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Welcome to Fit to Be Real. And a little extra.

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Thank God that was her and not me this week.

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It's usually me messing up when I open my mouth.

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I don't even know if they know that that just

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happened. Oh. Pretty sure that was just on our

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end. I thought I'd click the live button, but

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I didn't. So when I... It doesn't matter. It

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really doesn't matter. Things happened and now

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we're here. Never mind. Now we're here. I'm Victoria.

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Hey guys, I'm Carly. And we're both tired. What's

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different than any other week? Because I think

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sometimes I'm more aware of it. You're more aware

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that you're tired, but right now you're just

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figuring it out? No, the opposite. Like last

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week I'm like, yeah, we're always tired. And

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this week I'm like, oh, I'm making mistakes.

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Yeah. I'm tired. Yeah. I'm not. You look it.

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No, wait, my kids had off from school yesterday

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and I slept till 630 and I was like, this is

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amazing. It was wonderful. I felt so good. Great.

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Everyone should sleep till 630. You're good.

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That does sound amazing. Like we get up so early,

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which is fine. I mean, It's fine, but sleeping

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in is fine Everything's fine sleeping until 630.

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I was like, this is glorious. I feel like it's

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noon number one My body went off before my alarm.

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Nope. I didn't go off. What is that mean? My

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body woke up for the average person was I mean,

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I didn't sleep till 630 today My body woke up

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before my alarm and I was like, wow The sun's

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coming up. I feel with it I feel good. I feel.

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What's that? I don't know. Keep going. I feel.

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Oh, it's I look good. Never mind. I'm tired.

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I definitely don't think you look good at six

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in the morning. I've seen a little bit of that

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down the shore. It's not great. Yeah. OK. Anyway,

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the next disclaimer I want to put out is that

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they're cutting trees down across from my house

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and my windows are open. So should you hear the

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tractors beeping? Actually, they're flipping

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a house. No, they're cutting down your trees.

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They just cut down an enormous tree as I rolled

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up. In the wooded area? Yeah, like where the

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goats were. Oh yeah, we had goats for a while.

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To eat all the... brush. So but at that time

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when we had the goats they cut down a lot of

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trees. Yeah they're cutting like huge trees.

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So I think they're in fear of like falling and

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I don't know. But they're also flipping a house

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across the street for me and it's been rough.

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Yeah. They're like might as well have knocked

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it down. They probably should have just knocked

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it down. Sometimes I feel like that's I don't

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know. I don't know anything about flipping houses.

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I have no comment or opinion. But I do have a

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life update. Would you like to hear it? Would

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you like to hear my life update, everyone? I

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know you've all been wondering. Yes, Carly. Dean

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is now going to school without crying. Wait,

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no, this is a big deal. It took a month and a

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week, but it happened a month, a full month and

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a week. Don't say five weeks. Definitely don't

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say five weeks. But he's going to school with

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everybody else. Not crying. I do have to give

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him a toy every single time. However, I will

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spend however much money I need to get him there

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without crying. This is a perfect segue into

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what we're talking about today about spending

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in the season. Hold on. Like you promise him

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if you go without crying at the end of the day

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you'll get a toy or he gets one right now He

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has to he doesn't know the concept of time and

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the end of the day could mean six months from

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now It's so long So if I don't give it to him

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as he's walking down the steps going into school,

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it doesn't happen He did he is grabbing my hand

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and making me like squeeze hold him Until he

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gets to the steps, but he is not crying And he's

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not going into the office anymore where he gets

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picked up by his teacher. He's like doing what

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all the other kids do. And you never found out

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why. I mean, he never was able to say why. He

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went to the psychologist, like the guidance counselor,

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and she said, he told me he misses you. And I

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was like, I know. I'm very missable. But that's

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the joke. Like, that's why we know that there's

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gotta be something deeper. I don't know. And

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it can't just be that. Honestly, I think it's

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what everybody was just telling me. It's transition.

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It's a hard transition to go from. Your other

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two did not do that. But I was not with them

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24 hours a day, seven days a week, and then gone

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for seven and a half hours a day immediately.

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And that's what I was with Dean. You don't think?

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No. No. And it was just me. Andrew was in...

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Scotland and Vegas all summer. So it was us all

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day every day. He sleeps with me like it's Amazing

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how things are backfiring Amazing how no one

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has warned you interesting, but I think it's

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just I think it's as simple as that It was a

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transition, but now I spent lots of money at

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the very expensive feed below Which my god go

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to the dollar store. Well He wants a specific

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clink bot. No, no, no, you don't get you get

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what you get and you don't get upset. I will

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pay whatever it costs. Greedy or grateful. To

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get him to school without crying. So I bought

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him bulk and then he picks out the color and

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then he goes into school. And yes, I'm going

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to lunch duty today, but I'm not going tomorrow.

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So there's that. That's my life update. It's

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going to change within an hour. Folks don't believe

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a goddamn word she says. And on that note, we're

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both going to take a sip of coffee. I'm drinking

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Selena's mug today because she is a goddess.

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Selena's good. Oh, good story. OK. Como la flor.

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I think Mexicans everywhere are very upset with

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my Spanish, with how that just went. Okay, I'm

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gonna try this again. Okay. Hey guys, what we're

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talking about today is Halloween and how much

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gosh darn money we should probably stop spending

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on Halloween. But did you read what I said? Yeah,

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I did. $13 .1 billion is expected. Billion. Just

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for Halloween. That's not Christmas. That's not

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Christmas. Halloween. I have a question. I didn't

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see if that was just in the US or if that was

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worldwide. Because I know other countries celebrate

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Halloween. Not like us, though, I feel like.

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I mean, it's really, it's more of a Day of the

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Dead, which is not actually on the 31st of Halloween.

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Right. Is that November 1st? No, that's All Saints

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Day. That's Catholic school. Yeah, that's buried.

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I think that's different. We have off, but whatever.

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Americans is what it says. Americans are expected

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to shell out $13 .1 billion on candy, costumes,

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decorations, and other Halloween -related goods,

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which I'm not sure. We covered it all, so I'm

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not sure what that is. No, can't you say it again?

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Candy? candy, costumes, decorations. Yeah, like

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all the... What else is there? You know, gift

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bags, goodie bags, like all the junk, the spider

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rings, the little toys and trinkets, the paper

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plates, the... Yeah, true. All that stuff. I

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mean, I spent at least one billion on my Halloween

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party. I agree with you, but wait, what? Already?

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Oh my God, yeah. On what? Tell us. on spider

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rings, on bubbles, on little gift bags. But I

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told you I was buying all that and it was in

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my cart and I had already purchased it. Yeah,

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yeah, okay. So I had some of that from last year.

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So I bought that and I'm gonna kill you. Decorations.

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Like every year I buy at least two more decorations.

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Why? Because I love - You're part of the problem.

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Well, I love my front yard. like looking like

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Halloween, I love it. So like the kids look forward

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to buying like one more inflatable or one more.

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We bought a giant pumpkin this year. I can't

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wait to make you feel bad about all of that.

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All right. Hold on. I also bought. OK, we'll

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talk about it later. Go ahead. Wait, what else

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did you buy? Well, we're going to talk about

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costumes. So when we get to costumes, we'll talk

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about it. Yeah. OK, so we have a list. We're

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not going to be too long winded, but also that's

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always a lie. So. Be a full bar household. And

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this was shocking to me. No, I love this idea.

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But didn't it surprise you? Well, yeah. It says

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to buy and give out the full bars of candy, not

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the like mini bulk bags because of the amount

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of plastic and wrapping for the individual candies.

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And so you're saving the planet a little bit

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more on plastic wrap and trash or garbage waste.

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you're gonna save more money by buying the full

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bar than you would by buying the multiple like

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bulk variety packs and you will be the best house

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on the block not a part of the article okay but

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it is a benefit like Alyssa what's up Alyssa

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she's a full bar house she's a full bar girl

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she's a full bar girl well back it up she's a

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full bar girl and my kids know this and we will

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hit her up on the way on like it first and then

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we will hit her up on the way back. Rude. That's

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rude. So she get whatever she has left because

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we know she doesn't want to keep it in the house

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inappropriate. My kids know. We go to Alyssa's

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house. I'm trying to think. I don't think we

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had a house on our block growing up that had

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ours full block full candy. The one next to us.

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Remember, we would always be like, oh, the next

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block has the foot like you knew who gave out

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full bars and who gave out like toothbrushes

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and toothpaste. Because that happened. What?

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Yeah, there was a house that gave out like toothbrushes

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and like many toothpastes. Your kids or us? Us.

