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Welcome to Fit to Be Real and a little extra.

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We are 93 weeks into the game.

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That is insane to me.

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93 weeks.

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93,000.

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Dollars?

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Halla!

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Oh, it's 96.

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It's 96.

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I was going to let you go.

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That's annoying.

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Yeah, we've done this for, so if you are just tuning in and if you're not, this is our 93rd episode that we have consistently put out once a week.

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I am going to pat ourselves on the back for that, no matter vacation, sickness, busy week schedules being crazy.

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We're in that right now.

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We get it done.

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And I feel like the words in sickness and in health come to mind.

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We are married to this podcast.

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Victoria has listened to my voice nonstop for 93 weeks.

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I didn't think working with you and like growing up with you would get worse.

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Or like you get more potent.

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Potent, yeah.

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Okay, we are in the season.

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Potency?

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Well, yeah, well that and I was thinking potions.

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That's a different word.

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I know.

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That's a completely different word.

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But it sounded like, ooh, potent.

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I'm a witch is potent.

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You are a witch.

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Farley's a witch in the not hippie sense.

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No, I'm a bad witch.

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Ew.

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I don't know.

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I'm potent.

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You've made a potent.

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Yeah, I made a potent.

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We're a bit dizzy today.

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I think it's something in the air.

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It's something in the week.

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It's something in the whole season.

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Yeah, the whole month.

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It's the end of October Halloween as we are recording today.

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Halloween is tomorrow.

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So I don't know how that happened.

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I'm sure and I feel like a lot of people are with us with that sentiment.

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Like how did October just fly by but at the same time feel like a very long time.

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Like a very long month.

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We're only still in October.

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I know, but I feel like for the first time in a very long time.

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For the first time in forever.

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I'm proud of you.

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Thank you.

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That was for my kids movie.

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I'm very proud of you.

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I'm a giant child.

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I know.

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How dare you.

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Listen, we know that.

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I feel like for the first time in forever.

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I have done October the right way.

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Oh, wow.

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What does that mean?

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I got in all the things that I wanted to.

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I know you posted a meme about me the other day of the guy from Adam's family.

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Uncle Fester.

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That is like, this is what I look like because I'm trying to be the mom that's like fitting

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it all in and doing it well.

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But all year long.

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All year long.

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But I feel like I actually did do all the fun things that I missed out on the past couple

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years because we were so tired and overworked.

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And I still am tired.

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I'm still overworked, but I'm rearranging things.

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So I feel like I've gotten it.

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You're living more.

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I'm living more and saying yes to the things that I want to do more and no to the things

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that I don't want to do because it's messing with my yeses.

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I actually agree with that.

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For you or for me?

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For you.

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But also for me.

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My goal, if we're going to take it back to the 2024 goals, my goal is to live more this

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year and to not necessarily stop working, obviously, but in and among everything you just said, basically,

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in and among the regular hustle just to start living, doing things, saying yes.

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If you had heard the conversation right before we turned this podcast on to record, you would

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not think that we're doing very well, but we're fine.

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No, no, it was actually very on par.

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What we did before this was a little vent session about what is going on on our day today and

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things that bother us and things we haven't talked yet.

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So it's 10 a.m.

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It's 10 31 on 10 30.

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Oh, very good.

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Thank you.

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And we are now speaking for the first time.

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So it was like a vomit of this is everything that's going wrong today.

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And usually we speak at 8 30 a.m.

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Or before or 6 a.m.

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And we have yet to talk to each other today, which is very rare and unusual.

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So it was a word vomit when when I walked in.

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Usually I ignore your 17 texts at 6 a.m.

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while you're having your coffee until like now.

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So it's been a day.

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But that is what we're talking about today.

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Venting, emotional dumpage.

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Yeah, and.

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And how it's normal and how it's very, very normal.

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So tune in.

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Here we go.

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I'm Victoria.

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Hey, guys, I'm Carly.

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Emotional dumping isn't a word that I've like.

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Heard of before or like a phrase I've heard of before.

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I've heard of venting.

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Well, yeah, I vent every single day.

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But it's very different than emotional dumping.

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Yeah, what's emotional dumping exactly.

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So emotional dumping.

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It's an act of unconsciously sharing your feelings or perspective without

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the awareness of the other person and their emotional stator needs.

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So it's that like.

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It's the person that just complains about everything and doesn't care if

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you're actually listening, but they're talking to talk.

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They get stuck on something that's really bothering them and they can't talk

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about anything else.

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And you just have to sit there and be like, are you kidding me right now?

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Like that, I think we all have had that.

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I've had that moment before.

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Yeah, me too.

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But I think people live in that moment.

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And I can think of two people in my world that I'm like, oh, they do that

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all the time.

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Name them.

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Name them.

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Name them right now.

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You.

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For Bravo fans out there, Sarah.

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Name them.

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There's so many Bravo fans out there that can relate to what I'm saying.

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Name them.

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Anyway, if I could find a sound effect that goes, I would add it, but I can't.

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Name them.

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I was going to say emotional dumpage sounds pretty negative.

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And it is, it's living in a state of negativity.

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But we don't say emotional like you're emotionally dumping on me.

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I'm going to start.

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We don't say that.

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We just say, oh my God, you're venting like stop venting.

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We do that.

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However, there's a difference.

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Healthy venting, healthy venting is a thing.

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And it's basically just doing it consciously with the other person involved.

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A healthy venting session occurs when the listener supports the person venting by offering supportive

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responses, empathy for the situation, or just actively listening.

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It's, it's honestly just having the open communication of being like, hey, this is bothering me.

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Can I just, can I just let her all out right now?

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And then you do it and then you don't have to keep doing it.

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So after healthy venting has to come acceptance of the situation.

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else it's just emotional dumpage and like unhealthy venting.

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And I, I feel like there's been times when I've been emotionally dumping where I've

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realized it.

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I've realized while I'm doing it and think, you know, oh God, how do I stop?

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How do I stop myself?

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Or how do I get myself out of this?

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Without just completely being like, okay, never mind.

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that I just started spewing all of this at you without like talking to you.

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Thank you.

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I don't need to keep talking.

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Like you just have to like talk your way.

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I know I'm not a good talker.

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You know this.

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You're really not.

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You're really not.

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You talk more in your mind, which talks you out of things that are usually the right

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And in that case, it's like, I think that's what kind of what part of the process of what

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we were going to do today, because we have 10 things that we hate about you.

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10 things I hate about you.

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Do you guys get it?

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But really, it's not about the other person or people.

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It's just 10 things that we're going to spew off that we believe universally people are

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just like, need to vent about sometimes.

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And that's how it came to be.

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Because it's like, it should happen.

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If eventing should happen or else you're going to hold it in.

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And then it turns into emotional dumpage if you don't.

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So it's okay to have those moments.

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I think the problem is nobody like what you just said feels comfortable getting out of

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Getting out of it.

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So then it gets awkward and then it's like, oh, I don't want to do that because I don't

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want to feel that feeling again of awkward and like shame.

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Oh, you should come into my world.

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I feel that at least every 15 minutes awkward and shame, at least awkward.

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We all try and live in a positive space daily, but it's impossible to live like that.

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There are things that everybody hates and it's okay to have negativity.

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You have to have it.

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Just like the highs and lows and as we've talked about before.

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And I think that we all, like Victoria said, we all don't like a lot of the same things.

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So sometimes when you acknowledge it, you can either laugh at it or figure out how to

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like it a little more or less or just like being different at that point.

