1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,840 We did it. You did it. Welcome to fit to be real and a little extra 2 00:00:06,560 --> 00:00:11,920 Live in my living room. I just had you know just threw this on today 3 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,740 She said come over come over you have to come over now 4 00:00:14,740 --> 00:00:18,040 We have to do this now. So this is just this is all I had I said look normal 5 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:24,400 Maybe even you know be comfortable. We're gonna fireside chat it for a little bit. I 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:29,720 I did I miss the mark did I stood it? 7 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:35,500 I'm sorry. This is my normal daily look. I don't know 8 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:40,080 I do you not well technically that's my prom dress 9 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:46,440 That Carly has had in her house for four years if it fits I sits 10 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,200 Okay, and it fits so I'd be sits it 11 00:00:52,200 --> 00:01:00,940 Okay, okay, can we just for a second describe what's happening here? So I'm sorry cold this prom dress 12 00:01:00,940 --> 00:01:05,240 It was my your cold. I'm gonna cover myself. I'm a little chilly 13 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:13,380 This amazing glitter semi-ball gown is from Deb Deb 14 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:15,880 Do you remember Deb? Yes? 15 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:17,760 Yeah 16 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:22,400 Sorry, I was just getting into character from when I used to shop at Deb. It's the same character. Yeah 17 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,920 If it were here, I think you would sell I 18 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,240 Think it still exists somewhere. I don't think so. No, I think it went 19 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:37,720 Where stores go to die just like Contempo Casuals and 579 579 and limited to and 20 00:01:38,320 --> 00:01:41,840 Limited to doesn't exist anymore. No the brand does you can buy it? 21 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:46,520 Like I melody has some limited to clothing, but there's no limited to store 22 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:51,960 You know what I mean? Like the brand exists, but there's no actual you can't walk in this is random 23 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:58,120 But party cities closing. Yeah, I'm so sad. I just saw that 24 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,160 I think this week I saw that like all the stores are closed 25 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:06,920 There's gonna be nowhere to physically shop anymore. What do you did you want to go to party city and stand in line? 26 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,600 I went there three times this week. Did you want to go to party? 27 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,160 I went there three 28 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:19,160 No, just cuz like just like babies are us like you can't just go buy a present for a baby shower anymore 29 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,160 Like you have to order it all night 30 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,720 Listen, these are the things you don't think about 31 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,960 When you're running out of the house in your ball gown and you have somewhere to go real quick 32 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,680 There's nowhere to go. I like that you 33 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,720 chose 34 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:38,280 this outfit but didn't change your necklaces the array of 35 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:40,360 um 36 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:45,400 There's a turtle in there on a silver chain. There's a there's a Italian 37 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,080 stallion 38 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,200 Gold listen. I ran out of my house like this 39 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,400 Put your eyelashes away 40 00:02:56,040 --> 00:03:04,840 So this is episode 101 we gave everyone a big get ready new things are coming in episode 100 last week 41 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,080 and 42 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:12,040 I would I would be remissed and lying to all of you if we told you that we did this ourselves 43 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,760 Oh wait 44 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:19,480 No, we I don't think anybody thinks we did this by ourselves. They know us 45 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:25,160 At this point. Yeah, that's true. So we uh, Pedro we have had help 46 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,320 setting all of this up 47 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:28,280 and 48 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:34,360 It will eventually evolve and change. So this is day one, which I think is how we kind of describe what was going to go on 49 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:40,520 We jumped him a two feet. We had no idea how as usual. Harley literally doesn't know how to jump in 50 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:45,800 She's wearing platform uggs right now. I'm sorry. Is that not this is not go? 51 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,360 It's giving me cinderella story 52 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:53,560 I've never seen that. I know I know I know is that hillary duff and chad michael murray 53 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,920 Yes, yeah, I've never seen it and and the 54 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:02,120 The best I love her everyone does impersonation of her best in show 55 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:09,160 Oh, Jennifer coolie edge jennifer cool, liege cool, liege coolio cool 56 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,960 cool, liege 57 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,720 Anyway, I have many ball gowns to be worn that I cannot 58 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:23,240 Wait to wear so the the goal is to get all of this out of the way so we can see them more appropriately 59 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,560 and properly 60 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,560 I will always be in sweatpants 61 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:32,280 And I will always be dressing naturally. She's gonna regret that in like two weeks 62 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:37,080 No, this is natural. This is natural. This is natural. I I don't understand 63 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,640 What I did wrong 64 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,160 Nothing. No, this is perfection. This is also coffee 65 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:45,240 by the way 66 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:49,560 Yes, but she is making spirits bright, which is what it says so 67 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,680 So yeah, in any case we are jumping in we are going to 68 00:04:54,680 --> 00:05:00,920 To change and switch things up and it's always gonna look different until it's exactly the way that I want it to be 69 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,440 Is basically how it's gonna work and I'm just here, but we're just 70 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,800 But we're I'm just excited to to get this ball rolling because I think 71 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,240 I don't know ball rolling 72 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,600 Because I'm in a ball gown 73 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,080 You should have come 74 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,320 In a mermaid 75 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,600 fin 76 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:26,920 There's so much time for