WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.740 Are you ready? Am I ever ready? No, we just do 00:00:03.740 --> 00:00:13.720 it and see what happens. Welcome to Fit to be 00:00:13.720 --> 00:00:18.320 Real and a little extra. I'm Victoria. Hey guys, 00:00:18.420 --> 00:00:22.300 I'm Carly and we have a very special guest who 00:00:22.300 --> 00:00:25.059 has now been with us three times? Four or five 00:00:25.059 --> 00:00:28.679 actually. This is our third Four times? Yeah, 00:00:28.739 --> 00:00:31.620 because this is our third unpopular opinion and 00:00:31.620 --> 00:00:33.899 he did one actual where he taught us something. 00:00:34.079 --> 00:00:36.920 So I think this is his fourth. I don't remember 00:00:36.920 --> 00:00:40.100 any of that. Hi Justin! Hi! I think that's wrong, 00:00:40.259 --> 00:00:42.000 but okay, we'll go with it. Definitely wrong. 00:00:42.219 --> 00:00:44.359 Really? We've only done one unpopular opinion. 00:00:44.520 --> 00:00:49.100 Yeah. Ever. This is our second. So we're doing 00:00:49.100 --> 00:00:55.729 unpopular opinions today! Sorry, it's taken us 00:00:55.729 --> 00:00:58.229 about five minutes to get it together so we could 00:00:58.229 --> 00:01:02.149 say Where we were today. We're here. We're getting 00:01:02.149 --> 00:01:07.230 it together We're we are What's up, Justin? Not 00:01:07.230 --> 00:01:10.189 much just questioning everything. So it's good. 00:01:10.489 --> 00:01:15.549 We're good. So if you all are our video watchers 00:01:15.689 --> 00:01:17.609 You'll know that this is just audio for today. 00:01:17.730 --> 00:01:19.310 We're having a little bit of a technical difficulty. 00:01:19.469 --> 00:01:22.250 But also know that Justin, it's been since January, 00:01:22.310 --> 00:01:25.290 and Justin had no idea we did video. I'm a little 00:01:25.290 --> 00:01:28.469 behind. And he had no idea he was in the video. 00:01:28.569 --> 00:01:31.870 So if you know, you know. Yeah. Apparently, I've 00:01:31.870 --> 00:01:34.810 been in every video, but the one I'm actually 00:01:34.810 --> 00:01:38.209 at. So that's exactly right. Yeah. Carly actually 00:01:38.209 --> 00:01:42.500 put some microphone up to your face. When I ask 00:01:42.500 --> 00:01:44.260 science -based questions and I'm like, I don't 00:01:44.260 --> 00:01:46.319 know Let's ask dr. Justin and I put the microphone 00:01:46.319 --> 00:01:48.659 literally up to your face. You would know if 00:01:48.659 --> 00:01:50.700 you watch them. You're such a great friend I've 00:01:50.700 --> 00:01:53.920 decided I'm gonna make a podcast after the podcast 00:01:53.920 --> 00:01:56.840 and call it like fit to be discussed or fit to 00:01:56.840 --> 00:01:59.780 be analyzed because I Listen to the podcast and 00:01:59.780 --> 00:02:01.700 then just make comments on the things you say 00:02:01.700 --> 00:02:05.420 and I'm like, oh Carly Wait like a reaction video. 00:02:05.640 --> 00:02:08.719 Yes, I need to look into this. Is it like a fact 00:02:08.719 --> 00:02:11.669 -checking like Carly you're wrong like fact -checking 00:02:11.669 --> 00:02:14.629 or just the commentary? Yes, but it's never like, 00:02:14.930 --> 00:02:16.409 not about the content. You're always right about 00:02:16.409 --> 00:02:18.810 the content. It's just the random things you 00:02:18.810 --> 00:02:22.150 say about nothing that is - So it's my personality 00:02:22.150 --> 00:02:25.129 you want to comment on. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. That's 00:02:25.129 --> 00:02:26.669 pretty much it. I think you can just do an Instagram 00:02:26.669 --> 00:02:28.169 video. Yeah, I think I should do that. I don't 00:02:28.169 --> 00:02:29.810 think you'd do a whole pocket. I mean, you can, 00:02:29.889 --> 00:02:32.330 but I think you need an Instagram dedicated to 00:02:32.330 --> 00:02:37.530 it. A what? Okay. An Instagram. I didn't give 00:02:37.530 --> 00:02:39.629 you the microphone so hopefully we couldn't hear 00:02:39.629 --> 00:02:43.030 you. We were sharing two microphones out of three 00:02:43.030 --> 00:02:47.520 people and I'm in charge. I'm the captain now. 00:02:48.620 --> 00:02:50.699 Guys, this is how it's been for the past five 00:02:50.699 --> 00:02:52.759 minutes and we could not record because we were 00:02:52.759 --> 00:02:55.300 laughing so hard. So that's about how this is 00:02:55.300 --> 00:02:57.560 gonna go down today. Why are you yelling? I don't 00:02:57.560 --> 00:02:59.680 know. We're all like huddled together around 00:02:59.680 --> 00:03:02.719 a campfire, heads are touching and she is yelling. 00:03:03.120 --> 00:03:05.539 I have a concussion, guys. I hit my head putting 00:03:05.539 --> 00:03:08.120 Easter decorations away and Justin rolled up 00:03:08.120 --> 00:03:11.360 and I was like. Dr. Justin, feel my head. Do 00:03:11.360 --> 00:03:13.360 I have a concussion? I wasn't even out of the 00:03:13.360 --> 00:03:14.919 car yet. I know. He was like, yes, you have to 00:03:14.919 --> 00:03:18.020 teach tonight. You're fine. Oh my god, the fact 00:03:18.020 --> 00:03:22.120 that you can't teach alone, Justin. I want to 00:03:22.120 --> 00:03:26.099 teach alone. And so does my class. No one asks 00:03:26.099 --> 00:03:28.039 for Carly up there. No, I feel like they do with 00:03:28.039 --> 00:03:32.340 their eyes. Unpopular opinion. Yeah, there you 00:03:32.340 --> 00:03:38.509 go. All right, let's get actually into it. So 00:03:38.509 --> 00:03:42.889 unpopular opinions for the second only time is 00:03:42.889 --> 00:03:46.330 What because I needed another refresher. Okay 00:03:46.330 --> 00:03:55.530 unpopular opinions are Justin go Something you 00:03:55.530 --> 00:03:58.669 believe or you feel or you think that most of 00:03:58.669 --> 00:04:01.270 the population does not agree with right that's 00:04:01.270 --> 00:04:04.699 an unpopular opinion I struggle with this because 00:04:04.699 --> 00:04:07.560 I like to be popular. So I had to look deep in 00:04:07.560 --> 00:04:10.139 my soul. You want to be popular. Yeah, we know. 00:04:10.139 --> 00:04:14.000 What, like it's hard? I object. Okay. Dustin, 00:04:14.000 --> 00:04:19.939 you go first. All right. So I feel kind of weird 00:04:19.939 --> 00:04:22.639 talking about this because... Can't wait. Crozier 00:04:22.639 --> 00:04:25.339 is closing. Did you hear about this? Yeah. So 00:04:25.339 --> 00:04:27.939 I had made this before. Now I feel weird saying 00:04:27.939 --> 00:04:33.680 it. But searching for new jobs can be fun. is 00:04:33.680 --> 00:04:37.879 my opinion. Not, I know, not if you're in the 00:04:37.879 --> 00:04:40.899 point where your job is closing and you need 00:04:40.899 --> 00:04:44.459 a job, but if you have the opportunity to be 00:04:44.459 --> 00:04:46.139 looking for a job while you have a job, I think 00:04:46.139 --> 00:04:48.199 that can be fun and exciting. Do you work at 00:04:48.199 --> 00:04:51.199 Crozier? No. Then why are we talking, why do 00:04:51.199 --> 00:04:53.199 you, oh, because Crozier's closing and a lot 00:04:53.199 --> 00:04:55.300 of nurses have to go find a job right now, but 00:04:55.300 --> 00:04:58.060 you don't work there. Yes, Carly. Okay, all right. 00:04:58.139 --> 00:05:01.779 Yes to everything you said. Okay. Yes. Thank 00:05:01.779 --> 00:05:06.199 you. So outside of that, I think searching for 00:05:06.199 --> 00:05:09.319 a job can be fun because you're, to me it's almost 00:05:09.319 --> 00:05:11.519 like reading a book, right? Like it's thinking 00:05:11.519 --> 00:05:15.379 of a different reality. And so you're imagining 00:05:15.379 --> 00:05:17.899 what your life will be if you have this different 00:05:17.899 --> 00:05:19.819 job. And I think that's exciting thinking of 00:05:19.819 --> 00:05:22.480 all the possibilities and things like that. Again, 00:05:22.519 --> 00:05:26.209 that's if you have the ability to not. be in 00:05:26.209 --> 00:05:28.230 jeopardy of not having a job. Yeah, I think there's 00:05:28.230 --> 00:05:31.050 privilege involved with that mindset. Yes, 100%. 00:05:31.050 --> 00:05:35.389 Unpopular. Yes. Why are you yelling it? I feel 00:05:35.389 --> 00:05:38.629 like that's unpopular, especially to me because 00:05:38.629 --> 00:05:41.930 my career was searching for jobs every time we 00:05:41.930 --> 00:05:44.810 went to an audition and it was like we never 00:05:44.810 --> 00:05:48.170 were secure in a job. We never knew where our 00:05:48.170 --> 00:05:50.949 next paycheck was coming from. Yes. Nothing has 00:05:50.949 --> 00:05:56.000 changed. That's so true. Apparently, I like that. 00:05:56.620 --> 00:05:58.360 But when you never know when your next paycheck 00:05:58.360 --> 00:06:00.839 is coming from the act of searching for another 00:06:00.839 --> 00:06:05.540 job is horrendous. 100%. Yes. And I can't imagine 00:06:05.540 --> 00:06:07.120 what everyone's going through right now with 00:06:07.120 --> 00:06:10.800 Crozier closing and all of that. You should feel 00:06:10.800 --> 00:06:13.019 weird saying that. It's true. OK. Well, how many 00:06:13.019 --> 00:06:16.040 times have you looked for a job? Oh, a bunch. 00:06:16.180 --> 00:06:20.839 When I left my first hospital and went to the 00:06:20.839 --> 00:06:23.420 second hospital, I looked at a bunch of different 00:06:23.420 --> 00:06:25.680 organizations to go to and different opportunities 00:06:25.680 --> 00:06:28.199 and things like that. Do you like switching positions 00:06:28.199 --> 00:06:32.540 in jobs? Thank you for adding that at the end. 00:06:33.300 --> 00:06:36.540 Oh my God. Yes. Because I get bored very easily. 00:06:36.819 --> 00:06:42.319 Oh my God. Moving on. That was very unpopular. 00:06:42.600 --> 00:06:47.699 OK. You ready? Feel like this one. Yes, Carly 00:06:47.699 --> 00:06:51.600 We are ready. I just want to be heard. Well, 00:06:51.600 --> 00:06:53.500 my ears haven't popped from the airplane. So 00:06:53.500 --> 00:06:57.600 actually it's helpful. Okay All right, this is 00:06:57.600 --> 00:07:01.199 gonna be very unpopular and I think every generation 00:07:01.199 --> 00:07:04.360 feels this way so Music today is just not as 00:07:04.360 --> 00:07:09.740 good as it used to be agreed Come on I don't 00:07:09.740 --> 00:07:14.060 know think of like think of Celine Dion Whitney 00:07:14.060 --> 00:07:17.579 Houston like all the the male singing groups 00:07:17.579 --> 00:07:20.000 back in the day and now it's like no offense 00:07:20.000 --> 00:07:22.339 i do love Justin Bieber but like he can't sing 00:07:22.339 --> 00:07:26.100 like they can like so Michael Jackson like that 00:07:27.000 --> 00:07:29.540 from the 80s and 90s, but now I feel like every 00:07:29.540 --> 00:07:31.680 generation feels that their generation of music 00:07:31.680 --> 00:07:34.240 is the best. Yeah. I definitely think there is 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:36.660 some music today that is horrible. Like the mumble 00:07:36.660 --> 00:07:39.579 rapping, I hate. I and Caden loves it and it 00:07:39.579 --> 00:07:41.279 just drives me crazy. The heck is mumble rapping? 