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Like some of the things that I'm going to say, but there are things that I'm like, oh

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my gosh, we hate these.

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How annoying is this?

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And the grand scheme of things like who cares?

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Who cares?

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But in the moments that you feel the negativity towards these specific things, you feel it

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strongly.

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But you just have to let it go.

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There are so many things in the moment that I just cannot get over.

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And then the next day I'm like, oh God, I may have overreacted.

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I just, no, I'll never admit it.

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I'll never say die.

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And I will go harder and harder.

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Horter.

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You are the most unhealthy person I know.

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Oh my God.

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It's the season of the witch, y'all.

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She's coming out.

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I know.

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But I've said to you, Dayan, I am aware of all my faults.

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I'm aware of what I'm doing.

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The back of my brain works so hard to tell me that I'm doing something wrong or saying

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something wrong or to let something go.

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And I am so good at ignoring it.

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Why just the back of your brain?

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Because I don't know.

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Your pino glands in the front.

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Your what?

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Say it again.

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What's going on?

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Say it again.

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Oh my God.

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How do you name them?

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How do you have three children?

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I don't know.

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What the?

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Ten things I hate about you.

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Sometimes you just need to vent.

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Carly and I are going to rattle off five things each that we hope wherever you are listening

262
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right now, you go, oh my God, me too.

263
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Thank God someone just said it out loud.

264
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Or we hope you resonate with it so that you can be like, you know what?

265
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That's hilarious.

266
00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,660
Actually, things don't matter, right?

267
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That's the point of today.

268
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Right?

269
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We are healthily going to vent these things in a brief matter because we're not going

270
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to harbor and stay too long.

271
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Okay.

272
00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,160
Yeah, Carly, you're not going to stay too long.

273
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Get out.

274
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All right.

275
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I was going to sing a song.

276
00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,840
We don't need sound effects.

277
00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,840
You're pretty good at it.

278
00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,320
I learned it from Lewis.

279
00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:53,840
Yeah, he's good at it.

280
00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:55,720
All right, I'm going to go first.

281
00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:56,720
Yep.

282
00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:57,720
I'm going to go to the next grade.

283
00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:58,720
What the?

284
00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,720
If you are an Apple user, what the fuck?

285
00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:05,440
I don't care that I'm going to put an explice on it.

286
00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,840
Your phone just starts stopping like it just stops.

287
00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:08,840
But you know why, right?

288
00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:10,520
I know because they want you to buy more.

289
00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,120
They want you to, it's capitalism.

290
00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:13,120
It's all about money.

291
00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:14,120
It's all about money.

292
00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:15,640
It's not about what works.

293
00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,080
Mom is using a phone.

294
00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,080
Oh my God.

295
00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:22,240
That does not accept phone calls and now is starting to not accept text messages.

296
00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,520
So she's missing everything.

297
00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:29,320
And as much as like a normal person be like, okay, then go, go fix it.

298
00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:33,720
She can't because she can't find the time, which is her own issue.

299
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That's a separate issue.

300
00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:35,960
Number one.

301
00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:36,960
Hey, mom.

302
00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:37,960
Number two.

303
00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:38,960
Okay, she doesn't listen to this anymore.

304
00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:39,960
She doesn't.

305
00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:40,960
She stopped.

306
00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:41,960
She doesn't have the time.

307
00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,480
She doesn't have the time.

308
00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:49,840
Number two, if it would just work, it wouldn't be an issue.

309
00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:50,840
Why?

310
00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,320
Because they want, I mean, you know what?

311
00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:53,320
They want more money.

312
00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:54,320
They want more money.

313
00:12:54,320 --> 00:13:00,120
They want to make the next big thing, which really the way that like our production system

314
00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:04,720
of American made things or whatever, they're not as good as they used to be.

315
00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:05,720
I know.

316
00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:06,920
The refrigerators from the fifties are still working.

317
00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:12,240
Well, I'm telling you, I had in my old house, everything was old.

318
00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:13,240
It was the best.

319
00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:14,520
I had character.

320
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It was awesome.

321
00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:19,040
I had knob and tube wiring in my house.

322
00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,960
And like it's illegal now because it's unsafe.

323
00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:28,920
But it worked with 70 years without having to get an electrician in there to fix it,

324
00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,680
which is probably why it's illegal.

325
00:13:31,680 --> 00:13:34,240
Because people can't fix things that aren't broken, right?

326
00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,200
So I mean, electricians are great.

327
00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:37,200
That has nothing to do with that.

328
00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,400
It's just that's how things are made now.

329
00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:40,400
They're made cheaper.

330
00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:41,600
Stoves are crapping out.

331
00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:42,600
So we're refrigerators.

332
00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:43,600
They're not lasting as long.

333
00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:50,360
Like these things that you have to buy, i.e. Apple phones, a phone, I will never not be

334
00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:51,360
an Apple user.

335
00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,320
Yeah, I know I was going to say, well, yeah.

336
00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,240
All right, this one's a little bit different and something I absolutely hate and I do it

337
00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:58,920
daily.

338
00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,680
So I hope that there are some of you out there that can relate.

339
00:14:01,680 --> 00:14:05,440
I hate washing my face and the water runs down my elbows.

340
00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:06,440
Oh my God, stop it.

341
00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:07,440
What the?

342
00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:08,440
It is the worst.

343
00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:09,440
It's the worst.

344
00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:10,440
It is.

345
00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:15,880
But but sometimes the night sweatshirts that you have, I don't know if that's a thing.

346
00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:17,600
They're not very tight at the wrist.

347
00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:18,600
Yeah.

348
00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:19,600
So when it gets down.

349
00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,800
So when you try to pull the sweatshirt up to the elbow and then you're using it, it comes

350
00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:28,600
back down to the wrist and you're like, but I can't touch it now because I'm soapy.

351
00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:35,040
Listen, this is a real problem that every single night I conveniently forget and just

352
00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:39,080
go, oh my God, I didn't want to wash my forearms.

353
00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:40,880
I just trying to wash my face.

354
00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:41,880
It's not the forearms.

355
00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:42,880
It's the fact that your clothes are wet.

356
00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:43,880
Yeah.

357
00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:44,880
It goes all the way.

358
00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:48,360
You put the water on your face and it just runs and then it gets all over the sink and

359
00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:49,360
the floor.

360
00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:50,720
Do you guys watch Regina commercial?

361
00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:51,720
No.

362
00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:53,640
When they splash their face and they look so happy about it.

363
00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:54,720
I'm disgusted.

364
00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,800
I agree with you.

365
00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:57,800
Thank you.

366
00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:58,800
That's a legit one.

367
00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,240
It's too legit to quit.

368
00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:02,240
Yeah.

369
00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:03,240
We're going to keep doing it.

370
00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:04,560
I have to wash my face.

371
00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,560
I get it.

372
00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:06,840
Which is like its own venting.

373
00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:08,760
I hate that I have to wash my face every time.

374
00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:09,760
Oh my God.

375
00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:10,960
That's a sidebar.

376
00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:11,960
It takes forever.

377
00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:15,320
I'm like, I can't even sit down on the couch yet because I have to do my nightly routine.

378
00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:16,320
I know.

379
00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:17,320
And it takes a while.

380
00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:18,160
I hate showering.

381
00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:20,400
I agree though.

382
00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:21,440
I totally agree.

383
00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:22,280
It's a chore.

384
00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:23,120
I hate it.

385
00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:23,940
It's not a luxury.

386
00:15:23,940 --> 00:15:24,780
No.