that. Yeah, she's more of an Ariel than a Cinderella 77 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:33,960 She does not like to scrub the floor. Oh god. No, but she will I'll sing for my dinner into a fork. Yeah 78 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:43,640 So we do have things to actually talk about today not just carly's alphabet of choice 79 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,640 And we're gonna get into it but you said be yourself 80 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,000 I mean I myself 81 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,000 I maybe we can follow you around 82 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:55,880 throughout the day a day in the life 83 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,680 And watch you go to the mall 84 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:06,520 And coals I've been to the mall so many times in the past few weeks and wah wah. Yeah, okay in this outfit. All right. I like 85 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,560 I like that idea 86 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:15,000 Cool the opportunities are limitless 87 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:19,480 And fraying limitless. Yes 88 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:26,760 I was thinking you you said the opportunities are limited, but you said limitless 89 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:34,760 And then I was thinking unlimited and then I went through that in my head, but you said it right they are limitless 90 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:36,680 Yeah 91 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:42,600 Thank you. Okay for letting us in on that that little journey. We'll see here's the thing now you can see 92 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:46,600 My reaction to what's going on in my head when she talks 93 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:53,640 And that's what I'm a little bit afraid of because I don't think people ever understand the sometimes 94 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,560 Sheer anxiety I have when you're talking or the confusion 95 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,320 But I'm talking complete unknowing what we're talking about 96 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,960 And now you're all going to be able to see it 97 00:07:04,280 --> 00:07:09,640 So we're going to try and disguise it in my ball gown. So you're not looking at my face 98 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:15,240 You're just talking it in talking it real deep down like I do all my issues and problems and now 99 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,680 Now you're going to be able to see them live 100 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,840 Great. Okay, that's what I'm scared about. It's a more well-rounded 101 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:29,960 Picture. Mm-hmm literally. I loved the fake picture you guys all had of me that I had it together 102 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:35,000 It was fit to be real kind of kind of and a little extra 103 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:42,920 Yeah, definitely fit to be real for the most part and a lot extra always. Yeah, that's we're renaming the podcast 104 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:48,760 That's a lot of words. That's a lot of words. That's okay. Uh, so yeah, we do have some real things to talk about 105 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,400 And by we I mean me mostly 106 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,640 per use only 107 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:54,920 per use 108 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:56,600 but you know 109 00:07:56,600 --> 00:08:00,360 Just like everything else. You don't know who we are. So we have to tell you our names 110 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:05,400 We're gonna keep this set up the exact same way. Love it. It's all we know 111 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,240 So I'm Victoria. Hey guys, I'm Carly 112 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:21,400 I wish I could zoom in right now on your face. Hey guys. No 113 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,040 Yeah 114 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,040 Hey guys, I'm Carly 115 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,680 I just did it on me Pete. You don't have to zoom you can just watch it again 116 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,520 I think yeah, okay. Guess what we're gonna talk about today 117 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:35,400 Wait, I love the title of this 118 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:37,800 Doing my best 119 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:42,200 No, what we're talking about today. Well, she gave me this book for Christmas. It says doing my best 120 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,480 So let's hope though. This is my best 121 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:51,160 The title of today's podcast I had to write everything down. This is how it always has been you just didn't get to see it 122 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,160 What your clothes say about you according to science? 123 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,320 I mean 124 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:00,840 How appropriate. Yeah, I didn't even know I ran out of my house like this 125 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,440 I didn't even know I didn't even know what we were talking about today. It just so happens 126 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,120 We're very lucky 127 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,280 Like I do consider us blessed 128 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:14,760 hashtag bless 129 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:18,680 Is that what they do? Is that what the kids do? I don't think so hashtag bless 130 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:23,720 But you whip that out pretty quickly. Can you whip the heart out? You know how they do the heart with the fingers? Yeah, hold on 131 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:27,880 Mm-hmm. Here's the church. That's a tear. Here's the steeple 132 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:33,640 Put it together and here's all the people. No, no and now we have to correct it. There we go. There we go 133 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:41,080 Here's the church. Here's the steeple. Here's the church. Here's the steeple turn it around and see all the that's not it 134 00:09:43,560 --> 00:09:47,640 No, it's this it's this is it. Here's the church. Here's the church. Here's the steeple 135 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:52,280 Open it up and see all the people. Yep. We're okay 136 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:57,800 We're all right. We're not though because the holidays just passed and it feels like we missed it 137 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:03,400 Every year every single year. Yeah, I feel like it was a whirlwind 138 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:05,480 but the day 139 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:09,800 Like Christmas day was really long and New Year's Eve was really long just because you start so early 140 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,600 I mean Christmas Eve. Sorry because you start so early 141 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,160 And by the time you get to the end of the night, you're like, oh, wow 142 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:16,920 I've been up for a really long time 143 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:21,240 But it was so much fun that it was a whirlwind and time went too quickly and I feel like I missed it 144 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:25,320 And I did the thing that I have been doing the past couple years where I 145 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:33,000 Stopped and I was like enjoy this. This is fun. Did you like yeah, and it still didn't make a difference 146 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,440 