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Welcome to Fit to Be Real.

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And a little extra.

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I couldn't be more excited about what's about to happen.

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This is Victoria's Day.

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I got up at 3 a.m. last night because I couldn't sleep because I was like,

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a mix of nerves of hoping all of the, you know,

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software systems were going to work out and just excitement because

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our guest today is one of my favorite people.

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So we're going to get right into it.

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What you're going to hear is a full conversation

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with Jesse Sadiq.

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Jesse is a therapist, a psychic therapist.

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She offers psychic readings, fitness classes,

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and it's all geared towards highly sensitive people.

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So you cannot go wrong contacting Jesse or just diving in a little bit deeper

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to find out more for yourself and just because this is like one of my most favorite conversations.

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It was the most fun.

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Just wait, just wait.

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I'm Victoria.

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Hey guys, I'm Carly.

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And here's Jesse.

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Hello.

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Hi.

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Nice to meet you.

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Nice to meet you.

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Thank you so much for doing this.

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Oh my gosh, I'm really excited.

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I was like, I was like, this podcast yesterday and I was like, I feel like this is just going to be fun.

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Yeah, it's just fun.

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It's just fun and it's for, you know, people to find out what it is you do and like all the interesting stuff that you do.

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I love that I came to mind.

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I'm so honored.

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I love talking about all of this.

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So I'm, yeah, like I'm ready.

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Now you are in Miami, right?

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Yes, I'm in Miami.

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I'm in Miami for about two years now.

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So I'm from Colorado originally.

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Oh, far.

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And then moved out here in 2022, early 2022, I guess.

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It's time is like, who knows what time is.

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I mean, very different than Colorado.

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It's, oh my gosh.

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Like climate wise, culture wise, like everything.

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It's such in Miami.

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I'm not going to explore that at all.

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So Miami is like so much different than the rest of Florida too.

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It's like its own little world down here.

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Yes.

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And that like there, I mean, there's Latin culture everywhere, but like it's very condensed in Miami and Miami just has its own like specific feel, which there's like pros and cons to that.

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But yeah, I'm learning.

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That's awesome.

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Yes.

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So you'll have that beach sun glow at all times.

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It is.

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I do love that.

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It's so funny.

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I was looking at a photo of like when I went on like one of the first dates with my boyfriend and we were acts throwing.

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And that was like when I was in my Colorado prime and I was like, I don't really care about like having a tan.

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Like I live in Colorado.

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Like it's fine.

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And then three years later when we moved to Miami, there's a photo of us acts throwing and I look like a completely different rate.

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Like it's crazy.

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I'm sure it because you just live in the sun now.

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It's so wild.

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I'm like, oh my God, I've been completed a different person now.

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That's really funny.

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I know.

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I'll show you it.

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Are you out in the sun a lot?

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So, yeah, like I try and get outside a lot and like just being out in nature is like what I really need, especially like what I do for work.

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Like it's just a necessity, but it kind of depends like we're starting to really get into like the hot season and summer.

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And so it's like you kind of have to be like a little bit choosy as to when you can go because during the day, it's just, it's just so crazy.

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No, I've been there.

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Wait, let's get into that though.

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What, explain exactly what it is that you do.

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All the things.

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She does so much.

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I'm so excited to find out.

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So, and it's funny because this is something that I've been practicing with in myself because I do a lot of different things, but they sort of like fit and integrate within one another.

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Like very nicely, but sort of like the, I don't know, external or like terms that people might understand best is that I'm a therapist.

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I'm a psychic medium and I'm a fitness instructor.

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And again, like all of all of the things that I do kind of like commingle and mix in with one another.

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But like just for people to understand those are sort of the terms that I use.

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That is so cool.

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And you, the intertwine is even in your fitness classes from what I read off your website, it's for highly sensitive people as well.

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Or you put all that together, right?

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And that there's so much.

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I weave in a lot of mindfulness.

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I weave in visualization, like manifestation, techniques, somatic practices to help regulate the nervous system.

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It's, yeah, it's so interesting because when I got into fitness, I had no idea what I was doing.

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I had no idea that it was going to sort of put the turn that it has for me over the years where I mean, I think in the fitness community, and I'm sure you both know this, there's been more of an integration of the mind and body connection.

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And like, how do we kind of create this space for all parts of self to be taken care of through the movement, but it's so much more than that.

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It is so much more than that.

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What kind of fitness classes do you teach?

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And then, you know, it's interesting in Miami, there's not really like a lot of bar there's studios that include bar.

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So it kind of integrated over into Pilates as well, Matt Pilates, and kind of yeah, that's that's where I land, which is similar to yoga with the breath work and connecting all of that mind body.

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I mean, I think there's a way to bring mindfulness into any fitness modality, but it's like, I kind of I get inspired from that.

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I mean, you don't need to teach me anything.

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I just want to listen to your voice.

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Sorry, the cadence.

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Victoria, this is like Victoria's favorite day because she's like, oh, she's a therapist.

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I've been saying this.

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Like your gentle eyes.

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This is the gentlest I've been.

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What is wrong with you?

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But wait, if you do, now you're a therapist, but you do psychic therapy.

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Psychic therapy is kind of what I guess if you want to call it like my niche, what I've kind of fallen into over the years.

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And I think as therapists are to develop their own practice or their own style of being a therapist, you kind of notice that there are certain populations.

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There are certain styles of therapy that you're drawn to.

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But I think that that shifts over your career as a therapist.

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But what I've kind of started to come into the past few years is this understanding of the psychic side and how that can show up in the therapeutic process.

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And that they think it's a really big missing component in our conceptualization of mental health is that there are these psychic experiences.

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We are spiritual beings and sometimes it can be written off with different diagnoses or whatever.

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Like it's not bad to hear voices.

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It's just understanding like what's happening when I'm hearing voices and how can I use it in a way that doesn't overwhelm me?

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And how can I, you know, start to function with it knowing what's going on?

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If that makes sense.

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So being able to like hone in on all the all the Claire's.

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Yes, all the Claire's because we have each one of us has Claire's that we can use and I can go over those if that would be helpful.

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Do you know what the Claire's are?

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Like Claire sentient, right?

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Claire sentience.

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Claire Boyant?

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I was really going to be upset with you for making a joke, but that was right.

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So there's Claire sentience, the ability to feel emotions and energy.

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People who are empathic have a like very strong Claire sentience again to the point where it can be very overwhelming.

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You can't walk into certain situations when you leave certain situations.

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It sticks with you.

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It can stay in your system if you don't understand.

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And that's kind of the population that has been attracted to me as the people who are highly empathic, highly sensitive.

