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Let's go. I hate you right now. I can't believe

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you're doing it like this. Oh, welcome to fit

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to be real and a little extra. Hey guys. And

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dare I say the most extra in the room right now.

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Well, I just pulled this out of the closet. I

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haven't really worn it much. I'm giving him the

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blank, dead eye stare. So you're just trying

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to take things out of your closet that you haven't

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worn? Yeah. I mean, I figure I spent money on

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it. Yeah. It only makes sense to, you know, display

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it. You know, share it with the world. Share

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it with the world. Yeah. For those of you not

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watching and only listening, Pedro has just sneak

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attacked Carly in a taco costume. So we have

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a giant taco right here. As best as a giant taco

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can sneak on anybody. This is true, this is true.

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You actually did, I was singing a song and you

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came up from behind and I was snuck attacked.

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Yeah, I mean, I don't know what the big deal

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is. Like, I just threw this on last minute. It's

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no big deal. I hate you. It's really no big deal.

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Doesn't everybody have one of these? So he has

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just one -upped the extra and he is the most

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extra today. Yeah. Well, my microphone does say

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that, so. It says extra. Yeah. It sure does.

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Hey, guys. We have a very special taco guest

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today. This is... Wait. We have a lot to talk

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about. Oh, Jesus, okay. Wait, that was off the

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cuff because she had no idea. That was natural.

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That was natural. Jelly roll. Oh, it's gonna

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be a dime. It's gonna be a dime. Pedro, we talk

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about all the time and now you can put a face

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to our Fit to be Real producer that didn't ask

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to be a producer. Didn't ask to be producer,

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but showed up in a costume anyway. So he fits

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right in. Yeah. Well, you know, I was like, I

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can help. I can add a little bit to it. And then

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next thing you know, it's every Tuesday morning.

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Those are famous last words of anybody that's

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ever met us. Oh, I can help. And then we're like,

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oh, can you? Do you want to be CEO? Would you

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like to be producer? Never tell us that you can

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help if you don't want to run the show. for no

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compensation. Hey, producer, can you grab a tissue?

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Carly has already required the sniffles. The

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sniffles. I relate to that very much. Oh, do

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you? Yeah. Taco. Yeah. Yeah. When there's too

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much seasoning in my nose. Are you allergic to

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fun? I just like it so much I can't contain myself.

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Oh my God. OK. All right. Stop. Hold the phone.

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Hold the phone. But in addition to being producer

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and Quite literally setting up the visual because

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this is something I did not look at but we've

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talked about that many times Pedro's also my

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boyfriend Second I like how that's second I'm

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first to taco second producer Third boyfriend.

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Yeah. Yeah. Well, you know we're about radical

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translucent Not translucent. What? Translucent.

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What's the transparency? Yeah, there you go.

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Yeah, we had to sign a letter to HR before we

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did anything. Before you guys decided to work

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together. Melody approved. Is Melody the head

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of HR? Melody's the head of HR for C -FIT, M

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-FIT to be real, and Carly in general. You should

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have seen Carly thrusting on all of our C -Fitters

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last night. Oh, I got a DM this morning that

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was like, wholly humping. And I was like, hey.

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It just comes naturally. What do you want me

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to say? She has three children's, folks. What's

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up, Monica? What's up? Going to get sued so fast.

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I'm sure there's child labor laws being violated

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right now. But hold on, guys, bring it back.

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Lock it in. I knew it was going to get like this.

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There's another reason that we wanted to get

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on our exercise and fitness and health and nutrition

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podcast. And comedy podcast. No, no, no, we're

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trying to be serious. We're trying to make it

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professional. I'm gonna add sound effects at

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some point. It's gonna be great. I do sound effects.

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I know, but like live action. Like in the moment.

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Yeah, like Carly's gonna hit the wrong one all

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the time, but it's gonna be part of the joke.

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It's gonna be great. Yes, I approve. Because

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we wanted to talk about the balance and the dietary,

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I don't know. Lifestyle? Lifestyle, yeah, lifestyle

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of getting into a new relationship and how you

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go with the flow, but also keep to what you know,

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what you like, and what works for you. Like we

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live very different lives in terms of health

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and wellness and fitness. Oh yeah. That's an

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understatement. He is a taco. Yeah, I mean he's

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wearing His food. He's wearing his food. I would

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go as far as to say from, you know, getting to

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know you, you are a foodie. You like good food.

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Yes. And you like to try new foods and you like

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to go to new places. I mean, it's one of the

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perks of living in a major metropolitan city

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where we just have some of the best chefs, best

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restaurants, and I like to experience that to

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its fullest. Yeah, let's back this. Party bus

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up a second, sir. Why are you angry? Party bus?

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Yeah, I said party bus. I got really excited

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for my, it came off the top of my, off rip. She

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nailed the first one? Is when you question my

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nailing and then I have to backtrack and then

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I'm like, gosh, I can't explain it. We have to

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explain where'd you come from? Where do you,

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did you grow up? How many brothers and sisters

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do you have? We need to know. It's only my resume.

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Yeah. Okay. Well, yeah. Yeah. Okay. I already

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did this. I sure hope so. Do it. Do it for Gary.

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Okay. First question. Yes. Where were you born?

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I was born in center city, Philadelphia. You

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were? Yeah. Oh, this will be fun for me too.

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Okay. Center city. Really? Yeah. Yeah. Are you

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okay? Is that okay? I approve. Opposed to. Um,

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no, I believe the hospital now is actually an

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apartment complex, which just, you know, really

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says a lot about our infrastructure, but yeah,

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right. Yeah. No center city, Philadelphia city

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boy. You grew up in the city and stayed in the

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city. No, I didn't. No, I just, I was just born

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there and then went back home to North Philadelphia.

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That's the city. No, that's what people who aren't

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from the city say. Say about North Philly? No,

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there's South Philly, there's West Philly, Southwest

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Philly, North Philly, Northeast Philly. Where

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in North Philly? In a little area called Juniata.

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Okay. Not the most pleasant of neighborhoods,

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but it was home. Yeah. So I was very happy to

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be there. So, and now you live... Now I live

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in the trendy hipster bourgeois of Fishtown.

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Give us your address. Everybody wants to know.

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It is. I'm just kidding. All I'm going to say

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is my area code is 19125. Oh my God. If you know,

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you know. Wait, Fishtown is pretty trendy. It

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was trendy when I was hanging out with people

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in the city when I was younger and everyone would

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go to Fishtown. When I was younger. When I was

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young. Is that a song? I'm so lost without you.

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two different songs yep two different songs yeah

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and the first one i don't think is a song at

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all uh but it can be don't enable mr taco i'm

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also having a hard time taking you seriously

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right now um is it my shell it is your shell

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or my feelings we still never figured out what

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these were it looks like wontons yeah it looks

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like the crispy taco but why would it be on a

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taco or their shrimp maybe their shrimp i think

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with the shrimp i am a shrink taco which works

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for me because I don't like chicken beef or pork

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tacos. Segway. Oh my God. I hate you guys. Dun,

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dun, dun. So in growing up. Yeah. Even in the

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North, uh, Northeast or North Philly? North.

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North. There's still, you grew up doing takeout

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and going out to restaurants. We did not grow

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up that way. Correct. Yeah. It was definitely

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on a lower, like, you know. I don't know, like

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the quality of it wasn't as great as it is now

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or even in the more lower tier of neighborhoods,

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there's still a great restaurant. I think one

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of the best restaurants I've tried in the past

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two years is a Mexican restaurant. What is this

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called? La Cantina Martina? Sounds good. Yeah.

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It is probably some of the best Mexican food

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I've ever had, but it's in one of the more grimy

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of situations. So it's, it's a, it's a trek to

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even get inside with like, you know, some of

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the issues that are in the neighborhood. And

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I remember reading that the chef who's, you know,

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an award winning chef, all this stuff. He's like,

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this is the only place I could afford. And it's

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like, you know, you told me about this. I've

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never, we haven't gone, I haven't been there.

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We haven't gone. No, it's It's a little bit of

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a rough situation to get inside, but once you're

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there, you're like, oh my God, this food's amazing.

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Yeah. And it's, you know, I guess it's just part

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of the cycle. Yeah. I mean, you're six, five?

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Four. Six, four? Nobody's messing with you, I

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feel like. You know, it's... Except me. Calm

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down, Carla. Calm down. It's weird, though, because

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even growing up, it's always been one of two

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things where it's either no one will mess with

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me, or people specifically, you know, like, look

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for me to mess with me to, like, either to establish

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themselves or, and I was like, I was like, buddy,

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it's seventh grade. Like, I'm just trying to

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get my chicken nuggets. Like, I'm not trying

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to fight right now. And I'm gonna grow up and

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wear a taco costume. Yes, exactly. You have no

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idea what you're about to deal with. This is

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what's important in the world. This is real life.

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Not trying to be tough when you're 12. This.

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I think this makes a difference. And I'll tell

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you why in a second. Did your mom cook? All the

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time. And is she a good cook? Amazing. Yes. So

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love your mom. Our mom does not cook, which you

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know. And when she did, it was always covered

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in balsamic because that makes everything better,

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which it does not. It does not. From Brussels

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sprouts to chicken to salads to ice cream. So

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we did not grow up being like, like food because

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we didn't have really good food. We ate to eat

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and junk food was good to us because we were

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like, wow, this is so good. Elio's pizza was

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Friday night. We talked about this recently.

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And Chips Ahoy dipped in Cool Whip. Do you remember

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that? Yeah. But I feel like if you grow up with

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a... good yeah and it's so good you gotta try

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you gotta bring that back that's a classic you

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have to put the cool whip in the freezer so it's

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like a little bit hard nothing like a 4 000 calorie

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snack listen i never said we were in good shape

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as a 12 year old but we weren't allowed to have

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the fun kid cereal so like the mentality of what

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was conditioned to be bad for you and what was

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good for you sure was very skewed and i think

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that's a part of why we're very skewed now in

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terms of food. And this is why I am just relishing

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the opportunity to expose you to more things.

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So it's nice. I mean, I've told you this a bunch

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of times. I like re -watching TV shows, especially

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the ones that I love, but being able to re -watch

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them with someone who hasn't seen them before

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gives me a unique sense of... experiencing it

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for the first time. I like that too. Yeah. So

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it's like, oh my God, this show is amazing. We

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should watch it. And you're like, well, but you

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already saw it. I was like, I know, but I'm going

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to want to rewatch it anyway. Yeah. But now I

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get to watch it through fresh eyes. And I think

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the same thing goes for restaurants. It's like,

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oh my God, this is really good. You guys need

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to go. Yeah. Or you need to come with me. Or

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like, I think you're going to Laser Wolf tonight.

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Yeah. And you know, it's just an amazing spot.

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And now it's like, yes, I want everybody to know.