I'm still oh no overly exhausted 147 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,800 Like I missed it like I want to go back and do it again 148 00:10:40,680 --> 00:10:44,840 Like I wanted it to be even slower and it just is never going to change 149 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:50,120 It might as your kids get older it might no, but I like it 150 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:54,040 Like I like the time right now. I love watching them open presents 151 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:59,480 And I love sitting there with my coffee and being like, oh, I think you should open that one first 152 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:03,240 And I'm not really realizing, you know, yeah, and 153 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,240 And it's you know, they're just gonna get older 154 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,120 And it's gonna change. I'm trying to like 155 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,920 Press pause and it's not happening 156 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:18,920 But now you all can for the visual press pause at any time 157 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,760 She'll just do these peace fingers tongue out things 158 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,760 Frequently figure enjoyment when I'm uncomfortable 159 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:31,880 We're gonna end up doing a drinking game 160 00:11:32,680 --> 00:11:36,760 Give me a few weeks to figure all this out and then we'll get some we'll have some fun with it for sure 161 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:42,760 But let's let's actually get into it. Okay, so there are five different 162 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:48,360 Uh some ways to dress that reflect an emotional 163 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:56,600 Response or like reason reason for why you dress that way. Mm-hmm, right? I in 164 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,400 Being the only one who knows what we're talking about 165 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:05,560 I fall in a few of these categories. Like I can't say that I'm like I'm a hundred percent only this 166 00:12:05,560 --> 00:12:11,320 Style and that makes total sense for me. I'm like, yeah, but I do that. Oh, and I do that and I do that 167 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:12,840 I don't do this 168 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,880 Is there not like an option where somebody like oh 169 00:12:16,680 --> 00:12:21,320 Scientist says you are savagely annoying and I fall into that category 170 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:26,200 There's not like 100 I am this one 171 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,520 Scientists don't call we're gonna 172 00:12:30,680 --> 00:12:32,680 We're gonna make our own scientific 173 00:12:32,680 --> 00:12:38,840 Observation at the end. So the first one's oversized clothes and that's also like a trending style 174 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,480 I it's one of my favorites 175 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,080 Yes, but at the same time you also wear no clothes 176 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:49,160 Yeah, so I might fall into a couple of different categories, but 177 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:57,240 I love wearing humongous sweatshirts and humongous sweatpants. Yeah, I don't you also like wearing no clothes 178 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:04,680 You do well if anybody has come to our seafood classes Carly takes the crop shirts that we make and then cuts them shorter 179 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:10,280 Because why not because it's a style. I can't get more fabric on my body 180 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,000 In that moment and you're very different 181 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:17,800 Yeah, so oversized. Yeah, it's the oversized sweatshirt oversized sweatpants 182 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,600 um, I would even 183 00:13:20,680 --> 00:13:22,280 Sorry, yeah 184 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:25,880 Your tool sorry is so loud. He's coming a tool. You are 185 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:27,880 You are sorry. I'm cold 186 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,480 I would even nope 187 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:38,120 Go so far as this is not just like the comfortable oversized look it's it's 188 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:42,440 Oversized sweater dresses like for a nice event. It's oversized anything, right? 189 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:49,080 But everybody wears an oversized sweater with like the skirt now and sneakers. That's like their thing oversized sweater 190 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:53,080 I wore a baggier sweater with like a really nice skirt for Christmas Eve 191 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:59,080 Yeah, and everybody at church had that on too some sort of fuzzy oversized sweater with a satin skirt 192 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,200 and flat and exactly and 193 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:05,080 But I also think the 194 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:09,960 biker shorts with the enormous t-shirt is never going to go out of style and that's so 80s 195 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:15,800 That's like 80s aerobics. Yes with the big chunky socks the which is coming back now 196 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:24,200 It's been back chunky sneakers chunky socks biker shorts and an enormous sweatshirt or t-shirt. Yeah. Well, let's let's 197 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:26,680 figure out why that happens. So 198 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,840 People who dress like this struggle to let people in 199 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:35,820 Hmm makes sense. Yeah, the clothes create a sense of physical and emotional 200 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,240 protection 201 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,320 like like a wall 202 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:48,520 And you guard yourself from vulnerability and scrutiny. So there's a bit of insecurity there too. Obviously. Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah 203 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,600 I agree 204 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,840 There's gonna be a lot of self-reflection here today 205 00:14:55,160 --> 00:15:02,600 Because i'm thinking why do I wear baggy t-shirts with biker shorts or but it's when i'm not feeling great or it's when i'm like 206 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:06,760 Comfort. I do think comfy. Like there's something wrong with wanting to be comfortable. Um 207 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:13,560 Clearly you can be comfortable in anything. I could take a nap in this. This is daily. That's called exhaustion 208 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:16,200 Yeah, and fatigue and over stimulation 209 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:21,240 That's right. You would know that if you want therapy, but we're gonna move on to number two. Okay 210 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,520 Clothes that have a lot of words or specific words or print 211 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:32,520 Yeah, like loud basically loud loud. Uh-huh. I like a good t-shirt that is funny 212 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:36,520 That you like cut as a crop or something like that carly likes a cheetah 213 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,200 I like a cheetah, but as you're saying that I also like 214 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:46,520 We're designing clothes at the moment because we don't have enough to do so victoria was like what can we do? 215 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:53,480 To make ourselves busier for no money and so we design clothes now and she goes for the 216 