00:07:41.480 --> 00:07:43.939 Like think of all the rappers that literally 00:07:43.939 --> 00:07:46.180 just mumble through their lyrics and you can't 00:07:46.180 --> 00:07:47.660 understand what they're saying. Not like, you 00:07:47.660 --> 00:07:51.420 know, Eminem raps and he like goes so fast. But 00:07:51.420 --> 00:07:54.160 you can hear the words that he's saying. Mumble 00:07:54.160 --> 00:07:56.519 rappers just like sound like they have cotton 00:07:56.519 --> 00:07:59.019 balls in their mouth when they're quote unquote 00:07:59.019 --> 00:08:01.459 rapping. And Kaden likes that. Yes, because that's 00:08:01.459 --> 00:08:03.399 what's popular right now. Yeah, that's all he 00:08:03.399 --> 00:08:07.579 knows. Yeah. I also so I also think there's more 00:08:07.579 --> 00:08:09.639 options for music today. I think there was a 00:08:09.639 --> 00:08:14.500 lot of gatekeeping with artists previously because 00:08:14.500 --> 00:08:17.839 they didn't have the platforms to get their music 00:08:17.839 --> 00:08:20.339 out there like there is today. There's so many 00:08:20.339 --> 00:08:24.019 artists who are just popular on Spotify or YouTube 00:08:24.019 --> 00:08:25.699 or things like that. We have so many options 00:08:25.699 --> 00:08:28.819 to listen to actually really good artists like 00:08:28.819 --> 00:08:32.500 Benson Boone. He's amazing. But he was one of 00:08:32.500 --> 00:08:34.200 the first ones I thought of and I was like, yeah, 00:08:34.220 --> 00:08:36.620 but he's just a reincarnation of Queen. We already 00:08:36.620 --> 00:08:39.000 had Queen. And Harry Styles. He's trying to be 00:08:39.000 --> 00:08:43.379 Harry Styles. Are you saying he's a reincarnation 00:08:43.379 --> 00:08:47.990 of Queen because he... like has a mustache and 00:08:47.990 --> 00:08:51.009 His outfit choices or his talent. Yeah. Well 00:08:51.009 --> 00:08:53.289 not not I don't think he's as good a singer as 00:08:53.289 --> 00:08:58.850 Queen was Freddie Mercury. Yeah, she does have 00:08:58.850 --> 00:09:04.629 a concussion No, I feel like he is that's her 00:09:04.629 --> 00:09:07.110 persona is like the jumpsuit the bell bottom 00:09:07.110 --> 00:09:10.110 the mustache She's trying to redo the like his 00:09:10.110 --> 00:09:13.490 personality is that 70s redo right now Right 00:09:13.490 --> 00:09:16.409 now, I would say. But I don't think his music 00:09:16.409 --> 00:09:19.389 is like Queen. No, but like I think he's good, 00:09:19.470 --> 00:09:23.789 but I don't think he can hold a candle to like 00:09:23.789 --> 00:09:27.529 all those 80s hair bands that can sing. Here's 00:09:27.529 --> 00:09:31.889 the thing. Because of technology and videos and 00:09:31.889 --> 00:09:35.000 social media platforms and I mean, I think it 00:09:35.000 --> 00:09:36.740 stems even before social media became a thing 00:09:36.740 --> 00:09:38.759 when it comes to computers and stuff and how 00:09:38.759 --> 00:09:40.820 artists, like what you're saying, get out there 00:09:40.820 --> 00:09:43.980 even without like a record label. Yeah. If you 00:09:43.980 --> 00:09:50.240 go back, I don't know if 50s, I would say. I 00:09:50.240 --> 00:09:53.279 would say like 60s, 70s, 80s, you didn't have 00:09:53.279 --> 00:09:56.000 to look nice, you just had to be talented. Yeah. 00:09:56.000 --> 00:09:59.820 So those artists are just pure talent. Look at. 00:10:00.159 --> 00:10:05.120 Look at Phil Collins. Stop it. But no, for real. 00:10:05.139 --> 00:10:08.259 Look at him in his beginning. He's just a normal 00:10:08.259 --> 00:10:10.940 guy. You would also think he was just your neighbor's 00:10:10.940 --> 00:10:13.879 handyman guy who lived next door, who happened 00:10:13.879 --> 00:10:17.720 to be this crazy talent. So that's it's now not 00:10:17.720 --> 00:10:21.480 about talent. It's about look and the whole package 00:10:21.480 --> 00:10:26.139 versus it's the brand versus the talent. And 00:10:26.139 --> 00:10:28.179 I think with that, it used to be storytelling 00:10:28.179 --> 00:10:30.919 with music. And now it's not it's not meatloaf. 00:10:31.019 --> 00:10:33.679 No one's telling a story. They're just singing 00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:37.799 about a subject. So that's, I don't know if that 00:10:37.799 --> 00:10:40.240 agrees with you or not. No, it does because I 00:10:40.240 --> 00:10:43.159 feel like, I do feel like because we work with 00:10:43.159 --> 00:10:46.840 music so often that people's faces light up even 00:10:46.840 --> 00:10:50.899 the younger generation when I put some of the 00:10:50.899 --> 00:10:53.340 older stuff on. Now, yes, they like the Nicki 00:10:53.340 --> 00:10:56.360 Minaj, Cardi B, like that's fun too. But like 00:10:56.360 --> 00:11:00.279 when we do Sierra, One Two Step or like not even 00:11:00.460 --> 00:11:03.379 Like a little Missy Elliott or some of the stuff 00:11:03.379 --> 00:11:06.340 that's a little farther back. I feel like everybody 00:11:06.340 --> 00:11:09.220 gets excited. Oh my god. Did you see the Coachella 00:11:09.220 --> 00:11:12.500 video of Missy Elliott? No. So she comes out 00:11:12.500 --> 00:11:15.000 at Coachella and the whole crowd is young and 00:11:15.000 --> 00:11:18.580 like no one. No. It's not that they didn't cheer. 00:11:18.820 --> 00:11:21.519 Like people were filming and stuff but like can 00:11:21.519 --> 00:11:24.460 you imagine if it was our generation? So there's 00:11:24.460 --> 00:11:27.279 so many TikTok videos or Instagram videos that 00:11:27.279 --> 00:11:31.610 are our generation. Talking about how much they 00:11:31.610 --> 00:11:35.009 don't appreciate and don't understand like What 00:11:35.009 --> 00:11:38.129 happened on stage? Yeah. Oh my god. Yes. She 00:11:38.129 --> 00:11:40.549 came out She did all of her she did everything 00:11:40.549 --> 00:11:43.710 I would have died my god, but I feel like 20 00:11:43.710 --> 00:11:45.289 years from now people are gonna say the same 00:11:45.289 --> 00:11:48.210 thing Yeah, their music generation from now is 00:11:48.210 --> 00:11:53.230 the best. I just don't agree. I Yeah, yeah, I 00:11:53.230 --> 00:11:56.309 hear you. Do we all are we all agreed on this? 00:11:56.330 --> 00:11:58.330 I'm doing today is not as good. We don't need 00:11:58.330 --> 00:12:02.240 to What what I thought it was to like sway everybody 00:12:02.240 --> 00:12:09.500 else's opinion towards mine No Hold on insert 00:12:09.500 --> 00:12:16.559 cricket sound effect Cool Okay. Um, all right 00:12:16.559 --> 00:12:22.580 unpopular opinion Now that we are entering Spring 00:12:22.580 --> 00:12:24.700 I don't know. It's been really nice outside actually, 00:12:24.700 --> 00:12:28.200 but like summer season. I'm not a summer person 00:12:28.970 --> 00:12:35.230 I would much rather be cold than be hot. Unpopular. 00:12:35.690 --> 00:12:39.110 You would rather be cold. No, I'd rather be hot. 00:12:39.149 --> 00:12:41.830 So you agree with me. Oh, no, no, no, no. No, 00:12:42.070 --> 00:12:43.970 she's, yeah. No, yeah, you're going against me. 00:12:44.070 --> 00:12:46.169 You're right. You're right. I love getting into 00:12:46.169 --> 00:12:47.970 a, we've talked about this before, I love getting 00:12:47.970 --> 00:12:50.070 into a hot car with leather seats. Like, I don't 00:12:50.070 --> 00:12:52.529 know what it is, but I don't mind getting into 00:12:52.529 --> 00:12:55.500 like a really hot car. So you're a sociopath 00:12:55.500 --> 00:12:57.399 who hasn't murdered yet. Yeah, you need therapy 00:12:57.399 --> 00:13:05.159 I Get when I am Overheating internally. I can't 00:13:05.159 --> 00:13:07.639 function like mentally. I can't talk to you. 00:13:07.639 --> 00:13:09.220 I don't care about anything Don't talk to me 00:13:09.220 --> 00:13:11.700 because now you're annoying like I get overwhelmed 00:13:11.700 --> 00:13:14.759 and overstimulated But if I'm cold, I'm just 00:13:14.759 --> 00:13:19.190 cold So I would rather be cold Yeah, hot. I needed 00:13:19.190 --> 00:13:21.090 a cut like Pedro and I had a code word from when 00:13:21.090 --> 00:13:24.990 I got over. I'm really did a vacation. Yes, because 00:13:24.990 --> 00:13:26.990 it has nothing to do with who I'm with. Like 00:13:26.990 --> 00:13:30.309 we're with you. Well, I would just be mad and 00:13:30.309 --> 00:13:34.330 yell at you. But like if I was with people that 00:13:34.330 --> 00:13:37.070 like they weren't necessarily annoying me or 00:13:37.070 --> 00:13:39.789 saying the wrong things, I can't function. I 00:13:39.789 --> 00:13:43.929 literally can't function in hot, overstimulating 00:13:43.929 --> 00:13:46.750 weather when I don't want to be sweating. I get 00:13:46.750 --> 00:13:52.210 that. See, My issue is I sweat more, I think, 00:13:52.529 --> 00:13:56.629 in the colder seasons with the clothes. Does 00:13:56.629 --> 00:13:58.230 that make sense? I feel like you have a gland 00:13:58.230 --> 00:14:02.879 problem. Are you just wearing a lot of clothes? 00:14:03.120 --> 00:14:05.220 Well, like just having to, I don't like to wear 00:14:05.220 --> 00:14:08.179 pants. I like shorts. I like shorts. It's not 00:14:08.179 --> 00:14:11.879 like I go pantless. But I don't like long sleeves. 00:14:12.059 --> 00:14:14.039 I don't like pants. Like Abby knows this about 00:14:14.039 --> 00:14:16.500 me. I don't like jeans. I like shorts. Is that 00:14:16.500 --> 00:14:23.450 better? I don't like clothes. because I sweat 00:14:23.450 --> 00:14:27.269 a lot. Unpopular opinion number two. I agree, 00:14:27.490 --> 00:14:31.350 I'm a furnace. Yes, yes. I agree. All the time. 00:14:31.730 --> 00:14:35.450 I need to have, like, right now I have slippers 00:14:35.450 --> 00:14:37.529 and socks on. I'm usually barefoot. I don't want, 00:14:37.710 --> 00:14:40.669 I can't have the, I need the air. No, no, no, 00:14:40.669 --> 00:14:43.809 no. I am in sneakers from the moment I get up 00:14:43.809 --> 00:14:46.009 until the moment I go to bed. You're not grounded 00:14:46.009 --> 00:14:49.129 then. I like at least three inch platform sneaker 00:14:49.129 --> 00:14:50.570 in between me and the floor at all. You're not 00:14:50.570 --> 00:14:53.360 centered then. I mean, we know that. You're not 00:14:53.360 --> 00:14:56.799 connected. I get up at 5 a .m. and I will get 00:14:56.799 --> 00:14:59.000 fully dressed with sneakers on. Really? Yeah. 00:14:59.519 --> 00:15:03.519 And I, you know, there's no way. No. No. I hate 00:15:03.519 --> 00:15:06.100 sandals. I don't like feet. Really? I hate socks 00:15:06.100 --> 00:15:08.259 and shoes, so. No, I don't want to see, I don't 00:15:08.259 --> 00:15:11.000 necessarily like people's feet. Oh, yeah, no. 00:15:11.159 --> 00:15:12.860 Like, that's not, that has nothing to do with 00:15:12.860 --> 00:15:15.960 it. Don't turn it around. Concussion. Your concussion 00:15:15.960 --> 00:15:17.799 is showing. I'm concussed. You're concussed. 