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Wait a second. So before I met you, I had never

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heard of Laser Wolf. I have a gift certificate

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and I've had it for a year. Who? Andrew got a

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gift certificate to Laser Wolf, the owner of

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Laser Wolf's restaurants. Yes. Whoever the owner

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of the... Yeah, we looked that up too. Zaha is

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the other one. Zaha. Zaha. Okay. So, but we're

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going, we're trying Laser Wolf. I've heard Laser

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Wolf now all over. since Pedro mentioned it for

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the first time and you guys went, everybody's

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going. Did you message everybody? No, it's been

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a thing for a few years now. It's one of the

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things when it first popped up, it was real hot,

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hard to get reservations. Now it's been a long

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enough where, you know, it's fine. You could

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pretty much even walk in, but it's still very

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popular. Zahav has a bunch of different restaurants

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in the city. So it's not like it's a one and

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done situation where people are like, oh, if

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I can't get into Laser Wolf, I can't go anywhere,

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but you can go to a couple of different restaurants

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and you get the same experience. Um, but Laser

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Wolf is definitely just, it's, it's also very

00:13:54.840 --> 00:13:57.559
low key feel, you know, like the inside of the

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place looks really cool. You don't feel that

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you need to dress up crazy. Right. Um, not like

00:14:02.240 --> 00:14:04.059
this, not like you're retired today and don't

00:14:04.059 --> 00:14:06.899
have to. Go all out. I would never disrespect

00:14:06.899 --> 00:14:09.600
blazer wolf Just gonna say dress up like a taco

00:14:09.600 --> 00:14:14.799
that now if I can find like a pita costume It's

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israeli food. Okay, I don't even know what kind

00:14:16.899 --> 00:14:19.379
of food it is. I just you know, um mediterranean

00:14:19.379 --> 00:14:25.679
so if you like your hummuses and I will say The

00:14:25.679 --> 00:14:29.100
best french fries I have ever had in my life

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Really? Yes, like we kind of so it's it's uh,

00:14:33.000 --> 00:14:35.750
it's kind of um I don't know, I forgot what the

00:14:35.750 --> 00:14:38.049
term is, but it's like family style where you

00:14:38.049 --> 00:14:41.110
get just a giant tray in front of you, all your

00:14:41.110 --> 00:14:43.870
dips, sides, everything is there, and you kind

00:14:43.870 --> 00:14:47.230
of share it as an experience. For free. No, no.

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Because the entrees are, it's complimentary,

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but the entrees are a little bit pricier. Right.

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So you're getting this entire thing, it's coming

00:14:54.009 --> 00:14:55.509
to the table whether you want it or not. Yeah.

00:14:55.509 --> 00:14:58.330
Type of thing. Got it. Yeah, yeah. So we're like,

00:14:58.350 --> 00:15:00.149
all right, this is cool, this is good, this is

00:15:00.149 --> 00:15:01.889
gonna be great, but is it gonna be enough? And

00:15:01.889 --> 00:15:04.899
then I think we saw somebody You know when the

00:15:04.899 --> 00:15:07.039
fries walk by your table, you just kind of like,

00:15:07.139 --> 00:15:09.299
I'm gonna need that. No, we don't know that.

00:15:09.659 --> 00:15:11.940
Oh, oh, oh. We don't. See, all right. We don't

00:15:11.940 --> 00:15:12.879
do that. So this is the experiences. Yeah, these

00:15:12.879 --> 00:15:15.259
are the little nuanced experiences that I'm hoping

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to bring to more people in this world. This is

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why I have gained 30 pounds back. But. Happy

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pounds. Happy pounds. Happy pounds. Kind of.

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Happy pounds. Happy when they're coming in. But

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it's. Not happy when they're going out. Not so

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much. Not so much. The setup was right there.

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But it's that's the difference. That's what I

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guess the purpose of this podcast that we keep

00:15:40.210 --> 00:15:44.769
kind of forgetting is that we would see stuff

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come by, but we would never, ever dare because

00:15:47.830 --> 00:15:51.950
fries are potatoes and potatoes are bad. And

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that I know now is not true. Any food is bad

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depending on how you make it. Like fried food

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is not necessarily healthy for you. Like a fried

00:16:02.879 --> 00:16:05.679
Broccoli like it's still fried. Yeah, but you're

00:16:05.679 --> 00:16:07.879
kind of killing all the nutrients and right the

00:16:07.879 --> 00:16:10.019
beneficial parts of like, of course Yes, that's

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a that's a thing. I think we're correct on in

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thinking fried food, but like potatoes baked

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potato We weren't allowed to really have baked

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potatoes and if things were coming out at a restaurant

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It was like that's nice. Well, we're gonna get

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the salad because salads are good for you So

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getting different food for me was it's not that

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I have never had hummus or Like, I don't think

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there's any food that you and I would say no

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to trying. I'll try and eat everything. I actually

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like most, I don't think there's anything I haven't

00:16:38.259 --> 00:16:40.779
liked yet. No, there was one thing you said you

00:16:40.779 --> 00:16:45.559
didn't like. It was an oyster or something that

00:16:45.559 --> 00:16:47.720
you had and you guys said it was really slimy.

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Oh, no, I think it was the... The tuna belly?

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The bluefin. The bluefin tuna belly. Yeah, yeah,

00:16:55.100 --> 00:16:56.940
yeah, yeah. It was me. She ate them. Yeah, one

00:16:56.940 --> 00:16:59.919
of the first, I loved it. I like fatty foods.

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Yeah. Yeah, I think it was definitely more of

00:17:04.559 --> 00:17:06.960
a textual thing. Because this special that we

00:17:06.960 --> 00:17:10.000
got, it came out four different cuts of a bluefin

00:17:10.000 --> 00:17:11.680
tuna. Yes, that's the idea. And it went from

00:17:11.680 --> 00:17:15.140
leaner to more fatty. And you were on board stage

00:17:15.140 --> 00:17:17.900
one, stage two, stage three, touch and go. And

00:17:17.900 --> 00:17:21.630
then stage four, she was like, I just can't textually

00:17:21.630 --> 00:17:24.890
do it, which again, happens. I wasn't mad because

00:17:24.890 --> 00:17:27.450
I ate the other piece. So I got the double dip.

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I also was not on this date, but I was on this

00:17:31.170 --> 00:17:38.970
date. Yeah. Oh, always. Always and forever. No,

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but you bring up a good point though, because

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seeing those fries go by, I would be like, Oh

00:17:45.900 --> 00:17:48.440
man, that looks so good. Yeah. I wonder if they'll

00:17:48.440 --> 00:17:51.240
like it. Cause I can't have that. Can't. Yeah.

00:17:51.839 --> 00:17:55.500
Quoting can't have that. Yeah. I think that's

00:17:55.500 --> 00:18:01.019
one of, with the internet being such a just wild

00:18:01.019 --> 00:18:07.579
west of it all. So this is where Carly would

00:18:07.579 --> 00:18:12.299
hit the ah -oo -ga button. She's like, darn it,

00:18:12.380 --> 00:18:19.000
which one's the pew -pew? You're just not going

00:18:19.000 --> 00:18:21.059
to label any of the buttons that I'm just going

00:18:21.059 --> 00:18:22.640
to have to pick? I'm going to randomize them

00:18:22.640 --> 00:18:25.319
each week. And it's just going to be a crapshoot.

00:18:25.859 --> 00:18:28.140
As long as it's free labor, you can do whatever

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you want. I don't care. We are a work in progress.

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It is nice that there are, with all the misinformation

00:18:36.829 --> 00:18:40.430
out there, there is a counterbalance with a lot

00:18:40.430 --> 00:18:43.210
of like influencers. I know we, there's a couple

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that are in our algorithm that are kind of just

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like, oh, you know what? I like how he says things.

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I appreciate the context. I like the information

00:18:51.509 --> 00:18:54.049
he provides. You know, like when you say with

00:18:54.049 --> 00:18:56.069
like potatoes, like, you know, potatoes, they're

00:18:56.069 --> 00:18:59.390
carbs that this and other, but then now finding

00:18:59.390 --> 00:19:01.650
out that. you know, carbohydrates are the most

00:19:01.650 --> 00:19:04.289
potatoes or the most satiating foods you can

00:19:04.289 --> 00:19:06.849
eat. It will fill you up the most. It'll keep

00:19:06.849 --> 00:19:10.170
you full the longest. And like everything, I

00:19:10.170 --> 00:19:13.730
mean, balance is everything. You can take 40

00:19:13.730 --> 00:19:16.829
Tylenol and not have a good time. But if you

00:19:16.829 --> 00:19:18.049
have a headache, you take one, you're gonna feel

00:19:18.049 --> 00:19:22.089
better. It's everything in moderation. So, like

00:19:22.089 --> 00:19:25.950
I said that, I also... walked in today. Disclaimer,

00:19:26.130 --> 00:19:28.390
do not take 40 pounds at all for anything. We

00:19:28.390 --> 00:19:31.869
do not condone that. But I walked in today and

00:19:31.869 --> 00:19:35.369
we were talking about food, obviously, and I

00:19:35.369 --> 00:19:37.630
know that you like good food. And I'm like, how

00:19:37.630 --> 00:19:42.109
are you not 800 pounds? And tell, say why you

00:19:42.109 --> 00:19:47.230
said that. I have privileges. Being as tall as

00:19:47.230 --> 00:19:51.410
I am. Yeah. I understand that. Now that doesn't

00:19:51.410 --> 00:19:55.690
necessarily Fix all of my issues. Yeah, but it

00:19:55.690 --> 00:20:00.950
definitely helps. So I am six four and I did

00:20:00.950 --> 00:20:04.329
a I Think when I went up right before or right

00:20:04.329 --> 00:20:06.970
after when I turned 40, I kind of did my whole

00:20:06.970 --> 00:20:10.430
work up Blood work BMI, you know all the things

00:20:10.430 --> 00:20:12.190
just kind of see where I'm at because I figure

00:20:12.190 --> 00:20:15.190
all right. This is the time where My testosterone

00:20:15.190 --> 00:20:17.910
testosterone is gonna start dipping pretty hard

00:20:17.910 --> 00:20:19.990
where you know, it's gonna make me slower So

00:20:19.990 --> 00:20:22.730
make me less motivated Kind of let me see where

00:20:22.730 --> 00:20:25.849
I'm at. And I found out that, again, I don't

00:20:25.849 --> 00:20:29.809
remember what the specific term is, but my body

00:20:29.809 --> 00:20:34.609
idols at about 2 ,700 calories per day. So if

00:20:34.609 --> 00:20:38.329
it's a lazy Sunday and I'm just existing, laying

00:20:38.329 --> 00:20:40.509
on the couch, maybe do a little laundry or whatever

00:20:40.509 --> 00:20:43.769
the case is, I will still naturally burn 26 to

00:20:43.769 --> 00:20:47.730
2 ,700 calories. Which is - We are rolling our

00:20:47.730 --> 00:20:53.849
eyes at you. So hard. That is nothing, but that

00:20:53.849 --> 00:20:56.150
is why we're talking about this today because

00:20:56.150 --> 00:20:59.950
while you can do that, Victoria cannot. No, no.

00:20:59.970 --> 00:21:02.549
And I think that's, that is something we had

00:21:02.549 --> 00:21:07.289
to adjust for. Cause like, yeah, I can eat a

00:21:07.289 --> 00:21:09.890
lot. Yeah. I can eat. And I can match it. Yeah.

00:21:10.029 --> 00:21:12.390
Yeah. Yeah. You're good at that. No, no, no.

00:21:12.509 --> 00:21:14.470
I meant like, I'm good at that too. I can, I

00:21:14.470 --> 00:21:16.829
can totally match you. If it's time to eat, we're

00:21:16.829 --> 00:21:20.140
going to eat. We are, we are volume eaters. Like

00:21:20.140 --> 00:21:24.779
we love big plates. Yeah. And I was, I was very,

00:21:25.079 --> 00:21:28.700
I mean, growing up was again, we never needed

00:21:28.700 --> 00:21:31.240
for anything. You know, we wanted stuff, but

00:21:31.240 --> 00:21:33.140
you know, but, and I attribute this to my mother.