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,800 for the see fit 217 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,840 guys, this is from our personal 218 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,240 This is our new set 219 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,240 This is our new style 220 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,520 Please don't contact us. No, no, no for see fit only but 221 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,640 Victoria likes a busy pattern. I do not 222 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:17,640 Yeah, we're yes. We're very different like she loves a lot of a lot and I'm like no just the one of the one 223 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:26,760 You're beige. Yes, and I am loud and proud. Yeah black and white are my go-to colors. Like I am not allowed 224 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:31,080 Yeah, right, but I wear that's all I wear really 225 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:33,960 I just like 226 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:38,280 I like the creative design of of other options. I don't know. I don't know 227 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,240 It's that one's the hard for me when you say loud clothes 228 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:48,280 What I'm thinking of is like the big sweatshirt with donald duck in the four blocks donald duck mickey 229 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:55,240 Goofy and like mini mouse in neon colors at the background is red, but they're so red and blue 230 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,960 That's what I'm thinking of. Yeah, and that's not me 231 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,080 I don't like how you smiled and said that and then took it down 232 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:07,240 But if there was a black and white sweatshirt like that, I would totally wear that 233 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:11,720 Yeah, that's true. That's I mean it's a good just uh 234 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:17,160 Description so who what are people that wear loud clothing you like to argue? 235 00:17:18,120 --> 00:17:20,120 Yeah 236 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:24,840 No, no, that's not me. I'm thinking of myself not of any of you. I'm only thinking of myself 237 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,560 But no, it's true like you don't I I would 238 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:33,080 Kind of debate the word argue and say you wouldn't be afraid to stand up for yourself or 239 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:40,680 Maybe do a moment of controversy or what was the word that's not controversial that you should be that you have a hard time 240 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:45,240 Confrontation no no oh the word that's not confrontational 241 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:50,920 Standing up for yourself. What's that word called that we did a whole episode on that you need to be more of 242 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,560 And I strong no 243 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,560 Yes, but no 244 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,520 Assertive assertive. I never would have gotten there. I'm just letting you know 245 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:03,480 I know because you always say but I don't want confrontation and I say it's not confrontation 246 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:09,320 It's you saying hey, this is what I want. Yeah, I would much rather do this. I'm sorry that you don't agree. Yeah 247 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:13,240 No, yeah, and I don't like that. I'm gonna choose to say that argue 248 00:18:14,120 --> 00:18:16,120 With this loud clothing option 249 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:20,360 Could mean assertive not necessarily arguing right, okay 250 00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:24,920 I'm sure bold or vibrant prints often use their clothes as 251 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:31,000 Forms of self expression, which makes a lot of sense. Yeah. Yeah if there's a phrase or you know a funny meme 252 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,480 I mean everybody's putting memes on t-shirts these days 253 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:38,520 I have a neon salina t-shirt that I absolutely love pick a side. Sorry 254 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:41,960 We don't get it 255 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:45,560 But I don't wear it, but I love to have it in my closet 256 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:50,040 It's do or to bed. I do. I wear it to bed. It's like in the comfort of your own home 257 00:18:50,120 --> 00:18:53,880 I like to be assertive when no one can see she likes to express herself quietly 258 00:18:55,240 --> 00:19:03,480 Uh, so statements on these shirts or any you know any type of clothing might reflect beliefs humor personality 259 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:10,520 That signal a readiness to engage with other people. Okay, because if you're gonna wear, I mean, it's true if you're gonna wear 260 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,880 any type of shirt that might be funny or 261 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,880 Like I have a lot of Harry Potter shirts. Yeah 262 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:22,200 People will say something about it. Yes, and that's okay to me. I'm like, oh, yeah, you like it too cool move on 263 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:29,000 Carly is a little bit more of like don't know. No, we're not we're not in the same room right now. Don't talk to me. No, I'm I'm too 264 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,480 Everything you're saying and everything you're doing are two very different things 265 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:38,920 I'm just finding a new way to wear the sash change up the dress a little bit. Yeah, I yes, you are correct 266 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:45,000 I would do not want somebody to come up and comment on my t-shirt and I'm like all I do is that if I'm out in public 267 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:49,160 I'm like, hey, I really like your dress and I'll keep walking. Oh my god. She is the compliment queen 268 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:50,440 But why not? 269 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:56,840 Can we talk about it? Why not if who knows what that person's going through and they chose maybe they're really self-conscious in that dress 270 00:19:56,840 --> 00:20:02,040 And they're like, but I really wanted to try to wear it tonight like and what and I complimented them and then they feel really good about themselves 271 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,240 Yeah, no, I I get the idea and I think you're great 272 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:11,640 I'm gonna punch you on screen, but that's not me. I like to hide 273 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:21,080 Number three hoodies who doesn't love a hoodie me first of all me. I like her. No, she doesn't she's not like I have too much hair 274 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:27,400 The hood look it's too. It's too much. It's too much, but a crew neck. I like so a hoodie 275 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,920 I'm gonna say it also goes for crew necks even though we're gonna talk about the hood part 276 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:38,440 I have an entire wall of hoodies that I now have too many and I have to stack them underneath 277 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:43,720 We're gonna do a walkthrough of Carly's closet on an episode. Oh, can't wait for that 278 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:51,080 Let me know ahead of time so I can nope. It should be how it is all the time real just like me and it's extra 279 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:54,600 Extra so if you are a 280 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,800 You sure did I'm not used to I'm not used