Welcome to fit to be real and a little extra.
Probably wants to tell everybody what we're talking about today.
I'm gonna be honest with everybody.
I have no idea.
She really doesn't.
She doesn't even have like a, oh, I gave her a hint.
I was like, show up.
Yeah, she was like, just come over.
And I was like, okay, it's my kind of prep.
Well, we've been doing some really heady stuff.
We've been doing some serious stuff.
And so I wanted to keep it light and fun.
And, you know, digestible where everybody included could have a say.
Wait, who's included?
All the listeners.
Oh, okay.
I'm like, is this like every five minutes, somebody walks through the door?
This is your life.
It's not your birthday.
Oh, darn it.
That would be fun though.
This is your life.
That's it.
The door is closed.
I'm the only one who walked in the door.
It's the great debate part two.
Oh, I love the great debate.
Let's get it debating.
Wait, is this the one we'll be talked about is a hot dog, a sandwich or a taco?
Real, real serious stuff here, people.
This is where we're going.
On my, what I've chosen are all across the board.
There's some ridiculous, you know, things to think about.
There are some more, okay, serious things that maybe we should be thinking about.
And there's everything in between.
Do what I say.
Here we go.
I'm older.
Here we go.
Oh, okay.
I'm Victoria.
Hey guys, I'm Carly.
My energy is popping right now.
Pop, pop, poppin.
Sure is.
So like I said, we are going to be just having short rapid fire discussions.
Short, yeah, let's, yeah.
Short rapid fire discussions on some debates that you've probably never thought about before,
that maybe you have and you'd really like to tune into the answer,
or you've already turned this off because this doesn't interest you.
So it's going to be all over the place and, and we're just going to have fun with it.
We'll see.
Are you ready?
I'll be the judge.
Okay, you have to think of this in a company employee office situation.
So like 90% of the world except us.
Okay.
Is it crucial to have a random act of kindness day each month?
Yes.
Why?
Because I don't think in this world today that enough people think of other people.
And I think we get into a routine of going in doing what we're supposed to be doing,
clocking out and leaving.
And I think it forces people to think of other people at least once a month.
Sure.
So that maybe it becomes more routine instead of like, go in, you do your work, you, you leave.
Autopilot.
Yes.
Yeah.
Like living on autopilot.
Yeah.
That was a better word than the for run on sentences that I just said.
Rapid fire.
All right.
We approve moving on.
And I agree.
Okay.
Should casual Friday attire include pajamas?
No.
At like a workplace?
I mean, I don't know.
This isn't just for office.
That was just for the last question.
So I don't know.
No.
I am a big fan of sweatpants and sweatshirts.
You should take a picture of my outfit right now.
But okay.
Yes.
I think that's what falls under pajamas because I think casual Friday for most places is like jeans.
I, I, when you say pajamas, I'm thinking like plaid pajama pants and matching shirt.
Okay.
Well, you're asking a lot.
If you think a lot of people match that, but I don't know.
I don't know.
I know that most casual Fridays is like, oh, I get to wear jeans today.
Well, I said this to a couple of people in class the other day.
I was wearing jeans to go out and Lewis asked me if I was going to a wedding.
That for us is a big deal.
Right.
So to me, that's not casual.
That's like I'm going out on the town.
Oh, you tried.
Like you're trying right now.
And I tried real hard.
Yeah.
So I would say casual Friday is sweatpants.
Yeah.
I think it depends on the nature of your, your normal dress wear for everyday life,
I guess, because sweatpants and sweatshirt is also our norm, but it's also our casual.
Yes.
It's my everything.
It is everything to me.
Well, you have, you have a dress up sweatsuit and you have a no one's going to see me sweatsuit
and then there's pajamas.
So that's how we, I think, gauge it right now.
Your, your mix of everything.
I have matching pajamas.
Like I wear, I tend to wear matching pajamas every night, but right now I'm in a, no one's
going to see me today.
It's raining and I'll get changed before I see other people.
I see you.
I think this is the last one for an office type setting.
Should the office have a slide instead of stairs or elevators?
I am not for this at all.
I am so for this.
I don't like to have fun.
So I am very structured.
I like my routine and that is not fun for me.
But what if you were going into a meeting being like, oh, I'm so nervous.
And then you go down the slide and you're like, I got this.
Are you boosted?
Are you wearing like your pencil skirt in your suit?
Are you wearing a pants suit?
Are you wearing high heels?