00:21:33.319 --> 00:21:36.519
She worked her ass off. My grandmother, like

00:21:36.519 --> 00:21:39.579
pretty much raised us. Um, we always ate, we

00:21:39.579 --> 00:21:43.779
always ate, but we always were taught to eat

00:21:43.779 --> 00:21:46.309
what you got. Because we don't know how the next

00:21:46.309 --> 00:21:48.609
meal is going to be. We don't know how, you know,

00:21:48.650 --> 00:21:51.150
like, hey, we're going to Sizzler tonight. Shout

00:21:51.150 --> 00:21:53.509
out Sizzler. Yo, shout out Sizzler. Puerto Rico

00:21:53.509 --> 00:21:55.809
has one. Shut up, still. There's one left and

00:21:55.809 --> 00:21:58.289
Olsen one. And it's thriving. Wait, is there

00:21:58.289 --> 00:21:59.950
like the pudding, the chocolate and vanilla,

00:21:59.990 --> 00:22:02.089
same pudding? We didn't go. As we're taking the

00:22:02.089 --> 00:22:03.609
Uber the last night, we're heading back. What

00:22:03.609 --> 00:22:06.049
is wrong with you guys? We just saw it. It was

00:22:06.049 --> 00:22:07.410
like 11 o 'clock at night. We're getting ready

00:22:07.410 --> 00:22:08.509
to go home because we have the flight in the

00:22:08.509 --> 00:22:11.930
morning. And we're like, is that Sizzler? It's

00:22:11.930 --> 00:22:16.140
the home of the first salad bar. So, so. Which

00:22:16.140 --> 00:22:19.140
is all we would do there. I know. So the next

00:22:19.140 --> 00:22:21.500
family trip. We're going. We're going to Puerto

00:22:21.500 --> 00:22:23.279
Rico. OK. To the Sizzler. And we're going to

00:22:23.279 --> 00:22:27.339
ransack that Sizzler. Fried shrimp. Oh, dang.

00:22:27.359 --> 00:22:29.039
My kids aren't going to know what hit them with

00:22:29.039 --> 00:22:30.900
that salad bar. They're like, we're never going

00:22:30.900 --> 00:22:35.000
home. Yeah. But yeah. So it's very much like,

00:22:35.180 --> 00:22:40.220
and I was always an overeater. I always ate till

00:22:40.220 --> 00:22:42.900
capacity. Victoria's raising her hand. Yeah.

00:22:43.069 --> 00:22:46.470
I mean, I think that's. You should too. Oh yeah,

00:22:46.470 --> 00:22:49.970
me too. I don't believe you. Oh no. This is new

00:22:49.970 --> 00:22:55.049
Carly. Oh okay. COVID, since COVID, I can house

00:22:55.049 --> 00:22:58.170
some food. You've never seen. You haven't seen

00:22:58.170 --> 00:23:00.589
pancakes and sausage every single weekend, Carly?

00:23:01.430 --> 00:23:04.630
Those pictures I'll show you. We can post them.

00:23:04.890 --> 00:23:07.710
Which was happy Carly, she was in a new relationship

00:23:07.710 --> 00:23:11.049
with Andrew, they were living in the city, and

00:23:11.049 --> 00:23:15.500
she was happy. but she was unhealthy. Yeah, super.

00:23:15.839 --> 00:23:18.519
I think that's, and that's, I mean, that's the

00:23:18.519 --> 00:23:21.339
American way, right? Yeah. Like, getting to that

00:23:21.339 --> 00:23:24.240
point and then trying to flip it and making it

00:23:24.240 --> 00:23:27.079
a balance, where it's like, I'm full, I'm happy,

00:23:27.140 --> 00:23:30.640
but I'm not eating to excess. I'm not eating

00:23:30.640 --> 00:23:32.700
until I'm not feeling good anymore or, you know,

00:23:32.759 --> 00:23:34.880
trying to, quote unquote, fill that void, which

00:23:34.880 --> 00:23:38.880
I did a lot of. Yeah. And I, we always had seconds

00:23:38.880 --> 00:23:43.720
at dinner growing up and - dessert every night

00:23:43.720 --> 00:23:48.519
and No potatoes, but no potatoes and no macaroni

00:23:48.519 --> 00:23:50.920
and cheese I just told my dancers last night

00:23:50.920 --> 00:23:53.160
because they're going to college and I was like

00:23:53.160 --> 00:23:56.680
just Don't eat macaroni and cheese every night

00:23:56.680 --> 00:23:59.500
because you can like that is my advice to you

00:23:59.500 --> 00:24:02.200
blue box Kraft Mac and cheese It's so easy and

00:24:02.200 --> 00:24:04.000
then I wasn't allowed to do that. So when I left

00:24:04.000 --> 00:24:06.220
and moved to New York and was all my own That's

00:24:06.220 --> 00:24:10.099
what I did every day. Yeah, and then I like the

00:24:10.079 --> 00:24:12.519
And this is like the, I guess, the young, early

00:24:12.519 --> 00:24:14.200
20s, you're broke, living on your own for the

00:24:14.200 --> 00:24:16.640
first time. I think that's where a lot of bad

00:24:16.640 --> 00:24:19.779
habits come. And I think it's just because you

00:24:19.779 --> 00:24:22.859
have no choice. You're broke. Put a dollar box

00:24:22.859 --> 00:24:24.839
of mac and cheese, and then that's when you're

00:24:24.839 --> 00:24:26.839
starting like, all right, well, I can zhuzh this

00:24:26.839 --> 00:24:29.259
up a little bit. I can throw some chicken in

00:24:29.259 --> 00:24:31.380
there. I can do some other stuff. I can add like

00:24:31.380 --> 00:24:33.079
another block of cheese to it to make it a little

00:24:33.079 --> 00:24:35.700
more creamier or some milk to increase the volume

00:24:35.700 --> 00:24:37.299
or whatever the case is. And you're just surviving

00:24:37.299 --> 00:24:41.630
at that point. but also your metabolism is cooking

00:24:41.630 --> 00:24:45.269
at that point. I used to have full on box of

00:24:45.269 --> 00:24:50.390
Uncle Ben's rice with the like the fake chicken

00:24:50.390 --> 00:24:52.230
that you just put in the microwave. Like that

00:24:52.230 --> 00:24:56.029
would be my lunch. That is like two meals that

00:24:56.029 --> 00:24:58.529
I would just eat for lunch. Just sodium, just

00:24:58.529 --> 00:25:01.890
salt. And just salt. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But so

00:25:01.890 --> 00:25:06.190
going back, so you can do that on 2 ,700 calories

00:25:06.190 --> 00:25:10.849
and you can... do fine. That would be a horrible

00:25:10.849 --> 00:25:14.430
day for Victoria. How are you guys doing it then?

00:25:14.690 --> 00:25:16.910
Because you like to go out to eat, you like to

00:25:16.910 --> 00:25:19.950
watch what you eat. I like to watch it go in

00:25:19.950 --> 00:25:24.750
my mouth. These days, I'm just watching it come

00:25:24.750 --> 00:25:26.569
to the table and go in my mouth. Do you like

00:25:26.569 --> 00:25:31.720
seafood? Seafood in my belly. Oh my god. Well,

00:25:31.720 --> 00:25:33.940
I mean I've said it a lot on the podcast without

00:25:33.940 --> 00:25:36.140
you even here and we've talked about it before

00:25:36.140 --> 00:25:39.640
and I'm not gonna do a pity party on it or at

00:25:39.640 --> 00:25:41.660
all or like whatever but I've gained weight that

00:25:41.660 --> 00:25:44.819
I'm happy about because I don't like my body

00:25:44.819 --> 00:25:48.680
the way that it feels when I'm heavier. However,

00:25:49.539 --> 00:25:52.539
the experiences that we're doing, we've also

00:25:52.539 --> 00:25:54.480
cut down when we've so and you can attest that

00:25:54.480 --> 00:25:56.359
when we first met. We kind of went hard first.

00:25:56.400 --> 00:25:58.980
We went hard in October was my birthday. You

00:25:58.980 --> 00:26:06.220
went what? Say it. Say it the fit to be real

00:26:06.220 --> 00:26:10.019
way. You went hard. Say it. Hort. Real hort.

00:26:10.180 --> 00:26:13.619
Took way too long. You're so scared. Excuse me.

00:26:13.759 --> 00:26:16.539
I had a Rolodex of sayings. I was like, oh god,

00:26:16.539 --> 00:26:18.359
what's appropriate? That's not appropriate. What

00:26:18.359 --> 00:26:21.819
are they asking for? Oh yeah. Hort. Hort. Hort.

00:26:22.160 --> 00:26:25.559
So hort. In October. Side note, the first time

00:26:25.559 --> 00:26:27.500
I did that in front of her, she's like, that's

00:26:27.500 --> 00:26:30.460
what we do. That's what we do. We say it all

00:26:30.460 --> 00:26:32.900
the time. I was like, OK, sure, you do. Yeah.

00:26:33.079 --> 00:26:33.900
And then I started listening to the podcast.

00:26:33.900 --> 00:26:35.359
And then he started listening. I was like, oh,

00:26:35.359 --> 00:26:40.720
oh, shit, OK. She said it in class. While she

00:26:40.720 --> 00:26:43.380
was humping these people around the - Disclaimer.

00:26:44.279 --> 00:26:47.539
Carly does not hump people, like, directly. While

00:26:47.539 --> 00:26:49.779
she was gyrating in their - Oh, you're making

00:26:49.779 --> 00:26:52.599
it worse. In their area, she was going - What

00:26:52.599 --> 00:26:55.759
area? On Wednesdays. I do it on Wednesdays. That

00:26:55.759 --> 00:26:58.220
doesn't make it better. I go, hort! Wednesday.

00:26:58.400 --> 00:27:00.420
She was like, look, I'm going to work and I'm

00:27:00.420 --> 00:27:03.640
trying to teach. As she gyrates on people in

00:27:03.640 --> 00:27:07.440
their spaces. Yes. I'm going to get sued. I'm

00:27:07.440 --> 00:27:10.700
so glad you understand. Melody is having a conniption

00:27:10.700 --> 00:27:13.259
right now. Yes, in her fourth grade classroom.

00:27:13.440 --> 00:27:16.299
Yes, she is. Her spidey senses are going off.

00:27:16.480 --> 00:27:17.920
She's like, this is going to be so much paperwork

00:27:17.920 --> 00:27:25.019
later. Oh my God. Oh my God. Okay. So yes, we

00:27:25.019 --> 00:27:28.079
went out every single Thursday. for my birthday,

00:27:28.160 --> 00:27:29.579
but we went to a different restaurant every Thursday.

00:27:30.380 --> 00:27:33.160
With that said, these were nice restaurants.

00:27:34.160 --> 00:27:41.940
I think outside of maybe one or two, there's

00:27:41.940 --> 00:27:44.420
a difference between going out a lot and being,

00:27:44.700 --> 00:27:48.160
for lack of a better term, gluttonous. And I

00:27:48.160 --> 00:27:50.279
think that's the balance we have found, whereas

00:27:50.279 --> 00:27:54.680
even outside of just going out to eat, I still

00:27:54.680 --> 00:27:57.470
probably order like twice a week. You know, my

00:27:57.470 --> 00:27:59.609
work days can be kind of busy and hectic, and

00:27:59.609 --> 00:28:02.029
honestly, it's just convenience at that point.

00:28:03.089 --> 00:28:05.130
And he's in the city, so it's easy. Yeah, I mean,

00:28:05.210 --> 00:28:08.710
the run of options just within like a mile of

00:28:08.710 --> 00:28:15.529
my work is insane. Speaking of work, nope. PTO,

00:28:15.690 --> 00:28:21.650
baby. Let's go. Perfect timing. It really was.

00:28:23.089 --> 00:28:26.009
But yeah, I mean, it's... You know, I have that

00:28:26.009 --> 00:28:28.809
luxury and I know, but I also understand that

00:28:28.809 --> 00:28:31.970
so much factors in when it comes to just general

00:28:31.970 --> 00:28:34.809
biology, which is again, something I didn't know.

00:28:35.210 --> 00:28:36.910
I thought I was just lucky. You know, I played

00:28:36.910 --> 00:28:39.430
sports my whole life. Like I was always active

00:28:39.430 --> 00:28:42.990
so I could always eat a cheesesteak for breakfast

00:28:42.990 --> 00:28:47.589
and then get Chinese for dinner. I can't do this

00:28:47.589 --> 00:28:51.430
anymore. No, no. I can't either now. I've definitely

00:28:51.430 --> 00:28:55.150
crossed the threshold. And a lot of my reasoning

00:28:55.150 --> 00:28:58.250
is because my health did take a little bit of

00:28:58.250 --> 00:29:01.369
a dip in the past couple years. I am currently

00:29:01.369 --> 00:29:05.829
pre -diabetic. And that kind of forced me to,

00:29:05.829 --> 00:29:09.410
one, address how I eat, when I eat, also how

00:29:09.410 --> 00:29:12.829
physical I am, and things that I've learned.