387
00:15:24,780 --> 00:15:25,620
And so many people are like,

388
00:15:25,620 --> 00:15:26,440
what?

389
00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:27,280
It's so nice after a long time.

390
00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:28,120
No.

391
00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:28,960
Is it?

392
00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:30,280
It prolongs my need to sit down

393
00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:31,560
or my want to sit down.

394
00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:32,760
To get ready for bed

395
00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:34,280
and like cause I'm a night shower

396
00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:37,240
because we teach mostly at night

397
00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:38,600
and I hate it.

398
00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:39,960
Well, no, we start sweating in the morning

399
00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:41,720
and it keeps going until the end of the day.

400
00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:43,080
Sometimes I do two a day.

401
00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:43,920
There's no, I mean.

402
00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:45,320
Two showers.

403
00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:46,400
And it's, that's stupid.

404
00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:47,860
There's such a pain in the neck.

405
00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:50,240
Yeah, that's stupid.

406
00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,920
It's the nature of the beast for us.

407
00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:55,240
But at the same time,

408
00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:58,000
everybody showers and it's annoying.

409
00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,520
I have to mentally prepare myself to be like,

410
00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:01,360
get up.

411
00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:02,200
Yep.

412
00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:03,020
Just do it.

413
00:16:03,020 --> 00:16:03,920
No, don't sit down.

414
00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:04,760
Yeah.

415
00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:05,600
Don't sit down first.

416
00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:06,440
No, never.

417
00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:07,280
You're never getting back up.

418
00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:08,120
No.

419
00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:08,940
Sometimes I don't.

420
00:16:08,940 --> 00:16:09,760
Yeah.

421
00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:10,600
We know.

422
00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:11,920
We can tell those days.

423
00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:12,760
That's when the hat's gone.

424
00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:13,600
Well, I was gonna say

425
00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:14,920
when I'm putting on a hat,

426
00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:15,760
you know.

427
00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:16,600
Monday morning.

428
00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,140
Monday morning.

429
00:16:18,140 --> 00:16:18,980
All right.

430
00:16:18,980 --> 00:16:21,440
Oh, I guess I am a creature of habit.

431
00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:24,040
No, you are a something of consistency.

432
00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:27,360
I'm a person of consistency.

433
00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,200
There we go.

434
00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:29,040
Couldn't remember the first word.

435
00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:33,080
I said that to one of my little kids at the dance studio.

436
00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:34,960
Somebody asked me something.

437
00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:39,440
I said, I'm a person of consistency.

438
00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:41,080
I said it with a stutter too.

439
00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:41,920
You're a rain man.

440
00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:43,760
I was trying not to say that

441
00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:46,160
and I couldn't think of anything else to say.

442
00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:48,040
That was a better description.

443
00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:48,880
Good job.

444
00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:50,000
I didn't know why you were stuttering so much.

445
00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:50,840
Okay.

446
00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,880
Who cares your texting style?

447
00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,520
You wanna text one thought per blue bubble?

448
00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:57,360
Fine.

449
00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,240
Fine.

450
00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,960
You wanna, you know, keep it a little bit more consistent

451
00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,960
and put spaces in so your only texting one's great.

452
00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:06,960
That's fantastic.

453
00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,720
One, don't just like my text message.

454
00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:10,560
I know.

455
00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,000
Or laugh at my text message.

456
00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,520
What the?

457
00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:16,000
No.

458
00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:17,680
This, I didn't know this was a dramatic monologue.

459
00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,000
I, cause I hate it so much.

460
00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,920
I hate it so much.

461
00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:23,640
I, my phone will go off, I'll look at it

462
00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:24,960
and go, what do you want me to do with that?

463
00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,200
Do I have to respond to that?

464
00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,840
No, it just is their way of telling you

465
00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,440
that they saw your text messages without responding.

466
00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:32,280
Cool.

467
00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,400
Don't respond until you can actually text me back.

468
00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:38,040
And the second part of this is in a group thread.

469
00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:39,600
Oh, that's so annoying.

470
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,320
You don't need to like everyone's,

471
00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:43,560
if you're the one who created the group thread

472
00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,040
and people are responding to your,

473
00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:46,600
let's say it's like an RSVP or like a,

474
00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,200
hey, you're all invited to this thing.

475
00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:50,160
And there's 10 people in the group thread.

476
00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,200
And people are one by one going, I can be there.

477
00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:53,280
I can be there.

478
00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:54,400
If you created the thread,

479
00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:56,960
you don't have to like every single I can be there

480
00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:58,560
or I can't be there.

481
00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:01,560
And if you are someone that's in the group thread,

482
00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:05,480
you don't have to like whatever somebody who texted out,

483
00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:09,400
wrote, I'm in so many group threads.

484
00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:13,280
Most of them mom created with the teachers.

485
00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:14,120
Yes, I know.

486
00:18:14,120 --> 00:18:16,520
And the family and the blah, blah, blah.

487
00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:17,880
You don't have to like every then.

488
00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:18,920
I know.

489
00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:20,600
It drives me insane.

490
00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:24,160
90% of my texts are on silent,

491
00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:25,960
but I just, I hate knowing that they're there.

492
00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:30,320
I know because what happens is when your phone goes off

493
00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:34,200
15 times within 30 seconds because one person

494
00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,280
just sent a text message and everybody just liked it

495
00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:39,800
or exclamation point or ha ha'd or hearted.

496
00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:43,160
The reason ha ha'd it, the reason I don't like it

497
00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:47,920
is because I think it's, I do it a lot with my younger classes

498
00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:49,720
cause we're all in like group threads.

499
00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,400
And to me, it's like, respect me enough.

500
00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,520
I just wrote you a text message to talk to you

501
00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,640
about something, respect me enough to answer and say,

502
00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:59,440
yes, I received this or I'll be there

503
00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:01,600
or not just like thumbs up.

504
00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,160
Cause I'm like, yeah, I think it's rude.

505
00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:04,400
That's what I meant to lazy.

506
00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:05,760
I think it's, yeah, I think it's rude.

507
00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,120
I think it's a respect thing to answer with words.

508
00:19:09,120 --> 00:19:11,800
And if you can't in that moment, do it when you can.

509
00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,200
So it's like, well, I didn't have time.

510
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:14,960
Well, then do it when you have time.

511
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:15,800
Right.

512
00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,440
I will sit around and not think about the fact

513
00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,400
that you haven't responded to me in a timely manner.

514
00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,120
But when you do, I'm be like, oh great, they got back to me.

515
00:19:23,120 --> 00:19:24,320
Freaking like my text message.

516
00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:25,160
Get that.

517
00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,000
Well, get out of here.

518
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,520
She clearly is angry about this.

519
00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:29,480
And I'm going to continue on the text.

520
00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:30,320
Yes.

521
00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,440
That was, I didn't know you were going to say that.

522
00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:37,440
And my next thing that I hate is when somebody texts me

523
00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:39,080
to say, call me.

524
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,160
What the?

525
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,880
I absolutely hate when somebody texts to say, call me.

526
00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,160
So you're just talking to mom here.

527
00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:46,000
Okay.

528
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,560
Mom loves doing that.

529
00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,280
No, Andrew does it too.

530
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,280
Sometimes.

531
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:52,640
Why?

532
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,600
Because I'm not picking up the phone or whatever or.

533
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:56,840
Yeah, Carly.

534
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:57,840
What?

535
00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,840
You're your own venting session.

536
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:03,040
Everybody's going to vent about you and your phone.

537
00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:03,880
You shouldn't have one.