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They have very strong Claire sentient abilities.

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It's just this psychic ability that I have that I can use to my advantage.

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It's just kind of those aha moments where you're like, oh.

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And Claire audience, it's it's not like when I'm using my Claire audience, it's not like I'm hearing both of you.

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It's it's much like a game of trades where it's like, I hear one word and then I kind of use my other players to piece pieces of the puzzle together.

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Currently, I don't work with anyone who is in active psychosis.

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That is something that I would love to down the line.

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Maybe you have to be highly resourced to be working in that population because there's so much that can entail.

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Like they need so much care when they're actively in psychosis.

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Got it.

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Eventually down the line, that might be something that I do when I'm more resourced and, you know, could have a center, could have something that I could really help people with.

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But I do work with clients who have loved ones who have experienced that.

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Or I do work with people that might have mild states of psychosis, but not again, highly active, like really not present.

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I have, before I graduated and as a therapist, before you graduate, you go through like this whole training process and you are working under supervision.

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And I actually was working with a client under supervision who was really in that just really not present in this reality.

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It was really hard to get them to focus to show up to sessions, all of that.

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So again, it's like you really need to be highly resourced in order to be effective in those situations.

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But it is a hope that I have for mental health going down the line is like, how can we really help people feel grounded in their bodies and understand what's going on that they're not crazy.

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They just have these abilities that once they're able to ground into their physical body and understand this about themselves, then they can find a way to move forward.

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I mean, that makes sense.

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What you need to do is listen to your voice and everything will be okay.

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I mean, I already feel I'm healed.

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I'm healed calm because I'm just like just talk to me.

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And I'll be okay.

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I had a reading with you.

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I think it was about a year ago.

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And I wrote, you know, I wrote all my stuff down.

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I was on FaceTime.

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I know you talk and you're like, oh, wait, go back.

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Because the ones I start channeling, okay, I, okay, yes, now I'm remembering because we were, we were talking about like hips.

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Yes.

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Oh my gosh.

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Yes, we were talking about opening my hips.

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Yes.

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What?

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Yeah.

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That's why I'll that you remember that because I'm sure that you read people all the time.

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It's funny.

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I, if I can like really focus, then I can remember what I need to remember.

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And that's like tuning into like my Claire Cognizance, like coming back in and asking for the information that I needed to receive.

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Um, yes.

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Wild.

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We said Claire Cognizance, Claire Audien, oh, Claire Boyance, which is kind of what people conceptualize as mediums is like the ability to see.

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And again, it can feel like you're making things up because most of it's in sort of what you will call your imagination in your mind's eye.

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But then people who have a really open third eye who are very clairvoyant actually see in physicality so they can see spirits, they can see energy.

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Um, they can see how sort of the intangible blends with the tangible when you have a really open third eye.

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Um, do you help people open all of these doors as well?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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So my process that I found that has really worked is grounding into the body first, really connecting to the root chakra.

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And so physical practices like movement, breathwork, things like that, um, really help with that.

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So sort of the process that happens when people come to see me is most likely they're highly dysregulated with their nervous system.

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They're not very grounded.

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They're not very good.

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What?

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She just said my name basically.

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She was like, Carly.

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This is for you.

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You're my ideal client.

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You will be getting an email from me after this.

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Well, you actually have, she has a reading.

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I do.

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Her husband bought one for Christmas that she has to schedule with you.

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I have to schedule with it.

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Amazing.

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Oh, I love that.

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I mean, we love this because we have been into this for years, especially Victoria, because she feels so deeply for everyone and everyone's feelings.

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I feel like get attached to her.

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So we go to mediums all the time.

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So it's really nice to break it down like the difference in basically the Claire's.

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I didn't know that.

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I truly believe that there's so many more out there that we don't necessarily know about right now, but that would make sense to me that you can like put your hands on something, feel something work with energy through your hands.

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I mean, massage therapist, people who do Reiki, things like that.

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I have a client who they're whenever I work with them in a session, my hands get so hot because they have so much energy come out of their hands.

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It's wild.

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I've never felt anything like it.

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And they do body work.

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So it makes sense.

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It makes sense.

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The ability to do that with their hands, but I've never felt anything like it when I work with them.

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I have a question.

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Yeah.

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So I know that when we spoke, you brought up like my grandma and like all this stuff.

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When did you feel that you got that ability or like at what age?

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Mediumship.

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Yes.

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Yeah.

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So like a lot of people who have these abilities, you turn them off at a very young age.

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So I have this very vague memory of around when I was six, when I just remember feeling so frustrated.

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And I was like, I just want to stop feeling all of this.

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I just want to like, I'm weird.

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I shouldn't be doing this.

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This isn't safe.

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And that's when I kind of started to like push it down, filter it away, not bring it out anymore.

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And so then it took to, I was around, oh gosh, again, what is time?

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It was in 2019.

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So a long gap of time where there were like little moments where things had happened in between them, but not enough for me to be like, oh, I'm a medium.

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Oh, I'm a psychic because I'm not super clairvoyant.

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I can, I'm starting to see things in the physical world, but it's more in my mind's eye.

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And I think that's like the biggest clue for people that they might be a medium because you'll see energies and you'll see spirits.

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But for me, that was something that I shut off from a very young age.

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So I'm still doing the work to open back up my paradigm.

335
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So it took going to a medium myself to want to connect to my dad.

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And in that reading towards the end, she told me, you have these abilities, you're meant to work with them, you're meant to do something with them.

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And then from there, that was in 2019, then 2020 happened.

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And then it was just like this huge, huge thing from there.

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Wow.

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I'm going to have to call you more regularly.

341
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I'm told that all the time and I just like don't know what I'm doing every time we see a medium.

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They tell they look at her, we go together all the time and they look at her like, you're, you have it.

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You can do this.

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You can do this.

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You look like, I don't know how.

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Yeah, I'm going to call you.

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The reason why you're so, why you're so drawn to it.

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I mean, both of you, I know, clearly you might not see yourself as like someone who can do this, but you're a very sensitive person.

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And it's just sort of, I mean, both of you are very sensitive, but it's sort of like that has expressed itself in different ways.

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And so you have these abilities as well.

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There's a reason why both of you are drawn to doing this.

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I mean, people who are highly psychic, highly sensitive are drawn to these types of practitioners for a reason.

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What you do with those abilities might be a little bit different, but it's still there.

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It's within you.

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You told me this in the reading.

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I told Victoria and Victoria was like, I told you, I told you.

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And I was like, no, this is your thing.

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This is your thing.

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I was like, I'm just along for the ride.

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You finally gave me a thing.

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Yeah, that's the earth thing.