If you fall flat on your face at the bottom, like are your legs in the air?
Are you like, well, maybe the slide would relax everyone's, you have to wear this and,
and have them feel comfortable and they would be more productive overall.
So maybe the, the suit is not necessarily necessary for production.
Yeah, it's definitely relaxing when you're falling down the slide on the way to meeting.
Why are you falling down the slide?
Because I would slip.
What happened to you?
Don't you remember the prom story going down the stairs?
Right.
So you would want to get a slide.
You might as well.
You're halfway there.
I'm not into that.
Okay.
I disagree.
You're wrong.
If you could have dinner with any historical figure, who would have it?
You're not going to like this.
Well, you will like this.
Not a lot of people like this.
Just answer.
Okay.
Is it like, wait, I need a little bit more backstory.
How historical.
It's not just somebody who died.
It just is historical.
Well, that I can't.
It's got to be somebody that died, but like maybe, well, this person changed history.
You okay?
Yeah.
It's Michael Jackson.
Listen, I am seeing a lot of stuff that's going around in the cyberspace internet world.
I don't know people.
I don't know what I don't think what happened happened.
I think there's a lot of bigger players at play that ruined his name.
I think that's the great debate.
The whole episode.
I think there's a whole podcast dedicated to it.
To Michael Jackson.
The King of Pop.
Yes.
I know that's very controversial.
Some people would click off at this point because I mentioned his name.
Well, that's sad.
Don't do that for that.
But I would bring him back from the dead to ask him all the questions and I enjoy him.
You know what's funny?
I would die to go talk to someone.
You would bring them back to earth?
They don't want to come back to earth.
No, trust me.
He doesn't want to come back.
Sure.
No, but yeah, that would be my...
He's not a historical figure, but he definitely has changed history.
So I'm going with MJ.
King of Pop.
If animals could talk, which one would be the rudest?
The rudest?
The rudest animal.
You want to know?
Like who I think is the bougiest?
The real housewives of animals.
Yeah, like just...
Yeah, giraffes.
How dare you?
I think they hold themselves so high above other animals.
Because their neck is big.
Yeah, I know.
That's anatomical.
I think they spit.
They are just so bougie and I think they think they're better than everybody else.
They look down on everyone.
I'm so upset.
They're the best.
And they're the gentlest.
That's like saying the long neck dinosaur is a monster.
Could have been.
Maybe it's a direct descendant.
No vegetarians, a monster like that.
No, giraffes are definitely the rudest and obnoxious.
What do you think?
I disagree wholeheartedly.
I think it's the killer whale.
The orca?
You think they're the rudest?
Free Willy?
That movie scared the...
I think I died from one of them.
I think one of them killed me in a past life.
I can't look at them.
Right now there's a lot of videos circulating in my algorithm on them.
Wait, me too.
Did you get into my algorithm?
No.
No, I don't touch your phone.
I don't know.
They're circulating.
I can't look at them.
I have that really heat feeling in my chest and I have to swipe away.
It's the word I hate.
It triggers you.
I hate that word.
But I just saw a video on the orca whale that was like...
It was circling this person who was trying to get back on the paddle board because he
fell off his paddle board.
I would die.
But it's not interested in humans.
I know.
There's only been one killer whale.
I'm not talking about in SeaWorld that it...
Because sometimes they attack humans because they are...
That's provoked.
Right, provoked.
But in the wild, only one...
There's been one killer whale attack on a human and he lived because he realized it was a
human and he didn't want it.
But they don't attack humans.
Well, they're very smart.
Yeah.
They're very smart.
They call them the humans of the sea.
So they're the rudest animal in the world.
Thank you.
I'll agree with you on that, but giraffe is still like...
Oh, no, wrong.
You couldn't be more wrong.
Is it better to have a superpower that only one human can attack?
A superpower that only works once a year or a mediocre power that works every day?
Mediocre.
I don't like to wait.
I'm not a waiter.
I like when things happen...
Instant gratification.
Yes, instant gratification.
That's horrible.
Wait, wait, wait.
How do you say it in English?
Instant gratification.
I can't wait.
So I would have mediocre every day.
That's pretty much how I live my life.
Basic.
She would like the basic package.
I am mediocre every day.
That's amazing.
Right?
I actually don't know about this one because if you experience it once a year, then I'd
be waiting for that one day.
Every single day.
I think every day would be mundane.
So maybe a mediocre would be more sustainable to be happy.
Yeah.
Who wants to wait for anything?