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You don't have a good memory. Trauma will do

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that. I'm sitting next to it. Okay, so the second...

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thing is basically try to pick things with better

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packaging if you're not going to do the full

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candy bar but that would mean like boxes of raisins

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like the cardboard boxes or nerds it says nerds

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are in cardboard not plastic so that's like a

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better option if you're going to give not like

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cuter just more eco -friendly yeah we're not

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we don't really who cares about being cute if

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we're all dead just want to put that out there

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um but this one is something i thought about

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because i almost bought myself from the dollar

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store uh Pumpkin carving plastic knife set which

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shocked me that it was at the dollar store But

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don't do that. We all have knives in our houses.

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Just use the spoons and knives we already have

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that are metal and steel and not plastic. I think

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everybody gets caught up in the packaging and

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being like, oh, this will make everything easier.

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I do it with the egg dying for Easter every year

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too. And I'm like, I have all this. I have a

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spoon. Why do I need a wired metal holder for

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the egg? To dip. Yeah, you have all the stuff

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in your house. Don't waste your money on it.

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Yeah, I get it though. No, I get it too. The

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packaging and the whole experience of like walking

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into the store and everything looks Halloween

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-y and you want to buy it, but you're wasting

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your money. You have all of it. Yeah. I support

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it. And then also, wait to buy your pumpkins

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because they're going to go bad if it's too...

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I saw pumpkins out in September and I really

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wanted to, but then I was like, they're going

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to rot by the time... We have to get through

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summer number two first. we're still in it yeah

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and then also the squirrels and the wildlife

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are hungry so they're gonna eat through it if

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you carve a pumpkin and put it out right now

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anyway so wait to buy your pumpkins number one

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maybe you'll not buy as many remember when you

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can go to Linvilla and do a what you what is

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it what you can carry pay what you can carry

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No, usually it's like $9 million a pound for

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a pumpkin. So mom only used to let us get like

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the tiniest pumpkin they sold at Linvilla. Right,

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pay what you can carry. The price is the price,

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but if you can carry this many, maybe you're

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right. Maybe it's different. But maybe you won't

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do that if you're like, oh, I already bought

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a bunch of stuff. Maybe I'll save my money. I

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don't know. But then use your pumpkin. Use the

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innards. You know, pumpkin seeds, they're one

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of my favorites. Outerts. Use the outerts. Where's

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the dong -gong? Oh, yeah, I have it. I was hiding

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it. It's here. Hold on, it has packaging. But

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yeah, all that like goop that we tend to be like,

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ew, gross. If you Vitamix it or NutriBullet,

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whatever blender you have, make like a pumpkin

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base soup or broth or whatever. It's all edible.

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It just is something you don't want to touch

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with your hands. You just have to look it up.

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like Google it, and there are a million things

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you can do with them. I mean, basic, we love

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doing the pumpkin seeds and salting them. That's

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the best. The kids love that. And you know what?

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We did not carve pumpkins last year. And I thought

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my kids would just forget. And it's the first

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thing. Can we please carve pumpkins? We didn't

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do it last year. Yeah, we have to do our competition.

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I know. And they asked me to do that again. This

00:14:24.559 --> 00:14:26.610
weekend. Yeah, they said, can we do it? Guys,

00:14:26.769 --> 00:14:29.190
just hold on. Let's work out our schedule. We

00:14:29.190 --> 00:14:31.950
could do it Saturday or Sunday because there's

00:14:31.950 --> 00:14:36.690
no Eagles game. Okay. And... Hold please. We

00:14:36.690 --> 00:14:38.269
can go to L 'Invilla and we can do that. We can

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make our whole thing. We need to make teams.

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You're all invited. Fine. Anyway, teams. They're

00:14:42.970 --> 00:14:45.190
all going to want to be on Pedro's team. It's

00:14:45.190 --> 00:14:47.690
so annoying. I know. And I'll have prizes. It's

00:14:47.690 --> 00:14:50.850
fine. Carly usually gets whatever kid is last.

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And then we try to make them feel good that they

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have Carly. Nobody ever wants to be on my team.

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It's usually Dean. But you know what, my Aunt

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Vicky, our Aunt Vicky, gave me, for my birthday

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one year, a pumpkin carving set. And it's battery

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powered. And it's like a little saw to carve

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pumpkins. And at the time, I was like, thanks,

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Vic. Wait, I love that you just said the Delco

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version of saw. Saw. She said, Azael, for those

00:15:20.960 --> 00:15:23.940
of you who weren't really listening. Drew despises

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that. I do, too. The kids say it. That's wild.

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Mom, I saw it. I think I used to say that. I

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saw it, and he's like, no. He doesn't get angry

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about much. Saul, he gets very upset with. It's

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a different word. It's a completely different

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word. Better call Saul. Better call Saul. But

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yeah, so at the time, I was like, oh, thanks,

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Vic. This is a great gift. We had already carved

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pumpkin, so I didn't use it that year. I was

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so happy the next year when I got a motorized

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saw and like a scooper and I had it in the package.

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It was such a good gift. Is it plastic that we

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shouldn't be buying? No, no, no. It's metal.

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It's like legit. It's something you keep for

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years and years and years. It was like a legit

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pumpkin carving set. So I would say if you want

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to save money, invest in that one time. Better

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call Vicki. Better call Vicki. Ask her where

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she got it, because it was very useful. And whoever

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is on my team, whichever child ends up with me,

00:16:21.370 --> 00:16:23.269
we'll be balling with that. It's Dean. Like,

00:16:23.269 --> 00:16:26.909
we know. It's Dean. I'll get Melody. Lewis will

00:16:26.909 --> 00:16:29.590
get Pedro. Yeah. Uh -huh. and Andrew's on his

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own actually doing the lawn yeah Andrew's gonna

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be cleaning something or whatever doing the pumpkin

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seeds no Dean might pick Andrew and I might be

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ousted which is fine I'll just sit and drink

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red wine moving on uh this was something I didn't

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know but it's really good and this really doesn't

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have anything to do with saving money but line

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the inside of the pumpkin with coconut oil did

00:16:49.529 --> 00:16:53.460
you read that no It saves the longevity of your

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carved pumpkin when you put it outside. Do you

00:16:55.519 --> 00:16:58.340
think it's more squirrel friendly? Do the squirrels

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like to eat that? I don't know. It's just prevent

00:17:00.679 --> 00:17:03.360
your just carved pumpkin from rotting by rubbing

00:17:03.360 --> 00:17:06.299
the carved edges, so whatever you sawed it with,

00:17:06.619 --> 00:17:09.859
down with coconut oil. Sweet. All right. So that'll

00:17:09.859 --> 00:17:12.559
keep your pumpkin from looking like a melted

00:17:12.559 --> 00:17:14.779
pumpkin. Yeah. I thought that was cool. Well,

00:17:14.819 --> 00:17:17.960
it's so hot around here right now. It's a pain

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in the neck. global warming, but the pumpkins

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really don't last as long after you carve them.

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So I wonder if that helps. I don't think I would,

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too, if someone was taking chunks out of me.

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You know? This isn't normal. I say it all the

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time. Oh, why are you buying costumes? Thrift.

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Go to the thrift store. Make your costume. That's

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what we did. Let's chat about this. OK. You're

00:17:40.279 --> 00:17:44.539
lazy. What? And buy costumes. No, we haven't

00:17:44.539 --> 00:17:48.460
done that in three years. We may. We. First of

00:17:48.460 --> 00:17:52.289
all, spent an exorbitant amount of money at the

00:17:52.289 --> 00:17:55.089
thrift store last year on costumes. Well, that's

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true. Melody was the invisible man. She can't

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beat that. No. And so we're doing it again this

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year. And I will say. The invisible man? No.

00:18:05.970 --> 00:18:08.869
But no. They're making their costumes again this

00:18:08.869 --> 00:18:13.250
year. Making their costumes is costing us more

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than purchasing them. But it depends on how,

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like what? Depends on how you're making them,

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right? Like, Melody's being a black cat, and

00:18:20.589 --> 00:18:22.690
she has spent two days making this mask. But

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she wanted jewels, and she wanted felt for the

00:18:25.470 --> 00:18:28.269
thing. Like, she's doing it legit. And Louis

00:18:28.269 --> 00:18:32.150
is being a Jawa from Star Wars, getting the beady

00:18:32.150 --> 00:18:36.230
eyes. Like, they like to be precise and, like,

00:18:36.390 --> 00:18:40.250
very factual. OK, do they have the money to purchase

00:18:40.250 --> 00:18:43.829
the preciseness and the factualness? So really,

00:18:44.230 --> 00:18:47.349
mommy and daddy could say no. Well, we had to

00:18:47.349 --> 00:18:51.130
like burlap his shoes. And so now we've with

00:18:51.130 --> 00:18:52.970
hot glue. So we've ruined a pair of shoes. So

00:18:52.970 --> 00:18:56.089
I just lost a pair of nice brown shoes in the

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process. But I will say it is so much more fun.