00:29:13.130 --> 00:29:15.089
So I have a brother, to circle back to one of

00:29:15.089 --> 00:29:18.170
those original questions. I have a brother. He's

00:29:18.170 --> 00:29:21.910
seven years older than me. He's a big boy. He's

00:29:21.910 --> 00:29:24.819
a big boy. Um, is he as tall as you as well?

00:29:25.140 --> 00:29:28.799
No, I think he probably five 10. Okay. Five 10,

00:29:28.819 --> 00:29:32.539
a little under the six foot range. Um, but he's

00:29:32.539 --> 00:29:36.599
bigger than me, but he has perfect blood sugar.

00:29:36.740 --> 00:29:39.880
No way. Like perfect. He on a whim. Cause like

00:29:39.880 --> 00:29:42.480
I had to start checking my blood sugar periodically.

00:29:43.359 --> 00:29:45.200
And you know, for people that know, you know,

00:29:45.460 --> 00:29:48.720
normal blood sugars between like 70 to 90 ish,

00:29:48.720 --> 00:29:54.440
um, pre -diabetes is I would say like 95 to 130,

00:29:54.559 --> 00:29:56.660
140 -ish. Don't quote me on these numbers, they're

00:29:56.660 --> 00:29:58.519
just ballparking. And then anything over that,

00:29:58.660 --> 00:30:01.200
you're looking in, you know, you're diabetic.

00:30:01.779 --> 00:30:05.119
Also you're A1C, all that stuff like that. So

00:30:05.119 --> 00:30:07.859
I was checking minds and I was kind of just stuck

00:30:07.859 --> 00:30:12.140
at 100 to 105. No matter how much I dieted, how

00:30:12.140 --> 00:30:15.160
much I watched what I ate, exercised regularly.

00:30:15.839 --> 00:30:18.460
you know, I could not get below 100. And my doctor

00:30:18.460 --> 00:30:20.599
was like, dude, you're fine. Like honestly, and

00:30:20.599 --> 00:30:22.440
this is why I love my, I just lost my doctor.

00:30:22.599 --> 00:30:24.859
He just, he moved to DC. Oh, he's alive. Yeah.

00:30:25.059 --> 00:30:29.000
Yeah. He was sassy as all hell, but he knew when

00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:31.779
to check me. And he's like, you know, he gave

00:30:31.779 --> 00:30:34.259
me a look and he was like, okay. Hold on. I have

00:30:34.259 --> 00:30:38.039
to say with all of the, the food that we're talking

00:30:38.039 --> 00:30:39.740
about and all of the things that you're saying

00:30:39.740 --> 00:30:44.160
now, he goes to the doctor every six months and

00:30:44.440 --> 00:30:47.700
and on his birthday like he gets tested and and

00:30:47.700 --> 00:30:50.180
blood work. When's the last time when's the doctor

00:30:50.180 --> 00:30:51.880
do that? Well I was just looking at you while

00:30:51.880 --> 00:30:53.880
you were talking going oh my god he's an adult.

00:30:54.220 --> 00:30:59.240
I am a child. I am a child. Victoria is dating

00:30:59.240 --> 00:31:01.640
an adult and we are children. I'm thinking what

00:31:01.640 --> 00:31:03.660
the heck is Victoria's blood sugar? You know

00:31:03.660 --> 00:31:05.940
your brother's blood sugar? I don't know Victoria's

00:31:05.940 --> 00:31:10.259
real hair color. Does Victoria know her blood

00:31:10.259 --> 00:31:15.559
sugar? This is not about me. I feel attacked.

00:31:15.980 --> 00:31:19.819
I was thinking about this, how everybody needs

00:31:19.819 --> 00:31:23.039
a week off to take care of themselves. Yes. Because

00:31:23.039 --> 00:31:25.259
there's no time to take care of yourself. I can't

00:31:25.259 --> 00:31:27.500
tell you the last time I went to the doctor for

00:31:27.500 --> 00:31:29.440
me that wasn't just like, can I get a Z -Pak

00:31:29.440 --> 00:31:33.599
please? Yeah. But he goes for this route. So

00:31:33.599 --> 00:31:35.519
while we can all say and be like, wow, you're

00:31:35.519 --> 00:31:37.839
a foodie and you go out to eat a lot and all

00:31:37.839 --> 00:31:41.160
that stuff, you know what you're doing. I try

00:31:41.160 --> 00:31:43.880
to. And it also keeps me accountable, because

00:31:43.880 --> 00:31:47.079
when my numbers spike, I have no one else to

00:31:47.079 --> 00:31:50.420
blame. I have no recourse to be like, oh, well,

00:31:50.420 --> 00:31:51.859
it's just because this, that, and the other.

00:31:51.940 --> 00:31:55.740
Like, no, no, no. I either ate my feelings this

00:31:55.740 --> 00:31:59.180
past month, or I got busy at work, or whatever

00:31:59.180 --> 00:32:03.000
the case is. I can hold myself accountable, because

00:32:03.000 --> 00:32:07.640
I've never been good at that. I don't consider

00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:11.049
myself a hypochondriac. Every time I get the

00:32:11.049 --> 00:32:13.849
sniffle, I don't think it's, you know, oh, stroke's

00:32:13.849 --> 00:32:16.329
coming on or a heart attack is about, but I -

00:32:16.329 --> 00:32:20.390
We're so different. She is a germaphobe and hypochondriac.

00:32:23.329 --> 00:32:25.250
It's so easy to get sidetracked on these things.

00:32:25.470 --> 00:32:28.150
Like as I'm watching, I appreciate what you guys

00:32:28.150 --> 00:32:30.589
do now more and more to be able to stay within

00:32:30.589 --> 00:32:33.269
the confines because - Me or just Victoria, because

00:32:33.269 --> 00:32:35.690
all I do is talk about other things and Victoria

00:32:35.690 --> 00:32:38.250
trying to sway me back. You know when to be like,

00:32:38.269 --> 00:32:41.680
yep. Cool, all right, we're back on here. Wow.

00:32:42.059 --> 00:32:48.519
Yeah, I do, because I work so hard. Hort. I think

00:32:48.519 --> 00:32:52.259
it was, what was it, Screech? Dustin Diamond?

00:32:52.400 --> 00:32:57.259
Yes. His story kind of rocked me a little bit.

00:32:57.299 --> 00:33:00.799
What? So, I mean, we all know, if you're an 80s

00:33:00.799 --> 00:33:05.220
baby, you know Screech. Always a character, became

00:33:05.220 --> 00:33:08.539
an adult, became super weird. Did porn, I think?

00:33:08.539 --> 00:33:10.359
Yeah, he did. Yeah, it was super weird. Never

00:33:10.359 --> 00:33:12.900
watched it, never will. He got married and he

00:33:12.900 --> 00:33:16.279
did have a young son. Yeah. And then he said

00:33:16.279 --> 00:33:20.779
he just woke up one day and felt horrible. Horrible.

00:33:21.460 --> 00:33:24.200
Horrible. Screech felt horrible. Yeah, we're

00:33:24.200 --> 00:33:26.380
gonna need to wash these mics after this. Okay.

00:33:27.819 --> 00:33:29.680
And he went to the doctors. He's like, I feel

00:33:29.680 --> 00:33:31.799
terrible. I'm in so much pain. What's wrong?

00:33:31.839 --> 00:33:33.740
And they're like, you have stage four cancer.

00:33:34.240 --> 00:33:36.839
Like, you are terminal, you have a couple months

00:33:36.839 --> 00:33:40.500
to live. And that, for some reason, I know we

00:33:40.500 --> 00:33:42.519
hear about this stuff all the time, and I just,

00:33:42.519 --> 00:33:44.519
you know, I think it just helps, it helped me

00:33:44.519 --> 00:33:47.480
be more perceptive, like, oh God, like at any

00:33:47.480 --> 00:33:50.299
point in time, we could be suffering for something

00:33:50.299 --> 00:33:52.599
that we don't even know about. So I was like,

00:33:52.700 --> 00:33:55.960
I need to get blood work every, you know, regular

00:33:55.960 --> 00:33:59.299
timeframe. I mean, everybody gets to a point

00:33:59.299 --> 00:34:00.819
where like, I need to eat better. I need to do

00:34:00.819 --> 00:34:02.440
better. I need to work out more. That's fine.

00:34:02.519 --> 00:34:05.200
But sometimes it's just genetics. Sometimes it

00:34:05.200 --> 00:34:07.740
just happens. Now, while my brother's blood sugar

00:34:07.740 --> 00:34:10.760
is fantastic, I think he's 73 or something. I

00:34:10.760 --> 00:34:13.139
was like, how? You had a pizza cheese steak for

00:34:13.139 --> 00:34:17.420
breakfast today. Like, you animal. But his blood

00:34:17.420 --> 00:34:19.019
sugar, or no, I'm sorry, his blood pressure is

00:34:19.019 --> 00:34:20.719
high. His cholesterol is high. Got it. Yeah.

00:34:20.960 --> 00:34:23.599
Me, on the other hand, my cholesterol is perfect.

00:34:24.179 --> 00:34:27.699
My blood pressure, perfect. Like all these things

00:34:27.699 --> 00:34:30.320
are and it's just weird It's the biology factors

00:34:30.320 --> 00:34:33.699
so much into things where it's like you can eat

00:34:33.699 --> 00:34:36.199
the right thing every day You're gonna get to

00:34:36.199 --> 00:34:38.079
a point in life where you're at a certain age

00:34:38.079 --> 00:34:40.920
and your body's like nope But that's why I feel

00:34:40.920 --> 00:34:45.599
like we hate those and we talk about those Influencer

00:34:45.599 --> 00:34:48.059
reels all the time of like what I eat in a day

00:34:48.059 --> 00:34:50.820
Sure, but like what you eat in a day and what

00:34:50.820 --> 00:34:53.539
you eat in a day and what I eat in a day are

00:34:53.539 --> 00:34:55.639
not gonna do the same, are not gonna have the

00:34:55.639 --> 00:34:58.300
same benefits. So don't watch what other people

00:34:58.300 --> 00:35:01.519
eat. Everybody's body is different. It's truly

00:35:01.519 --> 00:35:06.539
a spectrum. Which is why, circling back, how

00:35:06.539 --> 00:35:10.360
we make it work, I could be making it work a

00:35:10.360 --> 00:35:13.960
little bit better, but you have a good balance,

00:35:14.039 --> 00:35:16.579
I think, mentally that helps me. Where he's like,

00:35:17.000 --> 00:35:19.139
you have to live your life. You have to live.

00:35:19.800 --> 00:35:22.179
Are we gonna do the experience or are we gonna

00:35:22.909 --> 00:35:26.289
are we gonna not do the experience of going out

00:35:26.289 --> 00:35:27.949
and trying something new? And I would much rather

00:35:27.949 --> 00:35:31.929
do the experience. It just, we have switched

00:35:31.929 --> 00:35:33.929
to make healthier choices when we do these things,

00:35:33.989 --> 00:35:37.289
which is a big. We definitely yin yang very well.

00:35:37.849 --> 00:35:41.190
It definitely took a little bit. But you know,

00:35:41.329 --> 00:35:42.550
birthday month is birthday month. We kind of

00:35:42.550 --> 00:35:45.050
had to go crazy for that. Yeah, and your birthday.