00:15:20.000 --> 00:15:22.980 But yeah, it's that air it's not airflow you 00:15:22.980 --> 00:15:25.080 need I need all my extremities need to be out 00:15:25.080 --> 00:15:28.759 I need to be yeah, I need to be cool. Give me 00:15:28.759 --> 00:15:32.840 a hundred and ten Humidity, I don't care. I love 00:15:32.840 --> 00:15:35.600 the heat I don't necessarily love the summer 00:15:35.600 --> 00:15:39.039 months like I am a fall person, but I will take 00:15:39.039 --> 00:15:41.279 heat any day I think there's something wrong 00:15:41.279 --> 00:15:44.639 with your brain. Yeah, I'm concussed. Yeah We're 00:15:44.639 --> 00:15:46.399 moving on cuz we don't agree with you. Yeah. 00:15:46.440 --> 00:15:50.179 Okay. All right Cemeteries are a waste of space. 00:15:50.720 --> 00:15:55.039 What? Agreed. No. Yes. No. There's no point. 00:15:55.399 --> 00:15:57.580 There's no point to having a cemetery. What do 00:15:57.580 --> 00:15:59.860 you suggest? I'm sorry, I'm concussed. What do 00:15:59.860 --> 00:16:02.179 you suggest that we do with the bodies? Creamate 00:16:02.179 --> 00:16:04.679 everyone. Creamate. No, never. Never. Why? Don't 00:16:04.679 --> 00:16:07.860 you dare creamate me. Why? I don't. You just 00:16:07.860 --> 00:16:09.659 want to be in a box in the ground? You want to 00:16:09.659 --> 00:16:14.320 deteriorate? Inside the box. Where you're useless. 00:16:14.440 --> 00:16:17.120 Yeah. For the... You're useless. And no one's 00:16:17.120 --> 00:16:19.899 coming to visit you. Right, exactly. Maybe people 00:16:19.899 --> 00:16:21.600 will come the first couple of years. When's the 00:16:21.600 --> 00:16:23.440 last time you visited your grandfather, Carly? 00:16:23.779 --> 00:16:26.139 Melody went the other day. When's the last time 00:16:26.139 --> 00:16:28.100 you visited your grandfather, Carly? That was 00:16:28.100 --> 00:16:30.679 the question. Mom probably took Melody. She did. 00:16:31.100 --> 00:16:35.039 Yeah. When did, when, what's the point? It's 00:16:35.039 --> 00:16:36.799 thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars 00:16:36.799 --> 00:16:43.659 for a headstone. For what purpose? I think cemeteries. 00:16:43.919 --> 00:16:45.809 Cemeteries are for the living. Like, clearly, 00:16:45.990 --> 00:16:47.610 cemeteries are for the living. It's because we 00:16:47.610 --> 00:16:50.450 can't let go of the person we lost, and we want 00:16:50.450 --> 00:16:54.049 some idea that they are there and we have this 00:16:54.049 --> 00:16:56.250 connection to them, which you can have a connection 00:16:56.250 --> 00:16:58.250 to them. You still have a connection when you 00:16:58.250 --> 00:17:00.009 leave that cemetery with that person that you 00:17:00.009 --> 00:17:02.250 lost. They don't need to be physically... Well, 00:17:02.269 --> 00:17:04.630 they're not there. Right, true, true. Their bones 00:17:04.630 --> 00:17:10.289 are. I think, like, the act of being buried with... 00:17:10.440 --> 00:17:12.980 Like I want to be buried with Andrew. I want 00:17:12.980 --> 00:17:16.720 to be buried with why why your body needs to 00:17:16.720 --> 00:17:19.779 be near another Well your bones because your 00:17:19.779 --> 00:17:21.539 body is actually gonna disintegrate, right? So 00:17:21.539 --> 00:17:23.480 your bone and actually part of your body has 00:17:23.480 --> 00:17:26.319 already been sucked out You're yeah making it 00:17:26.319 --> 00:17:28.859 sound but horrible, but think about it Like you're 00:17:28.859 --> 00:17:31.299 not thinking about what happens the fermentation 00:17:31.299 --> 00:17:38.170 process of a funeral home Look it up No, I will 00:17:38.170 --> 00:17:41.650 not do research. I just want to die in peace 00:17:41.650 --> 00:17:44.150 and be laid to rest with Andrew who's not Catholic 00:17:44.150 --> 00:17:47.509 so he can't be buried in the cemetery. He also 00:17:47.509 --> 00:17:52.289 doesn't want you. He doesn't care about where 00:17:52.289 --> 00:17:54.650 you are when he dies. Let the man go. You've 00:17:54.650 --> 00:17:59.589 been clinging on to him for so long. I think 00:17:59.589 --> 00:18:09.400 cremation. I think cremation. 100 % Where you 00:18:09.400 --> 00:18:12.980 have options? Okay, buy an urn you want to you 00:18:12.980 --> 00:18:14.900 want to have an urn then you can have your own 00:18:14.900 --> 00:18:18.420 little Service or not service you still do a 00:18:18.420 --> 00:18:22.400 funeral but like have your own Cemetery altar 00:18:22.400 --> 00:18:24.839 for your people. Maybe it's in the back garden. 00:18:24.859 --> 00:18:26.220 Who knows you could do what you want They could 00:18:26.220 --> 00:18:29.920 be close to you. Yeah, or some people wear it 00:18:29.920 --> 00:18:31.480 around their necks, which I like I'm not really 00:18:31.480 --> 00:18:35.259 into that I Think throw me in the ocean. Yeah 00:18:35.049 --> 00:18:38.049 put me over a cliff where I'm dusted around, 00:18:38.130 --> 00:18:40.069 coming back to the earth, earth to earth, dust 00:18:40.069 --> 00:18:42.190 to dust. Literally, that's what that means. Yes. 00:18:42.750 --> 00:18:45.730 100%. Boo. Same page right here. Also, I have 00:18:45.730 --> 00:18:48.910 a crazy fear of being buried alive. So that's 00:18:48.910 --> 00:18:51.450 why I want to be burned alive instead if I'm 00:18:51.450 --> 00:18:53.130 still living. Oh, yeah, yeah. Just burn yourself 00:18:53.130 --> 00:18:56.089 alive. I do like the heat. But there you go. 00:18:56.650 --> 00:19:00.269 Our mom, you know this, wants to have a destination 00:19:00.269 --> 00:19:02.890 funeral where she is cremated and we take her 00:19:02.890 --> 00:19:05.710 into the swim up bar pool in an urn and we all 00:19:05.710 --> 00:19:08.049 pass her around in the pool. That's what she's 00:19:08.049 --> 00:19:12.650 been saying for at least 15 years. Yeah. I love 00:19:12.650 --> 00:19:16.410 Carmela. What's your point? Well, we're not the 00:19:16.410 --> 00:19:17.789 same person. I don't want you guys to do that 00:19:17.789 --> 00:19:20.329 to me. No one wants to have a party with you. 00:19:20.470 --> 00:19:24.670 First of all, second of all. Sure as shit, Andrew's 00:19:24.670 --> 00:19:29.549 not gonna be partying with you. Unpopular Justin. 00:19:29.950 --> 00:19:33.309 No, I 100 % agree with that. Thank you. No. Okay, 00:19:33.589 --> 00:19:39.069 unpopular opinion. I believe... Oh, God. Too 00:19:39.069 --> 00:19:41.529 much information is too much information. Correct. 00:19:42.329 --> 00:19:46.329 I think we all know too much. I think we are 00:19:46.329 --> 00:19:49.049 inundated with so much information and it's all... 00:19:49.049 --> 00:19:53.400 I know the more you know, the better. But I don't 00:19:53.400 --> 00:19:56.480 actually don't believe that. It's so depressing 00:19:56.480 --> 00:20:01.440 and so like debilitating sometimes. Yeah. I agree. 00:20:01.920 --> 00:20:06.640 We're not meant to know what's going on. We're 00:20:06.640 --> 00:20:11.700 meant to know actual big news. Yeah. But the 00:20:11.700 --> 00:20:18.210 day to day strife of human existence. constantly 00:20:18.210 --> 00:20:21.029 being told by someone's biased opinion, not necessarily 00:20:21.029 --> 00:20:26.809 news and facts, 100%. We're not meant to know 00:20:26.809 --> 00:20:30.390 what's going on every little place, every five 00:20:30.390 --> 00:20:33.569 seconds of the day. I agree. Do we all agree? 00:20:34.420 --> 00:20:35.980 Unfortunately, yes. What were you gonna say? 00:20:36.160 --> 00:20:37.640 I was just gonna say, that's how it used to be 00:20:37.640 --> 00:20:39.779 years ago before social media, before you had 00:20:39.779 --> 00:20:42.339 information literally at your fingertips in every 00:20:42.339 --> 00:20:44.220 venue, whether it's on your phone or on the TV 00:20:44.220 --> 00:20:48.920 or on the computer. I think it was simpler back 00:20:48.920 --> 00:20:52.859 then. I think simple living, even though that's 00:20:52.859 --> 00:20:56.220 not sometimes how I portray myself, is I would, 00:20:56.440 --> 00:21:00.980 you know, I love the 50s, not... That women should 00:21:00.980 --> 00:21:04.119 be seen and not heard but like the simpler and 00:21:04.119 --> 00:21:07.519 you know segregation yes, I don't want to go 00:21:07.519 --> 00:21:11.640 that route but like The simpler you had less 00:21:11.640 --> 00:21:15.920 things you had things that worked that were sturdy 00:21:15.920 --> 00:21:18.720 But less of it. Yeah, you know what? I mean things 00:21:18.720 --> 00:21:20.900 were made better back then It's not just like 00:21:20.900 --> 00:21:23.359 a bunch of plastic stuff, right? Kids you like 00:21:23.359 --> 00:21:25.380 valued their toys because they didn't have many 00:21:25.380 --> 00:21:28.640 you repaired like that now you could yeah You 00:21:28.640 --> 00:21:31.740 could stop buying. We did a whole episode on 00:21:31.740 --> 00:21:33.279 stop buying. Some of the things with that, like, 00:21:33.339 --> 00:21:36.259 you used to be able to repair things. Now it's 00:21:36.259 --> 00:21:38.079 more expensive to get things repaired versus 00:21:38.079 --> 00:21:40.299 just buying a whole new one. Like, Abby's uncle 00:21:40.299 --> 00:21:43.440 used to own a vacuum repair store and would repair 00:21:43.440 --> 00:21:45.700 vacuums. Nowadays, that's more expensive. Your 00:21:45.700 --> 00:21:47.720 vacuum breaks. You buy a new vacuum. I know. 00:21:47.720 --> 00:21:50.240 It's crazy. Yeah, which reminds me. I dropped 00:21:50.240 --> 00:21:53.440 off a shoe at the shoe store before Christmas, 00:21:53.440 --> 00:21:55.779 and I have forgotten to pick it up. I got to 00:21:55.779 --> 00:22:00.079 go pick that up. Time out. I totally forgot. 00:22:00.119 --> 00:22:02.440 What shoe and what shoe store? Not a shoe store, 00:22:02.559 --> 00:22:05.500 a cobbler. Yeah. There's still cobblers around? 00:22:05.900 --> 00:22:07.519 Lawrence Park Shopping Center, Pennsylvania. 00:22:08.180 --> 00:22:10.720 But like, and you walk in and the smell of leather 00:22:10.720 --> 00:22:14.180 and like shoe polish. Yeah. But also they never 00:22:14.180 --> 00:22:16.640 called me to come pick it up. That shoe's gone. 00:22:16.660 --> 00:22:19.039 They definitely did. You didn't answer because 00:22:19.039 --> 00:22:20.920 you didn't have the number. You didn't listen 00:22:20.920 --> 00:22:22.539 to the voicemail because you probably had way 00:22:22.539 --> 00:22:25.349 too many. And it's not. Anyone else's fall up 00:22:25.349 --> 00:22:28.829 ears? How many voicemails do I have? 199. What? 00:22:29.970 --> 00:22:31.390 Yeah, I don't think anyone should be listening 00:22:31.390 --> 00:22:35.190 to your opinion on anything. Moving on. Moving 00:22:35.190 --> 00:22:37.130 on. Too much information is too much. Don't tell 00:22:37.130 --> 00:22:39.210 me anymore. I don't want to know. I cannot comprehend. 00:22:39.809 --> 00:22:44.230 I mean, that makes so much sense. That makes 00:22:44.230 --> 00:22:48.430 so much sense. That's a different opinion. Oh, 00:22:48.430 --> 00:22:52.559 God. I hate you guys. Yeah. Back at you. Okay, 00:22:53.220 --> 00:22:56.960 I have an unpopular. I don't know if this is 00:22:56.960 --> 00:22:59.099 popular or unpopular and I also don't know if 00:22:59.099 --> 00:23:01.980 I have a solution Okay, I have an observation. 