to 281 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:01,800 Hitting my elbow 282 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:07,320 We heard we heard the elbow hit loud and clear. Okay. Are you okay? Yeah, I'm fine. Yeah, that's good 283 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:13,160 You like people if you wear hoodies all the time, but you value your own personal space 284 00:21:14,360 --> 00:21:16,360 Why how how 285 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:22,040 You wear a hoodie and that says I like people I think it's because you're comfortable 286 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:28,760 So that there's a something with a hoodie that it gives you confidence or like no, but if 287 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,240 If no, there's something if someone wearing a hoodie 288 00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:37,560 That they look happy in I would I think there has to be some sort of expression of of ease 289 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:45,480 It's not necessarily confidence, but it's you know, well when you're comfortable you might be more approachable. I guess yeah approachable 290 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:51,640 That's the word I couldn't find approachable, but you also want to wear that in the confines of your own home on the couch by yourself 291 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,720 Not talking to anybody 292 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,880 Right, it's the best. Yeah 293 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,440 I'm gonna make that sound good 294 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,440 So I hope that worked 295 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:04,840 So the hood though the hood attached to the hoodie has a representation as well 296 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:06,440 cool 297 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,840 And it acts as a symbolic shield 298 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:14,360 Offering the option because you can put it down to retreat from the world 299 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:19,480 Like which really means like if putting a hood up you're kind of you're gonna try to hide right 300 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,320 I think goes for like a hat as well. Karlie likes to wear hats to grocery stores 301 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,080 Or she doesn't talk to people. I mean, even though you look exactly the same 302 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:31,800 I have been told many times that I look homeless when I go grocery shopping 303 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,520 You know who you are and I do 304 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,840 Because I don't want anybody to talk to me. She said, you know who you are 305 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,560 Well, that was one I'm not gonna lie. That was one of my favorite things about 306 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:44,760 COVID 307 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,360 COVID yeah, you would have a hat on a hoodie on and a mask 308 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,920 You could only see people's eyes 309 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:56,680 Really? Yeah. Yeah, we sound like we don't like people and it's true depends on the day 310 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,840 We're just not the extrovert I think that people think that we are 311 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:05,800 I'm a hundred percent 312 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:10,440 Overstimulated introvert. Yeah, and I'm an ambivert. We've gone through this before 313 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:16,200 But it's not that we don't like people. We do like people but at their certain times of the day 314 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:21,480 We are very introverted. I just want to rewind for a second. You remembered the word ambivert 315 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,960 But you cannot remember how to be assertive 316 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:29,720 Ambivert, you just pulled out. I'm very self-conscious. This is what I wear when I'm self-conscious 317 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,760 Number four over dressing 318 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,720 For any occasion and or all occasions me 319 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:42,120 I 320 00:23:42,120 --> 00:23:46,600 I I overdress don't think that's true. You think that's true? What? 321 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:53,800 Oh my gosh. Yes. I think I overdress well most times I think here. Here's what I think 322 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,840 I don't think you overdressed. I think you have 323 00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,160 Two versions of yourself. Yeah, I think there's a New York City version of Carly 324 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:06,760 From living in New York number one and also that's just you're a very sex in the city at heart 325 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,920 Yeah, because you like different fashions 326 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,600 If you saw what she wore to some of our Christmas parties this season 327 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,720 You'd agree 328 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:22,280 But you also know your environment, which is unfortunate because it doesn't really blend in in Dora County 329 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,640 I told you that somebody said to me when I moved home 330 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,120 I must have been like a year or two after I moved home from New York 331 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,600 And I was wearing we were out and I was wearing something 332 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:34,840 I think I've said it on here before and they said, oh, is that from your New York? 333 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:36,760 fashion 334 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,200 and I was like 335 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,600 No, this is just the shirt that I like and they're like, oh, that's like very you in New York 336 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,800 And I was like, oh, I didn't need no I needed a New York 337 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:52,120 Closet and a Delco closet. You don't but that's how I felt. Yeah, you're like, oh my god. Is that you in New York? 338 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,920 Because I had like patchwork or something. Yeah, I can roll in the back 339 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,800 Yeah, and I was like, oh no, I just I just love it 340 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,760 But then it really like clicked and I was like, okay 341 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:05,880 I can wear this to these specific occasions with these people and I have to wear this 342 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,640 And dumb my not dumb it down. I don't I don't mean to say dumb it down 343 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:16,520 I mean dress it down for these people who might think that that's a way too fancy for their 344 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,880 Which is just a projection of their insecurity onto you 345 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:25,800 So don't let that projection become your own insecurity. Well, I just saw a meet, you know, I like talk about memes 346 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,200 I saw a meme this morning of 347 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,760 Somebody with a humongous disco ball head 348 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:36,280 Yeah, and it was like when somebody tells me to dim my light and it's like this guy in a suit dancing 349 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:42,120 crazily with an enormous disco ball on his head because he's like