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It's in control here. Oh, I've never claimed

00:19:04.829 --> 00:19:12.890
to be in control. Dean bought his costume. I'd

00:19:12.890 --> 00:19:15.349
wear a turtleneck under a princess dress. We

00:19:15.349 --> 00:19:18.089
did. All right, I want to hear it. Struggles.

00:19:18.250 --> 00:19:20.650
I had to wear a turtleneck under my beauty queen

00:19:20.650 --> 00:19:23.970
prom dress. You did. And it was horrible. Wait,

00:19:24.250 --> 00:19:27.230
that's right. You wore the prom dress with a

00:19:27.230 --> 00:19:29.609
white turtleneck. Yeah. And I wore one under

00:19:29.609 --> 00:19:32.490
my Chiquita Banana costume. Oh my god. Because

00:19:32.490 --> 00:19:38.059
we had to. So here's the difference. I'm... encouraging

00:19:38.059 --> 00:19:39.960
my kids to make their costume because we had

00:19:39.960 --> 00:19:42.000
to make our costumes growing up, like we always

00:19:42.000 --> 00:19:44.859
had to. However, we had to make costumes with

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what we owned in the house already. That's what

00:19:47.619 --> 00:19:50.500
I mean. They're making costumes and going out

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and buying every piece of the costume that they're

00:19:52.740 --> 00:19:54.599
making. So there's the difference. They're putting

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it together. I messed that up a little bit. Yeah.

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We had to be creative and also like the Teemu

00:20:01.500 --> 00:20:06.450
version. Oh, definitely the Teemu version. and

00:20:06.450 --> 00:20:09.190
it was whatever you wore in the dance recital

00:20:09.190 --> 00:20:11.230
the year before, how can you make that into a

00:20:11.230 --> 00:20:14.190
costume for the next year? Like I was Tina Turner

00:20:14.190 --> 00:20:19.769
one year. I was Tina Turner. She was. Which is

00:20:19.769 --> 00:20:21.970
inappropriate. Like I wouldn't have been able

00:20:21.970 --> 00:20:24.430
to be Tina Turner in this day and age. Well,

00:20:24.730 --> 00:20:26.930
hold on. You didn't do blackface or anything

00:20:26.930 --> 00:20:29.849
like that. You just wore a fringe costume and

00:20:29.849 --> 00:20:32.589
you had a rocker wig. And I held a microphone.

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That's appropriate. That's appropriate for any

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decade. You saying you couldn't dress up as Beyonce

00:20:39.420 --> 00:20:41.740
if you didn't want to meet Beyonce? No, that's

00:20:41.740 --> 00:20:43.940
true. You can do that. I had great legs in second

00:20:43.940 --> 00:20:51.559
grade too. Cross in the line. Wait, wait. So

00:20:51.559 --> 00:20:54.680
yes, we're moving on. Thrift your costumes. and

00:20:54.680 --> 00:20:56.799
hope for the best, and also save a lot of money

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unless you're gonna do it like Carly, who's actually

00:20:58.519 --> 00:21:00.660
making it worse. Guys, we're spending so much

00:21:00.660 --> 00:21:03.519
money, and it's taking so much time, but they're

00:21:03.519 --> 00:21:05.700
gonna be very proud of themselves. But then wait.

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This is an option. I'm skipping a few. Costume

00:21:09.599 --> 00:21:12.359
swap. Oh, I love this. I think this is a great

00:21:12.359 --> 00:21:15.759
idea. Yeah. I think you have to... You have to

00:21:15.759 --> 00:21:18.099
do it well in advance, though. Like, you have

00:21:18.099 --> 00:21:21.940
to do a Halloween costume swap in June. Or July.

00:21:21.960 --> 00:21:24.250
Yeah. When you have to, like... prep for it.

00:21:24.410 --> 00:21:26.390
Yeah. I think it's a great idea though. It's

00:21:26.390 --> 00:21:29.450
just like a prom dress swap or, you know, to

00:21:29.450 --> 00:21:32.609
save money on that or anything else. It's, it's

00:21:32.609 --> 00:21:34.950
a really good idea. And I wish we had thought

00:21:34.950 --> 00:21:38.650
of that. My yoga friends did a, I forget what

00:21:38.650 --> 00:21:41.009
it, they called it something. And of course I

00:21:41.009 --> 00:21:42.589
can't remember. It was only this past year. So

00:21:42.589 --> 00:21:44.990
my brain really is bad, but I brought clothes

00:21:44.990 --> 00:21:48.089
I wanted to get rid of or don't eat. And so you

00:21:48.089 --> 00:21:51.140
bring clothes that you would like to get rid

00:21:51.140 --> 00:21:54.000
of and then she put everything on hangers and

00:21:54.000 --> 00:21:55.839
she you know you could walk around her house

00:21:55.839 --> 00:21:58.940
and go shopping with everyone's stuff for free

00:21:58.940 --> 00:22:00.960
you just took whatever you wanted yeah yeah it

00:22:00.960 --> 00:22:03.720
was a swap it was a clothing swap but like for

00:22:03.720 --> 00:22:05.279
normal clothes not costumes with your friends

00:22:05.279 --> 00:22:09.059
and whatever didn't get picked through and like

00:22:09.059 --> 00:22:12.960
rehoused she donated that so like it never goes

00:22:12.960 --> 00:22:16.460
back into your house like you do get that purging

00:22:16.460 --> 00:22:18.559
and like decluttering aspect of it, too. But

00:22:18.559 --> 00:22:20.759
it was so fun. We had wine, we had food. It's

00:22:20.759 --> 00:22:23.099
a real question. Did anybody take anything that

00:22:23.099 --> 00:22:31.720
you brought? Yes. Some. I also didn't bring much

00:22:31.720 --> 00:22:33.579
from what I remember. Did it have a lot of moons

00:22:33.579 --> 00:22:37.660
on it or like? Did I not say my yoga friends?

00:22:37.839 --> 00:22:40.339
Oh, yeah, I guess that is the place you would

00:22:40.339 --> 00:22:42.380
bring your clothes. You're not invited to any.

00:22:42.579 --> 00:22:46.150
Who are your friends, Carly? You're looking at

00:22:46.150 --> 00:22:50.509
them. Cricket? Cricket? Me, myself, and I. She's

00:22:50.509 --> 00:22:56.349
swapping with Target. Okay. But a costume swap.

00:22:56.450 --> 00:22:58.210
Because what if you just need a piece of something?

00:22:59.089 --> 00:23:00.950
Like, I just need this crown. That's a great

00:23:00.950 --> 00:23:03.069
crown. I have everything else or whatever. You

00:23:03.069 --> 00:23:05.410
all have kids of the same age. Like, oh yeah,

00:23:05.589 --> 00:23:08.569
you were Minnie Mouse last year. Like my daughter

00:23:08.569 --> 00:23:10.630
wants to be Minnie Mouse. Why are you gonna go

00:23:10.630 --> 00:23:14.789
spend? $49 .99 at Halloween spirit when you know

00:23:14.789 --> 00:23:17.990
spirit of Halloween and Halloween spirit Love

00:23:17.990 --> 00:23:24.930
it Halloween spirit y 'all Just swap Minnie Mouse's

00:23:24.930 --> 00:23:28.430
okay So this one this one kind of goes with Melody.

00:23:28.430 --> 00:23:31.430
I don't know how Melody made her cat mask. I

00:23:31.430 --> 00:23:34.390
got a picture of it It's a big secret for Halloween,

00:23:34.450 --> 00:23:38.039
but my goodness it It does look expensive. Right?

00:23:38.140 --> 00:23:40.200
She did such a good job. I'm so proud of her.

00:23:40.359 --> 00:23:44.180
It's well done. But ditch the plastic. Like,

00:23:44.220 --> 00:23:46.099
you know, you can go to that Halloween spirit

00:23:46.099 --> 00:23:51.099
and just pick a mask off the wall. Like what

00:23:51.099 --> 00:23:54.960
Dean did? Yes. Wait, what's Dean being? The Stormtrooper.

00:23:56.579 --> 00:24:00.740
Sorry. We bought his $49 .90. I am like the oxymoron.