00:23:02.180 --> 00:23:08.660 I like observations there should be a vetting 00:23:08.660 --> 00:23:12.980 system in some way and I don't know if it's raise 00:23:12.980 --> 00:23:15.099 the price or lower the price or have to fill 00:23:15.099 --> 00:23:18.660 out paperwork to who lives in the exit, who lives, 00:23:19.200 --> 00:23:23.559 who sits in the exit row of an airplane. I agree. 00:23:23.740 --> 00:23:28.500 Yes. Yeah. Being on one where we did Southwest 00:23:28.500 --> 00:23:32.160 and you had to in groupings, you don't have seats 00:23:32.160 --> 00:23:33.500 until you get on the plane. You have to pick 00:23:33.500 --> 00:23:36.000 your seat and fight for it. Yeah. I mean, no, 00:23:36.180 --> 00:23:40.380 it wasn't really a fight. And luckily, we got 00:23:40.380 --> 00:23:43.049 the exit row, which is what he wanted to get 00:23:43.049 --> 00:23:46.890 for his long legs or whatever. But looking at 00:23:46.890 --> 00:23:50.869 who was in the exit rows with us, I would trust 00:23:50.869 --> 00:23:54.349 me, I would trust him. I looked around and I 00:23:54.349 --> 00:23:59.490 was like, no way. There's no way that 86 year 00:23:59.490 --> 00:24:02.930 old man who agreed, you have to agree, you have 00:24:02.930 --> 00:24:05.470 to say yes. They come to you and say, can you 00:24:05.470 --> 00:24:07.910 serve in this role? Exactly. You get sworn in. 00:24:08.009 --> 00:24:10.029 That's so well and good that they're asking that 00:24:10.029 --> 00:24:12.089 question. But the people that were saying yes, 00:24:12.329 --> 00:24:14.690 you're like, can you believe you? And there was 00:24:14.690 --> 00:24:18.809 a man who needed a seatbelt extender but chose 00:24:18.809 --> 00:24:22.529 the exit row. Never got a leg room. Watched him. 00:24:22.690 --> 00:24:24.630 Watched him. Never asked for the extender. Put 00:24:24.630 --> 00:24:29.809 a put his sweatshirt around him to hide the fact 00:24:29.809 --> 00:24:32.569 that he couldn't belt his seatbelt. Oh, God. 00:24:34.009 --> 00:24:43.039 And. He. He couldn't help anyone. I didn't feel 00:24:43.039 --> 00:24:46.099 safe. It didn't keep me awake. I watched the 00:24:46.099 --> 00:24:48.339 movie. It wasn't that type of thing, but with 00:24:48.339 --> 00:24:50.279 all the planes right now and things that are 00:24:50.279 --> 00:24:52.359 going on, I'm looking around. There was a woman 00:24:52.359 --> 00:24:54.559 who didn't speak English, which made sense. We 00:24:54.559 --> 00:24:56.920 were coming from Puerto Rico, didn't speak English. 00:24:57.000 --> 00:25:02.160 The whole flight was translated. But she moved. 00:25:02.359 --> 00:25:05.079 because she didn't understand that you need to 00:25:05.079 --> 00:25:07.920 say yes or a no to this and so then she had to 00:25:07.920 --> 00:25:10.940 say it in Spanish and she got up and she she 00:25:10.940 --> 00:25:13.279 picked a different seat and I was like yes thank 00:25:13.279 --> 00:25:16.319 you yeah that's wonderful you I appreciate that 00:25:16.319 --> 00:25:18.819 she was also older so like yeah she wouldn't 00:25:18.819 --> 00:25:21.079 have been able to to help anyway now they did 00:25:21.079 --> 00:25:24.109 have a rule 15 and under Which is why we got 00:25:24.109 --> 00:25:25.930 the exit rows because it was a lot of kids on 00:25:25.930 --> 00:25:28.509 the plane Yeah, so families couldn't sit like 00:25:28.509 --> 00:25:30.490 they had to pick the proper seats. So luckily 00:25:30.490 --> 00:25:33.509 for us So if that's the rule 15 and under there 00:25:33.509 --> 00:25:35.750 has to be another Yeah, there has to be another 00:25:35.750 --> 00:25:37.950 rule and I don't know how to implement that but 00:25:37.950 --> 00:25:41.210 yeah I think that's a good that's it. I agree. 00:25:41.990 --> 00:25:48.630 I agree. I'm amazing Justin let's see how unpopular 00:25:48.630 --> 00:25:56.230 you are. Oh, please Okay, I say this all the 00:25:56.230 --> 00:26:00.950 time. Cold weather doesn't make you sick. What? 00:26:01.390 --> 00:26:04.289 Oh, like you're going to catch a cold. Yes. Like 00:26:04.289 --> 00:26:05.690 don't go out without a jacket. You're going to 00:26:05.690 --> 00:26:08.049 catch a cold, blah, blah, blah. Do you have scientific 00:26:08.049 --> 00:26:10.849 evidence to prove that or that's just your opinion? 00:26:10.930 --> 00:26:13.890 No, I mean, yes. What makes you sick, Carly? 00:26:14.029 --> 00:26:16.430 I don't know, Dr. Justin. Viruses and bacteria. 00:26:17.250 --> 00:26:24.359 Yeah. The reason you may get more sick in the 00:26:24.359 --> 00:26:27.299 winter time if you're going outside and you're 00:26:27.299 --> 00:26:31.539 cold is that your body's then using energy to 00:26:31.539 --> 00:26:34.059 make you warm so you're shivering like you're 00:26:34.059 --> 00:26:36.380 expending energy in that way and your body doesn't 00:26:36.380 --> 00:26:38.880 have the energy to put toward your immune system 00:26:38.880 --> 00:26:41.480 which makes you more susceptible to getting sick. 00:26:41.680 --> 00:26:47.440 But the cold itself does not make you sick. Or 00:26:47.440 --> 00:26:50.279 else cryotherapy wouldn't be a thing. True story. 00:26:50.980 --> 00:26:56.059 I so... Nope, you're wrong. Also like winter 00:26:56.059 --> 00:26:57.980 time you're inside more, you're around people 00:26:57.980 --> 00:27:02.349 more, it's easier for viruses to spread. So I 00:27:02.349 --> 00:27:04.049 should just send my kids out in the snow with 00:27:04.049 --> 00:27:06.230 no jackets and be like you won't get sick. You're 00:27:06.230 --> 00:27:08.390 fine Okay, when they have frostbite and have 00:27:08.390 --> 00:27:10.950 to get their fingers amputated. No Carly. I'm 00:27:10.950 --> 00:27:13.829 not saying that Why are you an extremist? Right 00:27:13.829 --> 00:27:16.549 exactly. You're an extremist. You're you're black 00:27:16.549 --> 00:27:19.130 or white. There's no gray understanding There's 00:27:19.130 --> 00:27:22.309 no rainbow. Don't make me sing it. Please don't. 00:27:22.309 --> 00:27:24.509 I have the microphone. Don't give it to her. 00:27:24.589 --> 00:27:28.450 Don't give it to her. I'm just saying the cold 00:27:28.450 --> 00:27:32.180 itself is not what makes people sick Because 00:27:32.180 --> 00:27:35.819 I think there is a misconception in that Okay, 00:27:36.200 --> 00:27:38.279 I think your mom's actually said that to me multiple 00:27:38.279 --> 00:27:40.119 times because I've left see fit after teaching 00:27:40.119 --> 00:27:43.980 without the jacket your mom Who are you? Like 00:27:43.980 --> 00:27:47.279 why are you offended by this? He said your mom 00:27:47.279 --> 00:27:52.660 so I was like your mom How how old are we how 00:27:52.660 --> 00:27:58.640 old are you turning this year 40? Unpopular that's 00:27:58.640 --> 00:28:02.240 okay. We know you are ready my next one Go for 00:28:02.240 --> 00:28:05.700 it. I had a whole speech lined up. Stop yelling. 00:28:06.299 --> 00:28:10.140 Sorry. I had a whole speech lined up to preface 00:28:10.140 --> 00:28:12.420 this, and Victoria looked at my phone ahead of 00:28:12.420 --> 00:28:15.259 time. I was going to say, this is going to be 00:28:15.259 --> 00:28:18.180 very, very unpopular with the person sitting 00:28:18.180 --> 00:28:22.079 next to me. And I feel like popular with you, 00:28:22.240 --> 00:28:25.380 Justin. Oh, OK. I think we, maybe I don't know 00:28:25.380 --> 00:28:28.980 you as well as I think I do. You probably don't. 00:28:30.329 --> 00:28:33.369 Given the history. I don't know. I thought you 00:28:33.369 --> 00:28:37.009 worked at Crozier. I'm not sure. Okay. Ready? 00:28:37.250 --> 00:28:40.049 I'm on the edge of the couch, literally. Big 00:28:40.049 --> 00:28:44.069 lead up here. Not working on yourself all the 00:28:44.069 --> 00:28:49.069 time is okay. Do you agree? I do agree. I do 00:28:49.069 --> 00:28:53.670 agree. Let me explain. I feel like all we do 00:28:53.670 --> 00:28:56.390 is constantly better ourselves, which obviously 00:28:56.390 --> 00:28:58.410 I'm not saying not to do. You're not doing it, 00:28:58.410 --> 00:29:02.339 first of all. You haven't started. I start and 00:29:02.339 --> 00:29:06.140 then I stop. I know what I should do, but I feel 00:29:06.140 --> 00:29:09.680 like sometimes it's okay to just be and just, 00:29:10.259 --> 00:29:12.940 unless you're a horrible human being, but sometimes 00:29:12.940 --> 00:29:15.319 you just need to coast for a minute before you 00:29:15.319 --> 00:29:16.700 start working on something else. I feel like 00:29:16.700 --> 00:29:19.819 we're constantly working and grasping for the 00:29:19.819 --> 00:29:22.819 next thing instead of just being. I think that's 00:29:22.819 --> 00:29:25.460 a good excuse for you not to do any of the things 00:29:25.460 --> 00:29:28.319 that you're not following through with. You know, 00:29:28.339 --> 00:29:33.279 like this podcast for the past 115 plus weeks 00:29:33.279 --> 00:29:36.660 that you have not implemented any of the things. 00:29:36.660 --> 00:29:39.240 I think that's a good excuse. No, it's not an 00:29:39.240 --> 00:29:40.819 excuse and tell me why you agree with me and 00:29:40.819 --> 00:29:42.960 all my other opinions. Okay. I've actually - 00:29:42.960 --> 00:29:45.779 No, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. It's not, that's 00:29:45.779 --> 00:29:50.180 not what it is. It's chop out in half. I have 00:29:50.180 --> 00:29:52.140 actually thought of saying something like this, 00:29:52.160 --> 00:29:53.759 but I didn't want to say it in the setting, so 00:29:53.759 --> 00:29:55.259 I'm so glad you said it in the setting. Oh yeah, 00:29:55.259 --> 00:29:57.019 I don't care about the setting. Yeah, clearly 00:29:57.019 --> 00:30:02.049 we know. I think it's okay to give yourself some 00:30:02.049 --> 00:30:05.250 grace for a short amount of time to say, I'm 00:30:05.250 --> 00:30:07.150 being pulled in so many different directions. 00:30:07.289 --> 00:30:11.390 I just need a minute to catch my breath, right? 00:30:11.410 --> 00:30:15.220 And I felt like this. last year when I was trying 00:30:15.220 --> 00:30:17.619 to prioritize my mental health and my physical 00:30:17.619 --> 00:30:21.299 health and my position as a husband and my position 00:30:21.299 --> 00:30:23.099 as a father and trying to be the best father 00:30:23.099 --> 00:30:25.339 and the best husband and the best boss and I 00:30:25.339 --> 00:30:28.099 was having two different units at work and I 00:30:28.099 --> 00:30:30.559 felt so overwhelmed because there was so much 00:30:30.559 --> 00:30:34.859 in my life that I could not stay on top of it 00:30:34.859 --> 00:30:38.700 all and so I said to myself like it's okay to 00:30:38.700 --> 00:30:41.170 just take You know, you don't have to wake up 00:30:41.170 --> 00:30:43.130 at 5 30 every morning and work out. You don't 00:30:43.130 --> 00:30:48.609 have to push yourself to be in that Like lead 00:30:48.609 --> 00:30:53.069 that work at work. You don't have to Feel bad 00:30:53.069 --> 00:30:56.680 for saying no to your kids to like take them 00:30:56.680 --> 00:30:58.200 on a bike ride and then take them to the park 00:30:58.200 --> 00:31:00.339 and then play this game with them. Like it's 00:31:00.339 --> 00:31:03.019 OK to say no and just give yourself a break. 