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Oh man.

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So this is second time.

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That's awesome.

365
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I forgot about that.

366
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I know.

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I'll take it.

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I'll take it.

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But there is, there is a difference between psychic and medium.

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Yes.

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Correct.

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Yes.

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And I can get like a little, because you're dealing with things that aren't very tangible.

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It's energetic.

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So it's, it's hard to always perceive it when it's not physical, but I can kind of give you what my definitions are.

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Someone who is psychic is again able to tune into their extra senses.

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So the clears that we just talked about in order to look at potential timelines, potential outcomes for someone.

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They use it to look into someone's energetic fields to understand what is going on.

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So energetic field is like someone's aura and within our energetic field, all of our information is in there.

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So psychics are able to look into someone's energetic field and understand like, that's why I was able to see that there was stuff going on in your hips, like that's stored in your.

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Got it.

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Yeah.

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I think that there's again, this sort of like, you know, you're not going to be able to see that.

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And this sort of like, maybe stereotype of what people think of as a psychic someone with a crystal ball someone who's highly clairvoyant is future predicting.

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And what was interesting about me starting to do this work around the time of 2020 was that I feel like psychic work made this huge shift at that point in time.

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Before it was much more predictive. And now I've noticed that my readings have started to shift and open up more in that there's a lot more potential timelines for people at the moment.

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And it's not as clear cut in readings.

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I can see different timeline options for people now, whereas my perception of what it was before 2020 was that someone was on a very clear path.

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And it was a little bit harder to go on to a different path. But now that the energy has shifted in our world, it's it's much easier to kind of go into a different timeline than it was before.

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Do you feel, ooh, she got the shivers.

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Do you feel that that's because after 2020 people have been tuning into their mental health more because we we like didn't bring up mental health until I feel I feel I mean this is in my small circle.

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I have taboo and now it's everywhere.

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Everyone's talking about it. Everyone speaks like a therapist now.

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Right.

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I just said tuning in and I was like, oh man, I feel smart. Yeah, I feel super smart.

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You look it.

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And your in sync t-shirt you look it.

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Yeah, face.

399
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Please tell me you know who in sync is.

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Oh my gosh, of course.

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Okay, all right.

402
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I'm not that young.

403
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Because I knew you were young. I knew you were young.

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She can say huge crush on Lance Bass.

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Of course.

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Yes.

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Lance.

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She was so sweet and cute and they didn't let him talk at all.

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Well, mine was Chris Kirkpatrick because I figured I had the best chance because nobody wanted him.

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Everybody else.

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And I was like, man, I feel bad for him.

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So much.

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How do I get in here?

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That's the way to go. Go low right there.

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You just made it the window.

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Oh my God.

417
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That's amazing.

418
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I love that.

419
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I like Joey if anyone cares.

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I was into Joey.

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If you split screen Joey and our brother, I think we have a little bit of time in there.

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They look very similar.

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You just ruined it.

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Oh my God.

425
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We can talk about that later.

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She's like, call me. I'll bill you.

427
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I'm going to need to now.

428
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Sorry. I really not.

429
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Oh my God. You totally.

430
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I really meant to say.

431
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I don't even know what we were talking about.

432
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I meant to say I feel like mental health is more talked about now.

433
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Oh yeah. Get back into it.

434
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Yeah. We love mental health.

435
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But it's true.

436
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I actually remember a reading that I had with you where you talked about the different timelines with me and I was like, oh gosh, I don't know if it's such a hard concept.

437
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It is the first time you've heard about it and what was it even about?

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It was about a guy and you were like, it's not in this timeline.

439
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It's not this timeline.

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And I remember being upset.

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But now in hindsight, I was like, oh, thank God.

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Thank God.

443
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But there's so many different ones.

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So yeah, I remember that.

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It's honestly a little confusing and a little overwhelming because it shows us how malleable our reality is and things that we think are finite and set in stone really aren't set in stone.

446
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And so there are moments where that can feel super empowering and then there's moments where it can feel like very overwhelming of like, what do I do with this?

447
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Like life is not what I thought.

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But I always try and help people understand that like you are within control of what you experience by again tuning into what's going on for you on the inside.

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The externals always going to be a reflection of what you have going on on the inside.

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And so if you start from there looking at, okay, what is within me that's continuously attracting the situation that I'm experiencing?

451
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What belief am I holding?

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What experience in the past and if you want to take it even further, what did my ancestors experience in the past that's continuing to be brought down into the through the lineage and like how can I do something different?

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That all needs to be on a t-shirt that I will wear because I from start to finish, I was like, yes, yes, yes.

454
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Yeah, definitely put it on a t-shirt.

455
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That's where it needs to be.

456
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Not a book.

457
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Not a book.

458
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Not like a thesis, not some sort of website, a t-shirt for sure.

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It's a t-shirt with instinct on the back.

460
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Yeah, people will take note.

461
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Just Chris Karpatcher's ponytail.

462
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I'm sorry, he had white boy braids.

463
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Yes, so he had the braids.

464
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Just that.

465
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Talk about you have, you're in a book.

466
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Yes, I wanted to bring that up.

467
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I have it right here.

468
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Oh, I love that.

469
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I have it.

470
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So this is how I found you.

471
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Oh my gosh.

472
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:26,000
My therapist recommended this book.

473
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:32,000
And so I remember reading your chapter and there was probably the most intuitive thing I've ever done in my life.

474
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,000
I was like, look her up booked session right now.

475
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,000
Like I didn't think about it.

476
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,000
There was not one thought in it.

477
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,000
And I have followed you ever since, but this book is amazing.

478
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,000
It's called The Sacred Feminine.

479
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:49,000
And it's a bunch of chapters written by different intuitive women.

480
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:50,000
Yeah.

481
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,000
Yeah.

482
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,000
Oh my gosh.

483
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,000
I love that.

484
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,000
I had so much fun writing that chapter.

485
00:28:55,000 --> 00:29:02,000
I was so intimidated to do it at first and then believe it or not, just one afternoon I sat down at a coffee shop.

486
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,000
I wrote down the whole thing in one go.

487
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:11,000
And it was like the most like channeled like expression of myself that I've ever done.

488
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,000
And I had so much fun.

489
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,000
My intention is to write a full book one day.

490
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:21,000
But like that project was just so much fun for me to like bring together all of these different energies.

491
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,000
I mean, and we were like all over the world.

492
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:26,000
Some people were international when they were writing theirs.

493
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:31,000
A lot of people were in California, but it was such a such a fun project.

494
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:36,000
It's 20 different women who write their connection to the sacred feminine.