00:24:00.960 --> 00:24:04.279
We bought his $49 .99 Stormtrooper, but my kids

00:24:04.279 --> 00:24:07.309
are spending $9 ,000 on making their costumes.

00:24:07.670 --> 00:24:10.670
Also, I really wanted Dean to do... I know, Saja

00:24:10.670 --> 00:24:14.730
Boyz and Demon Hunters. He's a storm... He's

00:24:14.730 --> 00:24:16.069
very upsetting. I know, I'm sorry. He was on

00:24:16.069 --> 00:24:19.130
board for a hot minute. Yeah, he was really into

00:24:19.130 --> 00:24:22.390
it. But again, when the kids are... This is why

00:24:22.390 --> 00:24:24.589
it can't be done in June, because when the kids

00:24:24.589 --> 00:24:26.750
are really into something in August and September,

00:24:27.210 --> 00:24:28.910
they're into something completely different in

00:24:28.910 --> 00:24:31.470
October. That's true, that's valid. Like he has...

00:24:32.250 --> 00:24:35.529
a one track mind until his one track is something

00:24:35.529 --> 00:24:41.549
else. I had an itch, sorry. No, that's true.

00:24:41.710 --> 00:24:45.849
And I feel like I'm pretty similar. I can't wait

00:24:45.849 --> 00:24:48.009
to see what you come up with. There's nothing

00:24:48.009 --> 00:24:50.369
in the atmosphere. There's not one idea yet.

00:24:50.710 --> 00:24:52.210
I thought you guys were gonna be demon hunters.

00:24:52.939 --> 00:24:55.579
Dean ditched us. You were gonna be Demon Hunters

00:24:55.579 --> 00:24:57.319
and then we said we were gonna be and you were

00:24:57.319 --> 00:24:59.599
like, now we're not. I was like, oh my god, you're

00:24:59.599 --> 00:25:01.640
stealing. I'm not being a part of your family

00:25:01.640 --> 00:25:05.079
clan unit. And then I got into it and now you've

00:25:05.079 --> 00:25:10.079
all rejected me. Yeah, sorry. We used to do family

00:25:10.079 --> 00:25:14.299
costumes and melody and up until last year, last

00:25:14.299 --> 00:25:16.319
year, they want to be their own people. And I

00:25:16.319 --> 00:25:25.349
hate it. Don't fall for the cheap stuff. That

00:25:25.349 --> 00:25:28.130
is Halloween. I mean, that is the embodiment

00:25:28.130 --> 00:25:31.470
of Halloween. It's cheap. I know, but like going

00:25:31.470 --> 00:25:35.009
to the dollar store or to Five Below, I mean,

00:25:35.170 --> 00:25:38.130
everybody has Halloween decorations now. And

00:25:38.130 --> 00:25:39.650
you're just like, oh, that's cute and it's cheap.

00:25:39.750 --> 00:25:42.210
I'll pick it up. And that's part of the problem

00:25:42.210 --> 00:25:44.710
because then the company is. think oh this is

00:25:44.710 --> 00:25:46.650
popular we're gonna do more next year we'll do

00:25:46.650 --> 00:25:48.390
double the amount that we did the year before

00:25:48.390 --> 00:25:51.930
it's just more plastic more micro plastic more

00:25:51.930 --> 00:25:56.549
waste more death for the earth i don't know it's

00:25:56.549 --> 00:26:00.009
it's yeah i agree but i am also the problem i

00:26:00.009 --> 00:26:01.750
went to michael's recently and i was like everything's

00:26:01.750 --> 00:26:05.170
50 it went yesterday did you and because we were

00:26:05.170 --> 00:26:08.930
buying stuff for the costumes yesterday the kids

00:26:08.930 --> 00:26:12.069
had off and we had planned it is a fun day like

00:26:12.069 --> 00:26:14.819
we to get excited about making your own costume.

00:26:15.259 --> 00:26:17.839
But everything was 50 % off and 60 % off because

00:26:17.839 --> 00:26:19.599
the Christmas stuff is coming out. Oh, I know.

00:26:20.039 --> 00:26:22.859
And like, we're unhappy because we haven't gotten

00:26:22.859 --> 00:26:25.099
to Halloween, but we're very excited. Don't act

00:26:25.099 --> 00:26:26.700
like we haven't been sending Christmas reels

00:26:26.700 --> 00:26:30.059
back and forth. Oh, I'm down for a Christmas

00:26:30.059 --> 00:26:32.759
cookie right now, but the stores is aggressive.

00:26:33.180 --> 00:26:35.359
Yes, but. I think being out in the stores is

00:26:35.359 --> 00:26:37.619
really aggressive. 60 % off, you don't think

00:26:37.619 --> 00:26:39.720
I bought Frankenstein hands that were making

00:26:39.720 --> 00:26:45.200
a peace sign? Of course I did. So I am part of

00:26:45.200 --> 00:26:47.519
the problem. And I was like, this is $3 .99.

00:26:47.900 --> 00:26:53.099
This is $17 .99. I bought a Venus Fly Trap, like

00:26:53.099 --> 00:26:55.599
little shop of horrors, big plant, you know,

00:26:55.619 --> 00:26:59.059
for $18. And I was like, $600 later, we're leaving

00:26:59.059 --> 00:27:02.720
Michael's. Not really. But yeah, $5 .59. Yeah.

00:27:04.000 --> 00:27:06.819
But yeah, I am part of the problem. Did I need

00:27:06.819 --> 00:27:10.220
any of that? If you saw my house. When you walk

00:27:10.220 --> 00:27:12.339
into my house, it looks like Halloween exploded.

00:27:12.460 --> 00:27:15.759
I don't need anything. Accurate. I need money,

00:27:16.019 --> 00:27:19.400
but I don't need anything. And I spent all my

00:27:19.400 --> 00:27:22.220
money and I got the things. So don't do as I

00:27:22.220 --> 00:27:25.960
say, not as I do. I think we've learned that.

00:27:26.240 --> 00:27:31.400
I think at 131 episodes, we understand that now.

00:27:31.980 --> 00:27:36.700
I would say by one thing a year that you really

00:27:36.700 --> 00:27:39.420
want. Maybe I didn't need the peace fingers,

00:27:40.819 --> 00:27:44.460
Frankenstein's peace fingers, but next year I'm

00:27:44.460 --> 00:27:46.640
gonna buy one thing, because I don't have enough

00:27:46.640 --> 00:27:49.000
storage in my house, to be honest with you. I

00:27:49.000 --> 00:27:51.480
mean, I will say I do enjoy, I just posted on

00:27:51.480 --> 00:27:53.240
my story yesterday, I enjoy the houses that do

00:27:53.240 --> 00:28:01.000
an entire front yard scene. That's me. That's

00:28:01.000 --> 00:28:05.400
me. You like me? My house? Okay. No. Let's...

00:28:05.369 --> 00:28:10.410
Let's be specific. I will repost what I sent

00:28:10.410 --> 00:28:13.210
on our Fit to Be Real page, so check this out.

00:28:13.630 --> 00:28:15.990
It was an entire graveyard scene. There were

00:28:15.990 --> 00:28:19.730
pumpkins that sang. Every little bit of this

00:28:19.730 --> 00:28:22.930
front yard was an amusement park. Carly puts

00:28:22.930 --> 00:28:25.490
out inflatables. They're just inflatables. They

00:28:25.490 --> 00:28:27.210
just stand there, and you're like, cool. I wonder

00:28:27.210 --> 00:28:29.789
how much that was once. Oh, that one's even bigger.

00:28:29.930 --> 00:28:33.339
Oh, that's a giant vulture. They bought things.

00:28:33.420 --> 00:28:36.000
Can I tell you how many DMS I've gotten about

00:28:36.000 --> 00:28:38.099
people saying I love your front lawn? My kids

00:28:38.099 --> 00:28:40.539
love it. You're welcome. It's also not a front

00:28:40.539 --> 00:28:46.859
lawn. It's Do it right if you're gonna do it

00:28:46.859 --> 00:28:55.660
do it right I Will do it to myself It's a side

00:28:55.660 --> 00:28:59.700
lawn And that's it. That's all I had to say.

00:28:59.759 --> 00:29:01.720
I live on a main road. You can enjoy it as you

00:29:01.720 --> 00:29:04.759
drive by. Right, but it's inflatables. It's not

00:29:04.759 --> 00:29:08.019
a whole scene. Did you see the house? Yes. You

00:29:08.019 --> 00:29:09.640
took a picture of it. It's also not a scene,

00:29:09.880 --> 00:29:12.619
or it's not... It's a bunch of Halloween decorations.

