 00:35:42.429 just gave it basic B. I love that. You are a 00:35:42.429 --> 00:35:47.090 toddler adult. You're regressing. Isn't that 00:35:47.090 --> 00:35:49.250 what everybody should do as they go get older? 00:35:50.329 --> 00:35:52.869 Feel younger. We're moving on. Okay. If you created 00:35:52.869 --> 00:35:56.130 a time capsule to open on your next birthday, 00:35:56.190 --> 00:35:58.000 which is something could do that would be fun 00:35:58.000 --> 00:35:59.739 yeah that would be fun we'll do a podcast of 00:35:59.739 --> 00:36:02.000 that okay if you but let's talk about it first 00:36:02.000 --> 00:36:05.840 okay uh what three things would you put in your 00:36:05.840 --> 00:36:08.059 time capsule and let's not say next birthday 00:36:08.059 --> 00:36:10.579 that's one year yeah silly it's funny that you 00:36:10.579 --> 00:36:12.840 said that because we one of the questions last 00:36:12.840 --> 00:36:15.320 night was if you had to leave the house with 00:36:15.320 --> 00:36:18.619 only one item what would you bring like in a 00:36:18.619 --> 00:36:22.719 fire or just so i said fire To the kids they 00:36:22.719 --> 00:36:24.519 were like and you could only bring one thing 00:36:24.519 --> 00:36:27.420 you would bring fire No, I said if the house 00:36:27.420 --> 00:36:30.280 was on fire and you could only bring one And 00:36:30.280 --> 00:36:32.880 you're you wonder why they're afraid of things 00:36:32.880 --> 00:36:36.880 and have this like fear, but I said animals and 00:36:36.880 --> 00:36:39.840 Family members don't count like they're already 00:36:39.840 --> 00:36:44.340 in the car. We're good and I brought my pictures 00:36:44.340 --> 00:36:48.619 All my pictures cuz like what else? Andrew brought 00:36:48.619 --> 00:36:54.659 nothing Oh, burn, burn. Legit, he was like, nothing. 00:36:55.800 --> 00:36:57.719 I don't need anything. He doesn't need anything. 00:36:57.860 --> 00:37:00.900 He doesn't need one material thing. I would put 00:37:00.900 --> 00:37:03.199 pictures in my time capsule. The kids all picked 00:37:03.199 --> 00:37:06.159 their blankets, Elmo blanket, avocado blanket, 00:37:06.880 --> 00:37:10.460 and the tiger blanket, Melody. And Melody brought 00:37:10.460 --> 00:37:15.500 Sunny her cat. But yeah, I would bring my pictures. 00:37:15.679 --> 00:37:18.239 I would put pictures in the time capsule, I think. 00:37:19.789 --> 00:37:22.969 photos, not a phone with picture albums. Like 00:37:22.969 --> 00:37:25.670 I would put actual photos in them. You know you 00:37:25.670 --> 00:37:27.849 can still print those out. I know, I have to 00:37:27.849 --> 00:37:30.469 do that. It's never gonna happen. It's literally 00:37:30.469 --> 00:37:32.570 never going to happen. What was the question 00:37:32.570 --> 00:37:34.150 again? What would I put my time capsule? Two 00:37:34.150 --> 00:37:36.369 more. You have pictures, give me two more things. 00:37:37.670 --> 00:37:39.750 There's three things. The kids all like, why 00:37:39.750 --> 00:37:42.150 wouldn't you bring your phone? And I was like, 00:37:42.170 --> 00:37:44.610 because I don't want it. I would love to chuck 00:37:44.610 --> 00:37:48.570 that thing in a fire. looks like we love our 00:37:48.570 --> 00:37:51.590 phones, but it is not something that I would 00:37:51.590 --> 00:37:55.289 want to bring with me. Two more things. That 00:37:55.289 --> 00:37:58.909 just got real. Well, I felt bad that they were 00:37:58.909 --> 00:38:02.150 like, you wouldn't bring your phones? You admit 00:38:02.150 --> 00:38:03.730 it. You're on your phone a lot. A lot of it's 00:38:03.730 --> 00:38:05.989 for work. So it makes it look like you're on 00:38:05.989 --> 00:38:08.809 the phone. So they think phones are glorified. 