So what is it?
A 50-50 shot?
It'll work?
Is that what mediocre is?
No, mediocre superhero power is like, you fly just above the treetops and then you come
down for five minutes.
But you don't really get hot.
You're not helping anybody.
You're just doing it for your own personal whatever.
But you're not...
It's not great.
It just is what it is.
I would take that.
It's like you wearing a full camouflage outfit being like, can you see me?
Wait, I have one.
Yeah.
Would you rather have fingers as long as your legs or legs as long as your fingers?
So both of those options are a no.
Nope, nope, nope, not the option you can choose.
I would rather be in heaven with Michael Jackson.
If he's in heaven.
I don't know where he is.
Maybe he's in purgatory.
I'm not sure.
But you're so Catholic.
I would be somewhere else where those two options were not a thing.
Okay.
I'm going to answer correctly.
I feel like legs as long as your fingers because then you can really...
Yeah, you got some short legs, but you can use your hands.
If your fingers were as long as your legs, how would you type?
How would you do things?
How would you pick things up?
It's like those people that have nails that are like miles long.
How do you do anything?
You can just go to the bathroom.
How do you go to the bathroom?
Well, we live in a different world and there would be accommodations.
No, it's this world.
It's right now.
It's tomorrow.
No, neither.
Is it better to communicate if you only had two options with only emojis or animal sounds?
I'm an emoji all the way.
So I don't know.
I feel like I'm an animal sound.
The kids and I can emoji our feelings pretty accurately.
So yep, nope.
I am not an animal sound.
I feel like you would send me the emoji of the girl that has her hands out like...
All the time.
Why?
And I would be like...
Yeah, we're different.
Last meal.
Sushi?
Oh, or Mexican.
Sushi.
What?
But like all you can eat sushi.
But you can't eat that much.
Had you...
Yes, I can.
Had you said sushi and pesto pasta, that would have been a hard...
With sun-dried tomatoes, that would have been a hard choice.
Sushi and Mexican, well, I do love a burrito.
Sushi all the way.
Son, I love sushi.
But I will be eating tacos and nachos and churros.
Yeah, no, sushi die.
And seaweed salad and sashimi and all the rice.
You're asking for too much.
Wait, I'm really hungry.
I'm getting blood work later, so I had to fast and I'm really hungry right now.
You can't drink coffee?
No, actually, I don't have to fast.
Or maybe I do.
You're supposed to be fasting and you just made coffee with cream.
I thought I could have coffee with cream.
Whatever, it'll go through my blood and nobody will detect it.
It's going to say NA.
Caffeinated.
Really?
I have no idea.
Whoops.
I think you just ruined it and you're going to have to go back though.
Oh my God.
Okay.
All right, in terms of a project.
No.
DIY or ready-made?
So the question is crafting or convenience?
Are you asking me this for real?
Well, think about it.
I don't have to.
Ready-made, walk-in, ready.
You're the problem with the world.
Okay?
You're the issue with why we can't be happy.
Have you seen me try and put something together from IKEA?
You've watched me.
No, I haven't.
I've done it.
You've watched me.
That's true.
I am doing air quotes.
Just figure it out within five minutes and then somebody will take over for me.
Or do I even look at the directions to begin with?
My God, you're a manipulator is what you're telling the world.
You are just manipulating your way through centerpieces.
Yes.
And I'm okay with that because I have other talents.
What are they?
We've learned.
I can say the 50 states.
Get over that one.
I know.
Get over that one that benefits no one.
Well, I just listened to last week's episode and apparently I'm good at love.
So that's my special talent.
Not today.
I love that you're upset by that.
And I love that you're still upset by that.
That couldn't have been the biggest compliment in the wow.
I'm actually doing life right because I was born into this role where I can easily find
love and you're like, F that.
How could I keep believing you ever said that to me?
How dare you?
Already made.
You are a DIYer.
I liked DIY when I was younger.
Now I have no time.
Ain't nobody got time for that.
Classic fairy tales or modern retellings?
I love classic fairy tales.
I am not going to rewrite the classic fairy tale so it fits into today's world.
I'm okay with.
I think.
I think that the princesses back in the day from the fairy tales actually had courage
and strength and all the things that they're that they maybe are rewriting now to make
them feel like they have more courage and more sure.
But they had it.
It's all the way you tell the story.
It's all the way that you look at it, but they had a voice back then.
And I don't think there's that much need to rewrite it for today's world.
I don't know.
I agree.