495
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:46,000
Mine happened to be how I started to activate my intuition and my psychic abilities and sort of the different practices that I used along the way.

496
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:52,000
Well, I have to bring up one part that I so I am a book reader and I underline like everything.

497
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:53,000
Oh, I love that.

498
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,000
I'm in a textbook, you know, classroom all over again.

499
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,000
And I was flipping through this to refresh.

500
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,000
I need to reread this book and yours.

501
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:05,000
You talked about your guides and how they're aliens.

502
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,000
Yes.

503
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,000
And I loved that.

504
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,000
I put four stars next to it.

505
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,000
Well, Victoria is big until like alien.

506
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,000
You got a lot of clothes with aliens on them.

507
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,000
Oh, yeah.

508
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,000
I'm here.

509
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,000
They're around us.

510
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,000
She might be one.

511
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,000
You could tell me that.

512
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,000
I'm pretty sure she is.

513
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,000
But oh, yeah, I watch all the documentaries, all the things.

514
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:30,000
I'm obsessed, but I've heard a lot about guides and everybody has spirit guides, right?

515
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,000
And yours specifically are aliens.

516
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,000
And I love it.

517
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,000
Yes.

518
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:44,000
And, and that was something when I first started to hop into my abilities, I had a reading by

519
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:52,000
someone who shared she went into my Acacic record and looked at my most.

520
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:58,000
I say like most recent in like quotations because I think that.

521
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,000
How do I want to say this?

522
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:05,000
That we, we have past lives from the perception of a human.

523
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:09,000
But then when we zoom out, we're not in this 3D world where time is happening.

524
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,000
I love that you both are like nodding and saying.

525
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,000
Yeah.

526
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,000
Yeah.

527
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,000
Yeah.

528
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,000
Yeah.

529
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,000
Yeah.

530
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,000
Like we got you.

531
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:19,000
We got you.

532
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,000
We understand.

533
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,000
Tell us more.

534
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,000
I can't get enough right now.

535
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,000
Like, yeah.

536
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:30,000
But I'm like, don't tell us too much because you want to make sure people buy your book.

537
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,000
Yeah.

538
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,000
We, we do have past lives from the framework of a human.

539
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,000
We have past and future lives.

540
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:42,000
But if we take sort of a quantum perspective and I'm not an expert on quantum physics by

541
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:48,000
any means, but I have little pieces that I use in my work and that it's all sort of happening

542
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,000
now in one moment.

543
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,000
All of your lives are happening now.

544
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,000
All of your past present and future lives are happening now.

545
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:57,000
But from the perspective of a human, we have past lives and we have future lives and we

546
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,000
have the life that's happening now.

547
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:05,300
But she tapped into this past life where I wasn't human and it was really hard for me

548
00:32:05,300 --> 00:32:07,000
to digest at first.

549
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:11,000
And I was like, okay, this is like a little weird.

550
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,000
I don't know how much I believe.

551
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:20,000
Like, and I remember after my reading, a friend called me like five minutes later and I was

552
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,000
like, Hey, like, I think I'm like an alien and like, I just have this reading and like,

553
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,000
I don't know what's going on.

554
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,000
Like, do you still want to be friends with me?

555
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,000
This is a little weird.

556
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:37,000
And like, luckily, this is a friend that I truly feel like we've had a lot of lifetimes

557
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,000
together.

558
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:42,000
And so even though they were like, yeah, that's like a little weird.

559
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,000
They're still my friend.

560
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,000
Thank God.

561
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,000
Because she's an alien.

562
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:48,000
She's an alien too.

563
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,000
She was like, oh, we finally got her.

564
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,000
That's crazy.

565
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,000
But not not crazy.

566
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,000
Yes.

567
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:57,000
Let's see.

568
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,000
In a different way.

569
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,000
Yeah.

570
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,000
And the best way.

571
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,000
Yeah.

572
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,000
Yes.

573
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,000
Can you turn it off?

574
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,500
I know a lot of people probably ask you this, whereas like you're walking down the street

575
00:33:06,500 --> 00:33:08,000
and you're not feeling things.

576
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,000
I mean, you live in Miami.

577
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,000
There's people everywhere.

578
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,000
Yeah.

579
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,000
Yeah.

580
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:18,000
That is something that I continuously practice and I continuously work on.

581
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:23,000
And that is also something that I really help clients with, especially deeply sensitive,

582
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:29,000
highly empathic clients, because it's just a lot to go out into the world, to go to the

583
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:35,000
supermarket, to go to any place where there's a lot of people.

584
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:41,360
And as my gifts have started to come back online and really started to strengthen, I've had

585
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:48,340
to be much more cognizant of where I'm going during my day, how I am upholding my energy

586
00:33:48,340 --> 00:33:49,840
during those times.

587
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:54,840
And I've really had to prioritize rest, as I was saying earlier, to spend a lot of time

588
00:33:54,840 --> 00:34:00,640
in nature because that's the easiest way to kind of cleanse yourself and release anything

589
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,360
that you might have picked up.

590
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:07,680
I'm getting better at it, but it's definitely, it's a practice.

591
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:14,640
And again, the shift that we've gone through after 2020, even leading up to 2020, I think

592
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:20,200
a lot of people started to realize when we stayed at home for a long period of time as

593
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:25,320
we started to venture back out into the world, people started to understand, oh no, I'm really

594
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:31,640
highly sensitive and it's a lot for me to go back out and to mingle with the people.

595
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:32,640
Right.

596
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:33,640
It's draining.

597
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:39,800
I would imagine, especially if you have all or most of the clairs.

598
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:43,920
Even after a session, you have to recoup a little bit, I would assume.

599
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:44,920
Yes.

600
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:45,920
Yeah.

601
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:50,000
There, I thought something that I've had to learn the hard way is like, I thought that

602
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:54,280
I could go into this and I could knock out a bunch of readings in a day, but it's just

603
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,520
not where my energy is at.

604
00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:01,280
And there are some people, I think, you know, as you get further on into this, they're able

605
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:05,320
to do that a little bit more, but still most of the mediums, most of the psychics that

606
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,880
I know, it's maybe a handful of sessions a week.

607
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,680
And so, well, that makes a lot of sense.

608
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:11,880
That makes a lot of sense.

609
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,640
So we talked about psychic.

610
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:17,360
Consciousness is where you can speak to spirits.

611
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:18,360
Yes.

612
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:19,360
Yeah.

613
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,880
Or they speak to you.

614
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,120
It's a combination.

615
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:32,560
It can, you know, I can try and focus in on someone and talk to them, but it kind of depends.

616
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:36,720
Like they're just like humans in certain regards and then like sometimes they don't want to

617
00:35:36,720 --> 00:35:37,720
come to the phone.

