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Welcome to Fit to Be Real and a little extra.

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We have a special treat for you today.

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She's being sarcastic.

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No, no, no.

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I think it's the treat we all need.

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Carly's taking the reins.

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And Karina's reins.

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Oh, oh.

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She will be talking more.

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What a treat.

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What a treat.

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What a treat. It's the holiday season.

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Whether you celebrate...

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Yes!

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Keeping it.

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Whether you celebrate Christmas or not, it is a crazy busy time.

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And a lot of us just don't have the time to work out.

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Or if we do have the time to work out, we're in a fitness rut.

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Who likes to be in a rut?

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I don't like how you look while you're saying all of this.

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I just need everybody to paint this picture.

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She's wearing an oversized sweatshirt, red sweatpants.

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Those are weird.

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She has a Cindy Lou who top knot that like hair is just popping out all over the place.

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And she is as expressive as I've ever seen her.

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Her eyebrows are going crazy.

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That's because I have to be in charge.

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And if I have to be in charge, I pay more attention.

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When you're in charge, I just sit back and just say, yeah.

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A lot.

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So you put your attention in your eyebrows?

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I'm confused.

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This episode, I'm just going to ignore everything she just said.

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Is how to get your mojo back in the gym over the holidays.

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How Stella got her groove back.

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Mojo in the dojo.

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Mojo dojo got the house.

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She still hasn't seen the Barbie movie guys.

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Are you against it?

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No, I'm not.

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I just forget about it when I'm sitting on the couch at night.

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I'm like, what am I going to watch?

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I don't think Barbie movie.

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It's so good.

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Yeah.

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I just, I just forgot.

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I chose Oppenheimer to go to the movie.

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And then I just, time has just gotten away.

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Well, that's sort of what we're going to talk about today.

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Time is a fly.

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Oh, she's a bobblehead.

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Her neck is independent from her head.

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Oh my God.

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We really need to stream these.

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We will.

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Coming out to 2025.

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Let's get into it.

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I'm Victoria.

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Hey guys, I'm Carly for a second.

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I thought you should go first and I'm the boss.

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I'm the boss with the applesauce today.

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And the reason I want to talk about this is because nobody asked me,

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but I'm going to tell you nobody asked.

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A lot of people will text or DM or just say to us,

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I don't know what to do or I'm in a rut and I just can't get myself

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motivated during the holidays.

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And I get that, but I also don't.

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I don't think you get that at all.

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Actually, if I'm going to be completely honest.

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Yeah, I'm totally lying.

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I don't think you understand that one bit.

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I think old Carly understood that.

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Old Carly was the every man.

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Uh-huh.

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She would really struggle to get off the couch to go do her work out.

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If she did it.

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She really enjoyed a burger sitting on the couch with a bunch of blue cheese,

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you know, blue cheese on it.

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And she was a little more relaxed about most decisions.

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This Carly doesn't understand if you have families or obligations

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or the need to eat.

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She's like, what?

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Like somebody came in.

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I don't know if this is recent, but it stayed in my mind.

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Rent free.

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They have not been to class for a minute and she was like, oh, where have you been?

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Nice to see you.

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Why?

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Who are you?

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You're new.

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And she was like, well, I had a funeral.

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She was like, oh, must be nice.

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Oh, oh, sorry.

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Like, are you kidding?

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Sometimes I have this script in my head and then I don't realize what the actual answer

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is going to be.

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And then I have to like, that's all the time.

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That's like sometimes.

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You respond to people during class and they haven't said anything close to what you're

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saying.

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You don't listen.

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You're not a good listener.

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I'm the boss today.

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I'm a spiker.

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Wait a second.

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This podcast took a turn.

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We're talking about how she just spit out her coffee.

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We're talking about holiday fitness ruts and you're talking about me as a person and the

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therapy that I need.

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It's a different episode.

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Oh, she understood.

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We're getting closer.

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Wait, I understand the assignment.

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I just am not going to do the assignment.

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We are.

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Well, because I'm busy.

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Next step is flashcards in my holiday rut.

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I'm the best segueist.

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Really?

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I am the boss.

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I just want to put that out there.

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Segwayist.

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I love it.

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Segwayist.

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All right.

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The problem is you are going to go through a bunch of problems that you might have during

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the holiday season and how to fix them.

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Oh, I would love to do this for personal things.

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I know.

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I feel like this is going to go downhill fast.

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The problem.

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Your progress has stalled.

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So during the holidays, what can happen is you start to plateau because you're tired.

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You might not want to up your weights.

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You are just going through the motions.

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Basically is what's happening.

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I would say most plateaus, especially if we're going to talk about this particular season,

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you're not sleeping enough and you're stressed and it's just holding on weight.

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But that mentally is exhausting too.

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You're like, I'm going to class.

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I'm going to the gym.

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I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing, but it's stalling because as you know, we've talked

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about many times before, there are so many other factors than just how many calories you

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burn in a workout.

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That doesn't mean anything.

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I mean, it means something, but that's not all of it.

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It's what you're doing at home.

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Exactly what Victoria said, how much water you're drinking, water you're drinking.

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Say it like a real person.

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A proper lady.

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A water.

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And I don't know.

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I think that was a proper man.

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Listen, we are all inclusive here.

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So I'm here for it.

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And how much sleep you're getting.

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I'm the boss now.