00:35:45.869 --> 00:35:49.070
Yeah, we did a lot of like out of the ordinary

00:35:49.070 --> 00:35:53.289
food drinking things for the month of March and

00:35:53.289 --> 00:35:56.170
Those are one one -shot things like it doesn't

00:35:56.170 --> 00:35:58.909
happen every month like that But the eating and

00:35:58.909 --> 00:36:01.710
getting on the same page like when we're at one

00:36:01.710 --> 00:36:05.610
of our houses making food It's vegetable and

00:36:05.610 --> 00:36:08.150
like the other night he made me fish and he made

00:36:08.150 --> 00:36:11.750
chicken with a vegetable. Yeah And also rice

00:36:11.750 --> 00:36:13.329
and beans because he made some really good Puerto

00:36:13.329 --> 00:36:15.829
Rican rice and beans which are not necessarily

00:36:15.829 --> 00:36:18.570
healthy for you, but. Carb on carb on carb. But

00:36:18.570 --> 00:36:21.030
again. So yummy. Moderation. But moderation.

00:36:21.650 --> 00:36:23.769
I mean, that is the only. That's something we

00:36:23.769 --> 00:36:27.070
don't do well. We don't do moderation. I'm going

00:36:27.070 --> 00:36:29.869
to say it again. We go hoard and then we go home.

00:36:30.150 --> 00:36:34.429
We go big. We go home. We do not know. We're

00:36:34.429 --> 00:36:36.630
extremists. I feel like you're better at it than

00:36:36.630 --> 00:36:41.300
I am about not being so extreme. I am a, it's

00:36:41.300 --> 00:36:43.820
a hundred percent or it's a zero percent. I am

00:36:43.820 --> 00:36:47.420
on, on, on, or I am not on. You know what I mean?

00:36:47.500 --> 00:36:49.059
Like, that's me. That's me. Yeah. And I think,

00:36:49.139 --> 00:36:51.079
and I think that's where our balance starts to

00:36:51.079 --> 00:36:53.500
come into play, where it's like, I'm this, I

00:36:53.500 --> 00:36:56.119
am, I'm, I'm, I'll, I'll order out two, three

00:36:56.119 --> 00:36:58.360
times a day. I'll, I'll eat, I eat when I'm hungry.

00:36:58.360 --> 00:37:02.900
I don't, and then you anchor me. Well, she's

00:37:02.900 --> 00:37:05.000
a routine. Yes. Which, which, which helps. She's

00:37:05.000 --> 00:37:08.039
a routine. Do you have a routine? No, I am, I

00:37:08.039 --> 00:37:11.800
freestyle. with the best of them. If I wake up

00:37:11.800 --> 00:37:13.260
at eight o 'clock in the morning and I'm starving,

00:37:13.679 --> 00:37:16.619
I will get a breakfast burrito. If I wake up

00:37:16.619 --> 00:37:18.500
at eight o 'clock and I'm not hungry, I don't

00:37:18.500 --> 00:37:23.079
eat, which is rare. And we are very not like

00:37:23.079 --> 00:37:26.739
that. Because when you date one of us, you date

00:37:26.739 --> 00:37:30.039
both of us. It's a family affair. We are not

00:37:30.039 --> 00:37:32.840
like that. And we have a hard time because when

00:37:32.840 --> 00:37:35.619
she's upset about her body weight, I'm upset

00:37:35.619 --> 00:37:39.289
about it. You got to remember that when you guys

00:37:39.289 --> 00:37:41.670
are eating out, okay? How will Carly feel about

00:37:41.670 --> 00:37:44.909
this tomorrow? I literally don't care. Look at

00:37:44.909 --> 00:37:49.130
you. Look at you. Shut up. Everyone out. Shut

00:37:49.130 --> 00:37:54.070
up. That's a new button. Shut up. What I'm saying

00:37:54.070 --> 00:37:58.489
is we are very like -minded in the way we eat,

00:37:58.610 --> 00:38:02.150
so when she's off her game, it's hard. How have

00:38:02.150 --> 00:38:03.809
you been doing this past year, Carly? How have

00:38:03.809 --> 00:38:05.489
you been doing with my new relationship this

00:38:05.489 --> 00:38:07.750
past year? I've been loving the pictures you

00:38:07.750 --> 00:38:11.309
sent me of your food. Yeah. You're living vicariously

00:38:11.309 --> 00:38:13.829
through us. I've been licking the pictures. They're

00:38:13.829 --> 00:38:16.809
delicious. Not weird. Not weird. Not even a little

00:38:16.809 --> 00:38:19.750
bit. See, so this is a little sidetrack. This

00:38:19.750 --> 00:38:22.869
is where once we advance, you know, like a couple

00:38:22.869 --> 00:38:24.389
of the videos, stuff like that, I'm going to

00:38:24.389 --> 00:38:29.519
insert images as we speak about them. Wait, then

00:38:29.519 --> 00:38:32.900
insert an image of me with face down in pancakes

00:38:32.900 --> 00:38:35.280
and syrup and sausage when I first met Andrew.

00:38:35.300 --> 00:38:38.840
You can insert that picture. I was 50 pounds

00:38:38.840 --> 00:38:41.400
heavier than I am right now. I had brown hair

00:38:41.400 --> 00:38:44.019
and every single morning, because you guys all

00:38:44.019 --> 00:38:47.519
know what Andrew looks like. So he's the opposite

00:38:47.519 --> 00:38:51.280
of you. He is short and he will always be lighter

00:38:51.280 --> 00:38:53.800
than me. No matter how much I weigh, he will

00:38:53.800 --> 00:38:57.239
always weigh less than me. He can eat whatever

00:38:57.239 --> 00:39:01.800
he wants, anytime, any place. But he's a moderate

00:39:01.800 --> 00:39:06.920
eater. So he, moderate plaxoriasis, eater. He

00:39:06.920 --> 00:39:10.039
will be like, yes, moderate to severe plaxoriasis.

00:39:10.079 --> 00:39:13.280
Sorry. He will eat, yes, I'll have a bite of

00:39:13.280 --> 00:39:15.579
ice cream. Just a bite. And he's like, wow, that

00:39:15.579 --> 00:39:17.619
was fantastic. That's what I needed. Thank you.

00:39:18.039 --> 00:39:20.159
And Carly's like, well, I'm going to eat the

00:39:20.159 --> 00:39:23.639
pine because that's why they make pints. And

00:39:23.639 --> 00:39:28.659
that's what I am. your dynamic is different too.

00:39:28.860 --> 00:39:33.000
Yeah, because he knows when to stop and I just

00:39:33.000 --> 00:39:35.920
don't. Or I didn't. And so when he would order

00:39:35.920 --> 00:39:38.699
pancakes and sausage every morning, he went about

00:39:38.699 --> 00:39:41.059
his day where it was me. I was like, well, that

00:39:41.059 --> 00:39:44.360
just went onto my body visibly. And I did that

00:39:44.360 --> 00:39:46.420
every day until I was 50 pounds heavier. And

00:39:46.420 --> 00:39:48.820
I think one thing, not to cut you off there,

00:39:50.099 --> 00:39:52.699
something that people don't take into consideration

00:39:52.699 --> 00:39:57.079
that I'm noticing more now, is the other factors,

00:39:57.119 --> 00:40:00.960
not just your intake, outtake, but stress. Like

00:40:00.960 --> 00:40:03.659
depression, sadness, like all these other factors

00:40:03.659 --> 00:40:09.440
just make things just hold on for dear life.

00:40:09.780 --> 00:40:14.780
Like I have weeks or a month where I'm busy,

00:40:14.820 --> 00:40:17.280
I'm stressed, but I'm still eating good. I'm

00:40:17.280 --> 00:40:19.719
still eating better, but I'm gaining weight.

00:40:20.199 --> 00:40:22.239
And I'm just like, what the hell? And then that's

00:40:22.239 --> 00:40:26.469
frustrating and demoralizing. either you break

00:40:26.469 --> 00:40:29.409
or you double down and either one doesn't really

00:40:29.409 --> 00:40:32.010
give you the results that you kind of want and

00:40:32.010 --> 00:40:33.630
it's like and now you're just stuck between a

00:40:33.630 --> 00:40:34.769
rock and a hard place and then you're kind of

00:40:34.769 --> 00:40:37.829
just like I'm just gonna do whatever I want yeah

00:40:37.829 --> 00:40:38.969
and then there's plenty of times where I like

00:40:38.969 --> 00:40:42.329
I'm good I'm in a good space life is good everything

00:40:42.329 --> 00:40:45.409
is kind of clicking right now and you know I'm

00:40:45.409 --> 00:40:49.210
enjoying myself I'm eating my food and I'm like

00:40:49.210 --> 00:40:52.010
hmm like before we went on a trip to Puerto Rico

00:40:52.010 --> 00:40:56.119
it's amazing you should go You know, we were

00:40:56.119 --> 00:40:57.480
both kind of like, you know, we want to kind

00:40:57.480 --> 00:41:00.440
of like get right to, you know, enjoy the beach

00:41:00.440 --> 00:41:02.260
a little more without being self -conscious.

00:41:04.199 --> 00:41:06.139
I mean, I think - I didn't get there. Yeah. I

00:41:06.139 --> 00:41:07.679
still went. I still went on the trip. I thought

00:41:07.679 --> 00:41:12.639
you were fine. You were not happy. Really? Which

00:41:12.639 --> 00:41:14.659
is crazy because she looked absolutely incredible.

00:41:14.800 --> 00:41:17.039
Yeah, that's right. That's right, Pedro. You

00:41:17.039 --> 00:41:19.179
say it loud. You say it proud. Why are you yelling?

00:41:19.380 --> 00:41:22.659
I don't know. She's like, the bike is so far

00:41:22.659 --> 00:41:28.769
away. We'll eventually get a third mic, don't

00:41:28.769 --> 00:41:31.309
worry. It's not in the budget. But like there's

00:41:31.309 --> 00:41:33.409
times where like, yeah, I'm like, and I get on

00:41:33.409 --> 00:41:34.949
the scale, I'm like, oh crap, I lost a couple

00:41:34.949 --> 00:41:42.090
pounds. What's that like? It happens. Just kidding.

00:41:43.809 --> 00:41:47.469
Trigger. Trigger warning. Trigger warning. He'll

00:41:47.469 --> 00:41:49.829
be like, wow, I lost three and a half pounds

00:41:49.829 --> 00:41:51.489
this week. I'm like, really? Because I gained

00:41:51.489 --> 00:41:54.699
five. Because that's a guy. You know those commercials

00:41:54.699 --> 00:41:58.420
that it's like the guys it's it's but that's

00:41:58.420 --> 00:42:00.539
what people don't understand Not only every body

00:42:00.539 --> 00:42:02.980
is different guys are built differently so that

00:42:02.980 --> 00:42:05.699
it's like oh my husband stopped drinking soda

00:42:05.699 --> 00:42:08.219
and lost 30 pounds Meanwhile, i'm busting my

00:42:08.219 --> 00:42:10.360
butt at the gym. I stopped eating all carbs.