00:38:09.250 --> 00:38:12.030 We're always on the phone. If you need a question, 00:38:12.150 --> 00:38:14.289 oh, I don't know. Let me look it up. There's 00:38:14.289 --> 00:38:16.889 so much that they see that we didn't have that 00:38:16.889 --> 00:38:19.989 experience of using this one device to be the 00:38:19.989 --> 00:38:23.210 answer for everything. So it's not necessarily 00:38:23.210 --> 00:38:25.070 that you're on it all the time, but you are. 00:38:25.230 --> 00:38:27.730 I would venture to say when you're watching a 00:38:27.730 --> 00:38:30.630 movie, you're also on your phone with them. And 00:38:30.630 --> 00:38:32.750 when you go to the movies, you are on your phone 00:38:32.750 --> 00:38:34.789 at the movie theater. Why? Because she's texting 00:38:34.789 --> 00:38:40.090 me. Yes. I find that I think of great ideas for 00:38:40.090 --> 00:38:44.219 work when I'm watching kid movies. or doing other 00:38:44.219 --> 00:38:46.480 things. Shocking that you're burnt out. And I'm 00:38:46.480 --> 00:38:48.219 like, oh, Victoria, this is a great idea for 00:38:48.219 --> 00:38:50.380 a class or we should do this. You need to be 00:38:50.380 --> 00:38:52.980 in the moment or else you're going to miss your 00:38:52.980 --> 00:38:55.179 life. I'll put that. I'll put being in the moment 00:38:55.179 --> 00:39:01.500 in the time capsule. Can you do that? How do 00:39:01.500 --> 00:39:05.159 you bottle that up? I'm going to hurt you. I 00:39:05.159 --> 00:39:08.159 would put pictures. We know. OK. At my wedding 00:39:08.159 --> 00:39:12.480 album. That's a picture. You're a fool. Maybe 00:39:12.480 --> 00:39:15.159 one of my favorite mugs, but like, I don't know. 00:39:15.239 --> 00:39:17.280 I guess I'm like Andrew in this where like... 00:39:17.280 --> 00:39:19.139 No, you're not. You're absolutely not. Oh, you 00:39:19.139 --> 00:39:21.219 know what? You know what I would? I would put 00:39:21.219 --> 00:39:24.619 some of the letters that the kids wrote me and 00:39:24.619 --> 00:39:29.480 some of the letters Andrew used to write me when 00:39:29.480 --> 00:39:31.760 we were first dating in there because I would 00:39:31.760 --> 00:39:33.559 want to read them again. It is the worst when 00:39:33.559 --> 00:39:36.559 that changes. He used to write me letters all 00:39:36.559 --> 00:39:41.019 the time. I think it stopped once we got married. 00:39:44.679 --> 00:39:47.059 I would put those letters in and letters like 00:39:47.059 --> 00:39:49.119 from the kids. Honestly, if he wrote you a letter 00:39:49.119 --> 00:39:53.519 now, it would be like, why do you hate me? Why 00:39:53.519 --> 00:39:57.159 are you so mean all the time? I just want you 00:39:57.159 --> 00:40:01.820 to not be tired. Yeah, I don't want to bring 00:40:01.820 --> 00:40:03.880 those letters. I want to bring the nice ones. 00:40:06.670 --> 00:40:09.429 Also, I don't know why he's permit the frog. 00:40:10.250 --> 00:40:15.389 Sounds like him. All right, last question for 00:40:15.389 --> 00:40:25.170 your birthday. There's some good ones. All right, 00:40:25.250 --> 00:40:27.510 what is your favorite, we'll keep it not deep 00:40:27.510 --> 00:40:30.130 because she's clearly not good at that. What's 00:40:30.130 --> 00:40:33.679 your favorite birthday tradition? or ritual that 00:40:33.679 --> 00:40:35.599 you look forward to each year for your birthday 00:40:35.599 --> 00:40:39.019 specifically? Oh, Andrew and I go out to like 00:40:39.019 --> 00:40:43.360 a brunch and get a margarita and then we go to 00:40:43.360 --> 00:40:45.920 Nordstrom Rack in King of Prussia and he lets 00:40:45.920 --> 00:40:48.760 me buy as much as I want. But you couldn't think 00:40:48.760 --> 00:40:51.000 of three things to put in a time capsule? Because 00:40:51.000 --> 00:40:54.159 guess what? As much as I love that birthday tradition, 00:40:54.300 --> 00:40:57.309 I don't care about... Like I wouldn't put clothes 00:40:57.309 --> 00:40:59.909 in my time capsule because in the grand scheme 00:40:59.909 --> 00:41:02.510 of things, that stuff doesn't matter. So. So 00:41:02.510 --> 00:41:04.809 why don't you save your wallet for the Disney? 00:41:05.030 --> 00:41:07.769 Because I we enjoy doing that together. So it's 00:41:07.769 --> 00:41:10.590 more of the experience of like I just go to Paladar. 