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But if you feel that your plateau is happening during this holiday season, what the fix is,

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is to ignore it, push through the plateau, just ignore all your feelings just as you

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would in any other situation.

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Ignore it and push through.

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Love it.

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Well, what happens a lot of the time is you just hit your workout so hard and you go so

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fast and then you burn out and you don't want to do that.

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You know, so if you can, I know like you don't want to push through an injury.

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You don't want to push through.

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Do you know that?

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Do you?

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You shouldn't push through an injury.

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And if you are extremely tired, do not go workout.

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Sometimes they say it'll wake you up, but I am telling you it is a waste of your time.

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Like fatigue.

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Like fatigue.

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Like lethargic.

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Do not just take that rest day and push through your plateau and I guarantee you you will

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make it out to the other side.

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If you can just stick it out.

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But again, if you are severely, overly tired and we know what that feels like, it's not

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in your best interest to hit that workout.

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Skip it.

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One time is okay.

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Two times if you need it.

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Three times and then it goes down.

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No, it's not.

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Don't do that.

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No, Joe.

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No problem.

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You're sick of the gym.

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You're just sick of it.

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No, nothing.

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You got nothing for me.

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I never want to speak out against my boss.

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I'm a proper lady.

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If you're sick of the gym.

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I don't know why I'm saying it like that.

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Your top nut is bouncing when you say it's like.

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Try other things.

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I guarantee you your gym offers more than one thing.

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Yeah.

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If you are used to, I'm going to put it in terms that our C-fitters would understand.

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If you are used to going hard, horde, horde on that cardio, add yoga, add Pilates.

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So a lot of people on Inno-Victoria can attest to this will say, I'm just not a yoga.

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I'm not a yoga person.

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I'm not a, I can't slow down.

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Carly says it.

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But guess what?

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I've been, I took me 36 years because, you know, as a baby, I was not into it.

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What?

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I've been taking me 36 full years to have a little baby.

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But I go to yoga once a week and it has become part of my routine.

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In addition to all the cardio that I do, I now enjoy yoga and it's important to me.

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We're close to getting her to actually do yoga mentally because I'll look over and

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she is bopping to the music in Downward Dog.

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And I'm like, you are listening to the wrong thing here.

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You can hear that.

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You can see that.

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Yes, when you're in Downward Dog, if you don't know what that is, look it up.

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I call it Downward Dog.

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And her head is bobbing.

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I'm like, yes, she enjoys this playlist.

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Playlist.

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I will say that my best work gets done during Shavasana.

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My best work.

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I will.

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You're not doing Shavasana.

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Don't call it that.

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But that, for me, is my one hour where I don't have to do anything else but what I'm told

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by the teacher.

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And he even says, you don't have to do what I'm telling you to do.

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But I'm a rule follower.

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So I stick to the rules.

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I do what he tells me to do.

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I'm cringing so hard.

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But the point of this fix to the problem is to mix up your workouts.

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If you're into cardio, try a Pilates class.

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If you're into Pilates, try a weighted class.

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You know, add some weights.

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Bar.

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Try a bar if you're not really into the dancing.

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But there is something else at whatever gym you go to for you to mix it up to stay motivated.

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Especially now because all the gyms in the area or wherever you live, there's sales.

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There's discounts.

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Because they're trying to get you in.

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Get in before the holidays.

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Get in before the new year is what I mean to say.

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Because then things change.

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If you go to a traditional gym and you primarily lift freeweats, try the machines.

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Right?

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You primarily just do cardio and that's the purpose of your gym membership.

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If you're a treadmiller, go to the stairs.

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Change it up laterally.

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Maybe you don't want to completely go 360 and change your weights to cardio or whatever.

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Change it up laterally where it's still in your wheelhouse of what you know how to do

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and what you enjoy and what you like.

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But it's a little bit different and then it'll just kind of keep it spicy.

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I'm telling you, if you add a bar or a Pilates or yoga, it will change your month.

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If you say, I'm going to do it twice a month.

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It doesn't even have to be every day.

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It doesn't have to be every week.

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Twice a month.

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Add something new that you don't usually do.

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It'll go a long way.

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I would like you to do yoga right and try adding that in.

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That's not part of the fix.

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The problem.

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You're right.

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You're unfixable.

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We cannot go to, I fix it.

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You break it.

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If you didn't listen to last week, you won't know what that means.

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Catch up.

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I'm the boss now.

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This is why I shouldn't be the boss.

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That's great.

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You're going.

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The problem.

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Mojo and the dojo.

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You've lost your why.

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So in the holiday season, that can absolutely happen every day.

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You can lose your why.

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Why are you working out so hard over the holidays?

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You have 70,000 other things to do or that you could be doing and you're just losing.

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Why am I even doing this?

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Why?

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Do you have an answer?

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Are you just going to keep asking?

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The fix.

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Looking ahead to the new year, sign up for a competition.

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Compete with yourself.

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For some people, if you're a runner, look ahead to January, February, March and start

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training for a small competition.

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For me, it would be a 5K.

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What's smaller than a 5K?

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Anything.

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A walk.

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A stroll with your dog.

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That's what I would do.

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Or if you're looking at your own schedule, say you don't want to sign up for an actual

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competition or a running or a challenge, challenge yourself.

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Okay.

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In January, I'm looking ahead.

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I'm used to doing two classes a week or I'm used to going to the gym twice a week.

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In January, I'm going to do three a week.

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And in February, I'm going to challenge myself to four or five.