00:31:03.279 --> 00:31:05.720 I think if you do that, it needs to be a very 00:31:05.720 --> 00:31:08.039 short amount of time. Like it's just to get your 00:31:08.039 --> 00:31:11.559 head above water and breathe because the fear, 00:31:11.660 --> 00:31:14.140 and I'm sure you'll agree with this, is if you 00:31:14.140 --> 00:31:16.359 do that, then it will just continue and it will 00:31:16.359 --> 00:31:21.079 be hard to get back into it. So I agree, but 00:31:21.079 --> 00:31:24.759 like it has to be just a quick come up for breath. 00:31:25.319 --> 00:31:28.559 and then get back into it. Yeah, or else it's 00:31:28.559 --> 00:31:31.599 just excuses. Yeah. Then you're just living off 00:31:31.599 --> 00:31:34.000 of excuses. Right. And I don't mean it to be 00:31:34.000 --> 00:31:37.900 an excuse. I mean it to be like sometimes, like 00:31:37.900 --> 00:31:40.759 even I was putting it towards like comparing 00:31:40.759 --> 00:31:42.680 it to see fit, like in the fitness industry, 00:31:42.759 --> 00:31:44.680 you're always trying to do the next best thing. 00:31:44.819 --> 00:31:47.559 You're always trying to like, well, what's this? 00:31:47.680 --> 00:31:50.640 gym doing or what's the next new workout what 00:31:50.640 --> 00:31:53.059 should we be doing now it's never we're never 00:31:53.059 --> 00:31:56.380 just a steady line we can never coast we're always 00:31:56.380 --> 00:32:00.799 having to look to the next thing do you feel 00:32:00.799 --> 00:32:03.579 like what i feel like you're always doing that 00:32:03.579 --> 00:32:07.200 because i'm always telling you Don't pick something 00:32:07.200 --> 00:32:10.400 that's not broke. No, I know, but I feel like 00:32:10.400 --> 00:32:12.759 just in any business, you're always trying to 00:32:12.759 --> 00:32:15.680 look at what the next best thing is. And I feel 00:32:15.680 --> 00:32:17.880 that for myself. Sometimes I'm always like, oh, 00:32:17.900 --> 00:32:20.180 God, I got to drink this protein coffee and I 00:32:20.180 --> 00:32:22.180 got to do this and I got to do that when sometimes 00:32:22.180 --> 00:32:25.359 it would be just better to just be like, OK, 00:32:25.359 --> 00:32:30.380 just let me be up for a minute, figure out what's 00:32:30.380 --> 00:32:32.480 working, what's not working so that I can stop 00:32:32.480 --> 00:32:34.440 trying to be better and figure out what better 00:32:34.440 --> 00:32:38.420 is. Right. You know? I get it. And like that's, 00:32:38.480 --> 00:32:41.000 I don't know. I don't, and yeah, also it's an 00:32:41.000 --> 00:32:43.599 excuse to just like sit down for a minute. I 00:32:43.599 --> 00:32:49.039 think, I think it's, I can see you having that 00:32:49.039 --> 00:32:50.599 mindset, especially in the fitness industry, 00:32:50.599 --> 00:32:53.339 because I feel like things do change very quickly 00:32:53.339 --> 00:32:56.839 and fads come in. Yeah. And I think it's important 00:32:56.839 --> 00:32:59.960 to stay on top of like what fads are, like what 00:32:59.960 --> 00:33:02.480 is just a fad, right? And it's not realistic 00:33:02.480 --> 00:33:05.779 and it's not helpful. versus what is going to 00:33:05.779 --> 00:33:09.480 be that next industry that pops up that you're 00:33:09.480 --> 00:33:12.019 going to want to be a part of. So like Zumba 00:33:12.019 --> 00:33:16.140 came in real strong. Yeah. And like no one really 00:33:16.140 --> 00:33:18.480 does. It's still out there, but it's not as popular 00:33:18.480 --> 00:33:21.680 now as it was. Right. It's morphed into different 00:33:21.680 --> 00:33:24.539 things. And I feel like that's it's continued 00:33:24.539 --> 00:33:26.680 to do that. Right. Like jazzercise used to be 00:33:26.680 --> 00:33:28.819 a thing and that morphed and it's constantly 00:33:28.819 --> 00:33:31.980 changing. But I can get why you feel like you 00:33:31.980 --> 00:33:34.579 need to stay on top of it so much because the 00:33:34.579 --> 00:33:36.480 industry is literally always changing. Yeah, 00:33:36.559 --> 00:33:39.980 and I feel like Mellie R is like calling my name 00:33:39.980 --> 00:33:42.079 and she's, I just want to be like, let them. 00:33:42.799 --> 00:33:44.559 Let them. Shut up. You have officially. You're 00:33:44.559 --> 00:33:48.220 just trying to throw out. No. You've wasted like 00:33:48.220 --> 00:33:52.660 $34 .99 on a book, on a hardback book that I 00:33:52.660 --> 00:33:56.500 bought her to read. Let them. Did you read it? 00:33:57.220 --> 00:34:00.119 Let him know and I read something other than 00:34:00.119 --> 00:34:02.400 the cover I went through the book and underlined 00:34:02.400 --> 00:34:04.779 and gave tabs that she didn't have to read the 00:34:04.779 --> 00:34:07.039 whole book Just read these sections. Do you know 00:34:07.039 --> 00:34:09.519 she hasn't opened the goddamn book? So talk about 00:34:09.519 --> 00:34:11.920 an excuse. That's why I don't buy this I don't 00:34:11.920 --> 00:34:14.960 buy it because you haven't tried you're too tired 00:34:14.960 --> 00:34:17.980 at the end of the night instead of doing things 00:34:17.980 --> 00:34:23.119 that could actually better you Sometimes isn't 00:34:23.119 --> 00:34:24.500 every night. That's not sometimes that's every 00:34:24.500 --> 00:34:27.019 night. Yeah Sometimes it's not every night. She's 00:34:27.019 --> 00:34:30.199 so mad. She's so mad, guys. She's so mad. OK, 00:34:30.320 --> 00:34:36.099 moving on. Unpopular opinion. Go. That's actually 00:34:36.099 --> 00:34:38.960 probably popular. But if you can't keep a plant 00:34:38.960 --> 00:34:43.219 alive, you shouldn't have children. What? Wait, 00:34:43.219 --> 00:34:48.940 but I can't. I know. If you cannot keep something 00:34:48.940 --> 00:34:55.119 that is sentient, that doesn't speak. and only 00:34:55.119 --> 00:34:58.219 needs the basic necessities, if you cannot keep 00:34:58.219 --> 00:35:03.019 that alive, you should not raise children, have 00:35:03.019 --> 00:35:05.699 children, raise children, be a part of something 00:35:05.699 --> 00:35:09.219 that can speak and live and have a brain and 00:35:09.219 --> 00:35:14.159 be a part of the next generation, you shouldn't 00:35:14.159 --> 00:35:17.340 have kids. You think that's popular? Oh yeah, 00:35:17.780 --> 00:35:20.260 I don't. I wish the video was on right now to 00:35:20.260 --> 00:35:22.760 see my face. Justin and I are speechless. This 00:35:22.760 --> 00:35:27.719 is worse than my coffee opinion, I think. No, 00:35:28.579 --> 00:35:31.380 you shouldn't. If you get a bouquet of flowers 00:35:31.380 --> 00:35:35.440 and you can't keep it alive past a week, I think 00:35:35.440 --> 00:35:38.099 there should be some sort of vetting process. 00:35:39.239 --> 00:35:41.539 And I know you're all about the vetting process 00:35:41.539 --> 00:35:44.599 because you look at the state of the world. I 00:35:44.599 --> 00:35:47.269 mean, I agree. There's there's. I don't want 00:35:47.269 --> 00:35:48.969 to. There's too much information. I don't want 00:35:48.969 --> 00:35:50.389 it. Well, putting your head in the sand doesn't 00:35:50.389 --> 00:35:51.510 help. There's definitely people having kids that 00:35:51.510 --> 00:35:53.329 should probably not have kids. Kids are having 00:35:53.329 --> 00:35:55.829 kids. Well, that's true. Here's the other thing. 00:35:56.130 --> 00:35:59.550 Kids have always had kids. And don't be mad at 00:35:59.550 --> 00:36:01.949 me for saying this. I don't care about plants. 00:36:02.269 --> 00:36:04.650 But neither do I. And then she gets really upset. 00:36:05.269 --> 00:36:07.369 So this isn't about caring about plants. This 00:36:07.369 --> 00:36:10.699 isn't about caring about children. If you are 00:36:10.699 --> 00:36:14.860 unable to keep something alive that only needs 00:36:14.860 --> 00:36:18.199 food and water and not education and not money. 00:36:18.519 --> 00:36:21.699 But what if I don't want to? Yes. Here's my thing. 00:36:22.340 --> 00:36:25.000 If somebody said you must take care of this plant 00:36:25.000 --> 00:36:27.280 to be able to have children, I would take care 00:36:27.280 --> 00:36:29.639 of the plant to the best of my ability and that 00:36:29.639 --> 00:36:32.000 plant would be alive. If somebody said take care 00:36:32.000 --> 00:36:34.340 of this plant has nothing to do with having kids, 00:36:34.619 --> 00:36:37.320 I would let it probably die. I understand what 00:36:37.320 --> 00:36:42.829 you're saying. It just, looking around... Looking 00:36:42.829 --> 00:36:44.750 around this garden that we're sitting in right 00:36:44.750 --> 00:36:46.889 now? No, no, no. Looking around the world with 00:36:46.889 --> 00:36:50.030 watching people at restaurants with their children, 00:36:50.289 --> 00:36:54.210 don't have kids, the amount of kids that were 00:36:54.210 --> 00:36:58.070 on headphones and tablets or phones in public 00:36:58.070 --> 00:37:01.449 places on the vacation or the airplane. I understand 00:37:01.449 --> 00:37:03.730 an airplane. You need to entertain them. Yeah. 00:37:04.150 --> 00:37:06.730 I get it. There are times and places for everything. 00:37:06.849 --> 00:37:10.269 Yep. But you can't sit and have a meal with your 00:37:10.269 --> 00:37:13.650 kid. Yeah, we move have kids. Yeah, we moved 00:37:13.650 --> 00:37:17.630 away from that Pretty early on when having kids 00:37:17.630 --> 00:37:21.150 because we would see it all the time So now every 00:37:21.150 --> 00:37:23.550 time we go to dinner Abby always has games in 00:37:23.550 --> 00:37:25.409 her purse And then we tell the kids like bring 00:37:25.409 --> 00:37:27.909 a couple toys like that's what if you're bored 00:37:27.909 --> 00:37:30.010 at dinner that's what you're gonna do and we 00:37:30.010 --> 00:37:33.650 always bring like Uno or old maid or something 00:37:33.650 --> 00:37:36.019 like that and we'll play a game or um apples 00:37:36.019 --> 00:37:38.159 to apples we'll play a game at the table while 00:37:38.159 --> 00:37:39.460 we're waiting for our food because you bring 00:37:39.460 --> 00:37:41.920 legit games like apples to apples like there's 00:37:41.920 --> 00:37:46.179 like a little travel one that we have um because 00:37:46.179 --> 00:37:49.099 yeah that drives like that drives me crazy when 00:37:49.099 --> 00:37:50.900 they're just sitting on the tablet we do do it 00:37:50.900 --> 00:37:54.059 for planes but yeah planes are a little different 00:37:54.059 --> 00:37:59.059 but yeah it's just the amount of And you see 00:37:59.059 --> 00:38:01.139 this at dance class, the amount of kids that 00:38:01.139 --> 00:38:04.000 have no social skills, who have no respect, who 00:38:04.000 --> 00:38:06.280 have no manners, it's because of the parents, 00:38:06.300 --> 00:38:09.519 it's not about the kids. So if you don't want 00:38:09.519 --> 00:38:11.659 them and can't take care of them properly, don't 00:38:11.659 --> 00:38:13.760 have them. I don't think it's about not wanting 00:38:13.760 --> 00:38:15.860 them or not being able to take care of them. 00:38:17.079 --> 00:38:19.900 I think there should be some sort of process, 00:38:19.940 --> 00:38:21.840 but I don't think it's about not wanting, you 00:38:21.840 --> 00:38:24.099 don't know how to deal with them until they're 00:38:24.099 --> 00:38:27.690 there. So some people don't know that they shouldn't 00:38:27.690 --> 00:38:30.210 or didn't want or don't know how to take care 00:38:30.210 --> 00:38:33.929 of them until they're there. So try keeping plants 00:38:33.929 --> 00:38:38.730 alive. Thank you. You are correct. If you cannot 00:38:38.730 --> 00:38:42.449 keep a plant alive, that should be a little indication 00:38:42.449 --> 00:38:48.280 that it's possible your maternal, paternal instincts 00:38:48.280 --> 00:38:50.840 of just keeping something alive is not there, 00:38:51.019 --> 00:38:52.539 and it is probably not the best description. 