00:41:10.610 --> 00:41:14.130 Yeah. Just go to your pressure. And don't go 00:41:14.130 --> 00:41:16.710 shopping. No, but I like we love shopping. We 00:41:16.710 --> 00:41:19.630 love doing like. you're gonna make fun of me 00:41:19.630 --> 00:41:21.929 and I'm prepared for it, but we like doing fashion 00:41:21.929 --> 00:41:25.050 shows for each other in the dressing room. Like 00:41:25.050 --> 00:41:27.230 I'm like, should I get this? And then he ends 00:41:27.230 --> 00:41:30.349 up buying a lot of stuff too, because, you know, 00:41:30.550 --> 00:41:32.230 he's there and there are good clothes and he 00:41:32.230 --> 00:41:34.710 likes to get dressed up too. So we'll be like, 00:41:35.010 --> 00:41:37.630 yes, that, no, that. And so we'd like to do that 00:41:37.630 --> 00:41:40.349 for each other. I'm practicing non -judgment 00:41:40.349 --> 00:41:45.429 in my 37th year coming up. So. So it's about 00:41:45.429 --> 00:41:51.480 the experience. I also like when my mom makes 00:41:51.480 --> 00:41:53.619 pesto pasta with sun dried tomatoes. And we used 00:41:53.619 --> 00:41:57.619 to have like a big birthday party, like a family 00:41:57.619 --> 00:42:01.119 party, which we sort of gotten away from over 00:42:01.119 --> 00:42:03.880 the years. But I do love when mom would make 00:42:03.880 --> 00:42:06.980 that. Well, maybe we'll make you pesto pasta 00:42:06.980 --> 00:42:09.599 in Vegas, because Carly asked for her family 00:42:09.599 --> 00:42:12.019 to go to Vegas. And that's what's happening. 00:42:13.000 --> 00:42:15.480 So. Are you still going to get clothes and stuff? 00:42:15.619 --> 00:42:18.260 No. With a Vegas trip? No, we're going to go, 00:42:18.500 --> 00:42:21.000 we're going to let the kids take off. You didn't 00:42:21.000 --> 00:42:23.920 give me my tissues today, so. Pedro took them, 00:42:23.940 --> 00:42:28.880 because he's also a snotty person. We are letting 00:42:28.880 --> 00:42:30.880 the kids stay home from school. We're going to 00:42:30.880 --> 00:42:33.440 go to Paladar to get brunch, and then we might 00:42:33.440 --> 00:42:36.699 do an escape. I call them escape the rooms. On 00:42:36.699 --> 00:42:38.039 your birthday? On my birthday. That was fun. 00:42:38.440 --> 00:42:39.920 Yeah, escape the room in King of Prussia. But 00:42:39.920 --> 00:42:43.409 I have to teach at 5 .30, so. You don't. I have 00:42:43.409 --> 00:42:46.210 to teach at 530. Yeah, I know. No, you don't. 00:42:46.309 --> 00:42:48.190 And I have to teach later that night. We'll talk 00:42:48.190 --> 00:42:54.449 about this off camera. I have to teach. Oh my 00:42:54.449 --> 00:42:56.750 god. But we're going to do that. And the kids 00:42:56.750 --> 00:42:58.929 are very excited. Because remember when we used 00:42:58.929 --> 00:43:00.409 to celebrate mom's birthday and it was always 00:43:00.409 --> 00:43:02.690 so fun? Like, oh, it's mom's birthday. We're 00:43:02.690 --> 00:43:05.329 going to do something fun. Really good description. 00:43:06.650 --> 00:43:10.769 First of all, fantastic down memory lane. I remember 00:43:10.769 --> 00:43:14.780 every piece of that. Uh, second of all, no. Okay. 00:43:15.519 --> 00:43:19.960 I don't, I don't remember. I don't know what's 00:43:19.960 --> 00:43:21.679 wrong with me. We're gonna look into that because 00:43:21.679 --> 00:43:24.079 I listened, I re -listened to the podcast this 00:43:24.079 --> 00:43:26.519 morning. I always re -listen to it the week after. 00:43:27.059 --> 00:43:30.739 You don't remember anything. I don't. It's concerning. 00:43:31.219 --> 00:43:34.179 It's concerning. Yeah. It's possible that I make 00:43:34.179 --> 00:43:38.059 stuff up and then she is just like rattling her 00:43:38.059 --> 00:43:40.500 brain for no reason because it never happened. 00:43:41.619 --> 00:43:44.559 But that's only 50 % of the time I'm making stuff 00:43:44.559 --> 00:43:46.780 up. That's not even 50. It's probably 20. The 00:43:46.780 --> 00:43:49.500 other percentage she really doesn't remember. 