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If you write it down and challenge yourself, that's something to look forward to.

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It gives back your why, your motivation.

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Why are you even doing this?

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That's my suggestion.

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I just did this for all of November.

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That's what I didn't write down, but I meant to bring up, but I knew I was going to forget

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it.

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You're such a good boss.

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So for November, at the end of October, I was feeling exactly how we're talking actually.

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A little bit in a right.

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I knew exactly my why.

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I knew why.

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I had gone to more restaurants.

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I was not nutritionally feeling healthy and I needed to walk a little bit more.

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I hadn't walked the dog as much.

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I didn't want to get back in my routine.

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So I decided I was going to wear a weighted vest just to walk.

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For me, it was just to walk.

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Right.

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Like I only meant for it to walk pepper 30 minutes.

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She's like, I only meant for it to be this guy.

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That's all I meant.

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Carly a change of game.

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I ignored her.

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Kept yelling at her, but that's all I meant.

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So I know for myself, if I had just said that to myself, I wouldn't have.

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I wouldn't have followed there.

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Like I just wouldn't.

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Right.

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So I did something that I really now in this phase of my life don't necessarily enjoy,

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but I posted it on my Instagram story to be like, who else wants to do this?

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And then I consistently every single day of November, including Thanksgiving, I wore that

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vest, I posted it and I tagged whoever else said, Hey, I want to do this too.

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And some of the people that said, Hey, I want to do it too, ended up falling off, but I

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continued to tag that right.

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So I didn't really like letting people in to know that like, Hey, I'm doing this challenge

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and I'm walking my dog with a vest and yay selfies.

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Like I that wasn't, I don't, I don't enjoy that, but I did it.

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And I was so happy that I did it because once I got to like the 28th, 29th, 30th day, I

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was like, I got, I can't believe I did it.

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This is awesome.

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I also can't wait to stop doing this.

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Yeah.

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However, you're proud of yourself afterwards.

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I was so proud of myself that I got through every single day of November, rain or shine,

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wearing the vest once or twice.

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I wore it in a workout because it was like torrential rain and I didn't walk with it.

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But for me, that was, that was the point.

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So a challenge can be like that too.

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Get friends, get buddies.

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The buddy system will never be a bad way to go.

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You lost me at get friends.

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I know languages are hard.

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It's a different language.

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I, you know, Carly, first of all, Carly was a part of it, but she DM'd in a private group

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because God forbid she let people know what's going on.

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And she was like, I'm adding burpees to the end of it.

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And everybody should do that too.

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And I was like, no, that's not the rule.

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Those are not, I created this.

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Those are not the rules.

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Nobody has to do this.

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And guess who just decided she didn't want to keep doing it?

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Carly, cause she made it too hard.

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Wait a second.

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I didn't decide.

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I got sick and Victoria said, stop doing it.

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And I was like, no.

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And then it was December 3rd and everyone in the group was like, Carly, you're done.

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Stop.

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It's December 3rd.

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And stopped for three weeks.

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Like she had gotten sick and then was like, oh no, I'm actually not going to keep doing

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it.

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And randomly I'm going to give a selfie with me giving the peace fingers.

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It was weird.

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Anyway, get yourself a buddy that's going to stick to it.

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I'm the boss now.

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I did post a picture of myself on Thanksgiving with my family and you know, as you do the

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picture with your kids and I get a comment on my Facebook from a friend of mine who his

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only purpose in life is to make fun of me at all times.

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His name is Mike Bradley.

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And I was thinking of a different Mike and then also three other people.

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So that's good.

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Amazing.

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I tend to have that effect on people.

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They just love to rip on me.

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He was like, happy Thanksgiving.

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Are you wearing your weighted vest?

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And I was like, you don't even go here.

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Get out of my comments.

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And you never posted it publicly.

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But you would repost other people's.

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I did like twice.

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You did twice.

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Yeah.

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And you tagged me in every one.

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So he saw that because he's friends with you too.

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But I was just like, what?

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Good for you, Mike.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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The problem.

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No job in the dojo.

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You have zero energy.

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I'm sorry.

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Was that funny?

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I thought you were going to say zero friends.

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That's what we established in the problem before.

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Zero energy.

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Raise your hand.

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If you have zero energy over the holidays, raise your hand.

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I say it all the time to people.com to class.

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I give you all so much credit for coming out at seven o'clock on a Monday night when it

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is rainy and dark and cold because that means.

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Hell, I'm doing that.

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Exactly.

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If it wasn't my job, it would be very hard for me to do what you all are doing.

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So I do want to give you a big shout out for that.

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That's hard.

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Anyway, and same token if you're getting up at four o'clock, five o'clock in the morning

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before you go to work to consistently keep your routine.

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Yes.

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Both are very hard.

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I think it's a little bit easier in the morning, in my opinion.

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Yes.

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But getting home from a nine to five sitting on the couch and being like, okay, let's go.

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No way.

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So we totally understand if you have zero energy, especially in this time of year.

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But here's the fix.

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Here's a suggestion that I actually really like and I did it yesterday and I loved it.

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You want to hear?

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Yes.

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It says that if you have zero energy, say you come home from work, you're like, I am

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not going to work out.

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Get in a cold shower.

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Get in a cold shower.

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Wake yourself up.

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It will reenergize you.

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You'll feel like, okay, a little bit mentally, you're like, okay, my day's starting over.