00:38:52.760 --> 00:38:57.739 I just am over watching the world parent. Yeah. 00:38:58.719 --> 00:39:01.360 I will say parent. And Carly. I'm over watching 00:39:01.360 --> 00:39:04.039 Carly parent. Just kidding. My kids are not allowed 00:39:04.039 --> 00:39:06.559 to play the tablet at the table. Parenting is 00:39:06.559 --> 00:39:09.800 so hard. I am not the parent I thought I was 00:39:09.800 --> 00:39:12.650 going to be. Oh my god, me either. 100%. I feel 00:39:12.650 --> 00:39:15.150 like you have all these plans and dreams, and 00:39:15.150 --> 00:39:16.809 this is what my kid's going to do, and that's 00:39:16.809 --> 00:39:19.750 what my kid's going to do. And then we were literally 00:39:19.750 --> 00:39:22.269 talking about this yesterday, on Sunday. At Easter 00:39:22.269 --> 00:39:24.369 dinner, we were talking about this, that we have 00:39:24.369 --> 00:39:26.670 three deans. You have three deans? Literally, 00:39:26.710 --> 00:39:29.150 we've had this conversation. So happy Dean came 00:39:29.150 --> 00:39:31.650 up on your Easter conversation. Yeah, yeah. I 00:39:31.650 --> 00:39:33.190 remember why we were talking about it. We were 00:39:33.190 --> 00:39:35.199 talking about just having like, Parenting kids 00:39:35.199 --> 00:39:38.480 in general and how it's so difficult and it's 00:39:38.480 --> 00:39:40.739 not what you expect and especially now like Kaden 00:39:40.739 --> 00:39:44.300 is going to be 10 He wants a cell phone his friends 00:39:44.300 --> 00:39:46.340 are having cell phones his friends are having 00:39:46.340 --> 00:39:52.260 sleepovers and I'm yeah Yeah, I'm not okay He 00:39:52.260 --> 00:39:54.820 was in the play and a bunch of the boys in his 00:39:54.820 --> 00:39:57.340 class were having a sleepover One night of the 00:39:57.340 --> 00:40:00.440 play and it was this huge blow up because we 00:40:00.440 --> 00:40:02.340 didn't let him have it night We tried to explain 00:40:02.340 --> 00:40:04.840 the best that we could like yeah At the end of 00:40:04.840 --> 00:40:07.280 the day, we're looking out for your best interests. 00:40:07.340 --> 00:40:10.260 We want you to be safe, both physically and mentally. 00:40:10.500 --> 00:40:12.739 And that's hard to understand when you're nine 00:40:12.739 --> 00:40:14.780 and a half years old, you know? But at the end 00:40:14.780 --> 00:40:18.320 of the day, we need to make those decisions to 00:40:18.320 --> 00:40:19.860 to keep him safe. I can't imagine him having 00:40:19.860 --> 00:40:22.559 a cell phone right now. And his friends have 00:40:22.559 --> 00:40:25.280 cell phones. Oh, yes. And they're in text like 00:40:25.280 --> 00:40:28.840 group chats. And God only knows what is said. 00:40:29.280 --> 00:40:32.239 And, you know, what little innocent thing may 00:40:32.239 --> 00:40:37.210 be said that then puts a mental toll on them 00:40:37.210 --> 00:40:41.389 when they're growing up. I am against sleepovers 00:40:41.389 --> 00:40:44.630 and Melody knows this. Dean and Lewis don't even 00:40:44.630 --> 00:40:46.889 ask. I mean, all three kids sleep in my bedroom. 00:40:47.090 --> 00:40:48.610 I don't think they're going to be asking to sleep 00:40:48.610 --> 00:40:52.130 over anytime soon. If their friends want to sleep 00:40:52.130 --> 00:40:55.170 over, I don't think their parents are going to 00:40:55.170 --> 00:40:58.110 want them all sleeping in my bedroom. We're good 00:40:58.110 --> 00:41:03.030 there. You need to plan. You need to plan. Go 00:41:03.030 --> 00:41:06.039 ahead, Justin. Okay. Victoria was unpopular. 00:41:06.380 --> 00:41:12.500 Alright. Always. So just stay with me. I don't 00:41:12.500 --> 00:41:14.920 know what you two will think of this one, but 00:41:14.920 --> 00:41:19.500 the first step that you take isn't the most important, 00:41:19.739 --> 00:41:23.320 right? So like I feel like we always say... The 00:41:23.320 --> 00:41:30.559 first cut is the deepest. No thank you. The first 00:41:30.559 --> 00:41:33.000 cut is the deepest. That's all I know. That's 00:41:33.000 --> 00:41:35.099 all I know. What happened to your voice? It goes 00:41:35.099 --> 00:41:38.159 up, I think. Sorry, go. What? Oh, you're still 00:41:38.159 --> 00:41:44.840 here? Unpopular. Still here. Explain. All right. 00:41:45.199 --> 00:41:49.000 So the first step you take isn't the most important. 00:41:49.079 --> 00:41:52.059 And I feel like as fitness instructors, we're 00:41:52.059 --> 00:41:55.059 always saying, just take that first class. Like 00:41:55.059 --> 00:41:58.119 once you start taking it, Like that's the hardest, 00:41:58.179 --> 00:41:59.900 which it can be the hardest sometimes, but it's 00:41:59.900 --> 00:42:01.639 not the most important. That's literally my speech 00:42:01.639 --> 00:42:05.179 to a new person. Yes. The most important step 00:42:05.179 --> 00:42:09.139 is always the next one. What? I read this in 00:42:09.139 --> 00:42:12.139 a book, so it's not my it's not my. Wait, this 00:42:12.139 --> 00:42:15.619 isn't like outlandish. I'm confused. I don't 00:42:15.619 --> 00:42:17.900 know if I agree. I think for me, that was just 00:42:17.900 --> 00:42:20.820 like a flip in how I viewed things, you know, 00:42:21.260 --> 00:42:24.719 like the next step, that next class, that next 00:42:24.719 --> 00:42:28.190 meal. whatever the next is in your journey for 00:42:28.190 --> 00:42:30.769 your mental health or your physical health, the 00:42:30.769 --> 00:42:32.989 next one is always the most important because 00:42:32.989 --> 00:42:36.090 that's what is going to keep you moving forward 00:42:36.090 --> 00:42:38.730 in your journey. And I thought you're both not 00:42:38.730 --> 00:42:42.190 working on yourselves. Shut up. No, I mean, like 00:42:42.190 --> 00:42:45.329 I'm just taking a five minute break because I 00:42:45.329 --> 00:42:47.469 work on myself all the time. I just need a break 00:42:47.469 --> 00:42:50.309 because I'm enough. Is that what is when no progress 00:42:50.309 --> 00:42:52.230 is being made? Is that what your therapist told 00:42:52.230 --> 00:42:55.800 you? Yes, Victoria. Victoria once told me I'm 00:42:55.800 --> 00:43:04.380 enough. I mean, I take it back. Yes and no. I 00:43:04.380 --> 00:43:08.300 completely agree with it and think it's not a 00:43:08.300 --> 00:43:11.280 wild thought. Like day one is just one day if 00:43:11.280 --> 00:43:14.679 you keep going. So it's always the next move 00:43:14.679 --> 00:43:16.699 that you're going to make is is the next move 00:43:16.699 --> 00:43:19.400 because it's every decision is a fork in the 00:43:19.400 --> 00:43:22.159 road. Every single decision. Can I be devil's 00:43:22.159 --> 00:43:25.199 advocate? You always are. Uh -huh. I'm gonna 00:43:25.199 --> 00:43:29.059 be devil's advocate. I'm doing signs. Please 00:43:29.059 --> 00:43:33.460 don't. Okay. I do think taking the first step 00:43:33.460 --> 00:43:36.739 is... Oh, well, you said the most important, 00:43:37.260 --> 00:43:39.400 right? It is the hardest. Maybe those are two 00:43:39.400 --> 00:43:41.500 different things. Yes. Okay. So maybe I do agree 00:43:41.500 --> 00:43:43.360 with you. I do think taking the first step in 00:43:43.360 --> 00:43:45.980 anything is the hardest. Yeah. Like starting 00:43:45.980 --> 00:43:50.159 a new lifestyle eating wise or taking the first... 00:43:50.110 --> 00:43:53.570 work out or I do so hardest and important or 00:43:53.570 --> 00:43:55.349 very two different things. I mean, they're they're 00:43:55.349 --> 00:43:57.349 two different words. So yes, they are two different 00:43:57.349 --> 00:44:03.250 things. But yeah, you're right. Yeah. I only 00:44:03.250 --> 00:44:06.909 50 % agree with you. Right. It's hard to we always 00:44:06.909 --> 00:44:08.530 say it hardest part was walking in the door. 00:44:08.590 --> 00:44:10.690 Yeah. Yeah. Which is true. Which is so true. 00:44:10.809 --> 00:44:14.130 Like the unknown is always. Exactly. Exactly. 00:44:14.269 --> 00:44:16.269 And every decision is unknown. Yeah. So every 00:44:16.269 --> 00:44:20.139 time you make that decision. OK. I had a healthy 00:44:20.139 --> 00:44:22.679 meal, this meal. What's my next meal going to 00:44:22.679 --> 00:44:25.659 be? Well, what's the choice to have another healthy 00:44:25.659 --> 00:44:29.059 meal? That's a hard decision. Because I feel 00:44:29.059 --> 00:44:30.920 like people will be like, oh, I ate healthy. 00:44:31.039 --> 00:44:33.639 So now I can have like I can cheat and do this 00:44:33.639 --> 00:44:35.820 because I I'm rewarding myself for eating healthy, 00:44:36.139 --> 00:44:38.840 which, yes, you can have those like small moments, 00:44:38.840 --> 00:44:41.619 but you always have to keep that mindset of like, 00:44:41.719 --> 00:44:44.579 OK, I did great. Now, moving forward, that next 00:44:44.579 --> 00:44:47.219 meal, I still need to continue to to do good. 00:44:47.420 --> 00:44:53.650 So. I think that's unpopularly popular. Okay, 00:44:53.829 --> 00:44:56.250 I'll take it. Because people don't do that because 00:44:56.250 --> 00:44:59.929 things are hard. Yeah. But it's important. And 00:44:59.929 --> 00:45:01.829 important and hard are two different words we've 00:45:01.829 --> 00:45:06.449 learned. We're learning so much. Oh! That's what 00:45:06.449 --> 00:45:08.050 happens when you take the back seat to bettering 00:45:08.050 --> 00:45:11.130 yourself. Vocab. I also don't think you listen 00:45:11.130 --> 00:45:14.289 to what I said. and just heard what you thought 00:45:14.289 --> 00:45:16.650 I said, which is kind of your MO. That's her 00:45:16.650 --> 00:45:19.650 only MO. Yeah. Yeah. I'm working on it. No, you're 00:45:19.650 --> 00:45:24.389 not. Are you? You're literally not. Literally. 