00:29:12.640 --> 00:29:14.279
It's just a bunch of Halloween decorations, but

00:29:14.279 --> 00:29:16.559
it's the giant skeleton. It's like the $500 skeleton,

00:29:17.279 --> 00:29:20.859
like three of them. These people have money to

00:29:20.859 --> 00:29:24.349
waste. and they get a new thing every year, but

00:29:24.349 --> 00:29:27.309
it's a giant new thing. It's not just like, oh,

00:29:27.309 --> 00:29:30.410
cute little spider in the window. It's an expensive

00:29:30.410 --> 00:29:34.390
lawn. I hope they have cameras. Well, I will

00:29:34.390 --> 00:29:37.990
say if we are talking about saving money and

00:29:37.990 --> 00:29:40.089
you know everything in this world costs a ton

00:29:40.089 --> 00:29:44.490
of money and going back to the basics is one

00:29:44.490 --> 00:29:49.309
that you just you can't. What can you do? I don't

00:29:49.309 --> 00:29:52.319
know where we're going here. My kids still, I

00:29:52.319 --> 00:29:55.359
have 11, 9, and 6. They love getting in the car.

00:29:55.539 --> 00:29:58.339
She's 11 children and then she had 9 and now

00:29:58.339 --> 00:30:00.900
she only has 6. Yeah, they all keep leaving.

00:30:01.559 --> 00:30:04.099
They love getting in the car and driving around

00:30:04.099 --> 00:30:07.880
where we live at night and seeing all the really

00:30:07.880 --> 00:30:11.400
fun houses with the decorations. I agree. Beetlejuice

00:30:11.400 --> 00:30:15.980
House. And that is still fun for them. And it's

00:30:15.980 --> 00:30:19.559
free. Get yourself a coffee. start driving around

00:30:19.559 --> 00:30:24.140
the neighborhood at night. It really is an hour

00:30:24.140 --> 00:30:27.039
of free fun for the kids. We get out. We walk

00:30:27.039 --> 00:30:29.480
around the house. I wouldn't mind if people did

00:30:29.480 --> 00:30:31.319
that to our house. Some people actually come

00:30:31.319 --> 00:30:34.700
out of their houses when we come, not because

00:30:34.700 --> 00:30:37.039
it's us, just because somebody's admiring their

00:30:37.039 --> 00:30:39.440
decorations. And they're like, hey, how are you?

00:30:39.799 --> 00:30:42.799
So it's really fun. And it's free. You don't

00:30:42.799 --> 00:30:45.319
need to go. Except for the gas. Except for the

00:30:45.319 --> 00:30:47.779
gas, which is expensive right now. You don't

00:30:47.779 --> 00:30:49.920
need to be doing like all these crazy things,

00:30:50.099 --> 00:30:51.640
spending all this money, just like spending an

00:30:51.640 --> 00:30:53.420
hour in the car, driving around, looking at all

00:30:53.420 --> 00:30:56.940
the fun decorations is still fun. Yeah. And same

00:30:56.940 --> 00:30:59.519
thing with Christmas decorations and all the

00:30:59.519 --> 00:31:02.799
things. I agree. But that's a perfect segue into

00:31:02.799 --> 00:31:05.019
the next thing you should do with these front

00:31:05.019 --> 00:31:10.519
lawn spectacles is turn them off. Some people

00:31:10.519 --> 00:31:14.240
keep them on all night long. Oh, my God, do you?

00:31:14.819 --> 00:31:20.220
Yeah. Yeah. Well, you're paying for that. Like,

00:31:20.299 --> 00:31:22.880
you're paying for that. Andrew's paying for that.

00:31:24.660 --> 00:31:28.240
And he's in charge of turning them off. So I

00:31:28.240 --> 00:31:31.940
blame him. Oh, boy, he shouldn't be in charge

00:31:31.940 --> 00:31:36.900
of anything. But turn off. At some point, you

00:31:36.900 --> 00:31:38.880
got to turn it off. You're paying for the electric.

00:31:39.059 --> 00:31:41.680
And yes, somebody could argue that's probably

00:31:41.680 --> 00:31:44.319
pennies overnight. and then you're turning it

00:31:44.319 --> 00:31:46.500
off in the daylight and then it's only that eight

00:31:46.500 --> 00:31:50.059
hour window is just at night yada yada yada but

00:31:50.059 --> 00:31:52.880
that electric bill oh my god it's getting louder

00:31:52.880 --> 00:31:54.440
and louder outside i know i don't think they

00:31:54.440 --> 00:31:59.519
can hear that though can you we'll see i think

00:31:59.519 --> 00:32:05.259
you can um it adds up and then all of that energy

00:32:05.259 --> 00:32:08.799
that it takes to use that electricity is what

00:32:08.799 --> 00:32:11.839
is killing the earth and if Every house does

00:32:11.839 --> 00:32:14.839
that. That adds up for the earth. Not your wallet

00:32:14.839 --> 00:32:19.900
specifically, but the environment. Yeah, I agree.

00:32:20.019 --> 00:32:22.619
Like I hate what driving, say you're driving

00:32:22.619 --> 00:32:24.880
home somewhere at night and stores that have

00:32:24.880 --> 00:32:27.259
been closed since seven o 'clock have lights

00:32:27.259 --> 00:32:30.259
on all night long. Like an emergency light is

00:32:30.259 --> 00:32:34.079
one thing, but having storefront windows at midnight

00:32:34.079 --> 00:32:36.400
and then you can see through the store because

00:32:36.400 --> 00:32:38.940
all of their lights are on in the store. But

00:32:38.940 --> 00:32:40.519
the store's locked and you can't actually go

00:32:40.519 --> 00:32:43.160
shop there. Why are the lights on? Well, I would

00:32:43.160 --> 00:32:48.160
argue that our lights are on. See fit. Our big

00:32:48.160 --> 00:32:51.380
sign is on. Not all the time. No, it goes off

00:32:51.380 --> 00:32:53.500
at midnight. But that's also not in our control.

00:32:53.619 --> 00:32:55.920
Right. So sometimes it's not in your control.

00:32:56.099 --> 00:32:58.079
My lights on my front lawn and my inflatables,

00:32:58.299 --> 00:33:00.740
yes, they're in my control. And I am part of

00:33:00.740 --> 00:33:03.180
the problem. If you say you're part of the problem,

00:33:03.359 --> 00:33:05.160
then you become not part of the problem. If you

00:33:05.160 --> 00:33:06.660
acknowledge it. But definitely don't fix the

00:33:06.660 --> 00:33:09.859
problem. Just acknowledge the problem. It is

00:33:09.859 --> 00:33:11.920
step one. Yeah. Step one is acknowledgement.

00:33:12.259 --> 00:33:13.980
I acknowledge I am part of the problem. Step

00:33:13.980 --> 00:33:19.089
two, we'll see what happens. Carly's the founder

00:33:19.089 --> 00:33:24.009
of Halloween Spirit. Throwing a Halloween party?

00:33:24.589 --> 00:33:27.609
Send a digital invitation. Did it. I am part

00:33:27.609 --> 00:33:31.069
of the solution. Yes, even though using the internet

00:33:31.069 --> 00:33:34.349
is killing the earth as well. But I can't save

00:33:34.349 --> 00:33:39.289
everybody. You won't. Don't worry. You certainly

00:33:39.289 --> 00:33:44.210
will not. But digital is the way to go. I would

00:33:44.210 --> 00:33:47.309
venture to say for any party situation, we got

00:33:48.529 --> 00:33:53.150
Yes, a save the date with one piece of paper

00:33:53.150 --> 00:33:56.650
or cardboard for a save the date and the invitation

00:33:56.650 --> 00:33:59.710
was a QR on the back. Really? So the wedding

00:33:59.710 --> 00:34:04.289
invitation was all online and obviously the RSVP.

00:34:04.509 --> 00:34:07.970
I had to go through a lot of questions for the

00:34:07.970 --> 00:34:10.730
RSVP. Like what song do you want to hear by the

00:34:10.730 --> 00:34:13.269
DJ? That's sort of cool. I like that. Yeah, I

00:34:13.269 --> 00:34:16.710
got nervous so I didn't pick any song. you could

00:34:16.710 --> 00:34:20.449
type in your own song, your meal preference,

00:34:20.630 --> 00:34:24.010
do you need a shuttle ride, all of the, it was

00:34:24.010 --> 00:34:26.030
like filling out a form, but that was the RSVP,

00:34:26.110 --> 00:34:29.289
so it just went to their website, and the invitation,

00:34:29.530 --> 00:34:31.309
I didn't have to throw away, which is what we

00:34:31.309 --> 00:34:33.550
all do to invitations, we just throw them away.