618
00:35:37,720 --> 00:35:39,160
Sometimes they don't want to answer.

619
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:44,640
So people can have the intention of wanting to contact people in a reading and for whatever

620
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:49,360
reason it's that either that soul is on the other side doing work.

621
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:53,680
They need to be separate right now or maybe it's not for the person that's coming into

622
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:54,680
the reading.

623
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:55,760
It's not for their highest good.

624
00:35:55,760 --> 00:36:02,560
So there are times where I can call them basically and say like, Hey, do you want to talk to

625
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:03,560
this person?

626
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:08,960
But yeah, usually it's them coming to me and sharing what they want to share.

627
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,960
We understand it as you don't necessarily, if you're walking into a reading with you

628
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:18,560
for the first time or just in general, you don't get what you want.

629
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,200
You get to hear what you need.

630
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:21,200
Right?

631
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,520
Because we've done that through like we want to, you know, come through, come through and

632
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,880
then the other somebody else comes through, but it's, but that's what we needed to hear.

633
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,360
Wait, I'm going to tell you something.

634
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:35,240
We used to go to a medium pretty regularly and we were in the car on our way there and

635
00:36:35,240 --> 00:36:39,160
we said, we really hope this person doesn't come through.

636
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,800
We don't want to hear from this person.

637
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:41,800
We were like, no, no, no.

638
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:42,920
Don't you waste the time.

639
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:48,920
I want to talk to this other person and wouldn't you know they came in and said, we know you

640
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:50,240
didn't want to talk to us today.

641
00:36:50,240 --> 00:36:51,640
And I was like, gosh, darn it.

642
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:52,640
You're like, are you kidding me?

643
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:57,360
But also that's really cool.

644
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,360
It was really cool.

645
00:36:58,360 --> 00:36:59,360
It was so cool.

646
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:00,360
We're like, oh yeah.

647
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,360
Okay.

648
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:02,360
Yeah.

649
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:03,960
You do two things that I would do want to talk about.

650
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:04,960
Yeah.

651
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:05,960
I'm going to subscribe with you.

652
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:07,320
You send a newsletter out.

653
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,320
Yes.

654
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,280
So I have a monthly newsletter.

655
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:16,520
I'll be completely transparent in that I am wanting to shift what I offer in my newsletter

656
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:22,600
and kind of what I started out like doing a monthly tarot reading and I feel like it's

657
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,240
transforming into something else.

658
00:37:24,240 --> 00:37:30,560
But right now it's kind of just the offering that I have where I'm like the most just sharing

659
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:35,080
what I'm feeling, what I'm picking up in the collective, some of the things that I'm personally

660
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:39,200
doing like the practices that I'm using on my healing journey at the moment.

661
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,560
So it's kind of my space where I just put it all out there.

662
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:47,200
I've really taken a step back from social media since towards the end of last year,

663
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,720
it just felt like I needed to like take a step back and reassess what I want to put back

664
00:37:51,720 --> 00:37:55,240
out there because it wasn't feeling really aligned.

665
00:37:55,240 --> 00:38:00,440
And speaking of being highly sensitive, social media can be a lot for highly sensitive empathic

666
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:01,880
people.

667
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:08,720
So I felt like I really wanted to take a step back and decide how and if I want to reenter

668
00:38:08,720 --> 00:38:10,720
into social media.

669
00:38:10,720 --> 00:38:11,720
Don't do it.

670
00:38:11,720 --> 00:38:12,720
Don't do it.

671
00:38:12,720 --> 00:38:17,280
I know all of this because I follow you and I read all your newsletters that you do send

672
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,160
out and your energy is changing and she's not into social media.

673
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,160
I could have told you that.

674
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:25,760
So you've already touched a little bit on the second thing I want to bring up.

675
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:32,440
You started doing or offering and I know it via Instagram because that's how I think I

676
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,240
see you the most unless you do it in other places.

677
00:38:35,240 --> 00:38:36,240
So please let us know.

678
00:38:36,240 --> 00:38:37,240
But you offered tarot cards.

679
00:38:37,240 --> 00:38:41,600
Just pulling a card or three card spreads, especially when the moon is changing and we're

680
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,120
in a new moon right now.

681
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,120
Did you know that?

682
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,120
Yeah.

683
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,360
What does the new moon mean, Carly?

684
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,680
Can you see it or can you not see it?

685
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:51,680
I can't see it.

686
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:52,680
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

687
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:59,120
But you offer these random little card spreads and then she'll DM you what she pulled and

688
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:05,520
explain them, which is the best part is that you have these lengthy, full in-depth descriptions

689
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:10,640
of the card that you pulled and how it you felt it resonated to the person that's asking

690
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:11,640
you to pull cards.

691
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:12,640
That is so cool.

692
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,480
Every time there's been many times that I'm like, well, I'm just going to do it.

693
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:21,680
You just Venmauer and then she'll DM you and I've had clients of mine buy them for me.

694
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,000
This should be like, this is from da-da-da-da.

695
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,000
That's so awesome.

696
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,000
Which is really cool.

697
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,000
Yeah.

698
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,000
But you offer that regularly now?

699
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,000
Yeah.

700
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:36,720
So I generally do it on every new and full moon and I'll also be transparent in that and

701
00:39:36,720 --> 00:39:40,000
that I feel that offering is shifting as well.

702
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:44,960
I'm not really sure how it's going to shift moving forward.

703
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:51,200
I'm in this really big like, okay, I know things are changing in my business right now,

704
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:54,520
but I'm not entirely sure where they're starting to shift.

705
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:58,240
So there's offerings like that that I want to take.

706
00:39:58,240 --> 00:40:01,960
And how do I want to say this?

707
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:08,440
Maybe kind of bring it in to one place more or put it in a way where it can reach more

708
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:12,200
people, potentially be more accessible kind of be seen more.

709
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,920
So none of that stuff is going away, but it is shifting.

710
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:19,520
So by the time maybe someone listens to this, if it's down the road, it might be something

711
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:25,840
completely different, but for right now, I still have on the new moon and the full moon,

712
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:29,000
I offer a tarot readings through the DM.

713
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:34,080
So just give us your website and your handle so that everybody can look you up.

714
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:35,240
Yeah.

715
00:40:35,240 --> 00:40:37,240
Right now are you wanting to give it?

716
00:40:37,240 --> 00:40:38,240
No, like right now.

717
00:40:38,240 --> 00:40:40,240
I can't wait another second.

718
00:40:40,240 --> 00:40:43,240
We need the information.

719
00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:49,920
So it's my full name.