going extra now that somebody told him to like 350 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:48,200 Chill and it's hysterical. And that's how I that's how I felt because I was like, oh god. I gotta like 351 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,760 Get a new closet then 352 00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:54,120 But you don't 353 00:25:54,120 --> 00:25:59,480 Right, I was like 25 at the time Carly tries to dim my light every day every day. Oh my god 354 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:06,200 And it shines so freaking bright except you keep buying me clothes with lots of colors on it. So because I know that's what you like 355 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,600 I 356 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:12,600 want you to dress how you like no matter what I think and 357 00:26:14,360 --> 00:26:17,880 Raise your hand if you believe her raise your hand if you believe her 358 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,960 No, it's funny. We try and dim each other's light. You are a ball 359 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,400 You're a ball of confusion 360 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,880 And yes 361 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,200 That's not sure hold on so over dressing 362 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:35,160 Is this is about to get real. Oh god. Yeah, this one this one serious 363 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,240 You often feel not good enough. Oh, I know 364 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,560 consistently dressing up even when the situation doesn't call for it 365 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:48,600 May suggest a deep seated desire to make a strong impression 366 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:55,720 Or compensate for feelings of inadequacy. Wait, hold up. Hold up. I 367 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,720 I object 368 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,720 I object because 369 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,280 Moving on 370 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,720 What's wrong with dress I 371 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:14,040 Listen, you even see my closet, but I love clothes and if I don't wear them where where do I get to wear them? 372 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:19,240 I don't go to fancy things all the time. So I just have to wear them. I don't find a problem with it 373 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:25,240 I don't think this is necessarily a hundred percent true. I think this I think all of this is situational and individual 374 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,720 So I don't think that pertains to you 375 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:34,520 I think there is something to you of just liking fashion and liking to like what you like and wanting to look like a real housewife all the time 376 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:41,000 I walked in the other day and she's I was like I look like and she said a real housewife and I was like, yes 377 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,800 Which alpha was that your pajamas 378 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:51,880 Uh, no, it was my big fur coat leather and fur coat and it was like up to my neck and it has belts hanging from it 379 00:27:52,120 --> 00:27:57,800 It was army green and white sherpa. Yeah, and it was and it's down to my ankles down to her ankles 380 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:02,920 She looked like I might crack her sunglasses on and a hat. That's right. Yeah. No 381 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,560 Not a knock cracker the 382 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:06,680 the 383 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:12,680 I've got tired brain, but the guys who stand outside of Buckingham palace with the big tall hat the guards the 384 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,560 The guards at Buckingham palace very good. Thank you 385 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,440 You looked like them when they're wearing their winter coat on yes 386 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:28,280 And I love dress like as much as I love a hoodie and sweatpants that to me 387 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:29,480 I'm like, uh 388 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,440 I could dress like sex in the city every day and I would be happy 389 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:37,480 But then if I actually had to do that every day, I'd be like, man, all I want to do is wear sweatpants 390 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:43,960 Yeah, because that everybody is like it's not black and white. Yeah, there's a gray area. You live in the gray area the beige 391 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:45,960 You live in the beige area 392 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,040 I don't necessarily think you're trying to compensate for anything 393 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:53,000 But I do think you would prefer to look nice to something you're going out to then 394 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:59,000 To underdress. Yes. I hate being underdressed. I would much rather 395 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,480 We had a girl's night back when I lived in New York and it was in it was home 396 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:08,520 And they all as soon as I walked in the first thing they said was ah, what's she wearing today? 397 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,120 And I was like, did you get new girls because 398 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,160 I sort of god was it me? 399 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,120 No, you weren't there you might have been there 400 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:22,120 But I just thought I was like, oh, I was wearing like a sweater and sweatpants 401 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,640 It wasn't a hoodie and sweatpants 402 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:28,200 It was like a cute sweater and sweatpants and they're like, we knew you'd dress up and I was like, damn 403 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:32,840 Yeah, well, that's their problem. Yeah, right. That's what you have to kind of start to 404 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,120 Let them let them 405 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,640 I like how you said it 406 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,520 It matches the dress the way you said that 407 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:47,560 Uh, and I'm the opposite. I'm this last one, which is number five and it's underdressing. Yes 408 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,680 Which also is like problematic 409 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:54,520 Uh, for a lot of different reasons. Let's hear your problems. I'm not as many 410 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,520 I'm not saying 411 00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:00,200 This means that you never feel like you truly fit in 412 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:05,880 Yeah, so like why try? Yeah, so just stop trying. Yeah, give up give up 413 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,680 My outfit says I'm giving up. That's usually what my outfits say actually 414 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:16,440 Uh, and you're rebelling against societal norms. Those both are you? 415 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:23,800 Yeah, I think conditions are stupid and I'm really trying to work hard to break them however fashion-wise 416 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,080 I've never I've never had a problem with it 417 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:28,600 What do you mean? 418 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,360 They can like they can this is not a norm 419 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:36,760 It's like I don't care if somebody doesn't like what I'm wearing or if