00:45:24.989 --> 00:45:28.369 But that's a really good segue into what it was. 00:45:28.449 --> 00:45:30.829 But then you guys kept talking, so my segue's 00:45:30.829 --> 00:45:36.159 gone. OK. She's a segueist. I love a good segue, 00:45:36.260 --> 00:45:39.139 but the moment has passed to my last unpopular 00:45:39.139 --> 00:45:42.260 opinion, which has nothing to do with anything 00:45:42.260 --> 00:45:45.559 good. And I know that you guys are going to have 00:45:45.559 --> 00:45:47.340 no idea what I'm talking about. Stop disclaiming. 00:45:47.460 --> 00:45:50.800 OK, but everybody is going to understand. I believe 00:45:50.800 --> 00:45:54.679 that the New York housewives are the superior 00:45:54.679 --> 00:45:59.079 housewives. What? I don't care. I don't think 00:45:59.079 --> 00:46:03.260 any of them are superior in what sense. You can 00:46:03.260 --> 00:46:06.860 give your moment. I believe that the original, 00:46:07.159 --> 00:46:11.000 let me say it again, the original New York City 00:46:11.000 --> 00:46:13.699 Housewives are the superior Housewives. Nothing 00:46:13.699 --> 00:46:16.019 else needs to be said. That's my opinion. Okay. 00:46:16.139 --> 00:46:19.599 Well, that's my opinion. Except that was OC Housewives. 00:46:19.860 --> 00:46:21.039 Nobody knows what you're talking about. Nobody 00:46:21.039 --> 00:46:24.940 cares what you're talking about. HBO, look up 00:46:24.940 --> 00:46:28.179 the documentary Demons of Hollywood. Episode 00:46:28.179 --> 00:46:30.139 I just watched, yeah, it's really good. Episode 00:46:30.139 --> 00:46:32.380 I just watched yesterday was on The Housewives. 00:46:33.079 --> 00:46:37.300 Jenna, Gina. Which one? J -E -A -N -A, the original. 00:46:37.519 --> 00:46:42.820 Oh, Gina, she's from OC. Watch it. Okay. Wait, 00:46:42.820 --> 00:46:45.360 I think you were telling me about the - You won't, 00:46:45.460 --> 00:46:49.199 you won't wanna keep watching it. What were you 00:46:49.199 --> 00:46:51.440 gonna say? I think you were talking about a different 00:46:51.440 --> 00:46:54.739 documentary recently, were you? About the Power 00:46:54.739 --> 00:46:57.710 Rangers? Yes. Demons of Hollywood. I got to watch 00:46:57.710 --> 00:46:59.670 it. Okay. Demons of Hollywood. I just wanted 00:46:59.670 --> 00:47:01.989 to get that out there for the masses, that like 00:47:01.989 --> 00:47:07.969 housewives that I believe, OG, NYC, superiority. 00:47:08.869 --> 00:47:13.090 What just happened? There's also a rehab specialist 00:47:13.090 --> 00:47:17.289 on the documentary who talks a lot about what's 00:47:17.289 --> 00:47:20.269 going on. I can't, I need a tissue. For your 00:47:20.269 --> 00:47:25.900 issues? Yes, we love haikus here. Do you know 00:47:25.900 --> 00:47:29.320 what a haiku is? Oh, our haiku corner is coming 00:47:29.320 --> 00:47:32.280 up. I forgot. Melody is really into haikus right 00:47:32.280 --> 00:47:34.780 now. Is she? So we're going to do a haiku corner 00:47:34.780 --> 00:47:39.579 moment. And I forgot. In the podcast, you're 00:47:39.579 --> 00:47:42.739 having a haiku corner moment. She very much wants 00:47:42.739 --> 00:47:44.900 to be back on the podcast because it was two 00:47:44.900 --> 00:47:47.139 years ago and she was talking about her ex -boyfriends 00:47:47.139 --> 00:47:49.739 and her life has changed since then. So she would 00:47:49.739 --> 00:47:53.079 like to come back and talk about something else. 00:47:54.480 --> 00:47:58.199 But that's a popular opinion. Anyway, anyone 00:47:58.199 --> 00:48:00.659 last popular opinions? Get them out while you 00:48:00.659 --> 00:48:05.519 can. Are you last calling right now? I know. 00:48:05.789 --> 00:48:08.309 Is it 2 a .m.? Are the ugly lights coming on? 00:48:08.409 --> 00:48:11.730 I think that's for me to say. Closing time. You 00:48:11.730 --> 00:48:14.030 don't have to go home, but you can't stay here. 00:48:15.010 --> 00:48:17.389 I think it's because it was my last one and I 00:48:17.389 --> 00:48:23.829 feel like, you know, if it was my last one. I 00:48:23.829 --> 00:48:30.190 think there should be not a license, but a medical 00:48:30.190 --> 00:48:32.989 alcohol card, like there's a medical marijuana 00:48:32.989 --> 00:48:35.719 card. That you have to be approved to be allowed 00:48:35.719 --> 00:48:40.380 to drink. I could support that Yeah, I I can 00:48:40.380 --> 00:48:43.000 definitely support it, but I don't believe that's 00:48:43.000 --> 00:48:45.579 ever gonna happen. Oh god. No, it's not No, but 00:48:45.579 --> 00:48:49.420 you need a medical marijuana card to go into 00:48:49.420 --> 00:48:52.719 Marijuana stores to purchase the drug. I mean 00:48:52.719 --> 00:48:54.900 here in Pennsylvania you do in New Jersey. You 00:48:54.900 --> 00:48:58.960 do not Correct Justin usually goes so clearly 00:48:58.960 --> 00:49:02.119 he knows correct there. Yeah, you needed a man 00:49:02.119 --> 00:49:05.639 Puerto Rico Did you? Yeah. So it depends on where 00:49:05.639 --> 00:49:07.480 you are. Correct. It depends on whatever. We 00:49:07.480 --> 00:49:09.300 do not go into one just to put that out there. 00:49:09.300 --> 00:49:14.219 I like the idea. It just, it's, yeah. But don't, 00:49:14.360 --> 00:49:16.599 isn't that just a license for alcohol? You need 00:49:16.599 --> 00:49:19.599 a license to order alcohol, buy it, order? Order? 00:49:20.320 --> 00:49:24.119 Jesus, get it out. No, you need to be approved. 00:49:24.559 --> 00:49:27.420 You have to have a mental health reason to have 00:49:27.420 --> 00:49:30.480 a marijuana card. Like you... would need to show 00:49:30.480 --> 00:49:35.159 a diagnosis of anxiety or inflammation and arthritis 00:49:35.159 --> 00:49:38.019 and pain. There's a medical reason that's why 00:49:38.019 --> 00:49:40.139 it's called a medical marijuana card. So you 00:49:40.139 --> 00:49:43.639 would need a medical card saying you don't have 00:49:43.639 --> 00:49:46.179 any of those things and you are allowed to drink 00:49:46.179 --> 00:49:51.099 alcohol. Basically a reverse medical marijuana 00:49:51.099 --> 00:49:53.519 card. I don't have mental illness. I don't have 00:49:53.519 --> 00:49:55.699 depression. I don't have all these things because 00:49:55.920 --> 00:49:58.239 When I do, when I have alcohol, bad things happen. 00:49:58.579 --> 00:50:04.320 You would need a free and clear to consume alcohol 00:50:04.320 --> 00:50:08.139 card. Yeah. I'm out. I'm out. We know. Yeah, 00:50:08.139 --> 00:50:11.420 but God forbid she take a hit. Yeah. Because 00:50:11.420 --> 00:50:13.380 she's like, oh my God, people who smoke weed. 00:50:13.519 --> 00:50:19.579 Oh my God. Oh my God. You're so dog. But crack 00:50:19.579 --> 00:50:21.880 open those surf sides. Yeah. Throw them back. 00:50:23.699 --> 00:50:27.219 Not so much anymore, but. uh back in my heyday 00:50:27.219 --> 00:50:31.420 yes i could have used a card yeah i should have 00:50:31.420 --> 00:50:34.900 used a card yeah 99 bananas and 99 oranges did 00:50:34.900 --> 00:50:40.380 me dirty back in college boon's farm sounds horrible 00:50:40.380 --> 00:50:45.619 that sounds so gross oh god popular i was popular 00:50:45.619 --> 00:50:50.260 i don't think you were no i i think we know We 00:50:50.260 --> 00:50:52.579 don't have to think. We know. Now Justin, did 00:50:52.579 --> 00:50:56.099 you know my name first or me first? Did you like 00:50:56.099 --> 00:50:57.780 hear my name through the halls of school and 00:50:57.780 --> 00:50:59.019 you're like, man, I really want to be friends 00:50:59.019 --> 00:51:02.719 with her. No. He knew me. Yeah. And I said, that's 00:51:02.719 --> 00:51:09.079 my sister. True story. Yep. Anyway, you got another 00:51:09.079 --> 00:51:14.739 one? I don't think so. Oh, really? So you said 00:51:14.739 --> 00:51:20.360 you had 17. He's mispronounced. I like to whisper, 00:51:20.760 --> 00:51:23.619 too. Can we ask Justin's picture? Yes. Ask Dr. 00:51:23.860 --> 00:51:29.159 Justin. OK, no. You don't have any more. You 00:51:29.159 --> 00:51:31.599 can say no. I have one, but that's. You don't 00:51:31.599 --> 00:51:33.599 have to better yourself. You can say no. OK. 00:51:33.840 --> 00:51:36.380 I mean, I say no to you all the time, so I'm 00:51:36.380 --> 00:51:39.480 well aware. OK, so do you have one or no? Fine, 00:51:39.480 --> 00:51:47.619 I'll say one. OK. I think we should ban the term, 00:51:47.619 --> 00:51:51.699 and I may have said this before. Mr. Mom. Why? 00:51:52.300 --> 00:51:55.260 I hate the term Mr. Mom because I think it's 00:51:55.260 --> 00:52:00.519 degrading to both parents. Who says Mr. Mom? 00:52:00.780 --> 00:52:02.880 There's a movie. One of my favorite movies is 00:52:02.880 --> 00:52:05.900 Mr. Mom with Michael Keaton. Yeah. Came out early 00:52:05.900 --> 00:52:08.739 90s, late 80s, early 90s, something like that. 00:52:08.940 --> 00:52:10.559 He was the one that, it was a stay -at -home 00:52:10.559 --> 00:52:12.440 mom who took care of the kids. Stay -at -home 00:52:12.440 --> 00:52:14.300 dad. Stay -at -home dad who took care of the 00:52:14.300 --> 00:52:19.449 kids. And right there. It's just right like the 00:52:19.449 --> 00:52:25.150 gender biases and gender norms that Say women 00:52:25.150 --> 00:52:26.989 should the one be the ones taking care of kids 00:52:26.989 --> 00:52:30.190 and that if dads are then they're not really 00:52:30.190 --> 00:52:34.170 the dad They're more the mom role Right. So there's 00:52:34.170 --> 00:52:37.550 no equal. There's a you're doing the mom role 00:52:37.550 --> 00:52:39.610 right now, right? and I also think right like 00:52:39.610 --> 00:52:42.989 dads can do the bare minimum and society will 00:52:42.989 --> 00:52:45.510 be like, they are such a good dad. And meanwhile, 00:52:45.710 --> 00:52:48.269 moms are literally killing themselves, sacrificing 00:52:48.269 --> 00:52:51.250 their mental and physical health for their family. 00:52:51.610 --> 00:52:54.130 And they do one wrong thing and they get criticized 00:52:54.130 --> 00:52:58.769 for not being the best mother or wife. I was 00:52:58.769 --> 00:53:01.190 looking around on spring break. We went to Candyland. 00:53:01.500 --> 00:53:05.860 um that you went to candy land we went to candy 00:53:05.860 --> 00:53:08.599 land and delco um which is like a little bouncy 00:53:08.599 --> 00:53:12.260 house jumpy like ball pit thing and i was sitting 00:53:12.260 --> 00:53:15.000 there looking around at how many dads brought 00:53:15.000 --> 00:53:18.059 their kids so i don't know if they were off because 00:53:18.059 --> 00:53:20.539 of spring spring break or where the moms were 00:53:20.539 --> 00:53:24.139 but almost all of the people there were dads 00:53:24.139 --> 00:53:27.980 and their kids yeah um which i was thinking wow 00:53:27.980 --> 00:53:31.480 how cool but maybe not how cool because that 00:53:31.480 --> 00:53:35.699 should be normal. Yeah. And I think it is getting 00:53:35.699 --> 00:53:39.139 more normal now. We're definitely at an age. 00:53:39.199 --> 00:53:42.820 I think our age groups specifically are at a 00:53:42.820 --> 00:53:48.599 point where it's not abnormal for both parents 00:53:48.599 --> 00:53:50.380 to be working and both parents to take a more 00:53:50.380 --> 00:53:53.460 active role in child rearing and all of those 00:53:53.460 --> 00:53:57.719 things that were typically the woman's job, quote 00:53:57.719 --> 00:54:00.619 unquote. Right. So wait, why was that cool? Well, 00:54:00.800 --> 00:54:02.760 no, not cool. I was just thinking how interesting 00:54:02.760 --> 00:54:05.360 like, oh, all these dads are really involved. 