Would you like to live forever?
Well, you know, I'm scared of everything.
So yes.
What?
I am scared like of the unknown of dying and the unknown.
I am terrified of.
I think this life is more scary than what happens when you die.
I am on the opposite of that.
I am terrified.
I'm not surprised by the answer, but it's unknown for me.
I don't know as much as I know that I will come back and haunt the sh it out of you.
I don't want to do that, but I will.
I will live forever if I have the chance.
Yeah, I have absolutely no desire to live forever.
Wait, but do I live forever and keep aging?
Yeah, Carly, this is there was no a twofold question here.
It's just I just get old.
Listen, I don't want to live forever and all my family members are dying and I'm like 970.
And I mean, you would have nothing to like give the world.
You'd be like, I've learned a lot and I'm not telling anyone.
No, no, I'm going to sit in the chair like the little grandma and Coco.
But what if you think about Coco?
Yeah, they've all died.
Look at their world.
Listen, if the world is like Coco, yeah, sign me up because the other side of the world
was pretty colorful and fun.
Well, someone's got to put your picture out.
So you're asking a lot.
Asking a lot.
I am not afraid to die and I would absolutely not like to live forever.
Do you see what's going on in the world?
No, I know, but I am going to live forever because I don't want to die.
I'm going to die first and I'm totally haunting you.
Oh, I know that.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, I know.
Yeah, boy.
Just put them gang signs.
Kids are smarter than adults.
Do you agree?
Is this a real question?
Yeah.
No, they're not smarter than adults.
I think they are less.
I think they are more free and more confident and more.
Right there.
They're smarter.
No, but they're not.
But they're not smart.
You're talking about intellect.
Like right now, Deans learn it account.
Overall, smart.
I don't know.
I mean, they have good people gauge educated smarter.
Well, having more confidence being freer, having no care in the world of wanting to wear
rainbows up and down their arms and go into nature, I think that's way smarter for some
reason at some age.
We all get real gray.
Well, yeah, I think we start to reverse and backpedal in those ways, but not if you're
talking about like brain smart intellect and all that stuff.
No, I don't think they're smarter.
But yes, I think they're smarter in the ways of people.
What's it called?
I like these separated brain smart intellect.
I think you're proving my point.
Kids are dumb.
You think in their brain smart and they're intellect.
I this one, I'm actually excited to ask you.
Are you thinking about so hungry?
Are bad words bad?
Okay.
I want to put my coffee down for this.
Good because you shouldn't be drinking.
Dean just asked me this the other day because on Easter, he said in front of all the kids,
he said, holy crap.
And Melody was like, mom, he said, holy crap.
And Melody's afraid of them because you get you turn into a demon.
And all of his older cousins were like giving me the look like, yeah, he did say it.
So I like took him off to the side and I was like, Dean, tell me the truth.
You won't get in trouble if you tell me the truth.
I said, did you say, holy crap?
And I he's like, yeah, I said, where did you learn that word?
Because you know, we don't curse.
And he was like, from YouTube, the kids were watching YouTube.
And I was like, okay, well, it's a bad word.
But why is it a bad word, mom?
Why?
Why is it a bad word?
Like he didn't know it was a bad word.
He just heard other kids saying it.
Right.
So what'd you say?
I said, it's a bad word.
Don't you ever say it again or you're going to the room forever and you're not allowed
to come out.
You didn't use your brain smart.
Wow.
No, I just said, you're not in trouble.
You didn't know.
But that's like a word that makes you sound uneducated.
That's what I always tell them.
The bad words make you sound like you're not as smart as I know that you are.
It makes you sound a little bit trashy.
That's what I say.
Do I believe that?
Not as an adult.
Do I believe it as a kid?
Yes.
If an adult walks in and they're cursing, I could care less.
But if the kid walks in and cursing to me, to me, it seems uneducated.
Like there are other words to say, but you're not thinking of those other words.
Well, they're just repeating what they hear when it comes to children.
That's true.
I don't care.
I don't think it's trashy if adults curse.
I think it's awesome if they spell them out.
Do you?
No.
I think words aren't bad.
It's how they're used that make them bad.
But I don't think vernacular is what's bad.
How you're using, I mean, you could say the worst things and not actually put a curse
word in the sentence and say something that's way worse than F-U-C-K.
That's true.
So I don't think the words themselves are bad.
I think the intention behind them are what make them curse, quote unquote, curse words.
That's true.
And Louis asked me once, who made the bad words?