00:34:34.429 --> 00:34:37.650
Even if they're cool looking. I think the only

00:34:37.650 --> 00:34:41.190
point of a wedding invitation, and I'm only saying

00:34:41.190 --> 00:34:42.849
wedding because that's more significant than

00:34:42.849 --> 00:34:45.429
a Halloween party, is that the bride and groom

00:34:45.429 --> 00:34:48.610
will want to keep one. Yeah, I framed mine. Did

00:34:48.610 --> 00:34:52.170
you? Yeah. And that makes sense to me. But like

00:34:52.170 --> 00:34:54.550
nobody else doing that. Yeah. I mean, it's in

00:34:54.550 --> 00:34:58.889
a box in my closet, but I framed it. Oh, but

00:34:58.889 --> 00:35:01.190
don't worry. Dad has it framed on his wall at

00:35:01.190 --> 00:35:04.889
his house. There are exceptions to every rule.

00:35:07.349 --> 00:35:12.019
That's weird. But yes, I love an invite. I like

00:35:12.019 --> 00:35:14.679
an e -vite too, and really a paperless post,

00:35:14.840 --> 00:35:17.860
I think, texts it to you now. So you can just

00:35:17.860 --> 00:35:20.119
click a link on your text. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:35:20.300 --> 00:35:25.260
I don't feel like it's any less personal. Maybe

00:35:25.260 --> 00:35:27.840
for a wedding, I would feel differently, but

00:35:27.840 --> 00:35:29.880
maybe not. I don't know. I'll have to get back

00:35:29.880 --> 00:35:31.179
to you with how I really feel. I really need

00:35:31.179 --> 00:35:33.639
to like sit on this. Good thing you're not getting

00:35:33.639 --> 00:35:37.539
married again. I am, though. You know I am. To

00:35:37.539 --> 00:35:40.469
Andrew. Whoa, whoa, whoa, you didn't say that

00:35:40.469 --> 00:35:43.969
fast enough For any of us. I am having another

00:35:43.969 --> 00:35:46.570
wedding in my lifetime. We've talked about this

00:35:46.570 --> 00:35:50.369
talked about this with you and him Just saying

00:35:50.369 --> 00:35:53.329
I don't know why I think I'm gonna be out of

00:35:53.329 --> 00:35:58.869
town We have a brother He's out of town if someone

00:35:58.869 --> 00:36:01.429
does not live in your area and they are quite

00:36:01.429 --> 00:36:03.849
literally past state lines They're out of town.

00:36:04.050 --> 00:36:07.110
That is out of your town And if you're just not

00:36:07.110 --> 00:36:09.730
as smart as the rest of the room, your name is

00:36:09.730 --> 00:36:16.130
Victoria. Yes. Yes. Oh, that's a dong -dong.

00:36:16.230 --> 00:36:18.949
Never mind. I thought that was like, yeah, I

00:36:18.949 --> 00:36:28.329
got one on her. Avoid, we're moving on, avoid

00:36:28.329 --> 00:36:32.449
plastic spoons and paper plates, which is hard

00:36:32.449 --> 00:36:34.960
because I agree with it. But I don't want to

00:36:34.960 --> 00:36:40.440
do dishes. I agree. However, there are compostable

00:36:40.440 --> 00:36:44.719
knives, forks, plates. I mean, I know Christina's

00:36:44.719 --> 00:36:46.699
restaurants when she does catering. Christina,

00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:49.300
our Pilates teacher. What's up, Christina? All

00:36:49.300 --> 00:36:53.679
the Pierre stuff they do. Wooden, like compostable

00:36:53.679 --> 00:36:56.960
catering supplies. Which is more expensive. It

00:36:56.960 --> 00:37:00.980
is. But worth it. Right. I think. I didn't do

00:37:00.980 --> 00:37:05.949
that. I did plastic. But. agree that you should

00:37:05.949 --> 00:37:10.090
do that's not good enough when we're all burning

00:37:10.090 --> 00:37:16.750
next year next year you let's hope we make it

00:37:16.750 --> 00:37:20.829
folks this is a podcast about bettering yourself

00:37:20.829 --> 00:37:23.590
and and I have never acknowledged that I need

00:37:23.590 --> 00:37:25.949
to be better before I'm acknowledging that I

00:37:25.949 --> 00:37:28.349
need to be better so next year I'll be better

00:37:28.349 --> 00:37:33.869
you know what I mean Your steps are way too far

00:37:33.869 --> 00:37:37.989
apart. I sent you a DM or a reel the other day

00:37:37.989 --> 00:37:41.530
that was like, oh yeah, it was yesterday that

00:37:41.530 --> 00:37:46.650
said, stop bettering yourself. Just be vile,

00:37:46.949 --> 00:37:49.949
be violent, do all the things. I don't remember

00:37:49.949 --> 00:37:52.190
this. Be part of the plot. I sent it to you and

00:37:52.190 --> 00:37:56.989
you said, I'm rolling my eyes. God, you can't

00:37:56.989 --> 00:38:01.389
remember what yesterday was? I might have early

00:38:01.389 --> 00:38:04.250
onset dementia. Yeah. Well, that's great for

00:38:04.250 --> 00:38:06.130
me because I'll just remind you how wonderful

00:38:06.130 --> 00:38:08.010
and amazing I am when you start to lose it. I

00:38:08.010 --> 00:38:11.250
think you still feel you still feel things. Truth.

00:38:12.349 --> 00:38:15.090
You just can't remember it, but I think you can

00:38:15.090 --> 00:38:21.969
feel it. We'll see. We'll see. And then we skipped

00:38:21.969 --> 00:38:23.650
a bunch because there's a bunch, but we are kind

00:38:23.650 --> 00:38:26.429
of talking through a lot of them. But I would

00:38:26.429 --> 00:38:32.000
say save your I don't know who does this, but

00:38:32.000 --> 00:38:35.539
some people get rid of like the moment they wear

00:38:35.539 --> 00:38:38.139
it, it's done. They can't wear it again. There

00:38:38.139 --> 00:38:42.679
is no costume box. There is no, you know, let's

00:38:42.679 --> 00:38:45.480
save this for who knows when. And I understand

00:38:45.480 --> 00:38:48.199
that like minimalistically. Throwing stuff out

00:38:48.199 --> 00:38:50.420
after you use it. Right. But like don't save

00:38:50.420 --> 00:38:58.909
for the what if. Right. But what if those burlap

00:38:58.909 --> 00:39:03.190
shoe feet can work for the Oogie Boogie Man next

00:39:03.190 --> 00:39:06.809
year. 100 % true. We have a costume closet dedicated

00:39:06.809 --> 00:39:13.449
to our costumes. What a luxury. My kids dress

00:39:13.449 --> 00:39:17.909
up a lot and have always dressed up. And I kid

00:39:17.909 --> 00:39:22.469
you not, Louis has been making pouches out of

00:39:22.469 --> 00:39:25.869
the leather fabric we bought and stuff and it's

00:39:25.869 --> 00:39:30.659
time consuming. time away from the TV, time away

00:39:30.659 --> 00:39:32.860
from screens or whatever he could have been doing

00:39:32.860 --> 00:39:36.420
and he's been cutting and hot gluing and brass

00:39:36.420 --> 00:39:40.460
pinning and it's really cool. Now Lewis is really

00:39:40.460 --> 00:39:43.000
into it and Melody is really into it so I understand

00:39:43.000 --> 00:39:45.539
if your kids aren't into that but if they're

00:39:45.539 --> 00:39:48.500
not into it just save them because you never

00:39:48.500 --> 00:39:51.219
know what those pouches could be used for next

00:39:51.219 --> 00:39:54.369
year. It's everything she just said. I just wanted

00:39:54.369 --> 00:39:57.650
to make it longer, apparently. But why they gotta

00:39:57.650 --> 00:40:00.690
be leather? Because he wants it to be legit.