538
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:05,440
I don't like text messages.

539
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,080
You shouldn't have one.

540
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:08,440
You should not have a phone.

541
00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:09,280
You don't need an upgrade.

542
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:10,640
You shouldn't have one.

543
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:11,600
I'll take mom's phone.

544
00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:13,200
You literally don't answer the phone.

545
00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,040
Just tell me in a text message what you want

546
00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:15,880
and I will respond.

547
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:19,720
If you text me and say, call me, I am not calling you.

548
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:20,800
First of all, he's your husband.

549
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:21,640
Oh yeah.

550
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:22,840
Get over it.

551
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:24,440
Second of all, she's your mother.

552
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,120
Third of all, I understand.

553
00:20:27,120 --> 00:20:28,840
I didn't think we were dissecting each other's

554
00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,520
and let me be.

555
00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:31,360
I hate that.

556
00:20:31,360 --> 00:20:33,800
No, because you're annoying.

557
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,520
But I get it.

558
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,680
I don't think anyone's ever, other than mom,

559
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,160
I don't think anyone really does that.

560
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,520
Oh, I've had people in the past,

561
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,520
mothers that I've taught, kids,

562
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:48,880
hey, can you call me?

563
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:51,160
No.

564
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:54,040
Tell me what you want, what you really, really want.

565
00:20:55,360 --> 00:20:56,360
And I will ignore you.

566
00:20:56,360 --> 00:21:00,640
And then sometimes I'm like, no, I'm sorry.

567
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,960
Can you tell me what it is?

568
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:04,920
Because that makes me uncomfortable

569
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:05,760
and puts me on the spot.

570
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:09,880
And if I'm on the spot, I am 100% more likely to give in

571
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:11,360
to whatever you're asking me

572
00:21:11,360 --> 00:21:13,280
because I have a problem with saying no.

573
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:14,520
So I know myself.

574
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,000
Well, that's a boundary.

575
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,320
Yeah, your boundary needs to be,

576
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,560
I'm sorry, I don't have enough time

577
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,360
to give you a proper phone call.

578
00:21:22,360 --> 00:21:23,560
Please write it out in the text.

579
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:24,640
You need to have like a-

580
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:25,840
Oh, that's really good.

581
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,040
Yeah, I don't have enough time

582
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,000
to give you the proper attention in a phone call.

583
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,280
So if you could please write it out,

584
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,440
I will be happy to talk to you this way

585
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,240
because I have more time to dedicate to you.

586
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:35,280
What?

587
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:36,840
Usually I just say no.

588
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:41,000
That's weird, because you don't like confrontation.

589
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,680
But nobody can say no to that.

590
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,720
No, that's so good.

591
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:45,880
Play this back and write it down.

592
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,920
I didn't think we were trying to fix each other's stuff today.

593
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:50,960
We are healthfully venting.

594
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,320
Did you miss the first part?

595
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,800
No, it's just,

596
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,480
but that's if it bothers you that much.

597
00:21:58,480 --> 00:21:59,320
It does.

598
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:00,640
There you go.

599
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,560
You've helped me once, but that's fine.

600
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:04,560
Okay.

601
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,760
All right, I know for a fact

602
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:13,760
that every single solitary human listening to this

603
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:18,200
and not listening to this is over it.

604
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,040
Okay.

605
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:23,320
Political texts, political commercials and ads,

606
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,200
politics in general.

607
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:26,040
But like,

608
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,320
What the?

609
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:28,920
Don't text me at 10 p.m.

610
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,040
So I'm automated.

611
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,880
There's always like a trigger,

612
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:33,920
what's it called?

613
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:34,760
Not a trigger.

614
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,560
And like the first line that pops up.

615
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,280
Yeah, like in your text messages.

616
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,320
It's to pull you in to be like, oh my gosh.

617
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,360
And usually it's like, hey, what are you up to?

618
00:22:42,360 --> 00:22:43,600
And then you open the text

619
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:44,880
and it's a long political text.

620
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:45,960
So whatever that first phrase is,

621
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,200
I can't think of what the word is.

622
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:49,040
The other day,

623
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,720
I should have saved it.

624
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,560
It was like, hey, Victoria, it's Judy.

625
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:56,400
Judy.

626
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:57,520
Judy.

627
00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:02,520
And it was like, I hope to see you spinning with the DJs.

628
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:03,720
What?

629
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:04,560
Yeah, I wanna go.

630
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:09,000
And I was like, Judy, I don't know who you are,

631
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:09,840
but tell me more.

632
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,480
And so I clicked on the text message

633
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,600
and it was like spinning at the polls in Morton

634
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,880
on November 5th and then like a link

635
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,200
to where your polling places are.

636
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,320
But it was basically saying like,

637
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,960
there's gonna do some DJ spots at the polls in this area

638
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,240
to make it a party so you come out and vote.

639
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,120
Fine, wonderful.

640
00:23:30,120 --> 00:23:31,960
I hope all the DJs are there.

641
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:32,800
Another one.

642
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:34,880
I hope all the DJs are there.

643
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,440
Don't text me, Judy.

644
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,640
Like, I'm so over it.

645
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,040
I'm so over it.

646
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,480
And I'm very offended.

647
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,080
Oh, not really.

648
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,920
But like I'm very, I get my nose up

649
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,280
when I'm watching something and I do not pay

650
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:52,880
for the high price subscription.

651
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:54,600
So I have all the commercials.

652
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:55,800
None of us do.

653
00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:58,000
And I don't care about that,

654
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:02,720
but like when you're watching a show, any type of show,

655
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,960
and then it cuts to commercial

656
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,640
and the first things that's like, he's a rapist.

657
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,840
He's a brapa and they're just trashing or she's a,

658
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,960
and they're just trashing them in the worst,

659
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:14,880
in the worst way.

660
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,400
I sit there and I'm like, thank God,

661
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:17,240
I don't have kids sitting next to me.

662
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,160
I was just gonna say you're very lucky

663
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,400
that you don't have kids because my kids say all the time,

664
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,120
I can't wait till the election's over

665
00:24:24,120 --> 00:24:25,920
and we don't have to watch those commercials.

666
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,960
But like even more so of like them being annoyed from it,

667
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,520
how do you explain what they're saying to them

668
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,520
when they're like, mommy, what does that mean?

669
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,000
What's that word mean?

670
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:40,000
And you're like, well, like have a little class.

671
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:41,840
Like what happened?

672
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,080
And they're on the billboards

673
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,600
where it's just like these horrible,

674
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:49,040
horrible things on the highway because it's politics.

675
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,440
It's not politics anymore, it's entertainment and it's gross.

676
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:57,000
So obviously it's going to end because there is an end date.

677
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,640
That's not something that lasts forever,

678
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:00,880
but I'm over it.

679
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,960
I agree, I just hit stop on all of my political texts.

680
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,160
I just keep replying stop, stop, stop.

681
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,440
But it doesn't say to reply stop.

682
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,240
Oh, some of them do.

683
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:12,080
Oh, okay.

684
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,600
And I guess I'm not reading all the way through.

685
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:14,440
Some of them don't,

686
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,720
but if you hit, if you write stop, they will stop.

687
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,240
Then another text message would be like, you unsubscribed.

688
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,840
And I was like, I never subscribed.

689
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,400
So I don't know how you got my number.

690
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,760
Whatever the system is, it's just, it's annoying.

691
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,240
It's broken.

692
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:28,560
Obby.

693
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,960
All right, my next one.