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I just took a shower.

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If you're a morning shower, shower or yesterday I took a shower at two o'clock because I

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knew I had to teach.

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I thought your hair was wet.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Did you think it was greasy?

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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No, I just got in the shower.

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To be honest with you.

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Yes.

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No.

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And I was like, I got out of the shower.

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I got dressed to go teach and I was like, you know what?

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I feel better.

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I did not feel drag, like dragging anymore.

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Is dragging a word?

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Well, it depends on how you're using it.

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Are you trying to be like, yeah.

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I wasn't dragging.

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I'm trying to be a queen or...

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I felt rejuvenated and it was a good suggestion that I think that if you come home from work

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and you're like, I'm going to the gym at six o'clock, take a cold shower or just a shower.

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Just take a shower, wake yourself up and get yourself back out into the daily grind.

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You'll feel better.

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Yeah.

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I think I've said that before.

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There's three parts to this and of course right now I'm only thinking of two.

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But if you are feeling anxious or sad about somebody else, you take a nap.

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If you are feeling like that about yourself, you take a shower.

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Right.

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Right.

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Yes, you have said that.

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But there's a third one.

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Something about, I think it's eating.

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The fix is like to go eat something.

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But I can't remember what the problem is for the third one.

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But if it's about yourself and your own body or your mind, you take a shower.

497
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Yeah.

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I remember you did say that, but I never put it in connection with like if I'm tired and

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coffee just doesn't do it for me.

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It's just a habit.

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It has no effect on me whatsoever.

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It's like grabbing a cup of coffee and going to work out only helps in the morning.

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But also if you're a coffee, if caffeine affects you and you're feeling lethargic after work,

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you're not having a cup of coffee around five because you won't sleep.

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Right.

506
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So there is no other option other than yeah, maybe trying what you're saying.

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And the second fix to that problem would be get a buddy, keep yourself accountable and

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go with a friend because you don't want to bail on that friend.

509
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Right.

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You don't want to constantly be like, I'm not going today.

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Find a friend, get to the gym, get to a class, sign up ahead of time.

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So like you don't want to have to sign out.

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You first.

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Find a friend.

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You first.

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I'll talk to you in January.

517
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,120
Actually, no.

518
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Carly, Carly uses me for her Thursday morning yoga.

519
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Oh, I don't really go anywhere without Victoria.

520
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We've established that.

521
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:10,880
No, I know.

522
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,040
But if I say I'm sick, I'm not going, you're like, yeah, me too.

523
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,040
Right.

524
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:16,040
I'm not going.

525
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,040
I'm sick.

526
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,040
I don't go.

527
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:19,040
I'm sick.

528
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,040
I don't go.

529
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:21,040
It's like I've been sick once.

530
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,040
I'm like, gosh, she's not going to go.

531
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:23,040
This is so annoying.

532
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:24,040
I guess I should go.

533
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,160
But I also drive her so that she does.

534
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,880
That makes a difference.

535
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,600
But I think that's a big piece of it because there's been once or twice where you're

536
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:35,480
like, I can't, I'm, I think we're just going to sleep in.

537
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,560
Sometimes Andrew comes with us because, you know, we're tired.

538
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:42,240
It's been a crazy week or the kids have a schedule and I'm like, yeah, me too.

539
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:43,240
Yeah.

540
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,920
Nine times out of 10, I go without you.

541
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:45,920
Right.

542
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:51,480
And at the same time when she texts me and says, you're going for a hot second, had she

543
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,720
not texted me, maybe I wouldn't have signed it.

544
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:58,080
A hot second every single week because guess what?

545
00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:02,440
I need the motivation to be like, let me double check that she's going because I have to pick

546
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,960
her up and then we go and then we love it.

547
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:05,960
And it's fine.

548
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,560
Like you're ready for the day and it's seven thirty and you've already started and you

549
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:10,560
know, it's awesome.

550
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:11,560
Yeah.

551
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:18,000
So a buddy system is definitely don't, don't grab the buddy in the shower and then go.

552
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,840
They're separate fixes.

553
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:20,840
Just FYI.

554
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:21,840
That's a different buddy.

555
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:22,840
Yeah.

556
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:23,840
That's a different, I think that's a different buddy.

557
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,960
So like separate the fixes, but the problem is the same.

558
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:32,240
We're going to move on from that visual, that thought, everything.

559
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:33,240
Okay.

560
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:34,240
The HR.

561
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:38,160
My boss is like, I need HR.

562
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,160
The problem.

563
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:40,840
Mojo and the dojo.

564
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,120
You're burned out.

565
00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:48,240
Same sort of, it's, I feel in my opinion, this is just a different wording than you have

566
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,240
zero energy.

567
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,240
Yeah.

568
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,240
Yeah.

569
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,840
It's the same thing to me, but burnout is like we said in the beginning, you go so

570
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,480
hard so fast because you're super excited.

571
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:02,120
Sort of what happens in January when everybody goes hard, hard, hard in January because they

572
00:23:02,120 --> 00:23:04,960
want to lose 20 pounds by January 10th.

573
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,600
You know, and then same it fizzles out.

574
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:13,560
And I always say that to see fitters like we want the new people, all new people.

575
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,480
We want to meet you, but we also want you to stay.

576
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:17,600
I'm going to keep you.

577
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:24,760
So when people come in January and they want to try everything all seven days, every single

578
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,320
day in a row, I say, don't do that.