00:54:05.760 --> 00:54:10.760 Whereas 50 years ago, like our grandpa, he wouldn't 00:54:10.760 --> 00:54:13.139 have taken the kids to Candyland. I don't feel 00:54:13.139 --> 00:54:15.599 like because he would have been working or he 00:54:15.599 --> 00:54:17.320 would have been like, no, you know what I mean? 00:54:17.500 --> 00:54:19.679 And how today it was like almost all dads and 00:54:19.679 --> 00:54:22.159 their kids. I was like, what a change. Yeah. 00:54:22.260 --> 00:54:25.159 Like because I feel like now so many dads are 00:54:25.159 --> 00:54:28.260 way more involved than they were. 50 years ago. 00:54:28.280 --> 00:54:30.079 Yep. And I was also like, well, where's Andrew? 00:54:30.320 --> 00:54:33.019 Do I have to be here? Well, what if it's not 00:54:33.019 --> 00:54:35.559 because they're more involved and it's I'm not 00:54:35.559 --> 00:54:38.420 around. I'll take you. Give mom a break. Yeah. 00:54:38.780 --> 00:54:41.760 It could be totally that as well. But I was thinking 00:54:41.760 --> 00:54:45.320 just like I was just noticing it looking around. 00:54:45.320 --> 00:54:49.760 Yeah. And I think, you know, wipe your nose. 00:54:49.800 --> 00:54:53.179 Sorry. I've been laughing too much. I forgot 00:54:53.179 --> 00:54:56.559 you're allergic to laughing. Because she's never 00:54:56.559 --> 00:55:01.380 laughing around you. Yeah. She's usually yelling 00:55:01.380 --> 00:55:05.360 at me. Wow, you wipe real hard. Real hard. Real 00:55:05.360 --> 00:55:07.440 hard. Say it again. Say it again. Say it again. 00:55:07.699 --> 00:55:10.519 Never again. Real hard. OK, that's enough. Wow, 00:55:10.579 --> 00:55:13.480 your eyes bug out when you do that. That's an 00:55:13.480 --> 00:55:15.780 interesting visual. I'll be sure not to call 00:55:15.780 --> 00:55:18.780 you Mr. Mom then. Thank you. Who calls you Mr. 00:55:18.940 --> 00:55:21.619 Mom? When Kaden was little, I think I was at 00:55:21.619 --> 00:55:23.900 the grocery store, and this old woman said, like, 00:55:23.900 --> 00:55:26.059 oh, Mr. Mom, blah, blah, blah. And I got so pissed. 00:55:26.059 --> 00:55:28.679 And it's so stupid to be pissed about, like, 00:55:28.719 --> 00:55:30.659 a 70 -year -old woman who has no idea, right? 00:55:30.820 --> 00:55:32.440 Like, when she was younger. Generational. Yeah, 00:55:32.719 --> 00:55:35.579 exactly. It's the same thing when people at the 00:55:35.579 --> 00:55:37.460 grocery store say to me, oh, you've got your 00:55:37.460 --> 00:55:39.159 hands full, because I have three kids. And I'm 00:55:39.159 --> 00:55:41.739 like, yeah. I'm good. This is right. This is 00:55:41.739 --> 00:55:43.960 just my life. Oh, well, then you don't know what 00:55:43.960 --> 00:55:47.599 you look like. We're like, good luck. Like when 00:55:47.599 --> 00:55:49.539 they see Dean and they're like, good luck. I 00:55:49.539 --> 00:55:51.980 hate that. I'm like, I don't need luck. Right. 00:55:53.159 --> 00:56:00.159 No, but it's those things like the same thing. 00:56:00.320 --> 00:56:03.000 Mr. Mom, good luck. Or, you know, you got your 00:56:03.000 --> 00:56:06.530 hands full. It's all. It's all words. It comes 00:56:06.530 --> 00:56:09.289 from a, I think it comes from a place of like 00:56:09.289 --> 00:56:12.570 a good -natured place. Like it's not like from 00:56:12.570 --> 00:56:16.409 a... No, it's conditioning. Yeah. Yeah. I think 00:56:16.409 --> 00:56:18.070 that's good -natured. I think that's conditioning. 00:56:18.250 --> 00:56:24.250 Yeah. That just happened in not a child format, 00:56:24.309 --> 00:56:28.150 right? One of our, the dance teachers got engaged 00:56:28.150 --> 00:56:30.969 and she doesn't have a diamond. She picked a 00:56:30.969 --> 00:56:35.130 different jewel, a gem. And one of her older 00:56:35.130 --> 00:56:37.610 clients gave her a hard time about it. It was 00:56:37.610 --> 00:56:39.750 like, you're not really engaged. It's not a diamond. 00:56:40.489 --> 00:56:44.869 It's conditioning. Unfortunately, I want to say 00:56:44.869 --> 00:56:48.369 it's the older generation, but it trickles down. 00:56:48.590 --> 00:56:51.710 So I've heard young people say similar type of 00:56:51.710 --> 00:56:54.610 stupid things. Yeah, no, I agree. Generational 00:56:54.610 --> 00:56:57.170 trauma. And it's the same thing when they're 00:56:57.170 --> 00:56:59.980 like, oh, it's... The dad babysitting? No, he's 00:56:59.980 --> 00:57:03.599 just - That happens all the time. He's just watching 00:57:03.599 --> 00:57:06.880 them. Yeah, people always say, not people, not 00:57:06.880 --> 00:57:09.039 always, but I've heard multiple people - Whoa, 00:57:09.059 --> 00:57:11.440 whoa. That's a lie. You're lying. I know. I've 00:57:11.440 --> 00:57:14.219 heard multiple people say, like, men, oh, I can't, 00:57:14.219 --> 00:57:16.260 I'm babysitting my kids, or the moms say, oh, 00:57:16.260 --> 00:57:17.820 my husband's babysitting the kids. No, they're 00:57:17.820 --> 00:57:19.300 just dadding. They're your kids. They're dadding. 00:57:19.340 --> 00:57:21.980 You're just, they're just your kids. It's just 00:57:21.980 --> 00:57:24.139 your life. They're dadding? Did I make that? 00:57:24.199 --> 00:57:26.039 Is that gonna become a trend? No, not at all. 00:57:26.039 --> 00:57:29.500 No, because it sounds stupid. Sorry, guys. I'm 00:57:29.500 --> 00:57:31.860 just dadding today. I'm just moming. They're 00:57:31.860 --> 00:57:34.440 parenting. What are you doing? I'm moming. I 00:57:34.440 --> 00:57:35.579 think that's what you were looking for. But you 00:57:35.579 --> 00:57:38.159 wouldn't say like, oh, no, I can't, guys. I'm 00:57:38.159 --> 00:57:40.119 parenting tonight. You would be like, no, I got 00:57:40.119 --> 00:57:42.920 a dad. Nope. You would just say like, no, I have 00:57:42.920 --> 00:57:47.119 my kids. I have a father. I have a father. But 00:57:47.119 --> 00:57:48.940 yeah, it's a same thing. Yeah, that drives me 00:57:48.940 --> 00:57:50.460 crazy when people say that. OK, fine. I agree. 00:57:50.820 --> 00:57:54.559 Thank you. Yep. That physically looked hard for 00:57:54.559 --> 00:57:56.519 you to say, but I appreciate it. I do what I 00:57:56.519 --> 00:58:01.510 can. It's just because her nose is full. Popular 00:58:01.510 --> 00:58:04.530 opinion episode. No, unpopular opinion episode 00:58:04.530 --> 00:58:08.269 number three in the books. This is number two. 00:58:08.429 --> 00:58:11.250 Number two. Wow. Wait, she was dead serious. 00:58:11.269 --> 00:58:13.530 She was dead serious. Because I was trying to 00:58:13.530 --> 00:58:15.329 correct myself in the beginning. Yeah, you said 00:58:15.329 --> 00:58:24.550 four. Oh. Dos. Dos. Dos Equis? She said Dos Equis. 00:58:26.329 --> 00:58:28.630 My god, that was the whitest thing you've ever 00:58:28.630 --> 00:58:37.530 said and you've said so many white things Every 00:58:37.530 --> 00:58:40.329 time you say alcohol I'm saying there every time 00:58:40.329 --> 00:58:42.130 Justin has told me to get therapy you guys need 00:58:42.130 --> 00:58:46.210 to drink at home He said I like 15 times Sometimes 00:58:46.210 --> 00:58:48.889 it should sink in at some point you would think 00:58:48.889 --> 00:58:50.949 but we're a break from bettering myself right 00:58:50.949 --> 00:58:52.889 now. Leave me alone Would you at least blow your 00:58:52.889 --> 00:58:54.769 nose? I think you have to start before you take 00:58:54.769 --> 00:59:04.690 a break Just kidding. Let them hate. Haters gonna 00:59:04.690 --> 00:59:10.949 hate. There you go. With that said, thanks for 00:59:10.949 --> 00:59:14.429 tuning in. If you're still here, if you are still 00:59:14.429 --> 00:59:19.929 here, I think you need therapy. But we appreciate 00:59:19.929 --> 00:59:23.150 you. We do. Don't take a break on us. No. We're 00:59:23.150 --> 00:59:25.369 going to thank Justin for taking off from work 00:59:25.369 --> 00:59:29.190 today. Uh, yeah. Did you? Yeah. Yeah. I did. 00:59:29.469 --> 00:59:31.170 Just for you. Just for us. That's what we're 00:59:31.170 --> 00:59:34.829 going to tell ourselves. And, you know, come 00:59:34.829 --> 00:59:37.570 back. I will. For the fourth and fifth and sixth 00:59:37.570 --> 00:59:40.289 and seventh episode. Now for the third. I think 00:59:40.289 --> 00:59:43.250 it's been over a year since I've been here. Yeah. 00:59:43.519 --> 00:59:45.860 You haven't given us the time, so thank you for 00:59:45.860 --> 00:59:47.400 giving us the time today. Sorry, I was very busy. 00:59:47.539 --> 00:59:49.280 You have cut out of work a lot though. Yeah, 00:59:49.300 --> 00:59:51.219 I'm thinking of dropping my second job, so I'll 00:59:51.219 --> 00:59:53.719 have more time for you. With that being said, 00:59:54.219 --> 00:59:57.820 oh shit, we're the second job. That's fine. Carly 00:59:57.820 --> 01:00:01.800 helps you teach anyway. Tuesday nights with the 01:00:01.800 --> 01:00:06.260 duo. I won't be there. Carly strong arms me into 01:00:06.260 --> 01:00:08.019 her teaching during my class. Are you saying 01:00:08.019 --> 01:00:10.980 I'm strong? And Carly tells me, Carly tells me 01:00:10.980 --> 01:00:13.739 it's you. Literally, I'll, I have the receipts. 01:00:13.900 --> 01:00:15.739 I will show you. All I heard was Justin thinks 01:00:15.739 --> 01:00:19.860 I'm strong. He said I strong arm him. Okay. As 01:00:19.860 --> 01:00:22.519 usual, remember, but you don't have to, because 01:00:22.519 --> 01:00:25.539 apparently you can take a break to be fit, to 01:00:25.539 --> 01:00:27.539 be real. But like, remember, you don't have to 01:00:27.539 --> 01:00:31.400 do that. And a little extra. Thanks, Justin. 01:00:31.719 --> 01:00:35.719 Thank you. I feel like you don't mean that. Carly, 01:00:35.760 --> 01:00:48.420 blow your nose! For legal reasons, we have to 01:00:48.420 --> 01:00:50.300 tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment 01:00:50.300 --> 01:00:53.340 and educational purposes only. We are not healthcare 01:00:53.340 --> 01:00:55.760 professionals. For all of your health, wellness, 01:00:55.980 --> 01:00:58.159 fitness, and self -care needs, please refer to 01:00:58.159 --> 01:01:00.659 the medical professional in your life. Your primary 01:01:00.659 --> 01:01:03.340 care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, 01:01:03.659 --> 01:01:06.019 whoever it may be. And then let us know what 01:01:06.019 --> 01:01:08.360 they say because I guarantee we need to know 01:01:08.360 --> 01:01:11.400 it too. Okay? Okay, bye.