00:40:01.929 --> 00:40:04.769
So he's playing with cow skin? Yeah. Well, no,

00:40:04.849 --> 00:40:08.230
no, no. It's fake leather. As Melody said, it's

00:40:08.230 --> 00:40:11.789
fox leather. And I said, Melody, it's F -A -U

00:40:11.789 --> 00:40:14.989
-X. She's like, oh, she's like fox. And I said,

00:40:15.210 --> 00:40:19.860
no, it's faux. She's in advanced math, but maybe

00:40:19.860 --> 00:40:23.079
not advanced English. I thought you meant, like,

00:40:23.179 --> 00:40:26.619
from a fox. No, she was like, Mom, Lewis is buying

00:40:26.619 --> 00:40:28.559
fox leather. And I was like, why are you saying

00:40:28.559 --> 00:40:32.539
fox? Like, fox. She's like, F -A -U -X. I was

00:40:32.539 --> 00:40:37.599
like, it's faux. Aw, you don't know French. Aw.

00:40:38.539 --> 00:40:41.380
But it did make... Lewis realized he had said

00:40:41.380 --> 00:40:43.119
a couple years ago he wanted to be a costume

00:40:43.119 --> 00:40:46.780
designer. And we were like, oh, cool. And now

00:40:46.780 --> 00:40:49.619
he sort of lost it a little bit. And now making

00:40:49.619 --> 00:40:51.219
this costume, he was like, Mom, I really do.

00:40:51.340 --> 00:40:53.760
I want to make costumes for movies. So I was

00:40:53.760 --> 00:40:56.699
like, OK, cool. If you can do that from Springfield,

00:40:57.000 --> 00:40:58.780
absolutely, because you're not allowed to leave

00:40:58.780 --> 00:41:05.900
me. I can't describe what it feels like internally

00:41:05.900 --> 00:41:12.190
when she speaks and says stuff like that. It's

00:41:12.190 --> 00:41:17.829
so upsetting. Real and real extra. I do have

00:41:17.829 --> 00:41:19.510
two questions before we leave. I know we talked

00:41:19.510 --> 00:41:22.949
a lot about money and how to save, and I really

00:41:22.949 --> 00:41:27.050
do think it's important. It's hard. Those gift

00:41:27.050 --> 00:41:28.989
bags that Victoria's probably spent a lot of

00:41:28.989 --> 00:41:32.989
money on are not entirely necessary. The kids

00:41:32.989 --> 00:41:35.489
are going to have fun regardless of a spider

00:41:35.489 --> 00:41:40.070
ring. I did paper. Oh, you did? Oh, good. Congrats.

00:41:40.769 --> 00:41:46.889
But, and the candy is, I throw the kids out like

00:41:46.889 --> 00:41:49.449
six months after. And of course my kids are like,

00:41:49.590 --> 00:41:51.030
where's our Halloween candy from last year? I'm

00:41:51.030 --> 00:41:52.909
like, number one, if you can still eat it six

00:41:52.909 --> 00:41:55.309
months later, it's not good for you. And number

00:41:55.309 --> 00:42:00.889
two, I threw it out. It's been gone. But. That's

00:42:00.889 --> 00:42:04.599
part of the problem. Okay. I have two questions

00:42:04.599 --> 00:42:07.880
for Victoria to finish off this. Halloween, what

00:42:07.880 --> 00:42:10.340
it means to us and how much we love it. What

00:42:10.340 --> 00:42:14.059
was your favorite Halloween costume growing up

00:42:14.059 --> 00:42:17.780
that you were? Like one that stands out to you

00:42:17.780 --> 00:42:21.260
that you remember? Chiquita Banana, cuz that's

00:42:21.260 --> 00:42:23.340
all I can remember. Chiquita Banana was good.

00:42:26.259 --> 00:42:28.960
My eighth grade year I was, I wore a Cowtown

00:42:28.960 --> 00:42:31.400
rodeo sweatshirt and put a hat on. It was a cowgirl,

00:42:31.559 --> 00:42:33.440
but it was like, because it was, you know, eighth

00:42:33.440 --> 00:42:37.500
grade and lame. I know, but back then it like

00:42:37.500 --> 00:42:39.780
wasn't cool to dress up at eighth grade. Now

00:42:39.780 --> 00:42:42.400
I think they're. Well, no, now they're like Jalen

00:42:42.400 --> 00:42:45.780
Hurts or they're, they're still babies. I like,

00:42:46.260 --> 00:42:50.199
I'm a baby. Cause I, well, we teach kids and

00:42:50.199 --> 00:42:54.000
I ask them, I always ask them like one, it takes

00:42:54.000 --> 00:42:57.019
up. sometime and two what are you going to be

00:42:57.019 --> 00:42:59.940
for Halloween and even my seventh graders and

00:42:59.940 --> 00:43:03.000
eighth graders will say I'm being an M &M or

00:43:03.000 --> 00:43:05.000
I'll do it together they'll do it together or

00:43:05.000 --> 00:43:06.960
we didn't do that back then I'm being Glinda

00:43:06.960 --> 00:43:10.099
and Alphaba yeah or basic they'll do something

00:43:10.099 --> 00:43:11.480
with their friends I asked you if you wanted

00:43:11.480 --> 00:43:14.300
to do that this year you said no I don't remember

00:43:14.300 --> 00:43:17.780
that okay so I don't remember I don't I never

00:43:17.780 --> 00:43:20.139
really as a kid I loved Halloween because you

00:43:20.139 --> 00:43:21.800
like to dress up we did the dance -a -thon it

00:43:21.800 --> 00:43:24.869
was like a big part of the school College and

00:43:24.869 --> 00:43:27.690
up I never dressed up like last year wearing

00:43:27.690 --> 00:43:30.090
a costume was the first time as an adult I wore

00:43:30.090 --> 00:43:33.429
a costume Yeah, that's true. You were always

00:43:33.429 --> 00:43:36.690
an owl cuz it was just a zip up. It's a fleece

00:43:36.690 --> 00:43:39.849
It was before onesies were like cool. I found

00:43:39.849 --> 00:43:42.329
it. I'll never forget it. I found it on Amazon

00:43:42.329 --> 00:43:50.809
in Right out of college so 21 22 years old and

00:43:50.809 --> 00:43:55.150
it was $70 Back then, now they're 20 bucks because

00:43:55.150 --> 00:43:59.409
it's like, whatever. And it was this beautiful

00:43:59.409 --> 00:44:04.070
Asian model in stilettos wearing this owl costume.

00:44:04.849 --> 00:44:07.610
And I don't know why she was wearing stilettos,

00:44:07.849 --> 00:44:11.510
but I was like, I like this. So I wore it every

00:44:11.510 --> 00:44:15.190
year to make the $70 back and I have made it

00:44:15.190 --> 00:44:21.000
back. We teach in it now. We do our Halloween

00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:24.099
class in it. I'm a leopard with a cat suit, and

00:44:24.099 --> 00:44:26.880
she's an owl in a fleece. It's like a sauna.

00:44:27.639 --> 00:44:31.039
It's a sauna. You'd think I'd be skinnier. It

00:44:31.039 --> 00:44:34.239
is a sweatsuit. But I was always like, we do

00:44:34.239 --> 00:44:36.420
this for a living. Like Halloween, we dress up

00:44:36.420 --> 00:44:39.219
for a living. We were in theater. We were getting

00:44:39.219 --> 00:44:40.960
paid for it, not well, but we were getting paid

00:44:40.960 --> 00:44:43.920
for it. And to me, it was just like... This is

00:44:43.920 --> 00:44:45.519
too much energy. I don't I don't even want to

00:44:45.519 --> 00:44:47.699
spend the time on it now I like it cuz I'm out

00:44:47.699 --> 00:44:50.099
of that world. I think yeah, I think I don't

00:44:50.099 --> 00:44:52.219
know I love love it or you don't I love dressing

00:44:52.219 --> 00:44:57.260
up. I Wear a costume every day. Yeah Like I not

00:44:57.260 --> 00:44:59.880
really but like I would I've always loved dressing

00:44:59.880 --> 00:45:02.679
up in college I did it too, but you know in college

00:45:02.679 --> 00:45:05.719
you're a playboy bunny or I was a cat I think

00:45:05.719 --> 00:45:09.360
yeah, I wore it a leotard in tights. I was Which

00:45:09.360 --> 00:45:11.880
is what I wore to school. What was my favorite

00:45:11.880 --> 00:45:15.480
costume you asked? I'm glad you asked. Mine was,

00:45:16.500 --> 00:45:22.099
to be honest with you, my mom's friend made costumes