694
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,840
Things that I hate.

695
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,200
I, we all know that I hate.

696
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,400
Thank you for the title.

697
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,440
Anyway, anytime.

698
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,720
Anyway.

699
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,600
We all know I don't like the word trigger

700
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:48,120
and we all know I don't like the word navigate,

701
00:25:48,120 --> 00:25:50,280
but now I'm going to give you another one that I hate.

702
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,120
Don't miss the thing I'm going to read.

703
00:25:51,120 --> 00:25:53,280
I hate, we will say, I need to navigate through this.

704
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:54,680
No, just do it.

705
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:55,520
Okay.

706
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,840
Anyway, that's, we've heard this before.

707
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:58,840
Here's a new one.

708
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:03,840
I hate when people say, oh my God, you're my favorite human.

709
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,600
What the?

710
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:06,440
I hate that.

711
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:08,080
Oh my God.

712
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:08,900
Who says that?

713
00:26:08,900 --> 00:26:11,440
Well, no one says it to me, but I've heard it.

714
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:12,280
Is that why you hate it?

715
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:13,440
I've heard it, yes.

716
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,800
I've heard when people say that, I'm like, no.

717
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,920
Just say you're my favorite person.

718
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,120
Say you're my, oh my gosh, I am enjoying you so much right now

719
00:26:22,120 --> 00:26:24,200
or oh my God, I love you.

720
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,440
When you call somebody a human,

721
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,000
I feel like that's so disingenuous.

722
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,440
We all know you're a human.

723
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:32,280
Okay.

724
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:36,480
You're not saying I hate or I, you're my favorite dog.

725
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,920
You know you're a human.

726
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:39,720
I'm a dog.

727
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,400
No, what I'm saying.

728
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,760
You just said I was a dog.

729
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,000
I'm saying there's no confusion that you are a human.

730
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,080
So would be saying like, oh, you're my favorite person.

731
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:48,920
Is that different?

732
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:49,800
No, that's fine.

733
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:50,640
Why?

734
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:51,480
You know you're a person.

735
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,760
Because a human is different than a person?

736
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,040
No, a human is a species.

737
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,040
What's a person?

738
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,080
A person is an individual.

739
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,160
Ah.

740
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,200
And I feel like when people say, oh my God,

741
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,920
you're my favorite human, it's like, what?

742
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:10,120
Okay.

743
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:11,920
Yeah.

744
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,080
Be there for me.

745
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:13,920
I am.

746
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,920
Because you are not my favorite human right now.

747
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,040
I am totally there for you.

748
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,120
It's just one of those phrases just like triggered

749
00:27:22,120 --> 00:27:24,960
and navigate that it just when somebody says,

750
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,360
no, again, no one's ever said it to me.

751
00:27:27,360 --> 00:27:30,640
But if somebody did, they're no one's favorite human.

752
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,560
My skin crawls when I hear that.

753
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:36,440
I just feel like it's a trendy, not genuine thing to say.

754
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,880
When you say you don't like trigger or navigate

755
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,320
and you said navigate like this.

756
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,920
Navi.

757
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:43,680
Meaning you don't like when people are like,

758
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,520
I don't know, I have to navigate through this.

759
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,560
That means I already negate everything you say after it.

760
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,240
Don't say negate, navigate.

761
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:55,200
I want, I don't like trendy things.

762
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,960
Are you sure you meant navigate, not narrative?

763
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,240
You don't like when people say change narrative.

764
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,080
I don't like that.

765
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,840
So was it narrative and not navigate?

766
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,040
No, I don't like that either.

767
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:05,880
Oh, okay.

768
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,280
I definitely, I forgot about narrative,

769
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:09,800
but I don't like narrative.

770
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,800
Like, oh, I'm changing the narrative on my life.

771
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,040
No, you're changing your life.

772
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,040
You're not changing the net, like, now I'm negating that.

773
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,400
There's something deep inside me

774
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,920
when you speak and say certain things

775
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,000
that I don't know what to do with.

776
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,200
It's like a burn.

777
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:32,560
It's this deep burn that like makes me wanna scream.

778
00:28:34,120 --> 00:28:35,440
But I have better composure on that.

779
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,320
Don't make you wanna scream, make you wanna scream.

780
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:39,640
Michael Jackson.

781
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,680
Well, unfortunately, you have to navigate that

782
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:43,280
for the rest of your life.

783
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,280
It's just words that you don't like.

784
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:48,120
I know.

785
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,120
But you just want people to say them simpler.

786
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,840
I want them to say it more genuine.

787
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,280
Why is it ingenuine?

788
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,680
I don't think if somebody said to you,

789
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,880
oh my God, you're my favorite human,

790
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,800
that they would mean that seriously.

791
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,240
People say that to me all the time.

792
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,480
First of all.

793
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,800
I just think that's a phrase that is overused,

794
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,720
just like, you know, everything else.

795
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,560
Okay.

796
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,400
Yeah.

797
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:15,840
Shut up, go to the next one.

798
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:17,960
You're triggering me.

799
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,240
You can't say you hate something and then use them.

800
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,880
You've been in jest.

801
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,880
Well, I'm showing you how disingenuous I'm being.

802
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:26,960
We all know.

803
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:27,880
Oh, okay, just making sure.

804
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,560
Your disingenuity.

805
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:31,400
Yeah.

806
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:36,840
Amazing.

807
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,160
Okay.

808
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,200
I think this one's pretty across the board.

809
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,320
People that stand on an airplane in the back of the plate,

810
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,240
like before your row gets there

811
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,000
and they're already standing

812
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,320
and then they have to like,

813
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,160
they make you anxiously try to move so quick

814
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:52,280
because they're like, I'm waiting.

815
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:53,160
What the?

816
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,040
But they're behind you.

817
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:54,880
Like you have to.

818
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,880
You're in the rows behind me.

819
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,640
Why are you standing already?

820
00:29:58,640 --> 00:29:59,480
Yeah.

821
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,400
And like, do you know what I mean?

822
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:02,240
Yes.

823
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,520
I was in a situation where there was a huge delay.

824
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,720
I was trying to come back to the Philadelphia airport,

825
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:09,840
but I guess that's like,

826
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:10,760
there were a lot of like,

827
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,000
that was the last flight out type of deal from,

828
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,840
I guess, where I was coming from to Philadelphia.

829
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,680
And that flight had a lot of connecting options

830
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,640
and Caspillia is international.

831
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,440
So because our delay was so bad,

832
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:27,480
so many people miss their connecting.

833
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,120
Or were going to have to run off of the plane,

834
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,640
hoping that they could make there.

835
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:33,480
Like it was sad.

836
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:34,920
There was a girl crying.

837
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,200
She had to sleep in the airport.

838
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,400
She was like 19 flying by herself.

839
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:39,760
And they were like, can't help you.

840
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:42,440
Like it was just such a horrible situation.

841
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,020
She had to navigate that whole situation.

842
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:47,840
Yes.

843
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:48,680
And guess what?

844
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,320
She probably took the time to navigate it

845
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:51,320
and did very well.

846
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,280
And you would have been a trash fire.

847
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,600
Trash fire.

848
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:55,440
A trash fire.

849
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:57,720
I have no idea.

850
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,680
A trash fire.

851
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:04,680
But if you were any type of person on that plane,

852
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,160
you saw all of the people that had to talk to the,

853
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:10,000
to order it.

854
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,000
Yeah, at the front desk.

855
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,400
They don't call the stores anymore.

856
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,240
Well, at the desk.