720
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:58,040
My website is jessysideak.com, which is J E F S E S I D D E E K.

721
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,040
So many doubles.

722
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:07,680
So many doubles, double E double E and a K. Which is how I generally spell it for people.

723
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:14,040
But that's my website, jessysideak.com and then on Instagram at jessysideak as well.

724
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:19,720
I'm telling you if her Instagram is as calm as her voice, like your stories, I'm like,

725
00:41:19,720 --> 00:41:20,720
Oh, what's she got today?

726
00:41:20,720 --> 00:41:21,720
What's she going to give out?

727
00:41:21,720 --> 00:41:24,320
What's she going to say about the collective?

728
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:25,320
It's so nice.

729
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,000
And she's it's always like usually with the beach behind.

730
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:32,800
I'm sure the words and like, Oh, just like Pennsylvania is where we are.

731
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,080
Just like it.

732
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:36,080
Love it.

733
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:40,120
Well, you know what's funny?

734
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,160
So there's two things that are funny.

735
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:43,160
We'll see.

736
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,160
We'll be the judge.

737
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,160
One.

738
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,160
Okay.

739
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,160
You can tell me.

740
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:50,160
You told me in one of the readings that I was going to move by water.

741
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:56,200
And it's when I was living at my, it was in between a house and where I am now.

742
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,840
I was living back at my mom's house.

743
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:02,480
And I'm being, I remember being like, my God, Karlie's going to kill me if I move to water,

744
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,360
like where is water?

745
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,720
And I ended up finding this apartment, which I love, whatever.

746
00:42:07,720 --> 00:42:10,320
And I took all my stuff out of storage.

747
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:14,760
And just like you were explaining earlier, it's moments where you have to see if for

748
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:19,920
me the like the intuitive, not second guessing intuition, it's like, am I making this up?

749
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,680
Or is this, I don't personally believe in coincidences, but that's the other word that

750
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:29,200
it could be like an intuitive moment and synchronicity or, you know, people call it coincidence.

751
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:32,200
And the second guessing is being like, God, it's just a coincidence.

752
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:40,160
But I pulled all my stuff out and my giant headboard canvas is the ocean.

753
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,880
And I hadn't had it for a year because I was living at my mom's and it was in storage.

754
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,720
And I was like, this is the apartment that I love, but there's no water around here.

755
00:42:46,720 --> 00:42:47,760
There's like a little creek.

756
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:48,760
Maybe it's that.

757
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,640
And I remember putting it all together and like putting the frame on the canvas.

758
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:55,560
And I was like, oh my gosh, this is the biggest ocean I've ever lived by.

759
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,040
It's totally forgotten.

760
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:04,560
I love that because sometimes there are messages that come through and it's different than

761
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:08,000
what I might be interpreting, what you might be interpreting.

762
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:13,200
But to me, that moment is like, oh, I'm exactly where I'm meant to be.

763
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,280
Like this is the water that she was picking up on.

764
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,680
And it was months, I think, after I even talked to you.

765
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:23,520
And that was the first thing that popped into my mind, which is why I know it was a synchronicity

766
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:28,000
of like the intuitive moment and not just like something random or nothing happens randomly.

767
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:31,720
But it was, you came into my mind when I unpacked.

768
00:43:31,720 --> 00:43:34,040
So I was like, I think this is exactly what she meant.

769
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:40,200
And then the other thing is that this podcast wouldn't have to happen if I hadn't talked

770
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,840
to you because I had just.

771
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:47,080
I do remember we were talking a lot about Throchakra and a lot.

772
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:48,080
Yes.

773
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:49,080
You remember talking about this.

774
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:56,360
We were talking about communication and something I was going to dive into or whatever.

775
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,120
And that was one day that I talked to you.

776
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,880
And then I made the decision who knows how long after that I called her up and said, hey,

777
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:03,880
just bought all this equipment.

778
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:04,880
We're doing this.

779
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:05,880
She was like, cool.

780
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:06,880
Thumbs up.

781
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:12,640
And then I talked to you again and you were like, are you doing a podcast?

782
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,200
I was like, mm-hmm.

783
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,640
You were like, keep doing that.

784
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:17,640
Keep going with that.

785
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,560
And if you haven't found, I guess it was a platform.

786
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:22,760
I don't know what it's called.

787
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:28,000
We're like, look for one with the celestial or the sun.

788
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:29,440
And I was like, I have no idea what that means.

789
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:30,440
I'm going to write that down.

790
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:31,440
It's really cool.

791
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,240
Well, the platform that we use, that's what it is.

792
00:44:34,240 --> 00:44:38,080
It's little aliens on the on like Saturn and the sun.

793
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,200
And that's what RSS.com is.

794
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,920
And I was like, it's this one.

795
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,920
It's this one.

796
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:43,920
I have to pick this one.

797
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,120
And it's been the best experience.

798
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,800
I'm even talking myself right now.

799
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:54,240
I'm like, well, I'm good.

800
00:44:54,240 --> 00:44:56,240
We're basically obsessed with you.

801
00:44:56,240 --> 00:44:57,240
I know.

802
00:44:57,240 --> 00:44:58,240
I appreciate that.

803
00:44:58,240 --> 00:44:59,240
I really do.

804
00:44:59,240 --> 00:45:01,000
It's just little moments like that, though.

805
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:06,520
If you've never been to a psychic reading or a medium reading or the mix of both, you

806
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,760
just have to be open to everything, right?

807
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:18,320
It might not come as it said, which is like a hard thing to try to see when it does present

808
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:19,320
itself.

809
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:20,320
Yes.

810
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:21,320
Yes.

811
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:25,480
We can go in with expectations of like what we want it to look like, what we want someone

812
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:26,480
to say.

813
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:27,840
And sometimes a reading.

814
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:32,320
I mean, there's been moments where after I signed off a reading and I'm like, I know

815
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:36,040
that that person hated that reading.

816
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,040
Really?

817
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:38,440
Well, you can feel it.

818
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:39,440
Yes.

819
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:40,440
Right?

820
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:41,440
Yes.

821
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:42,440
Yes.

822
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:46,240
Because they came in with an expectation and they've been wanting to hear something

823
00:45:46,240 --> 00:45:48,680
a certain way, whatever it was.

824
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:52,000
And there's a reason why they're attracted to me.

825
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:56,560
There's a reason why I also need to read for that person too, because just as much as you're

826
00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:00,920
taking in information and learning and growing, it's also happening for me too.

827
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:05,400
So the people that are attracted to me are just as much my teachers as vice versa.