579
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,600
You're going to burnout and you're not going to want to come back.

580
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:31,600
Yeah.

581
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:32,600
Like take it slow.

582
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:37,920
And I remember our brother at CrossFit, they do the same thing because they have, when

583
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,800
new people come in, they say, we only want you coming twice a week in the beginning

584
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:46,360
because if you come too hard too fast, you're not going to want to stay.

585
00:23:46,360 --> 00:23:48,000
And I totally agree with that.

586
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,000
Yeah, that's true.

587
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,120
So in order to, also that's what she said.

588
00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:54,480
I just figured I would keep the trend going.

589
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,480
Yeah, yeah.

590
00:23:55,480 --> 00:24:02,880
I love when Billy comes and we start trends like that.

591
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:09,080
In order to eradicate the burnout, mm, mm, mm, finger guns, eradicate.

592
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:15,120
It was just such a good word and I used it correctly.

593
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:18,080
But you celebrated it too soon.

594
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:19,080
Too soon.

595
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:20,080
Side note.

596
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,760
Last night at dinner, Melody used a big word and she's like, mom, did I use that correctly?

597
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,200
Because a lot of kids at school say that I talk and nobody understands me because they

598
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,080
don't understand when I use big words.

599
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,000
And I was like, Melody, you use those big words.

600
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:36,480
What was the word?

601
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,960
I can't remember.

602
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:39,960
I can't remember.

603
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:41,360
I got to ask her, but it was a good one.

604
00:24:41,360 --> 00:24:45,800
It was a good adult word that I had to look up.

605
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,520
Oh my God.

606
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:48,960
But I was like, yes, you used it correctly.

607
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,360
Wait, was it eradicate?

608
00:24:50,360 --> 00:24:52,200
It wasn't eradicate.

609
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,560
It wasn't eradicate.

610
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:56,640
But I will, I will ask her.

611
00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:04,920
But anyway, eradicate the burnout by not forcing yourself to do everything all at once.

612
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,640
What's that movie?

613
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,000
Everything all at once.

614
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,920
Everything everywhere all at once.

615
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:12,920
Don't do it.

616
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:13,920
Slow it down.

617
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,560
You just brought the movie up because of the title.

618
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,560
Do you know what the movie's about?

619
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:20,480
I'm the boss now.

620
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:21,480
It's true though.

621
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:27,200
Consistency is important, but I think that goes with anything.

622
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,880
The season, daily routines, new routines.

623
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,480
If you go too hard too soon, it's never going to last.

624
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:36,480
Right.

625
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,440
Relationships, same thing.

626
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:39,440
The problem.

627
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,560
No Joe and the Dojo.

628
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,440
Training just doesn't seem fun anymore.

629
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,960
Now and then.

630
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:53,560
So this one was specifically for training one on one, training at the gym.

631
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,200
I can see that though.

632
00:25:55,200 --> 00:26:02,800
If you are working out with Victoria.

633
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:09,280
So for my training sessions, I definitely during the holidays, I'll do games, like

634
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,800
workout games for them.

635
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:17,960
Or you have to like, I give a movement and a repetition number per letter and then you

636
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,200
have to spell words.

637
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:20,200
That sounds fun.

638
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,960
Christmas, Santa, snow, stuff like that.

639
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,280
So then the workouts constantly changing.

640
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:31,240
So they'll get four or five words in 50 minutes and you may do some moves that are the same,

641
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,720
but I try to divvy up all the letters.

642
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:34,720
Stuff like that.

643
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,360
Or you roll dice that all have different movements on it for the warm up.

644
00:26:37,360 --> 00:26:39,400
So it kind of keeps it a little bit different.

645
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,560
We do the 12 days of Christmas that Billy had brought to us one Christmas.

646
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,000
I do it every year.

647
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,000
They know it's coming.

648
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,680
I even do it in July for Christmas in July.

649
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,400
And we never do the same thing twice.

650
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,480
So I know a lot of trainers are different.

651
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,080
You'll do, you'll separate your muscle groups on these specific days.

652
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:02,560
Every week it's the exact same situation and there's so much good to that in repetitions

653
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,040
and monotonous movement for your muscles.

654
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:11,040
But when you're coming in once a week and you want to try to set your week of motivation,

655
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:18,120
which is mainly, I think, the majority of my clients, keep it fun, keep it moving, keep

656
00:27:18,120 --> 00:27:21,600
it challenging and beneficial.

657
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:26,520
But if it is the same exact thing every time, you're not coming.

658
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,200
And I don't want to be there either.

659
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:30,200
I agree.

660
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:35,280
Thanks, boss.

661
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:39,440
Pick your workouts, pick your trainings to your liking.

662
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,680
If you don't like it, don't do it.

663
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,280
So if that means you got to float around a little bit, if that means you have to find

664
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:50,880
what you like, but the holiday season is no different just because it's the holidays.

665
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,760
And I always say, and I know Victoria always says, if you can start now, say you haven't

666
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,240
even started yet.

667
00:27:56,240 --> 00:28:02,920
If you can start now, you can do anything because if you can start at your busiest time,

668
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:07,120
that's a hard thing to do, but doable, which could just be once a week.

669
00:28:07,120 --> 00:28:11,880
It doesn't have to be a consistent, what am I doing every single day after work at this

670
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,880
time?

671
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:13,880
What are my days look like?