Who made them up?
And I honestly was like, I don't know.
So you should watch on Netflix.
The history of curse words or the history of, oh shoot, bad words, something like that.
M.C.E.D. by Nicholas Cage.
It is done in the funniest way.
Comedians are who they're interviewing, but they give you the history behind every single
really?
Yes.
The F word, C word, S H I T, where they give you the history and it is amazing how how
they started is not what they mean today.
So it's how they're used, how they've changed.
That's made the complete.
And I believed how the words are used mean more than the word themselves before I saw
the documentary or whatever you want to call it, the series.
But it's interesting to find, because I don't know the words either.
Where did these words come from?
Who decided that they were bad?
And why do we say them or why are they overused?
And sometimes if you go through the decades where it's changed in terms of popularity
and it's shift of what we used to think.
We hear the F word way more now than we ever did.
Oh my gosh.
So Melody learned it in like the second grade.
We didn't know that.
I didn't know that word in second grade.
We had never heard of it before.
So it's really fascinating.
It's also very funny.
But you do learn something.
So I don't think bad words are bad.
I think if you explain it to him that way, but he's also four.
I just think adults saying them are very different than kids saying them.
Like if you heard an adult say, holy crap, which I know all of you listeners out there
are like, that's not really a bad word.
Like there are worse.
Most people.
But like if you hear a four year old say it, it's like, ugh.
It's jarring.
Yeah.
It's jarring depending on how you were raised.
Right.
And people, that's nothing.
Well, cool, Dean.
Way to show off your brain smarts and where you were raised.
Hey, I said shut up to you while I was teaching yesterday and Vicki or aunt, I ignored her.
Sorry, Vic.
I heard you, but I ignored you.
She called out, that's a bad word.
So we grew up with that being a word, bad word, but but being a bad word.
Right.
So you've evolved and I have not.
I'm still in the mindset of like, don't say those words.
Don't say, oh my God.
Don't say shut up.
We've talked about this.
You do a lot of things that you were taught because of either tradition or conditioning.
It's just ingrained in my mind.
Conditioning.
Yeah.
Are we all just living in a Giants board game?
Stop.
Like if you think of it like that, some there was a, I did not create these questions.
I want to put that out there.
I found these online of like debates that people can have and I read it and I was like, ooh,
like I always say that we're living in like, there's moments where we feel like we're in
a simulation.
Like this can't be real.
This can't actually be happening.
There's so much online and maybe it's again, my algorithm that like the timeline is glitching.
Like things are weird.
Things are disappearing.
There's things that like we remember as kids that don't exist anymore and aren't talked
about and you can't find them if you Google them and wait, like the movie Shazam.
Like the movie.
I'm not even kidding.
I saw this online.
No one can find the movie Shazam with what's his name?
I couldn't help you.
The bed.
Not the comedian.
Anyway, look it up.
Everyone is looking for this movie.
We've all seen it and it is nowhere.
No one can find it.
There's a lot of things that are going on with Sinbad.
Sinbad.
There's a lot of things like that happening where people are like, are they more serious
than that?
No, it's a lot of, well, because it starts with little things.
So I'm not going to get into all of that, but I do sometimes feel like it's a simulation.
It's quite literally that game Sims.
Like there are characters.
We are Sims.
It's things are very weird.
There's just moments that feel like that.
So if you think of it like a giant.
Like what if you are in Candyland and you're something that they land on and they're like,
I lost 10 points.
I'd be super angry because I'm working my butt off in this life and if they are just
messing with me, why work so hard then?
If you think of it like that, maybe you should relax and have a little more fun.
Go down the slide.
You know, what's the why?
You know what?
I don't care.
I'm not doing anything anymore.
I was going to sit on my couch, watch TV.
I hope you lose all your points.
Big giant.
I hope you lose this game.
There are giants in the sky.
Is water wet or just makes other things wet?
Is it something that's not actually wet, but when it touches skin or other objects, they
become wet.
What is it?
Gel?
I don't know.
Like, is it an element that isn't actually wet?
It is an element.
It's each two.
Oh, that's the brain smarts.
They're coming out.
I think it's wet and I think anybody that says it's not wet is wet between the ears.
Ew.
They're moist in between the ears.
Isn't that like a dig from the 1920s?
You're wet between the ears.
The 20s?
Yeah, I picked a decade.
Oh, an old one.
Yeah.
Yep.
Yes, it is.
Definitely.
That's fact.