00:43:51.119 --> 00:43:53.599 I don't know. I don't know if it's like early 00:43:53.599 --> 00:43:55.760 onset dementia. I don't know if it's... It's 00:43:55.760 --> 00:43:58.019 not that. I was living in a dissociative, but 00:43:58.019 --> 00:44:00.619 like I didn't have major trauma. Nobody has major 00:44:00.619 --> 00:44:02.760 trauma. Well, that's not true. No. We did not 00:44:02.760 --> 00:44:05.659 have... We did not. Stop yelling. Oh my God. 00:44:06.039 --> 00:44:08.380 We did not have major trauma, but like, I don't 00:44:08.380 --> 00:44:11.239 know. And then... Yeah, you're definitely making 00:44:11.239 --> 00:44:13.780 some things up or you're confusing your memories 00:44:13.780 --> 00:44:17.179 with mine. That's true. That happens a lot. But 00:44:17.179 --> 00:44:22.699 yeah, I have no. Well, I'll tell you this as 00:44:22.699 --> 00:44:29.099 I'm nearing the end. Can't wait. It's not going 00:44:29.099 --> 00:44:33.400 to get much better. So fix it now. Ginkgo biloba. 00:44:33.880 --> 00:44:44.210 Remember that? That's your rap name. Lil' Ginkgo. 00:44:46.469 --> 00:44:49.710 Doesn't that help with memory? I'll never forget 00:44:49.710 --> 00:44:54.369 that. I'm dying. I will never forget that. I 00:44:54.369 --> 00:44:57.349 was trying to be serious. You sure were. Oh, 00:44:57.349 --> 00:44:59.250 I'm crying. Okay. You just yelled, Ginkgo, blow 00:44:59.250 --> 00:45:01.309 it at me. And I don't even think you said it 00:45:01.309 --> 00:45:05.769 right. It's such a 90s, like, fixer. Like, ailment 00:45:05.769 --> 00:45:09.269 fixer. You've snot all over. your sweater because 00:45:09.269 --> 00:45:11.590 she wiped her nose with her sweater happy 40th 00:45:11.590 --> 00:45:23.130 birthday oh my god i just said little ginkgo 00:45:23.130 --> 00:45:27.630 here everybody oh my god coming at you your rap 00:45:27.630 --> 00:45:32.510 name oh no that's your porn name never mind never 00:45:32.510 --> 00:45:37.110 mind it's like your last name in your street 00:45:37.340 --> 00:45:57.199 name that you lived on. All that happens too, 00:45:57.239 --> 00:45:59.519 you lose your bladder control in your late 30s. 00:46:07.849 --> 00:46:09.650 listening to this and you're in your 20s and 00:46:09.650 --> 00:46:12.170 30s, this is what you have to look for. I'm so 00:46:12.170 --> 00:46:15.250 sorry. I'm so sorry to find out this way. It 00:46:15.250 --> 00:46:17.909 doesn't get any better. Oh, it gets worse. It 00:46:17.909 --> 00:46:20.550 gets so much worse. And she's 37. Well, she'll 00:46:20.550 --> 00:46:24.650 be 37 in two weeks. And it's not getting any 00:46:24.650 --> 00:46:31.750 better for her either. So. Yay! God, what are 00:46:31.750 --> 00:46:38.079 we going to do for your 40th? You did it! We'll 00:46:38.079 --> 00:46:41.599 see if I make it that far. All right. We said 00:46:41.599 --> 00:46:47.659 to make it to Friday. Everybody tune in and check 00:46:47.659 --> 00:46:53.199 in with us this Friday, the 17th, around seven 00:46:53.199 --> 00:46:56.340 o 'clock. See if we are still existing. Don't 00:46:56.340 --> 00:46:58.059 because I have an event right after that that 00:46:58.059 --> 00:47:01.500 I'm going to be an hour late for. So check out 00:47:01.500 --> 00:47:03.940 on Saturday. You don't because I'm going to kill 00:47:03.940 --> 00:47:10.650 you. Okay. But also enjoy. Yeah, you heard it 00:47:10.650 --> 00:47:14.909 here folks, Lil' Ginkgo coming at you. Just reminding 00:47:14.909 --> 00:47:18.329 you that you're always fit to be real. And always 00:47:18.329 --> 00:47:28.570 allowed to be a little extra. It's everything 00:47:28.570 --> 00:47:31.750 I could have hoped for. Truly. And I could provide 00:47:31.750 --> 00:47:36.070 that for you. Truly. For legal reasons, we have 00:47:36.070 --> 00:47:38.130 to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment 00:47:38.130 --> 00:47:41.170 and educational purposes only. We are not healthcare 00:47:41.170 --> 00:47:43.590 professionals. For all of your health, wellness, 00:47:43.829 --> 00:47:45.989 fitness, and self -care needs, please refer to 00:47:45.989 --> 00:47:48.489 the medical professional in your life. Your primary 00:47:48.489 --> 00:47:51.170 care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, 00:47:51.489 --> 00:47:53.869 whoever it may be. And then let us know what 00:47:53.869 --> 00:47:56.190 they say because I guarantee we need to know 00:47:56.190 --> 00:47:59.210 it too. Okay? Okay, bye.