672
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,000
It could be once a week.

673
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:21,080
And come January or February, then things will change and maybe you'll get bitten by

674
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,600
the health bug and want to do two days a week.

675
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,200
And then maybe three or change it up.

676
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:33,920
You can't predict what future self's going to think, want, need or have time for.

677
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:35,360
So why not start now?

678
00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:36,960
I'm glad you said that.

679
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,200
No Joe in the dojo.

680
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:39,200
The problem.

681
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:40,480
Thank you.

682
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,920
You never have the time.

683
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:44,920
Holiday season.

684
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,880
It's the holiday season.

685
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,640
And screw it up.

686
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,440
And do the do-bop.

687
00:28:54,440 --> 00:29:01,480
Yeah, we have too much time.

688
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,320
The holidays are super busy.

689
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:11,400
We are a broken record when we say it, but we're going to say we are a broken family.

690
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:12,560
Mom's so mad that you just said that.

691
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,560
She's not listening.

692
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,560
Okay.

693
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,560
She has given up on us.

694
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,200
You do have the time.

695
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,080
Whoever told you.

696
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,720
Whoever told you.

697
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,000
That workouts need to be long is a liar.

698
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,440
Just wish you weren't a liar.

699
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:31,640
Because if you have 15 minutes, if you have 20 minutes and that's all you have in this

700
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,200
holiday season a day, fine.

701
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,200
That's fine.

702
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,200
Great.

703
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,960
I'm not going to toot our own horn.

704
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,960
But we have 30 minute classes.

705
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:41,960
30 minutes.

706
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,240
That's all you need.

707
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,280
And if you're saying, well, it's 15 minutes to get there, 30 minutes in class, 15 minutes

708
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:48,760
to get home, fine.

709
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,320
You can do it from home.

710
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:54,520
There are so many workouts at home that you can do 15 minutes for us.

711
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,480
We have on demand video library.

712
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:57,920
We have 15 minute workouts on there.

713
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,280
We have 30 minute workouts.

714
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,160
We've got 10 minute abs on there.

715
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,040
I even think we have a five minute app.

716
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,040
We do.

717
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,040
We did increments, right?

718
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:06,920
It's a plank challenge.

719
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:11,400
So it's not that you don't have time in this holiday season.

720
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,000
So that's not the problem.

721
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,800
What's your excuse when you say you don't have time for therapy?

722
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,400
I don't have the time.

723
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:22,600
I just thought I was getting it for free.

724
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,480
Here.

725
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,800
It's killing me.

726
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,800
I'm broken.

727
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:31,800
The problem.

728
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,200
Mojo and the dojo.

729
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:36,200
It's our last one.

730
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:40,200
The problem, which sort of goes along with the one we said before, you travel a lot.

731
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:41,840
You're working, you're traveling.

732
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,200
Oh, I can't join a gym.

733
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:44,400
I'm never there.

734
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:46,400
If you have a suitcase.

735
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,400
Traveling for the holidays.

736
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,400
That's right.

737
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:55,720
Go everywhere that you travel has a gym or a gym space or a five by five area where

738
00:30:55,720 --> 00:31:00,080
you can bring a resistance band in your hotel room or in your family's bedroom.

739
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,080
Not like not family.

740
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,080
Who's family members?

741
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:09,200
If you're going to your families for the holidays, grab, throw a resistance band in

742
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:10,200
your suitcase.

743
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,320
It takes up no space.

744
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,640
You can do a 15 minute workout.

745
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:14,640
Traveling is not the excuse.

746
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,640
I like how you bypass that.

747
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,520
When you're working out with your family.

748
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,360
Yeah, in your family's room.

749
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,240
Not your family room, your family's room.

750
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:29,120
So I had a client who traveled a lot before she retired and I would talk to her about

751
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,640
equipment that she could get and some of it she already owned.

752
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:39,400
It would be sliders, bands, a fold up mat that's weightless, which exists on the Amazon.

753
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,080
But like, don't buy it unless you don't want it.

754
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:43,080
Remember last week?

755
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,080
Yeah.

756
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,640
And it's all doable.

757
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,280
They also have hotel gyms if you're going to hotels.

758
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:53,800
So depending on the situation, you can prep for success.

759
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:55,880
And there really is no excuse.

760
00:31:55,880 --> 00:32:03,640
I went over Thanksgiving to my in-laws upstate and usually when I'm there, I run.

761
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,080
And it's very hilly.

762
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,080
I mean, hilly is not, it's mountainous.

763
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:11,080
Okay.

764
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,640
I don't love doing it there and it's on a main road.

765
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,840
Do you have like vocab toilet paper?

766
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,040
You're crushing your vocab today.

767
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,040
Mountainous.

768
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,040
Yeah.

769
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,040
I have a mountainous vocabulary.

770
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,040
Does that work?

771
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:24,040
No.

772
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:29,280
You're from hilly to mountainous.

773
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,280
The problem.

774
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:31,280
No, I'm just kidding.

775
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:36,000
So it's, if I don't want to run, there's nothing else for me to do really other than

776
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,680
work out with my family in the room.

777
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:38,680
But that's right.

778
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,280
I made you buy an order of vest.

779
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,720
I'm driving upstate.

780
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,000
I'm driving upstate for Thanksgiving.

781
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:50,000
I'm in the car and Victoria said, okay, we're doing this weighted vest challenge.

782
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,080
I said, that's cool.