Yes, I won that debate.
10 points to the giant.
Is it better to know a little about a lot or a lot about a little?
Hold on.
I mean, a little bit, but not a lot.
I think it's better to know a little.
What's the one where you know a lot about one thing?
What's the one you said?
A little about a lot about a little.
A lot about a little.
I think it's better to know a lot about a little because that way you can inform other
people about that one thing and then they can tell you what they know.
So everyone needs to be good about one thing so that you can all share?
Yeah, because if you're good at a lot of little things, it's like, what are you best
at?
I don't know.
I'm mediocre at a lot of things.
I know a little bit about this.
I only fly above the trees.
Yeah, just like hover.
Then I have to come down.
If you know a lot about plumbing and that's what you know, you know the person to call
is the person that knows a lot about plumbing and a lot about one thing.
So if I only know a little about plumbing, we need 10 people who knows a little about
it instead of the one person who knows a lot about it.
True.
Did I win?
I don't know.
I go the other way.
I think it's good to know a little bit about a lot of things, but then you don't know a
lot about anything.
You just like, you know a fact and then you're like, oh, but that's all I know about it.
And then you can have open conversations to learn more.
Well, you can have open conversations to learn more, but you just need a lot of people in
the room.
Yeah, I don't like crowds.
I don't like crowds.
Yeah, you wouldn't last.
I need a few people who know a little about a lot and then we can have like a little and
a lot of a lot of conversations.
I can't.
Moving on, this is too much of a little, this is a lot.
Is life just a quest to find the perfect water bottle?
Because you know in five years Stanley is going to be out and like Chester is going
to be in.
I mean, when we were little, it was the Gatorade bottle.
Yes.
The green Gator, which is like coming back as like that retro or whatever.
I know my kids have them.
Yeah, it was the Yeti Gatorade hydro flask.
But it's always about a water bottle and then you die.
Is it possible to laugh without smiling?
Hold on.
I knew you were going to try it.
No, no, no, do it again.
I won't look at you.
No, you're smiling.
No, I can hear it.
I can't do it.
Try it.
No, you're smiling.
You're smiling.
Wait, why do our lips have to be sealed?
Why are we sealing our lips?
But that's not real.
Wait, is everybody doing it right now?
I hope so.
Everybody try it.
Everyone try it.
One, two, three.
Yeah, then it sounds like really demented.
It just sounds like you have to put on like a hoot.
Like and you have to get real deep.
Santa Claus is laughing.
Yeah, no.
No, it's impossible.
I guess it's impossible.
Impossible is nothing.
I really like all the questions I chose last night at 11 o'clock when I should have been
sleeping.
Are all bugs secretly superheroes with tiny little games?
No.
Yes.
No.
No, they're not.
But if you think of them that way, if you think of them that way, how exciting like all
the things that are on the ground.
Victoria saves flies from her house.
Like she will put it in a cup and let it go out the door.
I don't believe bugs belong in the house.
I don't believe they belong in the house either, but we also put a house on their environment.
So who's fault is it?
Listen, if it's outside, I will let it live.
That is its house.
Inside their capes aren't working so well.
They're.
So put them back out in their house.
They're going to go meet Michael Jackson.
You are going to get squashed by a giant.
That's true.
What if you're not in the right house?
Wouldn't you want someone to gently lift you out and put you in the right spot versus
kill you?
Silent hasn't.
Should there be a dessert at every meal?
No, that's how my kids live their life and it's not going so well.
At breakfast.
No, no, no.
But I feel like their breakfast is dessert.
They have like oatmeal with honey on it.
I'm like, that's a dessert.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Popped arts, I guess.
No.
And I think it's only a dinner thing.
That's not special anymore.
Look, it's talking.
Are you hearing yourself?
They get dessert all the time.
I know.
It's horrible.
Like.
Stop it.
Like Dean says, I'm done lunch.
Where's my Swiss roll?
I'm like, you know who started that?
Mom.
Really?
Yeah.
Mom gives them a treat after every lunch.
We never did that.
We had dessert at night after dinner.
It was always something small and then on the weekends we had ice cream.
Right.
No, I don't believe you should have dessert after every meal because then it loses its
luster.
Why did you smile when you said that?
I thought luster was a big word.
It's a brain word.
For brain smarts.
Good job.
I don't know.
I feel like as an adult, I wouldn't mind a slice of dark chocolate after a lunch.
Well, that's different.
We're talking about dessert.
You're talking about.