00:42:10.360 --> 00:42:12.340
I stopped like i'm only drinking water and i've

00:42:12.340 --> 00:42:15.260
gained weight Yeah, I I mean it doesn't go without

00:42:15.260 --> 00:42:19.949
saying like the amount that hormones affect Women's

00:42:19.949 --> 00:42:22.570
bodies and I'm speaking this as an outsider 100

00:42:22.570 --> 00:42:26.210
% and a girl dad. Yeah that that that's not fair

00:42:26.210 --> 00:42:29.389
like it's it's genuinely not fair and this is

00:42:29.389 --> 00:42:32.070
why I think a lot of people just like I Mean,

00:42:32.070 --> 00:42:34.030
it's not realistic. But like don't look at the

00:42:34.030 --> 00:42:37.369
number on the scale. Yeah, how do you feel? And

00:42:37.369 --> 00:42:39.449
I think that I think that's where you've gotten

00:42:39.449 --> 00:42:42.210
so much better where it's like, yeah the number

00:42:42.210 --> 00:42:44.090
I don't I don't care what the number says. Yeah,

00:42:44.210 --> 00:42:46.110
it's how do I feel like when I wake up and I

00:42:46.110 --> 00:42:48.320
look around especially that that first mirror

00:42:48.320 --> 00:42:50.579
shot in the morning when your body's just been

00:42:50.579 --> 00:42:53.860
metabolizing all morning. Oh my god, I walk around

00:42:53.860 --> 00:42:57.519
with my shirt off every morning. By noon, it's

00:42:57.519 --> 00:43:01.760
back on. Every morning, I'm like, okay, a little

00:43:01.760 --> 00:43:03.619
snug. And then I have a sip of coffee and it's

00:43:03.619 --> 00:43:06.860
like, oh, that's exactly right. I'm like a puffer

00:43:06.860 --> 00:43:11.920
fish. It's horrible. But for those first five

00:43:11.920 --> 00:43:15.880
minutes. So then. So then how are you doing it

00:43:15.880 --> 00:43:18.000
then? Well, go back to how do I anchor you? Because

00:43:18.000 --> 00:43:23.719
we didn't finish that thought. So because I am

00:43:23.719 --> 00:43:26.639
a person to excess and I don't have a routine

00:43:26.639 --> 00:43:31.599
and I'm just kind of freestyling with my situation,

00:43:32.480 --> 00:43:35.619
you give me the structure. Because at any point

00:43:35.619 --> 00:43:38.119
in time, when I go home and it's been a long

00:43:38.119 --> 00:43:40.039
day at work, I don't feel like cooking. I mean,

00:43:40.039 --> 00:43:43.400
I am a air fryer, microwave. kind of guy. I mean,

00:43:43.400 --> 00:43:45.760
I have meals that I cook when I'm, when I had

00:43:45.760 --> 00:43:49.199
the time and want to do so, but it's just so

00:43:49.199 --> 00:43:52.199
much easier for me just to grab like, you know,

00:43:52.360 --> 00:43:56.500
a box pizza or make some horribly terrible for

00:43:56.500 --> 00:44:01.019
me ramen or something like that. But you give

00:44:01.019 --> 00:44:05.739
me options. You, you show me situations where

00:44:05.739 --> 00:44:07.460
it's like, Hey, look, this took five minutes.

00:44:07.460 --> 00:44:10.199
And I was like, this is really good. So you give

00:44:10.199 --> 00:44:13.519
me that balance. At any point in time, you're

00:44:13.519 --> 00:44:15.179
gonna be like, yeah, let's order. And you're

00:44:15.179 --> 00:44:17.079
like, no, I just want the Trader Joe's. We got

00:44:17.079 --> 00:44:18.519
a whole bunch of veggies and stuff like that.

00:44:18.760 --> 00:44:22.039
I think our thing now is a Sunday morning breakfast.

00:44:22.300 --> 00:44:25.900
Yeah. Oh, I know. I saw pictures. It's not fair.

00:44:26.539 --> 00:44:29.719
It's not bad. No, I know. I would like some.

00:44:31.839 --> 00:44:34.619
They only have Sunday breakfast on the every

00:44:34.619 --> 00:44:36.599
other Sunday when I'm teaching, so I'm never

00:44:36.599 --> 00:44:38.460
allowed to come because I will be working when

00:44:38.460 --> 00:44:40.260
they have Sunday breakfast. We can make you like

00:44:40.260 --> 00:44:43.260
a burrito to go. No, I want the salmon and the...

00:44:43.260 --> 00:44:45.119
Oh, the lox. Yes. Yeah, the lox with the... That's

00:44:45.119 --> 00:44:46.539
like my favorite breakfast ever. The peppers

00:44:46.539 --> 00:44:48.300
and onions. Yes. Something like that, yeah. Yeah,

00:44:48.300 --> 00:44:51.480
we'll do a Dave's bread. He makes the eggs because

00:44:51.480 --> 00:44:52.739
I burn it. I don't know, I'll make it again.

00:44:52.739 --> 00:44:54.699
Well, not anymore. We got a new pan. Super excited

00:44:54.699 --> 00:44:55.980
about it. You're not burning that no more. Yes,

00:44:55.980 --> 00:45:03.420
that's true. We got a ninja pan. Yep. Oh. He

00:45:03.420 --> 00:45:06.780
kicked. He kicked like a ninja. Uh yeah. Anyway,

00:45:06.780 --> 00:45:08.420
we have a really healthy. I got bad knees so

00:45:08.420 --> 00:45:11.980
that's as good as I got right now. Healthy, good

00:45:11.980 --> 00:45:15.559
breakfast every other Sunday but it's also nice

00:45:15.559 --> 00:45:21.079
to be in the kitchen together to do it and yeah,

00:45:21.079 --> 00:45:22.760
you're right. I think I say that a lot to you

00:45:22.760 --> 00:45:24.159
where he's like, I don't know. I just don't feel

00:45:24.159 --> 00:45:26.139
like it. I'm like, but I, we went food shopping

00:45:26.139 --> 00:45:28.219
or you have enough food. You have stuff in the

00:45:28.219 --> 00:45:31.380
freezer. Let's just make something and I do,

00:45:31.460 --> 00:45:33.519
I think I do have a good skill of making something

00:45:33.519 --> 00:45:37.280
healthier and choosing that option when you would

00:45:37.280 --> 00:45:40.440
easily go the other way. The bad option is almost

00:45:40.440 --> 00:45:44.280
always the easier pick. Oh, my gosh. It's always.

00:45:44.599 --> 00:45:48.280
So I always attribute to going to the gym. Once

00:45:48.280 --> 00:45:50.579
you're at the gym, you're fine. I'm here. I'm

00:45:50.579 --> 00:45:53.300
glad I'm here. Even if you had a good or bad

00:45:53.300 --> 00:45:55.719
workout, you're like, eh, at least I moved. It's

00:45:55.719 --> 00:45:58.250
getting to the gym that sucks. Yes. Like I've

00:45:58.250 --> 00:46:00.949
done so many different variations where I've

00:46:00.949 --> 00:46:03.869
secretly built a hidden gym at my work. There's

00:46:03.869 --> 00:46:05.550
like this locker room that it's abandoned and

00:46:05.550 --> 00:46:07.610
I built a gym in there. I was like, cause if

00:46:07.610 --> 00:46:09.510
I'm already at work and I'm already sweaty and

00:46:09.510 --> 00:46:11.869
if I just go work out, cause I'm not going to

00:46:11.869 --> 00:46:14.269
want to go to a gym and then get changed and

00:46:14.269 --> 00:46:15.670
then work out and then go home. I don't want

00:46:15.670 --> 00:46:18.349
to do all that. Yeah. But you guys all should.

00:46:18.610 --> 00:46:21.550
You should. Absolutely. Yeah. No, do what works

00:46:21.550 --> 00:46:24.869
for you. Okay. We're not sitting here. We're

00:46:24.869 --> 00:46:28.719
no better than you. Do what works for you. This

00:46:28.719 --> 00:46:33.280
taco. This taco. I love it so much. No, but I

00:46:33.280 --> 00:46:34.820
think that's true. The hardest part is getting

00:46:34.820 --> 00:46:36.639
there. Yeah. The hardest part is making it. The

00:46:36.639 --> 00:46:39.760
hardest part is actually the hardest part is

00:46:39.760 --> 00:46:56.510
the decision. So. No, no. I will be cutting that

00:46:56.510 --> 00:46:59.590
and putting that on loop. Okay. We're going to

00:46:59.590 --> 00:47:03.489
step up our TikTok game and these little spirals,

00:47:03.489 --> 00:47:05.869
if you will. I'm going to want to get canceled,

00:47:05.869 --> 00:47:07.590
but then I was going to, I was going to finish

00:47:07.590 --> 00:47:10.289
it with today, Junior. Cause that's a line from

00:47:10.289 --> 00:47:12.469
a movie, but I feel like you get canceled for

00:47:12.469 --> 00:47:15.090
saying that. There's so many, there's so well,

00:47:15.369 --> 00:47:18.329
I don't, I don't necessarily believe in cancellation

00:47:18.329 --> 00:47:22.219
anymore. Would you cancel me for that? No. Oh,

00:47:22.239 --> 00:47:24.440
everything else you've said, yes. Yeah, so much

00:47:24.440 --> 00:47:29.079
so. But okay, so let's taco about it. Let's taco

00:47:29.079 --> 00:47:33.599
about it. It gets worse. The decision to get

00:47:33.599 --> 00:47:35.880
the food and be like, I am going to make dinner

00:47:35.880 --> 00:47:38.219
is the hardest part. The decision to say, you

00:47:38.219 --> 00:47:40.019
know what, I'm going to the gym. There's been

00:47:40.019 --> 00:47:42.400
times where I've woken up, like on a Saturday,

00:47:42.480 --> 00:47:43.719
I was like, you know what, I don't got nothing

00:47:43.719 --> 00:47:46.559
going on today. I was like, no, I'm very much

00:47:46.559 --> 00:47:50.119
one of those people where I will placate the

00:47:50.119 --> 00:47:51.920
situation in my mind. I don't know if that's

00:47:51.920 --> 00:47:53.699
the right word, but it just sounded nice. Yeah.

00:47:54.480 --> 00:47:57.639
Um, it does. It is. It is. SAT prep, baby. SAT

00:47:57.639 --> 00:48:00.659
prep. But like, I'll, I'll, I'll put myself in

00:48:00.659 --> 00:48:03.059
a situation. I was like, I'll imagine me like

00:48:03.059 --> 00:48:04.340
getting up, getting dressed, one of the things,

00:48:04.340 --> 00:48:07.039
and then I'll judge my body's kind of emotional

00:48:07.039 --> 00:48:10.679
reaction. Wait, I've done that before. I've visualized

00:48:10.679 --> 00:48:13.760
getting dressed, getting up and like doing the

00:48:13.760 --> 00:48:15.119
thing before I do it. And then you see how you

00:48:15.119 --> 00:48:17.039
feel. And you're like, you know what? That doesn't

00:48:17.039 --> 00:48:19.380
make me want to cringe. And then it's easy to

00:48:19.380 --> 00:48:21.139
get into that. Now, unfortunately, nine times

00:48:21.139 --> 00:48:22.460
out of 10, I'm like, yeah, I'm not doing all

00:48:22.460 --> 00:48:24.699
that. But I've done that before. That's so weird.

00:48:24.800 --> 00:48:25.880
I think it's a product. It's definitely a product

00:48:25.880 --> 00:48:28.679
of ADHD -ness. Sweet. Where it's just like, I'm

00:48:28.679 --> 00:48:30.480
just like, I have a lot of things going on here,

00:48:30.480 --> 00:48:34.760
but now I'm just like, ah, OK, yeah. And it sucks

00:48:34.760 --> 00:48:36.460
because so many of these things that are either

00:48:36.460 --> 00:48:39.900
true or not true, or just they fall into cliches.

00:48:40.380 --> 00:48:42.619
And it's so easy to dismiss them because you

00:48:42.619 --> 00:48:45.500
feel like cliches or because they feel like cliches.

00:48:45.500 --> 00:48:50.090
Like what? you know, everybody's different. Everybody's

00:48:50.090 --> 00:48:52.789
body's different. What works for one person doesn't

00:48:52.789 --> 00:48:55.130
work for the other person. And those are all,

00:48:55.210 --> 00:48:57.909
as far as I know, are very true statements. You

00:48:57.909 --> 00:49:00.110
know, I know people that can eat like crazy and

00:49:00.110 --> 00:49:02.190
people that can look at a salad and be like,

00:49:02.289 --> 00:49:04.829
well, there's four pounds. Like, there's so many

00:49:04.829 --> 00:49:07.710
factors, so many variables, and it's rough and

00:49:07.710 --> 00:49:10.550
it's a journey. And we're all trying to do just

00:49:10.550 --> 00:49:13.210
a little better. But I also think that being

00:49:13.210 --> 00:49:16.079
in a new relationship, having done it myself,

00:49:16.559 --> 00:49:20.550
it's okay. to gain those, it's like the freshman

00:49:20.550 --> 00:49:24.190
15. It's okay to do that in the beginning as

00:49:24.190 --> 00:49:27.230
long as you can come to an understanding or figure

00:49:27.230 --> 00:49:30.309
out a routine where that 15 doesn't happen to

00:49:30.309 --> 00:49:32.989
30, doesn't happen to 45, and it keeps going

00:49:32.989 --> 00:49:34.730
because then you're a completely different person.