00:45:22.099 --> 00:45:25.079
and her sons were in their 20s at the time. And

00:45:25.079 --> 00:45:31.199
she had a gremlin costume that she lent me. And

00:45:31.199 --> 00:45:35.900
it was a full on head, furry, furry, like I was

00:45:35.900 --> 00:45:38.219
the gremlin from gremlins, not the scary one,

00:45:38.239 --> 00:45:41.349
like the cute one, but it was. full -on costume

00:45:41.349 --> 00:45:43.510
I think I was in sixth grade and everyone thought

00:45:43.510 --> 00:45:45.929
it was so cool and that's when all my friends

00:45:45.929 --> 00:45:48.550
were being like beauty queens or babies and I

00:45:48.550 --> 00:45:52.170
was like I'm gonna be a gremlin but see I think

00:45:52.170 --> 00:45:56.030
those girls young girls listen I think the fun

00:45:56.030 --> 00:45:59.829
funny costumes that aren't cute or sexy that's

00:45:59.829 --> 00:46:01.929
what Halloween should be about yeah especially

00:46:01.929 --> 00:46:04.610
in sixth grade well Melody's going against the

00:46:04.610 --> 00:46:06.969
green like all of her friends are being suckers

00:46:07.210 --> 00:46:09.730
players just wearing a soccer jersey and her

00:46:09.730 --> 00:46:11.190
friends are being football players and wearing

00:46:11.190 --> 00:46:14.269
a football jersey and she's going full out black

00:46:14.269 --> 00:46:20.550
cat making it out of fur good so yeah good i

00:46:20.550 --> 00:46:22.710
hope that never changes yeah all right last question

00:46:22.710 --> 00:46:26.869
what's your favorite halloween candy so annoying

00:46:26.869 --> 00:46:32.489
in the spirit of halloween full bar only okay

00:46:32.489 --> 00:46:35.760
i have two Okay, I asked for one, but go ahead.

00:46:36.000 --> 00:46:40.199
I don't care what you asked for. Three musketeers.

00:46:41.699 --> 00:46:46.420
Yes. Reese's. Like peanut butter cup or little

00:46:46.420 --> 00:46:49.440
small Reese's pieces? Oh, like peanut butter

00:46:49.440 --> 00:46:52.260
cup. So you can, I mean, I love Reese's pieces,

00:46:52.400 --> 00:46:55.260
but if you're going to go kings at like the full

00:46:55.260 --> 00:46:57.900
bar, like the, what is it? Three? Yeah. Would

00:46:57.900 --> 00:46:59.760
you get three in a pack? Three in a pack. So

00:46:59.760 --> 00:47:02.400
you could freeze them. Yeah. I would say I'll

00:47:02.400 --> 00:47:04.760
give you three. Um, I always like to level up,

00:47:05.079 --> 00:47:07.980
especially whatever you do. I like three musketeers.

00:47:08.079 --> 00:47:11.519
Yeah. Reese cups and Milky ways, but Milky ways

00:47:11.519 --> 00:47:13.619
only in the freezer. I only like those candies

00:47:13.619 --> 00:47:17.599
in the freezer. Is that the caramel peanut? No,

00:47:17.679 --> 00:47:19.940
no peanut. No peanut. It's like a three musketeers

00:47:19.940 --> 00:47:22.159
with caramel. With caramel. Okay. Then that makes

00:47:22.159 --> 00:47:25.800
sense. Freezer is the way to go. But yeah, we

00:47:25.800 --> 00:47:28.579
didn't do that growing up though. No, not until

00:47:28.579 --> 00:47:32.329
later. We missed out on a lot of things. We were

00:47:32.329 --> 00:47:34.570
making our costumes, so we didn't have much time.

00:47:35.849 --> 00:47:39.469
As an adult, as an adult who didn't want to dress

00:47:39.469 --> 00:47:43.849
up, a minimalistic costume is my favorite one,

00:47:43.889 --> 00:47:46.150
is you get a bunch of Hello My Name is stickers.

00:47:46.309 --> 00:47:50.070
Yeah. And you put them on whatever outfit you'd

00:47:50.070 --> 00:47:52.130
like to wear, jeans and a shirt, right? Doesn't

00:47:52.130 --> 00:47:55.369
matter. But you put those Hello My Name is stickers

00:47:55.369 --> 00:47:58.639
on, but you write. The names of the people that

00:47:58.639 --> 00:47:59.940
you know, you're gonna see at this party and

00:47:59.940 --> 00:48:02.760
you're like, I have an identity crisis That's

00:48:02.760 --> 00:48:04.760
good. I looked it up online I did not make that

00:48:04.760 --> 00:48:07.599
up, but I have done that cuz I was like, I'm

00:48:07.599 --> 00:48:10.559
not dressing up I wish you had my our mom one

00:48:10.559 --> 00:48:12.719
year was all that in a bag of chips and she just

00:48:12.719 --> 00:48:15.280
carried around a bag of potato chips Yeah, but

00:48:15.280 --> 00:48:17.039
she wore an oversized t -shirt that she wrote

00:48:17.039 --> 00:48:19.300
all that on that on yeah, and now the kids I

00:48:19.300 --> 00:48:20.940
don't think would understand that no because

00:48:20.940 --> 00:48:24.940
people don't say that anymore But anyway, that's

00:48:24.940 --> 00:48:27.369
our Those are our Halloween tips to save more

00:48:27.369 --> 00:48:30.070
money. Those are our Halloween tips. Whether

00:48:30.070 --> 00:48:34.889
you do that or not, like me, is up to you. I

00:48:34.889 --> 00:48:37.210
did half and half this year. I did not spend

00:48:37.210 --> 00:48:41.409
as much money on my Halloween party slash Halloween

00:48:41.409 --> 00:48:44.130
year as I normally do, so next year maybe it'll

00:48:44.130 --> 00:48:48.210
be even less. I can't believe you've not talked

00:48:48.210 --> 00:48:49.530
to me, but we have to talk. We have to talk about

00:48:49.530 --> 00:48:55.730
this party. I don't think I'm gonna go as hard

00:48:55.730 --> 00:48:59.070
on Halloween candy this year because I bought

00:48:59.070 --> 00:49:02.769
so much last year I remember I was going like

00:49:02.769 --> 00:49:04.710
full fist going here take it because I didn't

00:49:04.710 --> 00:49:06.849
want any leftover. Oh you mean giving out not

00:49:06.849 --> 00:49:08.949
eating. Oh giving out giving out. I was like

00:49:08.949 --> 00:49:10.869
yeah I'm not gonna go so hard on eating Halloween

00:49:10.869 --> 00:49:13.949
candy this year. Oh I mean you waste like a bag

00:49:13.949 --> 00:49:18.010
of it is $15 .99 for you have to buy two to three

00:49:18.010 --> 00:49:21.369
bags for it to be like a night's worth of options

00:49:21.369 --> 00:49:24.559
or offering. But I think I went, I did too much.

00:49:24.860 --> 00:49:26.639
So I was like, please take this, please take

00:49:26.639 --> 00:49:28.099
this. So like if you were coming to my house

00:49:28.099 --> 00:49:30.920
at the end of the night, you were making out

00:49:30.920 --> 00:49:33.880
well. But that was a waste of money for me. Full

00:49:33.880 --> 00:49:36.000
bar only. Yeah. Carly has to go to the bathroom.

00:49:36.059 --> 00:49:38.679
I do. So we have to, she's shaking that. Do you

00:49:38.679 --> 00:49:40.519
see the roller coaster happening? I've had so

00:49:40.519 --> 00:49:45.579
much coffee today. Arms up. If you also are trying

00:49:45.579 --> 00:49:48.349
to save some money, we'll post the. links, we

00:49:48.349 --> 00:49:50.809
had two references and they were pretty great

00:49:50.809 --> 00:49:55.570
and a good insight on why the world is spending

00:49:55.570 --> 00:49:58.190
this much money on one holiday that lasts less

00:49:58.190 --> 00:50:02.409
than 24 hours but it's killing the planet. Could

00:50:02.409 --> 00:50:06.730
you imagine if we spent two billion less than

00:50:06.730 --> 00:50:09.010
last year? Or put that money towards something

00:50:09.010 --> 00:50:12.139
that could actually Keep us living longer. Yeah,

00:50:12.179 --> 00:50:14.199
like a Disney vacation for your family. Oh my

00:50:14.199 --> 00:50:18.179
god We hope you remember that you're always fit

00:50:18.179 --> 00:50:22.699
to be Real and always allowed to be a little

00:50:22.699 --> 00:50:44.360
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00:50:44.519 --> 00:50:46.179
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00:50:46.179 --> 00:50:48.579
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00:50:48.639 --> 00:50:51.219
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00:50:51.219 --> 00:50:53.400
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00:50:53.400 --> 00:50:55.639
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00:50:55.639 --> 00:50:58.300
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00:50:58.300 --> 00:51:00.860
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00:51:00.860 --> 00:51:03.320
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