828
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:14,200
But there are moments where I have a woman come to me and people can be guarded and anyone

829
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:18,880
who does readings kind of understand like there are some people that you kind of just

830
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:24,040
have to find like that little entry point, like one thing that will kind of spark and

831
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:28,320
then they'll like soften a little bit and their energy will start to open a little bit

832
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:29,320
more.

833
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,280
But some people, it can take a little bit of time.

834
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,120
And so they might feel frustrated.

835
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:39,000
The information isn't resonating because they have a lot of walls and, you know, that's

836
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,560
for good reason, whatever they've been through.

837
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:45,880
But I had this woman that come, came to me and in the beginning I should have known the

838
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,440
way that she was saying things.

839
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:52,080
But she was basically saying like, you know, I don't think mediums are as good as they

840
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:53,080
say they are.

841
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:57,880
I don't think that they can really like tune in as much as they say that they can.

842
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:02,200
And so me, I was like, okay, like this is just information like she's skeptical, but

843
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,080
like let's see, you know, like I trust in myself.

844
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:06,680
Like I will see what comes through.

845
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:11,520
And again, anything I said wasn't resonating, wasn't landing.

846
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,000
And I just had to say, okay, I'm going to be completely honest with you here.

847
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:20,880
Like you're not meant to get any information that you are wanting to get because there's

848
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,160
a lesson in that for you.

849
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,680
Like you need to go do some internal work.

850
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,040
Look at why you're constantly going to mediums.

851
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,960
I mean, it was a thing where she was like really trying to get the information out of

852
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,440
people.

853
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,120
And the session ended early.

854
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,240
That was the only time that's ever happened to me.

855
00:47:37,240 --> 00:47:42,960
It was like the most like after the session, I was just like, oh my God, am I proud?

856
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:46,160
Like I not do this.

857
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:47,160
And just call us.

858
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:48,160
It was.

859
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:49,160
We'll make you feel better.

860
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:50,160
We'll fix all that for you.

861
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:51,160
We'll light you up.

862
00:47:51,160 --> 00:48:00,400
That's gotta be frustrating though, because you trust yourself and it's so, you know,

863
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,760
and it's totally not you.

864
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:02,760
It was a her problem.

865
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:07,200
Yeah, but maybe that's the lesson that you need to just trust yourself and know that

866
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:08,200
it wasn't you.

867
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,200
A thousand percent.

868
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:13,480
And now I know when I come into that energy, like I can say at the beginning of the session,

869
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,400
like, look, I don't think that you're going to get what you need here.

870
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:20,560
I think you need to take a step back and start doing some more introspective work rather

871
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,880
than trying to get answers from the outside.

872
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:25,880
And it's kind of similar to what I was saying before.

873
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:29,720
Like she really wanted to connect with some people on the other side.

874
00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:33,800
I think they were, she was wanting to connect with her father.

875
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,680
I can't remember.

876
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:40,480
But he didn't want to come to the phone because he knew that this was not what she needed.

877
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,760
She needed something different.

878
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:43,760
So learning from.

879
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:48,920
I love how you say that, like coming to the phone, because for people that may have not

880
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:55,080
done this session, these sessions before, or really understand the concept of how you

881
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,680
can talk to, like, spirit, but coming to the phone, like they don't want to come to the

882
00:48:58,680 --> 00:48:59,680
phone for you today.

883
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:00,680
Yeah.

884
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:01,680
But this person did.

885
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,640
And I love that visual because I think people can grab onto that a little bit more.

886
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:06,640
Yes.

887
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,080
So it makes it a little less woo-woo.

888
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:10,080
Yeah.

889
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,000
That's what we call her.

890
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,000
She's all woo-woo and hippie-dippy.

891
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:16,000
Listen, why'd you have to yell that?

892
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,000
I don't know.

893
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:18,000
It was aggressive.

894
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,000
That was aggressive.

895
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,000
You are so interesting.

896
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:25,000
And I want everybody listening to call her.

897
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:26,000
No, don't call her.

898
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,000
She doesn't want to come to the phone.

899
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,000
No, she's not coming to the phone right now.

900
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:30,000
DM her.

901
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,000
Or email her.

902
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,000
Go to her website.

903
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:36,840
I feel like it's more than just like, I want to talk to my friend that passed away.

904
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:37,840
It's not.

905
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:39,840
You get so much more than that.

906
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:40,840
It is.

907
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,120
And I mean, listen to her.

908
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:44,120
Just listen to her.

909
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,480
How relaxed does everybody feel right now?

910
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,480
And she likes in sync.

911
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:49,480
Done.

912
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,480
Is it with team in sync over Backstreet Boys?

913
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:53,480
Oh, my God.

914
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:54,480
Wait.

915
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:55,480
Wait a second.

916
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,440
We play this game with all of our people that we want to get to know better.

917
00:49:58,440 --> 00:49:59,440
Don't answer that question yet.

918
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:00,440
Okay.

919
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:01,440
Ready?

920
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,680
I know it's called rapid fire.

921
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:04,680
Okay.

922
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,560
Answer as quickly as you can.

923
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:08,560
Okay.

924
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:09,560
All right.

925
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:10,560
Great.

926
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:11,560
Mountains or beach?

927
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:12,560
Oh, damn it.

928
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:16,240
I know from Colorado to Miami.

929
00:50:16,240 --> 00:50:17,240
This is hard.

930
00:50:17,240 --> 00:50:20,480
Those are literally like my heart, like two parts of my heart.

931
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:24,120
But I will say I know that where I'm meant to be right now is the beach.

932
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:28,160
I'm a mountain girl through and through, but like I'm learning so much from being by the

933
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:29,160
water.

934
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,160
You definitely play this game like Victoria.

935
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:32,160
Okay.

936
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,160
There's nothing rapid about it.

937
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:35,160
Going out.

938
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,160
I'm trying to say one more.

939
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:38,160
No, no, no, no, no.

940
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,160
You do you.

941
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:40,160
You do exactly Victoria.

942
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,160
Okay.

943
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,160
Going out or staying home?

944
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,040
Oh, staying home all the way.

945
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,680
Reading a book or listening to a podcast?

946
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:49,840
This is not a trick question.

947
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:51,160
It's whatever you like.

948
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:56,840
I know it depends on when I'm in the mood, but I am a podcast girlie.

949
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:57,840
So yeah.

950
00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:58,840
I love it.

951
00:50:58,840 --> 00:50:59,840
The cutest ever.

952
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:01,400
Drama or comedy?

953
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:06,840
These are all hard stuff.

954
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:12,560
Victoria doesn't like, there's not one answer.

955
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:13,560
Yeah.

956
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:14,560
Okay.

957
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:15,560
There's a gray area.