783
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,520
I'm two hours into a four hour drive.

784
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,280
I don't have a weighted vest.

785
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,280
Order one.

786
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:57,280
It was like no service.

787
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:58,280
No, no service.

788
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,640
I am a zoned, a weighted vest to get shipped to my in-laws.

789
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:09,480
And it was 25 pounds and my mother-in-law texted and was like the next day when we got shipped

790
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:10,480
to the house.

791
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,720
And somebody ordered like a very heavy package.

792
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,240
I was like, just don't pick it up.

793
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:15,320
I'll get it.

794
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:16,320
It's mine.

795
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:20,680
And I did the weighted vest challenge, but I couldn't run those hills, especially not

796
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:21,680
without weighted vest.

797
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:22,680
You got a men's vest.

798
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:23,680
Yeah.

799
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:24,680
By accident.

800
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:25,680
20 is men's.

801
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:26,680
You made me do it on the spot.

802
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:27,680
I had no idea what I was doing.

803
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:28,680
I just clicked and buy it.

804
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,880
Yeah, Bray, your reading ability.

805
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:31,880
That's my fault.

806
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:38,840
The whole point of my story is that it was very cold and it was hilly.

807
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:43,880
And a family member had said, oh, there's a really great fitness center with classes

808
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:44,880
and things.

809
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:51,520
And I am always hesitant to take other people's classes because she's just not, I listen,

810
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:56,160
I'll try anything once, but in my experience and I know Victoria's experience, she can

811
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:57,520
back me up.

812
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,880
I just, I like it better when I'm teaching or I like our workouts better.

813
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,280
I, you know, whatever.

814
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:07,840
That's just, that's, we do what we do because we're good at it and I like what we do.

815
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:11,600
I don't always like every day she's stumbling.

816
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,800
I'm just trying to say this politically correct.

817
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,800
Don't.

818
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:15,800
Okay.

819
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:16,800
Other people aren't good.

820
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:17,800
Okay.

821
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:18,800
There we go.

822
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,000
It's a waste of time when you know that you're better and I think that's a confident thing

823
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,640
and not a politically correct thing.

824
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:28,920
I think it's really hard to be a good fitness instructor as easy as it seems.

825
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:29,920
It's really hard.

826
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:30,920
Yeah.

827
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:34,320
And I've spent a lot of money and a lot of time traveling when I'm traveling, getting

828
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:38,640
to different fitness centers and different gyms and hated them.

829
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:42,360
So I was like, oh, and she really loved her classes.

830
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:47,000
So I was like, oh, I don't know because I don't want to like let her down.

831
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,000
I loved them.

832
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,000
Yeah.

833
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,000
They were great.

834
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:53,120
I texted Victoria and I was like, why have I never come here before?

835
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,200
I always just ran when I was away.

836
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:56,600
I can't wait to go back.

837
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:57,600
I love them.

838
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:58,600
You don't really like to try new things.

839
00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,600
No.

840
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:00,600
And Victoria wasn't with me.

841
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:01,600
So I was like scared.

842
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:02,600
It's weird.

843
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:03,600
I know.

844
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:08,120
I'm a very, what you call non-independent person.

845
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:09,120
Codependent.

846
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,120
Codependent.

847
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:14,160
I knew there was a little word in front of that longer word.

848
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:29,800
But my point is that if you're traveling and you have the will, there is a way.

849
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:30,800
I hate you.

850
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,280
I will always knew a way whether you're going hilly.

851
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:39,000
This was a very long story to say if you have the will to work out, there is a way.

852
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,240
Try new things.

853
00:35:40,240 --> 00:35:42,560
Go up the hilly mountains.

854
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:46,600
And I hope you all took a drink every time she said hilly.

855
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,240
But really there is a way if you really want to.

856
00:35:49,240 --> 00:35:50,240
And guess what?

857
00:35:50,240 --> 00:35:53,480
Over the holidays, if you don't, don't.

858
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,840
That's okay too.

859
00:35:54,840 --> 00:36:00,040
But try and do something every day because coming back in January is going to be a lot

860
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,480
tougher if you do nothing.

861
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:07,400
And I think there's pressure mentally because you think it's a resolution, quote unquote.

862
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,080
I don't like the word resolution anymore, but you think it's a resolution and a goal

863
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,200
you have to hit because it's January.

864
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:14,200
Start new.

865
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:15,960
I must do this, that and this.

866
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,160
And then it's like there's so much pressure you're putting on yourself.

867
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:24,040
And if it doesn't, we've talked about goals and stuff, listen back.

868
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:29,120
But if it doesn't go well, it's like you get really hard on yourself for not succeeding

869
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,680
at trying something too much.

870
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:39,280
And to that same effect, like stopping now because everything is so busy and I have Christmas

871
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,760
tabloids and the kids are busy and we're going to see the Christmas lights, stopping now

872
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:47,480
and waiting till January is not what you want to do either.

873
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,000
You won't start in January.

874
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,000
No.

875
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,040
And it just makes it so much harder.

876
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:53,040
Don't stop what you're doing.

877
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,360
If you have to lessen it to make it all fit in and do all the things you want to do, lessen

878
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,360
it a little bit or switch up your times.

879
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,720
If you're a nighttime person, try a morning.

880
00:37:02,720 --> 00:37:04,400
It might change your day.

881
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,800
If you're a morning person, try a nighttime.