That's a sweet treat.
I'm talking about like an ice cream sundae.
And technically, chocolate is from a bean, so it's a vegetable.
No, no dessert.
Should everyone have a personal soundtrack played around them based on their mood?
Oh, yes.
I am so for this.
I'm for this until everyone's playing at the same time and it just becomes noise.
Yeah, you would not be happy with that.
I feel like we do that already with our playlists when we make up class because our playlists
are very who we are and I make up the playlist.
So it's very who I am until Victoria teaches by herself and then you realize, oh, Victoria
hasn't done one song that Carly has ever picked for her to do.
Yes, I completely agree.
Yeah, I know.
Like then you would know how to respond to someone and be like, OK, I understand what
their vibe is right now.
So I won't antagonize them because they walked in being like super emo.
Evanescence is playing right now.
But then maybe they switched an hour later to in sync.
I'm feeling better.
I knew you were going to say in sync.
It would be like if we were talking right now, all of a sudden a song just started playing
over my head.
Bye bye bye.
Like you would know I would want to leave.
No, I would not get the hint and I'd be jamming out.
You'd be dancing.
Yeah.
I do agree until maybe like a silent disco type.
Yeah, you're not good with noise.
So you got to put the headphones on if you want to hear someone's vibe and then you could
take it off and you don't hear it anymore.
I support that.
Next question.
Do vegetables taste better when they're shaped like fries?
Everything tastes better when they're shaped like fries.
Can we try that?
But like I never thought about that.
I guess veggie sticks or.
But if you look at, you know, a food video or a baking show and they're putting eggplant
fries, but they're making eggplant fries, you're like, yeah, that looks so good.
Yeah, that's true.
But it's just in the shape of a french fry.
Yeah.
It's better in fry form.
Changing gears.
Oh God.
Is it possible to stay in a relationship after infidelity?
Oh, this is a very switch of gears.
Did I not warn you?
Oh, this is something that I cannot answer before.
Like when I was younger, absolutely not.
I thought it was very, very, very black and white.
Yeah.
I think it's more black and white and I would come for Andrew so hard.
It is so much more black and white than I thought it was possible.
He's having a coffee with it.
I just left.
So even if I died, I would haunt him about it.
It is so black and white for me that I agree.
I mean, I agree.
So black and white.
It is just so black and white.
It hasn't happened.
It's all good.
Andrew's not in trouble.
It's all good.
No, I agree.
It's black and white.
It's not even a question.
Should there be an Olympics for everyday tasks?
I mean, no, because I'd never win the gold medal.
For an everyday task?
Yes.
Do you know how much laundry I have to fold in my laundry room right now?
It's sitting there.
Wait, it's been clean for like a week.
But you cleaned it.
You got at least bronze.
No, no, please no.
Honorable mention.
Everyone should own a pet.
Period.
Agree or disagree?
I disagree because some people just can't take care of it.
So for those people that cannot take care of it, it's a horrible life for the pet.
I, yes, I agree.
Like, I would initially be like, yes, it's the most amazing thing ever.
There's an unconditional love that something doesn't even talk back to you unless you're
really telepathically in tune.
Or unless you have the buttons that your dog hits that says, talk to me.
Go for a walk.
Treat.
But then I think of like, zero killers.
Yeah, somebody that just literally cannot take care of a living thing.
I cannot take care of plants.
Don't put a plant in my way because I will kill it.
Yeah, I agree.
She's not talking to you guys.
It's OK.
The forest in her living room.
She's not talking to you.
I water them.
I go, you're so beautiful.
They grow better and they like feel happier.
No.
Only violent criminals should be imprisoned.
No.
And why?
I only I do believe there are a lot of people in jail that don't belong there.
Or if they are there, maybe they've been there too long.
I do believe that.
I believe serial killers.
Is that what you said?
You didn't listen to me.
Only violent criminals.
That would be a serial killer.
That would be, you know, no, anything violent should be the only ones in prison.
If you stole something, you have to pay a fine.
Yeah, but go to jail.
Pedophiles are not a violent crime.
Violent.
That's a violent kidnappers.
That's a violent crime.
Kidnapping is violent.
Me, violent is like violent.
Kidnapping for the sake of kidnapping, but not not violently is like.
I think stealing anybody is violent.
Okay.
You're stealing someone.
You are kidnapping them.
So stealing a loaf of bread to feed your family.
And being named 24601.
You have two gauges.
You have extreme to this end and extreme to that end.