00:49:35.190 --> 00:49:36.670
Is the beginning a year? Yeah, yeah, yeah, the

00:49:36.670 --> 00:49:39.590
beginning's a year. Can we make that a year?

00:49:40.150 --> 00:49:42.690
We're gonna figure it out. But the part of it

00:49:42.690 --> 00:49:45.309
is figuring it out. Yeah, and I think early on,

00:49:45.389 --> 00:49:47.530
It's because it's kind of like love bombing.

00:49:47.809 --> 00:49:50.929
Yeah, with food. Yeah, exactly. And that just

00:49:50.929 --> 00:49:53.809
happened to be like our early... I made you...

00:49:53.809 --> 00:49:55.590
He was like, can you stop making me baked goods,

00:49:55.670 --> 00:49:59.769
please? Oh, my God. But they were so good. They

00:49:59.769 --> 00:50:02.449
were. She was crushing the bake game. And I'm

00:50:02.449 --> 00:50:04.769
not a sweet person. Yes, I've heard. I'll never

00:50:04.769 --> 00:50:08.030
ask you to eat sugar ever. No, no, I will. I

00:50:08.030 --> 00:50:10.949
will. Okay, we don't need zero to a hundred with

00:50:10.949 --> 00:50:14.630
you people. I was like, yeah, I don't love peanut

00:50:14.630 --> 00:50:17.590
butter. And she wrote in her phone a note, Pedro

00:50:17.590 --> 00:50:20.469
despises peanut butter, can't be in the same

00:50:20.469 --> 00:50:22.590
room. I was like, no, like I'll eat like a frozen

00:50:22.590 --> 00:50:24.650
Snickers every once in a while, but I'm not a

00:50:24.650 --> 00:50:26.110
Reese's fan. So then I made a frozen Snickers.

00:50:26.130 --> 00:50:31.690
Yeah, exactly. I made a homemade frozen Snickers

00:50:31.690 --> 00:50:36.309
and it was bomb. But to the point to going to

00:50:36.309 --> 00:50:39.539
what you were saying, it was a lot of taking

00:50:39.539 --> 00:50:41.559
me out to restaurants. I was making you baked

00:50:41.559 --> 00:50:44.460
goods. It was a lot of food. It went crazy, yeah,

00:50:44.460 --> 00:50:46.559
early on. And again, that's where we're like,

00:50:46.679 --> 00:50:50.840
okay, it's been a lot. Yeah. Reel it in. Reel

00:50:50.840 --> 00:50:52.699
it in a little bit. But I think it's okay. I

00:50:52.699 --> 00:50:55.340
don't think there's anything wrong with gaining

00:50:55.340 --> 00:50:57.260
weight in a new relationship. I just think you

00:50:57.260 --> 00:50:59.699
need to know when to reel it in. Well, yeah,

00:50:59.860 --> 00:51:02.900
I think it's, again, it's, I think you've said

00:51:02.900 --> 00:51:04.719
this a couple times on the past, it's happy weight.

00:51:05.780 --> 00:51:10.420
I've gained... I think I'm around the, I fluctuate

00:51:10.420 --> 00:51:12.880
between like the six to 10 pound range from when

00:51:12.880 --> 00:51:16.059
we first met. That's cute. Shut up. Shut up.

00:51:16.099 --> 00:51:17.880
I've gained weight since you guys started dating

00:51:17.880 --> 00:51:22.619
today. From licking your phone. But I think I,

00:51:22.699 --> 00:51:24.960
so I'm thinking about everything we're saying

00:51:24.960 --> 00:51:27.760
and like, where is the, where is the help to

00:51:27.760 --> 00:51:29.840
all of this other than resonating for like people

00:51:29.840 --> 00:51:32.119
listening being like, wow, me too. Yeah. And

00:51:32.119 --> 00:51:34.320
that's nice to hear. I think that's, and that's

00:51:34.320 --> 00:51:37.420
what I love about this podcast where it's, it's

00:51:37.400 --> 00:51:40.519
It's not you preaching about what you should

00:51:40.519 --> 00:51:42.860
do and how you're doing something wrong. It's

00:51:42.860 --> 00:51:45.039
like, yeah, like we all have issues. We all have

00:51:45.039 --> 00:51:46.719
things that we're dealing with. It's perfectly

00:51:46.719 --> 00:51:49.320
normal. It's, you know, like, yeah, we're all

00:51:49.320 --> 00:51:51.519
struggling with this. Yeah. Figuring it out,

00:51:51.719 --> 00:51:55.360
but. There's I think how how do we do it you

00:51:55.360 --> 00:51:57.079
keep saying like how do you do it? How do you

00:51:57.079 --> 00:51:59.960
balance? How do you do this? I think very early

00:51:59.960 --> 00:52:02.300
on even though we were eating a lot more going

00:52:02.300 --> 00:52:05.440
out or my routine was very different It was normal

00:52:05.440 --> 00:52:07.900
for you. It was normal for me, but not normal

00:52:07.900 --> 00:52:11.260
for me to go out to eat Let alone go out on a

00:52:11.260 --> 00:52:13.380
Thursday to eat. Yeah, like that's a Saturday

00:52:13.380 --> 00:52:16.099
Sunday thing So like a lot of new things for

00:52:16.099 --> 00:52:19.380
me and a lot of new things for you and how I

00:52:19.380 --> 00:52:24.840
am different for you It is so important to have

00:52:24.840 --> 00:52:30.219
your other in the situation support you no matter

00:52:30.219 --> 00:52:32.519
what. Like we got to that conversation, I think

00:52:32.519 --> 00:52:34.340
it was around Thanksgiving where I broke down.

00:52:34.400 --> 00:52:38.539
Where I was like. Oh I remember. It was. I remember.

00:52:39.380 --> 00:52:42.300
It was November of meeting in July and doing

00:52:42.300 --> 00:52:44.920
all the things and I had gained 15 at that point.

00:52:45.079 --> 00:52:48.760
I'm at 30 if you're wondering. But. It's a different

00:52:48.760 --> 00:52:50.900
mentality while I do want to get rid of it and

00:52:50.900 --> 00:52:53.920
I do want to feel better about myself at that

00:52:53.920 --> 00:52:56.239
conversation of trying to put on clothes to go

00:52:56.239 --> 00:52:58.320
to a family Thanksgiving, which is not a big

00:52:58.320 --> 00:52:59.900
deal. He was like, you want to put on sweatpants?

00:53:00.039 --> 00:53:01.880
I'll go home and get sweatpants. We'll wear sweatpants

00:53:01.880 --> 00:53:04.739
together. Having the support of being like, I

00:53:04.739 --> 00:53:08.019
hear you. I don't agree with you because you're,

00:53:08.019 --> 00:53:10.420
you know, I see you differently, but I hear you

00:53:10.420 --> 00:53:13.480
and let's we'll make some changes. And it's.

00:53:13.530 --> 00:53:15.929
gonna be fine because I'm not going anywhere

00:53:15.929 --> 00:53:17.630
and blah, blah, blah, blah. Like all the validation

00:53:17.630 --> 00:53:22.889
that you need in a supportive relationship to

00:53:22.889 --> 00:53:25.429
go through those changes together is how we do

00:53:25.429 --> 00:53:27.949
it. I'm laughing because I'm picturing. Because

00:53:27.949 --> 00:53:32.389
you're a brat. No, because I'm picturing myself

00:53:32.389 --> 00:53:34.769
because just like Pedro. Hold on, are you about

00:53:34.769 --> 00:53:36.610
to monologue right now? Yeah. You know what?

00:53:36.869 --> 00:53:38.210
I'm gonna need the mic. Give me that microphone.

00:53:38.210 --> 00:53:39.570
I'm gonna need the microphone. Oh my God, my

00:53:39.570 --> 00:53:46.710
arm is so tired. I'm laughing because Pedro did

00:53:46.710 --> 00:53:48.690
say like, I don't, you know, you look beautiful

00:53:48.690 --> 00:53:51.789
and he said like all the right things, but you

00:53:51.789 --> 00:53:55.809
will always be six five looking down to Victoria.

00:53:56.050 --> 00:54:01.960
He's six four. Sorry, six four. I was 212 pounds

00:54:01.960 --> 00:54:06.639
looking down on Andrew being like, I will eat

00:54:06.639 --> 00:54:11.300
you for lunch and still be hungry. And he was

00:54:11.300 --> 00:54:13.480
like, Oh, I didn't even notice that you gained

00:54:13.480 --> 00:54:17.780
weight. I was like, I'm 212 pounds. Are you joking

00:54:17.780 --> 00:54:21.840
me right now? And he, but that's why it's so

00:54:21.840 --> 00:54:24.280
important because he was like, after I lost the

00:54:24.280 --> 00:54:26.849
weight, I was like, Andrew, Why didn't you say

00:54:26.849 --> 00:54:29.710
anything? He's like, well, like, I mean, you

00:54:29.710 --> 00:54:32.869
looked great. And I'm like, oh my god. Good answer.

00:54:33.110 --> 00:54:36.469
Yeah, I mean, the only right answer. Only if

00:54:36.469 --> 00:54:40.829
it's true. Don't say shit if it's not true. Don't

00:54:40.829 --> 00:54:44.909
lie to me. This is a podcast episode that I'm

00:54:44.909 --> 00:54:47.610
kind of secretly working on. I've made some phone

00:54:47.610 --> 00:54:53.289
calls to see if we can get a lie detector. Oh,

00:54:53.289 --> 00:54:57.559
no. To sit in. I'll fail. I'm the biggest liar

00:54:57.559 --> 00:55:02.980
in the world. Well, because again, I think our

00:55:02.980 --> 00:55:07.119
perception of each other is also very different.

00:55:07.219 --> 00:55:09.519
How we perceive ourselves is one thing. Yes.

00:55:09.519 --> 00:55:12.960
Because again, I think this is what we share

00:55:12.960 --> 00:55:17.380
a lot, is where we're like, you know what? My

00:55:17.380 --> 00:55:20.519
morning mirror session. wasn't that great. Right,

00:55:20.579 --> 00:55:22.099
right, right. So I was like, I was like, ah,

00:55:22.300 --> 00:55:24.119
yeah, you know what, mm, you know what, all right,

00:55:24.420 --> 00:55:26.960
maybe next week, I kind of like, I curb a couple

00:55:26.960 --> 00:55:29.519
things, let me adjust a little bit. And she is

00:55:29.519 --> 00:55:31.920
just like, the hell are you talking about? You

00:55:31.920 --> 00:55:33.820
look great. Yeah. Like, I love this, don't do

00:55:33.820 --> 00:55:37.239
a thing, no notes. And I was like, I was like,

00:55:37.840 --> 00:55:41.039
eh, no, no. But when I do it to her, she was

00:55:41.039 --> 00:55:44.130
like. You're a liar. I totally agree. Don't lie

00:55:44.130 --> 00:55:47.690
to me with that face. Yeah, you're a liar No,

00:55:47.809 --> 00:55:51.489
like I'm genuinely I look at you and like to

00:55:51.489 --> 00:55:55.929
me you are exactly how I met you Like everything

00:55:55.929 --> 00:55:58.409
is like there's nothing that's like pulling me

00:55:58.409 --> 00:56:00.869
away from right? You're beautiful. You're amazing.

00:56:00.989 --> 00:56:04.829
I love you. You're great Do you can't get promoted?

00:56:05.289 --> 00:56:08.210
Like you already don't get paid and you're the

00:56:08.210 --> 00:56:10.829
head of this podcast. You can't get promoted

00:56:12.480 --> 00:56:15.099
Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. That's right. Exactly.