882
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,680
Just once a week, maybe twice a week, but do not stop.

883
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:16,120
That is the number one no-no over the holiday seasons.

884
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,320
If you are used to working out, don't stop.

885
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,080
If you haven't started, start now.

886
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:22,080
Is a no-no.

887
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,080
Take it from a ho-ho.

888
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,080
A ho-ho-ho.

889
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:36,600
Well, boss, you did a good job.

890
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,400
I am sweating.

891
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,000
You look like you're sweating.

892
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,200
Your face is red.

893
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,760
I don't like being in charge.

894
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:48,520
But how come you didn't tell me what we were talking about?

895
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:53,120
Because I knew that you were so busy that I was like, I got this.

896
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,240
I'm the boss now.

897
00:37:56,240 --> 00:37:59,520
But a little bit inside, I was like, shoot, she's on fire.

898
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:00,840
I don't like this pressure.

899
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:04,720
I like just showing up and being like, what?

900
00:38:04,720 --> 00:38:07,320
Carly showing up where everything's all set up.

901
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,160
All she has to do is sit down and put headphones on.

902
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:10,640
She grabbed her coffee.

903
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,280
She doesn't even put the creamer away.

904
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:14,800
She leaves it on my counter.

905
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:15,800
I can see it.

906
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:16,800
It's over there.

907
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:22,240
She puts the coffee in the sink, even though the dishwasher is dirty.

908
00:38:22,240 --> 00:38:24,920
She doesn't even dump the coffee out of the mug.

909
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:26,880
She just puts the mug in the sink.

910
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,880
The creamy coffee mug.

911
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:33,800
That's how I like to show up and exit.

912
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,640
Every week you leave when I go, are you kidding me?

913
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,640
The problem.

914
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,120
There's no fix.

915
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,120
There's no fix.

916
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,520
Oh my gosh.

917
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:50,520
Well, I think that's actually really helpful because I think this is a collective feeling,

918
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:55,040
whether it's about fitness or just the season, it's chaos.

919
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,040
It's chaos.

920
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:57,040
It's exhausting.

921
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,040
Well, I've just been hearing it from so many people.

922
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:04,640
Oh, everyone always feels like they need to tell us, I don't know why, where they are

923
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:06,560
and what they're doing when they're not at class.

924
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,680
It's not like I have anything to do with that.

925
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,160
Because you are the stalker.

926
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:14,080
But everybody always is saying, I'm just so busy, blah, blah, blah.

927
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,040
And I do.

928
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,000
Somewhere deep inside of me gets it.

929
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,960
Carly's in there trying to come out.

930
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,840
She's in a cage where her heart was.

931
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:28,680
Wait, what's the grinch when the heart is 10 sizes too small and then it grows?

932
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:29,680
What is the grinch?

933
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:30,680
It's the grinch.

934
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:35,240
No, I mean, doesn't it say something like, it's 10 sizes too small?

935
00:39:35,240 --> 00:39:38,040
Why are you having trouble talking?

936
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,000
Anyway, I do understand that this season is busy.

937
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:45,760
I also understand that if I didn't do it for a living, it would be extra hard for me.

938
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:51,480
So I want to shout out to all of you that make it consistent, that keep doing what you're

939
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:57,400
doing, whatever workout that is, but know that you can still do it.

940
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,880
And I understand, but keep doing it.

941
00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:00,880
Keep doing it.

942
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:01,880
Do you want it?

943
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:02,880
If you want it enough, you'll do it.

944
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,960
If it's something that you really want, you will do it.

945
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,320
And where there's a will, there's a way.

946
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,080
Give me another one.

947
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:15,240
If you want it, break it.

948
00:40:15,240 --> 00:40:16,240
No.

949
00:40:16,240 --> 00:40:22,480
With the Ariana Grande song, if you want it, reach it.

950
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,440
That's a song that we've listened to for now a decade and I can't help you.

951
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:27,440
We can't.

952
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:28,440
We can't help you.

953
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:29,440
We can't face anymore.

954
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,880
We got to go.

955
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,560
We have got to go.

956
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:35,560
Different song.

957
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:36,560
GTG.

958
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:42,880
Got to go.

959
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,320
This week, I will not be the boss.

960
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,920
So this will go a little more smoothly.

961
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,360
So much.

962
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,840
I'm going to stick to what I'm good at.

963
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:56,800
What don't don't say it.

964
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,400
Don't say it.

965
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,480
The room would like to say the room is just you.

966
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,600
Don't say it.

967
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,600
We'll figure it out.

968
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:06,600
Well.

969
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,000
Oh my God.

970
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:14,680
I need a tissue.

971
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:19,720
Garly's allergic to fun and laughter.

972
00:41:19,720 --> 00:41:24,940
And if you're anything like Garly, we hope that you will always remember that you are

973
00:41:24,940 --> 00:41:39,160
fit to be real and always allowed to be a little extra.

974
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,360
For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and

975
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,160
educational purposes only.

976
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,360
We are not healthcare professionals.

977
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,120
For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self care needs, please refer to the

978
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,160
medical professional in your life.

979
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:57,260
Your primary care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, whoever it may be.

980
00:41:57,260 --> 00:42:01,300
And then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know what to.

981
00:42:01,300 --> 00:42:02,300
Okay.

982
00:42:02,300 --> 00:42:22,460
Thank you all.

983
00:42:22,460 --> 00:42:24,160
Okay.