857
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:14,520
Oh, like before getting in.

858
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:15,360
Yeah.

859
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,080
Over the receptionist at the airport.

860
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:17,920
Yeah.

861
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,080
Were there the ones being like,

862
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,480
hey, this name, can you come up?

863
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,600
Can we talk to you?

864
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,760
Everyone was like, I have a connecting flight.

865
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,120
You could hear it all.

866
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:26,240
Even with your headphones.

867
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,400
You were watching people be like, but what do I do?

868
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:32,120
Like it was the vibe of the whole thing was stress.

869
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,680
And they had people, anybody that had a connecting flight

870
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,840
and were going to miss it or there was gonna be an issue,

871
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,280
please get in line and come talk to me.

872
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,320
So the amount of people on that line, it was the flight.

873
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:43,160
Yeah.

874
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,920
It was almost the whole flight.

875
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:46,880
The amount of people that stood and they were like,

876
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:47,960
please let me get by you.

877
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:48,920
Please let me get by you.

878
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:49,760
I have to run.

879
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:50,600
I have to run.

880
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,480
And these men just like weren't moving.

881
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,160
Was it just men?

882
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,080
The ones I'm picturing my head, it was like, right by me,

883
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,640
it was these three older generational men.

884
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:01,480
Yeah.

885
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,120
And they were like, I'm raw getting off the same flight.

886
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:04,960
No, sir.

887
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,800
You don't have a place to run to.

888
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,520
It's just consideration.

889
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,960
It's just like, kindness, that's all of that.

890
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,480
But nine times out of 10,

891
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,640
even if there is no connecting flight issue

892
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,760
and you know the drama that everyone's going through,

893
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,680
don't stand up until it's time for you

894
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,280
to like get off the plane.

895
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:22,120
I hate that.

896
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:23,640
I don't care if you clap for the pilot.

897
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,680
People hate that too.

898
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:25,520
Oh, I love that.

899
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:26,640
I don't get, people are like,

900
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,520
if you clap for the landing, get out.

901
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,640
Oh my God, I always clap because I'm like,

902
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,960
thank you God and thank you pilot.

903
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,880
Half the world hates you.

904
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,200
And half the world agrees with you.

905
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,240
That's like a whole, that's a whole, really?

906
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:41,200
Mm-hmm.

907
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,960
Oh God, I'm just so thankful that we made it.

908
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,120
That was a big thing on Bumble.

909
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,520
If you clap for the landing, swipe left.

910
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,680
Like that was a lot of their phrasing.

911
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,560
I would like my kids to clap for me

912
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,400
every time we get to a destination in the car.

913
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,560
I agree with that because it's a crapshoot.

914
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,000
It's a, you know, big risk.

915
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,240
But I don't care about that,

916
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,440
but if you are someone who thinks you are better than ever,

917
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,360
it's basically that you're better than everyone.

918
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,000
You've been on this flight as long as everyone else,

919
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,360
but you need to get off first.

920
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:10,200
Yeah.

921
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:11,040
Like get over yourself.

922
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,080
Get over yourself.

923
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,080
Like no, sir.

924
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,080
No, sir.

925
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:17,440
I hate when people repeat me.

926
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:19,680
Just kidding.

927
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:20,920
All right, my next one.

928
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,120
Things I hate.

929
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,120
My next one.

930
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,120
My next one.

931
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,600
When the next holiday is already out in the store

932
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,720
before the holiday that they were,

933
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,760
that we're about to celebrate hasn't even happened.

934
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:34,760
What the?

935
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,120
Yeah, Christmas is out right now.

936
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,120
Now, it's been out for three weeks.

937
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,960
But like Thanksgiving and Halloween.

938
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,960
But Halloween was out in August.

939
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:42,960
Yeah, yeah.

940
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,960
So you know me.

941
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:45,960
I hate it.

942
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:46,960
And you know us.

943
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,960
We are huge holiday people.

944
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,960
And I am the first one to text Victoria and say,

945
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,960
pumpkin spice, coffee's out.

946
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:55,960
Like let's go.

947
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:56,960
And that's in August.

948
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,960
You just did that for Christmas cups.

949
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:01,960
Peppermint?

950
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:02,960
Oh, Christmas cups.

951
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:03,960
Christmas cups.

952
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:04,960
Yeah.

953
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:05,960
So I love that.

954
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:06,960
Okay.

955
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:07,960
It makes me happy.

956
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,960
It makes me actually get me excited for this season to start.

957
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,960
Even though like, I, you know, I don't like back to school.

958
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,960
The season, like that's a good thing.

959
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,960
It like helps me get through it.

960
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,960
But when you're celebrating Christmas, October 10th,

961
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:27,960
and all that stuff is out in the stores, I'm like, wait, I feel rushed.

962
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,960
Yeah, it gives me a little bit of, you know, anxiety because I'm like,

963
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:32,960
ah, I got missing out.

964
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,960
I'm yeah, I haven't done the pumpkins yet.

965
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,960
And I haven't even had my Halloween party yet.

966
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,960
And Christmas is already out and I don't want to miss like all the bad stuff too.

967
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:40,960
You're not missing anything.

968
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:41,960
No, I know.

969
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:47,960
But I think just the rush of that store sort of craziness.

970
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:48,960
Yeah.

971
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:49,960
Because I'm the first one.

972
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:50,960
I get my tree the day after Thanksgiving.

973
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,960
I love to celebrate the holidays.

974
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,960
Like, isn't it dead by Christmas?

975
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:55,960
Oh, yes.

976
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:56,960
Oh, it is.

977
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:57,960
Yeah.

978
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,960
Especially the way I water plants.

979
00:34:59,960 --> 00:35:00,960
You don't water it.

980
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:01,960
Exactly.

981
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,960
I don't think you've ever watered a Christmas tree.

982
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:04,960
So it is dead.

983
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:05,960
Wow.

984
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:10,960
But I don't care because I have just spent a month enjoying its life.

985
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:15,960
And you know, December 27th, it is out the door.

986
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,960
You know, plants are alive, right?

987
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:18,960
But yes, I know.

988
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:19,960
Plants are living things.

989
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:25,960
So what you do is you decorate a dead thing that reaches your ceiling.

990
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:26,960
Why?

991
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:27,960
Because I cut it down.

992
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:28,960
Yeah, it's dead.

993
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,960
No, like Andrew keeps it alive with water and salt or sugar or something.

994
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:33,960
I'm sorry.

995
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,960
Are you seizing your tree?

996
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,960
Are you mrs. dashing your tree?

997
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,960
No, mrs. dashing.

998
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:41,960
Yes, I am.

999
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,960
No, it's a dead thing that we all just decorate and put presents under.

1000
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:49,960
Do not take away the joy that I have of smelling that tree for at least five days before it

1001
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,960
completely dies on me.

1002
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:53,960
It's basically a scarecrow just laying there.

1003
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,960
You're ruining me.

1004
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,960
Oh, oh, oh.

1005
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,960
I hate you.

1006
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:02,960
Anyway, don't rush my holidays.

1007
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:03,960
I agree.

1008
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,960
I would like to feel the joy for as long as I can.

1009
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,960
But not before you want to feel the joy.

1010
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:15,960
No, I want the stories to ask me first and I will give them the dates that I am ready

1011
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,960
to purchase their things.

1012
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,960
I like how you're navigating this.

1013
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,960
You are my favorite human right now.

1014
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:29,960
Okay, that's my favorite sound.

1015
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:31,960
Last one for me.

1016
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:33,960
Congrats.