I'm overdressed or underdressed or have a bunch of things 420 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:43,640 Like colors nothing matches. No care if I match cow print horse t-shirt alien bucket hat. No, she doesn't care 421 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:48,360 I own all of those things. Oh, I know I can picture them in my mind probably warn them all at the same time 422 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,800 If not, I will now to prove a point 423 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:55,560 So but but here's the other thing you don't wear them 424 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:57,800 to 425 00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,720 Prove the point no 426 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,160 Because I do know people that wear stuff outlandish 427 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:09,560 Because they're trying to like put it in somebody's like the world stick it to them stick it to the man or something 428 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:14,520 She just genuinely likes an alien t-shirt or why not? 429 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:20,760 Uh cow print bell bottom like not so much anymore, but when you were little you did I wish I kept them 430 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:26,120 I'm not gonna lie, but she doesn't do it to stick it to anybody. She's just like oh, I like that. I'm gonna wear it 431 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:30,440 Yeah, and I'm not I mean I'm nobody's super human 432 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:36,200 I do know that I'm making myself vulnerable in situations for like judgment of other people 433 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,520 I just don't care. Yeah, I'm raising my hand. That's really all I'm sorry 434 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,200 I'm gonna be completely honest 435 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,000 But I don't I don't care like what I'm wearing 436 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,000 I 437 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:55,800 Shouldn't shouldn't matter to anyone else if it's not harming someone else and I from really not wearing it to like 438 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,880 protest or 439 00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:03,240 Do something like that who who who cares if I like I don't like cheetah print 440 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:08,600 Very I don't I don't own any cheetah print or pink. I don't really wear pink. Okay. Well, you don't like your niece 441 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:14,200 They're my only two. I don't like wearing it. I didn't I don't not like people who wear it 442 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,400 But to bring it back to what we're actually talking about 443 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,880 I think there's a piece of underdressing where it's like well 444 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,880 I'm not gonna fit in with what this is because I 445 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,840 I am not like these people so I'm gonna wear what I want to wear and I want to be comfortable 446 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,720 Is it is accurate? But at the same time I don't own a lot of nice things 447 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,200 Well, because you don't go out a lot 448 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:38,200 You really don't 449 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,920 You have been more but like your lifestyle 450 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:46,280 You don't go to wet like some people go to weddings and that's their job. They are a 451 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:51,800 Wedding like professional wedding guests. Yes. I was gonna say wedding goer, but you said it better 452 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,840 They are a wedding goer. I'm gonna go into the wedding 453 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,800 So they have a lot like they just have a closet full of 454 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:02,920 Rehearsal dinner stuff and weddings. We're not those people you don't have that kind of stuff 455 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,680 Like I had to buy her for her birthday a funeral jacket 456 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:11,320 She didn't have a jacket to wear to funerals. So we don't go to a lot of funerals 457 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,280 But when we do go she has nothing to wear 458 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,920 So she asked me for a funeral jacket 459 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,920 So I had to buy her a p-coat that was like nice 460 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:27,160 But also like she it wasn't too nice and I said here happy birthday. Here's a funeral jacket 461 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,280 You can now go to funerals 462 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:34,360 I've worn it to other things than funerals so far because I haven't been to a funeral since October 463 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:40,040 Or since my birthday. Yeah, uh, but yes because I 464 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,920 Would rather own sweatpants. Yeah, and so I have a lot of sweatpants 465 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:50,040 I have a lot of sweatshirts and like oversized t-shirts. I guess yeah, you are a couple of those 466 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,720 I would say I'm too you're you're a little bit of a lot of them 467 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,840 Story of my life 468 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:58,360 Right 469 00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:59,640 um 470 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,360 I mean, and I also think this isn't like foolproof 471 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:08,920 Yeah, it's like a personality quiz. It's not like yeah, it's personal. It's what you what your personal opinion is 472 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:14,680 My personal opinion is I love to dress up when I can when I'm allowed to dress up when it calls for it 473 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:20,360 And I love to be in my pajamas for five days straight like I have been it's all or nothing 474 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,880 Yeah, I'm a go big or go home like I'm a ball gown 475 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,160 Or naked 476 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,480 I don't wear a lot of clothes to work out but I but 477 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,480 Um 478 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:38,040 That is true. Yeah, what's the science behind number six with number six slutty 479 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,760 What's that sign? 480 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:49,800 I think there's too many issues behind that one to get into so they were just like, you know, we'll just stop it at six 481 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:54,440 Yeah, or five. We'll just stop it there because we can't get into the traumas. Yeah, yeah, too much 482 00:34:55,240 --> 00:34:56,760 too much 483 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,320 I just listen the only reason we're bringing that up is because 484 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,320 Now you can see us 485 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:12,120 Now you see us and maybe you will stop that thing is then you won't and then you won't but if you know again 486 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:14,760 That's the point of this 487 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,040 is that 488 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,680 When we record this is middle of a work week 489 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:24,360 I will be coming from something else. You'll be going to something else most likely. I'll be in this 490 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:32,040 Well, you are gonna go to your children's lunch hour at school. So it's very possible. She will be wearing like this 491 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,920 Yep, we're leather pants 492 00:35:35,720 --> 00:35:37,720 Oh my god, you somebody texted me 493 00:35:37,720 --> 00:35:42,280 We were doing a show the other month and she was like, uh, do I have to go out and buy leather pants? 