00:56:15.119 --> 00:56:21.599
Exactly. I mean, he could put a ring on it. That's

00:56:21.599 --> 00:56:24.179
promotion. Look at him. Wait, let's stare at

00:56:24.179 --> 00:56:26.300
him. I'm just looking at all the nice things

00:56:26.300 --> 00:56:29.340
I've bought her over the past year. You know,

00:56:29.480 --> 00:56:32.159
like trips to Puerto Rico, Dolly Parton books.

00:56:32.699 --> 00:56:34.900
I paid him for that trip. This is turning into

00:56:34.900 --> 00:56:42.400
a different podcast on this, on this. Theme?

00:56:42.400 --> 00:56:46.019
Note? Wait, I also did want to say, how do you

00:56:46.019 --> 00:56:50.159
speak cooler? How do you, you're older than me.

00:56:50.159 --> 00:56:51.880
How do you speak cooler than I do? He was like,

00:56:51.980 --> 00:56:53.340
no notes. I was like, damn it. How did he know

00:56:53.340 --> 00:56:55.639
how to say that? All he says is bet and offer

00:56:55.639 --> 00:56:57.579
it. And I was like, can you give me a breakdown

00:56:57.579 --> 00:56:59.159
of what you're saying? Well, first of all, all

00:56:59.159 --> 00:57:00.840
right, first of all, I have a daughter who's

00:57:00.840 --> 00:57:04.820
19. So I am hip with the lingo. Fresh to death.

00:57:05.440 --> 00:57:08.380
Oh, it's not fresh to death. It's fresh to death.

00:57:09.480 --> 00:57:11.679
You know what, Fresh to Death does make more

00:57:11.679 --> 00:57:16.519
sense. Now that we say this out loud. I'm taking

00:57:16.519 --> 00:57:18.920
everything I've ever said to you back. I'm taking

00:57:18.920 --> 00:57:22.280
it back. I'm cool until I lose my hearing. Well,

00:57:22.300 --> 00:57:26.099
he's a weekend DJ who blasts some serious music,

00:57:26.139 --> 00:57:28.300
so it's possible he does not hear correctly.

00:57:29.039 --> 00:57:32.239
For the record, I DJ on other days, not just

00:57:32.239 --> 00:57:40.000
the weekends. Can't you tell? Look at his outfit.

00:57:40.039 --> 00:57:44.980
He's a sweet DJ. Fresh to death, huh? No. I will

00:57:44.980 --> 00:57:48.179
always say fresh to death from now on. We're

00:57:48.179 --> 00:57:51.940
going to play the dating game really quickly.

00:57:54.840 --> 00:57:57.739
Yeah, you guys have to say it into the microphone

00:57:57.739 --> 00:58:01.960
on three. These are yes or no answers. The point

00:58:01.960 --> 00:58:04.920
is to both say yes or both say no. The point

00:58:04.920 --> 00:58:08.960
is not to have different answers, okay? Well,

00:58:08.960 --> 00:58:11.320
I'll purchase some little dry erase boards for

00:58:11.320 --> 00:58:15.280
future games. Awesome. For free. I mean, free

00:58:15.280 --> 00:58:18.719
to you, maybe. We're going to monetize this at

00:58:18.719 --> 00:58:23.280
some point. OK. Buy the merch. Yes, soon. Oh,

00:58:23.280 --> 00:58:25.780
no, we have it. It's on the list. Buy the merch

00:58:25.780 --> 00:58:30.079
now. Don't wait. Don't wait. All right. So you're

00:58:30.079 --> 00:58:34.489
answering this for the other person. Like what

00:58:34.489 --> 00:58:38.250
you believe they would say yes or no. All right.

00:58:39.769 --> 00:58:42.409
Do they believe in extraterrestrial life? Yes.

00:58:43.550 --> 00:58:47.929
Faster, Victoria. Do they believe in ghosts?

00:58:48.050 --> 00:58:53.530
Yes. Do they believe in God? No. Mom doesn't

00:58:53.530 --> 00:58:56.889
listen to this. Okay. No, no, this is rapid.

00:58:58.210 --> 00:59:02.659
Easter is going to be real weird. Have they tried

00:59:02.659 --> 00:59:06.579
any extreme sports? No. No. You're late. It's

00:59:06.579 --> 00:59:09.079
a one, two, three. I have to think. Give us a

00:59:09.079 --> 00:59:10.980
one, two, three. Okay. Do they consider themselves

00:59:10.980 --> 00:59:14.219
a risk taker? No. No. I'm just going to go like

00:59:14.219 --> 00:59:19.420
this. Oh, this is a good one. Would they consider

00:59:19.420 --> 00:59:22.400
trying exotic delicacies like insects or snakes?

00:59:22.940 --> 00:59:28.739
Yes. Oh, he cringed. Well, insects, maybe not,

00:59:28.780 --> 00:59:30.840
snake. I've had snake before. You said yes. Chocolate

00:59:30.840 --> 00:59:33.679
cover and almond. Have they had a supernatural

00:59:33.679 --> 00:59:37.039
or paranormal experience? Yes. Yes. Oh. Have

00:59:37.039 --> 00:59:40.139
they ever gone skinny dipping? No. No. Have they

00:59:40.139 --> 00:59:42.679
ever had a near -death experience? Yes. Yes.

00:59:44.079 --> 00:59:49.780
Cool. We are locked in right now. I can't even

00:59:49.780 --> 00:59:52.179
see you because of your taco shell. This is good.

00:59:52.300 --> 00:59:55.059
This is like the actual data game. That's exactly

00:59:55.059 --> 00:59:57.949
right. If we match, I will turn the corner. Oh,

00:59:57.949 --> 01:00:00.670
do they believe in having regular family dinners

01:00:00.670 --> 01:00:07.449
or meals together? Yes. No. Fair. I forgot I

01:00:07.449 --> 01:00:09.550
was answering for you. Have they ever had embarrassing

01:00:09.550 --> 01:00:14.070
nicknames? Yes. Do they believe in the importance

01:00:14.070 --> 01:00:18.650
of family traditions? Yes. Yeah. Have they ever

01:00:18.650 --> 01:00:23.250
called a boss by the wrong name? Oh. One, two,

01:00:23.489 --> 01:00:26.820
three. No. I have no idea. I don't know. Have

01:00:26.820 --> 01:00:30.480
they ever forgotten the other's birthday? Yes.

01:00:30.480 --> 01:00:33.500
Yes. Oh my god, I said no. I said no for both

01:00:33.500 --> 01:00:34.699
of you. He's forgotten mine. I've never forgotten

01:00:34.699 --> 01:00:37.179
his. I'm still trying to... There you go. This

01:00:37.179 --> 01:00:39.340
is a segue for you to wipe your nose. When's

01:00:39.340 --> 01:00:45.579
my birthday? Sweet. When's my birthday? It's

01:00:45.579 --> 01:00:48.300
such a dad thing to forget, though. And he's

01:00:48.300 --> 01:00:50.320
a dad. I don't remember anybody's birthday. When's

01:00:50.320 --> 01:00:57.090
my birthday? Third? Nope. 26th? Yes, 26th. When's

01:00:57.090 --> 01:00:58.909
my birthday? If you get this right, I swear to

01:00:58.909 --> 01:01:02.530
God. When's my birthday, Pedro? October? Yeah.

01:01:02.710 --> 01:01:07.250
What? I don't remember. I've genuinely, it's

01:01:07.250 --> 01:01:09.289
later, right? It's 20th something. Pick a date.

01:01:10.429 --> 01:01:13.989
24th? You failed. That was like two of three.

01:01:14.349 --> 01:01:17.429
21st. You must break up. Okay. Have you ever,

01:01:17.449 --> 01:01:19.530
have they ever broken up with someone over a

01:01:19.530 --> 01:01:24.949
text message? Yep. Oh, have you? The other person.

01:01:28.449 --> 01:01:30.929
That's another episode. Okay. Are they a morning

01:01:30.929 --> 01:01:35.670
person? No. Just because it's what we do doesn't

01:01:35.670 --> 01:01:38.989
mean it's what we prefer. It's a yes or no. Do

01:01:38.989 --> 01:01:45.369
they have any habits that annoy you? Yeah. Cool.

01:01:45.530 --> 01:01:47.409
I'd like to know what these are later. Have they

01:01:47.409 --> 01:01:51.619
ever been fired from a job? Yeah. Cool. Isn't

01:01:51.619 --> 01:01:54.760
everybody? No, I've never been fired from a job.

01:01:54.960 --> 01:01:56.300
You've never been fired from a job? I've never

01:01:56.300 --> 01:01:58.380
been fired from a job. No, you can't. I'm amazing.

01:01:58.900 --> 01:02:00.659
Well, when you work for family, they can't really

01:02:00.659 --> 01:02:02.860
fire you. They just see you at Sunday dinner.

01:02:03.340 --> 01:02:08.219
Our family's very different. All right, guess

01:02:08.219 --> 01:02:13.079
what? Chicken butt. Do they think that Carly

01:02:13.079 --> 01:02:19.340
is their favorite Seafit sister? No. No. Shout

01:02:19.340 --> 01:02:24.260
out Melody. Do they think? Hey! Shout out Melody.

01:02:24.280 --> 01:02:26.920
You said Melody! Guess what guys? Did I get that?

01:02:27.440 --> 01:02:32.800
You won! Yay! Come get in the show, girl. I'm

01:02:32.800 --> 01:02:35.400
disgusted. This is disgusting to me. I cannot

01:02:35.400 --> 01:02:36.539
- Can you just do the rest of the podcast like

01:02:36.539 --> 01:02:40.320
this? I cannot talk like this any longer. This

01:02:40.320 --> 01:02:42.119
actually grosses me out. Do we really get her?

01:02:42.739 --> 01:02:45.059
Nope. They do this all the time and it grosses

01:02:45.059 --> 01:02:48.059
me out. I can't watch. I can't hear it. I can't

01:02:48.059 --> 01:02:50.840
wait for the Andrew episode. I can't wait. The

01:02:50.840 --> 01:02:52.739
Andrew episode is going to be so good. You missed

01:02:52.739 --> 01:02:56.840
it. That was in the beginning. No, that was Spiegelworld.

01:02:57.559 --> 01:03:00.320
That's true. We're doing this with Andrew. I'm

01:03:00.320 --> 01:03:06.579
going to, I have to go now. So end this. Well,

01:03:06.780 --> 01:03:09.860
thank you, Pedro. Carly is late for a doctor's

01:03:09.860 --> 01:03:12.619
appointment for her son. Doctor's appointment.

01:03:14.059 --> 01:03:19.139
Priorities. Adulting. Priorities. We hope that

01:03:19.139 --> 01:03:22.159
you resonated with anything about anything that

01:03:22.159 --> 01:03:25.019
we said, and if not, go to Laser Wolf. Carly

01:03:25.019 --> 01:03:27.960
will be there tonight. Yeah. Just shout her out

01:03:27.960 --> 01:03:29.380
real loud. We want to thank you. Although this

01:03:29.380 --> 01:03:32.039
podcast won't be out until next week. Next Monday.

01:03:32.539 --> 01:03:35.079
Next Tuesday. Next Monday. So we want to thank

01:03:35.079 --> 01:03:37.519
you for helping us with everything. Of course.

01:03:37.599 --> 01:03:40.179
We also want to find out what things you said

01:03:40.179 --> 01:03:43.440
annoy you. And we want to remind you all that

01:03:43.440 --> 01:03:46.719
you're always fit to be real. And a little extra.

01:03:46.940 --> 01:04:16.019
Hey guys. But it's over. Auga. I can't. please

01:04:16.019 --> 01:04:18.239
refer to the medical professional in your life,

01:04:18.559 --> 01:04:20.599
your primary care physician, your therapist,

01:04:20.820 --> 01:04:23.900
a certified coach, whoever it may be. And then

01:04:23.900 --> 01:04:25.920
let us know what they say because I guarantee

01:04:25.920 --> 01:04:29.739
we need to know it too. Okay? Okay, bye.