1017
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:34,960
Wow.

1018
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,960
What a witch.

1019
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,960
She's the snow miser, everyone.

1020
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,960
Service fees.

1021
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,960
What the hell?

1022
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,960
When you buy a ticket to a concert.

1023
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:47,960
Oh, yeah.

1024
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:48,960
Why?

1025
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:49,960
What do you mean why?

1026
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,960
No, I was just thinking like tax, but it's not tax.

1027
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:53,960
No, no tax.

1028
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:54,960
It's a service fee.

1029
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:55,960
Not tax.

1030
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,960
Tax is tax even though like, you know, tax is like, but when you're like, oh my gosh,

1031
00:36:59,960 --> 00:37:02,960
I found these tickets to a show because everything's way too expensive.

1032
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,960
You're like, what, it's only $99 for this entire Broadway show.

1033
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,960
And then you go to check out and you're like, oh cool.

1034
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,960
It's $186.

1035
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,960
What like, are you kidding?

1036
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:15,960
Yeah, it's the worst.

1037
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:20,960
I just, I understand everybody has to make their money, but that is just criminal because

1038
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,960
there's no need.

1039
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,960
There's no need for that.

1040
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,960
And I feel like the price of the ticket maybe should have part of that built in so that you

1041
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,960
can see what the full price is to know what you're checking out with.

1042
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,960
That's not like sticker shock.

1043
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:33,960
And you go to check out.

1044
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:34,960
Yeah.

1045
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:35,960
No, I agree with that.

1046
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,960
And it's like $50 plus for like, for what?

1047
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:44,960
For me to click a button for someone to have coded within 30 seconds to make that work

1048
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:45,960
for us.

1049
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:47,960
That's the service we're paying for.

1050
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,960
Why are you looking at me like that?

1051
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,960
Because I hate it too.

1052
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,960
Her nose flared a little bit, but she was also trying not to smile, but her lips were

1053
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:57,960
connected.

1054
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,960
Please paint that picture in your mind.

1055
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,960
I was very, very unnerving.

1056
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,960
However, I appreciate your spirit.

1057
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,960
I just, I bought a lot of tickets this year.

1058
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:09,960
Yes, I agree.

1059
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:15,960
And I'm, I, it's so upsetting when you get to that checkout and you're like, I thought

1060
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,960
I was, I thought I was actually not going to break the bank on this fun experience.

1061
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,960
And half of the bank is because of the service fee.

1062
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:23,960
Yeah.

1063
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,960
It's just, I've obviously nobody likes it.

1064
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,960
Everybody's going to be like, well, I don't mind, but it just, it irks me that much where

1065
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,960
it, it makes me sometimes not even look into tickets because of the giant.

1066
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:37,960
I know.

1067
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,560
Cause I'm like, if I could go up and walk up to the place and buy them and not pay the

1068
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,960
service fee, but I don't have that opportunity.

1069
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,960
Mom used to do that on Broadway because it was such a big difference.

1070
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:47,960
Yeah.

1071
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,960
But if we had lived in New York, we did that.

1072
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:50,960
I don't live there.

1073
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:51,960
I don't even getting into Philadelphia.

1074
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,960
I'm like, well, that means I'd have to drive to the academy.

1075
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:54,960
Yeah.

1076
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:55,960
I'm not going to do that.

1077
00:38:55,960 --> 00:39:02,160
So I'll buy them online, but I'm paying a lot in just having a website name attached

1078
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,160
to the ticket.

1079
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,160
You know, I know.

1080
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,160
Yeah.

1081
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:06,160
No, I agree.

1082
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:07,960
I, I'm still going to buy the tickets though.

1083
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,960
Are you mad?

1084
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:15,200
I mean, no, you do you boo.

1085
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:16,960
But I'm going to navigate it for a second.

1086
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:17,960
Oh my God.

1087
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:18,960
I swear.

1088
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,960
If she says that all week long, I probably.

1089
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:26,960
I couldn't think of any of the words.

1090
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:34,960
I'll be there for better or worse till death do us.

1091
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:35,960
Oh, that was great.

1092
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:36,960
Anyway.

1093
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:37,960
All right.

1094
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:43,960
Last thing that I hate that Victoria might hate, but you might all hate as well.

1095
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:44,960
Are you ready for it?

1096
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:45,960
It's a big one.

1097
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:46,960
Are you ready for it?

1098
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:47,960
There you go.

1099
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,960
There you go, Swifties.

1100
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:58,960
I have never, ever in my life, and this is 100% accurate.

1101
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,960
Who put on the fitted sheet correctly the first time.

1102
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:03,960
What?

1103
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:04,960
And I hate that.

1104
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,960
I have never done it.

1105
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:07,960
I don't.

1106
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:13,960
I would like the fitted sheet companies to put this end first.

1107
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,960
I think some do.

1108
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,960
And like on the opposite side, I want them or like this end up.

1109
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:20,960
Like this is the top.

1110
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:25,960
This is the bottom or one corner says first corner and then the bottom other side says

1111
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:27,960
second corner so I can figure it out.

1112
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,960
But there's four corners.

1113
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:30,960
Right.

1114
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:31,960
I just need the first two.

1115
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,960
I just need the top left and the bottom right.

1116
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:35,960
And then that's fine.

1117
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:36,960
Why?

1118
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:37,960
Why are you putting on a.

1119
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:38,960
Diagonally.

1120
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,960
Because if I put it on top and top.

1121
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,960
Every single time I've put it on the wrong side.

1122
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,960
Like I've put it on the short side instead of the.

1123
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,960
See if it's the length first.

1124
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:51,960
Correct.

1125
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,960
And I twin bed doesn't matter.

1126
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,960
King size bed doesn't matter.

1127
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,960
I've put it on wrong and I get so angry.

1128
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,960
Have you ever been on a top bunk putting the fitted sheet on wrong?

1129
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:02,960
Oh gosh.

1130
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:03,960
Yeah.

1131
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:04,960
No.

1132
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:09,960
So poor Lewis doesn't get his sheets changed very often because I hate putting on.

1133
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,960
I'm like sleep on a sleeping bag.

1134
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:15,960
Because that fitted sheet on the top bunk is so hard.

1135
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:16,960
I totally get it.

1136
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:17,960
So hard.

1137
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:18,960
So hard.

1138
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:22,960
I used to hate doing that when we lived in New York because the bed was up against.

1139
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:23,960
Yeah.

1140
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:24,960
The two walls.

1141
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:25,960
So you had to fight.

1142
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:26,960
Yes.

1143
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:27,960
To like get it down.

1144
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,960
It's different now but I totally agree.

1145
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:30,960
I've done it recently.

1146
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:31,960
The past couple of bed changes.

1147
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,960
I've done it successfully and I give myself a cheer because I feel good about it.

1148
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:37,960
That's a really hard thing to do.

1149
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:38,960
But it's like, yeah.

1150
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:39,960
Because it's hard to measure.

1151
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:40,960
They all look the same especially.

1152
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:41,960
If the sheets get bigger.

1153
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:46,960
So if you have a king size, we both have king size beds and it just seems like everything's

1154
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:47,960
the same length.

1155
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:48,960
Yes.

1156
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,960
You could sharp be the one like there's a tag in one of the corners.

1157
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:53,960
Yeah.

1158
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,960
So if you put bottom left or bottom right then.

1159
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,960
That would be very easy.

1160
00:41:59,960 --> 00:42:00,960
Oh.

1161
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,960
And I feel like you just want to know it.