494 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:48,920 I said, are you kidding me? I have eight pair of leather pants in my closet. I will lend you a pair of leather pants 495 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,920 I 496 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,760 Love clothes. I love clothes 497 00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:00,280 Ask me how many I own how many leather pants do you have? Okay 498 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,960 So how many t-shirts do I have is the real question? I don't want leather pants. That's crazy 499 00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:09,960 I'm sweating. Listen thinking right now. Like I'm a furnace 500 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:15,320 You are a furnace and currently can't be cold enough or like warmed up enough 501 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:21,560 I feel great right now, but I'm a little chilly. So I'll put this on a little chilly up on my sash one 502 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:25,400 But why are you talking like that to do it because you have to talk like that when you have a sash? 503 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:26,920 Oh 504 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:32,760 You change you have to change. I'm a chameleon in my clothes. Why can't your ball ground sash be like anesthesia? 505 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:37,640 I don't know why my ball ground can't be bad. Damn it. I didn't think you would do it 506 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,920 Ah, no 507 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:45,400 Anyway, we hope that you 508 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:49,800 Kind of had the same sentiment that we stop it. I saw it out of my peripheral. No peace fingers 509 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:54,040 Uh, have the same sentiment as we do when it comes to how you express yourself 510 00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:59,000 Which is just do it like and don't care about the rest stop it. I'm sorry. Wait 511 00:36:59,240 --> 00:37:01,080 This is Victoria 512 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,920 This is her dress and she has a bigger chest than I do and it was sitting like this 513 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:09,640 So thank you. I had a unibob and the boob was right in the center. I had to move the 514 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:16,440 I'm not used to having cups because I don't have a chest so but it was literally like this 515 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,320 Carly can't say breasts or boobs 516 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:25,640 So that's why that's basically why sorry. I had to fix my upper body 517 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,840 We're okay. We're gonna be okay. Um 518 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:32,760 But yeah 519 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:38,120 This is gonna be a big part of it where where we're coming and where we're going is not going to be 520 00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,120 We 521 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:45,720 Altered by this podcast because that wouldn't be real right? No, what? Yeah, we can't do that 522 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,440 We have tell us more we have schedules 523 00:37:51,240 --> 00:37:56,440 To keep to well, I mean, yeah, I feel like there's a lot. I mean we say it all the time 524 00:37:56,440 --> 00:38:00,280 I'm gonna say it again until we're you know, blue in the face or in the dress 525 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:03,400 That 526 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:10,600 Weren't there's no like fakeness here. Like maybe there's podcasts where they have to get ready and there's their point of it 527 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,680 is to look professional or 528 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:19,160 Have you know a character or whatever like this? This is it what you see now is what you get it was what you hear is what you get 529 00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:25,240 Now it's what you see is what you get as well as what you hear and to be it is gonna be honest with you 530 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:29,320 You might think that this isn't real, but this is real 531 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:33,720 So for me, this is pretty real. This is real 532 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,400 It is this is not a character 533 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,880 Well a little bit it is because I'm wearing Victoria's dress. It's not mine 534 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,240 But should be it has glitter like how cool is I? 535 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,880 But I whatever I wear will be how I'm feeling that day 536 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:52,920 Oh, it's things are about to get manic 537 00:38:52,920 --> 00:39:01,400 Spazzy manic they'll change every day. I will look like I just got out of bed most likely every single episode 538 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:06,440 But I will do my best. I will do my best right your book said it. It does your book says doing my best 539 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,040 There it is doing my best 540 00:39:11,720 --> 00:39:13,720 So yeah episode 101 541 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,600 starts a brand new chapter 542 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:23,080 I'm terrified. No one's gonna say Dalmatians neither of us are gonna mention like or make a joke about why why why why? 543 00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,080 101 Dalmatians 544 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:35,240 Make the joke Dalmatians. No, it's dead now. It's dead 101 Dalmatians you killed it 545 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,520 Just like Cruella Deville 546 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,440 Wanted to kill the dogs. Okay. Okay 547 00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:45,720 We should learn 548 00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:47,720 to learn 549 00:39:47,720 --> 00:39:49,720 So this this is 550 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:56,360 Us signing off. We're gonna say this is it. Yeah, this was just an introduction for all of us and I'm really excited about how it's going 551 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,280 However, I just had a heart attack that our producer in the back 552 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,840 Didn't tell me how to turn it off 553 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,000 stop 554 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,640 Hit stop he said hit stop 555 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:15,880 Just remember you're always fit to be real and always allowed to be a little extra 556 00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:30,520 For legal reasons we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and educational purposes only we are not 557 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:34,920 healthcare professionals for all of your health wellness fitness and self-care needs 558 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:41,000 Please refer to the medical professional in your life your primary care physician your therapist a certified coach 559 00:40:41,240 --> 00:40:46,440 Whoever it may be and then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know it, too 560 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:48,600 Okay 561 00:40:48,600 --> 00:41:06,600 Okay, bye