I don't think Javer should have been put in jail.
Like Ms. for all of you who understand that reference.
I guess that means like if you are holding weed and you get caught, should you go to
jail for that?
No.
Or if you are indecent in public, people go to jail for that, but like they're not hurting
anyone violently.
Do you wise?
Yes, violent crime.
Yes.
Do those little, lots of little things end up being a big thing eventually.
Maybe that one slap on the wrist or that one jail time just got you straightened up real
fast and you're like, I never want to do that again.
So I'm gonna, you know what I mean?
Like, I don't know.
That could be.
That would be the hope.
I think that's the purpose.
But I don't think that that's how it works.
Like, I don't know a lot of the stories of like, I went once and I never went back.
Like it's usually your key defender and you just go to the jail all the time.
And then your sentences get longer and longer and then you're in there forever.
Right.
So I'm undecided on that because I think there are a lot of little offenses like kids
with guns, bring them into school.
It's a violent crime.
But they haven't done anything.
Say they don't do anything.
Right.
But I still feel like that could be seen as a, so I think our description of violent needs
to be more pointed.
Yeah.
Well, I mean, I know I hear you.
I think you can't slap that wrist and be like, don't do that again.
Because then, yeah, what do you think that's gonna do?
But I feel like if it's something that could cause violence and or is a violent act, I
feel like they kind of mesh together.
Like if you are already bringing guns to school.
Yeah, you should probably have a harsh consequence.
Yeah.
I, yeah.
So I'm undecided.
Yeah.
Okay.
So how about this?
Tax fraud.
Is that imprisonment because it's not violent?
Or should there be some other consequence to that?
Like I'm going to take all your money.
So your answer is no.
Not only violent criminal should be imprisoned.
Yeah, but I think they should go to a different jail.
Like the Chrisleys, Chrisleys knows best that show on TLC.
Like they're in jail for 12 years for tax fraud.
I don't know if they belong in jail for 12 years.
Yeah.
I agree.
There's that has to be.
So I'm answering no as well.
Not only violent criminals, but I think there's, there's a lot of different webs for this.
So for this, there's a gray area for the one before black and white.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Death.
Last one.
Wizzard, superhero or pirate.
Definitely not a pirate.
I'm not into the no shower happy hour thing.
Kind of pirate, are you?
You know, pirates do not shower.
Have you seen Johnny Depp?
Like that is not attractive to me at all in Pirates of the Caribbean.
That's not a modern day pirate, but you're going back.
Yeah.
I mean, that's not for me.
I don't definitely wet between the ears in that movie.
I think I'd have to go wizard because I love a good outfit.
Cape.
God, all the wrong reason.
It is amazing.
I love a good Cape wardrobe and wand and I could just expelliamos.
Some of these questions.
I like how you say expelliamos.
What is it?
It just, you know, it doesn't roll off the tongue.
You distinctly articulate.
That's all I'm saying.
What would you pick?
Always wizard.
Yeah.
Always wizard.
I'm mediocre superpowers.
Really.
Okay.
Little better than hovering over the trees for five minutes.
Yeah.
A day.
Oh, for five minutes, we've made it worse.
That's mediocre.
All right.
Yeah.
I get that.
I think with a wizard, you can.
You're a wizard, Harry.
Yes.
Make your own spells and superpowers, whereas a superhero, you're just a superhero.
A pirate, you have nothing.
You're a good drinker.
Yo.
So I'm just human beings.
We are all pirates.
Yo, how?
Fun fact, I once had a Wi-Fi called, you're a Wi-Fi, Harry.
And the password was connecto patronum.
We like Harry Potter over here in this neck of the woods.
That was fun.
I love a good debate.
Yeah.
Those are great to be part two.
I said last time I wanted to make it a series and it, that was August.
So August to what is it?
April.
We've made our second great debate.
Yes.
We're doing really well with our brain smarts today.
I want a backtrack for a second.
Oh, no.
And I just want to make sure everybody that curses, I don't think you're trashy.
I've been thinking about that for the past 20 minutes.
Anyone that curses, you are not trashy.
I think it's trashy when it comes out of a four year old's map.
Carly, shut the F up.
I don't think you're trashy if you curse.
You curse away.
I, I support you.
I don't want my four year old cursing.
That's all I was trying to say.
I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings.
So when everybody would be happy, I think it's time to go.
Our real tip and our real extra tip is to get into your own great debate.
Maybe you take these exact questions.
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