1162
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,960
I just want to be angry every time I make the bed.

1163
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:07,960
You just want to emotional dump on your bed.

1164
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:08,960
Got it.

1165
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:13,960
No, I should do that because the kids have bunk beds.

1166
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:20,960
Melody has one that's up against the sidewall and it's very frustrating to just be cursing

1167
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:21,960
at the sheets.

1168
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:23,960
But not frustrating enough to sharp be on it.

1169
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:25,960
No, no, I'll do it.

1170
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:26,960
I've never done it.

1171
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,960
I say it but I've never done it.

1172
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:30,960
And then try folding them.

1173
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:32,960
I was going to say mine isn't even the bed part.

1174
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:33,960
It's folding the sheet.

1175
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:39,960
I have now decided that I just stuff all the sheets in one of the pillowcases.

1176
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:40,960
That's what I do.

1177
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:41,960
Yeah.

1178
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:43,960
Because I there's no rhyme or reason to folding.

1179
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:44,960
Oh, no, I fold them.

1180
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,960
No, I fold them and then tuck them into one pillowcase.

1181
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:49,960
Oh, no.

1182
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,960
But my folding the fitted sheet is trying and then rolling.

1183
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:53,960
Yes.

1184
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,960
And then finding socks in there in the laundry that are stuffed up into the corners of the

1185
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:58,960
fitted sheets.

1186
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,960
There's like socks and underwear and like small shirts.

1187
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:03,960
You shake them out.

1188
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:04,960
Yeah.

1189
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:06,960
This takes a lot of time.

1190
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,960
What?

1191
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:14,960
I have to go shopping for my holidays and I don't have the time to shake out my fitted

1192
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,960
sheets before I take a half hour to put them on the bed.

1193
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:23,960
The best is when Carly goes to yoga with you at 6am and she's got a thong attached to either

1194
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:27,960
her pants or maybe the towel that she's going to lie on her yoga mat.

1195
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,960
She's like, oh, that's awkward.

1196
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:36,960
Every time, every time on my yoga mat towel that I roll out, there's at least two thongs

1197
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:38,960
and a sock.

1198
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,960
It's very specific, but it's I'm here to tell you it's very accurate.

1199
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:47,960
And sometimes it's attached to Andrew because he's like pulled something out of the laundry

1200
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:49,960
and put it on real quick.

1201
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:50,960
Oh my gosh.

1202
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:51,960
That's so true.

1203
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,960
The thong, the thong, the thong, the thong.

1204
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:54,960
That was on me.

1205
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:55,960
I like it when the beat goes.

1206
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,960
Let me see you booty go.

1207
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:03,960
Oh, the thong, the thong, the thong, the thong.

1208
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:04,960
Yay.

1209
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:05,960
Cisco.

1210
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,960
Leave it at that.

1211
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,960
Cisco.

1212
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:16,960
I think what needs to happen is I just need help with the fitted sheets.

1213
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:17,960
I'll pay somebody.

1214
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:18,960
And static cling.

1215
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:19,960
And static cling.

1216
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,960
I will pay somebody to put all my all my sheets in my house.

1217
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:27,960
I was a really good one because that is something I forget about when you walk away from it until

1218
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:28,960
you go to do it again.

1219
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:29,960
You know what I mean?

1220
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,960
That's something that like it's like labor in like having a baby.

1221
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:36,960
You forget how hard it is and then you're in the labor delivery room and you're like,

1222
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:37,960
Oh my God.

1223
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:38,960
I agree.

1224
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:40,960
I feel the same way.

1225
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:44,960
If I could get an epidural for putting on my fitted sheets, I'd do it in a second.

1226
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:45,960
All right.

1227
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,960
Well, that's our 10 things we hate about you.

1228
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:49,960
You being everything.

1229
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,960
Listen, we are very.

1230
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:56,960
No, listen, Victoria is a very positive person for the most part.

1231
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,960
For the most part, you have, I said for the most part.

1232
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:01,960
Yeah.

1233
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,960
And it's impossible to be like that all the time.

1234
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:10,960
And this is just a little bit into, you know, the negative, the negativity of the daily life.

1235
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:11,960
But you know what?

1236
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:14,960
I was really frustrated with the first five hours of my work day today.

1237
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:15,960
Yes.

1238
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:17,960
And then we talked about this and now I feel fine.

1239
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:18,960
Yeah.

1240
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:23,960
Because I think you just, I think there's, there's health to the unhealthy habit in a weird way.

1241
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,960
And I just mean like healthy venting is actually a good thing for you.

1242
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:31,960
Well, yeah, it's just like when you want to meet a goal, you write it down.

1243
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,960
When you want to get something off your chest, you talk about it.

1244
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:35,960
Yeah.

1245
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:36,960
It's the same thing.

1246
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:37,960
It's once it's out of you, it's out of you.

1247
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:38,960
Yeah.

1248
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,960
And then you can figure out what to do with the next step.

1249
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,960
Now we're not going to talk about these things anymore, but I will think of all of you when I wash my face.

1250
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:46,960
You can figure it out like.

1251
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:47,960
Stop it.

1252
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:48,960
Navigate.

1253
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,960
Navigate the road.

1254
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,960
So changing the narrative of this podcast.

1255
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,960
No, this is exactly the narrative.

1256
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:57,960
We want to keep this narrative.

1257
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,960
Please don't come up to me and tell me that I'm your favorite human.

1258
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,960
One, I know that's not true.

1259
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,960
Two, I know you're just making fun of me.

1260
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,960
And three, it's because Victoria told you to.

1261
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,960
I'm definitely going to remind people.

1262
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:10,960
Be like, Hey, do you listen in on Monday?

1263
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:12,960
You know, you got to say.

1264
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:14,960
I actually agree.

1265
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:19,960
I think that my biggest takeaway is that you, I did learn something.

1266
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:24,960
That a person is individualized and human is just way more broad.

1267
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:29,960
I feel like you're being funny.

1268
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:35,960
Funny, like, ha, ha, you just know, like, ha, ha, I just ha ha your text.

1269
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,960
No, it didn't boop you.

1270
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:44,960
No, it's like legit because I was like, all right, that doesn't make any sense.

1271
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,960
And then you said it and I was like, actually, that makes you are my favorite person.

1272
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,960
I know. Thank you.

1273
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,960
And I, and I, I'm sorry.

1274
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,960
What? Yeah.

1275
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,960
And I have other favorite people, but a human is a species.

1276
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:04,960
So that would mean that I am your favorite human in the entire world,

1277
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,960
which we all know is not accurate and true.

1278
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,960
And that's what I'm just like, speak truths.

1279
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:13,960
Speak truth.

1280
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,960
I hate when people are like, but that's not my truth.

1281
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:21,960
Yes. Oh my God, we have to have two E's on this podcast.

1282
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:22,960
Two E's?

1283
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,960
He's going to keep eating it.

1284
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:26,960
Shush up. Oh my gosh.

1285
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,960
Ew, I hate that. Goodbye, everyone.

1286
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:33,960
Goodbye.

1287
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:48,960
And remember, you're always fit to be real and always allowed to be a little extra.

1288
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:54,960
For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and educational purposes only.

1289
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,960
We are not healthcare professionals.

1290
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,960
For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self care needs,

1291
00:47:59,960 --> 00:48:02,960
please refer to the medical professional in your life.

1292
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:07,960
You're a primary care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, whoever it may be.

1293
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:11,960
And then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know what to do.

1294
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:33,960
Okay? Okay, bye.