958
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,520
It depends on where when I'm in the mood, but I also am a real housewife's girlie.

959
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:19,520
Oh my God.

960
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:20,520
That's why.

961
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:21,520
That's why.

962
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:22,520
There we go.

963
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:23,520
I love her.

964
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:24,520
Christmas or Halloween?

965
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:25,520
Christmas.

966
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:27,520
Long run or long walk?

967
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,020
Long walk.

968
00:51:29,020 --> 00:51:30,320
Now we day beach day.

969
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:31,320
I know.

970
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:32,320
Sorry.

971
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:33,320
Beach day.

972
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:34,320
Coffee or tea?

973
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:35,320
Tea.

974
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:36,320
Pop music?

975
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:37,320
Emo.

976
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:38,320
Pop music.

977
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:39,320
Cats or dogs?

978
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:40,320
Dogs.

979
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:44,800
Vacation abroad or staycation at home?

980
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:52,600
Oh, I'm going to say depends, but right now I would say vacation abroad.

981
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:53,600
All right.

982
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:54,600
Last big one.

983
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:55,600
You ready for this?

984
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:56,600
Yeah.

985
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:57,600
Carly or Victoria?

986
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:03,600
You're just setting me up for failure right now.

987
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:04,600
No one ever answers that.

988
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:05,600
So you win.

989
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:08,600
No one answers that question.

990
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,600
This was so fun.

991
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,400
I can't wait to set up my next reading with you.

992
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,320
You really now you have to.

993
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:18,120
On my website, I have a couple of reading.

994
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:25,400
I have an individual reading that is either 30 minutes or a full hour.

995
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:29,120
And then they have psychic therapy consultation anywhere.

996
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,600
I think he got us a couple of reading.

997
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:37,320
I just thank you so, so much because this was so much fun and we would love to have

998
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,720
you back and talk even more.

999
00:52:38,720 --> 00:52:39,720
Yeah.

1000
00:52:39,720 --> 00:52:42,600
My gosh, I would love to know this is so much fun.

1001
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:47,280
And I just want to say Carly, I apologize that I didn't recognize you at the beginning.

1002
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:50,680
And as he started talking, I was like, Oh, no, I know who she is.

1003
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:52,160
And I felt a little bad.

1004
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,360
No, no, please don't look at me right now.

1005
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:56,960
I'm not my best self right now.

1006
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,560
I just finished working out my hair is in a messy bun.

1007
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,880
She looks we call her the light bulb.

1008
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,160
Oh my God.

1009
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:08,760
I had a hat on and Victoria made me take it off and I was like, I'm trying to cover my

1010
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:09,760
face.

1011
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:11,760
You couldn't see your face.

1012
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,840
Please don't apologize.

1013
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,800
No apologies at all.

1014
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:19,360
You'll never forget me now.

1015
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:20,360
I made sure of that.

1016
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:21,360
Make you remember me.

1017
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:22,360
Yeah.

1018
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:25,960
Wait, you kind of look like Chris Kirkpatrick right now.

1019
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:26,960
Yes.

1020
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:32,040
Dustin, if he is listening to this, there's still a chance.

1021
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:33,720
Thank you so much.

1022
00:53:33,720 --> 00:53:34,720
You are so welcome.

1023
00:53:34,720 --> 00:53:36,520
Everybody even so much fun.

1024
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:37,520
So much fun.

1025
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:38,520
Yeah.

1026
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:42,160
You're very, very easy to talk to and even easier to talk to in sessions, which I feel

1027
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:46,080
like people can get a little bit afraid of because it's like, what do you know about

1028
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:47,080
me?

1029
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,160
What are you going to say?

1030
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,240
She literally said today, you can't lie today.

1031
00:53:52,240 --> 00:53:53,240
She will know.

1032
00:53:53,240 --> 00:53:54,240
Don't do it.

1033
00:53:54,240 --> 00:53:55,240
You cannot lie.

1034
00:53:55,240 --> 00:53:56,240
She was like, lie about what?

1035
00:53:56,240 --> 00:53:57,240
I was like, I have no idea.

1036
00:53:57,240 --> 00:53:58,240
But don't do it.

1037
00:53:58,240 --> 00:53:59,240
Don't do it.

1038
00:53:59,240 --> 00:54:00,240
Be on your best behavior.

1039
00:54:00,240 --> 00:54:01,240
Don't talk back.

1040
00:54:01,240 --> 00:54:02,240
Don't talk back.

1041
00:54:02,240 --> 00:54:09,640
Well, we will both be contacting you very shortly for your services.

1042
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:10,640
Absolutely love that.

1043
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:11,840
You both are welcome anytime.

1044
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:13,320
And this has been so much fun.

1045
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,480
And I love talking about all of this.

1046
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,640
I'm always happy to chat.

1047
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,880
Well, we'll definitely have you back because I know everybody's going to love this.

1048
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:21,880
Yes.

1049
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:22,880
I'm going to be out.

1050
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:27,160
And I would love to dive into tarot a little bit more the next time we talk.

1051
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:28,160
Yeah.

1052
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:31,680
And like card pulling and like what different decks mean and all that stuff.

1053
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:33,880
You have given so much time already.

1054
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,880
You're totally fine.

1055
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:37,880
Give us more.

1056
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:38,880
Thank you.

1057
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:40,920
But thank you, Jesse.

1058
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:42,360
Have a wonderful rest of your day.

1059
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:43,880
Go on the beach for us.

1060
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:45,880
Oh yes, I definitely will.

1061
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:46,880
Bye.

1062
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:47,880
Bye.

1063
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:55,560
We hope you enjoyed getting to know Jesse as much as we did.

1064
00:54:55,560 --> 00:55:01,920
And just as a refresher, it's jessiesedique.com and it's at Jesse's Sadiq for her Instagram

1065
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,220
and social media handles.

1066
00:55:04,220 --> 00:55:06,560
Follow her, find her, contact her.

1067
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:07,920
You will not regret it.

1068
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:12,360
And then thank her because if it wasn't for her, we wouldn't be having this podcast.

1069
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:13,560
So thank you, Jesse.

1070
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,760
We thank her the most for sure.

1071
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:31,080
And remember that you are fit to be real and always allowed to be a little extra.

1072
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:34,280
For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and

1073
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:36,080
educational purposes only.

1074
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,280
We are not healthcare professionals.

1075
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:42,360
For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self-care needs, please refer to the medical

1076
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,080
professional in your life.

1077
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:49,160
Your primary care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, whoever it may be.

1078
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:53,040
And then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know what to.

1079
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:54,040
Okay?

1080
00:55:54,040 --> 00:56:15,520
Okay, bye.